NOFAP HARD-MODE AFTER 90 DAYS - What I've Learned.

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  • Hey guys, welcome back to another video! In this one I speak of my experience doing NOFAP HARD-MODE after 90 days. I speak of the good, the bad and everything in between and really hope this helps you guys, cheers!
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  • @David_Hammond
    @David_Hammond  5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Self-development coaching & course below as always guys. Cheers! ❤️🤟 www.self-developed.com

    • @rashidamin7241
      @rashidamin7241 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you had a wet dreams ??

    • @ctrillbeatz4393
      @ctrillbeatz4393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean you could still socialize tho bro far as partying is cool just having fun just can smash no chick

    • @maemommueledi2278
      @maemommueledi2278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey man it's March now, I wanted to know, how are you doing right now?

    • @gerrick5803
      @gerrick5803 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should still be on and off with hard mode when u reach ur goal
      Can’t let these females steal your energy

    • @mikesnewhere4446
      @mikesnewhere4446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      About your feelings of loneliness, eagles fly alone dawg

  • @dledman
    @dledman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +980

    Happiness is not gained by seeking out more happiness, but by gaining the capacity to enjoy less.
    - Socrates

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Socrates is our god
      Happiness not my thing

    • @abdullahihassan1038
      @abdullahihassan1038 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      woaw I like that

    • @Belv6
      @Belv6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fucking great quote. Hope it's real as I'm Gona use that

    • @marceliwanicki2843
      @marceliwanicki2843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Belv6 it is

    • @cplrobben4456
      @cplrobben4456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey brother, I would love it if you could come over to my channel and check it out!! I think you will find it very helpful and i would love your support!!!

  • @theanomity3185
    @theanomity3185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    I dont have a choice dude, my classic mode is hard mode bcs i got no game 😂

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Game is confidence bro and looks
      But not everyone got dat

    • @theanomity3185
      @theanomity3185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wakil Hakimzaada yup

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@theanomity3185 learn astrology also bro will help u alot and get to know Ur self

    • @JessePierreAFK
      @JessePierreAFK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Paghmani1sher how?

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JessePierreAFK how wat bro?

  • @nofapchris6770
    @nofapchris6770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Day 431 for me, I'll never waste my life energy for some 5 seconds pleasure

    • @canon7714
      @canon7714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But the orgasm isn't the only enjoyable moment

    • @mohannedabdulaziz1862
      @mohannedabdulaziz1862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg that's so hard to beleive good job.

    • @cristianxtoledo
      @cristianxtoledo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you even changed your name

    • @jagosevatarion8822
      @jagosevatarion8822 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did u have flatline and how long was it?

    • @itswilly9043
      @itswilly9043 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daym dude

  • @SurajSingh-yr3ob
    @SurajSingh-yr3ob 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    when you dont have a partner, you straight go into hard mode without going through classic mode lmao..

    • @TigerPaint92
      @TigerPaint92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Haha yuuup

    • @Scrub_Lord-en7cq
      @Scrub_Lord-en7cq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tiger Paint Guys can someone help me because when I stopped masturbating for a month. My depressive disorder still kicks in and mania and I still have forgetfulness. I don’t know what’s goings on

    • @rajs4012
      @rajs4012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Scrub_Lord-en7cq That's very similar to me, this same guy explained the depression part really well in another video, basically you are used to the dopamine hit after masturbating, slowly over time it begins to be less and less rewarding. For me, the forgetfulness took 3 months to get over and started REALLY feeling great and pretty happy around 4 months in. Keep at it, but it could be that both of those things are linked to maybe another health issue? I suggest to go see a doctor, and if they don't notice anything then it will almost 100% be because of masturbating.

    • @Scrub_Lord-en7cq
      @Scrub_Lord-en7cq 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Raj S I see I see, I will definitely use your explanation and say the truth to the doctor that I masturbated probably I will get more advantages of recovering and I also forgot to tell that I’ve been masturbating for like 3-4 years so maybe it will definitely take awhile but keeping at it. Thanks and God Bless 🙏

  • @dripstein6130
    @dripstein6130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    well i’m forced into hard mode. it’s been a while since i’ve had a friend who’s a girl so classic mode isn’t an option.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      hahah that is exactly how I was pushed into hard-mode as well! It's a blessing in disguise, run it for as long as you can until you find the next beautiful girl! :)

    • @ryze2light965
      @ryze2light965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You’re not alone bro, I’m in the same boat..

    • @birthdayzrock1426
      @birthdayzrock1426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Classic mode is my hard mode.

  • @thomasjensen9745
    @thomasjensen9745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    I have all kinds of respect for you young guys. At age 49, 15 years MGTOW monk, it is zero issue for me as I have had enough time to redirect my energies into hobbies and investments. I remember myself as a young man, and the blue-pilled horn-craze I lived. We had problems with feminism, but nothing like what you guys are facing these days, so it took us a bit longer to get to the no-fap point. On the negative side ... we probably got a bit more poontang than you (with all the drama THAT includes) ... On the positive side ... you guys have found the path to tranquility 15 years earlier than us ..... I feel a slight hint of envy but a ton of respect and pride in our younger brothers from other mothers. Trust me - ejaculation is a VERY minute part of life, and thus, in the big picture, really matters not at all for your accomplishments in life

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro all these problems u talk about is Ur own insecurities
      Only way learn is to observe the big alpha guys that's the right wat to do things

    • @jccarty1477
      @jccarty1477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @StonedApe that whole channel was set up by a deeply wounded man. When I first listened to it, I thought it was trying to be ironic. Nope...turns out to be legit and his many subscribers eat his words like breadcrumbs.

    • @Paghmani1sher
      @Paghmani1sher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @StonedApe show some respect kid

    • @JesusLebtUndRettet
      @JesusLebtUndRettet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      let me challenge you Sir and tell You that most Relationships brake because Men can not controll their Lusts and urges and r hypersexualised and thus become too emotional, which most Woman can not deal with internally and become confused by, constant Ejaculating destroys the Polarity between Sexes and takes all your Energy, Truth is that A Couple can have energizing Sex every single Day if they choose to, and if he does not ejaculate and is instead PRESENT there with her every Momment instead of focusing on his own Pleasure and the aim of Ejaculating, both have a better, but non ejaculatory Orgasm (YES IT EXISTS- check YT Channel Sexual Kung Fu, if ye no believe me). Anyhow if both Energized it meats the Woman natural flirting playfull State, that she needs to feel with the Man and have the Amount of Sex she needs, but without him turning into a depressed, tired mummu, just because he can not controll himself, if he can have controll, it will also be no problem to have more then one Woman if they both agree ;)

    • @SK-kh2rs
      @SK-kh2rs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JesusLebtUndRettet you sound like someone who's actually never talked to a girl and just paraphrasing stuff you've read 😂

  • @Monkeyabroad
    @Monkeyabroad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Super motivational video man. Day 3 of hard mode and already feeling the perks. Cheers

    • @dionmonteiro02
      @dionmonteiro02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol it's a placebo..3 days is too less unless you were a hardcore addict

    • @blackenbauer12
      @blackenbauer12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dion Monteiro i felt a feeling very early, it was almost learning to cope very quickly that every time i felt a sexual urge; i would have to just wait for it to pass. That taught me a lot within not a long time AT ALL and it was simply the fact i told myself i wasn’t going to do it.

    • @itswilly9043
      @itswilly9043 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm at day 3 too man!

    • @Akshay-vm3to
      @Akshay-vm3to 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iam at day 6 of the pmo

    • @horizon2667
      @horizon2667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1 year ago. How long did you last?

  • @jasonjd2564
    @jasonjd2564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Glad to see more people making nofap videos. I'm 110+ days longest being 149 days.
    Subbed

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      AWESOME MAN! And yes brother! I'll be making more health/self improvement videos like these ALWAYS! :)

    • @mohansubedi5881
      @mohansubedi5881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Over 110 days without porn, nofap and i couldn't see changes maybe because of the wet dreams i am having once every 7 to 10 days, but a small amount of semen is it so ??

    • @solodolo_mma3971
      @solodolo_mma3971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you do it? ...I can barely last a week :/

    • @jamepioloi8973
      @jamepioloi8973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@solodolo_mma3971 9 days in. Quit porn. tough, but you gotta. Try exercise before bed- personal opinion. Whether you wake up early or sleep in, get outta bed asap. For everyday that passes, I feel less urges. Quitting porn is the main factor. Tough, but DO IT

  • @vibhugoel4220
    @vibhugoel4220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    3:15 video starts

  • @mikaeladisse8641
    @mikaeladisse8641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    If you’re spiritual going hard mode can be like a “fast” for the body. Starve the body of sexual gratification by means of not looking at anything that can be a trigger (obvious triggers) the eyes, ear, mouth and even hands can act as gateways to the soul. Although we are not gods, since we are humans and are flawed naturally, taking control of our lives will fell a lot more easier.

  • @kylepac5026
    @kylepac5026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Day 36 for me. he is really spitting straight facts. I don’t know if anyone else felt this way but days 8, 17, and 24 were very difficult. It felt like my mind was foggy and all I have to say is just focus on the reason why you started nofap. It becomes infinitely easier when you have a goal to achieve alongside your nofap journey. Stay strong boys :)

    • @startconsciouslife8080
      @startconsciouslife8080 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excactly im on day 8 and today it feels so hard not to fap.

    • @newwadecity5113
      @newwadecity5113 ปีที่แล้ว

      Patrick Bet-David said he made a goal of no sex until he made his first million dollars. And he's worth 200 million now (2023).

  • @geomejia8946
    @geomejia8946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Yep failed in 4 days due to porn...it really is amazing and scary how much of an enemy porn really is

    • @charlessteenburgen
      @charlessteenburgen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Porn is the great deceiver

    • @destinationorigami9640
      @destinationorigami9640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dont see it to much as a failer as much as you learned what not to do the next time

    • @MohibKhanmc
      @MohibKhanmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

    • @FRN_EZ7
      @FRN_EZ7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Porn is the final boss we have to defeat

  • @Alocie
    @Alocie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    On 60 days hardmode myself and I agree on the women part, I find myself not talking to them/taking things further as I can't get close to them etc on hardmode which is a pain with the attraction and many girls I could talk to 🤣 But I feel the benefits far outweigh the cons and Semen Retention is our natural state as men unless we want to create which is what Semen is for otherwise hold the seed bruh and invest the energy into improving yourself! 😄

    • @OkronosO
      @OkronosO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think it's natural for us to retain our semen. We're basically like monkeys, they screw around too and not just to make baby's but also for fun. We just figured out that this build up energy can be used beneficially elsewhere and we have the ability to withstand from PMO. Other than that I completely agree with you

    • @thessbest123
      @thessbest123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@OkronosO This is wrong. Its proven it takes up to 75-80 days for our sperm to fully mature. So wasting its all the time is really not natural cause you not letting your sperm develop.

    • @thessbest123
      @thessbest123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@OkronosO This is also the cause pf infertility im a lot of men. Its much harder to get a women pregnant with half developed sperm.

    • @OkronosO
      @OkronosO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thessbest123 Im not saying it's bad

    • @stevendalloesingh1214
      @stevendalloesingh1214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thessbest123 80 days to fully mature? Is this cap???

  • @vyshnavraju5470
    @vyshnavraju5470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I just realised that I am on a hard mode by default! I had a messed up break-up and I lost most of my friends! And being in mechanical engineering! There weren’t much girls around! On that thank you corona, this could be possible! It’s been 16th day I came across this video! Thank god I ain’t alone in this nofap journey! 😇

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We gotcha brotha! Keep going.

    • @arise4924
      @arise4924 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      im also stoping during corona so i feel and i have no gf and im muslim

    • @devankmittal8311
      @devankmittal8311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude, i have it even tougher... I dont have a gf. Hookups are not an option (if if there was no lockdown or corona). Infact even in relationships, sex is not an opinion sometimes because of the culture here. (Living in india)

    • @jonahwei4075
      @jonahwei4075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Feel u bruv, Corona, High school graduate, no job, lot's of free time, f d up breakup, distancing from friends. But I found the energy in myself and am improving solely on myself and focussing on myself, don't have any obligations during the Pandemic

  • @AA-yz6tn
    @AA-yz6tn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    "I can't talk to girls because I know it won't go anywhere." Made me sad. You can talk to girls who does not expect it to go anywhere too.

  • @odbboy2371
    @odbboy2371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    this is the new woke generation
    i have so much respect for you brother
    i'm gonna go hard mode because of your advice and come back to this video everytime i think about relapsing

  • @thecoolguy4105
    @thecoolguy4105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So far I made 6 weeks Into hardmode. I've notice females that are normally out of my league talk to me and I quit cold turkey. I've notice I do have more energy and before that I stop a full year and half on hard mode. It mostly for me helps my brain to be free and stay super focus.

  • @riffster
    @riffster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Longest I went was 73 days , starting again today with nofap hard mode , u encouraged me man 🔥

  • @josephlim7239
    @josephlim7239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hard mode month 1 now, just mental focus is on point better at work and everything, this guy is legit. Next stop, decrease screen time to 1 hr a day. Thats the real legend@ry god mode!

  • @SamuelDaram
    @SamuelDaram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Very lonely, no girls. Don't interact. Very little partying. It's pretty dark and you can't relate to people much." 5:30 Well, David, you just described the predicament of a male during this Coronavirus-led lockdown in the UK, USA and many other parts of this world. Would you please do a video about how a guy can endure and prosper with the NoFAP Hard Mode duing this global crisis? How can we not regress? How easy it is to relapse? How is everyone else feeling about this right now? I was doing really well on NoFAP Classic Mode. Now, the lockdown has forced me to endure NoFAP Hard Mode. Who else switched like me and still determined to succeed?

  • @mreverybody1150
    @mreverybody1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    It's interesting what he mentioned about the cons..the dark days and depression. I think this is everything a guy uses porn and fapping to avoid, distract himself away from and to forget about. On no fap, you are forced to face those demons, and perhaps find a solution.
    However, concerning whether one should do hard mode temporarily or for life.....this makes me wonder if it's all about being addicted to dopamine and unable to only get it from within, rather than without. Something else to remember, some guys do hard mode, and still have relationships but they just have sex without busting...

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of the unfortunate realities. But necessary nonetheless!

    • @cloudfiend8856
      @cloudfiend8856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is true .

  • @hamzatoulati9650
    @hamzatoulati9650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Day 1 lets start 💪

  • @WadesWorld777
    @WadesWorld777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just came across this, super late to the party on this video lol I am on day 221 hard mode, no relapse and I can relate to alot of the benefits. I agree everything is turned up to 10, its hard to direct my enery because it is immense. It is almost like you have super powers and you have to try and harness it. definitely a must do, different life.

  • @TheParinyabenz
    @TheParinyabenz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much brother for inspiring me. I started Nofap for a year but I released. Because I had stress during covid-19, both unemployed and heartbroken. Today is the second day I start it again and start my business.

  • @soulkingbrook4099
    @soulkingbrook4099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Even if i watch porn i prevent myself from fapping....now porn videos don't work on me...I am trying to control my mind and strengthen my will power.....to tell the truth I feel invincible now

  • @LunnarisLP
    @LunnarisLP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    hardmode till marriage used to be usual thing xD It is rather sad you can not even talk to girls, I would honestly advice you to find a girl you can actually just talk to for weeks, where you don't have the need to have sex after maybe 2-3 dates. A girl that respects you for abstaining from sexual contact for 3 month rather than someone who thinks you are crazy. Now I know girls like this are rather hard to find in our modern society, where so much is driven by sexual desire, up to the point where every ad no matter the content needs to have some hot girl in it.
    But I think finding her and then having that special relationship is worth much more than 10-15-20 or even 1000 girls you don't have that real connection. You might have great sex and all, but if you start thinking in terms of the future, what is really important for you? What will make you a happy person in the long run. Having 10 years with a lot of sex, or maybe not having any for a year, but then being with someone where the sex is great and the time is great when you dont have sex too. Someone you might create a family with, if you want you can get children with the person.
    I think thats something valueable, like real value, not just party and ONS. There is nothing wrong with doing it, but just ask yourself if this is moving you forward in your life or maybe just holding you back.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hear you man! Each to their own brother :)

  • @sungjoonkoo6616
    @sungjoonkoo6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Inspirational! I also decided to do this immediately after a breakup. The pain and a sense of lost self made me try this thing. I’m on Day 4, and I think it’s been great for me so far. Now all of my energy is directed at doing what’s best for me, and I think that’s the major benefit of doing the hard mode.

  • @adrianolouback1550
    @adrianolouback1550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    3 weeks hard mode. Basically my goal is to retain the nutrients to help my beard growth and recover my hair line... I've seen results but also using minoxidil... the process just speeded up

    • @hamzatoulati9650
      @hamzatoulati9650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      keep going

    • @bladerubber
      @bladerubber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who originated this idea?

    • @adrianolouback1550
      @adrianolouback1550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bladerubber I did my research... one information here, other there... I was already treating both hair and beard but now on semen retention the process is faster. Of course, a good diet also helps

    • @darwinr.s6648
      @darwinr.s6648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adrianolouback1550 bro..does semen retention results in prostate cancer ah...? Pls tell..

    • @Global.Healthete
      @Global.Healthete 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Darwin R.S That’s bs. Why would rest give cancer ? The overuse does.

  • @danielkabakov
    @danielkabakov 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This dude: spittin facts
    Me: still trying to find the difference between classic and hard mode.

  • @dinohafez8754
    @dinohafez8754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your voice tone David , very manly , clear , easy to understand

  • @HeliusPark
    @HeliusPark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    NoFap benefits are very noticable ! one of my friends noticed my skin became better just after a month of hard mode.

  • @b.henriques9871
    @b.henriques9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Managed 139, everything you said is true. Mental clarity is OP, you become a God. Road to 140 days now.

  • @burakkar1068
    @burakkar1068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    yeah really good explanation, most of unbelievers are classic mode nofappers. but hard mode / monk mode, dude this shit is real

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Thanks so much for watching man! :)

  • @Chief_P21
    @Chief_P21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    the cons isnt even that bad because if you go through no fap youll understand how much youre worth so youll be fine being alone, lonely or in a dark place. not really a con. just go to the gym.

    • @Hisgrind
      @Hisgrind 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noah Wight facts bruv

    • @AdamsLTFC420
      @AdamsLTFC420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm used to being alone anyway fuck it

  • @youngs8a
    @youngs8a 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    when you're a christian hard mode is the only way

    • @yungdoritos9705
      @yungdoritos9705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts 😂😂😂

    • @marcuslinde8846
      @marcuslinde8846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm christian and are not doing hard mode

    • @rahulrajoria7535
      @rahulrajoria7535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@marcuslinde8846 I don't think so. According to scriptures you can still make love with your wife/girl but not multiple girls.

    • @speedwagon3447
      @speedwagon3447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Marcus Linde your only suppose to have sex with your wife/husband if you’re a Christian

    • @mrp1224
      @mrp1224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Marcus Linde then you’re not a Christian, you’re a hypocrite

  • @rajibroy2034
    @rajibroy2034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can relate to you man.. I have the same lonesome feelings as you have. But still have that yearning to have more things for myself in the future. And in order for me to do that I have to retain that drive. But I guess when I feel that extreme urge I should just let it out When my circumstances is quite contradictory. Lots of love. Keep doing these videos man

  • @ainkamaruzaman9442
    @ainkamaruzaman9442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not sure why TH-cam recommended me this video but whoever reads this comment, please keep going and don’t give up! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

  • @hurgthegreat5162
    @hurgthegreat5162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U got the glow bro I can see good positive energy from u

  • @faresmassad6366
    @faresmassad6366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've relapsed after 70 days strick, it's almost been a month since then and here I am at day 4.

  • @MrBryanHack
    @MrBryanHack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Best thing about Nofap Hardmode is the Occult power of influencing reality with your intentions, im on day 344 and today i had what some would call a mystical experience, and your junk gets bigger thats a plus, not huge but significant

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elperro lol had one too last night.. might have been affected by full moon tho!

    • @MrBryanHack
      @MrBryanHack 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@David_Hammond was it around 2-4 am by any chance?

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrBryanHack 1:00 am exactly

    • @MrBryanHack
      @MrBryanHack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@David_Hammond ive been having them since october from last year, i dont know its weird and are getting increasingly profound, in one I thought I literally was not coming back, dude life is fucking magical, i cant believe 99.9% of people are just numb to it one way or the other.

    • @arnoldsdesire2274
      @arnoldsdesire2274 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrBryanHack what is this mystical experience exactly if you can try to explain it

  • @brawlerbrobrawler7022
    @brawlerbrobrawler7022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im on almost 7 weeks hard mode. Going strong

  • @broke123
    @broke123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I started nofap hard mode a week ago now. Like you said I am doing it to change my life and achieve some goals. Going through a tough break up has helped to be honest as I have little interest in another woman at this stage so going to use this phase to work on me until I feel like I am ready to go back to classic.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forty beauty. Nearly exactly my situation when I did it too. Changed my life dramatically. You got this. ❤️🤟

    • @floriankgold
      @floriankgold 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro, I am literally going through the exact same thing. Trying to learn and grow after a difficult break-up with my first gf, being more honest about my feelings and also starting to love myself again. I'm in week 2 of 90 days hardmode and see this as a way to focus on my life again and develop good habits.
      This is the time to grow and go for your true potential. Keep it up! ❤️

  • @george-cristianafloarei8883
    @george-cristianafloarei8883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    day 8 of hard mode,Let s gooooooooooooooooooooo

  • @sarahthevirgo2777
    @sarahthevirgo2777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    me as a girl: hmm very good advice lol.

    • @aaroncharles8800
      @aaroncharles8800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doesn’t matter if it relates to you or not you still learned something :)

    • @sarahthevirgo2777
      @sarahthevirgo2777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      UnlistedHacker lmao

    • @hanskazan7403
      @hanskazan7403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah you liked that?

  • @ResplendentRaider
    @ResplendentRaider 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yea im married so its classic mode for me but if i was single i would totally do hardmode for a year

    • @hwdareu5848
      @hwdareu5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm in hard mode since last October.. hope wet dreams don't count 😂

  • @massculini
    @massculini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the no fap philosophy has taken my brain by storm

  • @danielmorrow-zhang4156
    @danielmorrow-zhang4156 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here before you blow up . 24/4/2020. Keep it up David !

  • @lesliechow9238
    @lesliechow9238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I work in retail and nofap is a deal breaker because you're in a constant social environment dealing with customers and also colleagues mostly girl staff, I'm on day 71 and for me these these past weeks have been very much the opposite of lonely

  • @julianaroh5509
    @julianaroh5509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a woman on no pmo.By day 14 I was astral projecting,attracting so much not just male attention but people notice me more in general.I have so much energy.Always cleaning my room,i take cold showers,go to the gym..I feel like this strong solar plexus energy.Thank you.
    Note: Also my voice has changed.Its more deeper like its projecting from my diaphragm.I find that peope pay attention to me when I talk and I don't have a shaky unsure voice.I am also less anxious which is strange as I was diagnosed with social anxiety.
    Yes I think Not Orgasming or ejaculating is the Real Key.🙏

  • @jbdmb
    @jbdmb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I go classic mode... by default... It's hard mode. Get it?

  • @alcanz1316
    @alcanz1316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally! A good piece of advice. Do hard mode with a "purpose". If done with a purpose it actually becomes easier!!

  • @abinashpuhan8512
    @abinashpuhan8512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am doing that only not even using social media i totally get you but that's the benifit of being a man we can pull it off and be a totally beast 🦁🐯

  • @Caesar88888
    @Caesar88888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Semen retention really works thats why Shaolin monks have amazing strength, speed and endurance, also stay strong till very old age and live longer than average

  • @mimisholdingspvt.ltd.6091
    @mimisholdingspvt.ltd.6091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video man! Very insightful, just as a tip I reckon you should edit out the sections of you reading off of your phone so as to bump up the professionalism, all in all great work dude!

  • @tomkickass6807
    @tomkickass6807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Nofap won't bring you happiness its a tool, be arrogant and you'll relapse

    • @whyracoon459
      @whyracoon459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tool for what

    • @tomkickass6807
      @tomkickass6807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@whyracoon459 a tool used for pursuing that which makes you happy!

    • @whyracoon459
      @whyracoon459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tomkickass6807Thanks I needed that

    • @chief_islxm
      @chief_islxm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was that guy and I relapsed on 120 days

    • @Automotib
      @Automotib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chief_islxm sometimes one relapse doesn't cancel out your streak, I've heard people say its more of a prorated thing. Like since you've hit 120 days, "relapsing" puts you back maybe a week, not the entire stretch. Unless that's how YOU view it and want to be ultra strict. But in reality, relapsing once every 120 days as opposed to every 3 or 4 days is still MUCH better progress in the scheme of things. But yeah dont let the success get to your head too much, or else relapsing may become a habit and then your back to where you started.

  • @para_arriba
    @para_arriba 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Bro, I really really appreciate your honesty and transparency, its awesome, transmits a lot of trust to us and ill definitely come back to watch more of your content. Keep it up!

  • @xElNinoo
    @xElNinoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your skin is literally glowing here haha, awesome. Interesting video, you're easy to listen to 👍 got to like 10 days last week but I gotta say it's a tough time to be doing it! So much energy yet so little going on. Defo gonna push again for another streak.

  • @ianberry5879
    @ianberry5879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent video. Two weeks into hard mode I'm watching this and your analysis is pretty much spot on with my view of it, using it as a temporary personal booster, and it's working!

  • @maroof1
    @maroof1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro I just noticed this video and you got really relaxing music in background, it makes me watch the video all. You ever considered to put it bk in your new videos ?

  • @veganvibes2.073
    @veganvibes2.073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I truly loved this video man!!!! Good stuff keep at it

  • @carlosalbertogomezmartinez2881
    @carlosalbertogomezmartinez2881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 28... I searched for a video because i needed some motivation and it helped me... thanks alot.

    • @ashiksaleem360
      @ashiksaleem360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO)
      The Rules of the group :
      1. Only English Allowed
      2. No Merch and Marketing
      3. No PORN Related stuff
      4. No Hate / Racism
      5. No Religious + Political Views
      6. No Grammar police
      7. Chat and help out
      8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes
      『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』
      type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support
      type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed.
      type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse
      Let's help each other out in this battle.
      chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej

  • @dakotagetz475
    @dakotagetz475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Brother! Thanks for explaining the difference between classic and hard mode.

  • @VegitoBlackk
    @VegitoBlackk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm on day 32 of NoFap. Day 6 of hard mode as I began my deployment 6 days ago and will be gone for 4 months maybe 6.. I can wait to see how I evolve further. My longest streak was 108 days a while back I felt phenomenal

  • @abhi_abhi6758
    @abhi_abhi6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 500+ Semen Retention ( Hard Mode )
    NO MORE BEING WEAK. NO MORE.❣🇮🇳☮

  • @makavelisalih8986
    @makavelisalih8986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Day 1: I’m hoping to make it through this hard mode pray for me fellas

    • @frrrykas
      @frrrykas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I prayed. God luck ;)

  • @saumitrajaiswal
    @saumitrajaiswal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Man! Thank You!, only one thing, one can still go and talk to girls and women and socialize without having anything to do with sex. One could actually get more free in this way in talking to the opposite sex or to the gender one prefers sexually. Of course, it will require even more will power, maybe 10 times more than even the hard mode, but it could be the next revelation. Conversation without any expectation of sexual gratification, it is also one of the concepts of Buddhism.

  • @carltonsoo829
    @carltonsoo829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Liked and Subbed! First time watching your vid. I had a 42 day streak first time PMO'ing and messed up today. Needed to watch this!

  • @Arun-yd6tt
    @Arun-yd6tt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your Voice Completly deeper...i like it.... Let move to take as a challenge

  • @alexmunoz6682
    @alexmunoz6682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m doing no fap so that I can get a life.
    I’ve lived most of in isolation. Never had a girlfriend, didn’t have much friends. And the few friends that I did have, I lost. I have an estranged relationship with my family. I’m 200 pounds overweight. I’m 23 and look damn near 40. I’m socially inept because of isolation. And I have both mommy and daddy issues. Suicide creeps into my mind every single day. And it seems like the best option I have. I don’t know what direction to take with my life. So I’m willing to go all in with this. I have nothing to lose anyway.

    • @LeakingW
      @LeakingW 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey bro i hope your life has been Improved

  • @housevelaryon8241
    @housevelaryon8241 ปีที่แล้ว

    Day 93-Discipline is at an all time high. Face glow, metabolism is high, women try to catch glances at me💀 Life is bliss 🧘🏾‍♂️

  • @jinampongan1962
    @jinampongan1962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you brother🤘
    At my 165 days of hard mode all the benefits was really insane..
    I hook up on this challenge that i never imagine that i could in my entire life of PMO is when after my girlfriend broke my heart and it really broke me..
    Well its a good thing it happened to me tho..🤣🤣
    #hardmode... 💪🤟

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep KILLING it man! Growth over everything fam

    • @cloudfiend8856
      @cloudfiend8856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      damn i am on day 105 well done man , gonna go for a year.

  • @mekhilefanis1442
    @mekhilefanis1442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 24 years old and im gonna start my journy , i wish you all the luck brothers 😁

  • @muizzdicky6823
    @muizzdicky6823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I never on classic mode lol, im always on hard mode cuz i have no gf.

  • @explorerml5779
    @explorerml5779 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video talking on a very personal and honest level, thank you for sharing your experience and opinions on the take of No-Fap hard mode. I'm personally in a situation where I've broken up with my girlfriend due to moving far away but we are still "friends" who still talks and is being kind of sexually exclusive to each other. So as I dabble with the idea of No-Fap, hard mode kind of seemed like the only way for me. But as you've mentioned and I totally agree with you, I cannot do this forever and it'll only be a means for me to improve myself on a short term for my long term goals. I'll live my life as my own. You're an inspiration. Thank you David.

    • @ashiksaleem360
      @ashiksaleem360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO)
      The Rules of the group :
      1. Only English Allowed
      2. No Merch and Marketing
      3. No PORN Related stuff
      4. No Hate / Racism
      5. No Religious + Political Views
      6. No Grammar police
      7. Chat and help out
      8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes
      『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』
      type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support
      type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed.
      type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse
      Let's help each other out in this battle.
      chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej

  • @char-eddker7121
    @char-eddker7121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree. All the best.

  • @MindfulWavesStudio
    @MindfulWavesStudio 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coincidentally, I have been inspired lately to try NoFap Hard Mode to learn how to go out into the world and socialize/connect without having any objective or end goal. I'm glad your video kind of disagrees with my hypothesis in a way. Would love to report back on what happens.

  • @1Sparda1_
    @1Sparda1_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video man , i'm going nofap hard mode from today 💪🏼

  • @CoachingbyCade
    @CoachingbyCade 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real video man x

  • @Simon0
    @Simon0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did you have any sleeping problems with nofap hard mode? I've been doing for 23 days and my sleep wasn't so good but it could definitely be psychological.
    Great video by the way

  • @rodmalek9668
    @rodmalek9668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is very facts....

  • @12360sha
    @12360sha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was in hard mode for 90 days
    And I felt amazing and powerful All of you should experience it

    • @mrtvideo3158
      @mrtvideo3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep iam in hard mode.i wanna complete 90 days.and continue as normal mod.becouse its actually doesnt make sense forever

    • @12360sha
      @12360sha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrtvideo3158 this is absolutely depends on what are you seeking in your life

    • @mrtvideo3158
      @mrtvideo3158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@12360sha yes. It depends on your religion either.logically there is nothing wrong having sex.its natural behaviour

    • @12360sha
      @12360sha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mrtvideo3158 for me it’s all about saving energy
      Im don’t really care about religion
      Cause this energy help me a lot in hard situations
      I think the sexual energy is sacred
      Its very the life force
      And when you transcend it to art or just fully present in moment
      You experience something from beyond
      Have a good life 🙏🏻

  • @nathangraham2276
    @nathangraham2276 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Day 19! Let's go!

  • @rudestbeast4907
    @rudestbeast4907 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The moments of interacting with women on hard mode feel like fire even tho its non intimate, and i revel in it. As soon as she's out if sight, she's out of mind, and im somewhat of an enigma to her. I dont feel lonely or guilty about it actually feels liberating because im not obsessing about her. A woman can be a 10 but on hard mode im only attracted to women i vibe right with its empowering. Yea not being able to relate ti ppl, ive actually had dudes get mad at me for rejecting women, and they were not 10s. These are the guys who stop any convo to comentary on every old womans ass that walks by.

  • @rajeshpattikara5444
    @rajeshpattikara5444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think there is this con, You will never feel to lose that Vital force whic has been saved over periods of time. And more pleasure comes from that. I used to feel the same and once I relapsed and never in my life felt such guilty and shame. Now again on hard mode and never feeling lonely but ful of vigour and energy. People envy me and my girlfriend has become very close and we now live very happy not like old times.

  • @imthebmf23
    @imthebmf23 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't let anything have control over you.

  • @technowilliams480
    @technowilliams480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    the way you was holding that thicc cylindrical mic was sus

  • @sideshowbob510
    @sideshowbob510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man everything you said about the cons hit deep i thought it was just me, the pros far outweigh the cons tho. I feel like JOHN WICK!

  • @abhinavyadav4983
    @abhinavyadav4983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am doing super hard mode for a my goal. I can feel every single word you say. It felt really amazing that someone have the idea what I am feeling.
    I belong to that .2% bro. Just keep on making videos like these and keep doing good work. Thanx ☮️❣️

  • @vanderwulf4758
    @vanderwulf4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video just saved me from a relapse, thank you bro damn

  • @sirwalksoftly
    @sirwalksoftly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One thing that came to mind, considering the power of semen retention that was not really taught to us growing up, is retaining your semen during sex. You can still have sex without ejaculating.

  • @strix50
    @strix50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Now I see why u don't do filthy frank videos anymore Joji.

  • @lamajigmeg
    @lamajigmeg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I respect your commitment might I suggest that you acquire a copy of the book “Cupid’s poisoned arrow” it’s all about sidestepping orgasm yet having intimacy and I think it will alleviate the negative side of hard mode for you

  • @soulwinner1641
    @soulwinner1641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 21 years old going to be turning 22 by the end of this month I’m still a virgin don’t have a girl friend and I don’t date and talk to girls and I’m on my day 25 + on no fap and retaining my seed! . I take cold showers , I work out , drink a gallon of water , eat healthy and I’m focused on my purpose!

    • @3.slowww
      @3.slowww 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      your on hardcore mode my guy.

    • @erakkovaatainen148
      @erakkovaatainen148 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Almost the same, in my 30's. MGTOW monk mode.

  • @jonathancano3770
    @jonathancano3770 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't choose hard mode, hard mode choose me. I'm choosing to take it as a blessing

  • @siegfredschmidt1149
    @siegfredschmidt1149 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello David new subscriber here. Im just curious. Its my first time to do this “No Fap” thing because of the positive reviews about it and the testimonies I’ve read from comment section. It might be difficult for me to do a long streak as a first timer maybe 20-30 days is possible. But one question “When can we decide to break the NO FAP period or is it also important to health maybe as a physiological need after getting some of the benefits?How often we need to do it? Thank you David.

  • @antoineleblanc2913
    @antoineleblanc2913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The thing is you have to transmutate all of that energy elsewhere in some passionate way

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Antoine Leblanc check my most recent vid. All on transmutation. ☺️

  • @subhrajyotidas2569
    @subhrajyotidas2569 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's get it!!

  • @unchainedfury5044
    @unchainedfury5044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 8 hard mode after a 22 day streak. Im slowly feeling the benefits coming in, particularly i dont hate myself as much any more, my boners are starting to come back, i have a clearer mind, a more connected sense of being, more sensitivity to real life, more motivation and drive. I can only imagine what will happen when i reach a larger period on nofap. This vid was just ehay i needed. Thank you bro

  • @rowanshearer2889
    @rowanshearer2889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Speaking of middle path - what about the middle path between hard mode and classic mode? Where sexual intimacy / relationship with a woman is incorporated but only without ejaculating.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rowan Shearer sure! Whatever best suits you. In life I find nothing is black or white. Instead it’s all about who you are when you do what you are doing! If you want to ejaculate while having sex then go for it, if you don’t then go for it. Personally though I find it’s usually best in between. Like maybe only have sex 1-2x a week MAX opposed to doing it every day yknow :) hope this can help!