A work place bully tangled with an INTJ I know. In front of their Human Resources tribunal, the quietly logical INTJ, backed up by scrupulous notes/evidence (80 pages worth), was able to walk away, hoping that the effort had not been in vain. Shortly thereafter, the bully was transferred to another unit, one with a strong manager, well aware that the bully's poor behaviour had raised its ugly head towards another newby. So, vindication .....but after a lot of crap. Never try to bully an INTJ. They'll quietly analyse and document, and take you down.
I've got to agree with you. When the anger reaches the "fight or flight" level, I have to use all my will power left to ran away to prevent a brawl to happen. Fighting physically is not a common response for females like me when faced by an older male who has more authority in social dynamics and cultural norms. It's a more close relationship than professional as only close enough relationship can hurt enough to rile me up to that level. Especially when I'm physically cornered and he try to make me submissive using dominance and anger but I have faced worst.
So true! I am only truly upset by the few people about whom I care very deeply. I definitely desire privacy and solitude when I am angry; this is something the video has spot on.
Boooy when I reach my boiling problem I purposly unhinge my rage & get blind altogether. The only way to stop is either 5+ persons forcefully stopped me or I blackout
Laser-focus criticism is a reality for INTJs for sure. It comes in an intense flux from the inside out. It's hard to stop it, but for the strategic silence described in the video. Isolation is another strategy when INTJs detect frustration in their processes.
I was an destructive child. My earliest days involved damaging other people things but as I got reached middle school age, I started to break my own things instead. Now as an adult, I don't break anything beside people confidence. In my 20s, a coworker once asked me, why do I always go to "killing" blow while trying to problem solve. Now in my 30s, I just leave the people to deal with their own mess and walk out of the situation. I suppose I evolve/mature.
There's only certain things that have made me burn important bridges in life. And in order to burn them I have to be very, very angry as an INTJ female. Usually the tipping point is others I was "supposed" to be able to trust start lashing out at me when I need help or I'm in pain.
Fi: "NOW YOU'VE DONE IT!" Te:"Running simulations 1 thru 1000 with high probability contingencies and backup for optimal neutralization" Se: "ANDREALINE BOMB YEAH LET'S ROCK!" Ni: "Guys, maybe take it down just a notch..."
That's what I call the Cold Blooded Hell!! You realize that cold bloodying is way more effective than anything. Just plan ahead when exacly it will be the best time to burst that anger and have absolutelly not a single consequence because the person cannot do anything about it then. It's almost like revenge, but the situation was created by the person who angered me and it all became just a self fulfilling profecy, like a directioned karma.
I'm a super super angry INTJ right now and God knows how this video ended up in my feed. I want to ..... but I've got to remain calm and breathe and be like a normal angry person. Man this is so hard. I want to pilot a fighter jet and let it all out. Hyper focus but I don't have access to a fighter jet. I need my pad and pen and come up with another strategy. 1st, I'm gonna watch this video and see if there is an answer to my anger against stupid idiots.
Oh, I can get plenty angry, but I prefer restraint most of the time. I want to know that when I am angry, that anger is directed at the right target/s in the right ways. Immediate emotional impulse usually vents that energy instead of putting it to best and proper use.
I have a close family member who is an INTJ. What's represented online is mostly just a stereotype that is incorrectly misunderstood. They are far from robots. They actually feel really deep. They just don't express strong emotions outwardly because they have an amazing ability to look at the situations logically and find the solutions by analyzing them. And they can do it on the spot, which I find quite impressive. Gandalf the Grey is actually believed to be an INTJ, and he's one of the most beloved fantasy characters ever.
@@bethpace6936 people seem to care too much about these personality types, I personally think MBTI personality tests are not giving genuine results, I mean I don't believe in such thing , if you ask me I'm an "INTJ" my self (on paper), although I actually like thinking and strategizing planning for different things. I also like being social, I'm not anti social! I like meetings, I like talking to other people to get their view points (though I don't care much) but to understand how people think and study human behavior, it would just help me to understand the world around me better, I don't like to be weak in such an important part of social life having communication skills is one of the most important and powerful abilities a person can have!
@@Benjaminbadakhshon I completely agree! People take the mbti thing way too seriously. My nephew (INTP) sounds a lot like you. He likes his alone time, but he loves being with his friends and has many of them. He also enjoys hearing different viewpoints. Being introverted doesn't mean being anti-social. Though, I dislike it when people refer to being an introvert or shy as "anti-social" because anti-social is actually a mental disorder. Lol. You can definitely have any of these 16 personalities and have the maturity and capability to socialize in any situation.
@@Zzzzzzzzz678, introverted intuitives always complain about themselves a lot lmao, I don't want to judge people by stereotypes, but this channel and Reddit threads shout about it
@@davidzimmerman5359, because this type of edgy stuff is always from teens who want to be smart genius anime villain manipulators and believe that their MBTI type is superior to a majority of people. - ENTP
This personality type is just "guidelines" You can break free from the said weaknesses and grow beyond it. Don't put yourself in a little box.... Unless you're a little person -_-"
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when an intj isolates himself in time of anger he is actually protecting others from what what h can turn into
...into a war zone...yup.
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This is more like “When INTJs get overly irritated”. The doorslam happens when INTJs get angry. And we make sure the door never gets opened again
A work place bully tangled with an INTJ I know. In front of their Human Resources tribunal, the quietly logical INTJ, backed up by scrupulous notes/evidence (80 pages worth), was able to walk away, hoping that the effort had not been in vain. Shortly thereafter, the bully was transferred to another unit, one with a strong manager, well aware that the bully's poor behaviour had raised its ugly head towards another newby. So, vindication .....but after a lot of crap. Never try to bully an INTJ. They'll quietly analyse and document, and take you down.
Thanks for sharing your view.
“I’m Batman”
You say that because you haven't seen me lose my sh*t. I will go full berserk. It just takes A LOT
I've got to agree with you.
When the anger reaches the "fight or flight" level, I have to use all my will power left to ran away to prevent a brawl to happen. Fighting physically is not a common response for females like me when faced by an older male who has more authority in social dynamics and cultural norms. It's a more close relationship than professional as only close enough relationship can hurt enough to rile me up to that level. Especially when I'm physically cornered and he try to make me submissive using dominance and anger but I have faced worst.
So true!
I am only truly upset by the few people about whom I care very deeply.
I definitely desire privacy and solitude when I am angry; this is something the video has spot on.
Boooy when I reach my boiling problem I purposly unhinge my rage & get blind altogether. The only way to stop is either 5+ persons forcefully stopped me or I blackout
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Same . I’m the only person I’ve ever been afraid of
Laser-focus criticism is a reality for INTJs for sure. It comes in an intense flux from the inside out. It's hard to stop it, but for the strategic silence described in the video. Isolation is another strategy when INTJs detect frustration in their processes.
I would think that an INTJ as a child could get pretty mad, assuming that some of the INTJ traits had to either evolve or mature. Logically speaking.
Yes.
I was an destructive child. My earliest days involved damaging other people things but as I got reached middle school age, I started to break my own things instead. Now as an adult, I don't break anything beside people confidence. In my 20s, a coworker once asked me, why do I always go to "killing" blow while trying to problem solve. Now in my 30s, I just leave the people to deal with their own mess and walk out of the situation. I suppose I evolve/mature.
Thanks. You effectively described a human efficiency machine
Isolation is sought out no matter what.
Great spot on video! (Especially as a Production Supervisor).
Glad you enjoyed it
There's only certain things that have made me burn important bridges in life. And in order to burn them I have to be very, very angry as an INTJ female. Usually the tipping point is others I was "supposed" to be able to trust start lashing out at me when I need help or I'm in pain.
Fi: "NOW YOU'VE DONE IT!"
Te:"Running simulations 1 thru 1000 with high probability contingencies and backup for optimal neutralization"
Se: "ANDREALINE BOMB YEAH LET'S ROCK!"
Ni: "Guys, maybe take it down just a notch..."
That's what I call the Cold Blooded Hell!! You realize that cold bloodying is way more effective than anything. Just plan ahead when exacly it will be the best time to burst that anger and have absolutelly not a single consequence because the person cannot do anything about it then. It's almost like revenge, but the situation was created by the person who angered me and it all became just a self fulfilling profecy, like a directioned karma.
here's a great question before a debate. what's more important to you the topic at hand or your ego?
Personally in any situation it’s best I keep my focus on what is put right in front of me.
Bro you got me, I don't why I'm tempted to say my ego 😂 - INTJ
Healthy strong ego
@@blank9811 ye just a shame most egos are more overinflated than the American economy
It would be the topic because the ego is backed by extensive research to give high self-esteem and confidence when discussing the topic.
I'm a super super angry INTJ right now and God knows how this video ended up in my feed. I want to ..... but I've got to remain calm and breathe and be like a normal angry person. Man this is so hard. I want to pilot a fighter jet and let it all out. Hyper focus but I don't have access to a fighter jet. I need my pad and pen and come up with another strategy. 1st, I'm gonna watch this video and see if there is an answer to my anger against stupid idiots.
Keep em coming bro
i can totally, completely relate to these....... damnn trueeee
Oh, I can get plenty angry, but I prefer restraint most of the time. I want to know that when I am angry, that anger is directed at the right target/s in the right ways. Immediate emotional impulse usually vents that energy instead of putting it to best and proper use.
2 of my best friends got murdered and I always wanna crash out but the INTJ in me doesn’t allow it 😂
and if you anger the intj very much, then he will send the object of anger to the knockout
Man I am an intj and I'm glad with all your vids but you really need to ease up with us and give other personalities their space in your channel😅
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This actually makes sense.
How come all the points sound more or less the same
Efficient expression of the information just would not make a long enough video!
Cool people
some will think you're giving them compliments
I have a close family member who is an INTJ. What's represented online is mostly just a stereotype that is incorrectly misunderstood. They are far from robots. They actually feel really deep. They just don't express strong emotions outwardly because they have an amazing ability to look at the situations logically and find the solutions by analyzing them. And they can do it on the spot, which I find quite impressive. Gandalf the Grey is actually believed to be an INTJ, and he's one of the most beloved fantasy characters ever.
@@bethpace6936 people seem to care too much about these personality types, I personally think MBTI personality tests are not giving genuine results, I mean I don't believe in such thing , if you ask me I'm an "INTJ" my self (on paper), although I actually like thinking and strategizing planning for different things.
I also like being social, I'm not anti social! I like meetings, I like talking to other people to get their view points (though I don't care much) but to understand how people think and study human behavior, it would just help me to understand the world around me better, I don't like to be weak in such an important part of social life
having communication skills is one of the most important and powerful abilities a person can have!
@@bethpace6936 tank you for clearing this out
@@Benjaminbadakhshon I completely agree! People take the mbti thing way too seriously. My nephew (INTP) sounds a lot like you. He likes his alone time, but he loves being with his friends and has many of them. He also enjoys hearing different viewpoints. Being introverted doesn't mean being anti-social. Though, I dislike it when people refer to being an introvert or shy as "anti-social" because anti-social is actually a mental disorder. Lol. You can definitely have any of these 16 personalities and have the maturity and capability to socialize in any situation.
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Noice. Just kinda repetitive.
Bro really doesn't know any MBTI types except INTJ and INFJ
Unfortunately true 💔
@@Zzzzzzzzz678, introverted intuitives always complain about themselves a lot lmao, I don't want to judge people by stereotypes, but this channel and Reddit threads shout about it
@@borov66what's wrong with complaining about yourself? - INTJ
@@davidzimmerman5359, because this type of edgy stuff is always from teens who want to be smart genius anime villain manipulators and believe that their MBTI type is superior to a majority of people. - ENTP
This personality type is just "guidelines"
You can break free from the said weaknesses and grow beyond it. Don't put yourself in a little box.... Unless you're a little person -_-"