Why Prenup is Illegal in India? Raj Shamani

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  • @rajshamani
    @rajshamani  ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Watch the complete episode here: th-cam.com/video/LXEQKl0SCAs/w-d-xo.html

    • @shreelekhapujala7643
      @shreelekhapujala7643 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are u not finding any idea for ur content??? Don't just bring somebody who talk nonsense on open show. Don't destroy our culture if possible try to restore it or else stay clam.

    • @sph8483
      @sph8483 ปีที่แล้ว

      when it comes to Pre-nup (a kind of men's right) then Marrige and Religion are untouchable for Supreme Court
      for everything else - They never hesitate to destroy every thing of Hinduism

    • @adarshlaw759
      @adarshlaw759 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's "sacred" not secret.

    • @priyaakshita334
      @priyaakshita334 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The link is not accessible. Kindly share in bio 🎉

  • @donalddrunk9882
    @donalddrunk9882 ปีที่แล้ว +1784

    Marriage is sacred but infidelity is legal in India. Gems of Indian supreme court. Prenup mat karo but get divorce in 2 days and pay alimony. 🤡

    • @jayashkumar2006
      @jayashkumar2006 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gobar mentality. Western bootlickers majority of indian judiciary. West is a failure when it comes to family cohesion.

    • @Aziz0938
      @Aziz0938 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Seriously ye log kya funkte h pata nhi

    • @rsssword413
      @rsssword413 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If prenup is for sex?

    • @apurb003
      @apurb003 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@rsssword413 no it's for being safe from paying alimony after a divorce.

    • @sierra3866
      @sierra3866 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ​@@apurb003 you got a gist of it, but that's not it. Prenuptial agreement is made to protect the properties you earned/made before your wedding be it a man or a woman and to mention what items/properties would be for the each individual if they ever divorce. It's to protect the overall assets of both the properties.

  • @VimalYadav-jp9jb
    @VimalYadav-jp9jb ปีที่แล้ว +1308

    Prenup is a slang for "prenupital" which means before marriage. It is an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.

    • @shadanthakur01
      @shadanthakur01 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Copy and paste from Google 😂👏

    • @VimalYadav-jp9jb
      @VimalYadav-jp9jb ปีที่แล้ว +245

      @@shadanthakur01 Mujhe toh khud nahi pata tha isliye Google kia tha., Baki jise na pata ho, usey Google na karna pade isliye maine yaha hi uska matlab dal dia. Koi galti ho gayi ho toh maaf kar dena

    • @daju.9786
      @daju.9786 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@shadanthakur01 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @daju.9786
      @daju.9786 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vimal Pan Masala

    • @aayushmishra7270
      @aayushmishra7270 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@VimalYadav-jp9jb thanks for the definition dude !

  • @iagreewithyou4328
    @iagreewithyou4328 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    Her: Sacred
    Subtitles: Secret
    Me: come again...
    Subtitles: Secret😄

    • @dp_1512
      @dp_1512 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ha🤣 AI generated subs hain

  • @meghanarora4136
    @meghanarora4136 ปีที่แล้ว +4059

    In a country where marriages happen based on how much money the family gets or how much the guy earns, there is no way in hell indian parents will allow their daughter to sign a prenup. It's funny honestly

    • @kaypandey7221
      @kaypandey7221 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup! WAY YYYYYYyYYYy better than tge stupid western concept of marryinv for love, because everyone knows love can't fill your belly and the moment live vanishes, everyone is just running to get divorced. Come out of your slave mentality you while washed moron. Stop bashing India and it's culture the firat chance you get.

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      The girl which are genuinely interested in you and not your money, will sign prenup .

    • @Truelust29
      @Truelust29 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      The daughter is expected to leave her family to live with the guys family. She is expected to raise children and leave her job as well. So it makes sense

    • @Truelust29
      @Truelust29 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      ​@@adityachaudhary554 do you understand the meaning of illegal...you cannot sign something that is illegal

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@Truelust29 i am talking about that scenario where court's will allow signing prenup .
      One more thing -
      prenup is not illegal, you can sign prenup but it's not legally enforceable in court .

  • @ShahinMb
    @ShahinMb ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Infact prenup can reduce court cases, hardships and time for the citizens.

  • @spdr4717
    @spdr4717 ปีที่แล้ว +1530

    So in short don't get married... cause everything is against you... the in-laws & the laws.

    • @Aleyah
      @Aleyah ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Works for both the genders. Girls too earn well. Why would they marry a man who only wants her to do household chores in additon to being independent. It's realky about mutual understanding and respect which may be not as common as we would want it to be.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      For men yes

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Aleyah no, women can destroy a man's life just by any false allegations without any proof but men can't do Literally anything even if they have proof. That's the Indian law for you

    • @athish-REAL
      @athish-REAL ปีที่แล้ว +87

      ​@@AleyahYou Must Be A Female It Seems 😂😂

    • @pravinwalodra2336
      @pravinwalodra2336 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@Aleyah no

  • @enochsapam3893
    @enochsapam3893 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Prenup is illegal but alimony is legal. In India there is not a single article that protects men.

  • @noonecares3996
    @noonecares3996 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    According to Indian law ....
    Before marriage : Marriage is not a business deal , it's a sacred thing . We are pro marriage ... bla bla bla...
    after marriage :
    Court: how much alimony do you want ?
    Girl : Yes
    Court : Yes

    • @vivek8580
      @vivek8580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First thing in India divorce doesn't happen very easily, second if the women is a working woman then there's very few chance that she would get alimony
      So if u don't wanna give alimony, marry working woman

    • @nitinbhattacharyya8784
      @nitinbhattacharyya8784 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@vivek8580you don't know what you are talking about. Talk to an actual lawyer you'll know about ground reality

    • @ncd2164
      @ncd2164 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not to mention women also have a leverage when it comes to children in the sense of if they want a custody agreement that suits better in their favour it’s a lot easier for them to get as compared to men….. its genuinely pathetic

    • @user-ez2rr9ix1c
      @user-ez2rr9ix1c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vivek8580bro what are you even talking about I can give you thousands of cases where women is earning and men also earning even then court gives alimony to women from husband you can find many court hearing on TH-cam

    • @ekam2291
      @ekam2291 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vivek8580working woman also take alimony

  • @Pawasnaga
    @Pawasnaga ปีที่แล้ว +257

    Yes, I looked up a year ago !! In india, any contract based on marriage is invalid and unethical. That's why most celebrities get married aboard.

    • @Mohmaya.89
      @Mohmaya.89 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Seriously?? I thought it's only for some a destination wedding
      But saif n kareena, alia n ranbeer, karishma so many got married in India

    • @sierra3866
      @sierra3866 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      They get married abroad as in ceremony was done abroad but they gotta register their wedding in India if they are Indian citizens. They don't get away by having a wedding abroad.

    • @Khushie1891
      @Khushie1891 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@Mohmaya.89 alia has a british passport allegedly so it's probably don't matter.

    • @alinax64
      @alinax64 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@sierra3866 i was thinking of marrying abroad too for the pre-nup , but isn't there a way to do it even if we are indian citizen?

    • @sierra3866
      @sierra3866 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Alinax as long as you and your spouse are Indian citizens, you are bound by the laws of India. As far as my knowledge, not only pre-nups are illegal, any agreement which are similar to a pre-nup which obscures the purpose of "marriage" is illegal in India, coz acc to Indian constitution "Marriage" is sacred, and any agreements/contracts brings down the whole purpose of it.

  • @KushalMestri
    @KushalMestri ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Another reason to not get married

  • @devchauhan3607
    @devchauhan3607 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Prenup is absolutely necessary. People are taking advantage of this flaw and many lives are ruined because of this. It should be mandatory for protecting an individual's rights and property in case of an divorce.

    • @shrawaniverma4454
      @shrawaniverma4454 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You missed it again my friend marriage in India is not a contract rather a union for life as per law especially as per Hindu personal law or even secular marriage law. Even otherwise a contract for marriage is not recognised in India so no question of prenup.

    • @shrawaniverma4454
      @shrawaniverma4454 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In muslim law marriage is a contact therefore meher and alimony is decided at the time of marriage.

    • @ncd2164
      @ncd2164 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shrawaniverma4454in this day and age prenups are a MUST this ain’t the ye old days where most women weren’t gold diggers

    • @shrawaniverma4454
      @shrawaniverma4454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ncd2164 I agree that these days there is a lot of insecurity about wealth. However I am only talking about how the law works. I have only quoted the legal jurisprudence regarding family matters. What the courts says that's it

    • @rohitbhushan8855
      @rohitbhushan8855 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@shrawaniverma4454
      In other words, our stupid legal system is dangling between the old ways and the modern world and it's good people who are suffering because of that..

  • @bumfuzzlygubbins7811
    @bumfuzzlygubbins7811 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "Prenup is not legal in India. Infact, it's against the law." That's some mad sentence right there ☠️

    • @kishorenaveen3524
      @kishorenaveen3524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      whats prenup ?

    • @lakshyajain8240
      @lakshyajain8240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It means that it is not in the grey area

    • @ShivangiKrishna
      @ShivangiKrishna ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember the self marriage that happened few months ago and gained a lot of publicity. That’s not legal, But it’s also not against the law!
      There’s nothing “mad” about this sentence in that context.
      Though if you mean “omg that’s crazy news”. (Just giving benefit of doubt) Then that’s a different story. But otherwise, the sentence is perfect

  • @alphabetagamma4142
    @alphabetagamma4142 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What an absolute joke... If marriage is so sacrosanct, why is a woman rewarded with half of a man's wealth when she breaks marriage?
    Absolutely ridiculous hypocrisy.
    Another reason not to get married✌️

    • @adityanayak872
      @adityanayak872 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage is sacrosanct. But adultery is legal.
      Supreme court is a joke

  • @somsshekhar2162
    @somsshekhar2162 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Guy realised he is in trouble now

  • @soham8295
    @soham8295 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Sounds about right. Also to mention in India man can get child's custody, women after divorce doesn't get half of the wealth by default. Also court doesn't encourage, infact Indian court will discourage people from divorce in many situations.
    In western countries prenup makes more sense. Also if divorce rate increases in India I think we will get prenups legal.

    • @SONUKUMAR-cq1jx
      @SONUKUMAR-cq1jx ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Discourage, not decline

    • @soham8295
      @soham8295 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@SONUKUMAR-cq1jx obviously why would court decline? Court doesn't decline any case which is accurately appealed.

    • @lakmichinto5086
      @lakmichinto5086 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Perfect
      Prenup is important
      Indian men should get Custody too.. being a women i see many women take advantage of this weak loophole... Men are often left in the lurch
      They too have emotions nd they can take care of the child too

    • @samarpitabhattacharya5953
      @samarpitabhattacharya5953 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@lakmichinto5086 in many cases father's are given the custody of child in India and in many of the cases the child decides to go back to mother when adult, understand the hole now

    • @chars_78
      @chars_78 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men cannot get custody if the child is a girl.

  • @sharadskywalker
    @sharadskywalker ปีที่แล้ว +264

    On one side Supreme Court says marriage is sacrosanct on the other hand the same Supreme Court says that if a married woman has kid outside the marriage the husband needs to pay maintenance 😂

    • @sharadskywalker
      @sharadskywalker ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Hi the man she married needs to pay

    • @jaiviswa5102
      @jaiviswa5102 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      this woman doesn't seem to know about our woke cji chor who is hell bent on desecrate the ' sacrosanct' side of marriage.

    • @CreativitySimplicity
      @CreativitySimplicity ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That is because as per ancient laws a woman becomes a man's property once she is married to him. So her womb is also his property and any child coming out of this womb is his responsibility. In Mahabharata, Dhritarastra and Pandu were not biologically their mother's husband's but they were accepted as legal heirs because their mothers were married to their father. Similarly the Pandavas were not biologically Pandu's but they were accepted as legal sons of Pandu. Some texts even go on saying that a woman committing adultery is not a crime committed by the woman herself but by her husband. This is all not valid in today's day and world but the Supreme Court and Hindu Marriage law derive from these ancient postulates.

    • @ashay94
      @ashay94 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      ​@@CreativitySimplicity chal be

    • @shrawaniverma4454
      @shrawaniverma4454 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well under evidence law the presumption is that the child is that of husband so he has pay maintenance. SC dna test wagerah me belive nahi karti!! That's the sad truth. Your lordship toh prostitution ko bhi profession karte hai..

  • @sherlockian1
    @sherlockian1 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    It's not illegal. Illegal is something not permitted by law, and which attracts penalty or jail term. It's just that Prenup cannot be enforced legally. But yes it could be presented as evidence to strengthen one's case. Judge may or may not ascribe any weight to it.

    • @dOVERanalyst
      @dOVERanalyst ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What is not legal is illegal.
      It's not that deep.

    • @Yourshraddha
      @Yourshraddha ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I am a lawyer and there is a huge difference between something not legally enforceable and illegal

    • @arindamghosal7277
      @arindamghosal7277 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@dOVERanalyst nope.... illegal means something that is not permitted by law.. Prenup in India is not enforceable(except Goa) legally but can be used to support one's case depending upon how a lawyer uses it. In fact, this thing came to light in a recent SC judgement.

    • @abhikamthe
      @abhikamthe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “Void”

    • @tejasdeepsingh456
      @tejasdeepsingh456 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@dOVERanalyst it is that deep. Something being illegal means that it would invite a jail term/punishment. Prenup is not legally binding ie the parties are NOT under a legal obligation to abide by a prenup. However, it doesn't invite a thus punishment it's not illegal

  • @deadmanx484
    @deadmanx484 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Govt. Needs to understand that Marriage is sacrosanct but people are not!
    Basically govt. Is telling no matter the husband or wife is trash or whatever....you can go seprate.

  • @drshwetanksingh1611
    @drshwetanksingh1611 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's High time in these ages to legalize it. And We all know Why.

  • @KingKhan-123
    @KingKhan-123 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    "Prenup is not legal in India"
    Can't contain her happiness for that 😂😂😂

    • @lakshendrasejwani9963
      @lakshendrasejwani9963 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Remember guys : "Prenup is not legal in India and it's against the law"
      😂😂

    • @h.dungore839
      @h.dungore839 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It’s also cuz she is excited about women having some rights 🤷‍♀️ cuz most women’s parents have to give huge amount of dowry which is taken on the Pretense that the in-laws and husband will take care of their daughter, if you break that promise that obviously she is Entitled to your money 🤷‍♀️😂 and because the husbands don’t want to lose their half of the Property they will be less likely to cheat on their wives. The situation is reversed it should implement in women too🤷‍♀️

    • @Shreya-zt2ne
      @Shreya-zt2ne ปีที่แล้ว +14

      and what if she earns more than her husband lol... yall acting like u know shit when u dont lmao

    • @pravinwalodra2336
      @pravinwalodra2336 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@@Shreya-zt2ne even if she earns more husband has to pay her that's how f*kedup is law

    • @webtoon4372
      @webtoon4372 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or his

  • @paulnabin
    @paulnabin ปีที่แล้ว +104

    *Sacred
    No AI is harmed 🤪😂😂

    • @rubaeeyat
      @rubaeeyat ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro where did you take your display picture?

    • @newaccount2979
      @newaccount2979 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rubaeeyat anime i think ...it's death note

    • @arunrawat8883
      @arunrawat8883 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe it's not AI maybe the admin is dumb 😅

    • @paulnabin
      @paulnabin ปีที่แล้ว

      @@newaccount2979 nope it's actually me and I edit it on open AI 😬

    • @paulnabin
      @paulnabin ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rubaeeyat that's me edit it with Open AI 😬

  • @sanjay_singh
    @sanjay_singh ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I like the way he asked the meaning of sacrosanct. That is how you learn

    • @aditikule2482
      @aditikule2482 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. I didn't get the meaning at first too. But I didn't think he would ask but he did.
      💕

    • @kshamashekar1325
      @kshamashekar1325 ปีที่แล้ว

      true, he was genuinely inquisitive 😊

    • @user-vl8bv5jt9m
      @user-vl8bv5jt9m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even she didn't know the meaning 😂

    • @sanjay_singh
      @sanjay_singh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-vl8bv5jt9m Naah, she's correctly explaining it. Not explaining deeply since conversation flow will break.

  • @Morminz23
    @Morminz23 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    If marriage secret then why alimony ??
    It's about time men should wake up and stand for prenuptial agreement and pass on the law to make it legal.

    • @nikhilmudaliar2501
      @nikhilmudaliar2501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sooo necessary

    • @sakethsonu
      @sakethsonu ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You do realise prenups help men more than women, especially in countries like india.
      We would gladly support it should the issue be brought up 🤷

    • @apandey327
      @apandey327 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@sakethsonu in west wife get half the earnings and property. In India wife only gets maintenance amount from husband.she has no right on husband property. So pre nup will be better for women jot for man. As giving rs 5000-25000 by court is less costly then giving one lakh or more by pre nup

    • @sakethsonu
      @sakethsonu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@apandey327 if you do a prenup you wont get anything though.... Where is that 1 lakh coming from?? 🧐🧐🧐

    • @apandey327
      @apandey327 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sakethsonu really. Pre nup is pre marriage agreement
      Very much like all terms and conditions can be decided.wont bride sign that i need this much amount if marriage doesn't work. And those who are boneless can not afford a wife and children expenditure should take oath to remain un married. Again in India no wife take half the property. Court only gives her allowance for eating and clothing

  • @jacksonfurtado7860
    @jacksonfurtado7860 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Prenups are valid in Goa under a Special Code
    provided you stay for 6 months and other things
    Not All Marriages are Beautiful Some turn real ugly for the worst. a prenup gives both the parties to end the chaos as quick as possible

    • @miniekr6115
      @miniekr6115 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is prenup

    • @fenrir834
      @fenrir834 ปีที่แล้ว

      what special code?

    • @theredstar6493
      @theredstar6493 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So does it means that if you marry in goa (as an indian citizen but resident of other state ) you can actually get a prenup?

    • @ShivangiKrishna
      @ShivangiKrishna ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

    • @adityanayak872
      @adityanayak872 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@theredstar6493 nah. Buy a property in Goa and get domicile

  • @ulteriorwonderer3483
    @ulteriorwonderer3483 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Prenup should be for both sides.🤘 Peace to all.

  • @jinfin221
    @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Rich guys, please don't marry. There's literally nothing for a guy in marriage lol

    • @RajatK91
      @RajatK91 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are you born outside of marriage? Just curious

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@RajatK91lmao, he probably is

    • @Al_Nar_
      @Al_Nar_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes if you want you can get married in religious rituals and live together never marry by Indian law

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RajatK91 I did say rich guys. Tere toh family hi bhikari lagte hai. Tu karle. Terse kya hi leke jayege tere wife 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sayanbose4931
      @sayanbose4931 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Al_Nar_ pretty sure religious marriages without marriage registries are also recognised as legal marriages in india.

  • @qamararfin7534
    @qamararfin7534 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    we live in modern world where wife would cheat take you kids and alimony from you and you end up heartbroken and broke but yeah the laws are from like 1984 or something

  • @putridtrouble
    @putridtrouble ปีที่แล้ว +89

    There is no Sanskrit word for divorce. It is a purely Western concept. Marriage is sacred and not some financial agreement.
    But considering the fake marriages nowadays, laws should be updated for real life scenarios

    • @shubhambagri97
      @shubhambagri97 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best answer

    • @rationaloperator4165
      @rationaloperator4165 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is a purely financial agreement, without the financial part marriage is just nothing, a signature on paper. Don't fool yourself, SC and the whole alimony crap is destroying concept of marriage itself.

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes, as a divorced guy, this is why divorces are not Dharmic by nature.
      Remarriage after divorce is thus against the Dharma, especially for women as there is no Dharmic/Pouranic/Vedic Vidh/Ritual to break the marriage.
      So, evek if court declares you divorced, in the eyes of Dharmic laws, you are in fact still married.
      But we are a secular country, ruled by constitution & not by Dharmic laws. Which is why this stand of Indian supreme court is absolutely ridiculous.

    • @Sam_Zan
      @Sam_Zan ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@senor2930 I mean if people are not compatible or there is a case of cheating or perhaps they want to mutually separate or for other reasons too then the best way is to divorce isn’t it. Marriage may be a sacred bond from your pov but from my pov it is not. Marriage is a legally recognized union btw two people who are in a personal relationship. Not everyone is meant to be together for 7 births, that is life. Divorce isn’t a bad thing. It is as essential as marriage. Staying married without having any respect and love for your partner only results in unhappy partners but also a unhappy family.

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sam_Zan read my whole comment again..

  • @Kayash_Kino
    @Kayash_Kino ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The real reason Khan bhai isn't married beyond 55

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usko jaroorat nahi waise bhi. Lol

    • @Kayash_Kino
      @Kayash_Kino ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jinfin221 aadhi daulat jaaneka risk jyada hai

  • @tindrums
    @tindrums ปีที่แล้ว +11

    the guys who are trapped in family courts... it is a nightmare...

  • @cjx3156
    @cjx3156 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    But i heard there's a way around it. If you can get your marriage registered in Goa. The Goa code allows for a prenuptial agreement which can alter the ratio of the distribution of assets. So the question is how do you get your marriage registered in Goa. However, it's best checked with your legal counsel

    • @rini6847
      @rini6847 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No wonder why most rich people opt for Goa destination wedding!!😅

    • @sierra3866
      @sierra3866 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@rini6847 you know that's not how it works right? That's a tourist destination which is beautiful for beach wedding... Just because someone opts for a wedding ceremony in Goa, they don't automatically get to register there.

  • @siaarora838
    @siaarora838 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Guys but let's also think from a different perspective. Not all women in India are 'allowed' to work and even if they do, you know they are paid less than their male colleagues. Secondly they have a concept in their mind that a girl will go to her in-laws so she doesn't need property from her parents and if she gets divorced she'll have nothing then. Even if she would've done the unpaid job being a housewife and worked her ass off, it won't be considered. so somehow I feel it is necessary for women to get equal assets. But yes,I would also agree with the fact that people use this to loot men and take advantage of it negatively.

    • @Al_Nar_
      @Al_Nar_ ปีที่แล้ว

      You can add clauses for all those reasons in a prenup as you wish. So you can take a fair share of assets and alimony accordingly. So think again what is the problem in prenups

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Women are paid less? In which positions? Can you specify?

    • @souravsenapaty4738
      @souravsenapaty4738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      all the problems you just listed have laws against them. I'm not denying that they are problems, but women are denying that our current alimony laws are a problem. they expect men to understand their problems but wouldn't understand men's problems themselves

  • @aniketprasad3128
    @aniketprasad3128 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In our country even employment bonds are illegal. But we have it anyway

  • @inues
    @inues ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Have your money in a foreign bank under a shell company. Have yourself as a consultant to this company where your personal account gets payments that are just enough to cover your necessities. To go the other way, you have an LLC in the host country with its own bank account and you "hire" the foreign shell as a consultant.

    • @chalke007
      @chalke007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      was thinking of the same , that make prnup in outside county

    • @inues
      @inues ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chalke007 that also works but then you would have to be married only in that country. Not sure about India but in California USA if you reside with someone long enough in an intimate relationship then you are under the same regulations as if you were married. Also if you get married there then your subject to all the laws and regulations regardless of the foreign marriage. Minus taking a cut and going through some loopholes you also get the benefit of avoiding taxes (depending on the country for the shell corp).

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Easy option.. don't get married.

    • @inues
      @inues ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asht7899 depends, in some locations you fall under the same rules if you've been living with someone and in a romantic relationship long enough.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inues which location? And those kinds of things are not easy. You need to have damn good lawyers to win such cases.

  • @suchender801
    @suchender801 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Marriage is sacrosanct but adultery isn't a crime? What part of marriage is sacrosanct? Man providing for a woman unconditionally?

    • @nirajtripathi9842
      @nirajtripathi9842 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Or woman putting up with abuse unconditionally

    • @suchender801
      @suchender801 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@nirajtripathi9842 That's why there is nothing sacrosanct about marriage. It's a social contract and a person entering it should be able to set the terms and not have judges pass down their opinions as orders.

    • @Schopenhauer69
      @Schopenhauer69 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@nirajtripathi9842they're both wrong. Simple conclusion to arrive at instead of engaging in whataboutism.

    • @pravinwalodra2336
      @pravinwalodra2336 ปีที่แล้ว

      ironical isn't it 🤣

    • @theredstar6493
      @theredstar6493 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage itself is like a contract but at the same time not a contract
      Marriage literally means you are ready to accept someone else as your spouse, take their responsibilities and stay loyal to them but at the same time law says adultery is no more criminalized

  • @asht7899
    @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    All the men out there who wants prenup to be legal, stop asking or expecting dowry, stop searching for brides that will not be earning, stop asking your wives to quit job to take care of the family. Because if you decide to end the marriage, it's not fair that you leave her on the streets without a job just because she decided to sacrifice her job to take care of the husband and kids. In today's time, even earning people find it difficult to keep their jobs. Then think about someone who has never earned or has a huge break in her career because she was forced to quit.

    • @karthik197
      @karthik197 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Same way women shouldn't look for men who already got their own house, a car and a big bank balance if you don't have the same. women should marry men who are in the socio-economic hierarchy as them and not someone above them. You shouldn't demand equality while practicing hypergamy.
      And then tell me how many women are even interested in marriage.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karthik197 oh please all these demands did not come from a woman one day when she woke up. It's because of these high demands from men, women also started making those demands. You want women to stop those demands, then first stop yours. Your gender literally starts everything and then has a problem when women follow suit.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@karthik197 and these days women are not expecting all that but men are. Men want to marry rich beautiful tall fair complexion women who are having high paying jobs, who has property also and who will give them car as well after marriage along with all household stuff.

    • @karthik197
      @karthik197 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@asht7899 ever read about about human mating preference in your entire life. Women literally controls the access to sex just like in any animal kingdom where one sex gets pregnant. And women makes the rules for who gets sex. Regardless of culture, race, ethnicity, religious beliefs, women date or sexually attracted to men who are in higher socio economic hierarchy. Basically a guy who is smarter, stronger and richer than not only the woman but also amongst the men he is competing with for the said woman. The term patriarchy is literally the product of women's sexual selection. If women were not attracted towards men who are in power and in socio-economic status, there would be no men in power or rich.
      Men literally have zero say in this regard. If they did, its called me-too or r*pe. And you very well know what would be the consequences for men who pursues that.

    • @karthik197
      @karthik197 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@asht7899 go to any matrimonial sites and give me the evidence of your claim. Literally every single financially successful women are struggling to get married because they can't find a man who isn't well established better than them. And there is not a single place for men who are financially stable in marriage market.
      I fully agree with you on dowry part. last thing a man should depend on is the women's money or her father's money.

  • @PI650
    @PI650 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    India is a paradox. If marraige is so sacrosanct then why isnt divorce illegal? Why choose only one part of a puzzle and leave the other one out?
    We are hypocrites ourselves and blame others for hypocrisy day and night.

    • @sidhartharaj9852
      @sidhartharaj9852 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prenuptial is illegal because it negate the idea of marriage, Marriage is pure and sacred but that doesn't mean every marriage is good if husband is abusive then court gives you the option of getting divorce.

    • @sayaboss586
      @sayaboss586 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@sidhartharaj9852 And what if wife is abusive and divorces him and leave him after taking half his asset.

    • @tnjs2023
      @tnjs2023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Getting divorce is not easy ..even after that u hv to spend 3-6 months together n then come back to court to tell if u still want divorce. So Indian civil law really wants ppl to not divorce unless it's truly necessary.

    • @sidhartharaj9852
      @sidhartharaj9852 ปีที่แล้ว

      @T N I am saying you can get divorce.

    • @cherrylle
      @cherrylle ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Saya Boss If Wife is abusive he can file for domestic abuse, and there is no law in India which states women can take half of man's property. Women only get alimony and child support, no property.

  • @Eren-da-Jaeger
    @Eren-da-Jaeger ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Prenup should be made legal. Now the divorce rate is getting high and too much westernization is spoiling women in India.

    • @kookie7563
      @kookie7563 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As if men are born pure. 🙄

    • @Eren-da-Jaeger
      @Eren-da-Jaeger ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kookie7563 no they are not. But it will be good for both sides. Men even not pure were still providers and women's purity or her bond with husband was a thing of high value in traditional Indian families.
      Now its time of equality so why no prenup if most people are still marrying after looking at photo and based on family opinion.

    • @gaurav8267
      @gaurav8267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Eren-da-Jaegerbetter to marry a traditional village girl .

  • @nochill5996
    @nochill5996 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    the makeup on this lady scares me. Someone must tell her the truth, please 😭😭

  • @kaizexx
    @kaizexx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think prenup should be legal in India because of laws supporting vastly woman over divorced cases with money, assets and childrens on their side which mostly haven't earned by them is so unfair for man

  • @mohitdhanwani6431
    @mohitdhanwani6431 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    We're a Pro-Marriage country not a Pro-Divorce country but we reward women for initiating Divorce.

    • @zetaforever4953
      @zetaforever4953 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How is that?

    • @mohitdhanwani6431
      @mohitdhanwani6431 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@zetaforever4953 No matter who is at fault women get "Half the assets + Alimony + child support + custody of children + support/sympathy of society"
      They're also entitled to half the assets of both father and husband, while men are not entitled to wife's assets and have to pay alimony no matter what even if he is jobless or she earns more than him. Laws in India are also highly skewed towards women all they need to do is accuse the man and now he needs to prove that he isn't guilty not the other way around which is the opposite of "innocent until proven guilty". Even when proven women intentionally tried to sabotage the man & his family through false charges they get a slap on the wrist and walk free with a fine of Rs1,000-10,000 (which is hardly imposed) for wasting 20+yrs of his life in court and ruining his life.

    • @ranjitdhinsa8603
      @ranjitdhinsa8603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mohitdhanwani6431 they are the same laws everywhere also nothing wrong with that.

    • @zetaforever4953
      @zetaforever4953 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@mohitdhanwani6431 they don't get half the assets, wtf?? There's no equal distribution of assets under Indian law, mostly because in India assets are usually held jointly by families. The wife will simply get an alimony IF she either doesn't have an income or has a SIGNIFICANTLY lower income than the husband. The husband will also get an alimony if he is physically incapable of earning a living due to illness or injury. The wife doesn't have to be physically incapable to get alimony, that's the only difference. The easiest way to bypass alimony is to marry a woman who earns either as much as you or more than you. As for social sympathy, that's utter bullshit. Divorced women are looked down upon as much as, if not more, than divorced men. The only exception is if the husband was provably a gambler or alcoholic, in which case the woman will get some sympathy.

    • @zetaforever4953
      @zetaforever4953 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@ranjitdhinsa8603 not the same laws at all. There's no concept of equal division of property in Indian divorces. These people just watch American videos and think America is the world.

  • @ayesharizwan195
    @ayesharizwan195 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In west only prenup might be a big issue for mostly men but in India the dowry very much pays for everything plus the work the woman puts into the guys family sheesh!

  • @pratham_751
    @pratham_751 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Prenup is not legal in India because marriage is sacrosanct, but divorce is legal.👌

    • @Eren-da-Jaeger
      @Eren-da-Jaeger ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So nice right?

    • @cherrylle
      @cherrylle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why shouldn't divorce be legal lol

  • @nitinshettigar223
    @nitinshettigar223 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Instead of working out on issues like dowry, marriage alimony etc all youngsters and society is running after new slangs Or new topic which they find exciting which I think will make marriage and relationships more options to tear apart..

    • @duskygirl334
      @duskygirl334 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah beacuse running away is good insted of working,and also western countries are great what they do ,their problem solution tricks are awsome se we should follow them it's good,what logical stuff our ansestor said is useless beacuse this white skinned people form other land didn't approved it.

    • @tuturu9514
      @tuturu9514 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      they'll talk om issues they want to you have no right to tell them otherwise

  • @honestopinion1883
    @honestopinion1883 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The supreme court ruled that adultery in marriage by women is not a basis of divorce, like it's such sacrosanct that both the paries can have sex with anyone out of their marriage and in eyes of Supreme court it's "My body, my rule".
    Supreme court bench passing such orders - "Kaun hain ye log kahan se aate hain."

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh ปีที่แล้ว

      If you do a research, then you will find Supreme court judges were brought up from families doing high level Prostitution. Justice chandrachud mother used to sleep around ministers and top bureaucrats. The legacy was started by Britishers, and it is still carried. Unless we don't reform and select the judges based on their character, this country will be fucked very soon. Stable family is the core factor for the stable country

    • @theredstar6493
      @theredstar6493 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't know what else will this "HONOURABLE" CJI would do in the upcoming time, better embrace yourself to experience things western men are dealing with

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have link to the judgment?

    • @sinxpride6910
      @sinxpride6910 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theredstar6493 bro those guys so fcuked
      Like seriously man i saw the laws they have if it's a divorce bro you're dead 😂😂😂

    • @theredstar6493
      @theredstar6493 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sinxpride6910 it's same here, actually much worse because the law there only screws the guy but here it'll land you and your whole family in jail for years without proof

  • @nainamahtani2860
    @nainamahtani2860 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    prenuptial must be made legal

    • @pranav9851
      @pranav9851 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And which girl will sign it? 😂

    • @akashde7964
      @akashde7964 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@pranav9851 most boys will sign but not even a single girl will sign in india.

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ​@@pranav9851 the girl which are genuinely interested in you and not your money.

    • @adititripathi01
      @adititripathi01 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not guys in the comment section acting like women get married to someone just for their money and the assets they possess and then divorce them to take it
      Like hello- divorce is still a very looked down thing in this country and no one stoops that low
      Stop living in the west

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@adititripathi01 just see current trends of divorce in India, you will know the truth.

  • @marketcrorepati5729
    @marketcrorepati5729 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    *sacrosant=secret , कितने तेजस्वी लोग है , हमारे देश में*

  • @opaul6905
    @opaul6905 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If prenup is made legal on paper, then dowry should also be made legal on paper. Let the parties sign how much they acquire in the name of gifts and etc.

    • @jaadu007
      @jaadu007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Invalid argument since dowry is illegal and banned
      However this does give an idea to enforce a law where the prenup can be legally enforcible if dowry/wedding gifts are accounted as well and if no dowry is involved the prenup should be signed nonetheless
      This definitely solves issues for both parties

  • @jobin118
    @jobin118 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ok boys we r screwed

  • @PB-jm1im
    @PB-jm1im ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alimony isn’t that big an issue In India because not a very high amount or the exact half of the property is divided. I have never heard of a case where the wife got any property from her husband and anyway usually most of the immovable property is in the name of boy’s parents so that property doesn’t count as his to divide. and if there are or there is anything significant property the guy has it immediately transferred to some other members the family to avoid any claims on it on the advice of their lawyer.
    Note : An Aunt of mine had to get separated from her husband because of his abusive behaviour the guy has a govt job earning way over 100k a month, he pays 10k a month as maintenance to her and to their two children. let alone his property getting a share in their Ancestral property is proving to be tough for them because there are thousands of loopholes to exploit.
    So yeah this western influence that women snatch away half of your property and stuff is a joke, actually on ground level women don’t get much. No one can survive on 10k with two kids to look after, and the guy got married again even though he can’t if we go by the law so there are thousand ways to go around laws. What did he loose? But that woman had to sacrifice her whole life for the children and had to overcome so many things. Most of these cases where children are involved this way only where woman has no choice.

    • @souravsenapaty4738
      @souravsenapaty4738 ปีที่แล้ว

      if we are going to present anecdotal evidence, we'll prove nothing.

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      W man ❤❤❤ for having to give 10k nd hving multiple wives

    • @user-ez2rr9ix1c
      @user-ez2rr9ix1c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are quoting one sided story you can find hundreds of high court ruling on TH-cam as well in which even when women is earning well she have government job and man is jobless count force him to pay alimony to women, if man is unable to pay alimony then court will sell his property to get alimony amount you can find many same cases easily, also as you mentioned that property is not considered if the property is named after parents 😂 then again in 2022 Delhi highcourt says even if husband mother have property then men should need to split the property with her wife these all cases are available in youtube you can find complete judgment and live recording of high court orders

  • @commercians8207
    @commercians8207 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Knowledge: Illegal is in fact against the law

    • @ShivangiKrishna
      @ShivangiKrishna ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Illegal = against law.
      But “Not Legal” isn’t necessarily against law.
      Like Self Marriage is not Legal, But it’s not against any law.

    • @commercians8207
      @commercians8207 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShivangiKrishna That was sarcasm
      Not a question

  • @aneetsingh1594
    @aneetsingh1594 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Women like her would never allow to make those rules that help women. Men need to raise their voice now

    • @shiveringsilence
      @shiveringsilence ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She's doesn't make laws..the law existed even before her

    • @achakraborty3013
      @achakraborty3013 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She did not make the law, what are u blaming her for 🤣

    • @thelyricslover5147
      @thelyricslover5147 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You smoking some good weed bro pass to me too

    • @meghanarora4136
      @meghanarora4136 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nashe kam kia kro

    • @adititripathi01
      @adititripathi01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tf are you on?

  • @NoobThisSide.
    @NoobThisSide. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those who don't know what is prenup is an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.

  • @rey2801
    @rey2801 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I know i will receive a lot of hate for this....i find prenup actually partially correct way to save asset..
    But then add all the other aspect as where the couple will stay...what role parent will have (both side) in marriage...
    How many kids...division of finance...and responsibilities...
    Just make everything clear in written agreement...i am sure a women of value will sign prenut in heartbeat 🙌

    • @nanditasingh5609
      @nanditasingh5609 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      totally agree with you also you can't force anyone to leave their job

    • @rey2801
      @rey2801 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nanditasingh5609 yoo🙌

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most Indians get married with their parent's money
      They are not financially independent but still discuss stuff like prenup & shit
      Like nibba what is your net worth? -20 lakh? You got bigger things to worry about than what your supposed divorced ex-wife would get! 😂😂

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nanditasingh5609 nobody is forcing any to leave job. But these things should be decided yes ... So that I can leave the woman as soon as she becomes sterile at 35-40 . Have no time to waste with old out of market women 😂

    • @nanditasingh5609
      @nanditasingh5609 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JohnDoe-kj2cs Do you think you'll ne young forever?

  • @sharvareeraje2814
    @sharvareeraje2814 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Prenuptial settlement in India is considered to be legally invalid, as here, marriages are not contractual in nature. Unlike countries like Canada and France, India does not have a special status in prenup contracts. Nonetheless, it could be considered governed as under Indian Contract Act of 1872 (ICA).

  • @Djinsoul
    @Djinsoul ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We are not pro divorce but we still let divorces happen right? So someone can earn everything and get married and one day the spouse decides to get divorced, they are allowed to take half of your stuff. Like why?

    • @jayatisinha461
      @jayatisinha461 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What makes you think that half of your stuff will be taken away?? Do you even know that only 20-25% alimony in India is given to women after divorce? And the property which is bought under the name of both are divided only, not the ones individually bought. I don’t understand why men don’t make divorce a big issue when a woman is abused, but make it one when the man has to pay alimony that too about 20-25%.

    • @Djinsoul
      @Djinsoul ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jayatisinha461 @Jayati Sinha let's not include men and women like ur doing. Speak generally. so you agree to the fact that a spouse paying 25% of their income to their ex spouse is fine? If you think that way, what more can one say. The fact that the one who's doing better has to give the other. Why? The point of alimony is give the non bread winning ex spouse the same standard of living they had during being married. Don't deviate from the topic and bring abuse etc here.. so technically the spouse doesn't want to be in the marriage anymore but will take alimony to get the same standard of living and enjoying life. It should be simple. if you don't want to be in a marriage, move on, and don't ride on the alimony pony. Neither for men or women.

    • @jayatisinha461
      @jayatisinha461 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Djinsoul alimony is not given randomly to men or women, it’s given if it’s genuinely needed by the person. Maybe they aren’t happy in the marriage because of xyz reasons, should they stop living then?? Alimony is given only in case the ex spouse needs it. And not every divorce case end up with alimony. This is a fact. It’s not like one day one person will wake up and say no I don’t want to be in this marriage, there are situations. So yes it’s important that alimony is an option in front of the court.

    • @jayatisinha461
      @jayatisinha461 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Djinsoul also idk how is the standard of living same if the person is getting 25% of what they used to get earlier

    • @Djinsoul
      @Djinsoul ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jayatisinha461 that geniune need is created by false representation by many and you know that just to get money for free. Also, look at statistics of who initiated divorce and also read about how the law is gender biased when it comes to alimony. Look, you have an opinion just like I do about this and we don't agree. Let's leave it to this.

  • @NeerajYadav-yl2kl
    @NeerajYadav-yl2kl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Prenup to hum karne nahi denge but alimony dene ke liye ready Rehna, wah re mera judiciary system 😂

  • @Dreycoo
    @Dreycoo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It is actually
    Under Special Marriage Act
    You can get a pre-nup

    • @srijanchowdhuri
      @srijanchowdhuri ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. I was looking for this comment.

    • @Al_Nar_
      @Al_Nar_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bro you are an angel 🙌

    • @Al_Nar_
      @Al_Nar_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@srijanchowdhuri Goa civil code also recognises prenups as legally valid. So getting married in Goa is also an option.

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Al_Nar_ Hindu marriage code doesn't?

  • @rajantiwari2665
    @rajantiwari2665 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Prenup
    an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail.

  • @asht7899
    @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People here are complaining about alimony when dowry is still an issue. First eliminate dowry, then go for alimony. Jeez!!

    • @souravsenapaty4738
      @souravsenapaty4738 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Okay, but at least acknowledge that our current alimony laws are wrong then. Also, dowry is illegal. Alimony is enforced by law. Not the same thing

    • @ncd2164
      @ncd2164 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dowry is literally illegal tf?

  • @rdxpanwar2112
    @rdxpanwar2112 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marriage is a godly matter in hindu religion, it's not like buisness deal like in other cultures.
    That's why it is sacred 🙂

    • @subhashreesahu9816
      @subhashreesahu9816 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah well people involved aren't godly nature. How do you explain the dowry, the torture, the illogical demands and sacrifice expected from a woman? Marriage is definitely sacred, but people don't honestly value it. It's not an autocratic relationship. Hence the safe guarding is essential

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      India isn't run by Hindu traditions but by secular constitution

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@senor2930 Aa gaya angrezo ke aulad.

    • @alexryan43244
      @alexryan43244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's are some instances of divorce in Indian religions Ganga left her husband in Mahabharata Buddha also done same thing May be not permanently

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alexryan43244 Modiji too 😂😂

  • @Lwoods1717
    @Lwoods1717 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    She meant sacrament. A Hindu marriage in India is a sacrament.
    - source: I'm a law student

    • @Vizorfam
      @Vizorfam ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So when such situations happen when a marriage fails how can person come out of that or face the aftermath?

    • @Lwoods1717
      @Lwoods1717 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Vizorfam there are several options available to the couple. They might opt for separation. Divorce is a little harder because the main aim of family courts is not to grant divorces left and right but to ensure that the family stays together. There are many grounds for divorce and some of them such as "cruelty" are quite vague.
      The provisions on maintenance in Hindu Law are gender neutral. This means that husbands may also apply for maintenance from their wives. The court will decide the amount based on the lifestyle you enjoyed while you were married as well as the earning capacity of the spouse.

    • @Vizorfam
      @Vizorfam ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lwoods1717 thanks for replying , and when the case of accusations happen then how does court decide who is right or what will be the amount of compensation ?

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@Lwoods1717 bro definitely male can apply it , but tell me how much percentage of male gets anything from her wife.
      Girls put multiple types of cases to extract more and more money ( example - domestic violence) .

    • @abhishekroy3409
      @abhishekroy3409 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same...
      ps: Law student as well.

  • @tejeshrimahajan3954
    @tejeshrimahajan3954 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Unfortunately I didn't knew that Pre nup is illegal in India. One of the many ways to make partners stay in a relationship without a proper exit plan🙄

    • @pravinwalodra2336
      @pravinwalodra2336 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      it should be legal because most women see divorce as a one way exit for all the responsibilities and half of mens money and everything

    • @ananyamajumder4235
      @ananyamajumder4235 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@pravinwalodra2336 its not that simple also umm yeah some men do deserve that.

    • @pravinwalodra2336
      @pravinwalodra2336 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ananyamajumder4235 who tf are you to decide what men deserve or not ?

    • @ananyamajumder4235
      @ananyamajumder4235 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@pravinwalodra2336 Well exactly the way u decide what every single woman does after divorce. And u know what unlike u, I atleast use the word "some" instead of generalizing.

    • @fenrir834
      @fenrir834 ปีที่แล้ว

      wait till you hear about palimony

  • @adityachaudhary554
    @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    India should evolve and made prenup legal.

    • @dia01
      @dia01 ปีที่แล้ว

      India will evolve when society abolishes dowry.

    • @adityachaudhary554
      @adityachaudhary554 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dia01 atleast there is law against dowry, but there is no law which enforces prenup.

    • @bulb6222
      @bulb6222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      America should evolve and stop fucking like animals and raising mentally sick kids.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No I disagree. Alimony in India is different to alimony in western countries. Be grateful for that. And in India, after marriage most of the wives are forced to leave their jobs because of managing a family after kids and a lot of men also force their wives to quit jobs. In this case, when the marriage doesn't work for whatever reason, the woman cannot kick start her career when he himself forced her to quit. It's not fair to expect that from her. Especially when jobs are not easy to get these days. And most of the alimony in India is always given to the children's upbringing.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@adityachaudhary554 also this will just encourage men to break marriages if they don't want because they can always marry again. It's not the case for women. No one in India wants to marry a woman who's a divorcee and if she's middle aged and if she has kids. Men no matter what their age can still get married. So the loss is only on the woman's side no matter what. Don't think this from your perspective. Think if you had a daughter, one day she can go through the same thing.

  • @ritu1461
    @ritu1461 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dude, there is no law regarding equal distribution of assets in India among spouses. You get child support if the mother gets primary caregiver status. You could only get assets which you brought yourself, and claim for it. Prenups to tb honge na if there's a major divison of assets.. Jo abi to India m common nhi h so abi there is no law as such

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Plus women with low character have divorces.

    • @ritu1461
      @ritu1461 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Viddrohh or a person with no character or brain, say stupid things on internet...

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ritu1461 like indian women who follow feminism.

    • @ritu1461
      @ritu1461 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Viddrohh no like you..

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ritu1461 but I'm not dirty hairy ugly manly indian women who survives on 5 times more reservation and schemes than handicapped citizens and try to shamelessly ask for more benefits.

  • @harveyspecter1855
    @harveyspecter1855 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *This is kinda good. In a country where women aren't treated equally and dowry is still asked for, banning prenuptial agreement is the way to go. But in the future, when women are treated equally and dowry is not asked, changing the law is the norm.*

  • @MsJois95
    @MsJois95 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    India is the land of knowledge, so you literally question everything even the existence of God and you are allowed to debate about it because it encourages the inquisitiveness of the mind. That is the freedom that the religion in India gives you , but when the same is done in other religions you're termed as blasphemist and receive heinous punishments including death. All in all the religions in India don't force you to follow books and rituals unlike other religions. And Sacrosanct means that it is too sacred for an external intervention, not required. Exceptional scenarios are different because exceptions can't be a generalized example.

  • @Dev-qs2yb
    @Dev-qs2yb ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Boys, don't f'ing get married!

    • @viktorvaughn1079
      @viktorvaughn1079 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes boys should not, men should

    • @avantikasachdeva2061
      @avantikasachdeva2061 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only men that are usually worried about loosing money are either not rich or they don’t have a brain to sustain that money.

  • @AlphaCentauri24
    @AlphaCentauri24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did this guy reach this age without knowing pre-nup is illegal in India? Maybe someone should introduce him to this thing called Google.

  • @arifahmustafa2768
    @arifahmustafa2768 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So how does that help women get away from abusive marriages. They have to leave penniless with their children

  • @hrithiksingh5942
    @hrithiksingh5942 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Prenups are definitely not illegal, its rather a contract which only has persuasive value in court of law while deciding on the terms of divorce.

    • @sahilbatar229
      @sahilbatar229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read section 26 of the Indian Contract Act
      Agreements in restraint of marriage are void
      Marriage being Sacrosanct is the jurisprudence behind this provision of law

  • @wannabe_ina_soldier
    @wannabe_ina_soldier ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A pro marriage country but no laws to punish adultery....wow so pro marriage....some laws of this country make me question the I intellect of judiciary

  • @vaibhavumbarkar3712
    @vaibhavumbarkar3712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you comedy me😂😂

  • @lakshyatripathi8624
    @lakshyatripathi8624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes....
    Yeah I just don't have any words.

  • @laltubbsr
    @laltubbsr ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The fact is everyone in India signs their prenup the day they register their marriage. The only difference being from an American style prenup is that the prenuptial conditions are set by the acts of the governing body(marriage acts in constitution)/religious head (papal bull) of the religious specific marriage acts

  • @pragyasingh3291
    @pragyasingh3291 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hope India remains the way it is and I hope youngsters understand it's richness and culture and maintain them. We are blessed to have such culture.

    • @infinow
      @infinow ปีที่แล้ว +14

      As per our culture pati is parmeshwar. Hope all Indian wives touch their husbands feet every morning and follow his all commands.

    • @Zeus-mf2sm
      @Zeus-mf2sm ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@infinow lol, now she will bring her feminism after reading your comment 🤣

    • @elixir662
      @elixir662 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@infinow you seriously believe that? If you get married what supremacy do you have over your wife?

    • @infinow
      @infinow ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@elixir662 i didn't talk about supremacy, only great Indian culture. Sri Rama is my ideal.

    • @Aryavarta225
      @Aryavarta225 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@infinowlol 😂😂😂

  • @vignesh540
    @vignesh540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If marriage so sacred then why is the supreme court allowing it to be dissolved in first place?
    If divorce is allowed the prenups should also be allowed, but of course we are in India no laws makes any logical sense here

  • @chindipodcast
    @chindipodcast ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BE THE NEXT GEN OF PASSPORT BOYS

  • @abhachoudhary2526
    @abhachoudhary2526 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We r a stupid country when it come to law...for real

  • @farazkhan107
    @farazkhan107 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why is it illegal? Or is it not legally binding? There is a difference between the two.

  • @vishalpradhan6851
    @vishalpradhan6851 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Marriage is religious and divorce is bussiness, supremecourt judges are simp

  • @chinmay9932
    @chinmay9932 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can always sign up for declarations before marriage which would help about more than 60-70% in the case of disputes.

  • @gaurangpant6196
    @gaurangpant6196 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Prenup is not legal in India"..." Infact it's against the law"

  • @sanu1231000
    @sanu1231000 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fun, ONS, GF - Instagram wali
    Wife - Tier 2, Tier 3 City. Or even villages.
    Money and Assets - In a shell company, routed via multiple tax haven countries. Make your wife the nominee without letting her know. And keep yourself as an employee of your company. Legally, your finances should look like a salary earner rather than asset owner.
    Indian legal system is super-against you. Stay sharp boiz! 💪

  • @minmeantea3067
    @minmeantea3067 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have no money to worry about 🤣

  • @silversurfer3141
    @silversurfer3141 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mata kya keh Rahi ho, special marriage act hai na. Uske through Karo, prenup valid hai.

  • @Abhishek-bg5xd
    @Abhishek-bg5xd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A prenup is an absolute necessity in today’s day and age, especially for men.

  • @ishaneditpro8831
    @ishaneditpro8831 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Stop giving women incentive for divorce. Remove the rubbish dowry law. Or make it punishable by jail term if wrongly used.

    • @countlitmogaphil392
      @countlitmogaphil392 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait you mean, you want dowry?

    • @RailTV01
      @RailTV01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah we need sati too ✊

    • @countlitmogaphil392
      @countlitmogaphil392 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RailTV01 wtf, I hope this is sarcasm

    • @RailTV01
      @RailTV01 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@countlitmogaphil392 Sati is the ancient scientific practice, our ancestors were not fools, data shows sati can curb the carbon footprint of the world by x2 for mortality rate.

  • @Frinxmodi
    @Frinxmodi ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sometimes I feel we (including me) get too carried away by Western culture and there isn't much knowledge about our own laws in India!

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a big problem with overly westernised Indian youth.

  • @manthanpatel4705
    @manthanpatel4705 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kindly also give your take on misuse of genderbiased laws after marriage to extort alimony

  • @shakira.rahman8786
    @shakira.rahman8786 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very vital info......good job 👍

  • @rohanshah9347
    @rohanshah9347 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Today I learnt, I won't marry 😭

    • @user-cl8me5fm9f
      @user-cl8me5fm9f ปีที่แล้ว

      dumb

    • @apurbaghosh5046
      @apurbaghosh5046 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Abey 2 din tu bhul jayega, 2 saal me kisi ladki ke sath pyar kar baithega, 2 decade me pastayaga aur phir wapis ayega 😂

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you.

    • @Yomamaa342
      @Yomamaa342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@apurbaghosh5046 true

    • @wennwenn1422
      @wennwenn1422 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aacha mega crorepati huh? Abey tera Rs. 5 bank balance ka kuch nahi hoga 😂

  • @parshuram8031
    @parshuram8031 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We are a very pro marriage country.
    Yet we give women all the tools and incentives to unquestionably break it up whenever she likes and also jail her in laws without any evidence.

    • @stephanarul142
      @stephanarul142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro you for real?

    • @CreativitySimplicity
      @CreativitySimplicity ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a woman but I don't support these kind of laws because they are being misused and they are not really helping women who really need it. Women getting this kind of advantage is totally against the very definition of feminism.

    • @sarthakbhardwaj3333
      @sarthakbhardwaj3333 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abbe isiliye toh prenup chahiye

  • @FinePilot
    @FinePilot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    50% of people stuck in toxic marriage because of societal pressure of considering marriages as religion is so sad.

  • @abhi48787
    @abhi48787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In USA , everyone goes with prenup

  • @samshM
    @samshM ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Prenup is a very American concept which showed up in the social media these recent years and shown in media as the idea of "contract marriage" especially in soap operas or dramas. So thanks for this lady to clear it up that Prenup is not legal in India. Although it's a safety net in lot of cases but the fact that marriage is considered sacrosanct in India based on our culture is also a safety net considering divorce mostly affects women. Also a large population in India is still uneducated and ignorant on legal aspects of a marriage so Prenup can be a dangerous tool.

    • @vanuCanCode
      @vanuCanCode ปีที่แล้ว

      Prenup is dangerous to woman🤡
      What abt alimony?
      Marriage is sacrosanct why tf supreme court allows alimony. 🗿
      Prenup can be a dangerous tool. 🤡
      What abt all those laws which are being used to harass and target men. 🗿
      .
      Women☕

    • @osho531
      @osho531 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sacrosanct hai to divorce illegal hona chahiye na....dono partner k lie safety net ho jyega....aur agr divorce illegal nhi kr skte to alimony wgereh hta taki males k lie bhi kuch to safety net aa Jaye duniya me....ktyi unsafe krdi hai duniya hmare lie ab to

    • @senor2930
      @senor2930 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% true

  • @chrislawrence7994
    @chrislawrence7994 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lmao he's the dude who's completely against marriage. This is his origin story

  • @shreyas-mq4yd
    @shreyas-mq4yd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Prenup is also pro marriage. 😂
    It safeguards both men and women who work.

  • @basantitanga3631
    @basantitanga3631 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, she just looked just I imagined she would look. Her blue eyeliner tells a lot about her.🙏

    • @RiyaAdvani7
      @RiyaAdvani7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Makeup decides what u are now? Next time I have to change my personality, I'll just change the color of makeup lmao 🤣

    • @basantitanga3631
      @basantitanga3631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RiyaAdvani7 No... Your taste in life influence your decision, thus the makeup you put on tells about your taste. And temporarily you can change your makeup style..... That is called 'disguise' .🙏