💯. 🤛 ~ And to piggy-back upon that genuine fact/sentiment(s),... why would anyone choose the infamous “thumbs-down” icon when there is always the more optimistic, positive, genuine option(s) which can correlate [and ultimately transcend] into Manifest Destiny?!! ~ From the smallest of details to grander ones... let’s change the damn world, my peoples! Always lift-up; never tear-down. Much Love, Respect & Blessings! 🙏🇺🇸🙏👍
As a person in recovery, i can totally relate to this talk!! I've been homeless, in jail, and i have used puddle water, and toilet water. Today, i have 2 years and 5 months clean, I have my ceritification as a Recovery Specialist, and I have a job in a coffee shop that is a non profit striving to break the stigma and normalize recovery in my small town. People can and do change!! I am living proof!! Thanks for this talk!! You're awesome.
How long till you felt normal ? I can’t take this hopelessness I tried subs for about 4 days I was clean and even on subs I couldn’t function in regular world how long does it take?
I just spent 29 years in prison due to choices made in my addiction. I was released a year and a half ago, (the longest I have been out since 15) I am now a drug counselor working as a case manager in substance abuse with two college degrees, a loving wife and family, a house in Vegas and best of all, I am now a man of character who lives his best life. I am a man that has the trust of his friends and the love of God. If there is anyone out there struggling with addiction, I promise It is possible.
This is easily the best thing that I have ready in months! I am in recovery myself! Thank you for showing that anything is possible that anyone can have the life that they truly deserve! You’re an inspiration and if you haven’t heard it today I’m proud of you!
@@daveprice3095 its funny its at fresno state where chris herren went and if i close m eyes he speaks exactly like chris maybe he took chris style which is ok powerful but if you like this ted talks go see chris herrens ted talks
its definately not generic when its exactly what is defined for the term generic lol live you life with what makes you happy is also generic but i garauntee people are happier not feeling pressure from other losers
"When you walk through the door and find out you're an addict, because you don't get to choose whether you'll be an addict or not, you cannot just walk back out through the invisible door you didn't see yourself walking into because you think you're done." This hit home. I never saw how bad it was until I was at rock bottom. Still trying to cope with the fact that I will have to fight against addiction and relapse for the rest of my life. But hey, I've got 34 days sober from opioids right now and that is all that matters. Tony's story is incredible, impactful, and inspiring. I will never forget this and will definitely be rewatching when things seem impossible.
Keep learning and growing for those relapses, they aren't eternal and you can come to a day where you never pick up again. I'm grateful you're still here, still making an effort and doing what many can't do, get 24hrs.
I pray you are still sober, last Sunday on day 34 of being sober I relapsed and just relapsed Monday and tonight. But I'm done after tonight, starting now I will be sober for the rest of my life, even if it's the last thing I do. If you're still sober, congrats. If not, you can do this again!
I have friends going through what you went through that I wish would understand this message. you’re breaking the stigma that many others don’t believe could ever be possible. respect man
I used to feel the exact same way. Then I thought you know those people left for a reason ! I am sick and tired of people telling me who I am supposed to be etc. Then I thought you know my addiction I need to let it go, I am sick and tired of my addiction telling me how to behave. One problem took care of itself, the others always telling me what to do. I got rid of the other problem, addiction telling me what to do. Now I feel completely free! And I am loving my freedom!
@@jennifercraig942 You should be extremely proud of yourself and your attitude. At the moment my sole goal in life is to be exactly where you are and I fully believe that I can. Thanks for the lovely words of encouragement, it's very much appreciated.
Such a powerful message! I am so very grateful for my 29 years sobriety! I love life and feel so free. I notice the stigma of addiction when a few work colleagues will go out after work and I'm never invited. The stigma that sober people are unable to have fun or enjoy gatherings is hurtful.
1 of the most influential videos i have watched on here so far , recovering from heroine, and fentanyl i have 6 months clean and found this very helpful and inspiring.... thank you very much for the opportunity to hear you speak
Thank you for standing for us that aren't ready to do it ourselves. The stigma is what keeps me from building new relationships which is what most addicts actually need.
I’ve been in recovery for more than a few 24 hrs, and I was always told (and it worked FOR ME), to be grateful, mindful, and above all HUMBLE. The Rooms taught me to never give advice, or judge others, but to freely share my experience, strength and hope with those who will listen. If I can help you, please reach out. One day at a time.
I never get tired of hearing your story...I've never did a drug in my life. But almost everyone I've loved has. I share your story in the hope that it just helps one person.
You've used OTC medications right? Drugs. Medication, prescribed from a doctor? Drugs. Certain chemicals in the things we eat, drugs. Drugs are everywhere.
You are truly an inspiration, Tony! Thank you for telling your story and teaching the grave harms of being stigmatized. No matter anyone's past dealings with substance abuse, every person deserves dignity, respect, support, empathy and second chances !!
I chose to use drugs. I became an addict. I didnt choose the constant craving, the urges and the euphoric recall. My choices led to that but no one ever understands addiction until they become one themselves. And even then addiction is irrational and not fully understood. Lets spread love to the addicts suffering instead of demonizing and judging them ❤️. You are loved even if you're an addict. Dont ever forget that...
Wow I have never been an addict but my best friend was. She sent me this link I watched the whole thing and I am amazed. I’ll never think the same about addiction. Thank you
This is a beautiful and uplifting story. I'm not an addict but I work in mental health and I give 100% support to those to try to lift themselves out of their situation.
Oh Tony you have no idea how perfect the timing was on this. I have let stigma rule and ruin the better part of my life. I'm SO done! Thank you for this, beyond grateful.
We have to truly believe in who we are and who we've become in recovery to withstand the stigma and opinion of others. They say sticks and stones break bones but words never hurt and honestly it's never been that way. Words hurt me, I just don't believe the ones that are negative and stifling anymore. I'm not perfect but I don't have to be somebody less because someone else says so. Keep moving forward!
I am an addict as well and I have found that the best part of recovery is realizing that once you truly decide to recover and take that hard road to pursue it aggressively, you can focus all of that addictive energy towards getting better, educating yourself about this condition and helping others along the way and it becomes your new way of life almost entirely as though recovering and learning is the new addiction.
Im 4 years sober, eerily enough i find this video, when im actively trying to become an addiction counselor. So if nothing else i can be there for people, like no one was there for me.
@@jds6964 you can, it’s possible, even when it may seem impossible. And you don’t have to do it alone. I would consider Alcoholics Anonymous groups. They can be extremely beneficial and help you work through your troubles while being able to relate to the alcohol abuse. You are more special and valuable to this world than you realize, and the flame within you is still there. Keep hope, seek guidance from others, you will be surprised by how much love and understanding there is to go around.
Absolutely! BUT you don't have to know this to get clean. Just worry about getting clean first and just keep trying if you mess up and are lucky enough to get another chance. You don't have to figure out everything or the most important things first or in one day. Just one foot in front of the other. Brush your teeth. 😊❤
Oh my gosh, this was an absolutely amazing TED talk. His story is just like mine, how things started, how it ended up, the trials and hardships in between and the stigma I faced and still face because of my past. EVERYONE should watch this video. There is so much stigma Across the Nation that it prevents people from getting better. They have a lack of education and are so consumed with their opinions that they can't see anything else besides that person's bad because they're a drug addict. We need to change the way of thinking in America and instead of looking down on addicts help lift them up help them rise and become better. This video was amazing and completely inspiring.
the biggest impediment to seeing real change in addiction recovery success rate is stigma.. but even worse than convincing non-addicted people to look down on nameless, faceless addicts they pass on the street is convincing addicts to look down on themselves by telling them that even if they do recover they'll still always carry that label and will never be capable of full joy and life. who we are and whoever we will become will of course always contain all of who we've been but it doesn't and shouldn't impede who we can become and the good we can do.. thank you for picking up the microphone and thank GOD above all for all he's done for you and through you .🙏🏽
He spoke at an event called Pillars Of America in my hometown and it was so inspirational. I have family members that are going through this and this gave me hope.
They showed me this video in rehab. It stuck with me so much. I put the quote about being careful with your thoughts, words, actions, etc on my fridge because it is so damn important.
@@TonyHoffman Thank you man. After 1 year and 8 months, I still come back to this. This was the first time I was introduced to the idea of discipline and what it can really do for a person. Training for the Olympics by making your bed and brushing your teeth was an idea that blew my mind. 1 year and 8 months, I've seen that type of thinking transform my life into something I never thought possible. I hope your recovery is going well and that you continue to speak. The wisdom you shared not only saved my life, but it made my life as well.
Powerful...Yes we as addicts will have the Stigma follow us the rest of our lives.. I am a recovering Addict..I have learned that it doesn't define who we are as a person but sadly We will be judged by Society.I Thank God everyday for my Sobriety and I live One day at a time. Thank you for Sharing!
From my perspective, the moral values that I learned from this great man Tony Hoffman are "optimism". Do not let other people thoughts influence yourself. From what Tony said, if we want to transfrom ourselves 360 degree. We should not let people's negative thoughts and beliefs about us effects us in the process to become a better person. Additionally, Tony also said that we must show and proves to the world that we can do it when the world are against us. This moral value are categorized as "Confidence". It is because, the best revenge to serves for this kind of people will always be the success.
Great story! You are a winner! Оne of the most important factors in the fight against any addiction is the support of close people and family, their help and care, their acceptance of us as we are. The lack of the necessary support at the right time also contributes to the aggravation of a particular addiction, especially when loved ones are in trouble, difficulties, or crises. In such moments, we need to receive assistance from the family because the family is our basic sense of security and the source of unconditional love. That is why it is so important for us as Mental Health Counselors to hold sessions not only with addicted people but also with their families to teach them how to support each other properly. This is the most reliable way to understand because it can be challenging for clients to understand their emotions and experiences.
Warrior !!! I am fighting off those stigma’s too i’ll never give up i know i am worthy and i know ive abused myself but it wasnt by my own will or choice that was gone stay strong never quitte on believing in YOURSELVES thats the most important thing and hey really life is one big joke !! ❤️🙏
Wow can't belive you of all ppl left a nice comment...I always knew ..I wasn't a bad person who wanted to be good , I was a sick person who needed to get well. Thank you for the kind words keepup the good work
I was exactly the same! "I'll never get it right, why can't I be like everyone else" then things became more real when others opinions of me were also bad. It seemed like I had to live to their opinions, like I had to confirm to myself and them that they were right. We've escaped those chains & now we get to define ourselves in a new way with new actions and over time we experience the freedom we've always craved. Love you my friend.
Everything you just said is spot on...I remember brushing my teeth in the shower because I couldn't look at myself in the mirror...I hated knowing other ppl didn't trust/ like / want me around....the best thing about being free from active addiction is changing how ppl feel about me...but even better is changing how I feel about myself....thank you...the world's a better place because of the messages you share...
Drug/medical properties stigma is almost the same as mental health stigmas at a lesser degree, and it’s terrible that it’s a thing. Blesses & love to all of those who suffer either. 🥺
I imagine we're all here for similar reasons, knowledge is nothing without implementation. Everyone hear is more than capable of overcoming whatever addition they're battling. Stay strong
Not everyone has the skill set, family, friends, and mental health to pull through. I’m tired of losing friends. I’m tired of the stigma. Not everyone is created equal. Addiction is proof.
this is one of the biggest issues. Many of my 'full' talks explain the failures of parole systems that lift my story up as the, "See, if he can do it so can you." Not everyone can self start, most can't which means society has to fill those gaps and be the helping hand with programs that can teach these skills in safe environments that don't make it so easy for them to slip back! I'm sorry about the loss of your friends, I know that loss all too well
Thank goodness we are not all created equal! You're stronger than most. Handed an addiction so you can beat it! Most people never have the opportunity to beat something this difficult, you should feel honored.
@livea3596 So true. Life is short, live each day as if it's your last bc it honestly could be. But, yep each journey is different and only the traveler can travel it while here.
I always tell people. It's not pretty at the start and everyone's start looks different. Willingness is all you need. Run your race willingness and the rest will happen automatically
Addiction is a very hard thing to go through. Especially if you don't know what is going on. Its sad that there is a stigma behind addiction. Some of the best people I know were addicts. I am a recovering addict.
This means so much to me! Being in recovery is so challenging! I have been denied positions because of a charge that I have on my record from an event I don't even remember. I asked the judge to expunge it because it was preventing me from moving forward in life. I kid you not, he told me, "This is your punishment for choosing to drink alcohol." Alcohol is legal, but I get to be punished for having had an addiction issue with a legal substance. None of it makes sense.
THANK YOU (On behalf of those who are in recovery). I loved the line when you said “stigma says… “. Also, although I’m a complete stranger, I’m proud of you.
This really gives me hope.. stigma kills.. we ALL need to confront this and support one another now if days majority of ppl are addicted and we’re all judging each other even I’m guilty of this .. the shame the guilt the stigma we all feel. We need to break down these boundaries all of us
My husband is really been going through this for many years and this was presented in our recovery church recently we've been separated a few years now and hopefully his recovery is long standing this time but I'm up for the future and helping him fight it.
I work at a Substance and Alcohol Recovery Support Charity in the UK. This was an amazing, informative and inspirational video to watch. I have just spent the afternoon delivering drug and alcohol awareness to 16 year old males at a College. One of the biggest barriers we face to getting anyone through the door is Stigma. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope your old Parole officer and Prison Officer get to see this before they crush more lives and dreams.
Inspirational. Lost my daughter to drugs and she had so much to live for, just turned 19yrs old and couldn't imagine any of the other wonderful choices out there. Miss her every day and it has been 20yrs.
I identify with your story of an 18-year-old who was curious even having the knowledge and warnings of family members educating you about the dangers of family/genetic disposition for addiction. I think back now, three years after going to treatment following15 years of street research and a 5 D.O.C. sentence myself, what if my mindset at that critical moment in my life's history would have been "What happens if I like this?" as opposed to teenage curiosity. My truth and journey don't have that question built-in, but i appreciate you sharing your message. It made a difference in my recovery today and thank you for honoring the struggle by sharing your story.
Stay strong bro!.i still struggle with alcohol.. and that leads me to do other recreation drugs... when I dont drink.. I dont need anything... keep up the good work bro
So much I wanna say. good things, ignored things, bad things, and the complexity of addiction. mental health, physical health, genetic dispositions, trauma/abuse/neglect, social norms/expectations/stigma/beliefs... a system that's so deeply engrained in society to chase more and more $$$ to achieve financial embederment but sacrifice solid healthy foundations and relationships....
Well said man. I’m on Percocet now for 6 years, chronic back pain , 3 chronic pinched nerves. I’ve reduced this past 2 years, and I still have times when I start running . And we don’t want to be in pain, we need to sleep, trickling out and still a slight withdrawal I’ve been through. Had a liver surgery in my 20s, had pain meds, never got another refill. Had 3 kids, never had a refill, no addiction. My back surgery and chronic pain, I needed that med. My doctor was a heavy hand too. So I’m at that point right now where I’m out of med, I’m not feeling great yet I am mentally. Percocet makes me feel agitated, not high ! I do feel judged at times, I will say
Beautiful story. Courageous, strength of character and you are no doubt one of the most real and beautiful souls I’ve heard talk. As humans we are so quick to slap a label on whomever we can. The truth is, we all have “labels” of one kind or another. Those that say they don’t, probably aren’t aware of it yet. They say we see and judge in others when it’s often about our own fear and judgement going on. Keep doing you… I believe in you. You are inspirational beyond any words I could write. I will come back to this talk often. God bless🙏
“You don’t get to choose if you are an addict or not” I think people forget that. Addiction is merciless and relentless I wish our society had a greater understanding of it, maybe we could move forward and help addicts then. What we currently have now is far from ideal, overpriced treatment facilities that’ll take years to repay doesn’t cut it. Nothing says we truly care more than taking thousands from a desperate family and then providing them with awful care.
It is nice as it is to read these "inspirational" stories of drug addicts turning themselves round, living productive lives, encouraging others not to make the mistakes they made etc etc. The reality is that for each one like him, there are many more who keep using, relapse again and again, head towards an early grave and are ultimately beyond help. I wish this wasn't the case but it just is.
The numbers are slim and discouraging at times but honestly sharing my story is really for those who are struggling and not to boast in what sobriety has given me a foundation to build. Much of our failures with addiction has come from ignorance and stigma. We are making huge strides across the country but still have a long way to go. People will relapse and at times sadly leave us to early from drug related deaths but we still need to do what we can to help one. That one will help another and another.
"Becareful what you think because your thoughts become your words Becareful what you say because your words become your actions Becareful what you do because your actions become your habits Becareful what you make a habit because your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny"
This really hit me hard I struggle everyday man I just want to be sober I seem to have a very hard time with it 😕 but this is a amazing video thank u for posted it
Sitting down with people who have lived experience as been a life changing for us on our channel. Addiction is tough, but I believe we need to do better as a community and ensure that we defeat stigma, as well as support people so that less and less people turn to addiction.
I fully agree. I watched this almost 4 years ago when I started my sober journey and it had a huge impact. Still sober today, one day at a time. Still devote time daily to sobriety whether it be TH-cam, reading or connecting with others.
I'm coming up on 4 years next month & I really enjoyed this. I wanna get my story this concise lmao. I always ramble and get off track because there's just so much. I'm so happy with my life today & just want to help others have what I have.
Lol I hear yah! This was in my 9th year of speaking and I gave over 100 speeches leading up to the talk. Give yourself some grace. I didn't just walk up there and make it happen. Congrats on 4 years! Keep going!
Tony Hoffman Hi, BEST Most Inspiring Speech I've Ever heard!!!......CONGRATS I just question whether you had any advice or words of Wisdom to give As to When does An individual know they can return to their home....Or is it just Something YOU KNOW...YOU CAN FEEL IT? Definitely understood about giving your ways to someone who has WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE!!! Sooo POWERFUL!!!!....LET THEM LIGHT THE WAY....Sweet!
It’s so sad, I can’t allow anything to control me. I feel blessed to just say no and it worked,maybe because I see what happened to others and I said that can’t be me. I’m praying for others to just say no and learn from others!
I just celebrated 2yrs on Dec 22. Its the 27th and tononight I'm glad I watched your video. I too like to share a message of hope. Thank you for sharing yours! All the best to you next year! And f@#! the stigma...we know the truth!
Thos who dislikes or fail comments .. please don't judge the addicts .. because you're not lived a life like them or been through a shits like them .. 😢😢😢😢😢walked in theirs shoes . Then you'll understand how much it hunt them and make them a difficulty life they're living 😢😢😢God blessed all the addicts and Stay clean and sober always my brothers and sisters
You go boy!! I'm concerned about the stigma now, having my own recovery story. I have goals and have no idea how they will come to pass. I, however, believe my Higher Power will open some doors as long as I actively work towards them by doing the next right thing. Thank you for sharing! 🧡
The way I see it, when stigma is present, I have two jobs. 1. Break their belief system about people like ourselves through consistent positive behavior/outcomes. 2. Recognize they are not for me and find a safer more welcoming location.
Great story. the 32 dislikes are from people who have no idea the amount of effort it takes for an addict to be even 1 hour sober.
Fact 100% smart woman
10,000,000 × the truth
💯. 🤛 ~ And to piggy-back upon that genuine fact/sentiment(s),... why would anyone choose the infamous “thumbs-down” icon when there is always the more optimistic, positive, genuine option(s) which can correlate [and ultimately transcend] into Manifest Destiny?!! ~ From the smallest of details to grander ones... let’s change the damn world, my peoples!
Always lift-up; never tear-down. Much Love, Respect & Blessings! 🙏🇺🇸🙏👍
I ear that! So true..stay safe god bless 👍
Exactly!!
As a person in recovery, i can totally relate to this talk!! I've been homeless, in jail, and i have used puddle water, and toilet water. Today, i have 2 years and 5 months clean, I have my ceritification as a Recovery Specialist, and I have a job in a coffee shop that is a non profit striving to break the stigma and normalize recovery in my small town. People can and do change!! I am living proof!! Thanks for this talk!! You're awesome.
THANK YOU! You are a miracle and your community needs you, even when you feel like they don't. I'm proud of you! Continue to be a light.
great job. thank you for being role model for many.
Thank you ❤️
How long till you felt normal ? I can’t take this hopelessness I tried subs for about 4 days I was clean and even on subs I couldn’t function in regular world how long does it take?
Bless you; you should be so proud !
I just spent 29 years in prison due to choices made in my addiction. I was released a year and a half ago, (the longest I have been out since 15) I am now a drug counselor working as a case manager in substance abuse with two college degrees, a loving wife and family, a house in Vegas and best of all, I am now a man of character who lives his best life. I am a man that has the trust of his friends and the love of God. If there is anyone out there struggling with addiction, I promise It is possible.
Good on you my guy. Proud of you!
This is easily the best thing that I have ready in months! I am in recovery myself! Thank you for showing that anything is possible that anyone can have the life that they truly deserve! You’re an inspiration and if you haven’t heard it today I’m proud of you!
This is AMAZING! Thank you for taking the time to share it with us
God is good
Tony visited my school and it was the best speech ever and the most inspirational. It definitely wasn't one of those generic speeches.
Ya he came to ours to
@@maxthememedog4841 whats up max - I sat next to you in math class
@@daveprice3095 its funny its at fresno state where chris herren went and if i close m eyes he speaks exactly like chris maybe he took chris style which is ok powerful but if you like this ted talks go see chris herrens ted talks
its definately not generic when its exactly what is defined for the term generic lol live you life with what makes you happy is also generic but i garauntee people are happier not feeling pressure from other losers
Some of the most Amazing people I've ever met in my life are recovering addicts. You don't know who you can become until you take the first step.
losers don't quit
I've watched this 50 times since last March while in rehab.. almost a year clean and it's a gift that keeps giving
F yah! That's what I'm talking about!
I am 4 months sober and it’s a fight I’m gonna fight everyday but I am staying strong! Hopefully everyone watching this stays strong!
Here’s to hoping you got a year!
Still drinking
Stay strong 🌈
Hope you're doing well. Proud of you.
Five weeks sober!
"When you walk through the door and find out you're an addict, because you don't get to choose whether you'll be an addict or not, you cannot just walk back out through the invisible door you didn't see yourself walking into because you think you're done." This hit home. I never saw how bad it was until I was at rock bottom. Still trying to cope with the fact that I will have to fight against addiction and relapse for the rest of my life. But hey, I've got 34 days sober from opioids right now and that is all that matters. Tony's story is incredible, impactful, and inspiring. I will never forget this and will definitely be rewatching when things seem impossible.
Keep learning and growing for those relapses, they aren't eternal and you can come to a day where you never pick up again. I'm grateful you're still here, still making an effort and doing what many can't do, get 24hrs.
I admire your courage ! Keep going, it gets better and easier.
I pray you are still sober, last Sunday on day 34 of being sober I relapsed and just relapsed Monday and tonight. But I'm done after tonight, starting now I will be sober for the rest of my life, even if it's the last thing I do. If you're still sober, congrats. If not, you can do this again!
I am trying to be sober, again. This video was great. Thank you for sharing!
Don't give up. Keep trying, keep growing.
God is good !! Started with day #1 Lots of times !
🙏🙏🙏
I have friends going through what you went through that I wish would understand this message. you’re breaking the stigma that many others don’t believe could ever be possible. respect man
Word. I'm so sorry about your friend. I hope that your friend is okay today. Dec. 16 2021
Most of the important people in my life have completely blanked me because of addiction. It just makes me feel like never stopping.
I used to feel the exact same way.
Then I thought you know those people left for a reason ! I am sick and tired of people telling me who I am supposed to be etc.
Then I thought you know my addiction I need to let it go, I am sick and tired of my addiction telling me how to behave.
One problem took care of itself, the others always telling me what to do.
I got rid of the other problem, addiction telling me what to do.
Now I feel completely free! And I am loving my freedom!
@@jennifercraig942 You should be extremely proud of yourself and your attitude. At the moment my sole goal in life is to be exactly where you are and I fully believe that I can. Thanks for the lovely words of encouragement, it's very much appreciated.
Such a powerful message! I am so very grateful for my 29 years sobriety! I love life and feel so free. I notice the stigma of addiction when a few work colleagues will go out after work and I'm never invited. The stigma that sober people are unable to have fun or enjoy gatherings is hurtful.
What? What a terrible thing to say! I’m so sorry! If I knew you, I would invite you to chill with me!
He is by definition: here for a reason.
1 of the most influential videos i have watched on here so far , recovering from heroine, and fentanyl i have 6 months clean and found this very helpful and inspiring.... thank you very much for the opportunity to hear you speak
Thank you for standing for us that aren't ready to do it ourselves. The stigma is what keeps me from building new relationships which is what most addicts actually need.
I’ve been in recovery for more than a few 24 hrs, and I was always told (and it worked FOR ME), to be grateful, mindful, and above all HUMBLE.
The Rooms taught me to never give advice, or judge others, but to freely share my experience, strength and hope with those who will listen.
If I can help you, please reach out.
One day at a time.
I never get tired of hearing your story...I've never did a drug in my life. But almost everyone I've loved has. I share your story in the hope that it just helps one person.
You've used OTC medications right? Drugs. Medication, prescribed from a doctor? Drugs. Certain chemicals in the things we eat, drugs. Drugs are everywhere.
You are truly an inspiration, Tony! Thank you for telling your story and teaching the grave harms of being stigmatized. No matter anyone's past dealings with substance abuse, every person deserves dignity, respect, support, empathy and second chances !!
Thank you! Doing my part!
I chose to use drugs. I became an addict. I didnt choose the constant craving, the urges and the euphoric recall. My choices led to that but no one ever understands addiction until they become one themselves. And even then addiction is irrational and not fully understood. Lets spread love to the addicts suffering instead of demonizing and judging them ❤️. You are loved even if you're an addict. Dont ever forget that...
ѕay ιт ғor тнe people ιn тнe вacĸ. jυdgιng and нoѕтιlιтy тowardѕ a groυp oғ people wнo ѕтrυggle wιтн тнιѕ ѕpecιғιc vιce ιѕn'т нelpғυl or prodυcтιve. ιтѕ ѕadly jυѕт a ѕιgn тнaт нυмanιтy нaѕ yeт тo υnderѕтand wнaт addιcтιon ιѕ...and тнe perѕon w тнe addιcтιon ιѕ noт тнeιr addιcιтιon. ѕoмeone wιтн depreѕѕιon or anхιeтy or pтѕd wнιcн ιѕ тнe мoѕт coммon coмorвιdιтy neхт тo ѕa and early cнιldнood aвυѕe. ιe,an addιcт ιѕ мυcн lιĸe тнe locĸ and ĸey мodel we learned ιn ѕcнool and тнe ĸey ιѕ тнe dope тнaт we dιdn'т ĸnow we were мιѕѕιng. ѕтrangely, тнιѕ eмoтιonally nυмвιng мedιcιne(wнιcн υѕed тo вe preѕcrιved вy docтorѕ υnтιl a нandғυl oғ вυѕιneѕѕмen and polιтιcιanѕ ғoυnd ιт мoneтarιly ιn тнeιr вeѕт ιnтereѕт тo geт ιn on ѕoмe oғ тнιѕ drυg мoney. and jυѕт вc тнey мade ιт ιllegal doeѕ тнaт мean тнey canт тaх ιт?. ι мean yoυ can'т pυт an oғғιcιal тaх on an ιтeм ѕold υnder ιllegal cιrcυмaтanceѕ. нoweverrrr, нave no ғear grυввy вιgoтѕ!, eacн ѕтaтe нaѕ тнeιr own тaх raтe ғor anyтнιng тнey тaĸe oғғ oғ ѕoмeone err ι нeѕιтagye тo ѕay ѕтeal ѕnaтcн ѕecreтly тaĸe and don'т reтυrn...
Wow I have never been an addict but my best friend was. She sent me this link I watched the whole thing and I am amazed. I’ll never think the same about addiction. Thank you
You don’t become an addict, you either are or you aren’t.
тнaтѕ ѕo вeaυтιғυl oғ yoυ тo ѕυpporт and lιѕтen тo yoυr ғrιend. people lιĸe yoυ are rare and a вleѕѕιng.
This is a beautiful and uplifting story. I'm not an addict but I work in mental health and I give 100% support to those to try to lift themselves out of their situation.
Oh Tony you have no idea how perfect the timing was on this. I have let stigma rule and ruin the better part of my life. I'm SO done! Thank you for this, beyond grateful.
We have to truly believe in who we are and who we've become in recovery to withstand the stigma and opinion of others. They say sticks and stones break bones but words never hurt and honestly it's never been that way. Words hurt me, I just don't believe the ones that are negative and stifling anymore. I'm not perfect but I don't have to be somebody less because someone else says so. Keep moving forward!
I am an addict as well and I have found that the best part of recovery is realizing that once you truly decide to recover and take that hard road to pursue it aggressively, you can focus all of that addictive energy towards getting better, educating yourself about this condition and helping others along the way and it becomes your new way of life almost entirely as though recovering and learning is the new addiction.
BINGO!
Im 4 years sober, eerily enough i find this video, when im actively trying to become an addiction counselor. So if nothing else i can be there for people, like no one was there for me.
We need you!
In order to free yourself from addiction you must find within you that which fills the void that you have been trying to fill with your substances.
I have so many void's in my life right now, I am not sure if I will ever get over my addiction to alcohol.
@@jds6964 you can, it’s possible, even when it may seem impossible. And you don’t have to do it alone. I would consider Alcoholics Anonymous groups. They can be extremely beneficial and help you work through your troubles while being able to relate to the alcohol abuse. You are more special and valuable to this world than you realize, and the flame within you is still there. Keep hope, seek guidance from others, you will be surprised by how much love and understanding there is to go around.
Absolutely!
BUT you don't have to know this to get clean.
Just worry about getting clean first and just keep trying if you mess up and are lucky enough to get another chance.
You don't have to figure out everything or the most important things first or in one day.
Just one foot in front of the other.
Brush your teeth. 😊❤
@@jds6964I just got out of the hospital , nearly died from alcohol abuse. Hopefully this is the wake up call needed.
This story and that quote he read on the wall in jail was amazing bro
Oh my gosh, this was an absolutely amazing TED talk. His story is just like mine, how things started, how it ended up, the trials and hardships in between and the stigma I faced and still face because of my past. EVERYONE should watch this video. There is so much stigma Across the Nation that it prevents people from getting better. They have a lack of education and are so consumed with their opinions that they can't see anything else besides that person's bad because they're a drug addict. We need to change the way of thinking in America and instead of looking down on addicts help lift them up help them rise and become better. This video was amazing and completely inspiring.
Get up every day and: 1) make your bed, 2) brush your teeth, 3) organize your stuff.
Repeat.
Amen!!
@@TonyHoffman thanks for saying hi Tony, you're an inspiration. Yours is one of my favorite Ted talks / TH-cam videos on addiction & recovery. 👍❤️🔥💯
Then you are bored and under stimulated and relapse. (Not all)
the biggest impediment to seeing real change in addiction recovery success rate is stigma.. but even worse than convincing non-addicted people to look down on nameless, faceless addicts they pass on the street is convincing addicts to look down on themselves by telling them that even if they do recover they'll still always carry that label and will never be capable of full joy and life. who we are and whoever we will become will of course always contain all of who we've been but it doesn't and shouldn't impede who we can become and the good we can do.. thank you for picking up the microphone and thank GOD above all for all he's done for you and through you .🙏🏽
You reached me man. Bless you.
❤God is always with u, Mister❤Bless u❤
Tony might be the most inspirational BMXer to ever live. His story is very inspiring.
He spoke at an event called Pillars Of America in my hometown and it was so inspirational. I have family members that are going through this and this gave me hope.
They showed me this video in rehab. It stuck with me so much. I put the quote about being careful with your thoughts, words, actions, etc on my fridge because it is so damn important.
I can't tell you how much I LOVE reading this. One day at a time Jack!
@@TonyHoffman Thank you man. After 1 year and 8 months, I still come back to this. This was the first time I was introduced to the idea of discipline and what it can really do for a person. Training for the Olympics by making your bed and brushing your teeth was an idea that blew my mind. 1 year and 8 months, I've seen that type of thinking transform my life into something I never thought possible. I hope your recovery is going well and that you continue to speak. The wisdom you shared not only saved my life, but it made my life as well.
Powerful...Yes we as addicts will have the Stigma follow us the rest of our lives.. I am a recovering Addict..I have learned that it doesn't define who we are as a person but sadly We will be judged by Society.I Thank God everyday for my Sobriety and I live One day at a time. Thank you for Sharing!
From my perspective, the moral values that I learned from this great man Tony Hoffman are "optimism". Do not let other people thoughts influence yourself. From what Tony said, if we want to transfrom ourselves 360 degree. We should not let people's negative thoughts and beliefs about us effects us in the process to become a better person. Additionally, Tony also said that we must show and proves to the world that we can do it when the world are against us. This moral value are categorized as "Confidence". It is because, the best revenge to serves for this kind of people will always be the success.
I wish I could like this one million times. This is such an important talk. Thanks Hoff
Appreciate you!
Great story! You are a winner! Оne of the most important factors in the fight against any addiction is the support of close people and family, their help and care, their acceptance of us as we are. The lack of the necessary support at the right time also contributes to the aggravation of a particular addiction, especially when loved ones are in trouble, difficulties, or crises.
In such moments, we need to receive assistance from the family because the family is our basic sense of security and the source of unconditional love. That is why it is so important for us as Mental Health Counselors to hold sessions not only with addicted people but also with their families to teach them how to support each other properly. This is the most reliable way to understand because it can be challenging for clients to understand their emotions and experiences.
Tony is an awesome speaker with such a powerful message. Thanks for helping others with your story and heart.
I hate talks like this, inspirational BS....but this one was good, real walk, real talk.
Warrior !!! I am fighting off those stigma’s too i’ll never give up i know i am worthy and i know ive abused myself but it wasnt by my own will or choice that was gone stay strong never quitte on believing in YOURSELVES thats the most important thing and hey really life is one big joke !! ❤️🙏
This should be broadcast worldwide...as someone with clean time 1 year 9 months off H...after 21 years with a habit this really hits home...great job
Big big! Proud of you! One day at a time
Wow can't belive you of all ppl left a nice comment...I always knew ..I wasn't a bad person who wanted to be good , I was a sick person who needed to get well. Thank you for the kind words keepup the good work
I was exactly the same! "I'll never get it right, why can't I be like everyone else" then things became more real when others opinions of me were also bad. It seemed like I had to live to their opinions, like I had to confirm to myself and them that they were right. We've escaped those chains & now we get to define ourselves in a new way with new actions and over time we experience the freedom we've always craved. Love you my friend.
Everything you just said is spot on...I remember brushing my teeth in the shower because I couldn't look at myself in the mirror...I hated knowing other ppl didn't trust/ like / want me around....the best thing about being free from active addiction is changing how ppl feel about me...but even better is changing how I feel about myself....thank you...the world's a better place because of the messages you share...
Drug/medical properties stigma is almost the same as mental health stigmas at a lesser degree, and it’s terrible that it’s a thing. Blesses & love to all of those who suffer either. 🥺
I imagine we're all here for similar reasons, knowledge is nothing without implementation. Everyone hear is more than capable of overcoming whatever addition they're battling. Stay strong
I almost cried. But thank you tony. You gave me the morale I didn't have. I am going sober myself from today.
You rock brother. I’m glad you’re back. I’m 50 years old and I still ride my bike on vert ramps
Not everyone has the skill set, family, friends, and mental health to pull through. I’m tired of losing friends. I’m tired of the stigma. Not everyone is created equal. Addiction is proof.
this is one of the biggest issues. Many of my 'full' talks explain the failures of parole systems that lift my story up as the, "See, if he can do it so can you."
Not everyone can self start, most can't which means society has to fill those gaps and be the helping hand with programs that can teach these skills in safe environments that don't make it so easy for them to slip back!
I'm sorry about the loss of your friends, I know that loss all too well
Thank goodness we are not all created equal! You're stronger than most. Handed an addiction so you can beat it! Most people never have the opportunity to beat something this difficult, you should feel honored.
Everyone has their own path, each equally of value.
@livea3596 So true. Life is short, live each day as if it's your last bc it honestly could be.
But, yep each journey is different and only the traveler can travel it while here.
I did not think I’d find myself invested in a video I was forced to watch for Health 11.
Thank you Hoff. A really important message for all suffering from this disease.
Trying to do my part!
So inspiring man. You are a warrier
My recovery isn’t at a good start this time around once again but I’m hanging in there at the moment, one day at a time
I always tell people. It's not pretty at the start and everyone's start looks different. Willingness is all you need. Run your race willingness and the rest will happen automatically
I've listened to this at least 50x. I'm I. Recovery and your words are an absolute joy and words to live by
Addiction is a very hard thing to go through. Especially if you don't know what is going on. Its sad that there is a stigma behind addiction. Some of the best people I know were addicts. I am a recovering addict.
Yes, Hoff! This was amazing and so inspiring to a fellow Pro BMX Athlete with a mission to help others. Thank you for sharing and all you do.
Great story and I'm so glad he accomplished what he did against the odds 👏 I love his passion to educate about addiction and stigma surrounding it.
I had the privilege of hearing his story when he went to my high school back in around early 2015 I believe. Inspiring stuff 👏
This means so much to me! Being in recovery is so challenging! I have been denied positions because of a charge that I have on my record from an event I don't even remember. I asked the judge to expunge it because it was preventing me from moving forward in life. I kid you not, he told me, "This is your punishment for choosing to drink alcohol." Alcohol is legal, but I get to be punished for having had an addiction issue with a legal substance. None of it makes sense.
Keep pressing on Jess! I hope you're in a good place at this time with gainful employment!
THANK YOU (On behalf of those who are in recovery). I loved the line when you said “stigma says… “. Also, although I’m a complete stranger, I’m proud of you.
This really gives me hope.. stigma kills.. we ALL need to confront this and support one another now if days majority of ppl are addicted and we’re all judging each other even I’m guilty of this .. the shame the guilt the stigma we all feel. We need to break down these boundaries all of us
Such a great empowering story of the power of will,discipline and grace.Thanks Hoff 🙏🏻
My husband is really been going through this for many years and this was presented in our recovery church recently we've been separated a few years now and hopefully his recovery is long standing this time but I'm up for the future and helping him fight it.
I work at a Substance and Alcohol Recovery Support Charity in the UK. This was an amazing, informative and inspirational video to watch. I have just spent the afternoon delivering drug and alcohol awareness to 16 year old males at a College. One of the biggest barriers we face to getting anyone through the door is Stigma. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope your old Parole officer and Prison Officer get to see this before they crush more lives and dreams.
Agent Mason and I are now friends 🙏
Love the ending. Love the story. May you get all the power you needs to break those stigmas every single day. 🤍
He is describing my life to a t we do not choose to be drug addicts this is nothing we are born to do he has inspired me to continue with my dreams❤❤
Inspirational. Lost my daughter to drugs and she had so much to live for, just turned 19yrs old and couldn't imagine any of the other wonderful choices out there. Miss her every day and it has been 20yrs.
I'm so sorry Brenda
Hats offff...... I'm so impressed. U just trained ur brain well n helped yourself live longer.
I identify with your story of an 18-year-old who was curious even having the knowledge and warnings of family members educating you about the dangers of family/genetic disposition for addiction. I think back now, three years after going to treatment following15 years of street research and a 5 D.O.C. sentence myself, what if my mindset at that critical moment in my life's history would have been "What happens if I like this?" as opposed to teenage curiosity. My truth and journey don't have that question built-in, but i appreciate you sharing your message. It made a difference in my recovery today and thank you for honoring the struggle by sharing your story.
He came to speak at our middle school today. Really good speech.
Coming from a recovering addict this video was amazing and extremely inspiring. Much love to ya man
Stay strong bro!.i still struggle with alcohol.. and that leads me to do other recreation drugs... when I dont drink.. I dont need anything... keep up the good work bro
this is the best motivational speaker i’ve ever seen.
So much I wanna say. good things, ignored things, bad things, and the complexity of addiction. mental health, physical health, genetic dispositions, trauma/abuse/neglect, social norms/expectations/stigma/beliefs... a system that's so deeply engrained in society to chase more and more $$$ to achieve financial embederment but sacrifice solid healthy foundations and relationships....
Well said man. I’m on Percocet now for 6 years, chronic back pain , 3 chronic pinched nerves. I’ve reduced this past 2 years, and I still have times when I start running . And we don’t want to be in pain, we need to sleep, trickling out and still a slight withdrawal I’ve been through. Had a liver surgery in my 20s, had pain meds, never got another refill. Had 3 kids, never had a refill, no addiction. My back surgery and chronic pain, I needed that med. My doctor was a heavy hand too. So I’m at that point right now where I’m out of med, I’m not feeling great yet I am mentally. Percocet makes me feel agitated, not high ! I do feel judged at times, I will say
just cause you delve into the dark side of life doesn't mean you're a bad person or can't change. the stigma needs to change
He’s coming to my school tmr and im beyond excited to meet him
Hope you enjoyed it!
What a great story and great speaker. Amazing!
Beautiful story. Courageous, strength of character and you are no doubt one of the most real and beautiful souls I’ve heard talk. As humans we are so quick to slap a label on whomever we can. The truth is, we all have “labels” of one kind or another. Those that say they don’t, probably aren’t aware of it yet. They say we see and judge in others when it’s often about our own fear and judgement going on. Keep doing you… I believe in you. You are inspirational beyond any words I could write. I will come back to this talk often. God bless🙏
“You don’t get to choose if you are an addict or not” I think people forget that. Addiction is merciless and relentless I wish our society had a greater understanding of it, maybe we could move forward and help addicts then. What we currently have now is far from ideal, overpriced treatment facilities that’ll take years to repay doesn’t cut it. Nothing says we truly care more than taking thousands from a desperate family and then providing them with awful care.
There is unfortunately a lot of room for growth in this area. Lots of complex and moving parts.
absolutely wonderful and inspirational story and life, you are fantastic well done and keep up the inspirational work 🙂
🙏
His confidence looks so good well done brother
It is nice as it is to read these "inspirational" stories of drug addicts turning themselves round, living productive lives, encouraging others not to make the mistakes they made etc etc. The reality is that for each one like him, there are many more who keep using, relapse again and again, head towards an early grave and are ultimately beyond help. I wish this wasn't the case but it just is.
The numbers are slim and discouraging at times but honestly sharing my story is really for those who are struggling and not to boast in what sobriety has given me a foundation to build.
Much of our failures with addiction has come from ignorance and stigma. We are making huge strides across the country but still have a long way to go. People will relapse and at times sadly leave us to early from drug related deaths but we still need to do what we can to help one. That one will help another and another.
@@TonyHoffman Thank you.
Tell everyone that will hear.
If just one...
Listen
"Becareful what you think because your thoughts become your words
Becareful what you say because your words become your actions
Becareful what you do because your actions become your habits
Becareful what you make a habit because your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny"
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏
You are great, Hoffman. Man can change!
This really hit me hard I struggle everyday man I just want to be sober I seem to have a very hard time with it 😕 but this is a amazing video thank u for posted it
Don't give up! Surrendering everything you think you know is the key. We gotta give it to someone who knows how to do it and take their suggestions
thank u man
@@TonyHoffman
Sitting down with people who have lived experience as been a life changing for us on our channel. Addiction is tough, but I believe we need to do better as a community and ensure that we defeat stigma, as well as support people so that less and less people turn to addiction.
Not one person who is an addict will ever stop using until they quit lying to themselves with denial...
Truth.
Amazing story! This is the insight many people need to develop a better understanding.
ABSOLUTELY ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS I'VE EVER WATCHED ❤
Thank you!!
I fully agree. I watched this almost 4 years ago when I started my sober journey and it had a huge impact. Still sober today, one day at a time. Still devote time daily to sobriety whether it be TH-cam, reading or connecting with others.
a good motivation for the man who came a drug addict to change there lives into a good future
Great story! Thank you for sharing and all the great work you are doing!
This is priceless, thank you so much for explaining how we felt..
I'm coming up on 4 years next month & I really enjoyed this. I wanna get my story this concise lmao. I always ramble and get off track because there's just so much. I'm so happy with my life today & just want to help others have what I have.
Lol I hear yah! This was in my 9th year of speaking and I gave over 100 speeches leading up to the talk. Give yourself some grace. I didn't just walk up there and make it happen.
Congrats on 4 years! Keep going!
Tony Hoffman
Hi, BEST Most Inspiring Speech I've Ever heard!!!......CONGRATS
I just question whether you had any advice or words of Wisdom to give As to When does An individual know they can return to their home....Or is it just Something YOU KNOW...YOU CAN FEEL IT? Definitely understood about giving your ways to someone who has WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE!!!
Sooo POWERFUL!!!!....LET THEM LIGHT THE WAY....Sweet!
@@juliettetaylor5026 hi can you message me on instagram so I can get better context of this question? Thanks!
It’s so sad, I can’t allow anything to control me. I feel blessed to just say no and it worked,maybe because I see what happened to others and I said that can’t be me. I’m praying for others to just say no and learn from others!
I just celebrated 2yrs on Dec 22. Its the 27th and tononight I'm glad I watched your video. I too like to share a message of hope. Thank you for sharing yours! All the best to you next year! And f@#! the stigma...we know the truth!
Get out there and start sharing it! The communities need to hear from you
Wow, what a story. God bless you Hoff
I cried during this. Thank you.
I listened I got it, not many of my friends did :(
Thos who dislikes or fail comments .. please don't judge the addicts .. because you're not lived a life like them or been through a shits like them .. 😢😢😢😢😢walked in theirs shoes . Then you'll understand how much it hunt them and make them a difficulty life they're living 😢😢😢God blessed all the addicts and Stay clean and sober always my brothers and sisters
You go boy!! I'm concerned about the stigma now, having my own recovery story. I have goals and have no idea how they will come to pass. I, however, believe my Higher Power will open some doors as long as I actively work towards them by doing the next right thing. Thank you for sharing! 🧡
The way I see it, when stigma is present, I have two jobs. 1. Break their belief system about people like ourselves through consistent positive behavior/outcomes. 2. Recognize they are not for me and find a safer more welcoming location.
@@TonyHoffman thank you for your response and for caring enough to respond: for seeing me.
Absolutely fantastic. Keep breaking them down. Well done!