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- Ben&Ben - Doors | Official Lyric Video
Everything is okay, I guess
I'm just a little tired
No need to think about this mess
It goes away in time
I know we don't mean it
the words unspoken,
we can feel them in the silence
Ooh
The quiet is shaking
the thoughts we're thinking
In our sighs they linger
Ooh
I wont ever know what's on your mind
If you'll always be hiding behind
Words you never mean, just to be kind
Will there ever be
no more of your secret doors
We never talk about the times
we don't believe we're fine
Though i'm not leaving you behind
We need to be true
I wont ever know what's on your mind
If you'll always be hiding behind
Words you never mean, just to be kind
Will there ever be
no more of your secret
doors?
Your secret doors
Open up your secret doors
Your secret doors
No more of your secret~
Time won't heal anything
if you don't surrender your lies
I wont ever know what's on your mind
if you'll always be hiding behind
words you never mean, just to be kind
Will there ever be
no more of your secret
doors?
Your secret doors
Open up your secret doors
Your secret doors
No more of your secret doors
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Lyrics and Music by Paolo Benjamin and Miguel Benjamin
Arranged by Pat Lasaten, Keifer Cabugao, Agnes Reoma, Jam Villanueva Poch Barretto, Andrew De Pano, Toni Muñoz
Produced by Jean Paul Verona and Ben&Ben
Mixed by Miles Walker
Mastered by Leon Zervos
Video by Sindikato Studios
Artwork by Nicolai Maverick
Animation by Tyron
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"Time won't heal anything,
If you don't surrender your lies"
I felt that
"All will be alright in time"
ify
Saktong nabasa ko, doon ko narinig
😩😩😩
Naol Cj
there will always be that one person in our minds as we listen to ben and ben
*edit: woah thanks for the likes guys
yeah.
Always 🖤
True
yep
Yup
This hits different when you are someone who finds it difficult to communicate with others and express proper emotion.
🤧
I also agree
this hits hard...
,😞
lets cry in silence
for me the song is about those people who can't allow themself to express their feelings to the people around them, because they're the ones who is the funny one in those people the who lights up their world and can't afford to tell their raging thoughts to those people even to their loved ones and friends.
I can relate.. if they knew.. they could be affected.. 😭😭😭
Or bothered.. that's why I'd rather to hide it..
🥺🥺🥺
"words you never mean, just to be kind"
It's more than romantic love, guys. It is about reaching out-to those who are struggling with themselves to open up, to those whose minds are rumbling, to those who feel they are alone in the dark.
🤗 I know it's hard but it's harder if you keep it all by yourself. Let it out, if you are one of those, open up your secret doors.
I felt this 😭
❤
Aww
Well its easy to say than to act
:----(
This song screams "empathy".
When someone opens up about their feelings or about something that bothers them, please, don't try to turn it into an argument or make them feel guilty of feeling that way.
This is one of the reasons why some people find it hard to communicate with their partners/loved ones. Don't just hear them out.. Listen and try to comprehend as best as you can. Communication is nonsense if it lacks empathy and understanding. Empathize with them. It goes a long way. 😌
I feel like it's more about opening up or simply trust
true..
Up
Mikki Balatero if you dont mind may i post this kn twitter
@@kuro9842 hi! Sure :)
The person that I love, she's a very secretive person. she very rarely talk about her day, how and what she thinks, even how she feels. she's a completely different personality. I know I couldn't understand cause I think in a straightforward way, but the time spent with her made me feel what she's really going through.. still, even now she remains a mystery to me. everything is blurry right now.
it's hard to take down someone's walls if they themselves couldn't let you in. we can't blame them, the only way to love them is to stay within their reach, even if they have confined themselves inside.
Nakaka frustrate mahalin ganyang tao pero sila yung gusto mo ikeep kase alam mo pag naging better na sila, sila na ang pinaka the best
:"))
I feel you
:((
THIS HITS SO HARD
kung isang araw nagising ka't gusto nang buksan ang pintong nagkukubli sayo, hiling ko na sana yung tamang tao ang mapagbuksan mo 💛
To the person who says "I'm fine"
I hope you will really be in time
Thank you.I hope so too.♥️
"all will be alright in time...
Thank you so much
still waiting for the time I can finally say I'm fine without heavy burdens, with the realest smile
maraming salamat
imagine how sad it is not having a ben&ben music in your life
Yaahhh
Imagine how sad is your life without God
Minsan lang ako nakakakita ng Shawol sa TH-cam!!! H
LEGIT!
@@pauweredbyfaith omg hiiii shinee's backkk hahahahaha
my boyfriend cried in front of me yesterday, it was the first time that i saw him cry. it was a wonderful starry night with the moon shining bright, he was hugging me and then suddenly he cried. it was a bittersweet feeling to see him cry. i dont like him crying but it touched my heart knowing that he was really comfortable with me to the point that he was able to show his vulnerable side, and not everyone can do that especially guys. this song reminded me of him. he opened his secret doors and let me in. it made me realize that i cannot afford to hurt him, to see him hurting, to see him crying last night was too much for me. i love him so much.
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies."
It's hard, specially when your happiness is a mistake to others, sometimes there's nothing left to do but to lie and keep it to yourself
arghh
Hi
👍
your happiness is not for others but your own. you might have started with a mistake, but as long as it becomes the RIGHT CHOICE, then all will be all right in time.
potato :---(
“Words you never mean, just to be kind”
Is actually all about the words you said just because you don’t wanna hurt somebody. You say words that doesn’t really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship okay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel.
Sometimes we think that it’s better to choose hurting ourselves with the lies we make just to save someone from hurting, hahaha. Deep.
But can we all just allow ourselves to bleed in-front of someone who caused it? Maybe in that way, we too can heal. But yeah, I wish it was that easy 🙃
Be strong to the ones who doesn’t open up a lot. Labyu and God does too
This is soOo me, I always sugarcoat kung ano talaga yung sasabihin ko kase natatakot ako na makasakit.
"You say words that doesn't really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship ojay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel." 💯
Damn
i felt every word u said.
thank you. ❤
saet naman
"Time won't heal anything If you don't surrender your lies"
I really believe in this line, many of us believe back then that "Time heals" but how can we heal ourselves in the process if we don't know how to? This is a lesson for us to surrender our "what ifs", our doubts, the lies that we keep telling ourselves and start forgiving. Stop hiding and show yourself because we are meant to shine our TRUE colors upon others.
No more of your secret DOORS.
Kudos Ben&Ben this is a masterpiece!
Permission to post this on twitter hehe
@@immanuelnemeno3467 sure po hehe pa follow nalang ren ser HAHAHA @JaphetCMiranda
Did you really mean what you've said?
If you really did, and in most accurate way to say that you are the only one who knows the true answer to that question... then please just sit back, relax and... let me humbly sing this song to you.🙏
theOrangekindle “
:(
It's been 9 years, I guess I'll value our friendship more than my desires. ;)
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Stan dahyun STAN TWICE!
Making my wild guess, nareject ka pero kung hindi naman, kailangan bang ikaw yung mag-aadjust? Either way sana maging maayos kayo :))
I feel you :/
I know very well that it's selfish. Ang selfish ko kasi ayoko aminin yung talagang nararamdaman ko sa mga kaibigan ko, sa family ko, sa loved ones. Yung nararamdaman ko na mabigat na, ayoko maramdaman yun kasi lagi ko nalang iniisip na pagpinaalam ko, magiging bother lang ako sa mga tao. Atsaka nakakaguilty lang talaga kasi ang daming tao ang mas nahihirapan kesa sakin diba? Kaya ayoko magreklamo kasi alam ko wala ako karapatan. Ayoko maging maarte kaya ayun... I'm always gonna hide behind closed doors.
I can live with this. Hindi ko nalang papansinin.
Mawawala rin 'to. Magiging ok din ako. Pagod lang 'to.
PamMadeYouRead No, please open up to someone, atleast to the right people. My sister was selfish with her thoughts as well. And you don’t know the grief and horror we felt nung nag suicide sya sa room nya coz she couldn’t contain it
@@changbinsmunchlaxplushie7451 hala... I'm sorry for your loss.
And oo I realized na ang selfish nga na-itago kasi para saan pa ba yung friends, family and loved ones kung hindi ka rin magiging honest sa kanila...
Thank you and please stay safe always!
@PamMadeYouRead
No dear, there's no such thing as "oa" or "maarte" . If it hurts you , it hurts you. We all have different kinds of pain. Sometimes mabigat na para sayo pero magaan lang para sa iba. Don't torture yourself sweetheart. Don't be afraid. Kung di ka nila maintindihan, God's always there. Take good care of your heart dear, you only have one
@PamMadeYouRead
True for me as well. Well, I grow up like this behind "doors". And at the present time napapaisip rin ako na I should open up nga to people about my feelings. Dont get me wrong, I do talk and share how I feel naman like day to day pero alam mo yung deep thoughts and feelings? Yun. That troubles me.
But yeah. Im trying little by little.
Yes, it will pass, just hold yourself and breathe deeply. But please know that your feelings are valid kasi ikaw yung nakakaramdam ng ganyan eh, hindi ang ibang tao.
This song is about communicating your true feelings or emotions.
Kaway-kaway sa mga mahihilig magtago sa mga salitang "okay lang"!
Sa kantang 'to ang sarap talakayin ng:
Isang anak na lalaki na pilit ikinukubli ang tunay nyang pagkatao sa kanyang ama.
Isang ina na hindi ipinapakita sa mga anak ang mga pasang dulot ng pambubugbog ng ama.
Isang ama na pilit nagpoprovide para sa pamilya nya kahit na parang alipin trato sa kanya ng mga amo nya.
Isang dalagang may mapait na karanasan subalit dahil natatakot sa maaaring maging tingin sa kanya ng iba, inililihim nya.
Isang batang may espesyal na karamdaman na gustong lumabas sa mundo para kilalaning normal ng iba.
Isang kaibigang lihim na umiibig sa kaibigan nya pero mas ninanais na ikubli dahil baka maputol ang pagkakaibigan nila.
At isang nagmamahal na gustong makaramdam ng kalayaan mula sa taong nagsasabing mahal siya ngunit kinokontrol ang buong pagkatao nya.
Walang ibang makapagpapalaya sa iyo kundi ang pagiging totoo. Hindi hihilom ang sakit kung di mo ipapakita ang dahilan bakit ka nasasaktan. Buksan ang lihim na pinto at lumabas bitbit ang tapang na ipakita ang katotohanan.
Such a masterpiece, Ben&Ben ❤️
❤️❤️❤️
Isa kang malaking hotdog! ❤️ Kudos!
I love this 💖 Ben & Ben really gathers soulful people.
Yesssss 💙💛
❤
When I finally opened his 'Doors', he became my 'Lifetime'. ♥️
Chour
as someone who has a hard time opening up to others, this song spoke volumes to me. now i cant help but wonder if people around me feel this way whenever they try to get to know me, only to be met by the walls that i've built around myself.
This song is basically me, falling for a close friend of mine. A girl. For the first time in my whole life, I fell for a girl. I wasn’t prepared for it; definitely caught me off guard. My anxiety made it even worse and just overthought everything. I didn’t want to ruin our friendship so I thought it was better to just pull away, but I did it without any warning, it confused her but she didn’t ask questions. So she pulled away too, I guess she’s been burned too many times as well. It still ruined our friendship anyway. Lol I did realize my mistake after a few weeks and tried to backtrack but everything was so awkward and we’re just not the same.. It’s like she already put up a wall between us while I just didn’t know how to act around her anymore. We eventually stopped having conversations even though we saw each other everyday. Months later, she reached out to me and we started talking again but I was still in the process of getting over my feelings for her. It felt like we just continued where we left off. But I couldn’t open up to her like I used to. I wanted to tell her everything, but how do I do that when everything’s just about her? I never even wanted to start a relationship with her, I just wanted to bring our closeness and bond back. I feel like the only way to move forward was to reveal my truth. But what if she couldn’t handle it? I wouldn’t be able to handle losing her again.
Edit: Didn’t expect the amount of encouragement and comfort I’d receive from you guys; I was just thinking out loud here. Thank you, all your comments are read and appreciated. :)
PS. If it wasn’t implied enough on my comment, I’m a girl who fell for another girl. I still prefer men though but yes, apparently, I’m bi for my friend. Hehe
Update 2022: For those who are curious-We’ve become the best of friends. I never told her about all this and we never talked about the awkward phase but I’m okay now. She has a bf now and I’m really happy for her. While I’m still single and praying for the right guy for me :)
Just tell her the truth you'll be more relieved if you say the truth. As for her it depends on how she'll respond to it but don't let it ruin your friendship, even if she accepts you or not. Don't lose her. What are love without friends?
@@noahnarvaez7979 Yeah
Noah Narvaez I feel like telling the truth now wouldn’t help the situation. Our friendship is still fragile at the moment and I don’t want to try and rock the boat yet again. Right now I’m just more relieved that she started to reach out to me again, even if it means I will have to hide behind white lies for longer than I wanted to. I think keeping her in my life is more important to me than revealing my truth. 😕
what a coincidence I’m also dealing with that situation
@@loisjackson1194 for me, just tell her the truth with sincerity. Before telling her whay you have in mind, ask her first, and speak out why do you want to tell her that truth (pertaining that you just want to bring the bond back again without the intention of starting a new intimate relationship). Keeping this up and continuing to tell white lies does relieve the pressure, but in the end (not that i am hoping for), if anything goes wrong, it'll be more devastating than telling the truth. You will not know what truly the future holds between you two, unless both of you know the true intentions of each other.
Ben&Ben gave us Leaves for us to hope that all will be alright in time.
Now, Ben&Ben gives us doors, that aside from hoping that all will be alright in time, we need to do some actions too.
Toxic positivity, as I picked up from the 1st stanza, does not do us any good. We should all learn to accept the fact that some battles are best shared with people who knows us, either a lover/partner, a friend, your siblings, or even parents, that is worthy to open up every secret doors we're trying to keep locked. And in that moment, that feeling is enough. For us to keep going, and hoping but now knowing we are not alone.
"No more of your secret doors, we got you."
#BenAndBenDOORS
Really indeed😭✨
Wish it was that easy...
Doors acoustic cover
th-cam.com/video/XnpIpBYIzPE/w-d-xo.html
Very well said
Here after seeing Us the Duo's stream! Love this song!!!
There are many people that's having a hard time opening up and expressing their feelings, and I'm one of them. It's so hard especially when you're soooo conscious about what other people will say. Not saying things we want to doesn't always mean we have permanently closed our doors, it's just that we have been hurt so many times that hiding behind the doors is the only way to protect ourselves from getting our feelings scarred again. But, "Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies" this is such a comfort for me, the whole song is such a big comfort for me. Everyone is going through something, even you. One lesson I've learned from this song is, to take it easy on yourself, that you don't have to carry all the burdens all by yourself, It's okay to rest sometimes. So, be kind to yourselves. To everyone who's having a hard time with communicating their feelings, and for those who's still trying to express themselves, I'm sooo proud of you, for still trying. Big hugs to you, to us!💗
"Your pain has a purpose." -Philippians 1:29
“Time won’t heal anything
If you don’t surrender your lies”
This is so true. No matter how long you’re trying to heal, if you still have those unsaid feelings, if you’ll still keep those lies. You’re not healing and won’t heal at all. Kaya stop depending on your “what if’s” take a risk. Sabihin mo na lahat ng gusto mong sabihin sakanya.
Apple Salaum if you dont mind may i post this on twitter
Misa Mhien do you mind if I copy this? Hehehe
Misa Mhien Yes po hehe screen shot nyo lang or whtvr 🤣😊
Yup. Truly right.
Hiii... Sooo my boyfriend, este, ex-boyfriend pala, just broke up with me in the middle of this quarantine period. The only reason he told me was that he doesn't feel the need of being obligated with someone anymore, for now. Although I know that it's deeper than that and he doesn't usually open up himself to me. That's why I'm sad 'coz he could've at least try or give me a chance to get in one of those DOORS.
So yeah... LOTSA THANKS, Ben&Ben!!! Ito na magiging anthem ng breakup namin. HUHUHUHU 😭💔
same 😭
Pasensya na kayo sa mga tulad naming may malabong pag-iisip. Salamat din sa pag-unawa! Same story lang kasi. Nakipagbreak ako sa girlfriend saktong lockdown dahil sa parehong dahilan :(
Remember, you are worthy.
@@diversion6076 bruh u sure she's not your ex? Lol
"Everything is okay, I'm just a little tired"
It's so relatable, I'm always saying this to my friends na every time na tinatanong nila ako kung ok lang ako I just say na pagod lang ako pero deep inside gusto kong mag burst out at umiyak sa harap nila pero I can't maybe because I'm scared kase last time na nag open up ako they said na masyado lang akong madrama and I guess they're right maybe my feelings are not valid at all
L Moran in my case I don't open my secrets with them kasi ayokong ma judge. And the fact na hindi nila maiintindihan since hindi nila nararamdaman yung pinagdadaanan ko. So I kept it only myself. I'm just tired of hearing people saying "okay lang", "sus wala yan", "kaya mo yan" as if every things is easy and okay. Ang hirap mag explain ng nararamdaman
But what we fail to realize, is that we dont need anyone to tell us what is valid and what isnt, because if it hurts us too much, it already is.
Valid feelings mo,sila ang may problema hindi ikaw,kaylangan molang masasabihan,yung maiintindihan ka...sana maging ok ka. : )
Big clap to Ben&Ben and for those people working Behind the Scenes,
"DOORS"
1st international Song, and more to come!
#SupportLocal
Pano po naging first? Hahaha curious lang ako
@@milagrosyapit8535 Oo nga noh, hahahaha
@@milagrosyapit8535 this is their first international single "Doors" since nag # 29 sila sa global billboard.
@@milagrosyapit8535 to be promoted internationally.. hopefully sa next album naman :)
Hello guys. Please visit my cover DOORS
Hope u like it.
No. Sometimes it's better to keep it hidden, they don't need to know everything. Yes, they might listen, but they will never understand.
Tama..😩
This song is for people like you :) in a good way. And yes, you are right but you just have to open up to the right people. All will be alright in time :))
this.stings.like.hell
Hi po isa lang masasabi koo, Noo more of your secret doo-orrss🎼🎤🎶🎶
Trru
In a world where anxiety is living everyday with secrets you can never tell.
"Doors" triggered what's left burden in my heart and it made me pause from what I am doing. I hope too, Ben&Ben. That opening secret doors is as soothing as listening to your music. I hope the pain fades away just like how the music ends. But it just won't work out that way, maybe the best way to open those doors is to find the one who deserves to hold the key.
Thank you for letting us know how to let go and heal our burdens through your art❤❤❤
And to those who holds stronger grudges, "..leaves will soon grow from the bareness of trees, and all will be alright in time." -Ben&Ben, Leaves
I feel that this song is all about escaping from the trials in our relationship. Lagi tayong tumatakbo, pumupunta sa mga sikretong pintuan. Kailan kaya tayo magiging matapang at magiging bukas para sa mahal natin? When will you open up your secret doors?
Ughhhh yessss someone has spoken for my mind hahahaha
Grabe nainspire ako HAHAHAH
Eto talaga point ng kanta eh 👍🏼
Gillian Andrea Natividad
I feel like it's about someone who has a loved one who's so closed, who build up walls around her, who has secret doors and how that loved one find it so hard to open up to someone :(((
anyways, kudos to you ben&ben for writing such a masterpiece even on quarantine ❤
damn this song made me remember someone dahil sa concept mo. :")
Ed sup Damn, me too.
It's been 2 years since I've met her. I was young and immature, I didn't see things for what they were. For 2 years I'd almost everyday talking to her, mostly about how my day went. I confessed to her a few montjs after getting to know her. She said she didn't know what to say. So I kept going, and I tried to keep building what I thought was a blooming relationship. A year after, I confessed again, confronting her. She said she wasn't ready. That it wasn't me, but she just wasn't ready. Of course, I took it at something that would eventually change. I was convinced that she was the one the universe had laid out for me. She just needed time. WE just needed time. But a few weeks ago, 2 years and a couple months after first getting to know her, I decided I had to talk to her again because some rumors were spreading that she was with someone else. I talked to her and she denied it. We had, in some sense, sort of a closure. I told her that no matter what I'd value our friendship and that nothing changes. I even jokingly told that if I wasn't going to end up as a priest, I'd invite her to my wedding. But after that talk, everything just seemed more distant. She stopped talking to me. The day-to-day conversations became a once a week reply. The morning and evening talk was no longer. 2 months passed and I decided that I'd take time to prioritize myself and my growth as an individual. I loved her, but I needed to love myself too. A week after this song was released, I'd come to the realization that she wasn't everything I thought she was. What hurt the most was when I realized that she never told me the little things. How her day went, or what her favorite food were, what she liked, what she disliked. She never opened her doors for me. I was too blind by my feelings to see. Now I'm sitting here in my couch. Listening to this song proudly, that today is the first time I get to look at her pictures and no longer feel pain and anxiety. Now I look at her pictures and see a girl, who I shared memories with, who even though wasn't everything I thought she'd be, still put up with me for 2 years. I don't think you'll be able to read this, but if you do, I want to thank you. For everything. Even though you barely talk to me anymore, you will still always have a place in my heart. Thank you.
Funny. I had the same thing happened to me. She was a dear friend of mine. We shared the same hobbies, likes and dislikes and we've been acquainted for 2 years and became friends for 2 years. And what I once thought was admiration turned to love towards her. But I was awkward with those things, and never had I ever confessed to anyone yet. So she was the first girl I ever confessed to. She had the same reaction when I confessed to her. She was confused, she didn't know how to respond. She asked for time and I gave her while trying to win her affection. But after time, it seemed like it was stagnating, even though I tried my best. Perhaps, I never did tried my best, or it's just that she never took me as a potential partner. February 15, 2019. That date was the date when I tried confronting her. Coincidentally, it was our Valentine's ball, and I invited her for a dance. I asked her several things, and the last one was: “Do you think I have a chance?", I said. And I asked that she answer it truthfully. She said, word by word: “I just can't see you as a potential romantic partner." She even said that she had someone in mind, that she has someone else she likes. Of course that was painfully as fuck, but I asked for it. And I told her I wouldn't get mad because I never had any reason to. As painful as it was, I swallowed it. After that, I never invited anyone to dance. Like, she was my final dance for that night. After that, I cried so hard because I was starting to treat her as my world. There I realized that it was all but a one-sided love. And after that, things became awkward for a while. We barely talked for 2 months. But we had a closure. Sort of. There was this orientation at our school and there, we were taken aback to our past experiences and I was able to recall that event. Painful, it was. But I mustered everything to say “Thank you." She understood what I meant, and she apologized. I told her there's nothing to be sorry about. Honestly, I was glad that I thanked her. I was glad that I met her, and fell for her. Since, I felt like I grew up as a person. But I guess I won't be falling in love for awhile. Gotta close my doors for now.
That bass...so good.
_and suddenly, Ben&Ben music are somehow connected to you._
"Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies"
- Ben&Ben (2020)
Hi po
Isa lang talaga naalala ko sa Lifetime and Doors especially the band itself, B&B. There's this guy, we became friends to best friends to almost lovers during JHS. I'll call him "Ace" here. Parang soul mate, sobrang inseparable. We discovered each other everyday, walang luha, pura tawa at sorang gaan iya kasama. A door led to another. We had similar music taste, make each other smile and laugh. I really liked him but I never told him. I had a lot of doubts in me, in him, in us pag naging kami. My family is very judgemental pa naman, I don't like that environment for him kahit sabihin niyang okay lang. He was too precious, so I never gave him any sad or more bad part of me. As he opened his doors, I closed mine.
Then came another lover, I'll call him "Son," he was different, too promising. I saw immediately na siya yung taong makakasama at kakaya sa down sides and flaws ko in the future. I felt that he will accept whoever I am and will be I saw how great of a man he could be. I saw how I could do better with him. But then there comes the conflict. I pursued the new guy just because he is more acceptable. That was too stupid of me, I know. Pero naging kami. But, I was still thinking of Ace, he said he'd be happy if I am happy. So I challenged myself to love Son, he had few friends, hopeless romantic din. And I really did, he's a great person na few would only notice.
February, nag break kami, we lasted for 2 years. I ran back to Ace as a best friend, or maybe because I wanted to feel happy again. Ben and Ben became ours. Not literally but, just a small thing we especially share with each other. Sabay lumalim yung fandom namin. He would sing me songs until I fall back in sleep and I would sing him songs too kasi gustong gusto niya yung boses ko. I thought Son would never hurt me, I loved him too much na walang natira sakin. He became my world.
Months have passed, Ace came to comfort me. But then he was always there for me, kahit kami pa ni Son, pag umiiyak ako or di ko kinakaya, Ace always made me feel precious, loved, and be the best person I could be. Muntik na maging kami, tinanggap ko ulit si Son. Dahil marupok ako at may natira pang love kay Son, nagkaayos at nagkabalikan kami. I rejected Ace kasi he was still too immature, too dreamy, too careless like my old self.
Ilang months ko rin di sinabi kay Ace na kami na ulit ni Son, Di ko rin sinabi kay Son na nag-uusap ulit kami ni Ace. Ang selfish ko para ipagdamot yung taong di ko pinili nung una. I couldn't decide kung gusto ko bang sumaya genuinely o magpasaya because he deserves to see the world in a different perspective. They were both negative thinkers at mabilis madepress, jusq. I once said na if only I had two hearts or a clone machine, I'd give myself away for free mabago lang pagiging cynical nila.
December came, dun na ko naglakas loob umamin kay Ace, hindi siya nagalit sakin but, sa sarili nya. He told me he will close his doors. It's too painful pero it was my fault. He became distant. Like we're oceans apart. Pero andun pa rin yung pa-react react as Story as FB and sa posts ko. Kahit di na kami nag-uusap, he was still there, watching, secretly supporting. All I could think of is that maybe we weren't on the right timing. Kung di man siya ngayon (kasi I'm already commited to Son), baka sa susunod na lifetime namin, kami naman. So, I tried to finally forget my feelings for him, forgive myself, and love myself first. Focus on what I currently have.
Kami pa rin ni Son, still healing and kinakaya yung problems through this pandemic. Pinili namin ang isa't-isa. Kahit ilang away or misunderstanding o tampuhan, we still chose to reconcile and learn together. Di ko rin alam kung anong magnet meron sakaniya, Siguro kasi I prayed for a person like Son. I need to grow. Sana maging lifetime ko na si Son, I'm happy where I am right now. Sana makahanap si Ace ng sarili niyang lifetime na pipiliin siya sa araw-araw. Yung mamahalin din siya equally to how he love. Sana di siya tumigil sa pagkanta.
Sulit ng B&B, may theme song kada yugto ng buhay ko shets 💙💛
ughhh,, i absolutely a-DOOR this song :')
i'll go see myself out
badum tsssss
Close the door on your way out
weirdo
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I see
I really love reading comments on Ben&Ben's songs 'coz people has a lot of interpretation of what the song really tackles about. It helps me to comprehend the song even clearer. Turns out that what I thought from the song is just one of the many significances of what it really is.
very true indeed
Yesssss buddy
Cause ben and ben really gathers soulful peopleeeee.
As I listen to Ben&ben's DOORS, isang tao lang talaga yung naalala ko sa kanta na to. Yung sarili ko. I'm always keeping myself behind that secret door. Lagi akong takot mag open up sa mga dark thoughts and feelings ko. Takot kasi baka hindi valid yung nararamdaman ko. Takot na baka oa lang ako kapag nakakaramdam na ko ng pain. Baka deserve ko naman talaga na masaktan kaya di ko na lang kinukwento sa iba. And as the time goes by na ganon yung siste ko, nasanay na ko. Nasanay na ipagsawalang bahala kapag nasasaktan ako kahit sobra na. Kalimutan yung pagod. Dina-divert ko sarili ko sa ibang bagay. Kaya dumating sa point na nasabi ko "HALA PUTA. MAY NARARAMDAMAN PA BA KO?" and after ko panuorin and pakinggan yung DOOR, ewan pero naiyak talaga ako. Tangina. Ben&ben never failed me to feel that kahit I'm in pain, I am still loved and safe. Lalo na sa kanta nila now, naisip ko na oo nga may nga tao nga palang nagttry ireach out ako, and hindi ko pala dapat ishut yung door kapag tinatry nilang pumasok at samahan ako sa likod ng mga pinto na yon.
Thank you Ben&Ben. Kung pwede ko lang kayo ihug at pasalamatan in person, gagawin ko na. 💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛
Hiii! di talaga ako ma-post ng comments (lalo na dito) pero naiintindihan ko talaga lahat ng nasabe mo. Ganyan na ganyan din ako. I've always had this tendency to repress everything, pain, insecurities, basta, kahit anong bagay na kaya kong sinasarili, sinasarili ko. It wasn't until 2 weeks ago ako na nag-open up ako ng buong buo sa closest friends ko. Masyado na kasi talagang mabigat sakin ang mga bagay-bagay kaya I took courage and told them everything that was burdening my heart at the moment. I've been friends for them for 6 years at noon lang nila ako nakilala ng ganon. Tama ka. May mga tao sa buhay natin na pinagsasarhan natin ng pinto for our personal, painful reasons. Tama lang siguro na pagsarhan natin sila dahil hinding-hindi nila tayo maiintindihan ng buo. Pero ngayon, unti-unti kong naiintindihan na that doesn't mean that we can't get the support that we want, even crave, from them. Dasal ko sayo ay sana mahanap mo ang mga tamang tao na pagbubuksan mo ng pinto. There will always be strength in vulnerability. Kapag ready ka na mag-share at kung alam mo sa sarili mo na nakahanap kana ng mga tamang tao, sana hindi mo lang sila pagbuksan ng pinto, sana hayaan mo rin silang makitang buo ang puso mo.
I know how you feel po
That, 'may nararamdaman pa ba ko?' feeling, totoo yan.. Yung ,tanong na, Tao ka pa bang nakakaramdam? Haha. Ngayon may soundtrack na ako .. 🌚
Bok Joo Kim This is beautiful! Salamat!
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Once a new song is released, i always look up on the comment section, it just shows that some people really felt what the song is all about. And it is a great thing to know that some people have their own experiences about life. Keep it up ben&ben! Keep inspiring people! :) 👍
"Words you never mean just to be kind"
WHO'S HERE BEFORE 1MILLION VIEWS?🙋🙋😍
I immediately love this song because opening up is something na mahirap saatin. We don't know kung ano-ano na nangyayari sa ating mga mahal sa buhay sa mga oras na ito kaya let's keep in touch with them and sabi nga sa kanta "no more of your secret doors".
Stay safe everybody!! 💙💛
At first i was lying about the little things about myself and my life, then slowly more lies build up. Until i've even lied about my own personality and how and who i really am.
And right now i'm forced to live a life full of lies, scared that people will find out that i'm not as good as a person as they think i am.
man... of all the comments here, it was yours that made me stare at the screen for quite a while and think
We almost have the same story i also lived for 6 years full of lies trying to be like every one else and forcing myself to like what they like Just so i can be friends with them..
now that they were separated i finally realised everything that i did wrong and how much i lied to myself im still healing now trying to learn about myself better also found better people who led me to the right path^-^
Just gotta tell yah that even if you step out and let out the truth some people will still accept you
heard from spotify's recommendation. this was so gooddddd
We all have a secret door…and there will always be that one person who can unlock it and see the beauty in it,even if you can't see it
Pautang
" Time won't heal anything,
if you don't surrender you lies."
I think this song strongly says that unpleasant truths from are much better than comforting lies.
Thank you Pao, Migs, Poch, Jam, Pat, Andrew, Agnes, Keifer and Toni for once again delivering a song that can go through our hearts and souls.
Indeed
So trueee :(
bat parang bawat video na meaning na sad or meaningful may mga ganto😂
respect tho
Man, I'm tired. I'm so tired of myself. I always walk away when things are about to get rough. I push away people around me. I'm afraid I'll just be a burden. I'd rather carry all the burden than pass it on to the people whom I love so dearly. I'm afraid of stressing them out. I don't wanna be toxic around them.
I'll write a poem
But pushing them away will cause pain and distress to them also specially if they are overthinkers. That's what happened to me when my boyfriend bottled up his feelings then pushed me away.
Communication is truly the ✨key✨ 🤧
❝everything is okay, i guess,
i'm just a little tired.❞
first line palang, nararamdaman na ❤️ we love uu ben&ben! always stay safe!!
Wow. And you recorded and wrote it while separated from quarantine? What a masterpiece. Kudos!
Edit: "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin" is the song they wrote while quarantine. ✌️ Waiting for it!!
Hello! The way I see it, this was written and recorded before the quarantine po. It was supposed to be played during Wanderland pero that got cancelled. The one written during quarantine is “Nakikinig Ka Ba Sa Akin?” Nevertheless, YES. WHAT A MASTERPIECE
Joaquin Arig Oh, thank you for that information. I got carried away from Pao's tweet that they wrote a song while quarantine. Looking forward for "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin?" hehe 😅
Jeric nasa fb page po nila yung parang draft nun hahahah check niyo po 💛
Joaquin Arig I watched it on their Twitter account hehe thank you!
Eto yung sa Masyadong Pang Maaga BTS. May nag vid habang kinakanta nila yung Doors 😊
twitter.com/OlenaGil/status/1250454889005592577?s=07
My sister killed herself because she lost to her mental illness, depression :( Please talk to domeone when you’re feeling depressed. Don’t keep them in secret doors
condolence
currently struggling with that right now, 💖💖💖
@@bappo1525 life is beautiful ❤️
Walang nakikinig eh :(
i think im going to give up soon
the day my grandma died my cousin ask me to stop studying because he stopped he said if i stop next school year we will be classmates . i agreed and i stopped
and the time i dropped out comes my cousins teacher gave him a chance to pass and thats why i am left behind with no help from my cousin
im all alone with the expectations from my parents
“everything is okay, i guess. i’m just a little tired”
this line really hit me that HARD, since i’m having trust issues rn, i’m not really that kind of person who shares a LOT. i’m the person who always hide the pain. i’m not really open to my small circle of friends, my bestfriend knows all of my pain i’m really lucky to have her. i worry about them especially when they are in their breakdowns, i cheer them up and tell them everything will be fine. i ask them if “are you okay?” “is everything okay?” to the point i also ask myself “how about me?” “am i really okay?” for me it’s a lot better to hide yourself to that thing called “secret door”.
i don’t really share my problems because maybe i’ll be just a burden to them and i don’t want that. i’m really having a hard time since my parents broke up when i was 4 years old, it was really hard growing up having a broken family. i’m just really tired of trying to be the best but can they really see it? i don’t even know who am i supposed to reach out if the both of them doesn’t even understands me.
i guess i’m just a little tired? i do really love my parents but sometimes they just don’t want to understand what i am really trying to say. this song “doors” of Ben&Ben hits differently now in this kind of situation, thank you a LOT Ben&Ben for making a masterpiece such as like this, please make some MORE 🥺 i owe you one. i love you Ben&Ben !! thank you for making me a lot better thru this song 🥺💘 may God bless you more !!
ps. to all the sad peeps out there and having a hard time to reach out, our feelings are valid, we will be happy soon! PUHON !!! ✊🏻
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies."
VOLUMES UP!!!!
We have to accept that we all do have that secret doors and it is up to us if we'll open it up or just let it be a secret. But remember too, that it won't heal anything :((
Step up!! open up your secret doors. Sabi nga nila "Walang lihim na 'di nabubunyag" might as well sabihin na ng maaga para 'di na masayadong masakit kapag nalaman.
Ps. My 1am thought while listening to this song.
Solid 💙💛
To those who are struggling and healing in silence, I hope we open up our secret doors to the people who deserve to enter our life. May we grab the opportunity that knocks back to improve ourselves and compensate for the mistakes we made in the past. May we have the freedom from the people who gave us trust issues. May we give life a chance again. May we move forward and hope that better days await us. *Hugs*
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Abz Collado if you dont mind mag i post this on twitter
@@kuro9842 sure po.
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Ughh thank you for existing ben&ben😩💖
I remember the high school "me" wrote some poems and songs that speak about the things i wished people around me will understand what i feel, unanswered questions. I kept them only for me kasi too afraid of what they will say.
One thing I learned is to be vocal and don’t wait until the things that bother/hurt you fester and eat your feelings/core. If you let that happen, one day you will
wake up feeling nothing and fed up. Be vocal and learn to communicate even if the receiving end don’t actually listen. One day, you will find someone who care about your feelings and will genuinely listen. No more lies, and no more secret doors ❤️
I'm a really vocal person, I like saying what's on my mind. The problem is, no one ever wanted to listen.
jihann bello if you dont mind may i post this on twitter
Misa Mhien yes you can! What’s your username?
Haiist
@@nothisispatrick1797 Perhaps.
But at least you won't regret that you didn't say anything.
This is the kind of song that making us to remind of someone that had been part of our life.
It's always that one person.
Agreed.
I admire Ben&Ben kind of music. They always touch your heart in a good way and though their choice of songs are always sad it still a great song to reminisce our pasts.
This song explains why 2 lovers should always be open to each other, that they should never let things left unspoken.
Hey BB's!!! This is literally what we've been waiting for. Let's hope Ben&Ben gets the recognition they deserve kasi talaga namang walang makakatanggi kung gaano sila kagaling. Kaya for all the BB's out there, let's continue to support our favorite band. PUHON!!!!!!
This for me and for those who are struggling to open up their problems and their selves to other people and for those dealing and fighting on their own. I hope someday we'll have the courage to be open and to have no more secret doors.
Isa sa mga underrated songs ng ben and ben
"Words you don't mean, just to be kind"
This line just speaks to me. Most days I just choose to let my mind be unheard, thinking it would be better if it's not said. But, I'm just torturing myself and there's just a big pile of my emotions and thoughts buried inside me. So, takot lang talaga ako maging selfish and waste someone else's energy by dropping everything. I know it's pathetic.
Bata pa lang tayo nababasa na natin ang, "Honesty is the best policy", para maging honest tayo sa iba, dapat maging honest muna tayo sa mga sarili natin. Also, pagbuksan lang natin ng pinto yung dapat- di rin maganda maging open book, paLimited edition tayo ng slight. Ha? Basta yun.
*"words you never mean, just to be kind"*
boi im somehow attacked.
samedt
Boi the guy i like just told me to don't wait for him bc he might hurt me while waiting for him. And he can't explain why. I get him but he still pushed me away.
the first time i heard this song, I saw myself. I saw the things i did to myself. I hurt myself too much. remembered the time where I was falling for this girl. Who was my best friend at the time. It started when we had our late night talks. Talks about life, about love, about. Ourselves. And then suddenly one night. I fell. A simple "I love you." Made me tremble. Tremble in fear? In terror? Until today I dont understand. Ofcourse I said "I love you too." The next day we talked and we talked. And then it hit me. I fell. I failed. But then a notification from my phone popped up. "I love youuu, salamat haa?" It couldnt be helped. I thought we had feelings about each other. Akala ko lang pala. January 24th I confessed. When was our last conversation? January 24. I fell. Ugh how I miss you. I remember when we also used to encourage each other. Help each other even. I was there for you. You were there for me. Where are you now? Nabalitaan ko na lang meron kana pala. February 14th i looked at our chats, and well. You blocked me. Anxiety, depression, fear, confusion, I felt I was lost, I did the wrong thing again. I always do. Why do I never do anything right? I said to myself. Then i discovered ben&ben. I realized. I hurt myself too much. But to this day. I'll still wait for you.
"Maybe in a parallel universe, where everything is in reverse. I'll be yours and you'll be mine."
wow nice, new to me and i found it really good...the content sums up the character of my hubby, he really is and thanks GOD for that..GOD bless us all!!!
MAKIKISHARE LANG PO
DOORS BEN&BEN PIANO COVER:
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A song that speaks about to surrender the secretive anxiety, sins, pain and sorrow that we tend to hide from the Lord. Aaa ben and ben preaching
"Everything is okay, I guess
I'm just a little tired"
-It is really that tiring living with secrets.
"No need to think about this mess, it goes away in time"
-When you try to ignore your problems because you're used to it and you thought it will just disappear anytime.
Ben&Ben first two lines palang grabe na agad☹💙
Angganda nung tunog ng bass ni ate agnes apaka galengg😍😘😘
It's really hard to open up specially when people knew you as a strong person with a strong heart. Growing up not knowing what a father's love really feels and I was really jealous of my siblings because they knew what it felt like being loved by your father even it's just a few years I really envy them.Even though I was the youngest I always felt like I need to be the strong one physically, mentally,everything.i feel like I have to be a father figure like always there helping mom buying things in the market , helping her carry all the things we bought, carrying things a lot heavier than me while every Sunday while my brother is sleeping and my sister is going to church even though I wanted to go with my sister I feel like I was always incharge of helping mom and mom didn't took care of me that much because she is busy working and I was jealous of my siblings because mom was a housewife and had a lot of time taking care of my siblings and I always wanted her attention so I always went for campetitions just so I can get her attention even just a little.i always had a hard time expressing myself and no one thought me how like even though me how to chop onions or do my assignments no one and I think I will always be the person who don't know how to communicate with her family about how she feels or socialize with new people or just an old classmate or a cousin and it's hard.really hard
Everyone is having a hard time not only the middle ones not only the older ones even the youngest ones are having a hard time.i just hope that we the youngest is also having a hard time from the expectations if everyone.everyone expects for is the greater than the older ones or to keep up with them and it's hard,I wasn't born smart like them,I wasn't born good at computer like them I only know how to go to TH-cam and watch some vlogs or play music on a laptop.and everyone expects me to know more than what my siblings knew! And like it's crazy and scary that you will disappointed them and not reach their expectations.its hard really hard.
“Open up your secret doors” it’s like a representation on how couples should be transparent with one another. Kung mababasa mo man to, i just want to say i love you.
For me,sa panahon na ‘to if we connect this song to our current situation.The lyrics say “words you never mean,just to be kind.open up your secret doors” actually the whole lyrics says to speak the truth (govt,ppl who lie about their condition,etc.) We won’t know our true situation if we will lie to ourselves and everyone.Now is the time to speak up to know the truth.
Para lang naman saken
Ang ganda ng sinabi mo lam mo yun. Maisip na nga sana ang cure sa pandemic na to. 👍🏻
I just heard it Yesterday on J-Wave 81.3 FM (Japan Radio Station) nakaka proud sobra!
Wow talaga po? Pinoy po kayo na nasa Japan?
Yung kasama ko makinig ng mga songs ng Ben&Ben wala na. Salamat sa magagandang ala-ala. Ikaw at ikaw lang ang nakikita ko mahalin. Masakit pero kelangan tanggapin. Sana sa muli nating pag tatagpo successful na tayo pareho. Good luck, arki! Andito lang ako palagi.
Hey, it's been a while. Are you okay?
When have you asked yourself that question? When was the last time? Are you really being true to yourself? Are you really willing to open up and forgive yourself for your misdoings? Kailan mo aamining pagod ka na? Na takot ka? Na kailangan mo ng tulong at makakausap para makawala ka sa rehas ng sakit na iyong pinapasan? Masaya ka man lang ba? Masaya ka ba talaga?
I hope we will all learn to be open and be true. It doesn't always have to be towards others. We can start it within ourselves. We must open up our doors if we want to be unloaded from the heavy burden we've tried to keep inside for a very long time.
It's okay to be tired. It's okay to cry and be a wimp. We all need it sometimes. We need to be honest to ourselves. Kung gusto mong makawala, buksan mo ang rehas na kumukulong sa 'yo. Open your secret doors. It will never be easy. Pero para sa kalayaan mo, sana ay kayanin mo.
Thank you for this❤️❤️
Putang ina. Bakit mo binanggit lahat ng nasa utak ko? Especially that, "masaya ka ba talaga?" 😭
Jeremy Cabillo Tangina, same thoughts bro
@@jeremycabillo2031 Kasi yun tayo, eh. We are pretentious people. But above all else, I sincerely hope you will be happy. 💖
@@jhemitzie Welcome, sis. Minsan kasi ganito din ako.
"Masaya ba talaga ako?"
This song made me realize that it's okay to speak up, to share whatever things you have in mind without minding what people might say or react about it... Gosh. I love you, Bens, so much!!! You all rock! 💙💛
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Exactly! ♥️
Just listening to this reminds me of how many times I closed my doors to good things, good people. Just because of the fear of the unknown
its hard opening up to anyone for me. im always scared of being called 'maarte' because i was raised with people who keep saying "you dont deserve to feel sad over things because people have it ten times worse than you"
but then again, do i deserve to be happy because people have it ten times better than me?
Hello. Kumusta ka?
Same po. That "OA mo naman" "drama" keme ang tingin nila kapag nag oopem ako sa kanila. Kaya wag nalang :))
Mag ingay mga BBs❤️
It was like a song to our own self. A song for all the things that we haven't discovered on ourselves yet.
every couple must hear this, no more secrets between each other to be understood 💗 be an open door
I hope I have someone in my life who would bother to really know what's inside my mind. Cause the most painful thing for me is that when you want to tell them everything that bothers you and you're ready to open your doors but there is none who is willing and interested in listening to you :)
There are some things that we kept from people-it maybe because we are afraid of judgment or we just don't want tofeel like we are a burden. Thoughts that are kept hidden behind closed doors. I'm in a relationship and it has never been my thing to tell everything to him. Whenever I have a problem or I am mentally unstable, I tend to shut down and isolate myself from people-even from him. This song feels like my bf's talking to me. That he wants to save me but he can't do that unless I allow him. To everyone who's experiencing the same thing, I pray that we find the courage to share our burdens to someone. Let yourself be heard. Someone out there is willing to listen. It is not wrong to open yourself up sometimes. Bottling your feelings will drain you. Let's not be harsh on ourselves. Ask help. Thank you bb's. We love you forever💚
"time won't heal anything
if you don't surrender your lies"
You really have to let it go para hindi ka na mabigatan sa dinadala mong bagahe wag mong ipunin hayaan mo rin sarili mong tulungan ka ng iba kung hindi mo kayang tulungan yung sarili mo mka bangon o mka move on.
Ben&Ben is ❤️ no words can explain how Ben&Ben touches the heart and soul of people through their songs😭
Just realized that every ben&ben fans are brilliant. They are listening and not just hearing. ❤️
Songs can be your greatest spokesperson whenever you can't express your self and feelings.
Dear Ben&Ben, why does it feels like you've read my mind, like you knew what happened to me this past few years.
If you ever feel down, just remember that you’re lucky enough to live in the same era and “Lifetime” with this band 💙
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies. I won't even know what on your mind if you'll always be hidng behind."
Awweee. Your music really is my therapy. Thank youuuuuuu Ben&Ben!🤗😘
“Everything is okay, I guess
I'm just a little tired
No need to think about this mess
It goes away in time”
“Time won't heal anything
If you don't surrender your light”
Everyone,be true and don’t keep it all to yourself.There will always be someone who’s worthy to open up your secret doors to.Fighting!💙💛💙
And cheers for another masterpiece from Ben & Ben!💙💛💙
This song “Doors” speaks a lot of meaning but for me while listening to this, this reminded me of our vision during year 2019 which is “Open Doors”. It reminded me of my season during that time. And this line “ Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies “ ahhhh this line rebuke me.
If you are the person who is in this season of life wherein you did surrender to Him but sometimes you feel like you are still in the same ground, remember that surrendering to the Lord is also a process, we think surrendering is just one time thing but no, instead of thinking of it in a way you can do it completely one time, surrendering to the Lord is a process as well, in fact it’s a daily decision.
Going back to that line “Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies” it also means let go of those things that are not under your care, let it go in God’s hands and feel your heart being empty-empty it so that the Lord could have space to do His work. As well as, what you do in that time is necessary, I hope you use that time to do all the good things that will help you be better :”) The process won’t be easy at first but believe in yourself that you can surpass it :”)
Amen to this.
Thank you!
Amen to this 😇❤
Thank you po ❤
I am actually in the process of letting go ofall the things that hurt me and let God take control of everything 😇
Mikura Yu You are welcome😊 Know that the Lord is not just looking for a willing heart but a heart that is also faithful💗 and that is what you are💗 Continue walking in the presence of God😊💗
You have good taste in music kung nandito ka :))
Ang ganda talaga ng mga songs nila, kailan kaya lalabas yung 'nakikinig ka ba saakin' hihi ang solid din nooonnnn AAAAAA