My girlfriend 11 years my junior has too many male friends. [Hello Counselor / 2017.08.07]
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she's definitely taking advantage of him. he's too good for her. she just thinks that everything is okay since he's nice and all.
EXACTLYY
right...so after a 30 min segment watching them, you must be a expert in reading people. you dont even understand why she is acting like that.
@@brianchun1908 even it's not for taking advantage, still there's something wrong with this girl. A relationship without jealousy can't be called as one. It's like she's playing a dumb card so she can break up with the boy or she's having a psychological issue that she needs constantly recieved an attention from the opposite gender with her. Just because you know there's something called as psycho doesn't mean you have to be a psychologist first, and same goes with this woman's case
@@sarahs5386 I'm not a physiologist yet, I'm still studying it and I definitely agree with you.
Thats it
First time ive seen the hosts so pissed at someone.
Fuck food
Oops sorry xD it's meant to be up them (as in the girl and her guy friends)
At the same time, it is for a good reason. It's the most strangest case I have ever seen.
If it wasn't aired nationwide i think they would have already cussed her
youngja was ready to kill her ngl
She looks older than him though...
MsRockSherry i thought i'm the only one who notice it 😂
MsRockSherry it's the alcohol that's degrading her
*drink
Fairuz Syifa lmao "don't drunk" 😂
MsRockSherry fam she doesn't just look older she looks like an elderly frog
Wait, she's 11 years younger? To be honest, she looks like she's 11 years older.
Kpop Lover 4Ever I guess it must because of alcohol so she looks older than her age
the alcohol effect
lol it's the alcohol
Violet Wilson true
i also thought it was a typo because based on their looks, it did seemed to be the exact opposite.
Wow. She takes him for granted. She loves him because he's understanding, because he's too kind, but his patience doesn't last long. Girl you don't know what will happen if he snaps. It's okay for me for a girl to have a guy friend, but it has a limit, so she should be careful, specially because she has a boyfriend.
9:00 GO YOUNGJA !! finally someone telling her the facts
yeah its was like it's enough you should not act silly like you are a teenager that the fact women in your age don't do that i thought she will say something bad to her but i think she's was scared hhh
Word.
Righttt. She is 27. When she get 30. People would start call her old lady but she still think in immature way.
I don't think girls befriending boys is a wrong thing to do, because we deserve to be friends with anybody. But there is still this boundary thing of what to do and what not to do, especially when you already have a partner. You should respect your partner as well. Drinking with your opposite gender friends, or travelling together with them are totally okay for me as long as you don't drink till you're wasted and get two separate rooms while travelling.
agree, I fought with my ex about having girls in the same room before. HE said I couldn't do it because he didn't trust other guys but he trust himself. Well there is the door, and I dumped him soon after that. I never care he goes out with a girl at 2am or anything but room is where i draw my boundaries.
LoOoL wa
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LoOoL Totally agree with you. He should have a better common sense on this. He said he trusted himself, but hello? What about those 2 girls? I might trust him but I can’t trust them. Who would have know if those 2 like him or not. Seriously, he should be cautious, and the thing is, he should think for those 2 girls as well, what should people think and say about them if they are seen in a room, even they didn’t do anything? Him being a guy should know what to do and what’s not to do, and he failed. Good for you to dump him, I would do the same.
When your partner argue with you regarding over this kind of stuffs, then he usually is not a good husband material. If he really cares for you, he would have rejected this type of offers and wouldn’t even bring it up to you. He should know the boundary between man and female in a room. It’s ok to talk or short meeting at a meeting room, but definitely not for any overnight stay in a bedroom.
Bullshit really bs
ha ha ha.. sorry but bs
I personally feel that the boyfriend is too good for her. The fact that he even went to a national broadcast for this problem, shows that he really loves her & he wants to solve it without breaking up. You can really tell that he's mature in his way of thinking. The girlfriend, however, I think she's damn confident that her boyfriend would never ever dump her. That's probably why she keeps on doing what she loves with her guy friends. She keeps on saying that her boyfriend is nice & understanding, but still, until when does she think he will stay the same? Feels like the girlfriend took her boyfriend's 'nice & understanding' for granted & also the way she stated her reasons are ... I can't even. She's 27, she should know better.
Is this guy blindly in love??He should've left her very earlier.
Deepika Thapa t
That's what I was thinking , but if he still loves her she has a chance to change
Deepika Thapa he was probably hoping that coming onto this show will help her change. But I don’t think the look on his face at the end will want to marry her.
He is also a psyco
Girl thinks she can do anything bec she thinks boy can't afford to dump her bec he's 38 smh
It's obvious she enjoys the male attention. You can see how she keeps smiling when talking about how her guy friends or ex bfs treat her.
How could she laugh about the situation. Breaking up with her is the best option.
Having guy friends isnt wrong. But you should know your limits. If u want your boyfriend to trust you, you shouldnt cross the line when youre with your guy friends. Drinking till late night isnt good. You never know what your guy friends think of u especially your ex boyfriends! Yes, sure you only think them as friends, but what about them? Are u sure they think of u as only friend? Nah, i dont think so
Lol even her friends agreed with her boyfriend. I wonder how their girlfriends feel about them sleeping over at her house and stuff. I thought it was funny when her friend agreed with him and she was caught so off guard
Taejoon looked really good
Farzana Haq when does he not omg
Agree
this is my second thought after the concern. i'm always looking at him coz tbh, hE'S HELLA HANDSOME.
Oops taken by shinhye alr
Farzana Haq indeed
I would protect this man with my life. He's such a rare gem.
It's funny how you guys think this is not a concern lol it's not like she only hang out with those guys, she sleeps with them after drinking and she drinks like every hour and she hesitated to choose which one to marry, her boyfriend or alcohol...also she's freaking asian, that kind of behavior is too much over the limit
Purple Bathtub what's the problem with the fact that she's Asian? I think sleeping with male friend (only sleeping) is not a problem if she's sober...but yeah since they all are drunk it's a concern, and she definitely have a problem with alcook
No I think the person is saying, since she is asian, the culture is strict and for the asian culture, her behavior is considered to be unacceptable. Personally I think her behavior is a problem, mainly because she is an alcoholic, and also she does not try to understand where her bf is coming from.
Its asian culture, many asian country won't consider this behavior to be acceptable.
Crystal Willia
Purple Bathtub i feel bad for her.. her action is way too much... she will end up being miserable. and she is ungrateful too. this guy should breakup immediately with her.
It just sad, the girl doesn't even realize what she did wrong, doesn't consider his feeling, she just do whatever that makes her happy 'for herself', she doesn't have a attitude, what women suppose to do, i'm still 19 but i know what i have to do, today i feel i'm too mature hahahaha i can see how much the man love this women, if i'm him i'll definately broke up with her, but seeing him bring her here to show her what she did wrong and want her to realize that, and even he consider to marry her, omg, she have to treat him better!!!
She does realize. She's everything BUT stupid. She knows what she's doing and she's doing because her boyfriend is waaaaaay too good to her.
She likes the attention and she's clearly taking advantage of him
Its not about her boyfriend jealousy anymore. Its more about her alcohol addiction
His shirt says it all 😂😂 YES OF COURSE IT HURTS 😂😂
The problem is SHE'S NOT HAPPY. She is in a state of depression. She said that she's not happy unless she's drinking, so she is constantly drinking to escape from whatever the source of her unhappiness is. And unfortunately she has become an alcoholic. At this point, she can't just quit. She's going to need some outside help, because the boyfriend said she gets the shakes if she's not drinking. So her body is already in a severely addicted state, which means she's been depressed and drinking like this for a really long time. I'm not even sure why she's with him. Maybe he was a glimmer of hope when she met him. I'm sure she stays with him because he's probably her only source of stability, but if she doesn't get it together, she's going to lose him. If she can get help to fix/heal whatever issues she has that she's using alcohol to run away from, she may turn out ok.
As far as her boyfriend is concerned, if he's smart, he'll stop ignoring all the red flags and run, but he's probably scared he won't find another young pretty girl at his age. If he broke up with her, that may give her the wake up call she needs in order to change, then they can eventually get married and live happily ever after. But it could also go the other way and send her further into depression. Either way, he should probably leave. She has to want to get better for herself., and who knows how long that will take for her to get to that point. She's acting clueless, but I'm pretty sure she knows she has a problem. She just doesn't want to face it yet. Or maybe she really is clueless and is so caught up and blinded in her addiction that she can't see what everyone is telling her. Maybe all she can see is alcohol. I pray she gets the help she needs so she can be happy and healthy.
I completely agree, also what would happen if they woul get married and she became pregnant? I doubt that she could stop drinking for 9+ months if she drinks 9 times a week and a week only has 7 days - and that's a problem :Đ she is not considerate at all of his feelings, she doesn't care if he suffers and just wants to have fun...
. Yes, she is not in any way prepared to have children. I have to disagree on the fun though, as I don't think she's having fun at all. I think she's just miserable all the time and trying to escape. I think she's drowning so much in her own problems that she's not really concerned with anyone else's feelings. Hopefully she gets some help after this.
vonzilla I agree to this. It's just so unfortunate that the people there still have a biased view towards those who need/have sought help from psychologists or psychiatrists and they'd immediately be labeled as "mentally crazy".
Aside from that, i think she tries to avoid the problems because she's much younger in the relationship ? Even though she's 27 she sees her boyfriend as a much more mature figure, so she thinks she can just rely on him as he's the calm and cool headed one. I do hope that she'll be more mature, face her problems and feel happy though.
Oh yeah because red flags are for him to run andnot to help her. Fuck you he is an adult and he loves her he wanna help her not run like a bitch
Théophile C. You can't help people that don't want to be helped. He can want to help her all he wishes, but if she doesn't think she has a problem or needs to change, there's nothing he can do. Staying in a bad situation is foolishness. Getting out is not "running like a bitch". If she wants to get help, then good. But he has to determine whether he wants to truly live in that situation for the rest of his life because she may never change. Marriage is no joke. Yes, she needs help, yes he can try to give his help, but that doesn't mean he should or has to stay in an unhealthy relationship with her. He may just have to be the supportive friend on the side until she decides to change.
I don't think the concern should be that she's hanging out with her guy friends but rather she's an alcoholic smh
OMG The way he even LOOKED AWAY when she says she loves him but still "i'll try to drink less about 5 times a week" is so SAVAGE!!! That's the spirit boy omg.
omg I love her "are you still drunk right now?? I can wake you up ! *aggressively shakes the pillow*"
You will be going out to drink with your friends after this?
Yes.
*press button* 🤣
kyunghoon!!
I think all her exes broke up with her because of the same problem
7:13 that guy is already clicking the concern button LMAO😂😂
All these people saying "its not that serious" , never had a serious relationship or have/is cheating with someone else
Tbh, I don't find the concern when the girls has many guy friends and even keep in touch with her ex (like my self). BUT! Sleeping with them, cut off their date, drunk until wasted with them... IS the whole different case. Like seriously? It's crossing the line. It's so upsetting that many people didn't understand this.
He must get rid of her instead, I support him to do so.
She needs help, HC need to take back the psycologist if was him he cpuld identify the problem right away because this is NOT normal!! I thinked that she was being selfish but now i think there is more. She still selfish and craving attention but she has others problems that make her like that.
If she's unhappy without alcohol, she's probably depressed. She needs legit to see a doctor about her addiction. I feel like she's only with the guy just because he can support her financially since she clearly can't do that herself.
^ Especially since alcohol is a depressant
disregarding the fact that she's 11 yrs his junior she needs to learn how to be more polite to him and actually start caring about his feelings.... tbh the guy should just leave her.. im glad the mcs were blatantly honest with criticising her coz she deserves it.....
Please correct me if I'm wrong but it seems that in south korea if someone is addicted to alcohol they just say that the person loves to drink instead of saying that he is an alcoholic.
they are so different from each other, he seems like a calm person he doesnt drink and doesnt have girl friends, she drinks and has lots of guy friends and likes to party. I dont know how they ended up with each other
sometimes opposite pole attracts...its weird tho
I don't think there is anything wrong with having male friends but there is also a line that shouldn't be crossed when you are in a relationship. Clearly she isn't interested in a serious relationship and this guy is. Plus their views are very different.
Break it off, do not get married! They already have so many differences that to even think of marriage (seriously wrong decision)
Funny to see all the people in the comments judging her for her friendship with guys while the only problem are the trust issue of the guy and the alcohol issue of the girl, not her friendship with the opposite sex.
Théophile C. You do know that sleeping together alone with a guy when she's drunk(she drinks till she's wasted) is not a good combination whether your in a relationship or not
I just realised that the world is so wide and many types of people live around the world.
Honestly the guy deserve someone better who is unselfish and considerate to other human being.
He is so polite ...i think he deserves someone better with whom he can be happy forever... his girlfriend doesn't seems like she will sacrifice anything for him...
taejoon is such a smart guy, he knows how to handle this stuff
This girl is obviously an alcoholic, they should be getting her help for that. I'm not saying what she's doing is right (in regards to keeping in touch with her exes) but I feel like her alcohol addiction is a bigger concern. Especially if it's effecting her health
this girl's a raging alchoholic, I think that's more of a concern tbh.
I’ve never been pissed by a concern from hello counselor as much as this one. I understand that she has guy friends but everything has a limit you can’t just take your boyfriend for granted. Just because he doesn’t show that he is pissed doesn’t gives you the right to continue doing this behavior.
I thought the girlfriend was 11 years old for a second.
You know it's a true concern when the one who sent the problem doesn't even need to speak for himself.
Thus us not about guy friends only. But her alcoholism. How can she be a decent wife and mom if she's alcoholic. She should be thankful to have a very matured boyfriend. 38 y/o is not an age where we think about having fun, but settle down for good.
I think, this show should invited an experts like a doctor so they can get an idea why the girl behaving like that. She clearly has problems but she just don't say it out loud to her boyfriend. And maybe that's why she keeps on drinking with her guy friends to reduce the stress/depression she had since her boyfriend can't drink.
I wondered why she looked so old, even though she's 11 years younger than him,
of course it's the alcohol,
she has a problem, and it's not exactly her lack of concern to her (probable) fiancee.
"You should have common sense" boi that's how you do it
“im unhappy when im not drinking” so this basically means whenever she’s with her boyfriend? i would have been so upset and angry!
Did they use google translation to translate this title..
The hosts are basically saying she's senseless and stupid but she's not understanding it. Poor guy
I grew up as the oldest in a big family where my extended family even would sleep over. We always shared a bed. So I grew up believing sleeping is just sleeping. As long as everyone is clothed, I don’t see an issue for sleeping. But I also understand not everyone grew up that way and puts more meaning into it.
This relationship won't work out she clearly doesn't want to change she needs help ASAP
tbh her problem doesn't sound like it's abt having too many guy friends, its an alcohol addiction
He should dump her then.. what's the poing having her as his girlfriend meanwhile she's still in contact with her ex-ex. Erghh so annoying.. the way she talk i already know either she has no common sense or she doesnt love him at all. 👀
at the last part when she said i love you to him, his face just like "are you still pretending?*smirk*"
i really like youngja 😁 she needs to be appreciated moreeee
rather than the male friends i think her drinking is more of a problem....
He should dump her!!! Besides the fact that she still talks and exchanges gifts with her ex, gets shitfaced drunk all the time and BLACKS OUT, brings guys home with her and just sleeps with them, AND doesn't tell some guy friends that she has a boyfriend therefore leading some of them on (so they call her 10+ times) she has no regards for his feelings and no basic manners. She's always on her phone during their dates and she leaves him for her friends. Her priorities aren't with making the relationship work. This isn't a "culture" thing, as someone born in America I can say that if my boyfriend was always acting like this and putting alcohol/others over our relationship i'd dump him so fast. Think about the double standards all of you who are saying he's so obsessive!! If this was the other way around and she was saying her boyfriend acted like that i'd bet all of you would freak tf out
Shes kind of person with no boundaries, while her boyfriend looks like a very careful person. I wish things work out between them, or might as well end it if it not working
i honestly think that he deserves more. hes so cute, sweet and kind and shes such a horrible person for doing all of that to him
I also have many guy friends but, I don't think sleep in the same room and on the same bed is appropriate. I understand the boyfriend's feeling, it's only natural if he felt a little bit insecure. I wouldn't like it too if my boyfriend ended up in the same room with another girl eventhough there's nothing happened. She should cut back a little bit...
Lmao the title of this video can be also "Girlfriend is an alcoholic"
he’s so cute and too good for her
The boyfriend has a baby face omg, he's 38 but he looks way younger than that😱
just break up already , you will find someone that really deserve your love.
It sounds like she loves him for being understanding and is hence taking advantage of that... she doesn't really love him at all
Normally, the girls in the audience react more to the problem but this time the guys were ready to jump out of their seats😂
Yeongja words really hit on point
She doesnt even love him. You can easily see that
at first, i thought that the guy was just overreacting bcos i also have guy friends and i get drunk with them. i even experienced sleeping in the same room with them, even beside them. but im not the only girl in the circle and i know my limit whenever i have bf. im not really as problematic as her sooooo time to change girl
WHEN THEY TOLD HER BOYFRIEND OR ALCOHOL SHE HESITATED AND SAID BOYFRIEND AND THATS WHEN YOU KNOW SHES LYING
남자가 나이는 많아도 훨씬 낫다.
세상에 좋은 여자 많아요~~~
I think this should be less about her being friends with guys, and moreso about her drinking problem, which her boyfriend also seems to be concerned about. She's not a rude girl, she honestly seems nice, but she said it herself, when she doesn't drink she's unhappy. That's where the problem lies. She relies so much on alcohol to be happy, that she ignores her health, which is clearly deteriorating. Is there problems with her seeing eye to eye on the guy friends thing with her boyfriend, sure, but that's a difference in views. The alcohol can become a matter between life and death.
tbh he can do so much better than a shady ass, lying ass alcoholic. just the fact that she doesn't even want to acknowledge her partner's problems shows how little she cares for him.
I am glad they won ...this really is a serious concern ...imagine if they get married and and have children she would still be like this ....an alcohol addict and having no boundaries and being a mom
I really hope they break up ....that boyfriend deserves better
This is just my pov ..🤗🤗🤗
even her guy friends and his friend cant help her look good oh boyyy
what is the highest vote you can get? what was 160 out of?
Tanya Ads I think it's around 200
oryza nikita thanks!
(She becames a monster when she's drunk.) Sorry bebe but she is already a monster . She doesn't need alcohol to become a monster.
I feel so bad for this guy. if i was older i’d love to date him. he seems like a genuine boyfriend and she just keep taking advantage of him
Culture and personality differences. 👍🏼 A man like him is one in a million.
Hanging out with guy friends or ex bf is fine as long as you are in a normal state of mind. But being alcoholic and prioritizing your drinking spree over your boyfriend crosses the line between love and hate. She needs help.
The guy should just dump her . The girl dont even worth it for him .
Some comments are bout the guy being over to jealous or feeling insecure but i really think the guy has the right to do that bc the girl is always hanging out with guy and no matter what the guys says that they dont see her as a women one day they could change their mind. Im so pissed like if i was in his shoes i would have dump her dirty ass in the streets!!
This guy deserves so much better. I really wish he'd just dump her instead so she can live her life the way she wants and he deserves someone who actually concerns of him and love him, not someone who takes advantage of his "nice and understanding" self.
the girl isn't in her right mind, inconsiderate, thoughtless. Some of you said that the boyfriend deserves someone better. But maybe he's concious about his age, don't have much time to find a new girl and starts a new relationship with her.
on a side note, the boyfriend is actually very goodlooking, can't believe he's 38!
The guy gives a second male lead vibe of kdramas - always taken for granted 😢
HOME BOY DESERVES BETTER.
i think her concern is not really a guy friend problem more like an alcohol problem...she needs help they are aiming at the leaves not the root of the prob
Hope this guy meet someone that matches him well. Unfortunately they have different paths in life. She is still enjoying her age, while the guy has thoughts of settling down...
this show must provide a psycholog expert in every episode. bcs for people who is rock head like this need advice that enlighten their minds
This girl is so lucky to have a boy like him ..she don't deserve him ..
But the boyfriend is so cute. Can I have him instead? I'm alcohol intolerant! 😂
she looks old than her age,, bcoz she's addicted to alcohol.. for the guy, I hope you break up with your girlfriend.. you can meet with young beautiful lady out there..
This whole situation just reminds me of Discovery of Love. Girl who's still in contact with her ex and a guy who loves her so much so he just forgives her everytime 🙎
Much respect for Shin Dong Yup
I think she's an alcoholic
I'm afraid the girl dating him just because he's understanding, kind, and not demand much from her so she can have freedom. It's not going to last long especially if the girl doesn't understand her going out with male friends to that extent is wrong. Till she understands that and change that behavior, I think their marriage wouldn't last long, so he better find new partner if he's considering seriously about marriage and she still refuses to change.
I hope he leaves her because she will never change. He deserves someone way better. It breaks my heart to see someone as nice and mature as him to be with an immature inconsiderate horrible person like her. I hope he finds true happiness with someone that will appreciate him.
I hope him to marry someone better. It's so frustrating the way she thinks all of this is ok when her boyfriend is hurt inside.