Great Video. I think this really explain's women's game theory well. I think you are missing an arrow that explains simps and how they attempt to move up the status ladder by playing into the woman's game instead of playing the male ladder. I would draw an additional arrow to the lowest "she's a 10" arrow that also says " step on me" or "take my money queen" as the reason these guys are doing this is they think this will increase their perceived status on the male ladder BY women, although all the men higher up on the male ladder see those men the same way as the actual female 10s see the green zone of women. and some men have a response to those simp men that either amounts to "stay acting stupid", " I don't blame her", or the rare response where a man of higher status will try to open the eyes of that lower status man because helping a man improve does similarly work the same way as the female strategy but it does not share as big of a portion of the male strategy as it does in the female. My evidence for that is this channel. It helps men understand the feels dominated strategies of women and it has increased your status at least on the internet. The "step on me " or "take my money queen" would be parallel to the "she's not that hot bro" line and probably used anywhere between the nice guy to the pokemon guy . I also kind of think this new trend of men getting asking to be stepped on by higher status women like attractive cosplay/of models and internet celebs known also for suggestive content is really a new cooperative strategy between women and lower status men to lower the status of higher status men who tend to be more dominant towards women and other men in the hierarchy. The idea will be " you (the man) publicly show an overt form of submission to me(the woman) so I can now try to even insert myself somewhere into the man ladder , and in exchange I will give you higher status so more men copy what you do" but normal men should and will not buy it , only men in the orange region will, and they can stay stupid or not participate, the choice is their's. and although shortform looks like a paywalled version of spark notes, I think that's actually a good sponsor because i don't know how much that website has been updated since we all used it in the 2010s to get through highschool and undergrad literature content. So I will be checking it out. Keep doing great work good sir!
Can you apply this concept to the viral jubilee video where the women ranked themselves and the men then ranked the women afterwards? The women put the chubby girl up top, and ranked the black woman like second (she was cute but did not rank that high to me), the Asian girl was visibly socially excluded despite being the most attractive (the men thought so too). I feel like there’s a lot to dissect there
They don’t mean her body is beautiful when they say that though. They mean she’s beautiful in her comfort in her own skin. You boys take things too literally.
Yes that’s literally what the video explained. And the guys here got it. They said “The girls all say lizzo’s a 10, but if you say they are like lizzo they’re mad.” Because, as explained, they didn’t say what they meant. And the girl in the comments here came to say: “us girls don’t mean what we say.” Video confirmed.
This means that by collectively agreeing to give a false rating, they just avoid being rated altogether. Which again is a form of conflict avoidance, and in a scenario of men vs women, women act with the hive mind, and prioritize the conflict against men, over the conflict between themselves.
@@hyperteleXii What puts me off specifically, is how their collective shadow-matriarchy undermines Male progressive behavior. They paradoxically deny Men the ability to change, by enforcing that Men will always be one with Patriarchal tactics. In essence, the good men are gone, because they won't let "good men" thrive.
I think another reason why all of the "10's" were so frustrated by the self identified 6.7 is because they were all playing a game of intellectual stonewalling, refusing to honestly engage in the rating of themselves, while the lone honest girl actually engaged with rating herself honestly. This broke the stonewall of "we are all the best" and portrayed them as ridiculous, which was their one defense against having to engage with their own flaws. Notice how they all turn on her... Ironically, the acknowledgement that she has flaws instantly makes her more appealing than her self assessment, as you noted
Aaah. Now the body-positivity movement makes sense. That's so brutally evil - women know how to f you up while maintaining the aura of friendliness and support
And the body-positivity movement revealed itself to be a sham immediately after the media decided they wanted to obsessively focus on trying to make Trump feel insecure about the size of his hands.
Confidence isn't even attractive in women. Like when have you ever been, "She looks kinda mid, but her confidence just draws me to her." I'd take a pretty insecure girl over an average confident one any day. Hell I'd take a pretty insecure girl over a confident pretty girl because she's more likely to avoid conflict.
@@DarkSpartan343Confidence, meaning not shy and capable of talking / communicating with anyone in a fun and engaging way. That is attractive confidence and doesn’t have anything to do with looks.
@@GenZMother Capable of talking to others is just being normal. What you're really saying is "I want a girl that doesn't suffer from any severe mental defects."
They only cooperate together to manipulate men as a whole. They see men as their ultimate victim to take advantage of so when they all overinflate female value it's with the unspoken mission that ultimately it's men who are duped and who have to overexert themselves trying to woo and hold onto women who are 'better than them'. The whole mindset is parasitic they want to live off of and control the men in their lives.
first thing that came to mind, hey I want to talk to her. Let's get her logic and why she feels that way. The rest its like uh send them back to the factory they are defective.
I think she is just more intelligent and knows that perception of an inflated ego is a turn off to men so she under scores herself because she knows that’ll make her most liked thus winning the game
It was a power move. She broke rank and made the other girls look bad and raised her status in the process. It was a pretty brilliant move. She wouldn't have gotten away with it except she did it by being "modest."
Social conditioning technique used as a dating strategy. If they can all, simultaneously lower the bar, together. Then they can give less to men and get more from them. But if one woman breaks formation- and loves generously, then it shows men that ALL of them can do it as well. They just choose not to. And the illusion is broken.
Interesting that the reaction to "I'm a 6.8" was "What the fuck! Don't ever say something like that". We're supposed to interpret that as "don't be so hard on yourself sister!" but you can hear the edge in her voice. It meant "What the fuck are you doing blowing up our solidarity. STFU".
That's true, because playing the 10s game plays to her own confidence in her sexiness sitting next to moby dick for example. However, I do believe women probably intuit that other women feel they can be 10s in a given area if they put their minds to it: I'd almost be more wary of a woman who plays the appeal to sympathy card: "little-ol-poor-me!" downgrading herself to a 6 instead of thinking: "At my best in the right circumstances I'm a 10 and worth every bit of it! There's men out there would think that... ." There is nuance also although in this case the woman on the right is pissed off because she's put too many eggs into the "being a sex doll" basket and has nothing of value left over... it's too damaging to her if one of the other girls does not play nice in THAT game.
So true. The easiest way to get disliked by toxic girls is to not support them. Just saying you think differently is bad. They expect everyone to just go with it or stay quiet. If you are one against a group, they wont stay quiet.
As a woman, I find this fascinating. And completely true! We are taught as girls to always "be nice", and to never tear each other down openly, but behind closed doors? Yeah, absolutely. We know that girl isn't a 10, but if we pretend to like her, we can keep her in our social circle, find all the dirt about her, and then tear her down behind her back. This makes total sense.
@@hrgirl26 I hear all kinds of crazy shit from my coworkers about their wives' workplace politics (they work in nursing with little male colleagues). Best friends turn into enemies on a weekly basis while keeping up appearances like nothing's changed etc., I don't envy that kind of mental warfare.
The saying goes “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned,” but 'modern' women don't even need to be scorned to be ruthless and mean; they do it for sport these days, and they always play for keeps. A reminder of a 1980s song "You [Modern Women] Give Love a Bad Name" I can't imagine why any man of sound mind would consider marriage in this day an age. A woman to have sex with is not that hard to find, and if a man has a hard time finding one he can always engage the services of a call girl who will almost certainly be better looking than the pissy girlfriend with a bad attitude, will provide him even more sexual satisfaction, will not bring any drama into his life, and will not try to keep half of everything after a breakup. Whether they realize it or not, women are on board of this crazy train to nowhere called 'Modernity' and yes girls, the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train.
“Why aren’t you cooperating” at the end made the light 💡 bulb go off They know that being honest makes her more attractive because she’s not playing their game
When the girl said she was 6.7 to the others she was basically rating them lower because they all knew where they really ranked. These games are fucked but I can't blame people for playing them!
The black girl at the end is hotter then her, and I'm not seeing where yall are seeing that the basic girl is hotter, like the lightskin looks like a fucking model lol
The hunger games my guy. But for real, this is just the nature of nature. Animals fight each other for mating rights. Humans more or less do the same. I used to think it was fucked up. But then I realized I wasn't upset because the brutal nature of a hierarchy. I was upset because I've been diluted my entire life that it's not that way and then when I found out, that was the big upset. If it's any constellation though, just remember that unless you make it this way, your entire life doesn't have to revolve around mating. The more you focus on yourself and less about getting a mate the better. It's a part of life. But I don't think its the only thing makes life worth living.
I think she did it to make the other girls look bad😂 look at her face when the other girls said ten and she said 6.7 so sneaky she knew those guys would fall for it. never trust women😂
@@awesomecool3280 Hell yeah! she was very clever there. More than the 'humility', I find the sneaky punch she landed there to be attractive. Made the women look bad, made the guys fawn lol.
"Why aren't you cooperating" was so incredibly telling. The other three girls formed a closed-shop union to delude Gorlok the Destroyer there, and they were scandalized the other woman refused to play along.
which I loved bc clearly, gorlock is a NEGATIVE 10 and so shorty accurately claiming 6.7 brings the room back to reality, part of which gorlock is clearly not a fucking 10. we need more chicks like her.
truth be told its how every statist bootlicker believes reality works, weather they admit it or not. women are just way worse at it, since they dont at least have some inherit sense of logic
Men deal with the physical world to obtain physical resources for the community, and women compete for status within that community to gain a higher share of those resources. So in essence, men play the hierarchy game in the physical world (competing in things like physical strength and problem solving - for example the handshake game), while women play it in the social world (the reputation warfare game). Both women and men act in a way that maximises their options and resources. And people who call women "delusional" are doing exactly what HoeMath here is talking about: trying to make themselves seem higher status by degrading others and making themselves seem better by comparison.
literally no, you had explanation in the video and you got zilch out of that. The point is they know what the truth is, but do not state that to maintain alliances to have group barganing power and to sabotage competition.
The woman who rated herself a 6.7 shattered their unspoken tribal rule of maintaining sisterhood while sabotaging each other behind their backs. The betrayal was palpable.
A way to make fun of their lies is to agree with them. “You know what girls? I totally agree with you, gorlock and the girl on the right are both tens, they literally are equally beautiful” and watch them SCREAM ON THE INSIDE
When a woman higher up on this hierarchy doesn’t conform to the strategy, is this what makes her “a pick me girl”?? The “pick me” thing has never made sense to me, but it made sense to me during this video
Idk i do think the term girls girl is more like that. A pick me wants the validation of men, that doesnt really have to do with they hive energy, its just tiring to see somebody be a try hard, its the same with men
When insanity is normalized, sane people will be confused. This is like the Marauder's Map to the madness, invaluable! Figuring all this out at a comparatively young age is pure genius. You, Sir, truly have found your calling.
The woman downvoting herself with a REALISTIC number draws attention to the OTHERS value disparity and makes people look at them with a more discerning, truthful eye.
She is also signalling to men that she is a reasonable and honest person, and women know that men like that behavior. So by behaving in that way, she's making herself more attractive to men.
@@kingingrey1882 It would be a race to the bottom. It then goes to the absurd in the other direction…. Crabs in a bucket mentality. “Oh yeah? You think you’re humble? … look at me being even MORE humble…. “ 😆
@@sorryocifferI agree, but at least eating yourself lower shows that you know you can improve. Rating yourself a perfect ten means you believe there is nothing you need to improve on.
As a woman, this is the simplest and most thorough explanation of female dynamics I've seen in a while. 👍 It's like when celebrities say "follow your dreams and one day you'll be successful too" They have to say that in order to appear humble and good natured. When, in reality, we all know the connections they have and the crap they probably had to do to get there that most of us are not willing to do. Society structures are all about image
The “follow your dreams” line is such a bad thing to tell young people. I hate that so many talented and hard working kids waste their youth pursuing fantasy. It should be “follow your talents”
i came a across a meme one time that says something along these lines "money doesnt matter" --rich people "beauty doesnt matter" --beautiful people perfectly describes what this video is telling us. its all about higher status people saying nice things to lower status people to not upset them.
Sure, but from this comment it's evident that _you_ think _they_ have it easy, which is just not true. Imagine for a moment how hard it must suck to live social life in a world of secret dishonest competition like this. Sure, women might have gained advantages and men lost some, but it doesn't mean there's anyone for whom the present day situation is actually good...
@@enricobianchi4499 from your comment, the logical conclusion would be to think that women shouldn't be in charge of anything, less they make it hard for everyone and themselves?
No, women are right. We do have it easy, extremely easy in fact…. if we’re the top 10% of gigachads. And unfortunately that’s the only population of men women actively engage with. And those top 10% can afford to be complete jackasses because most women will forgive them since most women think they can’t do any better, and if they don’t, then the gigachads can always just move onto the next woman anyways because they have so many. And if women say men are assholes or men are cheaters, they are absolutely telling the truth… based on their own experiences of interacting with the same top 10% of men. That’s just the sad reality of the world we live in unfortunately..
As someone who feels like an outlier as a woman, this was pretty interesting. I've never felt compelled to flow with the feminine comraderie in groups of women. I think that's because as a young child I was outcast by girls for not being "girly" enough. This also happened in high school when colorguard competitions were a thing. Even though we were all on the same team accomplishing a common goal, every girl on the team was secretly plotting against the others. These games seemed so childish to me.
as a woman who struggles with social cues, this might be why I don't have many female friends. It's frustrating to me when conflicts have to be muzzled in female spaces, and I worry about being called a pick me if I don't play the game right. Great video though, I feel like I learned a lot of concepts that have confused me
Same I'm an introverted, awkward woman that doesn't really know how to "play the game." I don't overtly have issues with other women, but they are very hesitant to accept me as well. It's like existing on the edge of a circle where you feel like crap for not being "in" but even when you get "in" you still feel like crap
The 6.7 girl is probably the most openly competitive one amongst them with a little bit of a masculine essence with her appeal to logic and reality, things that also sound good to guys. She's probably smarter then the other girls. That's why they immediately reacted "you don't conform, you draw the attention on you at our expense". Her 6.7 was bigger than their 10. She is not really 6.7 but she saying that is another thing that makes me think she is a bit more clever.
6.7 is the perfect score to rate yourself as to get status. Not so low you degrade yourself, but low enough to not seem too cocky. She's indeed pretty smart
@@sandboy5880I don't know what's going on but lately certain innocent words make my comments disappear. It's not like I said rights should be taken away from certain people we call women, which I agree, but simple words. Let's see if this one disappears.
This was so reasonable and made so much sense to me, as a boy who doesn’t understand the opposite side of the system. An additional thought I had is that confidence is attractive, but arrogance isn’t. And this self promotion of equality comes across as arrogance and when that girl said 6.8 she just pointed that out. Plus she showed that she knows what we (guys) really care about: honesty and genuineness, not this self inflated puffed up added arrogant attitude
Yes, women are the reason we have a middle class. The middle class doesn’t really exist. There is the capital class and then there’s the people who work. Women said well my worker man is better than your worker man so I’m in the middle I’m not in the lower class with unwanted men. The middle-class is like all women saying I’m a 10
@@PhantomFilmmaker-jd9hoprecisely. It's a subliminal expression that men are forever lesser and beneath them, and they're the ones to be chased/pursued... by even the top % of men.
This is why, when you go with your girlfriend to a party, another girl can walk up and say "Oh that's such a cute outfit" and as you're walking away your girlfriend will say "What a b*tch," but another girl may come up and say the exact same thing and she'll say "Oh, wasn't that so nice of Suzi to notice?"
i prefer how guys will just beat the shit out of eachother and get it over with. no mind games, no long standing rivalries beneath a veil of kindness, just getting the problem out of the way then and there
@@sovietunion7643 yea, i've noticed men never really hold a grudge for longer than a week, and thats because al issues are resolved by the end of the week
2:00 Psychologically, this was also smart because of Contrarianism. She stands out by saying a different number. In a sense, it takes MORE CONFIDENCE to be different, then to go with the flow and fake a 10
The social media thing is interesting because it creates a delusion that they are magical creatures with special abilities, but they go out into the grocery store, and if a man simply recognizes that she exist, she has a panic attack
I wish he would stop assuming people rate attractiveness on a bell curve. Most people don't. If there are 10 apples in a bucket, and all 10 are halfway to being ripe, I'm going to rate the flavor of all of them as "5". I'm going to enjoy all of them equally. I'm not even going to notice whatever infinitesimal differences in ripeness they might have. If there are 10 women in the room, and all of them are just barely attractive to me, I'm going to feel just barely attracted to all of them. Equally apathetic toward all of them.
@@kedabro1957 Men in the aggregate do indeed rate women's attractiveness on a bell curve. Individual men may or may not. Women in the aggregate have an incredibly skewed rating system, so perhaps a negligible number of individual women would rate on a bell curve, but vast majority do not.
My ex would secretly compete with everyone but act like she was cooperating with them, even with me. I pointed this out to her and she cried and asked her therapist whom told her that yes, that was in fact true. She didn’t even realize when she was sabotaging and manipulating her peers until I mentioned it. That’s the thing, women don’t even know they are doing it. It’s like cognitive dissonance, holding two opposing ideas in their heads.
@@Epoch-vu8cj There's many levels to "knowing". They could be doing it purposefully but not consciously, because they never thought that deeply on this level about why they were doing it.
I find women live in Cognitive Dissonance land all the time. Even the most reasonable and down to earth women will have their moments where they openly display some CD
one could say the girl being modest and honest in describing herself as a 6.7 is actually her being very confident; confident in breaking the unspoken game women play.
it was actually an underhanded sabotage technique, and instantly put herself higher on the status chart, whether she should be or not. It was quite brilliant, of course. But I think it was so successful only because the other girls were so extremely insecure about their false inflation
her choice of decimal point was ridiculous. oh did 6.5 seem too self-defeating? they're all just playing stupid status games, attraction can't be reduced to a number, and one of my attraction prerequisites would be refusing to do so
@@1985slipstream Whether she's "really a 6.7" doesn't matter. The important bit is that she gave a real sounding answer, while everyone else obviously lied, which makes them all look too scared to give an actual answer and instead just repeating "10" which is basically the same as refusing to answer the question.
I love the Lizzo Paradox. Women say, "Lizzo is so pretty" and get angry when you say they look like Lizzo. LOL! Hows about the Gorlock the Destroyer paradox? LOL
Aight time to do a quick estimation from right to left. For physical appearance relative to the 6.7: 7.2, 2.8, 6.5, 6.7, 8.0, 6.7. For personality (purely from the short clip): 4.0, 4.0, 4.0, 4.0, 7.5. If we take a composite score average: 5.60, 3.90, 5.25, 6.00, 7.10. From simply giving an honest rating, the leftmost woman pulled ahead into first in composite ranking by 1.10 points
Holy crap…I’m a male engineer, we have trouble with women because we are strictly logical, structured, and direct. Seeing this video literally blows my mind…like WTF, how can people be having all these sub-conversations within a higher level conversation?? Like…what is going on here. If someone asks me a question I give them a CORRECT answer. How can you have a productive conversation with someone playing these idiotic games???
This is cute:) It's another way of acknowledging that women are more multidimensional in their relationships. The conversations you don't understand seem like an 'idiotic game,' but to women it makes perfect sense.
An old friend of mine named Jessica once directly told another girl she was ugly. The other girl didn’t go to school the next day and she hardly ever spoke to Jessica again. I was honestly flabbergasted that Jessica was so honest. There were no status games in that moment. She just completely destroyed her confidence. Jessica still feels bad about it, and that was about 10 years ago. I love being honest with my brother when we fight and then playing Star Wars video games five minutes later to make peace.
Women saying "I'm a 10" or "You're a 10" should be interpreted as "I don't want to answer". Other values may be closer to reality but this one value is special.
They understood that the whatever podcast was a "man vs. Woman" context. So in order to minimize in-group infighting in order to oppose the men effectively, they had to all be tens.
The Whatever Podcast is not Man vs. Women, it is just "reality" vs Women and the Men just point that out! And they say Men do not have empathy, Men have more Empathy than women!
Most interestingly seen with Gorlock the Destroyer. Her "I'm a f*ckin' 10" was a thinly veiled threat daring the other girls to call her out. That's why the cooperation high five was between the two prettier girls, but Gorlock wasn't included in it. It was a covert mutual defense pact between the girls that actually have power.
They do this everywhere, which is even semi public. If we assume your point to be true, then they perceive everywhere outside their bedrooms to be "man vs. woman" contexts. TBF, that seems quite plausible.
Not true at all. An unattractive female who is out of shape, doesn't present herself well because she's a slob or just doesn't care about her appearance might be lucky enough to have high social status and "power" for many other reasons, but she is still not a 10 at all. Lying to each other doesn't make all women 10's simply because you're delusional. That mindset is a relatively new phenomenon and just because it boosts egos and self esteem to lie to each other doesn't make those assessments accurate. On the flip side an uneducated, unsuccessful man with a smoking body and limited social status and power is most certainly not a 10 in the eyes of any intelligent woman and absolutely in the eyes of men. If you're going to judge based on physical attributes and beauty then not one of the women in that video are 10's......especially since you're trying to rank men by their physique only. Flawed comment on many levels
Bro I gotta first tell you that I love the drawable charts and diagrams. It is like you put all my actual talking points and many others as again drawable charts and easy to follow diagrams. I do heavily thank you for that
Random thought: Men don't mind hanging around higher status men for a variety of reasons - this isn't meant to be a monocausal explanation -- but one important reason why men don't mind is that they are generally not hypergamous and don't mind hitting on the second or third hottest girl in a group, while the highest status guy takes the prettiest girl. This is especially true because women are often in groups with relatively similar attractiveness levels, for exactly the reasons you lay out, and so if the prettiest girl is an 8, her friends are typically at least 6 or 7s. And in fact, the high status guy is acting like a lightning rod for attractive women, increasing my likelihood of success with that 6 or 7. Putting it simply, if I'm out with my more attractive/higher status buddy and he goes home with the 8, and I go home with the 6, that's a win for us both. It wouldn't bother me that I couldn't compete with him because I live in reality. But this same situation repeated a few times would drive a woman insane.
I saw this brought up in a movie about John Nash. Basically he and his 5 friends were looking at a group of 5 girls and and they all wanted to go for the prettiest woman, however John realised that if they all go for her her friends will get jealous and leave effectivley thating the best looking gir with them. So he came to the conclusion that if they all go for a different girl everyone gets go home with a woman, which is supposedly how he came up with the economic theory that the economy will be best when every man does what is best for himself and the ones around him, as oppose to doing what is best for himself.
Pretty spot on, I anyways feel like the hottest girls are a pain in the ass to deal with, and usually STR material anyways, which kind of lines up nicely with high status men who have like 5 of these sleep around women in line.
Thank you guys... This is probably the most sensible, intelligent, civilised, mutually-respectful, helpful and honest comments section that I've ever been a part of, so I just wanted to show you all some appreciation after you made the effort to type your thoughts. Oh yeah... I really can't figure-out if it's a total lack of crazy "feminist" women making toxic "clever" remarks and poking their noses into other people's business that makes this comments section so enjoyable, or the very simple fact that men listen to understand while women listen to reply, so any opinions on this will be welcomed...?
Dunno. Realistic men saying they want something over nothing. Based. Feminism is a blight on society and destroys the unity of men and women. We are fundamentally different and being different things together to form one complete while when raising a family. This is good. Feminism says there is no difference, so it immediately starts with the opposite foundation. So if the previous assertion is good and tried it’s opposite must be bad and untrue.
13:54 pay attention to the girl who says shes a 6.7. She understands the game that these girls are playing, then she glaces over to the men before saying her rating. She decided to understand the situation and choose a different side.
Yeah. I don't know why no one else noticed this. In that situation, she would try and do repair damage behind the scene with those other women after the show. That's how that works when you play both sides (including the audience). Bravo puppet master. Very apt name.
This dynamic is part of why traditional societies view women as inherently dishonest and dishonorable. Their social strategies are largely deceptive and they are frequently focused on undermining each other. It’s the exact opposite of the behavior patterns you need to build a functional society.
Exactly. Most of our institutions were also built on the assumption men were running them, so now that women are a majority in them they start falling to execute their function.
Female strategy is all about avoiding open conflicts and violence and fostering cooperation. Societies exist because we decided naked aggression wasn't appropriate in most situations. Sometimes in the name of cooperation, you don't puncture someones self esteem and make a mortal enemy. The thing is avoiding conflicts can't be the only strategy or nothing gets solved.
I just learned this lesson the hard way - a man lower in 'status' that I didn't respect at work taught me a lesson in perseverance and I bought him lunch. It shook my perception of who I listen to vs. avoid, and why. There are areas you can respect about an otherwise detestable person. This is how Jesus pulled it off, I suppose.
@@Jayr8367 human civilizations have always had a significant degree of open conflicts and violence. Societies exist because the ability of men to resolve their conflicts through direct confrontation and accept the hierarchies which result. Far from “fostering cooperation”, the psychology of indirect female competition leads to dishonesty and sabotage tactics, which undermines the trust necessary for societies to operate. This is why major civilizations (ex. China, India, the Islamic world) have historically gone to the extreme of outright confining women to the home and why EVERY human civilization has been patriarchal.
As an ~8 woman, when another woman tells me I’m hot/ beautiful/ won the genetic lottery whatever… and I simply, quietly agree with them without Immediately gassing them up in return (if for instance I just say a genuine thanks and return to whatever we were talking about/ whatever I was doing), the tension that’s created in that instant is unbelievable. It feels like every compliment is bate for me to include them or adhere to ‘Cooporation’ as its aptly referred to in this video. Without the reflexive “omg you’re gorgeous too babe” or phonily scanning them for something to compliment, an implicit insult seems to be fabricated. Often times I feel like I didn’t ask anyone for a compliment in the first place, I’m just existing and this game and my refusal to play, just sets me up to ‘bring other women down’. Maybe I’m missing something and simply I’m an asshole for existing in the body I was born in and having an attitude similar to men of …acknowledging observable reality.
I actually don't like when I compliment someone and they immediately compliment me back. That's not at all why I do it. And in turn, if someone compliments me I just say oh thanks or ew you must need glasses bc I don't always care for being complimented on looks bc it's the only thing I didn't work for. There's much cooler things about me.
Ya know, there is a male equivalent of this but more to do with skills / resources. You'd get complements on those but at times it's a bit of a lure. They'd butter you up and then it becomes (slightly) harder to refuse something down the line. It's similar to baiting you into co-operating. Just like with your case, when you don't immediately respond to it, they get a bit lost all of a sudden, lol. Just refusing to play helps you in the mid to long run.
What is the likelihood that the only reason you feel this nonchalant about the subject is because you ARE an 8, and are thus high enough on the scale to feel true confidence and thus your social needs are being met? If you were uglier, you'd care about this more.
Girl who rated herself a 6.7 was at least an 8 Asian girl (looks only ) is an 8 but personality drags her down to a 6 Girl next to her is a 7 (above average but bland personality) Gorlock the destroyer isn't even on the grading scale And the girl all the way to the right I cannot tell because she is mostly cosmetic so I will be safe and say 5
I truly believe you're coping a bit. I feel like your rating is based on your emotional response to how they answered a bait question. For starters, you cant really know someones personality from them saying a number. You can say the number is a representation of their thought processes, but I would argue thats also a load of bs because being "logical" isnt a precursor to having personality. A lot of men are a perfect representation of my stance. Logical but lifeless ass holes. the two girls you rated 8s physically have a pretty clear discrepancy in looks. The asian girl has one of the most symmetrical faces I've ever seen and her gaze is soft and welcoming. The white girl (she is pretty, dont get me wrong) has a stronger jaw line and a sort of death stare. Her hair is also thinner.
@@indianastoned8234I think there’s a right and wrong way to be a hustle grindset person. The real ones that be putting in that work shouldn’t have to constantly talk about it around their friends when they hang out or constantly posting about it online. Some dudes make self improvement their whole personality and don’t realize they come across like an annoying try hard. I work out a lot and never feel the need to post mirror selfies cause it’s kind of cringe.
when I'm emotionally detatched, it's like a fascinating and sophisticated sport. When I think about the logistics of starting a family, it is a black pill.
I get the feeling the instant that woman said she was a 6.7 her status instantly escalated way above those around here, including the one that looks like an actual 10 beside her. It was kind of a bit of a trick, almost entering the domain of how males compete. The move showed her up as being more clever than the others, and that's an attractive quality.
It's not actually humility it's a power move. Look at the chart. Drawing a distinction between herself and everyone else is saying "I have enough status to stand on my own." Who knows what her actual self estimation is but just saying something different is in itself a play for status by calling the bluff, and judging by the comments it seems to have worked.
They never ask them what they think other people think of them. They are asked to rate themselves. It's not the same question if you like to lie to yourself.
Citing the study was absolute gold, as well as casually referring to Robert Green's book - the 48 Laws of Power... The more awareness we have on these games, that men and women play, the more we can navigate through them with wisdom... Well done! ⚡✊
Most men are very dumb socially tbh. I remember last night there was 2 attractive girls at the hostel I'm at playing pool with the guys, and just getting constant validation. I remember thinking they, don't want to get with any of yall, but yall can't see it.
It’s insane the level of accuracy and how well it reflects my real life experience. I think this guy really does know women better than they know themselves. Why else do you think you never get good advice on women from women? Because women don’t understand women either that or keeping men in the dark is apart of the game that they play with each other.
I find these videos even more illuminating when you realize these dynamics exist far beyond male/female relations and really explain a lot of our current socio-political discourse. "The left" is feminine, "the right" is masculine. Once you realize these same games are being played in all arenas our vexing world makes a little bit more sense.
thats kind of why you need a balance between genders. men without women can be too brutal and direct to the point of barbarity. women without women don't have a logical guide to keep them in check and fall into pointless ego games.
The problem is that the 6.7 girl is also playing some mind games. You can see the effects of it in this comment section with all these dudes saying nice things about her. In reality, she is probably the most evil one out of the whole bunch and all of you fell right into her trap without hesitation.
Thank goodness I found this channel. It's amazing to learn stuff from this channel and then watch it in real time or livestreams. One experience I remember as an Uber driver was recent. A passenger was crying because, her and her friend went to a club and she cheated on her bf. She called him over the phone crying, saying she never cheated before and knowing her friend was a bad influence. She stated that, she didn't want to go but only went because her friend kept asking her to go. Translate to Woman: I didn't want to go to the club, but yet I didn't want to be ostracized by my friend because I didn't want to go. I wanted to show my friend I had an edge to myself so, I cheated to prove we are equal. Though I feel bad for being not loyal to my bf.
@TheHamburgler123 One thing Uber had taught me us, a lot of people lack self awareness. I even had a female passenger give out her personal information talking to AT&T. The entire conversation was on speaker phone. She gave out her address, credit card number, First and last name. Date of birth. She were going to give out her Social security number, I had to stop her and tell her, " Please Don't...just stop giving out your personal information ". If you want to learn female nature first hand and fast. Also see it real time drive Uber and Lyft.
@johnnyp3839 Fascinating. I was considering driving for Uber in my off-season (my business shuts down ~3 months every winter) but my only viable vehicle is my work truck. I have an economy beater I use for highway driving, around town, etc but it's 22 years old and therefore ineligible. Maybe it's for the best. I don't want to lose too much faith in humanity haha.
What's amusing is that the guys thought they were going to get a straight answer from the women. Ranking oneself (and trying to be accurate about it) is a great way to lose status as a woman. Even the girl who said she was a 6.7 wasn't being honest. She said it for effect--it was a power move. Go high by going low.
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I dead thought you were gonna say skillshare
Great Video. I think this really explain's women's game theory well.
I think you are missing an arrow that explains simps and how they attempt to move up the status ladder by playing into the woman's game instead of playing the male ladder.
I would draw an additional arrow to the lowest "she's a 10" arrow that also says " step on me" or "take my money queen" as the reason these guys are doing this is they think this will increase their perceived status on the male ladder BY women, although all the men higher up on the male ladder see those men the same way as the actual female 10s see the green zone of women. and some men have a response to those simp men that either amounts to "stay acting stupid", " I don't blame her", or the rare response where a man of higher status will try to open the eyes of that lower status man because helping a man improve does similarly work the same way as the female strategy but it does not share as big of a portion of the male strategy as it does in the female.
My evidence for that is this channel. It helps men understand the feels dominated strategies of women and it has increased your status at least on the internet.
The "step on me " or "take my money queen" would be parallel to the "she's not that hot bro" line and probably used anywhere between the nice guy to the pokemon guy .
I also kind of think this new trend of men getting asking to be stepped on by higher status women like attractive cosplay/of models and internet celebs known also for suggestive content is really a new cooperative strategy between women and lower status men to lower the status of higher status men who tend to be more dominant towards women and other men in the hierarchy. The idea will be " you (the man) publicly show an overt form of submission to me(the woman) so I can now try to even insert myself somewhere into the man ladder , and in exchange I will give you higher status so more men copy what you do" but normal men should and will not buy it , only men in the orange region will, and they can stay stupid or not participate, the choice is their's.
and although shortform looks like a paywalled version of spark notes, I think that's actually a good sponsor because i don't know how much that website has been updated since we all used it in the 2010s to get through highschool and undergrad literature content. So I will be checking it out. Keep doing great work good sir!
Can you apply this concept to the viral jubilee video where the women ranked themselves and the men then ranked the women afterwards? The women put the chubby girl up top, and ranked the black woman like second (she was cute but did not rank that high to me), the Asian girl was visibly socially excluded despite being the most attractive (the men thought so too). I feel like there’s a lot to dissect there
Sooo... I am guy at 6 that could potentially maximize to a 8, without the money/power portion. Or going up will inevitably require power in society?
The 48 laws of power is why we get idiots at work trying to act like they are Machiavelli or some shit
The good old Lizzo paradox. Every woman says Lizzo is beautiful but then get angry when you tell them that they look like Lizzo LOL
Oh, never heard of this, but I like it! A lot! :D
Lmao never thought of it like that.
BEST COMMENT EVER BROTHER 😎👍
They don’t mean her body is beautiful when they say that though. They mean she’s beautiful in her comfort in her own skin. You boys take things too literally.
Yes that’s literally what the video explained. And the guys here got it. They said “The girls all say lizzo’s a 10, but if you say they are like lizzo they’re mad.” Because, as explained, they didn’t say what they meant. And the girl in the comments here came to say: “us girls don’t mean what we say.”
Video confirmed.
The secret is simple: if everyone's a 10, no one's a 10.
That's their whole idea - to prevent and obscure "the patriarchy" from evaluating women.
This means that by collectively agreeing to give a false rating, they just avoid being rated altogether. Which again is a form of conflict avoidance, and in a scenario of men vs women, women act with the hive mind, and prioritize the conflict against men, over the conflict between themselves.
- Syndrome
In Soviet Russia we use to say "If everybody is 1, we are one."
@@hyperteleXii What puts me off specifically, is how their collective shadow-matriarchy undermines Male progressive behavior. They paradoxically deny Men the ability to change, by enforcing that Men will always be one with Patriarchal tactics. In essence, the good men are gone, because they won't let "good men" thrive.
I think another reason why all of the "10's" were so frustrated by the self identified 6.7 is because they were all playing a game of intellectual stonewalling, refusing to honestly engage in the rating of themselves, while the lone honest girl actually engaged with rating herself honestly. This broke the stonewall of "we are all the best" and portrayed them as ridiculous, which was their one defense against having to engage with their own flaws. Notice how they all turn on her... Ironically, the acknowledgement that she has flaws instantly makes her more appealing than her self assessment, as you noted
100% this
I think that's what he basically said at 13:17
@@ticktockbam unfortunately i made this comment before finishing the video, but yeah, he said it better 😂
Plus they all knew she was the prettiest among them. So prettier + humble is like a hard core slap on they're ego manic faces.
Also they know they are not 3.3 points more attractive than her, so if she is a 6.7 then they are all not 10s, and they take offense to that
Aaah. Now the body-positivity movement makes sense. That's so brutally evil - women know how to f you up while maintaining the aura of friendliness and support
Do they? I never experienced friendliness and support. Mostly just hate and envy.
@@TheSuperappelflap some are more direct while others are very sneaky
And the body-positivity movement revealed itself to be a sham immediately after the media decided they wanted to obsessively focus on trying to make Trump feel insecure about the size of his hands.
we've known this for a long time. Femenism has tried to vilify us for teaching others their true nature
You must not play the game. In that case they’ll openly attack you.
Gorlock the destroyer is a 10 among her species
Not "her"
A very handsome Hutt.
@@ClarenceJBoddicker1987 calling it Gardulla Hutt would be a compliment xD
10 Solar Masses
10 chins
Gorlock is OBVIOUSLY a 10 and you're a misogynistic intergalactic bounty hunter if you think otherwise.
That sounds awesome I wanna be that.
Hey, you leave Lobo out of this!!!
Are you referring to Jabba the Hut?
...we're just simple men trying to make our way through the galaxy... and then we encountered Gorlock.
Gorlock is 10 to the 10th power
Meanwhile guys talking to each other:
“Bro u r ugly”
“I know lol”
So much simpler.
And we'll compliment one another and mean it.
And it means so much.
"bro what happened you got fat"
"yeah man time to hit the gym"
@@themarlboromandaloriannever been complimented by anyone my whole life, I guess it's over for me
@@tbqhwyf hit the gym king
@@tbqhwyf needy streamer overload
"How do you make yourself more valuable than 4 other girls?" What a genius answer.
gorlock knew how
Simple, she EATS the other four...
@@rockoyhead Eat them lol
@@rockoyheadcrazy that even the ugliest man can be a 10 as a woman
Confidence is attractive, delusion is repellent.
And a confident delusional is abhorrent.
Confidence is attractive when it is backed up by reality.
Confidence isn't even attractive in women. Like when have you ever been, "She looks kinda mid, but her confidence just draws me to her." I'd take a pretty insecure girl over an average confident one any day. Hell I'd take a pretty insecure girl over a confident pretty girl because she's more likely to avoid conflict.
@@DarkSpartan343Confidence, meaning not shy and capable of talking / communicating with anyone in a fun and engaging way. That is attractive confidence and doesn’t have anything to do with looks.
@@GenZMother Capable of talking to others is just being normal. What you're really saying is "I want a girl that doesn't suffer from any severe mental defects."
This sounds like unionizing but for people who hate each other.
That's basically what female "friendships" are. They have a couple friends, and then a bunch of "friiieeeeeeennnnnds"
CFW
mathces their higher voting for socialists
They only cooperate together to manipulate men as a whole. They see men as their ultimate victim to take advantage of so when they all overinflate female value it's with the unspoken mission that ultimately it's men who are duped and who have to overexert themselves trying to woo and hold onto women who are 'better than them'. The whole mindset is parasitic they want to live off of and control the men in their lives.
Give this man a cookie for finally explaining female social structures in a way men can understand.
"I'm a 6.7"
"Oh damn, she isn't delusional, she's a 8"
first thing that came to mind, hey I want to talk to her. Let's get her logic and why she feels that way. The rest its like uh send them back to the factory they are defective.
I think she is just more intelligent and knows that perception of an inflated ego is a turn off to men so she under scores herself because she knows that’ll make her most liked thus winning the game
The 6.7 seems pretty accurate IMO.
It was a power move. She broke rank and made the other girls look bad and raised her status in the process. It was a pretty brilliant move. She wouldn't have gotten away with it except she did it by being "modest."
Women who don't cooperate are called "pick me" which is the worst violation among women.
Social conditioning technique used as a dating strategy. If they can all, simultaneously lower the bar, together. Then they can give less to men and get more from them.
But if one woman breaks formation- and loves generously, then it shows men that ALL of them can do it as well. They just choose not to. And the illusion is broken.
But "pick me girl" is not subtle. Even the most dense man would understand why they're saying it.
@@cl4709 well said
Interesting that the reaction to "I'm a 6.8" was "What the fuck! Don't ever say something like that". We're supposed to interpret that as "don't be so hard on yourself sister!" but you can hear the edge in her voice. It meant "What the fuck are you doing blowing up our solidarity. STFU".
That's true, because playing the 10s game plays to her own confidence in her sexiness sitting next to moby dick for example. However, I do believe women probably intuit that other women feel they can be 10s in a given area if they put their minds to it: I'd almost be more wary of a woman who plays the appeal to sympathy card: "little-ol-poor-me!" downgrading herself to a 6 instead of thinking: "At my best in the right circumstances I'm a 10 and worth every bit of it! There's men out there would think that... ."
There is nuance also although in this case the woman on the right is pissed off because she's put too many eggs into the "being a sex doll" basket and has nothing of value left over... it's too damaging to her if one of the other girls does not play nice in THAT game.
She broke the blockade.
Among Women the honest naysayers gets cross hours put on her.
Crosshairs
Honesty is punished in Western female culture.
If there were no men in the room, they’d stop cooperating, gang up on one girl and bully her mercilessly.
So true. The easiest way to get disliked by toxic girls is to not support them. Just saying you think differently is bad. They expect everyone to just go with it or stay quiet. If you are one against a group, they wont stay quiet.
And we know exactly which girl it would be, because she's the prettiest of the lot, and it's not even close.
If there were no men in the room she'd be cooperating
@@livingwikipedia1952 this explains so much of social media and politics these days.
women think they are all good but I think they just use men as violence tools for their own benefit
As a woman, I find this fascinating. And completely true! We are taught as girls to always "be nice", and to never tear each other down openly, but behind closed doors? Yeah, absolutely. We know that girl isn't a 10, but if we pretend to like her, we can keep her in our social circle, find all the dirt about her, and then tear her down behind her back. This makes total sense.
@@hrgirl26 that sounds so stressful. Doesn't it make you do paranoid?
@@hrgirl26 I hear all kinds of crazy shit from my coworkers about their wives' workplace politics (they work in nursing with little male colleagues). Best friends turn into enemies on a weekly basis while keeping up appearances like nothing's changed etc., I don't envy that kind of mental warfare.
@@hrgirl26 I could never play that guerilla war bullshit 😂 open warfare is the only option I like to play
I was with you until you claimed that "this makes total sense". You lost me completely there 🤣
The saying goes “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned,” but 'modern' women don't even need to be scorned to be ruthless and mean; they do it for sport these days, and they always play for keeps. A reminder of a 1980s song "You [Modern Women] Give Love a Bad Name"
I can't imagine why any man of sound mind would consider marriage in this day an age. A woman to have sex with is not that hard to find, and if a man has a hard time finding one he can always engage the services of a call girl who will almost certainly be better looking than the pissy girlfriend with a bad attitude, will provide him even more sexual satisfaction, will not bring any drama into his life, and will not try to keep half of everything after a breakup.
Whether they realize it or not, women are on board of this crazy train to nowhere called 'Modernity' and yes girls, the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train.
“Why aren’t you cooperating” at the end made the light 💡 bulb go off
They know that being honest makes her more attractive because she’s not playing their game
She is indeed playing a game. No way that girl is a 6.8. She rounded down and they rounded up and that made them look worse.
When the girl said she was 6.7 to the others she was basically rating them lower because they all knew where they really ranked. These games are fucked but I can't blame people for playing them!
I sure can
I can overvalued pu**
The black girl at the end is hotter then her, and I'm not seeing where yall are seeing that the basic girl is hotter, like the lightskin looks like a fucking model lol
The hunger games my guy.
But for real, this is just the nature of nature. Animals fight each other for mating rights. Humans more or less do the same.
I used to think it was fucked up. But then I realized I wasn't upset because the brutal nature of a hierarchy. I was upset because I've been diluted my entire life that it's not that way and then when I found out, that was the big upset.
If it's any constellation though, just remember that unless you make it this way, your entire life doesn't have to revolve around mating. The more you focus on yourself and less about getting a mate the better. It's a part of life. But I don't think its the only thing makes life worth living.
That girl was an 8 at the least in terms of physicl atractiveness.
When they said 10 my mind immediately subtracted 9.
When she said 6.7 my mind immediately rounded up to 8.
Same. Sense and humility are such attractive features in a modern woman.
I'm not even facetious, I am just stating that is exactly how my brain did it's math.
Rankings (in order from right to left): 6.5/7 at best, 0/if I could give a minus I would, 7/7.5 at best, 6/6.5 at best and 7.5/8 at best.
I hope women watch these videos, sincerely
Most girls can’t be realistic with their own appearance.
I’ve said it before - this is the channel that takes the man-o-sphere to a very funny AND intellectual place. I couldn’t sub fast enough!
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I feel that XD
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"I am a 6.7" -> "WHAT THE !!! You're being realistic?! Now we all have to be realistic. I DONT WANT TO BE REALISTIC!"
I think she did it to make the other girls look bad😂 look at her face when the other girls said ten and she said 6.7 so sneaky she knew those guys would fall for it. never trust women😂
@@awesomecool3280 Honestly a good point, it's like a fractal of lies
@@awesomecool3280 it's always a game lol
@@awesomecool3280 Hell yeah! she was very clever there. More than the 'humility', I find the sneaky punch she landed there to be attractive. Made the women look bad, made the guys fawn lol.
This right here!
At first I thought the reaction to “I’m a 6” was “oh girl don’t put yourself down” but it’s actually “how dare you dissent!”
I wanna say that your logic has made me understand how chronicly online I was raised by online bullcrap. Thank you
Liberal much?
"Why aren't you cooperating" was so incredibly telling. The other three girls formed a closed-shop union to delude Gorlok the Destroyer there, and they were scandalized the other woman refused to play along.
which I loved bc clearly, gorlock is a NEGATIVE 10 and so shorty accurately claiming 6.7 brings the room back to reality, part of which gorlock is clearly not a fucking 10. we need more chicks like her.
@@PushYourEdge Gorlock is a NEGATIVE Googolplex.
Fool, Gorlok cannot be deluded. It is always whole and present.
Gorlok is indivisible
Gorlok just rounds to zero… 304 mathematicians
In other words, women think truth is determined by consensus, which definitely matches up with how they operate overall in society.
And thus the fall of the west with women voting
Women fall in the trap of group think. They will say whatever other girls they like say.
truth be told its how every statist bootlicker believes reality works, weather they admit it or not. women are just way worse at it, since they dont at least have some inherit sense of logic
Men deal with the physical world to obtain physical resources for the community, and women compete for status within that community to gain a higher share of those resources. So in essence, men play the hierarchy game in the physical world (competing in things like physical strength and problem solving - for example the handshake game), while women play it in the social world (the reputation warfare game). Both women and men act in a way that maximises their options and resources.
And people who call women "delusional" are doing exactly what HoeMath here is talking about: trying to make themselves seem higher status by degrading others and making themselves seem better by comparison.
literally no, you had explanation in the video and you got zilch out of that. The point is they know what the truth is, but do not state that to maintain alliances to have group barganing power and to sabotage competition.
I appreciate your ability to capitalize off of this trending disunion between man and woman and also share insightful wisdom for the benefit of others
The woman who rated herself a 6.7 shattered their unspoken tribal rule of maintaining sisterhood while sabotaging each other behind their backs. The betrayal was palpable.
Saying you're a 10 is not being confident. Being confident is knowing you're not and not getting offended by that. Owning up and working on that.
^^^This. 100% This.
Not in women logic
@@carkawalakhatulistiwa
>women
>logic
nice one
Not happening with gashes.
nor in employer logic
A way to make fun of their lies is to agree with them.
“You know what girls? I totally agree with you, gorlock and the girl on the right are both tens, they literally are equally beautiful” and watch them SCREAM ON THE INSIDE
That! Can't stop laughing!
Malicious compliance 🥰
I actually think gorlock might be a lil hotter, ya'll are 10's but she is an 11 😂
@@Retrosenescent *Congratulations! Your Passive-Aggressiveness has evolved into Malicious Compliance!*
Or ask which one of them is the 11?
When a woman higher up on this hierarchy doesn’t conform to the strategy, is this what makes her “a pick me girl”??
The “pick me” thing has never made sense to me, but it made sense to me during this video
Bascially. They not in the "hivemind"
A pick me is an attractive person pretending theyre not attractive in order to garner compliments.
Idk i do think the term girls girl is more like that. A pick me wants the validation of men, that doesnt really have to do with they hive energy, its just tiring to see somebody be a try hard, its the same with men
When insanity is normalized, sane people will be confused. This is like the Marauder's Map to the madness, invaluable! Figuring all this out at a comparatively young age is pure genius. You, Sir, truly have found your calling.
The woman downvoting herself with a REALISTIC number draws attention to the OTHERS value disparity and makes people look at them with a more discerning, truthful eye.
She is also signalling to men that she is a reasonable and honest person, and women know that men like that behavior. So by behaving in that way, she's making herself more attractive to men.
Which makes me wonder why the other women don’t do that too. They have a much easier time attracting men if they were honest with themselves
@@kingingrey1882 It would be a race to the bottom. It then goes to the absurd in the other direction…. Crabs in a bucket mentality. “Oh yeah? You think you’re humble? … look at me being even MORE humble…. “ 😆
@@sorryociffer Honestly sounds like a better society
@@sorryocifferI agree, but at least eating yourself lower shows that you know you can improve. Rating yourself a perfect ten means you believe there is nothing you need to improve on.
As a woman, this is the simplest and most thorough explanation of female dynamics I've seen in a while. 👍
It's like when celebrities say "follow your dreams and one day you'll be successful too" They have to say that in order to appear humble and good natured. When, in reality, we all know the connections they have and the crap they probably had to do to get there that most of us are not willing to do. Society structures are all about image
The “follow your dreams” line is such a bad thing to tell young people. I hate that so many talented and hard working kids waste their youth pursuing fantasy. It should be “follow your talents”
this behavior causes suffering to many people, generation after generation, but trying to force an entire society to obey is next level idiocy.
Yeah, they would be served so much better following some critical thinking instead of whatever the group says.
@@ghfrywThat's where Stoics are wrong. Suffering builds more character than self-improvement.
i came a across a meme one time that says something along these lines
"money doesnt matter" --rich people
"beauty doesnt matter" --beautiful people
perfectly describes what this video is telling us. its all about higher status people saying nice things to lower status people to not upset them.
"My pokemon stadium speedrun is undefeated" Gigachad
These charts and your insights are brilliant! This channel is gold
Isn't it fun that us guys are having to get a veritable degree in hoenomics to survive out here? And women think we have it easy...
Sure, but from this comment it's evident that _you_ think _they_ have it easy, which is just not true. Imagine for a moment how hard it must suck to live social life in a world of secret dishonest competition like this. Sure, women might have gained advantages and men lost some, but it doesn't mean there's anyone for whom the present day situation is actually good...
@@enricobianchi4499 from your comment, the logical conclusion would be to think that women shouldn't be in charge of anything, less they make it hard for everyone and themselves?
@@enricobianchi4499yeah. Go hang around with women and listen to all the gossip. That shit is toxic
No, women are right. We do have it easy, extremely easy in fact…. if we’re the top 10% of gigachads.
And unfortunately that’s the only population of men women actively engage with. And those top 10% can afford to be complete jackasses because most women will forgive them since most women think they can’t do any better, and if they don’t, then the gigachads can always just move onto the next woman anyways because they have so many.
And if women say men are assholes or men are cheaters, they are absolutely telling the truth… based on their own experiences of interacting with the same top 10% of men. That’s just the sad reality of the world we live in unfortunately..
@@enricobianchi4499 evident? I didn't get that vibe from his comment but ok ig.
This slots in nicely with "Feminism is a trade union for mid to undesirables."
...so, in other words, a union. 🤣
Bingo.
This explains why all the movie and videogame producers today are sticking the UGLIEST women in the lead role..
I was thinking the same thing!
Unions are ruining everything again.
"As you know our blockade is perfectly legal."
@penderyn8794at 15 a little pet
At 20 a little coquette
At 40 not married yet
At 50 a suffragette
As someone who feels like an outlier as a woman, this was pretty interesting. I've never felt compelled to flow with the feminine comraderie in groups of women. I think that's because as a young child I was outcast by girls for not being "girly" enough. This also happened in high school when colorguard competitions were a thing. Even though we were all on the same team accomplishing a common goal, every girl on the team was secretly plotting against the others. These games seemed so childish to me.
9:37 That single mom drawing though 💀LOL
as a woman who struggles with social cues, this might be why I don't have many female friends. It's frustrating to me when conflicts have to be muzzled in female spaces, and I worry about being called a pick me if I don't play the game right. Great video though, I feel like I learned a lot of concepts that have confused me
A 10 from me, and I suspect a 10 from the mostly men on here for seeing the core point.
@@somebloke5565Yup... ^THIS^
Same I'm an introverted, awkward woman that doesn't really know how to "play the game." I don't overtly have issues with other women, but they are very hesitant to accept me as well. It's like existing on the edge of a circle where you feel like crap for not being "in" but even when you get "in" you still feel like crap
“Pick mes” are the ones who get picked for relationships, just sayin.
We prefer the 'pick me's " thats why the hags are whining about it!
The 6.7 girl is probably the most openly competitive one amongst them with a little bit of a masculine essence with her appeal to logic and reality, things that also sound good to guys. She's probably smarter then the other girls. That's why they immediately reacted "you don't conform, you draw the attention on you at our expense". Her 6.7 was bigger than their 10. She is not really 6.7 but she saying that is another thing that makes me think she is a bit more clever.
6.7 is the perfect score to rate yourself as to get status. Not so low you degrade yourself, but low enough to not seem too cocky. She's indeed pretty smart
I can assure you that the one on the very right has much more "masculine essence" if you know what I mean lmao
@@sandboy5880 by injection.
@@sandboy5880by injection.
@@sandboy5880I don't know what's going on but lately certain innocent words make my comments disappear. It's not like I said rights should be taken away from certain people we call women, which I agree, but simple words. Let's see if this one disappears.
I spent the whole video thinking “Joyce Benenson talks all about this” so I was really happy when you quoted her!
This was so reasonable and made so much sense to me, as a boy who doesn’t understand the opposite side of the system. An additional thought I had is that confidence is attractive, but arrogance isn’t. And this self promotion of equality comes across as arrogance and when that girl said 6.8 she just pointed that out. Plus she showed that she knows what we (guys) really care about: honesty and genuineness, not this self inflated puffed up added arrogant attitude
If I understand him correctly, he is arguing that the "I'm a 10" slogan is really a form of social collective bargaining among women for status.
Yes, women are the reason we have a middle class. The middle class doesn’t really exist. There is the capital class and then there’s the people who work. Women said well my worker man is better than your worker man so I’m in the middle I’m not in the lower class with unwanted men. The middle-class is like all women saying I’m a 10
It's a fugged up form of domination over men. "I'm better than you because I'm a 10 no matter what"
Yes you got it. :)
@@PhantomFilmmaker-jd9hoprecisely. It's a subliminal expression that men are forever lesser and beneath them, and they're the ones to be chased/pursued... by even the top % of men.
"I'm a 10!" is basically social credit score communism
This is why, when you go with your girlfriend to a party, another girl can walk up and say "Oh that's such a cute outfit" and as you're walking away your girlfriend will say "What a b*tch," but another girl may come up and say the exact same thing and she'll say "Oh, wasn't that so nice of Suzi to notice?"
i prefer how guys will just beat the shit out of eachother and get it over with. no mind games, no long standing rivalries beneath a veil of kindness, just getting the problem out of the way then and there
You have a weird taste in women
@@sovietunion7643 There’s a reason guys don’t hold long time grudges and it’s this.
@@sovietunion7643 yea, i've noticed men never really hold a grudge for longer than a week, and thats because al issues are resolved by the end of the week
Or we are just tired of fighting, call it water under the bridge, and move on
2:00 Psychologically, this was also smart because of Contrarianism. She stands out by saying a different number. In a sense, it takes MORE CONFIDENCE to be different, then to go with the flow and fake a 10
The social media thing is interesting because it creates a delusion that they are magical creatures with special abilities, but they go out into the grocery store, and if a man simply recognizes that she exist, she has a panic attack
>that's not how math works
>women
lmao
Lmao what’s math
this kind of womeh should argue with a train.
I wish he would stop assuming people rate attractiveness on a bell curve. Most people don't.
If there are 10 apples in a bucket, and all 10 are halfway to being ripe, I'm going to rate the flavor of all of them as "5". I'm going to enjoy all of them equally. I'm not even going to notice whatever infinitesimal differences in ripeness they might have.
If there are 10 women in the room, and all of them are just barely attractive to me, I'm going to feel just barely attracted to all of them. Equally apathetic toward all of them.
There’s a reason why women don’t go into stem fields even when scholarships heavily favors them.
@@kedabro1957 Men in the aggregate do indeed rate women's attractiveness on a bell curve. Individual men may or may not. Women in the aggregate have an incredibly skewed rating system, so perhaps a negligible number of individual women would rate on a bell curve, but vast majority do not.
My ex would secretly compete with everyone but act like she was cooperating with them, even with me. I pointed this out to her and she cried and asked her therapist whom told her that yes, that was in fact true. She didn’t even realize when she was sabotaging and manipulating her peers until I mentioned it.
That’s the thing, women don’t even know they are doing it. It’s like cognitive dissonance, holding two opposing ideas in their heads.
the women on this panel know full well what they are doing
@@Epoch-vu8cj There's many levels to "knowing". They could be doing it purposefully but not consciously, because they never thought that deeply on this level about why they were doing it.
It is hard-wired into them. This is feminine social strategy: the indirect approach.
I find women live in Cognitive Dissonance land all the time. Even the most reasonable and down to earth women will have their moments where they openly display some CD
Doesn't mean one shouldn't hold them accountable.
Just when I thought I couldn't learn anything more. You nailed it dude.
I would love a book of your info illustrations, they are so hilarious and awesome!
one could say the girl being modest and honest in describing herself as a 6.7 is actually her being very confident; confident in breaking the unspoken game women play.
She undermined their position to her benefit which invoked the angry chorus of "WTF!"
shes not a 6.7 and she knows it. solid 8. but agreed she is cleverer than the others and got an ego boost to match
it was actually an underhanded sabotage technique, and instantly put herself higher on the status chart, whether she should be or not.
It was quite brilliant, of course. But I think it was so successful only because the other girls were so extremely insecure about their false inflation
her choice of decimal point was ridiculous. oh did 6.5 seem too self-defeating? they're all just playing stupid status games, attraction can't be reduced to a number, and one of my attraction prerequisites would be refusing to do so
@@1985slipstream Whether she's "really a 6.7" doesn't matter. The important bit is that she gave a real sounding answer, while everyone else obviously lied, which makes them all look too scared to give an actual answer and instead just repeating "10" which is basically the same as refusing to answer the question.
"To draw simping from"
I like how male attention is being described as petroleum for women 😅
Male attention IS petroleum to them and can be very lucrative too looking at OF. Such are the times we live in 🤷🏾♂️.
@@taridean speaking facts 🤘
Narcissists do that
😂😂😂
In a natural setting, women depend on men for their survival. Male attention is absolutely a resource for women.
I love the Lizzo Paradox. Women say, "Lizzo is so pretty" and get angry when you say they look like Lizzo. LOL! Hows about the Gorlock the Destroyer paradox? LOL
Aight time to do a quick estimation from right to left. For physical appearance relative to the 6.7: 7.2, 2.8, 6.5, 6.7, 8.0, 6.7. For personality (purely from the short clip): 4.0, 4.0, 4.0, 4.0, 7.5. If we take a composite score average: 5.60, 3.90, 5.25, 6.00, 7.10. From simply giving an honest rating, the leftmost woman pulled ahead into first in composite ranking by 1.10 points
2.8? Does this scale go to 0? What's a 1?
Thanks for analyzing our video! XD
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When you going to start streaming again, my boy?
Holy crap…I’m a male engineer, we have trouble with women because we are strictly logical, structured, and direct. Seeing this video literally blows my mind…like WTF, how can people be having all these sub-conversations within a higher level conversation??
Like…what is going on here. If someone asks me a question I give them a CORRECT answer. How can you have a productive conversation with someone playing these idiotic games???
that's the best part, you can't!
Ask them to define productive
With women you’ll always run into these conflicts within those logical spaces
There will be no productive conversations, but chaotic emotional word salads will be served.
This is cute:) It's another way of acknowledging that women are more multidimensional in their relationships. The conversations you don't understand seem like an 'idiotic game,' but to women it makes perfect sense.
An old friend of mine named Jessica once directly told another girl she was ugly. The other girl didn’t go to school the next day and she hardly ever spoke to Jessica again. I was honestly flabbergasted that Jessica was so honest. There were no status games in that moment. She just completely destroyed her confidence. Jessica still feels bad about it, and that was about 10 years ago. I love being honest with my brother when we fight and then playing Star Wars video games five minutes later to make peace.
Women saying "I'm a 10" or "You're a 10" should be interpreted as "I don't want to answer". Other values may be closer to reality but this one value is special.
They understood that the whatever podcast was a "man vs. Woman" context. So in order to minimize in-group infighting in order to oppose the men effectively, they had to all be tens.
That's true: "Female Collective Bargaining" is also at work if they play as a group.
The Whatever Podcast is not Man vs. Women, it is just "reality" vs Women and the Men just point that out! And they say Men do not have empathy, Men have more Empathy than women!
Most interestingly seen with Gorlock the Destroyer. Her "I'm a f*ckin' 10" was a thinly veiled threat daring the other girls to call her out. That's why the cooperation high five was between the two prettier girls, but Gorlock wasn't included in it. It was a covert mutual defense pact between the girls that actually have power.
Also a 10/10 implies perfect, as in "don't improve so you're not a social threat to me"
They do this everywhere, which is even semi public. If we assume your point to be true, then they perceive everywhere outside their bedrooms to be "man vs. woman" contexts. TBF, that seems quite plausible.
Congrats on the first sponsor. Well-deserved.
[EDIT: not the first sponsor, I stand corrected]
This is not his first sponsor br
This isn’t his first sponsor, his first was on the levels of thinking video
@@lebear7659beer? You’re a British cigarette.
For women, whoever has all the social status and power is 10. For men, whoever has the nicest body is a 10.
nciest face and fram over body
With a tolerable personality, or at least not obviously insane or evil.
Not true at all. An unattractive female who is out of shape, doesn't present herself well because she's a slob or just doesn't care about her appearance might be lucky enough to have high social status and "power" for many other reasons, but she is still not a 10 at all. Lying to each other doesn't make all women 10's simply because you're delusional. That mindset is a relatively new phenomenon and just because it boosts egos and self esteem to lie to each other doesn't make those assessments accurate. On the flip side an uneducated, unsuccessful man with a smoking body and limited social status and power is most certainly not a 10 in the eyes of any intelligent woman and absolutely in the eyes of men. If you're going to judge based on physical attributes and beauty then not one of the women in that video are 10's......especially since you're trying to rank men by their physique only. Flawed comment on many levels
Not in LA. To get above the 8/9 range you need a nice body AND MONEY.
Bro I gotta first tell you that I love the drawable charts and diagrams. It is like you put all my actual talking points and many others as again drawable charts and easy to follow diagrams. I do heavily thank you for that
Agreed, and I thank him for his videos all the time now. It is very much appreciated.
The woman on the very bottom-right of the chart with the cigarette and kids is just too accurate
"I know my worth!"
She also has her mouth wide open meaning she's loud and annoying. The illustration was so accurate
She has a crusty pair of torn fishnets in the drawer as well
I swear I started getting flashbacks when he panned down to her. I could just hear her screaming about seeing my manager.
Those types will post on dating apps saying that they want only "something serious" 😂💀
Random thought: Men don't mind hanging around higher status men for a variety of reasons - this isn't meant to be a monocausal explanation -- but one important reason why men don't mind is that they are generally not hypergamous and don't mind hitting on the second or third hottest girl in a group, while the highest status guy takes the prettiest girl. This is especially true because women are often in groups with relatively similar attractiveness levels, for exactly the reasons you lay out, and so if the prettiest girl is an 8, her friends are typically at least 6 or 7s. And in fact, the high status guy is acting like a lightning rod for attractive women, increasing my likelihood of success with that 6 or 7.
Putting it simply, if I'm out with my more attractive/higher status buddy and he goes home with the 8, and I go home with the 6, that's a win for us both. It wouldn't bother me that I couldn't compete with him because I live in reality. But this same situation repeated a few times would drive a woman insane.
I saw this brought up in a movie about John Nash. Basically he and his 5 friends were looking at a group of 5 girls and and they all wanted to go for the prettiest woman, however John realised that if they all go for her her friends will get jealous and leave effectivley thating the best looking gir with them. So he came to the conclusion that if they all go for a different girl everyone gets go home with a woman, which is supposedly how he came up with the economic theory that the economy will be best when every man does what is best for himself and the ones around him, as oppose to doing what is best for himself.
Pretty spot on, I anyways feel like the hottest girls are a pain in the ass to deal with, and usually STR material anyways, which kind of lines up nicely with high status men who have like 5 of these sleep around women in line.
That's only true in a monogamous society. In our current feminist society, the Chad just gets ALL the girls and you get no leftovers.
Thank you guys... This is probably the most sensible, intelligent, civilised, mutually-respectful, helpful and honest comments section that I've ever been a part of, so I just wanted to show you all some appreciation after you made the effort to type your thoughts.
Oh yeah... I really can't figure-out if it's a total lack of crazy "feminist" women making toxic "clever" remarks and poking their noses into other people's business that makes this comments section so enjoyable, or the very simple fact that men listen to understand while women listen to reply, so any opinions on this will be welcomed...?
Dunno. Realistic men saying they want something over nothing. Based. Feminism is a blight on society and destroys the unity of men and women. We are fundamentally different and being different things together to form one complete while when raising a family. This is good. Feminism says there is no difference, so it immediately starts with the opposite foundation. So if the previous assertion is good and tried it’s opposite must be bad and untrue.
Ive picked up on all of this through observation but its nice to have someone explain it so well
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13:54 pay attention to the girl who says shes a 6.7. She understands the game that these girls are playing, then she glaces over to the men before saying her rating. She decided to understand the situation and choose a different side.
We just watched the video dude and he replayed that scene 3 times. Pay attention
Yeah. I don't know why no one else noticed this. In that situation, she would try and do repair damage behind the scene with those other women after the show. That's how that works when you play both sides (including the audience). Bravo puppet master. Very apt name.
Which is why the girls get annoyed.... she chose the guys side in the argument...
The girl farthest to the left on any of these shows is always picked to be "on the side" of Brian and against the other h03s. Useful info
This dynamic is part of why traditional societies view women as inherently dishonest and dishonorable. Their social strategies are largely deceptive and they are frequently focused on undermining each other. It’s the exact opposite of the behavior patterns you need to build a functional society.
Exactly. Most of our institutions were also built on the assumption men were running them, so now that women are a majority in them they start falling to execute their function.
Female strategy is all about avoiding open conflicts and violence and fostering cooperation. Societies exist because we decided naked aggression wasn't appropriate in most situations. Sometimes in the name of cooperation, you don't puncture someones self esteem and make a mortal enemy. The thing is avoiding conflicts can't be the only strategy or nothing gets solved.
I just learned this lesson the hard way - a man lower in 'status' that I didn't respect at work taught me a lesson in perseverance and I bought him lunch. It shook my perception of who I listen to vs. avoid, and why. There are areas you can respect about an otherwise detestable person. This is how Jesus pulled it off, I suppose.
@@joeshamblen6881 humility is a virtue and pride, a sin. You don’t need to be Jesus to know the reason why and prefer the former
@@Jayr8367 human civilizations have always had a significant degree of open conflicts and violence. Societies exist because the ability of men to resolve their conflicts through direct confrontation and accept the hierarchies which result. Far from “fostering cooperation”, the psychology of indirect female competition leads to dishonesty and sabotage tactics, which undermines the trust necessary for societies to operate. This is why major civilizations (ex. China, India, the Islamic world) have historically gone to the extreme of outright confining women to the home and why EVERY human civilization has been patriarchal.
Man, your videos are really good. Very high quality and easy to understand for the most part.
Good work
congrats on the sponsorship!! moving up!! 🎉
This is a perfect example of psychology. Don't look at what someone says, look at how they act.
As an ~8 woman, when another woman tells me I’m hot/ beautiful/ won the genetic lottery whatever… and I simply, quietly agree with them without Immediately gassing them up in return (if for instance I just say a genuine thanks and return to whatever we were talking about/ whatever I was doing), the tension that’s created in that instant is unbelievable. It feels like every compliment is bate for me to include them or adhere to ‘Cooporation’ as its aptly referred to in this video. Without the reflexive “omg you’re gorgeous too babe” or phonily scanning them for something to compliment, an implicit insult seems to be fabricated. Often times I feel like I didn’t ask anyone for a compliment in the first place, I’m just existing and this game and my refusal to play, just sets me up to ‘bring other women down’. Maybe I’m missing something and simply I’m an asshole for existing in the body I was born in and having an attitude similar to men of …acknowledging observable reality.
So long as you're willing to absorb the arrows from your "sisters" there is nothing you need to change in your behavior.
I actually don't like when I compliment someone and they immediately compliment me back. That's not at all why I do it. And in turn, if someone compliments me I just say oh thanks or ew you must need glasses bc I don't always care for being complimented on looks bc it's the only thing I didn't work for. There's much cooler things about me.
Ya know, there is a male equivalent of this but more to do with skills / resources. You'd get complements on those but at times it's a bit of a lure. They'd butter you up and then it becomes (slightly) harder to refuse something down the line. It's similar to baiting you into co-operating. Just like with your case, when you don't immediately respond to it, they get a bit lost all of a sudden, lol. Just refusing to play helps you in the mid to long run.
What is the likelihood that the only reason you feel this nonchalant about the subject is because you ARE an 8, and are thus high enough on the scale to feel true confidence and thus your social needs are being met? If you were uglier, you'd care about this more.
You sound narcissistic
This video is insanely good and summarizes probably years of studying psychology both in real ife and from books. Really great stuff.
Your awareness and ability to explain things is remarkable
Girl who rated herself a 6.7 was at least an 8
Asian girl (looks only ) is an 8 but personality drags her down to a 6
Girl next to her is a 7 (above average but bland personality)
Gorlock the destroyer isn't even on the grading scale
And the girl all the way to the right I cannot tell because she is mostly cosmetic so I will be safe and say 5
"She's not that hot bro"
Gorlock the destroyer 😂😂😂, i was wondering how you'd describe her while reading the comment and, that, was not what I expected lmao
@@alexanderrichards6403 she's known like that all throughout the interwebs.
I truly believe you're coping a bit. I feel like your rating is based on your emotional response to how they answered a bait question. For starters, you cant really know someones personality from them saying a number. You can say the number is a representation of their thought processes, but I would argue thats also a load of bs because being "logical" isnt a precursor to having personality. A lot of men are a perfect representation of my stance. Logical but lifeless ass holes. the two girls you rated 8s physically have a pretty clear discrepancy in looks. The asian girl has one of the most symmetrical faces I've ever seen and her gaze is soft and welcoming. The white girl (she is pretty, dont get me wrong) has a stronger jaw line and a sort of death stare. Her hair is also thinner.
u an your logic brain !!!!!!!!!!!
"Get good, scrub" 😂😂. A perfect encapsulation of many of the hustle grindset "morning routine" bros.
The funny thing is you’re kind of doing the “you’re a douchebag” thing he talked about
The funny thing is those grindset guys are always grifters.
@@indianastoned8234get good, scrub.
@@indianastoned8234I think there’s a right and wrong way to be a hustle grindset person. The real ones that be putting in that work shouldn’t have to constantly talk about it around their friends when they hang out or constantly posting about it online. Some dudes make self improvement their whole personality and don’t realize they come across like an annoying try hard. I work out a lot and never feel the need to post mirror selfies cause it’s kind of cringe.
@@SayCheeseAndDie01 💯 was just pointing it out
This really explained status to me.. i grew up kinda isolated and didn’t know any of this.
Thanks!
"I am a 10" is "I don't want to answer this question" in 80% of cases.
It sure is satisfying when you're able to read through the disguise and know what they're actually doing/thinking
no it isnt, just another thing that makes you think less of others without making them think higher of you
@@johnElden8760I see them as the same. What has changed about them through anybody figuring it out? Nothing. They simply make more sense now
@@johnElden8760 They don't behave in logical, coherent ways, that's all I need to know.
when I'm emotionally detatched, it's like a fascinating and sophisticated sport. When I think about the logistics of starting a family, it is a black pill.
i see them now for the lying species that they are@@Flesh_Wizard
I always called it "staying on code" for ladies that are group-thinking they're 10's.
Good breakdown as usual 👍
maybe we need hoe_code, a guide to how women act towards each other
Plus the factor of the blonde actually trying to be honest. "If she's a 6.7 then what does that make me?" Gorlock ponders
Ponderously.
I get the feeling the instant that woman said she was a 6.7 her status instantly escalated way above those around here, including the one that looks like an actual 10 beside her. It was kind of a bit of a trick, almost entering the domain of how males compete. The move showed her up as being more clever than the others, and that's an attractive quality.
That "Pokemon Stadium Speedrun" joke hit way too close to home...
dude must have some sick strats.
... that's a pretty insane achievement 🤣🤣🤣.
Last girl is the only one the majority of men would wife up, too.
People seem to have forgotten how attractive humility is along with HEALTHY ego.
It's not actually humility it's a power move. Look at the chart. Drawing a distinction between herself and everyone else is saying "I have enough status to stand on my own." Who knows what her actual self estimation is but just saying something different is in itself a play for status by calling the bluff, and judging by the comments it seems to have worked.
@@wiegraf9009It’s a power move that works. Really all that matters in the dating scale. Men want different not a copy pasted woman.
@@restitutororbis964Correct! But it's still risky in terms of maintaining friendships.
Not really. It's cuz she is more conventionally attractive than the rest
They never ask them what they think other people think of them. They are asked to rate themselves. It's not the same question if you like to lie to yourself.
I can't believe bro is making what women say make sense right now! Whaaaaaaaat??? Love the videos dude. Definitely subbing!
Citing the study was absolute gold, as well as casually referring to Robert Green's book - the 48 Laws of Power...
The more awareness we have on these games, that men and women play, the more we can navigate through them with wisdom...
Well done!
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This has been revolutionary to my understanding. Women much more covert socially than I realized, because I mistook it as Delusion. Ty Hoemath.
There is definitely a lot of delusion. But also malicious lies and deception. Women do both, constantly.
Most men are very dumb socially tbh. I remember last night there was 2 attractive girls at the hostel I'm at playing pool with the guys, and just getting constant validation. I remember thinking they, don't want to get with any of yall, but yall can't see it.
"Stay acting stupid." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s insane the level of accuracy and how well it reflects my real life experience. I think this guy really does know women better than they know themselves. Why else do you think you never get good advice on women from women? Because women don’t understand women either that or keeping men in the dark is apart of the game that they play with each other.
I find these videos even more illuminating when you realize these dynamics exist far beyond male/female relations and really explain a lot of our current socio-political discourse. "The left" is feminine, "the right" is masculine. Once you realize these same games are being played in all arenas our vexing world makes a little bit more sense.
thats kind of why you need a balance between genders. men without women can be too brutal and direct to the point of barbarity. women without women don't have a logical guide to keep them in check and fall into pointless ego games.
We appreciate your long form content!
The problem is that the 6.7 girl is also playing some mind games. You can see the effects of it in this comment section with all these dudes saying nice things about her. In reality, she is probably the most evil one out of the whole bunch and all of you fell right into her trap without hesitation.
your charts and drawings are amazing, same with you teaching and you're general approach to youtube
Thank goodness I found this channel. It's amazing to learn stuff from this channel and then watch it in real time or livestreams.
One experience I remember as an Uber driver was recent. A passenger was crying because, her and her friend went to a club and she cheated on her bf. She called him over the phone crying, saying she never cheated before and knowing her friend was a bad influence. She stated that, she didn't want to go but only went because her friend kept asking her to go.
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Woman: I didn't want to go to the club, but yet I didn't want to be ostracized by my friend because I didn't want to go. I wanted to show my friend I had an edge to myself so, I cheated to prove we are equal. Though I feel bad for being not loyal to my bf.
Gross. Why would someone think that's an appropriate conversation to have in a Uber?
@TheHamburgler123 One thing Uber had taught me us, a lot of people lack self awareness. I even had a female passenger give out her personal information talking to AT&T. The entire conversation was on speaker phone. She gave out her address, credit card number, First and last name. Date of birth. She were going to give out her Social security number, I had to stop her and tell her, " Please Don't...just stop giving out your personal information ".
If you want to learn female nature first hand and fast. Also see it real time drive Uber and Lyft.
@johnnyp3839 Fascinating. I was considering driving for Uber in my off-season (my business shuts down ~3 months every winter) but my only viable vehicle is my work truck. I have an economy beater I use for highway driving, around town, etc but it's 22 years old and therefore ineligible. Maybe it's for the best. I don't want to lose too much faith in humanity haha.
These Women saying they are 10 is like fake brandname merch with real brandname prize. They are just trying to scam people lmao
What's amusing is that the guys thought they were going to get a straight answer from the women. Ranking oneself (and trying to be accurate about it) is a great way to lose status as a woman. Even the girl who said she was a 6.7 wasn't being honest. She said it for effect--it was a power move. Go high by going low.