GIRL CHAT: Should You Stop Treating Your Man Like One of Your Girlfriends?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ส.ค. 2019
  • Real fam, do you think there should be a difference between how you treat your man and your girls?
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  • @jakerose6949
    @jakerose6949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2181

    I died when Adrienne said, “Lemme find out you a second dad to these kids.” 😂😂😂

    • @bethanyraegant9056
      @bethanyraegant9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Jake Rose saaaanmmmmeeee😂😂😂

    • @OfficialAnthony
      @OfficialAnthony 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Riiight! I’m screaming! 😂😂😂😂

    • @KimmiePie1
      @KimmiePie1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Jake Rose that was a good one 😭😭😂😂

    • @bornempath8426
      @bornempath8426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💀💀💀💀

    • @sierrasierra2595
      @sierrasierra2595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg same lmaooo

  • @HappilyNappy000
    @HappilyNappy000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2061

    No one gossips more than a married couple. My husbands my best friend. We talk about EVERYTHING!!! And its fun to get the male perspective on things. We have great conversations and I love that

    • @4knewt505
      @4knewt505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That's so sweet. I used to have that and I have friends who have that. Btw, really like your profile name

    • @ceairamgivens1052
      @ceairamgivens1052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Right?? I’d be so sad if I couldn’t gossip with my husband! Whenever I get the tea he’s the first one I wanna spill to 😂Sometimes he’ll text me from work like “Baby when I get home I got some CHISME!!!!” (Chisme is gossip in Spanish lol)

    • @bye230
      @bye230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HappilyNappy000 agreed

    • @bremarie3442
      @bremarie3442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I get it. But there's a separation of gossip. My husband and I gossip not all the time but we spills the tea. But there's some womanly gossips I dont tell him or if I do I keep it brief because he not gonna listen or have anything to add to the convo/gossip like my girlfriend. But it also depends on the type of husband you have. My husband wants to stay in the loop with whats going on with me how I feel and stuff. And if Im not sharing asap he gets a lil mad. But as a woman we do need to keep certain things t o ourselves, so remember that.

    • @allysonevans7783
      @allysonevans7783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      OMG my fiance is SOOO gossipy!! I love it! He can't wait to get home to tell ms what's happening at his job! Lol ( I used to work there too!)

  • @EleashaD
    @EleashaD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2137

    I'm so tired how people keep putting these "rules" or what to do or what not do on relationships, at the end of the day, every relationship is different smh🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @bananaaix
      @bananaaix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      eleasha dorvil this 💯

    • @Grace-mr8bc
      @Grace-mr8bc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Preach.

    • @natashamitchell8863
      @natashamitchell8863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      True, but some of these rules make good sense & can help someone along their journey of discovering what will & what will not work for them.

    • @sophiejohnson8416
      @sophiejohnson8416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      eleasha dorvil they aren’t “rules” they’re suggesting IM smh

    • @elenavernet8376
      @elenavernet8376 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      eleasha dorvil exactly

  • @JoshuaOtusanya
    @JoshuaOtusanya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1497

    These women are so damn beautiful!! Just like whoever is reading this comment :)

    • @deemarcelin255
      @deemarcelin255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Aww!

    • @gracia799
      @gracia799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This made my day 😊

    • @nyjelledeb2
      @nyjelledeb2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you... wonderful way to start my day

    • @Goddessj_
      @Goddessj_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Awww that you you just made me happy and my day 🤗🤗🤗

    • @sinikiwesibanda1463
      @sinikiwesibanda1463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you

  • @rachaelbrown4471
    @rachaelbrown4471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    tam: “I feel like i talk too much”
    loni: “speak yo truth”
    😂😂😂

  • @mgmtgirlyeah7493
    @mgmtgirlyeah7493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1645

    Jeannie is the only one who really got what Iyanla meant. She wasn't talking about gossipy men or men who talk about fashion (which btw doesn't make a man effeminate). She meant that men and women can have different viewpoints and you're not going to get your point across if you only focus on how a woman would interpret the situation.

    • @vanessawalker5366
      @vanessawalker5366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Exactly

    • @sabb5829
      @sabb5829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Absolutely

    • @Shawnta.realestate
      @Shawnta.realestate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Jeanie is the only one with depth on the panel 😂

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Mgmt Girlyeah and Iyanla clearly said “ men think differently “

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep.

  • @bethanyraegant9056
    @bethanyraegant9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Adrienne “let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂 I love the fact that they finish each other’s sentences!

  • @temitopedavid5508
    @temitopedavid5508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    ”I'm not gonna go broke tryna prove I'm not broke to you!✊🏾😭🤩” Loniiiiiiiii!!! Periotttttttttt😘😘

    • @Malikx99
      @Malikx99 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blue Watermelon 212 lol

  • @Vajeakwa
    @Vajeakwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I swear I’m Tamara “Can u come over?” “Can I cook for u?”.
    I gotta stop treating my girlfriends like boyfriends😭😂

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      What?!!!! How do I find friends like you? Girl, I would kill for someone to call me with "can I cook for you?" I get calls and texts now from my boyfriend asking me to come over.... But when I go, I'm the one doing the cooking. I'm tired! Sometimes I want to be treated like the boyfriend! 😂😂😂

    • @amyrodriguez7621
      @amyrodriguez7621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lmao this is so me. But my girls love when I cook.

    • @Vajeakwa
      @Vajeakwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have a Good Day it’s bitter sweet lol. My friends and even my sister are like “girl 🙄 I’m not ur man” lol

    • @blacknsmallbuys
      @blacknsmallbuys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I end up being that for my friends. I parent their kids and eat well whenever we hangout

    • @dashakae2822
      @dashakae2822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meeee❗😂

  • @dezeraejames7934
    @dezeraejames7934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +745

    Loni not Tamera's rent-a-friend, she's Tamera's rent-a-husband.

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That made me uncomfortable

    • @dezeraejames7934
      @dezeraejames7934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Nokss87 What made you uncomfortable?

    • @naturallycurlynicole4419
      @naturallycurlynicole4419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@dezeraejames7934 the fact that you said rent-a- husband. Duh lol

    • @dinh5532
      @dinh5532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same but I felt like Loni likes being the dude.

    • @rochelleborden4825
      @rochelleborden4825 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss and I love it 😂💕

  • @BeautifulButterfly631
    @BeautifulButterfly631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    I love Tamera and Loni's friendship! 🤗

  • @wynsdaywhite6463
    @wynsdaywhite6463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    Heads Up...ALL MEN GOSSIP

    • @strawberriesncandii
      @strawberriesncandii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Dree Dream That’s so true. They talk mad mess.

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Dree Dream Right they just do it differently so it sounds manly. Lol. Like "guess what dude at the job did today?"

    • @shonnie1203
      @shonnie1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      All people. Humans are social creatures. Gossiping is a social thing.

    • @thatruth8900
      @thatruth8900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not true

    • @dreamyanon5151
      @dreamyanon5151 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Truth please don't let it be true 😭

  • @jae9581
    @jae9581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    My man is super manly lmao but he be like “ Girllllllllll let me tell you this tea” he does it to entertain me😂

    • @dare2be520
      @dare2be520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i like that, fr

    • @jae9581
      @jae9581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Dare 2be me too makes my whole day and he does it all while we shopping for his tools at Home Depot 😂

    • @yanisamontour2546
      @yanisamontour2546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jae9581 😂😂😂 i can picture it

  • @cerisereid
    @cerisereid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Lonnie and Tams friendship is the Cutest! 😂😊

  • @vanessawalker5366
    @vanessawalker5366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    You can tell Loni is a true friend. Like super dependable and trustworthy. Thats a blessing to have friends like that, bc they definitely not making then like anymore

  • @diaviw9136
    @diaviw9136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    when loni said “speak your truth” I DIED

    • @Deefinewhine
      @Deefinewhine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Avie D 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

  • @desireeaniya72
    @desireeaniya72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Adrienne this outfit is EVERYTHING! so classy and sheek ☁️✨

    • @desireeaniya72
      @desireeaniya72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haneulk7789 lol thanks 😂

  • @JahealJ
    @JahealJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    I want me and my partner to talk about anything we want. How bout That?

    • @danix6452
      @danix6452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jaymar Johnson yessss

    • @ricardomoseley
      @ricardomoseley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not telling y’all a second time

  • @nicoledavis6344
    @nicoledavis6344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Tamera is so pretty love the red and her curls!

  • @reneeramoleta6262
    @reneeramoleta6262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I agree with Jeannie, once you hang around your crush & absorb that they’re normal, you’ll get over them

  • @lexicarrillo9544
    @lexicarrillo9544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    “Let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂😂

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +886

    Adrianne is such a scorpio haha they hate talking about their feelings 😂

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Or themselves in depth lol

    • @evanaayuzawa6981
      @evanaayuzawa6981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg I wanted to write that hahahahaha 😂

    • @Shawnta.realestate
      @Shawnta.realestate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Omg not true. We’re deeply emotional and love to talk about emotions.... or maybe I’m broken

    • @aliciapursue8351
      @aliciapursue8351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We can't help it!

    • @kellydamaris7299
      @kellydamaris7299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Shawnta.realestate your moon sign may not be scorpio. Download horos app and find out what it is! & let us know! Lol

  • @brookelauren3668
    @brookelauren3668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    when tam said “it’s too late now boo i’m married”😂😂😂

  • @darldinaebot3814
    @darldinaebot3814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I like Adrienne's view. I don't like talking about my feelings either. I need someone to be vulnerable because I can't to that well. Only close people get to know those details.

    • @someonespecial581
      @someonespecial581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm the same way. I tell people my shame story is not for everyone.

  • @Celine1Love
    @Celine1Love 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    We need to stop saying guys don't want to talk about their feelings. It helps EVERYONE!! this is just furthering the stigma making even harder for men to open up. Gotta stop saying and agreeing with things like this ladies...

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👌 we just like to talk about them in a different way.

    • @briandafrancies9811
      @briandafrancies9811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      In a different way how?

  • @stephaniedesign888
    @stephaniedesign888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    My husband will talk your ear off. I'm the one that's thinking in my head. PLEASE QUIET!!

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right! Everyone is different and that’s why I hate stereotypes

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao love it!

  • @eduardatonga7056
    @eduardatonga7056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Who complains about someone sending you “Come over I’ll cook for you” 😂😂😂 Let me take your place, I’ll take one for the team.

  • @sungjemishsungjemish8212
    @sungjemishsungjemish8212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "You look rich people"🤣 I would Really love to see Jennie's mom

    • @mangosteenlah6239
      @mangosteenlah6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sungjemish Sungjemish you can. Go to jeannie’s youtube channel “hello hunnay with jeannie mai” she makes content with her mom and it’s funny asf😂

    • @sungjemishsungjemish8212
      @sungjemishsungjemish8212 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It aint Ms thank you dear 💓

    • @mangosteenlah6239
      @mangosteenlah6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sungjemish Sungjemish no problem! And her mom is just as funny and animated as jeannie makes her seem. Enjoy ❤️

  • @Benji7586
    @Benji7586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you Adrienne for clarifying that not all men are one-worded all the time. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I'm very expressive haha

  • @seirra89
    @seirra89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Balling on a budget:
    Buy a tub of raw shea butter and add some natural oils to it like coconut oil, peppermint, olive oil, etc. you can use it all over your body and your hair as a moisturizer and since it's all natural you dont have to worry about all the bad stuff that some of the shelf products have.

  • @jaykay5086
    @jaykay5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The thing about loni being the kids dad is hilarious

  • @IceSprinkles
    @IceSprinkles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Adrienne: i dONT spend money on clothes. I ONLY shop at forever 21.
    *is wearing CoCo Chanel earrings*

    • @ladybluemoon1
      @ladybluemoon1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She said clothes she did say she issues pricey accessories or signature pieces reading is fundamental or rather listening

    • @dnicaw
      @dnicaw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But earrings are jewellery/accessories 🤔

    • @mgeijho
      @mgeijho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      1.she said clothes.
      2.Israel(who likes expensive things) bought her the earings.

  • @CassieJCarter
    @CassieJCarter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I knew this was old when Jeannie said something about her husband

  • @naomssi1300
    @naomssi1300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    Loni, men dont need to like football and drink beer to be "manly"

    • @desbhanj8474
      @desbhanj8474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Please let her know!

    • @CarmenxSullivan
      @CarmenxSullivan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      She didn't really say that, she was meaning that's what she likes..

    • @AlexisDimes
      @AlexisDimes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      There is a scientific connection to the activities men and women choose based on the things they think their gender sees as normal for the or cool. Like more men will learn to barbecue then women will based on societies views as it being a manly thing (I’m saying this as a girl that barbecues but knows it’s more of a man thing), a ton of meat eating is seen as manly, a women keeping themselves looking cute for themselves is seen as normal, and anything else normal for your society, gender, or race is always going to be encouraged it’s hard to see because it starts very young. Beer is definitely portrayed as a manly type of drink even though many women also drink it. The same way meat is ate by many women as well but there is a reason men are less likely to give up both.

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@AlexisDimes thank you. Why does this have to be explained lmao

    • @samanthamarie7232
      @samanthamarie7232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's just an extra plus when they are

  • @roenaskates5485
    @roenaskates5485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    A "Smart Man" is going to take time to listen to his Woman!😏

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. And a smart woman will make sure to keep it timely. No slight.☺

  • @jackiemarro1744
    @jackiemarro1744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    They need a guest host to breakup all of the stereotypes that they constantly spew.

    • @DaniielaVergara
      @DaniielaVergara 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we need a show with younger women who ( hopefully) are more opened minding, don't believe in stereotypes about women-men. So annoying

    • @ravenjmain
      @ravenjmain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pure facts! Iyanla probably rolling her eyes like “no that’s not what I meant” 😂

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Daniela G lol yeah I rolled my eyes when they were like I want a manly man... who drinks beer and watch football. Lol stereotypes must die.

    • @missdaniellejohnlove1955
      @missdaniellejohnlove1955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's not necessarily stereotyping. Men and women are very different, we have diff brains, diff hormones, diff roles. People treat us differently. Of course we all don't fit into the typical woman or man role but most of us do in some way.

    • @sashafierce4824
      @sashafierce4824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thats jeanie because she really different for them

  • @juliannamazing
    @juliannamazing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    when adrienne said “I FEEL LIKE THEY BREATH STINK” LMFAOOO

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Jeannie never noticed she said "my wife" 😆

    • @deephillips6964
      @deephillips6964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True...I even had to go back n check what's date was on the vid 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @marieesedebe7590
      @marieesedebe7590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Leo AF bruh I was laughing for a good minute

    • @natashadwyer8336
      @natashadwyer8336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is she married? I think this is such a great varied panel.

    • @JenJHayden
      @JenJHayden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@natashadwyer8336 sounds like you have a lot of catching up to do. enjoy!

    • @natashadwyer8336
      @natashadwyer8336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jen J lol I do! She has a wife? I know she went through a divorce. She speaks highly of her ex husband ...

  • @marliemarlie1922
    @marliemarlie1922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I love the relationship between Loni and Tam,I wanna have a friend 🤪😁😊

    • @walkingonthewordofgod5094
      @walkingonthewordofgod5094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @marliemarlie1922
      @marliemarlie1922 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@walkingonthewordofgod5094 what 😁😂

    • @marliemarlie1922
      @marliemarlie1922 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Amber L 😁😁😁ok we're friends 🤗

    • @4knewt505
      @4knewt505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Y'all silly! Here's my truth...I dont have traditional social media so when someone comments on TH-cam, I tell my kids, yeah my friend said this or that. BUT I DON'T KNOW THESE PEOPLE!! Ugh pitiful!

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@4knewt505 😆😆😆

  • @G254611
    @G254611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Is it me? But honestly - I did not watch - 'The Real' - when Jeannie was married - because I was not aware of the Programme - here in the UK. Only stumbled on 'The Real' a few months ago. Since then I have been catching up on all the past Shows here on TH-cam
    What I have found though - s there was a sadness in Jeannie's eyes in all the Shows I watched - when she was married.
    Now (since her divorce) - there seems to be a light in her eyes; a glow in her skin; she seems and looks happier and alive - I love this new Jeannie

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God's Child that cause I think they really were separated and living different lives. Their hearts weren’t in it. I do not think Freddy or Jeannie are bad people at all but just out grew eachother.

    • @G254611
      @G254611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@smilealwaysnatasha3423 - Well said and well observed

    • @skeleton5459
      @skeleton5459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i never watched this show before until i heard about jeannie's marriage story and it peaked my interest cos she was so open about her story. i really like how open she is about it and she doesn't try to hide the issues they had and you can see her struggles.

    • @abisagbobolarinwa9891
      @abisagbobolarinwa9891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God's child welcome

    • @NS-mp7uu
      @NS-mp7uu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ik this is late but I feel like watching the show now Jeannie looks sadder than I have ever seen her. I’m actually worried about her

  • @mskathylaurielle
    @mskathylaurielle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    When Adrienne said "They look like their breath stink." I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JHdtx
      @JHdtx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol I thought I was the only one who found that funny 😂 🤣 😆

  • @stephs8277
    @stephs8277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Can we not generalize genders... in my family my dad loves to gossip meanwhile my mom hates it. Everyone is different!

    • @blesseddiscovered6196
      @blesseddiscovered6196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine too

    • @Grace-mr8bc
      @Grace-mr8bc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @BANGTANFM Say it louder. Preach.

    • @missdaniellejohnlove1955
      @missdaniellejohnlove1955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @mixed men and women are different. That is fact but it is also a fact that we are all different. We have diff upbringing, are influenced by diff things have diff values but men and women are diff biologically, hormonally, our brains are different which affects how we think and feel. Women have periods. Of course men have feelings and should be encouraged to talk. The thing is we all have feminine end masculine energy. We should not deny differences but at the same time we all don't fit into one box.

    • @andreacoleman4684
      @andreacoleman4684 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @laurenj432
    @laurenj432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I just treat humans the same in general. I try not to talk excessively about myself in most situations

    • @estelvillz3637
      @estelvillz3637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah I learn that if you do like even simple things like telling people what you like or don't like can come flying back in your face. That's how fucked up people are.

    • @ddh19454
      @ddh19454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What I hate is when I realize I'm talking about myself too much
      And I kinda step back so that the other person can talk
      And they dont
      Or I even ask like how about you
      Can u relate
      But they don't want to talk about thierself
      And I just feel self centered
      Or if I stop talking.. the conversation ends
      I get bored of people like that... at the end of the day I still dont know anything about them

  • @larakaraman5375
    @larakaraman5375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Adrienne :I just don't like talking about my feelings.
    Me:Same here❤❤❤

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    It should be both ways... Men should also be considerate and realize rhat your woman is not always gonna want to talk about things you talk about with your guys ... I think their should be balance... if there are things that you guys both like to talk about rather than stereotypical “ girl-related “ or “ guy-related” things then that’s a good common ground ! As well as your communication style... guys and girls have different thinking patterns so what a person says may come across a different way to the person listening !

    • @Hbomb3709
      @Hbomb3709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Welcome back! I havent seen ur name on comments in awhile. Guess u had a summer break 2

    • @sabb5829
      @sabb5829 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Myronn Coleman totally agree

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely agree.

    • @sunflowerg2872
      @sunflowerg2872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Men don't usually talk about things with women that they talk about with their friends.

    • @keirybreedy8791
      @keirybreedy8791 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same thing. What does she mean I am confused.

  • @NSiFe
    @NSiFe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lol "I wore it three of for times" LOOOL that's sooo many times!

  • @kaliestewart1009
    @kaliestewart1009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Tam looks stunning here 😍😍😍 but she always does ❤️

  • @summerlyric506
    @summerlyric506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Can I cook for you?" Tam is so sweet!! Omg Her and Loni seem to have a great true friendship.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Now seeing that her & Jeszy are together... I’m sure he was interested as well! They both work for non-profit organizations that they care about as well as speak on issues that mainstream media doesn’t really talk about ( as much ) and I’m pretty sure due to that they brought the best in each other !

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Myronn Coleman I love your comment. I noticed that about them. I love re watching all of these clips and commenting. Sometimes I don't remember I commented and have the same thoughts as years before it's funny.

  • @lynette-sowingseedsoflove2424
    @lynette-sowingseedsoflove2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just love Lonnie's and Tamera's relationship..can't get enough of it

  • @trish8321
    @trish8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Speak your truth" 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 I love Loni

  • @teamlovepanda
    @teamlovepanda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Tamara's baby daddy Loni 🤣

  • @LV2308gmail
    @LV2308gmail 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Tam is so beautiful and curls are popping ❤️❤️🥰

  • @BravoRecs
    @BravoRecs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My husband is my bff so I can’t relate lol I don’t like talking to women or anyone but my husband and I are sooo introverted

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish for that ❤️🦄 women talk too much and are high maintenance. But I enjoy talking to my bf we have simple communication and I just prefer talking to guys.

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s kinda unhealthy especially if God forbid he dies or leave you and then you don’t have a support system to rely on

  • @DM-lr5xz
    @DM-lr5xz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "if you come to me and you wanna talk about my feelings, that makes me uncomfortable" I so feel you Adrienne!

  • @JustAutoChannel
    @JustAutoChannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this show. I spend about 20 minutes every on this channel. You ladies make sense because you talk about real life issues that people deal with everyday. Relationship should comes with mutual respect.
    Thank you ladies for keeping it real.

  • @jademendez8334
    @jademendez8334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Adrienne is giving me Selena Quintanilla era vibes , I love it !

  • @Wahsoep
    @Wahsoep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Where can I get a friend like Tam?You want to cook for me,me??Say no more,I'm there & I'll be the best 'Dad' to the kids too

  • @idoluleputlang1517
    @idoluleputlang1517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how deep and insightful Jeanie is!❤

  • @nanyabooboo4
    @nanyabooboo4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really appreciate how real these guys are.

  • @lmgutier
    @lmgutier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loni!!! “DON’T treat your gf like your bf.” SAY IT LOUDER!!!

  • @superbluerock8327
    @superbluerock8327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Absorb yourself around that person, just to see that they're normal" -Jeannie Mai
    Best. Quote. Ever.
    Literally, I figured that out on my own about a month ago, when I couldn't get over my crush. After deleting him from my life. So, I gave in and "absorbed" his atmosphere into my life. Eventually, realized he's just another guy. Not my type. Nothing special.
    Trying to avoid your crush or whatever, blocking him/her is just going to mess with your mind. Heart. Sleep probably. The way you think.

  • @BiSounds
    @BiSounds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey ladies, I plan on watching all the 14 minutes videos and giving them a thumbs up. You really heard us out and increased the length of your videos. Thank you very much!

  • @ashantitheara
    @ashantitheara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loni seems like the shy funny friend. Super private but the biggest heart and smile all the time. And keeps it 1000

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I think Inyala may be on to something, but I am with Tam. When in a relationship, I want my man to be my best friend. I want to be able to tell him anything and everything. However if you ladies are talking gossiping, it depends on how you gossip. Are you catty? Or are you simply sharing information or opinions? That is more along the line I prefer.
    I would definitely tell an old crush I liked him. I've done it with a TH-camr and because he didn't feel the same about me, it went over his head and he ignored it. I'm with Loni, if I have a crush, I don't have a problem admitting I have a crush.

    • @ddh19454
      @ddh19454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree what u said about the gossiping
      I didn't understand what they meant when they said gossipy
      Caz I talk a lot
      I give info on stuff and I like to hear someone else's opinion on it
      But if you coming at me telling me about all these people everyday with all this info I dont care about ama get annoyed
      So idk if I would be seen as someone who likes to gossip or not
      But there is definitely different definitions if you would say
      I would like a guy that gossip asin come n tell me about his day and the people he met and just converse rather than say my day was fine
      But if you gonna be feminine it's a different kinda gossip that am not about

  • @malaika3231
    @malaika3231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me and my man be gossiping about everything 🤣😂

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am like Tamera about taking care of my stuff, it always looks new yet i have had it for years. I have people always commending my smartness.

  • @kierra305
    @kierra305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love Tamara and Loni’s relationship 😂😂🥰❤️

  • @rhinoavocado1569
    @rhinoavocado1569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sometimes the real unnecessarily reinforces sexist stereotypes... Not every woman loves gossiping, not every man drinks beer, not all women talk too much.. Like it gets really frustrating.. These are the same stereotypes that hold women down

    • @Troy_Johnson
      @Troy_Johnson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They never said all

    • @rhinoavocado1569
      @rhinoavocado1569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Troy_Johnson they don't need to, the stereotype was still reinforced..

  • @ericaacosta5850
    @ericaacosta5850 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for posting long videos! I don’t have cable bc it’s so expensive so these long videos have been lifesavers.

  • @S4MPFam
    @S4MPFam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn, I can relate to Adrienne, truthfully I was raise differently than my husband. I was taught to suppressed my emotions, I was never allow to expressing them, because it is weakness, shedding a tear is weak, pretty much that saying “be seen and not be heard or something like that” always smile when in front of people that we see day to day. It was really hard. So I had to unlearn a lot, I thought it was normal. I still am uncomfortable with sharing feelings. And I don’t feel things that other people feel.

  • @Flamingobear
    @Flamingobear 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was the best episode ever!

  • @simacanhelp1144
    @simacanhelp1144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lol 😆! Loni is Tamera’s rentafriend. Awesome support system you have there Tamera.

  • @CupCake-pq8fn
    @CupCake-pq8fn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've learned so much from these woman. I really look up to them🤍

  • @queenlovelyngiva-tuke25
    @queenlovelyngiva-tuke25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    'His wife and my wife'😂😂😭😭😂😂😭😂😂😭😂😂

  • @samanthajo1593
    @samanthajo1593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salvation Army’s clothes, shoes, and housewears are always 50% off on Wednesday’s.. my favorite time to shop there!

  • @desertliving
    @desertliving 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how Loni keeps it real

  • @EH012
    @EH012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay that drink tip about Happy Hour is ingenious AF. WOW.

  • @jocemunozx
    @jocemunozx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gosh i love this show and love love love these girls! ❤️

  • @erinjoines7821
    @erinjoines7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like how they turned in two seconds from talking about budget and then their first class plane tickets

  • @loveyoutube2177
    @loveyoutube2177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Tamara's hair. Amazingly beautiful

  • @JayWanKenobe
    @JayWanKenobe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Depends on if you want a husband or a homegirl.

  • @sadiaa2813
    @sadiaa2813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My bf is not gossipy , he tells me to stop whenever I’m talking about someone or he fells sleep 🤣🤣🤣 so I don’t gossip around him

    • @GubiYoroi
      @GubiYoroi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sometimes i like to gossip need to stop that most women keep telling me they dont look good at men !

  • @noeliavasquez9993
    @noeliavasquez9993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "speak your truth" lol

  • @NeemahSpeaks
    @NeemahSpeaks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Loni I like my man to be a man😍😍 Man and women minds are wired differently. PERIODT. (How much money they have🙃)😂😂 Loni’s makeup be coming through this year let’s keep it that way.

  • @evileye1
    @evileye1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol Tamara "we talk too much" 😂😂

  • @ashleyfla
    @ashleyfla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Tamaras hair and outfit!!! Such a beautiful lady.

  • @ylf3384
    @ylf3384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Adrienne has cried many times in the show and yet she’s not emotional?

  • @jaylamcknight9366
    @jaylamcknight9366 ปีที่แล้ว

    When Jeannie said My wife ! 😂😂😂 and Adrienne caught her 😅😂😂

  • @kyleighwhite1409
    @kyleighwhite1409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tell my man everything. Like he is my everything and I can’t keep a secret from him 😂my man is literally everything rolled into one.

  • @ashleycaparrelli2935
    @ashleycaparrelli2935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love Lonnie and Tamara’s friendship

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙏🏽 Agree Adrienne yes Forever 21, Top Shop, H&M, Rainbow even can give you amazing fashionable looks and you can still have money in your pocketbook. I would rather spend more on my beauty products and shoes cause your shoes and face gets more use lol than my clothes. You can change outfits styles change every two years so you can mix it up. Neutrals are always good too.

  • @zenamozie1790
    @zenamozie1790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adrienne´s look is everythingggg

  • @Mia_Alise
    @Mia_Alise 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with Adrienne. I can never express how I'm feeling or I think it I can never say what Im thinking then I get frustrated. but my boyfriend is

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Ok ! Here’s my thing....just becuase you have money doesn't mean spend it all.. You work for those coins to save and end up being happy when u realize u worked hard so u can spend it on something that is WELL DESERVED!

  • @sofis4608
    @sofis4608 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha I love Loni, “I’m the gossipy one” that’s me🙋🏻‍♀️. My husband always says “what? For real?” Everytime I tell him something, one word response.

  • @hollaatthekid1796
    @hollaatthekid1796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lonnie, A LOT of the more expensive lipsticks are full of LEAD. Wet and wild, LEAD FREE.

  • @sherrygivings8982
    @sherrygivings8982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol A-" Let me find out you a second dad to these kids".
    Love it...

  • @monicafabiola785
    @monicafabiola785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Its your life partner he should be your best friend....periodt!

  • @gracia799
    @gracia799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love their friendship 🥰