Please stop my parents from fighting every day! [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.25]
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Hello Counselor EP.401
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If he doesn’t like her cooking then he should cook himself! She’s cooking you a meal even though she’s tired. Be grateful! Man.. if it were me I’d divorce him. I could not stand that. Bad for mine and children’s mental health.
Yeah it's ridiculous. I wouldn't go so far as to recommend divorce as I think divorce hurts the children way more than domestic fights, statistically speaking. But I cook for my gf all the time and I know that sometimes she pretends to like my food even though I think it's too salty. I love her more for it, and it makes me try harder the next time. It's about being grateful... He looks down on his wife and doesn't see her as his equal. That's the problem. If his boss made him bland food, I bet he would lie and say he loves it.
She might be staying because he could get the kids. Korea still has poor divorce laws
Bruh my parents are much more worse that that.....I can't explain ._.
Poor children, if her cooking so bad then just buy food, why so hard* sigh
My parents are the same it started when i was only 5, it was upsetting my sister would protect me, i asked my sister one day why don't our parents just divorce she said my name and said because mom loves dad so its hard to actually like leave him, its not easy to leave a person that you loved that quickly..
Ironically the daughter is much more mature than both parents combined.
I agree
Yes and they are lucky to have her in their life.. Mature enough to think for her parents and bring them to a show to indirectly help them... I wish that hello counselor would be here in my country so that I could also help my parents because our family is not stable...
But, in this case.... The weight is more to be blamed by the husband. After hearing the side of wife... What she faces everyday is not easy... i have been there that you are like a middleman or act like one to relay things and explains things to the other side and that is too stressful...
@@yachishairclips2250 yea. Unfortunately hello counselor only at korea. Most middle age guy like him not become mature but more childish as time flies by. Hope he understand and try to understand his wife and daughter's concern
So true and the father keeps on blaming the wife. Why can’t he include himself for the blame since he gets aggravated too. I say go ahead and divorce. Healthier for all of them. Most man doesn’t realize it but woman are a lot stronger than man no kidding. Man thinks they can handle being alone for the first few months but they will eventually feel depression after.....while woman goes thru a stage right away and get better in less than a year. I know, I’ve been there and it’s not very pretty. I don’t like the divorce idea because who would want a broken family right? But if it involves healthy living for each and everyone of them then I say go go go fighting!!!
i kinda excuse the mom she already has alot on her mind i dont think she's capable of tolerating more stress .. at some point she will explode and it'll be bad..
It's funny, parents are supposed to protect children from harm, but the older sister is protecting the child from the parents.
Deep
@@aeriexol2080 1
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I think that's rather sad
once the lady opened up abt her job then I kind of understand her ... she gets emotionally drained then comes home to a grumpy man who doesn't help but complains... he already looks like a control freak and has temper... the daughter looks heart broken and the five yr old is cute but the dad needs to get his stuff together..
p.s. why are husbands so lazy after marriage its annoying
When the husband started talking I knew right away that he was the problem.. He complains all day and gets angry and aggressive, I can't imagine having to live with someone like that. Tbh she should just divorce him, then he can cook his own meals and have things his way :)
not all husbands are like lazy, my dad hes a amazing father, he cleans the house and hes always saying i love you..hes very sweet C:
yess, i feel like its some kind of traditional mindset - where husband just go out to work and earn, while leaving everything else to the wife.. such a toxic mindset
Salma Speaks not all husbands :(
my dad is really awesome
he takes cares of us
works
supports the family and even other poor families
cleans the house
and makes food sometimes
Fr sometimes the consulors don’t get it in my opinion there is konzipiert for this man to change poor wife and children she should get a divorce
Okay so when the hosts were tasting the food they said it was perfectly seasoned but the husband said it was bland. I don’t think it’s the case of him preferring very salty food. If a person has been a heavy smoker for a long time they can kill their tastebuds. So to taste the same flavours they NEED higher amounts of it. I think his smoking has killed his tastebuds so he says its bland not because he prefers salty food, but because he can’t taste the normal amount of salt.
Maybe
Also, once you develop a habit of constantly nagging in everything you won't find any good in it. My brother does that to my mother no matter how food she cooks. He will nitpick one food but then after a few days say that why can't she cook like she did the other day and she can't cook anything right.
true, also as you get older your sensitivity to salt decreases. the fact that he’s smoking and eating food with high amounts of salt really isn’t good for the body
yeah
@@anisatajy9445 i really hate someone like your brother. cause its just like my dad. at some point he even buy food for himself rather than eat my mom's cooking, when i find my mom's cooking mostly delicious. if i make new eating combination from her cooking my dad suddenly finds it tasty again. its all about creativity and being grateful but all they gonna do is nag.
Hyowon: He cries so I take him to my room
???: What about you, Uju? (Chani)
Chani : "The opposite. My little brother took me to his room"
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
8:51
yungja
I like how Yeongja explained things for the husband. I don't understand how he couldn't have known this himself but sometimes people need things broken down and explained simply.
Michelle D I think it’s cause people are innately selfish. You know? Like the world we live in is from our perspective so we never stop to think we are in the wrong or what we say hurt other people and it’s always about how “I’m suffering” or something
Kristina Chao I agree.
@@kristinachao350 Some people are, others aren't innately selfish. That's what creates so many 'give but never receive' abusive relationships.
Yeongja is inspirational honestly
@@kristinachao350it is very simple he is a narcissist and of things go bad for him everyone has to suffer you know fr this is way too toxic I hope they got a divorce
The little bro looks so much younger than 5, I hope he doesn't lose his innocence.
Angel Angel its using the Korean age system so he is probably 3/4
@@mariaa560 Naeun from TROS is 5yrs old in korean age but she's a little matured than this boy..
@@kpopfans7284 Apparently Naeun is big for her age though.
@@ragamuffin1588 who's Naeun?
Angel Angel I don't know if this is true but I've heard that some really young kids who have parents that fight can have delayed responsrs due to trauma...I'm no physiologist tho and so I can't confirm this
It seems that he wasn't talking from heart in the end. He just want to keep his maid.
The mom should divorce, this man is useless
Okay so because you are impatient and used to getting your way, your daughter cant make decisions and is becoming indecisive and unable to think for herself. Be better....ugh....the parents sound like children.
But I understand the mom, I don't understand their dad...
the dad only
I hope I will never see a man like that. I literally cursed many times while watching this😤 the way he kept sighing, repeating 짜증637372847x and playing victim made my blood boiled🔥🔥🔥
I can relate to this girl....my parents fighting almost everyday too and i think my personality has change so much since i can never open myself to them and i always keep it in my heart. And actually its really hurt my heart seen them fight....and all i want is just disappear from them
I feel you. That also happened to me five years ago when I was only 16years old. After my mother died, my father and my sister fight a lot. Since then I have turned into a more closed person and it is not easy to tell my problems with others. Even now I prefer to be alone, doing the things I like makes me feel much better. Cheer up, do the things you like to make yourself feel better😊✌
Stay strong. I don’t know how old you are but please try to talk to your parents about it, and bring up such issues. It’ll take time and a lot of courage but unless you try to do something something or the other will snap.
i know the feeling
Aww.. I hope you will be able to have a better day ;-;
😭
This is a typical product of a boy, growing up thinking that a wife will take care of everything in his life a.k.a "perfect wife" and becomes emotionally lazy. Luckily the husband of this subject is willing to change but what about the children who never had the courage to confront their parents like this girl? Or everything is too late to be saved and everyone in the family had to live with scars caused by the father-- someone who is supposed to protect and guide the family? Dear mothers around the world, please train your sons to HELP with the house chores (including cooking). Believe me, in the future, their wives and your grandchildren will be so thankful to you for raising your sons like that.
My logic is you have hands right? Use those hands to make yourself food. No one is going to cater to your needs 24/7. Learn how to take care of yourself. I know that it is nice to eat with your family. If you cannot take care of yourself how are you going to take care of others?
This is true but this is also a matter of culture, Im pretty sure theyre used to the women doing these things, Im not saying it's right but sadly this is the reality of a lot of cultures
@@sonialopez1919 It is also the reality of some cultures that 7 year old children get married off to 30 year old men. Culture will never be and has never justified wrongdoing.
So how she cooks is more important than the family's mental health and wellbeing? He's talking about how they've been married for a long time yet her cooking hasn't improved, but he hasn't improved as a person either even after all those years. His priorities are all messed up.
Why can't he cook
Marilyn Blaine fat mood
the real question. why dont he cook for himself.
Exactly
Or BUY A MEAL
"If you're both working to earn money, you should both raise the kids. Why only me? Why am I alone need to do all house chores?" - lee yongja
deep words, every married women that is facing the same situation must be thinking the same thing
its so foolish to assume children dont know anything just cause they are young..
my parents fought everyday until they separated when i was 6..
i remember those fights more than anything.. it's still the most vivid thing in my memory..
truthfully, parents who fight in front of their children are terribly affecting their children without even realizing..
they lose alot of trust in people at a young age and that carries over to adulthood..
even worse if when they use you as a excuse to fight..
children will start blaming themselves, i know i did..i still do even though they tell me otherwise..
this problem just reminded me of my childhood..
I feel the same. Me myself keep blaming myself if anything bad happen. My sibling keep said that I need to love myself more not be hard to myself but I can't help it. It indeed vivid memory. I always think that it my fault that my parent divorce.
@@mujakim2889 yea.. i blamed/blame myself for my parent's fights and divorce too..
Sometimes i think, maybe if i wasnt born..they would still be married..
That man would be begging her to come back if she ever left him....she does everything and he lounges around
Yoongi'sThreeDollarChain you right👏🏼👏🏼 that guy doesn’t deserve her tbh🤷🏻♀️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤧
He keeps complaining about her cooking as if he can't do anything about it. How about cooking your own damn meal for once, the father is childish af
I think it's because he smokes...but yea I agree he should cook his own food if he doesn't like it
1. The father blaming the mom and daughter for being indecisive when choosing something, yet insisting on his choice on eating something else when the daughter decisively wanted to eat bulgogi pizza
2. Saying that he's sleeping in and watching kdrama when he neglected to feed the toddler son, leaving him starving the whole day. Yet the father said that "i haven't even eaten, why could my son eat?" Like bruh he clearly, for some reason, just refused to make food for himself and his son
3. Saying that the father is addicted to PC room games as the reason of neglecting his wife who was in a hospital for a severe sickness
This guy just doesn't have his family as his top priority and keeps making excuses for neglection wtf
15:22 lmao I cried when her brother ran and hug her .😭❤️
Having A Bias Is Better Than Having A Boyfriend ME TOO SIS
The mcs try to save the situation as much as they can by saying things like “u didn’t mean it right” but in this kind of situation staying together as a couple will only aggravate and make the situation worst than ever...
The husband seems like he has no emotional investment for his family 🙄
My mom and dad got separated when I was about 3. The fights between my mom and step dad were huge. They had two children together. I remember my mom crying in the room while she locked my step dad out with us three inside. I had to grow up quickly. Not only did I have to comfort my brother's, I had to comfort my mother as well. It was those moments I wanted someone to comfort me. My dad knew this was going on, but I didn't want to move in with him. I didn't want to leave my brother's or my mother behind. Situations like these do get better, even if the progress is small. The fights are still happening, but they aren't as big or threatening as they used to be. My brothers, they cry everytime they see someone cry because they used to see my mother cry all the time. It's concerning how these types of things are common, and the ones that are the most affected are the innocent ones, the children. I'm sorry it's long 😅
My mom and dad fighting a lot through mine, my lil bro and sis childhood until they divorce I was 14 years old ,my lil bro 11 and sis 7
namie Aguilar I’m shook, my parents fight and I’m 13, my sister is 10, and my other sister is 5.
온종일 일하고 와서 저녁 까지 해서 주는데 짜다 싱겁다 탓다… 어떤 누가 말을 좋게 합니까? 짜증나지, 아저씨!!! 쫌!!!
남편이 저딴식으로 내도록 잔소리를 하면 없던 짜증도 나겠다. 내가 알아 저런걸. 나도 이제 대놓고 남편 뚫어지게 노려봐 준다. 아봐 남편. 밥먹을 때만이 아닐거야. 평소에 모든 곳에서 그럴거야. 자기가 그렇게 했다고 기억도 못하잖아.
여행 가서 하아… 알만하네. 분명 애들 앞에서 엄마라는 사람 무시 하면서 그랬겠지.
결국 상처받은 엄마는 그럴 애들한테 풀고.
내 아들이 나한테 이러다 아빠한테 또 혼나 라는 소리 듣고 그날 난 내 남편 잡았었지. 니가 잘못했으니까 니가 고쳐. 가정 지키고 싶거든
힘들게 일하면서 애 키우는 니 부인 불.쌍.하.다. 너가 말투를 부드럽게 해. 잔소리를 하지말고. 이…… 욕나와
She may as well be a single mother. All he does is eat, sleep and complain.
She'll be better off that way.
My sister ex is like this. Play game all day, waited for her to come home and cook him a meal. Glad she dump him, he's a deadbeat.
I watched lot of stories in Hello Counselor and i got one thing that almost every suffer in marriage happened because of one of the person that related to the marriage relationship is still EGOISTICAL. Thinking all about them self but not for other people that related to the relationship.
The husband just so ego, when the wife working that hard in the office and in the family tho, but he's not even helping. Thinking that he always right and be a victim over his wife cook that fine for the mcs. What the heck that ego attitude?!
Dont get married if you still only think about yourself. Get the life lesson, people. Unless you wanna suffer in your marriage then.
"her cooking didn't improve during marriage" that's why you nag? you married a girl you didn't hire a chef >>> such a selfish man
RIGHT!!!! what if she complain, your salary didn't improve during marriage? i feel like punching this man on his face. if it doesnt suit your taste, cook by yourself! or hire a maid,or eat outside or whatever there's other like thousands of choice other than complaining every single day! or is it so hard to tell it nicely that you want it a bit more salty or whatever you want. just die eating that all salty food by yourself! gahhh so annoying. this type of men that think that their job is only to work and earn money, while actually the wife ALSO works, but do all other house chores need to end.
Hello Counselor: the show that makes you realize, “Huh, divorce isn’t as bad as I thought it was”.
So relatable. And that was the reason why I'm afraid to get married.
아내가일하고 애 픽업해서 저녁까지 차려주면 남편도 일 끝나고 퇴근해서 빨래하고 청소하면 되겠네. 본인 드라마 볼 시간은 있고 애 밥 챙겨줄 시간은 없으면 그건 아버지가 아니라 남이지 남. 앞만 보고 댓글 달았는데 뒤를 보니까 보면 볼수록 가관이네. 가족으로 살 자신이 없으면 결혼을 하지 말고 혼자 살았어야지 결혼을 왜 해서 아내한테도 딸한테도 아들한테도 피해를 주면서 사냐고.
he need to order take out if he doesn't like her cooking there are many ways to solve that situation. poor girl
when i was her age i PROBABLY wanted my parents to make amends
but sometimes people can't change, so even if her parents did make amends, their urges wouldn't change
for the last few years i wanted and STILL want my parents to get a divorce more than anything
8:10 tbh aside from the show not having professionals appear, i DO like how they always remember to praise the kids when they mention that they get high scores or awards or whatever
This show is for entertainment, and to increase general awareness of these issues. I'm pretty sure they have professionals behind the scenes, or refer people to them.
I love the look that the 5 year old had when he saw his big sister
I dont want to say it’s all the husband’s fault but uk the only think the wife needs is a simple “good job honey, you have it hard”
Parents are children's world. When you are fighting each other, you are tearing their world's apart.
I really feel bad for this girl, me and my little sister are ten years apart too. My mom was in soo much pain and had problems with even going to the washroom during the last months of her pregnancy and after my sister was born, my dad was the one who took care of my mom and our house throughout that entire time.
Having a peaceful home gives you a lot of relief after a stressful day, and we will always have faith in relationship and know that your family will be there for you no matter what.
I hope this poor girl and her brother gets to experience that and not a violent and abusive family.
T-ara was my girl group obsession in middle school, I can’t believe it’s been so long. It’s nice to see SF9 is doing good.
man, if you don't like your wife's cooking, then cook yourself! she does way more than her husband yet he expects her to cook perfect, delicious food. what is wrong with him?
어휴, 짜증을 자기가 내게 만들고 짜증낸다고 투덜투덜.....
그냥 부인이 맘에 안드는 거.
they should divorce
You gotta throw the whole man away
I feel like he has learnt helplessness. He's so used to his wofe nagging that he stopped caring and became helpless and became subject to complaining as well. Them the wife fell into depression for not understanding the husband's behaviour. They need to talk,, like really talk
You just described my parents
If technology improve and i can slap someone online this man right here would be the first person i slap. Sir you better stop that nonsense you're talking and stop being careless about everything !
She's tired ! She work so hard and take care of the kid ! You have more free time than her stop those "women must take care the kid" work together as a team
I grew up this way. I used to pray for my parents to divorce. They fought in public, ruined special events for me either before or after they occurred and just embarrassed us with it. I never invited my friends over because I was always afraid they'd start arguing.
I hope mama leaves him so that her and her children have PEACE.
남편잘못 90
During the whole episode, I was waiting for someone to offer the mother some tissue. She was wiping her tears with her hoodie sleeves so uncomfortably.
Just get a divorce. He's so horrible. Why even marry someone like that? Most Korean men are so patriarchal and frustrating. As a woman I'd never be able to marry a Korean guy. If you hate her cooking, cook yourself for fuck's sake. I cook together with my boyfriend. We do the dishes together. We clean together. House keeping isn't a woman's job!!!
Also my parents fought a lot when I was growing up. When I was 8 I told them to get a divorce. They wouldn't do it because they didn't want to hurt my brother and me. They continued to fight and are still married (I'm 24 now). It only hurt me more. Divorce is good. Much better than having your kids listen to your fights all the time.
When I see something like this I can't stop thinking about the future.😪
I cried cuz I can really relate to this. I grew up watching my dad abuse my mom, and it was 1 of the scariest things to watch. And because I was alone and had no one to talk to, I became closed off and would cry alone. In my opinion, they need to go to a marriage councillor, they both need serious help. I’m rooting for their kids :D
원래 머리 나쁜 사람들이 타인의 행동에 대한 이해심이 없음. 지능이 안되니까. 선 넘은 막말이지만 솔직히 맞잖아. 둘만 싸우면 내가 뭐라 안하겠는데 애들한테 스트레스를 주니까 짜증이 나네. 두고보세요. 자기 위주로 생각하는 저 성격은 원인이 어디에 있건 절대 못 고칩니다. 저 나이에 성격이 고쳐질리도 없고.
"if me, my young bro picking up me on the room" why i laugh with this part xv
상담일 하시는구나..어쩐지 목소리가 너무이쁘시더라
Parents should’ve given a chance to the kids to think, to make choices, and hence the kids can be independent and be responsible of their own choices. If the parents decide everything without giving chances or let the kids decide for themselves, of course the kids can be indecisive, or not even dare to make any decisions and just “no, my choice / decision must be wrong, i must wait for my parents’ decision because they must be right.” Or “i can’t trust myself to make decisions because mine’s always wrong.” They kids will most likely have one or all these thoughts throughout their lives.
And this is just one of the problems. Not to mention about the husband and wife’s communication problem, shared housework responsibilities, lack of child rearing, arguing in the right way (sometimes arguing is inevitable, but do it *outside* the house, not after dinner like the wife suggested because THE KIDS STILL CAN HEAR IT), how to appreciate each other including not shame the other while in the presence of other people, etc. *THEY NEED FAMILY THERAPY*
Omfg he gets on my nervesssssss
The girl and her mother is so pretty !
*exploded* ....wtf is wrong with that guy he should learn how to treat his wife nicely ... What am I saying I am so frustrated
wow! i have to say tis from wat i saw in tis vid, both parents are ridiculously immature! no respect and juz throwing temper at each other...
the daughter in the other hand is like the mature one, the only one behaving like an adult and the head of the house...
when the husband said after 16 years of marriage her cooking hasn’t improved. i laughed at Chani because he instantly put his anger towards tracing what’s on the pillow
the biggest fault here goes to the dad...u can see hw he behave the whole time in the video...and somehw made me feel like he doesnt love her at all.
sure the mom is also at fault, cuz she shouldnt bring home the stress from work but since she doesnt has any way to release then she juz throw them at the family members.
At first I thought the parents were immature but after knowing what her mom had to face at her workplace. I kind of understand her. The biggest problem is the husband.
pregnancy last year?! I can't believe shes still intimate with that man.
The kid is 3/4 (5 in Korea) use your brain.
@@ragamuffin1588 if you watch the video she made a comment that she was in the hospital for ectopic pregnancy. No need to come at me like that.
@@ragamuffin1588 @25:15
Sometimes is better a good divorce than a bad marriage. Read their body language. They are always showing their back to each other.
This is really sad. I hope my future husband will not be like him. I'm glad my parents were never like this. They help each other in the kitchen sometimes and my dad sometimes washes the dishes for my mom. They talk out things with each other wether it's about work or other things. They rarely fought with each other. Sometimes I would hear them late at night in the kitchen arguing about stuff but it wasn't screaming or throwing stuff. Just raising their voices (this is while me and my brother were in our rooms "sleeping").
Yo that baby brother of hers was so cute when he ran to her my heart melted omg
The husband is such a red flag..i can see how hard it must be for the wife.. he nags for unreasonable things and then says she should say nice things
I don't know if I should thank Yoonjung for making Rowoon do that 'dirty wave' or just die already 😩😂😂
Is it just me or anyone else also thought that the husband really looked like JYP😂😂
22:52 LMAO Yeongja is such a mood
This is look very stressful. But, my parents marriage worst than theirs. And they still together. And i am alone try to defence myself from their shits
Things are always "flying" in my house, and here i am, watching this while eating my squids. I feel you girl 😂
아내는 당신의 하인이 아닙니다
당신은 가족의 사랑을 가질
자격이 없습니다
비겁한 변명만 늘어놓지말고 당신
부터가 바뀌어야 합니다 정신차리세요
Am i the only one worried about the little brother left eye? It seems his left eye has a deviation to the left superior cuadrant of the eye. I hope am wrong but if its true, it means he has a posible nerve damage o something related with the muscles of his left eye. Pls if someone knows something about this tell me pls. I mean something about her brother
Sorry just to the left side, not to the upper cuadrant just left
Not sure but of he does I'm sure they already know
The husband is so ungrateful for his wife
This is so close to what I went through all my life growing up. My parents used to fight all the time and it could start over nothing and my father would throw things. The MCs were right when they said for kids growing up it’s like being afraid of a war. I was afraid of saying anything to them thinking they might yell at me. I’m almost 20 years old now and this episode just makes me wish I had a sibling. The younger brother is very fortunate to have a mature sister like her.
My father was exactly like this for 21 years while he was married with my mother. Once she started to rebel a bit he exploded and she decided to break off the relationship. After she divorced him she told me she has never felt happier.
Parents fighting in front of the children is a big no no- 😑
They don't love each other, why don't they divorce?
Just throw away the whole man. He contributes almost nothing to the family, just gives the wife and the kids stress 😤
I really wanna fight him, be thankful for ur wife! If u don't like the meal just cook for yourself. I always cook my meal bc my mom is so busy, when my mom has time she'll cook for us and I really appreciate it bc I know she tried her best
It's so funny that Chani was mini Yuchun from DBSK. He has grown up well and I'm glad he is doing well.
Idk if it’s just me, but the little kid kinda looks like Joseph Gordon levitt
Lmao he actually does
Divorce him girl you deserve better and deserve to be happy. Being alone doesn't mean you will be sad and miserable actually being with someone that just weighs you down is worse. Take your kids with you and restart your life.
The issue is not the wife it's the husband , she is way over worked he needs to step up and help out if he is not willing to change, there goes those divorce papers.
What a vile and disrespectful man. Treating his wife like a maid and not an ounce of consideration nor respect for her feelings. I hope she will leave him. The children will grow better without one parent who is so toxic. This is so infuriating and heartbreaking for both wife and children.
If i were his wife, i would just give him only rice and salt...
The husband is a BIG LOSER
I wish asian cultures would accept divorce as a viable solution because all these women suffer, like the mother, and question why they have to live like that. But the reality is they don’t have to, why put yourself through all this for your children to suffer as well? It’s just not right.
Father is being selfish. Wife is having a hard time at work and he just continues complaining and being rude to her without understanding and expects her speak nicely to him. He should be glad that wife still bothers cooking for him despite his complaining.
But sorry that girl is too fat,and i think it cause issue for her I just notice that she have breathing problem after she sit in stage...it will be better she lose her fat ....her parents also are fat but her brother is thin so I think they develop that fat by eating heigh kalorie food ...it will cause problems on future....sorry again ,am not criticizing, am worrying about her because the way she breath after sliding it make me worry... there's lot of people that I know suffer because of their fat,even my grandfather,it's sad ..
My family is the same... they yell about the dumbest things. I used to get scared when I was little and hid in a closet 😂 I’ve gotten used to it now, I can relate to this girl so muchhh
While Everyone's Complimenting The Mother's Cooking
*Yeongja Over Here Is Having A Full Course Meal--*
The parents should be more mature and not argue in front of there children. I would say to get divorce but they have children. I'm pretty sure that's one of the reasons the mom is still holding on because if they divorce it would affect the children and the little ones only 3/4 years old then. The dad should be way more appreciative like i get her she has a job, takes care of the children, cleans the house, cooks. Ofc she would have anger when she's doing all of these things and the dad just starts complaining about the food. Like if you have a problem with her food then go make the food your self instead of not appreciating the work she does. The daughter is way more mature then her parents and I'm sure she's in a lot of stress she's 14 and she has school and when she comes back there arguing. Idk how she's still doing good in school and they should be proud. But instead they don't even look like they care how she's getting top grades. And when they did want to celebrate it the dad didn't want to eat what she wanted cause they eat it everyday. Like are they celebrating him getting a high mark and he can just choose what he wants. If your doing it because your daughter got a high grade then the least you can do for her is let her eat what she wants but that didn't happen as well. And a the end it didnt even looked like he meant what he said he litterly had no emotion. Like you can at least smile for your wife, i saw a comment and i agree with it, it seems like he just wants to keep her as a maid for her to just do his work.
Out of topic but pls be kind to customer service workers. You are in a problem which is understandable but yelling at them is not the way to go. Doesn't solve anything. Be kind.