Hey brother, I would love it if you could come over to my channel and check it out!! I think you will find it very helpful and i would love your support!!!
I have all kinds of respect for you young guys. At age 49, 15 years MGTOW monk, it is zero issue for me as I have had enough time to redirect my energies into hobbies and investments. I remember myself as a young man, and the blue-pilled horn-craze I lived. We had problems with feminism, but nothing like what you guys are facing these days, so it took us a bit longer to get to the no-fap point. On the negative side ... we probably got a bit more poontang than you (with all the drama THAT includes) ... On the positive side ... you guys have found the path to tranquility 15 years earlier than us ..... I feel a slight hint of envy but a ton of respect and pride in our younger brothers from other mothers. Trust me - ejaculation is a VERY minute part of life, and thus, in the big picture, really matters not at all for your accomplishments in life
@StonedApe that whole channel was set up by a deeply wounded man. When I first listened to it, I thought it was trying to be ironic. Nope...turns out to be legit and his many subscribers eat his words like breadcrumbs.
let me challenge you Sir and tell You that most Relationships brake because Men can not controll their Lusts and urges and r hypersexualised and thus become too emotional, which most Woman can not deal with internally and become confused by, constant Ejaculating destroys the Polarity between Sexes and takes all your Energy, Truth is that A Couple can have energizing Sex every single Day if they choose to, and if he does not ejaculate and is instead PRESENT there with her every Momment instead of focusing on his own Pleasure and the aim of Ejaculating, both have a better, but non ejaculatory Orgasm (YES IT EXISTS- check YT Channel Sexual Kung Fu, if ye no believe me). Anyhow if both Energized it meats the Woman natural flirting playfull State, that she needs to feel with the Man and have the Amount of Sex she needs, but without him turning into a depressed, tired mummu, just because he can not controll himself, if he can have controll, it will also be no problem to have more then one Woman if they both agree ;)
hahah that is exactly how I was pushed into hard-mode as well! It's a blessing in disguise, run it for as long as you can until you find the next beautiful girl! :)
Over 110 days without porn, nofap and i couldn't see changes maybe because of the wet dreams i am having once every 7 to 10 days, but a small amount of semen is it so ??
@@solodolo_mma3971 9 days in. Quit porn. tough, but you gotta. Try exercise before bed- personal opinion. Whether you wake up early or sleep in, get outta bed asap. For everyday that passes, I feel less urges. Quitting porn is the main factor. Tough, but DO IT
Tiger Paint Guys can someone help me because when I stopped masturbating for a month. My depressive disorder still kicks in and mania and I still have forgetfulness. I don’t know what’s goings on
@@Scrub_Lord-en7cq That's very similar to me, this same guy explained the depression part really well in another video, basically you are used to the dopamine hit after masturbating, slowly over time it begins to be less and less rewarding. For me, the forgetfulness took 3 months to get over and started REALLY feeling great and pretty happy around 4 months in. Keep at it, but it could be that both of those things are linked to maybe another health issue? I suggest to go see a doctor, and if they don't notice anything then it will almost 100% be because of masturbating.
Raj S I see I see, I will definitely use your explanation and say the truth to the doctor that I masturbated probably I will get more advantages of recovering and I also forgot to tell that I’ve been masturbating for like 3-4 years so maybe it will definitely take awhile but keeping at it. Thanks and God Bless 🙏
Dion Monteiro i felt a feeling very early, it was almost learning to cope very quickly that every time i felt a sexual urge; i would have to just wait for it to pass. That taught me a lot within not a long time AT ALL and it was simply the fact i told myself i wasn’t going to do it.
Day 36 for me. he is really spitting straight facts. I don’t know if anyone else felt this way but days 8, 17, and 24 were very difficult. It felt like my mind was foggy and all I have to say is just focus on the reason why you started nofap. It becomes infinitely easier when you have a goal to achieve alongside your nofap journey. Stay strong boys :)
If you’re spiritual going hard mode can be like a “fast” for the body. Starve the body of sexual gratification by means of not looking at anything that can be a trigger (obvious triggers) the eyes, ear, mouth and even hands can act as gateways to the soul. Although we are not gods, since we are humans and are flawed naturally, taking control of our lives will fell a lot more easier.
On 60 days hardmode myself and I agree on the women part, I find myself not talking to them/taking things further as I can't get close to them etc on hardmode which is a pain with the attraction and many girls I could talk to 🤣 But I feel the benefits far outweigh the cons and Semen Retention is our natural state as men unless we want to create which is what Semen is for otherwise hold the seed bruh and invest the energy into improving yourself! 😄
I don't think it's natural for us to retain our semen. We're basically like monkeys, they screw around too and not just to make baby's but also for fun. We just figured out that this build up energy can be used beneficially elsewhere and we have the ability to withstand from PMO. Other than that I completely agree with you
@@OkronosO This is wrong. Its proven it takes up to 75-80 days for our sperm to fully mature. So wasting its all the time is really not natural cause you not letting your sperm develop.
Hard mode month 1 now, just mental focus is on point better at work and everything, this guy is legit. Next stop, decrease screen time to 1 hr a day. Thats the real legend@ry god mode!
So far I made 6 weeks Into hardmode. I've notice females that are normally out of my league talk to me and I quit cold turkey. I've notice I do have more energy and before that I stop a full year and half on hard mode. It mostly for me helps my brain to be free and stay super focus.
I just realised that I am on a hard mode by default! I had a messed up break-up and I lost most of my friends! And being in mechanical engineering! There weren’t much girls around! On that thank you corona, this could be possible! It’s been 16th day I came across this video! Thank god I ain’t alone in this nofap journey! 😇
Dude, i have it even tougher... I dont have a gf. Hookups are not an option (if if there was no lockdown or corona). Infact even in relationships, sex is not an opinion sometimes because of the culture here. (Living in india)
Feel u bruv, Corona, High school graduate, no job, lot's of free time, f d up breakup, distancing from friends. But I found the energy in myself and am improving solely on myself and focussing on myself, don't have any obligations during the Pandemic
this is the new woke generation i have so much respect for you brother i'm gonna go hard mode because of your advice and come back to this video everytime i think about relapsing
Just came across this, super late to the party on this video lol I am on day 221 hard mode, no relapse and I can relate to alot of the benefits. I agree everything is turned up to 10, its hard to direct my enery because it is immense. It is almost like you have super powers and you have to try and harness it. definitely a must do, different life.
Even if i watch porn i prevent myself from fapping....now porn videos don't work on me...I am trying to control my mind and strengthen my will power.....to tell the truth I feel invincible now
hardmode till marriage used to be usual thing xD It is rather sad you can not even talk to girls, I would honestly advice you to find a girl you can actually just talk to for weeks, where you don't have the need to have sex after maybe 2-3 dates. A girl that respects you for abstaining from sexual contact for 3 month rather than someone who thinks you are crazy. Now I know girls like this are rather hard to find in our modern society, where so much is driven by sexual desire, up to the point where every ad no matter the content needs to have some hot girl in it. But I think finding her and then having that special relationship is worth much more than 10-15-20 or even 1000 girls you don't have that real connection. You might have great sex and all, but if you start thinking in terms of the future, what is really important for you? What will make you a happy person in the long run. Having 10 years with a lot of sex, or maybe not having any for a year, but then being with someone where the sex is great and the time is great when you dont have sex too. Someone you might create a family with, if you want you can get children with the person. I think thats something valueable, like real value, not just party and ONS. There is nothing wrong with doing it, but just ask yourself if this is moving you forward in your life or maybe just holding you back.
Thank you so much brother for inspiring me. I started Nofap for a year but I released. Because I had stress during covid-19, both unemployed and heartbroken. Today is the second day I start it again and start my business.
I can relate to you man.. I have the same lonesome feelings as you have. But still have that yearning to have more things for myself in the future. And in order for me to do that I have to retain that drive. But I guess when I feel that extreme urge I should just let it out When my circumstances is quite contradictory. Lots of love. Keep doing these videos man
Inspirational! I also decided to do this immediately after a breakup. The pain and a sense of lost self made me try this thing. I’m on Day 4, and I think it’s been great for me so far. Now all of my energy is directed at doing what’s best for me, and I think that’s the major benefit of doing the hard mode.
3 weeks hard mode. Basically my goal is to retain the nutrients to help my beard growth and recover my hair line... I've seen results but also using minoxidil... the process just speeded up
@@bladerubber I did my research... one information here, other there... I was already treating both hair and beard but now on semen retention the process is faster. Of course, a good diet also helps
"Very lonely, no girls. Don't interact. Very little partying. It's pretty dark and you can't relate to people much." 5:30 Well, David, you just described the predicament of a male during this Coronavirus-led lockdown in the UK, USA and many other parts of this world. Would you please do a video about how a guy can endure and prosper with the NoFAP Hard Mode duing this global crisis? How can we not regress? How easy it is to relapse? How is everyone else feeling about this right now? I was doing really well on NoFAP Classic Mode. Now, the lockdown has forced me to endure NoFAP Hard Mode. Who else switched like me and still determined to succeed?
It's interesting what he mentioned about the cons..the dark days and depression. I think this is everything a guy uses porn and fapping to avoid, distract himself away from and to forget about. On no fap, you are forced to face those demons, and perhaps find a solution. However, concerning whether one should do hard mode temporarily or for life.....this makes me wonder if it's all about being addicted to dopamine and unable to only get it from within, rather than without. Something else to remember, some guys do hard mode, and still have relationships but they just have sex without busting...
I started nofap hard mode a week ago now. Like you said I am doing it to change my life and achieve some goals. Going through a tough break up has helped to be honest as I have little interest in another woman at this stage so going to use this phase to work on me until I feel like I am ready to go back to classic.
Bro, I am literally going through the exact same thing. Trying to learn and grow after a difficult break-up with my first gf, being more honest about my feelings and also starting to love myself again. I'm in week 2 of 90 days hardmode and see this as a way to focus on my life again and develop good habits. This is the time to grow and go for your true potential. Keep it up! ❤️
the cons isnt even that bad because if you go through no fap youll understand how much youre worth so youll be fine being alone, lonely or in a dark place. not really a con. just go to the gym.
Best thing about Nofap Hardmode is the Occult power of influencing reality with your intentions, im on day 344 and today i had what some would call a mystical experience, and your junk gets bigger thats a plus, not huge but significant
@@David_Hammond ive been having them since october from last year, i dont know its weird and are getting increasingly profound, in one I thought I literally was not coming back, dude life is fucking magical, i cant believe 99.9% of people are just numb to it one way or the other.
Excellent video. Two weeks into hard mode I'm watching this and your analysis is pretty much spot on with my view of it, using it as a temporary personal booster, and it's working!
I work in retail and nofap is a deal breaker because you're in a constant social environment dealing with customers and also colleagues mostly girl staff, I'm on day 71 and for me these these past weeks have been very much the opposite of lonely
Semen retention really works thats why Shaolin monks have amazing strength, speed and endurance, also stay strong till very old age and live longer than average
There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO) The Rules of the group : 1. Only English Allowed 2. No Merch and Marketing 3. No PORN Related stuff 4. No Hate / Racism 5. No Religious + Political Views 6. No Grammar police 7. Chat and help out 8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes 『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』 type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed. type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse Let's help each other out in this battle. chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej
Your skin is literally glowing here haha, awesome. Interesting video, you're easy to listen to 👍 got to like 10 days last week but I gotta say it's a tough time to be doing it! So much energy yet so little going on. Defo gonna push again for another streak.
Great Man! Thank You!, only one thing, one can still go and talk to girls and women and socialize without having anything to do with sex. One could actually get more free in this way in talking to the opposite sex or to the gender one prefers sexually. Of course, it will require even more will power, maybe 10 times more than even the hard mode, but it could be the next revelation. Conversation without any expectation of sexual gratification, it is also one of the concepts of Buddhism.
I am a woman on no pmo.By day 14 I was astral projecting,attracting so much not just male attention but people notice me more in general.I have so much energy.Always cleaning my room,i take cold showers,go to the gym..I feel like this strong solar plexus energy.Thank you. Note: Also my voice has changed.Its more deeper like its projecting from my diaphragm.I find that peope pay attention to me when I talk and I don't have a shaky unsure voice.I am also less anxious which is strange as I was diagnosed with social anxiety. Yes I think Not Orgasming or ejaculating is the Real Key.🙏
Hey Bro, I really really appreciate your honesty and transparency, its awesome, transmits a lot of trust to us and ill definitely come back to watch more of your content. Keep it up!
I'm on day 32 of NoFap. Day 6 of hard mode as I began my deployment 6 days ago and will be gone for 4 months maybe 6.. I can wait to see how I evolve further. My longest streak was 108 days a while back I felt phenomenal
Great video man! Very insightful, just as a tip I reckon you should edit out the sections of you reading off of your phone so as to bump up the professionalism, all in all great work dude!
Great video talking on a very personal and honest level, thank you for sharing your experience and opinions on the take of No-Fap hard mode. I'm personally in a situation where I've broken up with my girlfriend due to moving far away but we are still "friends" who still talks and is being kind of sexually exclusive to each other. So as I dabble with the idea of No-Fap, hard mode kind of seemed like the only way for me. But as you've mentioned and I totally agree with you, I cannot do this forever and it'll only be a means for me to improve myself on a short term for my long term goals. I'll live my life as my own. You're an inspiration. Thank you David.
There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO) The Rules of the group : 1. Only English Allowed 2. No Merch and Marketing 3. No PORN Related stuff 4. No Hate / Racism 5. No Religious + Political Views 6. No Grammar police 7. Chat and help out 8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes 『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』 type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed. type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse Let's help each other out in this battle. chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej
Thank you brother🤘 At my 165 days of hard mode all the benefits was really insane.. I hook up on this challenge that i never imagine that i could in my entire life of PMO is when after my girlfriend broke my heart and it really broke me.. Well its a good thing it happened to me tho..🤣🤣 #hardmode... 💪🤟
I am doing super hard mode for a my goal. I can feel every single word you say. It felt really amazing that someone have the idea what I am feeling. I belong to that .2% bro. Just keep on making videos like these and keep doing good work. Thanx ☮️❣️
@@mrtvideo3158 for me it’s all about saving energy Im don’t really care about religion Cause this energy help me a lot in hard situations I think the sexual energy is sacred Its very the life force And when you transcend it to art or just fully present in moment You experience something from beyond Have a good life 🙏🏻
I’m doing no fap so that I can get a life. I’ve lived most of in isolation. Never had a girlfriend, didn’t have much friends. And the few friends that I did have, I lost. I have an estranged relationship with my family. I’m 200 pounds overweight. I’m 23 and look damn near 40. I’m socially inept because of isolation. And I have both mommy and daddy issues. Suicide creeps into my mind every single day. And it seems like the best option I have. I don’t know what direction to take with my life. So I’m willing to go all in with this. I have nothing to lose anyway.
Coincidentally, I have been inspired lately to try NoFap Hard Mode to learn how to go out into the world and socialize/connect without having any objective or end goal. I'm glad your video kind of disagrees with my hypothesis in a way. Would love to report back on what happens.
@@chief_islxm sometimes one relapse doesn't cancel out your streak, I've heard people say its more of a prorated thing. Like since you've hit 120 days, "relapsing" puts you back maybe a week, not the entire stretch. Unless that's how YOU view it and want to be ultra strict. But in reality, relapsing once every 120 days as opposed to every 3 or 4 days is still MUCH better progress in the scheme of things. But yeah dont let the success get to your head too much, or else relapsing may become a habit and then your back to where you started.
I don't think there is this con, You will never feel to lose that Vital force whic has been saved over periods of time. And more pleasure comes from that. I used to feel the same and once I relapsed and never in my life felt such guilty and shame. Now again on hard mode and never feeling lonely but ful of vigour and energy. People envy me and my girlfriend has become very close and we now live very happy not like old times.
Bro I just noticed this video and you got really relaxing music in background, it makes me watch the video all. You ever considered to put it bk in your new videos ?
Great video. Love the points you make about the benefits and the honest analysis of the cons. Too many nofap vids present monk mode as the be all end all solution to all of your problems
The moments of interacting with women on hard mode feel like fire even tho its non intimate, and i revel in it. As soon as she's out if sight, she's out of mind, and im somewhat of an enigma to her. I dont feel lonely or guilty about it actually feels liberating because im not obsessing about her. A woman can be a 10 but on hard mode im only attracted to women i vibe right with its empowering. Yea not being able to relate ti ppl, ive actually had dudes get mad at me for rejecting women, and they were not 10s. These are the guys who stop any convo to comentary on every old womans ass that walks by.
Speaking of middle path - what about the middle path between hard mode and classic mode? Where sexual intimacy / relationship with a woman is incorporated but only without ejaculating.
Rowan Shearer sure! Whatever best suits you. In life I find nothing is black or white. Instead it’s all about who you are when you do what you are doing! If you want to ejaculate while having sex then go for it, if you don’t then go for it. Personally though I find it’s usually best in between. Like maybe only have sex 1-2x a week MAX opposed to doing it every day yknow :) hope this can help!
I respect your commitment might I suggest that you acquire a copy of the book “Cupid’s poisoned arrow” it’s all about sidestepping orgasm yet having intimacy and I think it will alleviate the negative side of hard mode for you
Iam on day 50 hard mode, but I got over it using self inquiry, which is a meditation technique that persuades the energy instead of forcing it somewhere else. I will share how I did it on reddit and TH-cam.
I’m 21 years old going to be turning 22 by the end of this month I’m still a virgin don’t have a girl friend and I don’t date and talk to girls and I’m on my day 25 + on no fap and retaining my seed! . I take cold showers , I work out , drink a gallon of water , eat healthy and I’m focused on my purpose!
Self-development coaching & course below as always guys. Cheers! ❤️🤟 www.self-developed.com
Did you had a wet dreams ??
I mean you could still socialize tho bro far as partying is cool just having fun just can smash no chick
Hey man it's March now, I wanted to know, how are you doing right now?
You should still be on and off with hard mode when u reach ur goal
Can’t let these females steal your energy
About your feelings of loneliness, eagles fly alone dawg
Happiness is not gained by seeking out more happiness, but by gaining the capacity to enjoy less.
- Socrates
Socrates is our god
Happiness not my thing
woaw I like that
Fucking great quote. Hope it's real as I'm Gona use that
@@Belv6 it is
Hey brother, I would love it if you could come over to my channel and check it out!! I think you will find it very helpful and i would love your support!!!
I dont have a choice dude, my classic mode is hard mode bcs i got no game 😂
Game is confidence bro and looks
But not everyone got dat
wakil Hakimzaada yup
@@theanomity3185 learn astrology also bro will help u alot and get to know Ur self
@@Paghmani1sher how?
@@JessePierreAFK how wat bro?
Day 431 for me, I'll never waste my life energy for some 5 seconds pleasure
But the orgasm isn't the only enjoyable moment
Omg that's so hard to beleive good job.
you even changed your name
Did u have flatline and how long was it?
Daym dude
I have all kinds of respect for you young guys. At age 49, 15 years MGTOW monk, it is zero issue for me as I have had enough time to redirect my energies into hobbies and investments. I remember myself as a young man, and the blue-pilled horn-craze I lived. We had problems with feminism, but nothing like what you guys are facing these days, so it took us a bit longer to get to the no-fap point. On the negative side ... we probably got a bit more poontang than you (with all the drama THAT includes) ... On the positive side ... you guys have found the path to tranquility 15 years earlier than us ..... I feel a slight hint of envy but a ton of respect and pride in our younger brothers from other mothers. Trust me - ejaculation is a VERY minute part of life, and thus, in the big picture, really matters not at all for your accomplishments in life
Bro all these problems u talk about is Ur own insecurities
Only way learn is to observe the big alpha guys that's the right wat to do things
@StonedApe that whole channel was set up by a deeply wounded man. When I first listened to it, I thought it was trying to be ironic. Nope...turns out to be legit and his many subscribers eat his words like breadcrumbs.
@StonedApe show some respect kid
let me challenge you Sir and tell You that most Relationships brake because Men can not controll their Lusts and urges and r hypersexualised and thus become too emotional, which most Woman can not deal with internally and become confused by, constant Ejaculating destroys the Polarity between Sexes and takes all your Energy, Truth is that A Couple can have energizing Sex every single Day if they choose to, and if he does not ejaculate and is instead PRESENT there with her every Momment instead of focusing on his own Pleasure and the aim of Ejaculating, both have a better, but non ejaculatory Orgasm (YES IT EXISTS- check YT Channel Sexual Kung Fu, if ye no believe me). Anyhow if both Energized it meats the Woman natural flirting playfull State, that she needs to feel with the Man and have the Amount of Sex she needs, but without him turning into a depressed, tired mummu, just because he can not controll himself, if he can have controll, it will also be no problem to have more then one Woman if they both agree ;)
@@JesusLebtUndRettet you sound like someone who's actually never talked to a girl and just paraphrasing stuff you've read 😂
well i’m forced into hard mode. it’s been a while since i’ve had a friend who’s a girl so classic mode isn’t an option.
hahah that is exactly how I was pushed into hard-mode as well! It's a blessing in disguise, run it for as long as you can until you find the next beautiful girl! :)
You’re not alone bro, I’m in the same boat..
Classic mode is my hard mode.
Glad to see more people making nofap videos. I'm 110+ days longest being 149 days.
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AWESOME MAN! And yes brother! I'll be making more health/self improvement videos like these ALWAYS! :)
Over 110 days without porn, nofap and i couldn't see changes maybe because of the wet dreams i am having once every 7 to 10 days, but a small amount of semen is it so ??
How do you do it? ...I can barely last a week :/
@@solodolo_mma3971 9 days in. Quit porn. tough, but you gotta. Try exercise before bed- personal opinion. Whether you wake up early or sleep in, get outta bed asap. For everyday that passes, I feel less urges. Quitting porn is the main factor. Tough, but DO IT
when you dont have a partner, you straight go into hard mode without going through classic mode lmao..
Haha yuuup
Tiger Paint Guys can someone help me because when I stopped masturbating for a month. My depressive disorder still kicks in and mania and I still have forgetfulness. I don’t know what’s goings on
@@Scrub_Lord-en7cq That's very similar to me, this same guy explained the depression part really well in another video, basically you are used to the dopamine hit after masturbating, slowly over time it begins to be less and less rewarding. For me, the forgetfulness took 3 months to get over and started REALLY feeling great and pretty happy around 4 months in. Keep at it, but it could be that both of those things are linked to maybe another health issue? I suggest to go see a doctor, and if they don't notice anything then it will almost 100% be because of masturbating.
Raj S I see I see, I will definitely use your explanation and say the truth to the doctor that I masturbated probably I will get more advantages of recovering and I also forgot to tell that I’ve been masturbating for like 3-4 years so maybe it will definitely take awhile but keeping at it. Thanks and God Bless 🙏
Super motivational video man. Day 3 of hard mode and already feeling the perks. Cheers
Lol it's a placebo..3 days is too less unless you were a hardcore addict
Dion Monteiro i felt a feeling very early, it was almost learning to cope very quickly that every time i felt a sexual urge; i would have to just wait for it to pass. That taught me a lot within not a long time AT ALL and it was simply the fact i told myself i wasn’t going to do it.
I'm at day 3 too man!
Iam at day 6 of the pmo
1 year ago. How long did you last?
3:15 video starts
Thanks
Thank you lol
Thanks🙏🙏
Day 36 for me. he is really spitting straight facts. I don’t know if anyone else felt this way but days 8, 17, and 24 were very difficult. It felt like my mind was foggy and all I have to say is just focus on the reason why you started nofap. It becomes infinitely easier when you have a goal to achieve alongside your nofap journey. Stay strong boys :)
Excactly im on day 8 and today it feels so hard not to fap.
Patrick Bet-David said he made a goal of no sex until he made his first million dollars. And he's worth 200 million now (2023).
If you’re spiritual going hard mode can be like a “fast” for the body. Starve the body of sexual gratification by means of not looking at anything that can be a trigger (obvious triggers) the eyes, ear, mouth and even hands can act as gateways to the soul. Although we are not gods, since we are humans and are flawed naturally, taking control of our lives will fell a lot more easier.
Yep failed in 4 days due to porn...it really is amazing and scary how much of an enemy porn really is
Porn is the great deceiver
Dont see it to much as a failer as much as you learned what not to do the next time
Lmao
Porn is the final boss we have to defeat
On 60 days hardmode myself and I agree on the women part, I find myself not talking to them/taking things further as I can't get close to them etc on hardmode which is a pain with the attraction and many girls I could talk to 🤣 But I feel the benefits far outweigh the cons and Semen Retention is our natural state as men unless we want to create which is what Semen is for otherwise hold the seed bruh and invest the energy into improving yourself! 😄
I don't think it's natural for us to retain our semen. We're basically like monkeys, they screw around too and not just to make baby's but also for fun. We just figured out that this build up energy can be used beneficially elsewhere and we have the ability to withstand from PMO. Other than that I completely agree with you
@@OkronosO This is wrong. Its proven it takes up to 75-80 days for our sperm to fully mature. So wasting its all the time is really not natural cause you not letting your sperm develop.
@@OkronosO This is also the cause pf infertility im a lot of men. Its much harder to get a women pregnant with half developed sperm.
@@thessbest123 Im not saying it's bad
@@thessbest123 80 days to fully mature? Is this cap???
Hard mode month 1 now, just mental focus is on point better at work and everything, this guy is legit. Next stop, decrease screen time to 1 hr a day. Thats the real legend@ry god mode!
So far I made 6 weeks Into hardmode. I've notice females that are normally out of my league talk to me and I quit cold turkey. I've notice I do have more energy and before that I stop a full year and half on hard mode. It mostly for me helps my brain to be free and stay super focus.
Longest I went was 73 days , starting again today with nofap hard mode , u encouraged me man 🔥
I just realised that I am on a hard mode by default! I had a messed up break-up and I lost most of my friends! And being in mechanical engineering! There weren’t much girls around! On that thank you corona, this could be possible! It’s been 16th day I came across this video! Thank god I ain’t alone in this nofap journey! 😇
We gotcha brotha! Keep going.
im also stoping during corona so i feel and i have no gf and im muslim
Dude, i have it even tougher... I dont have a gf. Hookups are not an option (if if there was no lockdown or corona). Infact even in relationships, sex is not an opinion sometimes because of the culture here. (Living in india)
Feel u bruv, Corona, High school graduate, no job, lot's of free time, f d up breakup, distancing from friends. But I found the energy in myself and am improving solely on myself and focussing on myself, don't have any obligations during the Pandemic
this is the new woke generation
i have so much respect for you brother
i'm gonna go hard mode because of your advice and come back to this video everytime i think about relapsing
Day 1 lets start 💪
How are you now?
Just came across this, super late to the party on this video lol I am on day 221 hard mode, no relapse and I can relate to alot of the benefits. I agree everything is turned up to 10, its hard to direct my enery because it is immense. It is almost like you have super powers and you have to try and harness it. definitely a must do, different life.
Even if i watch porn i prevent myself from fapping....now porn videos don't work on me...I am trying to control my mind and strengthen my will power.....to tell the truth I feel invincible now
hardmode till marriage used to be usual thing xD It is rather sad you can not even talk to girls, I would honestly advice you to find a girl you can actually just talk to for weeks, where you don't have the need to have sex after maybe 2-3 dates. A girl that respects you for abstaining from sexual contact for 3 month rather than someone who thinks you are crazy. Now I know girls like this are rather hard to find in our modern society, where so much is driven by sexual desire, up to the point where every ad no matter the content needs to have some hot girl in it.
But I think finding her and then having that special relationship is worth much more than 10-15-20 or even 1000 girls you don't have that real connection. You might have great sex and all, but if you start thinking in terms of the future, what is really important for you? What will make you a happy person in the long run. Having 10 years with a lot of sex, or maybe not having any for a year, but then being with someone where the sex is great and the time is great when you dont have sex too. Someone you might create a family with, if you want you can get children with the person.
I think thats something valueable, like real value, not just party and ONS. There is nothing wrong with doing it, but just ask yourself if this is moving you forward in your life or maybe just holding you back.
I hear you man! Each to their own brother :)
Thank you so much brother for inspiring me. I started Nofap for a year but I released. Because I had stress during covid-19, both unemployed and heartbroken. Today is the second day I start it again and start my business.
I can relate to you man.. I have the same lonesome feelings as you have. But still have that yearning to have more things for myself in the future. And in order for me to do that I have to retain that drive. But I guess when I feel that extreme urge I should just let it out When my circumstances is quite contradictory. Lots of love. Keep doing these videos man
Inspirational! I also decided to do this immediately after a breakup. The pain and a sense of lost self made me try this thing. I’m on Day 4, and I think it’s been great for me so far. Now all of my energy is directed at doing what’s best for me, and I think that’s the major benefit of doing the hard mode.
update
"I can't talk to girls because I know it won't go anywhere." Made me sad. You can talk to girls who does not expect it to go anywhere too.
Managed 139, everything you said is true. Mental clarity is OP, you become a God. Road to 140 days now.
3 weeks hard mode. Basically my goal is to retain the nutrients to help my beard growth and recover my hair line... I've seen results but also using minoxidil... the process just speeded up
keep going
Who originated this idea?
@@bladerubber I did my research... one information here, other there... I was already treating both hair and beard but now on semen retention the process is faster. Of course, a good diet also helps
@@adrianolouback1550 bro..does semen retention results in prostate cancer ah...? Pls tell..
Darwin R.S That’s bs. Why would rest give cancer ? The overuse does.
"Very lonely, no girls. Don't interact. Very little partying. It's pretty dark and you can't relate to people much." 5:30 Well, David, you just described the predicament of a male during this Coronavirus-led lockdown in the UK, USA and many other parts of this world. Would you please do a video about how a guy can endure and prosper with the NoFAP Hard Mode duing this global crisis? How can we not regress? How easy it is to relapse? How is everyone else feeling about this right now? I was doing really well on NoFAP Classic Mode. Now, the lockdown has forced me to endure NoFAP Hard Mode. Who else switched like me and still determined to succeed?
I've relapsed after 70 days strick, it's almost been a month since then and here I am at day 4.
This dude: spittin facts
Me: still trying to find the difference between classic and hard mode.
Same😂😂
U got the glow bro I can see good positive energy from u
NoFap benefits are very noticable ! one of my friends noticed my skin became better just after a month of hard mode.
It's interesting what he mentioned about the cons..the dark days and depression. I think this is everything a guy uses porn and fapping to avoid, distract himself away from and to forget about. On no fap, you are forced to face those demons, and perhaps find a solution.
However, concerning whether one should do hard mode temporarily or for life.....this makes me wonder if it's all about being addicted to dopamine and unable to only get it from within, rather than without. Something else to remember, some guys do hard mode, and still have relationships but they just have sex without busting...
One of the unfortunate realities. But necessary nonetheless!
That is true .
I started nofap hard mode a week ago now. Like you said I am doing it to change my life and achieve some goals. Going through a tough break up has helped to be honest as I have little interest in another woman at this stage so going to use this phase to work on me until I feel like I am ready to go back to classic.
Forty beauty. Nearly exactly my situation when I did it too. Changed my life dramatically. You got this. ❤️🤟
Bro, I am literally going through the exact same thing. Trying to learn and grow after a difficult break-up with my first gf, being more honest about my feelings and also starting to love myself again. I'm in week 2 of 90 days hardmode and see this as a way to focus on my life again and develop good habits.
This is the time to grow and go for your true potential. Keep it up! ❤️
your voice tone David , very manly , clear , easy to understand
Im on almost 7 weeks hard mode. Going strong
Not sure why TH-cam recommended me this video but whoever reads this comment, please keep going and don’t give up! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
the cons isnt even that bad because if you go through no fap youll understand how much youre worth so youll be fine being alone, lonely or in a dark place. not really a con. just go to the gym.
Noah Wight facts bruv
I'm used to being alone anyway fuck it
yeah really good explanation, most of unbelievers are classic mode nofappers. but hard mode / monk mode, dude this shit is real
Yes! Thanks so much for watching man! :)
me as a girl: hmm very good advice lol.
Doesn’t matter if it relates to you or not you still learned something :)
UnlistedHacker lmao
yeah you liked that?
when you're a christian hard mode is the only way
Facts 😂😂😂
I'm christian and are not doing hard mode
@@marcuslinde8846 I don't think so. According to scriptures you can still make love with your wife/girl but not multiple girls.
Marcus Linde your only suppose to have sex with your wife/husband if you’re a Christian
Marcus Linde then you’re not a Christian, you’re a hypocrite
Yea im married so its classic mode for me but if i was single i would totally do hardmode for a year
I'm in hard mode since last October.. hope wet dreams don't count 😂
Best thing about Nofap Hardmode is the Occult power of influencing reality with your intentions, im on day 344 and today i had what some would call a mystical experience, and your junk gets bigger thats a plus, not huge but significant
Elperro lol had one too last night.. might have been affected by full moon tho!
@@David_Hammond was it around 2-4 am by any chance?
@@MrBryanHack 1:00 am exactly
@@David_Hammond ive been having them since october from last year, i dont know its weird and are getting increasingly profound, in one I thought I literally was not coming back, dude life is fucking magical, i cant believe 99.9% of people are just numb to it one way or the other.
@@MrBryanHack what is this mystical experience exactly if you can try to explain it
Excellent video. Two weeks into hard mode I'm watching this and your analysis is pretty much spot on with my view of it, using it as a temporary personal booster, and it's working!
I never on classic mode lol, im always on hard mode cuz i have no gf.
I'm here before you blow up . 24/4/2020. Keep it up David !
day 8 of hard mode,Let s gooooooooooooooooooooo
I work in retail and nofap is a deal breaker because you're in a constant social environment dealing with customers and also colleagues mostly girl staff, I'm on day 71 and for me these these past weeks have been very much the opposite of lonely
Liked and Subbed! First time watching your vid. I had a 42 day streak first time PMO'ing and messed up today. Needed to watch this!
Finally! A good piece of advice. Do hard mode with a "purpose". If done with a purpose it actually becomes easier!!
Semen retention really works thats why Shaolin monks have amazing strength, speed and endurance, also stay strong till very old age and live longer than average
When I go classic mode... by default... It's hard mode. Get it?
Day 28... I searched for a video because i needed some motivation and it helped me... thanks alot.
There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO)
The Rules of the group :
1. Only English Allowed
2. No Merch and Marketing
3. No PORN Related stuff
4. No Hate / Racism
5. No Religious + Political Views
6. No Grammar police
7. Chat and help out
8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes
『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』
type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support
type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed.
type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse
Let's help each other out in this battle.
chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej
Your skin is literally glowing here haha, awesome. Interesting video, you're easy to listen to 👍 got to like 10 days last week but I gotta say it's a tough time to be doing it! So much energy yet so little going on. Defo gonna push again for another streak.
Great video Brother! Thanks for explaining the difference between classic and hard mode.
Cheers man :)
Great Man! Thank You!, only one thing, one can still go and talk to girls and women and socialize without having anything to do with sex. One could actually get more free in this way in talking to the opposite sex or to the gender one prefers sexually. Of course, it will require even more will power, maybe 10 times more than even the hard mode, but it could be the next revelation. Conversation without any expectation of sexual gratification, it is also one of the concepts of Buddhism.
I am a woman on no pmo.By day 14 I was astral projecting,attracting so much not just male attention but people notice me more in general.I have so much energy.Always cleaning my room,i take cold showers,go to the gym..I feel like this strong solar plexus energy.Thank you.
Note: Also my voice has changed.Its more deeper like its projecting from my diaphragm.I find that peope pay attention to me when I talk and I don't have a shaky unsure voice.I am also less anxious which is strange as I was diagnosed with social anxiety.
Yes I think Not Orgasming or ejaculating is the Real Key.🙏
Your Voice Completly deeper...i like it.... Let move to take as a challenge
Am doing that only not even using social media i totally get you but that's the benifit of being a man we can pull it off and be a totally beast 🦁🐯
Hey Bro, I really really appreciate your honesty and transparency, its awesome, transmits a lot of trust to us and ill definitely come back to watch more of your content. Keep it up!
I'm on day 32 of NoFap. Day 6 of hard mode as I began my deployment 6 days ago and will be gone for 4 months maybe 6.. I can wait to see how I evolve further. My longest streak was 108 days a while back I felt phenomenal
Thank you for this video man , i'm going nofap hard mode from today 💪🏼
I truly loved this video man!!!! Good stuff keep at it
Great video man! Very insightful, just as a tip I reckon you should edit out the sections of you reading off of your phone so as to bump up the professionalism, all in all great work dude!
Great video talking on a very personal and honest level, thank you for sharing your experience and opinions on the take of No-Fap hard mode. I'm personally in a situation where I've broken up with my girlfriend due to moving far away but we are still "friends" who still talks and is being kind of sexually exclusive to each other. So as I dabble with the idea of No-Fap, hard mode kind of seemed like the only way for me. But as you've mentioned and I totally agree with you, I cannot do this forever and it'll only be a means for me to improve myself on a short term for my long term goals. I'll live my life as my own. You're an inspiration. Thank you David.
There's a WhatsApp group to Motivate people that are about to relapse.. Since we're united by a common cause Against a common enemy (PMO)
The Rules of the group :
1. Only English Allowed
2. No Merch and Marketing
3. No PORN Related stuff
4. No Hate / Racism
5. No Religious + Political Views
6. No Grammar police
7. Chat and help out
8. Stay Anonymous and Support with good vibes
『 IN CASE OF EMERGENCY 』
type HELP: If someone feels an urge and need support
type DOWN: If someone is feeling Depressed.
type MAYDAY: If someone is at the verge to Relapse
Let's help each other out in this battle.
chat.whatsapp.com/BDEDJvnHUxAGQ721TMFaej
Thank you brother🤘
At my 165 days of hard mode all the benefits was really insane..
I hook up on this challenge that i never imagine that i could in my entire life of PMO is when after my girlfriend broke my heart and it really broke me..
Well its a good thing it happened to me tho..🤣🤣
#hardmode... 💪🤟
Keep KILLING it man! Growth over everything fam
damn i am on day 105 well done man , gonna go for a year.
I don't know about classic mode. All I can jump straight into is hard mode. So hard mode it is.
I am doing super hard mode for a my goal. I can feel every single word you say. It felt really amazing that someone have the idea what I am feeling.
I belong to that .2% bro. Just keep on making videos like these and keep doing good work. Thanx ☮️❣️
I was in hard mode for 90 days
And I felt amazing and powerful All of you should experience it
Yep iam in hard mode.i wanna complete 90 days.and continue as normal mod.becouse its actually doesnt make sense forever
@@mrtvideo3158 this is absolutely depends on what are you seeking in your life
@@12360sha yes. It depends on your religion either.logically there is nothing wrong having sex.its natural behaviour
@@mrtvideo3158 for me it’s all about saving energy
Im don’t really care about religion
Cause this energy help me a lot in hard situations
I think the sexual energy is sacred
Its very the life force
And when you transcend it to art or just fully present in moment
You experience something from beyond
Have a good life 🙏🏻
I’m doing no fap so that I can get a life.
I’ve lived most of in isolation. Never had a girlfriend, didn’t have much friends. And the few friends that I did have, I lost. I have an estranged relationship with my family. I’m 200 pounds overweight. I’m 23 and look damn near 40. I’m socially inept because of isolation. And I have both mommy and daddy issues. Suicide creeps into my mind every single day. And it seems like the best option I have. I don’t know what direction to take with my life. So I’m willing to go all in with this. I have nothing to lose anyway.
Hey bro i hope your life has been Improved
Coincidentally, I have been inspired lately to try NoFap Hard Mode to learn how to go out into the world and socialize/connect without having any objective or end goal. I'm glad your video kind of disagrees with my hypothesis in a way. Would love to report back on what happens.
Nofap won't bring you happiness its a tool, be arrogant and you'll relapse
Tool for what
@@whyracoon459 a tool used for pursuing that which makes you happy!
@@tomkickass6807Thanks I needed that
I was that guy and I relapsed on 120 days
@@chief_islxm sometimes one relapse doesn't cancel out your streak, I've heard people say its more of a prorated thing. Like since you've hit 120 days, "relapsing" puts you back maybe a week, not the entire stretch. Unless that's how YOU view it and want to be ultra strict. But in reality, relapsing once every 120 days as opposed to every 3 or 4 days is still MUCH better progress in the scheme of things. But yeah dont let the success get to your head too much, or else relapsing may become a habit and then your back to where you started.
Day 500+ Semen Retention ( Hard Mode )
NO MORE BEING WEAK. NO MORE.❣🇮🇳☮
I don't think there is this con, You will never feel to lose that Vital force whic has been saved over periods of time. And more pleasure comes from that. I used to feel the same and once I relapsed and never in my life felt such guilty and shame. Now again on hard mode and never feeling lonely but ful of vigour and energy. People envy me and my girlfriend has become very close and we now live very happy not like old times.
Day 1: I’m hoping to make it through this hard mode pray for me fellas
I prayed. God luck ;)
the no fap philosophy has taken my brain by storm
I relate to this hard-core its exactly what I'm experiencing
Bro I just noticed this video and you got really relaxing music in background, it makes me watch the video all. You ever considered to put it bk in your new videos ?
this video just saved me from a relapse, thank you bro damn
Im 24 years old and im gonna start my journy , i wish you all the luck brothers 😁
The thing is you have to transmutate all of that energy elsewhere in some passionate way
Antoine Leblanc check my most recent vid. All on transmutation. ☺️
This video is very facts....
Glad you liked it! :)
I agree. All the best.
Man everything you said about the cons hit deep i thought it was just me, the pros far outweigh the cons tho. I feel like JOHN WICK!
the way you was holding that thicc cylindrical mic was sus
I love the that word sus
Real video man x
Great video. Love the points you make about the benefits and the honest analysis of the cons. Too many nofap vids present monk mode as the be all end all solution to all of your problems
Btw- unintentional ASMR!!
The moments of interacting with women on hard mode feel like fire even tho its non intimate, and i revel in it. As soon as she's out if sight, she's out of mind, and im somewhat of an enigma to her. I dont feel lonely or guilty about it actually feels liberating because im not obsessing about her. A woman can be a 10 but on hard mode im only attracted to women i vibe right with its empowering. Yea not being able to relate ti ppl, ive actually had dudes get mad at me for rejecting women, and they were not 10s. These are the guys who stop any convo to comentary on every old womans ass that walks by.
Day 19! Let's go!
Speaking of middle path - what about the middle path between hard mode and classic mode? Where sexual intimacy / relationship with a woman is incorporated but only without ejaculating.
Rowan Shearer sure! Whatever best suits you. In life I find nothing is black or white. Instead it’s all about who you are when you do what you are doing! If you want to ejaculate while having sex then go for it, if you don’t then go for it. Personally though I find it’s usually best in between. Like maybe only have sex 1-2x a week MAX opposed to doing it every day yknow :) hope this can help!
I respect your commitment might I suggest that you acquire a copy of the book “Cupid’s poisoned arrow” it’s all about sidestepping orgasm yet having intimacy and I think it will alleviate the negative side of hard mode for you
Day 93-Discipline is at an all time high. Face glow, metabolism is high, women try to catch glances at me💀 Life is bliss 🧘🏾♂️
Starting today April 28th/2020 wish me luck will update progress!
Good luck bro
Iam on day 50 hard mode, but I got over it using self inquiry, which is a meditation technique that persuades the energy instead of forcing it somewhere else. I will share how I did it on reddit and TH-cam.
I dont have a girlfrend, im in cuarentine. This is perfect for me yo try this thanks
I’m 21 years old going to be turning 22 by the end of this month I’m still a virgin don’t have a girl friend and I don’t date and talk to girls and I’m on my day 25 + on no fap and retaining my seed! . I take cold showers , I work out , drink a gallon of water , eat healthy and I’m focused on my purpose!
your on hardcore mode my guy.
Almost the same, in my 30's. MGTOW monk mode.
Amazing....going to start TODAY🦁🦁🦁🦁💟 thx
Didn't know about this 2 mode ....I've been doing the hard mode for 2 months .....and god it's hard ....But ain't gonna give up .
That's also make you move forward than other. Keep going.