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Tripp, I've never commented on your videos, but watching them from the first one I can honestly say: you've changed a lot. You've become able to be much more of an inspiration than you've been before and I thank you for that, as well as many other viewers, I think.
Lately i’ve learned how amazing it is to go out to parties & nice new places to eat by myself. Sure at first it was kind of awkward, but there’s this really nice feeling of being able to do what you want to do. I’d bar hop, try to talk to different people, i’d find interesting places to eat, drink or get as fucked up as i wanted to with nobody holding me back. Now lately i’ve had a collection of stories to tell, from experiences of nights alone, & i’ve also been able to bring friends & dates over to the places i went to previously. Still think i have my way to go, but it feels nice not being in the house all the time
Ep ob That was my mindset when i became single after decades in a relationship. I'm older now and all my friends are coupled up so no wingman for now. For me what you describe is the route I must take. Tripps advice is on the money as well.
That's cool. I'm currently going through something similar after divorce. My friends can't always be available like when you're younger with less responsibility. It's forced me to get out and do more things alone such as dining and going for a pint etc. Awkwardness disspates after a short while and it becomes easier to fit in and make friends through the act of being less insular and more sociable. The knock on effect is more confidence, greater self reliance and a better life.
Guys don't expect to be the entertainer all the damn time on the date she should try to entertain you as well it goes both ways. If you feel like it's you who should keep the conversation constantly flowing then you are setting yourself up for failure
praise you it's not all up to us those women who do this never get married because how can I guy have a connection with a girl who expects you to spark all the emotion every single got dam day
You're right man. I was trying to get a girl who was already interested in me to stay interested so I'd be answering all her questions but she wouldn't be able to answer mine. Not that she didn't want to but she didn't know how to. My lesson: Be patient and get her to think of any response. Maybe even playfully tease her a bit until she does
This video made me realize I've been limiting myself from being happy. Every time I have a day where everything has gone so well that I'm whistling and being happy about it, I tell myself this is not what I should be feeling. I've been unhappy such a long time that being happy is weird and alien to me, something I shouldn't do. It's forbidden. This is the reason I am not spontaneous, because my brain punishes me for that.
The beginning is just like how I was. Had fun with my self and friends but just was making the girls I was interested yawn, lol. Breaking out your shell is a lot of fun!
•work on my stories •do something I like or interesting to me •learn to accept and love my life , put value and emotions in the things I speak or have opinion on , • valuing people and value their uniqueness • gather good and right knowledge on anything or subject
In the department of making a girl laugh, it's very competitive. There will always be a guy better at joke than us. She laugh doesn't mean she has sexual attraction
Girls are never bored around me. When I'm on a date with a girl I tell her: "hey look under the table I got a surprise for you" then I pee on her face. They are always entertained
My next step is going out with friends more to have stories to tell and also im going to start talking to the girl that likes me in my school and ima ask her out like real man should wish me luck
1st step is to get up off the couch & go out; unless women are battering down your door to date you, sitting around waiting is a great way to stay lonely. If that's your goal, then, *WIN!* If not, then go out, develop yourself & be interesting. And be interested, too, perhaps even in more than just boning them (to be crude). Although to be fair, (most) women are interested (occasionally/often/sometimes) in jumping some guy's bones; your job is to make them realize that you're the one they want.
you are right about getting out and do stuff. I finished my masters from uni last summer, but now I am unemployed. And let me tell it can be so draining to you willing to do stuff that you normally do. It can get pretty lonely at times. But since I now have a good education there are good opportunities to follow and make an effort for. And i cares over to ones love/dating life too where you can become more frustarted with small stuff. i found tripp´s advice for being better at telling about what interests you and what you like to be a good advice. I mean i can sometimes struggle to know what to talk about, but being good to talk about what you like is a huge sorce of topics that youself ( at least ) always will find interesting.
If you are not attractive and don't look like a male supermodel women see you as a dirty cockroach. There is nothing else to know. Women don't want to hear your bullshit otherwise.
I'm going to fart in class but not just in the back, NO, has to be in the very front so everyone will know my name. Then I won't be boring at all. I'll be flatulantaneous.
Thank you Tripp! I have learned so much from your VIDEOS keep making them, I have been shy most of my life and now just learning how to get back into dating things have so much. I watch what I say because it offends so many people now a day's. It is really great that you can help through theses videos thank you again. January 15, 2019 may this be the best year!
1. Focus on My Life 2. Do what I want 3. Do what my favourite Characters do (I have been so arrogant threating my fav characters and living a life which is the most worst scenario.) 4. Trying to learn new skills
I think I refuse to tell women about myself because a great deal of it isn’t very happy.. I have had a lot of sad experiences which make me sad talking about them, I’ve made a lot of mistakes and I don’t want to talk about them either. They make me miserable talking about them, so they are bound to have the same effect on any woman I may trying to attract. To be honest I’m in the process of working on myself at the moment Tripp, I’ve totally removed myself from the dating scene and found that I have made myself a lot happier by doing that, I have been trying new hobbies walking, mindfulness, meditation and finding that I am a lot happier doing these things than breaking my heart trying to chat up women. Your videos are great, but I think the happiest way forward for me is as a single man 🤗
Be more spontaneous, get out of my comfort zone and speak my mind. Always been a shy person but always worked on my communicational skills but always lack on what to say in a conversation or how to start a conversation or keep a conversation going. I’m gonna work on just being myself and not being shy and speak up
Being spontaneous is the gold, and it’s not easy. If we managed to be spontaneous, it would mean that we finally become naturally attracting man. I think everything else is for being able to be spontaneous whenever we want.
I think my main issue is a lot of my favorite hobbies are very indoors-based, and lately a lot of people I've talked with take different opinions as acts of hostility, big or small. Not sure how else to describe it.
Who cares right? If I cannot think of anything to say, then it's her turn to talk. The ONLY and BEST way to be around a woman, is just be yourself. It also helps to tell a woman what you expect, and what she can expect from you. So if you don't want a woman that goes clubbing etc, be sure to tell her that shit early on. So she isn't surprised if you dump her when she says she wishes to spend time out drinking with her girly friends. That's what single people do.
What I do is talked about is sneakers when I talk to girls, ik ik it kinda sound weird but its a conversation started for example I tell a girl I'm about to buy the new Jordan's 8s that about to drop then she would ask "What colorway you getting?" Are "When they drop" also you can talked about current social events like the Logan Paul scandal or life stories that can be a interesting conversation like how you loss ur shorts in the pool
Next step for me is to start fitness again, join the street workout group I wanted to join in for a while and take back uploading videos on my youtube channel.
What am I doing? My buddy and I are doing a thing we are calling "Quest for Virtue". This includes going to the gym, playing social games, seeing concerts or symponies, learning to play insterments but most of all growing spiritualy.
Speak my mind! Keep the daily vlogs coming! Love the cool drone shots as well. Don’t let other give you crap for this. Those are the people that fear change. Survival of the fittest!
Excellent advice, Tripp. Let me add one more - HUMOR! Be playful - but don't overdo it and appear desperate to be funny or amusing, because that can be very boring too!
Tomorrow I'm gonna hangout with a friend (girl) and watch a movie together and i feel like it's kinda like a date but i know her and i know she doesn't see it that way (probably). But i do love her so it makes me happy that we'll be able to meet up
I'm watching Craigh Ferguson alot and practicing on my colleagues and friends. They already say about me that I'm funny which is overrated but I can say that Craigh is a master of the Game. Very succesfull with women
What I tend to do is flip a coin based on 2 relevant decisions, it keeps me busy so that everyday I'm doing soemthing different but spontaneous and constructive
Step 6. Say yes to everything! I hated going out but when i did I always had a good time. Now when it's time to take a girl out, I have ideas. Before I didnt know where all the fun spots were or good places to eat. Now I know because I started to say yes when I was invited out.
TIPS FOR INTROVERT GUYS? Please? Im a shy, introvert. Any attractive trait an introvert has that a girl likes? Any hope for introvert guys that is shy!
Jonathan Tan I'm also shy but we don't need to behave as shy person or need to think I'm shy The more you think about shyness more it will get inside your head Think you are awesome, you are not shy one thing I will say to every shy person, don't approach woman because we are not made for this Let them approach us, how? Just focus on your work/class/job rather than chasing women Trust me this is awesome Learn everything, but don't apply Create a mysterious aura around you, woman cannot ignore this And confidence is a key, this will come when they approach you **then use the Tripp Advice ++Be creative while talking, don't answer anything in an order (you are introvert, you are borny creative)
Jonathan Tan I’m an introvert too and also shy but I try to put myself out there and forget about me being shy and speak up start getting involved it sure will work
Ask an open ended question and then shut up. It allows you to be somewhat quiet and more importantly gets the person talking.....ultimately 99.percent of people mostly care about themselves SO find something their passionate about and then just ask questions....you love riding horses? Whats your favortite thing about that experience? How does it make you feel? Tell me about your favorite horse and why you love him?
Here's my opinion. Don't care what people think of you. If you need to change to meet the definition of what some random finds interesting then you're losing already and don't go for people who don't meet your definition of fun.
I don't express feelings probably because even that happened in my childhood that made me like this. I don't express anything really. I keep it all inside. I have ideas. I have lots of things in my mind. But I don't tell them to anyone and even if there was a conversation that I could take part in and win every argument made against me, etc, I wouldn't do it, because I don't want to put myself out there.
BTW, great advise for shy or 'so called boring guys'. Here is my 2 cents advise to 'so called boring shy guys' from a female perspective and hopefully it may help in some way. Maybe you can think about getting a puppy or a 'rescue dog' that you really want to develop a 'mans best mate' friendship with and in turn this mate of yours will help break down walls if your shy or 'so called boring guy' with the ladies. A simple stroll to the beach or park will naturally attract MANY GIRLS & WOMEN to you like a magnet this should help you develop 'friendly' skills or 'not being boring' interactions with many different types of women. And the upside to this is your dog will love all the female love and attention too. Win win you will develop a great bond with your dog that will change your life for the better and hopefully will lead to meeting your sweetheart. Your bond with your dog could be the best 'ice breaker' on your first date and I'm sure your personality will not be 'so called boring'. Don't forget to buy some 'love heart shaped doggie treats' to give to the female admirers to feed your dog.
What do You think about instead of trying to speak up be interested in somebody. For example my passion is sound enginering and i Could talk about that for days. I always trying to be interested in someones life. For example if i'm talking to a girl and she loves to ride horses than we talking about horses not about microphone :). And i'm really bored when someone is speaking up his opinion a lot because i can see he/she needs attention. I'm also not saying that you should agree on everything etc. but beeing a good listener is better then beeing good speaker in conversation 1-on-1
I find it hard to not be boring as a single dad of two, when i do have time im exhausted from either working or taking care of my kids. I think in my case i got to find a mom just as excited as i am.
What's the problem with boring. That can mean financially secure. Besides I would never 'White Knight' a Single mom who wanted to branch off to me because her baby daddy happen to be boring. It' a BS excuse to kill a relationship
Remy Franken The problem with boring is you don’t want to spend time with people like that. Man or woman, I don’t want to talk to someone who doesn’t intrigue me.
Hey, for $20 I bought some Preying Mantis egg sacs, put them in jars (with punctured holes in the lid) and am waiting for them to hatch. So I'm trying to design a terrarium for them, and frequent a local watering hole/pizza parlor. Just scratching some designs on paper while eating/drinking has engaged two separate couples (1 guy/girl, 2 girls) on two separate nights a week apart. Although this probably sounds boring, as soon as my neighbors asked, it led to engaging conversations and I got to meet some interesting people.
I'm being too shy around girls, I'm a cool guy but just being to shy. I make my own music (the music played in this video is a idea of MY music), I know about tech, SOME news and I'm funny (even around my mom)... I like to come up with ideas, I'm very good with tools, I like to go bike riding - I'm very interesting to be around. I need to stop sitting around also stop saying "I'm very lonely!" and get out!
Yeah just get out more and hang out with your friends, let girls notice you doing something, put yourself out there, that's when they start talking about you, when that happens just go up to them and show em who you are, talk to them normally. But the big key is to get noticed and that's by just doing shit with yourself dude. Start wearing nice clothes, make yourself look good, smell good and you'll feel good. If that doesn't work, just start pumping iron dude and get fit.
Brent Torres I guess ur right I can't seem to figure myself out... Just wished someone would help me out but no one seems to understand the way I look at things.. I think i gotta love myself first which I ain't doing. I'm much into seeing others happy and making others happy not giving much importance to myself... Thanks bro for replying appreciate it...moreover me feeling down feels like depression it almost feels like I'm sometimes in a dark place and just being buried down but then I'm back happy just for a while... Off lately its this gurl who doesn't show any signs of even liking me... I gotta figure myself out first as u said. Haven't even got close friends for that matter coz I ain't an interesting person trying to be but always feels stuck for some reason.
Brent Torres Hahahaha alright mate no thanks which part of the world are u from...I think ur better than Tripp at giving advice 😁 jus that he gives tips on ladies & u gave me on jus how to live a happy life. And ya I shall follow ur advice.
I'll try to mix with the group and will speak up my thoughts and opinions to not to be boring. This is the place where i often lose and end up being quiet the whole time in the group which is quite frustrating and embarassing for me infront of my girl and her friends.
I'll try to speak up what's in my mind. I usually just sit quietly listening to other people's conversations and arguments, although I have thoughts, but I just fail to deliver it to the audience.
The next step I want to take is taking a girl out on a date and having a Lunch or dinner with her. But my problem is how do you get the girl out on a date in this situation where you just exchanged numbers with? Because I thought that "text is a tool to setup a date" and I made a mistake by quickly asking her out on a date and she replied to me with "I think it's too rush. we should talk in text more before we hang out", How should I continue with this and not be boring through text and make her comfortable to hang out with you if she wants to get to know you through texting first before the first date?
Don't text. You won't have anything to talk about when you meet two weeks later. What I mean by saying that. If you like a girl, have a cold shower in the morning, look in the mirror, tell yourself that you are awesome, go to that girl you like and ask her out, if you already have her on fb friends great if not ask her number as well. If she says no, well it's her loss, if she says yes, you just saved weeks or months of texting time. Also, do not be afraid to ask her out in front of her friends, confident people don't care what other people think of them and confidence attracts women. If this confidence thing makes you feel like someone else, when watch few videos or read articles about what it is to be a man. Seriously, if you put your mind to it, it will change you into a better (manlier) person.
I don't think I have issues with being interesting until I get nervous. At which point, I can't remember shit. In a group setting, I enjoy being silent - might be because I'm an introvert. Either way, my next step is to rest less, listen more, and engage in whatever way I can.
It's always hard to be funny to a girl (or anyone) I don't know since I don't have material. I'm sarcastic and tease people. How to not be such a serious person is what I need to know. Going out is tough is since I don't have anyone to go with. I don't drink alcohol or even soda, so should I go to a bar and drink water?
lovely . superb brother. your speech first just sparkled me something I already did and know. I use to speak up whether or not they agree with me. Which starts a conversation. The best part was I was confident in my subject because I knew almost all my suggestions were positive. Few things when I started taking negatively they reflected the same. Thanks for reminding me. But One thing I want to tell everyone. DO NOT OVER THINK, or even think so to say. relax more, take your time and ponder and you'll find whole bunch of things running in our mind. But take only those which are useful to you and to others. and those useful positive things...speak up to whoever whether it is a woman or man. repression is the enemy. eliminate him. you'll be first changed, and then it is going to be much easier to be interesting around girls. Thanks for reading.
All those things you think make you attractive are usually those that make you so deadly boring: your big job, your big intelligence, your big values, your big knowledge, etc. Just flow light
Lol....but how do you do that to a girl that doesn't really say much or talks much to begin with....i myself isn't much a boring guy...ive have opinions ...i speak up I engage in conversations, I'm spontaneous ...and I have a life time of experience knowledge of all kinds of things... Yet the girl I like is young beautiful smart hard working goal oriented...yet still green on worldly things as far as experience goes... I'm just at a lost at that...lol
How to be less boring? Get a woman to talk about herself and her interesting experience or most extreme experiences. The best conversationalists are those who get a person to talk about what is important to them. I am not terrible outgoing but can talk with anyone because whatever their interests or experiences I almost assuredly have knowledge of their topic because I am older and have done a great many things such as traveled to 91 countries, created successful businesses in a wide range of fields, have interesting friends who are well enough known they my new acquaintance knows about them, mostly in the arts, music, tech, political philosophy etc. Since I moved out of the US years ago, the fact I am even in the woman's city/country is the first question they have. I seldom walk up to girls to start a conversation, never ask a girl to dance, although I am often the first person on the dance floor when things have not gotten going yet. If I go to a bar, lounge or club where i have been before, when I enter I make sure I greet everyone I met before, and get into an animated conversation with any of the waitstaff and particular the bartenders, and greet especially any girls I had talked with or even just saw before. In other words, making an entrance. Girls who see a guy being greeted by other girls who appear to be enthusiastic about seeing me again have a positive impression of someone who appears to be pre-vetted by the staff and female guests usually break any possible wariness about me as a stranger. Getting a girl to talk about themselves is a lot easier once they see I am not after them, but happy to meet them. Don't explain in too much detail, make a statement about some topic they appear to be interested in and make modest comments that signal I know a lot more than what I revealed about the topic. One interesting point, when greeted when arriving, show enthusiasm but break off the greeting before they do. Every girl in a place notices a guy who is well received and whose attention is sought . Most of the time girls go in groups of 2-5 when they go out. If you are interested in one of the girls, be sure to greet and all of her GFs before focusing your attention on the one, especially if the others are not as attractive as the girl you are interested in. Ask all of them to dance as a group. Getting the approval of her GFs is an important accomplishment when seeking the attention of a girl Going to opera or ballet performances allows dressing well and the intermission between acts is a short time when refreshments are available and it is only of the best placed to meet quality girls, If you have never gone, go, you will be surprised how much more accessible the girls are, they want to talk about the last scene, you had something important as a shared experience. The break is short so even a brief conversation can lead to exchanging contact in or ask to go to a wine bar or for late dinner right after the performance. If you do not understand it, ask questions and let them explain it. Ballet is the most sensuous art from and it turns girls on. I live in a city with more top-flight ballet than anywhere else in the world so it is natural for meeting or taking someone on a date. I know it is not so much an American thing so going the first time might seem uncomfortable at first but It is easy to fall for it and the atmosphere gives you an advantage over all your male friends who do not go. Art exhibitions are great for meeting girls, more visit them than men, the art is a natural common experience to discuss. If you are really shy join a Tango class. A beginner will find you are outnumbered by 5 to 1, and it is the most romantic sensuous activity with your clothes on.
These tips are okay, once you're into a relationship. If you're heading out to a bar you don't want to be telling yourself these things, you'll come across that it's all about you. Your focus should be on the female, listen to what she's saying, ask interested questions, pay her a compliment. Don't try to teach her something or go into a long spiel on your opinions.
Ive got question? If a girl question s. That the way ur make the best version of is not at the level or speed in her mind & her own belief systems? Its like she's placing herself over the guy but yet she wants the guy to take the lead. What u do in this case I've been finding this is more & more thought process from most women I meet
Thanks for the help, i have this girl i liked for 3 years but when we were together as friends I kept my distance from her so we couldn’t really get close to each other and start a relationship i regret it keeping my distance from that, and earlier she told me why weren’t we close before and i just went with some random reason and after that we chatted together for hours 1-4 am and now i woke up earlier and said good morning after we chatted in the middle of the conversation she stopped seeing my messages and delayed seeing my messages so i thought that she was busy with something so i ended our conversation so she can focus at her task, did i do something wrong
hello good sir.. first time watching your vids.. first ty for the tips..second i find myself alot of time trying to start a conversation with a girl that i like but i allways find myself stuck ..a im very shy when it comes to talking to a girl I LIKE ( i can be realy open and talk realy ez with girls or guys that just friends) b. it seem like i allways get stuck with the awkward silence and i have no idea on how to keep the conversation going.. any good tips that can help me with that?
1. What if she already said she hates a certain opinion and that hate for it is the drive that keeps her traveling the world and avoiding home for a whole yea, you really shouldnt voice your opinion then right?
Ask her friend's abt her interests... and this works im tellin u guys with experience The next one would be to do more activities with her... and spend more time together
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Themselves. #1 topic
Tripp, I've never commented on your videos, but watching them from the first one I can honestly say: you've changed a lot. You've become able to be much more of an inspiration than you've been before and I thank you for that, as well as many other viewers, I think.
Lately i’ve learned how amazing it is to go out to parties & nice new places to eat by myself.
Sure at first it was kind of awkward, but there’s this really nice feeling of being able to do what you want to do.
I’d bar hop, try to talk to different people, i’d find interesting places to eat, drink or get as fucked up as i wanted to with nobody holding me back.
Now lately i’ve had a collection of stories to tell, from experiences of nights alone, & i’ve also been able to bring friends & dates over to the places i went to previously.
Still think i have my way to go, but it feels nice not being in the house all the time
Ep ob
That was my mindset when i became single after decades in a relationship. I'm older now and all my friends are coupled up so no wingman for now. For me what you describe is the route I must take. Tripps advice is on the money as well.
Ep Ob yeah I've been doing that since I turned 18. I learned to know so many people n types. life's a journey, go for it.
That's cool.
I'm currently going through something similar after divorce.
My friends can't always be available like when you're younger with less responsibility. It's forced me to get out and do more things alone such as dining and going for a pint etc. Awkwardness disspates after a short while and it becomes easier to fit in and make friends through the act of being less insular and more sociable. The knock on effect is more confidence, greater self reliance and a better life.
@@jimanderson8470story grandpa but it's too late 😂
@@veritasvincit2745exactly 💯. I'd love to get your contact so we can discuss this more or motivate eachother. I'm on my starting phase
Guys don't expect to be the entertainer all the damn time on the date she should try to entertain you as well it goes both ways. If you feel like it's you who should keep the conversation constantly flowing then you are setting yourself up for failure
praise you it's not all up to us those women who do this never get married because how can I guy have a connection with a girl who expects you to spark all the emotion every single got dam day
Truth
Right quit compromising to entertain a woman seriously. Stop trying to earn her.
You're right man. I was trying to get a girl who was already interested in me to stay interested so I'd be answering all her questions but she wouldn't be able to answer mine. Not that she didn't want to but she didn't know how to. My lesson: Be patient and get her to think of any response. Maybe even playfully tease her a bit until she does
@@tommmmo1981 wow , note the point .👌
how to become more social:
1. get off youtube
2. stay off
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This video made me realize I've been limiting myself from being happy. Every time I have a day where everything has gone so well that I'm whistling and being happy about it, I tell myself this is not what I should be feeling. I've been unhappy such a long time that being happy is weird and alien to me, something I shouldn't do. It's forbidden. This is the reason I am not spontaneous, because my brain punishes me for that.
I literally feel that.
"Be water my friend" - bruce lee
Lol
Empty your mind
Be formless,
Shapeless
Like Water
Water can flow
Or it can crash Be water my friend
Loll
Instructions unclear: I made her wet
what kind of water?
The beginning is just like how I was. Had fun with my self and friends but just was making the girls I was interested yawn, lol.
Breaking out your shell is a lot of fun!
•work on my stories
•do something I like or interesting to me
•learn to accept and love my life , put value and emotions in the things I speak or have opinion on ,
• valuing people and value their uniqueness
• gather good and right knowledge on anything or subject
awesome!
Ohannes Matchoulian I like your answers realshit cool good luck
If you can make a woman laugh that's always a winner
My Opinion is that girl addicted to the man who make her cry.
@@cyclone27ocl agree
In the department of making a girl laugh, it's very competitive. There will always be a guy better at joke than us. She laugh doesn't mean she has sexual attraction
@@Grisel.lashes True but it shows interest
@@cyclone27ocl make them laugh first, u can make them cry latter.
Going to do more interesting things and push myself out of my comfort zone
Girls are never bored around me. When I'm on a date with a girl I tell her: "hey look under the table I got a surprise for you" then I pee on her face. They are always entertained
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im usually shy but when i see a girl i just change into something else. i feel like i can't let myself down, so i go full performance mode.
A guy who knows how to have fun and actually have a sense of humor is always a catch for me.
My next step is going out with friends more to have stories to tell and also im going to start talking to the girl that likes me in my school and ima ask her out like real man should wish me luck
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Goodluck dude, that's awesome
Now that's the attitude, Good luck!
Good luck
How’s that going for you now lol
1st step is to get up off the couch & go out; unless women are battering down your door to date you, sitting around waiting is a great way to stay lonely. If that's your goal, then, *WIN!* If not, then go out, develop yourself & be interesting. And be interested, too, perhaps even in more than just boning them (to be crude). Although to be fair, (most) women are interested (occasionally/often/sometimes) in jumping some guy's bones; your job is to make them realize that you're the one they want.
you are right about getting out and do stuff. I finished my masters from uni last summer, but now I am unemployed. And let me tell it can be so draining to you willing to do stuff that you normally do. It can get pretty lonely at times. But since I now have a good education there are good opportunities to follow and make an effort for. And i cares over to ones love/dating life too where you can become more frustarted with small stuff.
i found tripp´s advice for being better at telling about what interests you and what you like to be a good advice. I mean i can sometimes struggle to know what to talk about, but being good to talk about what you like is a huge sorce of topics that youself ( at least ) always will find interesting.
A Masters; kewl! (Lotta typos for a masters degree, #justsaying.)
I 200% agree! I need to get out the house, I like to go to the Music Store but don't go often cause I'm being too lazy to go out in be social.
If you are not attractive and don't look like a male supermodel women see you as a dirty cockroach. There is nothing else to know. Women don't want to hear your bullshit otherwise.
I'm going to fart in class but not just in the back, NO, has to be in the very front so everyone will know my name. Then I won't be boring at all. I'll be flatulantaneous.
beautiful!!
"Cough" "cough" You legendary bastard. "Sound of a unconsius mans body dropping to the flor"
Thank you Tripp! I have learned so much from your VIDEOS keep making them, I have been shy most of my life and now just learning how to get back into dating things have so much. I watch what I say because it offends so many people now a day's. It is really great that you can help through theses videos thank you again. January 15, 2019 may this be the best year!
1. Focus on My Life
2. Do what I want
3. Do what my favourite Characters do
(I have been so arrogant threating my fav characters and living a life which is the most worst scenario.)
4. Trying to learn new skills
Well I just scored a date for Wednesday and these videos kind of helped me
I think I refuse to tell women about myself because a great deal of it isn’t very happy.. I have had a lot of sad experiences which make me sad talking about them, I’ve made a lot of mistakes and I don’t want to talk about them either. They make me miserable talking about them, so they are bound to have the same effect on any woman I may trying to attract. To be honest I’m in the process of working on myself at the moment Tripp, I’ve totally removed myself from the dating scene and found that I have made myself a lot happier by doing that, I have been trying new hobbies walking, mindfulness, meditation and finding that I am a lot happier doing these things than breaking my heart trying to chat up women. Your videos are great, but I think the happiest way forward for me is as a single man 🤗
Be more spontaneous, get out of my comfort zone and speak my mind. Always been a shy person but always worked on my communicational skills but always lack on what to say in a conversation or how to start a conversation or keep a conversation going. I’m gonna work on just being myself and not being shy and speak up
Any updates?
Being spontaneous is the gold, and it’s not easy. If we managed to be spontaneous, it would mean that we finally become naturally attracting man. I think everything else is for being able to be spontaneous whenever we want.
Come spring I’m gonna start getting out into different parks for some beautiful scenery.
I think my main issue is a lot of my favorite hobbies are very indoors-based, and lately a lot of people I've talked with take different opinions as acts of hostility, big or small. Not sure how else to describe it.
Who cares right? If I cannot think of anything to say, then it's her turn to talk. The ONLY and BEST way to be around a woman, is just be yourself. It also helps to tell a woman what you expect, and what she can expect from you. So if you don't want a woman that goes clubbing etc, be sure to tell her that shit early on. So she isn't surprised if you dump her when she says she wishes to spend time out drinking with her girly friends. That's what single people do.
What I do is talked about is sneakers when I talk to girls, ik ik it kinda sound weird but its a conversation started for example I tell a girl I'm about to buy the new Jordan's 8s that about to drop then she would ask "What colorway you getting?" Are "When they drop" also you can talked about current social events like the Logan Paul scandal or life stories that can be a interesting conversation like how you loss ur shorts in the pool
Next step for me is to start fitness again, join the street workout group I wanted to join in for a while and take back uploading videos on my youtube channel.
Be calm, have conviction in responses/interactions.
Know you're not perfect and that you are an equal individual.
What am I doing? My buddy and I are doing a thing we are calling "Quest for Virtue". This includes going to the gym, playing social games, seeing concerts or symponies, learning to play insterments but most of all growing spiritualy.
Speak my mind! Keep the daily vlogs coming! Love the cool drone shots as well. Don’t let other give you crap for this. Those are the people that fear change. Survival of the fittest!
thank you!
I will start in becoming more interesting by implementing the "go out and try/experience new things" model
Excellent advice, Tripp. Let me add one more - HUMOR! Be playful - but don't overdo it and appear desperate to be funny or amusing, because that can be very boring too!
I like that...
+Tripp Advice :)
Tomorrow I'm gonna hangout with a friend (girl) and watch a movie together and i feel like it's kinda like a date but i know her and i know she doesn't see it that way (probably). But i do love her so it makes me happy that we'll be able to meet up
How did it turn out?
I'm watching Craigh Ferguson alot and practicing on my colleagues and friends. They already say about me that I'm funny which is overrated but I can say that Craigh is a master of the Game. Very succesfull with women
What I tend to do is flip a coin based on 2 relevant decisions, it keeps me busy so that everyday I'm doing soemthing different but spontaneous and constructive
Step 6. Say yes to everything! I hated going out but when i did I always had a good time. Now when it's time to take a girl out, I have ideas. Before I didnt know where all the fun spots were or good places to eat. Now I know because I started to say yes when I was invited out.
TIPS FOR INTROVERT GUYS? Please? Im a shy, introvert. Any attractive trait an introvert has that a girl likes? Any hope for introvert guys that is shy!
Jonathan Tan
I'm also shy but we don't need to behave as shy person or need to think I'm shy
The more you think about shyness more it will get inside your head
Think you are awesome, you are not shy
one thing I will say to every shy person, don't approach woman because we are not made for this
Let them approach us, how?
Just focus on your work/class/job rather than chasing women
Trust me this is awesome
Learn everything, but don't apply
Create a mysterious aura around you, woman cannot ignore this
And confidence is a key, this will come when they approach you **then use the Tripp Advice
++Be creative while talking, don't answer anything in an order (you are introvert, you are borny creative)
Jonathan Tan I’m an introvert too and also shy but I try to put myself out there and forget about me being shy and speak up start getting involved it sure will work
Grow some beard, man up, get off that neediness and just talk like you would to a any other person.
Ask an open ended question and then shut up. It allows you to be somewhat quiet and more importantly gets the person talking.....ultimately 99.percent of people mostly care about themselves SO find something their passionate about and then just ask questions....you love riding horses? Whats your favortite thing about that experience? How does it make you feel? Tell me about your favorite horse and why you love him?
Here's my opinion. Don't care what people think of you. If you need to change to meet the definition of what some random finds interesting then you're losing already and don't go for people who don't meet your definition of fun.
Be better for YOU. Girls would hop along latter on your journey.
I don't express feelings probably because even that happened in my childhood that made me like this. I don't express anything really. I keep it all inside. I have ideas. I have lots of things in my mind. But I don't tell them to anyone and even if there was a conversation that I could take part in and win every argument made against me, etc, I wouldn't do it, because I don't want to put myself out there.
BTW, great advise for shy or 'so called boring guys'. Here is my 2 cents advise to 'so called boring shy guys' from a female perspective and hopefully it may help in some way. Maybe you can think about getting a puppy or a 'rescue dog' that you really want to develop a 'mans best mate' friendship with and in turn this mate of yours will help break down walls if your shy or 'so called boring guy' with the ladies. A simple stroll to the beach or park will naturally attract MANY GIRLS & WOMEN to you like a magnet this should help you develop 'friendly' skills or 'not being boring' interactions with many different types of women. And the upside to this is your dog will love all the female love and attention too. Win win you will develop a great bond with your dog that will change your life for the better and hopefully will lead to meeting your sweetheart. Your bond with your dog could be the best 'ice breaker' on your first date and I'm sure your personality will not be 'so called boring'. Don't forget to buy some 'love heart shaped doggie treats' to give to the female admirers to feed your dog.
What do You think about instead of trying to speak up be interested in somebody. For example my passion is sound enginering and i Could talk about that for days. I always trying to be interested in someones life. For example if i'm talking to a girl and she loves to ride horses than we talking about horses not about microphone :). And i'm really bored when someone is speaking up his opinion a lot because i can see he/she needs attention. I'm also not saying that you should agree on everything etc. but beeing a good listener is better then beeing good speaker in conversation 1-on-1
This is actually starting to work, thank uuu!!!!
I find it hard to not be boring as a single dad of two, when i do have time im exhausted from either working or taking care of my kids.
I think in my case i got to find a mom just as excited as i am.
What's the problem with boring. That can mean financially secure. Besides I would never 'White Knight' a Single mom who wanted to branch off to me because her baby daddy happen to be boring. It' a BS excuse to kill a relationship
Remy Franken The problem with boring is you don’t want to spend time with people like that. Man or woman, I don’t want to talk to someone who doesn’t intrigue me.
Hey, for $20 I bought some Preying Mantis egg sacs, put them in jars (with punctured holes in the lid) and am waiting for them to hatch. So I'm trying to design a terrarium for them, and frequent a local watering hole/pizza parlor. Just scratching some designs on paper while eating/drinking has engaged two separate couples (1 guy/girl, 2 girls) on two separate nights a week apart. Although this probably sounds boring, as soon as my neighbors asked, it led to engaging conversations and I got to meet some interesting people.
I'm being too shy around girls,
I'm a cool guy but just being to shy. I make my own music (the music played in this video is a idea of MY music), I know about tech, SOME news and I'm funny (even around my mom)... I like to come up with ideas, I'm very good with tools, I like to go bike riding - I'm very interesting to be around.
I need to stop sitting around also stop saying "I'm very lonely!" and get out!
jesse magana Yes.
Yeah just get out more and hang out with your friends, let girls notice you doing something, put yourself out there, that's when they start talking about you, when that happens just go up to them and show em who you are, talk to them normally. But the big key is to get noticed and that's by just doing shit with yourself dude. Start wearing nice clothes, make yourself look good, smell good and you'll feel good. If that doesn't work, just start pumping iron dude and get fit.
Khyree Holmes you're very insecure, be yourself and don't give a fuck what anybody thinks.
Always spot on with the right advice I've been following you but I still think I'm a mess and off lately I'm going into depression on and off
Brent Torres yes ur right how did you figure that out 😋
Brent Torres I guess ur right I can't seem to figure myself out... Just wished someone would help me out but no one seems to understand the way I look at things.. I think i gotta love myself first which I ain't doing. I'm much into seeing others happy and making others happy not giving much importance to myself... Thanks bro for replying appreciate it...moreover me feeling down feels like depression it almost feels like I'm sometimes in a dark place and just being buried down but then I'm back happy just for a while... Off lately its this gurl who doesn't show any signs of even liking me... I gotta figure myself out first as u said. Haven't even got close friends for that matter coz I ain't an interesting person trying to be but always feels stuck for some reason.
Brent Torres Hahahaha alright mate no thanks which part of the world are u from...I think ur better than Tripp at giving advice 😁 jus that he gives tips on ladies & u gave me on jus how to live a happy life. And ya I shall follow ur advice.
look for christ, he rocks
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I like that you do not use pickup artist techniques.
Jackie Boyer Ya pickup lines are lame
Push yourself out of a comfort zone and follow Tripp's advice!
That is correct :)
I'll try to mix with the group and will speak up my thoughts and opinions to not to be boring. This is the place where i often lose and end up being quiet the whole time in the group which is quite frustrating and embarassing for me infront of my girl and her friends.
These girls are lucky to be in my presence. You fire them they don't fire you.
I'll try to speak up what's in my mind. I usually just sit quietly listening to other people's conversations and arguments, although I have thoughts, but I just fail to deliver it to the audience.
Dude please tell me, what camera are you using?
The next step I want to take is taking a girl out on a date and having a Lunch or dinner with her. But my problem is how do you get the girl out on a date in this situation where you just exchanged numbers with? Because I thought that "text is a tool to setup a date" and I made a mistake by quickly asking her out on a date and she replied to me with "I think it's too rush. we should talk in text more before we hang out", How should I continue with this and not be boring through text and make her comfortable to hang out with you if she wants to get to know you through texting first before the first date?
Well, if I was in your situation Id be texting her and sharing a lot of things and then asking her out.
Don't text. You won't have anything to talk about when you meet two weeks later. What I mean by saying that. If you like a girl, have a cold shower in the morning, look in the mirror, tell yourself that you are awesome, go to that girl you like and ask her out, if you already have her on fb friends great if not ask her number as well. If she says no, well it's her loss, if she says yes, you just saved weeks or months of texting time. Also, do not be afraid to ask her out in front of her friends, confident people don't care what other people think of them and confidence attracts women. If this confidence thing makes you feel like someone else, when watch few videos or read articles about what it is to be a man. Seriously, if you put your mind to it, it will change you into a better (manlier) person.
I know how to keep a woman from getting bored. 3:26, drive on the wrong side of the road. That will get her attention.
To people information dealing with boredom is key for financial success. Many people and women can't handle it is being patient .
I don't think I have issues with being interesting until I get nervous. At which point, I can't remember shit. In a group setting, I enjoy being silent - might be because I'm an introvert. Either way, my next step is to rest less, listen more, and engage in whatever way I can.
It's always hard to be funny to a girl (or anyone) I don't know since I don't have material. I'm sarcastic and tease people.
How to not be such a serious person is what I need to know.
Going out is tough is since I don't have anyone to go with. I don't drink alcohol or even soda, so should I go to a bar and drink water?
I'm going to start speaking up for myself and saying what i have to say weather people like it or not...I'm going to speak my mind.
lovely . superb brother. your speech first just sparkled me something I already did and know. I use to speak up whether or not they agree with me. Which starts a conversation. The best part was I was confident in my subject because I knew almost all my suggestions were positive. Few things when I started taking negatively they reflected the same. Thanks for reminding me.
But
One thing I want to tell everyone. DO NOT OVER THINK, or even think so to say. relax more, take your time and ponder and you'll find whole bunch of things running in our mind. But take only those which are useful to you and to others. and those useful positive things...speak up to whoever whether it is a woman or man. repression is the enemy. eliminate him. you'll be first changed, and then it is going to be much easier to be interesting around girls. Thanks for reading.
Now why I didn't think of this.
All those things you think make you attractive are usually those that make you so deadly boring: your big job, your big intelligence, your big values, your big knowledge, etc. Just flow light
Learning new language
Lol....but how do you do that to a girl that doesn't really say much or talks much to begin with....i myself isn't much a boring guy...ive have opinions ...i speak up I engage in conversations, I'm spontaneous ...and I have a life time of experience knowledge of all kinds of things...
Yet the girl I like is young beautiful smart hard working goal oriented...yet still green on worldly things as far as experience goes...
I'm just at a lost at that...lol
“Start getting out of the house” really hard in 2020
Once again a different topic and a wonderful video!!!!!
Already do all of this. Just needed motivation
Motorcycle, gym, gunrange, travel - repeat.
If she isn't interested - I don't care, I do what I love.
Very great video as always Tripp
Hey Tripp! You kinda look like David Blaine the Magician man..Lol
what do i say i she says lets go to your room but ur parents are home and u dont have condoms?
How to be less boring? Get a woman to talk about herself and her interesting experience or most extreme experiences. The best conversationalists are those who get a person to talk about what is important to them.
I am not terrible outgoing but can talk with anyone because whatever their interests or experiences I almost assuredly have knowledge of their topic because I am older and have done a great many things such as traveled to 91 countries, created successful businesses in a wide range of fields, have interesting friends who are well enough known they my new acquaintance knows about them, mostly in the arts, music, tech, political philosophy etc.
Since I moved out of the US years ago, the fact I am even in the woman's city/country is the first question they have.
I seldom walk up to girls to start a conversation, never ask a girl to dance, although I am often the first person on the dance floor when things have not gotten going yet. If I go to a bar, lounge or club where i have been before, when I enter I make sure I greet everyone I met before, and get into an animated conversation with any of the waitstaff and particular the bartenders, and greet especially any girls I had talked with or even just saw before. In other words, making an entrance. Girls who see a guy being greeted by other girls who appear to be enthusiastic about seeing me again have a positive impression of someone who appears to be pre-vetted by the staff and female guests usually break any possible wariness about me as a stranger.
Getting a girl to talk about themselves is a lot easier once they see I am not after them, but happy to meet them. Don't explain in too much detail, make a statement about some topic they appear to be interested in and make modest comments that signal I know a lot more than what I revealed about the topic. One interesting point, when greeted when arriving, show enthusiasm but break off the greeting before they do. Every girl in a place notices a guy who is well received and whose attention is sought .
Most of the time girls go in groups of 2-5 when they go out. If you are interested in one of the girls, be sure to greet and all of her GFs before focusing your attention on the one, especially if the others are not as attractive as the girl you are interested in. Ask all of them to dance as a group. Getting the approval of her GFs is an important accomplishment when seeking the attention of a girl
Going to opera or ballet performances allows dressing well and the intermission between acts is a short time when refreshments are available and it is only of the best placed to meet quality girls, If you have never gone, go, you will be surprised how much more accessible the girls are, they want to talk about the last scene, you had something important as a shared experience. The break is short so even a brief conversation can lead to exchanging contact in or ask to go to a wine bar or for late dinner right after the performance. If you do not understand it, ask questions and let them explain it. Ballet is the most sensuous art from and it turns girls on. I live in a city with more top-flight ballet than anywhere else in the world so it is natural for meeting or taking someone on a date. I know it is not so much an American thing so going the first time might seem uncomfortable at first but It is easy to fall for it and the atmosphere gives you an advantage over all your male friends who do not go.
Art exhibitions are great for meeting girls, more visit them than men, the art is a natural common experience to discuss.
If you are really shy join a Tango class. A beginner will find you are outnumbered by 5 to 1, and it is the most romantic sensuous activity with your clothes on.
Your a bro..Tripp. All your presentations are Top GRADE.. Many the orger guys..are very plastic what your doin is THE HIT THANKyou BROther..👍
Live a good life and be happy, make great friends too
These tips are okay, once you're into a relationship. If you're heading out to a bar you don't want to be telling yourself these things, you'll come across that it's all about you. Your focus should be on the female, listen to what she's saying, ask interested questions, pay her a compliment. Don't try to teach her something or go into a long spiel on your opinions.
Ive got question? If a girl question s. That the way ur make the best version of is not at the level or speed in her mind & her own belief systems? Its like she's placing herself over the guy but yet she wants the guy to take the lead. What u do in this case I've been finding this is more & more thought process from most women I meet
Say Hello & Friendly all the time (;
Is a Good Habit to form 👍🏽
Great video man!
Go to more concerts and travel more are the two things that come to mind first.
My next step is to go out and talk to people
that's the hardest part haha
Ewww! Talk to people!!??!! Hell no!!!!
I'm a dancer! Hip hop dancer, If you can dance you can do anything! Learn!
I am going to sign up for some sort of team event.
Damn I just wanna Netflix and chill with a girl all day and with Netflix and chill I literally mean Netflix and chill lol
Before I watched this.. I thought I was boring
Now I feel confident!
Yooooooooo love your content trip!
Hey Tripp what kind of camera do you use when you record these? You've probably said it before but I missed it.
Panasonic G4.
Hey Kakarot I’m telling Beerus Sama on you
Never try never fail. But thanks for the advice.
Great info - Thanks
Teaching! Yes! I do that already!
Hey Tripp Advice what do you about girl asking a boy out instead of the boy asking out girl.
Give a thought.
Or your opinion.
My next steps are to digest those tips that you just gave and to apply those in real life.
gonna talk about my life experiences and generally be more open
Hi trip. Great great work
Thanks for the help, i have this girl i liked for 3 years but when we were together as friends I kept my distance from her so we couldn’t really get close to each other and start a relationship i regret it keeping my distance from that, and earlier she told me why weren’t we close before and i just went with some random reason and after that we chatted together for hours 1-4 am and now i woke up earlier and said good morning after we chatted in the middle of the conversation she stopped seeing my messages and delayed seeing my messages so i thought that she was busy with something so i ended our conversation so she can focus at her task, did i do something wrong
hello good sir.. first time watching your vids.. first ty for the tips..second i find myself alot of time trying to start a conversation with a girl that i like but i allways find myself stuck ..a im very shy when it comes to talking to a girl I LIKE ( i can be realy open and talk realy ez with girls or guys that just friends) b. it seem like i allways get stuck with the awkward silence and i have no idea on how to keep the conversation going..
any good tips that can help me with that?
1. What if she already said she hates a certain opinion and that hate for it is the drive that keeps her traveling the world and avoiding home for a whole yea, you really shouldnt voice your opinion then right?
Ask her friend's abt her interests... and this works im tellin u guys with experience
The next one would be to do more activities with her... and spend more time together
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