I AGREE with Adrienne about now telling your family about your business. Cause then you make up and they want to hate. Been with my husband 15 years and NEVER bad mouthed him to any of my family. We worked out our differences and kept it moving.
Michelle G I'm pretty sure they know why they haven't met his parents because their family is straight forward about things so I'm sure he told the girls he's dated why they haven't met his parents yet lol. I also completely agree with what Tamera's mom said. Like I'm not saying you know you have to marry them on the spot but I want you to make sure that person you're with is someone who wants to spend their life with you and you with them. I don't want you dating around just because, there has to be intentions for something more. Plus that's too many names to remember lol
I was wondering if someone else noticed that too. Whoever her brother is dating right now is going to be mad. Thinking she is the one and he is not thinking the same. LOL.
My mom is just like Tam's grandmother...that gift of discernment is no joke. My mom always knew if a boyfriend was right for me, even with a photo. She would always call it before I did.
So true, my aunty introduced one of her boyfriends to the family and even when she married someone else we still ask about the guy because we really liked him for her.
The right time is when your relationship is well established and you KNOW for a fact it is a relationship and you guys can call each other boyfriend / girlfriend & when you're comfortable enough to actually bring this person around your family... around the holidays is a bit much because your WHOLE family is there but hey if the shoe fits WEAR IT !
Iluvpinkify26 that's not fair to say to people who come from other cultures or have certain types of families. And our culture you don't bring people to intimate things like holidays unless they are a spouse. They will gladly have you over any other day of the year for informal things, but if it is something extremely intimate and precious we tend to keep those low-key and only between family or extremely close family friends who have been through thick and thin with us and really proved themselves over the years.
I very much agree with Adrienne. It's up to you, it's your business and situation. But during Christmas and New Year's Eve, I don't bring my bae at home not because I don't want to but because I respect the fact that he has his own family too.
O Love Hudson’s Bay is a major department store in Canada and Jeannie’s dress looks like the colour scheme for their gift card and other items. 😂www.google.ca/search?q=hudsons+bay&client=safari&hl=en-ca&prmd=inmv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjKtMnhvYnYAhWF4iYKHXvgACUQ_AUIESgB&biw=1024&bih=698#imgdii=X85dIt9UQ4OfOM:&imgrc=F_z_J9A04WnYhM:
Lol I love when Tamera talks about her mum. She always says ''Miss Darlene does not play'😂😂I love it. And I totally relate to what she was saying about not meeting her brother's girlfriends. Same here
My mom has the gift of discernment too. 😂😂😂. When my mom doesn’t stick around during the conversation when I bring a guy around, I already know what’s coming, “He’s not for you.”
I agree with Adrienne. That’s something that YOU should feel. I wouldn’t bring my significant other to a family event if I wasn’t serious about then or if I just met them. No, I’m not going to wait two years to introduce someone to my family. I don’t have a timeframe. But if I feel like it’s strongly heading that direction, I’d do so.
The ladies, are speaking straight facts, you should decide when its the right time, and I agree ALWAYS let the person know about your family first. I had to do the same thing with my bae so we were both prepared lol I could SO RELATE with Tamera, my dad is the same way with discernment.
It depends on your morals of family. Each one have a valid point. If you have the stern strict parents upbring, the relationship should be leading towards being serious before coming to any holiday dinner. Party parents who wanted to be their child friends and let you have a free spirit growing up, the boo of the month is fine to come. They don't care its a party lol.
My husbands native side is stuck up. I tried many times to invite them over. Even at bday parties they sit there all frowny faced. Everybody always asks them to dance to join in hitting pinata, eat the food but they just sit there. It sadness me that even on every day basis they just seem unhappy. When i laugh or try and joke around they make me feel unwanted,uncomfortable so i rarely go over or let my kids see grandparents. My mexican family is fun and crazy we laugh,eat,dance,play all kinds of music. We love everyone. We invite people over all the time. Its happy i wouldnt change my family for anything. To be honest when i ask my hubby where should we spend holidays he always says my family.
We were dating for 3 months, my parents wanted him to come at Xmas. I was saying No! But they convinced me to bring him. So 8 years later he is still here at xmas
My brother brought his then girlfriend/now wife, home to meet extended family 2 1/2 years into the relationship. She met both sides of the family for the first time.
My boyfriend and I are super serious about each other, we spoiled the crap out of each other this past holiday season(he spoiled me especially), but I’m his first gf and he’s nervous so I’m giving him time and I’m also nervous about meeting families. And on the flip side I’m also nervous about him meeting mine since the last bf I introduced to my family was so awk and embarrassing. But we know each other’s place and I completely trust him, we just haven’t done that yet.
I know Tamera and Tia are twins, but they’ve always looked so different to me. I could always tell the difference. Today is the first time (when Tamera was talking about her Mom & Grandma) where she actually looked IDENTICAL to Tia (IMO) it reminded me that she was a twin! 😂 so cool!
I am that auntie 😂. I ain’t gone judge 🙄😂. But you best be careful out here in these streets. Thank goodness my niece and nephew are still little kids 😂😂.
I’ve always told my brothers not to be bringing these girls around that they ain’t serious with. It could be 6 months or 2 years. When they ready we know to take the person they bring seriously too.
Loni is that type of auntie 😂
loniiiii is looking fire! yasss slay!
Me too.
I AGREE with Adrienne about now telling your family about your business. Cause then you make up and they want to hate. Been with my husband 15 years and NEVER bad mouthed him to any of my family. We worked out our differences and kept it moving.
I agree, I only confide in 1 friend but none of my family know our business
There’s no time limit. If it’s a serious relationship then the right time is whenever you both are ready!
Amena Teferi Yaah
So true
I came home with my husband after 3 weeks. Married him a year and a half later
It really depends on the relationship and the family.
Jeannie looks extra young with this look to me, it suits her. And Loni's hair, omg 😍😍😍
"Nah, that ain't it."
Sacha Brewster Death on arrival lol. 😂😂😂
lmaoooo the Mowry house don't play lol
Sacha Brewster hahahah yass
💀
Her grandma is me 😂
Tamara ' parents are like my Nigerians parents. They expect u to marry but don't date lol
Vera Nchezor My West Indian parents are the same I'm 30 and I think they assume I've never dated lol
Riiiiiight, 4 years in too 🤕
Vera Nchezor yep, you're not allowed a bf but you must be married by 30 lool
Lol Yes! Nigerian parents, SMH I'm like Mum you know I'll have to get to know him first before settling down with him right?
Caribbean parents don't play
Lol Jeanie,your next one will be chocolate so no worries,they will eat that chicken right lol😂
K Yan looooool
Literally just thought the same in my head!
I think so too! 😂
K Yan 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
By next season it'll happen!
Tamera is beeeeeaaaat every episode honey I haven't seen an off day yet !! She's just so beautiful !!
Oh gosh, the only time I will bring a guy around my family unless we're planning on walking down that aisle
daniellelove YES!!!!!
YUP.
daniellelove Me too! Amen.
Tamera you just put Tavior on spot - all his exes probably looking like 🧐🤨 LOL
Michelle G I'm pretty sure they know why they haven't met his parents because their family is straight forward about things so I'm sure he told the girls he's dated why they haven't met his parents yet lol. I also completely agree with what Tamera's mom said. Like I'm not saying you know you have to marry them on the spot but I want you to make sure that person you're with is someone who wants to spend their life with you and you with them. I don't want you dating around just because, there has to be intentions for something more. Plus that's too many names to remember lol
Maya Walker truuuuuuue
My moms the same way Tamera...she’s like don’t bring nobody you don’t see a future with
Tam done blew up her brothers spot!
I was wondering if someone else noticed that too. Whoever her brother is dating right now is going to be mad. Thinking she is the one and he is not thinking the same. LOL.
Loni’s laugh at 0:07! 😂😂😂😂 “Boo of the month at Auntie’s” “My lady friend”! 😂 she make me sick!!
Am I the only one who thought the comment from Instagram wasn't that hard to understand on the first read
It was embarrassingly easy to understand. They looked REAL slow and then straight up stupid when they were ragging on the commenter. Literacy anyone??
I gave them mad side eye hearing them act stupid !
Really annoyed me, hw long it took for them to figure it out 🤦🏾♂️ it wasn’t rocket science
😂😂 i did too
It’s just how she read it , that’s all
Tamera's hair stylist needs a promotion and pay rise 🙏🏾🙏🏾👌🏾😻
My mom is just like Tam's grandmother...that gift of discernment is no joke. My mom always knew if a boyfriend was right for me, even with a photo. She would always call it before I did.
Loni’s hair laidddd😍😍😍
Ashley OT Lonnie and Tamera
Ashley OT Yes
When he puts a ring on it💍. Cuz I don't want ppl to ask me nada. If something happens... Tams mom is my mom👌💯
AMEN!
So true, my aunty introduced one of her boyfriends to the family and even when she married someone else we still ask about the guy because we really liked him for her.
Dashelle Disna wouldn't you want your fam to know him before lol esp if you're traditional and you want him to ask for your dads blessing
Tamera's look is so cute
The right time is when your relationship is well established and you KNOW for a fact it is a relationship and you guys can call each other boyfriend / girlfriend & when you're comfortable enough to actually bring this person around your family... around the holidays is a bit much because your WHOLE family is there but hey if the shoe fits WEAR IT !
i agree
The length of this video😩🙌🏽
It's a shame that we have to celebrate a video longer than two minutes lol
Yess Tam! My mom was the same way and still is.lol
If they dont bring you around during the holidays then either you're a side piece or you aint that important
Iluvpinkify26 even if y'all just got together? I'm talkin like a week before Christmas
Iluvpinkify26 so not true..im secretive I don't like my family in my busniess
quetta18 same. Together 4 years and my dad doesnt know. 😂 he beat his ass when we were first dating
Iluvpinkify26 that's not fair to say to people who come from other cultures or have certain types of families. And our culture you don't bring people to intimate things like holidays unless they are a spouse. They will gladly have you over any other day of the year for informal things, but if it is something extremely intimate and precious we tend to keep those low-key and only between family or extremely close family friends who have been through thick and thin with us and really proved themselves over the years.
Kindah yeah in certain African cultures, you really don't bring people around unless they are engaged...
Loni is slaying these days!!! You better get it girl!💃🏾👸🏾
Why are they acting like what the comment said
was something hard to decipher?
lol right, it meant exactly what it said.
Yeah I new what it meant right when they read it.
lol they was just judging and tried to clean it up at the end
Right?! I literally understood the minute she read it.
Skye Zhang and she answered....... that is how long you should wait. Until you're pregnant. If not, then you should wait a year. Not that complicated.
For me the holidays are intimate and personal, so not until they have met my family before hand. To me it’s like bringing a stranger over lol 😂
Are y’all alright?? 😂 they got confused like the girl wrote a whole different language and it wasn’t even hard to understand
A Black Diamond I think it was because Adrienne kind of said it with weird intonation
I don't know what they drank coz I got it the first time it was read.
Nico Luengo haha Same!
A Black Diamond same thing I said what waa so hard
Dang. Loni’s looking hot af :O
She looking like a thicc shake
That's a stretch
That color looks great on her
I can never get enough of Loni's laugh 😂😂at 0:08
I very much agree with Adrienne. It's up to you, it's your business and situation. But during Christmas and New Year's Eve, I don't bring my bae at home not because I don't want to but because I respect the fact that he has his own family too.
Tamera, now your brother's girlfriend will see how he feels 😂😂
haha thats so true! Lets hope she does'nt watc the real
What the Hudson’s Bay gift card dress is going on? 😂😂 This is probably too Canadian.
laughingbrwnie haha 😂
I had the exact thought when I saw it 😂
LOOOL
laughingbrwnie explain the joke for me please!!! The outfits?
O Love Hudson’s Bay is a major department store in Canada and Jeannie’s dress looks like the colour scheme for their gift card and other items. 😂www.google.ca/search?q=hudsons+bay&client=safari&hl=en-ca&prmd=inmv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjKtMnhvYnYAhWF4iYKHXvgACUQ_AUIESgB&biw=1024&bih=698#imgdii=X85dIt9UQ4OfOM:&imgrc=F_z_J9A04WnYhM:
Lol I love when Tamera talks about her mum. She always says ''Miss Darlene does not play'😂😂I love it.
And I totally relate to what she was saying about not meeting her brother's girlfriends. Same here
My mom has the gift of discernment too. 😂😂😂. When my mom doesn’t stick around during the conversation when I bring a guy around, I already know what’s coming, “He’s not for you.”
Jeanie is slaying; love the look!!
Whoever Tamera's brother is dating/will date is gonna feel salty about this
LOOOOVE Tamera's look! Gorg curls and heard wrap!
Is no one gonna talk about how gorgeous loni looks???! 😍
Jeannie,stunning 😍😍
lol Adrienne thinks 2years is long because she got married after less than a year so...
Michelle A lol yeah that's what I was thinking... she hasn't made it to two years yet!
Michelle A Right normal people wait to get married.
Ok so?
Michelle A damn y'all be dragging her in the comment sections😂😂😂😂😂
Living for the tea 🍵
Knowing my family especially my mom I say after we get engaged or become pregnant
Elinor Nelson Yasss! My family is Cray Cray
Seriously though, I'd be like Serena Williams. Pregnant and engaged out of nowhere.
OMG!! Tamera talking about her Grandmother's reaction at the 3:04 mark has me dying!! "Nah, that ain't it" Bahahahaha!!
"Boo of the month" 😂😂
I agree with Adrienne every situation is different.
jeanies makeup is amazinggg
I agree with Adrienne. That’s something that YOU should feel. I wouldn’t bring my significant other to a family event if I wasn’t serious about then or if I just met them.
No, I’m not going to wait two years to introduce someone to my family. I don’t have a timeframe. But if I feel like it’s strongly heading that direction, I’d do so.
Once you love each other.
bolu sukrat good point!
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Y'ALL LOOKING STUNNING LADIES!!
The ladies, are speaking straight facts, you should decide when its the right time, and I agree ALWAYS let the person know about your family first. I had to do the same thing with my bae so we were both prepared lol I could SO RELATE with Tamera, my dad is the same way with discernment.
Jeannie looking like a Hudson's Bay umbrella 😂 I love it!
"Nah that ain't it" 😂😂😂
ALL these loooks!!!!!! Jeannie that shirt, loni that hair and tamera that EVERYTHINGG
lmao my family loves roasting people too 😂😂 i love bringing someone around and they just roast them for no reason
Am I the only one who saves all the vids for the week to watch on a Friday... #TheRealMarathon 😉
Your part of the world is already Friday? So fortunate! /:
Noirfifre Noirfifre No I just came on here to comment that 😂
ooooh loni looks laiddd ... purple/blue/indigo/navy are her colors 💜 omg so beautiful
It depends on your morals of family. Each one have a valid point. If you have the stern strict parents upbring, the relationship should be leading towards being serious before coming to any holiday dinner. Party parents who wanted to be their child friends and let you have a free spirit growing up, the boo of the month is fine to come. They don't care its a party lol.
Loni is looking snatched and her wig is laid
"nah that ain't it" lmaoooo
100% with tamera
Me. Loni Love, I am in LOVE with your whole look in this segment 😍😍 Serving face, hair, and a fly blazer! Yes!!!!
loni looks absolutely stunning this season! they have been hooking he rup with hair, make-up, and outfits.
Tamera carried this girl chat 😂😂😂😂 she was the laughs I love her
Tam looks amazing w her hair
My husbands native side is stuck up. I tried many times to invite them over. Even at bday parties they sit there all frowny faced. Everybody always asks them to dance to join in hitting pinata, eat the food but they just sit there. It sadness me that even on every day basis they just seem unhappy. When i laugh or try and joke around they make me feel unwanted,uncomfortable so i rarely go over or let my kids see grandparents. My mexican family is fun and crazy we laugh,eat,dance,play all kinds of music. We love everyone. We invite people over all the time. Its happy i wouldnt change my family for anything. To be honest when i ask my hubby where should we spend holidays he always says my family.
The more time goes by the more tam tam becomes my spirit animal
“They’ll watch what you say” 😂😂 Jeannie what??
Im LOVING Jeanie with her hair down! ♥️😍
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We were dating for 3 months, my parents wanted him to come at Xmas. I was saying No! But they convinced me to bring him. So 8 years later he is still here at xmas
Tam’s been giving me all kinds of positive life with her style lately! Today she’s giving me Alicia keys vibes👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
LMAOOOO tamera figured out the comment that no one understood. that was too funny.
“Nah, that ain't it.” lmfaoooo
Lol Tamera “ Nah that ain’t it lol What’s up Tamera “Jesus”
I LOVE Tam'a hair! BEAUTIFUL!
TAM!! My MOM is the SAME way!!! I hated having to show my mom a dude I’d like cuz she’d “ruin” it by saying the same thing your grandmother says!! 😂😂
I use to see Tam's bro at my highschool. Tavior IS FINE🔥🔥😍
Jeannie with the "He eat like the white people" LMAO and Tamera with the "Naw that ain't it" Sounds like my mama!
My brother brought his then girlfriend/now wife, home to meet extended family 2 1/2 years into the relationship. She met both sides of the family for the first time.
Love this show!
I'm with you Tamera, it's the same for me. If he not saved then can't even walk up.
“ nah that ain’t it” 😂😂😂😂
"Nah, that ain't it" 😂😂😂
My boyfriend and I are super serious about each other, we spoiled the crap out of each other this past holiday season(he spoiled me especially), but I’m his first gf and he’s nervous so I’m giving him time and I’m also nervous about meeting families. And on the flip side I’m also nervous about him meeting mine since the last bf I introduced to my family was so awk and embarrassing. But we know each other’s place and I completely trust him, we just haven’t done that yet.
Tamera’s hair looks SOOOOOO DAMN GOOOOD
Tam looked SO cute here!
Loni laugh at 0:40 sounds like the way Cardi B laughs. 😂😂
I've brought dates or people i'm just hanging with to family gatherings too. it's all about having a good time, not dead serious.
Tia's curls POPPIN'!
Depends on the level of commitment tbh
My family is exactly like Tamera's... Especially my mom if u ain't 100% sure about him do not bring him home👋👋
Jeannie is 100% accurate about Vietnamese families lol.
I know Tamera and Tia are twins, but they’ve always looked so different to me. I could always tell the difference. Today is the first time (when Tamera was talking about her Mom & Grandma) where she actually looked IDENTICAL to Tia (IMO) it reminded me that she was a twin! 😂 so cool!
All the ladies look so beautiful today😻
Adrienne isn't even paying attention half way through this 😂
I am that auntie 😂. I ain’t gone judge 🙄😂. But you best be careful out here in these streets. Thank goodness my niece and nephew are still little kids 😂😂.
I’ve always told my brothers not to be bringing these girls around that they ain’t serious with. It could be 6 months or 2 years. When they ready we know to take the person they bring seriously too.
😂😂😂😂 "my lady friend"
“Nah, that ain’t it” 💀😂
Who ever i date has to meet my aunt and grandmother and get both their approvals cause i lost my mom a year ago
Tamera and Jeannie are really looking good over there!