BK Shivani on Detachment: What Exactly Is The Art Of Detachment | Sister Shivani

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  • 'Detachment' is the feeling that you have of not being personally involved in something or of having no emotional interest in it. In this video, Sister Shivani shares the art of withdrawing desire from lesser things and letting them fall away to harness the power of human beings to reach great heights.
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  • @podcastfnw5262
    @podcastfnw5262 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    I've come to the hypothesis that we first need to detach from our child trauma or parents emotional baggage... identify where is the wound and heal by accepting and letting go of it... cause we are basically repeating that same story but with new characters that represents that same feelings..I looked so deeply into this that I can identify who is representing who in my life and it's the same archetypes repeating ..until you let go

    • @ravikolhe3302
      @ravikolhe3302 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😊

    • @saraswatibohra2436
      @saraswatibohra2436 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How to heal that wound

    • @CSAlish_Dodhia
      @CSAlish_Dodhia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@saraswatibohra2436 Accepting and letting go

    • @raffaellamollica36
      @raffaellamollica36 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same script, different cast

    • @prachigl5563
      @prachigl5563 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very well said

  • @barshakar7200
    @barshakar7200 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    "Attachment creates pain
    Detachment radiates power"

  • @shilpisaini1090
    @shilpisaini1090 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    She is a Real life Angel

    • @nancypraj8147
      @nancypraj8147 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, she's our god gifted therapist💗

    • @bandanamakal
      @bandanamakal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes ❤

  • @joshicharan4968
    @joshicharan4968 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Detachment is 100% attachment to the moment you live oblivious of past and future.

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Silencing myself is one thing but silencing others through my silence is something needed

  • @TheProminentPost
    @TheProminentPost ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Learning this detachment has bought me so much peace... and being attached to people and things that don't bring me joy was hell❤

    • @MsMumbaikar
      @MsMumbaikar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree. It came to me at thr right time. In fact, on the right day.

  • @OhHapppyDaay
    @OhHapppyDaay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My daughter was in pain. She perceived me as the cause of her pain.
    I detached from her for her happiness. I Love her very much. I'm glad about detachment. I am free, as well. No more pain for either one.

    • @RiniHS96100
      @RiniHS96100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am in the same situation. Wish I had someone to talk to. It's very painful as a mother.

    • @amritaroy3888
      @amritaroy3888 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@RiniHS96100yes , painful , I can understand ..

  • @bmsharma3824
    @bmsharma3824 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Attachment creates pain. Detachment radiates power. 😮😮😮

  • @subramaniamnagasayi1044
    @subramaniamnagasayi1044 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Cannot thank her enough!! how my approach to life has changed just in last 3-4 weeks and practising her methods!!Om Shanthi

  • @shalinimahana6614
    @shalinimahana6614 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Purpose of detachment is so that if one is siting the other can stand,if one is in pain the other is calm,pain-free,peaceful...beautifully explained.

  • @chanilerner2107
    @chanilerner2107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When one falls down, the other can pull you out. Beautiful

  • @peterhalstead7682
    @peterhalstead7682 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This way of teaching and the teachings needs to be in every school in the world.🧡🌲🐝

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    On the beam. As always. This is true spirituality in its most practical aspect. Wish every single person in the world would listen to her. Daily.

  • @meenabhatt6401
    @meenabhatt6401 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Om Shanti ... Sister Shivani ... 🌹❤🌷

  • @luckydesilva6733
    @luckydesilva6733 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    With my love & respect . Gods blessings to you sister Shivani .

  • @akshitapathak2998
    @akshitapathak2998 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel so blessed that I have got to listen her powerful words. Love her sessions, truly effective to the core. Thanks with all my heart

  • @richagarg990
    @richagarg990 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Such a beautiful explanation why detachment & taking care of self is necessary. Being kind is essence of life 🌸. Om Shanti 🌸🙏

  • @MargueriteSwatton
    @MargueriteSwatton 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Practicing detachment is an art form! Keep up the practice until one perfects it.

  • @Andrea-ed4hp
    @Andrea-ed4hp หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow. this really resonates with me. Love the way this is explained

  • @Heena-pb5us
    @Heena-pb5us ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You saved me. I'm so glad I heard you today.

  • @sunilm1299
    @sunilm1299 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Easy to listen ! Difficult to imbibe & practice unless there is utmost resolve & sincere commitment!

  • @shivanimashruwala5821
    @shivanimashruwala5821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It shatters me to the core where I have been that strong support for all the ppl all the time around me. God has always been kind to me and there have been rare occasions I have been put through in miserable conditions. Forget support in any other way none of those are even around to ask how are doing or you will be fine. The thing that has weakened me is not the hard time, its behavior of ppl who I considered mine, helped them in all possible way going above and beyond. None of them are around just to ask one simple question how are you doing or coping up with this. It is really heart breaking and killing me. I am losing my faith from kindness. I am very sure about it that what I am expecting is bare minimum and wont cost a penny.

  • @yourhealingjourney9824
    @yourhealingjourney9824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Detachment has made me stronger, way more focused and loving towards others. Attachment has always been a disservice

  • @Panirchelvam-yr6xv
    @Panirchelvam-yr6xv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BK sister Shivani after listening to your messages, all my unnecessary thinkings disappeared and I am having a stress free life

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great teachings by this sister is gift of God

  • @nehapallavi8652
    @nehapallavi8652 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She has invisible magic wands which magically removes our worries because she knows the value of sprituality she is connected with our supreme lord shiv baba 🎉our shivani behan god bless you om shanti !!

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    OM NAMAH SHIVAY. ATTACHMENT MEANS INVITATION TO DANGER OR DISASTERS AND DETACHMENT MEANS TO INVITE PLEASURES AND FEEE FROM ANY BURDENS.

  • @jkd6969
    @jkd6969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank for this clarity. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from childhood with such attachment that pulls us down! These twisted ways cause us so much pain and never empower us nor those we are attached to!

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namaste 🙏Sister Shivani, you are my spiritual sister. 🙏Thank you for the teachings and guidance. I had learned a lot from you. 🙏

  • @balajisidd2902
    @balajisidd2902 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you madam. I understand real meaning as how to live as an human being and be kind to all

  • @raninaidoo3279
    @raninaidoo3279 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you really appreciate your time & wisdom on our journey. This is mind opening & mindshift for me to practice. Stay blessed - Om Snanti. Indrani Naidoo - South Africa ❤

  • @gururajkulkarni343
    @gururajkulkarni343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    how very true, THANKS Sister for enlightening us!! God bless you...

  • @DebdulalK
    @DebdulalK ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is an incredible leader to spread loving compassion.

  • @lazitazen6882
    @lazitazen6882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much ❤ I have no words to express my gratitude to this video ❤ It helped me so much, so much ❤ God bless you

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Glass example is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Focus on our mind not stress what is wrong or others' faults.

  • @shashichopra1341
    @shashichopra1341 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Om Shanti thanks divine angel 🙏

  • @stevenfernandes9402
    @stevenfernandes9402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful teaching. Thank you

  • @mervijaakola1749
    @mervijaakola1749 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the great wisdom 🙏 yes, self-caring is crucial 💯

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Soooooo good ly explained!!!!❤❤❤❤❤. She is so strong!

  • @mixer16ph
    @mixer16ph 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Sister and Brahma Kumaris. ❤❤❤

  • @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671
    @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being detached is so peaceful n calm feeling ❤❤❤,

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 ปีที่แล้ว

    A power soul is the one that do not create waste thoughts.
    A power soul is the one who had the power to put an end to the waste thoughts of the other person. That brought my mind to Bhavan Sri Ramana Maharshi. 🙏

  • @sasharenee7348
    @sasharenee7348 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You So Much for this subject arena I was seeking for today & the last 3 years since Covid hit!! Was at the edge due to Always carrying family members & latching on to their energies (including the worry, fretting part) & needed my sisters advice today on what to do since I live with my parents caring for one of my parents.
    She immediately sent me this message & said listen & this was what I needed!!!!
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISE WORDS Regarding Attachment & Detachment!!
    These words were specifically meant for me
    &
    I am Eternally Grateful for You
    Blessing’s,
    Sasha Rene’e

  • @lakshimil3933
    @lakshimil3933 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice peaceful satsangvwith you is a blessed feeling love Shivani

  • @janiverster6162
    @janiverster6162 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this powerful metaphor. I will remember the glass today ❤

  • @diah7980
    @diah7980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌻Detatchment radiates Power .
    🌻Attachment creates pain.
    Inside to Outside.
    For that I need to take care of myself.
    When Iam calm and untouched by the people around us. When Iam calm , Iam automatically kind to someone in pain . Radiates blessings . Earn blessings daily .
    No questioning or judging them .

  • @sasisasi-l4k
    @sasisasi-l4k 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks very much. Especially hearing today. I was in trouble in meaningless attachment. Thanks.

  • @parishah7494
    @parishah7494 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sister Shivani

  • @ramaramachandra6270
    @ramaramachandra6270 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now iam practicing. Thanks Sister ❤❤

  • @HermioneIl
    @HermioneIl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My gurudeva! ❤from Greece!

  • @bandanamakal
    @bandanamakal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really like to listen to sister shivani ❤❤❤❤ she is Angel

  • @donnafernandes3091
    @donnafernandes3091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Good stuff right here

  • @Drsyed-y3g
    @Drsyed-y3g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Detachment is positive.

  • @sadiaarman363
    @sadiaarman363 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The first step to staying calm is, Protect yourself from the energy of the.situation and the people. Be a detached observer. Powerful soul is one who does not create waste thoughts. Powerful soul is one who can put an.end to the waste thoughts of others also

  • @25phyll
    @25phyll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is seriously good stuff

  • @StunningIpsita
    @StunningIpsita ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I must say she is a living God in this world

  • @meidasken3508
    @meidasken3508 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite pod, thank you.

  • @supriyadutta1821
    @supriyadutta1821 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Detachment is never leaving your family and doing whatever you feel like. Detached people give respect and more space to their loved ones without detecting or judging them to change

  • @reemaislam8748
    @reemaislam8748 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love and Blessings always ...❤❤

  • @ashsuva
    @ashsuva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So true, Om Shanti 🙏

  • @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730
    @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great spiritual insight !!

  • @HaharuRecords
    @HaharuRecords ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want buy this women..
    Edit: look how gently she blinks her eyes...Thats a sign of purity

  • @hiteshe_e9368
    @hiteshe_e9368 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Attachments creates pain detachments heals them , gives power. I m peaceful soul. I have to be happy to heal myself. I have to radiate positive energy ❤ .when I m calm I m automatically kind.blessings is some I have to earn myself every single day . Being calm radiates kindness, being kind radiates blessings. My inner has no connection with outer world. 😊. My inside world which radiates to my outside world .

  • @shakirbaloch9505
    @shakirbaloch9505 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Million dollars practical steps to adopt permanently. Thanks
    Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan

  • @prashantpillai-w4g
    @prashantpillai-w4g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @MjF809
    @MjF809 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the ROOT of dysfunction
    We are taught this from birth from family yet its 100 percent curable!

  • @nuryanti7624
    @nuryanti7624 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now i understand more about relationship, thanks to her

  • @DrArjunGrover
    @DrArjunGrover 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OM SHANTI....😇😇😇😇

  • @andreamurillo09
    @andreamurillo09 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mastering this, would really be amazing.

  • @akhileshprasad5644
    @akhileshprasad5644 ปีที่แล้ว

    All good evening everyone om Santi jai jai

  • @rajinilata2243
    @rajinilata2243 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Om shanti sister, awesome sharing.😮

  • @trueman5948
    @trueman5948 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All these things are intellectually stimulating........
    Madum we need practicle things that can bring behavioural changes in us....
    Pls guide us

  • @creativechristiancontent
    @creativechristiancontent ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have to create a happy warming loving environment for your depressed loved ones ❤

  • @kusumsingh1683
    @kusumsingh1683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless you didi, request you to speak on how to deal with narsissitic relationship and take care of children i such situations

  • @Selflovexpedition
    @Selflovexpedition ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sirf breakups wale he jante hain how much painful 😢 Attachment is

  • @alexandranun
    @alexandranun ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel detached from my kids but that doesn’t mean I don’t love them they think I’m cold and don’t care 😢

  • @shivanisrivastava1567
    @shivanisrivastava1567 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om shnti ❤

  • @papapapa3399
    @papapapa3399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Detachment is beautiful

  • @makomborerochivanga1318
    @makomborerochivanga1318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Attachment create s pain, detachment radiates power!

  • @KindyLemmon
    @KindyLemmon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Life changing. ❤

  • @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377
    @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is gold

  • @das_krishnamachhi
    @das_krishnamachhi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I one such bad mom everyday I give my child only curse because I very much worry for him...but now onwards I only give him blessings by remaining detached from him..please God help me to remain detached 😢

  • @lowkatherine
    @lowkatherine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Detachment is freedom

  • @ThebeastStandalone
    @ThebeastStandalone 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much didi i love you

  • @LovelifewithGlory
    @LovelifewithGlory 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Namasthe! While I understand everything you said about taking care of ourselves and radiating that power around us, without saying a word, How does someone understand if I'm showing them kindness or not? they might feel even more bitter thinking that I am not acknowledging their pain or it might appear to them that im being insensitive to their grief? idk if I put it across in a proper way, if anyone can help me understand this, I would appreciate it.

  • @debasishsarkar5573
    @debasishsarkar5573 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every people is attached to someone in the world but we must not entgled ourselves with anything.

  • @sribatshadas3322
    @sribatshadas3322 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its tuff to detach urself when u love that person but might be she doesn't like that much

  • @ingernordin3343
    @ingernordin3343 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this ❤

  • @chronicdiseases6274
    @chronicdiseases6274 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you and your truth

  • @akanshasingh575
    @akanshasingh575 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🙏

  • @unblinkable_e
    @unblinkable_e 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💙💫

  • @bhargavib707
    @bhargavib707 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved it ❤

  • @ElenaRoud
    @ElenaRoud ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am ready

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is the inner world that should take care of outer but what generally happens is allow the outer to take of the inner and this process affects both inner and outer, because there is nothing to take from outer which is hollow.

  • @gursimarkaur1763
    @gursimarkaur1763 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Protect yourself from energy
    Attachemnt causes pain
    Physical detached attached twins example
    My mind is dependent

  • @gayatrisibransingh4157
    @gayatrisibransingh4157 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yah Sach hai dhanyabad ❤

  • @nkarthikeya8113
    @nkarthikeya8113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mera pyara baba ❤❤❤

  • @NikhilAkhirala
    @NikhilAkhirala 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Attachment creates dependency I attached to business so when business is good I used to calm vice versa so don't attach to anything

  • @3jeffnelson
    @3jeffnelson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that's it

  • @maryamwaqi9556
    @maryamwaqi9556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Attachment vs detachment: Depends on the company, which one is more comfortable