5 Reasons You Have Nothing to Wear & a Closet Full of Clothes || PLUS Wardrobe Solutions
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Let's talk about why you may have a closet full of clothes, but nothing to wear. Today I'm sharing 5 reasons you may struggle to create outfits from your closet. But I'm also providing resources to help you correct the problems. Let's make your wardrobe fun again!
~ Kay
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Thank you for watching today's video.
Hey Kay, just wanted to say that I LOVE the change I’m seeing in your hair color. It looks so chic.
Thanks Laurie. Just letting it grow grey! Ha! It’s a little in transition right now, but I think it’s going to be good. 😉
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Thanks Kay your videos have been a blessing to me!💐❤
Great tips!
Had to change my whole style to accommodate hot flashes!
I do this in front of my refrigerator, too. There's all these groceries, but where's the food? lol
Hahaha! Me too!
My adult dons say, "Mom, there's no food! " I come show them full pantry and fridge... "No Mom, these are ingredients". 🙃👵🏼🐞
Love that blouse!!
I enjoy your channel so much!!
Omg do I need you Kay ❣️🇨🇦
Hi Kay I love watching your videos, zina from Australia.
Great information Kay, THANK YOU! 🌹🌸🏵
Wonderful! Thank you for watching. 💕
Thanks!
I just saw that you'd left me a super thanks. For some reason they weren't showing up in my app. But I am so very grateful. Thank you.
Thank you, Kay, that was brilliant. I suddenly realised I am one of these women who still buy things for a lifestyle I do not have anymore...That was an eyeopener!
Hahaha! Yes that ones gets many of us I think. 🥰
Me, too. I used to do a lot of ballroom dancing, and a couple of years after I stopped I realized that I never wore long dresses, palazzo pants, etc. anywhere else and purged them. Now my closet has room for the things I actually wear - but it was still a wrench parting with some of the items and the memories connected to them.
I bet. Thanks for sharing your story Beth. 🥰
@@bethmabee So did I. I have a rack full of ballroom dance dresses, but just won't be doing much (or at least AS much) of that anymore. Even if I kept a handful, it would be more than enough. It sure is hard to part with a dress that holds wonderful memories. I've taken pictures of my dresses before letting them go. Well, onward & upward!
@@MIMIDSH Good idea re the photos, thanks.
One third of my wardrobe is made up of clothes I love to look at but are for a lifestyle I don’t have!! This video is very true and reinforces what I need to remember
This is totally me too!!!
Thanks for sharing Carol. I think many of us do this. 😉
Totally me too! 😂. I do have something for any occasion though😂
I discovered that too.
Thank u so much, for all the tips.
🙏❤️🌟👍✝️👏
You bet! 😉
I’m guilty of just wearing what I like most all the time at the expense of some pieces in my closet not being worn at all. I end up wearing the same things over and over again. Our style is ours alone. We create it. It makes us feel good to wear what we like. I’m starting to go through and switch it up! Variety is the spice of life! Thanks Kay!
These 5 tips are bang on. I fall into the trap of buying glamorous clothes that only work at Christmas, but not for walking the dog or going to music lessons! I am working on it , but may have to wear sequins on my next dog walk lol!
Blame it on Barbie.
I saw on the internet about someone who wore bridesmaids dresses from weddings she had been in bowling, shopping etc. She had been told “you’ll be able to wear them again”. So she did - it was more as a joke & she did have fun with it.
Go for it!
@@americafirst9144 that's the truth!
That's funny because ever since I started walking(a lot) our big dog my wardrobe has gone to pot!!
When you're out in the rain and cold and you come back inside and the dog shakes mud all over you it doesn't exactly motivate you to wear nice things. Then there's the sweet loving dog rubbing his head on you (because he loves you so much) and you are wet( and smell like a wet dog).
Love my dogs though and couldn't live without them!!
This is so true! I have a habit of buying outfits! Its time to go through my closet! Good video!
I've had a lot more success finding something to wear when I take the time to hang whole outfits together. I'll usually switch it up regardless, but having the basic concept in front of me saves a lot of time.
Great idea Audrey. Thanks for sharing that. 💕
Hmmmm it depends also on body shape. I have big shoulder if I wear a shirt I look like a man , I need to wear tight fitting tops to try to minimize volume
That is what I've done for years. I have wooden hangers.....I have pants ..tops....cardigans....all together. Sometimes I put accessories in a baggie and hang too.
Good reminders to help us make thoughtful, intentional wardrobe purchases. Thank you, Kay.
My pleasure. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching the video. 🥰
I took the style quiz and I’m a romantic/feminine style; which is funny bc that’s my perfume style too
I love your hair color and cut. It is fresh and youthful!
I never buy whole outfits but colors that “Go with”. Thanks to your channel I’m digging into my jeans and tee and switching to adding soft pretty essentials . I’ve got the basics. It’s reassuring to know I’m doing a lot right , thanks Kay
I’m finding your videos very helpful Kay, thank you so much!
You’re so welcome. 🌷
Oh my Kay...this is an awesome video! Thank you for sharing with us the wisdom you have learned. Every one of the 6 tips is right on...how do you know us so well?!? :) Thank you for providing videos that truly do help us dress for our days!! I am so tickled that I found your channel. I've told others about your channel so they can get some relief on how to dress, you break it down for us, which is such a help! Thank you!
Great to hear, Jill. Thanks so much for spreading the word. Oh, I know you so well because I’m the same way! Ha! I’m gaining a little self control over my closet though and I can really tell a difference. I hope you can too. 🥰
I really loved this. I have a closet full of clothes. FULL! I am retired, and that was the hardest decision for me to make...what do I wear besides a suit? Thank you so much for your blogs and videos!! Love, Jeanie
Wonderful. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for letting me know Jeanie.
Dear Kay
The beauty of your spirit shows in your channel. A lot of truth about what your comments. I have a lot of handloomed and hand embroidered clothes because I love arts and crafts but I recognize that those blouses/ dresses are not very practical in The Northern Virginia Area. I tend to buy those garments because I love the craftmanship and buying directly from the artisans. They look great while traveling but not in "normal " life.
Thanks for your kind words Paula. 🥰
Good rules to follow! Definitely describes my wardrobe in the past - great with buying outfits. Now I go for essentials that go together!
Kay this was a great post. Thank you for sharing. For me, this post really will make your referenced posts (which I have seen and enjoyed) most useful. Thank you for all your hard work.
I've got to visit the blog and take the quiz! I still have the 1981 book & color swatches: Color me beautiful. Wearing the right colors for our skin under tones close to our face makes a big difference. I'm a Spring & can't wear black. I do navy blue or a lower cut neckline with pearls or gold necklace.
I always learn so much from your videos and finding myself shopping smarter. The worksheets are wonderful and shopping is so much easier for me.
Wonderful to hear. Thanks for letting me know. 😊
Loved this one, Kay! Learned something yet again! Signing up for your blog now! You got me! Happy weekend!
Wonderful. Thanks for watching. 🙌🏻
Love this post. It’s so me! I need to, “nail it down”. Beautiful laugh and smile! Thank you 😊
You bet! 🥰
You're so friendly, just watched this before i got ready for the day. I've been planning to go through my closet for this very topic! Thanks.
Thank you so much for watching, Meri. Have a lovely day. 🥰
Hi Kay!! Another great video!! Thank you! :)
Really appreciate this video!Also love your haircut and color.
Great video Kay! This was so me alot of the time. :)
This is a great video.. especially what I needed to hear 😊 I plan to watch it a few times after checking out the blog posts that you share. Thank you!!!
Thank you. I’m so glad you found it helpful. 😊
Great stuff today!! Always good to re-visit information because I forget ideas that have helped me in the past. Thanks!!
Thanks so much for watching Katherine. 😊
Such good , helpful suggestions, thank you so much.
You’re so welcome. Thanks for watching Martha. 🥰
Your son is a great teacher. One who shows you how to find the answer for yourself. My son does that for me as well. Enjoyed this video!
I stumbled across one of your videos several months ago and have found them to be so helpful! I retired 7 years ago from a corporate career. I have since moved from a very metropolitan area to a cabin nestled in 16 acres of dense forest. Your videos are helping me identify my new style and build a wardrobe that fits my lifestyle now. Thank you!
Wonderful to hear, Wendy. Thanks so much for letting me know. Have a great weekend. 🥰
Great advice about shopping for a wardrobe instead of outfits. I have a closet of different styles, colours and outfits. Time to
dig through and create a wardrobe that works. Thank you!
I totally agree with you. My wardrobe has its naturals and I add my colour to those. I love classic casuals. Thanks for your great vlog. Like usual very informative and helpful.
Wonderful. Thanks so much for watching Yvette.
Thank you for all your tips, they help me a great deal.
Thanks Rebecca. Glad you enjoyed it. 🥰
Always on point!! Thank you
You’re so welcome. 😉
You have a great way of putting the best information forward,,,I always enjoy your newsletter and videos...thank you for sharing.💖
You’re so very welcome. 🥰
I’ve made the mistake of buying a piece because it is on sale, but I don’t love it. I end up with random pieces that don’t really work for me. Now I try to ask if I would buy it if it were full price.
Yes! I’ve done that too. You might enjoy this video from last summer. It’s How to Shop Summer Clearance Sales Like a Boss. rstyle.me/+lSd_GYKfYyZBR1QFoGuT6A
It has been really helpful for me over the last few months of watching you videos to “hone” in on my colours....
Great to hear. Thanks for watching Lisa. 😊
Ahhhh I just love your videos! I ordered that Jcrew tshirt before I saw you wearing it and was so excited to see you have it...then I ordered the jacket! 🙂. I think my style is changing so it was nice to hear you talk about that today!
You bet! Thanks for watching. 😊
Love your channel, Kay. It's transformed how I feel about myself. The pandemic has brought me a season of introspection and through it, I've come to the reality that I need to focus more on myself..in a healthy way. I've love everyone of your videos and your blogposts. Keep up the work!
Thank you so much Lori. I’m so glad to be of some service. Blessings!
My problem is I have clothing in multiple sizes. Unfortunately my weight fluctuates so I'm hesitant to get rid of things. Currently I'm dieting and expect to lose 10-15 lbs per my doctors orders. I am hoping this will get the ball rolling with summer coming and lots of support from my husband. He is being very helpful. I have alot of nice clothes that I would like to wear again! ⚘
Good Morning Kay
I loved your video today. i have been able to scale down my wardrobe this past year because of your wonderful advice. I am a classic/casual dresser and have found so many clothes you have featured have worked for me! i am still learning and look forward each week to your words of wisdom!!!
Thank you for sharing that with me Diane. I’m glad my content is proving helpful to you. 💕
Kay, this was another gem. Thank you so much.
You’re so welcome. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 😊
Very insightful, kay. A number of these tips hit home.
Great to hear. Thanks for watching Mary. 😊
So practical. Thank you.
You bet! 🥰
Great tips Kay. I have to remember not to do colors that are not in my color pallet even though they are trending now or the sales person says try it on. I have found if I buy that yellow top that is not in my color pallet, it ends up hanging in my closet. I call them clothes hangers. ha ha. I have found I need to incorporate the trendy colors in a scarf or purse.
I’ve bought purses and shoes for that reason. Yellow, for instance, doesn’t work near my face, but is great in a purse.
Wear what makes you feel comfortable and amazing. If a sales person wants you to try something on, and you don't like it, have the confidence to say no . If the sales person keeps insisting, time to find a different place to shop.
So elegant
This was such an excellent video! It really made me think and was thought provoking for me. I appreciate this so much and this made me subscribe to this and also your blog. And you present everything in such a kind, genuine way. Thank you!
Ahh, thanks so much Ruby. That’s very kind of you. And thank you for letting me know. 🥰
I’m a new subscriber in my 30’s! Looking forward to be inspired by your channel & blog! I have such a free spirit style & so many times get overwhelmed as a single mother on what to wear that compliment me & what I want to bring to others 🌿I also just created a blog & am praying for the courage to really start blogging! 🌸
Wonderful. Thanks for sharing Emilie. I appreciate you subscribing. 🥰
Once again, very helpful and inspiring. I have just about nailed my style and colours, now I am having fun dyeing things I want to keep into the colours which mean I will wear them.
Wonderful! Thanks for watching. 🥰
I’m subscribing. So many ideas
great video, thank you!
You bet. 😊
I love this topic, what you say makes sense. I m just in the process of building my closet. I live in the Tropics so I really have to stop shopping glamorous clothes.
I love your videos. Thank you for all your wonderful information....and by the way I love your hair.
Ahh, that’s so kind. Thank you Anne. 💕
Thank you for encouraging and believing in us. After watching this video, I feel more confident that I can overcome my confusion about why I have two closets full of clothes, and yet not much to wear. You’ve given me a lot to ponder about my past purchasing habits. With five practical wardrobe analysis strategies, I’m ready to move into post-pandemic dressing in a more deliberate and thoughtful way. You put your heart and soul into your teaching, and I am so very grateful for what I am learning from you. Blessings!
You’re so very welcome Paula. I’m glad this met a need. Here’s to a happy closet! 🙌🏻
My f by favorite way to choose a color pallet is to use Carol Tuttles Dressing Your Truth system. All of my clothes work together now and packing for a trip is a snap. Even better is what I've learned about myself and others. Thank you, This was helpful
Great video...I recognized myself in all of these!
Hahaha! Me too. 💕
We do not have much closet space in Hong Kong. How about doing a piece on how to arrange clothes, scarves and purses for easy accessibility and change of seasons?
That’s not something I really excel at. But maybe one of these days. Thanks for sharing your suggestion.
Thanks for another informative video. Great tips, and you're a wonderful speaker too. I'm transitioning from dressy-dresses & heels to a wardrobe that's extremely casual. I agree that a simple color pallet makes it much easier to swift gears. My biggest gap now is adding "casual accessories" to elevate the look and feel a little more stylish and complete-- the finishing touch.
You’re welcome. Thanks so much for watching. 😊
Really enjoyed your video Kay. Where can I find the list you showed of essentials to print? Great idea!
Betty here...thank you for this very informative and sensible video. Blessings!!
You’re so welcome. 😊
I think I over think my closet and think it needs help, when in fact I'm doing what you recommend! One area that could be tweaked is paring down signature colors. I've done your style evaluation and it was right on, and can check all the boxes on the list of essentials, so maybe this color tweak is going to be a focus. You have great ideas and your videos are always thoughtful and helpful!!
although I'm in my late 20s, I love watching your videos. your tips are realistic and also your style is modest & very sophisticated. I dream that one day I'll be elegant as you. thanks Kay :)
Very helpful video! I am newly retired and I have a jumble of colors that are not cohesive so this gives me great ideas to dig into my closet and get to work! Thank you
Wonderful! 🙌🏻
Before you start, get your colors done. Nothing worse than organizing your whole wardrobe around colors that are really fashionable that make your skin look awful! I used to sew most of my clothes and loved summer colors I spent days sewing lined wool blazers, etc, then found out I was a winter. When I started wearing the right colors, people knew I looked better didn’t know what it was so asked me if I’d gotten a new haircut or lost weight.
Super filmik🙋♀️😊❤️
Thanks so much.
Hello, Kay. Thanks so much for today’s content. I would add a seventh reason for not having anything to wear- an ungrateful heart. Would you address (again) the urge to buy that originates from a restless, discontented spirit? I struggle with this, especially when viewing myself in my birthday suit. God bless you and your ministry to your viewers!
What a great video with spot on tips! I am in a temporary situation now because I have a cast on my left ankle that hits just below my knee. I can only wear wide legged bottoms, which means that a lot of my tops don’t look right with them. I don’t need to buy lost of tops that I will get a lot of wear out of for the next month. This too shall pass!
Indeed it will. Hang in there. Thanks for watching Ginger. 🥰
Super video! As I move forward in my life I am working on being more deliberate in all aspects of my life. Previously and sometimes now I am flying by the seat of my pants. I make choices with my fashion randomly as well as grocery shopping. The same thing would happen with organizing and cleaning my home. This randomness seemed to work for me, however it caused a lot of stress. Now, I’m going to follow your guidance as well as the FlyLadyPlus system and to meal plan. My goal is to get it together and live a more peaceful life. Thank you for sharing your ideas.
Wonderful. Thanks for watching Debbie. 🥰
Great tips, Kay! Going to determine what neutrals and signature colours would work for me. Will give my already decluttered closet full of colour and prints a second look to see how I can pair all that I have (lots of old and new cute items!) and again donate clothes that don't work with everything. As a 73 yr. old retiree I still want to look great in my beautiful casual clothes which are now my go to's. On a twice weekly basis I amp up my casual look for in-person lunch, dinner or shopping by adding "bling." Thank you and stay safe, Rosie 🇨🇦
Wonderful! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching, Rosie. 🥰
Great tips. Thank you. I am a Summer and try to stay with these colors. Recently retired and not wearing business clothes as before. Trying to dress more casual but I miss office attire and my hills. I need to purge my wardrobe to fit my lifestyle. You look smart in your outfits. What is your style name?
I call my style modern classic. I try to dress a fairly classic style but with modern touches to keep my looks contemporary.
Thank you so much Kay, you are such a lovely lady. I fall into the category of buying too many prints and it just kills me to buy a solid color item. But just today I finally purchased a solid black sleeveless tank that I will love to wear under jackets and kimonos. Also, I love denim jackets of any color on you or anyone really but when you have a little tummy problem (I’m working on it with the Lords help) they just don’t look as cute.🤣 thank you for explaining things so simply.
Great purchase. Be sure to check out this next weeks video. 😉
Boy that is so me closet full of clothes and never nothing to wear lol ty 😊
I think most of us can relate. 😉
I do gravitate to wearing linen shirts a lot so I noticed that when both got holes in them lol and I guess that’s what I will be buying more of lol
Another wonderful video with great information. Unlike some of the ladies below who buy for the glam life, I tend to buy more athletic wear and then have very little to wear when I want/need to 'go out'. I'm trying to build up that part of my wardrobe and can't wait to be able to shop 'in store' and no so much online. Thanks for more wonderful tips of the trade! I do like your shirt today too :)
Thanks for watching Louise. 😊
I work in an office on a college campus. The department I work in is business casual Monday-Thursday and then we can wear college t-shirts and nice jeans on Friday (we work 1/2 day on Friday). I've always tried keeping neutral pants in my closet and a variety of different types of shirts. The issue I have is that I get in a rut. I tend to wear the same outfits over and over. You've given me a lot to think about.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Angela. 😊
Very helpful video, Kay! What color and brand lipstick are you wearing? It looks very nice on you!
Thanks! I’m pretty sure I’m wearing the shade Peut Etre in this lipstick rstyle.me/+lSd_GYKfYyZBR1QFoGuT6A
Wow that # 4 is a life changer :)
Thanks so much for watching. 😊
I resemble these remarks. I think I’ll go clear out those dressy Clothes and replace them with more retirement clothes. I buy dressy jackets I’ll never wear. I have more of a Jean jacket, bomber jacket lifestyle. My jewelry doesn’t always fit my lifestyle either. Thanks Kay.
Hahaha! I hear you. I had to muster up the strength to resist buying another blazer recently. I’m all for having a few blazers in a casual wardrobe. But there is a limit! 😉
Hi
Very helpful, thanks. Even though I also eliminated yellow, orange, warm reds and purple, too, decades ago after my color analysis, there are still so many colors to choose from. I’m guessing that you are a Summer palette, like me.
Yes, I am. Thanks for watching Kimberly. 🥰
When I consider buying something new, I ask myself if It will be one of the first things I will reach for when looking for something to wear. If the answer is no, I leave it in the store. I also iron everything as it comes off the clothes line, so everything is ready to wear.
I have an eclectic wardrobe, however much of it is 50s vintage and boho. However as you said having wardrobe essentials are what brings it together. I love this age, I wear what makes my heart happy not what others think I should. Such freedom.
Great video and hopefully I can incorporate some of those great ideas. I clicked on a couple of links that were listed, but they didnt work. I wanted to subscribe to the newsletter and also look at your website. Neither one worked for me.
Hmm. Don’t know why that would be. Do you have a pop up blocker installed that might prevent them from working? They’re working for me.
Good video Kay love 💖 it it's guide me how to dress like a lady my age but I want to know how can I get some of theses wear please send me the place and we're u get those things I live in Trinidad and Tobago but I 💕💕💕💕 your video
Thanks so much for watching Eva. 💕
Confession: I'm a slough..I'm a Farmer/Gardener. So I'm pushing my sweaty bangs back with a pretty pink hat that has grass all over it from weed eating . I often wonder if theres any help for me! Thanks for your post
Same! I bought a few yoga pants, shorts and racer back tops in basic AND trendy colors, and some extra long t-shirts (no white! lol) . My cows don't appreciate it, but it makes me feel younger and put together even while doing chores, which makes working outside much more fun. 😀
Perfect!
Same here! My husband is still teasing me about a “garb” I came out to work in the yard in!
Denim capris, that didn’t fit, white socks with clogs , an oversized white, stained, sweat jacket, that was my mother’s, 14 years ago! Since that event, I have made a conscious effort to “be oh so put together” everyday! You are a blessing and an encouragement!
Thank you and God bless, from Oklahoma 💜
Love knowing I'm not the only one. I do make pretty aprons for outside and inside. But sometimes I forget I gathered some eggs in there pocket and decide to clean stales and mash an egg in my pocket..lol Life is Good though just wish the UPS truck knew I wasnt a bum when he pulls up..lol🤣
Thanks so much, great information, where would I find the page for the sheet to referral for shopping you mentioned added to your phone, please.
Hi Sandra. It’s on the Freebies for Subscribers page at my blog and it’s available to my email subscribers only. If you subscribe to my daily or weekly emails you’ll see a link to the Freebies page at the bottom of each email I send out. 🥰
The reason I have nothing to wear is because I’ve gained weight. Again. Working on losing it but so frustrating (and expensive!)
I think that is one reason that I’m waiting to build my wardrobe because I have so much weight to lose and don’t want to spend lots of money on things that hopefully won’t fit me at the end of the year. So now, it is cheap clothes during the weight loss time frame until I can spend real money on quality pieces when I am at my ideal weight. I won’t be looking very fashionable during the weight loss stages, though😂
@@kimberlygould6839 Exactly! I do need to buy something to wear to my daughter’s college graduation- it’s outside. Wish Kay would do a video on “body transition wardrobes”!
I lost 50 pounds about 2 years ago. While waiting to get back into my old clothes, I shopped consignment shops and Goodwill. You can find basic pieces at Goodwill pretty cheap. My wardrobe was small during weight loss. I didn't want to spend money on clothes I was determined not to wear next year.
Love your advice. I really need to work on getting my wardrobe working for me.
We recently moved out of state and I spent almost an hour trying on my clothes to see if I had something to wear to church. Well I had gotten rid of a couple of pairs of heels that were killing my feet and by doing that discovered that I couldn't wear anything!!
After trying on all my church clothes I ended up feeling terrible and I was crying. I thought about why I felt so bad and thought that this scenario must have happened to other women too.
I thought I should be able to put something on that fits well and makes me feel good.
I'm working now( bit by bit) on getting pieces that put a smile on my face rather that make me cry because I look and feel uncomfortable in them.
It's definitely more challeging as we age but you have shown us that it can be done!!
Thank you and God bless you!!!
Bless you! It is a challenge. But yes, look for pieces that make you happy and that make you feel authentic. And that work for your real lifestyle. It’s a process. Hang in there!
@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Thank you I will.
Kay, this is so on point! I am guilty, GUILTY! I'm changing sizes down and am all over the map. I need to tighten up my colors and work from there. thank you!
You’re so welcome, Nancy. Thanks for watching. 🥰
Another reason that I have discovered is that I often love clothes that require ironing (or some other special care like hand-washing) that I really don’t often have the extra time to do. When I am getting dressed, I often have a closet full of clothes that I love but that need ironing and are not ready to be worn. I am leaning to say “no” to things that require special care, not matter how much I love them.
Yes! Thanks for sharing Gina. Sometimes I think we have to give ourselves permission to say no to certain types of clothing.
Yes! I made that mistake. I bought clothes online and then realized the don’t look nice unless ironed. I never wear them because I hate to iron.
But I do think that ironed clothes look best. They show that you took time & care of your clothes. But you don’t want a closet full - only a few pieces.
@@brendacriswell1264 Betty here...I have a hand held steamer that's a life saver. I use it at home and when I travel. Blessings to you!
@@williamkunkel8293 Yes, we have steamer too. Mine is on a stand and I use it most of the time, rarely iron unless no other option. PS for trouser hems that curl a little on lighter weight trousers I use my hair straighteners which work well - also a great way to straighten ribbon for crafts
Thank you so much, Kay! I’m new to your site and have been enjoying it very much... your fashion tips and advice have really energized me. I’m learning a lot about personal style and growing in confidence - why try to be a “Nike” when you are really more of a “Hushpuppie”, right? 🤓. I also appreciate your spiritual wisdom as well -I am especially trying to put on humility every day before anything else. Thanks so much and keep up the good work!
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Beth. And you’re quite welcome. You ladies energize me too. And humility is such a noble attribute to put on daily. So good. 💕