The Saga of OP, Who Lost Her Husband of 10 Years Over Her Creepy BIL, Who Peed on Her Stuff, and ...

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  • AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat (u/Planetsahead in AITA)
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  • @RyukinJakka
    @RyukinJakka หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I remember this story from a few years ago. That poor cat

    • @MaggieTheCat01
      @MaggieTheCat01 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Little Sunny. My heart breaks for her. 😞

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    raise your hand if you're here waiting for the next step in the giant aquarium/aqueduct?

    • @Orion_Spelled_Orian
      @Orion_Spelled_Orian หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup

    • @Aubsy
      @Aubsy หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🤚

    • @boneymeroney2674
      @boneymeroney2674 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      PeeGate😂

    • @beatricechan4716
      @beatricechan4716 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Was wondering when the fish 😅would get here

    • @amberluppens3292
      @amberluppens3292 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was JUST about to comment something like this! I came here for the Reddit stories, but I stayed for the Minecraft

  • @lindah3803
    @lindah3803 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I remember this story. Up to Ash being hospitalized. So much more came out. At 1 point I thought it's a miracle that Ash didn't turn out to be a serial killer. At least now everyone is getting the therapy/support that's long overdue. I wasn't surprised at Ted's attempt. Honestly I thought it would happen sooner.
    There are people in this world that Belong with a particular person. I believe OP belongs with Ted. They gravitate to each other.
    There's a saying: Time brings you to where you have always been intended to be.

    • @Mellow9795
      @Mellow9795 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm about an hour and 10 minutes in the video had kinda half expecting to hear an update that they're back together

    • @ThatPurpleFlounder
      @ThatPurpleFlounder หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I really think so too, since i think they really understand each other the best throughout this journey and probably will even past this

  • @ChkynBoy
    @ChkynBoy หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Ash, gotta piss 'em all.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    There's a difference between being in love and loving someone. It's ok to love him. You share so much history. Ted seems to be disassociating a lot of things right now. He needs someone to check in on him. And someone to talk to. He's never going to find another person who has been through this trauma. So you should be a support group of two

    • @dianecheney4141
      @dianecheney4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The first thing an abused child learns is to not show emotion. To compartmentalize the experiences that cause the emotion. I think Ted experienced something called flooding. Which means all the compartments opened up at once and all of those pent up emotions came pouring out. People are particularly vulnerable when that happens. I'm sure he's having to learn how to deal with emotions in a healthy way now because he was never taught before and neither were his brothers. The longer you go with those compartments intact the worse the flooding will be

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    If Ash was using your wedding photo with your husband in it there might be a weird gender/incest thing

    • @cathylanders6377
      @cathylanders6377 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How so

    • @shanewoody4232
      @shanewoody4232 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@cathylanders6377Because the husband is Ash's brother

  • @lady_mash23clark34
    @lady_mash23clark34 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    @56 mins. Hearing all of the abuse 😢 honestly poor ash. I hope he heals from the torture and evil. The OP has nothing to do with his childhood. It sucks she became the primary victim. Idk. That family is evil and OP its best theres a divorce. God.

    • @nicksuazo4377
      @nicksuazo4377 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Among Ash and Ted, it's no wonder OPs ex in-laws all blamed her for the fallout. They were all abusers, mil was the biggest enabler, as well as gaslighter, and OP standing up for herself and enforcing boundaries showed those in-laws what a healthy environment and relationship(s) should be.

  • @skyskynomnom4674
    @skyskynomnom4674 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    My father was ten years younger than his brothers. They pushed him off a cliff when he was 7 among other things.
    He hasn’t murdered any cats over it.

    • @nicksuazo4377
      @nicksuazo4377 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      After hearing that, I wouldn't blame him for killing at least ONE of his brothers.
      The mil in the story really did fail all her kids, and it makes me wonder how any of them made it to adulthood.
      P.S. I hope your dad is NC and living his best life

  • @onlyDoti
    @onlyDoti หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Am I crazy or does Ted sound like a pretty good dude? OPs updates hint at a lot of Ted hate, but he really doesn’t sound that bad. He def has his issues, but he seems like a dude who tries to be good to people and feels bad when he causes them trouble. He seems like someone who tries. I dont know… maybe it’s just me

    • @gina3304
      @gina3304 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree... he honestly didn't deserve having so many people hating on him. All of Ted's siblings are a product of their upbringing, some managed to own up to their parts in their childhood, and that showed with OP talking about the brothers that stepped up to actually help and try and make things right. As bad as what OP went through, and I am not dismissing her trauma, Ted was traumatised as well, and his entire family imploded from almost every deep dark secret being dragged kicking and screaming into the light

  • @williamrosmer8381
    @williamrosmer8381 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    am i the only one kind of hoping ted and op get together again?

  • @momoangel9243
    @momoangel9243 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Honestly op is not fault at all from start to finish, and in my honesty opinion this was going to happen regardless, even if op didn't marry ted,
    Especially since it was revealed he was doing the same thing to his niece's pictures, so he was going to do this even if op wasn't involved or not,
    And since mil was ok with enabling horrible behavior from her sons, so this terrible sht was gonna happen it's just unfortunately other people like op and the niece was caught in the cross fire,
    And it's scary to think if op and ted didn't find out the truth, and how far ash would escalate if gone undiscovered by anyone.

  • @ireniaks
    @ireniaks 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn, that's not bullying, that's abuse bordering on torture. Not surprising that he became psychotic.

  • @kateyallred1148
    @kateyallred1148 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the second story of guess peeing on roommate's stuff!! Wtf ! Is this really a thing? That's f-ing gross

  • @LD-bj4xc
    @LD-bj4xc หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Can someone make a tldr comment to sum it up?

  • @MoistTowelette125
    @MoistTowelette125 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ah the “Peegate Saga” It’s a good one 😂

  • @BubblegumGirl366
    @BubblegumGirl366 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I still truly believe Ted and OP are soulmates. I hope they find their way back to each other.

  • @lynettephillip2412
    @lynettephillip2412 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think that you both should get back together. You both love each other.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Post the video to the family chat

  • @QueenMizu
    @QueenMizu หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey! My cat name is Socks because his paws are white lol.

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow long time no see

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you?

    • @QueenMizu
      @QueenMizu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SecretVoices25 hey hey! I've been good 🤗 and you? Sorry for the lack of comments. I usually download and listen to your videos while I work now and forget to comment when I get home 😅

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh,😂 I'm fine thanks for asking

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Make a contract charge him a cleaning deposit of double the rent(the full rent). Make sure you put in that if he's caught peeing in the house he's out no discussion He pays for whatever he pees on this time

    • @mill2712
      @mill2712 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's probably too late now. He's a whole country away now and was in a psychiatric ward along with having no job so good luck getting anything.

  • @ignacioaguirre8137
    @ignacioaguirre8137 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Who cooks tacos in the oven?

  • @themistikcrow
    @themistikcrow หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Who asked for the video

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why, what happened?

    • @kirby-luvr
      @kirby-luvr หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I did

    • @theangryparas3167
      @theangryparas3167 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@SecretVoices25its just a hating troll. Ignore them. I find these stories interesting, and this guy is just being a hater ❤

    • @guziman1963
      @guziman1963 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Who asked for you to ask who asked?

    • @Only1199
      @Only1199 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who asked for your comment