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honoring her and respecting her. It seems so crazy that women are really wanting to have men in submission to them. Disrespecting her and trying to control her, then turn around telling men how they want men to behave. Having men on pins and needles makes it so hard these days for men. How is it okay to treat men like that?
Women can get away with this kind of bad behavior because the society has allowed them to do so...but if men do so..they will be shamed and monetary punitive measures will be imposed by court..along with missing the kids. When will society change to acknowledge the pain felt by men?
This information is full of golden nuggets!!!! As a wife of 20 + years, who is in the struggle of a lifetime with my husband. I’m trying to save my marriage but my husband is not putting in the work. He has a history of psychological & emotional abuse towards me & the kids, he now says he wants the marriage to work but refuses to change, I’m not sure I can take anymore.
Best video ever! How can I save my marriage if my husband left the house, no children, and a minimal connection just about leaving our rent department and selling our fornitures? He said he still loves me, but cannot live with me anymore.
It's amazing to see the amount of people that come here to listen to the video and then decide they are better off doing what they have been doing all along.. For any spouse that is struggling with the concept in this video, try putting yourself in the place of the "wife" in the analogy and make your spouse the "husband". Do you still want to persue that marriage when your spouse doesn't honor your wishes (and they are the one standing)?
You sound like a very strong person. We love that you are being able to put yourself in a different perspective to formulate your own opinions on the matter. This is a great start to learning how to show acceptance towards other people! Thanks for sharing your opinion my friend. It sounds like you are on a great path to making permanent, positive change in your marriage!
I've spoken with a psychologist, describing the changes in my wife's behavior. He said I need to get her somewhere to have an interview for evaluation, and suggested she get to her gynecologist as soon as possible. He says it sounds like she is in crisis. My wife says there's nothing wrong with her, and will not go anywhere. She's moved out and wants a divorce. I don't. What in the world can I do? She's the love of my life and my best friend.
This video couldn’t have been dropped at a better time! Iv broken no contact and my wife got very angry and me and shut me down....she listened to what I had to say, but just said I am not your wife anymore, I do not trust you enough to ever be in a marriage with you anymore. Idc if I’m legally married in the states eyes I am not your wife anymore that’s why we’re separated and she was very ugly about it so I panicked and poured my heart out to her. I didn’t ask for her to take me back I told her I still have a lot to learn but I am becoming the best version of myself no matter what and she just shut me down and didn’t respond til she said can I go I have stuff to do. We will be seperated one month on the first. I’m hoping I didn’t make things way worse then they already were
Im sorry man. I have been there one time before. And unfortunately. I am once again in a similar situation. All we can control is what we do and do not do. My wife knows how i feel about her like yours. All we can do is what is right. I can't force her to love/like/listen to me. In the beginning I didn't force her to want these things. Thats all I focus on. Is being better than I was yesterday today. And better tomorrow than today. And be available for her to come to me.
@@glassjester I dunno, I think you gotta fight to keep your family together. I’m just saying in the end if she wants to leave, let her go. Matters about the children become a different conversation. It just gets to a bad point there. Especially if your the bread winner and she thinks it’s okay to just get up and leave and take the kids without being able to provide for herself. Cannot be summed up by just saying “let her go” but if she wants to leave the conversation becomes “ok leave, but I want 50/50 time with our children, and you can leave this house whenever you like”.
Does smart contact work if you're living under the same roof? Wife doesnt seem to care about me or my well being anymore. I still will send a good morning text and maybe see how her day is going around lunch. I see from this video that i need to cut all of that out. I just do it bc i genuinely care but i see that may be working against me.
@@MistaMagee she had been in a whole relationship with the ex(also married) since January that's when she switched up on me. They linked up and smashed on a girls weekend and I was told it was my fault and their relationship shouldn't have went as far as it did as if i had a say in it.
I don’t think the PIES and SMART will work for me anymore because my spouse left and decided live with his mistress. Their affair rekindled last year, it started in 2012 (his 2nd affair too)
Hey friend, PIES and SMART Contact is not a trick or method to get them back. It is designed to be applied to life moving forward. Meaning, you don't stop doing it. Ever. Even if they leave. Even if they come back. You always work on becoming the best version of yourself. And God forbid this marriage doesn't work out, you are the best version of yourself for the next relationship. But PIES and SMART Contact are a way of life! Never stop! Keep going friend! You've got this! We would love to be your support system along the way because we believe there is always hope. Don't hesitate to reach out if we can help you my friend. You can call us at 1 866 903 0990. Blessings,
no way that beds comfortable and she is the one with the problem so let her decide either share the bed with you or use the spare dont put yourself out because she trying to be difficult
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honoring her and respecting her. It seems so crazy that women are really wanting to have men in submission to them. Disrespecting her and trying to control her, then turn around telling men how they want men to behave. Having men on pins and needles makes it so hard these days for men. How is it okay to treat men like that?
Women can get away with this kind of bad behavior because the society has allowed them to do so...but if men do so..they will be shamed and monetary punitive measures will be imposed by court..along with missing the kids.
When will society change to acknowledge the pain felt by men?
Spot on
This information is full of golden nuggets!!!!
As a wife of 20 + years, who is in the struggle of a lifetime with my husband. I’m trying to save my marriage but my husband is not putting in the work. He has a history of psychological & emotional abuse towards me & the kids, he now says he wants the marriage to work but refuses to change, I’m not sure I can take anymore.
Be patience with him please. Pray for him. He loved you.
Best video ever!
How can I save my marriage if my husband left the house, no children, and a minimal connection just about leaving our rent department and selling our fornitures?
He said he still loves me, but cannot live with me anymore.
I would love to know, too. 20 years and we have kids together.... crickets.....
This is the best advice I have gotten since my separation, thank you David!
How’s it going? My ex is gone and I think I can’t go through this
It's amazing to see the amount of people that come here to listen to the video and then decide they are better off doing what they have been doing all along..
For any spouse that is struggling with the concept in this video, try putting yourself in the place of the "wife" in the analogy and make your spouse the "husband". Do you still want to persue that marriage when your spouse doesn't honor your wishes (and they are the one standing)?
You sound like a very strong person. We love that you are being able to put yourself in a different perspective to formulate your own opinions on the matter. This is a great start to learning how to show acceptance towards other people! Thanks for sharing your opinion my friend. It sounds like you are on a great path to making permanent, positive change in your marriage!
So... "Smart Contact" basically means "Walking on Eggshells." Great.
I've spoken with a psychologist, describing the changes in my wife's behavior. He said I need to get her somewhere to have an interview for evaluation, and suggested she get to her gynecologist as soon as possible. He says it sounds like she is in crisis. My wife says there's nothing wrong with her, and will not go anywhere. She's moved out and wants a divorce. I don't. What in the world can I do? She's the love of my life and my best friend.
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Thank you David. I needed to hear this
This video couldn’t have been dropped at a better time! Iv broken no contact and my wife got very angry and me and shut me down....she listened to what I had to say, but just said I am not your wife anymore, I do not trust you enough to ever be in a marriage with you anymore. Idc if I’m legally married in the states eyes I am not your wife anymore that’s why we’re separated and she was very ugly about it so I panicked and poured my heart out to her. I didn’t ask for her to take me back I told her I still have a lot to learn but I am becoming the best version of myself no matter what and she just shut me down and didn’t respond til she said can I go I have stuff to do. We will be seperated one month on the first. I’m hoping I didn’t make things way worse then they already were
Im sorry man. I have been there one time before. And unfortunately. I am once again in a similar situation. All we can control is what we do and do not do.
My wife knows how i feel about her like yours. All we can do is what is right.
I can't force her to love/like/listen to me.
In the beginning I didn't force her to want these things. Thats all I focus on. Is being better than I was yesterday today. And better tomorrow than today. And be available for her to come to me.
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Update?
Let her go! She doesn’t see your value and wants to leave. Let her go!
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Even if she takes your children?
@@glassjester I dunno, I think you gotta fight to keep your family together. I’m just saying in the end if she wants to leave, let her go. Matters about the children become a different conversation. It just gets to a bad point there. Especially if your the bread winner and she thinks it’s okay to just get up and leave and take the kids without being able to provide for herself. Cannot be summed up by just saying “let her go” but if she wants to leave the conversation becomes “ok leave, but I want 50/50 time with our children, and you can leave this house whenever you like”.
Amazing advice brother, going to put it to action!
Life should not be this complicated. Sometimes the juice isn't worth the squeeze
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He violated respect by entering HIS OWN home and taking care of the yard? For God's sake, that wife needs to grow up.
Does smart contact work if you're living under the same roof? Wife doesnt seem to care about me or my well being anymore. I still will send a good morning text and maybe see how her day is going around lunch. I see from this video that i need to cut all of that out. I just do it bc i genuinely care but i see that may be working against me.
Update?
@@MistaMagee she had been in a whole relationship with the ex(also married) since January that's when she switched up on me. They linked up and smashed on a girls weekend and I was told it was my fault and their relationship shouldn't have went as far as it did as if i had a say in it.
I don’t think the PIES and SMART will work for me anymore because my spouse left and decided live with his mistress. Their affair rekindled last year, it started in 2012 (his 2nd affair too)
Hey friend, PIES and SMART Contact is not a trick or method to get them back. It is designed to be applied to life moving forward. Meaning, you don't stop doing it. Ever. Even if they leave. Even if they come back. You always work on becoming the best version of yourself. And God forbid this marriage doesn't work out, you are the best version of yourself for the next relationship. But PIES and SMART Contact are a way of life! Never stop! Keep going friend! You've got this! We would love to be your support system along the way because we believe there is always hope. Don't hesitate to reach out if we can help you my friend. You can call us at 1 866 903 0990.
Blessings,
This was superb. Thank you! Cheers & God bless.
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Thanks David, will continue to do.
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Jeene ka ho shokh to Marne ko ho ja taiyaar...
TRANSLATION:
If you want to LIVE, THAN GET READY TO DIE!
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How can I do this if we don’t have kids! 😕
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3-Step Process = Be a good little boy and obey your wife's every selfish whim. Amazing.
Thanks you sir
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Ok. If my spouse asks me to sleep in the spare bedroom, do I do it?
no way that beds comfortable and she is the one with the problem so let her decide either share the bed with you or use the spare dont put yourself out because she trying to be difficult
@@jamescummins5824 HE already moved out. She who is me, didn’t have the problem. No I didn’t go to the other room.
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Divorce affected children groeth in life a lot
Shortcut to divorces. The guy always gets screwed over. End of story.
Pretty much. Her mind is made it. Time to move on. I'm still working on that.
Yep, give your time and energy to your kids and keep the rest for yourself! Let her go!
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"Lets suppose its the wife" lol, its always the woman