when i started college i went from being really shy and quiet to being really outgoing and confident because i realised that people just arent as judgy as i thought
im in communication class and u could just take them to get better it helped me just not stress about presentations anymore because the whole class is on about how to be better at public speaking/ communicating
@@TayyJayy also huge. Public speaking was one of my favorite classes and it helps a lot of people overcome the most common fear. Once you master that, you feel pretty unstoppable
your videos are so comforting!! as someone who struggles with social anxiety, it’s so hard to find people that get it. thank you, i really appreciate the advice.
I swear you're going to be famous, cause you really care and give genuine advice, unlike other mainstream influencers who only cares about views. Thank you for spreading such good advice
@@snakei2502 of course bro, views are great, it means the message is spreading but you’re right, there’s no point unless we can affect genuine change in people and create an impact. That will always be the goal. Thank you for your support👍
To be honest you are probably kindest person on youtube, giving out this advice with such a heartfelt message and not plugging some stupid course or supplement at the end of the video. Keep up the good work bro and I'm sure you'll be an internet star in the future. 🙏🙏
Man this really hit home for me. I had no idea that a video about deepening your voice was going to unearth the self confidence issues I have. Everything from being shy, breathing shallow breathes, taking up little space, and feeling I shouldn’t be loud or share my opinions were issues you made me realize today. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for helping me and others realize we have strength.
Just stumbled across your channel and I honestly gotta say that youre one of the most underrated guys on the platform and deserve a lot more attention for the quality of the content you provide. Youre not messing around and give some unusual yet very helpful advice in a very relatable way. I think many young men would profit a lot of watching your stuff Keep up the good work bro
@@thuna_sandwich that’s kind af Philip, thank you :) The growth will come with time, right now my focus is just on helping the people like you who stumble across my any way I can🤙 lmk if you need anything bro
Honestly I wasn’t expecting much from some random guy who just popped up on my timeline out of nowhere, but as a now Junior in high school that’s had major social anxiety so far I ended up binging all your videos. Your advice seems way more genuine than all the stereotypical bs all the other people post, I’m going to try to start implementing all these tips in my life and I hope this channel blows up to help more people in similar situations as us. Keep up the good work bro❤
@@J2_x thank you bro that means a lot. I’ve been fed up with the advice on YT so far and how fake it’s all seemed, trying instead to show how to be genuine by being genuine. I’d love to see you in my comment section again. Keep me updated on your journey bro👍
6:14 this is what I need to hear because my 3rd grade teacher told me that I was stupid for asking thay question and my classmates started laughing and it became my childhood trauma when I get into a classroom I become introvert but outside school like at airport, work, train station, park, and etc I'm extroverted. Thank you for covering this because no any other TH-camr covered this everytime I look it up. Thank you again, Luke!
You caught my attention with what you said about being cut out by friends that you grew up with. I'm going through something pretty similar, so thank you for sharing, it's nice to know I'm not the only one. Idk about you, but I still struggle with feeling a little betrayed and confused sometimes. In any case, I hope to join you on your journey of self-improvement, and sharing it with others :) I may not know you, but I'm proud of your progress
@@dani_vijen thank you Dani, the kind words mean a lot. I’ve learned it’s easy (and even socially celebrated by some people) to hold resentment, but it always leaves you feeling wronged and negative. The only way to move past it and create healthy relationships again is to completely forgive and let go. It takes time and it may not even be deserved, but it’s what will make you the most happy. Keep up the good work dawg🤙
You’re right bro. You’re nothing like all the other social anxiety self improvement creators I’ve seen. After every single past video I’ve watched from them I came away with nothing to actually act on- and I know for a fact the men in those vids haven’t had the experience of being bullied + being that ‘weird’ awkward kinda guy throughout high school- but you get it and it’s rare to see someone I can relate to. I appreciate you dude :)
Bro you should make a video on how the music you listen to can affect your confidence, self view and how it can provoke or push away depressive thoughts. You are good at articulating things so I’m sure you’d be able to explain it well
@@accountnme what a great thought bro, I’m honestly just starting to learn about that and put it into practice. I’m going to pay attention, fail a bit more and learn from it, then I’ll get cooking on it👨🍳
Yo to be honest, Ive seen many of these tips in other videos. But its all scattered. You really brought together a lot of what I’ve seen online and more. Great video bro, subbed and looking to finally speak better
I feel that these are mostly good points, however I think it would be beneficial to treat things like confidence and masculinity with nuance. In my experience, having healthy relationships with men is just as important as with women. To feel comfortable with your masculinity is to also be in touch with your femininity. Be caring and emotionally available, while also practicing control over your emotions. Women (and people in general) find vulnerability attractive, to the extent that you are still in control of your emotions and not allowing your emotions to control you. Confidence is similar in a way. Humility and mindfulness can take you just as far as confidence, as long as you stay true to yourself and are comfortable with being humbled or open to different perspectives. People love to feel important, so make yourself feel important while attempting to do the same to others by making sure they feel heard and respected. Great video!
@@InvertedVampire thank you bro, what a well thought out comment. I 100% agree, it’s super good to dive into the nuance and realize that it’s a balance. You definitely need to have enough self-awareness to know when to evaluate use the feminine aspects to yourself vs the masculine. I specifically make these videos for people who were like younger me though. Honestly showing the feminine sides of myself was never a struggle, I was very emotional, what I lacked was confidence and feeling okay being masculine. The people who have struggled like I have to take that first step, that is who I make these for. Once they take it, they can then start to sort out the nuance of things. Thank you for the feedback, it means a lot to see your comments and thoughts💪
I’ve watched so many videos on self improvement, and most of them are bull shit, they want you to come back to their videos and keep liking and subscribing. This video is different because you don’t just criticize, you actually give the viewer a game plan on how to fix their issue. Saying to check off each day where you spoke loudly and expressively is crucial. It means you actually care that we improve. The only other creator like this is Vinh Giang, he gives really concise general communication skills in a more professional setting. Thanks for posting real content! Keep it up!
What a great video. It resonated so much with me, being this weird nerdy kid all the way through high school and even college. Every time I tried to talk to people about this kind of stuff it felt so off, like they don't get it. What you say about masculinity is so spot on,and yet not a lot of people recognize it even though it is to intuitive how attractive and engaging it is to use your masculinity properly. Keep up the good stuff man 👊
I’ve noticed that my voice comes with how I’m feeling. By that I mean that usually when I’m insecure or very stressed I talk with a stressed and not as deep voice. When my mind is clear and I’m relaxed, my voice deepens and stays like that up until I start to overthink things.
@@AlejandroCardona-r2y huge realization bro, good thinking. I’ve found what helps me rather than “trying to make my voice deeper” is just doing what I can to be in a relaxed, confident state where it happens naturally
I’m 13 and I wanna do context creation kinda like you but my voice is my main thing that’s makes me scared when doing videos narrating, and this really helped out man thank you I’ll definitely try, and hopefully I get the voice I want.
I'm still a rather timid and softspoken guy, but when I am with good friends I do tend to be more outspoken, friendly, and loud. I am still noise conscious and don't like disturbing other people, but that's not my main issue in most situations. I feel like I don't have enough to talk about, like there's not enough happening or I don't remember stuff. That is why I struggle to start or continue a conversation
@@blixzero0 great self-awareness bro, there’s a few vids I have on conversational skills too, TLDR is to start letting people into your inner dialogue and saying what’s on your mind, finding things that spark the other persons interest and then learning from them why it’s so interesting. You meet a lot of sick people and learn a lot of great things that way.
Love your videos, I have watched so many the last days since I discovered your channel. Only now I realized how "few" subscribers you have. I am shocked, you deserve hudreds of thousands if not millions. This is some genuinly great stuff you share and I thank you for that. You are helping me, all the way to little Norway. Really glad I found your channel, and I am looking forward to future videos too, Luke :-)
This is my first time seeing you man . Ima sub and thanks for not just giving out tips and actually connecting with us especially with your past . I hope you do well in life bro 💪🏻🔥
Congratulations on achieving your goal bro!! Just discovered you on the YT homepage. I love the advice you gave and felt like it resonated with me alot. Feels like you went through exactly what I am going through right now. Hope you keep you're genuineness and honesty about, these platforms quickly change people for the worse. Have a blessed day!❤
I've been having it rough for the last few months with my own self-confidence and comparing my own to others, and this video is a little eye-opening. Should definitely worry about myself a lot more.
@@dumbarum2350 You’re coming from the right place my man. Worrying more about yourself may not be as helpful as you may think, but taking an interest in doing things to benefit your future self is going to do wonders. Welcome to the journey my guy🤝
dude your channel is so underated i can actually watch through your whole vids without getting bored and the information you provide is always so helpful
Great videos man. I've shared the same experience as you in high school. That feeling of being devastated and being punished while others were being praised and having fun. This video clicked with me just like the others, will start to implement these steps in my life. I just want to say thank you and thank you for this inspiring mindset of helping other bros who are in this situation. An important thing is to never feel retreated.
@@OnlineArchival thank you for sharing brother, I’m glad my story could help. Let me know how implementing and taking action goes, I’d love to see you around my comment section again👍
I rarely comment. This video is a wonderful surprise. Thank you. And I hope you won't be blinded and carried away by success when your channel grows big. Good luck
I already know lots of this and i have started doing all of that like a year back. I thoughtbit would be a normal video but this is great my guy. I know how it is being and introvert, i also know how to be am extrovert. Just saying good content.
I catch myself often times carrying more for the opinion of others. Mostly people that I see more often like familiy members or people I work with. In those situations I am not sticking to what is my opinion, but switching to what they wanna hear. Most of the times it really stresses me, because they are sensitive topics like politics or religion and my gut is telling me that if I would speak my opinion there would be like big discussion and in the worst they wouldnt like me as much anymore or keep distance. So do you have any tips in how I can handle those interactions in the future?
@@ironkurkowski8964 with big things like religion and politics I tend not to bring them up unless it’s a discussion with someone I know is respectful and genuinely wants to talk rather than rant. Its totally normal to have some need to be accepted by the people around you, you just have to make sure the people you put into the camp of opinions that matter to you are only a few quality people, rather than everyone. Hope that helps brother🤙
@@zvezda4994_ thank you man. I was tired of constantly resetting back to a life of being alone again and again throughout school. I swore to myself that I wouldn’t ever be in a place of shit mental health like I was for so long because I just lacked the confidence or social skills to put myself out there. Since then, I’ve had my eye out for anything that influences social life, even the small shit. It’s what is super interesting and tends to come easy to me now that I’ve had the drive to learn it. Hope that helped bro :)
They made a diff group chat and added everybody but me, lmao My self improvement arc starts again, I just gotta make friends from scratch at 20, but this time I don't have the express pass to easy friends through school; i gotta... socialize with random people😱💀lmao On the topic of voice tone, i found that my natural speaking voice /tone is at F-G#2
My girlfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. She said things were too awkward between us, and she felt like i was being dry or uninterested. However, that just wasn't the case. Im only 13, so im at that awkward stage where dating doesn't count, but it still counts to the kids at that age. I'd love to hear if you have any insight or advice on this topic.(whether you make a video or just add a comment, anything is fine) Im not good with having 1 on 1 conversations either, lol.
@@V0IDZxDM I’m sorry to hear that bro, breakups are tough to go through, especially when young. How a relationship works and turns out is by definition always due to how both people in it show up. If she said it was too awkward between you or things felt dry, you may have contributed to that. It also means that she likely didn’t vocalize issues she was having until she reached a breaking point. It’s on you both. Ofc I could be wrong, I don’t know the details but keep in mind that love always is in flux, it comes and goes and there is no such thing as a bad experience with it. There is always something to be learned and taken away so next relationship can be even deeper and more rewarding. The only time a relationship happening is ever a bad thing is if you choose to carry resentment from it. Good on you bro for having that experience and learning from it. I have no doubt you’re on the path to better relationships in the future. Thank you for sharing your story🤝
This mindset has it all backwards. Greatness isnt learning to be a "social leader" that takes up space with loudness and confidence (and probably just with ulterior goal of getting secs). Greatness is creating an environment where even the weakest voice can be heard. If anything, we need LESS loud speakers.
All i need to do is wake up at 10 something and stay in that state somehow cause apparently my voice is really low cause when my heard me i guess she was caught off guard lol but every guys voice is low in the morning
Thanks bro just what i needed i have a question though, when i feel like am talking with my throat and my voice is dry how can i instantly shift my voice to belly ?
Another question is that because am used to shallow breathing i fucked up my posture i don't feel like am breathing into my lower back (diaphragmatic breathing) when am walking or just standing do you know any good exercises?
@@yacinechikivara4700 good thought man, for this straight up just drink water and catch yourself every time you’re mouth breathing and switch to breathing through your nose. I know at least for me the main reason I get dry throat is from mouth breathing. Speaking from your belly gets easy and natural just by conscious practice creating habit👍
@@yacinechikivara4700 I didn’t use any exercises, but I swear by habit trackers, put it up on your wall, just like the one I show in the video and cross off days you went the whole day remembering good posture. The point isn’t to hit every day, it’s to do better than last week. If you get none, at least you were thinking about it. Next week, aim for 1. Eventually, you’ll hit each day and not even think about it. You got this bro
I thought this was going to be a cringe video on some big ego teenager telling you how to speak and instantly get women. I was expecting a laugh, lol, but those first few minutes of talking about how leaving your old friends behind made you YOU and that you can finally act like yourself, that was exactly how it was for me. I instead cut them out of my life, as I was always finding myself to be exhausted, tired, and depressed after spending time with them. I never had friends outside of that circle of people until I left it. I always found myself to be "introverted," but the fact is I was acting like somebody else with that circle of people, so I could never just simply be myself, and it was exhausting. 10 years later, I'm now 28 and I find myself connecting with so many people. I don't like to say I have many friends because I believe you can't care for too many, and a true friend is somebody you can be there for, but I do find myself having fun and joy with so many more people now. It's funny because back then I was so insecure and had zero friends. Now people think I have an ego because I just simply don't care about what people think about me anymore, and the fact is nobody really does think about you anyway. The only people who do think about you are those closest to you or those that seriously hate you, and believe me, some people just hate for no reason what so ever, so their opinions literally don't even matter, they are fighting battles in their own minds, so leave them to it.
@@HELPICANTFINDJOHNCENA what a well thought out comment bro. Thank you for sharing your story. I have a lot of similarities for sure, especially with the journey of trying to be someone you aren’t to becoming more yourself. And you’re 100% right, you don’t need a huge crowd of friends, often a tight group who genuinely care about each other is so fulfilling. Thank you again for sharing, man
@@IsmaelHernandezdibello hahah thank you bro, hoping to be a bit different than Hamza but he was a great early inspiration. Appreciate your support man💪
Brooo to be honest with you, people and even teens used to shame me for having a deep voice, even on vc channels, there is always that one cute guy with a female voice trying to crack his voice so he make fun of me. seriously I found it kinda funny and insulting at the same time.
@@laibidante9097 yeah man, if you have something that sticks out from others, the boys definitely love to point it out, doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing, just means you’ve got to razz them back😏
Thank you so much, this video was so helpful! I’m a girl but most of it was relevant to me and valuable to hear. Keep making videos, they are entertaining and inspire action which is rare!
Broo i started few days ago working on my deep voice and when i speak even if i try to speak from the belly or diaphragm my lower part of throat gets engaged and its kind hurts inside. Then i tried doing it by sleeping knees elevated and i started to feel my chest a little bit but i still can figure out the way to speak from my belly. When i try to throw out the air using words air goes out in one word and even that word dont even feel deeper as i imagined the thing is my voice is pretty much deeper already bit it sounds rude like it's not deep but kinda like rudey or bigger but not fuller it has no air in it you feel me bro have any advice on it or its just natural when we practice deep voice
@@srgeditz9788 nah bro hahah, my bad if my point wasn’t made clear enough. You don’t want to feel like you’re forcing air out, the point is to speak in a relaxed way. What thinking about air coming from your diaphragm rather than chest does is relaxes your vocal cords. You never want it to hurt or feel forced. Hope that helps bro💪
@@Luke_Grenoble i guess a video can help bro you see there are lots of people creating vids on deeper voice but they ain't know shit about how to explain properly. But your explanation is kinda easy to understand more than those people at least. I guess if you create a video totally on how to achieve the deeper voice it'll help a lot not only me but a lot of other fellas as well. Here's my problems that you can use to explain - 1) I can't feel my chest vibration when I speak 2) I breathe from my belly but when I try to speak i don't know why but it doesn't change at all like no change at all 3) when I breathe from my belly I feel like my lungs are lacking oxygen and then I have to breathe from my chest instead of belly 4) also my throat hurts when I get deeper or try to speak deeper but i guess I pretty much know why and now I can handle it but take this point as well 5) I tried humming by sleeping and I felt vibration and buzzing in my chest sternum and I felt my voice was little different 6) don't know how to engage my belly 7) i tried to speak in a very relaxed way but it was not working. 8) I'll send you a voice not on instagram "if you don't mind " please check it it's my voice I'll speak like i normally speak my insta I'd - sr_goad. If you don't want to ofc u can ignore it totally. Love from India
Tactic 1: NOT trough the stomach👎👎👎. breath through your DIAGRAPHM tactic 2: the same as air. dump advice tbh tactic 3: don‘t do that. just build up closure with SOVT exercises
You look like a nice guy but damn I don't trust no one who got BLOCKED by ALL his friends, lmao. Not ignored, BLOCKED. What dark secrets you hidin', homie?
The girl probably bad mouthed him to his friends. You shouldn’t assume what you don’t know some people r just weird and will find a problem with you even if there is none
when i started college i went from being really shy and quiet to being really outgoing and confident because i realised that people just arent as judgy as i thought
whats some advice youd like to give as a result of your tranformation bro? going to college in a few months
@@cool_dude_27 i guess just remember that people really dont care what you do, so just go talk to people and be social.
@@JesseOrSomething 100% facts. Huge congrats bro, thank you for sharing
im in communication class and u could just take them to get better it helped me just not stress about presentations anymore because the whole class is on about how to be better at public speaking/ communicating
@@TayyJayy also huge. Public speaking was one of my favorite classes and it helps a lot of people overcome the most common fear. Once you master that, you feel pretty unstoppable
your videos are so comforting!! as someone who struggles with social anxiety, it’s so hard to find people that get it. thank you, i really appreciate the advice.
gym + no fap + meditation + cold shower helps in social anxiety (pesonal experience) . hope it helps brother ❤😸
@@giiannnaa super glad to hear it Gianna, grateful for your support as always😁
I Also Used to have social anxiety
I swear you're going to be famous, cause you really care and give genuine advice, unlike other mainstream influencers who only cares about views. Thank you for spreading such good advice
@@snakei2502 of course bro, views are great, it means the message is spreading but you’re right, there’s no point unless we can affect genuine change in people and create an impact. That will always be the goal. Thank you for your support👍
do it scared is some of the best advice I've ever gotten and without it I'd probably go nowhere
@@EdibleBible absolutely bro, take action and learn🤙
To be honest you are probably kindest person on youtube, giving out this advice with such a heartfelt message and not plugging some stupid course or supplement at the end of the video. Keep up the good work bro and I'm sure you'll be an internet star in the future. 🙏🙏
@@Alex-d9f3j thank you bro, your comment made my day
Man this really hit home for me. I had no idea that a video about deepening your voice was going to unearth the self confidence issues I have.
Everything from being shy, breathing shallow breathes, taking up little space, and feeling I shouldn’t be loud or share my opinions were issues you made me realize today. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for helping me and others realize we have strength.
@@justluna1656 ofc man, what great takeaways. Keep me updated on your progress💪
Just stumbled across your channel and I honestly gotta say that youre one of the most underrated guys on the platform and deserve a lot more attention for the quality of the content you provide. Youre not messing around and give some unusual yet very helpful advice in a very relatable way. I think many young men would profit a lot of watching your stuff
Keep up the good work bro
@@thuna_sandwich that’s kind af Philip, thank you :) The growth will come with time, right now my focus is just on helping the people like you who stumble across my any way I can🤙 lmk if you need anything bro
Honestly I wasn’t expecting much from some random guy who just popped up on my timeline out of nowhere, but as a now Junior in high school that’s had major social anxiety so far I ended up binging all your videos. Your advice seems way more genuine than all the stereotypical bs all the other people post, I’m going to try to start implementing all these tips in my life and I hope this channel blows up to help more people in similar situations as us. Keep up the good work bro❤
@@J2_x thank you bro that means a lot. I’ve been fed up with the advice on YT so far and how fake it’s all seemed, trying instead to show how to be genuine by being genuine.
I’d love to see you in my comment section again. Keep me updated on your journey bro👍
6:14 this is what I need to hear because my 3rd grade teacher told me that I was stupid for asking thay question and my classmates started laughing and it became my childhood trauma when I get into a classroom I become introvert but outside school like at airport, work, train station, park, and etc I'm extroverted.
Thank you for covering this because no any other TH-camr covered this everytime I look it up.
Thank you again, Luke!
@@gabrielwhy1 ofc bro, thank you for sharing your story, it means a lot🤝
You caught my attention with what you said about being cut out by friends that you grew up with. I'm going through something pretty similar, so thank you for sharing, it's nice to know I'm not the only one. Idk about you, but I still struggle with feeling a little betrayed and confused sometimes. In any case, I hope to join you on your journey of self-improvement, and sharing it with others :) I may not know you, but I'm proud of your progress
@@dani_vijen thank you Dani, the kind words mean a lot. I’ve learned it’s easy (and even socially celebrated by some people) to hold resentment, but it always leaves you feeling wronged and negative.
The only way to move past it and create healthy relationships again is to completely forgive and let go. It takes time and it may not even be deserved, but it’s what will make you the most happy.
Keep up the good work dawg🤙
You’re right bro. You’re nothing like all the other social anxiety self improvement creators I’ve seen. After every single past video I’ve watched from them I came away with nothing to actually act on- and I know for a fact the men in those vids haven’t had the experience of being bullied + being that ‘weird’ awkward kinda guy throughout high school- but you get it and it’s rare to see someone I can relate to. I appreciate you dude :)
@@blakemwi you’re a real one, Blake. Thank you for the kind words, hoping my experience can help get you where you want to be👍
dude your so underrated I swear if you keep this up you will be famous one day
@@HorrorEnthusiast-ig8nq I appreciate that bro, thank you
@@Luke_Grenoble No way u got a yt channel lol. I think u were talking about me in this video lmaoo
Bro you should make a video on how the music you listen to can affect your confidence, self view and how it can provoke or push away depressive thoughts. You are good at articulating things so I’m sure you’d be able to explain it well
@@accountnme what a great thought bro, I’m honestly just starting to learn about that and put it into practice. I’m going to pay attention, fail a bit more and learn from it, then I’ll get cooking on it👨🍳
"No one is better than you" yeah. Yeah FR. "We're all human." Thats so real lol. Thank you bro.
@@planettobi ofc Toby, enjoy your planet :)
Yo to be honest, Ive seen many of these tips in other videos. But its all scattered. You really brought together a lot of what I’ve seen online and more. Great video bro, subbed and looking to finally speak better
@@aaron6884 love to hear it man, let’s improve together🤙
I feel that these are mostly good points, however I think it would be beneficial to treat things like confidence and masculinity with nuance.
In my experience, having healthy relationships with men is just as important as with women. To feel comfortable with your masculinity is to also be in touch with your femininity. Be caring and emotionally available, while also practicing control over your emotions. Women (and people in general) find vulnerability attractive, to the extent that you are still in control of your emotions and not allowing your emotions to control you.
Confidence is similar in a way. Humility and mindfulness can take you just as far as confidence, as long as you stay true to yourself and are comfortable with being humbled or open to different perspectives. People love to feel important, so make yourself feel important while attempting to do the same to others by making sure they feel heard and respected.
Great video!
@@InvertedVampire thank you bro, what a well thought out comment. I 100% agree, it’s super good to dive into the nuance and realize that it’s a balance. You definitely need to have enough self-awareness to know when to evaluate use the feminine aspects to yourself vs the masculine.
I specifically make these videos for people who were like younger me though. Honestly showing the feminine sides of myself was never a struggle, I was very emotional, what I lacked was confidence and feeling okay being masculine. The people who have struggled like I have to take that first step, that is who I make these for. Once they take it, they can then start to sort out the nuance of things.
Thank you for the feedback, it means a lot to see your comments and thoughts💪
Stop with the be in touch with your feminine side cap already.
@@AccountHolder007 Nah
I’ve watched so many videos on self improvement, and most of them are bull shit, they want you to come back to their videos and keep liking and subscribing. This video is different because you don’t just criticize, you actually give the viewer a game plan on how to fix their issue. Saying to check off each day where you spoke loudly and expressively is crucial. It means you actually care that we improve. The only other creator like this is Vinh Giang, he gives really concise general communication skills in a more professional setting. Thanks for posting real content! Keep it up!
@@starkproductions6201 thank you Tony Stark
What an unbelievable strong video. Appreciate your words brother.
@@Quinnhasse336 thanks Quinn, I appreciate yours too my guy💪
bro, Ive been thinking about this so much and im so glad that I'm not the only one
Subscribed, really loved hearing this genuine advice. Sounds like me giving myself advice in the mirror lol it’s really genuine !! Keep it up.
@@DonnchaMcC thank you👍
What a great video. It resonated so much with me, being this weird nerdy kid all the way through high school and even college. Every time I tried to talk to people about this kind of stuff it felt so off, like they don't get it.
What you say about masculinity is so spot on,and yet not a lot of people recognize it even though it is to intuitive how attractive and engaging it is to use your masculinity properly.
Keep up the good stuff man 👊
@@vgmduarte thank you, Victor💪
YESSS THANK YOUUUU FINALLY A DEEP VOICE GUIDE. LOVE YOUR VOICE MAN!!!!
@@archen_7 hahah ofc brother, thank you for the suggestion on my previous video. Always open to ideas
Im 6’3 and my voice can be deep but yet i tense up and sound high pitched, thanks you for the tips LG
@@Logman7_ for sure man, relaxation is the biggest takeaway👍
Thank you so much for the valuable content brother. I may not use it for girls but I love to use it for business. Thank you man
Thank you so much for this video! 😊 You posted on this topic right when I needed it the most. Thanks a lot man, your videos mean a lot to us!
@@DesertedBerries always bro, thank you for giving your input on a previous video, that’s why I made it :)
I’ve noticed that my voice comes with how I’m feeling. By that I mean that usually when I’m insecure or very stressed I talk with a stressed and not as deep voice. When my mind is clear and I’m relaxed, my voice deepens and stays like that up until I start to overthink things.
@@AlejandroCardona-r2y huge realization bro, good thinking.
I’ve found what helps me rather than “trying to make my voice deeper” is just doing what I can to be in a relaxed, confident state where it happens naturally
relax your throat and just let the words flow up and creak
@@danielspoon1234 I like the imagery, Daniel, good thought🌊
I’m 13 and I wanna do context creation kinda like you but my voice is my main thing that’s makes me scared when doing videos narrating, and this really helped out man thank you I’ll definitely try, and hopefully I get the voice I want.
I'm still a rather timid and softspoken guy, but when I am with good friends I do tend to be more outspoken, friendly, and loud. I am still noise conscious and don't like disturbing other people, but that's not my main issue in most situations. I feel like I don't have enough to talk about, like there's not enough happening or I don't remember stuff. That is why I struggle to start or continue a conversation
@@blixzero0 great self-awareness bro, there’s a few vids I have on conversational skills too, TLDR is to start letting people into your inner dialogue and saying what’s on your mind, finding things that spark the other persons interest and then learning from them why it’s so interesting. You meet a lot of sick people and learn a lot of great things that way.
Love your videos, I have watched so many the last days since I discovered your channel. Only now I realized how "few" subscribers you have. I am shocked, you deserve hudreds of thousands if not millions. This is some genuinly great stuff you share and I thank you for that. You are helping me, all the way to little Norway. Really glad I found your channel, and I am looking forward to future videos too, Luke :-)
@@vegardpedersen thank you Vegard, the support means the world. It makes my day to hear that what I’m doing helps someone. Much love bro
this works already, pretty freaking cool
@@WrightDevin381 glad to hear it, Devin👍
This is my first time seeing you man . Ima sub and thanks for not just giving out tips and actually connecting with us especially with your past . I hope you do well in life bro 💪🏻🔥
@@RyomenRishabxgarou thank you bro, same to you🔥
Congratulations on achieving your goal bro!! Just discovered you on the YT homepage. I love the advice you gave and felt like it resonated with me alot. Feels like you went through exactly what I am going through right now.
Hope you keep you're genuineness and honesty about, these platforms quickly change people for the worse. Have a blessed day!❤
@@drago056 thank you, glad you could resonate with my story :)
Authenticity comes first in YT and in life, always.👍
I've been having it rough for the last few months with my own self-confidence and comparing my own to others, and this video is a little eye-opening. Should definitely worry about myself a lot more.
@@dumbarum2350 You’re coming from the right place my man. Worrying more about yourself may not be as helpful as you may think, but taking an interest in doing things to benefit your future self is going to do wonders.
Welcome to the journey my guy🤝
dude your channel is so underated i can actually watch through your whole vids without getting bored and the information you provide is always so helpful
@@aidantyb9292 you a real one, Aidan, thank you🤝
Great videos man. I've shared the same experience as you in high school. That feeling of being devastated and being punished while others were being praised and having fun. This video clicked with me just like the others, will start to implement these steps in my life. I just want to say thank you and thank you for this inspiring mindset of helping other bros who are in this situation. An important thing is to never feel retreated.
@@OnlineArchival thank you for sharing brother, I’m glad my story could help.
Let me know how implementing and taking action goes, I’d love to see you around my comment section again👍
I rarely comment. This video is a wonderful surprise. Thank you. And I hope you won't be blinded and carried away by success when your channel grows big. Good luck
@@zanezang3576 thank you, Zane. I appreciate the confidence you have in me. Glad I could help :)
I can just say that, this video helped me a lot. Made me think abiut some stuff in my life. You got a new subscriber btw.
@@galido_ thank you bro, I appreciate the support
@@Luke_Grenoble No problem
you’re amazing bro I haven’t watched the vid yet but I just know it’s gonna be fire
@@cooldude11_1 thank you dawg, lmk what you think🔥
thank you bro. your content is so inspiring
@@carloscardona5365 ofc bro, thank you for saying that
⭐ The WIN is that you put yourself out there.
@@cooldude11_1 huge key right there, hope you get that win today bro🔥
Hell yeah, godly algorithm pull. Subbed to this masterpiece of a channel, keep it up bro.
@@bruno.domenech thank you bro, I’ll keep making content if you keep taking action🤝
I already know lots of this and i have started doing all of that like a year back.
I thoughtbit would be a normal video but this is great my guy.
I know how it is being and introvert, i also know how to be am extrovert.
Just saying good content.
@@rebeliuss thank you bro, that means a lot🥂
Dude, your're the best.
@@Mano_Zola no u😎
thank you great video
@@mathiasbrillgrnborg9443 thank you, Mathias, great comment🤝
I catch myself often times carrying more for the opinion of others. Mostly people that I see more often like familiy members or people I work with. In those situations I am not sticking to what is my opinion, but switching to what they wanna hear. Most of the times it really stresses me, because they are sensitive topics like politics or religion and my gut is telling me that if I would speak my opinion there would be like big discussion and in the worst they wouldnt like me as much anymore or keep distance. So do you have any tips in how I can handle those interactions in the future?
@@ironkurkowski8964 with big things like religion and politics I tend not to bring them up unless it’s a discussion with someone I know is respectful and genuinely wants to talk rather than rant.
Its totally normal to have some need to be accepted by the people around you, you just have to make sure the people you put into the camp of opinions that matter to you are only a few quality people, rather than everyone.
Hope that helps brother🤙
@ thank you very much :)
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Thanks bro, I really appriciate this
@@IllesEgri ofc man, thank you for the support
Genuine great tip im ngl. How did you discover this? I’d never have given it that much conscious thought if I didn’t come across a video like this
@@zvezda4994_ thank you man. I was tired of constantly resetting back to a life of being alone again and again throughout school. I swore to myself that I wouldn’t ever be in a place of shit mental health like I was for so long because I just lacked the confidence or social skills to put myself out there.
Since then, I’ve had my eye out for anything that influences social life, even the small shit. It’s what is super interesting and tends to come easy to me now that I’ve had the drive to learn it.
Hope that helped bro :)
you're gonna get so famous bro i can already see it 💪keep it up man
@@irags8509 thank you for the support man, it means the world
Yo bro, I dig that!
This is the first time I see a video of "how to be confident" when the guy is ACTUALLY confident
They made a diff group chat and added everybody but me, lmao
My self improvement arc starts again, I just gotta make friends from scratch at 20, but this time I don't have the express pass to easy friends through school; i gotta... socialize with random people😱💀lmao
On the topic of voice tone, i found that my natural speaking voice /tone is at F-G#2
@@StolenMemes323 you got this bro
Can you do a tutorial on how to strike fear into the hearts of criminals next? Lovely video!
@@CharlesKudrow vengeance is always the answer😈
Bros got that solo leveling system🔥💪
My girlfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. She said things were too awkward between us, and she felt like i was being dry or uninterested. However, that just wasn't the case. Im only 13, so im at that awkward stage where dating doesn't count, but it still counts to the kids at that age. I'd love to hear if you have any insight or advice on this topic.(whether you make a video or just add a comment, anything is fine) Im not good with having 1 on 1 conversations either, lol.
@@V0IDZxDM I’m sorry to hear that bro, breakups are tough to go through, especially when young.
How a relationship works and turns out is by definition always due to how both people in it show up. If she said it was too awkward between you or things felt dry, you may have contributed to that.
It also means that she likely didn’t vocalize issues she was having until she reached a breaking point. It’s on you both.
Ofc I could be wrong, I don’t know the details but keep in mind that love always is in flux, it comes and goes and there is no such thing as a bad experience with it. There is always something to be learned and taken away so next relationship can be even deeper and more rewarding. The only time a relationship happening is ever a bad thing is if you choose to carry resentment from it.
Good on you bro for having that experience and learning from it. I have no doubt you’re on the path to better relationships in the future.
Thank you for sharing your story🤝
Speak in front of camera. Damn that really works. I am going to start soon.. look how bro was in his first video and now.😮💨
@@envero. fr brother, cheat code right there hahah
you're awesome, brother
@@SiPaX1 no u😎
I had a conversation with my brother saying that mouth breathing isnt unattractive and im like bro yes it is i feel like thats common sense
Great Content buddy!! SUBSCRIBED.
@@chetan6709 thank you, Chetan :)
you should watch Austin Wayne bro he gives good advice about dating
Guys just let puberty do its thing
@@ArachnidEdits_ for people who haven’t gone through puberty yet, definitely. You will get sorted out
omgg u litt look like Robert Pattinson mateee
and btww thanks a lot for the advicess .. lots of loveee
@@dRRRy Bellaa where have you been loca
which map did u use
1:10 3:30
I really hate because i have natural deep voice. But now i think it's a gift from God
bro with hunter eyes and slimmer nose would be a god looking model
Ikr😢
This is actually so fucking true bro, you are being added to my super nova next planet explosion
@@hustleracez4897 it’s an honor🙌
This mindset has it all backwards.
Greatness isnt learning to be a "social leader" that takes up space with loudness and confidence (and probably just with ulterior goal of getting secs).
Greatness is creating an environment where even the weakest voice can be heard. If anything, we need LESS loud speakers.
This hit deep.
@@planettobi like your voice bro
@@Luke_Grenoble 😳🤣 brooo
Thank you bro
@@thomaspapademetriou5060 thank you for the support, Thomas🤙
My nose is bent and i have only realized it the last month snd not only that I have been breathing from one nostril and I didn't know 😅😢
@@Malik_ly damn that’s some powerful breath brother, keep it up
You should start s podcast bro ❤😂
@@noahhh.9704 that would be big moves bro🔥
All i need to do is wake up at 10 something and stay in that state somehow cause apparently my voice is really low cause when my heard me i guess she was caught off guard lol but every guys voice is low in the morning
@@saibakookami morning voice is definitely a thing, partially could be because you’re in a super relaxed state when you first wake up🧠
Thanks bro just what i needed i have a question though, when i feel like am talking with my throat and my voice is dry how can i instantly shift my voice to belly ?
Another question is that because am used to shallow breathing i fucked up my posture i don't feel like am breathing into my lower back (diaphragmatic breathing) when am walking or just standing do you know any good exercises?
@@yacinechikivara4700 good thought man, for this straight up just drink water and catch yourself every time you’re mouth breathing and switch to breathing through your nose. I know at least for me the main reason I get dry throat is from mouth breathing.
Speaking from your belly gets easy and natural just by conscious practice creating habit👍
@@yacinechikivara4700 I didn’t use any exercises, but I swear by habit trackers, put it up on your wall, just like the one I show in the video and cross off days you went the whole day remembering good posture.
The point isn’t to hit every day, it’s to do better than last week. If you get none, at least you were thinking about it. Next week, aim for 1. Eventually, you’ll hit each day and not even think about it. You got this bro
I remember watching a Video Like that without the guy himself not even having a deepvoice
I thought this was going to be a cringe video on some big ego teenager telling you how to speak and instantly get women. I was expecting a laugh, lol, but those first few minutes of talking about how leaving your old friends behind made you YOU and that you can finally act like yourself, that was exactly how it was for me. I instead cut them out of my life, as I was always finding myself to be exhausted, tired, and depressed after spending time with them. I never had friends outside of that circle of people until I left it. I always found myself to be "introverted," but the fact is I was acting like somebody else with that circle of people, so I could never just simply be myself, and it was exhausting. 10 years later, I'm now 28 and I find myself connecting with so many people. I don't like to say I have many friends because I believe you can't care for too many, and a true friend is somebody you can be there for, but I do find myself having fun and joy with so many more people now. It's funny because back then I was so insecure and had zero friends. Now people think I have an ego because I just simply don't care about what people think about me anymore, and the fact is nobody really does think about you anyway. The only people who do think about you are those closest to you or those that seriously hate you, and believe me, some people just hate for no reason what so ever, so their opinions literally don't even matter, they are fighting battles in their own minds, so leave them to it.
@@HELPICANTFINDJOHNCENA what a well thought out comment bro. Thank you for sharing your story. I have a lot of similarities for sure, especially with the journey of trying to be someone you aren’t to becoming more yourself. And you’re 100% right, you don’t need a huge crowd of friends, often a tight group who genuinely care about each other is so fulfilling. Thank you again for sharing, man
thanks bro
@@dragz4life422 yessir🫡
Once you start, you can NEVER GO BACK
@@Onlyspaceman * me trying to undeepen my voice after going too far *
You are the white ginger American version of Hamza Ahmed ngl, new follower, I’ll be here through the way
@@IsmaelHernandezdibello hahah thank you bro, hoping to be a bit different than Hamza but he was a great early inspiration.
Appreciate your support man💪
Brooo to be honest with you, people and even teens used to shame me for having a deep voice, even on vc channels, there is always that one cute guy with a female voice trying to crack his voice so he make fun of me. seriously I found it kinda funny and insulting at the same time.
@@laibidante9097 yeah man, if you have something that sticks out from others, the boys definitely love to point it out, doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing, just means you’ve got to razz them back😏
From the start it is giving hamza
ahmed vibe.
Thank you so much, this video was so helpful! I’m a girl but most of it was relevant to me and valuable to hear. Keep making videos, they are entertaining and inspire action which is rare!
@@Onerose-yu7dxq your comments make my day
Broo i started few days ago working on my deep voice and when i speak even if i try to speak from the belly or diaphragm my lower part of throat gets engaged and its kind hurts inside. Then i tried doing it by sleeping knees elevated and i started to feel my chest a little bit but i still can figure out the way to speak from my belly. When i try to throw out the air using words air goes out in one word and even that word dont even feel deeper as i imagined the thing is my voice is pretty much deeper already bit it sounds rude like it's not deep but kinda like rudey or bigger but not fuller it has no air in it you feel me bro have any advice on it or its just natural when we practice deep voice
@@srgeditz9788 nah bro hahah, my bad if my point wasn’t made clear enough. You don’t want to feel like you’re forcing air out, the point is to speak in a relaxed way. What thinking about air coming from your diaphragm rather than chest does is relaxes your vocal cords. You never want it to hurt or feel forced.
Hope that helps bro💪
@@Luke_Grenoble i guess a video can help bro you see there are lots of people creating vids on deeper voice but they ain't know shit about how to explain properly. But your explanation is kinda easy to understand more than those people at least. I guess if you create a video totally on how to achieve the deeper voice it'll help a lot not only me but a lot of other fellas as well.
Here's my problems that you can use to explain -
1) I can't feel my chest vibration when I speak
2) I breathe from my belly but when I try to speak i don't know why but it doesn't change at all like no change at all
3) when I breathe from my belly I feel like my lungs are lacking oxygen and then I have to breathe from my chest instead of belly
4) also my throat hurts when I get deeper or try to speak deeper but i guess I pretty much know why and now I can handle it but take this point as well
5) I tried humming by sleeping and I felt vibration and buzzing in my chest sternum and I felt my voice was little different
6) don't know how to engage my belly
7) i tried to speak in a very relaxed way but it was not working.
8) I'll send you a voice not on instagram "if you don't mind " please check it it's my voice I'll speak like i normally speak my insta I'd - sr_goad. If you don't want to ofc u can ignore it totally.
Love from India
Ill stick around man, remember me
@@0XDOXS I’ll be counting on it bro🤙
Can you make an articulacy video next?
@@karasu_tengu14 how do you mean, how to articulate well or more so how to make good points and be convincing?
@Luke_Grenoble on how to be more articulate and express thoughts clearly and vividly.
@ I gotchu bro, great thought🤔
You sound like John Krazinski.
@@Ives1776 I’m a Krazinsk-head
Subscribed
@@jasonoutcasted9058 you a real one, Jason💪
Damn for a whole 8 minutes I forgot I was watching a How to get a deeper voice video
@@Cow--- a cow with a deep voice, now that’s powerful
i feel like we're gonna have the next hamza
White hamza lmfao
imagine clicking on this video and the guy sounds like spongbob
@@v4m_p. Tom Kenny is my dawg fr bro
These timestamps are so random
Crazy that young Conan O’Brien has a deep voice.
@@seizetheday89 damn bro that one kinda spot on tho😳
i swear bro trying to rizz me up this whole vid
@@drawlord8935 😏
lol I literally just want a better voice to sing with. I find it dumb that people want a deeper voice to be more attractive
Guys this channel is just Tom Holland practicing his American Voice
@@MrBubbyG_Official don’t tell Zendaya😳
Meanwhile me trying to reduce my deep voice cause most of my friends cant understand what I say lol..
@@Music_overs045 bro don’t watch this video😳 you’re going to become unintelligible
relax the throat so all the cu-manliness..can flow through it.
@@astrovicis 😳
Tactic 1: NOT trough the stomach👎👎👎. breath through your DIAGRAPHM
tactic 2: the same as air. dump advice tbh
tactic 3: don‘t do that. just build up closure with SOVT exercises
@@cfwsimon thank you for the feedback bro, comments always welcome
You look like a nice guy but damn I don't trust no one who got BLOCKED by ALL his friends, lmao.
Not ignored, BLOCKED. What dark secrets you hidin', homie?
Yea icl it’s really rare to see someone get blocked by ALL their friends, sum had to have happened even if it was after they graduated
The girl probably bad mouthed him to his friends. You shouldn’t assume what you don’t know some people r just weird and will find a problem with you even if there is none