She is always late...[Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.01.14]
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Hello Counselor EP.395
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it's interesting how he called her like "family." i was talking to my therapist and she was saying how if you're around toxic relationships, like your parents, you're more likely to be attracted to people that have similar characteristics like them. she feels like family yet abuses him, gives him food, purposefully says bad things. sounds a lot like what his parents would be like. he can't let go because of that connection she feels like his family and he was prob sad that he had to leave his family and she resembles them. so really, it's not entirely his fault. we all crave love and affection from our parents and if we don't get that, we try to seek it out in the adult world :)
Yeah thats what i thought too. Shes really toxic and tries to manipulate ppl by saying that if a guy really loves you, he can wait. Thats utter bs.
We are attracted to those who hurt us in the same way our parents did.
Great insight- was thinking the same, gosh, his patience is something many girl's would strive to find, I hope this experience teaches her to better appreciate and heckin raise her level of effort ten-fold, cos patience will run thin in the end.
Im not shure about what yr psy said dont keep all the time in mind u will be scared to love someone if u think they might look like yr parents and its false
It's the contrary, its more about the feeling that u need the perfect opposite of yr parents behavior not their so u will be attraced to someone who will be able to give u what u need If you think carefully about who u want
If I was his boyfriend i would have broke up with her a long time ago.
*her
@Yong Geun Song Breaking up with her would be a better option, its not worth shifting your entire life around someone when they dont care enough to even be there when they are supposed to.
She's so incredibly selfish but at the same time he has enabled her behaviour for 5 whole years. If he wants her to change he's gonna have to be really firm/strict and show her he won't tolerate it anymore - like how you would with a child lol. Otherwise she will continue to walk all over him and he will end up losing even more friends.
It seems like he went from being abused by his parents to being abused by his girlfriend. She is definitely emotionally abusing him. She seems to have narcissistic symptoms, all of her actions seem to fall in line with the symptoms. She's not going to change if that's the case, she'll pretend like she's trying to get him to relax then slowly go back to being hours late.
omg I hope he looks at the comments and take in the advice.... I sincerely wish he would break up with her cuz it's not just about being late... she simply does not respect him at all
Both of them need to get their priorities straight. She's inconsistent, inconsiderate and rude. (See @17:02) He's consistently enabled her poor social behavior. He even ended a good friendship over a girlfriend who treats him like an option. What a mess.
This is really about him. He doesn’t want to lose people he’s close to even if they’re hurting him because he doesn’t have a good family. He needs to understand that letting her go will not mean he will be alone. There’s a woman out there who would love and respect him. Unfortunately he wasted years with someone who doesn’t care for him much, he’s a convenience for her because he puts up with her crap.
when you take 3 hours to get ready but still look like someone ran a car over you
He deserves better. So girl if u want to be with him, well u need to be better before he find someone better.
lol my whole family has that problem that's why when I go to class I tell my mom to pick me up 45- to 1 hour ahead of the time my class us over and even then I wait like 10-15 minutes...
I personally know someone who is very much like her in terms of lateness. Not dressing up, just late in preparing to go out. She prepares to go out at the time when we were supposed to reach the location, and has to shower, change etc, and by the time she reaches the place, it is at least 45mins to an hour. Sometimes I seriously wish that the restaurants we reserved at would just not let us in so that she can learn from it, but we never go to popular restaurants, only regular ones so they always let her get away with it. It is really hard especially since she is not only my elder, she makes her own mother wait as well, and her mother complains that she has been like that since young and not sure why she is this way.
My once tennis mixed doubles partner had the license plate on her car which read, "Always late, but worth the wait." One time she was so late even to our tournament match, we had to forfeit it. That was the end of our partnership.
the love he has for her .. like "we been together for 5 yrs" ... oh lord thats crazy... he must be really patient with her .. girl needs to get her act together be4 another girl eating beef steals him from her..
9:46 it's not about if he loves me if he dies in the heat or cold is it then you will know he loves you come on be realistic
I dont understand how someone can be so very inconsiderate and selfish, very thoughtless as well. I consider myself to be considerate even when I dont exactly want to be but you gotta do what's right
Yall are talking everything else I just die when the boyfriend brought up the fact that she was late to meet the parents . An elderly woman gave her the nastiest side eye😂😂😂😂
You should be grateful as guys like the bf is very rare these days
Being habitually late isn’t about just being late. It’s being inconsiderate.
She’s mediocre-looking at best and a selfish, self-centered brat. Her boyfriend is too good for her and needs to walk out the door. Unbelievable that he even put up with her antics for this long. People need to stop enabling this woman.
Wish to meet someone like him
She is not pretty thus she wants to look pretty and it takes time for her to be pretty... so she always late😂Sorry but... overall..she is rude and not attractive...man leave her😶
Her name shouldn't be sloth but "slowth" get that😏
I can't believe there's someone like this. It couldn’t be worse.. terrible.
And I thought my exes were rude.
7:55 vampire teeth
그와중에 남자친구가 있네
Come on bro 😑😑😑 leave her 😏
what!!!!!!! love is mutual.
I’m always late but I’m not that late. I’m lazy enough to not eat food even if I starve to death but I’m not like her. I wonder how she survived all this time
Yo his patience is out of this world plus boi she is not the one honestly, he even lost a friend for her.if he stayed longer he will lost all his friends.i am not even done with the video yet but they isn't any hope.she is trifling af 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ boi you better run💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Wtf he should have left her at the mall when he was feeling sick. my blood is boiling rn
'if he loves me', 'if he loves me', 'if he loves me'. real qn is, do u love him? if YOU love him, you wouldnt make him wait every time, you wouldnt not give a shit when he collapses bc of u. sorry but she's the epitome of self-centredness... she should also get her share of waiting for others so that she knows how rude she is for making others wait EVERY SINGLE TIME
edit: boy, move on and find someone who truly loves you.
I would walk away on our first date if the guy is late!! 😤😤
Boyy just broke up with her.. The girl is damn rude
she needs time to get ready and look pretty....?? she is too confident.. she will look the same no matter how long she took the time...LOL
무개념이네.. 저런사람이랑 어떻게 연을 맺지.. 남자분 정신 차리고 다른분 만나세요
As I watched this I kept wondering “why would u date someone so toxic ? ”
기본적으로 타인을 배려할 줄 모르는 사람이다
이건 남자쪽이 손해봐도 됨. 미련하게 구는데 손해봐야지 어쩌겠음
yeay~
I hope she reads all the comments here and realizes that her attitude sucks, she's luck to have a bf that tolerates her, I'm a very punctual person so I really dislike these type of people, sorry but Boy you can find something better just break up with her
Why is this me 😂
할머니
get her therapist
자꾸만 늦는사람들은 남의 시간 뺐는 도둑놈 심보를 가짐
Barah bajagsye kal ok mai juniyar ka har video full lake kiya hai abhi hoo aage bhi kami nahi hogi chalte hai char ghante bache hai mornig me ok
she wants a slow life? Brazil. go move there and release this poor guy.
오나미급
여성 출연자 분은 역지사지로 생각해보시길...사회생활은 약속 준수에서부터 시작인데...
first comment hehe
The guy is blind!!!! She's not pretty at all!!!!!!!
Im sorry but i hate people who are late... it’s like they are wastong my time
남자가 너무 아깝다 너무...
Itana to hai jitana sow walene socha hai usse achha hum kar ke dikhayenge aane do samay mai ak ko do bar lake deta hoo per namber ak ka milta hai ak jogana me karta dusra jo juniyar ka gana hai to do huaa na kaise namber derahe ho sab dekh raha hoo hum bhi yaha namber dimag me rakhe hai sahi se dekho mera kam ok
She is inconsiderate and selfish. Her boyfriend should have dumped her long ago.
아 진짜 싫다 이런 내로남불의 사람들
Gileee gue kesel sendiri nonton nya 😂. Aku juga gk cantik2 bngt.
Tapi girl,kamu gk cantik2 amat untuk di tungguin sampe 2-3 jam gitu,aigooooo 😑😑 gue kalau jadi cowok udah gue suruh bawa arus dah tuh. Untung waee cowok mu sabar
느려터지게 생겻네요 ㅎㅎㅎ
지 면상이 ㅈㄴ게 이쁜줄아나보네 화장하나 안하나 별차이없을거같은데
별로 예쁘지않은게 아니라 못생겼는데ㅋㅋㅋ아닌가요?
여자 별로 예쁘지도 않은데 왜 저 고생을 하면서 만나냐 일찌감치 헤어지고 다른 여자 만나세요 저 여자는 존경심도 없고 바닥에 떨어진 여자네요 미인도 아니고
It's okay, black people are also always late
The friend was right, she is thoughtless and rude to constantly have people waiting on her. She's so inconsiderate and I don't understand how the boyfriend or friends could put up with it.
I also put some of the blame on the boyfriend because he keeps putting up with it. After 30 minutes or even 1 hour why wait? If you had plans, if the weather is not right, I wouldn't still be there. I will go on with my day.
How the heck have they been dating for 5 years
Rebekah Park Right!?! I couldn't do it.
He tolerates her missuse and disrespect... only one way to stop it and that's to find a real girlfriend who actually cares for him.
the man is wasting his time on that girl
Honesty her vibes are really negative to me. Something that none mentioned was the fact she would go out with other guys without telling him. I don't think she is just late, I think she is cheating as well. She just wants to marry the guy in order to be financially stable and use him. Also the fact she isn't working shows that she doesn't want to really do anything, even lazy People work.
She is really using the guy.
Sorry not sorry but she isn’t pretty enough for him to wait 2/3 hours for a date....Plus her personality truly sucks if she thinks its okay to cancel on him,after he waits hours for her...
Well not every one wait because a person is beautiful or handsome. But yeah she should fix her problem.
M Sk I know,but this is my way of sugar coating the sit,I honestly hope he just dumps her cause she doesn’t appreciate what a great guy he is)
Tea
I had an friend like that and she blew up on me when I stop wanting to hangout. Who wants to make plans with someone who consistently shows up very late or cancel after making you wait for a long time, I know I don't. I heard from an mutual friend that she since then got a lot better but she hates me because I gave up on her. Honestly, I am more angry with myself for putting up with it for so long.
janAUpd true, sometimes it’s hard to find time to meet up with friends,find a place that is good for everyone,you have to get ready(idk like makeup,style your hair,etc) then get there so if u put effort in and the other person just doesn’t show up and doesn’t have a valid excuse I am sorry but Imma dump yo ass....
Here I was expecting her to be this great beauty for him to be waiting around for 5 years. I think the guy needs to move on cause nothing is going to change, the worst part is that she just doesn’t care that she is being inconsiderate. I really feel for him.
Well not every one wait or stay together because a person is beautiful or handsome. But yeah she should fix her problem.
M Sk yeah but people tend to overlook things when it’s coming from a pretty face, they minimize things when they shouldn’t.
Huh? Excuse me but why does it have to do anything with her Face? Like Hell yeah she is Not obedient in her work and yeah she should fix her Problem.. but why you gotta make it seems like 'If she was a bit pretty maybe we should just let her go and be easy on her'?
He need to be like “ Thank you Next “ to her ungrateful behind .🙄😂😂
He doesn't love her he just got used to her in his life ......my friend met her boyfriend right after she lost her dad and she dated him for 4 years but she couldn't handle him no more he was not showing her in the slightest bit that he loves her or he cares about her I told her to breakup with him and I remember she said she couldn't because he was with her when her dad died and she dated him for a long time but after few months she couldn't take it no more and broke up with him
She don't value your time, she dont value you. The BF needs to walk away
Guy is dumb if he doesn't ditch his GF. If he stays and marry her, he'll be waiting most of his life for her to get ready. I don't see what he sees in her, but as they say love is blind.She doesn't respect nor considerate of him much less to his friends and parents by being this way. Up to him though.
He should starting telling her the time that's 3 hours earlier than the actual time so she'll be on time lol
If I was him I would have left her years ago. She seems selfish, inconsiderate, and lazy. Definitely not wife material until she works on changing that.
Woman or man, if you treat me like that I'm out ✌
Just break up with her... She is a selfish... Theses people will leave you in desperate time to save their self... He seems a decent guy.. He deserve better one.
I just thought that girl was Yang Sechan with a wig...
This comment had me on the floor.
No wonder she looks familiar
Nur Amirah Rahim bruuuuhhh, that's so funny
yang sechan would look prettier than her because he is a nice person =__= this girl annoys me
Amazing, she just puts the blame on other people for her own faults,
“I’m always three hours late but if they don’t want to wait then theyre not true friends”
I don’t understand how this guy could even last 5 years.
At first I thought "Wow he really loves her" and then I realized, no. It's not that he really loves her. He doesn't love himself enough. Which is why he's allowing himself to be devalued and treated as a non-priority. He still has very low self-esteem and self-worth from the abuse he received from his parents. Which is why for 5 years he held onto someone who treats him less than. Bruh, please *DO NOT* marry her. You are worth more. You deserve more. Value your time, energy, and efforts as highly as you will value another's. You deserve someone who can't wait to see you. Wish you all the best man ❤
Despite the fact she is late you can tell they really love each other. That being said she needs to stop being selfish. Time is super important for everyone. No one has enough time to be waiting on you all the time. It is ok to be late sometimes...not this often.
나는 남자가 대단하다고 느껴진다
헤어지지 않았다는게,,,,,흠,,,,
대단한게 아니라 멍청한거죠 ㅋㅋ
The girl is so inconsiderate and I feel bad for her because employers don't like late workers. You can even get fired for excessive lateness. The guy needs to find someone else who will make him happy and not use his parents situation against him. He also needs to apologize to his friend because it's friends over relationships till you say "I DO". I have late friends myself and I never entertain them once they are late. I always tell them "At this rate in which you are late, hope you won't be late for your own funeral because it looks to me like you'll miss it." He has entertained her enough, it's time he moves on and finds someone else.
She's extremely toxic..
Leave her, boi! You gotta respect yourself and deserve someone better. I personally really hate it when someone coming late more than once. Kinda feeling disrespected lol.
IT WAS SO FRUSTATING TO WATCH I'M-
만약에 저 여친분이 저래도 약속 시간을 안지킨다면 그땐 진짜 방법이 없지 그땐 남친분이 여친을 포기해야 상황까지 오는 거지 저 여친분이 만약 내 여친이었다면 나는 저런 여친과 안사귄다 나는 약속 시간을 안지키는 여자 안좋아하고 질색이다
나는 약속 시간 안지키는 여자 싫어 한다
Leave her she's not even pretty...
I feel sad for the guy coz he just wanted a family and he can see that to her but the girl does not appreciate it. :(
I don't understand why he didn't break up with her. I think their relationship is a little bit toxic.
Note: I'm not a psychologist but I'm able to suggest this because her traits also appear in myself (I'm an INFP) if I couldn't control myself or being stressed. So I know her position and try to make solutions that suits her the best.
Her traits are more likely to be unhealthy INFP (in this case, she uses her Fi function excessively). It makes her being inconsiderate to people and likely selfish. She tends to do what she believe, what makes her comfortable, and once her boyfriend/friend tell her that they believe in her, she'll always use that term to excuse her being selfish.
Never tell her that if she late, she'll make people wait. It makes her being controlled by other and she'll likely refuse it (which tend her to be later than usual). Try to focus on the purpose/goal about WHY SHE HAS TO BE IN TIME. Try to tell about if she is able to do it, she'll gain more advantages, for example she could date her boyfriend longer so it will increase the preciousness of her adult life, or if her appointment is shopping with her friends, they could hang out longer and more things to buy.
Instead, engage her to practice her Ne to press down her excessive Fi. Bring her to a library, a concert, a museum, or simply a park and ask her what she thinks about the place. Always try to make her more talkative by bringing abstract topics, for example art, literature, conspiracy (if they're able to do so), etc. I think she's interested with fashion and beauty, so try to compliment her sense of fashion and try to make her talking about fashion and beauty. But never force her to tell them all. She'll likely choose one or two topics that she's interested in. It'll makes her less selfish and she'll likely easier to find the meaning/value of something. She'll understand people's point of view (people are living for a reason) and try to be more considerate to them.
More important key: BE PATIENT.
Try to slowly bring her outside more. Be talkative about abstract topics with her. But never force her. Never emphasize that she has to do it for people's sake, she has to do it for her sake. Try to respect her personal value, never compare hers to other's value.
내 아들이라면 참 아들을 한대 때려주고 싶다!!! 속이 터지다 못해 저 뻔뻔한 얼굴이 참 대단하십니다. 그렇게 미인도 아닌데 왜 저렇게 까지하면서 만나는걸까요?
내말이 ㅋㅋ 개노답임 그냥 지금 생각난 건데 이은해 사건 보면 저런남자들 이용해서 사악한여자들 노리는 듯
hfcnib 댁은 얼굴만 보고 자기 짝을 만나나요? 얼굴 반반한 사기꾼 만나서 크게 당해보세요.
The word is egocentric. She thinks the world revolves around her. I don't see her changing. She may even end up alone.
If me i will just dump her look for other girl cause she want other to understhan her bus her selp is so selfish
I admit being late at times. But I have NEVER let a person wait for me for even a minute. I was always the one who waits. ☺ lucky for me though because I don't have friends like her.
I hope they're not together now😩
Dude, please stay away from her before you got trapped deeper. She is so selfish. She doesn't deserve you. Please do before you regret. You deserve a better girl.
You should go here in the philippines. And you will never be late.
She is taker not giver
뭐믿고 저리당당하나 성격도외모도 최악이다
Her friend and sister are right when they said she is rude and inconsiderate by making people wait for her. Also, the boyfriend shouldn't have continued to put up with this. She shouldn't have made him wait 2 to 3 hours on the first date. I think he should've broken up with her a long time ago.When was having an allergic reaction and almost died she made him wait while she went shopping for her pet. That is horrible and that along with always being late would be reasons to break up with her. But he has also continued to let her do this and he should've been more firm about it. She is also selfish. i like that he said he will break up with her if she doesn't change. I think it's wrong of her to be upset if someone makes her wait, but she thinks it's okay to make others wait.
가장 기본인데 죽을때까지 안바뀝니다 헤어지는게 답
he is used to be abused. If he can't get over this ordeal, he will be doomed to stay with this lady but at the same time, his confort zone is where he is being abused despite what he is saying.
One word she doesn't respect him and their relationship shes so rude but the boyfriend is very understanding
어딜꾸민거냐
The girl friend only loves herself. Until she can learn to respect her family and friends, she does not deserve a boyfriend. I do not think that the man is even a boyfriend. She has not shown even an ounce of caring towards him. She should just stick to dating herself.