Women Can Smell the Retention on You
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Yo , we NEED the : watches Andrew Tate once
@@Imagine_sisyphus_happy he did make it I think
@@thnxm8 thnx
Hey Captain. I think you'd find videos from the channel @Dry Creek Wrangler School super great, and would love for you to make a Watches Once for it. Thanks for all you do.
I will.
The mental clarity you gain from retention cannot be overstated. The boost in creativity and being sharper is definitely a benefit i can personally attest to
I definitely agree. When I think back to the times I’ve practiced retention, it is the mental clarity that has stood out most to me.
I also agree 100% 👊🏻 I'm on day 66
It's called imagination aka I.Q, it's not the falsehood of soncalled "creativity" which is a mouth-breather misnomer.
Mouth-breathers are stupid, that's why they conflate *"create"* aka *instantly manifest something from nothing,* with innovate, generate, render, produce, construct etc.
I don't know man, have you ever heard about the post nut syndrome? Those things are not well researched yet but I think that it's "only" raised adrenaline that provides what you mean by clarity and it can be present only if you practise this enough so you don't feel horny all the time. This can provide you more energy, however the adrenaline drops after 8 days of retention or so anyway and if there is any period when you feel horny (which probably is there unless you are a Buddhist monk), I can't see how you can remain clarity afterwards. Considering this, no fap even may lead to further worsening of problems like decent looking guys chasing uggly and mean girls since there will be so many horny #nofap males chasing literally any girl in their radar just to release it.
OK
No Fap + Cold showers + Being Active + Big Dreams = Limitless
+ meditation + reading
+ self-acceptance
+ No poe
+ Gratitude + God
That's god mode!!
video starts at ~4:22
1. more eye contact
2. creativity + courage 10:02
3. desire is the law of attraction in motion 13:48
4. you get luckier 17:17
Thank you sir!
Thanks
desire is a want never a need something alot of people fail to understand
hence why you here so many people come out with nonsense like you need sex no correction you want sex
luck does not come from semen retention. only Allah gives
Would eye contact even happen if you have autism 🤔
Semen retention gives you the following:
1. Eye contact
2. Creativity & courage
3. Desire is the law of attraction in motion
4. You get luckier & make better decisions
It's really quite simple - not jerking it means you respect yourself more, and that self respect shows.
thats true!
Semen retention has saved my life, no cap. The amount of energy, clarity, and self love I get from having control of my desire and energy is the most valuable thing I have found towards a better lived life.
I heard that 🏌🏽♀️
On God, my brother in Christ, ion even gonna lie, this nofap sheesh be bussin fr fr no cap
@@Leon.Stanic bigggg fax famo u already kno da vibez n sheeeeeeeeit nammmsayin homeslice
@@jimmyhooks dass riteee my boii shiiiieeet
My highest streak was 3 weeks now it’s hard to go further then a week
Semen retention gave me the confidence to create a business at 22 which ended up becoming a 6 figure business by the second year. I was on the streak for almost 300 days and am now going on another big streak to take my life to the next level in all aspects
Hello
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@@digitalvalidity9553lol
Which business is that?
@@oluwadamilolabello5430 resell high end furniture
The older we get the more we realize it’s more than just looks it’s about energy
When you’re on retention for more than a year, you stop thinking about women, because you’ve got a taste of the ultimate pleasure of life, the true inner peace and clarity of purpose. The fact that you don’t pay attention to women is what intrigues them and makes you seem “different”. This rarely makes a difference to me bcz I can see right through their intentions.
I can relate.
Bro woman are not evil. Nothing wronged with having somebody there for you when u feel vulnerable. Plenty of good woman out there
When I no-fap for long enough, I lose my sex drive entirely. I don’t even lust for women. I think there is more to this story.
I get strong pain after two weeks sadly
Exactly bro I've been on and off retention for a couple years not that I ever stopped doing it on purpose but when I had sex I would release on accident but now I finally figured it out I'm on 200 plus days have sex multiple times a week been with my girl for over 2 years and I didn't even watch porn until I was 15 so I was literally on a 15 year streak😂 I've always had more energy than my peers and just a lot of energy in general and I'm always positive definitely agree with this comment though
One way that I like to view retention is that it's practically Ultra Instinct. It's as if your mind and body automatically makes the best moves that it possibly can, in every aspect like body language, mindset, discipline - everything. Your desire sends your subconscious mind into overdrive and forces your body and mind to correct itself to keep you constantly evolving to reach your goals. You're constantly building up this 'power' until your baseline far surpasses the average person in every way.
This the one 💪🏽
Top comment ☝🏿
Gold comment 🏅
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
W parable
“It’s not just girls, children too” biggest pause of my life right there
😂
😂😂huh
My best few months of this year were due to retention. Focus, creativity, confidence and drive were through the roof. Granted, some things were still off due to a stressful studying lifestyle (phone use, sleep routine) but compared to the few months before, it was crazy how much positive energy I had.
Now, I've fallen back into a rut/slump and I've noticed all the negative effects. But seeing this video definitely has me trying to get back at it.
Why is it all about women? Why can't we just improve because we want to? Like, people who use women as their motivation and fuel don't realize how toxic this can be to your self esteem when you don't get women or get rejected.
When a woman rejects you, there can be thousands of other reasons that may have nothing to do with you. Stop basing your rejections on shit like "women can see your potential or retention". Just focus on the fundamentals, workout, eat good food, get your mental health right and do what you love.
Edit: I'm glad so many people resonate with this. The day you stop basing your psychological well being and your self worth on women's approval and become secure with being yourself and cultivate a healthy self esteem, is the day you find fulfillment WITHIN your own self without needing external factors.
Edit 2: people are missing the point here. I'm not saying don't pursue women. Sex is a primal need and just like other needs, It has a purpose. What I'm talking about is the relentless obsession to be doing it all JUST for women and basing all your self worth and well being on getting women
"If i get that girl, I'm worthy
Otherwise , I feel like a loser" mindset
Because men do everything for women. They become rich for women. They build a body for a women. This is just true.
Indeed
That is indeed a very good point.
The probable explanation is, that women make for a pretty DAMN good motivation. Moreover, there's something almost poetically ironic using women as motivation for no-fap
Well said.
I agree. A lot of get bitches get money mentality lately on TH-cam. I understand why it’s attractive and sells. We all want that pleasure. At what point are you satisfied with constantly chasing a material goal or attracting women? After I got married, I realized how shallow that mentality is for your self-esteem and how you value success. I noticed how miserable it is to try so hard at getting girls and money just to say you have it. I made myself follow a template that wasn’t my true self and people can see how fake and arrogant it seems. To each their own I suppose. Having that passion to do better is nice but using it on the wrong things is a dead end that’s difficult to see until you get it and you’re bored. If you’re only going to attract women through money, trying hard to alter your personality or status, you’re probably attracting the wrong women in your life who are just as insecure and will come and go anyways. If these practices bring you happiness and healthy, uplifting relationships then that’s awesome. Just be careful and don’t fall for the trap that this stuff is the key to success or happiness.
100% agree with the eye contact. If you workout or at least look healthy I guarantee this will happen to you too. Before I graduated I just stopped yanking it every night, about a month in I had actual 10's looking at me walking down the hallway.
That's cos of the stiffy you had in your pants walking down the hallway
@@Steve-ArfArf also true
@@Steve-ArfArf 😆🤣😂
@@Steve-ArfArf yo u didnt have to do it like that bruh😂...lift others up!
Nope. For you but not for me. I’m a fit and athletic guy. Always been like that. Idk about you and I’m not judging but I’m a short bald Asian man. I’m not even trying to be negative or anything but never get any looks from women. I get attention from men who likes my work outs. 🤷🏻♂️
I practice semen retention about 2-3 months at a time, sometimes longer depending on how I'm feeling and what I'm focusing on. The longest I've done it was about 6 months. I've realized that as humans, we need some type of companionship (especially as men), and it's healthy to get said companionship from time to time. But only when it's absolutely necessary imo. Overall, my gym workouts are better, much better mental clarity, anxiety is down, I'm more stoic than usual, meditation feels more involved and potent, creativity is off the chain. I urge all men to try out semen retention, go in monk mode.
You can still have a relationship and don’t nut, in fact that’s a spiritual practice
we don need companionship that a lie your minds telling you we are wholesum as we are we dont need completing by anyone
we are all we need you been brain washed by the system too look outside of your self when everything reside within
@@Westcoastrocksduh sounds boring asf
These are FACTS! I’m on day 34 and I’ve been seeing a massive change with how these women act. They can feel your energy. You just gained a subscriber my friend keep going! 💯
Is the point to masturbate and not cum or just don't masturbate at all?
This year I was on retention for 5+ months. All that time I was on a self improvement journey. It really helped me dial in my focus on my own growth. I didn’t pay attention to girls during this time because it was a selfish journey to improve myself. I’ve been dating now , but my streak is never more than a week now. Either way , I do agree with a lot of your points on creativity and desire. I just used that energy to recreate myself.
Bro do you get nightfall
@@Jogoat__555 it happens,but it shouldn't happen regularly,you gotta stop thinking about any sort of sexual stuff...Try to be busy with learning something,force yourself,when you can't keep up then go for a walk or sleep.
@The Quiver ok
What a show-off. My man wanted to tell everyone that he got laid one week ago.
Blocking your blessings killing yourself slowly draining your life force and basically bc u want to "date" good luck with that bro💯 the thing that's getting you them dates is the very thing that you're draining out of yourself been with my girl over 2 years and I be having sex multiple times a week usually and I'm still on 200 plus days some people just don't want it you're definitely one of them. It's all good though retention isn't for everybody.
Retention changed my life. It changed my perspective of the world, how I view it, how I give importance to things, and how I see girls. I used to have dirty thoughts most of the time, now I just see straight up human beings and that's awesome. Nowadays lust is a really common thing, don't let it drag you down, develop self control and win. Life is truly awesome, when we change our perspective :).
How long did it take for that mindset shift ?
@@El_Vicente1 it willl be gradual but it can be instant if you stay in high vibration
Amen ~~ ✔
@@El_Vicente1 so if you want to mindset shift then shift your mindset as simple as that it literally takes one second just be positive think positive do positive and you'll see how much more positive the world is they try to make the world seem like a bad place on the news and media but the world is actually a great place just keep looking for the positive in every and anything karma is real both good and bad
@@El_Vicente1 maybe you should go sit by a tree for a couple minutes or an hour and watch how much more positive you feel just look for the good and everything though you can change your mindset in less than 5 seconds everything is about mindset truly
Hey,I have been doing for 3 months and I agree, there is definitely a rebirth in everything! Feel more energized,sleep and wake up better, training is easier,more mental clarity etc but the looks you get from everyone at times is definitely a sign that the energy is up;
Insights, creativity as you mentioned.💪
And if you are spiritual inclined,it's easier to feel connected and get insight in your journey and life purpose. And more opportunities will come to you as you have more energy to do then 🚀⚡
I just wanted to say that this is absolutely true!
I'm an international student in the USA and I would relapse every few days, until I found this video. I'm now on 30+ days of retention and I've been invited to parties by girls, complimented by girls, especially American girls. This is an unreal state in life for me: thanks to you and Sadhguru only. Thank you!!
Do you think it is something to try for a month?
@@roshanvijay9915 its really not something you can try because those who are trying to retain are trying to retain long term. Short term retention is still so much better than losing your seed everyday. But if you really want to better yourself in every way youll want to practice it long term. Thats why we call it a relapse and not an end or pause or something else. Its a relapse and sometimes they’re needed to remotivate you.
@@hseeker what is a good short term period and long term period?
@@roshanvijay9915 it depends on how often you’re losing your semen if it’s everyday then short term success can be going even 2-3 days without it but if its once a week short term can be a month or two long term comes with practice and succeeding in the short term at least in my opinion and experience
@@hseeker Thanks for the insight
The only people who tell you nofap doesn't work are the ones who have never been on it, who have never felt the ecstasy of life on retention, the energy, the sharpness, and how everything just magically falls in place. Stay strong kings and know this path is going drive you to be best version of yourself.
Magically falls in place? You mean without much work?
@@gowtham6822 You find that drive to be the best version you can be. There's a strong sense of optimism in whatever task you undertake. The right things are drawn towards you and the right people enter your life. All these things happen almost effortlessly. It's beautiful.
@@navihydriex1871 thanks for the response. I am more than 10 days in.
@@gowtham6822 Keep it going strong. With every urge you resist, the more of this energy you'll be able to transcend. All the best!
Tried it a couple times and felt nothing different. It's not magic. It does nothing unless you also work on yourself. If you notice any difference when you do no fap stop deluding yourself - you can do the same with no fap or without it. It's just some psychological bs. You always have it in you. You don't need silly rituals and restrictions not rooted in science or common sense.
I’ve been practicing semen retention for over 8 months now. I have definitely noticed more confidence and discipline. It’s not a cure all, but one piece in the self improvement puzzle (a big piece). When you overcome an addiction, it creates strength and perseverance.
Thank you Nikhil for inspiring me to do this. I still watch your original videos to remind myself how important this is 🙏🏾
I'd love to debate someone on this, because it is not what it is made out to be. It depends solely on your relationship with sex and how you think of masturbation, yet it is praised so onesidedly in these comments. I've done it myself years ago and I've had the absolute opposite experiences, like loss of confidence, more acne, etc. The utter lack of any criticism is really bad for the growth of the self improvement community.
@@r4lfxd I know bro, there comes a phase of dullness probably after 90 days, but it faded away. 275 days of greatness
It actually is a cure it can cure depression anxiety it could cure you not having money it can cure a lot of things it's all a mindset when you say if it's a cure or not in my opinion it definitely is a cure and has made my life so much better I'm on day 200 plus feeling great making more money than ever and putting out more positivity than ever
@@ninjazay7245 Of no fapping or no ejaculation? Like are you allowed to have sex?
@@r4lfxd I find that interesting. I don't think there is anything wrong with releasing. Pornography addiction is the main thing. Sex with a woman, in a relationship would be the ideal situation. What other habits did you do when practicing?
All true points 💯💯 The point about a man being stronger around physically attractive women is something that i've come to realize. Especially when you have their attention it gives you this feeling like you can conquer anything in life.
When you started talking about "desire" it reminded of the time my friend sent me a screenshot of a woman speaking very highly about my ambition among her list of reasons she was wanted me. At that point in time I was in the approaching the best physical shape of my life and I was practicing retention (because it caused muscle imbalances that I noticed while working out and aesthetically).
These are the messages men need to hear. Positive affirmations, motivation, altruistic behaviors, discipline, compassion, emotional strength, and the elimination of base desires to pursue your dreams. All of it and all that you are doing is A+ work my friend. We need to stop this war on genders and begin to evoke our natural state by discovering our inner self.
Pursue all states of natural being and discard this unnatural society. You will find the path you walk will become filled with light.
Amen to that brother
This is a very thoughtful comment. Good stuff all around
Very good indeed. You speak the truth brother.
Spittin 🔥
the aura grows up from the sexual energy and flowers upwards and outwards. this makes a man magnetic and powerful and gives him good luck. we live inside of a taurus field, the world is literally made of energy. when u conserve your energy you become a powerful nexus point in the world.
Man you are so right on! The eye contact has increased tremendously . And the smile from woman and the head knod from men. I thought it was my imagination. However you have had similar experiences . I’m 57 and am learning things to make these last years more fulfilling than me prior years. I’ve subscribed to your channel. I’m sure I’ll see great benefits. Thank you my man!
Semen retention definetly changed my life. Everything you said is correct. That desire is felt by everyone and everything
Retention helps you feel more like yourself. It can be hard to get clean from masturbation and porn, but it"s worth it. I've only been 2 weeks clean from my last relapse, and I feel more into my own shoes already. quitting pro will help you get more focused on your goals. So set some intentions and quit! Stay strong guys.
First attempt at SR started about 8 months ago. Still on it. Feeling calm, helps with depression, more upbeat mood, less anxiety, more energy in gym and in general, gaining more lean mass, much better at social interactions. Females are paying attention too. Although, I haven’t been out much lately but when I do it’s definitely a different world there.❤
i was pretty happy and fine , but I remember doing this thing and not being interested in sex for a really long time (too many months) and at some point i got so depressed I went to kill myself. be careful you all, take things slowly and watch your steps
What was your goal? U ever ask yourself why you got depressed like what could you do to help your depression. Too many people give up so easy. It’s always a way.
You have gone a long way in your first attempt i tried it many but I am not been able to hold it for more than 60 or 70 days everytime my streak got break and I feel so bad, depressed,guilty how you have been able to do it so long...?
@@MayankYadavdivine The overall benefits outweigh to stop the streak.
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
it's true, my longest streak was 43 days, I'm currently on a 7 day streak and feeling pretty damn good, before Semen retention I was very insecure and weak now I'm strong as hell 💪
used to watch your videos a while back during some of my most transformative years and you helped me a lot fam 💪🏽 good to come back and see you pulling these numbers, all love brother
It works y'all... at least 3 weeks to a month my leg press went up from 230 to 270. Noticing these positives make you realize how important that energy is for you.
When you are on semen retention, anything that you say is very impactful. People listen you and create a sense of inevitable admiration and respect for you. As a human we can not get away from this sexsual energy, it will always be there but what matters is where you direct it.
So I assume you're a successfully elected politician talking like that.
One thing I notice about the impactfulness of speech is that most of the times, speaking less is powerful. Speak what is necessary and important and remain silent on most other times. When you speak less, the law of scarcity is such that every word is valuable in the conversation. So people associate your words with value, thus creating charisma.
@@darrenwang8879 how do you make friends if you’re mostly silent and only speak about important things? Don’t you get bored as well?
Body is interested in 2 main things.. Survival and Reproduction! As you may have noticed, once you start fasting, it goes into survival mode and starts feeding on stored fat to keep you alive, every organ that goes thru disease also goes thru automatic healing.. Medicines might speed up the process but it’s body’s own innate nature to heal itself ! Likewise, when you are not blowing your loads, body starts getting the signal that you haven’t mated and your dna will extinct so it starts some processes within to enhance you in a way to attract mating pattners! Most people who are denying this obviously haven’t reached to the level to be conscious of it! One who is always jerking is not only signalling that he is constantly mating but also falsely signalling his brain as if he has conquered or achieved something hence no drive or burning desire to do anything in life and is perpetually dissatisfied and depressed!
... an interesting thesis... But there is no scientific evidence that proves it. What if whst you think is your body "tightening you up" to be more attractive has nothing to do with witb your semen levels? What if this chsnge you experienced was your mind believing retention will make it possible by imagining it thus triggering the physical and psychological benefits you speak of? The comparison you use of the survival state the body goes into is not as straight forward as say fasting and the health benefits we gain from it. Also fasting has actual science backing it. It is proven and yet, not as mainstream as a form of self resetting oyr state of health. No fap retention nonsense feels like more false hope for a lot of young men frustrsted about ni GF. It is a stretch at best
Thank you for introducing this to me. I work in a 'feminised' industry, and 44 days after commencing SR, l no longer feel like a lesser being. In fact, my attitude to women has flipped completely. At 62, this has been a revelation. Being calm, strong and stoic is the best part.
My first long semen retention streak that was longer than a week I created my TH-cam channel and talk to a stranger for first time, that was the beginning of my new life, few months later I was clean from drugs, fews months after that I stop having suicidal thoughts, year after that I ended up in a relationship, didn't last because I wasn't in touch with my masculine side yet, I was still too feminine and emotional, I haven't had insanely long streaks, my longest streak was one month but still semen retention changed my life, I would probably be dead if it wasn't for semen retention, Captain Sinbad and AAHANA were my first NoFap TH-camrs, thank you both so much
They gonna have to take my life before they take my drive, because when I was barely living, that's what kept me alive - Kanye West
Similar story here man. Keep it going.
Aahana? Who/what is that?
@@gadohimself a TH-camr
@@Jashan720 you too
What happens for you at Day 10 or Day 30 is happening for me now in my 9th month of retention.
As a former masturbation addict, I can't thank you enough captain.
And to my brothers who are struggling right now: Have faith. It might not happen immediately but it will happen.
This is what has changed for me since 2021:
Hit 90KG bench, 110 KG squat, 105KG deadlift.
I am in a relationship for the first time in my life.
I am making almost twice the money than last year.
PS: Not trying to flex, just sharing my experience.
W
✌️🔥👍
Wwwwwww
This ain’t flexing g, good stuff.
Very great level up
As someone who got introduced to this channel with the “watches once” series, I still can’t believe that this is the quality of content you have 😆 And as someone who’s always stressed about not getting better, this is very helpful. Thanks cap! 🙌🏽
Before I watch this video I want to drop a comment you may not see.
I remember you posting vids on the Nofap(?) sub (I think), posting your progress etc. That was like 3 years ago.
You were clearly already a charismatic individual, but through sheer self-improvement and expression you have now manifested your life to a point where you post high-quality self-improvement content on your TH-cam channel for 541k subscribers 🤯
To say you are an inspiration is an understatement.
I may well get in touch for TH-cam coaching, but for now I’m just trying to follow my own retention journey and apply myself 100% to my work, relationship, friends, family, fitness, etc.
I want to enrich my life as you have. Then maybe I’ll have something to make TH-cam videos about 😉
Think I’m at about 3 weeks full SR now, with at least all of November to go!
I’m glad you went back to basics here. This stuff never gets old.
The contrast between being on no fap/ no PMO/ monk mode, is quite literally night and day. If I slip up and lose the restraint, within a few days I am irritable, arrogant, and isolated-conversely, after a few weeks on SR and I’m the most extraverted, witty, articulate, passionate, kind, helpful, charismatic etc…The challenge is to remember ! After a while I forget that the foundational root of that happiness is chastity- yep, old school chastity. There are many reasons why chastity is at the root of the great religious teachings. It is the source of Power and Love. Pray for men, and women, and the younger kids to learn and apply this truth. We can then create a genuine civilization of Love.
6:30. I’ve been going through the same thing. More of a change of mindset more than retention, and people are responding more positively to me. It’s weird, and amazing. It’s like strangers want my attention.
This video ! On point !
This video is pure gold. Thank you for you work, you really help people!)
Out of everything I have tried in the self improvement space as a young man, SR has given the most consistent results in terms of success, drive, and women. Over years and years it works every single time.
It’s baffling because there’s no other way to prove it other than trying for yourself and feeling the energy whipping through your body. It’s beyond materialism.
And it’s all yours for the taking, fellas.
The vibrations is unusual.
I think working out regularly, and consuming less media are also pretty high up there.
If semen retention brought you more women, how did you stay on semen retention? Have sex without ejaculating? Does this mean that once you ejaculate they will no longer be interested in you?
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
Loved the talk when you brought women into it. Many would just shy away or be afraid to admit how much women play a factor in our lives. Desire when done right can be one of the most powerful forces. Have desire but have a healthy and strong structure around your desire. And learn to let go of your desires, so when it comes back to you, you can use it to your best capability.
It’s nice to see this topic on your channel again. I used to watch the NF videos in 2018-2019 & I have been out of it mentally, lost, no desire, lazy, I’m getting back into it. Take Care
Its crazy that I can sense the desire over the screen. I stopped watching your videos a while back for some reason, it's good to see you back doing better.
My NO FAP begins today (again). I was consistent for about a month and a half and the desire was strong like you said. Within that month I went on 3 dates & one of those dates gave me the best night & morning. So it was well worth it, the confidence difference is pretty significant.
If she was the woman who was feminine enough to, in your state, break through the barrier, grab your soul, and gift you that confidence, why not see how far you two can go, together?
Are you winning son?
im starting again soon, this is the battle of my life
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
So true. In the summer of 2006 I was 45 yrs old. My wife was visiting her mother for a month. I decided not to touch anything, so to speak. Back then, I don't think the term "no fap" was widespread. For me, it was a decision to see if I could do it - an exercise in self-restraint. Anyway, after about 3 weeks I had to travel for my job. I was in the airport and was looking for a seat. Not even close, but from about 15 feet away a woman in her 30's locked her eyes onto mine. This never happened to me. I finally looked away. I thought about that moment often, and never understood what happened, and never made the connection until I was looking at a no fap video in 2020. That's when the light bulb went on. There's no way this was a coincidence. And it was the way she looked at me. I can't put it into words except to say, "it was different." I wish I had discovered no fap in my 20's. I've been successful in my life but I wonder what would have happened retaining as a teenager or in my 20's.
It's never too late
A girl looked at you one time bro. It's not that deep😂
@@blueshanks1 yeah he is making it seem crazy it's not like he walked up to her and asked her for her number and she gave it to him or anything like that she literally just locked eyes with him at the same time I've done that with females walked up to them and found out they had a boyfriend I literally just did that the other day actually sometimes I'm locking eyes with you might be them thinking you're cute or just being surprised by how much energy you have but it really doesn't mean she's necessarily attracted that's a choosing signal so you should walk up and approach when you see a girl staring at you bro is making it way deeper than what it seems he had one female stare at him and now he thinks she fell in love 🤣
Never too late .
What benefits have you got now from retention as an older guy
I fapped for the first time when I was 19, I always wondered y everyone fought to sit with me, why everyone was so nice to me, I had spots on my face which made me worst guy to date but still most beautiful girl used to come at my home!
This video is fire and I'm not even halfway through. Thanks for touching on the NOFAP content again. Glad to know that it is still benefitting you after all the progress you have made. Huzzah!
Man I’m so glad you spoke about the eye contact thing. I’ve been getting that soooo much and I felt like I couldn’t really share it with anyone cuz ppl would think I’m full of myself or something but it’s true. People don’t know what they’re sensing but they can still feel it
On which day of SR you noticed these attractions?
@@sarveshdhasal2936 can’t stay a specific amount of time really but definitely longer than 2 weeks. And it’s also your Mindset, self talk all that comes into play
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
@@HarmzConscious what’s your video titled?
@@isaacangelmeza th-cam.com/video/uWYPYKd1j0A/w-d-xo.html
Glad you're back on this subject, its how I found you initially and synchronises perfectly with my 30ish day streak (stopping counting days is a big step for anyone getting started)
I recently graduated in psychology and philosophy, I may have to chance my luck signing up.
Thanks Sinbad 🤘
Very well, Captain. Let's go.
Great content... Motivational... 💪🏾
You're the reason I started my semen retention journey last year, my life has changed, last year I went through a phase where I needed something to hold me mentally and emotionally, I didn't know the power was inside me. Thank you Nikhil
Usually with a title like this is it is a 19 year old vaguely black or indian guy explaining how “females will literally never say no once you’re on day 90 seed retention!”
But this actually makes alot of sense!
Got me in the first half, not going to lie.
I like the way you explained it man. Desire is the starting point of achievement. In the spiritual sense we should understand that no achievement can ‘complete’ us or make us happy (no outside circumstances or conditions should be the cause of our happiness) but we can find pleasure and happiness in setting and achieving goals for whatever means we desire. This is how I find happiness but also suffer from endless periods of emptiness and fustrations. That’s why Buddhist practice explains desire is the root of suffering. We can Create in the material world but are more like actors playing a role. ❤
Honestly this video is speaking straight facts! They literally flock to you, I remember when I was on day 25 of my last nofap, streak, thats when I fully became free from my body/mind controlling me and I controlled it! There was this pretty girl that I locked eyes on first & then couple minutes she came over to me. I think she was nervous though, she was macking but left before I can even say anything lmao. Point i'm saying, whoever you were fantasizing over in your phone, you'll start to get opportunites with them in real life! Aka the girls you always wanted to get! #Nofap
Hit 35 days today! your journey help me since last year
good to see you're also still grinding! lets go!!
Best self improvement channel out there. Audio, camera shots, outside references, personal experiences, really great stuff 👍
S R Chang my life for ever,
I’m in shock!!
Took me years and years, to figure out this really works
Amazing message brother 👏
We need more scientists like Carl Jung who were open to studying and considering esoteric, anecdotal things like this
@@pulse3554 Nothing new under the sun, eh? Just packaged differently. I also find it ironic that in order to communicate with language one needs duality at the minimum. No hot without cold, no light without dark. Even monism or non-duality is to be related to something opposite or unlike it. Otherwise, all is one, and that is infinity... something our mind cannot quite grasp, as well as nothing. 1 as all and 0 as nothing. In between... is our reality. Or at least our physical constraints in THIS reality.
@@pulse3554 I'd say monism can be experienced. In fact, we are experiencing it right now from a certain perspective. But to understand it, I mean, wouldn't one have to be away from it? To completely see a room one has to be outside the room. If they are inside of it, experiencing it, and "one with the room" they are unable to see themselves and some parts of the room (unless there is a crazy mirror setup 🤔.)
Because otherwise it seems like you are talking about ultimate reductionism to void. Which is, as Jung was mentioned, the prime interest of the introverted thinking cognitive function. Search for "ultimate truth" which is almost like reducing the "space" between duality to nothingness and thus creation of one.
This brings me back to Hermetic Principles though. (I am sure many other works echo similar ideas in alternate ways.)
@@pulse3554 Yes. Nonduality is The Way of human liberation/Truth
I remember, this channel was one of the first channels that prophesied retention back in the day... 2017, 2018 if I remember correctly. Inspired me a lot over the years. Best part about you is you don't have a filter, I've seen you on your different phases but you have always shown that here instead of putting a show face. I like this new alignment of the channel towards physical fitness too..
Thanks Captain, I'll think about it.
Thanks man!
Passion + Patience! You are the man sir let's goooooo
It’s so amazing and crazy to see how far you’ve come. I remember when you had literally no subscribers and I was like who’s this guy popping up on my feed. 👏🏽 👏🏽 good shit man!!!
I 200% agree with each thing u said!
Greatness is coming.💯
Hit My 1st Complete Year this month ! Keep Going Bros 💪🏾💪🏾
Great video. I can vouch for this, took the whole of 2021 to go on retention but failed here and there. What I realized is that when I am on retention for more than a week, I feel more bold. The boldness got me to where I am today(in life) and it is easy to talk to women. STAY ON THE PATH OF RETENTION GUYS
Thanks man I'm shaking while talking to women I must do something about it I'm addicted to it like 2times a days for 17 years.thank to r your massge.
@@akilashavinda7337 it can be hard but the things i do to help is pick up a project or a new hobby. As cliche as it sounds, if you find something that you are interested in which is new, you'll keep your mind busy. Also staying up late will 100% get you back into that circle. In addition, reduce social media consumption. Don't just cut it but reduce it because that's another gate of temptations to ruin your retention.
Thanks, homie. Needed this.
Dude your videos have definitely gotten better in the past few months for sure. I have been subbed to your channel for a long time but never usually watched your videos that much. These days i dont miss a single upload because i know you're speaking more stuff of value now. Kudos man keep retaining
Such a well articulated video. 👍🏻
Good luck in your marathon!
I used to hate your videos, and now I know why.
Well you are much better now nice job! This one was really inspiring
SR is a great practice , it has helped me reclaim my masculinity and in fact improved my marriage relationship. Allows more mental discipline .
"We are back here man", yes brother life is full of Circles. Where it started, the context came back to that point and we love your videos ❤️❤️
I’ve been struggling with the concept of desire. This video hasn’t cemented the idea, but it’s kindled a flame.
Now it’s time to give that flame more fuel.
Thanks man.
Happy New Year to you and everyone worldwide. This day I start my SR💯
Good to see your still getting brother
Miss your vids like this. They're a great reminder for me to stay on track. And like you said, even if NOFAP is a mainstream meme thing now, it's real and powerful. Really happy and excited your channel is doing so great, especially this year I've seen it becoming something else, feels different (in a good way). Wish you even more success bro.
Thank you, Captain, and congratulations! Fight the good fight, strive for our best and to hell with those things like porn that emasculates our masculine energy.
Watching this is keeping me motivated!
You are spot on .)
God Bless
hey man, I am very thankful that you are still being honest and helpful with us even after so many years. Almost all self improvement youtubers I (used to) watch (excluding you) have focused on
- repating the exact same content
- the "hype" instead of value
Thanks for that. I am benefiting from your educational content and it's translating into my real life ( been learning from you for around a year and a half)
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
I would like to add on this topic that semen retention solely wouldn't end your much problems, making use of that energy(by exercises or work) is what that'll maintain your interest on semen retention. Otherwise you'll just find less to no benifits that'll motivate you to continue it. When I was on semen retention but wasn't doing much work or exercises, I felt lonely and stressed out that had lead me to many nofap failures.
Awesome video man! Gave me a few ideas of how to change my daily routine and pursue my goal with increased vigor and drive. Thank you very much 🙏🏼
Thank you for the information brother and you presented it well.
He is spot on with disinterest in desires being depression. Never heard it before, but is definitely true.
I had fallen of self improvement a bit and this video has really helped me I’m on a streak and I’ll really use this as a base for everything else
Thank your for bringing this topic to our attention.
I wonder if they can smell if someone is full of shit.
My path with retention is less about women and more about being spiritually anchored. I can't explain it, but there is a certain way the world feels when you're on retention. Your senses are more dialed in, and you feel like you can walk on water. Maybe it's a placebo effect but it works for me.
Feels like our wilderness is suppressed by this modern world.
No placebo. It's your substance being held in. Like completely healthy. Semen is like blood .it's life force.
Same here lad, I can't do it for women , purpose of semen retention dies down
Off topic, but I did my first fully dead-hanging wide grip pull-up today 💪
Keep smashing it bro💯
lets gooo
@@LTLXIV king
Well done bro 👍 keep it up
Nice. GJ man. Not there yet myself but working towards it
Eye contact thing is real man i felt it..
Your vids on nofap helped me out back when I started my current streak. I'm at 5 1/2 years now and just hitting my stride :)
Haven’t watched the video yet but I would argue it isn’t “retention” but sexual drive and self-image. As someone in a long term relationship who has practiced nofap in the past, having sex doesn’t impact my interaction with women. The real reason I believe is Masturbation makes you feel guilt/worse, which you subconsciously take into your interactions with others. When you masturbate you also take your sexual urge away, killing your sex drive. When you approach a woman with confidence and intent, that’s what they can sense. Women feel that sexual intent and respond with it.
wow thanks so much for saying this, this is exactly what i was thinking too. i really understand what you mean about the guilt from masturbating, its different when its sex because that has a greater connection. recently ive been fapping but not ejaculating, i think thats also fine but only for a while, then you have to stop again.
It just makes me very angry and confrontational though like I just need to bust with all my might or imma beat somebodys ass
Thats correct guilt is gone when we don't shake the meat but what about the energy you feel ?? Definitely something to do with the body chemistry
@@preetjotsingh3688 to clarify, you mean the energy as in your energy levels (how much you can get done in a day)?
@@lemonstrangler something id be curious to hear is the perspective of someone that has regular sex outside of a long term relationship. Sex is highly entangled with our emotions and self-image and I wonder how it impacts a man in this regard.