7 Psychologically-Backed Signs To Ask Someone Out

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +346

    After watching this video, did you confess to your crush?

    • @BluSeventyTwo
      @BluSeventyTwo ปีที่แล้ว +61

      doesn’t matter because there’s no way I’m doing that again lmao

    • @AllieAnn02
      @AllieAnn02 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@BluSeventyTwo same, it backfired on me

    • @BlobFishSucksAtThings
      @BlobFishSucksAtThings ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No

    • @lieaparisss08
      @lieaparisss08 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Hes tooo good for me😭

    • @garrisondodd9253
      @garrisondodd9253 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What's the point? She doesn't feel the same way about me 😔😔

  • @shoelace7676
    @shoelace7676 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    0:14 They look at you often
    1:11 They smile and blush but only at you
    1:47 Their friends know alot about you
    2:12 You can't stop thinking about them
    3:10 Flirtation
    3:35 They Remember
    4:12 Proximity and Comfortability
    You can do this!✨

    • @ashbulmer8797
      @ashbulmer8797 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I really can't 🤦‍♀️😖

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I have a crush, but I'd rather work on growing my business

    • @dothogs28
      @dothogs28 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@studiooftheoldwind137 i respect that

    • @orangToast
      @orangToast ปีที่แล้ว +4

      u forgot some
      1:47 Their friends know a lot about you
      3:10 Flirtation

    • @memor22
      @memor22 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They remember is so sweet! Im melting

  • @DeRez19
    @DeRez19 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Honestly, I'm glad I don't have a crush at the moment. It was interesting when I had one, but I have so much nonsense to clear up in my own life. I feel better knowing that I don't need anyone else to make me happy.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I really wish I could relate. I've been going from crush to crush for almost as long as I can remember.

    • @loonasthirddisciple9299
      @loonasthirddisciple9299 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same i’ve gone years without a crush it feels so freeing, especially with how hectic my life already is. i remember craving the feeling of having a crush on someone during that time period and now that i have a crush again my life is spiraling completely out of control

    • @sniper8717
      @sniper8717 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I remember when I didn't have a crush it felt so good now I do I hate it is that weird?

    • @DEMiURGE455
      @DEMiURGE455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is a lie and you know it. You need relationships for your mental health. If you went to an island away from humanity you would go insane.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DEMiURGE455 Better than going insane from trying to date a modern woman. I've tried sevral times. It hurt too much. Women do not care about men anymore.

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Timestamps
    1). They look at you often 0:13
    2). They smile and blush but only at you 1:10
    3). Their friends know a lot about you 1:47
    4). You can't stop thinking about them 2:11
    5). Flirtation 3:10
    6). They remember 3:34
    7). Proximity and comfortability 4:11
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙

  • @cute_marshm3llow950
    @cute_marshm3llow950 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    This channel makes love seem like a beautiful and innocent thing. We exist for love and care. ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Aww. That's so sweet. Love your username.

    • @cute_marshm3llow950
      @cute_marshm3llow950 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Psych2go Thank you! 💖

    • @saulbueno5640
      @saulbueno5640 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Trust is the absolute foundation when it comes to loving someone. You don't want to fall in love with someone who isn't able to hold up their end.

  • @angeloaquino6766
    @angeloaquino6766 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Confessed to my best friend a few days ago that I liked her. We’ve been close for a over a year, but I told her that I’ve recently started to look at her as a potential love interest. She asked me to promise we’d stay friends no matter what, and we reassured each other, while I added that I knew we both were busy and I’m not looking for anything serious or intensive.
    She said she’ll think about it, and that she’ll tell me when she’ll give her answer.
    Hoping it’s a yes! If it’s not, welp.

    • @Iveraxi
      @Iveraxi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did she answer yet or nah?

    • @angeloaquino6766
      @angeloaquino6766 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Iveraxi “I can’t date you ___, since I’ve only ever seen you as a friend.”
      Just like two weeks ago, but she did tell me that she thought about it and reconsidered. I’m still slightly confused but I’m doing my best to move past it.

    • @DemiFiend-nu2ho
      @DemiFiend-nu2ho 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@angeloaquino6766 how are you doing now?

  • @Amuckli
    @Amuckli ปีที่แล้ว +163

    😂 speaking of this video i did this today! It was a no but gladly were still friends. Thank yall so much for making this kind of content, you’ve rlly helped me alot with anxiety much love keep up the work!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      No worries! Glad that you guys get to still be friends!

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're blessed your crush still wants to be your friend. None of my crushes wanted to be my friend in the end (besides this one girl but she got a boyfriend so we barely talk now).

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hmm.. good luck for your next crush!

  • @CuddleFish124
    @CuddleFish124 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Lol I KNOW I’m gonna get shot down by my crush, like, 1000% sure. But I’m still gonna do it. Because it’s the first time I’ve had a crush in over 15 years and not saying something is driving me crazy. I don’t expect jacksh*t from my confession, but they are by far the most interesting person I’ve come across in my entire life, and I respect them enough to be honest with them, and let them make their own informed decisions, because I feel it isn’t fair to them for me to say nothing. Will I ruin a good friendship? Possibility. But I feel like honesty is the way to go with this person. Hopefully they will still let me be a part of their life, even with this new info. But if they don’t, I will respect any and all decisions they make, and at least be thankful for the time I was friends with someone so cool.
    I don’t care if I get friendzoned. I am 💯 ok with that. I just hope to continue to be a part of their life.

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Dude this is the best comment. I LOVE everything you've said here. And hey! My mom was in the same situation where she knew nothing would come of it, and she was pleasantly surprised, so maybe it'll happen for you too!

    • @olisa_hehe
      @olisa_hehe ปีที่แล้ว +16

      First of all, good luck! You seem like an awesome person, your crush is definitely lucky to have your in their life. And secondly, thanks. I don't want to make it about me, but you have me hope. I've neder had a crush in my life and I'm 16, so hearing that you didn't have a crush for the past 15 years makes me feel that that's ok and that I'm not alone

    • @kathrynholland4474
      @kathrynholland4474 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Goodluck hope it goes good and you guys still be friends if it does not work out

    • @sisisisi9416
      @sisisisi9416 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      WHAT HAPPENED?

    • @ravenx0x033
      @ravenx0x033 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope it goes well for you

  • @antti-karhu
    @antti-karhu ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been watching these videos for the past couple of days and I'm becoming more and more certain about two things:
    1) I'm crushing on my friend like an ice breaker.
    2) She does not have feelings for me.
    I'm not sure which one is tearing me apart more, keeping quiet about it to not ruin a great friendship, or the growing realisation there is no hope for anything more. 😣

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly I'm still recovering from confessing to my bestfriend 2 years ago, but my advice would be to move on whatever it takes, and that you're responsible for your own happiness, even if it means confessing to her because you want things between the two of you to be clear and that you're eventually the one who needs some distance from her.

  • @bugbug00
    @bugbug00 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    I actually confessed to my crush earlier today! to be fair I didn't exactly say it was me (it was a little note with candy), but I did draw a little planet as a hint, so hopefully he gets it lol
    Also he shows a LOT of these signs, so I think i have good chances :]
    UPDATE, he infact did not get the hint, but my friend ended up convincing me to straight up tell him.
    Long story short, I now have a date to the next dance (and also one next week) :)))

    • @Xuejinyuan
      @Xuejinyuan ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Update how it went!

    • @kindafunnyngl
      @kindafunnyngl ปีที่แล้ว +13

      good luck pal I'm sure they like you!

    • @nina93102
      @nina93102 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good luck!

    • @hydrothemushroom
      @hydrothemushroom ปีที่แล้ว +26

      men dont usually get hints but gl

    • @nothingmuchha
      @nothingmuchha ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck! C:

  • @sarahbridges-q6x
    @sarahbridges-q6x ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this lady's soft and gentle voice.

  • @peachy.x7510
    @peachy.x7510 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    My crush shows all these signs, but when I asked them out last week, they rejected me 🙁

    • @lucakiami8988
      @lucakiami8988 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      That's the danger of looking into signs. There's only one true way to find out if your crush likes you back... by asking them out. Signs simply do not matter, anything goes with relationships.

    • @josecorchete3732
      @josecorchete3732 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@lucakiami8988 Unrelated: "Anything Goes" is also a great music sketch in "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom". Always great to rewatch. IIRC the actress also married the director, so given this video, that is a plus :)

    • @dhanushraju8528
      @dhanushraju8528 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      maybe it was not right time or she had personal issue or somthing , try understanding more and after checking circumstances and analysis it
      after that ask him or her only out
      not "them"

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      ....or they didn't actually show all these signs and you deceived yourself into thinking that they show those signs in your head because you like them so much?
      At least now you know and don't end up wondering about it all your life
      Asking people out is good just so people know what's actually going on

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@dhanushraju8528 a no is a no, please stop the false hope and continuing to chase someone after a "no" is stalker behavior

  • @jalencurtis7222
    @jalencurtis7222 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This came just as I was thinking about somebody. What timing.

  • @neofulcrum5013
    @neofulcrum5013 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Me: hey, I know this is strange but I was curious if you’d like to hang out sometime. Just you and me?
    Crush: sure! Where do you wanna hang out?
    Me: *I didn’t think I get this far*

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ooooo yay !!! You go!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Nice! Do they know it's a date?

  • @miguelyarturo
    @miguelyarturo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    30 year old here, I've never been in a relationship, last year it was the first time in life I got to ask out my crush, I couldnt do it in person but it was through message and she accepted! We had a date and even tho there was no chemistry it felt great to do it!
    Before I wasnt sure she would accept my invitation and thought she was just being nice, so I recommend to do it, who knows maybe you both will click!
    Right now I have a new crush and I'm on the same page but I'm eager to ask her out, and this time would like to do it in person, so far circumstances has made it unavailable to see eachother but starting next month I'll have the chance.
    Best wishes and hope you find love!

  • @PetoGasparr
    @PetoGasparr ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I asked her out... she said no... 6 months ago, but she still looks at me and reacts to it; yesterday, I sent her a message, and she simply wished me a Merry Christmas. And thats all, no response. :D pff :D

  • @SasisaPlays
    @SasisaPlays ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It's always nice to snap back to reality, realising, that nobody liked you ever, and probably won't

    • @JohnSmith-fo5cx
      @JohnSmith-fo5cx ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I highly doubt it mate.....I used to think the same thing, but was surprised after i become more observant of how people react around me. Of course it wont be everyone, but next time you meet someone you like try and maintain eye contact and see if it is reciprocated longer than normal.

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I relate to this.

    • @Кошмарики-д2и
      @Кошмарики-д2и ปีที่แล้ว +1

      there's a small feeling of stability in it. i relate.

    • @blankslate8002
      @blankslate8002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's not reality bro

  • @PUREtrollin
    @PUREtrollin ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The feeling of hope in finding happiness in someone you like. It's very addictive like they say in the video, it's worse though because it rarely comes true. That fantasy cycle thinking of romance in the brain.

  • @ajpiper2791
    @ajpiper2791 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Tysm for all the videos they all help me alot with socializing and being able to read people... Great channel

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad that they can provide value!

  • @sir_mine_
    @sir_mine_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sadly, this is remembering me of the multiple times, that I had a crush and never asked them out. I had so many crushs on different girl and never told them and I hardly regret it. So, don't be like me and talk to the one who you have a crush on or you end up like me.

  • @vexar7575
    @vexar7575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To be honest, never change VO. She's perfect.

  • @ryuukokoro1095
    @ryuukokoro1095 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I wonder if there's a psychological study on how to know if a friend online likes you back. A lot of the typical signs are physical so it'd be nice to know if there are different solely verbal signs

    • @coronelkittycannon
      @coronelkittycannon ปีที่แล้ว +9

      online it will be a coinflip. hang out with them and then you'll find out

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We do have a video on that actually. Did you find it? th-cam.com/video/MLRn7v2FQSc/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=Psych2Go

    • @ryuukokoro1095
      @ryuukokoro1095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Psych2go Oh I didn't know that, thanks for the link!

  • @thesilliestrat
    @thesilliestrat ปีที่แล้ว +6

    EVERY SINGLE TIME I see some kinda tutorial on how to make a cute gift box or a cute card or something I THINK OF THEM. I barely know them. HELP.

  • @billy7741
    @billy7741 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This came out in a good time. I’m going to meet my crush of 2 years after Christmas and I’m planning to confess. Although I think he might feel the same 👀

    • @horizontreasures7701
      @horizontreasures7701 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg that’s amazing! I wish you the best of luck! I wish I had your confidence lol

    • @billy7741
      @billy7741 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@horizontreasures7701 oh well, who knows.. I might not be that confident when I’m actually there 😅 but thank you! I’ll try my best

    • @horizontreasures7701
      @horizontreasures7701 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@billy7741 ofc!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good luck! Keep us posted!

    • @billy7741
      @billy7741 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Psych2go He said he likes me too and would’ve been willing to give it a shot, but the distance is too much for him 😞

  • @Jinxedagain65123
    @Jinxedagain65123 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love the vids! As always! I always watch your videos and can relate to a lot of them

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! Are there other vids that you would like us to publish?

    • @Jinxedagain65123
      @Jinxedagain65123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Psych2Go hmmm, maybe one on the 4 stages of grief? I think it would be a really good vid

  • @AllisonSingleton
    @AllisonSingleton ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’ve had a crush on someone for 10 years while only talking to them a few times… We’ve gone to the same schools since elementary but I’ve always been too shy. Advice would be appreciated!

    • @RelationshipNucleus
      @RelationshipNucleus ปีที่แล้ว +4

      10 years is a long time 😀

    • @AllisonSingleton
      @AllisonSingleton ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RelationshipNucleus You’re telling me! 😂

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Talk to them, about literally anything, literally anytime you can get to do so. It will help if you can pretend that you haven't been noticing them for a straight 10 years though...... See if they would be interested in talking more some other time, and try suggesting some such other time for the two of you to talk more. I know you might be shy, but there's no going around talking to them! Be interested in what they have to say, and try getting to spend more time with them, preferably one on one.

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take the opportunity. I was friends with a guy for nearly 3 years. I confessed to him to get closure. He rejected me but actually in a nice way. I ended our friendship after that but it's given me space to forgive him, get less obsessed and realise that our friendship was toxic but I didn't miss any opportunities.

    • @AllisonSingleton
      @AllisonSingleton ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate both of your advice, however, I don’t think it works in this situation.
      I go to a big school so I only ever see him passing in the halls (which is rare). I also haven’t had any classes with him in a few years but when I did, we didn’t talk. We’re pretty much strangers to each other; I know little about him but would like to know more.
      All of this to say, I’m pretty much looking for a way to start talking.

  • @powerslave0606
    @powerslave0606 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I barely had the opportunity to coincide with my crush at the same place in order to know her better and allow more trust from her to arise towards me. But in one occasion, I think we went beyond getting caught looking at each other (individually); somehow our minds got "coordinated" and both of us looked at each other at the same time. No blushing, just intense mutual staring (about 30s).

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Talk to them

    • @vonnyr1867
      @vonnyr1867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you going to ask her out or confess your feelings. I've had a similar experience. Update :, He just liked the attention so nothing to add here.. But he did show some signs

    • @powerslave0606
      @powerslave0606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vonnyr1867 I don't even have her number, nor any social media. We don't have any mutual friends either.

    • @vonnyr1867
      @vonnyr1867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@powerslave0606 it's difficult isn't it. But don't give up try talk to her when you see her next.

  • @4hshi
    @4hshi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this just encouraged me so i'm gonna do it when I see him next week :) thank u for this. the timing couldn't have been any better

  • @Yashuop
    @Yashuop ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here🏆

  • @circus9556
    @circus9556 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh man, confessing to your crush can be really nerve wrecking, especially when you are not sure how they feel about you, but I'm glad I did, twice actually hahaha know why? because I got a best friend out of it and not only that, but I can call that bestfriend my girlfriend as well. About to be 6 months in and we love every passing moment when we are together. I actually ended up asking her one day, what if I never confessed that I liked you? Would you have told me you liked me? her answer? Nope, I would have died before telling you anything hahaha (we are both big introverts) so don't be afraid to take a risk, it may lead to something great down the line 😃

  • @quark_squark
    @quark_squark ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel like I will watch stuff like this and subconsciously start doing the opposite of all these things to ensure the other person never finds out I like them…

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds like you are not ready to be in a relationship!

    • @quark_squark
      @quark_squark ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go I’m not but I’m also in my late 20s soooo

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To my lovely people all across the world, I LOVE YOU AND I WANT YOU TO KNOE THAT YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON

  • @minermole101
    @minermole101 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Will I truly ever meet the one?
    Also:
    UwU outro dance UwU

  • @trifalgarh
    @trifalgarh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "What are you waiting for!?"
    Bro, I am 5'1, I don't get to ask anyone out or it could be some other flaw within me that makes sure that no one ever likes me. Besides, I don't think there's a need to. I am living pretty comfortably. Life can't be perfect, if I am alone then let that be one imperfection in my life. Everything else is going pretty well for me.

  • @Wind_Cursed
    @Wind_Cursed ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sorry, but there ain't no way I'm going to be able to ask ANYONE out 😅
    I second-guess and get worried about everything to the point that I won't even hang out with even just my friends unless they suggest it or they start hanging out with me. So asking a crush out? WAY too difficult for me. Even if I think "Will I regret asking them?" I still get too worried to make the first move
    The only people I do feel completely comfortable with making any sort of "first move" (even just hanging out or talking) is my current family. I am lucky to have such a great family, so I'll stick with them until anyone else starts making first moves

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, if you have someone in mind, hopefully you can show them these signs and they will make the first move :)

    • @Wind_Cursed
      @Wind_Cursed ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@genevievehansen211 I don't have someone in mind, yet. I can't seem to find anyone who I actually seem to really like at the moment and it has been like that for about a year. I would consider that a good thing, though, because now I don't have to constantly worry about what the person I like might think. Nobody seems to like me right now, either. I also only really start to like someone when I have talked to them on at least a few occasions in real life face to face to the point they could be considered a friend. If I like their personality, then I like them. Since I haven't talked to anyone but my family, I don't exactly have a crush right now
      Even if I did, though, I try my hardest to avoid showing any and all signs that may hint that I like someone due to being too afraid they'll start being uncomfortable around me and start hating (unless I know FOR SURE the person in question likes me). To me, it's better to only be friends than to ever risk a rejection. So maybe it would be hard for whoever I like to make the first move, too. Oh well, guess I'll be single my whole life, that's fine with me (except the money and work situation...)
      I just wrote this comment and my first comment based on knowledge from previous experiences

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Practice makes perfect! Makes you stronger after getting rejected.

  • @faszrynef.3606
    @faszrynef.3606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But seriously the animation is adorable! 😍😍😍

  • @m60enjoyer70
    @m60enjoyer70 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My crush is the first thought I have when I wake up and the last one before I go to sleep, and also in my dreams. It's nearly impossible to get it out of my mind lol.

  • @abnormality3345
    @abnormality3345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a crush at my school. She’s quiet most of the time, and only talks to around two people; girls. Even then I find her just making small talk with them. But I’m the only boy or male she actually talks to. We have deep conversations, and she changes her voice and body language. We’ve had bunches of funny moments and interactions and meet-ups, and she rarely talks to me in a group; mainly only talks with me in a group when none of them care, or just when we’re, well, alone. She’s done irrational things with me that I had no idea why she did, and I never can find her more than 2 meters away from me. She always seems to be in my eyesight/proximity. I didn’t really care for her at first; but as more of those moments carried out and our interactions continued, I became infatuated with her, and just have a week or two before I’m ready to ask. And this really helps with that.
    Approved, Psych2Go.
    I kinda just wanted to vent about this cause it’s been laying on my mind for a while.

  • @TriqxterRB
    @TriqxterRB ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One time when I was walking home from school I saw my crush standing on the other side of the sidewalk looking in my direction. She had previously showed some signs of being interested in me. So when I saw her looking in my direction my heart started to race and I was thinking "is this it is she gonna ask me out" but she just stood there looking very nervous and still looking in my direction, now I know what her intensions were. I think I'm ready to ask her out now. :)

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go do it! As a shy girl I never could tell anyone in real life I liked them. I would just stare and mix up my words

    • @pedramtajeddini5100
      @pedramtajeddini5100 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any updates?

    • @TriqxterRB
      @TriqxterRB ปีที่แล้ว

      still haven't sadly

    • @pedramtajeddini5100
      @pedramtajeddini5100 ปีที่แล้ว

      @TriqxterRB aww mann 😅

  • @Algreymitnoe
    @Algreymitnoe ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I wish i could ask my fictional crush out 🗿

    • @maem7462
      @maem7462 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The struggles are real lol

    • @The_Primitive
      @The_Primitive ปีที่แล้ว +6

      maybe you should go touch some grass and realise that you can't have a relationship with something that does not exist

    • @pyrolord2k977
      @pyrolord2k977 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@The_Primitive dang 💀

    • @blackonefifty
      @blackonefifty ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@The_Primitive so edgy you didn’t even notice the satire, astonishing

    • @Krisspbacon
      @Krisspbacon ปีที่แล้ว

      I too have a crush on my tulpa

  • @rebeccamace1534
    @rebeccamace1534 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m scared to tell mine. But I think I’m going to have to tell him. It’s time. But I’m really scared

  • @valentynar1143
    @valentynar1143 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Crazy how i have actually been planning to approach my crush lately lmaooo so thank you, but next year i guess

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep us posted!

  • @Zandezz.
    @Zandezz. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank goodness the advice I give is actually based somewhere. I used to be a very active advisor on the r/crushes subreddit and the advise I gave was almost always just what I thought would be right but now at least I know its actually right lol

    • @Windermed
      @Windermed ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eyy i know that subreddit, i've been semi-active on there recently (totally not because i have a crush right now or anything haha) and the advice there's pretty good imo

  • @wisvai279
    @wisvai279 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Came here for reassurance,
    Stayed for reassurance,
    Never got assured bc only- like- half (or less, I wasn’t counting) of these apply to my crush

  • @juliepagala975
    @juliepagala975 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The animation is so cute 😍

  • @kiramcclure4515
    @kiramcclure4515 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “They look at you often” Me: Purposefully looks in the other direction cause I’m scared-

  • @omgadammm
    @omgadammm ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I asked out a girl I've been friends with for a few weeks at work and got rejected. Glad I did it though. C'est la vie.

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will not be repeating past mistakes. There will never be another date for me again. I learn from my mistakes.

    • @RobloxianDoni
      @RobloxianDoni ปีที่แล้ว

      You just have meet toxic girlfriend before I guess and I guess that was just a crush, not love

  • @-zogekusari-3264
    @-zogekusari-3264 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    #3 (their friends know a lot about you) was really big for me
    So my best friend has a group of online friends, I've talked to them a couple times but haven't said anything about myself.
    The second time I met them, someone joined that I hadn't met yet and said "ohh is this the person?" Then my friends told them to hush.
    Then this last time I played with them one of them kept asking my friend "Can I tell Z??" (Z or Zoge being my online name) my friend and her other friends kept telling them not to.
    have no idea what that's about but oh well.

  • @TheAncientTale
    @TheAncientTale ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Last semester I had a table in math class with my crush, one other girl, and I all at it. The girl distanced herself from us so she could see the teacher’s board and so she could talk to other people, leaving me and my crush at the other side at the table in the corner of the room. It was one long semester, but that part went by too fast.

  • @pjgames240
    @pjgames240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this channel has been very useful.
    I watch all the love videos to see if my crush likes me but sadly I think i'm over her.
    I would be happy to date her but like I said i'm over her and i'm a single man now.
    Thank you for your help.

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I haven’t asked someone out in almost 10 years. I don’t think I have it in me anymore to even try or think about it

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      10 years is the magic number.

    • @admirbarucija2018
      @admirbarucija2018 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go very true! 😄

  • @tadisstrange
    @tadisstrange 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im confessing tomorrow.. I dont have much time left, and I’ve been waiting for so long. Wish me good luck.. ❤

    • @Chesshire1
      @Chesshire1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yo we need update!!

    • @tadisstrange
      @tadisstrange 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Update: She rejected me.. I made it look like a prank, so we’re still friends.

    • @Chesshire1
      @Chesshire1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tadisstrange I can feel you. I also got rejected by my crush but confessing my feelings made our relationship better than ever. She and I are more comfortable talking with each other than before. Everything will be fine. Every experience will make you grow. You will eventually find someone who loves u for who u r. Adios!

  • @Bologna21
    @Bologna21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love my crush so much I can’t even stop my self from smiling I try to but my body makes me smile when I see her

  • @manygh
    @manygh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really REALLY like this girl from my class and she is the first girl i actully love. I love her personality and not her body and i am thinking of asking her out in valentine's day. Wish me luck.

  • @crustyescaped
    @crustyescaped ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There's a guy I know who - if I didn't know better - I'd swear is flirting with me. I assume it's all in my head. Wishful thinking. Seeing what I want to see. But maybe it's genuine. I kinda hope it is. I want it to be. I usually crush on straight guys, which is safe because they're unavailable. This is the first time I've had a crush on a gay guy in damn near 20 years. Scared and nervous as hell, but at the same time - daring to allow myself to feel some hope. I don't think of myself as a particularly good guy. Not boyfriend material. Even if he asks me out, I'm tempted to warn him about myself. But also - for the first time in my life - I feel inspired to be a better person, so... I dunno.
    Between this and a few others of yours - these are well-timed videos. If I drum up the courage and ask him out and he says 'yes', I may have you to thank. And then I'll have to get into therapy again so I can be the good guy he deserves.

    • @alexcerv
      @alexcerv ปีที่แล้ว

      This is great, good luck king 👑

  • @Yulises
    @Yulises ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6:53 “…or your crush”
    Absolutely not. 🤣
    I’m keeping this to myself.

    • @newospam
      @newospam 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Onb who would send these to their crushes😭😭🙏🏾

  • @quintevanveldhuizen7600
    @quintevanveldhuizen7600 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't get butterflies, never got them. But with this one boy, i get full-body shivers (in a good way) everytime his name pops up in my head. I'm not good at knowing if i have a crush, but i think i do this time

  • @markdonutz
    @markdonutz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am good friends with my crush and she is well aware that I flirt with her from time to time.
    And recently during our christmas party she asked me to participate in one of the party games with her which is to dance and when the music stops we have to be standing inside the circle and the circle gets smaller as the game progresses so meaning I have to eventually carry her. However I was afraid because I don't know how to dance but as we watched the game start, I realized that none of the participants actually danced as I expected so I regret missing the opportunity of which I could've carried my crush in my arms.
    I'm never gonna let myself miss such an opportunity like that or any other good opportunities in life ever again.

  • @akiraraiku
    @akiraraiku 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I keep watching those videos, they are helpful.
    The real problem i have is that i just don't dare to go ask a girl out xD
    There's also flirting, i have the feeling this is the kind of action that is hard to explain and can only be learned by doing it yourself.
    But this requires to talk to a girl you find attractive, scary !

  • @MrIcenice44
    @MrIcenice44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have trauma from past relationships, so I’m learning that somebody liking me is the way it should work. I’ve had to relearn the signs that I should pursue because as a guy I’d shut those off after bad experiences with previous women.
    There’s a girl who I noticed looking at me and I noticed myself looking at them. I was happy that I was still attractive, but I was also sad and scared that I was attracted to them, even tho I’ve been working on myself to be in this situation.
    I asked her, but she’s a very busy person so she said yes but had to reschedule. The patience it’s taking to pursue is a toll on my anxiety, but I trust myself; I’ve worked really hard on this skill. I deserve to use what I’ve worked on

  • @ell13_
    @ell13_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1) she's bad at eye contact but I have caught her staring before
    2) yes
    3) yes. ive met like two of them before, but that's it
    4) yes. i think about her a lot
    5) they actually have, yeah-
    6) she has a shitty memory but if i mention something she will sometimes remember stuff
    7) yes

  • @BirdieSenpai
    @BirdieSenpai ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She *does* remember details about me I've only mentioned once or twice and sometimes even a year or two ago that doesn't even occur to anyone else. I'm considering writing her a romantic poem for Christmas Eve and giving it to her at midnight in her time zone. Knowing myself, though, I'll probably Birdie out. See what I did there?

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I say go for it😊

    • @BirdieSenpai
      @BirdieSenpai ปีที่แล้ว

      @@genevievehansen211 I'll see if I can muster up the Triforce of Courage for this one, lol.

  • @duck_named_bread
    @duck_named_bread ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a crush, we don't talk or even hangout but I'm not looking for a relationship, I just want to tell them that I like them. That's all.

    • @DylanSherron
      @DylanSherron 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dang. I actually think that's pretty cool. Did you ever end up telling them, just curious...? Also, I had a similar situation around a year ago myself.

  • @JackCry.420
    @JackCry.420 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    always uploading the right video on the right time don't you?

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can’t believe you still haven’t noticed they’re in your closet

    • @JackCry.420
      @JackCry.420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DefinitelyNotAFerret can't believe you haven't noticed I'm in your closet 👁️ 👄 👁️

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JackCry.420 I like the company 👌🏼

  • @kyleslavik6324
    @kyleslavik6324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you this was very encouraging.

  • @mr.cryptic9859
    @mr.cryptic9859 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    im getting this goofy stuff after chickening out of asking my crush out earlier today lol

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a sign!

  • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
    @wayneheidlebaugh9915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a crush on someone at different times but it only got as far as just being friends, nothing more.

  • @R3y_fr0g
    @R3y_fr0g ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FIRST! do you know how much your channel has helped me?! A LOT

  • @notyetfound_exe3420
    @notyetfound_exe3420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I seriously want to, but my friend likes him.

    • @ratkinglmao
      @ratkinglmao 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah me too man 😢😢

  • @The_Primitive
    @The_Primitive ปีที่แล้ว +2

    >Never had a crush on anyone since birth
    >Doesn't know anything about romance/love
    >Be 14 year old
    >Sees a random girl from your class walking in front of you
    >Gets a strange feeling while looking at the girl
    >"What's wrong with me?"
    >Walks away and keeps thinking about that situation
    >Realises that you have a crush on that girl
    >Proceeds to ignore the crush and just keep focusing on your own life
    >2 years have passed, you're now 16 years old
    >You still have a crush on the same girl and you managed to make exactly zero moves on her
    >give up
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    • @yrs.truly.bri.
      @yrs.truly.bri. ปีที่แล้ว

      Well that comment seems to have a lot of effort put into it

    • @Pinkio
      @Pinkio ปีที่แล้ว

      never gonna
      give you up

    • @The_Primitive
      @The_Primitive ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pinkio never gonna let you down

    • @Iveraxi
      @Iveraxi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@The_Primitive never gonna run around and dessert you

  • @botowner8623
    @botowner8623 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've never had a single girl display any of these behaviors to me.

  • @xZadkiel
    @xZadkiel ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is by far the most perfect timing for you guys to upload a video. I just now wanted to tell my crush I like her, now I'll first watch the video.
    Wish me luck

    • @maissie
      @maissie ปีที่แล้ว

      Update us

    • @loganishere1
      @loganishere1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck man

    • @xZadkiel
      @xZadkiel ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loganishere1 thx I‘ll need it

  • @whatheheck129
    @whatheheck129 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for confirming that nobody has a crush on me

  • @channy313
    @channy313 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ugh! I miss having a crush. Life was funner in EVERY way 😢😢.

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr like how can a glance or a hi make me so happy? It's so much better than now where I'm a mess and not happy about anything lol

    • @thelegender110
      @thelegender110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't understand what they all were going on about until I basically tripped and fell in, and yeah it's great. Horribly heartbreaking at times, but great. I've liked her for 3 years now

  • @Mangle_the_Pirate
    @Mangle_the_Pirate ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you're a band kid who plays a woodwind instrument like your crush but you play clarinet and he plays alto and Tenor sax :
    *Section segregation*
    When he figured out you liked him and you didn't get to tell him:
    😅😓😱😫
    When you want to get to know him but are very bad at talking because you don't know how to start a conversation with him, stutter alot (and ashamed and embarrassed about it) , and don't know if he likes you back: 😭😭😭
    last year, he had sent me a message saying he wasn't ready to date because he has alot on his plate (we're both in highschool and he takes multiple AP classes)
    Same year on Valentine's day, I gave a him a big gift of stuff (including cookies I really struggled on but it was kinda a success) and told told him "ik you said you're not ready, but if you change your mind you are welcome to come talk to me"
    Fast forward to now, our friend ship has gotten better and I'm starting to think "what does he think of me? He didn't say no back then, but he didn't say yes either.... So what does that mean?"

  • @nick27march
    @nick27march ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah... you're correct.
    NK used to and still does the same antics.Though they deny at mouth but heart they are the same till now.Just pretending that they doesn't care for me anymore.
    Their heart still beats my name and every breath reminds them of my fragrance.
    Little do they know that I was peeping at them for one week and I also know that they were eyeing on me.
    Don't believe?
    Just check my name engraved in their heart.

  • @oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314
    @oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou. I think he likes me. But we are both in recovery. So I want to wait. We both need time to get ourselves together. Even of we never happen I will continue to take care of myself.

  • @brolol529
    @brolol529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alright. I haven't seen her for almost a year now because of military service. But I would think of her when I had free time sometimes, and I talked to her on Instagram a few weeks ago and she seemed interested in how I was. If this gets 10 likes until tomorrow, I'll ask her out for a date this weekend

  • @libefiken1863
    @libefiken1863 ปีที่แล้ว

    I asked my crush out but she later canceled on me. After that her behavior was a complete 180 of what it was before. I'm hoping she is just really nervous and not genuinely disinterested now. In any case this video definitely helped identify some things I hadn't noticed in the past. Now I just need to figure out what to identify in the future. Wish me luck peeps!

  • @TheHorselover151
    @TheHorselover151 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay question.
    So I know this guy who I kinda like and has shown some of these signs, especially the remembering. We are in the same career and so sometimes work together. I've known him now for almost 2 years. Early on in our friendship I think he may have asked me out like 3 times. He asked to get lunch twice and then dinner once. I said no to all of these because 1) I wasn't interested, and 2) I felt like I didn't know him well enough. Or rather what I knew of him I felt I didn't like enough to date him, and 3) I was still desperately getting over someone else and didn't want to use him. Well after the 3rd time I felt bad for saying no. So I called him and asked him to get ice cream. And then he said no!
    A year later and now we both act like none of this ever happened but we definitely know each other way better than last year and I feel we both show some of these signs. Now, after getting to know him better, I am definitely interested. What should I do?
    I should note that I'm also terrible at "dropping the handkerchief"
    Help!

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He tried three times already. If you're interested, it's your turn to make a move. Simply ask him for some outing where it's just the two of you.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 ปีที่แล้ว

      It funnily sounds like the other side of my story lol Just some of the details that don't match, and I don't know if she's interested in me that much more than before despite her knowing I'm interested

  • @no1islistening2us
    @no1islistening2us ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly this is very helpful! I want to try and talk to my crush after Christmas break and see if I notice any of these signs :) I'll update this comment if anything happens!

  • @TugiDeg
    @TugiDeg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:22 "...or to perhaps, take them out." Never knew people who like you actually actively attempted to kill you. Does that mean John Wick loves everyone?

  • @humanbean8699
    @humanbean8699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They look at you often, whilst may be true for most people I utterly hate it.
    Whenever I'm zoning out I'm usually looking out a window or at a person. I usually don't even realize I'm doing it. It's like, I really don't like you dude, I'm just staring at you cause I've got nothing better to do

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's kinda on you though, not their fault for interpreting it that way

  • @Gl1CH_YT
    @Gl1CH_YT ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m in this situation where she’s sending me hints maybe but I don’t know if she’s just being nice or if she actually likes me.
    WHAT DO I DOOOO?!?!? (Plz help I don’t know how girls think)

  • @MJ-ey5pc
    @MJ-ey5pc ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A man can only dream of this, but reality is cruel.

  • @Alastair-fu3nk
    @Alastair-fu3nk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I zoned out part way through the video and started thinking about them- Now I have to rewatch this- Curse you person that I may or may not have a crush on for always being on my mind!😅😂

  • @literalammar9259
    @literalammar9259 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love today's lesson! Brought my drawing tablet. Ty

  • @dragonminja246
    @dragonminja246 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish women would do this more often as well and not wait for him to make the first move. Good video

  • @bleach6746
    @bleach6746 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *COUGH COUGH*
    the only person showing these signs is me, sadly.

  • @CheeseOnTop2007
    @CheeseOnTop2007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After much egging and convincing from my friends, I finally confessed. Turns out she likes me too and a few days after that incident, I asked her out then ran away 🥰

    • @High-man2523
      @High-man2523 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hope you guys break up

  • @Solarpunk_SciFi
    @Solarpunk_SciFi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "just make sure the smile isn't creepy"? Nah, imma full-on tilt my head down and make the creepiest smile l can, and if they seem at least a bit thrown off, they ain't my type, and it would never work out! :P (Also, these videos just give me FOMO, and could possibly make me convince myself that l like a friend that l'm actually just friends with, which might ruin my friendships, but l gotta keep watching them, to know if somebody does like me so that l can start considering them.)

  • @axelwiden-thulin9423
    @axelwiden-thulin9423 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Boys, im doing it on Valentine’s Day (February 14th). Wish me luck!

    • @uriel-ianosei3677
      @uriel-ianosei3677 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh, If I saw your comment earlier I would’ve answered. Well now I’m here how’d it go?

    • @axelwiden-thulin9423
      @axelwiden-thulin9423 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uriel-ianosei3677 I think you can guess how it went. She friendzoned me.

    • @uriel-ianosei3677
      @uriel-ianosei3677 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@axelwiden-thulin9423 Im sorry it went like that for you. I believe one day you’ll find the right person

    • @axelwiden-thulin9423
      @axelwiden-thulin9423 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uriel-ianosei3677 You don't have to feel sorry for me, but thanks. I guess i hope ill find the one someday. But it doesn't feel like that right now though.

  • @Mememarvelsofficial
    @Mememarvelsofficial ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Crush Shows All The Signs I Will Try To Ask Her Out ... But I Am Sooo Nervous Around Her

  • @dandy269
    @dandy269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve liked her for almost eight years, she dated my best friend, later they broke up and I asked her out and she said no she was busy. I lost interest and then somehow got it back. I saw her earlier this year at a con and gave her a hug and her got mad at me and told me not to mess up her costume. I wished her happy birthday and she left me on read so that’s pretty much my answer, oh well
    Sorry just wanted to get this off my chest

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yo I'm so sorry, that sounds rude of her to say, even if it was true and she didn't want you to mess up her costume, it depends on the tone of voice and expressions she gave you. Hopefully you'll be able to move on to someone who values you.

  • @jasminvalerie
    @jasminvalerie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s part of my New Years resolution to tell him. I’m just building up my courage 😅😬

  • @cesarfranco2720
    @cesarfranco2720 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get all those sings from a crush from work, we've hanging out often, one nigth a homeless guy ask us for some money, instinctly i put my arm on her shoulders (not even my hold arm) the guy leaves, one second after she gave me her best killing eyes and ask me why i do that, i explain her that the homeless man scares ME, and the shoulder thing wasn't with no other intentions...from that day she's no longer my crush.

  • @neonoxy
    @neonoxy ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a heavy crush on a girl at work, but the bottom line is that I’m a jerk and I treated her really badly last week. She gives me almost all the signs (some I still need to test) on the video and I would surely regret not to ask her out. I have no idea why I’m like that with someone I’m so attracted with.

  • @abdhassan1792
    @abdhassan1792 ปีที่แล้ว

    your videos are chanching my life to the better

  • @Julian-pt1qi
    @Julian-pt1qi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This animation looks so cute