Exactly! I always go by the rule of "it might be an explanation, but it is no excuse" whenever someone tries to justify any form of harassment, bullying or other bad behavior by claiming it is because of trauma or disability. I personally have a disability similar to autism and I know perfectly well how to behave toward other people. I've known a severely mentally handicapped old man who was practically like a non-verbal, oversized toddler, and HE didn't ever mistreat anyone or do anything worse than try to get their attention by tugging at a sleeve.
And unfortunately learning that when he does so, there are a ton of adults who will then just allow him to keep acting like this and reinforcing the behaviour
Story 3: This is heart breaking. So many adults should've stepped in and TAUGHT him better instead of expecting Op to just...become a doll for his pleasure. The fact that everyone genuinely believe that Op was wrong for finally snapping is utterly insane. I'm glad that her family fought hard for her.
On a positive note, the pay out for the lawsuit is going to be insane. Like OP set for life insane. There's probably going to be a huge round of firings/ tenure denied/ quick quitting. Letting a MINOR get sexually assaulted for YEARS and not only covering it up but encouraging it? Yeah. The adults will be extremely lucky to just get away with firing and not be put on a list.
It's so sad that in the end she is even considering that it was her fault for not telling her parents. I blame the teachers for that - she went to a grownup for help and basically was just told to suck it up.
Story 3: I’m autistic, my children are autistic. I nor my children have ever crossed a boundary like this. He’s not doing this because he’s autistic, he’s doing it because literally everyone around both her and him have failed to put boundaries in place to protect her. This is unacceptable and I’m proud of the girl for standing up for herself.
@@tawnyacosta9091 If his mom, his friends and teachers, keep enabling him. They’ll soon be visiting Troy in jail because he either r***ed, or sexually harassed/assaulted a woman. Good on OP for standing up for herself.
The worst part of the groping story is the amount of adults that had the authority to put thier foot down and end it but instead, allowed a 12year old girl to be repeatedly molested under the guise of "he doesn't know any better🤷♂️". Fucking despicable
"he doesn't know any better" is a stupid excuse, there is something in life that is call teaching, that people is lazy and neglectful is their job to teach that kid that not everything is about him , that people have boundaries and he needs to respect them
like, if he doesn't know any better you teach him to be better. if he can't control himself, you isolate him because he is a danger. there is no fucking excuse to allow that shit to happen and i hope everyone who let this happen have their lives ruined because of this.
Agreed. Its the kind of situation that made me wish I had been there bc I always stood up for kids when they were bullied. I stood up for a girl who was being groped by a boy and told him I'd break his hand if he touched her against her will again. I also told her to let me know if he touched her again bc I would absolutely beat the crap out of him.
Its even worse. They dindnt just turn away and excused it. They fing encouraged it and said to her she should let it happen and do the right thing for him.
I'm autistic, we are fully capable of learning right from wrong. Maybe, MAYBE you can argue that he didn't understand the first time until he was told no but thats it. He is very aware of what he was doing and feels entitled to op's body. Thank goodness she kept those receipts because they show clear as day just how lucid and capable of understanding he is.
I have this hunch this story takes place in India and sadly, people there can be outright primitive. Like a dude did something and the elders decided HIS punishment is his little sister getting raped.
@@asdfdsf-s4u Hey, autistic person here. No it freaking isn't. If someone has severe enough autism that they genuinely don't understand, which is extremely rare, they shouldn't be in public or private school. The cases where there is an argument that they don't know better are also the ones where they cannot function in society, and should be cared for with special accommodations, not forced on an ill-equipped School and allowed to do whatever they want. Also, based on their actions, they knew better. They only did what they did because everyone enabled them.
Story 3: As someone that's on the autism spectrum, that is not an excuse to get away with something that gross and the fact the school let this happen and did nothing about it makes my blood boil.
The guy in the last story saying “Having a family that depends on me makes me wanna be the best man I can be” is the energy we need in the world. His daughter is gonna grow up to be a great person. Feels like a lot of people just have a family because its “normal” and not because they love and care for the people in it.
The fact that the autistic guy doesn't do things to other people shows that he knows it's wrong. Autism isn't an excuse to be awful. It may explain why he does things wrong but doesn't excuse it. It's disgusting that people were letting him get away with that crap.
I really don’t get why people think we can’t understand right from wrong. I’m also autistic and I feel guilty if I so much as accidentally step on an ant.
I agree! I have autism, too, but I was told right/wrong, snd how to treat people. What this guy is doing is just disgusting, snd HE KNOWS IT! His parents, the teachers, and everyone who defended him are just as bad, if not worse!
@@hamishstewart5324 right! Like I know a couple of autistic people and they love hugging. I am not the biggest fan of hugs so I told them that and neither of them hugs me unless I say I would like a hug. One of them hugs people when they're excited but with me they hug themselves and say "air hug!"
Personally I think the kid might be faking in order to get away SA and r**e. Wouldn’t be surprised if he did that to other women and used that excuse. Now for that people with autism, it may be harder to take seriously because of people like that guy.
For story 3, let's call it what it is, Sexual Assault. The truth is it doesn't matter if he is autistic. He victimized her for 4 years and the school did nothing. OP should sue the school as well. He's lucky he only got a broken nose. For the last story, this was a super wholesome story to end on. I hope OP and his family continue to do well and are happy. They deserve it.
The school let a boy sexually harass a girl for four years, and forced her to be his "friend" and "caretaker" the whole time just to placate *him* and keep the sexual harasser happy. That's sick. That multiple adults in a position of care over OP blamed it on the boy's autism just so they didn't have to do anything about the situation is, frankly, criminal. Given that he's also gone ahead and sent *rape threats* to her, the lawsuit should be in the bag for OP. I hope she gets paid out a LOT of compensation for putting up with the mental torture of constant sexual harassment from that boy and betrayal of trust from her teachers for four years. She deserves every penny.
@@rachelfox8108 the fact that everyone wants OP and her parents to drop the lawsuit is like the biggest sign that they are going to win. if you are winning a race you don't beg your opponent to drop out, you gloat.
The autism story: Having autism is NO EXCUSE for such DISGUSTING behavior! I have autism, and I’ve been told from right/wrong. Nobody deserves that kind of treatment. Someone like him, whether you have autism or not, is such a creep, and a predator!
@@davidharshman7645 I think he knows, and everybody defending him all know, they just don’t care 😤 And that is so annoying to me! The parents, the “ teachers “, and every person who defended this awful and disgusting behavior are just as bad, if not worse!
If someone has a mental disorder that makes them a serious danger for other people, it is an exuses as in that the shouldn't go to prison, they should however be locked up in a mental instution untill they are no longer a treat. Ofcourse the fast majority of athuisitc people (or mentally divergent/ill people in general) are not a danger to other people.
The horrifying thing is that if he's acting like that with no consequences at 16 then I'm pretty sure he'll be a rapist or at least something close to it by the time he's an adult.
@@NaliTikva I'm pretty sure that he isn't acting like that because of autism but because he's been babied and his wrongful actions have been excused by his autism by the adults in his life the whole time so now he thinks he can do whatever he wants.
I am a teacher… I am mortified that people who call themselves teachers totally allowed this girl to be sexually harassed for 4 years! Very glad her family is standing behind her.
I'm glad teachers like you exist, thank you! I've been sexually harrassed by my deskmate from 5th grade to 8th, nobody did anything to stop it, it's good to see good teachers actually exist, it's like a breath of fresh air.
@@strawberry_shortcake8077 - Oh, my, God, I am so sorry that happened to you! Grades 5-8… does that mean 4 different teachers allowed you to be sexually harassed in their classrooms and did nothing? Or were you stuck with the same terrible teacher for four long years? Oh my God you did not deserve that. I’m so so sorry. It makes me embarrassed for my profession. I mean I know there’s bad teachers, I’ve worked with a couple, I had some children I needed to love and support extra hard to repair the damage that had been done before they came to me. But I can’t imagine the hell that you must’ve gone through for four years. I’m sorry. My closest, friends, are/were teachers, and I can promise you if you were in any one of our classes, we would’ve stood up for you, and we would’ve stopped it. As many bad ones that are out there there are some good ones too. I hope you’ve had a couple of those over your education as well. But again, I’m really sorry you were let down so significantly by your teachers.
Story 2 - my mom told me about these type of guys. They marry fat women and then get upset when she tries to lose weight. It's a mental abuse thing. They make her think that he is the only guy she can get. When she starts to lose weight, she gets more confidence and she might see what a bastard he really is and leave him.
As a person with autism that 3rd story made my blood boil- no one deserves to go through what OP had to. Everyone else in that story that just ignored it and told OP to suck it up are just as disgusting
I agree. I have autism, but I knew better. What this guy is doing is disgusting, and he KNOWS IT! The people defending him knows it, but choose to enable such disgusting! Autism is NOT an EXCUSE to do things like these to ANYBODY!
I agree entirely. I have friends with autism. You would never think they had autism because they don't try to take advantage of it. I always felt sorry for the customers back when this one kid worked at my store because the managers just let him do whatever he wanted because he had a disability. I'm not even sure what it was but he scream at customers that he was busy just out of nowhere and the manager's just let it happen You can't just let people get away with stuff just because they have a disability
Same, I am high functioning autistic and it delayed my communications skills, but I still had enough of a moral compass to know that doing something like that was wrong. If any school acted like this with any kids I have I'd have a lawyer making their lives hell.
bro the groping story made me feel so sick. How in the world could teachers just... let that happen to a literal CHILD for 4 whole years!? They just enabled Troy and let him believe that he can just do that to women. And it'll end up much worse for him down the line. Disgusting behaviour. I feel so sorry for OP in that story.
It happens more than you think, happened where I was too. He had autism and he would pleasure himself during class and fetishized a classmate’s feet. I reported it, it was ignored. People need to teach others, not just people with autism but in general, that doing this stuff is wrong
There's a prison sentence and registering as a sex offender for the rest of his life in Troy's future 🤷🏼♀️ too bad these people don't want to protect women and girls from this predator.
Honestly, it's pretty believable. I went to school with this one autistic girl who definitely took advantage of this fact. She'd get away with all sorts of things just because she had autism and the staff were the main defenders of her behavior. My best friend was also fairly protective over her till I got her to realize how manipulative this girl was.
These people honestly all deserve prison. And Troy needs to go to some corrective facility and learn how to behave or prison will be in his future, too
Even through all of the awful stories of manipulators and liars, of cheaters and monsters... I live for stories like the last one. I hope OP and his family have an amazing life.
Third story made me so mad. My husband has autism and there is absolutely no one in the universe who treats women better than him. He worships the ground I walk on! Ironically, he is a manager for a big company and all the women come to him if someone would say anything inappropriate to them because he is such a good listener...
The gastric bypass story hit a cord with me, as a bariatric patient myself (BPDS). Thankfully, my then-bf was incredibly sweet and helpful and supportive; but the support groups I'm in are full of stories like this. Keep going, girl, it's worth it... and he is not.
I think - arm chair psychology - in cases like these the other person is scared to lose the other. If you change so much about yourself, what if you get rid of me as well?
@@bladerunner3314which is an understandable insecurity but that comment about hoping that they don't wake up from the surgery absolutely crossed every single line and then some. It is an unforgivable statement and I don't care if it's in the heat of the moment that's not something you should ever think about let alone say out loud to anyone.
Story 3. Ugh! I'm autistic, and lemme just say I'm infuriated by people who baby those with autism and use it to excuse their behavior. His behavior was inappropriate, full stop. Was his autism likely preventing him from fully realizing that? Absolutely. But that's all the more reason to NOT excuse it. Tell him! Teach him what IS appropriate! We're slow to learn social norms/cues/behavior but we CAN learn! Anyway, good on OP for defending herself. The people defending the autistic kid are doing him no favors. Autistic people can be assholes and terrible people, just like anyone else. And I'm glad OP understands that Troy is just an asshole that happens to be autistic and has been one of the only people to hold him accountable.
Exactly! When his "friend" is telling him for 4 years that this is making her sad and uncomfortable I'm sure he would know by then. My nephew has severe autism and even he understands when what he is doing makes people uncomfortable and will stop.
the thing that ticks me off the most is that people use autism as an excuse for literally anything. be in a play park and the kid is literally defecating or vomiting all over the place? "oh he got autism, he doesnt know any better" kid is literally causing harm to other kids? "oh i cant do anything about it, he got autism, he doesnt know how to behave". DUDE, PARENT, GET YOUR BUTT OFF OF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND DISCIPLINE AND TEACH YOUR CHILD. AUTISM DOESNT MEAN "FREE PASS TO PULL BS". especially worse if those "autistic" children dont actually even have autism and the parents just use it as an excuse (which to some degree i suspect with troy as he's behaving respectfully and normal around everyone but op)
The other possibility (which I personally believe in, especially since OP said he acts normal/appropriate with his friends and from his threats) is that he KNOWS it's wrong but since everything bad he has done has been excused by his autism by the adults in his life for the full 16 years he just does whatever he wants because there are no consequences anyway.
I'm autistic too and I've run into some crappy autistic people online as well that turn nasty when youi don't give them what they want. *coughcough* WillyWonka'sdaughter on DeviantART *coughcough*
As someone on the Autistic Spectrum, story 3 got me raging. OP3 punched a pervert pos who just so happened to be autistic. And honestly? I'm so proud of her. Way to stand up for yourself! Great job breaking that creep's nose lmaoooo. Really glad OP's family is helping and protecting her like this. Its so refreshing. As for troy, that little monster is gonna end up in prison and on a predator list. Also, rSlash following the 3rd story with such a sweet 4th one is much appreciated.
This story made me so mad. When I was a teenager, I was groped by a store worker with some type of learning disability (it has been decades, I don't remember what exactly), while waiting at the car for my mom. As soon as my mother came walking out, he backed up, said "don't tell" and ran off. You can't tell me he didn't know he was doing something wrong. Nothing was done about the guy because "he didn't understand", but I never went back near that store again.
@@stephaniemorrigan3039 "don't tell" and running away makes it blatantly obvious he knew what he was doing is wrong. I'm so sorry you hadta go through that.
WHAT if he isn't autistic but has realized it's convinient scape goat for his behaviour? Most people think of disfunctional persons, when it comes to autism not realizing, it has many faces.
I'm autistic as well and I've always hated the "oh he is just autistic" excuse. I feel so bad for OP she got punished for being a victim of one of the worst things you can do to someone, I hope she takes that jerk the school and the teachers for all their worth they deserve it.
Same, I'm a high-funtion autistic person and stories like these pisses me off because not only these people are excuses his behavior, they think like it's a free pass to do whatever they want just because they're special and whatever. One of these days, people like him will either be in jail or dead if they keep it up, even if they are a kid.
If it had been an autistic girl groping a boy, they would've shut that down immediately. They used his autism to enable him and justify their misogyny. He "didn't know any better" (yes, he did, but anyway) because they refused to openly correct him
--- Especially considering the a threatening-messages, it really makes one think if this was all hoax or otherwise fraud just have the "handwave-card" available for his actions; wouldn't be the first time and evidently certainly not the last time. Point of mine being that even though (Family Guy) "Ellens" do exist, generally speaking majority of "defective units" try not cause trouble to others unless they're actually taught to be entitled to do so ( which is only worse in case individuals who are accompanied by interpreters being thrown into the cross-fires ). ---
@@PaveMentman I don't know who Ellens is but did you really just refer to people with autism as defective units? That is incredibly rude. We're not a thing and we're not defective we're just different, some of the most influential people in history were autistic like Albert Einstein.
Story 3 OP needs to get a lawyer. It’s not just the groping. There’s a bigger picture here. The teachers who were supposed to TEACH Troy and who were supposed to guide and protect these students failed them both HORRIBLY, especially OP. They threw her in the lion’s den, they sacrificed her rights, her mental health, her autonomy, so they wouldn’t have to deal with Troy. They did the lazy, easy thing. Disgusting. Vile. Unforgivable. Inexcusable. Edit: Troy is digging his own grave. I hope OP is keeping all of those messages and threats and sending them to her lawyer.
That final story literally made me tear up. The way he talks about his little family is just... ugh! My heart is a puddle! And the best part is that _both_ of them know what it's like to not have a good family of origin, so they have major incentive to work through any problems that may arise because they know what it means to break up the family.
Story #3: So glad OP got out of that situation with Mr. Rapey. It's appalling, yet totally believable, that the school just ignored it. Troy's gonna end up dead or in prison because he's bound to encounter someone who responds to that behavior on the nuclear level and all of those enablers will cry and wring their hands about the tragedy of it all. OP needs to keep all those harassing messages, especially from Troy. They won't make him look good in court.
In the second story OP really needs to have a think over if her husband is the person she still trusts to make medical decisions for her if she's not up to it.
Story 3: No matter if someone is autistic or not, groping or sexually harassing someone is not to be tolerated. The people allowing for it to happen because he's "just the way he is". Kudos to the grandma for lashing out and the school board and teachers for being disgusting human beings. The people who sent death threats to OP doubled down and described what Troy would do to OP? Disgusting people at its finest. These people essentially think its okay for OP to be sexually harassed. Sue them for every cent, NOW.
First Story: The kid brought this on himself honestly. The kid was escalating the situation and was putting his hands in OP and OP defended himself accordingly Second Story: Screw waiting before the surgery, OP needs to divorce this man now. This surgery is suppose to help OP's weight and overall health and this man wants OP to remain the same? OP needs to find a better man to be her husband because this man ain’t it, wishing death on someone u "love" is an instant deal breaker Third Story: I didn’t finish it yet but I have to say, being autistic doesn’t give a person free reign to sexually assault someone. OP's teachers failed OP, everyone here has failed OP. Yo this story is pissing me off more and more. OP? "Bullying an autistic kid"?! Yo I hope OP's parents sue everyone here because the fact OP is getting punished for defending herself from a serial sex offender is insane. That update! Like what OP's grandparents said, all of these teachers, school boards, and people involved in letting this happen are absolute monsters and a failure to protect OP from this. Troy is a literal psyhcopath, try defending all the disgusting things this kid is saying to OP with "iTs JuSt AuTiSm". Yo this story pissed me off on so many levels. OP's parents are to blame too for taking this long to DO SOMETHING. 4 years, 4 YEARS OP endured and now something is being done about it?! OP is far from the blame for all of this and I hope everyone in the comment of her story assured her of that fact Fourth Story: Wow this is insanely wholesome. I hope OP see this as a sign to stay with Lily and Kelsey and be a happy family together
Also, that 3rd story, it makes me sick. He knew what he was doing. Proven by his repulsive texts to her after she moved. I'm so so disgusted. I wanna throw hands with the dude
The husband in the second story wants to keep his wife down, it's obvious and disgusting. He's afraid that as soon as she improves herself, loses weight and gains confidence, she'll realize what a loser he is and that she could do so much better. He puts her down so she won't leave him, instead of working on himself. Pathetic. OP, leave his ass. You deserve better.
I was thinking the same. I hope OP realizes it sooner rather than later. He’s just trying to keep her under his thumb. He’s lashing out like this because he sees her gaining the independence and self-worth she needs to leave him. He’s a sad pathetic sack of shit. She doesn’t need marriage counseling, she needs therapy to understand how bad her relationship *was* and to be able to set realistic expectations for healthy relationships going forward when she finds someone worthy of her.
The fourth story is amazing! Went from a great friend, to a great man, to a great dad, to a soon to be great husband! He stepped up to help his best friend, adopted her daughter, and then fell deeper in love with each other. I say deeper because let’s be real, they were always in love but were too scared to pursue it. I’m so happy for them!
Story 4: this made me heart skip a beat, it gave diabetes and I died from how adorable their relationship is. I feel like the kids are gonna grow up and be nurses with how kind Lily and OP are 😭😭😭🥺🥺🩷🩷🩷🩷
Story 3: As someone with autism, I can wholeheartedly say what Troy did is absolutely NO BUENO! And using his autism as an excuse is to me much, much worse! If I was anywhere near Troy when he groped OP, she wouldn't have to punch him, because I would do it!
Story 3: I am autistic myself, and when I was around 12, I admit I wasn't the best with social interactions. I was weird. I showed off my belly. But that was because I went under the belief of any attention is better than none, as I was ostracised. But even then, I knew never to touch someone else. Just because they have autism, it doesn't exempt them from sexual harassment and sexual assault. OP. Hopefully you can get past the trauma one day, and live a life free from Troy!
The husband doesn’t want his partner to improve herself and gain self confidence. Because that would mean she would finally realize that he is a complete loser and she deserves so much better
Story 3, I had the exact same experience with a low functioning autistic kid when I was around 9-10 years old. He kept on trying and trying to grope me and no one did anything - He tried to do it class, outside, in the gym, at lunch, at my own home, at his house... Anywhere! One day when we were outside at break he came up behind me and pulled my dress up to slap my ass. I was completely taken aback and began screaming and shouting at him to leave me alone already. Some kids from my class saw that I made him cry and have a panic attack because I shouted at him and then everyone turned on me, even the teacher! Whenever I tried to tell someone about it, even his mum, nobody did anything because "Boys will be boys" or "He has a crush on you!" or "He's autistic. He doesn't know any better." so I just gave up. It was a big mistake to do that. My mum would sometimes make me hang out at his place because we were both the same nationality and she and his mum thought it would be a great idea to leave us alone so we could 'bond'. The 'bonding' turned into him almost raping me at his own house. I still remember how he tried to pull my tights off me so he could get to me but I was fast enough and I ran downstairs to his mum in the kitchen. Even after I told my parents what he did, even after I told the teacher what he did, even after I tried telling *anyone* what he did they blamed me because I never let him have a chance with him! I was 11 and so close to being raped and no one did a thing about it because he was autistic. OP did nothing wrong at all in the story. OP did what I should've done when I was 11 though I am still thankful that I managed to get out without being assaulted.
"Boys will be boys" is ment for sht like fighting eachother with random sticks they found, or getting in a big wheel, and rolling down a hill, or, you know, goofy sht like that. Not groping. "He has a crush on you" young boys have a habit of being little brats to their first crush, but that is WAY beyond being a brat, and teasing. "He's autistic" is dumb as fuck, because autistic people know right from wrong, if they've been taught that. Instead, you have adults enabling their behavior, which is what makes these people so awful. So i'm really sorry you, and the girl from story 3 had to deal with that, and i hope you both will be okay.
@@lordnazar6382 It all happened in 2016-17 when I was 10-11 years old. As of now I'm still going to therapy and doing so much better than before especially since I haven't seen the creep in so many years (I'll be turning 18 this October). My current boyfriend is autistic and he's the biggest sweetheart I have ever met - I know I can trust him with anything and I know that he would rather die than do whatever the hell the other guy tried doing to me. I'm thankful that I'm away from the guy now and now know people who will protect me from stuff like that. Not all autistic people are like this, only the ones who get constantly babied and get their actions justified by their disability.
That third story... If she was my family member, by this point Troy would have gotten a lesson.. or would be missing. Utterly disgusting and more than unacceptable behaviour by teachers, schools and the rapists parents.
Story #2: I hope she drops an extra 200 lbs and ditches that dead weight excuse of a husband. I had bariatric surgery 14 years ago and it the best decision I ever made and I’ve kept the weight off. Not all of us gain it back. She sounds like she’s about the embark on the journey of a lifetime and I truly hope she does so without him holding her back.
Story 3: "He doesn't know what he's doing." Mate, I doubt autism completely removes one's conscience. Heck, he's treating everyone else normally. And then there's the enabling from everyone else. They literally just let it happen and used his autism as an excuse. Heck, they took Troy's side after OP *literally defended herself from a groper.* I hope the lawsuit goes through and everyone loses money for it.
As someone who's on the autism spectrum (previously classed as Asperger's), it doesn't. It makes social interactions and reading people difficult. We still know what's right and wrong. He did too but he didn't care because everyone just let him get away with it. It's so disgusting. Mental disabilities do not give you an excuse to be a shitty person.
He obviously knows what he was doing by his repulsive texts to her and the fact OTHERS were telling her what he would do to her. Which means he was bragging about wanting to grape and maybe krill her. That's so sick. Omfg I wanna deal justice with my bat.
Money? Nah that sick twisted little shite needs to lose his freedom, and fast! He deserves more than a broken nose and a lawsuit! The teachers should also lose their freedom or at least be removed from any kind of job involving children!
Story 2: OP sounds like a lovely person and I hope the best for her future. I personally wouldn’t forgive someone that wished death upon me (even in anger) but since they’re trying to save their marriage in therapy, I hope they’ll recover and he’ll better himself as well.
Story 3: I both have autism and have been on the receiving end of SA like that. I felt so bad at the end of the original before the update where she started blaming herself and “maybe I should have just been more sympathetic and accepted it” because I know that mentality. I was there too. I seriously hope therapy helps OP. Because that’s a serious mountain of work to get through and unpack. I was around her age as well, and I’m still dealing with it at 23.
I can totally relate to OP and story 3. In the seventh grade, I was groped by a kid who was 'special' ( Aspergers) and just like her, no one would help me because of it. There was one thing I knew I could do even though I absolutely hate it more than anything but I decided to use my race to finally make it stop. As I said, I hate the race card bullshit because it accomplishes nothing but I was 12 and desperate. I eventually did slap that bastard and my teacher threatened to send me to the office but I dared her to do it and I would tell the principal that I was being harassed by a white boy based on my ethnicity and skin color( Mexican and Native American with a very brown complexion). The teacher backed off the moment I said that. That kid was eventually suspended from the school before he was transferred to a special needs school. Last I heard, he's in jail for SA on a minor. I genuinely hope that OP gets Justice and I hope that school is run through the mud for allowing this to happen.
As someone with Asperger's, this pisses me off. I'm more than capable of having always known it's wrong to touch someone without their permission. I'm sorry someone did something so disgusting to you.
@@lorilancaster5917I had a bitter taste in my mouth afterwards, I never liked the idea of using my race/ethnicity to get things my way but it was all I could think of. That was the only time I did that and never did it again.
@@whitneybennett4857my husband is autistic as well and this video pissed him off. He may be a bit wild with his movements but his parents never EVER babied him. They were strict and gave him structure along with putting him in swimming classes to help him with his high energy.
That's absolutely insane. "Aspergers" (an outdated term now, its basically just someone who is autistic with low support needs) is nowhere near something that wouldnt make you understand right from wrong. The most it does is make you socially awkward and bad with certain sensory stuff. It doesnt make you mentally handicapped.
I fear for any women around Troy from story 3. His behavior was enabled for so so long that I know deep down he is going to hurt a woman badly. I hope I'm wrong, but I know deep down Im not
That groping story really pissed me off for so many reasons. Mainly because I am also autistic and in no way shape or form is that any damn excuse to justify ASSAULT of a minor especially sexual assault. What’s worse is not only did his friends condone this action but even the damn school was completely fine with their own female student (OP) getting groped and BLAMING her for it by using the boys autism as a crutch for any bad behaviour…what utter BULLSHIT. The fact that disgusting vile kid used a hidden disability as a weapon to justify sexual assault is filth utter filth of a human being and he deserves every bit of pain that comes his way for this, I had to deal with stuff like this before when girls kept accusing me of the same thing because of my autism and every time it turned out to be a lie the whole school bullied me to the point of literal suicide. I am so damn glad OP was able to escape that hell and that grandma is a saint for helping her grandchild out.
Oh my god story 3 has me shaking and in tears. I have 2 daughters and if they had gone through what I did or had gone through what OP did the whole city would be ashes and I’d give them the skulls of their enemies for decoration. It makes me unbelievably angry what that poor girl had to go through and I hope she will be okay no better than okay going forward. That guy needs to be locked up because he is only going to get worse and it won’t be long before he r-words a girl he feels he’s entitled to
omg the last story. I think my heart exploded, almost in tears. You're the only dad that kid knows, and you deserve to be the dad. Anyone can be a father/sperm donor, but it takes a good man to be a dad.
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The kid in the first story brought this upon himself, its his own fault that he chose to escalate the situation.
I totally agree but his parents don’t want to believe that their teenage son is capable of such acts and they don’t want to pay his medical bills so they’re going after op. I guess that op was supposed to just allow himself to be humiliated and hurt since their son was just doing what boys do. Thank goodness for the camera video footage that shows what really happened.
The groping story made me so angry I accidentally yelled out loud “what the f***” at her being rebuffed by teachers for reporting sexual assault, and startled my neighbours
WTF is exactly what I was thinking. How dare they punish her for not wanting to get sexually harassed. My take is: THEY weren't protecting her, so they literally left her no choice but to take matters into her own hands. And GO GRANDMA!!!
Story 2 + update: R/ is absolutely right, there are some things that "speaking out of anger" is not an acceptable excuse, your husband told you dead in your face he hoped you die from the surgery because he didn't like that you didn't give him an input in your body and health. You have no reason to apologize your spouse should support you when you try to get better not put you down, and a lot of what he said is not acceptable and can't just be excused with I didn't know how to let you know how I feel. I can understand you love him but unless he was flipping the bill for all of these expensive changes you have nothing to work on he does.
I used to struggle with anger issues and I have never told anybody that I hope they die when I was mad. But I have said stuff out of anger that I regretted when I calmed down. Eventually, I realized that If I don't control my anger, I'll be controlled by my anger.
Story 3 just brought back years of trauma for me. When i was 16 I started dating an autistic guy, and he used that autism to coerce me into doing things long before I was ready to. He acted like my blatant discomfort and very clear "I dont think i'm ready for this" comments meant "Say a reassuring sentence and then take me back to your place anyways." Because of my apparent indirectness when i would say "maybe" and then back out, i was accused of being a manipulator and of "playing with his head." Eventually after weeks of him treating me like crap whenever I didnt want it, I felt like the only way to be loved was to put out. Aaand that lead to some real big ick memories. Autism isn't an excuse, some people just want to use it as one so that they can hurt people without any fear of consequence. It's disgusting and stigmatizes real issues autistic and other neurodivergent people face. It fucking sucks. I hope the best for OP, nobody deserves to be shunned for being a victim. Ick. (Edit: spelling)
Story 3: I truly feel horrible for OP the fact that these people just sat there and did nothing is appalling. If anything it damages a person to be excused with bad behaviour then it does to correct it. Autism may be a spectrum with many different struggles but it doesn’t warrant the mistreatment of others. And majority of people with autism understand that my self included. I really wish op the best that situation is truly horrific
Story 2: What's this guy's problem? OP is literally improving herself and got insurance, and this guy proceeds to argue, send OP bad videos, and then straight up says "I hope you die." And it's all because OP didn't consult him first? Nah, that can't be the only reason. There's got to be something else
It’s either a power/control thing or he has a fat fetish and doesn’t want her to lose weight. There was a person on My 600-lb Life where a very similar situation happened to a woman and she eventually just accepted he only wanted to marry her and be with her simply because she was extremely overweight, she left him.
My guess is plain old jealosy. He knows he's a loser and was most likely thinking if she stayed the same noone would "steal" her from him. While she's taking care of herself and her health - the loser is thinking how many other (much better) guys will now pay her attention. The girl deserves better.
Third Story: My ex-boyfriend had autism and was also babied. He acted very similar to this. He was like a r/niceguy that thought he basically owned me. And his excuse for all his shitty behavior was "My Autism Makes Me Be This Way." I wanted to tell his parents about everything but I feel like they wouldn't believe me so I mainly kept my mouth shut :/
Story 3: I’m autistic myself and I can confirm that being autistic doesn’t give a person a free pass to grope someone. He should know well enough that touching women (especially without their consent) is not ok regardless of his autism. I had to pause in the middle of the story just to comment about that because I’m actually disgusted that people are letting him get away with it just because he’s on the spectrum.
Yeah. While I understand there can be confusion about others' autonomy (I know I didn't understand at first) it's no excuse. Allowing a girl to get victimized for years? Like, autistic people can be disciplined and taught just like anyone else, you just have to take certain different approaches. Screw those teachers, screw that school. Sounds like the whole place is rotten, and needs a staff overhaul and assault prevention training.
Also, they're 12-16? That's old enough to know better. If they genuinely can't, then they need to be in a special needs place, not a public/private school.
Story 3: We had a kid with downsyndrom in our school growing up and he was always babied. No one taught him what was or wasn't appropriate. He went around smacking and hitting others, groping the girls, saying really inappropriate things, and still got treated like a good student when he was a menace to others. DISABILITIES DO NOT MEAN YOU CAN TOUCH AND HIT OTHERS!!!!!! KEEP YOUR HANDS RO YOURSELF AND TEACH YOUR KIDS RIGHT FROM WRONG REGARDLESS !!!!!!!
I always love when there's at least one super wholesome/super sweet r/trueoffmychest story, even at the end of videos that are filled with stories about horrible things happening like this one
Holy shit, that dude in the third story needs reality to hit him hard. That’s not autism, that’s untouchable and universal golden child syndrome, Troy needed reality to hit him, it hit him so hard it broke his nose. It reminds me of the story that rSlash read a while ago about OP’s autistic brother who went to a party and threw the cake on the floor because it wasn’t about him. These people aren’t what autism is, they’re terrible, terrible people
I will say, as a parent, it would have torn me apart to hear what OP had gone through for 4 years on her own. It is very much a prison in your own mind to hold onto something like that for so long. I'm glad that she's gotten her family's support in all of this
Groper story: good on OP. There is no excuse for Troy to do this. He has been totally enabled into keeping this up. The bruises are painful, the mental scarring is worse. What's extremely sad, is that everyone has set you up to be his property. So they dont have to deal with him. OP: Your strength is posting this is awesome, your grandparents are amazing. I wish for nothing but positive and goodness in your future. The Ahs, i hope they really suffer the legal consequences
I have an autistic daughter. And there’s one thing I did when I found out, was read stories from the siblings of autistic kids because that’s where you’re going to get the most authentic version of what’s actually going on. parents will always try and soften the blow, but the siblings aren’t going to do that. And because a lot of them are neglected, but not bad kids I feel like maybe slightly but they’re probably not over exaggerating if they’re reaching out because of the responsibility they were always expected to give, they’re usually more mature and only reaching out on places like Reddit for a reason, and a lot of the times they expressed that their siblings know a lot of things that they’re doing is wrong, but because they can get away with it, They keep doing it. SO if my daughter came home with a broken nose and I heard it was because she was groping another student and asked to stop she would be reprimanded. She’ll know that’s wrong, and I know she will because I’m going to teach her that. I’m not gonna be dismissive because a lot of autistic kids do get babied and I’ve noticed that. And I don’t feel like it’s a reason to baby somebody because they just need to learn differently. They’re not as disadvantaged as people play it off as,just because the way they need to be taught is different. In fact, a lot of autistic kids are very very good at whatever they decide to hyper focus on, you just you gotta as a parent be present so what they get exposed to hyper focus on is positive and constructive.
I'm autistic and the 3rd story is just mindblowing to me.... if he had done the same thing to every girl in his life then I could understand that he didn't understand the consequences or the effects, but still, someone should've done something. She was obviously targeted and he clearly knew what he was doing. I would've punched him more than once lol
Instead of teaching troy to behave himself, they did nothing and let him become an entitled monster. The people that let it happen ruined both of these kids.
I had a classmate who was my siblings brother who had autism. He would harass me, grab me and just make me uncomfortable. So one day I snapped and told him to leave me the f alone in the middle of study hall. Everyone got pissed at me but they all made fun of him behind his back. He went online calling me a b**** and just harassing me even more. It got to the point that my friend told their parents and he got in trouble. Right after he did the same things again. As an adult I got diagnosed with autism. It explains why I always hated people touching me.
Yeah, autism isn't an excuse. I'm autistic, and it's fairly severe. I learned about consequences and autonomy. My autism isn't someone else's problem, and enabling my bad behavior would've been so bad for me. (Granted I never groped people, but I did have huge anger management problems and issues with communication.) Even when I didn't understand why, knowing that there's things that are considered wrong really helped me. People who harass others deserve consequences. Good on you for standing up to that jerk.
No one should touch you without permission, and not wanting that to happen isn't the autism. Not wanting people in general touching you is the autism as you said.
Story 3 : OP should make an open letter to every single media of the country to list every single names of the people who would threaten her, every single teachers who allowed her to be groped, every single friends who encouraged him to grope her.
Story 3: as an autistic person, there are 2 things that make me upset when I hear stories about people with autism. One of them being this exact problem. Not all autistic people are the same. They can live productive and normal lives. I myself have had people be a little shocked when they find out im autistic. He KNEW better and was using his autism as an excuse. I have NEVER EVER used mine as an excuse. My mom taught me that and I'm grateful. I absolutely despise parents that baby their child bc they have autism. You're just causing more problems to appear down the line by babying them. That being said, some autistic people do have problems picking up social cues, BUT, they can still learn what to look out for in people's body language that says they're uncomfortable. Also, shame on the teachers at that school!!!!!!!
Yeah, I was groped for years as kid too. It messes you up, because you're not your own person anymore, nowhere feels safe, and you want to die. Teachers ignored me when I asked for help, and even my own mother said I was provoking him. The only solution in my case was shutting down completely until I could move away at 16.
People claim that rape culture doesnt exist and then shit like the second story happens and its disgusting. Im autistic and its no excuse for secual assualt. The people that let him repeatedly assualt her are just as guilty as he is
That last story made me cry inside. Both out of happiness for them, and sadness for me. I'll never be able to experience what OP has been through; I'm nearly double his age, and I've never had a friend or partner like that, regardless of gender. I genuinely wish them the best.
The 3rd story is absolutely disgusting!!! Just because someone is Autistic does NOT give them a pass to sexually assault anyone!!! Based on Troy's messages to OP he knew exactly what he was doing.
Story 4: The fourth story is so beautiful. He adopted his friend’s daughter and became her daddy. Then he and the friend fell in love and now they’re a family. I’m in tears right now.
Story 3: Why is it every time a girl stands up to a creep, atypical or not, SHE is labeled as the bad guy? I was harassed by multiple boys in school, and because my parents thankfully taught me that thus kind of behavior isn't love and that NO ONE is entitled to my affection, I of course said no. When being polite didn't work, I got more stern with my rejections (I WISH I'd hit them like OP had). My teachers and parents took me seriously, but my "friends" kept calling me "too harsh." Nvm I'm asexual, though didn't know it at the time, the fact that I apparently wasn't allowed to say no to an obviously mean guy baffled me. I'm glad OP's grandparents got her out of there. Parents, teach your children the meaning of consent.
Story 3: "...He doesn't know any better..." Probably, but it's your responsibility as parents and educators to help him with that! As someone on the spectrum, this behavior is reprehensible, but some serious scrutiny needs to brought to his parents and teachers that allowed this behavior to continue unchecked EDIT: okay, so I started writing after hearing the quote, and didn't resume until after. HOLY SHIT, it was even worse than I thought. He's one of those clowns that's just competent enough to use his disability as a shield that give the rest of us a bad rep.
Story 3: I have Autism (aspergers). When I was 10 I did grope an older girl. My parents immediately told me off, and forced me to apoligize. I learned about boundaries that day. The girl and I are still friends today, and I ofc never did it again. This boy has obviously never been taught about strict boundaries, and has no accountability.
Understanding social situations may not come easily to me, but that doesn't mean I can't learn, just requires more effort or to figure out work arounds for my struggles.
Story 3 is absolutely in line with backstories of how schools get sh*t up. Glad that OP was mentally and emotionally strong enough to not consider that option. She got the patience of a freaking Saint.
Story 3; When i was in middle school there was a boy with autism who would blow up and become violent because his parents wouldn't get him proper care. Instead of helping him, they would depend on another little girl who "was his girlfriend" to calm him down. She would be pulled out of other classes and have to play therapist. I'm 23 now, and that boy contacted me recently to tell me he was always in love with me. I said I appreciate the compliment but im in a relationship. He then would tell me to kms and that im a slut and no one loves me. So...
The only reason the parents want OP to drop the suit is because they know the "he's autistic" excuse won't stick in court. Any psychologist worth their salt, especially a child psychologist, will tell you that's BS. They obviously coddled him because of his condition, and that made him feel invincible. And although OP said that she was singled out, I'm willing to bet she's not the only one. Given how she described his behavior, he's definitely done it to other girls as well. They just haven't spoken out because he's "the popular kid" and "autistic." Here's hoping that his other victims will come forward when the court date comes and bring his true colors to light.
Second story: I wonder if OP's earlier failures at weight loss, etc., were due to her husband's sabotaging her. He sounds like the kind of guy who drives other people down rather than building himself up.
@@rohesilmnelohethat's exactly what I'm thinking after she gets the surgery he's worried that she'll find out how much better she deserves so he's trying to keep her self-esteem low
story 3 - not only does autism not give anyone a pass to do something like that, IT ALSO DOESNT MAKE SOMEONE A BAD PERSON. OR make them unable to tell right from wrong. Troy just IS a bad person, and clearly doesnt care that what hes doing is wrong. The only way autism factors in is how OTHER people are treating him - and OP. I hope OP is doing well and getting the help she needs & deserves.
Story 3: something similar happened to me, a kid in the same class as me who had autism threw a bottle at my friends head and she called him an asshole, he reported us saying we, “bullied” him, we BOTH have autism, and she was excluded. No idea how we could’ve bullied him for having autism if we also had autism.
If I was that girl's Father and she came home to me claiming she'd been groped by a boy and nobody did anything. I'd make sure every single one of those teachers and administrators in that school didn't have a job within a week
Story 3: OMG! NO!!!! I have been teaching for 17 years. I would have stopped that immediately. NEVER would have allow this. I am so sorry, sweetheart. Way to have boundaries and I am so happy you got to move schools.
Story 3: can relate to this in a way as there was a kid in my high school with autism and he would constantly pleasure himself during class. I remember reporting it but it was ignored. He did actually fetishized a girls feet too a classmate and she was distraught….People have to learn that doing stuff like this is horrible. People need to actually teach kids not to do such disgusting things.
I have been in a teaching position with kids on the spectrum, and the idea that they don't know what they are doing is very ableist. They might have a harder to time to read ques from other people, but they can still learn and understand right from wrong. Unfortunately a lot of people, especially parents, tend to cuddle their kids if they are on the spectrum. Treating them as infants when they are way past that age.
@@dudeorduuude5211it doesnt even explain it. Autism makes it hard to read UNSPOKEN cues, as soon as theyre told to stop and that the thing theyre doing is bad it leaves the realm of "autism" and goes into the realm of "shitty, gross person"
It seems so crazy to me that so many reddit stories involve immense medical bills. Living in a country where most things except eyes and teeth are covered by the provincial health insurance that I don't even notice because it's mixed on with the rest of our taxes, I can't imagine why anyone other than the very rich would want to pay for private insurance.
1st Story: That is an example of "Fuck around and find out." That kid is old enough to know not to do what he did. But instead he chose to fuck around and then he found out. 2nd Story: Yeah not the outcome any of us was hoping for because what Op's husband said to her, that's a deep cut right there. I do hope things work out for her but if it doesn't then at least you tried to fix things op. 3rd Story: If Chris Chan can teach us anything that's just because you have autism doesn't not make it ok to get away with committing crimes. Not only do I hope Troy and his family and the school district get sued into the ground but I hope op can have something done about her harassers too. Last Story: Op you hold onto them and never let go. You've become the man who stepped up and it's great that they give you that feeling of wanting to be the best.
Congratulations OP on the bariatric surgery and the positive steps to a new you! One word of advice: please consider therapy as well. Usually the two are keys to success. A good friend had it and it helped her immensely- she looked amazing. But she never got therapy about her relationship with food. And during the pandemic she gained it back plus more (I think because she never addressed using food to self medicate). Just take care - it’s not a magic bullet and still requires some work. Best of luck!
Story 4: This story reminded me of my grandpa. He died a couple of years ago, and recently my grandma revealed a long held family secret. My grandpa was not my mom's biological dad. Apparently grandma and grandpa dated for a while, then broke up. A while later my grandma dated someone else, and after a while she got pregnant. Upon learning about this that other guy took off and refused to talk to my grandma. She gave birth to my mom and raised her alone for a while until a mutual friend of my grandma and grandpa schemed and basically tricked them in to going on a date again. So they got back together. Apparently grandpa loved my mom from the day he met her. And when she started talking and called him "dad" he also cried from happiness. He adopted her and raised her as his own daughter. She was a total daddy's girl her entire life. And funnily enough, people always said she looked a lot like him. Turns out that was because her biological dad looked a lot like grandpa. I guess grandma had a type. Mom never found out about her biological dad until the rest of us did. I don't really care about that other guy though. He was not my grandpa. He's not the one who watched cartoons with me as a kid. Who fixed my bike when it was broken. He's not the one who taught me how to order a beer and curse in several languages when I was like 8 years old. Or the man who introduced me to whiskey (and left me his whiskey glasses after his death). No. That was my grandpa. And learning that this was something he chose for himself just makes me appreciate that man way more.
the third story is horrifying. autism does NOT excuse this behavior at all. I have autistic friends and they understand that this is wrong. I hope that girl is safe and never is allowed to be around him. he is a disgusting person. the fact he would say stuff like that about another person just shows what kind of man he will grow up to be. and the coddling will make it worse.
The last story really resonated with me as me and my fiances relationship started similarly. We met at the beginning of 2020 and started as friends, then 2 1/2 years later we started dating. 1 year later we are now engaged and I'm so happy to be with him😊❤
I was soooo waiting for a commentary from rslash about the last story... I mean that was just one of the purest things I've listened to in your channel! Expounding on that post was definitely a wasted opportunity! But on the other hand, just taking in OPs pure joy while writing all of that makes me just feel hope for humanity. I mean that was just a very sweet happy ending!
I have ASD, and I have to call BS for people saying that Troy doesn't know better when it comes to harrassment. He knows what he's doing and he doesn't care. He should be pulled from the school and put into a special school for trouble children. And the school should be sued for allowing that behavior to go on for years without doing anything about it except punishing the victim.
3rd story: I'm autistic and since I was 6 I help in y father's farm. I was never babeid and that's why I turned out fine. the teacher justify bad behavior with autism which the court system several times found autistics people guilty and the judge did not take autism as an excuse
My brother told me he wish I didn't survive my suicide attempt 7 years ago and our relationship has never been repaired. He's tried but I can't get over his words. He was the only family member I was close with but in a petty fight he said that.
Story 3, just because he is autistic, does not mean he or anyone is allowed to grope. And the fact they allowed that behavior is beyond disgusting
If I were there I’d punch this kid in the face as well and then use MY autism as an excuse for punching him.
He gropes her because his parents never taught him better
I'm autistic and even I know not to grope people. It's a disgusting excuse honestly.
I’m autistic. Just because you’re autistic doesn’t give you the right to touch who you want.
Exactly! I always go by the rule of "it might be an explanation, but it is no excuse" whenever someone tries to justify any form of harassment, bullying or other bad behavior by claiming it is because of trauma or disability. I personally have a disability similar to autism and I know perfectly well how to behave toward other people. I've known a severely mentally handicapped old man who was practically like a non-verbal, oversized toddler, and HE didn't ever mistreat anyone or do anything worse than try to get their attention by tugging at a sleeve.
Story 3: I have autism... It is not an excuse for this disgusting behavior
So do I. It's sad that people constantly baby autistic children instead of teaching them
Ditto.
Same
More so, he’s clearly a sexual predator who needs to be dealt with. Autism is not a defense.
Exactly it's like his useing the autism as an excuse
Troy knows what he’s doing. None of this behavior is synonymous with autism. He’s using it as a crutch to avoid consequences.
Exactly my thought too, he's using his disability as an excuse to be horrible
And unfortunately learning that when he does so, there are a ton of adults who will then just allow him to keep acting like this and reinforcing the behaviour
Yes. Either that text of his was written by a family member or he's higher functioning than he's led people to believe.
@@curtistic5724oh most definitely
Those so called "people" are disgrace to humanity
Story 3: This is heart breaking. So many adults should've stepped in and TAUGHT him better instead of expecting Op to just...become a doll for his pleasure. The fact that everyone genuinely believe that Op was wrong for finally snapping is utterly insane. I'm glad that her family fought hard for her.
On a positive note, the pay out for the lawsuit is going to be insane. Like OP set for life insane. There's probably going to be a huge round of firings/ tenure denied/ quick quitting. Letting a MINOR get sexually assaulted for YEARS and not only covering it up but encouraging it? Yeah. The adults will be extremely lucky to just get away with firing and not be put on a list.
It's so sad that in the end she is even considering that it was her fault for not telling her parents. I blame the teachers for that - she went to a grownup for help and basically was just told to suck it up.
Story 3: I’m autistic, my children are autistic. I nor my children have ever crossed a boundary like this. He’s not doing this because he’s autistic, he’s doing it because literally everyone around both her and him have failed to put boundaries in place to protect her. This is unacceptable and I’m proud of the girl for standing up for herself.
I agree! I have autism too, but it is NO EXCUSE to do such disgusting behavior like this! Troy knows what he’s doing 😡
@@tawnyacosta9091 If his mom, his friends and teachers, keep enabling him. They’ll soon be visiting Troy in jail because he either r***ed, or sexually harassed/assaulted a woman. Good on OP for standing up for herself.
It’s also basically saying autistic children are stupid
The worst part of the groping story is the amount of adults that had the authority to put thier foot down and end it but instead, allowed a 12year old girl to be repeatedly molested under the guise of "he doesn't know any better🤷♂️". Fucking despicable
"he doesn't know any better" is a stupid excuse, there is something in life that is call teaching, that people is lazy and neglectful
is their job to teach that kid that not everything is about him , that people have boundaries and he needs to respect them
like, if he doesn't know any better you teach him to be better. if he can't control himself, you isolate him because he is a danger. there is no fucking excuse to allow that shit to happen and i hope everyone who let this happen have their lives ruined because of this.
Agreed. Its the kind of situation that made me wish I had been there bc I always stood up for kids when they were bullied. I stood up for a girl who was being groped by a boy and told him I'd break his hand if he touched her against her will again. I also told her to let me know if he touched her again bc I would absolutely beat the crap out of him.
He DAMN WELL knows better, because he only did it to OP, not anyone else!
Its even worse. They dindnt just turn away and excused it. They fing encouraged it and said to her she should let it happen and do the right thing for him.
I'm autistic, we are fully capable of learning right from wrong. Maybe, MAYBE you can argue that he didn't understand the first time until he was told no but thats it. He is very aware of what he was doing and feels entitled to op's body. Thank goodness she kept those receipts because they show clear as day just how lucid and capable of understanding he is.
I have this hunch this story takes place in India and sadly, people there can be outright primitive. Like a dude did something and the elders decided HIS punishment is his little sister getting raped.
Me too, and I couldn’t agree more
Me three, that guy is disgusting
My oldest is autistic and he's never done anything like that
I was spoiled when I was a kid I have autism and ADHD and I was mentally abused I still know right from wrong then never changed
The story about the girl being gropped is disgusting. Autism isnt an excuse to sexually assault someone consistantly
Unfortunately a lot of schools and families enable this behavior ‘because they don’t know better’ but they do.
yes it is
@@asdfdsf-s4u Hey, autistic person here. No it freaking isn't. If someone has severe enough autism that they genuinely don't understand, which is extremely rare, they shouldn't be in public or private school. The cases where there is an argument that they don't know better are also the ones where they cannot function in society, and should be cared for with special accommodations, not forced on an ill-equipped School and allowed to do whatever they want. Also, based on their actions, they knew better. They only did what they did because everyone enabled them.
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That's a strange way to announce to everyone that you are a sexual predator.
@@breestringham1063 boys will be boys~
Story 3: As someone that's on the autism spectrum, that is not an excuse to get away with something that gross and the fact the school let this happen and did nothing about it makes my blood boil.
He should be on a sex offenders register - along with those who enabled him to continue sexually assaulting a minor. They are complicit in the crimes.
@wessexdruid7598 I wouldn't go so far as to put him on the registry for life but a sever punishment legally should have happened already.
@@Denozo88 A sever punishment? Which bit would you chop off? 😀
@wessexdruid7598 ha ha funny. Grammer especially when trying to type on my phone ain't exactly my strong suit.
The guy in the last story saying “Having a family that depends on me makes me wanna be the best man I can be” is the energy we need in the world. His daughter is gonna grow up to be a great person.
Feels like a lot of people just have a family because its “normal” and not because they love and care for the people in it.
The fact that the autistic guy doesn't do things to other people shows that he knows it's wrong. Autism isn't an excuse to be awful. It may explain why he does things wrong but doesn't excuse it. It's disgusting that people were letting him get away with that crap.
I really don’t get why people think we can’t understand right from wrong. I’m also autistic and I feel guilty if I so much as accidentally step on an ant.
I agree! I have autism, too, but I was told right/wrong, snd how to treat people. What this guy is doing is just disgusting, snd HE KNOWS IT! His parents, the teachers, and everyone who defended him are just as bad, if not worse!
He’s probably not autistic they just say that because of his behavior
@@hamishstewart5324 right! Like I know a couple of autistic people and they love hugging. I am not the biggest fan of hugs so I told them that and neither of them hugs me unless I say I would like a hug. One of them hugs people when they're excited but with me they hug themselves and say "air hug!"
Personally I think the kid might be faking in order to get away SA and r**e. Wouldn’t be surprised if he did that to other women and used that excuse. Now for that people with autism, it may be harder to take seriously because of people like that guy.
For story 3, let's call it what it is, Sexual Assault. The truth is it doesn't matter if he is autistic. He victimized her for 4 years and the school did nothing. OP should sue the school as well. He's lucky he only got a broken nose.
For the last story, this was a super wholesome story to end on. I hope OP and his family continue to do well and are happy. They deserve it.
This predator will end up in prison, or maybe shot by his intended victim. Either fate will be well earned.
@lancerevell5979 its very unlikely that the predator will ever end up in prison, they rarely ever do.
The school let a boy sexually harass a girl for four years, and forced her to be his "friend" and "caretaker" the whole time just to placate *him* and keep the sexual harasser happy. That's sick. That multiple adults in a position of care over OP blamed it on the boy's autism just so they didn't have to do anything about the situation is, frankly, criminal. Given that he's also gone ahead and sent *rape threats* to her, the lawsuit should be in the bag for OP. I hope she gets paid out a LOT of compensation for putting up with the mental torture of constant sexual harassment from that boy and betrayal of trust from her teachers for four years. She deserves every penny.
@@rachelfox8108 the fact that everyone wants OP and her parents to drop the lawsuit is like the biggest sign that they are going to win. if you are winning a race you don't beg your opponent to drop out, you gloat.
@@rachelfox8108hopefully OP uses all that shit as evidence because funnily enough their harrassment just serves as a pile of unlimited evidence
The autism story: Having autism is NO EXCUSE for such DISGUSTING behavior! I have autism, and I’ve been told from right/wrong. Nobody deserves that kind of treatment. Someone like him, whether you have autism or not, is such a creep, and a predator!
Like...do those people not understand that there is a difference between being autistic and being a psychopath?!? 😢
@@davidharshman7645 I think he knows, and everybody defending him all know, they just don’t care 😤 And that is so annoying to me! The parents, the “ teachers “, and every person who defended this awful and disgusting behavior are just as bad, if not worse!
If someone has a mental disorder that makes them a serious danger for other people, it is an exuses as in that the shouldn't go to prison, they should however be locked up in a mental instution untill they are no longer a treat.
Ofcourse the fast majority of athuisitc people (or mentally divergent/ill people in general) are not a danger to other people.
The horrifying thing is that if he's acting like that with no consequences at 16 then I'm pretty sure he'll be a rapist or at least something close to it by the time he's an adult.
@@NaliTikva I'm pretty sure that he isn't acting like that because of autism but because he's been babied and his wrongful actions have been excused by his autism by the adults in his life the whole time so now he thinks he can do whatever he wants.
I am a teacher… I am mortified that people who call themselves teachers totally allowed this girl to be sexually harassed for 4 years! Very glad her family is standing behind her.
It’s extremely common for some teachers to pass on the ‘caretaking’ to another student.
@@kaykay8855 - It shouldn’t be. 😕 Sure my students often helped each other out. They took care of each other, but not in place of my care.
I'm glad teachers like you exist, thank you!
I've been sexually harrassed by my deskmate from 5th grade to 8th, nobody did anything to stop it, it's good to see good teachers actually exist, it's like a breath of fresh air.
@@strawberry_shortcake8077 - Oh, my, God, I am so sorry that happened to you! Grades 5-8… does that mean 4 different teachers allowed you to be sexually harassed in their classrooms and did nothing? Or were you stuck with the same terrible teacher for four long years? Oh my God you did not deserve that. I’m so so sorry. It makes me embarrassed for my profession. I mean I know there’s bad teachers, I’ve worked with a couple, I had some children I needed to love and support extra hard to repair the damage that had been done before they came to me. But I can’t imagine the hell that you must’ve gone through for four years. I’m sorry. My closest, friends, are/were teachers, and I can promise you if you were in any one of our classes, we would’ve stood up for you, and we would’ve stopped it. As many bad ones that are out there there are some good ones too. I hope you’ve had a couple of those over your education as well. But again, I’m really sorry you were let down so significantly by your teachers.
Story 2 - my mom told me about these type of guys. They marry fat women and then get upset when she tries to lose weight. It's a mental abuse thing. They make her think that he is the only guy she can get. When she starts to lose weight, she gets more confidence and she might see what a bastard he really is and leave him.
As a person with autism that 3rd story made my blood boil- no one deserves to go through what OP had to. Everyone else in that story that just ignored it and told OP to suck it up are just as disgusting
I agree. I have autism, but I knew better. What this guy is doing is disgusting, and he KNOWS IT! The people defending him knows it, but choose to enable such disgusting! Autism is NOT an EXCUSE to do things like these to ANYBODY!
I’m with you and I am super glad Opie’s family is suing. They should also get a cease-and-desist order as well as a restraining order.
I agree entirely. I have friends with autism. You would never think they had autism because they don't try to take advantage of it. I always felt sorry for the customers back when this one kid worked at my store because the managers just let him do whatever he wanted because he had a disability. I'm not even sure what it was but he scream at customers that he was busy just out of nowhere and the manager's just let it happen You can't just let people get away with stuff just because they have a disability
its worse than that though, because she was actively encouraged to flash him, be his buddy, and take care of him, and bullied when she wouldn't.
Same, I am high functioning autistic and it delayed my communications skills, but I still had enough of a moral compass to know that doing something like that was wrong. If any school acted like this with any kids I have I'd have a lawyer making their lives hell.
bro the groping story made me feel so sick. How in the world could teachers just... let that happen to a literal CHILD for 4 whole years!? They just enabled Troy and let him believe that he can just do that to women. And it'll end up much worse for him down the line. Disgusting behaviour. I feel so sorry for OP in that story.
It happens more than you think, happened where I was too. He had autism and he would pleasure himself during class and fetishized a classmate’s feet. I reported it, it was ignored. People need to teach others, not just people with autism but in general, that doing this stuff is wrong
There's a prison sentence and registering as a sex offender for the rest of his life in Troy's future 🤷🏼♀️ too bad these people don't want to protect women and girls from this predator.
Honestly, it's pretty believable. I went to school with this one autistic girl who definitely took advantage of this fact. She'd get away with all sorts of things just because she had autism and the staff were the main defenders of her behavior. My best friend was also fairly protective over her till I got her to realize how manipulative this girl was.
These people honestly all deserve prison. And Troy needs to go to some corrective facility and learn how to behave or prison will be in his future, too
@@zombilady8633honestly, sounds like a busted nose was the lowest on the totem pole of what the little bastard deserves to have happen to him
That last story was so god-damned wholesome. It's people like OP that really restore my faith in humanity.
I scrolled down for this!.. that last story made me emotional..cheers to that MAN for stepping up and being a DAD.
That story made me do a weird happy giggle because of how cute it was
I’m at work and I started crying listening to the last one. You’re right it’s so freaking wholesome and so beautiful. 😭♥️
Man, I teared up so god damn hard to this story
Even through all of the awful stories of manipulators and liars, of cheaters and monsters... I live for stories like the last one. I hope OP and his family have an amazing life.
Third story made me so mad. My husband has autism and there is absolutely no one in the universe who treats women better than him. He worships the ground I walk on! Ironically, he is a manager for a big company and all the women come to him if someone would say anything inappropriate to them because he is such a good listener...
Amen
You sound like you picked an amazing husband!
The gastric bypass story hit a cord with me, as a bariatric patient myself (BPDS). Thankfully, my then-bf was incredibly sweet and helpful and supportive; but the support groups I'm in are full of stories like this. Keep going, girl, it's worth it... and he is not.
I think - arm chair psychology - in cases like these the other person is scared to lose the other. If you change so much about yourself, what if you get rid of me as well?
@@bladerunner3314which is an understandable insecurity but that comment about hoping that they don't wake up from the surgery absolutely crossed every single line and then some. It is an unforgivable statement and I don't care if it's in the heat of the moment that's not something you should ever think about let alone say out loud to anyone.
@@101falcon And I never claimed it was.
@@bladerunner3314 yes I was just adding onto your comment.
@@101falcon Ah ok ...
Story 3. Ugh! I'm autistic, and lemme just say I'm infuriated by people who baby those with autism and use it to excuse their behavior. His behavior was inappropriate, full stop. Was his autism likely preventing him from fully realizing that? Absolutely. But that's all the more reason to NOT excuse it. Tell him! Teach him what IS appropriate! We're slow to learn social norms/cues/behavior but we CAN learn!
Anyway, good on OP for defending herself. The people defending the autistic kid are doing him no favors. Autistic people can be assholes and terrible people, just like anyone else. And I'm glad OP understands that Troy is just an asshole that happens to be autistic and has been one of the only people to hold him accountable.
Exactly! When his "friend" is telling him for 4 years that this is making her sad and uncomfortable I'm sure he would know by then. My nephew has severe autism and even he understands when what he is doing makes people uncomfortable and will stop.
the thing that ticks me off the most is that people use autism as an excuse for literally anything. be in a play park and the kid is literally defecating or vomiting all over the place? "oh he got autism, he doesnt know any better"
kid is literally causing harm to other kids? "oh i cant do anything about it, he got autism, he doesnt know how to behave". DUDE, PARENT, GET YOUR BUTT OFF OF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND DISCIPLINE AND TEACH YOUR CHILD. AUTISM DOESNT MEAN "FREE PASS TO PULL BS". especially worse if those "autistic" children dont actually even have autism and the parents just use it as an excuse (which to some degree i suspect with troy as he's behaving respectfully and normal around everyone but op)
The other possibility (which I personally believe in, especially since OP said he acts normal/appropriate with his friends and from his threats) is that he KNOWS it's wrong but since everything bad he has done has been excused by his autism by the adults in his life for the full 16 years he just does whatever he wants because there are no consequences anyway.
I'm autistic too and I've run into some crappy autistic people online as well that turn nasty when youi don't give them what they want. *coughcough* WillyWonka'sdaughter on DeviantART *coughcough*
Ever since I was diagnosed I was told my autism isn't a valid excuse for shitty behaviour for good fucking reason
As someone on the Autistic Spectrum, story 3 got me raging.
OP3 punched a pervert pos who just so happened to be autistic. And honestly? I'm so proud of her. Way to stand up for yourself! Great job breaking that creep's nose lmaoooo. Really glad OP's family is helping and protecting her like this. Its so refreshing.
As for troy, that little monster is gonna end up in prison and on a predator list.
Also, rSlash following the 3rd story with such a sweet 4th one is much appreciated.
Honestly yeah good thing for the family to protect op there
He should be on a sex offenders register. Now. Along with those who enabled him.
This story made me so mad. When I was a teenager, I was groped by a store worker with some type of learning disability (it has been decades, I don't remember what exactly), while waiting at the car for my mom. As soon as my mother came walking out, he backed up, said "don't tell" and ran off. You can't tell me he didn't know he was doing something wrong. Nothing was done about the guy because "he didn't understand", but I never went back near that store again.
@@stephaniemorrigan3039 "don't tell" and running away makes it blatantly obvious he knew what he was doing is wrong. I'm so sorry you hadta go through that.
WHAT if he isn't autistic but has realized it's convinient scape goat for his behaviour? Most people think of disfunctional persons, when it comes to autism not realizing, it has many faces.
I'm autistic as well and I've always hated the "oh he is just autistic" excuse. I feel so bad for OP she got punished for being a victim of one of the worst things you can do to someone, I hope she takes that jerk the school and the teachers for all their worth they deserve it.
Same, I'm a high-funtion autistic person and stories like these pisses me off because not only these people are excuses his behavior, they think like it's a free pass to do whatever they want just because they're special and whatever. One of these days, people like him will either be in jail or dead if they keep it up, even if they are a kid.
If it had been an autistic girl groping a boy, they would've shut that down immediately. They used his autism to enable him and justify their misogyny. He "didn't know any better" (yes, he did, but anyway) because they refused to openly correct him
Agreed, i have minor autism and it makes my blood boil when people use that as an excuse for their disgusting actions.
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Especially considering the a threatening-messages, it really makes one think if this was all hoax or otherwise fraud just have the "handwave-card" available for his actions;
wouldn't be the first time and evidently certainly not the last time.
Point of mine being that even though (Family Guy) "Ellens" do exist, generally speaking majority of "defective units" try not cause trouble to others unless they're actually taught to be entitled to do so
( which is only worse in case individuals who are accompanied by interpreters being thrown into the cross-fires ).
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@@PaveMentman I don't know who Ellens is but did you really just refer to people with autism as defective units? That is incredibly rude. We're not a thing and we're not defective we're just different, some of the most influential people in history were autistic like Albert Einstein.
Story 3 OP needs to get a lawyer. It’s not just the groping. There’s a bigger picture here. The teachers who were supposed to TEACH Troy and who were supposed to guide and protect these students failed them both HORRIBLY, especially OP. They threw her in the lion’s den, they sacrificed her rights, her mental health, her autonomy, so they wouldn’t have to deal with Troy. They did the lazy, easy thing. Disgusting. Vile. Unforgivable. Inexcusable.
Edit: Troy is digging his own grave. I hope OP is keeping all of those messages and threats and sending them to her lawyer.
Story 2: What an aweful "husband"! Why would you even want to stay with such a toxic person? Run for the hills girl, and don't look back!
That final story literally made me tear up. The way he talks about his little family is just... ugh! My heart is a puddle! And the best part is that _both_ of them know what it's like to not have a good family of origin, so they have major incentive to work through any problems that may arise because they know what it means to break up the family.
Great friend, to great man, to great dad. Big congratulations to all of them.
I cried a little too.
@@TheKitsuneOnihaneto soon to be great husband as well! ❤
I know I had the dopiest grin on my face listening to it. So wholesome. 😊
Wow the feels i love stories like this
I'm glad the last story was wholesome, because that was a lot of awful people.
It was so cute. Omg, I hope they have the best life!
That was one of the sweetest stories I have ever heard. It actually made me cry. I love the wholesome stories.
That was a brilliant one! Wishing them all the best
I'd love to hear an update on that story for sure.
@@tiffanygrayI KNOW RIGHT? I’m just sitting here just wanting to actually scream in joy for them. It’s TOO ADORABLE
Troy should be arrested for those (I'm pretty sure sexual) threats. Gross.
Story #3: So glad OP got out of that situation with Mr. Rapey. It's appalling, yet totally believable, that the school just ignored it. Troy's gonna end up dead or in prison because he's bound to encounter someone who responds to that behavior on the nuclear level and all of those enablers will cry and wring their hands about the tragedy of it all.
OP needs to keep all those harassing messages, especially from Troy. They won't make him look good in court.
In the second story OP really needs to have a think over if her husband is the person she still trusts to make medical decisions for her if she's not up to it.
Story 3: No matter if someone is autistic or not, groping or sexually harassing someone is not to be tolerated. The people allowing for it to happen because he's "just the way he is". Kudos to the grandma for lashing out and the school board and teachers for being disgusting human beings. The people who sent death threats to OP doubled down and described what Troy would do to OP? Disgusting people at its finest. These people essentially think its okay for OP to be sexually harassed. Sue them for every cent, NOW.
Also, with the way its being painted, and the fact he even sent texts to OP, I'm concerned it was going to past that and into deadly territory
When she said it hurt I unfortunately understood....the poor thing...
I was r4p3d by a woman as a child with autism and someone told me it’s how she shows love 💀
If I was the kids father I’d probably be in jail. Because I can’t beat up Troy….but his dad is fair fucking game.
First Story: The kid brought this on himself honestly. The kid was escalating the situation and was putting his hands in OP and OP defended himself accordingly
Second Story: Screw waiting before the surgery, OP needs to divorce this man now. This surgery is suppose to help OP's weight and overall health and this man wants OP to remain the same? OP needs to find a better man to be her husband because this man ain’t it, wishing death on someone u "love" is an instant deal breaker
Third Story: I didn’t finish it yet but I have to say, being autistic doesn’t give a person free reign to sexually assault someone. OP's teachers failed OP, everyone here has failed OP. Yo this story is pissing me off more and more. OP? "Bullying an autistic kid"?! Yo I hope OP's parents sue everyone here because the fact OP is getting punished for defending herself from a serial sex offender is insane. That update! Like what OP's grandparents said, all of these teachers, school boards, and people involved in letting this happen are absolute monsters and a failure to protect OP from this. Troy is a literal psyhcopath, try defending all the disgusting things this kid is saying to OP with "iTs JuSt AuTiSm". Yo this story pissed me off on so many levels. OP's parents are to blame too for taking this long to DO SOMETHING. 4 years, 4 YEARS OP endured and now something is being done about it?! OP is far from the blame for all of this and I hope everyone in the comment of her story assured her of that fact
Fourth Story: Wow this is insanely wholesome. I hope OP see this as a sign to stay with Lily and Kelsey and be a happy family together
A serious case of F*ck Around and Find Out
Not even a kid. He made grown ass dumb ass decision
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Also, that 3rd story, it makes me sick. He knew what he was doing. Proven by his repulsive texts to her after she moved. I'm so so disgusted. I wanna throw hands with the dude
@@lillylovegood2300I more of wanna punch the teachers that enabled him 1000 times each..
The husband in the second story wants to keep his wife down, it's obvious and disgusting. He's afraid that as soon as she improves herself, loses weight and gains confidence, she'll realize what a loser he is and that she could do so much better. He puts her down so she won't leave him, instead of working on himself. Pathetic. OP, leave his ass. You deserve better.
I was thinking the same. I hope OP realizes it sooner rather than later. He’s just trying to keep her under his thumb. He’s lashing out like this because he sees her gaining the independence and self-worth she needs to leave him. He’s a sad pathetic sack of shit. She doesn’t need marriage counseling, she needs therapy to understand how bad her relationship *was* and to be able to set realistic expectations for healthy relationships going forward when she finds someone worthy of her.
@@kranberry3318but what if the guy really did wanna change, shouldnt we give him a chance
Exactly what I was thinking. OP even mentions that he lives off her money.
The fourth story is amazing! Went from a great friend, to a great man, to a great dad, to a soon to be great husband!
He stepped up to help his best friend, adopted her daughter, and then fell deeper in love with each other. I say deeper because let’s be real, they were always in love but were too scared to pursue it. I’m so happy for them!
Story 4: this made me heart skip a beat, it gave diabetes and I died from how adorable their relationship is. I feel like the kids are gonna grow up and be nurses with how kind Lily and OP are 😭😭😭🥺🥺🩷🩷🩷🩷
Story 3: As someone with autism, I can wholeheartedly say what Troy did is absolutely NO BUENO! And using his autism as an excuse is to me much, much worse! If I was anywhere near Troy when he groped OP, she wouldn't have to punch him, because I would do it!
What I'm staying his useing it has an excuse and I know better
Story 3: I am autistic myself, and when I was around 12, I admit I wasn't the best with social interactions. I was weird. I showed off my belly. But that was because I went under the belief of any attention is better than none, as I was ostracised. But even then, I knew never to touch someone else. Just because they have autism, it doesn't exempt them from sexual harassment and sexual assault. OP. Hopefully you can get past the trauma one day, and live a life free from Troy!
The husband doesn’t want his partner to improve herself and gain self confidence. Because that would mean she would finally realize that he is a complete loser and she deserves so much better
Story 3,
I had the exact same experience with a low functioning autistic kid when I was around 9-10 years old. He kept on trying and trying to grope me and no one did anything - He tried to do it class, outside, in the gym, at lunch, at my own home, at his house... Anywhere! One day when we were outside at break he came up behind me and pulled my dress up to slap my ass. I was completely taken aback and began screaming and shouting at him to leave me alone already. Some kids from my class saw that I made him cry and have a panic attack because I shouted at him and then everyone turned on me, even the teacher!
Whenever I tried to tell someone about it, even his mum, nobody did anything because "Boys will be boys" or "He has a crush on you!" or "He's autistic. He doesn't know any better." so I just gave up. It was a big mistake to do that.
My mum would sometimes make me hang out at his place because we were both the same nationality and she and his mum thought it would be a great idea to leave us alone so we could 'bond'. The 'bonding' turned into him almost raping me at his own house. I still remember how he tried to pull my tights off me so he could get to me but I was fast enough and I ran downstairs to his mum in the kitchen. Even after I told my parents what he did, even after I told the teacher what he did, even after I tried telling *anyone* what he did they blamed me because I never let him have a chance with him! I was 11 and so close to being raped and no one did a thing about it because he was autistic.
OP did nothing wrong at all in the story. OP did what I should've done when I was 11 though I am still thankful that I managed to get out without being assaulted.
"Boys will be boys" is ment for sht like fighting eachother with random sticks they found, or getting in a big wheel, and rolling down a hill, or, you know, goofy sht like that. Not groping. "He has a crush on you" young boys have a habit of being little brats to their first crush, but that is WAY beyond being a brat, and teasing. "He's autistic" is dumb as fuck, because autistic people know right from wrong, if they've been taught that. Instead, you have adults enabling their behavior, which is what makes these people so awful.
So i'm really sorry you, and the girl from story 3 had to deal with that, and i hope you both will be okay.
@@lordnazar6382 It all happened in 2016-17 when I was 10-11 years old. As of now I'm still going to therapy and doing so much better than before especially since I haven't seen the creep in so many years (I'll be turning 18 this October). My current boyfriend is autistic and he's the biggest sweetheart I have ever met - I know I can trust him with anything and I know that he would rather die than do whatever the hell the other guy tried doing to me. I'm thankful that I'm away from the guy now and now know people who will protect me from stuff like that. Not all autistic people are like this, only the ones who get constantly babied and get their actions justified by their disability.
That third story...
If she was my family member, by this point Troy would have gotten a lesson.. or would be missing.
Utterly disgusting and more than unacceptable behaviour by teachers, schools and the rapists parents.
Story #2: I hope she drops an extra 200 lbs and ditches that dead weight excuse of a husband. I had bariatric surgery 14 years ago and it the best decision I ever made and I’ve kept the weight off. Not all of us gain it back. She sounds like she’s about the embark on the journey of a lifetime and I truly hope she does so without him holding her back.
Thank you rSlash for including a feel good story at the end after a story with a literal demon spawn.
Story 3: "He doesn't know what he's doing." Mate, I doubt autism completely removes one's conscience. Heck, he's treating everyone else normally.
And then there's the enabling from everyone else. They literally just let it happen and used his autism as an excuse. Heck, they took Troy's side after OP *literally defended herself from a groper.* I hope the lawsuit goes through and everyone loses money for it.
As someone who's on the autism spectrum (previously classed as Asperger's), it doesn't. It makes social interactions and reading people difficult. We still know what's right and wrong. He did too but he didn't care because everyone just let him get away with it. It's so disgusting. Mental disabilities do not give you an excuse to be a shitty person.
Sounds like Troy's parents are the "boys will be boys" type.
He obviously knows what he was doing by his repulsive texts to her and the fact OTHERS were telling her what he would do to her. Which means he was bragging about wanting to grape and maybe krill her. That's so sick. Omfg I wanna deal justice with my bat.
Money? Nah that sick twisted little shite needs to lose his freedom, and fast! He deserves more than a broken nose and a lawsuit! The teachers should also lose their freedom or at least be removed from any kind of job involving children!
I bet those teachers would have shut that down on day one if he'd done that to another teacher, instead of a student.
Story 2: OP sounds like a lovely person and I hope the best for her future. I personally wouldn’t forgive someone that wished death upon me (even in anger) but since they’re trying to save their marriage in therapy, I hope they’ll recover and he’ll better himself as well.
Story 3: I both have autism and have been on the receiving end of SA like that.
I felt so bad at the end of the original before the update where she started blaming herself and “maybe I should have just been more sympathetic and accepted it” because I know that mentality. I was there too.
I seriously hope therapy helps OP. Because that’s a serious mountain of work to get through and unpack. I was around her age as well, and I’m still dealing with it at 23.
I can totally relate to OP and story 3. In the seventh grade, I was groped by a kid who was 'special' ( Aspergers) and just like her, no one would help me because of it. There was one thing I knew I could do even though I absolutely hate it more than anything but I decided to use my race to finally make it stop. As I said, I hate the race card bullshit because it accomplishes nothing but I was 12 and desperate. I eventually did slap that bastard and my teacher threatened to send me to the office but I dared her to do it and I would tell the principal that I was being harassed by a white boy based on my ethnicity and skin color( Mexican and Native American with a very brown complexion). The teacher backed off the moment I said that. That kid was eventually suspended from the school before he was transferred to a special needs school. Last I heard, he's in jail for SA on a minor. I genuinely hope that OP gets Justice and I hope that school is run through the mud for allowing this to happen.
As someone with Asperger's, this pisses me off. I'm more than capable of having always known it's wrong to touch someone without their permission. I'm sorry someone did something so disgusting to you.
I hate that you went through that and had to take drastic measures to stop something that should’ve been stopped ages ago.
@@lorilancaster5917I had a bitter taste in my mouth afterwards, I never liked the idea of using my race/ethnicity to get things my way but it was all I could think of. That was the only time I did that and never did it again.
@@whitneybennett4857my husband is autistic as well and this video pissed him off. He may be a bit wild with his movements but his parents never EVER babied him. They were strict and gave him structure along with putting him in swimming classes to help him with his high energy.
That's absolutely insane. "Aspergers" (an outdated term now, its basically just someone who is autistic with low support needs) is nowhere near something that wouldnt make you understand right from wrong. The most it does is make you socially awkward and bad with certain sensory stuff. It doesnt make you mentally handicapped.
I fear for any women around Troy from story 3. His behavior was enabled for so so long that I know deep down he is going to hurt a woman badly. I hope I'm wrong, but I know deep down Im not
Or a women is gonna pull a gun/ knife and end troy...
@@thetruth1816 As harsh as this will sound, that is probably the best case scenario.
Entitled Mommy will be so proud when Junior is in prison.
@@lancerevell5979 or when she has to identify him in the morgue...
That groping story really pissed me off for so many reasons. Mainly because I am also autistic and in no way shape or form is that any damn excuse to justify ASSAULT of a minor especially sexual assault. What’s worse is not only did his friends condone this action but even the damn school was completely fine with their own female student (OP) getting groped and BLAMING her for it by using the boys autism as a crutch for any bad behaviour…what utter BULLSHIT. The fact that disgusting vile kid used a hidden disability as a weapon to justify sexual assault is filth utter filth of a human being and he deserves every bit of pain that comes his way for this, I had to deal with stuff like this before when girls kept accusing me of the same thing because of my autism and every time it turned out to be a lie the whole school bullied me to the point of literal suicide. I am so damn glad OP was able to escape that hell and that grandma is a saint for helping her grandchild out.
Oh my god story 3 has me shaking and in tears. I have 2 daughters and if they had gone through what I did or had gone through what OP did the whole city would be ashes and I’d give them the skulls of their enemies for decoration. It makes me unbelievably angry what that poor girl had to go through and I hope she will be okay no better than okay going forward. That guy needs to be locked up because he is only going to get worse and it won’t be long before he r-words a girl he feels he’s entitled to
omg the last story. I think my heart exploded, almost in tears. You're the only dad that kid knows, and you deserve to be the dad. Anyone can be a father/sperm donor, but it takes a good man to be a dad.
The kid in the first story brought this upon himself, its his own fault that he chose to escalate the situation.
Bro unintentionally final destination-ed that kid
Yea if he didn’t want to get hurt he should have just backed off.
I totally agree but his parents don’t want to believe that their teenage son is capable of such acts and they don’t want to pay his medical bills so they’re going after op.
I guess that op was supposed to just allow himself to be humiliated and hurt since their son was just doing what boys do.
Thank goodness for the camera video footage that shows what really happened.
He choose to start ABD escalate the situation.
In the real world, this is a known phenomenon called "Fuck Around and Find Out"
The groping story made me so angry I accidentally yelled out loud “what the f***” at her being rebuffed by teachers for reporting sexual assault, and startled my neighbours
Literally! Teachers who do that should lose their licenses.
WTF is exactly what I was thinking. How dare they punish her for not wanting to get sexually harassed. My take is: THEY weren't protecting her, so they literally left her no choice but to take matters into her own hands. And GO GRANDMA!!!
Story 2 + update: R/ is absolutely right, there are some things that "speaking out of anger" is not an acceptable excuse, your husband told you dead in your face he hoped you die from the surgery because he didn't like that you didn't give him an input in your body and health. You have no reason to apologize your spouse should support you when you try to get better not put you down, and a lot of what he said is not acceptable and can't just be excused with I didn't know how to let you know how I feel. I can understand you love him but unless he was flipping the bill for all of these expensive changes you have nothing to work on he does.
I used to struggle with anger issues and I have never told anybody that I hope they die when I was mad. But I have said stuff out of anger that I regretted when I calmed down. Eventually, I realized that If I don't control my anger, I'll be controlled by my anger.
There is also the rest of his actions. Her partner was straight up not supporting her at all, even trying to hold her back.
Story 3 just brought back years of trauma for me. When i was 16 I started dating an autistic guy, and he used that autism to coerce me into doing things long before I was ready to. He acted like my blatant discomfort and very clear "I dont think i'm ready for this" comments meant "Say a reassuring sentence and then take me back to your place anyways." Because of my apparent indirectness when i would say "maybe" and then back out, i was accused of being a manipulator and of "playing with his head." Eventually after weeks of him treating me like crap whenever I didnt want it, I felt like the only way to be loved was to put out. Aaand that lead to some real big ick memories.
Autism isn't an excuse, some people just want to use it as one so that they can hurt people without any fear of consequence. It's disgusting and stigmatizes real issues autistic and other neurodivergent people face. It fucking sucks. I hope the best for OP, nobody deserves to be shunned for being a victim. Ick.
(Edit: spelling)
Story 3: I truly feel horrible for OP the fact that these people just sat there and did nothing is appalling. If anything it damages a person to be excused with bad behaviour then it does to correct it. Autism may be a spectrum with many different struggles but it doesn’t warrant the mistreatment of others. And majority of people with autism understand that my self included. I really wish op the best that situation is truly horrific
Story 2: What's this guy's problem? OP is literally improving herself and got insurance, and this guy proceeds to argue, send OP bad videos, and then straight up says "I hope you die."
And it's all because OP didn't consult him first? Nah, that can't be the only reason. There's got to be something else
It’s either a power/control thing or he has a fat fetish and doesn’t want her to lose weight. There was a person on My 600-lb Life where a very similar situation happened to a woman and she eventually just accepted he only wanted to marry her and be with her simply because she was extremely overweight, she left him.
Could be good old fashioned control issues, maybe exacerbated by insecurity.
He also obviously is jealous of OP'S positive changes, and he is simply trying to drag OP down to his level.
It’s simple. He’s a loser and deep down he knows it. So he doesn’t want his wife to succeed in any way, because that would make him feel unworthy.
My guess is plain old jealosy. He knows he's a loser and was most likely thinking if she stayed the same noone would "steal" her from him. While she's taking care of herself and her health - the loser is thinking how many other (much better) guys will now pay her attention. The girl deserves better.
Third Story: My ex-boyfriend had autism and was also babied. He acted very similar to this. He was like a r/niceguy that thought he basically owned me. And his excuse for all his shitty behavior was "My Autism Makes Me Be This Way."
I wanted to tell his parents about everything but I feel like they wouldn't believe me so I mainly kept my mouth shut :/
Story 3:
I’m autistic myself and I can confirm that being autistic doesn’t give a person a free pass to grope someone. He should know well enough that touching women (especially without their consent) is not ok regardless of his autism. I had to pause in the middle of the story just to comment about that because I’m actually disgusted that people are letting him get away with it just because he’s on the spectrum.
Yeah. While I understand there can be confusion about others' autonomy (I know I didn't understand at first) it's no excuse. Allowing a girl to get victimized for years? Like, autistic people can be disciplined and taught just like anyone else, you just have to take certain different approaches. Screw those teachers, screw that school. Sounds like the whole place is rotten, and needs a staff overhaul and assault prevention training.
Also, they're 12-16? That's old enough to know better. If they genuinely can't, then they need to be in a special needs place, not a public/private school.
Autism doesn’t make someone grope people and I think someone that has autism should never be protected if they do horrible things.
Amen
Well, touching women is ok if you have their consent lol.
Story 3: We had a kid with downsyndrom in our school growing up and he was always babied. No one taught him what was or wasn't appropriate.
He went around smacking and hitting others, groping the girls, saying really inappropriate things, and still got treated like a good student when he was a menace to others.
DISABILITIES DO NOT MEAN YOU CAN TOUCH AND HIT OTHERS!!!!!! KEEP YOUR HANDS RO YOURSELF AND TEACH YOUR KIDS RIGHT FROM WRONG REGARDLESS !!!!!!!
I always love when there's at least one super wholesome/super sweet r/trueoffmychest story, even at the end of videos that are filled with stories about horrible things happening like this one
Holy shit, that dude in the third story needs reality to hit him hard. That’s not autism, that’s untouchable and universal golden child syndrome, Troy needed reality to hit him, it hit him so hard it broke his nose.
It reminds me of the story that rSlash read a while ago about OP’s autistic brother who went to a party and threw the cake on the floor because it wasn’t about him.
These people aren’t what autism is, they’re terrible, terrible people
3rd story: so fucked up. The teachers treated her like Troy's sex slave.
I will say, as a parent, it would have torn me apart to hear what OP had gone through for 4 years on her own. It is very much a prison in your own mind to hold onto something like that for so long. I'm glad that she's gotten her family's support in all of this
Groper story: good on OP. There is no excuse for Troy to do this. He has been totally enabled into keeping this up. The bruises are painful, the mental scarring is worse.
What's extremely sad, is that everyone has set you up to be his property. So they dont have to deal with him.
OP: Your strength is posting this is awesome, your grandparents are amazing. I wish for nothing but positive and goodness in your future. The Ahs, i hope they really suffer the legal consequences
I have an autistic daughter. And there’s one thing I did when I found out, was read stories from the siblings of autistic kids because that’s where you’re going to get the most authentic version of what’s actually going on. parents will always try and soften the blow, but the siblings aren’t going to do that. And because a lot of them are neglected, but not bad kids I feel like maybe slightly but they’re probably not over exaggerating if they’re reaching out because of the responsibility they were always expected to give, they’re usually more mature and only reaching out on places like Reddit for a reason, and a lot of the times they expressed that their siblings know a lot of things that they’re doing is wrong, but because they can get away with it, They keep doing it. SO if my daughter came home with a broken nose and I heard it was because she was groping another student and asked to stop she would be reprimanded. She’ll know that’s wrong, and I know she will because I’m going to teach her that. I’m not gonna be dismissive because a lot of autistic kids do get babied and I’ve noticed that. And I don’t feel like it’s a reason to baby somebody because they just need to learn differently. They’re not as disadvantaged as people play it off as,just because the way they need to be taught is different. In fact, a lot of autistic kids are very very good at whatever they decide to hyper focus on, you just you gotta as a parent be present so what they get exposed to hyper focus on is positive and constructive.
I'm autistic and the 3rd story is just mindblowing to me.... if he had done the same thing to every girl in his life then I could understand that he didn't understand the consequences or the effects, but still, someone should've done something. She was obviously targeted and he clearly knew what he was doing. I would've punched him more than once lol
Instead of teaching troy to behave himself, they did nothing and let him become an entitled monster. The people that let it happen ruined both of these kids.
I had a classmate who was my siblings brother who had autism. He would harass me, grab me and just make me uncomfortable. So one day I snapped and told him to leave me the f alone in the middle of study hall. Everyone got pissed at me but they all made fun of him behind his back. He went online calling me a b**** and just harassing me even more. It got to the point that my friend told their parents and he got in trouble. Right after he did the same things again.
As an adult I got diagnosed with autism. It explains why I always hated people touching me.
Yeah, autism isn't an excuse. I'm autistic, and it's fairly severe. I learned about consequences and autonomy. My autism isn't someone else's problem, and enabling my bad behavior would've been so bad for me. (Granted I never groped people, but I did have huge anger management problems and issues with communication.) Even when I didn't understand why, knowing that there's things that are considered wrong really helped me. People who harass others deserve consequences. Good on you for standing up to that jerk.
No one should touch you without permission, and not wanting that to happen isn't the autism. Not wanting people in general touching you is the autism as you said.
Wait your sibling’s brother?
@@wannabehistorian371probably meant “brother’s friend” and just kinda wrote both. (I do this sometimes when my thoughts are jumbled xD)
Story 3 : OP should make an open letter to every single media of the country to list every single names of the people who would threaten her, every single teachers who allowed her to be groped, every single friends who encouraged him to grope her.
Story 3: as an autistic person, there are 2 things that make me upset when I hear stories about people with autism. One of them being this exact problem. Not all autistic people are the same. They can live productive and normal lives. I myself have had people be a little shocked when they find out im autistic. He KNEW better and was using his autism as an excuse. I have NEVER EVER used mine as an excuse. My mom taught me that and I'm grateful. I absolutely despise parents that baby their child bc they have autism. You're just causing more problems to appear down the line by babying them. That being said, some autistic people do have problems picking up social cues, BUT, they can still learn what to look out for in people's body language that says they're uncomfortable. Also, shame on the teachers at that school!!!!!!!
Yeah, I was groped for years as kid too. It messes you up, because you're not your own person anymore, nowhere feels safe, and you want to die. Teachers ignored me when I asked for help, and even my own mother said I was provoking him. The only solution in my case was shutting down completely until I could move away at 16.
People claim that rape culture doesnt exist and then shit like the second story happens and its disgusting. Im autistic and its no excuse for secual assualt. The people that let him repeatedly assualt her are just as guilty as he is
*third story is rape culture. Second story is about a shitty controlling husband.
That last story made me cry inside. Both out of happiness for them, and sadness for me. I'll never be able to experience what OP has been through; I'm nearly double his age, and I've never had a friend or partner like that, regardless of gender.
I genuinely wish them the best.
The 3rd story is absolutely disgusting!!! Just because someone is Autistic does NOT give them a pass to sexually assault anyone!!! Based on Troy's messages to OP he knew exactly what he was doing.
Honestly I hope OP wins the case and if Troy gets closer to her a single punch isn't the only thing he will get
Story 4: The fourth story is so beautiful. He adopted his friend’s daughter and became her daddy. Then he and the friend fell in love and now they’re a family. I’m in tears right now.
Let’s be real, they’ve always been in love but we’re too scared to pursue it. I’m so happy for them! ❤
Story 3: Why is it every time a girl stands up to a creep, atypical or not, SHE is labeled as the bad guy? I was harassed by multiple boys in school, and because my parents thankfully taught me that thus kind of behavior isn't love and that NO ONE is entitled to my affection, I of course said no. When being polite didn't work, I got more stern with my rejections (I WISH I'd hit them like OP had). My teachers and parents took me seriously, but my "friends" kept calling me "too harsh." Nvm I'm asexual, though didn't know it at the time, the fact that I apparently wasn't allowed to say no to an obviously mean guy baffled me. I'm glad OP's grandparents got her out of there.
Parents, teach your children the meaning of consent.
Story 3: "...He doesn't know any better..." Probably, but it's your responsibility as parents and educators to help him with that! As someone on the spectrum, this behavior is reprehensible, but some serious scrutiny needs to brought to his parents and teachers that allowed this behavior to continue unchecked
EDIT: okay, so I started writing after hearing the quote, and didn't resume until after. HOLY SHIT, it was even worse than I thought. He's one of those clowns that's just competent enough to use his disability as a shield that give the rest of us a bad rep.
Story 3: I have Autism (aspergers). When I was 10 I did grope an older girl. My parents immediately told me off, and forced me to apoligize. I learned about boundaries that day. The girl and I are still friends today, and I ofc never did it again.
This boy has obviously never been taught about strict boundaries, and has no accountability.
Understanding social situations may not come easily to me, but that doesn't mean I can't learn, just requires more effort or to figure out work arounds for my struggles.
Story 3 is absolutely in line with backstories of how schools get sh*t up. Glad that OP was mentally and emotionally strong enough to not consider that option. She got the patience of a freaking Saint.
Story 3; When i was in middle school there was a boy with autism who would blow up and become violent because his parents wouldn't get him proper care. Instead of helping him, they would depend on another little girl who "was his girlfriend" to calm him down. She would be pulled out of other classes and have to play therapist. I'm 23 now, and that boy contacted me recently to tell me he was always in love with me. I said I appreciate the compliment but im in a relationship. He then would tell me to kms and that im a slut and no one loves me. So...
The only reason the parents want OP to drop the suit is because they know the "he's autistic" excuse won't stick in court. Any psychologist worth their salt, especially a child psychologist, will tell you that's BS. They obviously coddled him because of his condition, and that made him feel invincible. And although OP said that she was singled out, I'm willing to bet she's not the only one. Given how she described his behavior, he's definitely done it to other girls as well. They just haven't spoken out because he's "the popular kid" and "autistic." Here's hoping that his other victims will come forward when the court date comes and bring his true colors to light.
Second story: I wonder if OP's earlier failures at weight loss, etc., were due to her husband's sabotaging her. He sounds like the kind of guy who drives other people down rather than building himself up.
I'm sure he is doing it because he thinks she will leave if she gets better and prettier
Guaranteed.
@@rohesilmnelohethat's exactly what I'm thinking after she gets the surgery he's worried that she'll find out how much better she deserves so he's trying to keep her self-esteem low
story 3 - not only does autism not give anyone a pass to do something like that, IT ALSO DOESNT MAKE SOMEONE A BAD PERSON. OR make them unable to tell right from wrong. Troy just IS a bad person, and clearly doesnt care that what hes doing is wrong. The only way autism factors in is how OTHER people are treating him - and OP. I hope OP is doing well and getting the help she needs & deserves.
Story 3: something similar happened to me, a kid in the same class as me who had autism threw a bottle at my friends head and she called him an asshole, he reported us saying we, “bullied” him, we BOTH have autism, and she was excluded.
No idea how we could’ve bullied him for having autism if we also had autism.
If I was that girl's Father and she came home to me claiming she'd been groped by a boy and nobody did anything. I'd make sure every single one of those teachers and administrators in that school didn't have a job within a week
That last story is wonderful! What a beautiful family.
Was wondering when we were gonna talk about that one 🥹
OP needs to marry her. Sounds like she's a keeper.
Story 3: OMG! NO!!!! I have been teaching for 17 years. I would have stopped that immediately. NEVER would have allow this. I am so sorry, sweetheart. Way to have boundaries and I am so happy you got to move schools.
Story 3: can relate to this in a way as there was a kid in my high school with autism and he would constantly pleasure himself during class. I remember reporting it but it was ignored. He did actually fetishized a girls feet too a classmate and she was distraught….People have to learn that doing stuff like this is horrible. People need to actually teach kids not to do such disgusting things.
I have been in a teaching position with kids on the spectrum, and the idea that they don't know what they are doing is very ableist. They might have a harder to time to read ques from other people, but they can still learn and understand right from wrong.
Unfortunately a lot of people, especially parents, tend to cuddle their kids if they are on the spectrum. Treating them as infants when they are way past that age.
Disgusting. The autism maybe explains it but it isn't the way to handle it, to just let them do stuff like that.
@@dudeorduuude5211it doesnt even explain it. Autism makes it hard to read UNSPOKEN cues, as soon as theyre told to stop and that the thing theyre doing is bad it leaves the realm of "autism" and goes into the realm of "shitty, gross person"
@@pigeontoes5421 mmm, not always. Depends how far down the spectrum the person is.
It seems so crazy to me that so many reddit stories involve immense medical bills. Living in a country where most things except eyes and teeth are covered by the provincial health insurance that I don't even notice because it's mixed on with the rest of our taxes, I can't imagine why anyone other than the very rich would want to pay for private insurance.
1st Story: That is an example of "Fuck around and find out." That kid is old enough to know not to do what he did. But instead he chose to fuck around and then he found out.
2nd Story: Yeah not the outcome any of us was hoping for because what Op's husband said to her, that's a deep cut right there. I do hope things work out for her but if it doesn't then at least you tried to fix things op.
3rd Story: If Chris Chan can teach us anything that's just because you have autism doesn't not make it ok to get away with committing crimes. Not only do I hope Troy and his family and the school district get sued into the ground but I hope op can have something done about her harassers too.
Last Story: Op you hold onto them and never let go. You've become the man who stepped up and it's great that they give you that feeling of wanting to be the best.
Congratulations OP on the bariatric surgery and the positive steps to a new you! One word of advice: please consider therapy as well. Usually the two are keys to success. A good friend had it and it helped her immensely- she looked amazing. But she never got therapy about her relationship with food. And during the pandemic she gained it back plus more (I think because she never addressed using food to self medicate). Just take care - it’s not a magic bullet and still requires some work. Best of luck!
Story 4: This story reminded me of my grandpa. He died a couple of years ago, and recently my grandma revealed a long held family secret. My grandpa was not my mom's biological dad. Apparently grandma and grandpa dated for a while, then broke up. A while later my grandma dated someone else, and after a while she got pregnant. Upon learning about this that other guy took off and refused to talk to my grandma. She gave birth to my mom and raised her alone for a while until a mutual friend of my grandma and grandpa schemed and basically tricked them in to going on a date again. So they got back together. Apparently grandpa loved my mom from the day he met her. And when she started talking and called him "dad" he also cried from happiness. He adopted her and raised her as his own daughter. She was a total daddy's girl her entire life. And funnily enough, people always said she looked a lot like him. Turns out that was because her biological dad looked a lot like grandpa. I guess grandma had a type. Mom never found out about her biological dad until the rest of us did.
I don't really care about that other guy though. He was not my grandpa. He's not the one who watched cartoons with me as a kid. Who fixed my bike when it was broken. He's not the one who taught me how to order a beer and curse in several languages when I was like 8 years old. Or the man who introduced me to whiskey (and left me his whiskey glasses after his death). No. That was my grandpa.
And learning that this was something he chose for himself just makes me appreciate that man way more.
the third story is horrifying. autism does NOT excuse this behavior at all. I have autistic friends and they understand that this is wrong. I hope that girl is safe and never is allowed to be around him. he is a disgusting person. the fact he would say stuff like that about another person just shows what kind of man he will grow up to be. and the coddling will make it worse.
The last story really resonated with me as me and my fiances relationship started similarly. We met at the beginning of 2020 and started as friends, then 2 1/2 years later we started dating. 1 year later we are now engaged and I'm so happy to be with him😊❤
Story 3: She didn’t bully him, he bullied her. He assaulted her, and she defended herself.
Story 3: OP should have printed out that nasty message her groper sent it and mailed it to all her teachers and her parents.
“He’s only groping you because he doesn’t know any better,” BRUH, I’m also autistic, and I never even dreamed of doing this shit.
It made me mad too like his useing as an excuse because it makes him that way
I was soooo waiting for a commentary from rslash about the last story...
I mean that was just one of the purest things I've listened to in your channel! Expounding on that post was definitely a wasted opportunity!
But on the other hand, just taking in OPs pure joy while writing all of that makes me just feel hope for humanity. I mean that was just a very sweet happy ending!
I have ASD, and I have to call BS for people saying that Troy doesn't know better when it comes to harrassment. He knows what he's doing and he doesn't care. He should be pulled from the school and put into a special school for trouble children. And the school should be sued for allowing that behavior to go on for years without doing anything about it except punishing the victim.
3rd story: I'm autistic and since I was 6 I help in y father's farm. I was never babeid and that's why I turned out fine. the teacher justify bad behavior with autism which the court system several times found autistics people guilty and the judge did not take autism as an excuse
My brother told me he wish I didn't survive my suicide attempt 7 years ago and our relationship has never been repaired. He's tried but I can't get over his words. He was the only family member I was close with but in a petty fight he said that.
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