Be sure to get The 7 Deadly Text Messages (www.trippadvice.com/text-girls) so you don't text her in a needy way and accidentally kill her attraction for you.
I stopped caring ... I'm tired of these games .. Either she's interested or She's not ..I don't have time to be playing Hide and go seek or Jeopardy with her
Rocky 2028 well, here's the thing. He's right. You don't need her attention for happiness. Whether she wants you or not, you're happy. In other words, don't be needy.
Rocky V1 Bro, I literally was about to comment this as well, then I saw your comment. Preach it bro. We don’t have time for uninterested girls. Yes or no. Stop wasting my time. I shouldn’t have to play these games.
I stopped doing this years ago. It is such waste of time, really. I would rather pursue my hobbies, career and build financial independence. Are great men of history or today known for their achievements (for example Elon Musk ) or are they famous for being husbands or scoring at the bar every week? I am done wasting time and money.
From a female perspective, I think this is the right attitude. There are insecure women who like to be needed or like needy men so just try to be the best version of yourself so you'll attract the best person for you who authentically likes you and not the image or idea of you. In the end, being honest is what both genders look and ask for.
Tripp Advice whats funny is a few times a girl asked me if she could call me later..and she was a hooters girl..and we ended up together for four years lol
Men that show respect to women and try to treat them as equals are punished. No matter what they say, women DO NOT want to be treated as equals. Women are not emotionally or mentally prepared for that.
JPLooney well treating her like an equal would be if she hits me once I'll hit her again without caring. I treat men like that if she wants me to treat her like that then it I could. Or not open the door for her cause I don't open the door for anyone (only to girls sometimes) but if they all want me to "treat them equally" then no more me gentleman.
@@lunatic4152 Yes, that is treating her like an "equal", and no they do not want to be treated like that, they want to be treated in a way that makes them " Feel like a woman".. Sonofsarek said he treats them with respect AND like an equal however what most guys like him think "respect" means treating her like a "Queen", holding doors for HER, trying to please her, trying to keep her happy, trying to not make her upset, always seeking her permission, they turn into a "servant" which she LOVES to "Use" but she will NOT repect as a man. Yet, if she is put on the same footing she feels you have not noticed she is "female" or sees you as no better than one of her friends. In short terms. Treat her in a way that makes her feel that YOU are of higher value than her, and are desirable.
It's fine to have anxiety! You just need to show that you are attempting to conquer it. Girls are attracted to guys that are willing to face their fears in an attempt at self improvement.
So the truth is that men shouldn't be honest with their emotions. We shouldn't show being offended, anger, anxiety, worry, weakness in desire, insecurity, depression, desperation or show politeness by asking her for info, permission or consent. I'm always surrounded by failed relationships - even now my dad and his girlfriend are fighting. She keeps on hoping that he will change and doesn't accept him for who he is. I'd prefer not to start at relationship with false projections. I certainly don't understand why asking a girl if she already has a boyfriend is interpreted as "needy." If I ask that of her, I'm just wondering if she is free to approach romantically. I don't see nothing wrong in having the courtesy of not trying to steal somebody's girlfriend, but let me ask you this - what does it say about me if I'm here from being needy? I never would have clicked this video had I not been wanting a girlfriend and eventual wife. What's the point in judging men as undesirable based on their "need" for a girl? In that case, men who are single and don't want a girl are the most attractive.
It's actually a good point, if the girl accepts you is because you somehow match with her needs, right? But the thing is never burden some else with your needs, particularly if you want that person enjoy your presence. Greetings.
Nope! Exact opposite. She wants you to act on your feelings, not ruminate on them or ask her permission to act on them. It's not wrong to ask it shes available. But its unnecessary and usually wont get you anywhere. Approach her romantically, and if she isn't into it, she'll let you know.
You have to come from an abundance mentality: even if you dont have a girlfriend now, you must appear and project that you can have the girl you want anytime, that you have many girl friends that would say no if you ask then to go out to say the least. Also, never ask if she has a bf: even if she has one, if your game is tight, she will be willing to kiss you, etc. ALL women are hypergamous and womanizers act as if they were so women only want to partner them since they are they equals, they don't want to bother with the 80% of men who are simps, manginas, captain save a hoes, timid, unambitious, too polite, ugly etc unless they need to use them for attention, money, social o pro climbing, etc.
@@joseaquino8773 ALL women now? XD I’m sorry but count me out, I like someone who is needy and polite, somewhat, pathetic men are the most attractive to me and if I found one I would stick with them
@@bunnybelllove5565 lol, well there are PLENTY of men like that and I dont know how you didnt find one yet. Are you sure you like men like that? Are your exes or men you had crush on are like that? Im not talking about seeing one in a movie, in real life.
Dogs know this instinctively. My neighbor has a black lab. One day she (the dog, not the neighbor) suddenly decided to give me a kiss right on the lips, and went on licking my face. No hesitation, just "hey, I like you". I don't know why people say dogs are needy. This one was acting very assertive.
@Tony. Dogs' saliva is antiseptic. Even the ancient Greeks knew that, and therefore kept dogs in the temples of the God of Medicine Asklepios to heal people's wounds by licking them.
I don’t even know enough girls or guys to get to this point. I used to have a group of friends in high school. But after graduating. They all left. However, I think all my suffering had increase my confidence ironically. Because I know there’s always loosing in not trying but there’s a chance in success in trying. Thanks for reading what I felt like saying and wish everyone a great day.
It is intresting that you bring up the: Can i kiss you question. I use a similar sentence that will make you look more atractive and more like a alpha male quite often. On a date after some physical touching and i notice that she likes me, i am not asking but i tell her" I WANT to kiss you" and waiting for a reaction. Or i tell her "Come over here and kiss me". It is a small difference but makes a HUGE inpact :) Thanks for all the tips Tripp!
Sad to say just about all of them used to have a gang of chicks then I settled down in a ten year relationship and it's like I forgot or it's just not like it used to be it's so much easier when u already have one don't figure I used to be sancho to a lot of girls now it's pretty hard to even get a hoe lol well on these stupid dating apps. Only the ugly chicks r getting at me but in person i see the fine ones jocking what the hell and to bad I have approach anxiety . I think one main factor for me is I need a damn job
Well then you need to stop put so much value on beaty. And try to start working with jobs that plays a big roll with service, i have noticed that it helps with social and also approach anxiety.
@Jason Cortez bro I feel you but right now you need to build your foundation of confidence, get yourself to the point where you do have a stable job and a good routine where you're keeping busy everyday then pick a girl… the better you make yourself feel the easier it'll be to approach a random women
Lost my marriage because of neediness. These questions were asked almost on a weekly basis. Totally have changed my way of thinking and my confidence is through the roof.
I've asked them all. In my experience, when I used to asked this questions, they didn't feel ok. I didn't know why back then, but now I know. Now I am more confident, but I still have to work on that aspect. Great advice.
Instead of ´can I kiss you?' I find using 'Wanna kiss?' or 'do you wanna kiss too?' to work perfectly. You don't come across needy that way and neither do you force yourself upon somebody else. Basically you're just checking if she is ready for it, you're showing your intent and you're still taking the lead. If she likes you, she'll definetly join in, if she doesn't want to (yet), it's easy to brush it off.
I’m guilty. I’ve said most of that weak sh!t b4 and eventually lost the woman. You are 1000% correct about this my good man. A man MUST ALWAYS be confident, yet rational when dealing with women. Don’t change your values just to score. You gotta be honest with yourself if you want to improve. Nick N., creates great content and helps a lot of viewers. Makes sense for you two to be doing business ✌🏾
People follow leaders : at the end of the day, it's all about leadership; that's why self development, confidence, and knowing how to be secured in your own skin is always the pre-step of any successful relationship. Thanks for the advice, Tripp
Keep in mind that when asking a girl out on a date that you shouldn't limit yourself to just texting. You can ask them in person (if possible), through social media, simply calling them/facetime, or a personal favorite, voice message (you can get as many attempts to get the right message you want while they hear that sexy voice and all the emotion put into the message). All this will emanate true confidence and can put you on a step above guys who aren't there yet or don't have the right confidence to do so.
I asked a girl if she likes me, she said something like "If I didn't like you, I wouldn't be here", that's a smart response from her, but after some weeks we were strangers. Now I know what I did wrong thanks to your channel, I won't make the same mistakes again!
Neediness is a turn off not only before a relationship but during as well. Saying things like, do you love me or asking permission before every decision can be a turn off. Also seeming too attached or dependent on your significant other can be emasculating. Treat her good but also like you could live without her and she will jump your bones any chance she gets! Also love the supernatural clip
Asked a girl if she was single back in highschool, my friends laughed at me like crazy, never asked that question again but until today I'd never know why not to ask.
one thing I've observed and don't like, is that we are supposed to love women but women don't have to love us, and they can still get men to be attracted to them, date them.
What do you mean we are supposed to “love women?” Finding certain women attractive doesn’t mean you love them. Men can get women attracted and date them without the men having to “love” them.
because this is a quote I got from somewhere: “If you’re angry, bitter and secretly hate women, don’t be surprised if you keep getting rejected. Women smell hidden agendas better than men every could.”
This is fantasy about they having super smelling powers. There is always explanation for why human being didnt like you. Smellings, seven or 13rd fellings sometimes are false. There are many circumstances that one does not take into account. Don't forget people often get false attitude about others. Maybe based on her past experiences her smelling will tell you to fuck off, but really with few lucks and coinsidences, her view and smellings will change, so you get along and be best couple in town. Most boring wamen for me are mind slaves. If you think they can smell some fears in you, they will. You can even create non existant fear and show them when you talk so they run away. You can exploit this like a computer. If you like live life pretending, possing like an actor, you can exploit/manipulate others to get what you want. You can get that women by exploiting, but its that you want or go harder - path of pure truth? Or if you could exploit just that one little barrier, preventing her from seeing who you really are, open her eyes...... This was just some thoughts. Mostly what i mean, delete all fears like that. So what you hate a little someone becouse you didn't get what you wanted or they hurt you. Life without destruction wouldn't be life. So what, enjoy struggling and just say FUCK IT even if you dont get the good result.
Female love is narcissistic in nature. Women don't love men to whom they are not blood-related. Men love women Women love children Children love puppies Women love themselves... and the feelings their selves can have... when they are with men of a higher status.
Except for "Can I Kiss you", I agree with all. These suggestions apply to life in general, not just when dating a girl. Always be respectable and yet don't be desperate. As a man, I would still date if someone is desperate who I find attractive but I will tell them not to behave that way. I will try to correct them. They might probably don't know about that and what it signifies. When it comes to "Can I Kiss you", I will definitely get angry if someone touches me without first asking my permission. I guess it depends on individual personality.
Instead of ´can I kiss you?' I find using 'Wanna kiss?' or 'do you wanna kiss too?' to work perfectly. You don't come across needy that way and neither do you force yourself upon somebody else. Basically you're just checking if she is ready for it, you're showing your intent and you're still taking the lead. If she likes you, she'll definetly join in, if she doesn't want to (yet), it's easy to brush it off.
*She wants a guy who is an adult, who can take care of himself, who can provide for himself* Absolutely true especially if a woman is into long term relationship/marriage. Showing that you are a unreliable is really a turn off.
I have personally never asked a girl any desperate or needy questions (at least with a similar theme to these) as far as I know. I however think I have acted too desperate and outcome dependent before which led to me loosing a girl.
Well, my WIFE left me 7 weeks ago and I did ask her if she's seeing someone else. She's my wife, I have to know these things. She said no, but honestly I don't believe she'll ever admit it to me. If she said yes, I don't know what I would have done. Reflecting, I probably would have broken down. Granted, my wife is way younger than me and needs "space." I'm giving it to her, I'm letting her be free. I'm fine because honestly if it all goes to hell, I can have any girl I want, seriously.
The Alpha male kiss statement: "Your lips look so juicy I can't resist them." If she says "I don't kiss on the first date." that's a no. If she looks at you with those eyes without speaking, move in without another word. Works every time.
Good advice. If I see a fine attractive woman I just walk up to her, introduce myself with a smile with strong eye contact and believe it or not, she smiles right back.
I've read articles and watched videos that say "You should ask a woman 'Do you have a boyfriend ?' or 'Are you seeing anybody ?' !" . That way, you know if you should pursue her any farther . "Do you have a boyfriend ?" or "Are you seeing anybody ?" are mighty important questions . If she says yes, you have to say "Okay . I'm sorry to bother you !" and walk away . A relationship is basically a mini -- marriage . If you can steal a woman from her boyfriend, she doesn't understand what "loyalty" is . I will admit that I believe it has to be absoluntely humiliating to ask a woman "Do you have a boyfriend ?" ( or "Are you seeing anybody ?" ) and get a "Yes" answer .
I literally did this on a date today. I first went for the kiss and it = a push on the shoulder away ok so we talk for another 30 minutes, then I said the bitch made thing, Can I kiss 😚 you ? And boom she shakes her head. I see why now and I consider myself to be an attractive dude. Those words will never come out of my mouth again!!
Christopher Goodwin If you want a kiss, go for it, gently. If she pushes you away or turns her cheek, hey, you can't win 'em all. Maybe she likes to wait. Maybe she forgot to brush her teeth.
Does she not need to "take care of herself" as well?? What's attractive is when a girl can take initiative too. A big turn off if she leaves everything for the guy to do because she's living the traditional, inferior, dainty woman. Within reason those feminine characteristics are fine, but a woman who has no seems of her own self esteem and confidence is unattractive. Guys with any sense of self worth and respect for who a partner should be, will walk away.
Definitely my dude. I've asked all 4!! Lol. If I didn't go through all of that I wouldn't be where I'm at now. Amd for that I'm grateful. Good content my dude! Listen up guys!
Never ask "Did you miss me?" You don't need to ask this question to have an answer to it. If she needs a prompt to tell you she missed you, then she didn't miss you in any meaningful way.
I've been talking to this girl for a couple months, we work together and up to a week ago she was sending me texts I can't wait to see you, I can't stop thinking about you, etc. She's been very distant after this past weekend, I was gonna ask did you meet somebody but now I know better, I'll keep it cool, give her some space and see if she gets interested again. Thank you for not letting me make a big mistake.
Met a girl in math class gave her my number walking from class to our separate dorms, had a great convo and seemed like there was a connection. Sends me a text with her name next day I ask if she wants to grab something to eat, she’s apologizes says she’s busy. Wait 3 days asks, “Do you like penguins?” (Zoo date) she replies “Penguins? 😂 not particularly” I just straight up said well would you like to go to the zoo? She said sounds like fun but she has a busy weekend which she is in a sorority and we was about to go back home for holidays. I couldn’t tell if I was getting curved or not so I sent a merry Christmas and got left on read. Now I haven’t texted since because I don’t want to be the kid that can’t take a hint so what do you think?
277657 shouldn’t have sent that merry Xmas text, it’s polite and whatnot but there’s no need for it. I’m guessing you haven’t talked to her since Xmas, shoot her text but don’t expect something spectacular. You need to “reset” the relationship/attraction since it looks like she was interested before but now maybe not as much. Definitely see other girls though, don’t just focus on her
I've basically asked most of these questions to girls in the past. Some were good relationships and others not so much. I admit I'm a bit shy especially initially, but no major issues
Paul Van Dijk it's actually backwards. If you date a feminist you definitely need to ask her for everything and put her on a pedestal. Cause that what feminist want. Don't date those type of women they'll ruin your life.
I have a super important question. How tf are we supposed to know a persons gender if they never tell us? I'm not against lgbtq but nowadays they're EVERYWHERE. Some of them more harder to identify than the rest, and alot of them reveal their true gender after like a few weeks of dating. And I ain't bisexual so fuck that.
I'm surprised that a very needy question topic wasn't brought up. When can I see you next? When are you free? When are we going to hang out? These questions give her all the power.
Oh no, no, no, no, no Trip. Absolutely ask if you can kiss her, especially the first time. You have no idea how awkward it is when a man comes into kiss you and you're not ready for it. It's intimidating, and depending on the circumstances, a little scary.
Bullshit. I've never asked a girl for a kiss. Normally, if we are having a good time out together and she's very comfortable with me being in her personal space or we are exchanging touches, then kissing is always ok. As long as im not moving towards her face fast. Slow movements towards her face gives her enough time to decide.
I ask my girlfriend if I could kiss her, on the cheek as a sign of fondness and respect; and she liked it! And I have Asperger's! Tripp doesn't know how to be a gentleman, period!
I asked "Are you seeing someone else?" she told me "no, why?" and then I said "Good, so I don't have any concurrence!" It was a bit cringy but a bit funny too. Also asked if I could kiss her, and it worked so idk...
I can attest to this as it pertains to women for sure. There is nothing worse than a needy woman. The biggest turn on for me is for a woman to tell me i dont need you but i like having you a part of my life.
I asked a girl to tell me what she thought I was bad at. I laughed when she dodged the question. She already thinks I am emotionally immature. I seriously hate when she sugar-coats everything she says to me. I really just wanted her to be straightforward with me. Me no understanding passive-aggressive 😅😅
Yo dawgh. Im a bit confused here... How can it not be "ok" to ask if she is seeing someone else?! What if an 'old fashion' \ 'normal' guy starts dating a girl that appears to have the same values but in reality she is a free spirit that doesnt believe in monogami? The guy keeps investing his emotions only to build him self up for quite the downfall. And had he asked and gotten a flat "yes" he could remove him self from the entire scenario. Keep in mind for future video's that most guys that watch theese types of video's are insecure and voulnareable. More or less telling them to go out and act hardcore james-rambo-dean can result in a lot of avoidable pain. Sorry for my bad english and sorry if i come across as mad \ rude, but im feeling pretty provoked by this video. Looking forward for your respons. Ørjan-
In the USA the courtship rituals are different. You cant ask right off "are we exclusive?". You gotta eventually have that talk but not so early on. Thats why he said that. Doesnt seem needy but it totally is.
Well then this guy better just mention his dating preferences on the first on second date. You dont need to ask her, but just to mention it when she ask about your past relationships or about yourself. "Well you can say Im an old fashion guy, I like to drive fast, kiss hard and to date only one woman at the time" lol. Or something like that.
I feel like you can ask these things to the right girl for you. If you feel like you can't ask these questions and come off as cute to her, that's pretty much all you need to know
She once told me before winter break "I love you" on the last day of school and I told her back. The first week back i asked her "were you serious when you told me that?" And I fucked up.
I completely messed up in every possible way a date recently despite having watched hours of "how to" videos, which I can put down to subconscious self-sabotage or desperation after a failed marriage. Among my many mistakes, I asked "can I kiss you?" and "do you like me?" I also talked too much. I didn't lead as to where we went for coffee, where we sat or what I drank (I followed her every suggestion): I was a follower! She arrived 20 minutes late so it began with being conscious of me being shit tested and made to wait. There was a lot more but it is amazing how lack of confidence can screw up your chances. Get the confidence right and everything falls in place better I think.
yea i have asked one of those needy questions ,she brought up a YES or NO answer game .i could ask her anything and she would reply with a yes or no.i like her and i taught it was my opportunity to know if it was mutual so i asked the needy question "do you like me?"
Lol, no. It doesn't apply for everyone. I'm a girl, and it's absolutely okay if a guy asks me any of those questions. (I can only agree with the third, however it still wouldn't be a turn off) Men are also human beings, and if he needs some reassurance, he can ask me whatever he wants. Knowing that he feels free talking to me about what puzzles and worries him - that's what I really value. Emotional connection is number one most important thing, and that means no restrictions on what you can or cannot ask.
For some of us , We have to show confidence when we are approaching a female or courting even if your not , like the saying goes “ fake it till you make it”
Western world is friggin retarded and full of narcisttic selfish self entitled bitches ..best chances are east europe asia and south america..stay away from westernized countries
This is rediculious, every person and every women is different. Some rather you just kiss them other rather that you ask, so select the type you want. It should be obvious as how she talks and how shy or forward she is.
Steven Rodriguez poor you no one really likes to ask things it's on our DNA we only ask because we want to avoid problems. But kissing a girl shouldn't be a problem if she rejects you then deal with it don't be afraid.
Tripp Advice Good point, Tripp I have been texting a girl for about 11 days now do I need to take my time and get to know her through text and then set a date? she is really beautiful and I want something serious
I have had women in the past ask me if I was dating or seeing someone else when I first went out with them. It didn't bother me too much because women I think are very fearful or suspicious of men who cheat on them with other women. Besides I thought you said that it was okay to ask a girl if she is single.
Be sure to get The 7 Deadly Text Messages (www.trippadvice.com/text-girls) so you don't text her in a needy way and accidentally kill her attraction for you.
i asked all this things lmaooo, i'm a fucking mess lol
I didn't get the 7 deadly text messages in my email..Tripp why?
I stopped caring ... I'm tired of these games .. Either she's interested or She's not ..I don't have time to be playing Hide and go seek or Jeopardy with her
Rocky 2028 i said fuck all of the do’s and dont’s. You’re right it’s either they like you or they don’t.
Rocky 2028 well, here's the thing. He's right. You don't need her attention for happiness. Whether she wants you or not, you're happy. In other words, don't be needy.
Rocky V1 Bro, I literally was about to comment this as well, then I saw your comment. Preach it bro. We don’t have time for uninterested girls. Yes or no. Stop wasting my time. I shouldn’t have to play these games.
I stopped doing this years ago. It is such waste of time, really. I would rather pursue my hobbies, career and build financial independence. Are great men of history or today known for their achievements (for example Elon Musk ) or are they famous for being husbands or scoring at the bar every week? I am done wasting time and money.
From a female perspective, I think this is the right attitude. There are insecure women who like to be needed or like needy men so just try to be the best version of yourself so you'll attract the best person for you who authentically likes you and not the image or idea of you. In the end, being honest is what both genders look and ask for.
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Any way I could write you for a personal question?
Life starts at birth. It continues at love.
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whats funny is a few times a girl asked me if she could call me later..and she was a hooters girl..and we ended up together for four years lol
Men that show respect to women and try to treat them as equals are punished. No matter what they say, women DO NOT want to be treated as equals. Women are not emotionally or mentally prepared for that.
sonofsarek Give an example of "Treating her like an equal".. many people dont know what that means..
JPLooney well treating her like an equal would be if she hits me once I'll hit her again without caring. I treat men like that if she wants me to treat her like that then it I could. Or not open the door for her cause I don't open the door for anyone (only to girls sometimes) but if they all want me to "treat them equally" then no more me gentleman.
@@lunatic4152 Yes, that is treating her like an "equal", and no they do not want to be treated like that, they want to be treated in a way that makes them " Feel like a woman".. Sonofsarek said he treats them with respect AND like an equal however what most guys like him think "respect" means treating her like a "Queen", holding doors for HER, trying to please her, trying to keep her happy, trying to not make her upset, always seeking her permission, they turn into a "servant" which she LOVES to "Use" but she will NOT repect as a man. Yet, if she is put on the same footing she feels you have not noticed she is "female" or sees you as no better than one of her friends. In short terms. Treat her in a way that makes her feel that YOU are of higher value than her, and are desirable.
JPLooney I completely agree with everything that you just said
JPLooney so how do you make yourself seem higher value?
so basically men aren't allowed to have anxiety
Spencer Pommier don’t project your anxiety.
It's fine to have anxiety! You just need to show that you are attempting to conquer it. Girls are attracted to guys that are willing to face their fears in an attempt at self improvement.
Spencer Pommier just don’t look like a bitch
Or a mental illness either!
Spencer Pommier pop some Xanax then.. its either benzos addiction or a pity life
I have a solution for that: I don't ask the girl anything. I'm the one taking decisions.
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Best love advice EVER!
So the truth is that men shouldn't be honest with their emotions. We shouldn't show being offended, anger, anxiety, worry, weakness in desire, insecurity, depression, desperation or show politeness by asking her for info, permission or consent. I'm always surrounded by failed relationships - even now my dad and his girlfriend are fighting. She keeps on hoping that he will change and doesn't accept him for who he is. I'd prefer not to start at relationship with false projections. I certainly don't understand why asking a girl if she already has a boyfriend is interpreted as "needy." If I ask that of her, I'm just wondering if she is free to approach romantically. I don't see nothing wrong in having the courtesy of not trying to steal somebody's girlfriend, but let me ask you this - what does it say about me if I'm here from being needy? I never would have clicked this video had I not been wanting a girlfriend and eventual wife. What's the point in judging men as undesirable based on their "need" for a girl? In that case, men who are single and don't want a girl are the most attractive.
It's actually a good point, if the girl accepts you is because you somehow match with her needs, right? But the thing is never burden some else with your needs, particularly if you want that person enjoy your presence. Greetings.
Nope! Exact opposite. She wants you to act on your feelings, not ruminate on them or ask her permission to act on them. It's not wrong to ask it shes available. But its unnecessary and usually wont get you anywhere. Approach her romantically, and if she isn't into it, she'll let you know.
You have to come from an abundance mentality: even if you dont have a girlfriend now, you must appear and project that you can have the girl you want anytime, that you have many girl friends that would say no if you ask then to go out to say the least. Also, never ask if she has a bf: even if she has one, if your game is tight, she will be willing to kiss you, etc. ALL women are hypergamous and womanizers act as if they were so women only want to partner them since they are they equals, they don't want to bother with the 80% of men who are simps, manginas, captain save a hoes, timid, unambitious, too polite, ugly etc unless they need to use them for attention, money, social o pro climbing, etc.
@@joseaquino8773 ALL women now? XD I’m sorry but count me out, I like someone who is needy and polite, somewhat, pathetic men are the most attractive to me and if I found one I would stick with them
@@bunnybelllove5565 lol, well there are PLENTY of men like that and I dont know how you didnt find one yet. Are you sure you like men like that? Are your exes or men you had crush on are like that? Im not talking about seeing one in a movie, in real life.
Right. Don't say do you like me. Say, "You REALLY like me, don't you? I have that effect on women."
Lol, how high is your horse?
I second this 👌
Fake it to make it, sounds good
lol, you have to be a huge dipshit to actually say that. If she doesn't think you're a douchebag after that, then she's probably 12.
No she likes it because thats how it works xD
Dogs know this instinctively. My neighbor has a black lab. One day she (the dog, not the neighbor) suddenly decided to give me a kiss right on the lips, and went on licking my face. No hesitation, just "hey, I like you". I don't know why people say dogs are needy. This one was acting very assertive.
zzyzx686 straight after it had been licking its butt.
@Tony. Dogs' saliva is antiseptic. Even the ancient Greeks knew that, and therefore kept dogs in the temples of the God of Medicine Asklepios to heal people's wounds by licking them.
Did you really just compare women to dogs? Is that really what you wanted to have said?
zzyzx686 #youtoo
Zzyzx686 i don't understand it either maybe girls sees it like that but males haha they have a totally different perspective on the issue.
I don’t even know enough girls or guys to get to this point. I used to have a group of friends in high school. But after graduating. They all left. However, I think all my suffering had increase my confidence ironically. Because I know there’s always loosing in not trying but there’s a chance in success in trying.
Thanks for reading what I felt like saying and wish everyone a great day.
TheCryingLenny 100 hey…
It is intresting that you bring up the: Can i kiss you question. I use a similar sentence that will make you look more atractive and more like a alpha male quite often. On a date after some physical touching and i notice that she likes me, i am not asking but i tell her" I WANT to kiss you" and waiting for a reaction. Or i tell her "Come over here and kiss me". It is a small difference but makes a HUGE inpact :) Thanks for all the tips Tripp!
Kobbz fuck yeah dude ima try dat shit
Sad to say just about all of them used to have a gang of chicks then I settled down in a ten year relationship and it's like I forgot or it's just not like it used to be it's so much easier when u already have one don't figure I used to be sancho to a lot of girls now it's pretty hard to even get a hoe lol well on these stupid dating apps. Only the ugly chicks r getting at me but in person i see the fine ones jocking what the hell and to bad I have approach anxiety . I think one main factor for me is I need a damn job
Well then you need to stop put so much value on beaty. And try to start working with jobs that plays a big roll with service, i have noticed that it helps with social and also approach anxiety.
@Jason Cortez bro I feel you but right now you need to build your foundation of confidence, get yourself to the point where you do have a stable job and a good routine where you're keeping busy everyday then pick a girl… the better you make yourself feel the easier it'll be to approach a random women
Jonathan M. I am talking about when you are on a date, not cold approacing.
Lost my marriage because of neediness. These questions were asked almost on a weekly basis. Totally have changed my way of thinking and my confidence is through the roof.
"You like me, don't you?" That's much more attractive. It's more of a statement than a question.
I read that in Han Solo's voice.
language actually is a code
I've asked them all. In my experience, when I used to asked this questions, they didn't feel ok. I didn't know why back then, but now I know. Now I am more confident, but I still have to work on that aspect. Great advice.
Instead of ´can I kiss you?' I find using 'Wanna kiss?' or 'do you wanna kiss too?' to work perfectly. You don't come across needy that way and neither do you force yourself upon somebody else. Basically you're just checking if she is ready for it, you're showing your intent and you're still taking the lead. If she likes you, she'll definetly join in, if she doesn't want to (yet), it's easy to brush it off.
I’m guilty. I’ve said most of that weak sh!t b4 and eventually lost the woman. You are 1000% correct about this my good man. A man MUST ALWAYS be confident, yet rational when dealing with women. Don’t change your values just to score. You gotta be honest with yourself if you want to improve.
Nick N., creates great content and helps a lot of viewers. Makes sense for you two to be doing business ✌🏾
People follow leaders : at the end of the day, it's all about leadership; that's why self development, confidence, and knowing how to be secured in your own skin is always the pre-step of any successful relationship.
Thanks for the advice, Tripp
Keep in mind that when asking a girl out on a date that you shouldn't limit yourself to just texting. You can ask them in person (if possible), through social media, simply calling them/facetime, or a personal favorite, voice message (you can get as many attempts to get the right message you want while they hear that sexy voice and all the emotion put into the message). All this will emanate true confidence and can put you on a step above guys who aren't there yet or don't have the right confidence to do so.
and like always Thanks Tripp!
you are right, but even if you do it in Person she can curve you by saying she is busy or so.
+Nava Gaming a girl who likes you will give you a different day and actually want to go out, Eventually.
I asked a girl if she likes me, she said something like "If I didn't like you, I wouldn't be here", that's a smart response from her, but after some weeks we were strangers. Now I know what I did wrong thanks to your channel, I won't make the same mistakes again!
I asked a girl a few years ago if I can kiss her, she said "okay I guess so" ...She is now my wife.
You're married...?
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 he answered your question
@@rexybigwoo what if she isnt comfortable or doesnt give signs
Why are u lying 😂
Neediness is a turn off not only before a relationship but during as well. Saying things like, do you love me or asking permission before every decision can be a turn off. Also seeming too attached or dependent on your significant other can be emasculating. Treat her good but also like you could live without her and she will jump your bones any chance she gets! Also love the supernatural clip
be yourself..always. she must to love you as you are!
do not hide your being. do not change it.
Asked a girl if she was single back in highschool, my friends laughed at me like crazy, never asked that question again but until today I'd never know why not to ask.
I’ve definitely asked:
“Do you like me.”
“Can I kiss you.”
one thing I've observed and don't like, is that we are supposed to love women but women don't have to love us, and they can still get men to be attracted to them, date them.
What do you mean we are supposed to “love women?” Finding certain women attractive doesn’t mean you love them. Men can get women attracted and date them without the men having to “love” them.
because this is a quote I got from somewhere: “If you’re angry, bitter and secretly hate women, don’t be surprised if you keep getting rejected. Women smell hidden agendas better than men every could.”
This is fantasy about they having super smelling powers. There is always explanation for why human being didnt like you. Smellings, seven or 13rd fellings sometimes are false. There are many circumstances that one does not take into account. Don't forget people often get false attitude about others. Maybe based on her past experiences her smelling will tell you to fuck off, but really with few lucks and coinsidences, her view and smellings will change, so you get along and be best couple in town. Most boring wamen for me are mind slaves. If you think they can smell some fears in you, they will. You can even create non existant fear and show them when you talk so they run away. You can exploit this like a computer. If you like live life pretending, possing like an actor, you can exploit/manipulate others to get what you want. You can get that women by exploiting, but its that you want or go harder - path of pure truth? Or if you could exploit just that one little barrier, preventing her from seeing who you really are, open her eyes...... This was just some thoughts. Mostly what i mean, delete all fears like that. So what you hate a little someone becouse you didn't get what you wanted or they hurt you. Life without destruction wouldn't be life. So what, enjoy struggling and just say FUCK IT even if you dont get the good result.
Female love is narcissistic in nature. Women don't love men to whom they are not blood-related.
Men love women
Women love children
Children love puppies
Women love themselves... and the feelings their selves can have... when they are with men of a higher status.
Robert Johnson You're right to an extent
Except for "Can I Kiss you", I agree with all. These suggestions apply to life in general, not just when dating a girl. Always be respectable and yet don't be desperate. As a man, I would still date if someone is desperate who I find attractive but I will tell them not to behave that way. I will try to correct them. They might probably don't know about that and what it signifies.
When it comes to "Can I Kiss you", I will definitely get angry if someone touches me without first asking my permission. I guess it depends on individual personality.
Instead of ´can I kiss you?' I find using 'Wanna kiss?' or 'do you wanna kiss too?' to work perfectly. You don't come across needy that way and neither do you force yourself upon somebody else. Basically you're just checking if she is ready for it, you're showing your intent and you're still taking the lead. If she likes you, she'll definetly join in, if she doesn't want to (yet), it's easy to brush it off.
I messed up, Arghhhh. "Do you like me?" What a snowflake question. Thanx for the Video bro, some guys excially need to hear this.
"Neediness, the kryptonite to attraction"
Best line ever😂
*She wants a guy who is an adult, who can take care of himself, who can provide for himself* Absolutely true especially if a woman is into long term relationship/marriage. Showing that you are a unreliable is really a turn off.
I have personally never asked a girl any desperate or needy questions (at least with a similar theme to these) as far as I know. I however think I have acted too desperate and outcome dependent before which led to me loosing a girl.
Well, my WIFE left me 7 weeks ago and I did ask her if she's seeing someone else. She's my wife, I have to know these things.
She said no, but honestly I don't believe she'll ever admit it to me. If she said yes, I don't know what I would have done. Reflecting, I probably would have broken down. Granted, my wife is way younger than me and needs "space." I'm giving it to her, I'm letting her be free. I'm fine because honestly if it all goes to hell, I can have any girl I want, seriously.
Aviator Joe free yourself too
It's ok to still be in love with your wife. Marriage is for life. Tell her that.
I'm glad I sat through the long-winded introduction, the advice was good!
What is the meaning of switching to food clips while talking about needyness?? :D Are you needy (=hungry) for food?
Prolly got a discount for advertising, didn’t include the cafe name tho...
haha, probably, you never know!! :)
Man.. this channel is soo underated... Better than TCM..Alpha male... Manintelligence.. so helpful.. I'll asked all
The Alpha male kiss statement: "Your lips look so juicy I can't resist them." If she says "I don't kiss on the first date." that's a no. If she looks at you with those eyes without speaking, move in without another word. Works every time.
Good advice. If I see a fine attractive woman I just walk up to her, introduce myself with a smile with strong eye contact and believe it or not, she smiles right back.
I asked these stupid questions:
"do you like me?"
"can I touch/hug you?"
"can I kiss you?"
bonus:
"you're my everything"
I told her the last one in different way ffaaaaaaaaac this sounds stupid actually 😆
Thanks Tripp! I love your hooked program btw!
Trip forever on a Trip
Pro Habits Lmao
Does that mean that he is... Trippin? lol
K
I've read articles and watched videos that say "You should ask a woman 'Do you have a boyfriend ?' or 'Are you seeing anybody ?' !" . That way, you know if you should pursue her any farther . "Do you have a boyfriend ?" or "Are you seeing anybody ?" are mighty important questions . If she says yes, you have to say "Okay . I'm sorry to bother you !" and walk away . A relationship is basically a mini -- marriage . If you can steal a woman from her boyfriend, she doesn't understand what "loyalty" is . I will admit that I believe it has to be absoluntely humiliating to ask a woman "Do you have a boyfriend ?" ( or "Are you seeing anybody ?" ) and get a "Yes" answer .
I literally did this on a date today. I first went for the kiss and it = a push on the shoulder away ok so we talk for another 30 minutes, then I said the bitch made thing, Can I kiss 😚 you ? And boom she shakes her head. I see why now and I consider myself to be an attractive dude. Those words will never come out of my mouth again!!
Christopher Goodwin at least you're learning from your mistakes ;)
It depends on the woman. Such a lack of confidence or inability to read her signs can be a turn off.
Christopher Goodwin If you want a kiss, go for it, gently. If she pushes you away or turns her cheek, hey, you can't win 'em all. Maybe she likes to wait. Maybe she forgot to brush her teeth.
Don’t buy into the conditioning aspect but all for the potential of making your self as better individual!
Does she not need to "take care of herself" as well??
What's attractive is when a girl can take initiative too. A big turn off if she leaves everything for the guy to do because she's living the traditional, inferior, dainty woman. Within reason those feminine characteristics are fine, but a woman who has no seems of her own self esteem and confidence is unattractive.
Guys with any sense of self worth and respect for who a partner should be, will walk away.
Definitely my dude. I've asked all 4!! Lol. If I didn't go through all of that I wouldn't be where I'm at now. Amd for that I'm grateful. Good content my dude! Listen up guys!
Never ask "Did you miss me?"
You don't need to ask this question to have an answer to it. If she needs a prompt to tell you she missed you, then she didn't miss you in any meaningful way.
I have 100% asked all four of those questions. Probably even in the same conversation…
All 4 lmao,i'm a mess but thanks to guys and videos like these i'm improving myself like never before, thanks and best of luck from mexico
Yeah me too
Both asked if she liked me and asked for a kiss really brings you down afterwards and makes sense what he’s saying
I asked her this : "Do you like me?"
check out my interview with girls about relationship on my page too. thanks
HOW PEOPLE THINK! People wont be honest with you
Same, She opened up and was honest and said yes. I truly think it is not what you say/ask, its HOW you say/ask it.
Preferrably with a "yes" and "no" checkbox, written on a piece of paper and passed to her through other people .
She said only partly she only loves her girls and her makeup she’s sorry
I've been talking to this girl for a couple months, we work together and up to a week ago she was sending me texts I can't wait to see you, I can't stop thinking about you, etc. She's been very distant after this past weekend, I was gonna ask did you meet somebody but now I know better, I'll keep it cool, give her some space and see if she gets interested again. Thank you for not letting me make a big mistake.
Ask out many women. Get rejected a shitload. but every man needs to have 4-5 woman on the hook at all times....
Lol the thumbnail of the video made me laugh too much! 😂😂
Met a girl in math class gave her my number walking from class to our separate dorms, had a great convo and seemed like there was a connection. Sends me a text with her name next day I ask if she wants to grab something to eat, she’s apologizes says she’s busy. Wait 3 days asks, “Do you like penguins?” (Zoo date) she replies “Penguins? 😂 not particularly” I just straight up said well would you like to go to the zoo? She said sounds like fun but she has a busy weekend which she is in a sorority and we was about to go back home for holidays. I couldn’t tell if I was getting curved or not so I sent a merry Christmas and got left on read. Now I haven’t texted since because I don’t want to be the kid that can’t take a hint so what do you think?
277657 I say drop her and move on to the next
277657 shouldn’t have sent that merry Xmas text, it’s polite and whatnot but there’s no need for it. I’m guessing you haven’t talked to her since Xmas, shoot her text but don’t expect something spectacular. You need to “reset” the relationship/attraction since it looks like she was interested before but now maybe not as much. Definitely see other girls though, don’t just focus on her
Move on she's not busy she's just not interested bro,plus someone who can't even reply to a wish ain't worth it
drop her, dont hit her up at all. you asked a question, she went around it. nope.
+Nava Gaming if she texts you, then you can. she most likely wont.
This is reminder for me, thanks
I showed too much emotional side of myself and now idk what she thinks of me.
I've basically asked most of these questions to girls in the past. Some were good relationships and others not so much. I admit I'm a bit shy especially initially, but no major issues
So feminism in dating is a big no no. The guy has to follow hundreds of rules. Do girls have dating rules like this? Because they really can use them.
Paul Van Dijk it's actually backwards. If you date a feminist you definitely need to ask her for everything and put her on a pedestal. Cause that what feminist want. Don't date those type of women they'll ruin your life.
I have a super important question. How tf are we supposed to know a persons gender if they never tell us? I'm not against lgbtq but nowadays they're EVERYWHERE. Some of them more harder to identify than the rest, and alot of them reveal their true gender after like a few weeks of dating. And I ain't bisexual so fuck that.
I'm surprised that a very needy question topic wasn't brought up.
When can I see you next? When are you free? When are we going to hang out?
These questions give her all the power.
Oh no, no, no, no, no Trip.
Absolutely ask if you can kiss her, especially the first time.
You have no idea how awkward it is when a man comes into kiss you and you're not ready for it. It's intimidating, and depending on the circumstances, a little scary.
Why not build up to it instead?
Well getting rejected means she didn’t give you any signs but when she does go for it.
Said no woman ever. Cut that crap.
Bullshit. I've never asked a girl for a kiss. Normally, if we are having a good time out together and she's very comfortable with me being in her personal space or we are exchanging touches, then kissing is always ok. As long as im not moving towards her face fast. Slow movements towards her face gives her enough time to decide.
I ask my girlfriend if I could kiss her, on the cheek as a sign of fondness and respect; and she liked it! And I have Asperger's! Tripp doesn't know how to be a gentleman, period!
I asked "Are you seeing someone else?" she told me "no, why?" and then I said "Good, so I don't have any concurrence!" It was a bit cringy but a bit funny too.
Also asked if I could kiss her, and it worked so idk...
I've asked all 4 of those questions...unfortunately. :/
So have I,you live you learn haha
Gg😂
D Princely Life Now you know what you gotta do. You live and learn right?
I only asked her if she likes me, she said she likes me for who I am.
D Princely Life you can always start over with a different person.
I can attest to this as it pertains to women for sure. There is nothing worse than a needy woman. The biggest turn on for me is for a woman to tell me i dont need you but i like having you a part of my life.
Haha Shia labeouf,Trip you legend 😭
I asked a girl to tell me what she thought I was bad at. I laughed when she dodged the question. She already thinks I am emotionally immature. I seriously hate when she sugar-coats everything she says to me.
I really just wanted her to be straightforward with me. Me no understanding passive-aggressive 😅😅
Yo dawgh. Im a bit confused here...
How can it not be "ok" to ask if she is seeing someone else?!
What if an 'old fashion' \ 'normal' guy starts dating a girl that appears to have the same values but in reality she is a free spirit that doesnt believe in monogami?
The guy keeps investing his emotions only to build him self up for quite the downfall.
And had he asked and gotten a flat "yes" he could remove him self from the entire scenario.
Keep in mind for future video's that most guys that watch theese types of video's are insecure and voulnareable.
More or less telling them to go out and act hardcore james-rambo-dean can result in a lot of avoidable pain.
Sorry for my bad english and sorry if i come across as mad \ rude, but im feeling pretty provoked by this video.
Looking forward for your respons.
Ørjan-
In the USA the courtship rituals are different. You cant ask right off "are we exclusive?". You gotta eventually have that talk but not so early on. Thats why he said that. Doesnt seem needy but it totally is.
Well then this guy better just mention his dating preferences on the first on second date. You dont need to ask her, but just to mention it when she ask about your past relationships or about yourself. "Well you can say Im an old fashion guy, I like to drive fast, kiss hard and to date only one woman at the time" lol. Or something like that.
I feel like you can ask these things to the right girl for you. If you feel like you can't ask these questions and come off as cute to her, that's pretty much all you need to know
She once told me before winter break "I love you" on the last day of school and I told her back. The first week back i asked her "were you serious when you told me that?" And I fucked up.
Wow Tripp, you seem to be traveling often. Any more "trip advice?" 😂
I completely messed up in every possible way a date recently despite having watched hours of "how to" videos, which I can put down to subconscious self-sabotage or desperation after a failed marriage. Among my many mistakes, I asked "can I kiss you?" and "do you like me?" I also talked too much. I didn't lead as to where we went for coffee, where we sat or what I drank (I followed her every suggestion): I was a follower! She arrived 20 minutes late so it began with being conscious of me being shit tested and made to wait. There was a lot more but it is amazing how lack of confidence can screw up your chances. Get the confidence right and everything falls in place better I think.
I asked 2 of these. I didnt ask if I can kiss cuz I never have... 😭😭😭
I asked "Can I kiss you?" at least once and I also used "gimme a kiss" several times, which maybe sounds better, but it didn't lead to anything either
Can I text you later? I'm guilty of that. Noted 👍 Thanks Tripp
Patrick Pitso II yeah me to... but rather I'll text, "are you ok to take a call?"
Patrick Pitso II that's just funny I'm guilty of that too
Just Send the fucking Text, why want u ask a girl ?
I literally asked that today 😅
massage you later.. you gave your power away for her to text you. now you waiting on her to contact you..best you say youll text her later.
Amazing advice bro. Keep it up.
Tai Lopez? I thought u was a money man not a womanizer
Captain Thatcher He looks NOTHING like Tai Lopez
yea i have asked one of those needy questions ,she brought up a YES or NO answer game .i could ask her anything and she would reply with a yes or no.i like her and i taught it was my opportunity to know if it was mutual so i asked the needy question "do you like me?"
I’ve never said anything like the questions stated
Not in my adult life anyway XD
TRIPP you rock buddd!
grown men talking about how to get girls to kiss them sounds a bit needy to me.
Lol, no. It doesn't apply for everyone. I'm a girl, and it's absolutely okay if a guy asks me any of those questions. (I can only agree with the third, however it still wouldn't be a turn off) Men are also human beings, and if he needs some reassurance, he can ask me whatever he wants. Knowing that he feels free talking to me about what puzzles and worries him - that's what I really value. Emotional connection is number one most important thing, and that means no restrictions on what you can or cannot ask.
you are attracted to needy?
Dude, only some complete LAMES would ask or worry about any of those questions😂
I told her "babe I need you", she looked straight in my face and said "you are too much needy"
How do you like me so far, haha
For some of us , We have to show confidence when we are approaching a female or courting even if your not , like the saying goes “ fake it till you make it”
Dating is so unnatural in the West. Go to Philippines and Southeast Asia. It's so much easier to get women there :)
@@sakednake I beg to differ. There are countless men who have succeeded in those countries.
Western world is friggin retarded and full of narcisttic selfish self entitled bitches
..best chances are east europe asia and south america..stay away from westernized countries
@@lunatic4152 hmmm, i think your statement is very subjective.
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If she's seeing someone else, her and I will no longer be seeing each other so yes it would matter!
I confirm every time if she likes me after we finish our things in bed
"Do you feel uncomfortable when I talk to u " 👈👈😂😂😅
This is rediculious, every person and every women is different. Some rather you just kiss them other rather that you ask, so select the type you want. It should be obvious as how she talks and how shy or forward she is.
Steven Rodriguez uhh you sound pathetic
Steven Rodriguez poor you no one really likes to ask things it's on our DNA we only ask because we want to avoid problems. But kissing a girl shouldn't be a problem if she rejects you then deal with it don't be afraid.
Hey, Tripp!
I just want to thank you for sharing your teachings, I feel more confident just watching you
+1 subscriber for you sensei
Are you dating Gabe?
Wow! Impressive content making focus! Thank you for your helpful advice!
Who hasn’t watched Superman honestly?😂
who knows with kids these days
Tripp Advice Good point, Tripp I have been texting a girl for about 11 days now do I need to take my time and get to know her through text and then set a date? she is really beautiful and I want something serious
You can't get to know someone through texts. texts are for setting DATES PERIOD
Norman Simpers thank you man at least you answered
very helpful... thanks a lot
Would you be my girlfriend?
I have had women in the past ask me if I was dating or seeing someone else when I first went out with them. It didn't bother me too much because women I think are very fearful or suspicious of men who cheat on them with other women. Besides I thought you said that it was okay to ask a girl if she is single.
i love this game!!!!
Hey Tripp, what light did you get for your camera to film at night? I would like to know so I can one for my camera.
Tail Lopez
Balance is everything
Tripp is the man
Anytime you show neediness... she becomes not just distance, but cold as ice.