Hey Captain. I think you'd find videos from the channel @Dry Creek Wrangler School super great, and would love for you to make a Watches Once for it. Thanks for all you do.
The mental clarity you gain from retention cannot be overstated. The boost in creativity and being sharper is definitely a benefit i can personally attest to
It's called imagination aka I.Q, it's not the falsehood of soncalled "creativity" which is a mouth-breather misnomer. Mouth-breathers are stupid, that's why they conflate *"create"* aka *instantly manifest something from nothing,* with innovate, generate, render, produce, construct etc.
I don't know man, have you ever heard about the post nut syndrome? Those things are not well researched yet but I think that it's "only" raised adrenaline that provides what you mean by clarity and it can be present only if you practise this enough so you don't feel horny all the time. This can provide you more energy, however the adrenaline drops after 8 days of retention or so anyway and if there is any period when you feel horny (which probably is there unless you are a Buddhist monk), I can't see how you can remain clarity afterwards. Considering this, no fap even may lead to further worsening of problems like decent looking guys chasing uggly and mean girls since there will be so many horny #nofap males chasing literally any girl in their radar just to release it.
desire is a want never a need something alot of people fail to understand hence why you here so many people come out with nonsense like you need sex no correction you want sex
Semen retention has saved my life, no cap. The amount of energy, clarity, and self love I get from having control of my desire and energy is the most valuable thing I have found towards a better lived life.
@@negueitchons5991 It's the most degenerate behaviour there is. Stop trying to NOT make it a shameful thing. It is. Stop playing the victim or convince people your terrible destructive habits are good. Nobody cares.
What I’ve found with practicing semen retention and not watching corn. 1) I can hold eye contact with anyone and that’s powerful 2) MENTAL CLARITY. I’m sharp and can respond with precise answers quickly 3) fearlessness. I embrace trying new things and working towards something.I love the challenge 4) women aren’t on a pedestal. I started holding convos with anyone even the 10/10s with ease, and they aren’t on the forefront of my mind. Started getting more looks and flirting thrown my way 5) fitness energy. I always loved to workout but my physique got 10 times better with semen retention, I had more energy, could feel every rep more intensely, and my body responded to dieting more effectively. I am in great shape and feel amazing. Fellas, conquer lust and everything after will fall into place. I promise! Just take the first step
It's weird. Sometimes I'll go just a few days and feel amazing (then fap and it goes away). But other times I could go weeks and I just feel worse. Makes me think it's all bullshit, but the fact that I feel bad again after I fap tells me something
@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd Weeks without busting and feeling like shit? I heard that's part of the process, they're withdrawal symptoms that should go away with minimal time
Semen retention gave me the confidence to create a business at 22 which ended up becoming a 6 figure business by the second year. I was on the streak for almost 300 days and am now going on another big streak to take my life to the next level in all aspects
Semen retention gives you the following: 1. Eye contact 2. Creativity & courage 3. Desire is the law of attraction in motion 4. You get luckier & make better decisions
I don't think it would give me any of those things since i was extremely socially awkward way before I even discovered masturbation, nonetheless, I still want to stop masturbating because it goes against my morals. Please someone tell me how can I overcome this evil.
@@Dah42 Bro, dont allow anyobe, any social construct, any 'moral authority', or institution, or the self righteous types that hide in them make you feel you are evil for jerking off... Thats just goddammed ridiculous. If you are Christian you were conveniently born into the burden of sin.. And the modern world: with your carbon footprint, and your need for animal protein, hell the fact that yoy breathe air is reason enough to place guilt on you. Heres what I think might work if you want to stop the jerk. Imagine, you are being judged by people you respect for your ability to control your lower animalistic-brain...the part of you that is prompted by base desire - - you control it.
These are FACTS! I’m on day 34 and I’ve been seeing a massive change with how these women act. They can feel your energy. You just gained a subscriber my friend keep going! 💯
Retention changed my life. It changed my perspective of the world, how I view it, how I give importance to things, and how I see girls. I used to have dirty thoughts most of the time, now I just see straight up human beings and that's awesome. Nowadays lust is a really common thing, don't let it drag you down, develop self control and win. Life is truly awesome, when we change our perspective :).
@@El_Vicente1 so if you want to mindset shift then shift your mindset as simple as that it literally takes one second just be positive think positive do positive and you'll see how much more positive the world is they try to make the world seem like a bad place on the news and media but the world is actually a great place just keep looking for the positive in every and anything karma is real both good and bad
@@El_Vicente1 maybe you should go sit by a tree for a couple minutes or an hour and watch how much more positive you feel just look for the good and everything though you can change your mindset in less than 5 seconds everything is about mindset truly
When you’re on retention for more than a year, you stop thinking about women, because you’ve got a taste of the ultimate pleasure of life, the true inner peace and clarity of purpose. The fact that you don’t pay attention to women is what intrigues them and makes you seem “different”. This rarely makes a difference to me bcz I can see right through their intentions.
Exactly bro I've been on and off retention for a couple years not that I ever stopped doing it on purpose but when I had sex I would release on accident but now I finally figured it out I'm on 200 plus days have sex multiple times a week been with my girl for over 2 years and I didn't even watch porn until I was 15 so I was literally on a 15 year streak😂 I've always had more energy than my peers and just a lot of energy in general and I'm always positive definitely agree with this comment though
These are the messages men need to hear. Positive affirmations, motivation, altruistic behaviors, discipline, compassion, emotional strength, and the elimination of base desires to pursue your dreams. All of it and all that you are doing is A+ work my friend. We need to stop this war on genders and begin to evoke our natural state by discovering our inner self. Pursue all states of natural being and discard this unnatural society. You will find the path you walk will become filled with light.
One way that I like to view retention is that it's practically Ultra Instinct. It's as if your mind and body automatically makes the best moves that it possibly can, in every aspect like body language, mindset, discipline - everything. Your desire sends your subconscious mind into overdrive and forces your body and mind to correct itself to keep you constantly evolving to reach your goals. You're constantly building up this 'power' until your baseline far surpasses the average person in every way.
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
Thank you for introducing this to me. I work in a 'feminised' industry, and 44 days after commencing SR, l no longer feel like a lesser being. In fact, my attitude to women has flipped completely. At 62, this has been a revelation. Being calm, strong and stoic is the best part.
The only people who tell you nofap doesn't work are the ones who have never been on it, who have never felt the ecstasy of life on retention, the energy, the sharpness, and how everything just magically falls in place. Stay strong kings and know this path is going drive you to be best version of yourself.
@@gowtham6822 You find that drive to be the best version you can be. There's a strong sense of optimism in whatever task you undertake. The right things are drawn towards you and the right people enter your life. All these things happen almost effortlessly. It's beautiful.
Tried it a couple times and felt nothing different. It's not magic. It does nothing unless you also work on yourself. If you notice any difference when you do no fap stop deluding yourself - you can do the same with no fap or without it. It's just some psychological bs. You always have it in you. You don't need silly rituals and restrictions not rooted in science or common sense.
Why is it all about women? Why can't we just improve because we want to? Like, people who use women as their motivation and fuel don't realize how toxic this can be to your self esteem when you don't get women or get rejected. When a woman rejects you, there can be thousands of other reasons that may have nothing to do with you. Stop basing your rejections on shit like "women can see your potential or retention". Just focus on the fundamentals, workout, eat good food, get your mental health right and do what you love. Edit: I'm glad so many people resonate with this. The day you stop basing your psychological well being and your self worth on women's approval and become secure with being yourself and cultivate a healthy self esteem, is the day you find fulfillment WITHIN your own self without needing external factors. Edit 2: people are missing the point here. I'm not saying don't pursue women. Sex is a primal need and just like other needs, It has a purpose. What I'm talking about is the relentless obsession to be doing it all JUST for women and basing all your self worth and well being on getting women "If i get that girl, I'm worthy Otherwise , I feel like a loser" mindset
That is indeed a very good point. The probable explanation is, that women make for a pretty DAMN good motivation. Moreover, there's something almost poetically ironic using women as motivation for no-fap
I agree. A lot of get bitches get money mentality lately on TH-cam. I understand why it’s attractive and sells. We all want that pleasure. At what point are you satisfied with constantly chasing a material goal or attracting women? After I got married, I realized how shallow that mentality is for your self-esteem and how you value success. I noticed how miserable it is to try so hard at getting girls and money just to say you have it. I made myself follow a template that wasn’t my true self and people can see how fake and arrogant it seems. To each their own I suppose. Having that passion to do better is nice but using it on the wrong things is a dead end that’s difficult to see until you get it and you’re bored. If you’re only going to attract women through money, trying hard to alter your personality or status, you’re probably attracting the wrong women in your life who are just as insecure and will come and go anyways. If these practices bring you happiness and healthy, uplifting relationships then that’s awesome. Just be careful and don’t fall for the trap that this stuff is the key to success or happiness.
Man you are so right on! The eye contact has increased tremendously . And the smile from woman and the head knod from men. I thought it was my imagination. However you have had similar experiences . I’m 57 and am learning things to make these last years more fulfilling than me prior years. I’ve subscribed to your channel. I’m sure I’ll see great benefits. Thank you my man!
This year I was on retention for 5+ months. All that time I was on a self improvement journey. It really helped me dial in my focus on my own growth. I didn’t pay attention to girls during this time because it was a selfish journey to improve myself. I’ve been dating now , but my streak is never more than a week now. Either way , I do agree with a lot of your points on creativity and desire. I just used that energy to recreate myself.
@@Edited__user__5 it happens,but it shouldn't happen regularly,you gotta stop thinking about any sort of sexual stuff...Try to be busy with learning something,force yourself,when you can't keep up then go for a walk or sleep.
Blocking your blessings killing yourself slowly draining your life force and basically bc u want to "date" good luck with that bro💯 the thing that's getting you them dates is the very thing that you're draining out of yourself been with my girl over 2 years and I be having sex multiple times a week usually and I'm still on 200 plus days some people just don't want it you're definitely one of them. It's all good though retention isn't for everybody.
When you are on semen retention, anything that you say is very impactful. People listen you and create a sense of inevitable admiration and respect for you. As a human we can not get away from this sexsual energy, it will always be there but what matters is where you direct it.
One thing I notice about the impactfulness of speech is that most of the times, speaking less is powerful. Speak what is necessary and important and remain silent on most other times. When you speak less, the law of scarcity is such that every word is valuable in the conversation. So people associate your words with value, thus creating charisma.
I’m glad you went back to basics here. This stuff never gets old. The contrast between being on no fap/ no PMO/ monk mode, is quite literally night and day. If I slip up and lose the restraint, within a few days I am irritable, arrogant, and isolated-conversely, after a few weeks on SR and I’m the most extraverted, witty, articulate, passionate, kind, helpful, charismatic etc…The challenge is to remember ! After a while I forget that the foundational root of that happiness is chastity- yep, old school chastity. There are many reasons why chastity is at the root of the great religious teachings. It is the source of Power and Love. Pray for men, and women, and the younger kids to learn and apply this truth. We can then create a genuine civilization of Love.
You're the reason I started my semen retention journey last year, my life has changed, last year I went through a phase where I needed something to hold me mentally and emotionally, I didn't know the power was inside me. Thank you Nikhil
So you're you're saying 98% of men who don't retain are perverts. That's a pretty big assumption 😂😂. You're not that special. It's normal for a man who has never bothered with watching corn or lusting after plastic women to live this way. You are using it get out of that sort of lifestyle and that's great.
100% agree with the eye contact. If you workout or at least look healthy I guarantee this will happen to you too. Before I graduated I just stopped yanking it every night, about a month in I had actual 10's looking at me walking down the hallway.
Nope. For you but not for me. I’m a fit and athletic guy. Always been like that. Idk about you and I’m not judging but I’m a short bald Asian man. I’m not even trying to be negative or anything but never get any looks from women. I get attention from men who likes my work outs. 🤷🏻♂️
Loved the talk when you brought women into it. Many would just shy away or be afraid to admit how much women play a factor in our lives. Desire when done right can be one of the most powerful forces. Have desire but have a healthy and strong structure around your desire. And learn to let go of your desires, so when it comes back to you, you can use it to your best capability.
Kings don’t waste your life force. Stay busy. If you relapse start again. This journey is a marathon not a sprint and it gets easier. Keep going Kings👑
It works y'all... at least 3 weeks to a month my leg press went up from 230 to 270. Noticing these positives make you realize how important that energy is for you.
I’ve been practicing semen retention for over 8 months now. I have definitely noticed more confidence and discipline. It’s not a cure all, but one piece in the self improvement puzzle (a big piece). When you overcome an addiction, it creates strength and perseverance. Thank you Nikhil for inspiring me to do this. I still watch your original videos to remind myself how important this is 🙏🏾
I'd love to debate someone on this, because it is not what it is made out to be. It depends solely on your relationship with sex and how you think of masturbation, yet it is praised so onesidedly in these comments. I've done it myself years ago and I've had the absolute opposite experiences, like loss of confidence, more acne, etc. The utter lack of any criticism is really bad for the growth of the self improvement community.
It actually is a cure it can cure depression anxiety it could cure you not having money it can cure a lot of things it's all a mindset when you say if it's a cure or not in my opinion it definitely is a cure and has made my life so much better I'm on day 200 plus feeling great making more money than ever and putting out more positivity than ever
@@r4lfxd I find that interesting. I don't think there is anything wrong with releasing. Pornography addiction is the main thing. Sex with a woman, in a relationship would be the ideal situation. What other habits did you do when practicing?
I just wanted to say that this is absolutely true! I'm an international student in the USA and I would relapse every few days, until I found this video. I'm now on 30+ days of retention and I've been invited to parties by girls, complimented by girls, especially American girls. This is an unreal state in life for me: thanks to you and Sadhguru only. Thank you!!
@@roshanvijay9915 its really not something you can try because those who are trying to retain are trying to retain long term. Short term retention is still so much better than losing your seed everyday. But if you really want to better yourself in every way youll want to practice it long term. Thats why we call it a relapse and not an end or pause or something else. Its a relapse and sometimes they’re needed to remotivate you.
@@roshanvijay9915 it depends on how often you’re losing your semen if it’s everyday then short term success can be going even 2-3 days without it but if its once a week short term can be a month or two long term comes with practice and succeeding in the short term at least in my opinion and experience
Out of everything I have tried in the self improvement space as a young man, SR has given the most consistent results in terms of success, drive, and women. Over years and years it works every single time. It’s baffling because there’s no other way to prove it other than trying for yourself and feeling the energy whipping through your body. It’s beyond materialism. And it’s all yours for the taking, fellas.
If semen retention brought you more women, how did you stay on semen retention? Have sex without ejaculating? Does this mean that once you ejaculate they will no longer be interested in you?
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
6:30. I’ve been going through the same thing. More of a change of mindset more than retention, and people are responding more positively to me. It’s weird, and amazing. It’s like strangers want my attention.
Hey,I have been doing for 3 months and I agree, there is definitely a rebirth in everything! Feel more energized,sleep and wake up better, training is easier,more mental clarity etc but the looks you get from everyone at times is definitely a sign that the energy is up; Insights, creativity as you mentioned.💪 And if you are spiritual inclined,it's easier to feel connected and get insight in your journey and life purpose. And more opportunities will come to you as you have more energy to do then 🚀⚡
Man I’m so glad you spoke about the eye contact thing. I’ve been getting that soooo much and I felt like I couldn’t really share it with anyone cuz ppl would think I’m full of myself or something but it’s true. People don’t know what they’re sensing but they can still feel it
@@sarveshdhasal2936 can’t stay a specific amount of time really but definitely longer than 2 weeks. And it’s also your Mindset, self talk all that comes into play
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
Great video. I can vouch for this, took the whole of 2021 to go on retention but failed here and there. What I realized is that when I am on retention for more than a week, I feel more bold. The boldness got me to where I am today(in life) and it is easy to talk to women. STAY ON THE PATH OF RETENTION GUYS
@@akilashavinda7337 it can be hard but the things i do to help is pick up a project or a new hobby. As cliche as it sounds, if you find something that you are interested in which is new, you'll keep your mind busy. Also staying up late will 100% get you back into that circle. In addition, reduce social media consumption. Don't just cut it but reduce it because that's another gate of temptations to ruin your retention.
I practice semen retention about 2-3 months at a time, sometimes longer depending on how I'm feeling and what I'm focusing on. The longest I've done it was about 6 months. I've realized that as humans, we need some type of companionship (especially as men), and it's healthy to get said companionship from time to time. But only when it's absolutely necessary imo. Overall, my gym workouts are better, much better mental clarity, anxiety is down, I'm more stoic than usual, meditation feels more involved and potent, creativity is off the chain. I urge all men to try out semen retention, go in monk mode.
we don need companionship that a lie your minds telling you we are wholesum as we are we dont need completing by anyone we are all we need you been brain washed by the system too look outside of your self when everything reside within
My best few months of this year were due to retention. Focus, creativity, confidence and drive were through the roof. Granted, some things were still off due to a stressful studying lifestyle (phone use, sleep routine) but compared to the few months before, it was crazy how much positive energy I had. Now, I've fallen back into a rut/slump and I've noticed all the negative effects. But seeing this video definitely has me trying to get back at it.
First attempt at SR started about 8 months ago. Still on it. Feeling calm, helps with depression, more upbeat mood, less anxiety, more energy in gym and in general, gaining more lean mass, much better at social interactions. Females are paying attention too. Although, I haven’t been out much lately but when I do it’s definitely a different world there.❤
i was pretty happy and fine , but I remember doing this thing and not being interested in sex for a really long time (too many months) and at some point i got so depressed I went to kill myself. be careful you all, take things slowly and watch your steps
You have gone a long way in your first attempt i tried it many but I am not been able to hold it for more than 60 or 70 days everytime my streak got break and I feel so bad, depressed,guilty how you have been able to do it so long...?
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
Retention helps you feel more like yourself. It can be hard to get clean from masturbation and porn, but it"s worth it. I've only been 2 weeks clean from my last relapse, and I feel more into my own shoes already. quitting pro will help you get more focused on your goals. So set some intentions and quit! Stay strong guys.
My first long semen retention streak that was longer than a week I created my TH-cam channel and talk to a stranger for first time, that was the beginning of my new life, few months later I was clean from drugs, fews months after that I stop having suicidal thoughts, year after that I ended up in a relationship, didn't last because I wasn't in touch with my masculine side yet, I was still too feminine and emotional, I haven't had insanely long streaks, my longest streak was one month but still semen retention changed my life, I would probably be dead if it wasn't for semen retention, Captain Sinbad and AAHANA were my first NoFap TH-camrs, thank you both so much
When you started talking about "desire" it reminded of the time my friend sent me a screenshot of a woman speaking very highly about my ambition among her list of reasons she was wanted me. At that point in time I was in the approaching the best physical shape of my life and I was practicing retention (because it caused muscle imbalances that I noticed while working out and aesthetically).
I remember, this channel was one of the first channels that prophesied retention back in the day... 2017, 2018 if I remember correctly. Inspired me a lot over the years. Best part about you is you don't have a filter, I've seen you on your different phases but you have always shown that here instead of putting a show face. I like this new alignment of the channel towards physical fitness too..
All true points 💯💯 The point about a man being stronger around physically attractive women is something that i've come to realize. Especially when you have their attention it gives you this feeling like you can conquer anything in life.
You absolutely do feel so much better ,I'm 3 months in and feel like a different person altogether my "aura" has changed drastically everyone around me has noticed it I'm getting more compliments from everyone,I'm feeling more confident about myself it's just so much better
My path with retention is less about women and more about being spiritually anchored. I can't explain it, but there is a certain way the world feels when you're on retention. Your senses are more dialed in, and you feel like you can walk on water. Maybe it's a placebo effect but it works for me.
Every man/boy needs to be on semen retention!! I was addicted to watching p**n and it was messing with every part of my life! Thankfully God and being on this journey of retention has helped me especially this year!!
What happens for you at Day 10 or Day 30 is happening for me now in my 9th month of retention. As a former masturbation addict, I can't thank you enough captain. And to my brothers who are struggling right now: Have faith. It might not happen immediately but it will happen. This is what has changed for me since 2021: Hit 90KG bench, 110 KG squat, 105KG deadlift. I am in a relationship for the first time in my life. I am making almost twice the money than last year. PS: Not trying to flex, just sharing my experience.
Glad you're back on this subject, its how I found you initially and synchronises perfectly with my 30ish day streak (stopping counting days is a big step for anyone getting started) I recently graduated in psychology and philosophy, I may have to chance my luck signing up. Thanks Sinbad 🤘
So true. In the summer of 2006 I was 45 yrs old. My wife was visiting her mother for a month. I decided not to touch anything, so to speak. Back then, I don't think the term "no fap" was widespread. For me, it was a decision to see if I could do it - an exercise in self-restraint. Anyway, after about 3 weeks I had to travel for my job. I was in the airport and was looking for a seat. Not even close, but from about 15 feet away a woman in her 30's locked her eyes onto mine. This never happened to me. I finally looked away. I thought about that moment often, and never understood what happened, and never made the connection until I was looking at a no fap video in 2020. That's when the light bulb went on. There's no way this was a coincidence. And it was the way she looked at me. I can't put it into words except to say, "it was different." I wish I had discovered no fap in my 20's. I've been successful in my life but I wonder what would have happened retaining as a teenager or in my 20's.
@@blueshanks1 yeah he is making it seem crazy it's not like he walked up to her and asked her for her number and she gave it to him or anything like that she literally just locked eyes with him at the same time I've done that with females walked up to them and found out they had a boyfriend I literally just did that the other day actually sometimes I'm locking eyes with you might be them thinking you're cute or just being surprised by how much energy you have but it really doesn't mean she's necessarily attracted that's a choosing signal so you should walk up and approach when you see a girl staring at you bro is making it way deeper than what it seems he had one female stare at him and now he thinks she fell in love 🤣
I fapped for the first time when I was 19, I always wondered y everyone fought to sit with me, why everyone was so nice to me, I had spots on my face which made me worst guy to date but still most beautiful girl used to come at my home!
I would like to add on this topic that semen retention solely wouldn't end your much problems, making use of that energy(by exercises or work) is what that'll maintain your interest on semen retention. Otherwise you'll just find less to no benifits that'll motivate you to continue it. When I was on semen retention but wasn't doing much work or exercises, I felt lonely and stressed out that had lead me to many nofap failures.
@@abhisheklama1393 Wtf? Why are you so offended and aggressive? You are what you speak, so in that regard, I think your comment perfectly reflects the absolute nutter and insecure fool that you are. OP's comment was only supposed to be humorous and mildly philosophical. Please get a grip, and like Michael says "Stop it, get some help".
the aura grows up from the sexual energy and flowers upwards and outwards. this makes a man magnetic and powerful and gives him good luck. we live inside of a taurus field, the world is literally made of energy. when u conserve your energy you become a powerful nexus point in the world.
it's true, my longest streak was 43 days, I'm currently on a 7 day streak and feeling pretty damn good, before Semen retention I was very insecure and weak now I'm strong as hell 💪
Im about a month in SR and i feel so much better. I used to be so depressed. I couldn’t even talk to anyone without feeling guilt. Women could sense i did dirty stuff behind closed doors. When u ratain its like a beast thats awakens inside of you to go after life. To make love to life. Women love that. That drive that ambition. I feel so so much better. It makes me feel almost invincible.
My NO FAP begins today (again). I was consistent for about a month and a half and the desire was strong like you said. Within that month I went on 3 dates & one of those dates gave me the best night & morning. So it was well worth it, the confidence difference is pretty significant.
If she was the woman who was feminine enough to, in your state, break through the barrier, grab your soul, and gift you that confidence, why not see how far you two can go, together?
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
I've fallen into a bout of depression lately and have felt that my internal energy has shrunken. When thinking back over my life, I realised the best few years I've ever had in terms of career, romance, relationships and skills happened when I was practicing retention. It's so hard to get back to that kind of mindset!
Fappening depletes the body's testosterone. Look up low testosterone side effects, no drive for life, lethargic, anxious, low confidence, mental fog, etc. It's not natural for men to look at an artifical screen and pleasure themselves to two strangers having sex. Best to avoid self fappening totally.
@Stephen Gallo The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
I have been practising retention for a couple of weeks now and I am noticing a big difference in the amount of people looking at me and interacting with me. I also feel more open to interact with them too.
Usually with a title like this is it is a 19 year old vaguely black or indian guy explaining how “females will literally never say no once you’re on day 90 seed retention!” But this actually makes alot of sense!
Before I watch this video I want to drop a comment you may not see. I remember you posting vids on the Nofap(?) sub (I think), posting your progress etc. That was like 3 years ago. You were clearly already a charismatic individual, but through sheer self-improvement and expression you have now manifested your life to a point where you post high-quality self-improvement content on your TH-cam channel for 541k subscribers 🤯 To say you are an inspiration is an understatement. I may well get in touch for TH-cam coaching, but for now I’m just trying to follow my own retention journey and apply myself 100% to my work, relationship, friends, family, fitness, etc. I want to enrich my life as you have. Then maybe I’ll have something to make TH-cam videos about 😉 Think I’m at about 3 weeks full SR now, with at least all of November to go!
hey man, I am very thankful that you are still being honest and helpful with us even after so many years. Almost all self improvement youtubers I (used to) watch (excluding you) have focused on - repating the exact same content - the "hype" instead of value Thanks for that. I am benefiting from your educational content and it's translating into my real life ( been learning from you for around a year and a half)
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
Really interesting to see you taking new challenges in life. I also did 7 marathons so far (5 in one year), but running just became too boring for me, so I switched up to long cycling (100-250km a day). I wish you a good luck on your first marathon and I hope you will reach your goal in terms of time.
ya you literally an animal. caveman running across the Sahara. warrior conquering lands type of shi. all u do is cycle eat shit and sleep. that's crazy
@@carlos-zr1pt yup. Not like all the time, but I really like travelling by bicycle as well as doing cycling ultramarathons. Last year I did 1200km within 6,5 day (but it wasn't on asphalt all the time, and of course I had a baggage with me). It's a slow time, but I am working on this to do it within 5 days :))
Love the content bro! Some keys in life that I’ve discovered recently have been: 1. Channeling emotional power into desire and action. 2. Semen Retention 3. Clear Goals 4. Modulating 5. Reducing Cheap Dopamine
adding this information out of mine own experience: you have to want it; but I don`t mean in a way of wanting it from watching a motivational video once but from doing it, then noticing the benefits and then thinking "woah thats actual cool, I want to continue." maybe thats just for me, but I think it is important to know🍇
I noticed it when I started feeling the need to approach girls in my school that were "out of my league" even tho I go to the gym and have a decent build. But to my surprise their response was always positive. It was a nice experience after a whole infancy of rejections and lack of self esteem
Dude your videos have definitely gotten better in the past few months for sure. I have been subbed to your channel for a long time but never usually watched your videos that much. These days i dont miss a single upload because i know you're speaking more stuff of value now. Kudos man keep retaining
I think that from SR ur lust and negative thoughts starts to go down and ur positive side starts to come out which attracts other ppl including women, the increased energy and focus makes other ppl, be near to u
Day 8. I indeed feel that I have more eye contact with other people now. I think that happens because your confidence level is rising as you retain and you are more concentrated at anything you do. That's my opinion. Consistency tho. That's the way to see results, and the more you keep going, the better. Don't give up!
All practical evidence shows it's just in your head. What you think there's some semen retention aura girls pick up on that for some reason has never been studied? You're just making more eye contact yourself
I don't think that semen retention itself makes you more attractive. It is the confidence that comes with it because you know that you have been disciplined and are not lying to yourself. It is basically a point on the board. So, I think the confidence that comes with it is what really makes you attractive.
I gotta be honest. I was so close to blowing it today (literally) but I stopped my self right before the levy broke so to speak. I’m about 10 days in so far, the longest it’s been in years. To any man out there reading this, I just wanna say your not the only one in the middle of your journey. I’m not where I wanna be yet but that’s ok because I know I’ll get there and so will you.
@@pulse3554 Nothing new under the sun, eh? Just packaged differently. I also find it ironic that in order to communicate with language one needs duality at the minimum. No hot without cold, no light without dark. Even monism or non-duality is to be related to something opposite or unlike it. Otherwise, all is one, and that is infinity... something our mind cannot quite grasp, as well as nothing. 1 as all and 0 as nothing. In between... is our reality. Or at least our physical constraints in THIS reality.
@@pulse3554 I'd say monism can be experienced. In fact, we are experiencing it right now from a certain perspective. But to understand it, I mean, wouldn't one have to be away from it? To completely see a room one has to be outside the room. If they are inside of it, experiencing it, and "one with the room" they are unable to see themselves and some parts of the room (unless there is a crazy mirror setup 🤔.) Because otherwise it seems like you are talking about ultimate reductionism to void. Which is, as Jung was mentioned, the prime interest of the introverted thinking cognitive function. Search for "ultimate truth" which is almost like reducing the "space" between duality to nothingness and thus creation of one. This brings me back to Hermetic Principles though. (I am sure many other works echo similar ideas in alternate ways.)
You got retention in check, Money in check, Status (as a youtuber) in check which is a massive one. Because status for a man is the Apex of everything, its the accumulation of everything per say. Now that you're working on your physique soon enough youll be jacked and women will start to approach YOU. (if they aren't already do so). Idk which day, month, or year it happens but a switch will happen where you'll attract all types of women. As a south asian myself we tend to focus on productivity as well as making money way too much to the point where we neglect looks, and since women have now been making their own money, money isnt the only thing that matters to women, looks play a major role, I myself was born average, but ever since i went to gym and start to grow a beard and started taking care of myself from inside out, dude i can not tell you the results i get its actually insane, now I get to pick whom i want to date. and i dont even have money or status in check like you do, id say Lookmaxx, skincare, good diet and consistent gym and youll have crazy abundance. lets go, im rooting for all of us. I use to watch your videos before because they were funny and I use to support you I liked watching you, youre actually hilarious but now I can see you're slowly shredding your older self like a snake and becoming a savage man that you aspire to be, I can see the hunger and stuff in your eyes, WE humans are capable of achieving things beyond our imagination, So if no one told you this today I wanna tell you how smart, handworker and amazing person you are. you are capable of things beyond your imagination. We may not have the greatest genetics or talent or whatever but we substitute that with handwork and become the epitome of what masculinity looks like. and btw I love this content MUCH MORE because not only this is a trendy content now a days (self improvement) But it also helps us young men to stay on our purpose and crush whatever goals we got in front of us. I'm rooting for all of us and you lets go.
Status and the food chain aren’t the same anymore a lot of these people would get chewed up in the wild. I mean you’re talking about apex and pathetic businessman in the same sentence. Don’t listen to coaches on the internet to get women start training a combat sport first then go around these businessman and see the delusional confidence vs real confidence.
The blind leading the blind read the art of war if you want to figure out something about man’s inherent nature or blue pill yourself or whatever they call it and stay here 😈
Bro the thing you said about eye contact is something I can absolutely attest to. As someone who uses crowded public transport daily, the difference is undeniable. When you've been on no fap, people (especially girls) just look at you more.
I’ve been struggling with the concept of desire. This video hasn’t cemented the idea, but it’s kindled a flame. Now it’s time to give that flame more fuel. Thanks man.
Thank you, Captain, and congratulations! Fight the good fight, strive for our best and to hell with those things like porn that emasculates our masculine energy.
SR is an amplifier, period. After 60 days, things manifest quickly. Just learn to focus on those outcomes, put them out into the Universe and watch. I know I am. Tickling 80 days atm. Want more. Think bigger. GROW.
Haven’t watched the video yet but I would argue it isn’t “retention” but sexual drive and self-image. As someone in a long term relationship who has practiced nofap in the past, having sex doesn’t impact my interaction with women. The real reason I believe is Masturbation makes you feel guilt/worse, which you subconsciously take into your interactions with others. When you masturbate you also take your sexual urge away, killing your sex drive. When you approach a woman with confidence and intent, that’s what they can sense. Women feel that sexual intent and respond with it.
wow thanks so much for saying this, this is exactly what i was thinking too. i really understand what you mean about the guilt from masturbating, its different when its sex because that has a greater connection. recently ive been fapping but not ejaculating, i think thats also fine but only for a while, then you have to stop again.
@@lemonstrangler something id be curious to hear is the perspective of someone that has regular sex outside of a long term relationship. Sex is highly entangled with our emotions and self-image and I wonder how it impacts a man in this regard.
I agreed 1 year ago I started nofap and I reached day 90, someday I was on studie place and I knew girl more old 2/3 years than me found me attractive, not just this time my classroom some girls told me you are different more pretty and than I realize nofap helps a lot... Now I'm starting again I'm closing to 9 day and I wish get this to my lifestyle
It's not the retention itself as much as how it removes ejaculating from the agenda of your connection with a woman. It gives you the ability to desire without needing the desire to be fulfilled to be internally satisfied
I am one of your earliest subscribers. Your videos boosted my desire to stay on nap fap journey and make it a part of my lifestyle. The king within me is now the dominant force. Stay strong kings.
I like the way you explained it man. Desire is the starting point of achievement. In the spiritual sense we should understand that no achievement can ‘complete’ us or make us happy (no outside circumstances or conditions should be the cause of our happiness) but we can find pleasure and happiness in setting and achieving goals for whatever means we desire. This is how I find happiness but also suffer from endless periods of emptiness and fustrations. That’s why Buddhist practice explains desire is the root of suffering. We can Create in the material world but are more like actors playing a role. ❤
Glad to see you talking about NoFap again. That's what lead me to your channel to begin with like 3 years ago. I have been doing great this year financially but still struggling in my fitness and other areas. I should probably take up NoFap again.
It’s so amazing and crazy to see how far you’ve come. I remember when you had literally no subscribers and I was like who’s this guy popping up on my feed. 👏🏽 👏🏽 good shit man!!!
Here's some science, it is likely that the reason he keeps referencing around 7 days for all of these anecdotal experiences is because studies show testosterone peaks around one week of retention. It then levels off to baseline again afterwards.
@@gowtham6822 yes, it drops back at week two and stays linear again. Short-term hormonal fluctuations, such as spike for about week and drop back do not have any effect on our bodies. More than that: as long as you're in a healthy range of testosterone even a long-term increase by 20% doesn't change much (that's why supplements such as testosterone boosters are waste of money even if they worked). But if it did change anything i wonder why nobody ever brings steroids to the table. You could just pin testosterone and emulate effect of no-fap with 5-10x more effect, yet somehow we don't see steroid users to be flooded with women that "smell" their high testosterone, followed by high sex drive and confidence. On top of that: studies prove that people who masturbate less have lower testosterone levels on average. Could be that people with lower testosterone have a lower sex drive and masturbate less, but also could be a cause-effect relationship behind this. Your body usually adjusts to the enviroment (when you train it increases muscle mass, when you don't it decreases it etc), so once you do a no-fap it finds it more beneficial to lower your libido therefore decrease your testosterone levels.
To have that higher vibration it's very simple. Number 1, have a burning desire to be the best you can be. Number 2, have no attachment to the outcome.
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Yo , we NEED the : watches Andrew Tate once
@@Merciless_au he did make it I think
@@thnxm8 thnx
Hey Captain. I think you'd find videos from the channel @Dry Creek Wrangler School super great, and would love for you to make a Watches Once for it. Thanks for all you do.
I will.
The mental clarity you gain from retention cannot be overstated. The boost in creativity and being sharper is definitely a benefit i can personally attest to
I definitely agree. When I think back to the times I’ve practiced retention, it is the mental clarity that has stood out most to me.
I also agree 100% 👊🏻 I'm on day 66
It's called imagination aka I.Q, it's not the falsehood of soncalled "creativity" which is a mouth-breather misnomer.
Mouth-breathers are stupid, that's why they conflate *"create"* aka *instantly manifest something from nothing,* with innovate, generate, render, produce, construct etc.
I don't know man, have you ever heard about the post nut syndrome? Those things are not well researched yet but I think that it's "only" raised adrenaline that provides what you mean by clarity and it can be present only if you practise this enough so you don't feel horny all the time. This can provide you more energy, however the adrenaline drops after 8 days of retention or so anyway and if there is any period when you feel horny (which probably is there unless you are a Buddhist monk), I can't see how you can remain clarity afterwards. Considering this, no fap even may lead to further worsening of problems like decent looking guys chasing uggly and mean girls since there will be so many horny #nofap males chasing literally any girl in their radar just to release it.
OK
video starts at ~4:22
1. more eye contact
2. creativity + courage 10:02
3. desire is the law of attraction in motion 13:48
4. you get luckier 17:17
Thank you sir!
Thanks
desire is a want never a need something alot of people fail to understand
hence why you here so many people come out with nonsense like you need sex no correction you want sex
luck does not come from semen retention. only Allah gives
Would eye contact even happen if you have autism 🤔
No Fap + Cold showers + Being Active + Big Dreams = Limitless
+ meditation + reading
+ self-acceptance
+ No poe
+ Gratitude + God
That's god mode!!
Semen retention has saved my life, no cap. The amount of energy, clarity, and self love I get from having control of my desire and energy is the most valuable thing I have found towards a better lived life.
I heard that 🏌🏽♀️
On God, my brother in Christ, ion even gonna lie, this nofap sheesh be bussin fr fr no cap
@@Leon.Stanic bigggg fax famo u already kno da vibez n sheeeeeeeeit nammmsayin homeslice
@@jimmyhooks dass riteee my boii shiiiieeet
My highest streak was 3 weeks now it’s hard to go further then a week
It's really quite simple - not jerking it means you respect yourself more, and that self respect shows.
thats true!
💯💯💯
Why does jerking in your world view means you disrespect yourself? Stop shaming people (including yoursef) about this, it perpetuates useless taboo.
@@negueitchons5991 Is that why you never do it in front of a mirror 😆 looks pretty pathetic really, but each to their own in this world I guess.
@@negueitchons5991
It's the most degenerate behaviour there is. Stop trying to NOT make it a shameful thing. It is. Stop playing the victim or convince people your terrible destructive habits are good. Nobody cares.
What I’ve found with practicing semen retention and not watching corn.
1) I can hold eye contact with anyone and that’s powerful
2) MENTAL CLARITY. I’m sharp and can respond with precise answers quickly
3) fearlessness. I embrace trying new things and working towards something.I love the challenge
4) women aren’t on a pedestal. I started holding convos with anyone even the 10/10s with ease, and they aren’t on the forefront of my mind. Started getting more looks and flirting thrown my way
5) fitness energy. I always loved to workout but my physique got 10 times better with semen retention, I had more energy, could feel every rep more intensely, and my body responded to dieting more effectively. I am in great shape and feel amazing.
Fellas, conquer lust and everything after will fall into place. I promise! Just take the first step
It's weird. Sometimes I'll go just a few days and feel amazing (then fap and it goes away). But other times I could go weeks and I just feel worse.
Makes me think it's all bullshit, but the fact that I feel bad again after I fap tells me something
@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd Weeks without busting and feeling like shit? I heard that's part of the process, they're withdrawal symptoms that should go away with minimal time
Semen retention gave me the confidence to create a business at 22 which ended up becoming a 6 figure business by the second year. I was on the streak for almost 300 days and am now going on another big streak to take my life to the next level in all aspects
Hello
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@@digitalvalidity9553lol
Which business is that?
@@oluwadamilolabello5430 resell high end furniture
Semen retention gives you the following:
1. Eye contact
2. Creativity & courage
3. Desire is the law of attraction in motion
4. You get luckier & make better decisions
@@eytang wait... if what you say ia true and retention makes me luckier then I think i will keep that luck, take it with me to Atlantic City.
I don't think it would give me any of those things since i was extremely socially awkward way before I even discovered masturbation, nonetheless, I still want to stop masturbating because it goes against my morals. Please someone tell me how can I overcome this evil.
@@Dah42 Bro, dont allow anyobe, any social construct, any 'moral authority', or institution, or the self righteous types that hide in them make you feel you are evil for jerking off... Thats just goddammed ridiculous. If you are Christian you were conveniently born into the burden of sin.. And the modern world: with your carbon footprint, and your need for animal protein, hell the fact that yoy breathe air is reason enough to place guilt on you. Heres what I think might work if you want to stop the jerk. Imagine, you are being judged by people you respect for your ability to control your lower animalistic-brain...the part of you that is prompted by base desire - - you control it.
Precisely true
These are FACTS! I’m on day 34 and I’ve been seeing a massive change with how these women act. They can feel your energy. You just gained a subscriber my friend keep going! 💯
Is the point to masturbate and not cum or just don't masturbate at all?
Retention changed my life. It changed my perspective of the world, how I view it, how I give importance to things, and how I see girls. I used to have dirty thoughts most of the time, now I just see straight up human beings and that's awesome. Nowadays lust is a really common thing, don't let it drag you down, develop self control and win. Life is truly awesome, when we change our perspective :).
How long did it take for that mindset shift ?
@@El_Vicente1 it willl be gradual but it can be instant if you stay in high vibration
Amen ~~ ✔
@@El_Vicente1 so if you want to mindset shift then shift your mindset as simple as that it literally takes one second just be positive think positive do positive and you'll see how much more positive the world is they try to make the world seem like a bad place on the news and media but the world is actually a great place just keep looking for the positive in every and anything karma is real both good and bad
@@El_Vicente1 maybe you should go sit by a tree for a couple minutes or an hour and watch how much more positive you feel just look for the good and everything though you can change your mindset in less than 5 seconds everything is about mindset truly
When you’re on retention for more than a year, you stop thinking about women, because you’ve got a taste of the ultimate pleasure of life, the true inner peace and clarity of purpose. The fact that you don’t pay attention to women is what intrigues them and makes you seem “different”. This rarely makes a difference to me bcz I can see right through their intentions.
I can relate.
Bro woman are not evil. Nothing wronged with having somebody there for you when u feel vulnerable. Plenty of good woman out there
When I no-fap for long enough, I lose my sex drive entirely. I don’t even lust for women. I think there is more to this story.
I get strong pain after two weeks sadly
Exactly bro I've been on and off retention for a couple years not that I ever stopped doing it on purpose but when I had sex I would release on accident but now I finally figured it out I'm on 200 plus days have sex multiple times a week been with my girl for over 2 years and I didn't even watch porn until I was 15 so I was literally on a 15 year streak😂 I've always had more energy than my peers and just a lot of energy in general and I'm always positive definitely agree with this comment though
The older we get the more we realize it’s more than just looks it’s about energy
Yup
These are the messages men need to hear. Positive affirmations, motivation, altruistic behaviors, discipline, compassion, emotional strength, and the elimination of base desires to pursue your dreams. All of it and all that you are doing is A+ work my friend. We need to stop this war on genders and begin to evoke our natural state by discovering our inner self.
Pursue all states of natural being and discard this unnatural society. You will find the path you walk will become filled with light.
Amen to that brother
This is a very thoughtful comment. Good stuff all around
Very good indeed. You speak the truth brother.
Spittin 🔥
One way that I like to view retention is that it's practically Ultra Instinct. It's as if your mind and body automatically makes the best moves that it possibly can, in every aspect like body language, mindset, discipline - everything. Your desire sends your subconscious mind into overdrive and forces your body and mind to correct itself to keep you constantly evolving to reach your goals. You're constantly building up this 'power' until your baseline far surpasses the average person in every way.
This the one 💪🏽
Top comment ☝🏿
Gold comment 🏅
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
W parable
Thank you for introducing this to me. I work in a 'feminised' industry, and 44 days after commencing SR, l no longer feel like a lesser being. In fact, my attitude to women has flipped completely. At 62, this has been a revelation. Being calm, strong and stoic is the best part.
The only people who tell you nofap doesn't work are the ones who have never been on it, who have never felt the ecstasy of life on retention, the energy, the sharpness, and how everything just magically falls in place. Stay strong kings and know this path is going drive you to be best version of yourself.
Magically falls in place? You mean without much work?
@@gowtham6822 You find that drive to be the best version you can be. There's a strong sense of optimism in whatever task you undertake. The right things are drawn towards you and the right people enter your life. All these things happen almost effortlessly. It's beautiful.
@@navihydriex1871 thanks for the response. I am more than 10 days in.
@@gowtham6822 Keep it going strong. With every urge you resist, the more of this energy you'll be able to transcend. All the best!
Tried it a couple times and felt nothing different. It's not magic. It does nothing unless you also work on yourself. If you notice any difference when you do no fap stop deluding yourself - you can do the same with no fap or without it. It's just some psychological bs. You always have it in you. You don't need silly rituals and restrictions not rooted in science or common sense.
Why is it all about women? Why can't we just improve because we want to? Like, people who use women as their motivation and fuel don't realize how toxic this can be to your self esteem when you don't get women or get rejected.
When a woman rejects you, there can be thousands of other reasons that may have nothing to do with you. Stop basing your rejections on shit like "women can see your potential or retention". Just focus on the fundamentals, workout, eat good food, get your mental health right and do what you love.
Edit: I'm glad so many people resonate with this. The day you stop basing your psychological well being and your self worth on women's approval and become secure with being yourself and cultivate a healthy self esteem, is the day you find fulfillment WITHIN your own self without needing external factors.
Edit 2: people are missing the point here. I'm not saying don't pursue women. Sex is a primal need and just like other needs, It has a purpose. What I'm talking about is the relentless obsession to be doing it all JUST for women and basing all your self worth and well being on getting women
"If i get that girl, I'm worthy
Otherwise , I feel like a loser" mindset
Because men do everything for women. They become rich for women. They build a body for a women. This is just true.
Indeed
That is indeed a very good point.
The probable explanation is, that women make for a pretty DAMN good motivation. Moreover, there's something almost poetically ironic using women as motivation for no-fap
Well said.
I agree. A lot of get bitches get money mentality lately on TH-cam. I understand why it’s attractive and sells. We all want that pleasure. At what point are you satisfied with constantly chasing a material goal or attracting women? After I got married, I realized how shallow that mentality is for your self-esteem and how you value success. I noticed how miserable it is to try so hard at getting girls and money just to say you have it. I made myself follow a template that wasn’t my true self and people can see how fake and arrogant it seems. To each their own I suppose. Having that passion to do better is nice but using it on the wrong things is a dead end that’s difficult to see until you get it and you’re bored. If you’re only going to attract women through money, trying hard to alter your personality or status, you’re probably attracting the wrong women in your life who are just as insecure and will come and go anyways. If these practices bring you happiness and healthy, uplifting relationships then that’s awesome. Just be careful and don’t fall for the trap that this stuff is the key to success or happiness.
Man you are so right on! The eye contact has increased tremendously . And the smile from woman and the head knod from men. I thought it was my imagination. However you have had similar experiences . I’m 57 and am learning things to make these last years more fulfilling than me prior years. I’ve subscribed to your channel. I’m sure I’ll see great benefits. Thank you my man!
This year I was on retention for 5+ months. All that time I was on a self improvement journey. It really helped me dial in my focus on my own growth. I didn’t pay attention to girls during this time because it was a selfish journey to improve myself. I’ve been dating now , but my streak is never more than a week now. Either way , I do agree with a lot of your points on creativity and desire. I just used that energy to recreate myself.
Bro do you get nightfall
@@Edited__user__5 it happens,but it shouldn't happen regularly,you gotta stop thinking about any sort of sexual stuff...Try to be busy with learning something,force yourself,when you can't keep up then go for a walk or sleep.
@The Quiver ok
What a show-off. My man wanted to tell everyone that he got laid one week ago.
Blocking your blessings killing yourself slowly draining your life force and basically bc u want to "date" good luck with that bro💯 the thing that's getting you them dates is the very thing that you're draining out of yourself been with my girl over 2 years and I be having sex multiple times a week usually and I'm still on 200 plus days some people just don't want it you're definitely one of them. It's all good though retention isn't for everybody.
When you are on semen retention, anything that you say is very impactful. People listen you and create a sense of inevitable admiration and respect for you. As a human we can not get away from this sexsual energy, it will always be there but what matters is where you direct it.
So I assume you're a successfully elected politician talking like that.
One thing I notice about the impactfulness of speech is that most of the times, speaking less is powerful. Speak what is necessary and important and remain silent on most other times. When you speak less, the law of scarcity is such that every word is valuable in the conversation. So people associate your words with value, thus creating charisma.
@@darrenwang8879 how do you make friends if you’re mostly silent and only speak about important things? Don’t you get bored as well?
“It’s not just girls, children too” biggest pause of my life right there
😂
😂😂huh
EXTREME PAUSE😂😂😂😂
I understand what you ment...When you become pure, children, and widelife will be attracted to you, because they're also pure.
-_-
I’m glad you went back to basics here. This stuff never gets old.
The contrast between being on no fap/ no PMO/ monk mode, is quite literally night and day. If I slip up and lose the restraint, within a few days I am irritable, arrogant, and isolated-conversely, after a few weeks on SR and I’m the most extraverted, witty, articulate, passionate, kind, helpful, charismatic etc…The challenge is to remember ! After a while I forget that the foundational root of that happiness is chastity- yep, old school chastity. There are many reasons why chastity is at the root of the great religious teachings. It is the source of Power and Love. Pray for men, and women, and the younger kids to learn and apply this truth. We can then create a genuine civilization of Love.
You're the reason I started my semen retention journey last year, my life has changed, last year I went through a phase where I needed something to hold me mentally and emotionally, I didn't know the power was inside me. Thank you Nikhil
Your vibes and aura change when you're not a pervert anymore.
Real
💀
So you're you're saying 98% of men who don't retain are perverts. That's a pretty big assumption 😂😂. You're not that special. It's normal for a man who has never bothered with watching corn or lusting after plastic women to live this way. You are using it get out of that sort of lifestyle and that's great.
Realized this a while ago
Very disappointed I got into the habit back all those years
More guys gotta realize this
Facts
100% agree with the eye contact. If you workout or at least look healthy I guarantee this will happen to you too. Before I graduated I just stopped yanking it every night, about a month in I had actual 10's looking at me walking down the hallway.
That's cos of the stiffy you had in your pants walking down the hallway
@@Steve-ArfArf also true
@@Steve-ArfArf 😆🤣😂
@@Steve-ArfArf yo u didnt have to do it like that bruh😂...lift others up!
Nope. For you but not for me. I’m a fit and athletic guy. Always been like that. Idk about you and I’m not judging but I’m a short bald Asian man. I’m not even trying to be negative or anything but never get any looks from women. I get attention from men who likes my work outs. 🤷🏻♂️
Loved the talk when you brought women into it. Many would just shy away or be afraid to admit how much women play a factor in our lives. Desire when done right can be one of the most powerful forces. Have desire but have a healthy and strong structure around your desire. And learn to let go of your desires, so when it comes back to you, you can use it to your best capability.
Kings don’t waste your life force. Stay busy. If you relapse start again. This journey is a marathon not a sprint and it gets easier. Keep going Kings👑
It works y'all... at least 3 weeks to a month my leg press went up from 230 to 270. Noticing these positives make you realize how important that energy is for you.
I’ve been practicing semen retention for over 8 months now. I have definitely noticed more confidence and discipline. It’s not a cure all, but one piece in the self improvement puzzle (a big piece). When you overcome an addiction, it creates strength and perseverance.
Thank you Nikhil for inspiring me to do this. I still watch your original videos to remind myself how important this is 🙏🏾
I'd love to debate someone on this, because it is not what it is made out to be. It depends solely on your relationship with sex and how you think of masturbation, yet it is praised so onesidedly in these comments. I've done it myself years ago and I've had the absolute opposite experiences, like loss of confidence, more acne, etc. The utter lack of any criticism is really bad for the growth of the self improvement community.
@@r4lfxd I know bro, there comes a phase of dullness probably after 90 days, but it faded away. 275 days of greatness
It actually is a cure it can cure depression anxiety it could cure you not having money it can cure a lot of things it's all a mindset when you say if it's a cure or not in my opinion it definitely is a cure and has made my life so much better I'm on day 200 plus feeling great making more money than ever and putting out more positivity than ever
@@ninjazay7245 Of no fapping or no ejaculation? Like are you allowed to have sex?
@@r4lfxd I find that interesting. I don't think there is anything wrong with releasing. Pornography addiction is the main thing. Sex with a woman, in a relationship would be the ideal situation. What other habits did you do when practicing?
I just wanted to say that this is absolutely true!
I'm an international student in the USA and I would relapse every few days, until I found this video. I'm now on 30+ days of retention and I've been invited to parties by girls, complimented by girls, especially American girls. This is an unreal state in life for me: thanks to you and Sadhguru only. Thank you!!
Do you think it is something to try for a month?
@@roshanvijay9915 its really not something you can try because those who are trying to retain are trying to retain long term. Short term retention is still so much better than losing your seed everyday. But if you really want to better yourself in every way youll want to practice it long term. Thats why we call it a relapse and not an end or pause or something else. Its a relapse and sometimes they’re needed to remotivate you.
@@hseeker what is a good short term period and long term period?
@@roshanvijay9915 it depends on how often you’re losing your semen if it’s everyday then short term success can be going even 2-3 days without it but if its once a week short term can be a month or two long term comes with practice and succeeding in the short term at least in my opinion and experience
@@hseeker Thanks for the insight
Out of everything I have tried in the self improvement space as a young man, SR has given the most consistent results in terms of success, drive, and women. Over years and years it works every single time.
It’s baffling because there’s no other way to prove it other than trying for yourself and feeling the energy whipping through your body. It’s beyond materialism.
And it’s all yours for the taking, fellas.
The vibrations is unusual.
I think working out regularly, and consuming less media are also pretty high up there.
If semen retention brought you more women, how did you stay on semen retention? Have sex without ejaculating? Does this mean that once you ejaculate they will no longer be interested in you?
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
6:30. I’ve been going through the same thing. More of a change of mindset more than retention, and people are responding more positively to me. It’s weird, and amazing. It’s like strangers want my attention.
Hey,I have been doing for 3 months and I agree, there is definitely a rebirth in everything! Feel more energized,sleep and wake up better, training is easier,more mental clarity etc but the looks you get from everyone at times is definitely a sign that the energy is up;
Insights, creativity as you mentioned.💪
And if you are spiritual inclined,it's easier to feel connected and get insight in your journey and life purpose. And more opportunities will come to you as you have more energy to do then 🚀⚡
Man I’m so glad you spoke about the eye contact thing. I’ve been getting that soooo much and I felt like I couldn’t really share it with anyone cuz ppl would think I’m full of myself or something but it’s true. People don’t know what they’re sensing but they can still feel it
On which day of SR you noticed these attractions?
@@sarveshdhasal2936 can’t stay a specific amount of time really but definitely longer than 2 weeks. And it’s also your Mindset, self talk all that comes into play
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
@@HarmzConscious what’s your video titled?
@@isaacangelmeza th-cam.com/video/uWYPYKd1j0A/w-d-xo.html
Great video. I can vouch for this, took the whole of 2021 to go on retention but failed here and there. What I realized is that when I am on retention for more than a week, I feel more bold. The boldness got me to where I am today(in life) and it is easy to talk to women. STAY ON THE PATH OF RETENTION GUYS
Thanks man I'm shaking while talking to women I must do something about it I'm addicted to it like 2times a days for 17 years.thank to r your massge.
@@akilashavinda7337 it can be hard but the things i do to help is pick up a project or a new hobby. As cliche as it sounds, if you find something that you are interested in which is new, you'll keep your mind busy. Also staying up late will 100% get you back into that circle. In addition, reduce social media consumption. Don't just cut it but reduce it because that's another gate of temptations to ruin your retention.
I practice semen retention about 2-3 months at a time, sometimes longer depending on how I'm feeling and what I'm focusing on. The longest I've done it was about 6 months. I've realized that as humans, we need some type of companionship (especially as men), and it's healthy to get said companionship from time to time. But only when it's absolutely necessary imo. Overall, my gym workouts are better, much better mental clarity, anxiety is down, I'm more stoic than usual, meditation feels more involved and potent, creativity is off the chain. I urge all men to try out semen retention, go in monk mode.
we don need companionship that a lie your minds telling you we are wholesum as we are we dont need completing by anyone
we are all we need you been brain washed by the system too look outside of your self when everything reside within
@Westcoastrocksduh sounds boring asf
My best few months of this year were due to retention. Focus, creativity, confidence and drive were through the roof. Granted, some things were still off due to a stressful studying lifestyle (phone use, sleep routine) but compared to the few months before, it was crazy how much positive energy I had.
Now, I've fallen back into a rut/slump and I've noticed all the negative effects. But seeing this video definitely has me trying to get back at it.
did you get back at it
First attempt at SR started about 8 months ago. Still on it. Feeling calm, helps with depression, more upbeat mood, less anxiety, more energy in gym and in general, gaining more lean mass, much better at social interactions. Females are paying attention too. Although, I haven’t been out much lately but when I do it’s definitely a different world there.❤
i was pretty happy and fine , but I remember doing this thing and not being interested in sex for a really long time (too many months) and at some point i got so depressed I went to kill myself. be careful you all, take things slowly and watch your steps
You have gone a long way in your first attempt i tried it many but I am not been able to hold it for more than 60 or 70 days everytime my streak got break and I feel so bad, depressed,guilty how you have been able to do it so long...?
@@MayankYadavdivine The overall benefits outweigh to stop the streak.
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏
Does it happen during sleep without wet dreams?
people act as a mirror, they respect you | show love because you do it for yourself
Retention helps you feel more like yourself. It can be hard to get clean from masturbation and porn, but it"s worth it. I've only been 2 weeks clean from my last relapse, and I feel more into my own shoes already. quitting pro will help you get more focused on your goals. So set some intentions and quit! Stay strong guys.
My first long semen retention streak that was longer than a week I created my TH-cam channel and talk to a stranger for first time, that was the beginning of my new life, few months later I was clean from drugs, fews months after that I stop having suicidal thoughts, year after that I ended up in a relationship, didn't last because I wasn't in touch with my masculine side yet, I was still too feminine and emotional, I haven't had insanely long streaks, my longest streak was one month but still semen retention changed my life, I would probably be dead if it wasn't for semen retention, Captain Sinbad and AAHANA were my first NoFap TH-camrs, thank you both so much
They gonna have to take my life before they take my drive, because when I was barely living, that's what kept me alive - Kanye West
Similar story here man. Keep it going.
Aahana? Who/what is that?
@@gadohimself a TH-camr
@@Jashan720 you too
When you started talking about "desire" it reminded of the time my friend sent me a screenshot of a woman speaking very highly about my ambition among her list of reasons she was wanted me. At that point in time I was in the approaching the best physical shape of my life and I was practicing retention (because it caused muscle imbalances that I noticed while working out and aesthetically).
Wait retaining was causing muscle imbalances?
@@danieltalebi1040 sorry for the confusion. Because masturbation was causing muscle imbalance, I would notice it when weight lifting
@@jabbaweezy ahh thank you!
I remember, this channel was one of the first channels that prophesied retention back in the day... 2017, 2018 if I remember correctly. Inspired me a lot over the years. Best part about you is you don't have a filter, I've seen you on your different phases but you have always shown that here instead of putting a show face. I like this new alignment of the channel towards physical fitness too..
All true points 💯💯 The point about a man being stronger around physically attractive women is something that i've come to realize. Especially when you have their attention it gives you this feeling like you can conquer anything in life.
You absolutely do feel so much better ,I'm 3 months in and feel like a different person altogether my "aura" has changed drastically everyone around me has noticed it I'm getting more compliments from everyone,I'm feeling more confident about myself it's just so much better
Semen retention definetly changed my life. Everything you said is correct. That desire is felt by everyone and everything
My path with retention is less about women and more about being spiritually anchored. I can't explain it, but there is a certain way the world feels when you're on retention. Your senses are more dialed in, and you feel like you can walk on water. Maybe it's a placebo effect but it works for me.
Feels like our wilderness is suppressed by this modern world.
No placebo. It's your substance being held in. Like completely healthy. Semen is like blood .it's life force.
Same here lad, I can't do it for women , purpose of semen retention dies down
S R Chang my life for ever,
I’m in shock!!
Took me years and years, to figure out this really works
Every man/boy needs to be on semen retention!! I was addicted to watching p**n and it was messing with every part of my life! Thankfully God and being on this journey of retention has helped me especially this year!!
What happens for you at Day 10 or Day 30 is happening for me now in my 9th month of retention.
As a former masturbation addict, I can't thank you enough captain.
And to my brothers who are struggling right now: Have faith. It might not happen immediately but it will happen.
This is what has changed for me since 2021:
Hit 90KG bench, 110 KG squat, 105KG deadlift.
I am in a relationship for the first time in my life.
I am making almost twice the money than last year.
PS: Not trying to flex, just sharing my experience.
W
✌️🔥👍
Wwwwwww
This ain’t flexing g, good stuff.
Very great level up
You dont get luckier, you attract greatness into your life through more positive thoughts and desires!
Glad you're back on this subject, its how I found you initially and synchronises perfectly with my 30ish day streak (stopping counting days is a big step for anyone getting started)
I recently graduated in psychology and philosophy, I may have to chance my luck signing up.
Thanks Sinbad 🤘
So true. In the summer of 2006 I was 45 yrs old. My wife was visiting her mother for a month. I decided not to touch anything, so to speak. Back then, I don't think the term "no fap" was widespread. For me, it was a decision to see if I could do it - an exercise in self-restraint. Anyway, after about 3 weeks I had to travel for my job. I was in the airport and was looking for a seat. Not even close, but from about 15 feet away a woman in her 30's locked her eyes onto mine. This never happened to me. I finally looked away. I thought about that moment often, and never understood what happened, and never made the connection until I was looking at a no fap video in 2020. That's when the light bulb went on. There's no way this was a coincidence. And it was the way she looked at me. I can't put it into words except to say, "it was different." I wish I had discovered no fap in my 20's. I've been successful in my life but I wonder what would have happened retaining as a teenager or in my 20's.
It's never too late
A girl looked at you one time bro. It's not that deep😂
@@blueshanks1 yeah he is making it seem crazy it's not like he walked up to her and asked her for her number and she gave it to him or anything like that she literally just locked eyes with him at the same time I've done that with females walked up to them and found out they had a boyfriend I literally just did that the other day actually sometimes I'm locking eyes with you might be them thinking you're cute or just being surprised by how much energy you have but it really doesn't mean she's necessarily attracted that's a choosing signal so you should walk up and approach when you see a girl staring at you bro is making it way deeper than what it seems he had one female stare at him and now he thinks she fell in love 🤣
Never too late .
What benefits have you got now from retention as an older guy
I fapped for the first time when I was 19, I always wondered y everyone fought to sit with me, why everyone was so nice to me, I had spots on my face which made me worst guy to date but still most beautiful girl used to come at my home!
Semen retention is for mastery over animal impulses and emotions. It’s not all about women and female attraction
I would like to add on this topic that semen retention solely wouldn't end your much problems, making use of that energy(by exercises or work) is what that'll maintain your interest on semen retention. Otherwise you'll just find less to no benifits that'll motivate you to continue it. When I was on semen retention but wasn't doing much work or exercises, I felt lonely and stressed out that had lead me to many nofap failures.
Hit 35 days today! your journey help me since last year
good to see you're also still grinding! lets go!!
I wonder if they can smell if someone is full of shit.
Men can smell women on BBL.
I can tell you are from your comment alone. So don't worry about them. They can definitely smell the loser in you.
@@abhisheklama1393 Wtf? Why are you so offended and aggressive? You are what you speak, so in that regard, I think your comment perfectly reflects the absolute nutter and insecure fool that you are.
OP's comment was only supposed to be humorous and mildly philosophical. Please get a grip, and like Michael says "Stop it, get some help".
the aura grows up from the sexual energy and flowers upwards and outwards. this makes a man magnetic and powerful and gives him good luck. we live inside of a taurus field, the world is literally made of energy. when u conserve your energy you become a powerful nexus point in the world.
it's true, my longest streak was 43 days, I'm currently on a 7 day streak and feeling pretty damn good, before Semen retention I was very insecure and weak now I'm strong as hell 💪
Im about a month in SR and i feel so much better. I used to be so depressed. I couldn’t even talk to anyone without feeling guilt. Women could sense i did dirty stuff behind closed doors. When u ratain its like a beast thats awakens inside of you to go after life. To make love to life. Women love that. That drive that ambition. I feel so so much better. It makes me feel almost invincible.
No peeking at all?
My NO FAP begins today (again). I was consistent for about a month and a half and the desire was strong like you said. Within that month I went on 3 dates & one of those dates gave me the best night & morning. So it was well worth it, the confidence difference is pretty significant.
If she was the woman who was feminine enough to, in your state, break through the barrier, grab your soul, and gift you that confidence, why not see how far you two can go, together?
Are you winning son?
im starting again soon, this is the battle of my life
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
I've fallen into a bout of depression lately and have felt that my internal energy has shrunken. When thinking back over my life, I realised the best few years I've ever had in terms of career, romance, relationships and skills happened when I was practicing retention. It's so hard to get back to that kind of mindset!
Yeah
Fappening depletes the body's testosterone. Look up low testosterone side effects, no drive for life, lethargic, anxious, low confidence, mental fog, etc. It's not natural for men to look at an artifical screen and pleasure themselves to two strangers having sex. Best to avoid self fappening totally.
@Stephen Gallo The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
I have been practising retention for a couple of weeks now and I am noticing a big difference in the amount of people looking at me and interacting with me. I also feel more open to interact with them too.
Passion + Patience! You are the man sir let's goooooo
Usually with a title like this is it is a 19 year old vaguely black or indian guy explaining how “females will literally never say no once you’re on day 90 seed retention!”
But this actually makes alot of sense!
Got me in the first half, not going to lie.
Before I watch this video I want to drop a comment you may not see.
I remember you posting vids on the Nofap(?) sub (I think), posting your progress etc. That was like 3 years ago.
You were clearly already a charismatic individual, but through sheer self-improvement and expression you have now manifested your life to a point where you post high-quality self-improvement content on your TH-cam channel for 541k subscribers 🤯
To say you are an inspiration is an understatement.
I may well get in touch for TH-cam coaching, but for now I’m just trying to follow my own retention journey and apply myself 100% to my work, relationship, friends, family, fitness, etc.
I want to enrich my life as you have. Then maybe I’ll have something to make TH-cam videos about 😉
Think I’m at about 3 weeks full SR now, with at least all of November to go!
hey man, I am very thankful that you are still being honest and helpful with us even after so many years. Almost all self improvement youtubers I (used to) watch (excluding you) have focused on
- repating the exact same content
- the "hype" instead of value
Thanks for that. I am benefiting from your educational content and it's translating into my real life ( been learning from you for around a year and a half)
The women attraction is crazy on retention and aside from the glow, increased energy etc, one of the main reasons is because your body goes into a ‘hunter mode’ where your body enhances your abilities and appearance when you haven’t released your seed for so long and enhances your aura energy (your pheromones will vibrate at a higher frequency) your alpha-ness, your testosterone etc to make you appeal more to females. It’s similar to when you’re fasting and your body goes into a survival state. I just made a video on all this explaining it properly check it out and stay blessed 🙏❤️
He is spot on with disinterest in desires being depression. Never heard it before, but is definitely true.
Women can smell the cash that’s in your wallet before anything else.
No cap bro, idk if it's a body language thing or an aura thing.
You’re not finding the right women then
Ever wondered why?
No they can’t 😂 I’ve had girls tell me they think I’m rich before. Just because of the way I moved… not even close to being rich just had some motion.
@@nickhearn7288 It was a joke.
Really interesting to see you taking new challenges in life. I also did 7 marathons so far (5 in one year), but running just became too boring for me, so I switched up to long cycling (100-250km a day). I wish you a good luck on your first marathon and I hope you will reach your goal in terms of time.
r u for real 100 260 km a day my bro???
You cycle 12 hours a day
ya you literally an animal. caveman running across the Sahara. warrior conquering lands type of shi. all u do is cycle eat shit and sleep. that's crazy
He probably means 10-25 km
@@carlos-zr1pt yup. Not like all the time, but I really like travelling by bicycle as well as doing cycling ultramarathons. Last year I did 1200km within 6,5 day (but it wasn't on asphalt all the time, and of course I had a baggage with me). It's a slow time, but I am working on this to do it within 5 days :))
Love the content bro! Some keys in life that I’ve discovered recently have been:
1. Channeling emotional power into desire and action.
2. Semen Retention
3. Clear Goals
4. Modulating
5. Reducing Cheap Dopamine
What is modulating?
Modulating?
Lol I'm here too to ask about the modulating thing
adding this information out of mine own experience: you have to want it; but I don`t mean in a way of wanting it from watching a motivational video once but from doing it, then noticing the benefits and then thinking "woah thats actual cool, I want to continue." maybe thats just for me, but I think it is important to know🍇
I noticed it when I started feeling the need to approach girls in my school that were "out of my league" even tho I go to the gym and have a decent build. But to my surprise their response was always positive. It was a nice experience after a whole infancy of rejections and lack of self esteem
Dude your videos have definitely gotten better in the past few months for sure. I have been subbed to your channel for a long time but never usually watched your videos that much. These days i dont miss a single upload because i know you're speaking more stuff of value now. Kudos man keep retaining
I think that from SR ur lust and negative thoughts starts to go down and ur positive side starts to come out which attracts other ppl including women, the increased energy and focus makes other ppl, be near to u
Day 8. I indeed feel that I have more eye contact with other people now. I think that happens because your confidence level is rising as you retain and you are more concentrated at anything you do. That's my opinion. Consistency tho. That's the way to see results, and the more you keep going, the better. Don't give up!
I think it's more you notice it more and hold eye contact. I'm not sure more women actualy look at you.
How are you winning over it?
All practical evidence shows it's just in your head. What you think there's some semen retention aura girls pick up on that for some reason has never been studied? You're just making more eye contact yourself
I don't think that semen retention itself makes you more attractive. It is the confidence that comes with it because you know that you have been disciplined and are not lying to yourself. It is basically a point on the board. So, I think the confidence that comes with it is what really makes you attractive.
Also testosterone increases, so confidence increases
@@400BadR3quest super interesting, I did not think of that. Thank you for adding to my point
phermones stronger too: increases female desire / male respect …
I gotta be honest. I was so close to blowing it today (literally) but I stopped my self right before the levy broke so to speak. I’m about 10 days in so far, the longest it’s been in years. To any man out there reading this, I just wanna say your not the only one in the middle of your journey. I’m not where I wanna be yet but that’s ok because I know I’ll get there and so will you.
We need more scientists like Carl Jung who were open to studying and considering esoteric, anecdotal things like this
@@pulse3554 Nothing new under the sun, eh? Just packaged differently. I also find it ironic that in order to communicate with language one needs duality at the minimum. No hot without cold, no light without dark. Even monism or non-duality is to be related to something opposite or unlike it. Otherwise, all is one, and that is infinity... something our mind cannot quite grasp, as well as nothing. 1 as all and 0 as nothing. In between... is our reality. Or at least our physical constraints in THIS reality.
@@pulse3554 I'd say monism can be experienced. In fact, we are experiencing it right now from a certain perspective. But to understand it, I mean, wouldn't one have to be away from it? To completely see a room one has to be outside the room. If they are inside of it, experiencing it, and "one with the room" they are unable to see themselves and some parts of the room (unless there is a crazy mirror setup 🤔.)
Because otherwise it seems like you are talking about ultimate reductionism to void. Which is, as Jung was mentioned, the prime interest of the introverted thinking cognitive function. Search for "ultimate truth" which is almost like reducing the "space" between duality to nothingness and thus creation of one.
This brings me back to Hermetic Principles though. (I am sure many other works echo similar ideas in alternate ways.)
@@pulse3554 Yes. Nonduality is The Way of human liberation/Truth
You got retention in check, Money in check, Status (as a youtuber) in check which is a massive one. Because status for a man is the Apex of everything, its the accumulation of everything per say. Now that you're working on your physique soon enough youll be jacked and women will start to approach YOU. (if they aren't already do so). Idk which day, month, or year it happens but a switch will happen where you'll attract all types of women. As a south asian myself we tend to focus on productivity as well as making money way too much to the point where we neglect looks, and since women have now been making their own money, money isnt the only thing that matters to women, looks play a major role, I myself was born average, but ever since i went to gym and start to grow a beard and started taking care of myself from inside out, dude i can not tell you the results i get its actually insane, now I get to pick whom i want to date. and i dont even have money or status in check like you do, id say Lookmaxx, skincare, good diet and consistent gym and youll have crazy abundance. lets go, im rooting for all of us. I use to watch your videos before because they were funny and I use to support you I liked watching you, youre actually hilarious but now I can see you're slowly shredding your older self like a snake and becoming a savage man that you aspire to be, I can see the hunger and stuff in your eyes, WE humans are capable of achieving things beyond our imagination, So if no one told you this today I wanna tell you how smart, handworker and amazing person you are. you are capable of things beyond your imagination. We may not have the greatest genetics or talent or whatever but we substitute that with handwork and become the epitome of what masculinity looks like. and btw I love this content MUCH MORE because not only this is a trendy content now a days (self improvement) But it also helps us young men to stay on our purpose and crush whatever goals we got in front of us. I'm rooting for all of us and you lets go.
Status and the food chain aren’t the same anymore a lot of these people would get chewed up in the wild. I mean you’re talking about apex and pathetic businessman in the same sentence. Don’t listen to coaches on the internet to get women start training a combat sport first then go around these businessman and see the delusional confidence vs real confidence.
The blind leading the blind read the art of war if you want to figure out something about man’s inherent nature or blue pill yourself or whatever they call it and stay here 😈
@@stevenwilliams7041 this tbh 💯
Bro the thing you said about eye contact is something I can absolutely attest to. As someone who uses crowded public transport daily, the difference is undeniable. When you've been on no fap, people (especially girls) just look at you more.
😂😂😂sureeee bud sureeeee
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@@relmex370 like you was there 24 hour in a day just to hate someone’s comment the irony!🤡😂😂😂
@@GodsProphet23 cry more 😢 😂
I’ve been struggling with the concept of desire. This video hasn’t cemented the idea, but it’s kindled a flame.
Now it’s time to give that flame more fuel.
Thanks man.
Thank you, Captain, and congratulations! Fight the good fight, strive for our best and to hell with those things like porn that emasculates our masculine energy.
SR is an amplifier, period.
After 60 days, things manifest quickly.
Just learn to focus on those outcomes, put them out into the Universe and watch. I know I am.
Tickling 80 days atm.
Want more. Think bigger. GROW.
Literally 2 weeks after I stopped doing it I started dating my crush. I always thought it was bs but the results were literally instant for me
Haven’t watched the video yet but I would argue it isn’t “retention” but sexual drive and self-image. As someone in a long term relationship who has practiced nofap in the past, having sex doesn’t impact my interaction with women. The real reason I believe is Masturbation makes you feel guilt/worse, which you subconsciously take into your interactions with others. When you masturbate you also take your sexual urge away, killing your sex drive. When you approach a woman with confidence and intent, that’s what they can sense. Women feel that sexual intent and respond with it.
wow thanks so much for saying this, this is exactly what i was thinking too. i really understand what you mean about the guilt from masturbating, its different when its sex because that has a greater connection. recently ive been fapping but not ejaculating, i think thats also fine but only for a while, then you have to stop again.
It just makes me very angry and confrontational though like I just need to bust with all my might or imma beat somebodys ass
Thats correct guilt is gone when we don't shake the meat but what about the energy you feel ?? Definitely something to do with the body chemistry
@@preetjotsingh3688 to clarify, you mean the energy as in your energy levels (how much you can get done in a day)?
@@lemonstrangler something id be curious to hear is the perspective of someone that has regular sex outside of a long term relationship. Sex is highly entangled with our emotions and self-image and I wonder how it impacts a man in this regard.
Dude you just finished running 20 miles and you’re not sweating at all or breathing heavy, and you immediately launch into a speech? Cmon now.
Dont forget the camera was set up
I agreed 1 year ago I started nofap and I reached day 90, someday I was on studie place and I knew girl more old 2/3 years than me found me attractive, not just this time my classroom some girls told me you are different more pretty and than I realize nofap helps a lot... Now I'm starting again I'm closing to 9 day and I wish get this to my lifestyle
I love that this wasn't satire. Men don't take this seriously enough.
It's not the retention itself as much as how it removes ejaculating from the agenda of your connection with a woman. It gives you the ability to desire without needing the desire to be fulfilled to be internally satisfied
I had fallen of self improvement a bit and this video has really helped me I’m on a streak and I’ll really use this as a base for everything else
I am one of your earliest subscribers. Your videos boosted my desire to stay on nap fap journey and make it a part of my lifestyle.
The king within me is now the dominant force.
Stay strong kings.
I like the way you explained it man. Desire is the starting point of achievement. In the spiritual sense we should understand that no achievement can ‘complete’ us or make us happy (no outside circumstances or conditions should be the cause of our happiness) but we can find pleasure and happiness in setting and achieving goals for whatever means we desire. This is how I find happiness but also suffer from endless periods of emptiness and fustrations. That’s why Buddhist practice explains desire is the root of suffering. We can Create in the material world but are more like actors playing a role. ❤
Glad to see you talking about NoFap again. That's what lead me to your channel to begin with like 3 years ago. I have been doing great this year financially but still struggling in my fitness and other areas. I should probably take up NoFap again.
It’s so amazing and crazy to see how far you’ve come. I remember when you had literally no subscribers and I was like who’s this guy popping up on my feed. 👏🏽 👏🏽 good shit man!!!
It's even more inspiring when the woman you desire is outside of your reach.....
Here's some science, it is likely that the reason he keeps referencing around 7 days for all of these anecdotal experiences is because studies show testosterone peaks around one week of retention. It then levels off to baseline again afterwards.
Nofap "science" is like a zodiac signs for men.
You mean like trajectory? No constant benefits?
@@gowtham6822 yes, it drops back at week two and stays linear again. Short-term hormonal fluctuations, such as spike for about week and drop back do not have any effect on our bodies. More than that: as long as you're in a healthy range of testosterone even a long-term increase by 20% doesn't change much (that's why supplements such as testosterone boosters are waste of money even if they worked).
But if it did change anything i wonder why nobody ever brings steroids to the table. You could just pin testosterone and emulate effect of no-fap with 5-10x more effect, yet somehow we don't see steroid users to be flooded with women that "smell" their high testosterone, followed by high sex drive and confidence.
On top of that: studies prove that people who masturbate less have lower testosterone levels on average. Could be that people with lower testosterone have a lower sex drive and masturbate less, but also could be a cause-effect relationship behind this. Your body usually adjusts to the enviroment (when you train it increases muscle mass, when you don't it decreases it etc), so once you do a no-fap it finds it more beneficial to lower your libido therefore decrease your testosterone levels.
Off topic, but I did my first fully dead-hanging wide grip pull-up today 💪
Keep smashing it bro💯
lets gooo
@@LTLXIV king
Well done bro 👍 keep it up
Nice. GJ man. Not there yet myself but working towards it
To have that higher vibration it's very simple. Number 1, have a burning desire to be the best you can be.
Number 2, have no attachment to the outcome.