The Silent Addiction | Patrick Chester | TEDxSpokane

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ม.ค. 2023
  • There are an estimated 2+ million people with gambling addictions in the United States. In this hopeful talk, Patrick shares his personal experience of this silent addiction, the impact on others, the consequences, and the steps to recovery. The brain science regarding this addiction is intriguing and highlights the difficulty of recovery. The hope of this powerful talk is to provide assistance to those in need, either suffering from a gambling addiction or loved ones looking to help. Patrick Chester is making his TEDx stage debut with a powerful and personal talk about the silent addiction sweeping the country. You will be on the edge of your seat as Patrick intertwines stories of struggle and success, crushing the stigma surrounding recovery. Currently residing in the Seattle suburbs, Patrick is a landscape architect who spends his free time speaking at treatment centers. When he isn’t sharing stories and supporting others through their recovery, Patrick loves cheering on his sons at their sporting events or trying his luck on the lake fishing the day away. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @tcferguson9587
    @tcferguson9587 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It all started out so fun, i was so in control and disciplined with my depositing and my bet amounts. I thought i had it all undercontrol. Before i knew it, i was losing thousands, completely lost the value of a dollar, would gamble a months pay in two hours and my only justification was that it wasnt in my account so it didnt really feel like my money. Im trying to be better, self exclusions on all sites and it starts for me today. Ive never said any of this before and theres something therapeutic sharing it even if its in the comment section. Thank you for your story and i hope we all beat out demons.

  • @lol-pz1ni
    @lol-pz1ni หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    watching this video has maybe just saved my life

  • @hazimhashlamoun6785
    @hazimhashlamoun6785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    It starts with fun and curiosity but eventually ruin lives and families

    • @faithwavinya4617
      @faithwavinya4617 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Am loosing my daughter what can I do

    • @shirleyhughes8286
      @shirleyhughes8286 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@faithwavinya4617pray, be honest and seek treatment today. God will give your daughter back to you when you are well.

  • @claremolony6050
    @claremolony6050 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My dad committed suicide when I had just turned 16. He was a massive gambler and taught me how to gamble at the age of 13. I don't wish this addiction on anyone. The children that are left behind from this horrific addiction are the ones who pay the price for your addiction.

  • @Mohammad_hk
    @Mohammad_hk 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for sharing your story i'm in bad addiction which started 10 months back and now I want to quit before it's too late! your video was very inspiring to me 🙏

  • @shirleyhughes8286
    @shirleyhughes8286 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bring tears to my eyes!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @gijsvaniwaarden9523
    @gijsvaniwaarden9523 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Brave from him to open up about it! Hopefully will his story change the way some people look at their (or someone they know) situation.

  • @seanmurphy1411
    @seanmurphy1411 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Well done! 👍 great story and sooo many in the same boat,2023!!

  • @starfire555
    @starfire555 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My husband got into online sports betting a couple months ago and I already see it affecting him so negatively. I’m so afraid it will snowball into something worse
    :( pray for us

    • @stephaniet1796
      @stephaniet1796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Girl I’m here bc I’m going thru the same thing

    • @anglonrx2754
      @anglonrx2754 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      tell him to put a deposit limit on his account

  • @paulhyland7456
    @paulhyland7456 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Superb.

  • @nrtg6290
    @nrtg6290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Im sick too and i need to stop

    • @kew3688
      @kew3688 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you stopped?

    • @nrtg6290
      @nrtg6290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kew3688 99% have stopped

    • @michaelchimexonwunali7411
      @michaelchimexonwunali7411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think I really need to stop too. It's draining

    • @Pleska
      @Pleska 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@michaelchimexonwunali7411any updates buddy? we are here for you!

  • @stayingsaneamidtheinsanity2499
    @stayingsaneamidtheinsanity2499 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It's only got to get worse with these betting apps

  • @robertblackburn211
    @robertblackburn211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great TT

  • @sloppyjoehillups
    @sloppyjoehillups หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watch this once a year if you have a problem. You can beat this

  • @fimyfeed
    @fimyfeed หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am unable to stop since 10 years

    • @oreakinpelu9036
      @oreakinpelu9036 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you think it would take to stop?

  • @-toe-knee
    @-toe-knee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Chikanini
    @Chikanini หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Now did I miss something 🤔. How did he end up in front of a judge with a 4 year sentence, for what?

  • @tonynickels6452
    @tonynickels6452 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What up colin ? How you been brother

  • @duewhit310
    @duewhit310 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Twahnny eht keh ploass eentristah

  • @maryhoward5280
    @maryhoward5280 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can someone please help me?

    • @savagelykarmatic2554
      @savagelykarmatic2554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's wrong buddy?

    • @mypeteskimo5307
      @mypeteskimo5307 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Document your journey

    • @ellie3365
      @ellie3365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      did you get help?

    • @sikanderkhan1806
      @sikanderkhan1806 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I need help​@@ellie3365

    • @ryanseaton8805
      @ryanseaton8805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you’re well mate? Happy to help if not

  • @mikenawalany8373
    @mikenawalany8373 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very suicidal

  • @knighthawk3559
    @knighthawk3559 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Taking money from kids piggy bank man, that's a monster right there

    • @burberrybakeem9699
      @burberrybakeem9699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      he seems to have changed for the better it was a mistake

    • @knighthawk3559
      @knighthawk3559 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@burberrybakeem9699 some mistakes are unforgivable.

    • @burberrybakeem9699
      @burberrybakeem9699 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@knighthawk3559 ig everybody has opinions but addiction controls you and what you do and makes you do bad things

    • @dannymoore7369
      @dannymoore7369 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@knighthawk3559alright dawg you ain’t god he didn’t commit some heinous crime he was a sick man who is using it for good now

    • @ellie3365
      @ellie3365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ''its not a lack of will- its a brain disorder'' im sure he regrets it every day but it wasnt his fault it was the addictions fault

  • @samanthalake5011
    @samanthalake5011 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    But I mean, did you pay your wife her $28K back though?🤣

    • @richym3899
      @richym3899 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Their* 😉

    • @pavlos307
      @pavlos307 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ok, do yoi think that this is the most important question of them all..?

    • @tonynickels6452
      @tonynickels6452 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He probably embezzled money from his job to pay.

    • @MMchannel-xt9or
      @MMchannel-xt9or 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      its all joke to you guys...

    • @Kevin-it4fh
      @Kevin-it4fh หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MMchannel-xt9or his life though... Shouldn't make other people's problems your own