I'm here today to report a missing person!!!!! [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.03.19]

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  • I'm here today to report a missing person!!!!! [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.03.19]
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  • @annmhfzh3238
    @annmhfzh3238 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1201

    OMG HER DAUGHTER IS SUCH AN ANGEL! IF IT WAS ME, I WOULD JUST GET OUT FROM THE HOUSE

  • @ethana.6045
    @ethana.6045 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1831

    I could never be a guest on this show lol. It’d take so much to not stand up and yell at these people

    • @taniyakarki2490
      @taniyakarki2490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Ethan A. Same here, it's so frustrating seeing these elders acting like a kid

    • @elris452
      @elris452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ethan A. true it’s so aggravating every ep

    • @Jalaasu
      @Jalaasu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I would be balling my eyes out for each concern

    • @KieriHazel
      @KieriHazel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Lucky we are not popular people and not invited to this show. Hahaha it will entirely ruin the show.

    • @mineyoo1999
      @mineyoo1999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao same

  • @melanieleong9961
    @melanieleong9961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1382

    That daughter is so cool, it's like I'm already best friends with her, virtually.

  • @리아리아-g9j
    @리아리아-g9j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    생일선물한번 안챙겨주고 용돈도안준 엄마가 돈은 왜받니 어린딸한테? 당신은 정말 엄마와 딸에게 평생 감사하며 살아야합니다

  • @nyah_tan
    @nyah_tan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +623

    That lady is not a bad mom, she is just a bad human to begin with.

    • @ayoubregragui4173
      @ayoubregragui4173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      No its the opposite she is not a bad human she isn't doing anything wrong as an individual and each person only cares about herself in the end but she is a bad daughter and mom .

    • @cartierkoo5974
      @cartierkoo5974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ayoub Regragui no the mother is a bad person. if she was a good hearted person she'd still take pride in her child and love her, and actually TAKE CARE of her. she is the parent and is supposed to be helping her child regardless of how she had her. wanting to have fun is fine and she most definitely entitled to making time for herself, but not to the point where she emotionally, mentally and physically neglects her child for weeks at a time.

    • @hassanbelmekki624
      @hassanbelmekki624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she is rude to her mom and daughter

    • @marcelineambrose6933
      @marcelineambrose6933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't think she is a bad person I think she is just confuse that she had a child really early and her husband died early too and it's hard to raise a children but she don't raise them because her mother raise her children for her daughter and most of people who gave birth at young age mostly want to have more fun

    • @Lee-sh3xx
      @Lee-sh3xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cartierkoo5974 They meant is the mother who is a bad mom is also a bad daughter cause she is rude to her mom which is the girl grandma

  • @nyah_tan
    @nyah_tan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1314

    And this is the reason why you should have a child ONLY when you ARE ready.

    • @omegasage777
      @omegasage777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Louder for the people in the back!! lol

    • @angelruns2486
      @angelruns2486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg your username

    • @cwazie4ducks
      @cwazie4ducks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It should be like the driver license... they should take an exam for becoming a parent 🤬 i'm a mother of a todler and i can't imagine treating him like this person( i can't call her mother) treats her daughter🤬

    • @jz9018
      @jz9018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      이기적인 끝판왕

    • @nadeshdaamina
      @nadeshdaamina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think sometimes people think, Hm what about a baby or they do it because of tradition. But I don't understand her. Sorry, cold blooded

  • @flunkd
    @flunkd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    I WANT TO THROW MY PHONE WATCHING THIS OMG SO FRUSTRATING

    • @lasttofirst3335
      @lasttofirst3335 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yong Geun Song I really didn't want to laugh but😂😂😂😂

    • @MariaGarcia-jj7ve
      @MariaGarcia-jj7ve 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      tara I literally almost did that

  • @seekthetruth9668
    @seekthetruth9668 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The daughter actually been traumatized, she can't show her sadness, and keep putting smiley face more n more.. It is sad to see a child to experience something like this, and the truth is she loss a father and mother at the same time since age 10. Finally the daughter burst into tears when the mother convey her love. The mother mayb miss her late husband, but she forget about the one that still alive.

  • @더이퀄라이저
    @더이퀄라이저 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    세상에 저런 딸이 얼마나 있을까? 엄마랑 딸의 상황이 바뀐듯. 딸이 부모인듯. 저렇게 귀엽고 이쁘고 맘이 푸근한 딸. 있음이 부럽다.

  • @pippiman
    @pippiman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I really hated how at the end she said “I’m always thinking of you even if I don’t show it” because she obviously doesn’t, since she can’t even be bothered to send a text or even answer her daughters calls to show her that at least she’s alive and not kidnapped somewhere and at the end when the guy said that it’s not a concern and the mother actually rolled her eyes

  • @hfcnib2024
    @hfcnib2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    낳았다고 다 부모라고 할수 있을까?
    부끄러운줄도 모르고 자랑하듯 얘기하는 웃는 얼굴이 참 한심하게 느껴진다.

    • @박도훈-v2d
      @박도훈-v2d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      저건부모도아니고 무식하고 자기는괜찮고가족은위혐하니안되고자기는즐길거다즐기고 진짜형편없다 딸이착해서구렇지 나중에 부모늙어봐라 봐주지도않지 연끈어야지

    • @두목곰탱이
      @두목곰탱이 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      내생각에
      나이트에서 놀다가
      실수로 생긴 딸 같아보이내요

    • @konair4948
      @konair4948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@두목곰탱이 그래서 즉석만남을 절대 안 해요. 라고 하는거 아닐까요 ㅎ

    • @김재학-d9p
      @김재학-d9p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      나이트는 원나잇도 많이 하지만 그런거 불편해하는 부류도 있기에 연락처 받아놓고 그 다음에 만나서 이뤄지는 경우가 더욱 많죠~

    • @두목곰탱이
      @두목곰탱이 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@konair4948 영상보니.
      그러고도 남을거같다는
      생각이드내요

  • @jwehope
    @jwehope 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    the ending when yeojin started crying and the female guest started crying too talking about how there's some things only moms can help with made me start crying!! i''m very lucky to have a good mother who loves me and it's painful to hear that she has a healty and living mother who doesn't try at all to be there for her or let her know she cares about her. it's heartbreaking.

  • @빠니셔틀
    @빠니셔틀 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    24:34 영자님 눈시울빨개지는거보니 짠해요. 제발정신좀차리시죠.어머님

  • @김수정-m8y5o
    @김수정-m8y5o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ㅡㅡ미쳤네 엄마가 저런데도
    딸이 잘자랐다 다행이도ㅠㅠ

  • @뱅쿡
    @뱅쿡 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    나이트죽순이가 부킹을 안한다고? 그리고 그것과 별개로 저리 외박 매일 할정도면 건전하게 놀거라고 보이진않는다.

    • @구경만-z6r
      @구경만-z6r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      인정 딸과 못가는거보면 백퍼 성인나이트임

    • @노라-f1o
      @노라-f1o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      옷파시는분들 많이노심 건전하진않음

    • @gwajadanji
      @gwajadanji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      아니 돈을 벌면 뭐하냐고 버는것보다 더 쓰는데;

  • @avrilcadeul3207
    @avrilcadeul3207 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    29:24 I just can't believe he told the daughter to be more understanding....😓

  • @debbinskiii3781
    @debbinskiii3781 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    At 40 she still doesn't have a sense of responsibility? I don't care what age you had your child but from that day onwards you have to make sacrifices for that person. How can a mother value her wants and needs over her own daughter's? It baffles me that parents like this exist in the world. You can't pick your parents so I really feel sad for this girl and I pray she lives her best life, with or without her mom.

  • @lue-rjeatumpalan1363
    @lue-rjeatumpalan1363 6 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    In my opinion (no need to bash ok) I too get pregnant and started a family at an early age of 19, fortunately I finished my degree. Though working, decisions I made have been mutual between me and my husband. I felt I lost myself; my identity and my youth. Frustrations, sadness consumed me but I learned to endure it and change my perspective for the sake of my family. The mother doesn't have that opportunity of overcoming it since her husband died early. And a constant reminder is her child and the only thing she know as a coping mechanism was bar hopping, being drunk. The "home" is a constant reminder of her being a single mom, longingness for her dead husband. She assert by selfishly being "single", covering her sadness with material things. The adulting has been the role of the daughter, her mother (grand mother) tolerated mom's childish attitude to avoid conflict. Bless her child for being more mature for her and understood what her mother's going through. I think that the mother harboring her sadness for so long because she doesn't know how to surpass it, she really needs counselling, attend support groups that can understand what she is going through.

    • @Amalleo94
      @Amalleo94 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      But she really needs to be more responsible especially towards her grandmother. She is an adult now so she should pay up her debts even towards her own mother. The only thing she should know is responsibility. Towards her mother, her daughter and herself.

    • @catymira
      @catymira 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well I just feel like she has to deal with they should have used protection if she didn't want problems

    • @sharlynm85
      @sharlynm85 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes but to club for 20 yrs hmmmmmmm

    • @angeline328
      @angeline328 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh wow.... I understand better now 😊 I hope this mom can be a better parent to her daughter and realize that each moment is precious with her daughter. I feel that the mom has serious depression and needs to see a psychiatrist immediately. She has guilt building up in her because of her clubbing addiction and that she can't spend time with her family and vice versa. That made her depressed and stressed for thinking that she couldn't take care of her family well plus her husband's absence.
      That is my point of view. If you do see something wrong, point it out nicely. Nobody needs another backlash. We are all already suffering.

    • @deeadedee
      @deeadedee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Many people have different types of hardships, including this one, being a single mother or having a child at a younger age, but the way this particular woman is and has been treating her child is absolutely unacceptable. Her daughter is literally trying to pay her mother into spending more time with her. Also, she doesn't lift a single finger at home, doesn't do anything, doesn't even share what money she makes, she keeps it all to herself. She doesn't look lost - she's just irresponsible, selfish and even childish, I'd say. And very, very spoiled. Just wait until her daughter finally leaves her (because she will, eventually). Then she'll wake up.

  • @유토피아-x9t
    @유토피아-x9t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    엄마의 자격이없다. 낳는다고 다 부모가 아냐

  • @호호히히하하
    @호호히히하하 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    피임은 꼭 철저하게!!!

  • @celestezodiac9991
    @celestezodiac9991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The hosts are always too lenient on the one being wrong. They work out their advice around them. The younger guests usually give the best advice shame they never get to talk

  • @cghjd55673
    @cghjd55673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    정신병자랑 사는구나
    남자도 만나가면서..헤프게 사는듯

  • @aidaraaisha9744
    @aidaraaisha9744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The daughter is an angel and has a beautiful charming smile

  • @Penguinchubb0
    @Penguinchubb0 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Emotionally and psychologically, the mom has been trapped at the time of her husband's death. When the hosts ask her about her feelings for her husband, that's when she couldn't help but naturally become vulnerable - it's so pure. Her feelings are fixated to that time and all she wants to do is forget the rest because it is that painful to her. It takes a great pain and a stunted development for a person, especially a mother, to neglect a child in this way. It's awful, but she was still so young when she gave birth, she must have already had an immature mentality when she became a mother. She doesn't know how to become one, and it always frightened her to do it alone after her husband passed.

  • @happyjong-t7s
    @happyjong-t7s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    엄마가 모성애 자체가 없는 듯...엄마라고 무조건 있는게 아니라 키우면서 생기는거라고 하더라구요 무조건 낳자마자 생기진 않는다네요...산후우울증이 왔는데다 신생아시기엔 밖에 나가지도 못하니 그게 스트레스가 극에 도달았나본데...그걸 못 버틴건가? 자식까지도 미운경우도 있다던데...어휴...그래도 자식만 불쌍하다ㅜ

    • @이상임-v6j
      @이상임-v6j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      저도 키워본결과
      처음 태어났을땐 별감정없더라구요
      그저 아기니까 지켜줘야한다는 의무감뿐?
      지금 고1인데 낳아서 지금이 젤 못생길때인데
      지금이 제일 귀엽고 사랑스러워요 ㅋ
      키운정으로 엄마가 되어가는거죠

  • @thalitaputri6390
    @thalitaputri6390 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i wish the daughter and grandmother would just cut ties with the mother and live away together😡😔

  • @ssuky3055
    @ssuky3055 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She's really a good daughter, from what she said in the last that she just wanted her mom to be happy and never asked something for herself is heartbreaking😢😢

  • @iloveexoandsupportahnhyeon7148
    @iloveexoandsupportahnhyeon7148 6 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    The mom is suspicious...nightclubs 5-7 times per week and she just WATCHES? hmm

    • @lasttofirst3335
      @lasttofirst3335 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yong Geun Song as much as I agree that this mother is wrong , that much I have yo say that you are very disrespectful ....
      Actually you are acting very disgustingly in this comment section.

    • @MLik-rz6xd
      @MLik-rz6xd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yong Geun Song The way you use many vulgar words here, define who you are.

    • @88ひびき
      @88ひびき 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Yong Geun Song you kind of make sense, i mean ignoring the obvious slanders and vulgarity

    • @orbitonces
      @orbitonces 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yong Geun Song Lmao what a salty bitch

    • @lyne3783
      @lyne3783 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yong Geun Song You are disgusting.

  • @이경호-q7q
    @이경호-q7q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    내 아내에게 감사하며 살아야지...

    • @babasua
      @babasua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @옆집반달곰
    @옆집반달곰 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    하고싶은대로하게 냅둬라 너도독립해서 너하고싶은대로 살고~그리고 언제라도연락오면 모르는사람이라고 하고 끊고 잘살아

  • @ZombehPanda
    @ZombehPanda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was so angry through the whole thing but as soon as the daughter started crying at the end my tears came too. She deserved to have a better mother.

  • @안별이-x2y
    @안별이-x2y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    3년전꺼를 왜제가 지금보는지 몰겠지만 화가나네요 ㅠㅠ 20살에 애낳은거 그게뭐 어때서요 낳았으면 사랑으로 키워야지 자기밖에모르는 인간이네정말 딸이불쌍하네 ㅉㅉ 나두37이지만 내딸도17이니까 나도20살에 애를낳아도 투잡해서 돈벌어서 딸님이 짐 고등학교다니는데 자기밖에모르는 인간은 정말 폐기급엄마네 남편을 사랑한게아니라 미안한말이지만 남편이 살아생전 저아줌마 노예였겠다~ 자길낳아준 친엄마 나이도많으신데 몸도아프신데 일하시고 집들어와서 집안일하고 그돈을 3천만원이나 갈취해서 지살것만 산다는게 진짜 인간이하네요 난 내딸 해외서공부중이여서 코로나땜에 못봐서 화상통화로 자주하고 돈도 자주붙히고 걱정도많이하는데 진짜 저아줌마딸은 진짜 저런엄마밑에서 정말 잘컸네 화가나서 욕이나온다

  • @belleux_
    @belleux_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly i could relate to her so much. Growing up I felt so unloved by my mom. I knew she loved me because she made sure to take care of me and give me all the essential things i needed. She made sure I got a good education (as good as it could be living in the Bronx). When we became homeless and lived in a shelter she tried hard to make it all be okay. She allowed me to experience things like going to Germany in 5th grade for a week, and put me in a program that allowed me to spend 1-2 weeks in the summed in Pennsylvania having fun. She did a lot for me, even when she waa diagnosed with Cancer and had to do less because she physically couldn't do the same things as before. I knew she loved me because of all of this, but i still questioned it because the one thing she never did was give me any affection. When i would try and hug her she would push me away. When i wanted a kiss she would make a face and tell me no. She called kpop a waste of time and complete trash. She ofen made me feel lonely. I am an only child so i only had her at home, but she never wanted to spend lots of time with me. I remember crying myself to sleep thinking my mom didn't love me. She even said before that she wanted to have a boy (im a girl). As a kid i watched the movie Annie and i remember wishing i was an orphan because it seemed so much better to me to be adopted by a family that will hug and kiss me. I would always tell her I love her but she would never say it back. For 18 years all my mom did was push me away. At some point after I turned 18 i told her how she truly made me feel growing up. I made it clear to her that i was deeply wounded because of her. I told her how i often cried myself to sleep because of her, how i planned to not have her in my life after i became an adult and had kids. I even told her that i wished i was dead because it would feel better than being lonely. She finally understood and apologized (with a chocolate cake lol). Since then she has been showing me affection, she tries hard to not judge my love for kpop and listens to me more when i talk about it. She even comforts me. She still cant say she loves me, but she shows it even more now. I hope that this mother can stop thinking about her needs and wants only and recognize that her daughter needs to know she is loved and cared for by her.

  • @mabe831
    @mabe831 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It breaks my heart.. she's grown up on her own despite having her mother alive and well.

  • @Hip.Username
    @Hip.Username 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she told the daughter she was always thinking of her even if she doesn't show it, I eye-rolled as much as she did when everyone gave her advice. She only thinks of her when she wants money.

  • @skykim9114
    @skykim9114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    뭐 저런 엄마가 있는지???
    양심이 없구나.
    딸이 불쌍하다.

  • @김사무엘-z9h
    @김사무엘-z9h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    지금은 코로나라 집에 딱 붙어있겠구만 ㅋㅋ

  • @Reflection8311
    @Reflection8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    신동엽은 가끔 한마디 하는데 다 웃기네~ 역시 대단하신분이시구나. . . 오버 하지도 않고 딱 웃긴이야기만 신신다. . .

  • @칭따오-f7j
    @칭따오-f7j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    관상은 거짓말 안한다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @sophie204
    @sophie204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    병원부터가라 뭐가 저리 당당해

  • @rosalee7517
    @rosalee7517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the friend is so adorable hahaha, I don't have the energy anymore, then dance like nobody watching, so cute, I wanna be her friend too

  • @이허브-q1m
    @이허브-q1m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    평범한엄마는 아니네요
    따님이 잘자란게 다행이고
    대견스럽네요

  • @ohmanholyshit9104
    @ohmanholyshit9104 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    if my mom was like this i would just go out and do bad stuff and when she complains i could be like you’re never even home to discipline me so you’re not in the position to say anything lmao

  • @moistsquish
    @moistsquish 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman is wielding a double edged sword with every comment my god

  • @유은숙-v2e
    @유은숙-v2e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    당신은 소중한 사람입니다.

  • @smjung-vj6vn
    @smjung-vj6vn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    이거보고 부모도 아니다란 생각이 둘었는데 댓글에 위로를 받습니다. 외국분들 오해할라.....대부분의 한국부모는 안그래요..... 세상에 장윤정 엄마같은사람도 있고 고유정같은 마귀도 있습니다. 그나마 딸래미 안죽이는것만 해도 감사합니다.....부모인데 학비 안대준다는말에 욕나올뻔했음.... 아무리 원나잇으로 애를낳았다한들 반은 자기딸인데 얼마나 귀엽고 착하냐.....앞으로봐라 딸돈벌면 엄마 버림받는다.....이엄마는 돈저축해놔라 요양원에 갈돈준비하소

  • @Anabelleee_
    @Anabelleee_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    To be honest , i wish i have a friend that have the same personality like her ❤️ Is she really a mother? I can't believe it..

  • @shinhazelle
    @shinhazelle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I think the mom were just hurt that she had a baby when she was young and then lost her husband. She said she loved her husband very much, maybe by going to nightclubs, she thought she could at least release her pain because of losing him.

    • @n4musica
      @n4musica 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      a dreaming heart makes impossible, possible I agree. It’s obvious that’s she still hasn’t moved on from her husband, even after 10 years. I feel for the mom and the daughter....

    • @myesha3867
      @myesha3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      except she also went clubbing a lot before her husband died

    • @jruth4557
      @jruth4557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes,maybe..but she was having so much fun even before those events happened..

  • @박혁거세-u3q
    @박혁거세-u3q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    엄마가 술집 빠순이로 일하네

  • @fenymardiah7266
    @fenymardiah7266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She can get award for "the worse mother ever".
    If I was the daughter, I'll just don't care about her at all. I'll let her live her life, and wait till she is old and lonely even more, I'll never be on her side and let her die with her loneliness.
    I hope she read this and realize how serious this problem is.

  • @stephaniefaustina1639
    @stephaniefaustina1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Actually I usually don't cry when I see a Korean variety like this but I was really shocked of myself that I cry so hard when I see that girl and bona cry. And if I was that girl I really can't control my eyes to stop crying
    She really a good person and she's deserve better 😔😔 she so pretty inside and outside

  • @강혜경-f8q
    @강혜경-f8q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    엉뚱한 짓거리 하고다니까
    전화안받지
    꼭 노는것들이 안된다고 하더라
    험한짖다해밨으니
    안되겠지
    가족끼리 안된다
    뭔가 있네

  • @fondpond8458
    @fondpond8458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude how do ppl stay so calm while facing such people. I would end up emotional bursting like really 🤯
    That’s why I always say not EVERYONE deserves to be a parent

  • @oncefortwice1389
    @oncefortwice1389 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can understand the mom, however she’s letting her grief and her impulses control her. Her daughter deserves better and her mom is just letting everything fester. This episode made me cry because Yeojin is such an amazing daughter and everything that’s happened and I need some water. 😢😢😢😢

  • @originalfake8600
    @originalfake8600 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wahhhhh
    My heart hurts😭😭😭😭
    I watched this then tommorow s mothers day..

  • @merryme5225
    @merryme5225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    안녕하세요 다시 소환해주세요 ㅠㅠ
    즐겨보던 예능 ㅠㅠ

  • @이지훈-l1o
    @이지훈-l1o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    각자인생 살아라 그게 정답이다

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the mother is truly selfish. i get that it's hard for her that her husband died, but she needs to remember that her daughters dad died, and that's even worse. the daughter is so kind hearted and forgiving, even with the limited love she's received.

  • @owpancil84830
    @owpancil84830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    40은 아닌거 같은데

    • @이상임-v6j
      @이상임-v6j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      지금 내가 44인데 나보다 훨씬 언니같다
      근데 하는짓은 에궁 철부지네

    • @owpancil84830
      @owpancil84830 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@이상임-v6j 인정

    • @maybe2081
      @maybe2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      50대같음

  • @최인수-w9i
    @최인수-w9i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    딸에게 할머니 마저 안계셨으면
    정말 딸이 더 힘들었을게다.
    이제 정신 좀 차리고 살아요.

  • @2PMisTimeless
    @2PMisTimeless 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am sure she got a night job like hostess, entertaining male people... cuz she said she can afford it now to buy expensive gifts for herself.. I mean 3000$ ~ 5000$ a month is really a lot for giving yourself a gift and as much as I know, the average wage in korea is also very low.

  • @이경민-h6l
    @이경민-h6l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    어린나이에 잘키우는사람 많거든요.합리화하지마

  • @tsubakihanazono
    @tsubakihanazono 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seeing how her mom is the daughter could've ended up being the same or even worse than her mom, but she's an angel like everyone is saying. I wish I could be her friend or something. That mom should be grateful she had a great daughter. I definitely wouldn't have tolerated that, if I could support myself I would've took granny and gone.

  • @aurum0705
    @aurum0705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    저거 엄마 실격이다 진짜...

  • @이희숙-c5s
    @이희숙-c5s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    엄마가 기본적으로 뭘 모르는거 같네요 자식이 있는 엄마이면 자식한태 신경쓰고 가정을 돌봐야 되는게 당연한건데 무슨 가정주부가 나이트를 매일가 젊은애들도 그렇게는 안하지 대우받을때가 없어서 나이트 가나 사고방식이 잘못되있는 여자네

  • @glasshousefuture6836
    @glasshousefuture6836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely NOT A CONCERN.
    The girl needs to go her own way and let her mom just be. Her mom owns a shop so why is she giving her mom allowance? She's grown. That's the end of it. I get being upset while younger, but she needs to just stop holding on so tightly. She is not her mom's mother and her mother doesn't need parenting. 🙄

  • @Jaethy
    @Jaethy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The daughter looks charming.

  • @yun1483
    @yun1483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    한숨밖에안나온다 ㅡㅡ

  • @annavaradise4355
    @annavaradise4355 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's rare to see Yeongja cry..

  • @jessreyna9016
    @jessreyna9016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds like my mom. I understand her struggle

  • @jfarmerswatermelon6061
    @jfarmerswatermelon6061 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    her mom looks so young xD and daughter is so nice

  • @nenidwicahyani8467
    @nenidwicahyani8467 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i feel so bad for her. how a mother can be like that? the girl is so mature whereas we are at the same age.

  • @이름-w6v3i
    @이름-w6v3i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    저건 한심한 엄마가 아니라 한심한 인간이지~ 애초부터 이기적이고 한심한 인간~ 보통 저런 인간을 꼴통이라고 하지~ 상종할 가치도 없는 인간인데 다행히도 딸이 너무 잘 자랐네

  • @penguineuk
    @penguineuk ปีที่แล้ว

    따님 너무 힘들었을것 같다. 아빠도 없는 세상에서 밤마다 얼마나 무서웠을까.. 하지만 이제 성인이니 독립하는게 좋을 것 같다. 가족으로 인해 정작 본인의 인생은 버리지 말길..

  • @juyeonlee4308
    @juyeonlee4308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    따님 되시는 분.. 이제라도, 감정소모 경제적 손실 되는 일 그만하시고.. 잘 준비하셔서..엄마라고 하시는 저.. 소시오패스 같은 여자랑 손절하세요. 다 늙어서.. 딸 등골 파먹으면서 살 사람입니다. 자기자신의 잘못은 전혀 모르고요.
    사람은 안바껴요. 절대!!

  • @007neverdai
    @007neverdai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    남자 안만나다고?… 완전구라… 관상이 말한다~~ 백퍼~!!!

  • @맘해피-c5n
    @맘해피-c5n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    아이낳기 전에도 막나가는 딸이였을거고 지금도 자기잘못을 알고있지만 그냥 모른척하는거다!
    다~~~핑계고 나이트중독 의외로 많다
    그와중에 딸이 너무 잘컷다
    엄마가 인정머리없는 그냥 낳아만 놓은 사람이다
    재수없다 엄마라는인간이

  • @두두둥-n4t
    @두두둥-n4t 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    영자 언니....ㅜㅅㅜ 울지마세요 흑 ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜ

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't think this lady is a bad person. She's just selfish and is escaping her responsibilities, I hated how she rolled her eyes even though the guests were trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    her daughter is amazing...too bad the mom isn't :/

  • @luckyhappy0802
    @luckyhappy0802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    어이가 없다!!!

  • @홉사랑-b7z
    @홉사랑-b7z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    아기를 낳긴 했지만
    엄마가 되기에는
    성숙하지 못했다..

  • @mhytzconcina7095
    @mhytzconcina7095 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i'm very thankful that i don't have a mother like him, She doesn't care about her kids, just her self. A self centered person

  • @멘탈바사삭-g8u
    @멘탈바사삭-g8u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    참 이기적이다 ~당신처럼 산다면 남아날 가정없겠지요 정신좀 차립시다 가족 소중한줄 아세요

  • @elris452
    @elris452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    another case of a spoiled person that wants everything to themselves. like cmon you have a daughter in college, and you can’t even help her pay her tuition, she’s working a part time job, and she gives you allowance so you can spend it on your looks?? like that’s just beyond absurd. i really like the daughter she’s honestly the kindest sweetest thing, but i would’ve stopped giving my mom money. she doesn’t even save up to pay her daughter back. or at least spends it on a birthday trip and gifts for her daughter. also the fact that she actually checks on her mother to see if she is ok is great. kids rarely ever do that. it’s probably so hard to balance college and a job. the daughter is an absolute angel but the mom is just stuck up and stubborn.

    • @dreamr5455
      @dreamr5455 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      it reminds me of veep tv show

    • @elle1585
      @elle1585 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it is even hard to do good on college. How much more with a job -.-

    • @xanddyy5575
      @xanddyy5575 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      LyricalPhoenix she's spoiled also she started going out even she has a husband she didn't take care of her daughter . only her husband and relied on him ,as the mc says its okay to have fun but only on temporary it understandable cause she is grieving but also her daughter. she has a daughter she is not a teenager or in her 20s anymore. what you saying that she lost a husband what about the daughter she basically lost both her parents her father died and her mother didn't pay attention at her or care, at the young age instead of having fun she always think about her mother and she works to pay her tuition fees and work several jobs. her daughter is always with her but she always brush her on her side.

    • @cwazie4ducks
      @cwazie4ducks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The daughter grew up well because of her dad and grandmother, they did a great job. 👏

  • @Zinilamp
    @Zinilamp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    마지막 순간까지 "이게 뭐야?!" 라는 식의 엄마 표정 너무 합니다. 짧은 인생 즐길때 즐겨야지! 라고 당당히 말하는 엄마, 본인 좋아라고 자식한테 그리고 부모한테까지 손벌리는 엄마는 그냥 기생충 아닌가요. 처음으로 악플을 달아 봅니다.

  • @googoogoo2775
    @googoogoo2775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    저도 20살에 아이를 낳았어요. 심지어 저는 외국에서 기댈 곳이 없이 독박 육아를 했어요. 돈도 없이 월세 단칸방에서 삶을 시작했어요. 지금 제 아이가 9살이고 전 서른살이에요.
    자기 보상심리 같은 소리하시네요. 엄마 될 자격이 없는 여자네요.창피한 줄 아세요. 당신 같은 사람 때문에 엄마들이 욕 먹어요. 전 우리 아이를 혼자 두고 1시간도 못 다녀요. 무슨 엄마가 그래요? 당신 어머니와 딸은 무슨 죄예요? 정말 열 받네요. 아이랑도 놀 수 있는 방법이 얼마나 많은데?자기애가 많은 사람인 것 같은데 애초부터 왜 애 낳았나요?

    • @달콤살벌-y1p
      @달콤살벌-y1p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      엄마가 이기주의에 또라이같아요

    • @라이키-g1t
      @라이키-g1t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      완전 옳은말

    • @이허브-q1m
      @이허브-q1m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      저렇게 매일을 놀러간다는거
      돈을 많이 버시는가봐요

      참 딱하네요

  • @SAINK00
    @SAINK00 6 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    did anyone else notice the annoying eyerolls of the mother when the hosts try to give her advice? or is it just me? I have a feeling the mom won't really change. she's lucky her daughter still cares a lot for her instead of abandoning her.

    • @jruth4557
      @jruth4557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      SAINK00 she did it a lot...also that smirk on her face...😧😤

    • @hnnhbug14
      @hnnhbug14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I wanted to throw my phone. She wasn’t sincere and I know she won’t change. That poor girl

    • @dorcasirizarry5494
      @dorcasirizarry5494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAINK00 This mom is an ABSOLUTE BITCH‼️ They LITERALLY had to force her to say I LOVE U‼️ & to be leaving her to be raised by the grandmother since elementary‼️?? & HER & THE MOM NEED TO STOP 🛑 GIVING HER $$$‼️IT’S ENABLING HER‼️She is able to continue being A SPOILED BRAT‼️I wish they’d told her straight up “You’re a ROTTEN, NON-ACTIVE, SELFISH MOTHER!” I AM SURE THEY WERE SHOCKED‼️The young girl getting choked up here was heartbroken because she knows how much young women need a mom‼️ This young woman needs to just love & appreciate the grandma & write off this good for nothing woman who isn’t a mom at all‼️The daughter is a wonderful, strong, hardworking & beautiful young woman so her life can still be a GREAT one‼️ Kudos to the terrific grandmom‼️

    • @suzykim4035
      @suzykim4035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did it alot and alot of like belittling smirks. Ugh

    • @hironorikano
      @hironorikano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If i was her daughter, i would already abandoned her long time ago
      Annoying bitch 😒

  • @berlinzfaked3060
    @berlinzfaked3060 6 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    It hurt me when i saw Young-ja almost cried... Her mother cross the line too far....

  • @lalala.newyork
    @lalala.newyork 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    진짜 미쳤다 이 아줌마 @@ 이영자말이 진짜 딱 맞네. 생각하는대로 사는게 아니라 사는대로 생각하는 삶을 살고계시네. 자기자신한테는 수백을 쓰면서 자식은 자기 엄마한테 맡겨놓고 생활비도 안준다니 그게 저 사람이 생각하는 가족이란말인가. 정말 한심하다

  • @크라운산도-j8x
    @크라운산도-j8x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    심한말 나올까봐 안볼랜다
    엄마가 20살에 애를 낳았을때는 엄마는 그때도 공부랑 담쌓고 남자 만나서 연애하느라 바빳네. 에휴 관두자

    • @passion22s34
      @passion22s34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      즤 버릇 개 못주는거죠. 딸은 안되고 넌 되고?ㅁㅊㄴ

    • @두목곰탱이
      @두목곰탱이 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      나이트에서 남자만나서 임신햇을듯

  • @김귀옥-o3o
    @김귀옥-o3o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    뭐 저런엄마가 있을까요,? 할말이 없다

  • @메시월드컵
    @메시월드컵 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    100퍼 부킹한다

  • @아모야-s7r
    @아모야-s7r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    엄마가 정신차리긴 글럿고 딸이 본인 미래를 위해서라도 정신차려야될듯

    • @uuuqwer
      @uuuqwer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      평생 엄마 때문에 심각하게 어려울 것 같은 느낌. 그냥 이쯤에서. 엄마를 버려라. 엄마는 지멋대로 살고 싶은 것이고 누가 이래라 저래라 하는 것도 싫은 걍 인간쓰레기다
      딸래미. 안스럽게 느끼지 말고 엄마를 버려라!…. 절대 바뀌지 않을 것 같아. 나이트에서 별짓 다하고 다니면서. 거짓말 하는게 보인다. 무슨 춤만 추는데. 온 밤을새냐. 얼굴에 쓰여있다.

  • @다잡아혜정-w3f
    @다잡아혜정-w3f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    이기적이고 존나 당당하다

  • @cristinafa23678
    @cristinafa23678 6 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    The daughter is so pretty

    • @caitlinclarke7957
      @caitlinclarke7957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Cristina Finan Alonso ik, not only on the outside but on the inside too..

    • @peko7446
      @peko7446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she is. she reminds me of IU

    • @김말이-w8t
      @김말이-w8t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

    • @곰탕-e7t
      @곰탕-e7t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

    • @김말이-w8t
      @김말이-w8t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@곰탕-e7t 아이유닮았다길래

  • @mp914
    @mp914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    변하지 않을것 같아 더 슬프다. 저런 생각을 가진 인간도 있구나.

  • @larissanxorr7816
    @larissanxorr7816 6 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    i feel bad for this girl. i hope her mom could be there for her whenever she's happy or sad

  • @coco-th9dg
    @coco-th9dg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    다 알겠고 노년에 찾지마라...

    • @박호진-u7j
      @박호진-u7j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      저렇게 뻔뻔한것들은 가족이라고 늙어서 자기 봐달라고 한다 그때 버려라 과감하게

  • @sharonrosegraciabella4978
    @sharonrosegraciabella4978 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    it feels like the daughter raise the mother