My Ex Is Angry And Bitter - Do THIS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 มิ.ย. 2023
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If you find that your ex is angry and bitter toward you, then there are certain things that we're going to have to clear up before you can move forward...
...And NO, you're probably not going to need to use No Contact as your strategy for this... At least not as your first resort.
In fact, clearing away the emotions is probably going to be the most effective thing you can do. Let's get into that in this video. - บันเทิง
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There were no questions, Clay, I am assuming because not even I received the notification that you were going live, perhaps not anyone did. That stinks lol
But thank youuuuuu, Clay. & I made it into your top 10 for a chance to recieve Modern Love for a set amount of time through your emails to me, courtesy of the 3 courses of yours I bought.
Thanks. I did edit the Q&A out of the end of this video, but I am considering not doing that in the future.
My ex claimed she needed space just to justify her actions and jump into a relationship with someone else
Yup that's what happens most of the time
@@tatsukinomiyaa women is never yours just your turn.. they catch you slipping and they will actually try and make you slip up stop training complain your training to much .. then you say ok huni your right then they end up going out with a guy whose out even more works away from home drinks takes coke 🤨 yeah women some can be very hard to work out.. but if you stay on your goals achieve them say this is my life you dont like it well 🤷 find your perfect man.. then they will be pouting out a fb post so proud of my man just won gold love you no how hard you trained to achieve that.. they want you to lead no you have options are confident and don't let them be the boss .. make them feel feminine and they will give you more respect more sex and be proud your with them.. show weaknesses let them lead and they will monkey branch and it could be a guy with 3 kids to 3 different women but hes more masculine and like it or leave it there's plenty more women will cheat on a guy that gives them everything does everything to make them happy.. for some attractive badboy 🫣🙄 yeah women
My ex husband used to still holding a grudge against me, for what HE did to me.
It’s the strangest thing
Typical Narcissist behavior..projecting things at you..gaslighting
No contact is often what they asked for and in that situation it is the mature thing to do.
Getting married tomorrow
When you are getting on fantastic with your DA ex, and she dumps you out of the blue, a week after her telling you she loves you and sadly her oldest friend passing away... (I didn't know she was DA until she dumped me....by text...and I started to do some homework on relationship attachment styles).
Telling me to leave her be and not to contact her, and that she was in a bad place. You don't have any choice but to go no contact.
Yea I apologized to my ex and her reply was I have nothing to say to you
I wish I could’ve came across this sooner. Smh. The no contact “cult” uses it as a manipulative method and almost a “guarantee”. Yes like you said some cases it helps emotionally disarm the situation. But in my case she told me she wish I would’ve contacted her days after not 3-4 weeks after. But I don’t regret the things I learned in no contact about myself as far as being an avoidant and learning that my childhood trauma has affected me in my relationships.
Clay I’d like to add thank you for being in the dating/relationship space as you are a breath of fresh air from all the no contact cult and regurgitated content.
It's easy to create a false account. and even if the post is genuine which I doubt. Why did she wish he contacted her "days after not 3-4 weeks after" COULD SHE NOT HAVE CONTACTED HIM?
I messed up after no contact. The first conversation was good... the second one I made the mistake of bringing up past issues and he is still pissed about them. I think I blew it.
Update? Similar thing here
@@nickelodeann We talk on a regular basis. He is still keeping his distance but he hasn't entirely discounted a future together so 🤷
If your ex was an FA and broke up with you, anger is what drives them. Disarming their anger and apologizing is the only way to have them consider you as a respectable person later.
Only if u have done something wrong
FA?
Furious Alligator?
Fearful Avoidant. They fear separation and avoid confrontation. Nightmare.
i never did anything wrong to her though?
What if you don't know what you've done but your ex keeps calling you psycho?
I went no contact..and I want to stay no contact until my dieing day..😂..these people never change...they can be such beautiful people..kind and lovely to be around..but when it changes and the negative thinking takes a hold..your doomed..I was sad to let her go..but after 5 times of leaving it was time to say goodbye..I told her...its true i love you very much....its also true...sometimes we have to let go of the people we love the most.
It sounds like you've been through a lot and have made a difficult but necessary decision for your well-being. It's incredibly tough to let go of someone you care about deeply, especially after multiple attempts to make things work. Recognizing the need to prioritize your own mental health and peace is a strong and commendable step. Staying true to your decision and maintaining no contact can help you heal and move forward. Remember, it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions, and giving yourself time and space to process is important.
What if you apologized and tried to explain and they still don’t want to listen to you?
No contact for more than a year
What if she blocks you?
If this is for me I don’t know why he is angry at me?
I think that would help me with my current situation (in my case I have those emotions and perceptions towards my former partner)
The problem is that she has not done that and is trying to act like nothing happened between us. I'm sure she sees it as mature but that's simply avoidant and cruel in my opinion.
I'm wondering how does one move past that without the person actually apologizing or even recognizing what they did. Because I cannot depend on their actions to heal but I'm finding it pretty difficult to deal with.
She broke up with me she said i took her for granted she was right cause a past relationship so i didnt beg i gave her space and fix myself in 4 months i text twice a accountability letter and called her but she still bitter and doesnt wanna talk or go for a coffee...i did explain in the letter i did say sorry i did work on myself im happy i do sports see familly and friends...i really think we had something good its my fault and i fix the problem what to do next ! Please i need help...thx
I think man u gotta let more time by she hasn’t had a chance to miss u im in that same boat rn best thing for both of us to do is let time calm the situation down it may take a while but really don’t be accessible to her just for now keep leveling up mentally and physically bro you did everything you can to try and get her but right now nothing else besides you letting her fix herself is the key im not saying give up but I am saying this is one of those situations you gotta just let time do its work and also let her really process without any access from you from text to letters to her even seeing ur new social media posts bcz rn she sees u as a bad guy
I guess you are right...i did reach out 4 times in 4.5 months i guess its ok cause they need to know we dont forget them...lets hang in there 😊
You are misunderstanding no concact and belittling it's benefits
Did I miss something? Did he ever get to the point like what the hell happened to the point?
I am doing 2 short weeks of no contact because my ex told me she needed time and space. I'll be ending it in 9-10 days when I show up to her work to apologize. I will be updating on how it goes in case anyone is interested.
I am
What a daft idea. Don’t be ridiculous. If she said she needed time and space it is she who decides she has had enough time not you. You never contact her again unless she gets back in touch with you. This space business is usually because they want to break up but haven’t the guts to tell you. Respect yourself and don’t dare reach out unless she does. Your idea is guaranteed to repel her further.
Me too
@@bernieoconnell5515 I have since decided to not show up in person. I'm still doing no contact in her will, and will just send an apology text way down the line and leave it at that.
And to add, she had the guts to break up with me. She said a couple days later that she wants time and space
@@heartymcdurianzhow’s it going dude?
A month ago he asked me for us to take it slow before getting into a relationship. We have been out to eat twice and will play a video game when we don’t see each other. He will even text me good morning when he use to never when we dated. But lately it has felt like no progression and a scary thought I’m just a option.
Clay, you are very sincere, but your advice is often sadly sincerely wrong. This is obviously important for setting yourself up as a relationship coach. Therefore I have to clarify what I say....what qualifications do you have to state no contact is the wrong approach? Clay with the greatest respect, if your sincere and genuine get qualified.. Now to answer the question, your qualifications as a " Break up coach" your answer well it's the money I make...."
I will not forgive and never forget 👙✔️
Boosting your self esteem.😂
This guy hasn’t a clue keep moving.
no one ever comes back. i promise you that. life isn’t a movie
You’re mistaken I begged and chased a guy less than 2 years later he contacted me saying he regrets