Stop Asking Women On Dates! Do This Instead
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If you're having challenges with getting a girl to go out on a date, then you're probably asking her the way most guys do, by asking and then waiting for her to say yes or no. So here's another way to ask that makes you look confident and increase the chances that she'll say yes.
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Just have a conversation that’s good and you sound confident and if she’s interested say something like, “ Hey let’s grab a drink this weekend are you interested?”
by saying "are you interested?” you aren't assuming attraction
What if her friends decide to tag along? Then what?
@@hassanmasood186
You dump her immediately and bloc her
@@baha3alshamari152 now that's an alpha male mindset no time for bull crap
@@Majin33 facts I would change that to “are you free this weekend ?
I concur with this message. I would point out that every guy needs to develop a sense of humor. Women love guys who can make them laugh and to break that nervous mentality when approaching is to not care. When you don't care about the response you have the freedom to be yourself and it comes off as confidence. The girl you like says no, who cares, there's others.
Thanks for saying this man.... We should date a girl who makes us feel to be in our shoes..rather than to be like pretending
Absolutely true. Did this last night and then saw this video this morning I said, “ in anticipation of our upcoming date, I’d like to know if you like Mexican food or want steaks…” Never done that before. And she responded so positively and said she’d love to go on a date with me. What a trip(p)!
I’ll vouch for this approach, hands on.
I busted a hottie checking out my motorcycle as I was walking up to it the other day. She said she wanted to ride one someday. I told her I have an extra helmet so today's the day. We spent the next couple of days together. Spontaneity is key. Shock her first I always say!
Excellent video! We agreed on a 2nd date during dinner but I needed to know how to propose the question the next day. You hit the target 🎯 !!
Great video as always coach!! Have a blessed day.
Likewise Dan, The Man! 😃
agree 100% spot on, the same mindset of a successful sales person.
I mostly agree with this however I will add that you need to make it clear that you are taking her on a DATE not to hangout. There are so many awkward situations out there where guys think they're on a date but the girl things they're just hanging out as friends, then when he makes a move he gets rejected and the classic 'I thought we were just friends' line.
people handle dating too much like business. If your hot she'd be happyy to find out your more thsan just a friend and she would never sayy that if you passed her hot test
Well first off the man should already be displaying intent and flirting with her before he asks her out. That way she knows you're not just trying to be friends but unfortunately most guys skip that step just to go right for her number and ask her out.
@@samsharper1700 well here's the thing though if you as the man are initiating flirting then you'll never have to guess if she's into you hot or not. Because flirting with her will tell you where you stand by how she reacts. You see most guys including myself when we start out picking up girls we think we need to read her mind to see if she's into us. But instead it's as simple as is she flirting back does like my advancements etc. I learned that the hard way and hopefully you learn too
As this video was playing, i used your sentence on a tinder girl that i was talking to. Date scored for saturday. It works boys !
Nice!
This is gold! Thanks man
Thank you, Tripp🙏.
Your Wonderful🥰.
I 100% love this advise.
Great video!
Your videos rock. Peace tripp
you know I had that mindset too and then I kept watching those X signs a girl likes you and it began to give me doubts. Now, I've stopped watching those videos and am gonna try to ask the girl I'm interested out the next time I get to be alone with her.
Interesting approach.
This tip actually works. If you brainwash yourself into thinking you're the most amazing guy in the world(works better if it has some truth to it) and always speak your mind, women will naturally be drawn to you and almost never reject you. Up until 2020s social isolation messed with my confidence and conversation skill, I never got turned down by a woman with this very mindset. I'm actually amazed someone else figured that out
In other words, ALWAYS believe you are "God's Gift To Women"! That's the mindset I am still learning to attain!
This guy is smart. Great advice.
Walk in the control that you have!!!
You better ask if she has a boyfriend before assuming to spend money on a date.
Interesting. Running is a great way to get confidence about your abilities.
best confidence builder
The girl I’m talking to right now randomly FaceTimed me this past weekend. Totally threw me off guard, but it made my day (no, I didn’t tell her that lol). We’re going out in a few weeks. 🤞🏽
Weeks? Expect her to flake
Lol did she flake?
She flaked
So basically referring to the beginning, we are using the law of assumption
😜got me smiling on your intro about the so called assuming attraction.
Uh no. I did this technique that you’re talking about. It got me a friend zoned and she said she had a boyfriend (prob not). I said “I have you in my contacts under (her name), all I need is your number“. She put in her number. I suggested (didn’t ask her) as she was putting in her number “we’ll grab a drink sometime“. She automatically said defensively I have a boyfriend. After texting her a couple times I found out she felt like that she was too easy in agreeing and therefore felt cheap and low value. Why? She wanted me too ASK her out not EXPECT her to go out.
maybe don't try pick up lines. that's movie shit
but I agree this advice sucks
Damn I love this. This makes me excited to go on a date with Alondra
"When are you free" is a waste of time. If you link to her schedule, then she's going to see the time as hers. So on a subconscious level she will feel justified in being able to change her mind.
You have to communicate your time is a valued commodity and scarce. So if she wants to see you, she has to commit to showing up when you're able. The subtle difference is that if she cancels, she's a flake for wasting your time.
With apps giving women so many options now, you have to give a compliance test to gauge real interest. If a woman is genuinely interested she will adapt to your schedule and not want to be seen as the flaky type.
I think the golden thing is to 1) ask her as early as possible if your intentions are romantic, and 2) open up with the sentence, "I like you, and I want to take you out this day, can we exchange numbers?" and ask her directly and privately as possible and don't be witty, smart, or try to make it into a big thing where you're forcing her to have to answer yes. If she likes you, she's going to like you from the get-go. It also happens to work half the time and even more so you'll eventually get it to work 80% of the time when you know your type and you know what sort of signals they're sending. She'll drop interest just as soon as you start talking or not doing anything to get her attention. So it is best to make the move fast and quick so you know and it doesn't hurt as much since you didn't lose too much other than whatever small amount of time you spent to ask her out.
“ …if not, you better start doing some of those things accomplish those things that will show you how to respect yourself.”
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02:40 "You're finding the time when she is free and available". The yt channel "Darius M" says on this point that this "finding" shouldn't be an extensive dialogue, but instead that you should present her with two options for a date&time (that you've chosen, and which are no more than 1 week distant from now). And then if she rejects both options he says that you can conclude immediately from that that she's not interested (so then you immediately dump her completely and spend no more time on her, and go fishing in other waters).
The girl I like is at work so I was very hesitant and she doesn’t t seem to show the same interest. I honestly thought she was just being nice.
As a female I would say yes just the way he asked regardless if I'm attracted to the guy or not, but what would the guy have to do during that date so he don't end up in the friendzone??
you can invite her, for excample:
i'm going at x bar or restaurant at 7pm, you are invited....
thank you so much, I will try that in 8 hours from now, please return me to write my experience.
Okay girls, be ready! I AM APPROACHING YOU.......
That’s funny. I really am bewildered why a great person like me can possibly be single at 38. It’s because I am very particular about who I date.
You are a guy who likes yourself. You're awesome.
-Best quote
Applies for women to. Think your awesome and know you're awesome and the friends will be rolling in.
Take your time. Friendships take time and a lot of spontaneous contact or meetups, and common interests. (College is the best environment) Dating a friend seems to be the best time.
Disclaimer: I have no actual dating experience but I have friends and making friends is basically this process. And how different could it be?
FREE GAME!! If you can prove to her that you can teach her something she thinks she needs you in someway & becomes attracted to you. Trust me works like a charm. Feel her out though, see where she might need you. If you give off leader vibes she’ll want to be around you! (A leader is different from a boss, don’t get it twisted)
When I asked a girl if she's free Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Sunday?, she said that she isn't interested in hanging out. So, I learned to LovePanky's article on asking to hang out that it's okay to ask twice. Later, I ask her if she wants to play games w/ me at my place she her interest is playing games with friends & I shared what I do w/ games but she rejected me again. I witnessed an article titled "Stop Hanging Out With Women and Start Dating Them".
Absolutely, no woman with self respect wants to "hang out". You need to ask her out on a proper date. She is protecting herself from fboys and situationships. She takes herself seriously and expects any man to do the same.
@@tonilynn6819 Would you appreciate it if a man said to you "rather than hanging out, would do you think about going on a Starbucks date?" if I got rejected twice when she thought I was going to hang when first asking out & refused to hang out still when asking the second time?
You are really clever man.
What about women that look angry at men? Should we steer clear of them?
The Dennis system !!
assume attraction exactly, I didn't ask her I told her to go out and grab a drink with specific date and time now the only thing she changed was time and everything went smoothly.
I’ve been getting girls numbers and Snapchat’s but when I try to set a date they just leave me on delivered like what’s the point of giving me the number I guess that’s where I messed up because I be telling them we should go on a date sometime
thanks
If you are dating a girl is it normal to text first thing in a morning throughout the day once things have settled in the evening until bedtime as we don’t live together because Me and my person have been in context every day for nearly 3 years. Over the last few days she’s told me we aren’t in a relationship so please stop saying next year we will go on holiday, come stay over, you know doing what people do when they’ve been together for nearly 3 years. She said we are just dating. So I said look if we are dating then we don’t do all this talking we’ve been doing, we just arrange to meet up. So last night I said you know where I am when you are free we will go out. There is only so much talking to be done when 2 people are dating If I keep asking her I will get a no I can’t make it then because I know her busy schedule so it’s best if she lets me know when she is free. I’m so confused with her just recently to the point I said look if you don’t want me the end it she said I don’t want it to end between us because I love you. Am I right in what I say by dropping all contact every day and just say to her let me know when you are free and we shall meet up
THX !!!
I just buy her a drink!
The only thing I ask her is what kind and then the date is already happening.
Yes! theres so many damn labels and rituals, just exist in the moment, you will know the path your creating, if you dont, move on
Im not. Im working non-stop. My dog is with me. Done.
I'm 22. I've never had a girlfriend. I have cerbreal palsy in my legs so my walking is very odd. I was wondering how I could go forth with dating and relationships knowing that my disability will always be apart of me. I Was diagnosed when I was little and have struggled to walk. I do manage to walk but it's very strange. When I walk into a room all eyes are on me just becuaue of how I walk. Can i get your help?
Disability or no, brother. The thing that holding us back is our insecurities which is the opposite of confidence. Even the great guy can still not get a girl if he's not confident. Maybe she can get girls for a short term but eventually it will not last. You must love yourself first bro, date girls to filter them out who's gonna complement your being. And dont pretend because its not gonna last. You may have some disadvantages that you dont have control of. But you can work on the things that you can and be damn sure that its polished down to almost perfection. Like hygiene, sense of humour, intellectual, grooming, behaviors, habits, confidence etc. Remember. If you think you cant or can do something or be someone, you are most likely be right
Broo.....my relative has the same problem and the most confident man i know. He makes fun of his disability and keeps his head high with a smile.....Develop your confidence and get in shape
That is it.
Bro my first date was sat on the couch watching movies.. believe in yourself
My grandfather had cerebral palsy, and he was the most bad ass man I knew. Like the man said high self esteem it’s something that’s apart of you you either cowar or own that shit and my grandfather did just that.
My man just walk with a cocky smile on your face. Of course is a struggle, but you’re the one carrying that weight, not the people looking at you. Smile at them, let them think that they’re will never been able to walk in that way as you do.
People in the room are sorted, if you want to approach girls of girl is different, but with slightly adjustments you can impress girls as well 😊
Take care bro, and spread love
Everyone is weak
If a girls into u say on a dating app skip all the small talk and ask her when she’s free that’s all u gotta do
I thought it was never wise to assume & better to be straight forward & just ask......no? Just wondering 🤔
This video partially saved my life. God may have ordained this video. I've been doing the opposite for years. Saying "assume attraction", could also be said "have faith there's attraction".
Hear me out ,so last week I had to sell this pair of stilettos that had belonged to my sister she barely wore em so I set out to ask all my girl friends if they fit size 7 ,one of em hits me with “ooo I really like them” I ask her when she’s available for the transaction she said “I’m off Monday and I’m not doing anything” I tell her I’m in the middle of moving so she can’t come over place is a mess I suggest we go to hers or some place else she goes yes that’s fine ,context:my best friends ex girl,now guys I wanna know fam what are the chances talked to my boy about it he said he don’t gaf if shit was to go down so if it comes down to it or if it wil happen what are my chances
What if she request you to buy her data while you haven't met yet but still arranging a meetup?
Buy 🤣🤣🤣
@@mosessseruwagi9377 does it sounds alpha?🤣🤣
Assuming is a great top..It gives you confidence which bishes love
Love the advice but a few tips to make you seem that u know what ur talking about wear a shirt that’s tight around the chest and arms and clean up ur beard
I'm sure there will be many women saying or thinking, why does he think i'm interested in him, i don't Know him, i don't Know his personality or intensions, i don't know his talents. Who does he think he is 🤔
1:10 bro is asking me how I act when someone likes me, like somebody has ever really liked me💀
The next time I see a hot girl I'm just gonna assume that she likes me already, and drop any kind of thoughts about whether I need to do anything extra to make her like me more or anything like that.
Woah a girl thats intrested and attracted to me? that some real science fiction
And this is how women go on a date for the free dinner and drinks.
The problem with this method is that men now of days have been raised, or condisioned to be scared to approach women. This is becuase the Natural way of to flirt is touching and having a good laugh or talk with the women. BUT the problem now of days is men are scared to touch women becuase that it the norm we have been raised, this woudnt be a problem if women wanted proper equal rights but most women wont chase a man they like becuase they think he should put the effort, if we cant flirt and attracte women like we uses to women shoulnd espect us too and ask us out instead
There's someone I like from Church. Instead of making it all formal and official and painful asking her out on a date after Church I'm going to ask if her and her daughter would like to go out for breakfast.
no that's the wrong way to do it never group or children dates
@@gyver471 Her daughter is older college aged. It's perfect she can be a buffer and if her mom isn't sure she can encourage her.
Dont do it. You are doubling your odds of rejection by letting 2 women with the ability to say no into your realm. And you get to pay for it.
How to get a girl to TALK TO YOU after she had put u in the friends zone ? I don’t want to chase her coz she rejected going out on a date twice, but tbh am really interested in her, wtf should I do ?! She still sees me on what’s app stories on daily basis we didn’t cut ties but I don’t talk to her nor do I check her stories in social media at all !… someone plz give me a hint !… she still sees me as a friend but i am interested her romantically !
dont waste your time and just walk away, forget about her, she already rejected twice, you cant convince attraction; she either likes you or not. heads up king, there are other girls out there for you
@@Mandingo17 first date we ever had was magical, oustanding i even kissed her multiple times, then ive allowed my insecurities to take the best of me in the WORSE imaginable manner, ive let her down and hence she was heartbroken too and put me in the friends zone :(
@@dronetheworld4k67
Just learn your lesson and do better next time with a different girl
Once a woman rejects you and you continue pursuing, you're just creepy in her eyes. Give it up my friend and walk away with your dignity in tact.
BTW, NEVER tolerate bing put in a woman's Friend Zone. Women do not chose their partners from the Friend Zone.
@@David-lx4yb am not Pershing her I have my dignity I just have moved on also I don’t contact her whatsoever
Wow
Be taller than her and handsome, and be yourself
IYou can be super confident,But still pull no girl.
Come on. You know they Re or aren't....just my experience age 15-42 dating.
All you are saying is not to ask a woman on a date, if you are not 100% sure that she is in to you. It means, do not take a risk and miss opportunities.
More statements..less questions... that's work for me
I am the best in the world that's what I think
This guy is so the opposite of Coach Corey Wayne. According to Coach Corey Wayne, dates is an opportunity to hang out, have fun and hook up. It's literally the opportunity to seduce for indoor Olympics
Indoor Olympics 😂😂😂😂 nice
Worse thing about asking girls out is that you can do EVERYTHING right and still fail with them.
Met a shy girl in my dorm. We both usually cook in the common kitchen quite late, and so one night we both fell into a long conversation.
I could have sworn she seemed way too into me which later made the whole confusing. I kept making her laugh and I definitely made her come out of our her lil introvert shell. Not only that. but on a personal level we were both so damn similiar. We could relate to each other on so many levels. Fast forward 1,5 hour into the conversation (Yeah, we were chilling a long time), I asked her if she would be down to go for a walk one day. Keep in mind I mention 'a walk' because she's very introverted and doesn't go to bars etc.
She was down and I told her I would add her on social media and text her. Fast forward a couple of days, and she hasn't accepted anything from me. Really just fucking sucks because you finally felt like you found an interesting girl that resonated with you.
Also remember, we have same cultural backgrounds.
It's always hurtful to go through this, and it's very difficult not to lose hope in dating and women after this.
wished i saw this video yesterday
Tripp, isn't it assuming that "she likes you already" an over-confident mind game?
This isn't exactly assuming, it's more of an act/mindset.
To add to my comment: This is for people that get nervous when talking to girls, it's assuming she likes you in your head so you don't THINK she doesn't. It gets rid of doubts
So I've been whatsapping this girl she wanted to get to know me more before meeting up.. how long should i wait for asking her out again? she is very responsive to messages
Wait a couple of days, and find out a good bit about what she likes and enjoys. Then, don’t ask her out on a date. Say, “hey, I know of this sweet little Italian place, and I’m in the mood for some pasta. Let’s go tonight :)”
You have to assume she’s into you; always approach women from a standpoint of “this girl is silly and cute” because otherwise you take the game to seriously and it gets to your head.
Text her less. You want to be the guy to get her to know better in person. Only text her to set a date otherwise it is possible that this could end in a textbuddy thing.
Tell her "Hey silly that's the whole point on going on a date is to get to know each other"
"i dont want to spoil the mystery, we can get to know each other in person. if you're not interested to meet or hang out, i dont want to waste mine or your time just texting."
The question no matter what you say is still asking her out on a date!
So it’s pointless in saying such things!
Just ask for companionship
Say
Hi my name is so and so
I been through things in life
Note:I actually tried this and yes this is true saying and what I did in my life was true but CONTINUE
I been through things in my life not the things u call normal for every man
Tell her where uve been in life gives a great way of saying u been through a lot to find her
I came from north Carolina just got out of Marines corps as a recon assist for 3 years went down to Washington as a cia
I was a transporter so far I haven't got to do things I wanted to do because I had business to do and
I'm done running from my opportunities that life gives me I had my identity erased when I left the CIA not looking for anything crazy because I can't blow it but I'm looking for companionship and someone very specific I was wondering if u could go out with me
There was a Walmart worker who gave quick glances at my face. She was cute, I wish I had asked for her number.
Go back, and ask her out.
Clickbait!! He doesn't suggest an alternative to asking out women.
Wrong. I say it at 2:30.
Stay single.Women rip men off.I rather have my car.
This sounds truly backwards. You assume and you open doors of everything blowing up in your face.
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Pretty beautiful shit
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Jeez, how sad & desperate for attention are you that you need to comment some stupid irrelevant bs like this in a TH-cam comment section?
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Wow congratulations, u wanna cookie or something? Stfu are you not getting any attention or love at home ?
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Your parents don’t love you,
I can’t imagine how miserable and desperate for attention to comment some stupid irrelevant bs like this here
I am significantly better looking than this dude especially in person. PLEASE don't do this