I like how the box says people in that quadrant have a high eq but low iq. Then says people in that box could be nuclear physicists. Wait? What? Does she know what EQ and IQ are? All the examples she gave are the exact reverse. Low EQ and High IQ. This leads me to believe something about her smarts.
it's basically two internal combustion engine cooling systems linked together with with a heat exchanger to cool up off pissed off atoms to drive a steam genny.
A woman calling a guy dumb: Let that sink in... There are some brilliant women out there, some of whom I know. But if we're taking averages, men come out way ahead in the intelligence ratings, even with Republican men dragging down our averages a bit.
There's going to be an army of spinster cat ladies in the future with this mentality. Dating apps ruined an entire generation of women. As a 38 year old millenial, im glad i got to experience a semblance of dating before they came out.
A female coworker of mine asked me for guy advice. She said that her boyfriend looked the way she wanted him to and made the money that she wanted him too, but she didn’t like that he “ONLY” had a BA degree and not a Masters. I asked her 3 questions: 1. How long have you been together? A: 8yrs 2. Do you think he has ever cheated on you? A: No. 3. Has he proposed? A: Yes, and I said no because of the missing degree. I told her the moral thing to do is to leave him so that he can have the life he deserves. The selfish thing to do is stay with him ruining his Chance of a happy and healthy marriage. She doesn’t talk to me anymore.
You did the right thing! I am ROFLing now but it is actually true. :) [Edit: Never received that many likes anywhere because I don't have boobs or other things that make you popular. So, thank you very much, guys! :)]
The problem is that they are completely unable to figure out who is nice and smart until well into the relationship. Sometimes years. Because they assumed the guy was a 8-9 to start. They will overlook the issues that creates dumb and mean for quite some time because you are handsome or rich. They just assumed two of the most obvious qualities for a reason 😂
They won't say it but they don't want too nice, that's how you get dumped. A degree of indifference and some unattached vibes mixed in satisfies hypergamy and maintains desire. Going full lover boy will breed contempt.
@@filmbuff4 I'm German, I've seen ever hoe_math video (TH-cam should recommend similar videos), I don't know that guy. Who is it? He mustn't be doing it good.
ANYMORE. So she might just be done in her 'willfuly choosing to be abused' phase and moving in to her 'finding a simp to abuse' phase. Give her some credit bro.
There not allowed to admit it. Just like they are not allowed to admit they are more hedonistic than men, because they can indulge almost at will, whereas men cannot. It goes against the fantasy they have created and want every woman to collectively stick to.
When women say this list is for all men they are inherently only referring to attractive guys 8's and above. Women don't consider guys who are 7 and below as actual datable men. In their eyes, guys who are 7 and below are only good for emotional and financial support basically what can they give or do for me.
“Women don’t like being in the Struggle box. They don’t want to win the race with us, they want to wait at the finish line and reap the rewards.” I’ve come to find that’s what women actually mean when they say they’re attracted to “Ambition”
Yep, I had it happen to me when young. If they think you will one day be rich or successful, they actually think you are a "project", which was one of her boxes. Good looking women do not want a project, and hence if she marries you both of you will "struggle" until you make it. She doesnt want that and it is a turn off, and she dumps you. I actually had a girl I dated in law school call me that. I had ambition galore, women gave two ducks. They want the finished rich guy. It was pretty insulting and the dating was brief. She worked at a retail store. LOL
Women want to be the prize but if you treat her like a trophy like she is asking she will get mad and now out if nowhere has needs? 😂 Pick a side girl!
Some ways back I figured out that "deserve" is really just used by people to try to elevate their feelings about someone to the level of some nebulous, external moral authority, like they've found a loop hole that allows them to get away with breaking the third commandment. "THIS ONE WEIRD TRICK ALLOWS YOU TO PRAISE OR CONDEMN OTHERS WITH THE AUTHORITY OF GOD HIMSELF WITHOUT SINNING. PRIESTS HATE IT. WATCH THIS VIDEO BEFORE IT GETS SMITTEN BY THE ALMIGHTY!"
Christianity, practiced properly, says the same thing: "you don't deserve anything but hellfire, so literally anything else that you receive is a gift and should be appreciated as such". That's what humility is - knowing and accepting your place and role in Creation. Some sects of Christianity (like Catholicism) take it a bit too far and end up with a guilt complex, others (like most Protestants) take it not nearly far enough and end up with a God complex, but the middle ground there is a really comfy spot to be in: everything in life is a gift and brings joy when you rid your vocabulary of the word "deserve".
@@Solon64 There's a really great quote from C.S. Lewis' "The Screwtape Letters" that summarizes this: "The man can neither make, nor retain, one moment of time; it all comes to him by pure gift; he might as well regard the sun and moon his chattels." Letter 21. Read that book, you'll thank yourself.
"Women don't want to be in the struggle box. They want us to win first and then share." That's probably the most accurate thing I've ever heard you say.
@@Marcara081it’s funny cause there are so many movies and songs with this as a theme of the guy picking the girl who stuck with him even when he couldn’t even afford dates and yet most girls be like I don’t like broke boys
"Run the race with us" is practically a revolutionary statement this day and age. It really is game theory at it's finest, she doesn't wanna run the race cause if she does and he wins and picks someone else bad investment for her, but he isn't gonna want to invest in someone who he knows only picked him cause he won, and the stand off begins and everyone is angry.
Even in her worst case scenario, she can divorce him and get a huge payout on her investment. A man's worst case scenario is infinitely worse. Nothing to gain, everything to lose.
This is where we need to shame men who do this. Accountability goes both ways. Any man who has a girl stay with him on his come up and then leaves her for someone younger/hotter once he's made it should be [redacted] IMO. Not quite as bad as what the ladies are doing, but it's completely vile behavior.
@@jamesomara3361 If the younger / hotter woman were willing to get with him in this early stage, then he wouldn't need to leave. But he picks up a 200 pounder when he's broke and dumps her for a slim and fit girl when he has more value.
Wellll God made them to be our helpmates he told them to "submit to your husband AS TO THE LORD" so they are failing their role miserably while we still faithfully hold up the world for them.
this is what guys should act like. Unfortunately, there are so many simps that girls will think all men are like that, when actually the only men who act like this are said simps
It's seems pretty ridiculous to label something "trauma" when it's something YOU did to YOURSELF. 😂 Ultimately, that's the case for women who've been run through.
We need to define some things here from her perspective: 'Smart': Able to cater to her every need perfectly 'Nice': Willing to be in a committed relationship with her 'Every man in the world' : The .001% of men hot enough for her to even consider 'Trauma': Being used for sex ''Narcissist': Someone who used her for sex Her matrix makes a lot more sense once you know these definitions.
While I repeatedly think that things like TikTok have been a net negative for society, there's always part of me that is at least grateful at them existing so we can at least document the level of damage that's been done over the course of the last 100 years.
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 I know where you're coming from and in a spiritual sense I agree with you, but the only viable way to do it is to have laws passed where you have a digital government-based ID for access to all social media. I know that when this eventually comes into law (because it's going to) all discourse is going to shut down, because the moment you say something that is even slightly spicy and have it connected to something that can and will be linked to who you are irl, you're done and will face all sorts of problems. The solution was to push parents to force their kids to not access social media via them not having the means to until they're 18, but lazy parents allow kids to be kept distracted by pc's phones and ipads rather than them doing things with their kids.
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 or pay people appropriately so that we can return to single earner households and people can raise their kids instead of working constantly. Don't care who does it (male or female) but, if you have kids, being present has a very well established benefit to child development
That's why they don't like pleasers. It's easier to make a woman happy when you yourself live a happy/fulfilling life and just let them tag along and enjoy the same things. Don't bend for her, if it's mean to be, she'll fit with you.
Nuclear physics is logical and consistent- and sets out everything you need to know in books. Deliberately going up to the physics section of a bookshop and asking for material will get you no strange looks or rejections.
You can explain the lack of top tier men to women all day. And they will completely understand how rare that guy is. The breakdown comes from the fact that every one of them think that they're the special girl one of those men will want.
@@Solon64 it didn’t used to be this bad, women are actually excellent gamblers. They’re hard wired to sniff out a good bet. The problem is they’re playing with the houses money now. Modern western women exist in a gravity free environment. There’s almost nothing they can fuck up that they won’t be bailed out for. No consequences for sex with terrible men, they’ve got birth control and abortion on demand. No consequences for bad marriage partner, they have no fault divorce. No consequences for having a kid with a bad guy, myriad welfare programs to save them (if not reward them). They’ve been sold a world where they can have their cake, eat it too, and break into your fridge and have yours as well. Until incentives are fixed and reality realigned, this will continue to get worse. Now that you know that, it’s time to start asking WHO is promoting this situation and exploiting it, and made it possible in the first place.
I would venture to say that they believe the fairy tales. Disney really messed them up. That and the romcoms. Lifetime movie network.. the Hallmark channel, etc. Those channels need to do more reality-based stories (not reality TV stuff.. but stories based in reality and not fantasy) so they get their heads out of the clouds.
I've also heard many women say "I don't want to have to teach him" when it comes to relationships or sex. This seems to imply that they don't want to give the man the opportunity to gain experience. He should already know what to do. Similar to "We have to have experience to get a job (relationship), but how can we get experience if we can't get a job?"
What I hate about this is that many women have unrealistic expectations regarding a man’s sexual experience. We often want to be their first and only intimate encounter, yet paradoxically, most women expect men to already know what to do in the bedroom. This double standard is confusing and unfair. Moreover, there’s the expectation that they shouldn’t learn from porn, as it can create unrealistic ideas and involve seeing other women’s bodies, which many of us find uncomfortable. But the reality is, intimacy is unique to each relationship and situation. Regardless of past experiences or lack thereof, both partners have to learn and adapt together, so it’s really pointless to get hung up on it.
Indeed, it's quite like Solzhenitsyn's quote about Communists "We know they are lying, they know that they are lying, they even know that we know they are lying, but they are still lying."
Maybe "I am delusional, entitled, frustrated and expect you to tolerate me being foolish and wrong even though you know I'm foolish and wrong. Failure to comply will result in me being even more frustrated because even though I'll threated to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s I won't and hope this video will get other women to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s so the 8s, 9s and 10s will start acting like 2s, 3s and 4s towards me."
Whenever women talk about men's looks, they all act like they have a particular taste in men, that they have niche preferences. The reality is they all go for the same kind of men. Hope that explains why they lack this objectivity.
@@sor3999 women are generally really invested in the idea that everyone is totally different because then they can ignore probability and statistics and pretend they are just following their own unique path, because it eliminates the idea of competition
@@mudblood9699 If deserving was a natural law that we deserve whatever we can seize, the human race would have gone extinct a long long time ago. We respect each other and try to earn things, that's how we prospoer (even if its slow progress).
My mother is mid-sixties and still behaves this way. She genuinely believes a guy her age with wealth and status is going to come swooping in her life. I told her that type of man is seeing forty-somes for fun, the mid-sixties woman woman already divorce-graped him. It's somewhere between sad, pathetic and repulsive.
I’m just going to take a potentially controversial position that might anger these women, but I’m standing firm. Half a square is not a hemisphere. I said what I said.
I am 55, I am Brazilian, I was poor, I became an engineer, I've been making 6 figure salary for years, I moved to US with no money, I married 28 yo broke, I am still married at 55 yo to the same women. She decided to run with me, we have two daughters, I will never leave her. More than love, she showed me loyalty -- above all, I respect loyalty.
@@whiterabit09 That is true, I was loyal to her. But unhappily a 6 figure salary today is not that great any more... A six figure salary when I was young in the 90s would go a lot farther. Let's say I have a decent life, but definitely not rich.
@@fmilan1 There's been university studies ranging from 10% to as many as 25% of children within a family being from different fathers. Every man should perform a paternity test on their children.... I have seen too many stories online about fathers in their 50s, 60s and 70s discovering their children are from some other man. Ancestry or 23&me will provide you this information and other useful information as well.
my wife and I had to grind for years to get where we are now. Relatives seeing us now tell her how "lucky" she is. She wasn't "lucky", she was smart. She knew that men don't really start making good money starting out and knew that SHE would have to grind with a man to get to that space. The verbal beatdowns she gives the younger women in the extended family are often hilarious. "Girly, if you think you are going to marry a man your age making what my husband makes, you had better get your tail to Atlanta and start dating rappers"...shuts them up pretty fast.
Yes, that’s what so many are delulu about and what I’ve been hammering into my own daughter’s heads-you aren’t going to find some rich prince waltzing around the US incognito. Might as well buy lotto tickets and earnestly believe you are going to win. Also know that it’s not bad to not be faux-rich. If you have a roof over your head, food on the table and some other things in that same vein, you are unbelievably blessed compared to the vast majority of humanity.
I remember this other girl making a video saying "if you want a high value man, it's not for the weak b/c he is going to hold you accountable." Yes she's right, most are not just going to give it to you.
Yeah, sadly so many women are gaslight into thinking they can be absolved of all responsibility and standards if they just make themselves look pretty. And then they throw a wrench in by saying that they should also be independent and strong wahmen X_X It's so fascinatingly delusional. "What is a woman?" is a damn good question. Because I don't think women know how they are supposed to act anymore and just gravitate to hedonism and then ruin their lives.
Whatever men leave their first wives all of the time for younger women that give up everything to help him get there. There is zero point in helping a man build anything because he will leave her behind one day.
Imagine being born and hoping your life will be great, only for others to either judge you "a project" or "a struggle". Then imagine the gall it would take to ask why men aren't dating anymore.
Weird SOLOMON had wisdom straight from the hand of God he found a few good men and ZERO GOOD WOMEN somehow i doubt this women and her silly graph know better then mighty king Solomon
Despite us moving so far as a civilization, we cannot escape the animal instincts: Women want to appear worthy and desirable to breed with, meaning they are the best of the best. They don't have to do anything, just convince everyone around them, especially the men. The men of course, are then there to just hornily try out of compete who gets the "best" girl to breed with. The man gets their "rocks off" and a legacy while the woman get protection and all kinds of responsibilities around survival taken off their shoulders and replaced with motherhood. Except nowadays women replace it with money...
Indeed. At least when I fantasize about my dream Anime catgirl who is always happy, sad, horny or a combination thereof I know I'll never find someone like her in real life, but these women have lost the ability to separate ideals from reality.
In short, this woman "SOLVED" dating by just telling women to pick the 0.01% guy. BRILLIANT! Honey, we already knew that's what you were gunning for YEARS ago. BTW, I know NUMEROUS 7's that GOT the 0.01% guy, and guess what? They STILL weren't happy and blew up the marriage.
If she told women the truth she wouldn't have an audience flattering women is a billion dollar empire look at makeup alone women hate truth especially about themselves because its rarely flattering
It's why shaming was used and religion to control them on a societal level that forced them to stay, so they could rail about oppression or their husband. Once they have a top 10% they lose all interest over time and today that occurs far more rapidly.
"What is your wish, Dorothy?" asked Glinda the good witch. "I want a top-tier man who makes at LEAST $150k and ain't no scrub!" said Dorothy. "Simple," said Glinda. "Just close your eyes and click your heels together and repeat after me: I deserve it. I deserve it. I deserve it. I DESERVE IT."
@@notmyname3883 That was the point of the analogy: each of these women thinks they're the main character in a fairy tale and that they can get what they want through fairy tale logic.
im so glad i fell to this side of the internet. My bf isnt experienced or able yet but he is willing. If i had listened to the popular dating advice i Wouldve never found him. He is a man with the kindest of hearts, the purest of souls. THank you
what a great example of women approaching a problem. there's no solving at all, just a formulation of what they want. no inquiry into what, how, and why, no acknowledgement of the reality of things, no plan of action, just "me want this".
Hence the “I deserve” entitlement… Smh. Modern women mistake the providing role of men for them being Santa Clause bringing gifts and presents for the little child they still are…
You notice how women coddle each other like children all the time when it comes to dating? "Oh you go gurl! You deserve like so much better! He's a meanie anyways! You are so so so cute and so funny and so humble and so so so..." It's wild that women surround themselves with Yeswomen and then are surprised when reality isn't what their "friends" tell them it is. It's all about maximising emotional safety and protection, even if it is fake.
The female mind cannot handle societal rejection or a sense of being inadequate. They'd rather walk on burning coals than face the idea that they might be subpar. Even if that realization would get them to improve themselves. Thus the cycle continues.
Women coddle each other like a bundle of poisonous snakes. They give each other toxic advice to make their rivals price themselves out of the dating market while believing those very same lies themselves. Can't make this stuff up.
@@inexpertxennial6067 Nice bait. Maybe go outside sometimes. Oh wait no, you probably can't because you are so paranoid and scared a "mal2" attacks you!! Oh good heavens!
Once again, the idea of a man’s future earning potential is not even considered in their math. Every married man I’m related to got married when they were young and broke but developed wealth with their wives over the span of time. This used to be common. Not a single one of these women would seem to consider that now, even though cost of living is higher than ever. They are all waiting at the finish line instead. They are just hard-wired to compete with other women for that one rich guy’s attention. Good luck with that, ladies.
For the majority, based on probable outcomes, it seems prudent to invest in kitty litter stocks, the umbiquitous boxed wine box manufacturing, and "Bob", stocks. We'll all be rich!
They don't even know what their own futures are going to look like (read: the consequences of their choices), so how could they possibly see someone else's?
I can’t really blame women for this. You have one life, do you really want to spend it trying to make a broke dude into a rich dude? I personally would not.
I rolled my eyes at first when I saw 'Republicans' in the Yuck section, but then remembered I do the same with left-wing progressive women... like from Portland. So, fair enough.
Yeah, as soon as I saw her categorize all Republicans (I am neither Republican nor Democrat) as "Evil and Dumb", I knew it was safe to ignore her completely. Only Evil/Dumb individuals make sweeping generalizations about an entire group based on race, religion or...political affiliation.
I disagree, because there are big differences between evil incarnate and just not being evil. They’ve created such an insane divide, to be considered leftist, you have to have a complete lack of morals and character.
Honey 🍯 you don’t get do anymore it should be your never do if done more then once twice at most your lost and no one should have deal with your addictive bad habits 😅
Ironically the best solution to all of women's problems is focusing social programs on solving men's needs so that more men end up in the "green" categories for women to choose from, but that would be giving resources to men which seems taboo.
@archstanton9073 HoeMath paid homage to the crazy-hot matrix before. He explicitly said that it's an incomplete visualization of how men should evaluate women. And if we follow the breadcrumbs far back enough, there'll probably be some earlier visuals to evaluate dating choices.
@@filmbuff4 Wouldn't really be worth suing unless thew other guy was far more successful than he is. I've seen Hoemath's drawings on a bunch of TH-camr's videos.
" The Worst Thing That Modern Feminism Could Have Done For Women Was To Allow Them To Reveal Their True Nature. " Barbarossa, 2010. "The Post-Feminism Man". A Mgtow must-see...
Thing is, almost all women date in the trauma quadrant, WILLFULLY. They don’t DESERVE the Smart/Nice quadrant when they’ve all spent their best and most physically attractive years being self-destructive and making poor decisions.
We have to keep in mind, that when she says' smart and nice', what she really means is 'able to fulfill all my needs perfectly, and 'willing to be in a committed relationship with me'. Also, her entire matrix only contains men that are hot enough for her to even consider. 'Average' guys don't fit into it at all. 'Every man in the world' to her is actually only about .001% of all men.
notice how only women deserve love unconditionally while men have to work for it and it remains very conditional on providing if it stops, the love is gone
@@RogerNbr Well I knew that. That's why I seek God. Because all my life I've been told that I will always be loved no matter what. but the next thing I know is that I got kicked out of my mother's house just because my mother picked her new boyfriend over me...
Men also deserve love unconditionally, and if we dont get it we will break society by spliting in to 2 groups, those who refuse to uphold society, those who actively tear it down.
Amazing, absolutely the best, most thought out and accurate "dating" channel on the platform.......unfortunately 85% of one half of the species and 35% of the other is unable to understand it. Thank you for the time you obviously invest into this. Also let's not forget the amazing ability to collate and artistically structure the data while explaining it in a precise way. Sure, more than half the population will get nothing from this but the presentation is flawless and I wish it was understood or at least followed......slowly....by more. New favorite "dating" channel.
I write men by thinking of a woman and taking away intuition, spirituality, aesthetic awareness, empathy, verbal intelligence, social skills, and curiosity, and I add sex obsession, violence & a heafty dose of ego.
Hi guys, I solved dating for men. Only date and marry mature attractive 20-23 year old women that are physically fit and committed to their fitness, enjoy your diet, share your interests, share your belief systems, support you when you're up or down, and only have eyes for you.
It's Raining Men by the Weather Girls, 1980's: She fought every angel She rearranged the sky So that each and every woman Could find the perfect guy Still no word on whether (weather?) each and every woman actually *deserved* the perfect guy. They all seem to think they do, though.
*Modern Women Logic:* I deserve men who are 6 feet tall, 6-pack abs with 6 figure incomes which buy me expensive gifts and vacations. *Modern Women Logic:* I am a booty call for several men who are 6 feet tall and 6-pack abs yet why won't a wealthy handsome man marry me!!
Me and my husband had low expectations of each other, and I think it’s what made our marriage work😂 I wanted a Christian man that worked He wanted a Christian woman that was faithful 6 years later we are still very much in love and happy and more committed to each other and to our child
Yes, low expectations is a very special key to life. I didn't expect most of my friends to die, what life there is has to be worked out even in survival mode.
remember the study on morality where the female researcher had to claim women never reach highest lv because they just perfect faster what was it called lol?!
The green band is much too generous because they don't stay on the market long. Once one of those guys is ready to settle for one woman, they are snapped up almost immediately. So the population never grows.
If we are talking the light green yes, and I've seen it happen a lot, I think a lot of youtuber's sit in that category. Guy is single, than he blows up, next thing you know he has a gf, if the relationship last for a while, bam MARRIED! Or guy has humble beginnings, something happens, either he blows up by surprise because he got famous from some social media post or his dad died and he inherited papa's wealth. Dude finds a girl or his existing girl becomes his wife, game over 😂 Middle class guy, goes to prestigious university, gets engaged during graduation, if there's no infidelity, the deal is sealed 😂 either he consummates her later or they get married and he consomates her. These dudes go swiftly. Now that you've mentioned it I think the light green is the sweet spot. If we are talking the dark green no! Those guys are the least trustworthy especially if they made it to that spot before they've met their lover. They are far more likely to be single by choice not to preserve themselves but because they do not want a partner, they want to lead women on and play with them until they are bored with them. They have so many women offering themselves to them they feel they have no reason to settle just like women when they have a bunch of male options only with the difference being. The men in these positions 90% aren't interested in love, only God knows when they'll grow a heart if they ever do and your along for the ride.
Well sort of. The amount of guys that arw single there is like minescule. The amount that is married and do a bit of side hussle is consideraly larger.
The thing about choosing the winner reminds me of another race analogy that's at best tangentially related said by a fictional girl: "When the guy crosses the finish line, do you think he's going to run up and hug whatever woman looks best? Or the woman who's supported his training from day one, and cheered him on the whole race?"
That's a great quote, where is it from? Sounds like it might be Anime, but mostly because I can't remember the last time I heard someone from a western franchise say "cheered HIM on".
Ground is a really cool sponsor. Not only do they provide a really good product, they aren't afraid to advertise with any demographic because they recognize that truth seekers have no set affiliation.
At my most attractive (23-25, I was like a 7) I was poor as hell, which lost me a lot of chances. Now I'm 38 and doing well above average, have a house, etc. My looks are definitely worse and my experience is terrible (since I gave up on dating and focused on work). I've had to go through my darkest times completely alone, so now I don't really see a need to have someone around. Like what exactly are you going to offer me, Ive already proved I'm fine by myself. Would have been nice for someone to have had faith in me, as I would have had faith in them, but nobody did, so here we are. Most of us don't 'deserve' anything, the good or the bad, we just reap the rewards of ours and others choices.
@@dimitris1988kom Probably less working out to focus on working so some weight gain. Possibly hair line is worse due to aging? Could have more wrinkles and other signs of aging skin due to working and stress over years.
You want someone you can drain their resources and labor for free and then trade them in for a new model. That's why women aren't getting married anymore
just the use of the word "deserve" is so telling. Women deserve everything by virtue of existing, men have to actually make themselves worthy of existing. Funnily enough this directly corelates with the difference between Mary Sues and Gary Stus. Mary Sues are powerful because they are special. Gary Stus are special because they are powerful.
@@phoenixfire9176 The irony of the chick in the video talking about men written by women is crazy. Many popular female authors write the most sociopathic manipulative abusers or blank slate all powerful lover boys.
@@rosameltrozo5889 I was just coming here to say that. Something about this has to change tho; either all humans have inherent value/potential regardless of gender or NONE of them do. If we continue with one half having inherent value and the other not this is not going to get a lot worse (in a modern context)
That’s some pretty ass-backward logic you’re implying. The responsibility is still on you to act according to the “deserve” category and then expect the same in your partner or find a better one.
@@beaumarkut8872 No. You're not comprehending. Men in the deserve category can still get cheated on. How many women cheat and say, "he was too perfect?"
Because getting your information about women from women is like getting your information about the government from the government. Hint: they basically never admit fault unless forced.
By eliminating attraction as a variable and instead including it as a given, they’ve realistically reduced the pool of men that they would even consider in this little model of theirs by 80%
More like 99.9%. The most revealing thing in her video was her saying that 'Every man in the world' falls into her matix, when in reality she's only talking about about .001% of the male population. All the men that aren't sex feet tall, handsome, with six pack abs don't even figure into the equation. That's her real issue...the men she should consider aren't in her matrix at all.
I met an older friend from a place I used to work, She has a friend I've never met, that we discussed when talking about being single in a large city. This friend is slightly under-height at 5"3 but slim and cute. They've been friends since elementary school and the woman's requirements for a boyfriend / husband was, 6"1' (at least), handsome, wealthy, good job, worked out and willing to spoil her. When she hit her mid 20's, she dropped the working out. mid 30's, she dropped the height requirement and looks. Just wealthy remained by her 40's. I asked my friend what the girl had to bring to the table, and she shrugged. She said her friend believed she deserved the man of her dreams, and the man would get to have her.
Also women hitting 'the wall' does not equal personal growth. Just like stopping with your gambling doesn't equal personal growth if the only reason is that you ran out of money.
Some other commenter said it perfectly. Their mindset is "I am, therefore I deserve." There's no thought beyond that when you're selfish, spoiled and entitled.
there are numerous videos of women being completely stunned when asked what they think men want from them. it genuinely doesn't appear to have ever occurred to them
Dumb & Nice : "They are low in IQ and high in EQ" "He could be nuclear scientist and not know present to give you..." If a person just speaks words without even understanding what they are saying, when they are just spouting nonsense... What value can I expect to find in rest of their opionions? If you ask me, best to just move on.
I’m so glad you said it! They didn’t have “able” on their list because women are no longer willing to build with a man. It used to be that neither party had anything when you meet. Many used to meet in high school, early college or at work in a starter position. Everyone lived at home with parents or a crappy apartment you shared with roommates. It takes time to build but you used that time to build a relationship while building assets and stability. Then you get to get married and start a family. It took work and sacrifice on both sides. That is how as a woman you “deserved” this high value man. You invested in him becoming that man. Now days a woman wants a man who already has built on his own. She doesn’t want to invest in him or sacrifice anything for him to become high value. But still wants to “deserve” him. Modern women have decided that because she’s “pretty” and has lots of admirers on social media and dating apps that she is also high value. Which is nuts because there are countless millions of “pretty” women with countless admirers.
I know that the main difference between dating advice for men and women is that it’s always assumed that the woman in question deserves the best but it’s still jarring whenever I see it lol. They just assume that even broke, stupid, and evil women out there deserve a man with a good career and sterling character, it’s nuts
@@Trynottoblink Well this is the thing, we often see men with good careers and seemingly good character choose stupid, broke and evil women as long as said woman looks the way he likes. Soooo it’s not really nuts, considering many guys are out here promoting for other men to actually choose broke, stupid and possibly evil 18 year olds. It not really nuts when study after study shows that men prefer stupid women. And it’s not really nuts when women that are so-called “b*tches” are also usually married before the nice girl is. Just an observation.
And that's a big part of the problem they don't even deserve the average man a big problem in the west is to assume best of women and worst of man and opposite is closer to truth we have 17 female ancestors for every male women have passed genes even if they were trash most the bad genes are coming from women they have held mankind back
Reminded of that experiment where they put a rat in simple maze each day with a sweet drink dispenser at one end, and a sweet bit of food dispenser at the other, setup so that picking either one would de-activate the other, so the rat could only get one Or the other, but never both. They figured they would be able to tell when the rat understood the rules when the rat consistently picked just the one that he liked more. Instead, one day, the rat just sat there in the center, and from that day on never made a choice. Turns out he would rather have the option of choice, and get nothing, than pick one if it means losing the option for other. This is where we are today with dating apps. We like the illusion of options More than ever actually making the choice that would take those illusory options away and as a result we get nothing at all.
I got married this year. One of the things that made me realise her value? She saw mine, when there was no payout in sight. High quality women invest their entire value in long-term growth. Low quality women try to gamble on short-term gains, squandering their value with each superficial bet.
@Crimsonfangg she also listed Republicans. The majority of men vote GOP. So if you have a problem with that, you are are already cutting yourself off to over half the population of men.
@@kevinkearns7719 I don't really care about someone having a political preference. It's important to have aligning values. I do typically find that they really don't care if they're attracted to the guy, though.
I was explaining exactly this to 4 20-23yo girls who were in my cab the other day (I am a Grandpa). Now the best looking one was a solid 8 and she could land a winner (if she can find one in the willing zone) but the other 3 were a 5 at best (dressed up to go party) and they have no chance. After a long ride, from the country into a city, their conclusion is "we just wanna have fun" and that translates into "get Alpha Widowed by a bunch of 8+ dudes who couldn't GAF about us" This is so common and so sad. Civilisation killer level of sad
Hard to change her own DNA. Women are made to be looking at the best she can get. Now we live in a time where she actually know this and also knows she will never be able to do it because she is a 5. So she is fucked from the start. She also knows her value will be close to 0 once she is 40 years old. So her life is basically : her DNA is screaming at her ears everyday to marry an alpha male, but the likelihood that this happens is next to 0%, and in 15 years she is done for good anyway. This is such a grim existence. No wonder she just wants to have fun and drown her sorrow.
Yep, the "I just want to have fun" is women speak for I know no guys my age are rich enough for my standards and good looking guys wont marry me and I do not want to "settle", so I am going to act like being single is my choice until I find the rich good looking guy I deserve". Then they are 40 with cats.
Perhaps they should not have coined the "starter husbands" term so openly. Even "Beta bucks providers" seem to have gone underground hard so well their work was done in public.
As a woman, something I had to accept was being a good woman didn’t entitle me to a husband. I’m supposed to be a good woman because that’s the personal goal. If I get one, GREAT! If I don’t, it’s not because I did something wrong or the world was unfair. I don’t deserve a bad man but I’m not entitled to a good one either. Let the chips fall as they may. *shrug*
I think women understand this better than men in general in my experience. I suppose that is why women seem to be more content compared to men with forming relationships apart from sex and dating for interpersonal social health and hygiene. One of the "problems with dating" that hoe math never bothers to try and "solve" is how a very large number of men are also really entitled and feel they "deserve" a "young fertile submissive bangmaid tradwife with low bodycounts" And when that ideal does not conform with reality they throw on some rose colored glasses and pretend like that was how it used to be and now "western society is in decline and collapse" bc that ideal fantasy was just never that realistic in the first place.
Which makes the whole "willing to run the race with us" a more complicated matter when or if women that are willing to do that realize that is what is expected of them and grow tired of it as the race goes on without much progess towards the finish line.
@@memegazer yeah I agree. I think the most important thing is to check his ability to accomplish things and his ambition. If he was a chill guy who was content, don’t expect him to try to run a Fortune 500 just cause he’s your husband. If you want an ambitious guy they’re out there (doesn’t have to be just money) and there’s plenty of men who are okay with an average life and that’s OKAY. Most men are meant to be average. The “finish line” can’t be unrealistic.
That's exactly the main problem with the dating market, especially dating apps. The already know that no man will ever be good enough for them, yet they go on the app anyway.
In my 20s, the number of women willing to run the race with me was precisely zero. At 30, I met a woman who understood the race, and wanted to run with me. We've been married 20 years. And let me tell you something regarding the Cube of Deserving: women don't know which quadrant _they_ are in; most of them are NOT in the green quadrant of high value. It's a poorly kept secret that most of them need a lot of work.
I'd like to see the Cube for women. I'm betting it will be brutal, as it will put many young women in a "pretty" category with the absolute certainty that they WILL move out of it.
I understood this from a young age, and I picked my husband (then boyfriend) at university because he had potential, was competent and he really wanted to give me the world, even when he didn't have money at the time and he only could invite me a coffee from time to time, I knew he had the guts to build a great future and I wanted to help him build that for us. He is everything I dream of and more, and I love him so much. Girls, don't go for a guy who already have a kingdom and a harem, you will be just one more girl, Better go for the competent broke fella who will build you an empire, and treat each other as king and queen. (this is work for both in the relationship)
Most of my male friends who are doctors and lawyers met their wives when they were broke students. Many of their now-wives paid for all of their living expenses when they were in medical/law school. Some of those women even worked two jobs to write 30k tuition checks to their law school. These women picked struggle guys and ran every mile of the race with them. Now they are married to top 1% income-earners. Just a thought
What do you call a person who finished last in their class at medical school? Doctor. Women who date medical or law students know that their potential husbands are going to make 6 figures regardless so are willing to put in the effort.
cool cool only if that were going to be replicated oh wait it wont but thanks for stopping by to lend men false hope so that more men will become that 80% women divorce stat lol are you proud of yourself little buddy ?!
@@archstanton9073 Sure. My point however, was that these women who married these doctors and lawyers didn’t just “date” them. These women “supported” them. Emotionally and sometimes financially in huge ways. That’s why they have a man who can support them in a big way financially now. Dating takes minimal effort. Paying all the bills for you and your partner for multiple years while they go to school is a big sacrifice. There’s a reason those men keep them for the big payoff. Most women seem to believe they deserve the payoff but for having done nothing.
Ye Olde Red Pill figured out what was going on decades ago and the social engineers squashed their reach because they engineered it this way as far back as the Boomer's generation.
i really enjoyed mrs brisby and the rats of NIHM as a kid now that i know it was inspired by the mouse utopia experiment and see where we are headed its kinda depressing lol still a good movie though
Lol u assume if this women went super saiyen 5 she would be a 00000001% of percent as clever as hoemath lol little buddy women are a mouth with a womb attached little more lol
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The fact that a nuclear physicist isn't smart enough to figure her out, sais a lot about her personality xD
@hoe_math You gotta drop a response video to Noah Sampson's video about your channel bro. His soy laced clip farming routine did you wrong man
But how do we know that Ground News isn't biased?
There's a great movie about finding a guy and making him the prize.
It's called Hobson's Choice.
Accidentally admitting nuclear science is easier to understand than her needs.
*LOL*
Good catch.
Told on herself
*wants
She doesn't *need* anything other than shelter, food and water.
I like how the box says people in that quadrant have a high eq but low iq. Then says people in that box could be nuclear physicists. Wait? What? Does she know what EQ and IQ are? All the examples she gave are the exact reverse. Low EQ and High IQ. This leads me to believe something about her smarts.
it's basically two internal combustion engine cooling systems linked together with with a heat exchanger to cool up off pissed off atoms to drive a steam genny.
"These guys are low IQ" swiftly followed by "he can be a nuclear scientist" is insane to me.
I'm pretty sure she got EQ and IQ mixed up, but she also seems like the type to think they have the same value in terms of intelligence.
They if you don't or can't manipulate other people you are stupid. But if Chad bought them potholders it would be ok.
@@mistere9099 EQ also sounds like a made-up term.
@@mistere9099EQ doesn't exist, it's a made-up term that's supposed to make stupid people feel better.
A woman calling a guy dumb: Let that sink in... There are some brilliant women out there, some of whom I know. But if we're taking averages, men come out way ahead in the intelligence ratings, even with Republican men dragging down our averages a bit.
Dating advice for men: "You need to better yourself."
Dating advice for women: "You deserve better."
Yes increase women entitlement, that's what we need to do!
There's going to be an army of spinster cat ladies in the future with this mentality. Dating apps ruined an entire generation of women. As a 38 year old millenial, im glad i got to experience a semblance of dating before they came out.
You forgot, for men: _Every failure is your fault._ (Conveniently ignoring women's choices.)
Dating advice for men can be concisely simplified to: "fuck this shit!"
@@OneWingedSharka guy named Lucario is talking that way right now LOL
A female coworker of mine asked me for guy advice. She said that her boyfriend looked the way she wanted him to and made the money that she wanted him too, but she didn’t like that he “ONLY” had a BA degree and not a Masters.
I asked her 3 questions:
1. How long have you been together? A: 8yrs
2. Do you think he has ever cheated on you? A: No.
3. Has he proposed? A: Yes, and I said no because of the missing degree.
I told her the moral thing to do is to leave him so that he can have the life he deserves. The selfish thing to do is stay with him ruining his Chance of a happy and healthy marriage.
She doesn’t talk to me anymore.
She apparently has a BS degree.
You did the right thing!
I am ROFLing now but it is actually true. :)
[Edit: Never received that many likes anywhere because I don't have boobs or other things that make you popular. So, thank you very much, guys! :)]
You burned her so much she had to fly to the Sun to cool off
It is awesome how the moral argument is such a buzz kill these days.
My 4th question would be: Do you want him to get the degree for him, you or your friends?
No one gives women worse advice than other women.
It's the "you're a 10" attitude. Keep doing detrimental things to yourself so I can get the best guy.
"Single women keep women single."
Women don’t want advice from anyone who disagree with them 😉
No one hates w0men more than other w0men
@@mistersmith3986 the small hats too
Date a guy who is smart and nice. Don't date a guy that is dumb and mean. Boy, what a profound insight they have.
The problem is that they are completely unable to figure out who is nice and smart until well into the relationship. Sometimes years. Because they assumed the guy was a 8-9 to start. They will overlook the issues that creates dumb and mean for quite some time because you are handsome or rich. They just assumed two of the most obvious qualities for a reason 😂
The issue is less the knowing but the doing.
Rule #2 ... If the dumb and mean dude is also rich...disregard rule #1.
They won't say it but they don't want too nice, that's how you get dumped. A degree of indifference and some unattached vibes mixed in satisfies hypergamy and maintains desire. Going full lover boy will breed contempt.
Also, fire bad. Do not touch.
You know you’ve made it when female content creators are ripping you off.
there is another guy in Germany who is even more blatantly ripping him off
In a substandard way...
Copies ain’t authentic💯
@@3ZN357 Pathetic counterfeit representation...
@@filmbuff4 I'm German, I've seen ever hoe_math video (TH-cam should recommend similar videos), I don't know that guy. Who is it? He mustn't be doing it good.
Mens dating advice: be better.
Women's dating advice: only pick the top 10%
You are very optimistic about it being 10%
Ah the classic why wont 2% of Mn settle for.... all of us? 🤣
Its be better to pick better ones
Yeah it's funny, even men's dating advice is trash. Men: Just be confident, hit the gym. Lol
@@OriginalDrGonzo lol... the number of Mn who give chit advice be about the same as Wm who give good 1 🤣
"I am not allowed to date within the Trauma quadrant anymore" is gonna be broken faster than a New Years Resolution to go to the gym
That is where all the fun boys are at!
ANYMORE. So she might just be done in her 'willfuly choosing to be abused' phase and moving in to her 'finding a simp to abuse' phase. Give her some credit bro.
"Not allowed" = "Something I am more inclined to want now that I am told I shouldn't have it".
Not allowed anymore: I hit the wall; need a provider.
Very well she's shown growth she went from dumb to dumb and evil
So these women solved dating by once again omitting attraction. They really are eye blind to attraction and most of us aren’t people.
Or, they don't care about attraction for men or for themselves. We call that "gold diggers."
Guys that aren't above 6-7 don't even get women to look at them. If they do, they look away in disgustm
There not allowed to admit it. Just like they are not allowed to admit they are more hedonistic than men, because they can indulge almost at will, whereas men cannot. It goes against the fantasy they have created and want every woman to collectively stick to.
20s: be sleepers for Chads. Smart/nice don’t matter.
30s: look for smart/nice. Looks don’t matter.
That’s the 4th dimension.
When women say this list is for all men they are inherently only referring to attractive guys 8's and above. Women don't consider guys who are 7 and below as actual datable men. In their eyes, guys who are 7 and below are only good for emotional and financial support basically what can they give or do for me.
Woman tries to make a graph that "solves" female dating strategy.
Accidentally makes a graph that depicts hypergamy.
She literally made the same graph that's a perfect depiction of today's dating world 😂😂😂😂😂😂
BINGO
@@Hieronymus_Rex 🤣💀
It just shows how slow their brains are
💯🎯
“Women don’t like being in the Struggle box. They don’t want to win the race with us, they want to wait at the finish line and reap the rewards.”
I’ve come to find that’s what women actually mean when they say they’re attracted to “Ambition”
Men want to be successful. Women want to be with successful men.
Yep, I had it happen to me when young. If they think you will one day be rich or successful, they actually think you are a "project", which was one of her boxes. Good looking women do not want a project, and hence if she marries you both of you will "struggle" until you make it. She doesnt want that and it is a turn off, and she dumps you.
I actually had a girl I dated in law school call me that. I had ambition galore, women gave two ducks. They want the finished rich guy. It was pretty insulting and the dating was brief. She worked at a retail store. LOL
@@Mark-cq1mo "Men wanna be me, women wanna be with me." - Johnny Cage
Women want to be the prize but if you treat her like a trophy like she is asking she will get mad and now out if nowhere has needs? 😂 Pick a side girl!
Oh if u look attractive shell struggle 😂
If Buddhism has taught me anything, it is that the word “deserve” is the cause of most of our suffering.
Some ways back I figured out that "deserve" is really just used by people to try to elevate their feelings about someone to the level of some nebulous, external moral authority, like they've found a loop hole that allows them to get away with breaking the third commandment. "THIS ONE WEIRD TRICK ALLOWS YOU TO PRAISE OR CONDEMN OTHERS WITH THE AUTHORITY OF GOD HIMSELF WITHOUT SINNING. PRIESTS HATE IT. WATCH THIS VIDEO BEFORE IT GETS SMITTEN BY THE ALMIGHTY!"
Christianity, practiced properly, says the same thing: "you don't deserve anything but hellfire, so literally anything else that you receive is a gift and should be appreciated as such". That's what humility is - knowing and accepting your place and role in Creation.
Some sects of Christianity (like Catholicism) take it a bit too far and end up with a guilt complex, others (like most Protestants) take it not nearly far enough and end up with a God complex, but the middle ground there is a really comfy spot to be in: everything in life is a gift and brings joy when you rid your vocabulary of the word "deserve".
@@Solon64 There's a really great quote from C.S. Lewis' "The Screwtape Letters" that summarizes this: "The man can neither make, nor retain, one moment of time; it all comes to him by pure gift; he might as well regard the sun and moon his chattels." Letter 21. Read that book, you'll thank yourself.
@@Solon64 Middleground = Lutheranism
@@justaguy8104 no disrespect but in Buddhism, it’s the word DESIRE not deserve bro.
"Women don't want to be in the struggle box. They want us to win first and then share." That's probably the most accurate thing I've ever heard you say.
THe irony being that a man will fall in love with a woman who chooses to struggle with him.
@Marcara081 is the secret to a man's heart, also cooks good food
@@eliel14ful Ya I'd rank the food thing at #1 ;)
@@Marcara081Yes
@@Marcara081it’s funny cause there are so many movies and songs with this as a theme of the guy picking the girl who stuck with him even when he couldn’t even afford dates and yet most girls be like I don’t like broke boys
She basically just wrote down "give me everything i want" and made a video telling everyone she fixed everything and that shes so smart
That's what they've been doing for decades 😂
Wild when you actually parse the meaning between their run-on sentences, ain't it?
Every single women has this brilliant idea
Gee i wonder how she ends up in the trauma quadrant
@@AmazingRebel23 Somehow we're responsible. No exceptions. Ever.
"Run the race with us" is practically a revolutionary statement this day and age. It really is game theory at it's finest, she doesn't wanna run the race cause if she does and he wins and picks someone else bad investment for her, but he isn't gonna want to invest in someone who he knows only picked him cause he won, and the stand off begins and everyone is angry.
If she runs the race with him, it means he already picked her.
Even in her worst case scenario, she can divorce him and get a huge payout on her investment. A man's worst case scenario is infinitely worse. Nothing to gain, everything to lose.
This insight is brutal yet beautiful.
This is where we need to shame men who do this. Accountability goes both ways. Any man who has a girl stay with him on his come up and then leaves her for someone younger/hotter once he's made it should be [redacted] IMO. Not quite as bad as what the ladies are doing, but it's completely vile behavior.
@@jamesomara3361 If the younger / hotter woman were willing to get with him in this early stage, then he wouldn't need to leave. But he picks up a 200 pounder when he's broke and dumps her for a slim and fit girl when he has more value.
What do women like to say? Men aren’t owed anything by women. Sister it goes the other way. Men don’t owe you.
Wellll God made them to be our helpmates he told them to "submit to your husband AS TO THE LORD" so they are failing their role miserably while we still faithfully hold up the world for them.
this is what guys should act like. Unfortunately, there are so many simps that girls will think all men are like that, when actually the only men who act like this are said simps
@multieyedmyr Thank you.
And men function better alone than women do as we require far less social involvement and handle isolation significantly better.
@@brandongray1059 Some of us prefer isolation. I literally cannot stand most people.
"I want my chad to be rich and caring.
Here, I solved dating".
I want world peace. Here, I just stopped World War 3.
No no Chad is already rich half the time, but instead of him using his money on multiple girls I just want him to use it on me, because I’m special
Ayyy-men!
A handsome rich man who is kind and caring, is already married to his beloved...
@@baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714Prince Charming married a real princess.
“Not allowed to date within the trauma quadrant.” = Been run through bad.
It's seems pretty ridiculous to label something "trauma" when it's something YOU did to YOURSELF. 😂 Ultimately, that's the case for women who've been run through.
@@kylemacdougall8355 it still is trauma, but it doesn't change the fact it's self inflicted
Chad
'Trauma' is another word for 'been used for sex'. Not really the same thing.
Don't let her poor decisions be your problem, men. Don't walk, run away from women like this!
We need to define some things here from her perspective:
'Smart': Able to cater to her every need perfectly
'Nice': Willing to be in a committed relationship with her
'Every man in the world' : The .001% of men hot enough for her to even consider
'Trauma': Being used for sex
''Narcissist': Someone who used her for sex
Her matrix makes a lot more sense once you know these definitions.
While I repeatedly think that things like TikTok have been a net negative for society, there's always part of me that is at least grateful at them existing so we can at least document the level of damage that's been done over the course of the last 100 years.
ban social media for children under 18 years
Indeed, plot the points on the downward curve so people can't accuse you of a slippery slope fallacy, because you have the receipts.
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 I know where you're coming from and in a spiritual sense I agree with you, but the only viable way to do it is to have laws passed where you have a digital government-based ID for access to all social media.
I know that when this eventually comes into law (because it's going to) all discourse is going to shut down, because the moment you say something that is even slightly spicy and have it connected to something that can and will be linked to who you are irl, you're done and will face all sorts of problems.
The solution was to push parents to force their kids to not access social media via them not having the means to until they're 18, but lazy parents allow kids to be kept distracted by pc's phones and ipads rather than them doing things with their kids.
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 or pay people appropriately so that we can return to single earner households and people can raise their kids instead of working constantly. Don't care who does it (male or female) but, if you have kids, being present has a very well established benefit to child development
This stuff appears in historical records hundreds, even thousands of years old.
The Bible warns about all this. Did you not read it?
She admitted that nuclear science is far more easier than understanding her needs. Way to tell on yourself.
That’s not what happened. It was not very clear, but she made two separate points. High EQ/ Low IQ and then the mirror.
Oh man nice catch 😂
That's why they don't like pleasers. It's easier to make a woman happy when you yourself live a happy/fulfilling life and just let them tag along and enjoy the same things. Don't bend for her, if it's mean to be, she'll fit with you.
Nuclear physics is logical and consistent- and sets out everything you need to know in books.
Deliberately going up to the physics section of a bookshop and asking for material will get you no strange looks or rejections.
Her wants there I corrected it for her 😂
You can explain the lack of top tier men to women all day. And they will completely understand how rare that guy is. The breakdown comes from the fact that every one of them think that they're the special girl one of those men will want.
They're compulsive gamblers, not just with money. They'll happily risk their entire future on a
Yup. They're special, unique unicorn snowflakes, each and every one!
@@Solon64 it didn’t used to be this bad, women are actually excellent gamblers. They’re hard wired to sniff out a good bet. The problem is they’re playing with the houses money now. Modern western women exist in a gravity free environment. There’s almost nothing they can fuck up that they won’t be bailed out for. No consequences for sex with terrible men, they’ve got birth control and abortion on demand. No consequences for bad marriage partner, they have no fault divorce. No consequences for having a kid with a bad guy, myriad welfare programs to save them (if not reward them). They’ve been sold a world where they can have their cake, eat it too, and break into your fridge and have yours as well. Until incentives are fixed and reality realigned, this will continue to get worse. Now that you know that, it’s time to start asking WHO is promoting this situation and exploiting it, and made it possible in the first place.
I would venture to say that they believe the fairy tales. Disney really messed them up. That and the romcoms. Lifetime movie network.. the Hallmark channel, etc. Those channels need to do more reality-based stories (not reality TV stuff.. but stories based in reality and not fantasy) so they get their heads out of the clouds.
@@uoabigailleveyyeah they all think the rich dude from the big city is gonna fall in love with the ditzy hometown girl who’s into pottery
I've also heard many women say "I don't want to have to teach him" when it comes to relationships or sex. This seems to imply that they don't want to give the man the opportunity to gain experience. He should already know what to do. Similar to "We have to have experience to get a job (relationship), but how can we get experience if we can't get a job?"
What I hate about this is that many women have unrealistic expectations regarding a man’s sexual experience. We often want to be their first and only intimate encounter, yet paradoxically, most women expect men to already know what to do in the bedroom. This double standard is confusing and unfair. Moreover, there’s the expectation that they shouldn’t learn from porn, as it can create unrealistic ideas and involve seeing other women’s bodies, which many of us find uncomfortable. But the reality is, intimacy is unique to each relationship and situation. Regardless of past experiences or lack thereof, both partners have to learn and adapt together, so it’s really pointless to get hung up on it.
It’s all just big dumb game that they won’t win because the game conflicts with it self and they want play game how supposed be played 😐
"I am lying and expect you to agree with me though you know I am lying. Failure to comply will result in sanctions by me and the hivemind women."
Indeed, it's quite like Solzhenitsyn's quote about Communists "We know they are lying, they know that they are lying, they even know that we know they are lying, but they are still lying."
Maybe "I am delusional, entitled, frustrated and expect you to tolerate me being foolish and wrong even though you know I'm foolish and wrong. Failure to comply will result in me being even more frustrated because even though I'll threated to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s I won't and hope this video will get other women to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s so the 8s, 9s and 10s will start acting like 2s, 3s and 4s towards me."
its a social emotional game. but to he fair to them if they dont play it then theyre targeted.
Good.
Because women still let other women think for them
"I picked the RIGHT guy!!!! How was I supposed to know 99 other girls picked him too..... :( "
"I'm not in competition with them, if a guy wants one of them then he wasn't the one for me"
@@beowulf_of_wall_st "Where have all the good men gone!!"
@@beowulf_of_wall_st which is why I choose women that are less prone to jealousy and more likely to communicate what we can do better for eachother
Whenever women talk about men's looks, they all act like they have a particular taste in men, that they have niche preferences. The reality is they all go for the same kind of men. Hope that explains why they lack this objectivity.
@@sor3999 women are generally really invested in the idea that everyone is totally different because then they can ignore probability and statistics and pretend they are just following their own unique path, because it eliminates the idea of competition
The "deserve" thing is narcissism.
Yes it called Entitlement.
Not necessarily, it's natural law that we deserve whatever we are able to seize for ourselves.
@@mudblood9699 deserve has no part of it. you are describing earn
@@mudblood9699
They're talking about moral deserving
@@mudblood9699 If deserving was a natural law that we deserve whatever we can seize, the human race would have gone extinct a long long time ago. We respect each other and try to earn things, that's how we prospoer (even if its slow progress).
My mother is mid-sixties and still behaves this way. She genuinely believes a guy her age with wealth and status is going to come swooping in her life. I told her that type of man is seeing forty-somes for fun, the mid-sixties woman woman already divorce-graped him. It's somewhere between sad, pathetic and repulsive.
Man I can't imagine having a mother like this. You must have immense mental fortitude to deal with it.
We sympathize w you, brother
Sometimes you have give up on a dream because just so un believable and it would take so much get it not worth it 😮
Some mental illness is terminal.
As a kid I always thought adults were smart. Imagine my surprise when I learned they act this childish.
I’m just going to take a potentially controversial position that might anger these women, but I’m standing firm. Half a square is not a hemisphere. I said what I said.
They might be flat earthers.
Hemisquare? 🤪
It's not a hemi circle either
"Half a square is not a hemisphere."
Not in taxicab geometry ;)
You win the internet for the day. 😂🎉
I am 55, I am Brazilian, I was poor, I became an engineer, I've been making 6 figure salary for years, I moved to US with no money, I married 28 yo broke, I am still married at 55 yo to the same women. She decided to run with me, we have two daughters, I will never leave her. More than love, she showed me loyalty -- above all, I respect loyalty.
And when you got rich, you rewarded her with loyalty, when you could easily replace her.
@@whiterabit09 That is true, I was loyal to her. But unhappily a 6 figure salary today is not that great any more... A six figure salary when I was young in the 90s would go a lot farther. Let's say I have a decent life, but definitely not rich.
Bom homem. Acabo de conhecer minha noiva no Brasil esta mês. A diferencia entra dela e mulheres prototípicas dos EUA é tão grande.
@@fmilan1 There's been university studies ranging from 10% to as many as 25% of children within a family being from different fathers. Every man should perform a paternity test on their children.... I have seen too many stories online about fathers in their 50s, 60s and 70s discovering their children are from some other man. Ancestry or 23&me will provide you this information and other useful information as well.
Most men understand this sentiment. And good for you man, good job to you both.
my wife and I had to grind for years to get where we are now. Relatives seeing us now tell her how "lucky" she is. She wasn't "lucky", she was smart. She knew that men don't really start making good money starting out and knew that SHE would have to grind with a man to get to that space. The verbal beatdowns she gives the younger women in the extended family are often hilarious. "Girly, if you think you are going to marry a man your age making what my husband makes, you had better get your tail to Atlanta and start dating rappers"...shuts them up pretty fast.
Yes, that’s what so many are delulu about and what I’ve been hammering into my own daughter’s heads-you aren’t going to find some rich prince waltzing around the US incognito. Might as well buy lotto tickets and earnestly believe you are going to win. Also know that it’s not bad to not be faux-rich. If you have a roof over your head, food on the table and some other things in that same vein, you are unbelievably blessed compared to the vast majority of humanity.
I remember this other girl making a video saying "if you want a high value man, it's not for the weak b/c he is going to hold you accountable." Yes she's right, most are not just going to give it to you.
Yeah, sadly so many women are gaslight into thinking they can be absolved of all responsibility and standards if they just make themselves look pretty. And then they throw a wrench in by saying that they should also be independent and strong wahmen X_X
It's so fascinatingly delusional. "What is a woman?" is a damn good question. Because I don't think women know how they are supposed to act anymore and just gravitate to hedonism and then ruin their lives.
Whatever men leave their first wives all of the time for younger women that give up everything to help him get there. There is zero point in helping a man build anything because he will leave her behind one day.
@@inexpertxennial6067 80% of divorces are initiated by women…
Imagine being born and hoping your life will be great, only for others to either judge you "a project" or "a struggle".
Then imagine the gall it would take to ask why men aren't dating anymore.
Yep... well said
They put men across 4 quadrants and pretend all women are in the smart + nice quadrant.
Sugar and spice quadrant
They fail to realize that most men nowadays see women in the red half.
Weird SOLOMON had wisdom straight from the hand of God he found a few good men and ZERO GOOD WOMEN somehow i doubt this women and her silly graph know better then mighty king Solomon
That's the "we're all 10s" mentality.
Despite us moving so far as a civilization, we cannot escape the animal instincts:
Women want to appear worthy and desirable to breed with, meaning they are the best of the best. They don't have to do anything, just convince everyone around them, especially the men. The men of course, are then there to just hornily try out of compete who gets the "best" girl to breed with. The man gets their "rocks off" and a legacy while the woman get protection and all kinds of responsibilities around survival taken off their shoulders and replaced with motherhood. Except nowadays women replace it with money...
"They're from Portland. Make of that what you will" That's gold Jerry. GOLD!
I chuckled too....knowingly!
That's in fact the filter through which all of this must be viewed.
"Yuck = Republicans" it's in her matrix
Can someone explain what's going on in Portland to an European like myself?
I was about to write that then noticed your comment
>male self-help book
>ctrl-f; "You have to"
>342 results
>female self-help book
>ctrl-f; "You deserve"
>764 results
Many such cases
Thank god for Spetsnaz RIP.
>guy greentexting on youtube
>can't get laid
Many such cases
@@-______________________ It's the internet, not a textbook entry, get over it.
@@logan_wolf no hoes
LMAO !!! So accurate, tho !
I love how she says perfect fictional characters are the men that women deserve.
So entitled
Indeed. At least when I fantasize about my dream Anime catgirl who is always happy, sad, horny or a combination thereof I know I'll never find someone like her in real life, but these women have lost the ability to separate ideals from reality.
You don’t deserve anything you earn it work for it 😮
A little unfair to submit a 3 dimensional model to explain a 2 dimensional being's mental processes.
Underrated comment
Most of these 304s are one dimensional characters!
2? you mean 1?
😂😂😂
thats freaking hilarious
In short, this woman "SOLVED" dating by just telling women to pick the 0.01% guy.
BRILLIANT!
Honey, we already knew that's what you were gunning for YEARS ago.
BTW, I know NUMEROUS 7's that GOT the 0.01% guy, and guess what? They STILL weren't happy and blew up the marriage.
If she told women the truth she wouldn't have an audience flattering women is a billion dollar empire look at makeup alone women hate truth especially about themselves because its rarely flattering
It's why shaming was used and religion to control them on a societal level that forced them to stay, so they could rail about oppression or their husband. Once they have a top 10% they lose all interest over time and today that occurs far more rapidly.
Well some of them should. I'm right here.
Listening to women talk is like watching an episode of family guy
@abdulazizhawsah9884 😂
"What is your wish, Dorothy?" asked Glinda the good witch.
"I want a top-tier man who makes at LEAST $150k and ain't no scrub!" said Dorothy.
"Simple," said Glinda. "Just close your eyes and click your heels together and repeat after me: I deserve it. I deserve it. I deserve it. I DESERVE IT."
Dorothy: why am I naked in Dubai?
@@realnamesnotgiven6193😂😂😂😂
Bad analogy. If you'll remember, in the story, clicking her heels together did, indeed, get her what she wanted.
This is impossible.
@@notmyname3883 That was the point of the analogy: each of these women thinks they're the main character in a fairy tale and that they can get what they want through fairy tale logic.
@@realnamesnotgiven6193BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA
im so glad i fell to this side of the internet. My bf isnt experienced or able yet but he is willing. If i had listened to the popular dating advice i Wouldve never found him. He is a man with the kindest of hearts, the purest of souls. THank you
Wemon to lonely men: your not entitled to love
Wemon to lonely Wemon: you deserve the world just for being a woman.
what a great example of women approaching a problem. there's no solving at all, just a formulation of what they want. no inquiry into what, how, and why, no acknowledgement of the reality of things, no plan of action, just "me want this".
All women’s examples always turns to them wanting things and objects ( it seems! )😂😂😂
Mostly phallic objects!
Hence the “I deserve” entitlement… Smh. Modern women mistake the providing role of men for them being Santa Clause bringing gifts and presents for the little child they still are…
@@monsieuralex974 "the providing role of men" is a scam, stop falling for it!
You notice how women coddle each other like children all the time when it comes to dating?
"Oh you go gurl! You deserve like so much better! He's a meanie anyways! You are so so so cute and so funny and so humble and so so so..."
It's wild that women surround themselves with Yeswomen and then are surprised when reality isn't what their "friends" tell them it is. It's all about maximising emotional safety and protection, even if it is fake.
The female mind cannot handle societal rejection or a sense of being inadequate. They'd rather walk on burning coals than face the idea that they might be subpar. Even if that realization would get them to improve themselves. Thus the cycle continues.
Women coddle each other like a bundle of poisonous snakes. They give each other toxic advice to make their rivals price themselves out of the dating market while believing those very same lies themselves. Can't make this stuff up.
It's better then being unlived by a mal3 or getting abused by one
@@inexpertxennial6067 Yeah, you go with your strawman arguments, girl!
@@inexpertxennial6067 Nice bait. Maybe go outside sometimes. Oh wait no, you probably can't because you are so paranoid and scared a "mal2" attacks you!! Oh good heavens!
Once again, the idea of a man’s future earning potential is not even considered in their math. Every married man I’m related to got married when they were young and broke but developed wealth with their wives over the span of time. This used to be common. Not a single one of these women would seem to consider that now, even though cost of living is higher than ever. They are all waiting at the finish line instead.
They are just hard-wired to compete with other women for that one rich guy’s attention. Good luck with that, ladies.
For the majority, based on probable outcomes, it seems prudent to invest in kitty litter stocks, the umbiquitous boxed wine box manufacturing, and "Bob", stocks. We'll all be rich!
Also, I love that HM revealed ACTUAL average annual earnings of men in the US to help dispel the delusion out there. Bravo. He’s doing God’s work.
They don't even know what their own futures are going to look like (read: the consequences of their choices), so how could they possibly see someone else's?
I can’t really blame women for this. You have one life, do you really want to spend it trying to make a broke dude into a rich dude? I personally would not.
@@nickthompson1812 I get it, but more women would have a better life if they would join forces with and be supportive of a man.
I rolled my eyes at first when I saw 'Republicans' in the Yuck section, but then remembered I do the same with left-wing progressive women... like from Portland. So, fair enough.
Women don't actually have political opinions.
@@Kwisatz-Chaderach They align themselves with whoever makes them feel good and promise them free resources.
Yeah, as soon as I saw her categorize all Republicans (I am neither Republican nor Democrat) as "Evil and Dumb", I knew it was safe to ignore her completely. Only Evil/Dumb individuals make sweeping generalizations about an entire group based on race, religion or...political affiliation.
I disagree, because there are big differences between evil incarnate and just not being evil. They’ve created such an insane divide, to be considered leftist, you have to have a complete lack of morals and character.
@@CentralBankofTruth you might be more left leaning than you realize if you find yourself agreeing with hoe math. -socialist
- "I won't date in the trauma box.... ANYMORE"
they always tell on themselves😂
Indeed they do XD
She got bruised tonsils type of anymore.
Honey 🍯 you don’t get do anymore it should be your never do if done more then once twice at most your lost and no one should have deal with your addictive bad habits 😅
Not just telling on themselves--they BRAG about their failures.
Ironically the best solution to all of women's problems is focusing social programs on solving men's needs so that more men end up in the "green" categories for women to choose from, but that would be giving resources to men which seems taboo.
Math, you are being poorly imitated. That is the highest form of praise.
Exactly my first thought at seeing that first clip of their vid in here.
there is also a guy in Germany who is straight up ripping off his drawings and i believe he is trying to sue him.
Aren't they ripping off the Crazy/Hot Matrix guy?
@archstanton9073
HoeMath paid homage to the crazy-hot matrix before. He explicitly said that it's an incomplete visualization of how men should evaluate women. And if we follow the breadcrumbs far back enough, there'll probably be some earlier visuals to evaluate dating choices.
@@filmbuff4 Wouldn't really be worth suing unless thew other guy was far more successful than he is. I've seen Hoemath's drawings on a bunch of TH-camr's videos.
" The Worst Thing That Modern Feminism Could Have Done For Women Was To Allow Them To Reveal Their True Nature. "
Barbarossa, 2010. "The Post-Feminism Man". A Mgtow must-see...
It is quite a revelation. John Steinbeck knew what they were like too. He wrote about it in _Of Mice and Men_ and _East of Eden._
Barbarrosa changed my worldview forever and exposed the problem of traditionalism to me.
Hope that guy’s doing well, his videos were gold
Excellent recommendation, thanks!
Feminism set men free and enslaved women - go figure lol
Thing is, almost all women date in the trauma quadrant, WILLFULLY. They don’t DESERVE the Smart/Nice quadrant when they’ve all spent their best and most physically attractive years being self-destructive and making poor decisions.
an important caveat to their chart is the more they choose 'trauma' men the less likely their 'deserve' men will find them appealing.
We have to keep in mind, that when she says' smart and nice', what she really means is 'able to fulfill all my needs perfectly, and 'willing to be in a committed relationship with me'. Also, her entire matrix only contains men that are hot enough for her to even consider. 'Average' guys don't fit into it at all. 'Every man in the world' to her is actually only about .001% of all men.
"I don't hate myself anymore, I hate everything else." Based.
"They're from Portland"
Noted. Their opinion has been marked down in my brain as "pure comedy"
Most women aren't that funny.
@@tetedur377 and most of them also probably live in around or near Portland lol
They po s demz
From Chicago, went there last weekend. It's definitely not the place to be, and his warning is valid.
Man you must truly have some hate for America if you despise Americans off-rip like that.
Don’t forget Hoe Math, if you take away the top 100 earners in the U.S., the income drops to $36k
Yes, that tail of the bell curve is a beach.
But... those 100 are exactly the ones they deserve! ;)
Median and average are different things.
@@vietta6424 Facts...
You don't even know the difference between median and average! I know which box you belong in! Ha!
notice how only women deserve love unconditionally
while men have to work for it and it remains very conditional on providing
if it stops, the love is gone
WHAT?!? You mean Disney lied to us??? I'm unconsolable...
Sounds more like an older profession than love. Exchanging something of value for access to the ladyparts.
@@RogerNbr Well I knew that. That's why I seek God. Because all my life I've been told that I will always be loved no matter what. but the next thing I know is that I got kicked out of my mother's house just because my mother picked her new boyfriend over me...
Men are lucky if their mother even loves them unconditionally...
Men also deserve love unconditionally, and if we dont get it we will break society by spliting in to 2 groups, those who refuse to uphold society, those who actively tear it down.
Amazing, absolutely the best, most thought out and accurate "dating" channel on the platform.......unfortunately 85% of one half of the species and 35% of the other is unable to understand it.
Thank you for the time you obviously invest into this. Also let's not forget the amazing ability to collate and artistically structure the data while explaining it in a precise way. Sure, more than half the population will get nothing from this but the presentation is flawless and I wish it was understood or at least followed......slowly....by more.
New favorite "dating" channel.
q: how you write women so well?
a: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability
Jack Goodall, As Good as it Gets. Great movie!
That, and at least half a brain.
To be fair, I felt really bad for the fan girl who absolutely loved his books. 😂 It was rather dickish.
I write men by thinking of a woman and taking away intuition, spirituality, aesthetic awareness, empathy, verbal intelligence, social skills, and curiosity, and I add sex obsession, violence & a heafty dose of ego.
@@rickiecomeaux8287 melvin udall lol Jack Nicholson is the actor, though.
Hi guys, I solved dating for men. Only date and marry mature attractive 20-23 year old women that are physically fit and committed to their fitness, enjoy your diet, share your interests, share your belief systems, support you when you're up or down, and only have eyes for you.
You realize it's not as easy as you said, right? Is this your first day?
@@refinedsugar Pretty sure he was mocking the girls in the video.
@@zacklewis342 it doesn't sound that way, but okay.
@@refinedsugar You are insane, it's a perfect mockery of the woman's dumb video.
@@refinedsugaryou stupid?
"Deserve" just means "entitled to"
Yeah, without saying that they should also fall in men’s nice/smart quadrant, it is pure entitlement. I am, therefore I deserve.
@@chefnyc
Dude, what a fucking great line.
"I am, therefore I deserve."
The female condition in its absolute purest form. Bravo sir. 👏
Time will dot the i's and cross the t's on this one.
The only fated response to their despair will be "meow".
It's Raining Men by the Weather Girls, 1980's:
She fought every angel
She rearranged the sky
So that each and every woman
Could find the perfect guy
Still no word on whether (weather?) each and every woman actually *deserved* the perfect guy. They all seem to think they do, though.
*Modern Women Logic:* I deserve men who are 6 feet tall, 6-pack abs with 6 figure incomes which buy me expensive gifts and vacations.
*Modern Women Logic:* I am a booty call for several men who are 6 feet tall and 6-pack abs yet why won't a wealthy handsome man marry me!!
Me and my husband had low expectations of each other, and I think it’s what made our marriage work😂
I wanted a Christian man that worked
He wanted a Christian woman that was faithful
6 years later we are still very much in love and happy and more committed to each other and to our child
Yes, low expectations is a very special key to life. I didn't expect most of my friends to die, what life there is has to be worked out even in survival mode.
I love that she took the female version of the hot/crazy matrix and dumbed it way, way down so women of her intelligence would understand it.
100%
remember the study on morality where the female researcher had to claim women never reach highest lv because they just perfect faster what was it called lol?!
@@Correction-zl2oe I'm sorry, what???
The green band is much too generous because they don't stay on the market long. Once one of those guys is ready to settle for one woman, they are snapped up almost immediately. So the population never grows.
If we are talking the light green yes, and I've seen it happen a lot, I think a lot of youtuber's sit in that category. Guy is single, than he blows up, next thing you know he has a gf, if the relationship last for a while, bam MARRIED! Or guy has humble beginnings, something happens, either he blows up by surprise because he got famous from some social media post or his dad died and he inherited papa's wealth. Dude finds a girl or his existing girl becomes his wife, game over 😂
Middle class guy, goes to prestigious university, gets engaged during graduation, if there's no infidelity, the deal is sealed 😂 either he consummates her later or they get married and he consomates her. These dudes go swiftly.
Now that you've mentioned it I think the light green is the sweet spot.
If we are talking the dark green no! Those guys are the least trustworthy especially if they made it to that spot before they've met their lover. They are far more likely to be single by choice not to preserve themselves but because they do not want a partner, they want to lead women on and play with them until they are bored with them. They have so many women offering themselves to them they feel they have no reason to settle just like women when they have a bunch of male options only with the difference being. The men in these positions 90% aren't interested in love, only God knows when they'll grow a heart if they ever do and your along for the ride.
Well sort of.
The amount of guys that arw single there is like minescule.
The amount that is married and do a bit of side hussle is consideraly larger.
@@raijin7707 I don't know, Hoemath is a popular TH-camr, and he appears to be struggling both financially and with relationships.
The thing about choosing the winner reminds me of another race analogy that's at best tangentially related said by a fictional girl: "When the guy crosses the finish line, do you think he's going to run up and hug whatever woman looks best? Or the woman who's supported his training from day one, and cheered him on the whole race?"
Option two, but he picked her to be attractive enough for his liking when he chose her to travel the journey with him.
What if he doesn't have a woman who was there the whole time? Who is he going to hug then?
@@FreedomTalkMediahis mom, probably
That's a great quote, where is it from? Sounds like it might be Anime, but mostly because I can't remember the last time I heard someone from a western franchise say "cheered HIM on".
@@FreedomTalkMedia Nobody. I will hug nobody when I get there.
Ground is a really cool sponsor.
Not only do they provide a really good product, they aren't afraid to advertise with any demographic because they recognize that truth seekers have no set affiliation.
Best quote of 2024
"Hey, I don't hate myself anymore, I hate everything else"
But she HAD profiled guitar players correctly!
@@jameswilkerson4412 🤣
At my most attractive (23-25, I was like a 7) I was poor as hell, which lost me a lot of chances. Now I'm 38 and doing well above average, have a house, etc. My looks are definitely worse and my experience is terrible (since I gave up on dating and focused on work). I've had to go through my darkest times completely alone, so now I don't really see a need to have someone around. Like what exactly are you going to offer me, Ive already proved I'm fine by myself.
Would have been nice for someone to have had faith in me, as I would have had faith in them, but nobody did, so here we are. Most of us don't 'deserve' anything, the good or the bad, we just reap the rewards of ours and others choices.
Ouch. Man, look at Latina's... Have you ever dated a Latina???
How are your looks worse?
@@dimitris1988kom He needs some good olive oil in his diet...
@@dimitris1988kom Probably less working out to focus on working so some weight gain. Possibly hair line is worse due to aging? Could have more wrinkles and other signs of aging skin due to working and stress over years.
@@anthonynguyen1289 haha, I would answer but I really wanna see how the speculation plays out. This is great.
"Heyyyyy...I don't hate myself...I hate everything else now..." 😂
Right there with ya brother
More of you willing to run the race with us. That's the thing man. We want a PARTNER. Not a trophy at the end.
You want someone you can drain their resources and labor for free and then trade them in for a new model. That's why women aren't getting married anymore
just the use of the word "deserve" is so telling. Women deserve everything by virtue of existing, men have to actually make themselves worthy of existing. Funnily enough this directly corelates with the difference between Mary Sues and Gary Stus. Mary Sues are powerful because they are special. Gary Stus are special because they are powerful.
Yeah. Also, flip the gender around and the very second a man says he deserves someone, these same women start screeching "incel" at him.
@@phoenixfire9176 The irony of the chick in the video talking about men written by women is crazy. Many popular female authors write the most sociopathic manipulative abusers or blank slate all powerful lover boys.
That is kinda correct though, men are disposable in a way women are not, their lives have more inherent value.
@@rosameltrozo5889 I was just coming here to say that. Something about this has to change tho; either all humans have inherent value/potential regardless of gender or NONE of them do. If we continue with one half having inherent value and the other not this is not going to get a lot worse (in a modern context)
@@Mechdemon23 The issue is evolutionary though, simply the mechanics of human reproduction.
So, none of the men in the "deserve" category will get cheated on, right?
No?
That's what we all thought.
Ofc not, you can't cheat on your dog by having 2 dogs.
That’s some pretty ass-backward logic you’re implying. The responsibility is still on you to act according to the “deserve” category and then expect the same in your partner or find a better one.
@@beaumarkut8872 It's far more on both of you to start finding a better one after breaking up instead of cheating regardless.
@@beaumarkut8872 No. You're not comprehending. Men in the deserve category can still get cheated on. How many women cheat and say, "he was too perfect?"
@@saureco or they'll say "he's amazing, but there's no spark" , "he doesn't give me the butterflies " 😂😂
The fact she said hemisphere about a 2D square graph killed me
"Math is haaaaard!"
-- Barbie
😄😄😄
“They’re from Portland, make of that what you will…”
😂😂😂
Why am I finding it really difficult to believe that women want a guy that's nice and smart, when their actions tell a different story, repeatedly?
Because getting your information about women from women is like getting your information about the government from the government.
Hint: they basically never admit fault unless forced.
They are liars of course they will pretend they are as pure as the driven snow but we know better
Oh they do but that's just insignificant compared to other wants like #1 attractiveness #2 financial success
Nice & smart = boring They don't really want that. Throw out anything they say and watch thier actions for the truth.
Because what she fails to mention is that the guy being hot is the first requirement..it's a given, really.
By eliminating attraction as a variable and instead including it as a given, they’ve realistically reduced the pool of men that they would even consider in this little model of theirs by 80%
More like 99.9%. The most revealing thing in her video was her saying that 'Every man in the world' falls into her matix, when in reality she's only talking about about .001% of the male population. All the men that aren't sex feet tall, handsome, with six pack abs don't even figure into the equation. That's her real issue...the men she should consider aren't in her matrix at all.
"NOT PEOPLE"
Those income brackets were households, not individuals. Only 6% of individuals earn a salary over $100k.
77,000 pounds. Peanuts -- anywhere south of Northampton.
plus, im pretty sure it was all earners. so a good portion of those making 100k + were woman.
I met an older friend from a place I used to work, She has a friend I've never met, that we discussed when talking about being single in a large city. This friend is slightly under-height at 5"3 but slim and cute. They've been friends since elementary school and the woman's requirements for a boyfriend / husband was, 6"1' (at least), handsome, wealthy, good job, worked out and willing to spoil her. When she hit her mid 20's, she dropped the working out. mid 30's, she dropped the height requirement and looks. Just wealthy remained by her 40's. I asked my friend what the girl had to bring to the table, and she shrugged. She said her friend believed she deserved the man of her dreams, and the man would get to have her.
Also women hitting 'the wall' does not equal personal growth. Just like stopping with your gambling doesn't equal personal growth if the only reason is that you ran out of money.
I think if he had said that in the video, he would have to sleep on the couch. He can't criticize women anymore.
It's just where the suffering starts. Either they mature or go crazy and start talking about vibrations.
True, lack of vice does not equal virtue, the can be evil with mediocrity too
Very good point!
In her entire rant it was all "I deserve, you deserve, we deserve" and not one bit "what must we do to deserve"
Some other commenter said it perfectly. Their mindset is "I am, therefore I deserve." There's no thought beyond that when you're selfish, spoiled and entitled.
there are numerous videos of women being completely stunned when asked what they think men want from them. it genuinely doesn't appear to have ever occurred to them
That's because she believes her existence causes her to deserve.
PLUS she was like "maybe I should stop dating evil guys", and while I appreciate the honesty it is still a red flag that she chased the bad boys.
Dumb & Nice :
"They are low in IQ and high in EQ"
"He could be nuclear scientist and not know present to give you..."
If a person just speaks words without even understanding what they are saying, when they are just spouting nonsense...
What value can I expect to find in rest of their opionions?
If you ask me, best to just move on.
Words means what ever i want them
@@matsv201 Whatever they feel like wanting them to mean.
I’m so glad you said it! They didn’t have “able” on their list because women are no longer willing to build with a man.
It used to be that neither party had anything when you meet. Many used to meet in high school, early college or at work in a starter position. Everyone lived at home with parents or a crappy apartment you shared with roommates. It takes time to build but you used that time to build a relationship while building assets and stability. Then you get to get married and start a family. It took work and sacrifice on both sides. That is how as a woman you “deserved” this high value man. You invested in him becoming that man.
Now days a woman wants a man who already has built on his own. She doesn’t want to invest in him or sacrifice anything for him to become high value. But still wants to “deserve” him. Modern women have decided that because she’s “pretty” and has lots of admirers on social media and dating apps that she is also high value. Which is nuts because there are countless millions of “pretty” women with countless admirers.
I know that the main difference between dating advice for men and women is that it’s always assumed that the woman in question deserves the best but it’s still jarring whenever I see it lol. They just assume that even broke, stupid, and evil women out there deserve a man with a good career and sterling character, it’s nuts
@@Trynottoblink Well this is the thing, we often see men with good careers and seemingly good character choose stupid, broke and evil women as long as said woman looks the way he likes. Soooo it’s not really nuts, considering many guys are out here promoting for other men to actually choose broke, stupid and possibly evil 18 year olds. It not really nuts when study after study shows that men prefer stupid women. And it’s not really nuts when women that are so-called “b*tches” are also usually married before the nice girl is. Just an observation.
And that's a big part of the problem they don't even deserve the average man a big problem in the west is to assume best of women and worst of man and opposite is closer to truth we have 17 female ancestors for every male women have passed genes even if they were trash most the bad genes are coming from women they have held mankind back
It's exactly the same as every man saying that they deserve a super hot woman.
@@willshad hardly any men say that...
@@Juno12 that's exactly my point.
Reminded of that experiment where they put a rat in simple maze each day with a sweet drink dispenser at one end, and a sweet bit of food dispenser at the other, setup so that picking either one would de-activate the other, so the rat could only get one Or the other, but never both. They figured they would be able to tell when the rat understood the rules when the rat consistently picked just the one that he liked more. Instead, one day, the rat just sat there in the center, and from that day on never made a choice. Turns out he would rather have the option of choice, and get nothing, than pick one if it means losing the option for other. This is where we are today with dating apps.
We like the illusion of options More than ever actually making the choice that would take those illusory options away and as a result we get nothing at all.
Black pill truth bomb. 😂
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absolutely
And it actually did something to justify that statement!
I got married this year. One of the things that made me realise her value? She saw mine, when there was no payout in sight.
High quality women invest their entire value in long-term growth.
Low quality women try to gamble on short-term gains, squandering their value with each superficial bet.
3:19 Wait, whats wrong with hockey players? She didnt even say athletes. This girl is wearing her trauma on her sleeve.
@Crimsonfangg she also listed Republicans. The majority of men vote GOP. So if you have a problem with that, you are are already cutting yourself off to over half the population of men.
@@kevinkearns7719 I don't really care about someone having a political preference. It's important to have aligning values. I do typically find that they really don't care if they're attracted to the guy, though.
@@Crimsonfangg I agree entirely. Aligning values matter. And yes, if the guy is attractive enough, it won't matter.
I was explaining exactly this to 4 20-23yo girls who were in my cab the other day (I am a Grandpa). Now the best looking one was a solid 8 and she could land a winner (if she can find one in the willing zone) but the other 3 were a 5 at best (dressed up to go party) and they have no chance.
After a long ride, from the country into a city, their conclusion is "we just wanna have fun" and that translates into "get Alpha Widowed by a bunch of 8+ dudes who couldn't GAF about us"
This is so common and so sad. Civilisation killer level of sad
You tried your best.
You said it boss.
Hard to change her own DNA. Women are made to be looking at the best she can get. Now we live in a time where she actually know this and also knows she will never be able to do it because she is a 5.
So she is fucked from the start. She also knows her value will be close to 0 once she is 40 years old.
So her life is basically : her DNA is screaming at her ears everyday to marry an alpha male, but the likelihood that this happens is next to 0%, and in 15 years she is done for good anyway. This is such a grim existence. No wonder she just wants to have fun and drown her sorrow.
Yep, the "I just want to have fun" is women speak for I know no guys my age are rich enough for my standards and good looking guys wont marry me and I do not want to "settle", so I am going to act like being single is my choice until I find the rich good looking guy I deserve". Then they are 40 with cats.
My comment got deleted so I'll try a shorter one : what if the behavior of the 3 women who where 5 are not by CHOICE but by DNA?
Women waiting at the finish line used to be called "2nd wives." M-tow has destroyed that
Perhaps they should not have coined the "starter husbands" term so openly. Even "Beta bucks providers" seem to have gone underground hard so well their work was done in public.
As a woman, something I had to accept was being a good woman didn’t entitle me to a husband. I’m supposed to be a good woman because that’s the personal goal. If I get one, GREAT! If I don’t, it’s not because I did something wrong or the world was unfair. I don’t deserve a bad man but I’m not entitled to a good one either. Let the chips fall as they may. *shrug*
no 1 cares.
@@kaptainwarp except the person who just responded. Irony.
I think women understand this better than men in general in my experience.
I suppose that is why women seem to be more content compared to men with forming relationships apart from sex and dating for interpersonal social health and hygiene.
One of the "problems with dating" that hoe math never bothers to try and "solve" is how a very large number of men are also really entitled and feel they "deserve" a "young fertile submissive bangmaid tradwife with low bodycounts"
And when that ideal does not conform with reality they throw on some rose colored glasses and pretend like that was how it used to be and now "western society is in decline and collapse" bc that ideal fantasy was just never that realistic in the first place.
Which makes the whole "willing to run the race with us" a more complicated matter when or if women that are willing to do that realize that is what is expected of them and grow tired of it as the race goes on without much progess towards the finish line.
@@memegazer yeah I agree. I think the most important thing is to check his ability to accomplish things and his ambition. If he was a chill guy who was content, don’t expect him to try to run a Fortune 500 just cause he’s your husband. If you want an ambitious guy they’re out there (doesn’t have to be just money) and there’s plenty of men who are okay with an average life and that’s OKAY. Most men are meant to be average. The “finish line” can’t be unrealistic.
Dont forget all the short men need not apply to begin with lol
didn't used to be like that. I'm 5'6 and had no trouble dating until the past couple years.
I have heard women call men 5 foot 11 short.
Tinder and online dating. They scan your QR code and swipe you away. Used to actually meet people in real life and talk to them
@@Brent-z2s Jesus, are these women Amazons?
@@haydn-db8z Nope, just wearing heels.
So they believe that all women deserve a fictional type of man who doesn't actually exist?
She said it herself... "Men written by women" were in the deserve box.
That's exactly the main problem with the dating market, especially dating apps. The already know that no man will ever be good enough for them, yet they go on the app anyway.
Maybe we can bring Christian Grey to life and clone him a few billion times.
In my 20s, the number of women willing to run the race with me was precisely zero. At 30, I met a woman who understood the race, and wanted to run with me. We've been married 20 years. And let me tell you something regarding the Cube of Deserving: women don't know which quadrant _they_ are in; most of them are NOT in the green quadrant of high value. It's a poorly kept secret that most of them need a lot of work.
I'd like to see the Cube for women. I'm betting it will be brutal, as it will put many young women in a "pretty" category with the absolute certainty that they WILL move out of it.
I understood this from a young age, and I picked my husband (then boyfriend) at university because he had potential, was competent and he really wanted to give me the world, even when he didn't have money at the time and he only could invite me a coffee from time to time, I knew he had the guts to build a great future and I wanted to help him build that for us. He is everything I dream of and more, and I love him so much.
Girls, don't go for a guy who already have a kingdom and a harem, you will be just one more girl, Better go for the competent broke fella who will build you an empire, and treat each other as king and queen. (this is work for both in the relationship)
I’ve heard whispers of a hidden fourth axis-'deserve'-but it’s so elusive, no one’s ever been able to see it...
how would you even visualize a fourth axis exactly?
Quaternions
@@dotand0Look up "tesseract".
'Deserve' used to be codified in the ancient codex known as 'marriage contract' where both parties had obligations to the other.
It's the attraction dimension they cannot grasp or do not want to investigate at all.
Most of my male friends who are doctors and lawyers met their wives when they were broke students. Many of their now-wives paid for all of their living expenses when they were in medical/law school. Some of those women even worked two jobs to write 30k tuition checks to their law school. These women picked struggle guys and ran every mile of the race with them. Now they are married to top 1% income-earners. Just a thought
What do you call a person who finished last in their class at medical school? Doctor. Women who date medical or law students know that their potential husbands are going to make 6 figures regardless so are willing to put in the effort.
cool cool only if that were going to be replicated oh wait it wont but thanks for stopping by to lend men false hope so that more men will become that 80% women divorce stat lol are you proud of yourself little buddy ?!
@@archstanton9073 Sure. My point however, was that these women who married these doctors and lawyers didn’t just “date” them. These women “supported” them. Emotionally and sometimes financially in huge ways. That’s why they have a man who can support them in a big way financially now. Dating takes minimal effort. Paying all the bills for you and your partner for multiple years while they go to school is a big sacrifice. There’s a reason those men keep them for the big payoff. Most women seem to believe they deserve the payoff but for having done nothing.
“Deserve-maxing” is HILARIOUS, you hear what they say, and we just go, if you deserve that, I deserve the world
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Utopian mouse experiment findings playing out in real time.
Very few know of Calhoun's mouse utopia, brovo,👏👏👏
Ye Olde Red Pill figured out what was going on decades ago and the social engineers squashed their reach because they engineered it this way as far back as the Boomer's generation.
i really enjoyed mrs brisby and the rats of NIHM as a kid now that i know it was inspired by the mouse utopia experiment and see where we are headed its kinda depressing lol still a good movie though
Less than 3 minutes in, seen only snippets of the original video, and this already has "Have you tried not being poor?" energy to it.
It’s just really poor taste that this chick is trying to copy you but isn’t even putting in 10 percent of the effort. It’s just sad honestly
They also dont understand the marketplace of surply and demand and think that surply will just adjust to demand.
Lol u assume if this women went super saiyen 5 she would be a 00000001% of percent as clever as hoemath lol little buddy women are a mouth with a womb attached little more lol
Her friend was pretty cute though.