"Why did you marry me?" [Hello Counselor/2016.07.18]
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Noooo she's tooooo fucking pretty for a gross man like that.
The Roast Bleach i think the original commenter was referring to his gross personality. He already isn’t that attractive but even some generally less attractive people can be attractive in mannerisms and personality, habitual things, etc. this man had disgusting morals and opinions- he was childish and decided he wanted what he wanted and basically represented the problem with saying “it doesn’t matter what everyone thinks- Live your life your way”. Because if you want to disregard everyone else’s opinions, you need to find like-minded people to share your life with or live your life alone instead of being an asshole to others who don’t share your mentalities. He married this woman but I can’t help but think it was for the sake of marrying and his parents to stop nagging rather than love. He doesn’t love her. If he did, he wouldn’t ever force his gross habits on her life and disregard his family’s wellbeing. He is totally fucking gross and this woman is beautiful inside and out for finally saying enough is enough. So yeah, she needs to find herself a better man that matches her inner beauty.
Girl, you gotta throw away the whole husband.
Thatkidmarie 😂😂😂fr
Thatkidmarie She must be worry about her baby
accurate
Hahaha I thought this same exact thing!!!! Better alone than with an idiot! My God!
she threw away her birth control, own fault
The wife is GORGEOUS. drop him, period.
Easier said than done
Random Human THE KIDS :((
Periodtt
Yasssss
You are looked down upon for divorcing in Korea.
Dude it's not babysitting....YOU"RE THE DAD. Holy mother of pearl.....
At some point I just wish he wasnt the dad ._.
He doesn't deserve the children
@@randomhuman3687 im 17 and im pretty sure id be a better dad than he is xd
@@simon.i3119 I'm a straight, 14yr old girl and I feel like I could be a better dad than him aha
the sexism is strong in this one
ilike pi yes.
the reason it was identified as sexism was because it seemed like his excuse for everything was "she's the mom" implying only mom's (females) have to take care of their children and can't have fun. though yes, her husband didn't seem ready for marriage at all.
@Rice It's not a social problem if the society surrounding them ALSO sees it as a problem.
@@lisanguyen6324 it may not be a total social problem but in a way it is. The fact that in Korea many men act that way, especially when they get married while they didn't want it, slowly starts to become a social problem. People around them may condone it but because it's increasing in their society , people start to view it as social.
In my opinion its not a sexist issue. He is just really immature and is trying to throw his immature ways and faults in his wife. He has some sort of ADHD cause he is quite careless and is feeling suffocated easily. I wish the program would bring some specialists to help.
@Rice i think you're right about the chilyand marriage but he also clearly says he can do things she can't. He is a sexist shithead😂
It's honestly abusive. He treats her like that cause she thinks he won't leave. She's a hostage, just like they said. She really needs to come to her senses and leave. My god, this video makes me so mad
Kym Plair yeah she needs to come to sense but korean society is not so lenient on divorced women. Wether she divorces or not her life is doomed the moment she married him i really pity her
I don’t think she’s a hostage. She’s a victim she is and I’m positive if it wasn’t for the baby, she would’ve left him long ago.
they were talking about the baby being a hostage so that the mother cant leave lol
“She won’t leave me because we’re married and we have a child that keeps us together” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
A parade of red flags we see
That wasn't a red flag. That was a giant red blinking sign coupled with alarm bells saying "get the fuck outta there"
@@callmec1313 lol, that description is hilarious!
"so she can spend 2'000 too ?"
Him : never
"Why ? "
Him : Because she's a mother
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Me in sync with everyone : AND YOU'RE A FATHER !
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Girl leave him he's not good for you
Man she's so young as well, that guy was a bloody donut
@sugar lollipop he pissed me off so much my swears start becoming foodlol
I said the same but believe me I did a rap of curses too
Her husband is like sh*t ,what makes him think that just because she's a mother she has to be caged up at home?! while he go and party?! and please, she can definitely find someone better that is willing to take care of her and her child!!! he is outrageous.
Yeah a lot of men are just really stupid
journey to the west
+Gabrielle Guo Qing En what? what are u talking about?? how does that show have anything to do...?
+ carolbyun I think they are saying if she moved to the west she would have no problem finding someone better that wont mind being with her even though she has a kid.
+tl11rj7x korean men has not right to do that and many korean men that let their wife free
The wife is so pretty. She couldve married someone better smh
Yeah
Ifkr
she probably only likes him cause hes tall lol
@Yuju Waterbottle he is truly ugly inside and outside
am 1000% sure they get married bec the girl was pregnant first. as i keep watching i wonder why they get married, theres no other logical explanation than this.
HE. DOES. NOT. LOVE. HER. THIS IS NOT LOVE. THIS IS MENTAL ABUSE. !!!!!
he says he got married young, when his wife is even younger! he says he feels suffocated in the house, when thats hit birth family and shes living with the in laws. shes the one who should feel suffocated. wtf was the girl thinking getting married to him ergh.
Girl probably got pregnant and thought that she couldn't leave too. Which is why the husband doesn't want her to go out or else she'll learn about these from her friends. Most woman only gain courage to leave after getting support from family and friends.
She laugh easily then cry in a blink of an eye. She's depressed 😣
Leon Naga I cry randomly too but more stress. Depression is also when anti social, sleep or no sleep, feel like life not worth living.
Leon Naga lol no she stressed out not depressed. If she was she wouldn't be there able to talk about it. I'd be stressed to. If I was her I'd get her parents help move in with them and save money to get her own place and divorce him.
Katherine Canon you do realize that you can go out and do stuff when you're depressed? How else do you think depressed people ever get help?? You can be stressed and depressed at the same time, and it's clear her marriage and all of the stress put on her is making her depressed.
Depressed or stressed...either way no wonder...I'd be more surprised if she was fine
Leon Naga stop diagnosing people on the internet I’m so sick of you fake doctors!!! This isn’t even what depression is!! She’s breaking down because she’s had enough, it’s NORMAL!!! Mental illnesses are DIFFERENT than having troubles through life! It’s because of people like you mental health awareness is so awful!!!
He's a narcissist. He married her only to keep her and feel like he has a solid and stable love life. It's just a status thing. I was in a very similar relationship except we - thank God - never got married.
agreed
@ᴘᴇᴀᴄʜʏʙᴀɴɢᴛᴀɴ i m still in this type of relationsip there is no way to go
So lets recap..he is a narcissist,he married her only to keep her and its a status thing...well then he is basically a....woman.
@@PK-kt9rw how come?
@@Dreamdancer11 wow. ur a fucking dick. god 12 year old nowadays
(edit) if yall dk what i meant. im pointing out he is a sexist.if yall still dk what that means , yall r still a bit too young n inmature.
"She will stay with me forever"
He is living in his dreams!
well, divorces and separation are taboo in that culture, so, he could be right. She probably stays because she fears the stigma of a getting divorced.
@@liquidsword29 lmao, who gives a fuck ? As long as you're happy,you don't need to listen to people's bullshit.
Divorce that fuxkign cockroach ! He's a worthless piece of shit .
7:33 was the best moment they all screamed at him "YOU'RE A DAD!!"
If my husband who couldn't hold a steady job called my parents and asked for money to go drinking my dad would beat his ass... marriage is about more than love if he was unwilling to truly accept responsibility he shouldn't have gotten married in the first place
Honestly, it was probably a shotgun marriage. They're saying the baby is 26 months old, but that's probably to save face on national television. 26 months+9 months= 1 month short of 3 years, which is when they got married. The baby is probably older. When I was in Korea, one of my friends got married young, and lets just say that she got married in June and had a baby by November.
That's still very much the way it is in Korea. Abortions are illegal and expensive to obtain, sex ed isn't taught, and while birth control is easily obtained, you have to worry about your neighbor's friend's mother seeing you at the pharmacy getting the pill or a box of condoms. Its still very much a culture of, you get pregnant, you get married as quickly as possible.
ChaiChabeela However the whole point of a shotgun wedding is to take responsibility for your child that you created if he's not going to do that it defeats the purpose of getting married so my point still stands
Loving a person means doing your best to make sure that she / he doesn't suffer. This guy doesn't know what love or responsibility is, and has zero empathy. He needs some serious counselling. If all else fails, the woman is probably better off leaving him.
+Jas A exactly. having a child doesn't make a man grow up automatically
+Jas A Pretty sure social stigma played a big part
How can you say you love her when she's crying because of you
K Addict this fucking guy won’t change himself anymore I’m so sad for that women 😭😭
He's totally immature
Even when you love each other, you still hurt each other every other day. Unintentionally tho 🤷
I felt that.. I cry because of my boyfriend too.. even if he doesn’t seem to care for me, I do a lot for him.. and it hurts..
Anindhita S. W how could it be unintentionally when you’ve already brought it up to talk about many times before and they still continue to do it.. 🤦🏻♀️
throw him away.
The whole package.
Throw it away.
At this point I don’t know why I watch this show it just makes me angry
Sameee. I know that some cases are really frustrating and will definitely make me mad, but I still watch it anyway 😩
I feel bad that divorce and single mothers are so looked down upon in Korea. Like it just frustrates me how women have to stay in their marriage even if it's horrible conditions for them since it's still much more sexist in Korea. :(
Ditto! He's so infuriating that the stress alone can't be good for her.
it's completely ridiculous.
agree, and that's how the husband so sure that his wife won't left him, because they have kid, because she is a mom. Ridiculous.
ikr???????
IKR!!! THAT DUDE IS A COMPLETE DOUCHEBAG!!!
She is still young and pretty! She needs to leave him and find a decent man to actually care about her and her child. He literally said I know she won't leave cuz we have a baby.... O.o Nigga, I don't care how many kids we have, I'm out! It's not like he provides for them! Or cares/loves them. Just because you knocked her up doesn't mean she's your forever. She needs to step back, really look at her situation, be brave and leave him. If she does she will only be happier because he is literally bringing nothing into the relationship. I'd rather be embarrassed by a failed relationship temporarily than be miserable for the rest of my life.
With his level of intelligence and mental maturity I would say even then somehow he would coerce her to stay...and you have no idea how imposing and bullying asian in-laws and parents can be. asian societies are inherently patriarchal and values the man and the offspring he helped bringing to the world rather than the woman who suffers silently in the back...
I also think she needs to leave him and register a restraining order but well...I don't think coming to this show will help her either...I hope she found a good solution regardless..
Yushi A also, legally in Korea the man takes custody of the children
She's living with his parents. That's partially why she hasn't stepped out of it I'll bet.
dancingdohl it wouldnt even be embarrassing, everyone around them knows how much of a piece of shit he is
PREECH GURL
She needs to get away from this man. He is so selfish, irresponsible, manipulating, and controlling. His shown behavior is likely the tip of the iceberg. If he doesn't have a radical behavior transformation, I suspect he will physically abuse his wife and child, perhaps eventual sexual abuse. The wife and child will never have a day of security or love or peace. The husband is oppressive.
*I can't even explain how frustrated I am with this sad excuse for a husband and a father, I ain't even saying sorry.* I feel awfully bad for the wife, she deserves someone better who could treat her the way she freaking deserves and doesn't make her cry like that.😔
She is crying because she knows it is illegal to murder him... This fool wants to catch these hands....
Nadine Belle lol. What's funny is I cry I'm extremely sensitive to surroundings and those around me. Trying get kids help with behavioural issue ( one of them separation anxiety he would biting, hitting headbutting teachers/ assistant teachers brining inside the school. Daughter run out of the class room) Because tried everything I could afford to do at the time I was very upset since nothing was working but they blamed be for my son separation anxiety. Even told me to help them I needed a psychiatrist and medicine. Told them that couldn't afford $65 session.
@Katherine Canon what does that even have to do with the original post lmao-
@@Kt-cn2rq its gonna be okay, its going to get better dont lose hope 🥰🥰🥰
@@joni4867 lmao
He's 26 but he has the mentality of a 12 year old. This is so infuriating. My question is, if his parents live with them, do they not know that this has been going on? Why don't they knock some sense into him
Spoilt son, perhaps? He's so dumb and selfish! I hope she divorces him if he won't change.
THIS! Where the fuck are his parents and why are they not interfering with his horrendous ways?! It's even more infuriating that they let him be like this for the whole 3 years he was married.
THIS! Where the fuck are his parents and why are they not interfering with his horrendous ways?! It's even more infuriating that they let him be like this for the whole 3 years he was married.
+Sora Ozen you're right. he's a fucking baby in an adult's body that moves with the selfish instinct to get what he wants. but omg, even babies are better then him.
I'm sorry as someone who is 12 I feel offended. You should never use age in comparison of anything because every mentality grows in different range of time.
girlie, ask your husband if he is cheating on you :] because i think he does
@Sehun Min can i join you
this is not fair i wanna step on his face too :[]
For sure, I bet the younger friends and the table he paid for are not his male friends
If you know the proper definition of addiction, he's a drug addict
And yes, alcohol is a controlled substance and drug
I love how Bora is so irritated she can’t hold it in but shout things out to make the husband have common sense in himself
The hosts are trying to save her because they knew, so they don't let her speak most of the time. Each and everyone of them wanted to tell the wife to just divorce that piece of shit, they only didn't to avoid lawsuits or something.
those two girl idols (sorry dunno their names) should straight up get their own talk show. they asked the real damn questions
Ms. Danny D there names are Bora (the one with the short blackhair) and daesom (the one with brown hair and green sweater). They are from a girl group called sistar.
they are badass❤❤❤
Ms. Danny D especially the green one
If all sistar member were there,you've been dead
Yep soyou and hyolyn would have made mincemeat out of that booger
Sometimes Korea really is the worst. Actually a lot of times. I get so frustrated with it. I know we all probably got here from kpop and kdrama but I would recommend reading up on SK feminine standards, single mothers, suicide rate, the overall sexism, education system and lastly idol and actor labor laws. I think it will help people understand a lot of things
If Korea is the worst in your eyes, then you really haven't seen much of the world......
Yeah, I agree. Compared to the places where they do female genital mutilation, SK is far more dangerous for women.... smh...
Just because there are women in other periphery countries being maltreated doesn’t invalidate the maltreatment of women who live in core countries
Guys calm down. That's why she said SOMETIMES 😌
@@tedubadu2536 you mean "apart from" right??
In my country $2000 is enough to live a whole month.
I could live on 2000 dollars for 2 months.
CuteSuperGeek if youre talking about an individual person, I think $2000 will be enough for 2 months, but for a family I think one month
Yukine yes yes
CuteSuperGeek anyways, check jessica jung new song Wonderland 💚
Yukine I can live six months with 2000
"I'm not good at saying no" you say no to your wife a whole damn lot you can say it to your friends
His wife is not a human being to him.
@@zah936 and where is your proof exactly? I'm not sure we watched the same video. can you explain why you think that?
@@hannahyoo2157🙄Then u need to watch it again , he is narcissistic & sexist . He enjoys his social life at the cost of their monthly income ,doesn't take up his role of being a dad and dumps it all on her . She should always be on standby according to his plans. THIS IS NOT HOW A NORMAL LOVING MAN WOULD BE TO HIS WIFE 🙄🙄🙄
@@hannahyoo2157 does he give her freedom?
Any man who sees his relationship, marriage, and child as a nuisance or a obstacle isn't worth their time. He got married for a reason and signed up to be responsible. Have fun, but in moderation. I would never date or marry a guy like that. Period.
Smile and cry like flipping the hand is called depression
This episode pissed me off. The part where he said, "Oh no. She can't leave me because we are married and she has a baby" well dude, she is basically a single mother anyways because YOU. ARENT. EVER. HOME. & To carelessly spend 2k on drinks- dongsaengs or not, you have a goddamn family! If you were this irresponsible; you should not have had a child nor married your wife because you still think of marriage and settling down as a joke. That 2k could have been spent on formula, diapers, medical for your child. Do you even remember that you have a child? And to demand that your wife stop what she is doing to stay home is absurd! It takes TWO people to make a baby, take responsibility!
@Ashley THANK YOU 👏👏👏
Her husband can catch these hands.
Double catch.
Maya Andrea I'll throw some hands in too girl
For real though
Girl I AM SOOOOOOOOOOO MADDDDD. The fuckkkk!? and his arrogance that he has trapped her into a marriage for all time. I woulda drop that child in his hand and roll out (every weekend). Turn my phone of and tell my mother lock her door.
and the police will catch your black ass (im black too so no racist my ninja) but srly tho, i cant defend this guy in any way and imma a criminal lawyer ,like shit bruh
I love how open Dasom and Bora are about her feelings 🥰💝
im rly appreciative of youngja for speaking up for the wife when she was crying or in a difficult position so that the viewers or hosts wouldnt misunderstand or take their jokes too fat
Just divorce him! she is pretty, and still young. Probably it will be okay to raise a child yourself rather than to show the child what kind of father she/he has...
and she should get married again with a nice man so that she can raise the baby together:)
+yookduk changsubbie yeah..you're right..rather than suffer her life and ruin her baby,she should and must find a partner that has responsible at least..
Husband: "At home, I feel suffocated."
Alright, do everyone a favor and live out the streets then.
For real!!
After dragging my last relationship & finally breaking it off I understood 1 thing - you should never try to change your significant other. If you don't like their actions/habits & it's a deal breaker then it's better to just break it off asap.
She’s just a few years older than me and I cannot imagine being married or having a kid. I feel bad for her and totally get how she could not see how terrible he was since she was so young when they married.
Any money the girl got from this show, she needs to set up a separate (and secret) bank account from her husband. Also move out and go live with her parents and file divorce papers. That guy didn't even look one iota interested in changing.
holdup he's complaining about marrying young and being jealous of guys around him but she's 3 years younger than him. He's so inconsiderate and a complete waste of time for someone like her.
Imagine being married to that... Yuck, over my dead body, no thank you.
She deserves someone better🤦♀️
I was screaming internally, "JUST LEAVE THE HOUSE WHEN HES OUT SOMEWHERE! PACK UP EVERYTHING AND LEAVEE!"
A lot of us were but sadly divorcees/single mothers (fathers too but idk the ratio of single moms to single dads) are frowned upon in Korean culture
+lightningjuniorsuper i thought so too. but she should think that it is her who is suffering and not other people.
sadly korea have high suicidal rate for a reason :(
+Pollar9427 yeahh
+lightningjuniorsuper She doesn't have to be a single mother. She can just leave her husband and the child. The problem is that most women are too sentimental for their own good. She needs to learn to let things go for a better tradeoff. This woman is so lovely, she can start afresh anywhere.
i really want to punch him so bad rn she deserves better
Same
"Drinking has nothing to do with love"
So what if, you came home drunk, with a girl, while your wife is in the living room waiting for you, trying not to fall asleep and it's 4am, shes sees you kissing the girl, and she gets angry and says
"Why are you kissing her?! Why did you bring her home?! We have a child together! Are you crazy!"
She starts to push the girl away, and so the girl is so scared that this was happening that she leaves the house, leaving them too together, then he gets all mad and calls her rude stuff which makes her so emotional that she leaves once he passes out.
Next day, he wakes up in the living room, he walks to the bedroom to see all her clothes and their baby's stuff all gone. I guess being drunk doesn't do anything hey?
He’s not good at saying no, but he’s so good at saying no to his wife. She needs to find herself different man. And to think that he said she won’t him because of the kid is ridiculous because he doesn’t even look after the kid as his own.
His parents did not educate him on the proper manners it takes to take care of a family. just because he loved her doesn't mean he should have married her. I feel so sorry for her and the baby!
Rose Veatupu you're right, I also thought his parents have to talk with him about his behavior. This is not only consent his wife and child, but also his parents too.
HE does not LOVE her. Love does not act like that. Love isn't fickle. And love is shown through actions. His actions show PROFOUND DISRESPECT AND EVEN HATRED. He felt LUST for her. He is incredibly selfish, and he thinks life is about constantly indulging his senses.
I can't believe they just give him money to party and leave his wife for nights when he's living under their roof. His parents are just as horrible as him.
He's an abusive husband but they have to make it sound light.
Just S yes it annoys me so much how it isn't taken seriously enough
Asians don't grill people in public.
no one told Bora that then
Yeah Bora and Dasom weren't afraid to speak truth...
To me it's stupid, to not grill people in public, it's nit manners to me, it's ignorance, and it's letting the problem in many cases slide by and let it continue... If you dont roast people, openly, they will listen to you, but won't take it in in most cases....
Her laugh is so cute.
That man don't deserve her
This is why you should get to know one person before marriage.
Just divorce him n live a better life!!
Is there an angry button for this? 😤😤😤
BING BXNG yup, it's his face. Just punch it and let ur anger out :)
Why the hell would he call his mother in law just because he needed the money to go out for a drink?? So disrespectful geezzzzz!!! 😬😬😬😬 also what a selfish man . she totally deserves a wayyyy better man than him!!
I know it doesn't have to do anything with the story but look at Bora please.The melanin queen , her skin is so beautiful
Shes very pretty she deserves someone better
she deserves better nonetheless whether if she's pretty or not
3:51
She says "My baby and I live off of my savings"
This. He has no f*cking excuse now. He said that she wouldn't leave him because they're married and have a child together. What's the point of being married to him if you don't love him, and he doesn't bring anything to the family. It's going to be the same if you divorce him. I don't think he's a good example for your child and from what it looks it doesn't seem that he's close with the kid seeing that he's not there most of the time. Please just divorce him.
In Korea custody tends to go to the dad
The fact that they’re all laughing as if this all was fun and jokes is so messed up. 🤬😡
she is mother
me and in every one - U R A DAD !!
OMG jinx with tv 🤣🤣
This is disguisting, I see my dad in him. My dad was the same as him, he didnt drink but he was always chilling with his friends and eating at resaurants while me, my little brother and my mom had do scrape by and sometimes we didnt had food. Also we had debts because of him and left those debts on our names. We got multiple times evicted from our home or stuff taken out from our house because he didnt pay the bills. It was our problem and not his. Even my clothes were secondhanded while Im the eldest sibling, while he had brand clothes. He told us we werent worth the brand and that we need to shut up etc. He also took vacations to visit other countries on his own. He left us because all the dad/husband responsibilities where to much and my mother 'bothered' his funtime. He also had some hookers here and then and left with one. My dad didnt raise me at all, I dont even remember playing with him because he was always at 'work' and chiling with his friends till morning or doing things with hookers. I hate him till death and this korean guy isnt any better, his child will hate him if he doesnt act fast. Get your shit together asshole!
what a piece of shit... i hope your life is better now!
Woww its like your describing my father didnt know there were more assholes like my dad
Same
hope your mom divorces him ! ur mom and urs didnt deserve to have a bad husband like that
Esra K. I hope youre fine. Please take care of your mom and sibling. :'( it breaks my heart to read some kind of these stories. I hope your mom will divorce your dad. :'(
This is a cautionary tale for parents wanting to raise their daughters to be subservient, and their sons self-centered and uncaring.
ok wait...did he seriously just say he *"needs"* money to buy drinks for his friends??
*bro what-*
bubblehan and when he says “I HAD to meet my friends.” Sir, no one is forcing you to meet them. The only thing you have to do is stop being a schmuck and get a stable job for your wife and baby.
@@jishoumushoku5094 PREACH
@@jishoumushoku5094 nice👏👍
I just wanted to say, love doesn't mean marriage. This man said he married his wife because he loves her. You don't marry someone just because you love her. Marriage is a commitment, a responsibility. In fact, a relationship is already a commitment. There are so many more factors than just love in a marriage. When you take that vow, you are promising to be with her through thick or thin, through poverty or wealth. Marriage isn't something you do just because you feel like it. I hope the husband understands this. He has a responsibility towards his wife as a husband, and he has a responsibility towards his child as a father.
he doesn't love her, he just lusted after her and married her because he felt like having a wife who he could take advantage of, that's it. he's trash
i keep telling myself to stop watching this show coz it just makes my blood boil..... but im here again WTF
Well for me, this show helps me cuz....
IT BOILS MY SOUP! :D
(lol srrsly, I'm addicted to this show)
This might sound pessimistic af, but do you think the person actually change after this?
Naah i think he will not change he was brought up as a bartard selfish bastard maybe its his parents fault for grooming him up like that you know without any discipline
Lmaoo Ikr! The people who do the shitty things piss me off! But....i am addicted
Honestly, really this show really makes people angry and frustrated >___< hahahaha
He's an abusive man-child. End of story. All he does is manipulate her, and she's not taking a stand against him, unfortunately. I hope she already left him, because he's practically already out of her life. Based on how much money he was spending and "having fun" I'd say he was doing a lot more than "drinking"...more like other self-indulgences. In a way, I feel sorry for the mom because she's naive. She's no doubt blinded by love, but she needs to wake up. This is a man that won't change. Also, how come she didn't set up a separate bank account earlier on? Sounds like the logical thing to do. Overall, this is a sad situation. Hope the young woman makes/made the right choice.
Is it weird that I think the word "man-child" sounds scary?
The problem is that South Korea is not like the US. Here in the US, you can divorce easily because you know that it’s okay too. In South Korea, its not like that. If you’re married, you’re married. It will look bad on you, especially as a female to be divorced. I think that’s one of the reasons why she doesn’t want too or wants to go through with it. Also there’s a reason of wanting their child to grow up with two parents. Before my mom divorced my dad, she tried many times to stay with him and sit through this because she didn’t want us to grow up without a dad like she did. In the end, she was forced too. It’s not just being blinded by love. It’s also many other factors. A lot of people are commenting that their mad over this situation, that she should divorce etc etc but living in a place like SK and not wanting her child to grow up without their biological father, it makes the decision harder. The child can tell if their mom goes to another father even when they were babies when she did it. The facial features, personality, interests, or other things could play into that factor for the child knowing they actually have a step father.
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She’s so gorgeous, why did she have to get unlucky with a guy like him? She should just divorce him. You can clearly tell her smile throughout the whole video was broken.
Take your child and leave even if you feel like you’re losing everything, all you need is your baby and yourself. Be strong. You deserve better!
"Im not good at saying no "
Says no to staying at home wif his wife ==
the wife is so nice and pretty and she's been lenient, I've noticed in the comments people are asking why she hasn't left and honestly I'm wondering the same.
i think, the reason why she won't leave him is because of their child and his family :< i'm so sad for her
@@lorin4323 it's more because of the culture in Korea. Divorcees particularly the woman are shunned in society and generally it's a stigma people look down upon
J-Hope is a total Bias Wrecker If she's staying for the sake of the child then it's a waste of time because it'll have the opposite effect in the long run. The child will grow up knowing it has a father but won't have a father figure. They'll be happy with the little things when they're young but will grow up noticing how unhappy their mom is and how she struggles while their "dad" is off doing god knows what.
@@sl3975 i grew up without a dad figure and i don't feel something's missing.
You need to leave him. Deadass file a divorce and take custody of the baby. This is ridiculous.
I really want to hear that they have broken up after this program...
glad to see bora and dasom as chatty guest and actually express their frustrations freely, i dont think other guests i've seen so far are as questioning and arugable, i'm loving it
also?? SINCE WHEN DOES A FATHER *BABY SIT* THEIR OWN CHILD?!?!? IT IS THEIR DUTY AS A PARENT TO LOOK AFTER THEIR CHILD. THEY NEED TO SPEND TIME, SEE AND HELP THEM GROW UP. DONT CALL IT 'BABY SITTING' WHEN YOU'RE A PARENT WTF
The mom is young she still can find another man...
The statue Jin kisses in Blood Sweat Tears MV true and her son is 28months old
And she is very pretty as well.
going from laughing to crying that quickly is a sign of a pretty broken person
This is financial abuse. I don’t care if he says he loves her or whatever. She is being financially and emotionally abused and it’s gonna hurt her and the baby in the long run.
sometimes, when i watching this show, im so concerned about the wife, what if went they went back home and get beat up or something. dont you think?. im so scared for their safety because of this show. yes this show is good for transformation of bad people into somebody useful. but the safety of the wife after the show, who's going to take thw responsibility. im so worried rn
These days women not that weak like your thought.
If they were in a situation like that, I doubt they'd be going on a public show like this. Just because the guy may be a worthless husband and probably cheating, doesn't mean he's physically abusive. And even if that were the case, the person who is hitting someone else should be the one taking the responsibility, no one else.
If she came on the show like this I doubt she is the type to permit abuse. And you cant just assume he would.
yeah, you guys are right. i guess I'm just being way too over react and over thinking about this. i hope everything is fine
what a jerk. I pity that woman for marrying him. she deserves better
OMG PLEASE PLEASE BRING THIS SHOW BACK 😭
This makes me relive i feel her i live that situation since 4 my dad is an alcoholic this made me sad 😭
I would be sooooo petty if I was his wife... he would be in for a rude awakening
well as if that would make it better, maybe if you didnt handle things that way you would have a better life :)
i cried and sobbed so hard. im 16 and many people said im mature than my age. its bcs of my dad. he has been unemployed for over 10 years and kept asking for money from my mom. when my mom didnt give him any and nagged him, he got mad and sweared alot. of course my little me got scared when he was furious. he spent almost 300 hundred dollars a months from my mom's salary. my mom's salary isnt that much, also she pays for everything. car and house, furnitures. everything!! he asked for 30 dollars a day and will go out for whole day. i love to save money, but i never had a cent in my piggybank. he took everything, the balances from my pocket money that my mom gave to me, he took it all. he was supposed to take me from school everyday since he was unemployed, but he would arrive around 2 hours after school ended, around 8 p.m. alone.. Since i was 7, i always be the last one to get home. he sold all the valuable things in this house including me and my mom's phones and mp3.i love photography since i was a kid and he sold my precious camera. i cant remember how sad i was, how bad i cried. he sold their wedding rings, our clothes. during the night, he would sneakily took some money inside my mom's purse. everyday i heard them fighting and i will cry when i was so young, but somehow i got used to it that i became an emotionless girl. i hated him so much. i still remember his promises when i was 3, to take me travel around the world bcs it's my passion, but yeah, he crushed it all. everything changed when i turned 13, he said that i will never success in my life bcs im just as stupid as him(he didnt do well in school while my mom is well educated) but he kept nagging when i didnt do well in my exam. he kept saying im stupid so i attended every extra classes until night and sat in the library everyday, i ate only a yogurt for a day. until i got listed in top students list and got offered to majored in science and accounting. but yeah he said 'this is only what u got? still not the best right?'. i didnt always go home after school, i would take bus and go somewhere far from my house to study. i just, didnt want to be at home...... i didnt want to see my mom crying everynight by herself, she kept hidding her tears and be strong infront of me. i didnt want to hear his swear words. i didnt want to get home and find that he sold another precious things of mine. well i ended up attempted suicide twice, but failed (thank god i wouldve missed exo's concert). they are divorced already lmao xD sorry for my bad english and sudden confession chuuuu ;)
wow u wrote too long u should do ur unfinished essays
u have no life go home
what am i doing
Hazy Kim youre so brave, i admire you.
Hazy Kim ❤💙💚💛💜
That wife is honestly so beautiful inside and out, she deserves better ❤
If I had a husband who did that divorce papers would be on a table infront of him already.
He is so unbelievable! And in a bad way! He just cares for himself and his social life than even the own wife he commited to, and the baby he should take care of. And he even puts his own *friends* before family. Even when he doesn't have to pay, he still does, not caring about his family at home? What I hate the most is that he thinks that it's perfectly fine and that his wife and child are the one at fault. What an immature and irresponsible man! I hope the wife leaves him for her and her child's sake. It'd make no difference, the husband was useless since the beginning. She'd probably have a better life actually. I'm just so disgusted by this human who consider's himself a man and father. 😠
He's thinking that he will change the stereotype that men should take care of wifes,he's just an idiotic ungrateful man, he's ungrateful towards his gorgeous wife and baby.
Go away blackpink person I hate blackpink😨😨😨😨!!!
We're just here to discuss a problem about an irresponsible husband.
We're not here to create fan wars.
Please be considerate.
Some people here may be Western pop Stans.
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Duhh,ofc not.
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Divorce is the only answer in this case.
14:58 I like the friend, he looks so proud when he is talking about his son
I feel like entire SISTAR members should have been there ~ Loving how Bora and Dasom don't spare their words when shooting him with tons of qurestions.
that guy is 26 years old I know I'm a little young BUT he is really trash how can he send 2000 dollars in A night when his WIFE is FOUR months PREGNANT! and his parents are replaying the bills .......the wife had to go around to different bars PREGNANT! and when she found him he told her to go home ALONE ! this guy is really irresponsible.....the baby and the wife are living off of her SAVINGS ! HER SAVINGS ALONE !
I had to do a double comment as the first one I had to pause after the wife told the story and all that and that stupid guy DARE to say " don't all guys spend that much " I mean if your single then go ahead but when your wife is pregnant you shouldn't go out and have stay at home and take the fucking care of her " it's not like i spend that much everyday " he said
me if I was there.
"oi ! hello how big is you brain I bet it's smaller than an ant cell ! you should be at home taking care of YOUR wife and YOUR baby and YOUR parents .yes I know guys are the ones who always for this and that and it's stressful BUT his WIFE and HIS baby are living off of HER savings !
this might not be the last comment that i will write and I don't give a damn
Just leave him. He's so useless!
well even tho i do agree, ya should not be marrying pple to use em and that goes both ways lol
what the fuck do you mean by use em? She didn't use anything o...O they live off of her savings.
The lady in the first problem is so mature for her age.
If you feel jealous of your single friends because they have more freedom you shouldn’t get married in the first place.
this is why you should marry the right person
I love watching "Hello Counselor" because I always ask myself "Are they even human?" or "There is really poeple like that?" I would feel so ashamed if I was them tbh
Run away from him quickly and find someone better. He is never going to change. You need to save yourself and baby.
This guy never should have married in the first place. He's immature, selfish and doesn't want to take responsibility for his child.