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Everything I talk about is centered around one thing: we might be stuck in a spiral of collapse, and we should avoid it if we can.
The collapse comes from many things, but a major feature of it is the selfishness and dissatisfaction caused by moral degradation and unconstrained ladder-climbing in the sexual marketplace.
Here is my long-overdue answer to the question: "why is promiscuity bad?"
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Hello Mr. Hoe Math and fellow Canadian,
Thank you for making that video. I agree with much of what you said.
The USA has become a hyper-individualistic country, and Canada is following suit. In such cultures, personal wants take priority over the greater good, and communal ties of family and society become secondary.
Modern feminism is a symptom of this, not the cause.
The real cause is neoliberal capitalism, which values competition and meritocracy, linking success and wealth to personal value.
This is by far the most important and interesting video you’ve ever made that I’ve seen.
I signed up, how else can we support you?
Hello hoe math! I am a young teenage girl, and I am curious about a topic (you can draw.)
I have always had a dream to get married, and have kids. My friends tell me, that being a strong independent women is more attractive to a man, and I should be less outgoing about my values. I tend to not be heady, and just tell a guy when I like him, but don’t make the first move. Otherwise I work on myself to make sure I stay valuable. Should I be more difficult? Should I not focus on marriage so much this young?
Btw you are my favorite TH-camr
"If you want to be a free thinker with less effort..." haha sold.
Nobody who sees this is the person who needs to see this. We are so forked.
Share it with someone who needs it
Top rated comment so far.
And the people I'm thinking of right now who need to see it would reject it.
@@rickclark7508
That's why we have Sharia.
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@@rickclark7508 Same here. Women don't want to hear it because the truth hurts and they're too far gone now.
Growing up means realizing that Jenny was the villain in Forrest Gump.
And Rose was the villain in Titanic.
@@peekaboo1575 she killed the main character just to save herself
Forest Gump is a story about a retarded guy doing everything right while his crush gets herself killed by total lack of temperance.
Forest fought off Charlie, but not Jenny
"Bye, Forest! I'll be back when I'm a single mom with AIDS."
The best lesson in titanic on dating and marriage is actually very subtle. It’s her pictures at the end near her death bed. It shows her horseback riding, being a mother, flying an airplane. When she got off that boat, she was penniless, a woman with no discernible skills in the 1910s. So who paid for her to live her best life? Her husband. Who gets remembered in the end? The homeless guy!
$20 says the husband had not a single clue about the homeless guy.
To be fair, Jack asked her to live the best life she could, so she did. There was another rich guy she was supposed to end up with who was portrayed to potentially be abusive iirc.
Women at that time in American society did not have the ability to be financially independent from men. They didn’t get bank accounts or credit cards until like the 70s… so she couldn’t have that life if she didn’t marry that one guy.
If she lived in this era… she might not have done that.
You can't be serious, dude! IT'S A FICTIONAL MOVIE DUDE!
And she's talking about the guy in the Titanic because it would be kinda weird like to go in several stories about her husband THAT WASN'T ON THE TITANIC
THE MOVIE's NAME IS TITANIC!
"Nice, you found the wreck, I was there, but let me tell you how I've met my husband in Oklahoma"
@@georgecoker7815 also, in fairness, not to detract from the point being made here, Jack did save her life and died a painful death doing so, literally.
@@Longhunter393 is this Diogenes slander?
could you please math "my husband was too perfect for me so i divorced him"? yes it's real
I know nothing about the situation u mentioned but it might be a "nice guy" problem where he's not that beast that women like
@@woahooo yes, that's the case of Brazilian football player Kaka, the ex wife said literally that.
I think he already did... You might need to look a little though. Dude posts like a machine
I think the focus of the “Who’s a 10” video can apply to that situation. In the video he talks about how the women lie to each other about what they think of themselves in order to avoid confrontation but ultimately in order to cultivate and protect their “status”. In the same sense, it’s a point to ponder that a woman who divorces her husband because “he is too perfect”, might not mean that all, but rather applying feminine tactics of social ascension in the hierarchy(which is more like a cabal) to the dissolution of her marriage. Maybe she just wants to have sex with a ton of guys and has to get rid of her husband in a non confrontational way in order to protect status.
@@Mr.dinglesthere are a lot of videos that apply to this situation. It’s a recurring theme in the Hoe Math philosophy that is proven in the real world: relationship inequity leads to broken relationships.
The wife and I call the "jack from titanic" guy the "died before she had a chance to find out his flaws" archtype. The reason chicks dig the ones that got away (or drown) is because they never really had to be in a long term relationship with them. They hit the right buttons and disappear into their past where their good looks and charm are evergreen.
Well said. Similar to the Alpha Chad that "imprints" a woman over 3 dates then ghosts her.
Women will look past all the flaws if the guy is good looking enough. Even for long term.
Nostalgia is also a hell of a drug. Do I miss my ex, or do I miss being young and dumb?
A related intersection of fantasy and reality comes out with the 30-something professional women who go to the sperm bank. They *inevitably* want the 6'2" curly-haired "plays rugby at a private college in the Northeast" pixie stick. Because his fantasized flaws are as thin as a romance novel cover, and she gets to play mix-a-gene with the movie in her head. No flesh-and-blood can hope to compare.
@@Krelian4400 Hollywood is filthy with examples to the contrary. Also, "Hot guys" also have a wall they hit for the same reasons women do... too much ez breeds shallow/vapid personalities that don't hold up under pressure.
I love how all the "sexual revolution" people in the '60s literally thought the previous generations were just trying to spoil their fun. 😂 As if there couldn't possibly be any other reason why promiscuity was frowned upon.
😂😂 they had low mental development as shown in the video.....oh....and LSD 😂
Not to mix topics, but I often think about how those people in the 60’s are now the very same people blamed for the collapse of society by a new generation of people who just want to do things their own way for themselves, too.
Traditions are solutions to problems we've forgotten. That's how it always works.
Women cannot project far into the future however their actions shape society because how they "feel" is top priority. Out reluctance to hold them accountable only emboldens their stupidity the same way in which California criminals are emboldened to continue being degenerates because they are not prosecuted. This was deliberately done on both accounts ruining women beyond redemption and societal Decay with criminals
@billowspillow that's because most of the free love boomers had their own shock and swung too far the other way but kept their selfish mentality.
I love that someone is carefully explaining with pictures things that a lot of us know inside but have never been able to explicitly articulate
Polls show theres more single men than women. Statistically, theres more women. That means alot of women think they are in a relationship because they are doing the horizontal dance with someone who is out of their league lol
Women: "Men are only concerned about a woman's past because they are insecure!"
Women: "Secretly I have never really loved my husband because I am still thinking about Chad from 35 years ago."
We care about a womens past for more than just that
Its disgusting
Because nobody wants to adopt the town hoe
When you figure out that their solipsism also leads them to accidentally tell on themselves 100% of the time?
...It's a hard pill to swallow, but everything suddenly makes sense.
wHo HuRt YoU?? = I only ever voice disagreement as an expression of personal rancor.
You're insecure! = I'm insecure.
(Etc., etc.)
Genesis 2, vers 24. Men cannot be insecure, otherwise they are not men, Women that meet that kind of man, cannot be actual women and cannot count this as experience with men.
> insecure
"I'm fairly secure I will not date a woman who's slept with 45 dudes"
"And the #1 reason your woman is pissed the fuck off: ... cuz you ain't her first choice" - Chris rock
Can we all just imagine for the next hour... what it would be like if every male gave up on each female they perceived as even remotely "attractive", because really, they're mainly pieces of shit wearing skin suits - how they would be brought to the most humbled and kindest state of being they've ever been? Like, what if we all just lived in fucking **silence**, never talking to each other at all. They would crumble like the empty paper bags they truly are, on the floor, crying.
It would be the best moment of all time.
Also, on the point of being alone; I just want to mention how nice it is to never have to hear anyone in my God damn ear telling me that I'm the reason things are so fucked despite all my hard fucking work and precious time that I sacrificed freely because I cared so much about providing for "my girlfriend". Never mind the fact that the moment I'm thinking back to was a time when she was just spending the majority of her days in my car... that she damaged a lot... and still slept in while refusing to listen to my advice to go back home. Because she still had a room she could call her own... and I was stuck living in my car for like two years. Ignore that. I regret one thing and that's that I ever gave anything a chance. I should have stayed alone.
said the jeffrey epstein traveler.
@@rakashaagain Chris Tucker
@@rakashaagainhe's still right.
Neither was Superman or any other mythological man she’s made up for herself.
I just got divorced recently. And it’s precisely for this reason. My ex wife wanted to do what she wanted. I wanted to do what is right. So she divorced me for no reason other than she wasn’t happy anymore. Unfortunately she’s doing that to our two sons. I hope and pray that I’ll be strong enough for my boys.
I hope so too my friend. Remember, you always have the strength, you just need to access it.
Marriage is a scam
I don’t think the answer is just forcing people to be in relationships that make them unhappy. I think shifting public perception of what happy actually looks like is a healthy next step for us. But controlling how women or men are “allowed” to be in relationships is a slippery slope
@@FirstNameLastName-lu5nr the problem is thinking “happiness” is a constant state. You get unhappy. With yourself. Your partner. Your relationship. Etc.. Your actions matter. Marriage is a commitment. That’s why your vows are said. Through thick and thin. Through good times and bad. It’s not control. But the fact that again the thought “oh they are unhappy they should leave” is so entirely moronic it’s actually laughable. Hence why most marriages end at the ending of the “honeymoon phases” yet SUCCESSFUL marriages are the ones that put their heads down and got through it, including momentary unhappiness.
@@natsuthefireeater5477 I’m going through the same thing, all of my wife’s “friends” are single and they all just want to have a consequence free, responsibility free environment. It infects my wife, i thought marriage was for life and we should try to work through it but she can’t even bring herself to talk about it. Women don’t hold each other accountable, each one of them could be the biggest piece of shit and do horrible things and their “friends” will tell them they did nothing wrong. Since the beginning of time women have been child nurturers and teachers of the village. The more popular you were the more help you got raising children and the easier your life is. They will put not getting ostracized from their friends above their family and children. Its gross. If men didn’t hold each other accountable people died, so we tell each other the truth, no matter how much it hurts.
"I want to be a serial killer, i should be who i truly am. Yall should understand my vibe and take me who i am"
kinda energy
Lady, you didn't pull him, he slummed it with you for a while.
Spot on. They are either too dull or self-absorbed to realize it, but in most cases they just refuse to admit it to themselves (because that would shatter the illusion).
She's saying no,no that's not possible. Yeah, part of what makes a Modern woman.
It’s wild they can’t fathom Mr. 9 just used them as a flash light. She doesn’t “pull” anything, she gets played because she lets herself get played easy.
@@makeyourmark00 "Your observations are oppressing my feelings!"
It’s not that they are dull. It is that women can’t conceive of a man sleeping with them and not wanting a relationship. They are projecting, that is why they list off their qualifications like degrees and money because that is what they would want in a man and hey don’t realize men don’t want that.
I remember when "being in a situationship" was called "being used" it was shameful and desired to be avoided
Damn man this hit hard. Completely agree
Back then women learned from their mothers and sisters and their parents helped protect them from making bad decisions. Now they are encouraged by everyone to make poor choices and when those poor choices don't work out, it must be someone else's fault.
At this point the men, as usual, must do the saving - men do this by not rescuing these women from bad choices. Don't date single moms. Don't be captain save-a-304 - leave these women to the results of their poor choices and as another video creator frequently says - "protect yourself at all times". Once the population drops enough by men opting out, things will begin changing - we're already seeing it in other countries like the aforementioned China where the gov't is stepping back in to incentivize marriage and monogamy - men need to avoid marriage until the punitive legal system has major changes. Right now western countries have legal systems that are literally designed to help women prey on men - so keep yourself out of the crosshairs.
Chad doesn’t pick them = all men bad. 🤣🤣🤣
@@brandongray1059 they also listened to the men in their lives about the guys that were interested in them, and women today will actively refuse to listen to men's advice on just about any topic
@@brandongray1059
Quick question: What's a "304"? I've never heard this term.
Bro just explained the collapse of modern western society
Yes Indeed , Unfortunately
4:21
Question:
*Is a person really a "Level 6" if they don't understand that they are Level 6?* Or, even worse, they don't understand that most people will not get past "Level 4" (4:36)?
For instance, I think that I'm "Level 6". I used to be a devout religious person under the banner of Christianity. And not only do I know theological, historical, and sociological reasons why I'm not anymore, I can effectively explain it to someone else, from soup to nuts. This, after studying it for 23 years.
BUUUUUT...
I'm aware enough to know that most people have not lived in the experiences or done the homework that would even _prepare_ them for such a conversation (more like a field of study). More than that, and in line with the video, *I have reasoned that most people need religion to keep them in line because they never get above "Level 3" (the video's "stuck" people).*
So here I am, a person that does not believe that God works the way I was taught, that chooses not to challenge other people's view of God because I think that those values systems, as flawed and incomplete as they may be, are a net positive for "The Stuck". *Most people will never grow past the need to incorporate Judeo-Christian religion in order for them to be a contributing member of society.* That's what I think it means to be "Level 6" or above.
At the time of this writing, this channel has 496,000 subscribers. *The vast majority of which tune in to see this channel take women to task, have a laugh, and learn little else.* And guess what? I bet they all think that they aren't "stuck".
@@MessageinaBottleComments idk who asked
@@MessageinaBottleComments Commentary: This is, and always will be, a meatbag nature problem any time you want to have a society at all. The more complex the society, the more inter-related & complicated it's systems become, the more important it also becomes to account for certain factors:
*1) Many meatbags need to be made to be decent.*
This is where systems such as religions, police, social morals & customs, parental raising of children all play a factor. Toxic masculinity & toxic femininity MUST be controlled, along with having systems to punish/deal with those who become a threat to the society as well as encourage active investment into the society by the majority of it's members.
Many of these "support pillars" such as the integrity of the nuclear family, involvement of fathers, male authority within the marriage & family, male involvement in early education, checks against bad female behaviors of many types, allowance of previously mostly unacceptable male behaviors ("players" mainly), demonization of good things & endorsement of obviously selfish/destructive things have ALL been happening for decades which has resulted in this rot we see today.
Religion is not (at least by itself) the fix for this, but what IS an important part to understand in it is what you said. Many meatbags *simply do not possess the mental/emotional intellect or introspection or awareness to reach higher orders of thought. That is simply reality, which MUST be accounted for if you wish to have a more or less stable or successful society.
Simultaneously though is a required understanding that _no society in history, EVER, survives without male sacrifice_ so it is paramount for EVERY society to ensure that men remain invested or the society dies. Crack open a history book, America is far from the first which has allowed this entropy to take place to it's predictable conclusion, nor will America be the last for this is a meatbag psychology & behavioral problem.
It is NOT a fair or equal world, it never will be. To structure a society upon that premise in & of itself is faulty, most especially giving power to those who are not investing concretely into said society.
Call me exclusionary & elitist if you will, I absolutely am. Those who operate with the *objectively, meritocratically proven intelligence & qualification* should be the ones making the decisions in almost all cases, for the best outcomes.
*2) Delusion, in all it's forms, should not be tolerated.*
Causality works, it always will. One can ignore reality, but one cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. Therefore in order to have the best outcomes, ALL discourse & choices made should be critically analyzed on many levels particularly when it comes to making sweeping societal decisions like laws & cultural normals.
There is nuance to many things of course but ALL things should be subject to scrutiny & questioning along with being open to change should there be superior logic presented. Not feelings, not magical thinking, not a better manipulation, but *empirical evidence.*
Of course, once again, this ties into the above problem when a significant (or perhaps even a majority of the society) simply does not have the means to analyze these things.
The one form of society which has not been truly tried yet is an objective meritocracy. All other forms of governance have been tried with greater or lesser degrees of success & stability, but the huge hurdle blocking a meritocracy *is that meatbags DO wish to actively deny things they don't like for a great many reasons.*
Of course, humanity can revert back to systems which have been tried before & failed before for a variety of reasons which has typically been the course of choices made over ALL of human history, save for those times where there were truly NEW things that changed a lot.
Delusion, however, is certainly at the top or certainly topping the list of one of the most dangerous threats to a society if allowed. Especially when it is allowed within the halls of power.
@@MessageinaBottleComments growing past lvl 6 is the realization that mfs can't be trusted to operate without the fear of god- it's very simple but heartbreaking when you truly internalize it
"I guess relying on Allah is not working out" made me bust a gut. Dang.
"Now it's just less men winning." God these snarky comments are phenomenal.
The basic idea is to put in the effort and rely on Allah at the same time so that everything will work out smoothly because sometimes things aren't just going our way due to multiple different factors.
It's a simple concept to understand really.
Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, the hadith outlines the story of a Bedouin man who was leaving his camel without tying it. The Prophet (PBUH) asked him “Why don’t you tie down your camel?” The Bedouin answered, “I put my trust in Allah.” The Prophet then replied, “Tie your camel first, and then put your trust in Allah.”
It seems simple. Tie the camel, trust in Allah, go about your business.
Now you know.
May Allah The Almighty guide us all.
@@TheDragonKnight98 yeah unfortunately the kuffar think they understand everything because everything they have philosophically has been watered down and shallow and they just assume that is the same thing in the rest of the world.
@@TheDragonKnight98 lol
Trump: "72 virgins huh?" "Well then lets get these BOYS LAID!"
Presses button...
I'm SO glad someone else is finally acknowledging how horrible a movie Titanic is.
It actually does an excellent job of exposing female nature but romanticizes it so much we don't notice how dark it is.
The one that gets under my skin is _Forrest Gump_
Good movie. Horrible message.
@@Doberman_6773Never go full gump.
Yet if you knew anything about the history of it it would change your tune, you're a just an NPC that gobbled up anything Hollywood craps on your plate.
“Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back.” - Donald Kingsbury
Damn!
Yeah, it’s almost like our ancestors were trying to tell us something. The wisdom of countless generations. But whatever
That's deep
@@TheoSprinkles yup, we're deemed to fail because we're just a bunch of stupid monkeys that can't learn from history.
So basically, tradition is like *Chesterton's Fence*
A part of the decline of the Roman Empire, was people not wanting to fight for Rome any more. Sometimes, barbarians would attack a city, and those who could, simply fled. The barbarians would come in and find a wholly intact armory with all the weapons one could want.
It's also why women love open borders: They've always been willing to just screw the invaders.
Oxytocin was supposed to make promiscuity harder for women by inducing emotional attachment ... thus, making them a gatekeeper. However, estrogen potentiates oxytocin, and birth control binds to free bound estrogen, reducing its impact on the CNS, and thus, limiting the emotional attachment response from sex ... making promiscuity and birth control a positive feedback loop.
Or for males, the way my hispanic friend put it in perspective ...he asked:
Buuuut
... would you sport her at the mall.?
Same thing basically happened in the 2020 riots.
Afghanistan?
This why the USA bringing back mandatory draft, and optional draft for women. People starting to realize they being trained to be thugs for corporations, not fight for any meaningful thing.
@@MrBogfrogAyo!
That ladies therapist should not have a license and should probably be on someone else's couch
@@nicholasdonohue7936 most therapists are mentally I’ll, that’s why they get interested in the field.
girl said what she wanted to hear to keep milking money off her
Saying “I get it…he’s hot” was potentially not heard in the way it was intended. It wasn’t tacit approval but instead was the acknowledgement of the root cause of the problem. We’re also getting her version of the discussion which is likely not terribly objective.
@@aleksandartomasevic3253What a joke man
Human society is cyclical, not progressive. Our ancestors were not fools. They lessons they learned and taught were products of experiencing the problems that we are experiencing now.
I 100% believe that they didn’t come up with their rules bc of accident. What’s going to end up happening is the men who aren’t winning are going to start going after the men who are. When that happens there will truly be no winners. I feel like we are at a near tipping point. I’m not advocating for it but I def see bitterness swelling up.
exactly! people need to take this with a grain of salt…societies re adjust and just don’t completely collapse
maybe just the 9s and 10s should move on to the next phase
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Society has both cyclical and progressive aspects to it. AI and global warming are much bigger threats to our civilization than whatever this is.
Tradition is a solution to a problem you forgot you had. Get rid of the tradition and the problem comes back.
The worst one is probably the girl talking about her therapist validating her immature behavior because not only are regular women unaware of how destructive that behavior is, women who are supposed to be specifically trained to identify destructive behaviors don't really understand how destructive that behavior is.
I’ve been saying this for awhile. I noticed it first with my sister. Therapy makes people worse. No one wants a therapist who actually challenges them. They hate those so they find a new one that just validates them and their poor choices.
Most therapists are themselves mentally ill. Most therapists have their own therapists that they need to vent to. Psychobabble is getting out of hand, even if psychology has a lot of validity
The fml mind solves only for the immediate; vvomen cannot see past their own noses.
Women mature faster than men, but they stop at the end of puberty.
Women don't understand much of anything. There is a reason why womanchild isn't a word like manchild, because women always behave like children through their whole lives.
A prime example of the lack of step 4 in Western society is when you question something about someone, they always respond with "I'm my own person, you cannot tell me what to do" even if it's genuinely heinous
The worst thing now is that societies that are still developing (developing nations) are seeing and hearing these messages from developed nations. Decline on steroids.
Bingo, development means technologically enabled hypergamy. So we see a feminist crisis even in India, crushing the birthrate far below the replacement level. Totalitarian states like China run by men haven't been able to stop the collapse of family formation, despite the glimmer of hope presented here. As long as women have technology and freedom, they defy the natural order.
I just hope they aren't too far go e to realize our insanity.
"'Men are winning,' now it's just less men." Bruh. This.
Fewer men.
Chads aren't winning, their wives will cheat on them when they get bored.
@@archstanton9073 Tell him, I was just quoting.
@@archstanton9073 Less men. Learn to read quotes.
@@Cyphlix Fewer men. Learn to use proper grammar.
Titanic is a profound movie about a woman getting stuck at her highest setting by her misperception of how great a homeless guy was that she had a fling with, then instead of trying to help the man that she later marries become better than her false idea of the homeless guy, she just coasts through life lamenting about the fact that the man she married is not already on the level she perceived the other guy to be on. Sadly, it flies over most people's heads. I'm so glad this fact is finally getting the attention it deserves.
Yeah if Leo wasnt a handsome blue eyed white boy she most likely wouldve forgotten about him in a week.
There is no indication that Rose doesn't "help the man that she later marries become better".
As Rose is "saved in every way a person can be saved" nd goes on to live a rich fulfilled life, so probably does in fact help the man she later marries become better...
@@warrengday Sounds like her trying to find a polite way to say "received a really good dicking down" but ok.
A woman who truly finds someone they feel is more attractive is not going to be fantasizing about the less attractive guy 50+ years later.
Titanic was a smashing box office success but let's not kid ourselves. Men also went in droves,.... why?
Because all men also imagine it would be cool to be the bad boy that a woman cant forget after one night of degeneracy.
I liked the movie for this exact reason 😅 before I found catholic morality years later and realized jack went to hell after his death. (He died in the state of mortal sin)
@@jorgepenaloza6834 Men also went in droves as men like action movies and had no idea what the love story was going to be but knew the ship would sink with Terminator/Aliens/True-Lies levels of awesomeness.
The irony about Titanic is DiCaprio himself has been Alpha-widowing ladies IRL after this release.
Swapping girls for younger ones as they never learn.
I guess behavior in past expeiences dont count in "high quality men" prerequisites for ladies ; and you can bet they will ALL will brag about the ex BF celeb in their late years.
Jenni in forest Gump was most definatly a villan.. she knew better than anyone where happiness was. But her own ego and desires became the quest
I do not think she was a villain in the story people should have a higher standard for villainy it's a story of people dealing with the undoed circumstances of life
The West has fallen. Millions must be alone.
Go talk to a girl bro
@@phantom.wreath That being an uncompelling and financially suicidal option is why this video was even made.
@@phantom.wreathI tried that, got together with a girl that turned out to be emotionally unavailable due to having multiple partners and some of those using her, so yeah, no thanks
My friends spent their 20s travelling, barely working, racking up loans, and in general looking for either sex or a girlfriend to wife, but I don't think they stopped to think about the kind of women they were attracting due to their lifestyles. I'd much rather be alone than be in their average situation I see my friends in now - working 60-80 hours per week to pay for a family life that they can't afford long term. Cost of living crisis in my country is seeing the divorce rate skyrocket.
Westfalen es ist vorbei...
In China, due to the 1 child policy and its effect of fewer daughters, there was a time where so few men had romantic prospects, there was a rash of stabbing sprees targeting schools. This is an extreme incarnation of the saying about burning down the village to feel warmth. Trouble is definitely coming
Yep. It seriously is human nature. Once there are way more losers than winners then the losers will band up against the winners. It doesn’t help that are economy is on the brink of a depression as well.
"Life is like diarrhea, no matter what you do, more shit is coming"
If you look at the demographic data, the current Chinese male surplus in the age range of 15-40 years is only about 10%. That's nothing compared to the regional demographic gaps in western countries produced by women moving to urban areas to try and snag an alpha.
That could explain the increase in school shootings since the 90's, when we really got hit with the effects.
The modern world today feels more like a race to the bottom where the best nation is the one that crashes and burns last. Russia’s demographic situation is dire with men drinking themselves into an early grave and women acting more hypergamous than western women. China has had such horrific birthrates and gender imbalances that they crossed the point of no return two decades ago. It’s gotten to the point now where the average American is younger than the average Chinese citizen.
The west has its own batch of problems. We’ve got an abysmal dating market, skill decay due to DEI practices and social media frying the youths’ brains, and leadership that seeks to punish their opposition rather than actual criminals.
"Tradition is the solution to forgotten problems. When we ditch tradition, those problems come back."
Can this guy get a Nobel prize for this?
am I trippin or bro dropped a 20MIN VID?????
Trippin. It’s 19 seconds less than 20 minutes.
And we get a in video AD..
I always said I wanted to do longer form. I just... haven't had the energy.
@@hoe_math ur content fye man u taught me sm useful shi, keep up the great work🙏🏾
I had to double check that this was really a hoemath video.
TLDR: The point is found in last two paragraphs.
We're more doomed than most realize. There are a not-insignificant group of people who understand the basics and are trying to go back to traditional relationships. The problem is that none of them have ever seen how traditional family structures work. They're leaning into religion, but 90% of religions know what they're talking about.
I'm old and I had an unusual childhood, even for my generation. I grew up in the Alaskan bush with a small group of families. We lived truly traditional lifestyles because it's the only thing that works when you don't have running water or electricity. Religion had ZERO to do with any of it. You may pray to God when you're ambushed by a grizzly, but you need a freaking gun.
Camilla Paglia nailed it when she talked about the traditional Italian lifestyle. There was the world of women and the world of men. Women didn't 'submit' to their husbands. They had their own thing going on and the men had nothing to do with that. Traditional family structure everyone has responsibilities and they keep their eyes on *that*. The men had to do the male jobs because it was impossible for women to do it. There's no way that a woman can spend hours a day chopping and sawing wood with an axe and a hand saw. We CANNOT do it. The men ran out right after breakfast and hunted, trapped, and fished. They brought the kills back and the women took it from there. The women ran the homestead with the betterment of the group first in mind. It was their job to keep everyone fed, portion out the food, keep the kids alive, and tend the fire. The fire was a much bigger deal than people can imagine. The women almost never left the compound because they didn't have time to screw around.
When the men got home, they were completely exhausted. The women would strip them down of their wet, freezing clothes, shove huge portions of food in front of their faces, tend their minor wounds and sore muscles, then pour their exhausted carcasses into bed. It wasn't done with a soft, nurturing, loving spirit. They treated the men the same way one would treat their only draft horse. You took care of it and fed it very well to keep it going strong. All of the women were keenly aware that our lives were dependent on those strong men.
Oddly, there was zero nagging. Nobody had time to bother with what anyone else was doing. Nobody had time for nonsense like 'hobbies.' Such a suggestion would've been laughable. The women sat around the wood stove and mended clothes at night. The men sat around the fireplace in silence and dozed off before too long. On the rare nights when they did chat, it was about their plans for the next day's objectives.
The sheer volume of WORK required to accomplish the basic things without electricity is astounding. Since I was a child I've been aware that feminism didn't do a DAMN thing to liberate women. We were liberated by the washing machine and the dryer. We've been liberated by hot, running water and electric stoves. Don't underestimate the power of the vacuum and commercial canning. Hell, I even appreciate my blender and egg beater on a visceral level. If you ever once try to whip egg whites or make butter by hand, you'll never forget the lessons you learn from the experience.
*Truly traditional marriage is a partnership between two mature ADULTS. They divide up the labor with clearly defined areas of responsibility. They trust each other to take care of their own responsibilities and respect that the other is on top of business - no matter HOW they do it. Between the two of them, all the bases are covered. Together they complete an operating system and keep the ship running smooth.*
Now days, it seems that the misguided 'traditionalists' are relegating women to the position of immature, emotional children who need to be disciplined and guided. I'm disgusted by the women who are leaning into this by infantilizing themselves and refusing to act like responsible adults. The problem with society is that women are BORED and aren't in a position to step up and succeed or drown. Life is just too easy at the moment, we're allowed way too many excuses, and we have too many forces willing to bail us out of the trouble we get into of our own making.
That was one of the best comments ever.
TH-cam needs a new tab for comments that are stories / lived experiences.
That comment was worth its own video. Well done!
Awesome comment you should do videos on women's perspectives on this stuff
@@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 Profound and well written.
THIS, this is what the world needs, to face reality and to face it head on. These societal issues can't even be spoken about bc you'll be called too mean or a critic. So thanks for giving them a voice 👌
This guy just casually dropped a whole thesis on problems of humanity.
TFM was dropping these truth bombs years ago, then had his channel nuked.
@@RyanJackson-ns3gd oivey
@@RyanJackson-ns3gdbecause he spoke real truth
Also nothing new. Ancient greeks already talked about that and I doubt it started being a problem there. History always repeats itself.
The problem is that there’s a bunch of people who do not respect the individual and try to force social norms on people because they are lazy virtue signalers. Enforcing rules gets everyone stuck in a loop.
The good thing here is he is mostly educating and SELLING. Most people need to lead by example, and only some people can lead by influence. Being a scold isn’t leading. Oppressing one sex isn’t leading. Blindly following a religious leader isn’t leading.
I’m bothered by the last bit because he talks about making people do what’s good for them. Well, he must be young. That used to be a thing, and led to where we are now as soon as there was a pill that suppressed pregnancy.
Its like the question 'why do all the famous artists break all the rules of art and everyone loves it' the answer is because 'to break the rules in a good way, you have to learn and become an expert at the rules first'
Yea, good point, exactly. But instead of the learning the rules first and then learning how and when to break them, the rules are never even learned and it's all chaos as a result.
This is exactly a thought I had. The rules aren't there to benefit the master, they're there to benefit the journeyman and especially the apprentice. A master finding the rules restrictive and seeking to change them to further evolve the craft is how progression is made, but an apprentice wanting to abolish the rules so he doesn't have to learn or abide by them will just destroy the craft.
@@shadowsniper9542 precisely, 100% on point.
This is quite profound.
Bonaparte was a trained artilleryman, and would have known all the rules of logistics and organisation.
Then he upended them with the Corps system we still use to this day
Pablo Picasso was the best example of that. He could draw and paint really well on the "normal" forms, and just chose to break them later.
It takes a village to raise a child, but when the village is all heavily individualistic no child is raised.
Nope. It takes a "village" to raise a commie idiot. It takes mentally stable, rational, loyal and loving parents to raise a child. Also, feminism is collectivist, not individualist.
The 👻 on the card for the Not People is hilarious 😂😂
It really is, even though it's almost black humour
“This is not moving beyond the rules, this is just getting rid of them.”
Feels like that one statement kind of sums up the whole problem.
Yep
I was friends with a girl in elementary school that became really pretty. I kind of watched her whole life and we never dated. at around 20 years old. She started talking to a famous actor from days of our lives. She told me about it and she said she was going to go try to meet him in Hollywood. It didn’t work out but from then on she decided that she wanted to become a famous actress so at 29 years old, she moved to Hollywood to become a major star. she’s 5 feet tall. In school she was the prettiest girl in school but now she’s maybe a seven.. she could’ve got almost any man She wanted when she was young and now she lives in Hollywood and is a server in a restaurant in her 40s. Women can get alpha widowed with a guy they never even got.
But women age...she would have turned 29 regardless. If she was married early her husband might have left her once her looks faded. Better to marry older, at least men can see more of her personality.
@@Kat31017😂😂😂😂
@@Kat31017 I don't think you are seeing the point.
Age is a non-factor in the allegory, beyond it being 'Data for the Timeline'.
Plenty of Older Women in Hollywood or Any Industry where Looks Are Power.
Their is more to The Various Powers Of Women 'than just Looks'.
Looks are the Power associated with aging, it is well Know To Fade.
That is why it is the Loadstone for Women to Cling to, Rather than Taking Account of and Accountability For the rest of their Available Powers.
The Loadstone for 'why my life is over' when they 'hit the wall,' the excuse so that it is not their fault that they never developed anything.
@@Kat31017 Lol the cope.
@@Kat31017 Tell me you don't understand men without telling me.
"Billy Jean is not my love, she's just a girl who claims that I am the one... but the kid os not my son!"
Nobody who needs to see this video will
When society punishes you for doing the right thing this is where it all ends.
You may not be a Bible Person (tm) and that's okay, but read Ecclesiastes. It's not overly preachy, it's very down-to-earth and in total only about 9 pages; but it'll give you some perspective on just how long we've gone without solving this equation.
There is an Isaiah verse about this where the world is coming to an end, Good is bad, and bad is good.
@@TonyTheTGR Great post. "Everything is meaningless." inspires awe in me. "That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil-this is the gift of God." Extremely humbling.
@@TonyTheTGR My favorite book in the OT.
It’s what happens when you give WOMEN too much power. Always remember: MEN built civilization and everything you see around you, women just live in it.
"Now it's just less men winning..."
OWN!
Wrong. Fewer men are winning.
Hyperstition: Feminism use the example of hypersuccessful males as a measure stick for female oppression and by demonstrating & advocating against it, it manifested the exact hierarchy they oppose. Because the West has a fairly egalitarian society compared to the rest of the world, even 100 years ago. At the rate we're going, it's going to be feudalism in the future again.
What is going to end up happening is once there are so many men who aren’t winning and so few men that are, the men that are winning will get taken out by the masses who aren’t. Then there will be no winners. We are in the first generation of this but if it stays 80% and this generation ages and the old dies off…there is going to be a significant chunk of the population that isn’t in the game.
That therapist at 17:00 should be fired
They'd say that it's worth it
Someone give this man more colored pencils. We need more colored pencils.
One tiny disagreement: We understand women, we just don't want to accept it. So, no understanding necessary, just the acceptance of reality as it is.
Accepting a system which is currently destroying itself only gets you so far. You are still part of a failing system.
Frankly? If I'm not that guy, the "highest default setting", I don't want anything to do with the woman in question. I was that guy a couple times in my younger years, so I do know the difference. And trust me, there's just no comparison. The way you're treated by a woman who feels that sort of raw pull towards you, vs the way you're treated by someone just waiting for a chance to level up is... demoralising, if you're in the latter position. I'll NEVER again put myself through it. And you shouldn't either.
That, of course, is a major problem. Because almost no man can be that man all the time. Hell, most aren't that man even once in their lives. So its not just women who would have to sacrifice their interests to bring society back from the brink. For men, it would mean putting up with women who don't like us, who don't want to be with us, but are forced to by societal expectations. That in itself is invariably an absolutely horrible experience, and I outright refuse to subject myself to it, society be damned.
I understand why women have such a visceral reaction to that scenario. I suspect they feel even stronger about it all than me.
Yes....I live by that motto of being at the highest setting as well. Once u get it.....u can't go back. That's how we must move until society crumbles. Then the rebuild can start.
However.....as mentioned in the video....to build a society....one must do what's right for the society...not what you want based on how you feel. It asks both men and women to do things for the greater good.
If we lived in such society.....default highest setting wouldn't matter as it does today.
That's why it is important to stay virgin for the one - hopefully - lifelong partner.
There is no other that could be highest setting.
@@BlackSantana I get that. But it requires everyone to get with the program, because if one person can disregard the rules, everyone can. Fuck, I'm really starting to understand why the penalties for adultery and degeneracy were so severe back in the day. It was because they HAD TO BE.
Because frankly, I don't want to do whats necessary in this context. It's gonna suck massive dick, as I explained above. I'll be honest here, I'd have to be forced to go along with it.
I had that in my younger years, classmates hitting on me, the girls from the other classes also hitting on me, some even asked me to come to their dorm room multiple time... but i hang out with the guy, playing games with them, and ignore most of those girls because the way they 'kinda' hinting you and then wants you to hit back on them is just absurd to me, it's so demoralizing that even though you're not at all interested, only politely trying to be nice to them but then you still have to be the one who make a move in their mind, it just show how much they wanted to be treated nicely without having to do anything else other than 'leaving the hints'
You're on to the dynamic (and well said) and it's real. In college this gal sat backwards in her chair to stare at me the entire class time, looking past four other girls to perform this embarassing act. I waited for the four to tell the broad 'okay, enough already, turn around' but they never did. Weird? From there I observed the women I dated speak of how if they managed to pull me then, ipso facto, they could do better. I became a stepping-stone. Hypergamy personified and it sucked on ice. Soon I realized that no blowjob was better than a half-hearted blowjob. Up is down, black is white, all became inside-outski. Peter, you really hit the nail on the head. Quality descriptive comment. Thanks.
I have a meme of a Russian riding on top of BMP in a gas mask through a hellscape that says “hey friend I know the world is scary right now, but it’s going to get way worse”
link pls
That's Gianni Matrigino
I love that one
The amount of people I see cheering on the collapse of U.S> hegemony.
They're not even going to remember saying it when they're looking around at a world on fire after the end of history ends. They're going to memory hole that things were ever better.
Hey friend, remember when i said things are going to get way worse? i was wrong in my estimate, we are so dead.
Let ladies have a say and sign you own doom.
I understand why other societies do what they do now, even if they've forgotten
It’s important to mention when a girl makes love with a dude even if they just met, she gets attached
Don't men get attached too
@@nightwarrior6105 yes humans get attached when they make love. People will argue men don't, but perhaps it manifests differently
Do men get to attached over time ? Or is it woman
Lol, that’s not reality these days.
Not always. Sometimes it's just a "mistake" or "he made me" or "I needed the validation".
It feels weird that in 2024 the basic idea that "If everybody does what they want instead of what's right, then it will lead to bad outcomes" - sounds like some complicated academic discovery that requires proves and needs to be studied... It's like we've traveled 2000 years back in time on an intellectual level
It's clearly hate speech.
Because people hate hearing it.
People have known it to be a problem for as long as we have been organizing into coherent groups. The problem is that people keep forgetting the lessons learned from the past because “we’re smarter/wiser/more learned now and the old ways are stifling/mean/authoritarian, so we should liberate ourselves from the old rules and just do what we want.” Historically this ideology has been called another term and it’s one that has been known to destroy societies from within: degeneracy
Simpsons did it, remember the episode be like the boy 25 years ago..... literally showing how this behavior will destroy everything
So long as you live in a predominately capitalist society with little to no government welfare, doing what you want will come at a cost in someway and therefore will require you to provide something of value to society (Having a job). However, if you live in a welfare state many people can do what they want at the expense of others while contributing little to nothing to society which is unsustainable and likely will cause a collapse in such nations.
This is why Satanist use this phrase "Do what thou will." Its 100% what the ennemy of our soyls want and oppoaite to the law and orser God provide.
We kicked God out and welcomed in Satan.
Now a lot of intellectuals will say:"We dont need God". But yes we do. Even if you dont believe in Him (I do...but you dont have to), following his rules will assure the perenity of a society. And becauae MOST PEOPLE are dumb as rock and stuck at 3 or lower on that scale he showed, thats why you nees those rules enforced....
That being said, i also believe in the spiritual...there it makes the Buble that much more relevant to me. One thing is sure. Christians were right.
Its why America was so great and its also the only way we could go back to it.
This is like crushing an entire red pill and smoke it up in a blunt.
"F*ck, Morpheus, that's good shit."
The stupidity is almost overwhelming.
ironic how red pill originally meant promiscious lifestyle picking up girls, alphas were called who had game and picked up girls in single lifestyle, blue pill betas were the ones who were in marital life with dead bedrooms, because they couldn't succeed in picking up women. red pill meant what actually worked with picking up girls, blue pill meant having oneitis, pining for the one girl forever. "alpha fucks, beta bucks. " then the political conservatives found the internet and came. now it means the opposite. now red pill is being the beta marriage christian chump. now doing promiscuous life for men is just not red pill. now being christian conservative from early age is based. the difference between earlier freedom-favoring internet pioneers vs. later conservative internet users.
More like a Black pill
I’m trying to understand what “red pill” is without watching videos that show it. Can anybody do a TLDR for me and then connect it back to this vid? All I know is that red pill-ism is probably bad
as a young woman it is actually so scary seeing how alot of people are going about dating nowadays. im lucky to have my bf, we respect and support each other. if he puts in 20% i put in 80% and vice versa.
nobody is perfect, but we all have the opportunity to learn. and that's okay.
my bf is my person and im his. we've gone through many hurdles for each other while still supporting each other in our outside friendships and stuff like that. we are simply two human beings who have love, trust and respect for one another. that is all.
So to us all this stuff is kinda daunting to look at. I hope everyone has the opportunity to meet their person and not have to worry about all of this stuff...
My wife and I often joke that we got on the last chopper out of 'Nam when it comes to dating. I must say that it gives me a small glimmer of hope that there are still couples who understand the need to do things for each other.
@@DavidFrost9992 for sure. im glad you find your wife and your wife found you. i wish you guys a long and happy marriage
Well done, you! Keep putting the work in and be grateful for what you have. Hope it works out for both of you.
I found my mom had such a guy and would have gone my whole life without knowing had it not been for certain circumstances.
She still stayed married to my dad and took care of the family though. I don’t think she ever cheated, and if she did, it doesn’t matter.
The biggest ways this affected me relationship-wise was that I never learned how to attract women and was never encouraged to and got bad relationship advice. I didn’t have a model for what a couple with mutual attraction was like. It took me forever to learn how to attract women. Glad we have TH-cam
"Do whatever feels good"(vibes)
-Satan
He loves it when you're drifting
Real. This entire video was an empirical, secular breakdown of why Judeo-Christianity exists (and, hot-take, needs to exist for the health of society)
(Obviously any religion that teaches sacrificing carnal desires in the moment for the sake of long-term individual and societal well-being applies, Judeo-Christianity just came to mind first)
Sacrifice yourself for the one you love.
-JESUS
@@izraelservantofalmightygod Jesus sacrificed himself for us. That act of pure love is what we're supposed to take from his teachings, not enact ourselves.
The moment a person says "situationship" you're dealing with a social psychopath.
Not at all. Its a euphemism for side girl.
@@gwynedd1 having a “side-girl” is being a social sociopath
A socio-path if you will
@@matthiaskufner2283
That would mean you have a relatively meaningless concept of a sociopath as a simple dichotomy. There is a degree of selfishness involved granted. The "side girl" is based on a protective mechanism for the species when men become in short supply so it cannot be a pure pathology.
@@gwynedd1 Before I respond in full, you're right; the majority of women are not sociopaths. That person was just putting two words together unsuccessfully.
There's not a shortage of men; the monogamous structure of society is breaking down, and women are only interested in the best men. This is fine and makes sense in nature, but humans are 'supposed' to operate at a higher level than our base instincts. There isn't anything inherently wrong with situationships. The effect of them, however, causes the majority of men to become disillusioned and devolve into simps and incels and eventually come to follow the Andrew Tates of the world.
As a married man, I can't begin to speak for the female dating population, but it seems like they also have a general dissatisfaction with the current status quo.
The reason she thinks about her ex, is because he was the one that got away... Why? Because he didn't put up with her shit and had a strong frame. When she broke up with him, he was like "cool, cya". And that's the last thing a woman wants to hear, because now "oh crap, he was the one, he was cool with leaving me, I want him more now". Happens all the time. Had that guy begged her to take him back, she would have been okay with the relationship ending. Women are their own worst enemy.
The Hoe Math is accurate, and anyone who doesn’t believe so, does not have experience dating, or is in denial about the reality of attraction, the same way they are in denial about how dangerous a bear actually is… 😂
A bear eats how?
Do women know the difference of how a Lyon eats their pray versus how a bear eats their pray?
Have they seen how Grizzlies eat salmon off a river water drop
Alive!
A bear will bite into her leg and start to chump away
Meanwhile she passes out but not dead.. she wakes up when the bear bites into het abdomen and takes half her abdomen off and then she dies
They eat their pray alive!
@@Kamabushi999, spelled lion and prey.
Guy just dropped and entire doctoral thesis in 20 minutes.
Pretty sure the neo-liberal economic policies since the 1980's has contributed to the decline of the U.S. more than women going there own way.
Not just a doctoral thesis, no, he just dropped the thing that all collective philosophy (and theology) geniuses of humanity were trying to understand for god knows how many tens of thousands of years.
Yeah man I don't exactly know how to feel about what I'm about to say but... shit bro is probably the goat. This shit is damn near undeniable
This is like spiritual bypassing 101
A doctoral thesis would get meaningful criticism and peer review. This is a 3 AM dorm-room BS session monopolized by "the bright guy" except that there's far too little beer and pot. His monographs consist of crap he imagineers out of tid bits of info he picks up and glues together in ways that make him feel profound. It can be entertaining but its profound only if you're high, drunk, or not really exposed to actual profound thinking very often.
Man, it's such a tough pill to swallow that if you're not "that" guy in your woman's eye, then she will still pine after a guy who pumped and dumped her years ago. Marriage, house, kids, grandkids, great-grandkids, and she'll throw it all away for a guy who has long since forgotten her.
Exactly don’t make me an option if I make you a priority. Hookers are better than these women at least you will get some action from them
As a girl whose father was 10 when he was young got settled and married , can confirm. Those middle-aged women has no shame, still try to get with my dad ( who is happily married) even after like 30 years 💀
Sounds like the titanic movie 😂
Exactly what the Rockefellers (sweJ) wanted m8.... Aaron Russo revealed it in that interview. 😉🤔😑
Unhappy people are perfect spenders. They will buy all sorts of "products" to fill that void that one would get from motherhood or fatherhood.
Not all of us. I'm with all yall in the comments here. Never had this hypergamy crap-- always kept some self respect despite my upbringing.. dunno why. Glad I did.
Modern dating is a Skinner Box.
For most men they peck the button a few times, and never get's a seed. After a whole they stop pecking.
Women pecks the button - get's a huge seed - and now they keep pecking and rejecting the smaller seeds - because they deserve the big seed.
Where as for men who get to sleep with a hot girl, we call it "getting lucky" - women don't see it that way.Even if that's exactly what it was.
The women at the end of this video are broken but will refuse to admit it
Well that would mean for them to take accountability
@@playthegame7445 We know those 2 things don't mix like oil and vinegar
My government professor in college at the beginning of his course explained the social contract very simply. We choose to give up certain freedoms and rights to exist within a society. I don't want other people to steal my stuff or kill me, so I have to agree that I won't steal other people's stuff or kill them, and we will all ban together to punish anyone who does these things, otherwise it's chaos. We all agreed on monogamy at a certain point because it's best for society at large. And there was a social contract where we understood the purpose of dating as well as the expectations and responsibilities of being in such a relationship. But now we've thrown that social contract out the window to "do what we want" instead, regardless of the damage it deals to other people or society.
You can't trust their words though unkes you have cams everywhere
You could make the same argument about slavery. "It has existed for very long therefore its good" isnt a valid argument
He’s just regurgitating Jean Jacques Rousseau
@@caralho5237 slavery is comparable to social contracts? You have got to do better than that.
Damaged people cause damage so if you damage someone you just fkd yourself
The biggest lie I was made to believe was that women were the better gender and are not predatory 😂😂😂 absolutely the opposite and wrong!
We believed it cause our moms loved us unconditionally, but nobody ever taught that your mom will be the only person to love you unconditionally
@@periodictable118 dang bro truth
@@periodictable118 a mother's love is inherently conditional.
Humans suck.
Just read history for five minutes and you'll come to that conclusion.
@@TheAchilles26unnecessary, pedantic comment. Everyone understands the point being made, trying to be clever, doesn't really work here as now you're a tryhard douche.
This video feels like there’s an arrow in my chest.
Crazy to see all these women lying to themselves about these situationships.
11:32 No, the "we should be allowed to do what we want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone" message is being heard as such, but the people hearing it are telling themselves _"we're not hurting anyone"._ At first it would seem like this distinction doesn't make a difference. But eventually it does.
What it’s evolved to is a reforming of the rules in my opinion. They very much believe that you need to think like them and if you don’t you should be punished.
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I was going to point out this exact thing. They’re convinced they’re not hurting anyone because they’re not seeing immediate consequences. But consequences can sometimes take generations to fully manifest.
That phrase hurts more people than anyone. We're ALL affected
Yeah, "not hurting anyone" also includes themselves and their future partners, but that is beyond the understanding of level 3-s ... Reminds me of some talks with my ex, where she thought I would be jealous, as if that would be the actual problem. I told her that her conduct with that guy was going to hurt him and her, because he wanted to be with her and she wanted to be with me.
Summed up the "sexual revolution" in such a perfect way.
Almost as if those values and restrictions of the past were there for a reason...
Imo the sexual revolution was a great movement, but the problem is how people modern day are seen more as commodities. Sexual freedom should be about self-discovery, but now it's just become another status game.
@@randomguyontheinternet7940power play
@@randomguyontheinternet7940you clearly haven’t watched the video…
@mommasbigboy8656 upon finishing it I think he sums it up well. Just feels like one of those things that to me personally is a good idea but just can't be achieved with perfect unity bc of double standards and such
This video, heck this whole channel (but definitely this specific video) should be mandatory viewing in school.
That's probably the best video explaining what is going on in a simplistic manner. We need schools to teach kids stuff like this along with learning reasoning, philosophy and logic
is this... is... is this why they wanted virgins?
Yes. There is wisdom in thousands of years of civilization, it's just that some people are not wise enough to see it.
Yes. But to have virgins in numbers high enough to restaure society, the high level guys (being in status or those capable to seduce most women) must be under control.
Usually by early marriage to hold their sexual urges and/or the realese of male sexuality outside marriage only with prostitutes (sparing all other women from the "game"...), but this second option must be frowned uppon, even if tolerated by law.
Part of it. Men weren't stupid for all those centuries, their instincts were correct.
no. there was no birth control so non virgins most likely had someone else's kid.
@@georgedang449 people believe that evolution is just a force in the wild, only for animals to experience. they forget that we are animals living in a system built by animals, which is all subject to evolution- societal evolution.
wisdom is, to put it concisely, a thought or idea that has survived and persisted many generations worth of human experiences.
"How did your society collapse?"
"At first very slowly, then all at once"
Isn’t that a quote about inflation?
@jameswilkerson4412 yes, it is re-purposed
Yes, hence the statement: *"Men kill people. Women kill Families and Societies."*
@@jameswilkerson4412yes and no ☝️
@@jameswilkerson4412 fun fact, the current dollar is worth 23% less (78% total) than a dollar from 2019, and 140% less than it did in 1990. Also, 8 dollars today is worth 1 dollar from 1970, and the same ratio exists being 13 dollars now, and 1 dollar in 1950. We're fucked 😃
Waiting for society to bring back shame and social pressure.
People need to stop being proud of pulling their crush and start being proud of keeping their crush.
Women*
Men need to stop being proud of fucking someone else’s crush just because they can. It degrades society.
Why? It'll still be their crush.
100% increase in taxation for whoever doesnt marry their first girl and boyfriend in middle school. tax increases 100% for every documented case of not marrying the next girl and boy you date. when have no income, the parents taxes increases instead.
@@Redmanticore that sounds miserable
@@Redmanticore This may do a better job of killing off humanity than a nuclear war with a zombie apocalypse chaser. All you're going to do with this is make sure no one even risks getting caught up with anyone else. Penalty too mf high. 😂
How many women are watching these videos? Cause I think you ladies really need to see this.
You ever see those videos where they have to de program a cult member by forcibly restraining them someplace and bring in teams of specialists to work round the clock shifts and it starts looking like something out of the Exorcist movie? That’s what it would be like trying to get western women to get what this guy’s saying. It ain’t going to happen so we all have to just get our own house in order and prepare for the crash.
"but im not like other girls"
@@ninjedi6710 ha ha I spewed my drink reading that.
@Dcx4-oh5sw people in general
@Dcx4-oh5sw You know, you guys have weird views about humans. Do intricacies not matter? Is everyone in the world exactly the same way? If I say I'm not really like other girls you probably won't believe me and you'd make fun of me, actual rage bait, which is fine by me, I do not care how random people see me, but you know what's interesting? If I say I am like every other girl, I just think differently, you probably still won't believe that. It's because you guys have personal biases that out extend everything else that is out of your field of vision. You don't know and you can't know every human's personal experience. You just know what goes on where you live and what you see, and you think and believe that that is the ultimate truth, which is laughable and foolish. You need to seek experiences and views other than what you are seeing from this channel alone. This guy, he is right about somethings, but he is biased too, because that's how humans generally are.
Agree completely.
As animals we were very random and opportunistic sexually and then we evolved.we set limits, standards and expectations.
We developed morals.
Then we destroyed all that work and now we're de-volving.
That last bit with the TikTok’s had my heart hurting. Reminded me of some girls in my past. Society truly is in decay.
The other aspect of this is that as the 7s and below men increasingly don't and can't win female attention/attraction, they increasingly drop out of society. Over time, then, the infrastructure begins to crumble; slowly at first, but then more and more noticeable: bridges, airplanes, communication systems, roads, plumbing, etc. Right now, I imagine that there are enough hard-working , old-fashioned men keeping a lot of things afloat, but as the next generations have fewer incentives to do this back-breaking work, society will keep crumbling. That's my real fear. I'm not sure that women understand how much of a motivator they are for us to win the world for them. When we have children and family looking up to us, we'll do just about anything to provide and protect; but without those incentives, we'll do barely just enough to survive.
Then let it collapse. They don't care about us, society doesn't care about us, so why care back? Why be a willing slave enabling this corrupt and decadent system?
Nailed it
Promiscuity and obesity in women are killing the average mans desire to chase women anymore. Our "old muse" are now chubby 304's. Our "new muse" are video games and p0rn. Men are in a bad place. And when men are in a bad place long enough, things fall apart.
There's no 'just about' about it. Men will do literally everything including paying the ultimate price
Here's the kicker: we don't need much to survive. There was a meme I saw last year of a single guy's apartment who was MGTOW: It was a studio with a bed, a couch, a TV and an XBox with a blender and an Instant Pot in the kitchen. All that decor and the clutter and crap, is what women prefer. So when society collapses, these guys will be fine....because they don't need much to begin with. I have never, in my 50+ years of life, ever seen a minimalist woman. I know about 60 or so men and I'm told there are thousands more across the country and maybe a couple hundred thousand worldwide. Bring the asteroid or CME or EMP pulse or whatever. We good.
Miserable people are by far the best consumers. This is not an even fight as long as corporations and governments have short term benefits from it.
These corporations are trying to recreate the environment that spawned the communist movement. History never repeats but it rhymes.
Women impulse buy. Make them miserable, and they buy even more. Make them golddiggers, and they'll help spend simps' money too - simps who otherwise don't impulse buy. Consumerism love women.
Sadly there is more truth here than we all want to admit.
Money is just a means to an end. And the end is described in the first seconds of the video. It is done on purpose.
Any woman who says "situationship" is not a keeper.
Can't believe I live in a time where I got the chance to witness the downfall of a civilization (US), it's like having front row seats to watch Rome fall. What a time to be alive!
Growing up means realizing that The Notebook isn't a romance movie, but a horror movie.
Just like titanic.
@@psychoholicslag4801that’s what I thought the titanic was. A survival horror movie with some romance thrown into it.
@@psychoholicslag4801 And kinda Forest Gump
@@Martin-eu2ke that's more of a masochistic indulgence horror documentary. 😄
Both main chars in The Notebook are horrid examples of what either person in a relationship should be.
Titanic is hilarious from a logic standpoint. Jack is broke and a complete A hole. Thats why women liked it. The rich guy was not the A hole. He was just doing what made sense.
The most fictional part of the whole film, was the part where the homeless guy doesn't throw her off the raft and take it for him self. Because thats what actually would have happened.
They want the "wolf" to be, secretly, a nice guy that no one has gotten to know. But the "nice guy" gives them the "ick".
"Jack is broke and a complete A hole" - did we see the same film, how is Jake an A-hole?
To be fair the dude tries to kill them both at some point, so he's not that good either.
Titanic was a smashing box office success but let's not kid ourselves. Men also went in droves,.... why?
Because all men also imagine it would be cool to be the bad boy that a woman cant forget after one night of degeneracy.
I liked the movie for this exact reason 😅 before I found catholic morality years later and realized jack went to hell after his death. (He died in the state of mortal sin)
@warrengday broke the guy code. If you intentionally steal another mans woman. You are an A hole. We all know in real life jack would have dumped her the moment the ship arrived in port. Even at that time, thats how hookups worked.
How many guys you know that would give their life for some chick they just met. Not only was he an A hole. He was also stupid.
Magnificent presentation. Much of it, even on a societal level, is summed up with.....
“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” - G. Michael Hopf
"-Sexual promiscuity is the tip society pays in order to appease its slaves.
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"Modern society is abolishing prostitution by means of promiscuity" -- Nicolás Gómez Dávila
goth form the same guy or first ones author lost to time?
DEFINITION: 'situationship'; I got pumped and dumped by Chad but I want to pretend "it was complicated", and that is why we are not together.
Much respect to you for acknowledging your mistakes.
doesn’t even have to be chad. just has to be 2 points above her on the looks scale
@@xXxTai280xXx you think you did something with that? "haha gotcha" moment in your brain with underdeveloped frontal lobe? lmao
The dumper feeds into these beliefs. In the moment he wants to dump her for good, he will make her feel she dumped him, so the story in her mind is still "this was a situationship but I ended it because he was toxic" and not "he played me to pump and dump me".
Oldest trick in the book. I had a female friend who fell for that. I dumped her friendship too. 😊
Oxytocin is supposed to make promiscuity harder for women by inducing emotional attachment ... thus, making them a gatekeeper. However, estrogen potentiates oxytocin, and birth control binds to free bound estrogen, reducing its impact on the CNS, and thus, limiting the emotional attachment response from sex ... making promiscuity and birth control a positive feedback loop.
Or for males, the way my hispanic friend put it in perspective ...he asked:
Buuuut ... would you sport her at the mall.?
Cats will be the winners. The reason that we have stray cats is that there are women that even cats cannot tolerate.
@@JJ-wi2uw cats and plants
I love how much thought you put into everything and how you are able to clearly express my thoughts and feeling from over the years. Like ive always known this deep down without actually knowing or being able to explain all this psychological stuff.
I've never seen anyone make a genuine change due to spontaneous self reflection. Changes only come after a shock. The bigger the shock the biggest the change. Civilization will need to crumble, there is no way around it.
This is true, the West is dying a slow death though and it will take a long time for any shock to happen. No dictators, no famine or disease, no war, just a degrading culture.
@@Zabrixis1919 we are still decades away from any major change, sadly.
@@Zabrixis1919 "slow death" I disagree. Things compound with time. It is not as gradual as we think.
But that results in the problems in the other end of the spectrum and we’re all Muslim. We need a shock, but a smaller shock would be better than a bigger one, otherwise we’re just stuck in a death loop of hyper femininity to hyper masculinity and back again
the problem is people arent self reflecting. you cant see the results of a thing that isnt happening.
it is possible, but people need to climb a few levels on that chart to even start doing so.
The problem with social conventions is that they are almost always established and promoted by the most morally bankrupt individuals in society. Tarnishing the credibility of any social convention and relegating them to just "rules for the peasants"
The best way to have moral rules like that is to apply them to the top first. That way, we know that society is serious about them.
Who do you think makes societal customs lmao it’s not Donald Trump it’s your parents.
Real
@@stripedgecko1061I agree with you to some extent but who makes your parents make the rules? Donald Trump or religion or DEI policy or whatever someone deems as the most right (or only right) source.
@@stripedgecko1061actually, for the past few years it seems like the social conventions have been shaped by the Kardashians and other reality tv nonsense.
Yeah but 90% of society are idiotic peasants. And the 1% will always ignore the rules cause no society ever existed without ruling elites not corrupting the system through power.
I just came across these videos recently and I love them. I'm sure it was for illustrative purposes but I laughed a lot when the reference to the "stable model" of relationships gets the pen tap on the male side and the "unstable model" gets the pen tap on the female side.
For me and marriage (in the UK), it's relatively simple - marry girl, have kids, girl wants divorce out of nowhere, takes all of stuff and money for maintenance, guy now broke and lives on sofa. This has happened to loads of my friends in the 40's, having to start all over again whilst their ex lives in their home and is now with a new guy who has made no effort in life, and barely gets to see his own kids!!
Where is my protection from this? Why would I enter this type of situation? If I could be protected from losing everything I have struggled to get, I would enter a marriage with open arms. Until then, no thanks...
You gave up your arms and are now powerless to trying to fix the problem
Luckily in the US you aren’t on the hook for anything you already had before getting together. So get your affairs in order first and then they can leave with exactly what they started with.
@@justadummy8076 It's the same, or even worse in Red State 'merica so you haven't made a point at all
@@TheTravisTube As always with the US, it depends on the State. Pre-nups are also routinely shredded by judges
@@TheTravisTube Alimony enters the chat...
after 11000 years of human civilisation, we still need to debate why working together is better in the end than being selfish...smh
Civilization oscillates from one extreme, to the other extreme.... and the cycle repeats. This is the way it's supposed to be... even thought it may "feel" uncomfortable at the moment. The only constant, is change. Embrace it. Look for opportunities in it while other are just complaining about it.
@@Remember-Death Platitudes have a really bad track record
@@jasonolyver6430 You don't have to nag and complain (aka debate)...no one is forcing you to be a loser.
You also won't interact with everyone alive in a significant way, in your expiring lifetime.
You'll only interact with a relatively minute number of other people in a truly significant way.
All you need to do, is stop nagging and complaining like 30+ year old single mom, and start working with the few people you'll ever be able to in a meaningful way..
@@tylerdurden3722 thx you, needed to hear that :d
Petro-states have entered the chat.
Wow. This video could save America if the people unable to comprehend it, comprehended it.
This is an incredible synopsis of world psychology, philosophy and sociology all in one. Beautiful, thank you for taking the time to put this together
There is a reason the saying “those who don’t learn from history are bound to repeat it” exists. It’s a real shame that there aren’t enough people who understand the importance of that saying.
But there's a second part to that saying: "Those who don't learn from history are bound to repeat it....while those who do are bound to watch it happen."
But there's a 2nd part to that saying: "Those who don't learn from history are bound to repeat it....while those who do are bound to watch it happen."
@@davida.taylor8444 true sadly. Nice to meet someone who knows the whole saying.
@@godman5191 Sorry for the double-post; TH-cam made it look like it was deleted so I re-wrote it.
Our rules clearly haven't always intended us to be prosperous. We are where we are for a reason.
So feminism has essentially reverted us back to a peudo-primative state with all the disfunction that comes with that.
Yup, throw some marxism and communism and you’re seeing a complete destruction or human civilization
It's basically like the 23rd or how ever many iteration of women in history putting a strain on a society by acting out.
i wouldn't point to feminism as the cause of this, but the relaxing of control over women and the development of the Internet greatly contributed to where we are now
Exactly. Monogamy was an institution created and enforced by the church starting in the 1500s. Before that we were tribalistic savages. Read the book WEIRDest People by Joseph Heinrich
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