Why Does Your Ex Hate You So Much? Dealing with a Mean Ex Wife

She hates you... but it's actually not about you at all. In fact, it has nothing to do with you. The key to dealing with a mean ex wife is to understand the real reason why she is so mean. Why does your ex hate you so much? She hates you because she believes the only alternative is to hate herself (she's wrong, by the way, but it's really sad that she doesn't know that). Understanding why she acts the way she does will help you stop taking it personally and mend relationships with mutual friends and family.
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Why does your ex hate you so much? Dealing with a mean ex wife can feel impossible. It hurts to know that someone you once loved (perhaps still love?) can feel such animosity towards you. And it gets even worse if your ex turns your family or kids against you!
Talking to your ex wife can be hard enough, but when you're dealing with a mean ex wife... it can be nearly impossible. In this video I explain why your ex seems to hate you so much, and how you can respond to that anger in a productive way.
Your ex hates you because she believes the only alternative is to hate herself. Either you are to blame for the divorce, or she is. Often it is the woman who files for divorce, and because of this she becomes even more committed to villainizing you. She has to, in order to justify her choice to leave the marriage. The truth is, your ex wife doesn't actually hate you, she is trying desperately not to hate herself.
She acts like she hates you because she believes that either you are to blame for the divorce, or she is. And she can't deal with the idea that it's her. The real truth is that isn't her fault, nor is it yours.