when i started college i went from being really shy and quiet to being really outgoing and confident because i realised that people just arent as judgy as i thought
im in communication class and u could just take them to get better it helped me just not stress about presentations anymore because the whole class is on about how to be better at public speaking/ communicating
@@TayyJayy also huge. Public speaking was one of my favorite classes and it helps a lot of people overcome the most common fear. Once you master that, you feel pretty unstoppable
your videos are so comforting!! as someone who struggles with social anxiety, it’s so hard to find people that get it. thank you, i really appreciate the advice.
Just stumbled across your channel and I honestly gotta say that youre one of the most underrated guys on the platform and deserve a lot more attention for the quality of the content you provide. Youre not messing around and give some unusual yet very helpful advice in a very relatable way. I think many young men would profit a lot of watching your stuff Keep up the good work bro
@@thuna_sandwich that’s kind af Philip, thank you :) The growth will come with time, right now my focus is just on helping the people like you who stumble across my any way I can🤙 lmk if you need anything bro
I swear you're going to be famous, cause you really care and give genuine advice, unlike other mainstream influencers who only cares about views. Thank you for spreading such good advice
@@snakei2502 of course bro, views are great, it means the message is spreading but you’re right, there’s no point unless we can affect genuine change in people and create an impact. That will always be the goal. Thank you for your support👍
You’re right bro. You’re nothing like all the other social anxiety self improvement creators I’ve seen. After every single past video I’ve watched from them I came away with nothing to actually act on- and I know for a fact the men in those vids haven’t had the experience of being bullied + being that ‘weird’ awkward kinda guy throughout high school- but you get it and it’s rare to see someone I can relate to. I appreciate you dude :)
Honestly I wasn’t expecting much from some random guy who just popped up on my timeline out of nowhere, but as a now Junior in high school that’s had major social anxiety so far I ended up binging all your videos. Your advice seems way more genuine than all the stereotypical bs all the other people post, I’m going to try to start implementing all these tips in my life and I hope this channel blows up to help more people in similar situations as us. Keep up the good work bro❤
@@J2_x thank you bro that means a lot. I’ve been fed up with the advice on YT so far and how fake it’s all seemed, trying instead to show how to be genuine by being genuine. I’d love to see you in my comment section again. Keep me updated on your journey bro👍
Congratulations on achieving your goal bro!! Just discovered you on the YT homepage. I love the advice you gave and felt like it resonated with me alot. Feels like you went through exactly what I am going through right now. Hope you keep you're genuineness and honesty about, these platforms quickly change people for the worse. Have a blessed day!❤
Bro you should make a video on how the music you listen to can affect your confidence, self view and how it can provoke or push away depressive thoughts. You are good at articulating things so I’m sure you’d be able to explain it well
@@accountnme what a great thought bro, I’m honestly just starting to learn about that and put it into practice. I’m going to pay attention, fail a bit more and learn from it, then I’ll get cooking on it👨🍳
I feel that these are mostly good points, however I think it would be beneficial to treat things like confidence and masculinity with nuance. In my experience, having healthy relationships with men is just as important as with women. To feel comfortable with your masculinity is to also be in touch with your femininity. Be caring and emotionally available, while also practicing control over your emotions. Women (and people in general) find vulnerability attractive, to the extent that you are still in control of your emotions and not allowing your emotions to control you. Confidence is similar in a way. Humility and mindfulness can take you just as far as confidence, as long as you stay true to yourself and are comfortable with being humbled or open to different perspectives. People love to feel important, so make yourself feel important while attempting to do the same to others by making sure they feel heard and respected. Great video!
@@InvertedVampire thank you bro, what a well thought out comment. I 100% agree, it’s super good to dive into the nuance and realize that it’s a balance. You definitely need to have enough self-awareness to know when to evaluate use the feminine aspects to yourself vs the masculine. I specifically make these videos for people who were like younger me though. Honestly showing the feminine sides of myself was never a struggle, I was very emotional, what I lacked was confidence and feeling okay being masculine. The people who have struggled like I have to take that first step, that is who I make these for. Once they take it, they can then start to sort out the nuance of things. Thank you for the feedback, it means a lot to see your comments and thoughts💪
Great videos man. I've shared the same experience as you in high school. That feeling of being devastated and being punished while others were being praised and having fun. This video clicked with me just like the others, will start to implement these steps in my life. I just want to say thank you and thank you for this inspiring mindset of helping other bros who are in this situation. An important thing is to never feel retreated.
@@OnlineArchival thank you for sharing brother, I’m glad my story could help. Let me know how implementing and taking action goes, I’d love to see you around my comment section again👍
I rarely comment. This video is a wonderful surprise. Thank you. And I hope you won't be blinded and carried away by success when your channel grows big. Good luck
Love your videos, I have watched so many the last days since I discovered your channel. Only now I realized how "few" subscribers you have. I am shocked, you deserve hudreds of thousands if not millions. This is some genuinly great stuff you share and I thank you for that. You are helping me, all the way to little Norway. Really glad I found your channel, and I am looking forward to future videos too, Luke :-)
I’ve noticed that my voice comes with how I’m feeling. By that I mean that usually when I’m insecure or very stressed I talk with a stressed and not as deep voice. When my mind is clear and I’m relaxed, my voice deepens and stays like that up until I start to overthink things.
@@AlejandroCardona-r2y huge realization bro, good thinking. I’ve found what helps me rather than “trying to make my voice deeper” is just doing what I can to be in a relaxed, confident state where it happens naturally
Thank you so much, this video was so helpful! I’m a girl but most of it was relevant to me and valuable to hear. Keep making videos, they are entertaining and inspire action which is rare!
dude your channel is so underated i can actually watch through your whole vids without getting bored and the information you provide is always so helpful
@@zvezda4994_ thank you man. I was tired of constantly resetting back to a life of being alone again and again throughout school. I swore to myself that I wouldn’t ever be in a place of shit mental health like I was for so long because I just lacked the confidence or social skills to put myself out there. Since then, I’ve had my eye out for anything that influences social life, even the small shit. It’s what is super interesting and tends to come easy to me now that I’ve had the drive to learn it. Hope that helped bro :)
My girlfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. She said things were too awkward between us, and she felt like i was being dry or uninterested. However, that just wasn't the case. Im only 13, so im at that awkward stage where dating doesn't count, but it still counts to the kids at that age. I'd love to hear if you have any insight or advice on this topic.(whether you make a video or just add a comment, anything is fine) Im not good with having 1 on 1 conversations either, lol.
@@V0IDZxDM I’m sorry to hear that bro, breakups are tough to go through, especially when young. How a relationship works and turns out is by definition always due to how both people in it show up. If she said it was too awkward between you or things felt dry, you may have contributed to that. It also means that she likely didn’t vocalize issues she was having until she reached a breaking point. It’s on you both. Ofc I could be wrong, I don’t know the details but keep in mind that love always is in flux, it comes and goes and there is no such thing as a bad experience with it. There is always something to be learned and taken away so next relationship can be even deeper and more rewarding. The only time a relationship happening is ever a bad thing is if you choose to carry resentment from it. Good on you bro for having that experience and learning from it. I have no doubt you’re on the path to better relationships in the future. Thank you for sharing your story🤝
@@IsmaelHernandezdibello hahah thank you bro, hoping to be a bit different than Hamza but he was a great early inspiration. Appreciate your support man💪
Thanks bro just what i needed i have a question though, when i feel like am talking with my throat and my voice is dry how can i instantly shift my voice to belly ?
Another question is that because am used to shallow breathing i fucked up my posture i don't feel like am breathing into my lower back (diaphragmatic breathing) when am walking or just standing do you know any good exercises?
@@yacinechikivara4700 good thought man, for this straight up just drink water and catch yourself every time you’re mouth breathing and switch to breathing through your nose. I know at least for me the main reason I get dry throat is from mouth breathing. Speaking from your belly gets easy and natural just by conscious practice creating habit👍
@@yacinechikivara4700 I didn’t use any exercises, but I swear by habit trackers, put it up on your wall, just like the one I show in the video and cross off days you went the whole day remembering good posture. The point isn’t to hit every day, it’s to do better than last week. If you get none, at least you were thinking about it. Next week, aim for 1. Eventually, you’ll hit each day and not even think about it. You got this bro
Tactic 1: NOT trough the stomach👎👎👎. breath through your DIAGRAPHM tactic 2: the same as air. dump advice tbh tactic 3: don‘t do that. just build up closure with SOVT exercises
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when i started college i went from being really shy and quiet to being really outgoing and confident because i realised that people just arent as judgy as i thought
whats some advice youd like to give as a result of your tranformation bro? going to college in a few months
@@cool_dude_27 i guess just remember that people really dont care what you do, so just go talk to people and be social.
@@JesseOrSomething 100% facts. Huge congrats bro, thank you for sharing
im in communication class and u could just take them to get better it helped me just not stress about presentations anymore because the whole class is on about how to be better at public speaking/ communicating
@@TayyJayy also huge. Public speaking was one of my favorite classes and it helps a lot of people overcome the most common fear. Once you master that, you feel pretty unstoppable
your videos are so comforting!! as someone who struggles with social anxiety, it’s so hard to find people that get it. thank you, i really appreciate the advice.
gym + no fap + meditation + cold shower helps in social anxiety (pesonal experience) . hope it helps brother ❤😸
@@giiannnaa super glad to hear it Gianna, grateful for your support as always😁
Just stumbled across your channel and I honestly gotta say that youre one of the most underrated guys on the platform and deserve a lot more attention for the quality of the content you provide. Youre not messing around and give some unusual yet very helpful advice in a very relatable way. I think many young men would profit a lot of watching your stuff
Keep up the good work bro
@@thuna_sandwich that’s kind af Philip, thank you :) The growth will come with time, right now my focus is just on helping the people like you who stumble across my any way I can🤙 lmk if you need anything bro
I swear you're going to be famous, cause you really care and give genuine advice, unlike other mainstream influencers who only cares about views. Thank you for spreading such good advice
@@snakei2502 of course bro, views are great, it means the message is spreading but you’re right, there’s no point unless we can affect genuine change in people and create an impact. That will always be the goal. Thank you for your support👍
You’re right bro. You’re nothing like all the other social anxiety self improvement creators I’ve seen. After every single past video I’ve watched from them I came away with nothing to actually act on- and I know for a fact the men in those vids haven’t had the experience of being bullied + being that ‘weird’ awkward kinda guy throughout high school- but you get it and it’s rare to see someone I can relate to. I appreciate you dude :)
@@blakemwi you’re a real one, Blake. Thank you for the kind words, hoping my experience can help get you where you want to be👍
do it scared is some of the best advice I've ever gotten and without it I'd probably go nowhere
@@EdibleBible absolutely bro, take action and learn🤙
Honestly I wasn’t expecting much from some random guy who just popped up on my timeline out of nowhere, but as a now Junior in high school that’s had major social anxiety so far I ended up binging all your videos. Your advice seems way more genuine than all the stereotypical bs all the other people post, I’m going to try to start implementing all these tips in my life and I hope this channel blows up to help more people in similar situations as us. Keep up the good work bro❤
@@J2_x thank you bro that means a lot. I’ve been fed up with the advice on YT so far and how fake it’s all seemed, trying instead to show how to be genuine by being genuine.
I’d love to see you in my comment section again. Keep me updated on your journey bro👍
Congratulations on achieving your goal bro!! Just discovered you on the YT homepage. I love the advice you gave and felt like it resonated with me alot. Feels like you went through exactly what I am going through right now.
Hope you keep you're genuineness and honesty about, these platforms quickly change people for the worse. Have a blessed day!❤
@@drago056 thank you, glad you could resonate with my story :)
Authenticity comes first in YT and in life, always.👍
dude your so underrated I swear if you keep this up you will be famous one day
@@HorrorEnthusiast-ig8nq I appreciate that bro, thank you
@@Luke_Grenoble No way u got a yt channel lol. I think u were talking about me in this video lmaoo
Thank you so much for this video! 😊 You posted on this topic right when I needed it the most. Thanks a lot man, your videos mean a lot to us!
@@SpandanInTheHouse always bro, thank you for giving your input on a previous video, that’s why I made it :)
Bro you should make a video on how the music you listen to can affect your confidence, self view and how it can provoke or push away depressive thoughts. You are good at articulating things so I’m sure you’d be able to explain it well
@@accountnme what a great thought bro, I’m honestly just starting to learn about that and put it into practice. I’m going to pay attention, fail a bit more and learn from it, then I’ll get cooking on it👨🍳
I feel that these are mostly good points, however I think it would be beneficial to treat things like confidence and masculinity with nuance.
In my experience, having healthy relationships with men is just as important as with women. To feel comfortable with your masculinity is to also be in touch with your femininity. Be caring and emotionally available, while also practicing control over your emotions. Women (and people in general) find vulnerability attractive, to the extent that you are still in control of your emotions and not allowing your emotions to control you.
Confidence is similar in a way. Humility and mindfulness can take you just as far as confidence, as long as you stay true to yourself and are comfortable with being humbled or open to different perspectives. People love to feel important, so make yourself feel important while attempting to do the same to others by making sure they feel heard and respected.
Great video!
@@InvertedVampire thank you bro, what a well thought out comment. I 100% agree, it’s super good to dive into the nuance and realize that it’s a balance. You definitely need to have enough self-awareness to know when to evaluate use the feminine aspects to yourself vs the masculine.
I specifically make these videos for people who were like younger me though. Honestly showing the feminine sides of myself was never a struggle, I was very emotional, what I lacked was confidence and feeling okay being masculine. The people who have struggled like I have to take that first step, that is who I make these for. Once they take it, they can then start to sort out the nuance of things.
Thank you for the feedback, it means a lot to see your comments and thoughts💪
Great videos man. I've shared the same experience as you in high school. That feeling of being devastated and being punished while others were being praised and having fun. This video clicked with me just like the others, will start to implement these steps in my life. I just want to say thank you and thank you for this inspiring mindset of helping other bros who are in this situation. An important thing is to never feel retreated.
@@OnlineArchival thank you for sharing brother, I’m glad my story could help.
Let me know how implementing and taking action goes, I’d love to see you around my comment section again👍
I rarely comment. This video is a wonderful surprise. Thank you. And I hope you won't be blinded and carried away by success when your channel grows big. Good luck
@@zanezang3576 thank you, Zane. I appreciate the confidence you have in me. Glad I could help :)
Love your videos, I have watched so many the last days since I discovered your channel. Only now I realized how "few" subscribers you have. I am shocked, you deserve hudreds of thousands if not millions. This is some genuinly great stuff you share and I thank you for that. You are helping me, all the way to little Norway. Really glad I found your channel, and I am looking forward to future videos too, Luke :-)
@@vegardpedersen thank you Vegard, the support means the world. It makes my day to hear that what I’m doing helps someone. Much love bro
YESSS THANK YOUUUU FINALLY A DEEP VOICE GUIDE. LOVE YOUR VOICE MAN!!!!
@@archen_7 hahah ofc brother, thank you for the suggestion on my previous video. Always open to ideas
Hell yeah, godly algorithm pull. Subbed to this masterpiece of a channel, keep it up bro.
@@bruno.domenech thank you bro, I’ll keep making content if you keep taking action🤝
I’ve noticed that my voice comes with how I’m feeling. By that I mean that usually when I’m insecure or very stressed I talk with a stressed and not as deep voice. When my mind is clear and I’m relaxed, my voice deepens and stays like that up until I start to overthink things.
@@AlejandroCardona-r2y huge realization bro, good thinking.
I’ve found what helps me rather than “trying to make my voice deeper” is just doing what I can to be in a relaxed, confident state where it happens naturally
Thank you so much, this video was so helpful! I’m a girl but most of it was relevant to me and valuable to hear. Keep making videos, they are entertaining and inspire action which is rare!
@@Onerose-yu7dxq your comments make my day
dude your channel is so underated i can actually watch through your whole vids without getting bored and the information you provide is always so helpful
@@aidantyb9292 you a real one, Aidan, thank you🤝
Can you do a tutorial on how to strike fear into the hearts of criminals next? Lovely video!
@@CharlesKudrow vengeance is always the answer😈
thank you bro. your content is so inspiring
@@carloscardona5365 ofc bro, thank you for saying that
you’re amazing bro I haven’t watched the vid yet but I just know it’s gonna be fire
@@cooldude11_1 thank you dawg, lmk what you think🔥
Genuine great tip im ngl. How did you discover this? I’d never have given it that much conscious thought if I didn’t come across a video like this
@@zvezda4994_ thank you man. I was tired of constantly resetting back to a life of being alone again and again throughout school. I swore to myself that I wouldn’t ever be in a place of shit mental health like I was for so long because I just lacked the confidence or social skills to put myself out there.
Since then, I’ve had my eye out for anything that influences social life, even the small shit. It’s what is super interesting and tends to come easy to me now that I’ve had the drive to learn it.
Hope that helped bro :)
omgg u litt look like Robert Pattinson mateee
and btww thanks a lot for the advicess .. lots of loveee
@@dRRRy Bellaa where have you been loca
you're awesome, brother
@@SiPaX1 no u😎
Guys just let puberty do its thing
@@ArachnidEdits_ for people who haven’t gone through puberty yet, definitely. You will get sorted out
Dude, your're the best.
@@Mano_Zola no u😎
Thanks bro, I really appriciate this
@@IllesEgri ofc man, thank you for the support
I remember watching a Video Like that without the guy himself not even having a deepvoice
This is actually so fucking true bro, you are being added to my super nova next planet explosion
@@hustleracez4897 it’s an honor🙌
relax your throat and just let the words flow up and creak
@@danielspoon1234 I like the imagery, Daniel, good thought🌊
I really hate because i have natural deep voice. But now i think it's a gift from God
My girlfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. She said things were too awkward between us, and she felt like i was being dry or uninterested. However, that just wasn't the case. Im only 13, so im at that awkward stage where dating doesn't count, but it still counts to the kids at that age. I'd love to hear if you have any insight or advice on this topic.(whether you make a video or just add a comment, anything is fine) Im not good with having 1 on 1 conversations either, lol.
@@V0IDZxDM I’m sorry to hear that bro, breakups are tough to go through, especially when young.
How a relationship works and turns out is by definition always due to how both people in it show up. If she said it was too awkward between you or things felt dry, you may have contributed to that.
It also means that she likely didn’t vocalize issues she was having until she reached a breaking point. It’s on you both.
Ofc I could be wrong, I don’t know the details but keep in mind that love always is in flux, it comes and goes and there is no such thing as a bad experience with it. There is always something to be learned and taken away so next relationship can be even deeper and more rewarding. The only time a relationship happening is ever a bad thing is if you choose to carry resentment from it.
Good on you bro for having that experience and learning from it. I have no doubt you’re on the path to better relationships in the future.
Thank you for sharing your story🤝
⭐ The WIN is that you put yourself out there.
@@cooldude11_1 huge key right there, hope you get that win today bro🔥
thanks bro
@@dragz4life422 yessir🫡
you should watch Austin Wayne bro he gives good advice about dating
Thank you bro
@@thomaspapademetriou5060 thank you for the support, Thomas🤙
You are the white ginger American version of Hamza Ahmed ngl, new follower, I’ll be here through the way
@@IsmaelHernandezdibello hahah thank you bro, hoping to be a bit different than Hamza but he was a great early inspiration.
Appreciate your support man💪
Thanks bro just what i needed i have a question though, when i feel like am talking with my throat and my voice is dry how can i instantly shift my voice to belly ?
Another question is that because am used to shallow breathing i fucked up my posture i don't feel like am breathing into my lower back (diaphragmatic breathing) when am walking or just standing do you know any good exercises?
@@yacinechikivara4700 good thought man, for this straight up just drink water and catch yourself every time you’re mouth breathing and switch to breathing through your nose. I know at least for me the main reason I get dry throat is from mouth breathing.
Speaking from your belly gets easy and natural just by conscious practice creating habit👍
@@yacinechikivara4700 I didn’t use any exercises, but I swear by habit trackers, put it up on your wall, just like the one I show in the video and cross off days you went the whole day remembering good posture.
The point isn’t to hit every day, it’s to do better than last week. If you get none, at least you were thinking about it. Next week, aim for 1. Eventually, you’ll hit each day and not even think about it. You got this bro
Crazy that young Conan O’Brien has a deep voice.
@@seizetheday89 damn bro that one kinda spot on tho😳
Subscribed
@@jasonoutcasted9058 you a real one, Jason💪
From the start it is giving hamza
ahmed vibe.
wait until someone hits you with the "air is free bro" 💀I mean it kinda aint tho right
My nose is bent and i have only realized it the last month snd not only that I have been breathing from one nostril and I didn't know 😅😢
@@Malik_ly damn that’s some powerful breath brother, keep it up
i feel like we're gonna have the next hamza
White hamza lmfao
Mutual 😂😂 no bro thats completely fine dont worry about it
with puperty it will come automatically
Can you make an articulacy video next?
@@karasu_tengu14 how do you mean, how to articulate well or more so how to make good points and be convincing?
@Luke_Grenoble on how to be more articulate and express thoughts clearly and vividly.
@ I gotchu bro, great thought🤔
Tactic 1: NOT trough the stomach👎👎👎. breath through your DIAGRAPHM
tactic 2: the same as air. dump advice tbh
tactic 3: don‘t do that. just build up closure with SOVT exercises
@@cfwsimon thank you for the feedback bro, comments always welcome
I have a deep voice but I hate it I want a tenor voice
@@asloii_1749 oh shoot bro, you sing?
W video
@@DavidPomaquiza-to1tz thank you bro and thanks for the suggestion🤝