Understanding Emotional Manipulation: BK Shivani's Eye-Opening Talk

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  • It's important to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate your emotions. This can be done through guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or other tactics that are meant to make you feel a certain way. It's important to set boundaries and stand up for yourself when this happens.
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  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +236

    I came across your video last month and I am hooked. You have answered all my questions in my life. I’m taking notes and reading it every night before I sleep. You are God send to me. I wished I had seen it sooner but I guess there’s a right time for everything. To everyone who reads this my blessings to you all. Words cannot express how much and how grateful I am to you. Om Shanti.

    • @rudranijana8205
      @rudranijana8205 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Same here I also do the same thing dear...❤

    • @kidsstoriesbypoonam3417
      @kidsstoriesbypoonam3417 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Peaceful listening

    • @amiyamitra3251
      @amiyamitra3251 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gyanjyoti Debi Saraswati Didi Shivani 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chidanandakrishnegowda4028
      @chidanandakrishnegowda4028 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very happy to know about your thoughts. 🤝

    • @ramprasaddas948
      @ramprasaddas948 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very lovely discussion

  • @JM11423
    @JM11423 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Recipe for Peace
    1) watch bk Shivani ji's videos every morning and before sleep consistently.
    2) Absorb the messages
    3) Take every situation as practical sessions for what you have learnt
    4) Note and Acknowledge the positive transformations in you.
    Congratulations you are on the path to peace😍
    Based on my experience😍
    I watched her videos from 2018 religiously then stopped & started practicing. Now i am unaffected by others behaviors. Even if i get affected i shift as soon as possible.

    • @sreevidyavenugopal5352
      @sreevidyavenugopal5352 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      U said it❤

    • @rosepham3001
      @rosepham3001 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Congratulations.And I am really happy to hear that. It's the same experience for me as well.

    • @rosepham3001
      @rosepham3001 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's the recipe for happiness, for being powerful... And actually it's a way to find our own self, to get back to our nature of peace, love, happiness, power, bliss, knowledge and wisdom.

    • @cinthaa1
      @cinthaa1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are SUCH an inspiration ❤😊 🙏🏽

    • @alpsalangad2898
      @alpsalangad2898 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your Words are So Precious 💞 💕 Thank you so much ❤

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora856 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    She is a blessing to human kind. Pure bliss. ❤

  • @padmajasalkar2358
    @padmajasalkar2358 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Sister Shivani....the universe sent me this video of yours in the middle of a crisis in my life, to keep my unnecessary needs and desires aside and to have peace back in my life. I have truly blessed to receive so much awareness and knowledge from you 🙏 ❤

  • @user-gf7nn5jc1i
    @user-gf7nn5jc1i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Thanks for your reply. I have seen some improvement on my daughter. This is what I am sending to her everyday. I’m sorry for the pain that I have caused you in the past . I’m sorry for all the critical and the judgmental thoughts I had about you. I forgive you for what you did to me. Past is past and it’s over. My past karmic account is over, never ever to come again. From now onwards my thoughts for you are love, respect and blessings. I understand you, I accept you, I bless you and I heal you. You are a pure and a powerful soul. You are peaceful, lovefull and a confident soul. You are changing to be your best. This is what I summarised after listening to her so many videos. I’m changing also and I’m at peace. Sister Shivani you are Godsend to us. Om shanti.

    • @deepalideshmukh456
      @deepalideshmukh456 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Such great thanks

    • @user-ci1eh3ip7s
      @user-ci1eh3ip7s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When a mother has damaged her kid beyond repair ...their is n should be no forgiveness hence if u r not mature enough to be a good mother then don't be at an age ....my mother destroyed me even though I was gud in everything n she made me doubt myself every single day ....my talents were curbed n they spend 40 lakhs on some1 who was aggressive n manipulative n still support the bad one over the good one ...some women should never be mothers

    • @shilpar4848
      @shilpar4848 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@user-ci1eh3ip7sEven I have had the same experience.

  • @ravzp
    @ravzp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Use the “POWER to CHOOSE your right way” :
    The right way is
    - that will increase my inner strength
    - that will increase my flexibility
    - that will allow me to be the master of my mind not dependent on other
    - that will radiate good vibrations in me and keep me healthy
    - that will keep me happy always
    Now choose your right way.
    If you do not teach yourself the right way over time, you will loose the power
    the time when things go wrong, when the positive energy is needed must; you lost your power; when you change yourself to the response of ‘the obviously’ negative energies from outside.
    🙏🙏

  • @asmasheikh5001
    @asmasheikh5001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Allah aap ki hifazat farmaye. Ameen keep up with the great work

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda6535 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Forgive and forget them. Next time greet them with a smile with out any expectation.

  • @ananyachakraborty4665
    @ananyachakraborty4665 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    According to me, She is a guide for positive culture not for abusive culture. SO do consciously whatever feels good to you. Forgive and Forget practice is great when the abuser takes accountability for their abuses not for the repeatance of their abuses. This affirms them that whatever they do will be considerable! Therefore they gets the confirmation and validation for their victim card playing to their next target and thus it goes on. SO choose wisely where to give your positive aura and where to not because there are energy vampires who will suck all out of u and will still blame you to be a dracula... 😊❤

  • @jessicahou8340
    @jessicahou8340 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I can’t change people! They themselves when they want can change them

  • @kirtinarang6994
    @kirtinarang6994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    BK Shivani is so much like a faithful teacher I ever had in my life..I am now going through a very emotional trauma these days and want my parents to support me ..I dont know why my parents dont have time but yes BK Shivani sessions helped me a lot to overcome the anxiety and depression..I am grateful to you mam...Om Shanti...

    • @lavi_arun
      @lavi_arun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We r with u…don’t worry, God bless you!

  • @furhananoordin9392
    @furhananoordin9392 34 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Thank u your message is amazing

  • @anamei9923
    @anamei9923 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you.🙏🏽💖

  • @geethpriyasaravanan8460
    @geethpriyasaravanan8460 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you🙏

  • @jessye5418
    @jessye5418 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Very much practical and factual remedies to be broad minded and peaceful in society..... I really like many of your videos. There's a lot of suffering behind to give a courageous remedy to problems.

  • @Manraji
    @Manraji 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sister, you encourage me to be a better person with all your wisdom! 🙏 Your guidance is much appreciated!

  • @shellyedwards2875
    @shellyedwards2875 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you for this ❤

  • @mamtabhattacharyya73
    @mamtabhattacharyya73 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It is a tough proposition. Duty and compliance can be misconstrued as weaknesses. The time when I spoke up or made them aware then sometimes the behaviour changed. So it got me thinking if I had done this earlier I would have enforced changed behaviour long before.

  • @doolariesingh2502
    @doolariesingh2502 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u 🙏🌺

  • @user-zb2rp1he5h
    @user-zb2rp1he5h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @ushareddy3237
    @ushareddy3237 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you BK Shivani

  • @ulrikehohn6707
    @ulrikehohn6707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic reminder ! Thank you so much 🙏

  • @inspirationalwomandebasree1080
    @inspirationalwomandebasree1080 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I dont miss any of your videos didi. Every morning after meditation I listen to your speech and takes strength. I am inculcating slowly the teaching of yours. Om shaanti

  • @praveennov
    @praveennov 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Gautama transformed Angulimaala through his sheer presence.
    Atleast according to the Buddhist folklore.

  • @divyaaggarwal9860
    @divyaaggarwal9860 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Didi❤❤❤

  • @bkharshn
    @bkharshn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Beautiful!

  • @rashi2044
    @rashi2044 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ma'am I needed this so much.

  • @erinjayawickrema7204
    @erinjayawickrema7204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much merits ❤

  • @eeman_ali
    @eeman_ali 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really needed to hear this today! Thankuuu

  • @deepapradeep876
    @deepapradeep876 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ohm Shanti🙏🙏🙏

  • @tomicafrance9515
    @tomicafrance9515 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love her so much

  • @monikasingh5799
    @monikasingh5799 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heart feel the pain mind forgets

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you maam, thank you🙏

  • @hemavathislreddy1725
    @hemavathislreddy1725 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Om shanti ❤

  • @carolannburke5450
    @carolannburke5450 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow....life-changing. Really great, xo

  • @ClassesMANI
    @ClassesMANI 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I had been through this. Someone manipulated me like hell. I cried all day and all night. Finally took step , got touch with you on one random reels. The world is changing!

    • @positiveMindset665
      @positiveMindset665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry that you had to go through it. One thing I’m trying to learn these days is the reason we allowed for ourselves to be manipulated and work on myself, so that I have the knowledge and cannot be manipulated by anyone easily, or know when someone is trying to manipulate me. Take care.

    • @charissastella8920
      @charissastella8920 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did you come out of the manipulation? But their toxicity affects you? Though I'm far away from them in very irritated by the thought of the.

  • @JyotiShivaShakti
    @JyotiShivaShakti 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯Accept how it is. And don't rely on anyone. No you have. Yes you can get.

  • @RadheyRadhey108
    @RadheyRadhey108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shivani Didi a blessing to all the Sanatanis !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️☮️💟💞💕🍀🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸love ❤and light 💡 ❤❤❤❤

  • @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056
    @parathuvayalilayurvedaclin2056 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great thoughts......

  • @ratnamaissin80
    @ratnamaissin80 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Om Shanti. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @amberdays3499
    @amberdays3499 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow so good❤🙏🙏

  • @penny6921
    @penny6921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanti Sis.🙏

  • @user-fr6qt6qf7h
    @user-fr6qt6qf7h 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely true. What we do quite often is what you've said. So much to learn from this. Thank you❤

  • @bhanugopal7132
    @bhanugopal7132 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Came across this thoughtful video just when I needed some guidance and thank you so much Amma for your inputs. 🙏🏽

  • @faridafahrtash1617
    @faridafahrtash1617 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Om Shanti Peace / Joy Shivani

  • @indirakb6163
    @indirakb6163 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Absolutely inspiring message ❤️

  • @geddadavijayalakshmi489
    @geddadavijayalakshmi489 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Excellent motivational guidance 🙏

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good morning sister om Shanti.

  • @drfouziayasmeen066
    @drfouziayasmeen066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Very beautiful talk

  • @wordsrevealed2784
    @wordsrevealed2784 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you ma'am. What a wonderful phrase " Take charge"

  • @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163
    @rajasekharvenkataswamy3163 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A great insigt of life to change ourselves to have all the lost things back again.

  • @anjalinicholas4441
    @anjalinicholas4441 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great🎉🎉

  • @vipulaahuja8042
    @vipulaahuja8042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true!!! Thanks, sister Shivani.May God always be with you🙏❤️

  • @drsuruchiupadhyay9375
    @drsuruchiupadhyay9375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Superb ❤

  • @avijitransingh4413
    @avijitransingh4413 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Om shanti jii

  • @chandneeramsaroop7101
    @chandneeramsaroop7101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Really words of wisdom

  • @user-ko2el7vs9o
    @user-ko2el7vs9o หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truth

  • @TakJhalMishtiMB
    @TakJhalMishtiMB 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Om Shanti

  • @neeturaj3317
    @neeturaj3317 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanti sister you are my Real Angel 💓

  • @neelamkankariya1680
    @neelamkankariya1680 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Superb

  • @rooba1042
    @rooba1042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om shanthi

  • @aditisheoranc
    @aditisheoranc 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely amazing lessons ..thanks Sister Shivani for these precious nuggets

  • @sidduhiremath2866
    @sidduhiremath2866 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sister you are right,we can't change people instead of that we should take control of our mind,if we are an emotional person then people will make us weak emotionally, mentally unstable better we should create positive thoughts which make our mind strong and emotionally stable.thank you sister.

  • @sharadakshetry5768
    @sharadakshetry5768 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ॐॐॐॐ ओम शान्ति good morning मेरा परंमपिता प्रमात्मा शिव बाबा मे बाबा का बाबा मेरा मिठे मिठे प्यारे प्यारे बाबा शुक्रिया मेरा शिव बाबा नमस्ते नमस्ते 🙏🙏❤️❤️💐💐

  • @peacockLife
    @peacockLife 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it is really a breach of trust .. i think those relations will never last too long. have to be careful that in changing ourself we don't change for the worse

  • @aditiprasad8961
    @aditiprasad8961 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dhanyawaad mata jii for bringing BK Shivani in our life.

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessed to have sister in my generation.Waheguru Satnam 🙏

  • @rajashreesharma4067
    @rajashreesharma4067 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a precious wisdom didi.if all of us were to follow it,world will be heaven.God bless you.

  • @q2_20
    @q2_20 หลายเดือนก่อน

    om shanti didi

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes we seek profundity in complexity. Her message is so simple and straight to the point, which leaves no room to decipher words, but understand her wisdom. Blessings upon her and all the people her energy affects, each day.

  • @MrFelipefelop
    @MrFelipefelop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Put this on double speed,you got this,thank you for your point of view 😢

  • @saundryakaushal
    @saundryakaushal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seems like all my questions are answered today.. baba always shows me what I need to see when in confusion without even expecting. Om Shanti

  • @jayashree8512
    @jayashree8512 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Super didiji

  • @user-fn1qd1hl6x
    @user-fn1qd1hl6x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    God bless u always

  • @jnuisahadas5916
    @jnuisahadas5916 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shantii Sister,,🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ruthmanhoihching3204
    @ruthmanhoihching3204 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @StarLightPlanets
    @StarLightPlanets 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your Own Mind You Have Power Over, Once You Conquer Your Own Mind , Then One Can Conquer The World.

  • @jhansilakshmi7850
    @jhansilakshmi7850 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice words madam

  • @user-bg4pc5mo6q
    @user-bg4pc5mo6q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanti jiii

  • @AnilGupta-mn2iz
    @AnilGupta-mn2iz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's Global implications of your religiously spiritual discourses which affect one-in-all & all-in-one,alike.❤🎉THX.

  • @archnaarchna3428
    @archnaarchna3428 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this

  • @bhanurana5731
    @bhanurana5731 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dee acha bol rhe ho

  • @minhascreativeworld9441
    @minhascreativeworld9441 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏

  • @lizbethbautista4781
    @lizbethbautista4781 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bk Shavani you are getting me through this wave in my life they ask me how can I be so positive and I say because of you!!

    • @positiveMindset665
      @positiveMindset665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is amazing to hear 😊 Good on you.

  • @wamanbhide4410
    @wamanbhide4410 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Due to Artificial intelligence, the situation described here can raise in our life. So, human has to be careful against side effects of AI. and has to keep ourselves strong by minds.

  • @lincykp1421
    @lincykp1421 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @syedruhullahrizvi8173
    @syedruhullahrizvi8173 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @savithatrsavithatr3131
    @savithatrsavithatr3131 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @annapurnasuresh3668
    @annapurnasuresh3668 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have watched almost all videos in English. You are really next to God. He sent you as a guru. Please if anyone translates all your videos in all regional languages it will be a great help in better understanding. Hope it comes soon. Jai Ho didi

  • @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123
    @Durgesh_.Singh_sisodiya123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ओम शांति

  • @Quantumanandha
    @Quantumanandha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm easily getting manipulation 😢

  • @ayanbiswas2883
    @ayanbiswas2883 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    om shanti 🙏✨.She's angel ✨👼🙏💫👑

  • @rakhiaggarwal3852
    @rakhiaggarwal3852 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What about those who thinks that support is only money. Rest other things don't come in support for them

  • @shrur3527
    @shrur3527 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️
    My way of thinking and analysing the situation has changed in a very positive way
    I feel very good listening to your voice especially when i am low
    Keep educating us 🙏🙏❤️❤️
    Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @padmiabenayake1524
    @padmiabenayake1524 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🙏🙏💐

  • @adv2666
    @adv2666 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's the whole game 😢.... emotionally manipulate!!!
    Who is a glib talker , wins 🏆

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him..

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

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  • @BrightMinds-kl8fb
    @BrightMinds-kl8fb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Note for me to remember - It’s not healthy for me when I allow somebody else to control my state of mind. There’s no freedom for me; nothing is in my hand everything is on peoples behaviour. For one day I will take charge no expectations for world to be my way. Be and do what you want for one day and say what you want to do for one day and I will respond with peace and dignity for one day. This is my personal guarantee to my self. We will do it. It’s a decision. It’s not trying as word try is about those aspects that is not in our control like other people, the world, things we cannot control. When it comes to my mind, it’s not try, I have full control to decide. If I reflect what other people are doing, I lose my creativity. My options that can come in my mind to respond in a way that’s a reflection of me. Always remember, anything we don’t use, any power we don’t use, we start losing it. It’s a power, a gift from Almighty. We should not let it go!