He's asking his dad to buy him alcohol. He is only 18 years old[Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.02.04]
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My dad caught me smoking when i was 17 too, he didnt say anything, no scolding no slapping. Later that night i found him secretly wipe his tears as he look at my mom photo (my mom and dad divorced when i was on elementary school). Then i promise to myself i wont cause any trouble again. That was an emotional episode for me so I just want the boy on this concern to be more considerate, being a single dad isnt easy, raising kids without a mom to share every problem is so stressing
Hope u grow to be a healthy and strong human .
@@arosathi5800 thank you so much
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i am so glad you realised your father is precious early. Some people only know that after their parents gone forever.
@@reidesuga yeah, i was a big mess on middle school. Even until now i still feel sorry everytime i look at my dad going home late after work :(
i know everyone hates the kid or something, but I seriously feel bad for him and his dad. he needs therapy
You are right... both need theraphy to connect again with each other
I just want to sit with him and listen to whatever he feels. I want to accompany him, make he feel better and more comfortable.
I think both of them need therapy
Yeah even I felt bad for him. He fall into a dangerous path and it's not his fault, it happens to a lot of people and it's okay but hope he can recover from this addiction. It might have been hard for him as well. Such a young boy.
@@tomorrow. yes but there are lot of ppl out there who don't do that while living hard life it's not abt drinking nd smoking he is just being a brat with nonsense reason ,he is rude, ignorant nd cunning for his own good like he is the only one having feelings .think abt the father what joy he had in his life nd his son is totally inconsiderate .u know wrong PPL who uses right excuses to make them look right . He want everything but can't talk to his father while he is begging to talk. His attitude is problematic.
how do concerns like this not get all 200 votes?? smh
Cultural differences... Sadly people from different countries see things differently, which for us is shocking, but for them it's normal. But again, it's just the culture, some cultures are more accepting of certain things whereas others aren't.
In my opinion, mostly in asia or asian people especially when youre a male, people are not strick on you. They do not judge you heavily as female. Male critics tends to be push asibe because of their "good" quality.
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With this issue, it's very minimal, and we think we have a much tougher situations than this. We also see this at any generation...we see this as rebelion or the person has nothing else to do because the parents are too good to them.
Personally, i don't really see this as a big problem, just a bit since it is affecting his studies.
Btw, most asian men tend to get into either smoking or drinking at any age they want to start then it's very hard to take it from them.
I think because the crowd is mixed in ages. From a parent or mature adult perspective this is obviously wrong, but I can imagine many of the young adults his age and in their early 20s that are in the audience don't see it is as a big deal and think the dad is just overreacting
Where I'm from this is totally normal. We are allowed to drink in public at age 18 and usually on Saterdays we drink a bit of wine with our families (religion). I know alot of the girls in my age smoke, drinking isn't weird to do though it depense where since we aren't allowed in public or to drink in the streets in general (unlike Korea). The son has to understand why what he's doing is wrong since it effecting his studies.
[sorry if my english isn't the best]
Everyone saying here it's not a big concern in Asia but no its actually wrong, just think realistically. The continent doesn't even matter because I think everything is the same. Of course mmy things it's a big issue but as much people who thinks it's a issue there is many who thinks it's not that shocking even though its wrong
the son's eyes held no emotion, they were just completely blank. I think he's burying some demons with alcohol and cigarettes. I hope he gets therapy or goes to rehab before he starts relying on other drugs. plus, he needs new friends, going to somebody else's house on a daily basis to drink & make noise is poor behavior & they need to be dropped ASAP.
yes, i found that so heartbreaking..
it really looked like he was numb and hes dealing with major shit. But everyone just went against him rather than ask him if he was okay or if there was a true reason behind this. I believe he needs to get his mental health checkup because i can promise you, hes depressed
Joyce Chen that’s the biggest grievance I have about this show. They treated him like a criminal instead of a victim. barely scratched surface about what’s going on with him & I agree, he’s depressed - those eyes say a lot & his dad is hurting as well cause he’s trying but doesn’t know what to do.
@@ElsieBabyixo i think they provide professional help too... they just don't air it
@@factsonly4930 Doubt it... its Korea
He should really get therapy or go to rehab, he sounds addicted. This is so sad. I feel so bad for the father :(
I feel bad for the son as well
I agree...everyone was talking about how his eyes look tired cause he is mentally suffering and while I agree that there could be something going on behind the scenes...but those are the eyes of an addict and I can say this cause I have seen those up close before...he NEEDS rehab
I admire the families who go on this show to get help, it’s not easy to go on public tv and talk about your problems, and it’s a good start, but it’s concerns like these that really need professionals involved. This family could really benefit from some therapy, especially the son. I hope he gets better, and starts giving his dad and sister an easier time.
You were fully correct...
Ohmygod I feel so bad for the dad. I just started tearing up because I feel like I know how he feels, and the frustration that he experiences.
Me too... after looking at the boy...because the boy is looking so young. I feel so bad.
I'm so glad Yeongja is on this show.... I was so frustrated with both the dad and the son. The dad sounds like hes trying his hardest not to lose his relationship with his son, and because of that hes basically enabling his son to do whatever he wants... and the son takes advantage of that. This was a very frustrating concern and they both need to be in rehab . I hope his daughter turns out okay from all this...
Diamond Ray his father never spent time with his son and when he slapped him, the son took it harder than if they had ever bonded, since he was so disconnected with his father before and the only actual interaction was a slap, he hates his father. he sees his father struggling but doesn’t care
the point is that son only received material things from his dad. He is addicted because he wasn't raised properly and being addicted always comes from deep emotional problems. Don't think he isn't ashamed ,but it's not how it works , addiction is sickness and it's hard to stop. He is lonely you can see that clearly. And his father slapping him was a trauma to him. No matter what if you already feel bad about yourself , every action or word can hurt much more. I don't like the attitude of the hosts here, the boy needs psychological support and it's not his fault he is not emotionaly well, the circumstances did this to him.
If the father doesn’t buy him alcohol, he will steal and illegally drink/smoke with his friends. He was caught continuously SO MANY TIMES, that’s why the father told him to drink and smoke at home hence there’s no way to speak senses into him... What else could you do in that situation ? Watching your son sitting in jail? He probably know that it’s not right to do so but he has no choice. Idk it was a difficult decision.. imo personally. If he would stop when the father doesn’t buy him those stuff then that’s a different case.
@@pizzajam6494 c
Trembling hands, dilated eyes, dry mouth, dark circles, defensive attitude, high expenditure etc... he is addicted and is most probably on some drugs as well. he needs to go to rehab asap
deathinfatuated I don’t see his dilated eyes
I honestly believe the son is suffering from a depressive disorder . Drinking and smoking- addictive behaviours , are all associated with depressive disorder and he is displaying many signs of it. Saying he cant quit, but no admitting his is addicted is also typical addict behaviour. He needs to speak to some professional therapists. Mental health in young people( males especially) isn't paid enough attention to in korea
@@mygradeflife2754 this could be true because if his parents divorced when he was 8 he might've blamed himself or just got too caught up in the mess. as a child of divorced parents i am also struggling with depressive disorder besides some other things like anxiety and ptsd so i do understand what he went through and it is possible for him to be struggling with some mental illness. i also do understand him when it comes to alcohol and smoking(weed) because i also did use that to make myself feel better but hence my mom is an alchoholic and my dad is a drug addict i saw what it did to them, their marriage and in the longer term me and my sister. i do think he is addicted but as long as he doesnt want to admit he has a problem theres absolutely no way he's getting better any time soon. i really wish he realises it and gets proper help because if he doesnt i am really worried about his future.
My dark circles and hand tremors are way more than his but I haven't touched any sort of drug or alcohol my whole life
The shaky hands might be due to anxiety. A close friend of mine has the exact same thing, hand tremors. She was diagnosed for it being some sort of anxiety thing. Maybe that's what he has considering that he said he had it before he started drinking.
He is telling then he doesn't think that he can stop drinking.He is just admitting to addiction but these hosts keep asking if he'll listen to his father and quit, as if it's easy. He needs rehab and lots of time to get over this.Smh!
Thats true but i think they were referring to his attitude and resistance to start trying and change the habits in the first place. He didn’t say he would try and it would be difficult, he just said he wouldn’t be able to stop, which is why they were frustrated. If he had agreed to at least attempt to quit i think they would’ve seen his will to change, but he didn’t show that. He does need rehab and time though, and it seems he might be under some mental stress and issues. Hopefully he gets the help he needs :(
Look at the bags under your eyes man! That's not healthy
Yes,its not healthy
So if i say "one of my classmates has more darker bags" would it be bad? Bc no one really cared about it😶😶😶😶but he wasnt bullied
bro what i naturally have dark circles but i guess since im sleep deprived it makes them look even worse
I have them naturally ;-;
Beatrize Kirstt Gabutina my friend has the darkest eye circles but she only gets 4-6 hours of sleep a night. she said it’s because during the summer she use to take naps during the day causing her sleeping schedule to get all messed up, but tbh her mom should’ve done something about it. her dark circles are blackish.
I actually really feel for the son. Obviously he has mental issues, most likely depression. It’s quite easy to start depending on bad habits when you feel alone/misunderstood. I hope he gets help and I hope him and his father make up.
yea, it’s so heartbreaking.. i think he has anxiety and really lost his faith in support from his family
YOUNGJA. ON POINT. AS USUAL.
SuJu_Mimi I cried when she started talking. You felt her pain and frustration.
exactly!
That's why she is one of my favorite MCs
Since he is teenager he SHOULD quit drinking and smoking although he CAN'T.
This boy is in so much pain, you can see the loneliness in his eyes so he uses cigarettes and alcohol to console that loneliness. The divorce has traumatized him so much, he knows it but it’s hard for him to admit it. I cried through this whole episode, I could feel the pain through the screen that’s how much hurt he has in his heart and you can tell he bottles it up and let’s it out when he drinks. Don’t bash him in the comments and say he’s a negligent son, he’s doing his best. They all are and I applaud him. He needs serious help, this program was just a step for them and I hope they all go see a therapist. I love the dad so much, so deal with this and still go to work. He loves his kids so much but it’s a bit hard for him to express it when he’s always away. I pray that they sought professional help after this show...
if Youngja is mad then u know you did it wrong..
Yeah, sometimes they stay way too quiet, but I'm glad she said something.
She wasn’t mad with that perverted dad smh
@@nnh4744 how is the dad perverted?
@@chloekim7208 It's about another concern
reyanime They probably stay quiet because the can’t believe what they are hearing, if you know what I mean. They are not professionals, it is an entertainment show after all. But I think this show is to help these people start to change and move away from their problems.
Big applause for Youngja!!! Even I could tell he wasn't really upset about the slap but used his father's guilt to control him and make him buy whatever he wanted.
I really cried so badly after watching this cuz it made me think about how many times I actually neglected my parents and that I was just being a selfish immature kid. Our parents are really the ones who love us the most and wants the best for us so I hope everyone here can take time to appreciate their parents in whatever way🙏🏻 I hope this boy really changes and realises his faults and hopefully get rid of his smoking and drinking habits. I rly hope he turn into a new leaf !! Stay strong to the dad ! He’s really been thru so much ..
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I feel like sometimes they don't listen to people cry for help, when he was saying that he couldn't quick drinking or smoking i don't think it meant he didn't want to i think he actually means he CANT and he needs real help
Omg I'm crying for the dad...
26:00 the dads smile when He said "i love you"😭😭
i hope this boy gets help, and for the family can be happy
His habit is seriously bad. He's dad must be suffering a lot. I hope he understands and quit his habit.
I know I’m 2 years late though.. but he is clearly addicted and can’t just quitt even if he would try. They/ his dad should have went with him to a rehab instead of the show bc the show didn’t really help him
Was I the only one who thought the boy looked high? He needs to treat his father well and be nicer to his sister. He also needs to understand that single parenthood is difficult and rather than adding to the difficulty, he needs to be mature and be a role model to his sister. When I watch episodes with kids like this, I would wish they had African parents. The only reason you get traumatized by a slap is if you hear a ringing sound in your ear, five finger marks on your face, teary eye, signs of fainting and a headache. Other than that, your dad was just exercising his hands.
Happy the MCs didn't fall for his excuses. How do you even feel traumatized over a slap but so comfortable to ask your dad to buy you alcohol and cigarettes? The latter is when you should be more scared but that is not the case. The father needs to cut his sons credit card or put a 100 dollar limit on it. I don't see why an ungrateful child should be spending 2000-3000 dollars per month. If he needs extra expenses then he should work for it. Hopefully, he gets treatment for his trembling hands and his addiction.
i also did think he was high every now and then when they're asking him questions he seemed very confused and disoriented
High as a kite
I was assuming he was high too. He seemed lost a few moments
I don't think having any type of parents would help, once a kid is like this, a beating won't help, I recommend him seeking a rehab center.
weed is really hard to find therefore is really expensive in korea so theres no way a kid this young would be able to get his hands on it. If anything hes probably just tired or hungover. Drinking alc takes a toll on your body and he probably drinks to not feel tired and depleted
I think that he's depressed, he probably drowns his emotions and problems with alcohol and other bad things.
$50 a day allowance? that's generous i got $20 for the whole week
I got $0 my whole life
@@Najia93 MOOD
I never got any😂 my parents told me if I want money to get a job and at 15 I sure as hell did and was working 15 hours during school months and 30+ hours during the summer.
Idont get allowance ;(
$1 for a decade is enough
I get no money at all......😂😔😂
Limit his allowance!!
He was catch stealing before , the father limiltless his card to avoid his son doing that again
Guys 18 means he is either 16-17. Korean age is different
You boy you are lucky because your dad takes care of you so much 😢😢, but me never because my dad died when I was at young age 😢😢. Hope you change and please teke care and respect your father 😔
Ur father will always be looking upon u from heaven. Don't be sad dear exol fam 💙
@@benwu6974 thank you fam 😢😊
the son out here looking like twitter's white boy of the month
KSKSKSKSKS thats why i thought he was cute then
I am also 18 years old & think that my dad loves my sister more than me. But now I realised that he did everything to raise me .❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I taught a huge lesson today 🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank you
Am not the only one who has a crush on the son- thought he needs to see a doctor.
When the child said he love his father i cry so hard because its the first time he heard it. Please live your father and get some time with him
the father must have felt so happy after hearing those 3 words i love you from his son
when the boy saying 'I love you', the dad cries in an instant is like all the hard work he was doing is paid off. I think, no matter who his son would he be, that 'I love you' is worth the tough lifetime he was spending so far. he doesnt really care about another thing, one he cares is knowing that his kids love him, and it's strengthening him in many ways.
I feel so sad and sorry for his father😞😞
It's been three years since this was uploaded...I hope they are living a happy live..
My heart broke when the dad told him he wanted to talk to him more and have meals together again... I hope his son realizes how much his dad does for him before its too late.
Its not good that he fights with his sister. Just like my mom always says, "you and your brother are all y'all got, you're gonna need each other one day" I mean it is true. Your family is all that's left when it comes to loved ones really. Their mom left so it's just them and their dad now. I can see that he wants them to be close before they split.
His parents divorced when he was 8, the mom low key left him and he wants me to believe that he is not smoking and drinking because of that. Bullshit. He is addicted already and people only get addicted if they are using drugs as excuse to escape something. Someone can drink one beer and not get addicted , someone can smoke a cigarette and not get addicted but if you are depressed and traumatized and feeling sad, you just want to forget the pain and feel better so ofc the son is relying on drugs to easy the pain. I hope the father takes him to a therapist.
He knows how to manipulate his dad and that’s pretty frickin sad.
our country has kids that are 14-15 years old that drinks alcohol 🤦🏿♂️
But by international age he is 16 only in korea 18
life is gud plus in korea your are only an adult when you are 20 because of the two years you get extra
What ur from? America?
life is gud Asia is more conservative remember that
Omg he’s such a nice dad how can he never say “I love u” to him..this actually made me cry..this is so heartbreaking 😭
This entire episode i was just bawling my eyes out
This concern hits way too close to home.
Coming from someone who has a father in the same position as this man, I can say that I really related to this episode. First time I teared up. But I can’t get mad at this dude because I feel like I’m almost him in a way. My mom also left and through that, I also find myself taking out my anger on my sister (never my dad-I respect him so so much) and crying myself to sleep since I bottle up all my feelings. I wish there was a way for me to let it all out but I’d never go as far as to drink or smoke. I could tell he loves his sweet dad and is just trying to be cool about it all. This episode makes me really appreciate my dad even more.
I feel like he had something deeper going on in his life at the time and the alcohol and smoking was just a coping mechanism that turned into addiction, hope he's all better now :(
Gosh this one just made me think about my mum🥺. We gotta be good to our parents. Periodt
Those sad eyes from the son is breaking me,and I can’t believe how much I can relate
I feel bad for the dad but I also feel bad for the son, you can tell he’s going through tough times as well (cause obv it’s not just the dad who lost his wife, the son also feels her absence). He’s clearly addicted and needs serious help and rehab, not just some celebrities telling him “That’s bad, don’t do that”
As soon as the song father played at the end I burst into tears, I want to give the boy a hug, because he seems so out of it, it seems emotionally, not just from the drinking and smoking, I feel like he just needs someone to tell him what he's done wrong, but let him know it will be all right, he needs attention from his father, and he needs to be together with his family. The father needs to know that he has to set boundaries, once a child is shown they have no reprocussions for their actions, they think they can do it again, and they loose respect for the adult. I want to give them both hugs, and tell them how to fix this.
The funny thing is everyone was shocked when the dad said he spends $2000 to his kid but none reacted when he said he gives $50 per day to his daughter. $50 per day is actually $1500 a month.
The moment wn his son said “I love you dad” the smile n that tears which his father showed ,made me realised that he was dieing hard to listen this from his son!
"My mom hit me with a fish 🐟" 😂😂🤣🤣 cant understand youngja's mother
After the Dad cried hearing his son saying „I love you“ I started to cry so hard
This is the saddest one I have seen ever. I am so heart broken and am sobbing
i can't help and just started tearing up right after the father crying. it's hard to see a mother cry but it's harder to see a father crying.
thats why kids,
choose ur friends wisely.
THEY NEED EUJIN WISE WORDS LIKE EUJIN IS A ADVANCE EUJIN IS A WISE MAN LIKE FR
I wish this concern was 2 houres long, I want to know more about the family :(
The father was so happy just to hear his son saying I love you to him, imagine him stoping smoking or drinking he would he so much happy
The son needs a therapist. He probably has Conduct Disorder. But he’ll definitely regret it in the future, if changes aren’t made.
I was tearing so hard and feel sorry to the dad . It’s heartbroken how some kids treat they’re parents so badly
it's very interesting because i'm french and at 18 years old in france you can drink , go to club ,... you are not a teenager anymore you are an adult and if you look young people they have ever drink alcohol before their majority , at 16 or 17 years olds …. and when i read the comment section it's very interesting to see different type of vision … you can see the cultural difference . …
In asia we only can drink or go to club when we reach our legal age at 20 or 21
That’s really true, I live in the uk and at 13-14 we already start going to parties and getting drunk!
In Korea you should be 19 to be considerated an adult. Also i think this is Korean age which adds one or two years to your actual age so he is 16-17
Yeah I agree it's the same in England
In my country people can't drink a sip,even hes 50 year's old... Culture deference on its height.. 😂
I been crying since the beginning of the video the son seems depressed and lonely the father also seems lonely I hope they can reconnect and have a happy life together
my heart breaks for this family. I hope they come together and that the sun get help and the family starts being together more.
people truly are quick to judge. sure we got some stories from them but this is only a 30 minute video and insight into their lives. we don’t know them. we don’t know the whole picture so i don’t understand how people can make all these assumptions. everyone is quick to hating the son but you don’t know how he’s truly feeling. i think there’s something bigger here. he looks awfully tired and i think there could be depression here. it seems like he’s using alcohol as a way out but again, i’m not going to make assumptions. as for the dad, i can tell how hard it is for him and i think he’s letting his son away with too much and the fact that they don’t talk to each other about things is even worse. i hope they can open up about things and have a better life together because this is the only one they have together.
Communication is the most important 👌 i hope they try to get along together & being a happy family soon ❤
I hope he is financially independent by now and live a life that he likes🌍💙
17:36 아주 마음 아픈 얘기죠... 힘내세요 ❤️
I think they’re both good people and now that they somewhat understand each other I hope they can solve their problems
@11:22 I’m happy that even though this is a serious concern and there is obvious problem, the son could smile because this means that he is able to feel happiness.
The son is obviously feeling lonely and tired as well. I’m sure he would want to change but it’s difficult when you’re in a family situation where you feel tired.
Watching his parents divorce and having a father who was poor, he must’ve started to get a little depressed so he used smoking and drinking as a way to relieve this.
I’m actually sobbing rn this episode is so sad
I’m 16 and I went through the same thing as this guy. I’d drink and smoke almost everyday and I knew I was killing myself, I knew what I was doing was bad but I just didn’t care. I think he’s going through some tough shit, and he’s drowning his demons with cigarettes and alcohol. It’s hard as fuck to overcome it, but I think anyone can with professional help, time, and lots of love 💕 Although I do get urges every now and then, I now know how to control myself. Best of luck to the father and son ❤️
When the son tell his dad that he loves him. Me also got my eyes tears 😭
Dad, FIGHTING!!!!!!!! I hope good things will begin to happen...
First time I'm crying watching hello counsellor... The dad is living hard life
I agree with those who believe he is addicted. His selfish behavior comes mostly from addiction. Also, there is a high chance that he is post- depressed and traumatized from his childhood days. it doesn't need super horrible things like physical violence etc to cause depression in chilren. For some sensitive kids, also a small incident can mess up its life. The whole family would have needed psychological help from the moment the mother left. You can feel that the father isn't just sad because of his son's current situation but also has been lost for a long time. And even if he tried his best, in order to give the best to your children you have to make sure you are feeling good too. His moods will always affect his children. I don't think his son hates him. I think he is just as lost as his father
At the end of the day, it is the wife's fault. How can she leave her children? leaving her husband is one thing but being ok to abandon her own children is heartless. She could have at least tried to see them and help him raise them?! WTF I mean ok we all have to admit that such a small insight as the show gives into those people's lives isn't enough to judge. so I won't say anything about their mother. I feel sorry for all of them. I heard that drinking is a huge problem in Korea. But 18 seems really young. Drinking will always be a way to distract yourself from reality. And this boy- obviously being addicted and probably not just to alcohol is just really heartbreaking to watch. Talking about responsibility won't solve that issue. He needs to seek professional help. Not a counselor. Why don't they advise them to see a real therapist? Scolding the son and telling him he is a brat won't change anything. He probably knows that himself. Yes, his father could stop smoking but being a great role model won't work here anymore. This issue is outside of his reach.
I really wish them the best.
Its not that the teen can't quit smoking or drinking, truth is, he doesn't want to. Because that is his comfort zone, escaping reality.
Eating together can do wonders for a family. You don't know when, but one day it stops being awkward and you end up talking to each other.
BOY THAT IS NOT AN EXCUSE 👏
As much as he’s finding bad excuses he’s really just trying to hide his pain
What was the reason for parents divorce? When dad talked about how the mom left them, son had a lot of anger in his eyes. I think the reason for his addiction lies in his childhood.
😕 i dont even dare to ask my dad to buy me a food, ill use delivery or buy it myself
whats wrong with youngsters nowday?
MongVie Mong You mean snack right? You are a minor and your parents don't provide you with food in your fridge?
This is the first episode that I’m actually crying,, I feel so bad for the bad, he’s a single dad who had to raise 2 kids,, 1 of them nearly died and the other is addicted to drinking and smoking and doesn’t care about you.. I just want to give the dad a warm hug and tell him that things will be okay. ❤️🥺
I hope he really changes for his father. Haven’t cried so much in an episode for so long.
This is literally the most loving dad. How can someone do this to him?
Addicted to alcohol is very dangerous. His father is great because he had effort to get the best for his son future.
Oh my this story is so sad the mom just left
Whoever's cutting the damn onions out there.. can't you see how im trying to stop my tears
Everyone is talking about the dark circles under his eyes and here I am, born with them. Can't get rid of them.
Also, some people say he has a "defensive attitude"? I think he's just more introverted than other people. And if he was anxious during this show(which he most likely was, being on TV and all) , it would explain why his hands were trembling. Not defending his addiction, just think that people are over-analyzing this, and thus not helping the situation at all.
20:25 I'm traumatized ≠ I'll stop my bad habits/addiction.
Also, that damn woman scolding the teen (19:51), yeah, the boy is kinda manipulative with that certain memory towards his father, but it makes sense. It wasn't "just a slap", it was in front of his friends, which is humiliating; humiliation doesn't make you love someone, it creates resentment, and that's what happened. And according to the teen, he was slapped so hard he couldn't HEAR out of his ear for sometime, which must he fucking terrifying, knowing your father can make you deaf anytime you do something wrong. And you may thing "Why doesn't he just stop if he's so afraid?", it's an addiction, you can't just stop suddenly, that's not how the brain or body works and you can't fight your brain. You can't beat addiction out of somebody, but you can damn well make them resent/hate you and even disrespect you, rebelling more.
I think both parties are in the wrong. Don't beat your kids. Find out just why your kid wants to do things like smoke, drink, etc. Maybe they are stressed, maybe they have a mental illness that is hard to deal with, because as I said, you can't fight your brain, even if you live on a mansion you might have or develop depression, anxiety, etc.
They also need to communicate, and to open themself to each other even if it's really hard, to try at least...
Preach
The Father was patient enough in this situation but imagine how troublesome the situation became that he gave up and let him drink/smoke in the house..i feel bad for the boy too..he needs to go to a rehab or get therapy but i wish he didn't take advantage of his father's kindness.
Forget the rest for a while....but how can they even laugh?? As if it's normal!!
To be honest , I've been watching this show lately but only this episode has made me cry so hard.
"Single Parenting isn't easy"
My dad has passed away when i was 10yrs and from that time my mom was working so hard just to give me good life.
So I know both the importance of a father as well as hard time of single parent.
I atleast wish that he have changed.
I must say that he is really a great father.❤
7:12 the woman face look like a video game character to me
At 7:22 when he got a close up he looked like he was on the verge of tears somebody please help this poor baby
But...can't we talk about his visual look... OMG!!!😮💞
It just too sad watching his father saying that his work is his joy i don't know why kids don't understand that their parents are humans too before they are parents..
can we please get an update on how they are doing? I really wanna know if things go well for them.
I feel so sad everytime I see children treating their dads like that. I love my dad so much, that I was literally crying watching this.
This shows how even one shock or fear from childhood can change people for life
I hope the guy is doing well now
is it just me or is that son cute asf ;-;
ღ Maressa ღ ikr