I used to be a 3-4 on listening but would rate myself a 7-8 now and still working on improving. The reason it was so bad is I would overthink the conversation, whether it was thinking about something else related to how I responded or thinking about how I would respond before the other person was done talking. Both of these things distracted me from listening to the other person’s response or the second half of whatever they would say. I’ve been forcing myself to keep my thoughts surface level and not sink into my own mind so much, it has enabled me to have deeper conversations and create deeper connections with those I spend my time with. The easiest way is to literally just listen intentionally and respond when they are done talking. Staying focused is hard, but if you force yourself, it gets easier every time and eventually becomes a habit. I’d say that’s worth the investment.
I like the way Jim calls us quick student or Kwik student ! This is amazing and empowering ! Jim is excellent at using the perfect words for perfect emotions ! It's a great delight learning human skills from you Jim ! ☺️💐 Thank you very much !
Jim, excellent video! I sometimes struggle with conversational listening. I tend to over-talk and vent. Something I need to work on. Your instructions are a God send. Blessings bro!!
Thank you for this! I’m sorry to say I’m not the greatest of a listener. Probably a 4. I’m going to take this info to heart and begin my practice today while having coffee with my dear friend. 😊
As a new student to the Functional Medicine Coaching Academy, HEAR is a good acronym to have in my arsenal. On the create side of my notes I asked How can I be a better 'questioner'?
Sir I know you speed read all your comments and understand this is outside the rules of this content but I have been following your work for a while & understand you have a great following in kindly asking you use your influence to bring awareness to stop digging the earth for minerals like our hearts the earth needs not be destroyed from within because it will oozes out stress pains & eventually disturb the core of the planet; Global warming is a real issue but it’s nothing like that of tectonic plates when disturbed. Please sir you are a brain expert with lots of knowledgeable influential friends use your power to make a difference Peter Parker.
Thanks Jim, for the tips for active listening. Although I find listening and understanding things hard when people talk to me, I remember to write notes down. Also, I am not going to forget the acronym you were discussing because I find it is important to keep it in mind when listening to anyone: Halt, Empathy, Anticipate, and Review.
I practice listening with a group l'm part of ie An Empathy Circle which uses principles and a process from the work of Marshall Rosenberg in Non Violent Communication:. The process involves Observation rather than evaluation, identify Feelings and Needs, and make a Request rather than a demand. It is a method used to resolve conflict and is training in the art of truly listening to a person wholistically.
Great video! I always seem to have the most trouble continuing to listen while also slowing down to take notes ! I find i need to constantly record lectures in order to hear everything said because as im taking notes i tend to have to catch up once i stop writing, and can miss important pieces
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I think I'm at a 6 for listening skills. I could definitely improve a lot. My thinking is very slow and I often forget simple words. My processing speed seems to be slowing down as well. Sometimes I think about how I'm going to respond before they are done speaking so that I don't seam slow or stupid. I will try to stop doing this and see what happens. Thank you for the tips and suggestions. I appreciate it!
I found this helpful a lot. I haven't done nor ben to your google apps in a while. I have been so busy with my activities. An working on my speed reading an working it each day. Following your Video Jim. My rate for listening , i wanna say an 8. Because, I'm always trying to Multitask and say to build it and working and preparing for My Goals, an especially working on. All of the importance of tasks and listening to people, too. Thank you for this Video. I will come back to review it again.
Thanks Jim. I like the acronym. I am a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. I do all four items. A 7 means however that I have 30% potential for growth, so I am looking forward to diving into more of your content.
I believe as much as I am mostly able to Halt, Empathy, and Anticipate, I need to improve on review. It was actually funny that I wanted to move out to the next thing I wanted to do before I remembered even though this isn't a conversation, I out to review what I just heard on this video😁. Thank you🙇🏾♂ Jim Kwik
Your topic sir is very informative. I am with you because i really observe that listening is the most difficult skill for our audience to acquire because they are preoccupied with other matters as they try to listen to the speaker. Tnx so much for sharing such thought provoking information. Will you allow me to share your ideas with my fellows?
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Just start by BREATHING and counting to ten before opening your mouth. Then remember you don't owe anyone an explanation , anything you say is on you . You don't have to place yourself into their drama in their head, we choose to So own up to your shortcomings and character defects and just listen. Maybe they don't want to hear your opinion, they just want someone to JUST LISTEN.
In my opinion you are very right. Some people just want that someone hear them out so they can empty themselves. They want any comments or advice they just want a listening ear.
More of young people shud listen and ask questions, rather than playing games on line, watching filthy videos, going against parents, gambling, addiction etc etc..
This is old method unaffective, People like me who have ADHD use following : - 1. Eye contact is creepy, specially when you're talkin to women. They thing you're staring. Always watch on floor and never move your head. 2. Don't nod your head, it distracts. Don't say aha aha. 3. Paraphrase, try to repeat in your mind what they are saying.
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Understand before you respond is a fantastic tip. It’s a great way to show you listened, validate their point, and avoid miscommunication.
I used to be a 3-4 on listening but would rate myself a 7-8 now and still working on improving. The reason it was so bad is I would overthink the conversation, whether it was thinking about something else related to how I responded or thinking about how I would respond before the other person was done talking. Both of these things distracted me from listening to the other person’s response or the second half of whatever they would say. I’ve been forcing myself to keep my thoughts surface level and not sink into my own mind so much, it has enabled me to have deeper conversations and create deeper connections with those I spend my time with. The easiest way is to literally just listen intentionally and respond when they are done talking. Staying focused is hard, but if you force yourself, it gets easier every time and eventually becomes a habit. I’d say that’s worth the investment.
I need to work on my listening skills by seeking to understand and asking more questions.
I used to be 4-5, but nowadays it increased a lot to 7-8 and it means I have to work for the peak result, Brilliant Jim 🔥
It’s pretty interested to listening these skills
i am 7 on the scale of listening ....am glad am changing aleady.. cant wait for the lecture to begin to practice my HEAR strategy
I'm a great listener. I enjoy hearing what others have to say. It is so much more stimulating for me to listen.
From the time i met Jim's content am not the same .thank you Jim Kwik
As someone with ADHD, this is all so valuable and reminds me of why I’m often told by my husband I’m not a great listener lol thanks Jim!
excuse me, eye contact is creepy. It shows you're staring. Always watch on floor.
Wow never thought in this way. Will help so much to me to improve my listening skills. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much Jim such valuable information
I like the way Jim calls us quick student or Kwik student ! This is amazing and empowering ! Jim is excellent at using the perfect words for perfect emotions ! It's a great delight learning human skills from you Jim ! ☺️💐 Thank you very much !
I’m a 3 listening skills Jim is great from this I will listen more !!!
Life changing. This is something I’ve been praying on and these practical tips are so so appreciated ❤😊
Jim, excellent video! I sometimes struggle with conversational listening. I tend to over-talk and vent. Something I need to work on. Your instructions are a God send. Blessings bro!!
Me too 🤞🏻 way to go
This is me too. And after the fact I’m thinking “Why did I talk so much?!”
I'm 50 percent active listener. I need to improve my anticipation and review. Thanks.
Thanks Jim. I really see how this will be effective.
Subscribed!!!!! This is good information and easy to embed🙌🏾. Thank you
Thank you Jim Kwik
Thank you for this! I’m sorry to say I’m not the greatest of a listener. Probably a 4. I’m going to take this info to heart and begin my practice today while having coffee with my dear friend. 😊
As a new student to the Functional Medicine Coaching Academy, HEAR is a good acronym to have in my arsenal. On the create side of my notes I asked How can I be a better 'questioner'?
Sir I know you speed read all your comments and understand this is outside the rules of this content but I have been following your work for a while & understand you have a great following in kindly asking you use your influence to bring awareness to stop digging the earth for minerals like our hearts the earth needs not be destroyed from within because it will oozes out stress pains & eventually disturb the core of the planet; Global warming is a real issue but it’s nothing like that of tectonic plates when disturbed. Please sir you are a brain expert with lots of knowledgeable influential friends use your power to make a difference Peter Parker.
So helpful, thank you
8 --- Love the Acronyms!!!!
Thanks Jim, for the tips for active listening. Although I find listening and understanding things hard when people talk to me, I remember to write notes down. Also, I am not going to forget the acronym you were discussing because I find it is important to keep it in mind when listening to anyone: Halt, Empathy, Anticipate, and Review.
Recommended your video & I've been binging you today, very helpful information in each "new subscriber and new to juggling 😅"
Very helpfully lesson 🙏
I practice listening with a group l'm part of ie An Empathy Circle which uses principles and a process from the work of Marshall Rosenberg in Non Violent Communication:. The process involves Observation rather than evaluation, identify Feelings and Needs, and make a Request rather than a demand. It is a method used to resolve conflict and is training in the art of truly listening to a person wholistically.
Nice one
Jim u r inspiring and love 💕 u
I'm a 4. “H” I need to halt more. Thanks so much.
Thnx
Great video! I always seem to have the most trouble continuing to listen while also slowing down to take notes ! I find i need to constantly record lectures in order to hear everything said because as im taking notes i tend to have to catch up once i stop writing, and can miss important pieces
Ahh you are publishing all of Kwik student lessons slowly ,That's great but wish It was published before I bought it :(
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I think I'm at a 6 for listening skills. I could definitely improve a lot. My thinking is very slow and I often forget simple words. My processing speed seems to be slowing down as well. Sometimes I think about how I'm going to respond before they are done speaking so that I don't seam slow or stupid. I will try to stop doing this and see what happens. Thank you for the tips and suggestions. I appreciate it!
I am not a great listener because I want to impress. I do try to review what was said. I like the quote from maya Angelou. Thanks.
I found this helpful a lot. I haven't done nor ben to your google apps in a while. I have been so busy with my activities. An working on my speed reading an working it each day. Following your Video Jim. My rate for listening , i wanna say an 8. Because, I'm always trying to Multitask and say to build it and working and preparing for My Goals, an especially working on. All of the importance of tasks and listening to people, too. Thank you for this Video. I will come back to review it again.
My listening skill is 5. I tried but can't resist myself to speak. But every day is a new day so i will be keep improving myself.
I would give myself 7/10 because I need to work on asking more questions and listening carefully to people.
Loved this. How would this technique work for someone who has never heard sound before?
I think Jim's techniques are general enough to apply to non-sound based communication, like sign language or writing
Inspirational from you like always❤️
Thanks Jim. I like the acronym. I am a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. I do all four items. A 7 means however that I have 30% potential for growth, so I am looking forward to diving into more of your content.
I only have H in my listening, need to improve E,A and R
I believe as much as I am mostly able to Halt, Empathy, and Anticipate, I need to improve on review.
It was actually funny that I wanted to move out to the next thing I wanted to do before I remembered even though this isn't a conversation, I out to review what I just heard on this video😁.
Thank you🙇🏾♂ Jim Kwik
any training?
I'd rate myself a 2-3 and I could do with improving my Hearing aka not interrupting
6. I need to work on empathy
Your topic sir is very informative. I am with you because i really observe that listening is the most difficult skill for our audience to acquire because they are preoccupied with other matters as they try to listen to the speaker. Tnx so much for sharing such thought provoking information. Will you allow me to share your ideas with my fellows?
I always be an empathy person.....
anticipate is a little bit unclear....get silent & listen is maybe the hardest part to quiet my own mind
HEAR the key to be the rizzler
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I’m a 5. I need to work on Halting and Reviewing
In the middle of something I am always taken by my Thoughts.
How can I control that ?
Hey Sir, I'm from India 🇮🇳 & my name is Varun. I want to tell you something that I like your videos very much. When I was trying to do Lucid Dream, I always used to get frustrated because I couldn't do Lucid Dream, but when I saw your Lucid Dream video, I had the motivation to dream Lucid...
Btw, Love From India 🇮🇳 ❤️🇮🇳...
3-4.. i’m a bad listener..always waiting my turn can hardly wait to tell my side of the story😅
6/10
How to learn english language ???
Jim you really inspiring
This information came at the right time
Am very good active listen but you open my eye to a different new world today.
Wow
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Hi, if im try to listen carefully, my mind thinks something else or i will start sleep easily why is this?
How to change a bad habit in day to day life ???
I would give myself a 6/10 because I need to work on EMPATHY and REVIEW. And thank you, Jim ❤
SIR,How to control our EMOTIONS during extreme joy and sorrow . Please guide us 🙏
I also need good direction on this topic ☺️
Just start by BREATHING and counting to ten before opening your mouth.
Then remember you don't owe anyone an explanation , anything you say is on you .
You don't have to place yourself into their drama in their head, we choose to
So own up to your shortcomings and character defects and just listen. Maybe they don't want to hear your opinion, they just want someone to JUST LISTEN.
In my opinion you are very right. Some people just want that someone hear them out so they can empty themselves. They want any comments or advice they just want a listening ear.
If i watch movies i can easily remember every scenes and dialogues but if i read book hardly i remember words are sentences why is this?
Sir please how can I learn and not forget
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My rate of listening : 1-6
Can you repeat this message again I wasn't listening
Wait, sorry, did you say something?
jk. Thanks!!
3/10
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actual video starts from 2.24, before that he wants to increase his watch time.
More of young people shud listen and ask questions, rather than playing games on line, watching filthy videos, going against parents, gambling, addiction etc etc..
ADHD makes it worse for me🥺😖
I would rate myself an eight cuz i always ask questions
when tf should I review and reflect when teacher just keeps talking for 45mins straight
This is old method unaffective,
People like me who have ADHD use following : -
1. Eye contact is creepy, specially when you're talkin to women. They thing you're staring.
Always watch on floor and never move your head.
2. Don't nod your head, it distracts. Don't say aha aha.
3. Paraphrase, try to repeat in your mind what they are saying.
sad i had to listen three times shame on me
Nice one .. how can I learn more