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- Nakikinig Ka Ba Sa Akin | Official Music Video
isang alay sa ating mga kapamilya
sa bigat ng mga pangyayari ngayon
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Director: Jorel Lising
Producer: Pauline Zamora
Assistant Director: Camille Aragona
Director of Photography: David Paul Orbeta
Production Designer: Eero Yves Francisco
Art Director: Isha Dalabajan
Props Master: Gonzalo Labudahon II
Production Manager: Antonette Perez
Location Manager: Arman Montallana
Casting Coordinator: Jamagne Vergara
Casting Asst.: Ging Servilla
Asst. Camera: Jefferson Estrera
Gaffer: Ayi Arenas
Head Setman: Percival Aldana
Setmen: Jerome Estrada, Roderick Duran
Wardrobe Stylist: Eivy Rose Lavelle
Wardrobe Asst.: Joan Sanchez
Hair and Make-Up Artist: Carol Mae Lumbo
Editor: Jude Mataguihan
Post Producer: Roderick Goot
Colorist: Musseli Cruz
Prod Coordinator: Is Cartagena
Sales Producer: Audrey Velasco
Lead Actors: Agot Isidro, Bart Guingona, Jasmine Curtis-Smith, Kelvin Miranda
Lyrics and Music by Paolo Benjamin and Miguel Benjamin
Arranged by Pat Lasaten, Keifer Cabugao, Agnes Reoma, Jam Villanueva, Poch Barretto, Andrew De Pano, Toni Muñoz
Produced by Jean Paul Verona and Ben&Ben
Mixed by Jean Paul Verona
Mastered by Sage Audio
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This made me realize that when life gets too noisy, maybe the only way to lessen the noise is to actually listen.
Exactly
True that
TRUE!
TRU DAT!
THANK YOU FOR THIS
To all future parents:
Let your children speak their side of the story. Let them feel that you are always there whenever they need to talk and be open with. Don't repeat the same mistakes your parents gave to you as you were growing up!
:((
YEP,SOBRANG TAMA KA DIYAN BUDDY!!!!
And listening to your children also makes you earn their respect...
😭
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"If you cannot understand my silence, how can you understand my words?"
- Philosophy class
mao nadayun
:(
I was about to comment this.
ramdam ko ang pananawagan mo✌️❤️
Dahilan ng mga tampuhin na kala may psychic powers ang shota nila. Magusap na Lang pwede?!
When I became a parent, I'm going to ask my children often "Are you okay?" I never want my children to be crying their eyes out when I'm peacefully sleeping under the same roof and I certainly never want them to feel like there's nobody there for them because I always be.
This made me cry.
isnt this what we all ask for?
This made me think that it is a correct decision of myself not to build and start a family. I really think I can't do that for my children, if I happen to have one.
My message to all, Be the best son/daughter first before setting a goal as a parent.
@@commandersoysauce823 I agree.
Ben and Ben expressing what they feel and their opinions through writing songs about what is happening rn is the best💙💛
at ganyan dapat ang OPM!
Hindi puro clingy love songs
I thought the same thing, when the "epidemya" line started 😄
💙💛
@@Bougart mk
This music vid just represents what the citizens want right now. The Philippines as the house, the government as the parents and the children as the citizens. I just hope it's like in the video where instead of being numb, they listen and try to understand.
I'm a bit jealous sa mga families na open and understanding, they do what ever they can to understand and help us without violence.
Mas nakakainggit pag may pamilya yung iba tas ikaw wala.
Samedt. Lalo yung close sa parents
:(((
Everytime pumunta ako sa bahay ng mga kaibigan ko masaya ako na naiinggit sa kanila. Halos lahat ng kaibigan ko close sa family maganda yung bonding. Samanla sakin buo pero malayo ang relasyon sa isat isa.
@@artisanimation4631 i feel you. Mas in favor pa sila sa mga lalaki kong kapatid and kami ng sis ko alienated
may the toxic filipino culture be broken.
huhu, this made me cry a lot.
we always listen to reply, not to understand.
loh HAHAHAHA
“Tayo ba ay naging makasarili? Sarado ba ang tenga sa mga hiling?” When this part of the song is so timely- it has both political, family and romantic vibe. I mean Ben&Ben how'd you do that?! Kudos!!! 🙌🏻
PS. People who are fighting in different social media platforms needs to listen to this.
Sobrang totoo yan. Kaya salamat sa Ben&Ben!
seriously ang galing nila. sana makita ng mga tao yung mga meanings ng mga kanta nila at hindi lang dahil maganda pakinggan (pero kasama na yun heh)
tamang tama sa panahon ngayon ng social media...dami kase away.
ok 😢
Hahaha true unang dinig ko plang i know na eh
Why am I crying? After the chorus my eyes just burst into a waterfall. Hindi ko alam kung saan o kailan ako natamaan. Society? Government? Family? Tangina ang galing talaga ng grupo na 'to. Thank you for reminding us how to be humans, Ben and Ben. I love you.
Parehas po tayo ate...natamaan rin ako
Sa family talaga .....
Sameee
@@rheycabel184 Yes po. Coming from a broken family,I could understand the pain. If only we knew how to talk and communicate. Sayang ng panahon na nasayang.
@@jasminc5087 pag may nabibitawan na masakit na salita tapos d na alam kung paano pa mababawi....saket po
@@rheycabel184 😭😔
“Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng ‘yong galit” hits me the most.
I know it’s the correct thing to do.
Hell, it’s the best thing you can do.
But why is it also the hardest thing to do.
It is😭💔
Ganda ng profile piccc
Ego. Pride.
This song hits different when you live in a house where instead of parents hearing you out, they shut you up...
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Yh ify.
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F bro
Fact: Ben&Ben never failed to satisfy our ears
The only thing that is bad in Ben&Ben's music is that they end.
Ohh true
Sana hindi nalangsila madidisband pero wala ganun talagalife walang nagtatagal😞i hope this type of opm never leaves
Legit?
@@nelsonfellone0127 true ayoko mawala yung gantong type ng music
Mag didisband sila? Legit ba?
That “sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng iyong galit” hit me the most, misunderstanding and clashes with my mother happens when I burst in mid conversation. I know my points and alam kong tama ako, sometimes I just don’t know my place na anak ako (disclaimer: hindi “anak lang ako”, this one is disrespectful). I have the right time to tell my part but I don’t have the rights to disrespect them, same as they having the authority to tell me things that they considered right based on the experience they have but they still don’t have the rights to disrespect me.
The only thing na kinakainggitan ko is yung mga Family na Open sa isat isa 🤧 yung tipong normal sa kanila yung mga bagay na hindi kayang pagusapan basta nino man
I remember his word 'yung away ng buong fam. namin no'ng buhay pa papa ko
“Saka mo lang makikita Ang halaga ng isang bagay Kung Wala na ito sa'yo.
So nung year 2016 pumanaw ama namin. May iniwan pa nga akong poem para sa kanya. At ito 'yun 👇
-A poem for my strong-willed and tenderhearted Father
He was born in strong
A repairer to problems and failures.
And he was the pillar of our home.
When I was a kiddo
He said, who's my favourite hero?
Then I replied "A hero of builder, a repairer, a lover, stronger and a protector...and it was "You".
You're my secure foundation
I'm filled with love and fond appreciation.
I'm so thankful for all the memories we shared together.
He's my shield, he's my sword
My paper and my pen.
If I could write a story,
It would be the greatest ever told.
I'd write about my daddy,
For he had a heart of gold.
Thank you Father
Things could be a better
For the people who are there
🥺🙏❤️
Hugs!!! ❤
I know, he's proud of you. He build a good man❤️
Brought me to tears💖
Hi earl! Stop chopping onions😢❤
Pangkalahatan tong kantang to, grabe. Hindi lang pang-pamilya tulad ng nai-portray sa mv kundi pwede rin sya sa gobyerno, sa mga nangyayari sa bansa, sa jowa mo, sa kapatid, sa kaibigan o kahit sino pa man. Hindi naiiwasan ang hindi pagkakaintindihan. Pero at the end of the day, kung handa tayong pakinggan ang hinaing ng bawat isa, maayos natin ang bawat problema.
This is Ben and Ben. Theyre not only musicians who create songs. They create masterpiece.
“Uunawain kita”
Sa totoo lang, napakasarap masabihan ng ganito. Kadalasan kase ngayon binabalewala yung nararamdaman mo, yung side mo, kaya nabu-build up yung emotions, naiipon hanggang sa ‘di mo na kaya at sasabog ka na lang talaga.
This is actually a real picture of what is really happening in every family rn. And the lesson is everyone should be heard and choose to extend love and understanding. And also time, for us to also see what matters the most in this life.
Kailangan namin ito sa panahon ngayon. Salamat, Ben&Ben. Music ninyo ang nagsisilbing isa sa mga liwanag sa dilim. Sobrang bigat buhatin at damhin ang nangyayari sa paligid. People are dying, losing jobs, grieving in hunger and in need. Parang mas madaling mawalan ng pag-asa at magsawalang- bahala nalang.
Pero salamat, pinaalalahanan niyo kami na makinig sa iba, at higit sa lahat, na meron at meron pa ring nakikinig. Puhon! Magiging maayos rin ang ating bansa. Panghawakan natin ‘to!
This literally gives us more reasons to stan ben&ben! THE MUSIC THEY PROVIDE LITERALLY HELPS US WITH EVERYTHING! WE LOVE YOU BEN&BEN, ALWAYS!
My father left us just this February before the lockdown started. I miss him, and being the eldest is really a challenge. I thank God for His faithfulness, hindi Niya kami pinabayaan. These past months felt like decades, dami nangyari. Wala, share ko lang, baka experience mo rin. One thing I'm certain; God will always take us where we should be: In His loving arms. In bisaya, we say "padayun!" Which means "Keep going!" So I'll say to you, yes ikaw na nagbabasa nito. You already know why. ♥️ Anyways, today is my birthday 😊. Thank you Ben and Ben for this inspiring piece. Sending love from Misamis Oriental 🙏
- Kent
stay strong kent, keep your faith in Him💗 malalagpasan din natin lahat nang to😊
@@rhondaegericaultsajonia258 Thank you, Yes! Si Lord na po bahala ❤️
@@rhondaegericaultsajonia258 depression, confusions, miscoms, break-up, etc. -- all happened during quarantine, but looking on the bright side. I'm still breathing kaya thankful Kaya Lord!
@Suri MythicalDauntless Amen! I couldn't agree more!
So lovely! Belated Happy Birthday! Lots of love!
I want my parents to hear this.
:(((
Same.
:((
same :((
:))
When you're listening this song and realized that you got no one who would listen to you 🙃
Then listen to yourself, do what's best for you and those around you. Hugs po ♥️ Kakayanin natin to 😊
@@Kat-qe2zl thanks po😁
You can do it stranger. ☺️ There will always be someone who is willing to listen. If you seek, you will eventually find. Just look up 🌥️
@@krbasketballsubbed4686 I hope so
there's always Someone who will.
take care po! ❤️
Our family has been dysfunctional for years. Easy to be said than done, na pag-usapan nalang, pero mahirap talaga once you grew up in an environment where speaking up for yourself means you are disrespecting your elders/parents. Nakakapanghina, na minsan wala ka nalang magawa but to cry at night, ilabas lahat ng sakit. We do love our parents, but love isn't enough even for families. Kakampi dapat naman sila sa mga laban ng buhay namin, sa pag-abot ng mga pangarap namin, but it works the other way for us. This is for me/us. I am the eldest. And the same cycle goes for my two younger brothers - we seek love from the outside of our home when we truly crave it from our own parents. Sobrang sakit makita sila nasasaktan, but we have to be strong. In time, we will have our own lives, I just wish, we could hang on a little longer and when we are older, babalikan nalang namin to as life lessons. Maraming salamat sa mga pamilya na tumanggap sa amin, at tinuring kami na parte ng pamilya nila. Masyado ng mabigat yung effect ng nangyari at nangyayari sa family namin. Who knows, maybe in time, it'll all be fine. Or not.
It will absolutely be fine.
😔😔 same here 🥺
I am an only child and I grew up in a dysfunctional family as well. It really is a push and pull relationship with them. We’ll get through this 💖
Same
God bless you maam🙂
LYRICS
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging
Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin
O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin?
Tayo ba ay naging makasarili?
Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling?
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Patawad na sa pagkukulang
Naririnig kita
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Ang bukas ay ating yakapin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...)
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
❤
I'm experiencing this right now. My parents is about to get divorce and i can't do anything to help the problem is they don't know how to listen to each other and to me . It makes me feel so sad and bad about it .. thank you ben and ben for this wonderful song ..
Having different opinions shouldn't break us apart. Instead, we should listen to and learn from each other. Thank you for this wonderful MV Ben&Ben 💙💛
For those experiencing family problems:
Hey, it's okay. You're not alone. I'm experiencing the same thing. Everything will be alright in time. Just speak out, our words might just be the remedy to all this mess.
Stay Safe and Goodluck! 💙💛
Thank u :)
they always close their ears every time I try to defend myself from a mistake that I never did.
It's no wonder why I hate myself and my family so much.
Thank you
This made me tear up. Madalas kasi, in our pent up anger towards family members, we tend to shut them out. This song really opened my eyes to that. And ganda rin kasi pinapakita nung MV that at the end of the day, family is family... despite the problems... and the differences in beliefs. "Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng iyong galit." Huhuhuhu grabe iyaaaak
Please marami pa sanang OPM...😢😢😢
Sana may makinig din sa amin. open.spotify.com/album/7insRqQL1YmYZTouTicCOm?highlight=spotify:track:4BN3SvEi63r8hBQBvyfA4X
Most of them are hard to find cause they r underrated
sir nebb pa shout out😀
Napadpad na naman si Sir Nebb dito ah hahahha
Sir Neeeeeb hahahaha pa shoutout aaaahhhhh 😁
Right after this pandemic is over. WE ALL DESERVE BEN AND BEN CONCERT 😭
family is all you have... nice one!
isa ako sa mga bumili ng ticket sa ben and ben concert, at atat na atat na ako, kung wala lng pandemic :(
Let's hope and pray nalang na mawala natong pandemic nato haysssss...
I really hope sooooo if they wont do a solo concert maybe they can perform at sarbay (Its like a concert with many artists Its in glan every year they do it except this year)
A big yes 🙌
This is one of the reasons why I stan them. They're not afraid to speak up. They use their platform to voice out abuses and uplift Filipino spirits. I hope we could learn from them to be able to use our voice to speak up to the current issues that plaguing our country even if it's not directly affecting us.
I want someone to say to me "Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng Yung Galit" because I really need it right now.
Just wanna share my story
My dad passed away just around a week ago. He's one of the unfortunate ones na nadali ng COVID-19 sa Saudi. Biglaan nga e. The last time we chatted with him, he's doing much better. Di na sya dependent sa ventilator and we're expecting he'll recover na. Then the following day, we received the sad news. Kumalat na sa katawan ni papa ang virus and di nya kinaya. Ayun.
Now, I just feel empty yet filled with regrets and guilt. Around a month before he passed away, we had a huge argument. After that, di na nagvivideo call samin si papa. I said sorry to him thru messenger nung father's day but di nya sineen. He's really mad because of that. Tumawag nalang sya ulit nung birthday ko. By that time, he looks sick already. What bugs me is, maybe if I just shut up that time and listen nalang (even if it hurts), maybe naguusap pa kami non and nalabanan/ naiwasan ni papa ang covid.
Gusto ko sana makabawi sa lahat after pagkarecover ni papa, but oh well, kinuha sya kaagad ni Lord. Papa's too good for that. He didn't deserve this.
Hey, I don't know how much pain ur going through, I want u to know that if ever u need a shoulder to cry on, I'm all ears. Everything happens for a reason, I hope ur doing fine now. Stay safe, we're proud of you and we love u so much
Please do not beat yourself up.
May sakit din ang tatay ko now at nasa saudi din sya, sobrang lungkot na naiisip mo na mag isa lang sya don. Sabi ko nga umuwi na sya pero hindi naman ganon kadali sa panahon now. Dasal na lang talaga na mas lumakas pa sya at ilayo sa sakit 😭😭
Same, nag away din kami ni nanay before she passed away last august 2021 due to covid din. Biglaan, akala ko makakarecover na sya bigla na lang tumawag yung Doctor na wala na si nanay. Ang masaklap di na namin sya nakita kasi bawal bumista sa mga covid patients
I feel like the "epidemic" has two meanings. The actual epidemic and the problems plaguing the family
True
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging
Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin
O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin?
Tayo ba ay naging makasarili?
Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling?
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Patawad na sa pagkukulang
Naririnig kita
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Ang bukas ay ating yakapin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...)
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
I can't tell my problems to my mom because everytime i do, she'll judge me. Now everytime she talks, i just listen and don't reply. She hates me for doing that.
sameeee hahahaha
This song makes me so fucking emotional. I listen to this almost everyday because somehow it understands me. My family is whole but our relationship is broken. Someday when I found myself I'm gonna make my family listen to this song and ask them. "Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?"
I LOVE IT WHEN JASMIN WAS WATCHING BEN&BEN ON HER LAPTOP
so meta.
@@peterpansplayground ow i was happy someone notices my comment, thanks dude!
And that video was the music video of "Masyado Pang Maaga". So deep 💙💛
@@cjmuertigue hala oo nga noh, ngayon ko lng po na-gets hehe
Why Same
GRABE CHILLS WHEN THEY STARTED TO LOOK AT ME AND MOUTHED THE LYRICS AS IF THEY WERE TALKING TO ME
Sameee
Samee
Hi everyone!
I just want to share my experience in my whole life. Noon, every morning of Sunday palagi kami sa church. Masaya at walang katulad, mahilig din kami mag gala kahit saan and masaya ang family ko. But one day, dumating sa point na naghiwalay ang magulang ko sa harap ko at nag away mga kapatid ko hanggang sa ako nalang ang naiwan mag isa sa bahay namin. Walang magulang, walang mga kapatid na dating masaya pero, ngayon malungkot na. Nag iisa nalang pero ang mindset ko ay normal pa din. Galit sakin si papa at ayaw nya sa akin for real pero, gusto ko maging mabuting anak kahit di mabuti ang tingin sa akin.
Nangyari lahat ng yan sa araw ng pasko. December 25, 2011 - 6:43AM
Pero tiwala ako sa sarili ko at tiwala ako na pagsubok lang ng Diyos ito sa akin. At ang tanging hiling ko ay mabuo ulit Sana ang pamilya ko, someday.
I love Ben&Ben songs coz it's very inspiring. Thank you ❤️
Praying for you kua😊 and to your Family . STAY STRONG CHEER UP TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER IN A DAY OF DARKNESS
The "suyo" song that changes the mood inside the car from "tense and toxic" to "all is well."
Speaking is easy, listening is difficult. To truly learn from one another, we must listen.
This song relates to family, friendship, politics, lovelife and more
To me it's family, my father to be exact.
When my father was still alive we were always on each others throats, no day would pass where we wouldn't fight it also got worse when he got sick. I was a dumb kid who was acting like an adult while my father was a parent who knows he got little time to teach his experience to his child but I did not understand this before, all I could see was a man yelling at me. I guess sometimes it's too late when you realize your mistakes, I was listening to this song when the line ''nakikinig kaba sa akin? D kita gustong awayin'' my tears suddenly poured while remembering all those fight we had. The reason why he was always yelling, the reason why almost every action I make he always have mistakes to point out was his way of preparing me for the harsh world but my dumb ass self just couldn't understand that before, so if anyone is reading this comment please don't make the same mistakes I made.
Say thank you and I love you to your parents you'll never know when you'll lose them treasure every moment you have and listen to what they have to say and please try to understand.
Hugs brother. Laban lang!
This comment is so underrated, bilang mga anak gusto natin intindihin tayo pero nakalimutan natin pakingan ung gustong iparating sa atin ng ating mga magulang, tinitake natin as nagging while blaming them for our faults or decisions that we made, they were only preparing us for the real world that is unfair, salute sau laban lang
I always remind myself that I have to honor my mom and dad even in the most difficult time. I always hated my dad and mom before for yelling me back on the days that I’m still young. But now I totally understand them. I’m working away from home and I always miss them. I wish I could go back in time where my mom cooks me tinolang manok, and the time when my dad will drive me to school. I wish I was with them during this pandemic. I wish I could be a good son to them. I was busy growing up that I almost forget that they getting old. I always pray to God that at least he would give me a chance to give back to my parents and make them happy. I don’t want to have regrets in the end!
I can relate. Same scenario. Its pretty difficult to deal with some situations. Feeling mo mag isa kalang. Pero di lang pala sila na Vocal. Then you will realize something when the time comes.
On point
As much as how we want to speak up for ourselves, sometimes, the most important remedy for tensions in every relationships is "listening." Before we want to be understood, we should understand where others are coming from first.
Listening takes humility. Listening breaks down walls for both parties to meet. Listening is the most amazing aspect that I like the most in being human because bruhh, I was able to listen to this masterpiece like wowwww Ben&Ben always never fail.
A song about society which is basically us. Sobrang daming emosyon sa 4:51 mins na kanta. Minsan kailangan natin I-try na ilagay yung sarili natin do'n sa lugar ng isang tao para kahit papaano masabi natin na naiintindihan natin sila, pero sa totoo lang hindi naman talaga natin maiintindihan ang iniisip ng bawat isa kahit pamilya pa natin o malapit na kaibigan. Siguro ang kailangan natin ay pasensya at pag-unawa na lahat ng tao may pinagdadaanang iba't ibang problema kaya minsan kailangan din natin maging sensitive sa mga salitang nabibitawan natin kase minsan may kasalanan din tayo.
Just wanna share my thoughts about this song. Have a good night everyone♡
Minsan yung gusto mo sabihin sa pamilya mo ay itatago mo nalang kasi ayaw mo maging failure
Nakakahiya kasi para sa mga magulang natin na hindi natin naabot yung pangarap nila para sakin. At minsan gusto ko eh magusap lang kami tungkol sa bahay na yun, pero ayaw namin pagusapan lagi namin iniiwasan.
Im sorry for beig a failure
i feel you sobra.
I feel you.
my family is going through a very rough time right now and I suddenly asked the Lord to give me a sign to go on and open up to my parents about the things that have been bothering me for months now. mind you, I am not a very religious person. then bam! ben&ben suddenly released this video that perfectly portrays the struggles of my family and a lot of families during this pandemic.
God really does work in mysterious ways.
Kudos to you Ben&Ben. Lots of love from me and my sibs.
:(((
I’m crying while watching this music video. Hindi ko kinaya ang sakit sa heart.
Maybe sa iba is sobrang madrama lang ako and such but i remember my papa sa music video na to. My Papa left us nung 3 yrs old ako. No communication at all. I hated him. But years past dahil sa mga events sa schools and church like father’s day and family day naiinggitnako sa mga friends ko na may kasamang family ako is pinipili ko nalang maging facilitator pag may family event. Kasi alam ko naman wala akong maisasamang family. Kasi my mom is working abroad din and sa lola ko lang ako naiwan but i’m not my lola’s favorite apo. Kasi kung may family event mas pipiliin niyang sumama sa pinsan ko kesa sakin kasi ang akala nila is kaya ko ko naman mag isa. They never asked me kung okay lang ba ako. And when i was grade 9 dahil sa sobrang inggit ko sa mga friends kong may tatay. Hinanap ko si Papa sa Facebook. And nakita ko siya. Nakita ko na may bago nasiyang kinakasama but wala silang anak. I message my papa. And naging okay naman. Nasa oman siya and kasama niya niya yung kinakasama niya. Then nung nag summer vacation nagmeet kami. And at first okay pa din naman. But nararamdaman kong hindi ako yung priority niya. Instead na makipagbond sakin. Parang mas importante pa yung kinakasama niya. Well i understand him. Sabi ko nalang sa sarili “siguro ngayon lang to” and now college na ako. But still the same. I was never his priority. Akala niya is pag binibigyan niya ako ng allowance is nakabawi na siya sa pagiwan sakin. Everytime na ichachat ko siya akala niya hihingi lang ako ng money sakanya. But no. I need a father na makikinig sakin. I need a parent na yayakap sakin kung ang sakit sakit na ng mga nangyayare sakin. Papa fed me up with material things but i don’t need it. I need him kahit as a father lang. Pero wala pa din. Mas importante pa yung mga pamangkin niya kesa sakin na sarili niyang flesh and blood. Last week i open up sa mama ko. And i’m so lucky that my mom understand my situation. She’s my Bestfriend. But kahit ganun. Na dapat kontento ako na may mom ako nankikinig sakin. Feeling ko may kulang pa din. So i tried opening up to my father. But he never listen. He thought nagiinarte lang ako. That my depression is just my kadramahan. And may kelangan lang ako kaya he’ll send me money nalang daw. I know what to say nung sinabi niya yun kaya nag okay and nag thank you nalang ako. And hindi ko alam kung masama ba tong iniisip ko na sana hindi ko nalang siya hinanap. Kasi i was happy naman without him growing up. Kasi right now I’m drowning. I just want him to see me as his daughter.
Huhu. Sorry dito ako nag rant. Ayaw ko kasi mag rant sa mga friends ko. Dahil nahihiya ako. I’m really sorry
I hope you get well soon ate! We don't know each other pero I just want to tell you na sobrang lakas mo to be able to cope with the challenges na you and your family are facing. I know na kakayanin mo lahat ng yann! Godbless!
Hiiii! thank you for being strong person! kaiyak story mooo, kakainspired. Just want to talk to you, if need mo kausap anytime hehe. Add me sa facebook! Hugs to youuu!! Love ka ni God. 💚💚
Gelo Baltazar awww. Thank youuuuuu!! 🥺😊
Princess Joyce Palma hiii. Thank youuuuuu!! 🥺💓
Grabeee😭 Nakakaiyak naman po yung story niyo💔 Sobrang strong niyo po ate, and i hope na maibsan yung pressure na nararamdaman niyo🥺 God bless po and Take care.
I never listened to my mother, everytime na pinapagalitan nya ako.. She always tell me na wag kong gawin yung mga bagay na hndi ako handa. Nabulag ako, nainlove ako, nabuntis at naghiwlay din kami ng tatay ng anak ko.. Ngayon yung mother ko nagaalaga sa anak ko while working. Kahit anong mangyari always listen to our parents. Its the best for us. I love my Mo & my Son. 💓
Lyrics:
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging
Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin
O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin?
Tayo ba ay naging makasarili?
Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling?
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Patawad na sa pagkukulang
Naririnig kita
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Ang bukas ay ating yakapin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...)
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit.
thank you.
few years from now, we will remember this song as a part of history that is hard to forget :(
this song speaks so much about what we’re all going through
PARA SA LAHAT NG PINILING TUMINDIG. SALAMAT.
Pag ako naging parent hinding hindi ko ipaparanas sa nga anak ko yung nga nararanasan ko ngayon.
After all, we all just want someone to just sit-down and listen and hear our hearts out
Nung pinalabas na ako ng seminaryo, nalungkot parents ko, pero sinabi lang nila na kahit saan man ako o ano man ang gusto ko patuloy parin nila akong susoportahan. Ayaw nila ako mag pari noon, pero ngayon hindi ko narinig sakanila yung ineexpect kong linya na "o diba sabi na namin sayo noong una wag ka na mag pari" pero ngayon, they just want the best for me.
I love them.
May iba pang hangarin sayo ng Panginoon kapatid! Hindi ka man niya tinawag bilang Pari niya, May mas magandang plano sayo ang Diyos! ❤☝️🙏🏻
siguro kuya meron ibang calling ang Diyos sayo!!
When i see the MV and read the translation, i remember an indonesian film (NKCTHI)
and they both made me so emotional.
Thank you Ben&Ben for making such a beautiful song
Ben&Ben deserves a worldwide recognition
I love how this song is not just political, but can also tackle different social issues and how subtle they produced the MV but didn't lose sight the song's meaning. #StanBenandBen
tungkol sa buhay in short!
Hindi sila nakinig sa atin 😭🇵🇭
Mas lumalim ang song dahil sa MV 🥺 hello sa 'yo kaps na nag-recommend nito sa akin hehe... pangatlong balik ko na dito 😍
Kanta to para sa mga bunsong di makasagot sagot sa parents nila, those victims of toxic parenting na di pinapakinggan ang mga anak nila
not just bunso, but all kids, regardless of their birth order :((
Only my twitter account knows how feel to be unheard :((((
What's your name po, i'll follow you. :)
@ili wys The feeling is mutual 😔
This is the perfect timing for this song. ♥️
I hope that one day, magiging National Family Anthem itong song na ito.
Kanina pa ako nagscoscroll na ako sa music page at ito ang pinakaunang opm na nakita ko yung iba kpop or international, I don't care sa music nila, please Lang palawakin natin ang opm gaya nang dati, puro opm Lang nakikita mo nakakamiss rin pag pumunta ka nang music page tapos puro opm ang sunod sunod
Like if you agree
Petition to play this as loud as possible in front of malacañang.
HAHAHAHAHAHA trueeeee
Yan utak mo petisyonin mo.. hahaha.. dame alam
pa woke na corny amputa tang ina mo!
Lahat na lang isisisi mo sa gobyerno
Ayusin mo muna utak mo!
Pareparehas lang tayo may galit dito wag mo naman kimkimin lahat!
Lahat tayo gusto ng pagbabago
@@Bougart Corny na ba ngayon ang gusto ng maayos na gobyerno? Kina-cool mo ba ang pagiging bulag sa katotohanan? Yung comment mo parang kuhang kuha mo sa "Tatay" mo. ;)
Ayan mga hindi nakikinig
We cant blame why this song is now on trending. Its lowkey shades to our country. Let this song be the voice to those people who cant speak their thoughts out. Let our voice be heard! Let us make a noise.
We stan the right band ❤
I agree! Love Ben&Ben,♥️
Agree........
Pare pareho ang ating hangarin..kadliliman ay basagin. di kailangan ng away... no color, no hate... 👍👍😘
Tbh we don't need to hate our parents for not hearing or being with us, be considerate, may Laban din silang hinaharap, wag Tayo mag feeling woke at feeling depressed, be busy smile with a positive mindset.
this song hits my heart badly because of the heat of the election, results, and argument and discourse between supporters. we all want what's best for all, for our country and kababayan, yet there are still so many people that rather stay blind to the truth. as we speak on behalf of those who cannot, they still choose not to hear and acknowledge. we are fighting against injustices, yet most people still choose to neglect the evident issue.
Pinapaala ng kantang to na walang perpektong pamilya. Lahat ng pamilya nagkakaroon ng balakid sa kanilang buhay. At ang pamilya ang magsisilbing sandigan ng bawat isa, at mangyayari lamang ito kapag sinubukan nateng intindihin, mahalin ang bawat isa. This song is a reminder na try to be a little more understanding to the people around you kase everyone has their own battle in their life.
Wow surprise!! Thaanks fam. Labyouu all!💙💛
My fiance was really a big fan of Ben and Ben. In fact, she was the one who influenced me to love this band(she's really cute and adorable every time she tells me everything about this band). I mean the songs they composed speaks for everybody. Thus, it makes everyone draw more closer to it. Whenever she sings for me, this band's songs will always be the best part. And to me and my wife, Ben and Ben will always be in our hearts. Specially this song(actually almost all the songs of Ben and Ben) just a month ago my fiance decided to leave her family, cause to the very reason they won't listen to her, to us. Her family thinks we aren't fit for each other. They tried to separate us. So despite the pandemic and all the uncertainties along the way, it didn't stop her. I know it's sounds reckless, and she's only 18.
Her parent's won't just listen to us. Surely my fiancee is a strong willed woman, and a brave fighter indeed. She's a good daughter, I can justify that. And they have my gratitude for raising her as a beautiful woman -- a caring and responsible lady. But there was a time when they made her cry, they scolded her without any good reason. I was listening to her sobbed, calling my name(it really broke my heart hearing her cry) as her mother talked me in a phone call. They interrogated me, if I could take responsibility for her, If I could send her money. Without hesitation I answered them "Opo", cause I really mean it when I said to them I love their daughter so much, and I will take good care of her. After that they've become more agitated to me, they confiscated her phone. Scolded her day and night. They do provide of her needs. But I ask to myself, did she deserve to be treated like that? They humiliated her in front of her younger brother. Now, her brother said so many insults to her. She love her brother so much. And I know it's heart-breaking for her, all those painful and baseless words coming from the person who's dear to her. All just for falling in love. As a grown up man, she didn't deserved any of those hurtful words and action.
For almost 2 months she was away from her parents. And of course, I supported her, I worked part-time just to help her with her needs. I could never abandon my her in times she needed me the most. Last July 15 she decided to return home. While riding on a bus to she sang for me, I could hear sobbed while singing as if tomorrow will never come. My tears came running down like rivers as we both cry. But not matter how cruel the world to us, we certainly won't let go. She didn't mind the rest of the passengers, cause we really don't know what will happen to her after that. We were both nervous of what could happen the moment she arrives home. Oh before I forgot we both sung "araw araw" even if I'm a tone deaf, as we thank each other for staying and always choosing to fight. All those tears and laughter we shed, we shared it -- with love, our memories will become a history to be remembered for the rest of our lives.
Thankfully, God heed all our prayers. She arrived home safe and sound. And with open arms, she was welcome home again. Though, still, her parents are not in favor of us. But they said they won't meddle anymore "Bahala na kayo. Wala na kaming magagawa jan". It was not bad at all. Everything now is a far more good than the previous situation.
Though, again, there was another problem. Her father will no longer support her in her studies. They I said I should be the one, helping her. And I took responsibility for her. I decided to not to enroll for the up coming school year. I am willing to do everything for her. I don't mind the sacrifices. If it's for her, it's all worth it.
We decided to be together, and build our family by the end of the year. So I am really praying that the situation will be okay by then. I made a promise, that with or without a vaccine, I'll come to her and get her. In God's grace, I hope our plan will workout.
Ps. We're both writers, we're both fond of poetries and arts. And because of our passion our fate crossed, our hearts will always be intertwined. We found this unconditional love in a way people could not even believe, that we love each other. Even though we didn't see in person. She lives in Quezon City. While I am at Mindanao. I was really hoping somebody will lend us help for finding a boarding house and maybe can offer us a job, the moment I arrive at Manila.
Hoy ano ba Ben&Ben! Napadpad ako dito dahil sa SB19 pero bat nyo ako pinaiyak. 3rd song nyo na to na napakinggan ko na naiyak ako. Mahal ko na rin kayo.
SUR🍟!
Ang ganda ng message ng kanta + na-justify talaga ng mv yung gustong iparating satin ng Ben&Ben💛💛💛
is it strange how this song literally lifted the weight off my chest? i mean ben&ben... 👏🏻♥️
It's so hard to believe that everything you see is different from the things that you've been told.
-Eraserheads
My mom shut me out when i told her I was sexually assaulted when i was in 3rd grade. She said it was because maarte daw ako ever since and blame me for not shouting when it happened . I still love her but i wish she could just hear me out
You're brave to be able to do that! I didn't even know I was sexually assaulted when I was young until later on. I wasn't able to tell my parents about it anymore, it's pretty hard.
J. J. I told them earlier this year but it happened when i was in third grade (i am currently in college). Now, my mother acts like i am not her child
I'm so sorry to hear that... it sucks when the person who you would've wanted to take your side the most don't... I hope you're doing well...
itz okay to hate your family members or not love them
🥺😭😭
BEN&BEN SURELY ARE IN TIMING EVERY.FREAKING.TIME.
I live by this song. When family members just become civil with each other, when BFFs turn to being just friends, or just someone you know. Pero mapapaisip ka din, handa ba talaga tayo to have this for the sake of achieving truth? Actually, the question is, how do we know kung sino ba dapat ang pakinggan? Sino ba ang bulag? Sino ba ang dapat umalalay? What if ang kapalit ng katotohanan ay kaligayahan? Masama ba for once, isipin ko muna sarili ko? Magulo ako, selfish, ano ba ang dapat? At the end, is this all worth it? Hanggang kailan?
Nakikinig ka ba sa Akin (Lyrics)
1, 2...
1, 2...
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit
Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging
Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin
O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin?
Tayo ba ay naging makasarili?
Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling?
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin
Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan
Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Patawad na sa pagkukulang
Naririnig kita
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Hindi kita gustong awayin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?
Ang bukas ay ating yakapin
Pareho ang ating hangarin
Ang kadiliman ay basagin
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita)
Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...)
Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit.
Thanks Ben and Ben, your songs are part of my healing process….It lifts my spirits up and provides hope, comforts the wounded little child in me, Life is hard enough in this complicated world, thanks again and continue to inspire, share your message of positivity through music ….God bless and more power, Love from Australia🇦🇺❤️🇵🇭🙏🌈
This got me teary eyed for 4mins straight, i’m trying not to cry while watching this. I can’t help asking myself with frustation: what’s happening to us?! What are we doing?! Why are we here?! Why now?! So many questions were on my head while listening to the chorus. I just don’t know why are we here... ang sakit...
I feel you. 😥
omg :(
Ang sakit isipin na parang walang halaga yung boses nating Pilipino sa mga nangyayari sa bansa natin. Laban lang!✊
Troot lalo na pag kritiko🙁
"Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit."
A single line that requires a lot of patience, courage, and love.
Miss my dad before this pandemic nag away sila ng mama ko and mag 8 months na siyang di nakakauwi he is a soldier despite ng nagyayare concern paren ako sa kanya kahit di namin siya kinakausap hope u read this dad lav u.
#MilitaryBrat
THIS SONG IS TIMELY RELEVANT.
AGOT TO JINKEE: NAKIKINIG KA BA SA AKIN, DI KITA GUSTONG AWAYIN
Oof
HAHAHAHAHAAH
Timely
*Agot to herself
2 years have passed, still the song is so relevant. Thank you for the music, Ben and Ben! 💖🥺
Akmang-akma ang mensahe ng awiting ito
Sa nangyayari sa ating bansa ngayong panahon ng kampanya ng mga politiko
Kung saan nagkakagulo ang mga tao
Kahit na pare-parehas lang naman ang gusto
Pakikinig ang tanging maipapayo
Upang pagkakaunawaan ay matamo
naalala ko pamilya ko sa kantang to grabeeee lesson to sakin mahalin nyo pamilya mo habang andayn pa silaa na gumagabay sayoo
I love how the only sound we can hear is Ben&Ben even though the actors are having a fight, all we can hear is the song. We can't hear them and it feels like we, the audiences, aren't listening as well.
Just watched Dito at Doon. LSS NA NAMAN DITO
i'm here because i want to share something.
a lot of things are happening today especially because of the upcoming election. we need to choose the best leader who will give us a good governance. halos araw-araw ay nakakarinig at nakakakita ako ng arguments. me and my sister are for leni-kiko. pareho kaming nanindigan para sa maayos na pamumuno. first time voter ang ate ko, samantalang ako hindi pa botante. we're both encouraging our parents to vote for them, pero palagi kaming hindi nabibigyan ng chance na makapagsabi sakanila nang hindi nauuwi sa pagtatalo. everything that is happening to me and my sister rn reminds me of this song. hindi na kami napapakinggan, hindi na kami nauunawaan, hindi na nila alam kung bakit kami lumalaban at naninindigan. and now, i'm here at this point na ayaw ko ng magsabi sakanila ng kahit ano pa man. ma and tang, if u r reading this i hope u r proud of ur daughters. they're fighting for everyone's rights and for the country's future. the both of u taught us not to be selfish, we chose this decision kasi gusto naming gumaan din ang buhay ng iba. i hope the both of u are proud that u raised ur two daughters independently and bravely.
sana, maunawaan at mapakinggan niyo rin kami.
This is one of the best songs I've ever heard it's full emotions and it's telling us how important does listening to everyone's opinions or side on our society nowadays.
We are all suffering from this pandemic. There are lots of problems that we are facing today, but there is only one God who can help us and we can make it through. Godbless us all.
Eto 'yong konsepto ng 2012 film "Ang nawawala" which in the movie nawalan sila(family) ng communication because of one traumatic event. Metaphorically saying na huminto ang daloy ng dugo sa connection nila sa isa't isa which last for years. Nawalan sila ng pinanghahawakan, hindi sila nag stand sa kung ano ba talaga ang dapat, but all you need to do is to communicate to solve the problem o malinawan sa mga bagay bagay at mapag usapan. Kasi at the end of the day you'll always going to find yourself back to the place called "home".
Napakahalagang i-communicate natin ang saloobin natin ngunit palagi sanang sa mabuting paraan, it is a form of art na magkakaroon talaga ng kanya kanyang interpretasyon ang sino mang nakaririnig o nakababasa rito ngunit ang lahat naman bagay ay napapag usapan hindi ba?
My family has been affected so much by this 2022 election that this song just fits what the Filipino family has become.