It's more than romantic love, guys. It is about reaching out-to those who are struggling with themselves to open up, to those whose minds are rumbling, to those who feel they are alone in the dark. 🤗 I know it's hard but it's harder if you keep it all by yourself. Let it out, if you are one of those, open up your secret doors.
Sa kantang 'to ang sarap talakayin ng: Isang anak na lalaki na pilit ikinukubli ang tunay nyang pagkatao sa kanyang ama. Isang ina na hindi ipinapakita sa mga anak ang mga pasang dulot ng pambubugbog ng ama. Isang ama na pilit nagpoprovide para sa pamilya nya kahit na parang alipin trato sa kanya ng mga amo nya. Isang dalagang may mapait na karanasan subalit dahil natatakot sa maaaring maging tingin sa kanya ng iba, inililihim nya. Isang batang may espesyal na karamdaman na gustong lumabas sa mundo para kilalaning normal ng iba. Isang kaibigang lihim na umiibig sa kaibigan nya pero mas ninanais na ikubli dahil baka maputol ang pagkakaibigan nila. At isang nagmamahal na gustong makaramdam ng kalayaan mula sa taong nagsasabing mahal siya ngunit kinokontrol ang buong pagkatao nya. Walang ibang makapagpapalaya sa iyo kundi ang pagiging totoo. Hindi hihilom ang sakit kung di mo ipapakita ang dahilan bakit ka nasasaktan. Buksan ang lihim na pinto at lumabas bitbit ang tapang na ipakita ang katotohanan. Such a masterpiece, Ben&Ben ❤️
This song screams "empathy". When someone opens up about their feelings or about something that bothers them, please, don't try to turn it into an argument or make them feel guilty of feeling that way. This is one of the reasons why some people find it hard to communicate with their partners/loved ones. Don't just hear them out.. Listen and try to comprehend as best as you can. Communication is nonsense if it lacks empathy and understanding. Empathize with them. It goes a long way. 😌
I know very well that it's selfish. Ang selfish ko kasi ayoko aminin yung talagang nararamdaman ko sa mga kaibigan ko, sa family ko, sa loved ones. Yung nararamdaman ko na mabigat na, ayoko maramdaman yun kasi lagi ko nalang iniisip na pagpinaalam ko, magiging bother lang ako sa mga tao. Atsaka nakakaguilty lang talaga kasi ang daming tao ang mas nahihirapan kesa sakin diba? Kaya ayoko magreklamo kasi alam ko wala ako karapatan. Ayoko maging maarte kaya ayun... I'm always gonna hide behind closed doors. I can live with this. Hindi ko nalang papansinin. Mawawala rin 'to. Magiging ok din ako. Pagod lang 'to.
PamMadeYouRead No, please open up to someone, atleast to the right people. My sister was selfish with her thoughts as well. And you don’t know the grief and horror we felt nung nag suicide sya sa room nya coz she couldn’t contain it
@@changbinsmunchlaxplushie7451 hala... I'm sorry for your loss. And oo I realized na ang selfish nga na-itago kasi para saan pa ba yung friends, family and loved ones kung hindi ka rin magiging honest sa kanila... Thank you and please stay safe always!
@PamMadeYouRead No dear, there's no such thing as "oa" or "maarte" . If it hurts you , it hurts you. We all have different kinds of pain. Sometimes mabigat na para sayo pero magaan lang para sa iba. Don't torture yourself sweetheart. Don't be afraid. Kung di ka nila maintindihan, God's always there. Take good care of your heart dear, you only have one
@PamMadeYouRead True for me as well. Well, I grow up like this behind "doors". And at the present time napapaisip rin ako na I should open up nga to people about my feelings. Dont get me wrong, I do talk and share how I feel naman like day to day pero alam mo yung deep thoughts and feelings? Yun. That troubles me. But yeah. Im trying little by little.
Yes, it will pass, just hold yourself and breathe deeply. But please know that your feelings are valid kasi ikaw yung nakakaramdam ng ganyan eh, hindi ang ibang tao.
“Words you never mean, just to be kind” Is actually all about the words you said just because you don’t wanna hurt somebody. You say words that doesn’t really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship okay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel. Sometimes we think that it’s better to choose hurting ourselves with the lies we make just to save someone from hurting, hahaha. Deep. But can we all just allow ourselves to bleed in-front of someone who caused it? Maybe in that way, we too can heal. But yeah, I wish it was that easy 🙃 Be strong to the ones who doesn’t open up a lot. Labyu and God does too
"You say words that doesn't really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship ojay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel." 💯
"Time won't heal anything If you don't surrender your lies" I really believe in this line, many of us believe back then that "Time heals" but how can we heal ourselves in the process if we don't know how to? This is a lesson for us to surrender our "what ifs", our doubts, the lies that we keep telling ourselves and start forgiving. Stop hiding and show yourself because we are meant to shine our TRUE colors upon others. No more of your secret DOORS. Kudos Ben&Ben this is a masterpiece!
Did you really mean what you've said? If you really did, and in most accurate way to say that you are the only one who knows the true answer to that question... then please just sit back, relax and... let me humbly sing this song to you.🙏
The person that I love, she's a very secretive person. she very rarely talk about her day, how and what she thinks, even how she feels. she's a completely different personality. I know I couldn't understand cause I think in a straightforward way, but the time spent with her made me feel what she's really going through.. still, even now she remains a mystery to me. everything is blurry right now. it's hard to take down someone's walls if they themselves couldn't let you in. we can't blame them, the only way to love them is to stay within their reach, even if they have confined themselves inside.
This song is basically me, falling for a close friend of mine. A girl. For the first time in my whole life, I fell for a girl. I wasn’t prepared for it; definitely caught me off guard. My anxiety made it even worse and just overthought everything. I didn’t want to ruin our friendship so I thought it was better to just pull away, but I did it without any warning, it confused her but she didn’t ask questions. So she pulled away too, I guess she’s been burned too many times as well. It still ruined our friendship anyway. Lol I did realize my mistake after a few weeks and tried to backtrack but everything was so awkward and we’re just not the same.. It’s like she already put up a wall between us while I just didn’t know how to act around her anymore. We eventually stopped having conversations even though we saw each other everyday. Months later, she reached out to me and we started talking again but I was still in the process of getting over my feelings for her. It felt like we just continued where we left off. But I couldn’t open up to her like I used to. I wanted to tell her everything, but how do I do that when everything’s just about her? I never even wanted to start a relationship with her, I just wanted to bring our closeness and bond back. I feel like the only way to move forward was to reveal my truth. But what if she couldn’t handle it? I wouldn’t be able to handle losing her again. Edit: Didn’t expect the amount of encouragement and comfort I’d receive from you guys; I was just thinking out loud here. Thank you, all your comments are read and appreciated. :) PS. If it wasn’t implied enough on my comment, I’m a girl who fell for another girl. I still prefer men though but yes, apparently, I’m bi for my friend. Hehe Update 2022: For those who are curious-We’ve become the best of friends. I never told her about all this and we never talked about the awkward phase but I’m okay now. She has a bf now and I’m really happy for her. While I’m still single and praying for the right guy for me :)
Just tell her the truth you'll be more relieved if you say the truth. As for her it depends on how she'll respond to it but don't let it ruin your friendship, even if she accepts you or not. Don't lose her. What are love without friends?
Noah Narvaez I feel like telling the truth now wouldn’t help the situation. Our friendship is still fragile at the moment and I don’t want to try and rock the boat yet again. Right now I’m just more relieved that she started to reach out to me again, even if it means I will have to hide behind white lies for longer than I wanted to. I think keeping her in my life is more important to me than revealing my truth. 😕
@@cloudyellix for me, just tell her the truth with sincerity. Before telling her whay you have in mind, ask her first, and speak out why do you want to tell her that truth (pertaining that you just want to bring the bond back again without the intention of starting a new intimate relationship). Keeping this up and continuing to tell white lies does relieve the pressure, but in the end (not that i am hoping for), if anything goes wrong, it'll be more devastating than telling the truth. You will not know what truly the future holds between you two, unless both of you know the true intentions of each other.
for me the song is about those people who can't allow themself to express their feelings to the people around them, because they're the ones who is the funny one in those people the who lights up their world and can't afford to tell their raging thoughts to those people even to their loved ones and friends.
I feel that this song is all about escaping from the trials in our relationship. Lagi tayong tumatakbo, pumupunta sa mga sikretong pintuan. Kailan kaya tayo magiging matapang at magiging bukas para sa mahal natin? When will you open up your secret doors?
As I listen to Ben&ben's DOORS, isang tao lang talaga yung naalala ko sa kanta na to. Yung sarili ko. I'm always keeping myself behind that secret door. Lagi akong takot mag open up sa mga dark thoughts and feelings ko. Takot kasi baka hindi valid yung nararamdaman ko. Takot na baka oa lang ako kapag nakakaramdam na ko ng pain. Baka deserve ko naman talaga na masaktan kaya di ko na lang kinukwento sa iba. And as the time goes by na ganon yung siste ko, nasanay na ko. Nasanay na ipagsawalang bahala kapag nasasaktan ako kahit sobra na. Kalimutan yung pagod. Dina-divert ko sarili ko sa ibang bagay. Kaya dumating sa point na nasabi ko "HALA PUTA. MAY NARARAMDAMAN PA BA KO?" and after ko panuorin and pakinggan yung DOOR, ewan pero naiyak talaga ako. Tangina. Ben&ben never failed me to feel that kahit I'm in pain, I am still loved and safe. Lalo na sa kanta nila now, naisip ko na oo nga may nga tao nga palang nagttry ireach out ako, and hindi ko pala dapat ishut yung door kapag tinatry nilang pumasok at samahan ako sa likod ng mga pinto na yon. Thank you Ben&Ben. Kung pwede ko lang kayo ihug at pasalamatan in person, gagawin ko na. 💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛
Hiii! di talaga ako ma-post ng comments (lalo na dito) pero naiintindihan ko talaga lahat ng nasabe mo. Ganyan na ganyan din ako. I've always had this tendency to repress everything, pain, insecurities, basta, kahit anong bagay na kaya kong sinasarili, sinasarili ko. It wasn't until 2 weeks ago ako na nag-open up ako ng buong buo sa closest friends ko. Masyado na kasi talagang mabigat sakin ang mga bagay-bagay kaya I took courage and told them everything that was burdening my heart at the moment. I've been friends for them for 6 years at noon lang nila ako nakilala ng ganon. Tama ka. May mga tao sa buhay natin na pinagsasarhan natin ng pinto for our personal, painful reasons. Tama lang siguro na pagsarhan natin sila dahil hinding-hindi nila tayo maiintindihan ng buo. Pero ngayon, unti-unti kong naiintindihan na that doesn't mean that we can't get the support that we want, even crave, from them. Dasal ko sayo ay sana mahanap mo ang mga tamang tao na pagbubuksan mo ng pinto. There will always be strength in vulnerability. Kapag ready ka na mag-share at kung alam mo sa sarili mo na nakahanap kana ng mga tamang tao, sana hindi mo lang sila pagbuksan ng pinto, sana hayaan mo rin silang makitang buo ang puso mo.
my boyfriend cried in front of me yesterday, it was the first time that i saw him cry. it was a wonderful starry night with the moon shining bright, he was hugging me and then suddenly he cried. it was a bittersweet feeling to see him cry. i dont like him crying but it touched my heart knowing that he was really comfortable with me to the point that he was able to show his vulnerable side, and not everyone can do that especially guys. this song reminded me of him. he opened his secret doors and let me in. it made me realize that i cannot afford to hurt him, to see him hurting, to see him crying last night was too much for me. i love him so much.
Ben&Ben gave us Leaves for us to hope that all will be alright in time. Now, Ben&Ben gives us doors, that aside from hoping that all will be alright in time, we need to do some actions too. Toxic positivity, as I picked up from the 1st stanza, does not do us any good. We should all learn to accept the fact that some battles are best shared with people who knows us, either a lover/partner, a friend, your siblings, or even parents, that is worthy to open up every secret doors we're trying to keep locked. And in that moment, that feeling is enough. For us to keep going, and hoping but now knowing we are not alone. "No more of your secret doors, we got you." #BenAndBenDOORS
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies." It's hard, specially when your happiness is a mistake to others, sometimes there's nothing left to do but to lie and keep it to yourself
your happiness is not for others but your own. you might have started with a mistake, but as long as it becomes the RIGHT CHOICE, then all will be all right in time.
“Time won’t heal anything If you don’t surrender your lies” This is so true. No matter how long you’re trying to heal, if you still have those unsaid feelings, if you’ll still keep those lies. You’re not healing and won’t heal at all. Kaya stop depending on your “what if’s” take a risk. Sabihin mo na lahat ng gusto mong sabihin sakanya.
This song is for people like you :) in a good way. And yes, you are right but you just have to open up to the right people. All will be alright in time :))
I feel like it's about someone who has a loved one who's so closed, who build up walls around her, who has secret doors and how that loved one find it so hard to open up to someone :((( anyways, kudos to you ben&ben for writing such a masterpiece even on quarantine ❤
"Everything is okay, I'm just a little tired" It's so relatable, I'm always saying this to my friends na every time na tinatanong nila ako kung ok lang ako I just say na pagod lang ako pero deep inside gusto kong mag burst out at umiyak sa harap nila pero I can't maybe because I'm scared kase last time na nag open up ako they said na masyado lang akong madrama and I guess they're right maybe my feelings are not valid at all
L Moran in my case I don't open my secrets with them kasi ayokong ma judge. And the fact na hindi nila maiintindihan since hindi nila nararamdaman yung pinagdadaanan ko. So I kept it only myself. I'm just tired of hearing people saying "okay lang", "sus wala yan", "kaya mo yan" as if every things is easy and okay. Ang hirap mag explain ng nararamdaman
Hey, it's been a while. Are you okay? When have you asked yourself that question? When was the last time? Are you really being true to yourself? Are you really willing to open up and forgive yourself for your misdoings? Kailan mo aamining pagod ka na? Na takot ka? Na kailangan mo ng tulong at makakausap para makawala ka sa rehas ng sakit na iyong pinapasan? Masaya ka man lang ba? Masaya ka ba talaga? I hope we will all learn to be open and be true. It doesn't always have to be towards others. We can start it within ourselves. We must open up our doors if we want to be unloaded from the heavy burden we've tried to keep inside for a very long time. It's okay to be tired. It's okay to cry and be a wimp. We all need it sometimes. We need to be honest to ourselves. Kung gusto mong makawala, buksan mo ang rehas na kumukulong sa 'yo. Open your secret doors. It will never be easy. Pero para sa kalayaan mo, sana ay kayanin mo.
as someone who has a hard time opening up to others, this song spoke volumes to me. now i cant help but wonder if people around me feel this way whenever they try to get to know me, only to be met by the walls that i've built around myself.
I really love reading comments on Ben&Ben's songs 'coz people has a lot of interpretation of what the song really tackles about. It helps me to comprehend the song even clearer. Turns out that what I thought from the song is just one of the many significances of what it really is.
I immediately love this song because opening up is something na mahirap saatin. We don't know kung ano-ano na nangyayari sa ating mga mahal sa buhay sa mga oras na ito kaya let's keep in touch with them and sabi nga sa kanta "no more of your secret doors". Stay safe everybody!! 💙💛
There are many people that's having a hard time opening up and expressing their feelings, and I'm one of them. It's so hard especially when you're soooo conscious about what other people will say. Not saying things we want to doesn't always mean we have permanently closed our doors, it's just that we have been hurt so many times that hiding behind the doors is the only way to protect ourselves from getting our feelings scarred again. But, "Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies" this is such a comfort for me, the whole song is such a big comfort for me. Everyone is going through something, even you. One lesson I've learned from this song is, to take it easy on yourself, that you don't have to carry all the burdens all by yourself, It's okay to rest sometimes. So, be kind to yourselves. To everyone who's having a hard time with communicating their feelings, and for those who's still trying to express themselves, I'm sooo proud of you, for still trying. Big hugs to you, to us!💗
To those who are struggling and healing in silence, I hope we open up our secret doors to the people who deserve to enter our life. May we grab the opportunity that knocks back to improve ourselves and compensate for the mistakes we made in the past. May we have the freedom from the people who gave us trust issues. May we give life a chance again. May we move forward and hope that better days await us. *Hugs*
" Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender you lies." I think this song strongly says that unpleasant truths from are much better than comforting lies. Thank you Pao, Migs, Poch, Jam, Pat, Andrew, Agnes, Keifer and Toni for once again delivering a song that can go through our hearts and souls.
Isa lang talaga naalala ko sa Lifetime and Doors especially the band itself, B&B. There's this guy, we became friends to best friends to almost lovers during JHS. I'll call him "Ace" here. Parang soul mate, sobrang inseparable. We discovered each other everyday, walang luha, pura tawa at sorang gaan iya kasama. A door led to another. We had similar music taste, make each other smile and laugh. I really liked him but I never told him. I had a lot of doubts in me, in him, in us pag naging kami. My family is very judgemental pa naman, I don't like that environment for him kahit sabihin niyang okay lang. He was too precious, so I never gave him any sad or more bad part of me. As he opened his doors, I closed mine. Then came another lover, I'll call him "Son," he was different, too promising. I saw immediately na siya yung taong makakasama at kakaya sa down sides and flaws ko in the future. I felt that he will accept whoever I am and will be I saw how great of a man he could be. I saw how I could do better with him. But then there comes the conflict. I pursued the new guy just because he is more acceptable. That was too stupid of me, I know. Pero naging kami. But, I was still thinking of Ace, he said he'd be happy if I am happy. So I challenged myself to love Son, he had few friends, hopeless romantic din. And I really did, he's a great person na few would only notice. February, nag break kami, we lasted for 2 years. I ran back to Ace as a best friend, or maybe because I wanted to feel happy again. Ben and Ben became ours. Not literally but, just a small thing we especially share with each other. Sabay lumalim yung fandom namin. He would sing me songs until I fall back in sleep and I would sing him songs too kasi gustong gusto niya yung boses ko. I thought Son would never hurt me, I loved him too much na walang natira sakin. He became my world. Months have passed, Ace came to comfort me. But then he was always there for me, kahit kami pa ni Son, pag umiiyak ako or di ko kinakaya, Ace always made me feel precious, loved, and be the best person I could be. Muntik na maging kami, tinanggap ko ulit si Son. Dahil marupok ako at may natira pang love kay Son, nagkaayos at nagkabalikan kami. I rejected Ace kasi he was still too immature, too dreamy, too careless like my old self. Ilang months ko rin di sinabi kay Ace na kami na ulit ni Son, Di ko rin sinabi kay Son na nag-uusap ulit kami ni Ace. Ang selfish ko para ipagdamot yung taong di ko pinili nung una. I couldn't decide kung gusto ko bang sumaya genuinely o magpasaya because he deserves to see the world in a different perspective. They were both negative thinkers at mabilis madepress, jusq. I once said na if only I had two hearts or a clone machine, I'd give myself away for free mabago lang pagiging cynical nila. December came, dun na ko naglakas loob umamin kay Ace, hindi siya nagalit sakin but, sa sarili nya. He told me he will close his doors. It's too painful pero it was my fault. He became distant. Like we're oceans apart. Pero andun pa rin yung pa-react react as Story as FB and sa posts ko. Kahit di na kami nag-uusap, he was still there, watching, secretly supporting. All I could think of is that maybe we weren't on the right timing. Kung di man siya ngayon (kasi I'm already commited to Son), baka sa susunod na lifetime namin, kami naman. So, I tried to finally forget my feelings for him, forgive myself, and love myself first. Focus on what I currently have. Kami pa rin ni Son, still healing and kinakaya yung problems through this pandemic. Pinili namin ang isa't-isa. Kahit ilang away or misunderstanding o tampuhan, we still chose to reconcile and learn together. Di ko rin alam kung anong magnet meron sakaniya, Siguro kasi I prayed for a person like Son. I need to grow. Sana maging lifetime ko na si Son, I'm happy where I am right now. Sana makahanap si Ace ng sarili niyang lifetime na pipiliin siya sa araw-araw. Yung mamahalin din siya equally to how he love. Sana di siya tumigil sa pagkanta. Sulit ng B&B, may theme song kada yugto ng buhay ko shets 💙💛
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies." VOLUMES UP!!!! We have to accept that we all do have that secret doors and it is up to us if we'll open it up or just let it be a secret. But remember too, that it won't heal anything :(( Step up!! open up your secret doors. Sabi nga nila "Walang lihim na 'di nabubunyag" might as well sabihin na ng maaga para 'di na masayadong masakit kapag nalaman. Ps. My 1am thought while listening to this song. Solid 💙💛
One thing I learned is to be vocal and don’t wait until the things that bother/hurt you fester and eat your feelings/core. If you let that happen, one day you will wake up feeling nothing and fed up. Be vocal and learn to communicate even if the receiving end don’t actually listen. One day, you will find someone who care about your feelings and will genuinely listen. No more lies, and no more secret doors ❤️
Wow. And you recorded and wrote it while separated from quarantine? What a masterpiece. Kudos! Edit: "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin" is the song they wrote while quarantine. ✌️ Waiting for it!!
Hello! The way I see it, this was written and recorded before the quarantine po. It was supposed to be played during Wanderland pero that got cancelled. The one written during quarantine is “Nakikinig Ka Ba Sa Akin?” Nevertheless, YES. WHAT A MASTERPIECE
Joaquin Arig Oh, thank you for that information. I got carried away from Pao's tweet that they wrote a song while quarantine. Looking forward for "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin?" hehe 😅
Hey BB's!!! This is literally what we've been waiting for. Let's hope Ben&Ben gets the recognition they deserve kasi talaga namang walang makakatanggi kung gaano sila kagaling. Kaya for all the BB's out there, let's continue to support our favorite band. PUHON!!!!!!
Hi po sa inyong lahat mga magaganda at pogi! Baka naman gusto niyong pakinggan mga songs namin. Nag front act kami for Ben&Ben dati. Feel free to comment! ❤❤❤
Yung kasama ko makinig ng mga songs ng Ben&Ben wala na. Salamat sa magagandang ala-ala. Ikaw at ikaw lang ang nakikita ko mahalin. Masakit pero kelangan tanggapin. Sana sa muli nating pag tatagpo successful na tayo pareho. Good luck, arki! Andito lang ako palagi.
"Everything is okay, I guess I'm just a little tired" -It is really that tiring living with secrets. "No need to think about this mess, it goes away in time" -When you try to ignore your problems because you're used to it and you thought it will just disappear anytime. Ben&Ben first two lines palang grabe na agad☹💙
Di jud ma heal sa time ang tanan ug di ka kabalo mo surrender sa imung lies. Kabalo ko na lisud jud dawaton ang kamatuoran ngano nahitabo na sa imuha life, pero hinumdomi na naa ray mga tao na andam maminaw sa imu when you feel like the whole world's collapsing. Hinayhinay nato ablihan ang atong secret doors sa saktong tao and hinayhinay pud nato dawaton ang mga butang. One day mumata ka na gaan kaayo imung paminaw sa tanan. They may have taken away a piece of you and hurt you pero naa gapun ka ari karun. I'm proud of you! Keep fighting mighty bb warrior!
This for me and for those who are struggling to open up their problems and their selves to other people and for those dealing and fighting on their own. I hope someday we'll have the courage to be open and to have no more secret doors.
Hiii... Sooo my boyfriend, este, ex-boyfriend pala, just broke up with me in the middle of this quarantine period. The only reason he told me was that he doesn't feel the need of being obligated with someone anymore, for now. Although I know that it's deeper than that and he doesn't usually open up himself to me. That's why I'm sad 'coz he could've at least try or give me a chance to get in one of those DOORS. So yeah... LOTSA THANKS, Ben&Ben!!! Ito na magiging anthem ng breakup namin. HUHUHUHU 😭💔
Pasensya na kayo sa mga tulad naming may malabong pag-iisip. Salamat din sa pag-unawa! Same story lang kasi. Nakipagbreak ako sa girlfriend saktong lockdown dahil sa parehong dahilan :(
This song “Doors” speaks a lot of meaning but for me while listening to this, this reminded me of our vision during year 2019 which is “Open Doors”. It reminded me of my season during that time. And this line “ Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies “ ahhhh this line rebuke me. If you are the person who is in this season of life wherein you did surrender to Him but sometimes you feel like you are still in the same ground, remember that surrendering to the Lord is also a process, we think surrendering is just one time thing but no, instead of thinking of it in a way you can do it completely one time, surrendering to the Lord is a process as well, in fact it’s a daily decision. Going back to that line “Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies” it also means let go of those things that are not under your care, let it go in God’s hands and feel your heart being empty-empty it so that the Lord could have space to do His work. As well as, what you do in that time is necessary, I hope you use that time to do all the good things that will help you be better :”) The process won’t be easy at first but believe in yourself that you can surpass it :”)
Mikura Yu You are welcome😊 Know that the Lord is not just looking for a willing heart but a heart that is also faithful💗 and that is what you are💗 Continue walking in the presence of God😊💗
For me,sa panahon na ‘to if we connect this song to our current situation.The lyrics say “words you never mean,just to be kind.open up your secret doors” actually the whole lyrics says to speak the truth (govt,ppl who lie about their condition,etc.) We won’t know our true situation if we will lie to ourselves and everyone.Now is the time to speak up to know the truth. Para lang naman saken
Wag kayong gagawa ng desisyon kung malungkot kayo. Kaumagahan mapagsisisihan nyo rin yan ay kayo lang ang masisira. Never leave someone you loved so much without any exact reason, cause you'll never know if there's a chance they're coming back. Walang siguradong pinto ang bubukas uli sa puso nila kung iniwan nyo na.
“Open up your secret doors” it’s like a representation on how couples should be transparent with one another. Kung mababasa mo man to, i just want to say i love you.
everytime na pinapakinggan ko 'to, nagiging fresh pa rin sa isip ko lahat ng nabasa, nakitang pictures, videos nyo. alam ko namang okay na tayo kasi mahal kita. pero iba pa rin impact sakin ng lahat ang sakit pa rin.
This song made me realize that it's okay to speak up, to share whatever things you have in mind without minding what people might say or react about it... Gosh. I love you, Bens, so much!!! You all rock! 💙💛
may mga bagay talagang di mo mapilit. I did confess to him (thinking about no more what ifs) pero hanggang doon nalang 'yon. But thankful the friendship is there. And I'm happy now seeing that he is happy 😀
"time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies" You really have to let it go para hindi ka na mabigatan sa dinadala mong bagahe wag mong ipunin hayaan mo rin sarili mong tulungan ka ng iba kung hindi mo kayang tulungan yung sarili mo mka bangon o mka move on.
"Words you don't mean, just to be kind" This line just speaks to me. Most days I just choose to let my mind be unheard, thinking it would be better if it's not said. But, I'm just torturing myself and there's just a big pile of my emotions and thoughts buried inside me. So, takot lang talaga ako maging selfish and waste someone else's energy by dropping everything. I know it's pathetic.
this song really connects to us. we have re own secret doors, time can't give u freedom or healing but surrendering yourself fully, all the lies, anger, tears, afraid&etc. will be gone forever and ever. Im so thankful for this and its still reminds me how God is good to meee!!! Thank u ben&ben
“Everything is okay, I guess I'm just a little tired No need to think about this mess It goes away in time” “Time won't heal anything If you don't surrender your light” Everyone,be true and don’t keep it all to yourself.There will always be someone who’s worthy to open up your secret doors to.Fighting!💙💛💙 And cheers for another masterpiece from Ben & Ben!💙💛💙
Ilang beses ko na inireplay 'to habang pinag-iisipan ko kung aanhin ko pa ba ang mahal ko sa buhay na nagsisinungaling sa kanyang sarili at damdamin🙁 this song speaks to me and compells me to at least take a shot at shaking up that person with all the goodness and love in my heart, even amidst the pain I have to face and might potentially intensify. Thanks b&b
I just wanna share my realizations after hearing this beautiful song. Sobrang fan ako ng Ben&Ben and this is the first time na mag cocomment ako because this song actually speaks my life. After hearing the song, sobrang naiyak ako kasi it made me realize how strong I am for being alive despite of the silent battles and countless of attempts to escape life. This song is now my glimmer of hope. It's not just about romantic feelings or whatsover but it talks about something beyond and deeper than that. Opening your heart to someone is tough when you know for yourself that you can't. I can't help but think of my younger brother because I don't want him to grow up and experience the struggles I have in life. I don't want him to experience sleepless nights trying to fight his own demons alone without having to talk to anyone because he might think that he will burden his friends. I don't to see myself in him as someone who struggles to open up her thoughts and emotions that's why I am praying that no matter how rough life can get, he may still be someone who appreciates life. This song actually inspired to be more open, like a door who gives way for hope and light to come through. Same goes for everyone, I hope that we all find our glimmer of hope in understanding and being more open about our battles. We are not alone and we can overcome everything in God's perfect time. Salamat sa musika, Ben&Ben!
this song is for ourselves and the same time for the people who surrounds us. i guess this songs shows us to be kind to ourselves and be kind to everyone as we are having our own battle to be won. kaya salamat ben&ben, nabuksan ninyo yung pinto na ayaw buksan ng karamihan. hindi para masaktan kami kung hindi para tanggapin namin nang buo yung mga sarili namin. all powers to all of you! ❤
Bata pa lang tayo nababasa na natin ang, "Honesty is the best policy", para maging honest tayo sa iba, dapat maging honest muna tayo sa mga sarili natin. Also, pagbuksan lang natin ng pinto yung dapat- di rin maganda maging open book, paLimited edition tayo ng slight. Ha? Basta yun.
“I wont ever know what’s on your mind, if you’ll always be hiding behind. Open up your secret doors.” It is easy to urge others to open up and speak freely their unspoken thoughts, but when you are in a situation that always makes you want to just be left from behind and to never move forward, when you are placed in a world where you need to make your guards up as high as possible for people to not use your vulnerabilities against you just like what others did to you before, then it isn’t easy to just open these doors. Im speaking about traumas; when you encounter different people in your life who make you realize your strengths, but later on serve as your weaknesses by them taking advantage of your strengths for their personal gratifications. When you’ve opened your doors for them to enter, just for them to get the key from you and lock you alone in your own dark room full of misery and sorrow, full of questions why you chose to speak up and move forward just to end up having nothing in the end. To those people who have unresolved problems and traumas from behind, i just want to say that our feelings are valid; we have the freedom whether to open our doors again or not. But before that, we should first open that door that leads us to our very own self-acceptance and forgiveness. I know that there were times that we blamed ourselves for everything that has happened to us, but it’s never our fault. Our only mistake, i guess, was being to vulnerable. And i hope that vulnerability teaches us, that we need to be strong because there are still a lot of people who will enter our lives; some having the same motives- giving you more traumas in life, while others are there to help you slowly heal from your scars. We need to find these people; those who will make us feel how beautiful it is to open our doors without having the doubt of being left from behind. We just need to let time heal us from everything that kept these doors closed ❤️
Boi the guy i like just told me to don't wait for him bc he might hurt me while waiting for him. And he can't explain why. I get him but he still pushed me away.
yes, this song has got amazing lyrics but can we just appreciate how AMAZING this song sounds like. Seriously Ben&Ben, you've given a spotlight to each instrumentalist (LOVED Agnes' bass part sa dulo) in the song and not one of them feels as if they've overplayed or underplayed the other. good job guys
Sa panahon na hindi ko kayang ihayag ang mga lihim ko, Hayaan mong manghiram muna ako ng lakas ng loob sa kanta na ito. Ben&Ben the best kayo! Parang pakiwari lahat ng kanta niyo eh tungkol sa kaganapan ng buhay ko. More power! 💙💙
"the thoughts we're thinking, in our sighs they linger" no joke, feeling ko talaga masisiraan na ako ng bait kanina kakaoverthink at wala akong masabihan. thank you for this i feel less alone. salamat din sa twitter i stumbled upon this band today.
There are some things that we kept from people-it maybe because we are afraid of judgment or we just don't want tofeel like we are a burden. Thoughts that are kept hidden behind closed doors. I'm in a relationship and it has never been my thing to tell everything to him. Whenever I have a problem or I am mentally unstable, I tend to shut down and isolate myself from people-even from him. This song feels like my bf's talking to me. That he wants to save me but he can't do that unless I allow him. To everyone who's experiencing the same thing, I pray that we find the courage to share our burdens to someone. Let yourself be heard. Someone out there is willing to listen. It is not wrong to open yourself up sometimes. Bottling your feelings will drain you. Let's not be harsh on ourselves. Ask help. Thank you bb's. We love you forever💚
"Doors" triggered what's left burden in my heart and it made me pause from what I am doing. I hope too, Ben&Ben. That opening secret doors is as soothing as listening to your music. I hope the pain fades away just like how the music ends. But it just won't work out that way, maybe the best way to open those doors is to find the one who deserves to hold the key. Thank you for letting us know how to let go and heal our burdens through your art❤❤❤ And to those who holds stronger grudges, "..leaves will soon grow from the bareness of trees, and all will be alright in time." -Ben&Ben, Leaves
Kaya doors kasi ito yung nagsisilbing harang natin sa loob ng bahay at sa labas ng bahay. Comfort zone natin kumbaga...Na ito yung harang natin sa iba na paminsan ayaw natin ipaalam or ilabas yung totoong tayo at bawat isa sa atin ay may mga secrets o may mga itinatago na tayo lang ang nakakaalam at ayaw natin ipaalam sa iba. Door = boundary.😅....thank you ben&ben for making wonderful and inspiring songs/music.💖
"Our mind is the playground of the devil" Linyang binitawan ng kaibigan ko and sinundan niya ng "Wag kang mag hesitate na mgsabi sakin" Nakakagaan lang ng may mga kaibigan kang nandiyan para pakingan ang side mo. Yung hindi ka matatakot na magsabi kasi hindi ka nila ija- judge. And after that convo I open up too; with my boyfriend. And mas lalong gumaan loob ko kasi yung mga thoughts ko are useless. I mean mali na mag overthink talaga. Kaya people kung alam niyong kailangan niyo ng makakausap o ng masasandalan magsabi lang kayo with your love one's. Hindi masama magsabi. Sasabog at sasabog talaga kayo kakaisip. Ps: Ben&Ben really nailed it again. Iloveyou and thankyou! Feeling ko yung mga kantang ginagawa niyo is para sa amin ng boyfriend ko😊
"Words you never mean, just to be kind" Why do some people find joy in fooling others? They'd say stuff and make you believe that there is something and just when you start to open up, when you're starting to embrace the strange emotions you've been feeling, they'll drift away. The most frustrating thing is them not telling you what went wrong. You'll end up questioning your worth till you decide you're no good for them and initiate to break things off. And theyll just agree coz they were just waiting for u to give up by playing cold and that at the end of the day, they'll have a "clean conscience" coz it was you who gave up, it was you who initiated, it was you who decided how things turned up. IT SUCKS
"Time won't heal anything if we don't surrender our lies" -- This line really hits the spot. I remember my dad. Kapag may nagtatanong sa akin ng tunay kong saloobin sa kanya I always say "okay naman, it feels great when I'm with him" but deep inside it hurts because I only want his acknowledgement, but I won't get it ever. He's dead and he is my secret door. Yesterday I posted about him, I shared what I really feel at gumaan yung pakiramdam ko.
It's been 2 years since I've met her. I was young and immature, I didn't see things for what they were. For 2 years I'd almost everyday talking to her, mostly about how my day went. I confessed to her a few montjs after getting to know her. She said she didn't know what to say. So I kept going, and I tried to keep building what I thought was a blooming relationship. A year after, I confessed again, confronting her. She said she wasn't ready. That it wasn't me, but she just wasn't ready. Of course, I took it at something that would eventually change. I was convinced that she was the one the universe had laid out for me. She just needed time. WE just needed time. But a few weeks ago, 2 years and a couple months after first getting to know her, I decided I had to talk to her again because some rumors were spreading that she was with someone else. I talked to her and she denied it. We had, in some sense, sort of a closure. I told her that no matter what I'd value our friendship and that nothing changes. I even jokingly told that if I wasn't going to end up as a priest, I'd invite her to my wedding. But after that talk, everything just seemed more distant. She stopped talking to me. The day-to-day conversations became a once a week reply. The morning and evening talk was no longer. 2 months passed and I decided that I'd take time to prioritize myself and my growth as an individual. I loved her, but I needed to love myself too. A week after this song was released, I'd come to the realization that she wasn't everything I thought she was. What hurt the most was when I realized that she never told me the little things. How her day went, or what her favorite food were, what she liked, what she disliked. She never opened her doors for me. I was too blind by my feelings to see. Now I'm sitting here in my couch. Listening to this song proudly, that today is the first time I get to look at her pictures and no longer feel pain and anxiety. Now I look at her pictures and see a girl, who I shared memories with, who even though wasn't everything I thought she'd be, still put up with me for 2 years. I don't think you'll be able to read this, but if you do, I want to thank you. For everything. Even though you barely talk to me anymore, you will still always have a place in my heart. Thank you.
Funny. I had the same thing happened to me. She was a dear friend of mine. We shared the same hobbies, likes and dislikes and we've been acquainted for 2 years and became friends for 2 years. And what I once thought was admiration turned to love towards her. But I was awkward with those things, and never had I ever confessed to anyone yet. So she was the first girl I ever confessed to. She had the same reaction when I confessed to her. She was confused, she didn't know how to respond. She asked for time and I gave her while trying to win her affection. But after time, it seemed like it was stagnating, even though I tried my best. Perhaps, I never did tried my best, or it's just that she never took me as a potential partner. February 15, 2019. That date was the date when I tried confronting her. Coincidentally, it was our Valentine's ball, and I invited her for a dance. I asked her several things, and the last one was: “Do you think I have a chance?", I said. And I asked that she answer it truthfully. She said, word by word: “I just can't see you as a potential romantic partner." She even said that she had someone in mind, that she has someone else she likes. Of course that was painfully as fuck, but I asked for it. And I told her I wouldn't get mad because I never had any reason to. As painful as it was, I swallowed it. After that, I never invited anyone to dance. Like, she was my final dance for that night. After that, I cried so hard because I was starting to treat her as my world. There I realized that it was all but a one-sided love. And after that, things became awkward for a while. We barely talked for 2 months. But we had a closure. Sort of. There was this orientation at our school and there, we were taken aback to our past experiences and I was able to recall that event. Painful, it was. But I mustered everything to say “Thank you." She understood what I meant, and she apologized. I told her there's nothing to be sorry about. Honestly, I was glad that I thanked her. I was glad that I met her, and fell for her. Since, I felt like I grew up as a person. But I guess I won't be falling in love for awhile. Gotta close my doors for now.
This song makes me think of this girl that I like. She's part of a club that I'm in and we're so close. As I got to know her, i noticed she puts up this wall and doesn't really open herself up to a lot of people but when she does, you can totally see how beautiful and amazing she is, even if she can't see that. Hoping and praying that one day, she'll finally open up and embrace the awkwardness, passionate and beautiful woman that she is~
"Everything is okay, I guess. I'm just a little tired" First line palang napaiyak na ako ng kanta na to. For me this song means that it is really okay opening up to someone so that they can understand what you are feeling. From the line "I won't ever know what's on your mind. If you'll always be hidin' behind." The line hit me hard, how can they understand me when I don't say a thing. They always say that I am such a difficult person because I wanna be understood but I won't say anything, I will just ignore them or walk away from them instead of telling them what is really wrong.The line " Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies." For me the "LIES" that was meant in this line is the fact that you are fooling yourself that you are already okay when in fact you are so vulnerable, so that is why we need to open up our doors or thoughts to someone so that they can help us heal. My dad just died months ago and I feel so empty and I don't share my problems to anyone but after listening to this song I felt relieved and happy. Thank you ben and ben for making me happy through your wonderful talents. Words are not enough to express how grateful and blessed I am being your fan. I am so proud of you all. Congrats nuggets!! Continue being a blessing to each and everyone and continue bringing joy and love to us!!!
we all have our own secret doors-mga iba't ibang uri ng pagkatao natin na hindi natin maihaharap sa mundo, natatakot na mahusgahan, na mawalan ng mga taong sinasandalan, na matalikuran ng mundo. kaya we sometimes prefer to hide what we truly feel, sa takot na baka kapalit nang pagiging totoo mo, may tatalikod sa'yo. ://
"Words you never mean, just to be kind." When you tell things just to keep and kept everything intact. When you speak things to make them comfortable and feel at ease. Most of the time being kind hurts like hell specially when you want that person to stay at your side for life. Yung kahit wala syang sabihin, okey lng sayo. Yung kahit anong ilapag nya, dun ka lang kuntento. This song shows how one person can offer unconditional love to someone he/she really love. 💖 Thank you Ben & Ben. You guys are so amazing! Pinagdaanan ko ata sa buhay lahat ng sinulat nyong kanta. 😁 Relatable lahat e. ✨😊 Lahat may puso at tama sa puso. 😊
"If you don't surrender your lies Time won't heal everything" This line has a very deep impact especially to those people who haven't the courage to tell the truth behind their thoughts. One thing for sure is when you don't open up yourself to the person who loves you and ending up hurting them because of your lies.
This song reminds me of her. 3 years na kaming magkausap and it seems like we really know each other na pero feel ko pa din na may mga bagay pa syag tinatago, mga bagay na sya lang ang nakaka alam and it's okay for me kasi nga di pa kami ready pumasok sa seryosong relationship. All I want is that maging komportable sya sa akin sa pag s-share ng kanyang thoughts
“I WON’T EVER KNOW WHAT’S ON YOU MIND” “IF YOU’LL ALWAYS BE HIDING BEHIND” minsan we’re scared to open our secret doors to someone o sa mga taong kumakatok sa buhay natin kasi takot tayong lumabas sa comfort zone natin and “WORDS YOU NEVER MEAN” just to look like we’re fine but “hindi talaga tayo okay” let us open our SECRET DOORS because we need to free ourselves and let the person loves us genuinely have a room in our life.
This mirrors my present situation. This thing hurts a lot. 😢 Too many secrets around. You'll never know, one lies can burn you down. It's not easy to open a door full of lies to a person you already have relationship with. Yung kayo na nung sinabi nya sayo ang totoo, ibang-iba sa una nyang sinabi. Masakit marining ang kasinungalingan. It pained my ass up til' this very moment. This song is really for those victims of lies. 😭
never ko naisip na babalik ako sa kantang 'to dahil mararanasan ko 'to... nasanay ako maging open and totoo sa nararamdaman ko. pero ngayon, pakiramdam ko kinukulong ko sarili ko, para 'di ko maramdaman yung sakit. Hindi ko napansin na dahil dun lalo lang ako nasasaktan. Pakiramdam ko hindi ako totoo sa sarili ko, hindi ko maamin sa sarili ko na nasasaktan ako. Pakiramdam ko hindi din ako nagiging totoo sa kanya, dahil hindi ko masabi sa kanya na siya dahilan kung bakit ako nasasaktan. I hope that ma-open ko din yung pinto sa kanya. Never kami nag-away pero pakiramdam ko ang layo namin ngayon sa isa't isa. Para naming pinoprotektahan ang isa't isa pero 'di namin napapansin na dahil dun nagkakasakitan na din pala kami. I dunno, bawat lyrics tumatagos sa puso ko. pero baka okay naman talaga lahat, pagod lang talaga ako. magulo lang siguro talaga ako ngayon. Gusto ko lang malinawan. "Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies" siguro nga :))) gustong gusto ko maging open at kausapin siya. pero ewan ko,,, dapat mag-uusap kami ngayon but hindi siya nagpunta, hindi niya din sinabi dahilan kung bakit. pero kung mag-usap kami parang ayos lang lahat. salamat Ben And Ben sa pagdamay sa akin nuon, hanggang ngayon. mahal ko kayo :`
"Time won't heal anything,
If you don't surrender your lies"
I felt that
"All will be alright in time"
ify
Saktong nabasa ko, doon ko narinig
😩😩😩
Naol Cj
It's more than romantic love, guys. It is about reaching out-to those who are struggling with themselves to open up, to those whose minds are rumbling, to those who feel they are alone in the dark.
🤗 I know it's hard but it's harder if you keep it all by yourself. Let it out, if you are one of those, open up your secret doors.
I felt this 😭
❤
Aww
Well its easy to say than to act
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This hits different when you are someone who finds it difficult to communicate with others and express proper emotion.
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I also agree
this hits hard...
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lets cry in silence
Sa kantang 'to ang sarap talakayin ng:
Isang anak na lalaki na pilit ikinukubli ang tunay nyang pagkatao sa kanyang ama.
Isang ina na hindi ipinapakita sa mga anak ang mga pasang dulot ng pambubugbog ng ama.
Isang ama na pilit nagpoprovide para sa pamilya nya kahit na parang alipin trato sa kanya ng mga amo nya.
Isang dalagang may mapait na karanasan subalit dahil natatakot sa maaaring maging tingin sa kanya ng iba, inililihim nya.
Isang batang may espesyal na karamdaman na gustong lumabas sa mundo para kilalaning normal ng iba.
Isang kaibigang lihim na umiibig sa kaibigan nya pero mas ninanais na ikubli dahil baka maputol ang pagkakaibigan nila.
At isang nagmamahal na gustong makaramdam ng kalayaan mula sa taong nagsasabing mahal siya ngunit kinokontrol ang buong pagkatao nya.
Walang ibang makapagpapalaya sa iyo kundi ang pagiging totoo. Hindi hihilom ang sakit kung di mo ipapakita ang dahilan bakit ka nasasaktan. Buksan ang lihim na pinto at lumabas bitbit ang tapang na ipakita ang katotohanan.
Such a masterpiece, Ben&Ben ❤️
❤️❤️❤️
Isa kang malaking hotdog! ❤️ Kudos!
I love this 💖 Ben & Ben really gathers soulful people.
Yesssss 💙💛
❤
This song screams "empathy".
When someone opens up about their feelings or about something that bothers them, please, don't try to turn it into an argument or make them feel guilty of feeling that way.
This is one of the reasons why some people find it hard to communicate with their partners/loved ones. Don't just hear them out.. Listen and try to comprehend as best as you can. Communication is nonsense if it lacks empathy and understanding. Empathize with them. It goes a long way. 😌
I feel like it's more about opening up or simply trust
true..
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Mikki Balatero if you dont mind may i post this kn twitter
@@kuro9842 hi! Sure :)
I know very well that it's selfish. Ang selfish ko kasi ayoko aminin yung talagang nararamdaman ko sa mga kaibigan ko, sa family ko, sa loved ones. Yung nararamdaman ko na mabigat na, ayoko maramdaman yun kasi lagi ko nalang iniisip na pagpinaalam ko, magiging bother lang ako sa mga tao. Atsaka nakakaguilty lang talaga kasi ang daming tao ang mas nahihirapan kesa sakin diba? Kaya ayoko magreklamo kasi alam ko wala ako karapatan. Ayoko maging maarte kaya ayun... I'm always gonna hide behind closed doors.
I can live with this. Hindi ko nalang papansinin.
Mawawala rin 'to. Magiging ok din ako. Pagod lang 'to.
PamMadeYouRead No, please open up to someone, atleast to the right people. My sister was selfish with her thoughts as well. And you don’t know the grief and horror we felt nung nag suicide sya sa room nya coz she couldn’t contain it
@@changbinsmunchlaxplushie7451 hala... I'm sorry for your loss.
And oo I realized na ang selfish nga na-itago kasi para saan pa ba yung friends, family and loved ones kung hindi ka rin magiging honest sa kanila...
Thank you and please stay safe always!
@PamMadeYouRead
No dear, there's no such thing as "oa" or "maarte" . If it hurts you , it hurts you. We all have different kinds of pain. Sometimes mabigat na para sayo pero magaan lang para sa iba. Don't torture yourself sweetheart. Don't be afraid. Kung di ka nila maintindihan, God's always there. Take good care of your heart dear, you only have one
@PamMadeYouRead
True for me as well. Well, I grow up like this behind "doors". And at the present time napapaisip rin ako na I should open up nga to people about my feelings. Dont get me wrong, I do talk and share how I feel naman like day to day pero alam mo yung deep thoughts and feelings? Yun. That troubles me.
But yeah. Im trying little by little.
Yes, it will pass, just hold yourself and breathe deeply. But please know that your feelings are valid kasi ikaw yung nakakaramdam ng ganyan eh, hindi ang ibang tao.
“Words you never mean, just to be kind”
Is actually all about the words you said just because you don’t wanna hurt somebody. You say words that doesn’t really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship okay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel.
Sometimes we think that it’s better to choose hurting ourselves with the lies we make just to save someone from hurting, hahaha. Deep.
But can we all just allow ourselves to bleed in-front of someone who caused it? Maybe in that way, we too can heal. But yeah, I wish it was that easy 🙃
Be strong to the ones who doesn’t open up a lot. Labyu and God does too
This is soOo me, I always sugarcoat kung ano talaga yung sasabihin ko kase natatakot ako na makasakit.
"You say words that doesn't really express what you feel but you need to say those to keep the relationship ojay and keep someone from being hurt by what you really feel." 💯
Damn
i felt every word u said.
thank you. ❤
saet naman
"Time won't heal anything If you don't surrender your lies"
I really believe in this line, many of us believe back then that "Time heals" but how can we heal ourselves in the process if we don't know how to? This is a lesson for us to surrender our "what ifs", our doubts, the lies that we keep telling ourselves and start forgiving. Stop hiding and show yourself because we are meant to shine our TRUE colors upon others.
No more of your secret DOORS.
Kudos Ben&Ben this is a masterpiece!
Permission to post this on twitter hehe
@@immanuelnemeno3467 sure po hehe pa follow nalang ren ser HAHAHA @JaphetCMiranda
Did you really mean what you've said?
If you really did, and in most accurate way to say that you are the only one who knows the true answer to that question... then please just sit back, relax and... let me humbly sing this song to you.🙏
theOrangekindle “
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The person that I love, she's a very secretive person. she very rarely talk about her day, how and what she thinks, even how she feels. she's a completely different personality. I know I couldn't understand cause I think in a straightforward way, but the time spent with her made me feel what she's really going through.. still, even now she remains a mystery to me. everything is blurry right now.
it's hard to take down someone's walls if they themselves couldn't let you in. we can't blame them, the only way to love them is to stay within their reach, even if they have confined themselves inside.
Nakaka frustrate mahalin ganyang tao pero sila yung gusto mo ikeep kase alam mo pag naging better na sila, sila na ang pinaka the best
:"))
I feel you
:((
THIS HITS SO HARD
there will always be that one person in our minds as we listen to ben and ben
*edit: woah thanks for the likes guys
yeah.
Always 🖤
True
yep
Yup
This song is basically me, falling for a close friend of mine. A girl. For the first time in my whole life, I fell for a girl. I wasn’t prepared for it; definitely caught me off guard. My anxiety made it even worse and just overthought everything. I didn’t want to ruin our friendship so I thought it was better to just pull away, but I did it without any warning, it confused her but she didn’t ask questions. So she pulled away too, I guess she’s been burned too many times as well. It still ruined our friendship anyway. Lol I did realize my mistake after a few weeks and tried to backtrack but everything was so awkward and we’re just not the same.. It’s like she already put up a wall between us while I just didn’t know how to act around her anymore. We eventually stopped having conversations even though we saw each other everyday. Months later, she reached out to me and we started talking again but I was still in the process of getting over my feelings for her. It felt like we just continued where we left off. But I couldn’t open up to her like I used to. I wanted to tell her everything, but how do I do that when everything’s just about her? I never even wanted to start a relationship with her, I just wanted to bring our closeness and bond back. I feel like the only way to move forward was to reveal my truth. But what if she couldn’t handle it? I wouldn’t be able to handle losing her again.
Edit: Didn’t expect the amount of encouragement and comfort I’d receive from you guys; I was just thinking out loud here. Thank you, all your comments are read and appreciated. :)
PS. If it wasn’t implied enough on my comment, I’m a girl who fell for another girl. I still prefer men though but yes, apparently, I’m bi for my friend. Hehe
Update 2022: For those who are curious-We’ve become the best of friends. I never told her about all this and we never talked about the awkward phase but I’m okay now. She has a bf now and I’m really happy for her. While I’m still single and praying for the right guy for me :)
Just tell her the truth you'll be more relieved if you say the truth. As for her it depends on how she'll respond to it but don't let it ruin your friendship, even if she accepts you or not. Don't lose her. What are love without friends?
@@noahnarvaez7979 Yeah
Noah Narvaez I feel like telling the truth now wouldn’t help the situation. Our friendship is still fragile at the moment and I don’t want to try and rock the boat yet again. Right now I’m just more relieved that she started to reach out to me again, even if it means I will have to hide behind white lies for longer than I wanted to. I think keeping her in my life is more important to me than revealing my truth. 😕
what a coincidence I’m also dealing with that situation
@@cloudyellix for me, just tell her the truth with sincerity. Before telling her whay you have in mind, ask her first, and speak out why do you want to tell her that truth (pertaining that you just want to bring the bond back again without the intention of starting a new intimate relationship). Keeping this up and continuing to tell white lies does relieve the pressure, but in the end (not that i am hoping for), if anything goes wrong, it'll be more devastating than telling the truth. You will not know what truly the future holds between you two, unless both of you know the true intentions of each other.
for me the song is about those people who can't allow themself to express their feelings to the people around them, because they're the ones who is the funny one in those people the who lights up their world and can't afford to tell their raging thoughts to those people even to their loved ones and friends.
I can relate.. if they knew.. they could be affected.. 😭😭😭
Or bothered.. that's why I'd rather to hide it..
🥺🥺🥺
"words you never mean, just to be kind"
I feel that this song is all about escaping from the trials in our relationship. Lagi tayong tumatakbo, pumupunta sa mga sikretong pintuan. Kailan kaya tayo magiging matapang at magiging bukas para sa mahal natin? When will you open up your secret doors?
Ughhhh yessss someone has spoken for my mind hahahaha
Grabe nainspire ako HAHAHAH
Eto talaga point ng kanta eh 👍🏼
Gillian Andrea Natividad
As I listen to Ben&ben's DOORS, isang tao lang talaga yung naalala ko sa kanta na to. Yung sarili ko. I'm always keeping myself behind that secret door. Lagi akong takot mag open up sa mga dark thoughts and feelings ko. Takot kasi baka hindi valid yung nararamdaman ko. Takot na baka oa lang ako kapag nakakaramdam na ko ng pain. Baka deserve ko naman talaga na masaktan kaya di ko na lang kinukwento sa iba. And as the time goes by na ganon yung siste ko, nasanay na ko. Nasanay na ipagsawalang bahala kapag nasasaktan ako kahit sobra na. Kalimutan yung pagod. Dina-divert ko sarili ko sa ibang bagay. Kaya dumating sa point na nasabi ko "HALA PUTA. MAY NARARAMDAMAN PA BA KO?" and after ko panuorin and pakinggan yung DOOR, ewan pero naiyak talaga ako. Tangina. Ben&ben never failed me to feel that kahit I'm in pain, I am still loved and safe. Lalo na sa kanta nila now, naisip ko na oo nga may nga tao nga palang nagttry ireach out ako, and hindi ko pala dapat ishut yung door kapag tinatry nilang pumasok at samahan ako sa likod ng mga pinto na yon.
Thank you Ben&Ben. Kung pwede ko lang kayo ihug at pasalamatan in person, gagawin ko na. 💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛
Hiii! di talaga ako ma-post ng comments (lalo na dito) pero naiintindihan ko talaga lahat ng nasabe mo. Ganyan na ganyan din ako. I've always had this tendency to repress everything, pain, insecurities, basta, kahit anong bagay na kaya kong sinasarili, sinasarili ko. It wasn't until 2 weeks ago ako na nag-open up ako ng buong buo sa closest friends ko. Masyado na kasi talagang mabigat sakin ang mga bagay-bagay kaya I took courage and told them everything that was burdening my heart at the moment. I've been friends for them for 6 years at noon lang nila ako nakilala ng ganon. Tama ka. May mga tao sa buhay natin na pinagsasarhan natin ng pinto for our personal, painful reasons. Tama lang siguro na pagsarhan natin sila dahil hinding-hindi nila tayo maiintindihan ng buo. Pero ngayon, unti-unti kong naiintindihan na that doesn't mean that we can't get the support that we want, even crave, from them. Dasal ko sayo ay sana mahanap mo ang mga tamang tao na pagbubuksan mo ng pinto. There will always be strength in vulnerability. Kapag ready ka na mag-share at kung alam mo sa sarili mo na nakahanap kana ng mga tamang tao, sana hindi mo lang sila pagbuksan ng pinto, sana hayaan mo rin silang makitang buo ang puso mo.
I know how you feel po
That, 'may nararamdaman pa ba ko?' feeling, totoo yan.. Yung ,tanong na, Tao ka pa bang nakakaramdam? Haha. Ngayon may soundtrack na ako .. 🌚
Bok Joo Kim This is beautiful! Salamat!
💖
my boyfriend cried in front of me yesterday, it was the first time that i saw him cry. it was a wonderful starry night with the moon shining bright, he was hugging me and then suddenly he cried. it was a bittersweet feeling to see him cry. i dont like him crying but it touched my heart knowing that he was really comfortable with me to the point that he was able to show his vulnerable side, and not everyone can do that especially guys. this song reminded me of him. he opened his secret doors and let me in. it made me realize that i cannot afford to hurt him, to see him hurting, to see him crying last night was too much for me. i love him so much.
Ben&Ben gave us Leaves for us to hope that all will be alright in time.
Now, Ben&Ben gives us doors, that aside from hoping that all will be alright in time, we need to do some actions too.
Toxic positivity, as I picked up from the 1st stanza, does not do us any good. We should all learn to accept the fact that some battles are best shared with people who knows us, either a lover/partner, a friend, your siblings, or even parents, that is worthy to open up every secret doors we're trying to keep locked. And in that moment, that feeling is enough. For us to keep going, and hoping but now knowing we are not alone.
"No more of your secret doors, we got you."
#BenAndBenDOORS
Really indeed😭✨
Wish it was that easy...
Doors acoustic cover
th-cam.com/video/XnpIpBYIzPE/w-d-xo.html
Very well said
This song is about communicating your true feelings or emotions.
Kaway-kaway sa mga mahihilig magtago sa mga salitang "okay lang"!
kung isang araw nagising ka't gusto nang buksan ang pintong nagkukubli sayo, hiling ko na sana yung tamang tao ang mapagbuksan mo 💛
Big clap to Ben&Ben and for those people working Behind the Scenes,
"DOORS"
1st international Song, and more to come!
#SupportLocal
Pano po naging first? Hahaha curious lang ako
@@milagrosyapit8535 Oo nga noh, hahahaha
@@milagrosyapit8535 this is their first international single "Doors" since nag # 29 sila sa global billboard.
@@milagrosyapit8535 to be promoted internationally.. hopefully sa next album naman :)
Hello guys. Please visit my cover DOORS
Hope u like it.
imagine how sad it is not having a ben&ben music in your life
Yaahhh
Imagine how sad is your life without God
Minsan lang ako nakakakita ng Shawol sa TH-cam!!! H
LEGIT!
@@pauweredbyfaith omg hiiii shinee's backkk hahahahaha
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies."
It's hard, specially when your happiness is a mistake to others, sometimes there's nothing left to do but to lie and keep it to yourself
arghh
Hi
👍
your happiness is not for others but your own. you might have started with a mistake, but as long as it becomes the RIGHT CHOICE, then all will be all right in time.
potato :---(
“Time won’t heal anything
If you don’t surrender your lies”
This is so true. No matter how long you’re trying to heal, if you still have those unsaid feelings, if you’ll still keep those lies. You’re not healing and won’t heal at all. Kaya stop depending on your “what if’s” take a risk. Sabihin mo na lahat ng gusto mong sabihin sakanya.
Apple Salaum if you dont mind may i post this on twitter
Misa Mhien do you mind if I copy this? Hehehe
Misa Mhien Yes po hehe screen shot nyo lang or whtvr 🤣😊
Yup. Truly right.
No. Sometimes it's better to keep it hidden, they don't need to know everything. Yes, they might listen, but they will never understand.
Tama..😩
This song is for people like you :) in a good way. And yes, you are right but you just have to open up to the right people. All will be alright in time :))
this.stings.like.hell
Hi po isa lang masasabi koo, Noo more of your secret doo-orrss🎼🎤🎶🎶
Trru
When I finally opened his 'Doors', he became my 'Lifetime'. ♥️
Chour
I feel like it's about someone who has a loved one who's so closed, who build up walls around her, who has secret doors and how that loved one find it so hard to open up to someone :(((
anyways, kudos to you ben&ben for writing such a masterpiece even on quarantine ❤
damn this song made me remember someone dahil sa concept mo. :")
Ed sup Damn, me too.
To the person who says "I'm fine"
I hope you will really be in time
Thank you.I hope so too.♥️
"all will be alright in time...
Thank you so much
still waiting for the time I can finally say I'm fine without heavy burdens, with the realest smile
maraming salamat
"Everything is okay, I'm just a little tired"
It's so relatable, I'm always saying this to my friends na every time na tinatanong nila ako kung ok lang ako I just say na pagod lang ako pero deep inside gusto kong mag burst out at umiyak sa harap nila pero I can't maybe because I'm scared kase last time na nag open up ako they said na masyado lang akong madrama and I guess they're right maybe my feelings are not valid at all
L Moran in my case I don't open my secrets with them kasi ayokong ma judge. And the fact na hindi nila maiintindihan since hindi nila nararamdaman yung pinagdadaanan ko. So I kept it only myself. I'm just tired of hearing people saying "okay lang", "sus wala yan", "kaya mo yan" as if every things is easy and okay. Ang hirap mag explain ng nararamdaman
But what we fail to realize, is that we dont need anyone to tell us what is valid and what isnt, because if it hurts us too much, it already is.
Valid feelings mo,sila ang may problema hindi ikaw,kaylangan molang masasabihan,yung maiintindihan ka...sana maging ok ka. : )
Hey, it's been a while. Are you okay?
When have you asked yourself that question? When was the last time? Are you really being true to yourself? Are you really willing to open up and forgive yourself for your misdoings? Kailan mo aamining pagod ka na? Na takot ka? Na kailangan mo ng tulong at makakausap para makawala ka sa rehas ng sakit na iyong pinapasan? Masaya ka man lang ba? Masaya ka ba talaga?
I hope we will all learn to be open and be true. It doesn't always have to be towards others. We can start it within ourselves. We must open up our doors if we want to be unloaded from the heavy burden we've tried to keep inside for a very long time.
It's okay to be tired. It's okay to cry and be a wimp. We all need it sometimes. We need to be honest to ourselves. Kung gusto mong makawala, buksan mo ang rehas na kumukulong sa 'yo. Open your secret doors. It will never be easy. Pero para sa kalayaan mo, sana ay kayanin mo.
Thank you for this❤️❤️
Putang ina. Bakit mo binanggit lahat ng nasa utak ko? Especially that, "masaya ka ba talaga?" 😭
Jeremy Cabillo Tangina, same thoughts bro
@@jeremycabillo0315 Kasi yun tayo, eh. We are pretentious people. But above all else, I sincerely hope you will be happy. 💖
@@jhemitzie Welcome, sis. Minsan kasi ganito din ako.
"Masaya ba talaga ako?"
"Your pain has a purpose." -Philippians 1:29
as someone who has a hard time opening up to others, this song spoke volumes to me. now i cant help but wonder if people around me feel this way whenever they try to get to know me, only to be met by the walls that i've built around myself.
I really love reading comments on Ben&Ben's songs 'coz people has a lot of interpretation of what the song really tackles about. It helps me to comprehend the song even clearer. Turns out that what I thought from the song is just one of the many significances of what it really is.
very true indeed
Yesssss buddy
Cause ben and ben really gathers soulful peopleeeee.
I immediately love this song because opening up is something na mahirap saatin. We don't know kung ano-ano na nangyayari sa ating mga mahal sa buhay sa mga oras na ito kaya let's keep in touch with them and sabi nga sa kanta "no more of your secret doors".
Stay safe everybody!! 💙💛
There are many people that's having a hard time opening up and expressing their feelings, and I'm one of them. It's so hard especially when you're soooo conscious about what other people will say. Not saying things we want to doesn't always mean we have permanently closed our doors, it's just that we have been hurt so many times that hiding behind the doors is the only way to protect ourselves from getting our feelings scarred again. But, "Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies" this is such a comfort for me, the whole song is such a big comfort for me. Everyone is going through something, even you. One lesson I've learned from this song is, to take it easy on yourself, that you don't have to carry all the burdens all by yourself, It's okay to rest sometimes. So, be kind to yourselves. To everyone who's having a hard time with communicating their feelings, and for those who's still trying to express themselves, I'm sooo proud of you, for still trying. Big hugs to you, to us!💗
To those who are struggling and healing in silence, I hope we open up our secret doors to the people who deserve to enter our life. May we grab the opportunity that knocks back to improve ourselves and compensate for the mistakes we made in the past. May we have the freedom from the people who gave us trust issues. May we give life a chance again. May we move forward and hope that better days await us. *Hugs*
😔
Abz Collado if you dont mind mag i post this on twitter
@@kuro9842 sure po.
🖤
" Time won't heal anything,
if you don't surrender you lies."
I think this song strongly says that unpleasant truths from are much better than comforting lies.
Thank you Pao, Migs, Poch, Jam, Pat, Andrew, Agnes, Keifer and Toni for once again delivering a song that can go through our hearts and souls.
Indeed
So trueee :(
bat parang bawat video na meaning na sad or meaningful may mga ganto😂
respect tho
Isa lang talaga naalala ko sa Lifetime and Doors especially the band itself, B&B. There's this guy, we became friends to best friends to almost lovers during JHS. I'll call him "Ace" here. Parang soul mate, sobrang inseparable. We discovered each other everyday, walang luha, pura tawa at sorang gaan iya kasama. A door led to another. We had similar music taste, make each other smile and laugh. I really liked him but I never told him. I had a lot of doubts in me, in him, in us pag naging kami. My family is very judgemental pa naman, I don't like that environment for him kahit sabihin niyang okay lang. He was too precious, so I never gave him any sad or more bad part of me. As he opened his doors, I closed mine.
Then came another lover, I'll call him "Son," he was different, too promising. I saw immediately na siya yung taong makakasama at kakaya sa down sides and flaws ko in the future. I felt that he will accept whoever I am and will be I saw how great of a man he could be. I saw how I could do better with him. But then there comes the conflict. I pursued the new guy just because he is more acceptable. That was too stupid of me, I know. Pero naging kami. But, I was still thinking of Ace, he said he'd be happy if I am happy. So I challenged myself to love Son, he had few friends, hopeless romantic din. And I really did, he's a great person na few would only notice.
February, nag break kami, we lasted for 2 years. I ran back to Ace as a best friend, or maybe because I wanted to feel happy again. Ben and Ben became ours. Not literally but, just a small thing we especially share with each other. Sabay lumalim yung fandom namin. He would sing me songs until I fall back in sleep and I would sing him songs too kasi gustong gusto niya yung boses ko. I thought Son would never hurt me, I loved him too much na walang natira sakin. He became my world.
Months have passed, Ace came to comfort me. But then he was always there for me, kahit kami pa ni Son, pag umiiyak ako or di ko kinakaya, Ace always made me feel precious, loved, and be the best person I could be. Muntik na maging kami, tinanggap ko ulit si Son. Dahil marupok ako at may natira pang love kay Son, nagkaayos at nagkabalikan kami. I rejected Ace kasi he was still too immature, too dreamy, too careless like my old self.
Ilang months ko rin di sinabi kay Ace na kami na ulit ni Son, Di ko rin sinabi kay Son na nag-uusap ulit kami ni Ace. Ang selfish ko para ipagdamot yung taong di ko pinili nung una. I couldn't decide kung gusto ko bang sumaya genuinely o magpasaya because he deserves to see the world in a different perspective. They were both negative thinkers at mabilis madepress, jusq. I once said na if only I had two hearts or a clone machine, I'd give myself away for free mabago lang pagiging cynical nila.
December came, dun na ko naglakas loob umamin kay Ace, hindi siya nagalit sakin but, sa sarili nya. He told me he will close his doors. It's too painful pero it was my fault. He became distant. Like we're oceans apart. Pero andun pa rin yung pa-react react as Story as FB and sa posts ko. Kahit di na kami nag-uusap, he was still there, watching, secretly supporting. All I could think of is that maybe we weren't on the right timing. Kung di man siya ngayon (kasi I'm already commited to Son), baka sa susunod na lifetime namin, kami naman. So, I tried to finally forget my feelings for him, forgive myself, and love myself first. Focus on what I currently have.
Kami pa rin ni Son, still healing and kinakaya yung problems through this pandemic. Pinili namin ang isa't-isa. Kahit ilang away or misunderstanding o tampuhan, we still chose to reconcile and learn together. Di ko rin alam kung anong magnet meron sakaniya, Siguro kasi I prayed for a person like Son. I need to grow. Sana maging lifetime ko na si Son, I'm happy where I am right now. Sana makahanap si Ace ng sarili niyang lifetime na pipiliin siya sa araw-araw. Yung mamahalin din siya equally to how he love. Sana di siya tumigil sa pagkanta.
Sulit ng B&B, may theme song kada yugto ng buhay ko shets 💙💛
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies."
VOLUMES UP!!!!
We have to accept that we all do have that secret doors and it is up to us if we'll open it up or just let it be a secret. But remember too, that it won't heal anything :((
Step up!! open up your secret doors. Sabi nga nila "Walang lihim na 'di nabubunyag" might as well sabihin na ng maaga para 'di na masayadong masakit kapag nalaman.
Ps. My 1am thought while listening to this song.
Solid 💙💛
One thing I learned is to be vocal and don’t wait until the things that bother/hurt you fester and eat your feelings/core. If you let that happen, one day you will
wake up feeling nothing and fed up. Be vocal and learn to communicate even if the receiving end don’t actually listen. One day, you will find someone who care about your feelings and will genuinely listen. No more lies, and no more secret doors ❤️
I'm a really vocal person, I like saying what's on my mind. The problem is, no one ever wanted to listen.
jihann bello if you dont mind may i post this on twitter
Misa Mhien yes you can! What’s your username?
Haiist
@@nothisispatrick1797 Perhaps.
But at least you won't regret that you didn't say anything.
It's been 9 years, I guess I'll value our friendship more than my desires. ;)
MAKIKISHARE LANG PO
DOORS BEN&BEN PIANO COVER:
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Stan dahyun STAN TWICE!
Making my wild guess, nareject ka pero kung hindi naman, kailangan bang ikaw yung mag-aadjust? Either way sana maging maayos kayo :))
I feel you :/
Wow. And you recorded and wrote it while separated from quarantine? What a masterpiece. Kudos!
Edit: "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin" is the song they wrote while quarantine. ✌️ Waiting for it!!
Hello! The way I see it, this was written and recorded before the quarantine po. It was supposed to be played during Wanderland pero that got cancelled. The one written during quarantine is “Nakikinig Ka Ba Sa Akin?” Nevertheless, YES. WHAT A MASTERPIECE
Joaquin Arig Oh, thank you for that information. I got carried away from Pao's tweet that they wrote a song while quarantine. Looking forward for "Nakikinig Ka Ba Sakin?" hehe 😅
Jeric nasa fb page po nila yung parang draft nun hahahah check niyo po 💛
Joaquin Arig I watched it on their Twitter account hehe thank you!
Eto yung sa Masyadong Pang Maaga BTS. May nag vid habang kinakanta nila yung Doors 😊
twitter.com/OlenaGil/status/1250454889005592577?s=07
Hey BB's!!! This is literally what we've been waiting for. Let's hope Ben&Ben gets the recognition they deserve kasi talaga namang walang makakatanggi kung gaano sila kagaling. Kaya for all the BB's out there, let's continue to support our favorite band. PUHON!!!!!!
Hi po sa inyong lahat mga magaganda at pogi! Baka naman gusto niyong pakinggan mga songs namin. Nag front act kami for Ben&Ben dati. Feel free to comment!
❤❤❤
Suree
"Time won't heal anything if you don't surrender your lies"
- Ben&Ben (2020)
Hi po
_and suddenly, Ben&Ben music are somehow connected to you._
Yung kasama ko makinig ng mga songs ng Ben&Ben wala na. Salamat sa magagandang ala-ala. Ikaw at ikaw lang ang nakikita ko mahalin. Masakit pero kelangan tanggapin. Sana sa muli nating pag tatagpo successful na tayo pareho. Good luck, arki! Andito lang ako palagi.
This is the kind of song that making us to remind of someone that had been part of our life.
It's always that one person.
Agreed.
"Everything is okay, I guess
I'm just a little tired"
-It is really that tiring living with secrets.
"No need to think about this mess, it goes away in time"
-When you try to ignore your problems because you're used to it and you thought it will just disappear anytime.
Ben&Ben first two lines palang grabe na agad☹💙
Di jud ma heal sa time ang tanan ug di ka kabalo mo surrender sa imung lies. Kabalo ko na lisud jud dawaton ang kamatuoran ngano nahitabo na sa imuha life, pero hinumdomi na naa ray mga tao na andam maminaw sa imu when you feel like the whole world's collapsing. Hinayhinay nato ablihan ang atong secret doors sa saktong tao and hinayhinay pud nato dawaton ang mga butang. One day mumata ka na gaan kaayo imung paminaw sa tanan. They may have taken away a piece of you and hurt you pero naa gapun ka ari karun. I'm proud of you! Keep fighting mighty bb warrior!
❝everything is okay, i guess,
i'm just a little tired.❞
first line palang, nararamdaman na ❤️ we love uu ben&ben! always stay safe!!
This for me and for those who are struggling to open up their problems and their selves to other people and for those dealing and fighting on their own. I hope someday we'll have the courage to be open and to have no more secret doors.
Hiii... Sooo my boyfriend, este, ex-boyfriend pala, just broke up with me in the middle of this quarantine period. The only reason he told me was that he doesn't feel the need of being obligated with someone anymore, for now. Although I know that it's deeper than that and he doesn't usually open up himself to me. That's why I'm sad 'coz he could've at least try or give me a chance to get in one of those DOORS.
So yeah... LOTSA THANKS, Ben&Ben!!! Ito na magiging anthem ng breakup namin. HUHUHUHU 😭💔
same 😭
Pasensya na kayo sa mga tulad naming may malabong pag-iisip. Salamat din sa pag-unawa! Same story lang kasi. Nakipagbreak ako sa girlfriend saktong lockdown dahil sa parehong dahilan :(
Remember, you are worthy.
@@diversion6076 bruh u sure she's not your ex? Lol
This song “Doors” speaks a lot of meaning but for me while listening to this, this reminded me of our vision during year 2019 which is “Open Doors”. It reminded me of my season during that time. And this line “ Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies “ ahhhh this line rebuke me.
If you are the person who is in this season of life wherein you did surrender to Him but sometimes you feel like you are still in the same ground, remember that surrendering to the Lord is also a process, we think surrendering is just one time thing but no, instead of thinking of it in a way you can do it completely one time, surrendering to the Lord is a process as well, in fact it’s a daily decision.
Going back to that line “Time won’t heal anything if you don’t surrender your lies” it also means let go of those things that are not under your care, let it go in God’s hands and feel your heart being empty-empty it so that the Lord could have space to do His work. As well as, what you do in that time is necessary, I hope you use that time to do all the good things that will help you be better :”) The process won’t be easy at first but believe in yourself that you can surpass it :”)
Amen to this.
Thank you!
Amen to this 😇❤
Thank you po ❤
I am actually in the process of letting go ofall the things that hurt me and let God take control of everything 😇
Mikura Yu You are welcome😊 Know that the Lord is not just looking for a willing heart but a heart that is also faithful💗 and that is what you are💗 Continue walking in the presence of God😊💗
For me,sa panahon na ‘to if we connect this song to our current situation.The lyrics say “words you never mean,just to be kind.open up your secret doors” actually the whole lyrics says to speak the truth (govt,ppl who lie about their condition,etc.) We won’t know our true situation if we will lie to ourselves and everyone.Now is the time to speak up to know the truth.
Para lang naman saken
Ang ganda ng sinabi mo lam mo yun. Maisip na nga sana ang cure sa pandemic na to. 👍🏻
Wag kayong gagawa ng desisyon kung malungkot kayo. Kaumagahan mapagsisisihan nyo rin yan ay kayo lang ang masisira. Never leave someone you loved so much without any exact reason, cause you'll never know if there's a chance they're coming back. Walang siguradong pinto ang bubukas uli sa puso nila kung iniwan nyo na.
We all have a secret door…and there will always be that one person who can unlock it and see the beauty in it,even if you can't see it
Pautang
“Open up your secret doors” it’s like a representation on how couples should be transparent with one another. Kung mababasa mo man to, i just want to say i love you.
everytime na pinapakinggan ko 'to, nagiging fresh pa rin sa isip ko lahat ng nabasa, nakitang pictures, videos nyo. alam ko namang okay na tayo kasi mahal kita. pero iba pa rin impact sakin ng lahat ang sakit pa rin.
This song made me realize that it's okay to speak up, to share whatever things you have in mind without minding what people might say or react about it... Gosh. I love you, Bens, so much!!! You all rock! 💙💛
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Exactly! ♥️
A song that speaks about to surrender the secretive anxiety, sins, pain and sorrow that we tend to hide from the Lord. Aaa ben and ben preaching
may mga bagay talagang di mo mapilit.
I did confess to him (thinking about no more what ifs) pero hanggang doon nalang 'yon.
But thankful the friendship is there.
And I'm happy now seeing that he is happy 😀
"time won't heal anything
if you don't surrender your lies"
You really have to let it go para hindi ka na mabigatan sa dinadala mong bagahe wag mong ipunin hayaan mo rin sarili mong tulungan ka ng iba kung hindi mo kayang tulungan yung sarili mo mka bangon o mka move on.
WHO'S HERE BEFORE 1MILLION VIEWS?🙋🙋😍
"Words you don't mean, just to be kind"
This line just speaks to me. Most days I just choose to let my mind be unheard, thinking it would be better if it's not said. But, I'm just torturing myself and there's just a big pile of my emotions and thoughts buried inside me. So, takot lang talaga ako maging selfish and waste someone else's energy by dropping everything. I know it's pathetic.
this song really connects to us. we have re own secret doors, time can't give u freedom or healing but surrendering yourself fully, all the lies, anger, tears, afraid&etc. will be gone forever and ever. Im so thankful for this and its still reminds me how God is good to meee!!! Thank u ben&ben
“Everything is okay, I guess
I'm just a little tired
No need to think about this mess
It goes away in time”
“Time won't heal anything
If you don't surrender your light”
Everyone,be true and don’t keep it all to yourself.There will always be someone who’s worthy to open up your secret doors to.Fighting!💙💛💙
And cheers for another masterpiece from Ben & Ben!💙💛💙
Ilang beses ko na inireplay 'to habang pinag-iisipan ko kung aanhin ko pa ba ang mahal ko sa buhay na nagsisinungaling sa kanyang sarili at damdamin🙁 this song speaks to me and compells me to at least take a shot at shaking up that person with all the goodness and love in my heart, even amidst the pain I have to face and might potentially intensify. Thanks b&b
It was like a song to our own self. A song for all the things that we haven't discovered on ourselves yet.
I just wanna share my realizations after hearing this beautiful song. Sobrang fan ako ng Ben&Ben and this is the first time na mag cocomment ako because this song actually speaks my life.
After hearing the song, sobrang naiyak ako kasi it made me realize how strong I am for being alive despite of the silent battles and countless of attempts to escape life. This song is now my glimmer of hope. It's not just about romantic feelings or whatsover but it talks about something beyond and deeper than that. Opening your heart to someone is tough when you know for yourself that you can't. I can't help but think of my younger brother because I don't want him to grow up and experience the struggles I have in life. I don't want him to experience sleepless nights trying to fight his own demons alone without having to talk to anyone because he might think that he will burden his friends. I don't to see myself in him as someone who struggles to open up her thoughts and emotions that's why I am praying that no matter how rough life can get, he may still be someone who appreciates life. This song actually inspired to be more open, like a door who gives way for hope and light to come through.
Same goes for everyone, I hope that we all find our glimmer of hope in understanding and being more open about our battles. We are not alone and we can overcome everything in God's perfect time.
Salamat sa musika, Ben&Ben!
this song is for ourselves and the same time for the people who surrounds us. i guess this songs shows us to be kind to ourselves and be kind to everyone as we are having our own battle to be won. kaya salamat ben&ben, nabuksan ninyo yung pinto na ayaw buksan ng karamihan. hindi para masaktan kami kung hindi para tanggapin namin nang buo yung mga sarili namin. all powers to all of you! ❤
Bata pa lang tayo nababasa na natin ang, "Honesty is the best policy", para maging honest tayo sa iba, dapat maging honest muna tayo sa mga sarili natin. Also, pagbuksan lang natin ng pinto yung dapat- di rin maganda maging open book, paLimited edition tayo ng slight. Ha? Basta yun.
“I wont ever know what’s on your mind, if you’ll always be hiding behind. Open up your secret doors.”
It is easy to urge others to open up and speak freely their unspoken thoughts, but when you are in a situation that always makes you want to just be left from behind and to never move forward, when you are placed in a world where you need to make your guards up as high as possible for people to not use your vulnerabilities against you just like what others did to you before, then it isn’t easy to just open these doors. Im speaking about traumas; when you encounter different people in your life who make you realize your strengths, but later on serve as your weaknesses by them taking advantage of your strengths for their personal gratifications. When you’ve opened your doors for them to enter, just for them to get the key from you and lock you alone in your own dark room full of misery and sorrow, full of questions why you chose to speak up and move forward just to end up having nothing in the end. To those people who have unresolved problems and traumas from behind, i just want to say that our feelings are valid; we have the freedom whether to open our doors again or not. But before that, we should first open that door that leads us to our very own self-acceptance and forgiveness. I know that there were times that we blamed ourselves for everything that has happened to us, but it’s never our fault. Our only mistake, i guess, was being to vulnerable. And i hope that vulnerability teaches us, that we need to be strong because there are still a lot of people who will enter our lives; some having the same motives- giving you more traumas in life, while others are there to help you slowly heal from your scars. We need to find these people; those who will make us feel how beautiful it is to open our doors without having the doubt of being left from behind. We just need to let time heal us from everything that kept these doors closed ❤️
This is beautiful
wow
Thank you! 💕
Your comment perfectly explained what I feel when I, myself don't know how to explain it, just wow.
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Here after seeing Us the Duo's stream! Love this song!!!
*"words you never mean, just to be kind"*
boi im somehow attacked.
samedt
Boi the guy i like just told me to don't wait for him bc he might hurt me while waiting for him. And he can't explain why. I get him but he still pushed me away.
yes, this song has got amazing lyrics
but can we just appreciate how AMAZING this song sounds like. Seriously Ben&Ben, you've given a spotlight to each instrumentalist (LOVED Agnes' bass part sa dulo) in the song and not one of them feels as if they've overplayed or underplayed the other.
good job guys
Sa panahon na hindi ko kayang ihayag ang mga lihim ko,
Hayaan mong manghiram muna ako ng lakas ng loob sa kanta na ito.
Ben&Ben the best kayo! Parang pakiwari lahat ng kanta niyo eh tungkol sa kaganapan ng buhay ko.
More power! 💙💙
Songs can be your greatest spokesperson whenever you can't express your self and feelings.
Their music always tells what my words can't express. I feel like I can always understand myself better with your music Ben & Ben. Thank you! ☹💖
True😣😭
Ang ganda talaga ng mga songs nila, kailan kaya lalabas yung 'nakikinig ka ba saakin' hihi ang solid din nooonnnn AAAAAA
"the thoughts we're thinking, in our sighs they linger"
no joke, feeling ko talaga masisiraan na ako ng bait kanina kakaoverthink at wala akong masabihan. thank you for this i feel less alone. salamat din sa twitter i stumbled upon this band today.
There are some things that we kept from people-it maybe because we are afraid of judgment or we just don't want tofeel like we are a burden. Thoughts that are kept hidden behind closed doors. I'm in a relationship and it has never been my thing to tell everything to him. Whenever I have a problem or I am mentally unstable, I tend to shut down and isolate myself from people-even from him. This song feels like my bf's talking to me. That he wants to save me but he can't do that unless I allow him. To everyone who's experiencing the same thing, I pray that we find the courage to share our burdens to someone. Let yourself be heard. Someone out there is willing to listen. It is not wrong to open yourself up sometimes. Bottling your feelings will drain you. Let's not be harsh on ourselves. Ask help. Thank you bb's. We love you forever💚
"Doors" triggered what's left burden in my heart and it made me pause from what I am doing. I hope too, Ben&Ben. That opening secret doors is as soothing as listening to your music. I hope the pain fades away just like how the music ends. But it just won't work out that way, maybe the best way to open those doors is to find the one who deserves to hold the key.
Thank you for letting us know how to let go and heal our burdens through your art❤❤❤
And to those who holds stronger grudges, "..leaves will soon grow from the bareness of trees, and all will be alright in time." -Ben&Ben, Leaves
Ben&Ben never failed to comfort us, especially this quarantine period.
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Kaya doors kasi ito yung nagsisilbing harang natin sa loob ng bahay at sa labas ng bahay. Comfort zone natin kumbaga...Na ito yung harang natin sa iba na paminsan ayaw natin ipaalam or ilabas yung totoong tayo at bawat isa sa atin ay may mga secrets o may mga itinatago na tayo lang ang nakakaalam at ayaw natin ipaalam sa iba. Door = boundary.😅....thank you ben&ben for making wonderful and inspiring songs/music.💖
"Our mind is the playground of the devil"
Linyang binitawan ng kaibigan ko and sinundan niya ng
"Wag kang mag hesitate na mgsabi sakin"
Nakakagaan lang ng may mga kaibigan kang nandiyan para pakingan ang side mo. Yung hindi ka matatakot na magsabi kasi hindi ka nila ija- judge. And after that convo I open up too; with my boyfriend. And mas lalong gumaan loob ko kasi yung mga thoughts ko are useless. I mean mali na mag overthink talaga.
Kaya people kung alam niyong kailangan niyo ng makakausap o ng masasandalan magsabi lang kayo with your love one's. Hindi masama magsabi. Sasabog at sasabog talaga kayo kakaisip.
Ps: Ben&Ben really nailed it again. Iloveyou and thankyou! Feeling ko yung mga kantang ginagawa niyo is para sa amin ng boyfriend ko😊
"Words you never mean, just to be kind"
Why do some people find joy in fooling others? They'd say stuff and make you believe that there is something and just when you start to open up, when you're starting to embrace the strange emotions you've been feeling, they'll drift away. The most frustrating thing is them not telling you what went wrong. You'll end up questioning your worth till you decide you're no good for them and initiate to break things off. And theyll just agree coz they were just waiting for u to give up by playing cold and that at the end of the day, they'll have a "clean conscience" coz it was you who gave up, it was you who initiated, it was you who decided how things turned up.
IT SUCKS
Jooo xxx fucking mood. Tangina
Fvck them!!!
Because kindness is a lie
my current situation now hays
Sakit 💔
"Time won't heal anything if we don't surrender our lies"
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This line really hits the spot. I remember my dad. Kapag may nagtatanong sa akin ng tunay kong saloobin sa kanya I always say "okay naman, it feels great when I'm with him" but deep inside it hurts because I only want his acknowledgement, but I won't get it ever. He's dead and he is my secret door. Yesterday I posted about him, I shared what I really feel at gumaan yung pakiramdam ko.
It's been 2 years since I've met her. I was young and immature, I didn't see things for what they were. For 2 years I'd almost everyday talking to her, mostly about how my day went. I confessed to her a few montjs after getting to know her. She said she didn't know what to say. So I kept going, and I tried to keep building what I thought was a blooming relationship. A year after, I confessed again, confronting her. She said she wasn't ready. That it wasn't me, but she just wasn't ready. Of course, I took it at something that would eventually change. I was convinced that she was the one the universe had laid out for me. She just needed time. WE just needed time. But a few weeks ago, 2 years and a couple months after first getting to know her, I decided I had to talk to her again because some rumors were spreading that she was with someone else. I talked to her and she denied it. We had, in some sense, sort of a closure. I told her that no matter what I'd value our friendship and that nothing changes. I even jokingly told that if I wasn't going to end up as a priest, I'd invite her to my wedding. But after that talk, everything just seemed more distant. She stopped talking to me. The day-to-day conversations became a once a week reply. The morning and evening talk was no longer. 2 months passed and I decided that I'd take time to prioritize myself and my growth as an individual. I loved her, but I needed to love myself too. A week after this song was released, I'd come to the realization that she wasn't everything I thought she was. What hurt the most was when I realized that she never told me the little things. How her day went, or what her favorite food were, what she liked, what she disliked. She never opened her doors for me. I was too blind by my feelings to see. Now I'm sitting here in my couch. Listening to this song proudly, that today is the first time I get to look at her pictures and no longer feel pain and anxiety. Now I look at her pictures and see a girl, who I shared memories with, who even though wasn't everything I thought she'd be, still put up with me for 2 years. I don't think you'll be able to read this, but if you do, I want to thank you. For everything. Even though you barely talk to me anymore, you will still always have a place in my heart. Thank you.
Funny. I had the same thing happened to me. She was a dear friend of mine. We shared the same hobbies, likes and dislikes and we've been acquainted for 2 years and became friends for 2 years. And what I once thought was admiration turned to love towards her. But I was awkward with those things, and never had I ever confessed to anyone yet. So she was the first girl I ever confessed to. She had the same reaction when I confessed to her. She was confused, she didn't know how to respond. She asked for time and I gave her while trying to win her affection. But after time, it seemed like it was stagnating, even though I tried my best. Perhaps, I never did tried my best, or it's just that she never took me as a potential partner. February 15, 2019. That date was the date when I tried confronting her. Coincidentally, it was our Valentine's ball, and I invited her for a dance. I asked her several things, and the last one was: “Do you think I have a chance?", I said. And I asked that she answer it truthfully. She said, word by word: “I just can't see you as a potential romantic partner." She even said that she had someone in mind, that she has someone else she likes. Of course that was painfully as fuck, but I asked for it. And I told her I wouldn't get mad because I never had any reason to. As painful as it was, I swallowed it. After that, I never invited anyone to dance. Like, she was my final dance for that night. After that, I cried so hard because I was starting to treat her as my world. There I realized that it was all but a one-sided love. And after that, things became awkward for a while. We barely talked for 2 months. But we had a closure. Sort of. There was this orientation at our school and there, we were taken aback to our past experiences and I was able to recall that event. Painful, it was. But I mustered everything to say “Thank you." She understood what I meant, and she apologized. I told her there's nothing to be sorry about. Honestly, I was glad that I thanked her. I was glad that I met her, and fell for her. Since, I felt like I grew up as a person. But I guess I won't be falling in love for awhile. Gotta close my doors for now.
This song makes me think of this girl that I like. She's part of a club that I'm in and we're so close. As I got to know her, i noticed she puts up this wall and doesn't really open herself up to a lot of people but when she does, you can totally see how beautiful and amazing she is, even if she can't see that. Hoping and praying that one day, she'll finally open up and embrace the awkwardness, passionate and beautiful woman that she is~
Go for it 💪🏻
"Everything is okay, I guess. I'm just a little tired" First line palang napaiyak na ako ng kanta na to. For me this song means that it is really okay opening up to someone so that they can understand what you are feeling. From the line "I won't ever know what's on your mind. If you'll always be hidin' behind." The line hit me hard, how can they understand me when I don't say a thing. They always say that I am such a difficult person because I wanna be understood but I won't say anything, I will just ignore them or walk away from them instead of telling them what is really wrong.The line " Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies." For me the "LIES" that was meant in this line is the fact that you are fooling yourself that you are already okay when in fact you are so vulnerable, so that is why we need to open up our doors or thoughts to someone so that they can help us heal. My dad just died months ago and I feel so empty and I don't share my problems to anyone but after listening to this song I felt relieved and happy. Thank you ben and ben for making me happy through your wonderful talents. Words are not enough to express how grateful and blessed I am being your fan. I am so proud of you all. Congrats nuggets!! Continue being a blessing to each and everyone and continue bringing joy and love to us!!!
we all have our own secret doors-mga iba't ibang uri ng pagkatao natin na hindi natin maihaharap sa mundo, natatakot na mahusgahan, na mawalan ng mga taong sinasandalan, na matalikuran ng mundo. kaya we sometimes prefer to hide what we truly feel, sa takot na baka kapalit nang pagiging totoo mo, may tatalikod sa'yo. ://
Dear Ben&Ben, why does it feels like you've read my mind, like you knew what happened to me this past few years.
okay, totally random but the doors remind me of Monsters Inc. hahahaha
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"Words you never mean, just to be kind."
When you tell things just to keep and kept everything intact.
When you speak things to make them comfortable and feel at ease.
Most of the time being kind hurts like hell specially when you want that person to stay at your side for life.
Yung kahit wala syang sabihin, okey lng sayo.
Yung kahit anong ilapag nya, dun ka lang kuntento.
This song shows how one person can offer unconditional love to someone he/she really love. 💖 Thank you Ben & Ben. You guys are so amazing!
Pinagdaanan ko ata sa buhay lahat ng sinulat nyong kanta. 😁 Relatable lahat e. ✨😊 Lahat may puso at tama sa puso. 😊
"If you don't surrender your lies Time won't heal everything"
This line has a very deep impact especially to those people who haven't the courage to tell the truth behind their thoughts. One thing for sure is when you don't open up yourself to the person who loves you and ending up hurting them because of your lies.
“Words you never mean just to be kind”
Yung sinasabi mong mahal mo sya para lang mag-stay sya kahit alam mong wala nang pag-asa.
This song reminds me of her. 3 years na kaming magkausap and it seems like we really know each other na pero feel ko pa din na may mga bagay pa syag tinatago, mga bagay na sya lang ang nakaka alam and it's okay for me kasi nga di pa kami ready pumasok sa seryosong relationship. All I want is that maging komportable sya sa akin sa pag s-share ng kanyang thoughts
“I WON’T EVER KNOW WHAT’S ON YOU MIND”
“IF YOU’LL ALWAYS BE HIDING BEHIND”
minsan we’re scared to open our secret doors to someone o sa mga taong kumakatok sa buhay natin kasi takot tayong lumabas sa comfort zone natin and “WORDS YOU NEVER MEAN” just to look like we’re fine but “hindi talaga tayo okay” let us open our SECRET DOORS because we need to free ourselves and let the person loves us genuinely have a room in our life.
This mirrors my present situation. This thing hurts a lot. 😢 Too many secrets around. You'll never know, one lies can burn you down. It's not easy to open a door full of lies to a person you already have relationship with. Yung kayo na nung sinabi nya sayo ang totoo, ibang-iba sa una nyang sinabi. Masakit marining ang kasinungalingan. It pained my ass up til' this very moment. This song is really for those victims of lies. 😭
never ko naisip na babalik ako sa kantang 'to dahil mararanasan ko 'to... nasanay ako maging open and totoo sa nararamdaman ko. pero ngayon, pakiramdam ko kinukulong ko sarili ko, para 'di ko maramdaman yung sakit. Hindi ko napansin na dahil dun lalo lang ako nasasaktan. Pakiramdam ko hindi ako totoo sa sarili ko, hindi ko maamin sa sarili ko na nasasaktan ako. Pakiramdam ko hindi din ako nagiging totoo sa kanya, dahil hindi ko masabi sa kanya na siya dahilan kung bakit ako nasasaktan. I hope that ma-open ko din yung pinto sa kanya. Never kami nag-away pero pakiramdam ko ang layo namin ngayon sa isa't isa. Para naming pinoprotektahan ang isa't isa pero 'di namin napapansin na dahil dun nagkakasakitan na din pala kami. I dunno, bawat lyrics tumatagos sa puso ko. pero baka okay naman talaga lahat, pagod lang talaga ako. magulo lang siguro talaga ako ngayon. Gusto ko lang malinawan.
"Time won't heal anything, if you don't surrender your lies"
siguro nga :))) gustong gusto ko maging open at kausapin siya. pero ewan ko,,,
dapat mag-uusap kami ngayon but hindi siya nagpunta, hindi niya din sinabi dahilan kung bakit. pero kung mag-usap kami parang ayos lang lahat.
salamat Ben And Ben sa pagdamay sa akin nuon, hanggang ngayon. mahal ko kayo :`
I WANT TO HUG AND CUDDLE MY NON-EXISTENT JOWA WHILE LISTENING TO THIS
SAME HERE HAHAHAHAHA
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