honestly this i also one of those scenarios where it's not like we know the full backstory of either person to step in. like there's right and wrong, but this is just, well, an opinionated scene.
I'd not take part but I'd listen for juicy details or something. xD Though tbh, I don't know anything about legal actions and don't wanna be married - much less in a relationship past friends - so I'd just be waiting for ~drama~.
@@paulcolburn3855 While you are planning the wedding, when you ask her to marry you. That's not the first date. You would communicate about it before you even think about marrying someone.
Prenups should both mandatory and legally assumed in the event a formal one is not drafted. There is no right or wrong time to bring one up. Protect yourself at all times.
Prenups can be very useful, but that's definitely a 'we're thinking about getting engaged' conversation, not a 'we're literally about to walk down the aisle' conversation.
Exactly! There would absolutely NOT be a wedding or anything further if he had approached me that way, especially at the last minute and in a public place.
Theyre definitely useful, they bring americans the amount of protection, that in Europe is available without a prenup. With a prenup i almost all European countries, only know about the union, it is definitve without any ifs or court
A lot of people don't even consider things like this because they get swept up in the romantic nature of being engaged and living their fairy tale. The reality of the wedding isn't always apparent until just before. A prenup is only a red flag if someone refuses to sign it IMO. Some people are also the "weaker" or less assertive person in the relationship and it takes a lot of time and courage to confront their partner with something uncomfortable.
I think WWYD has done this scenario wrong. Next time show a loving fiance (man) and not a rude red flag man pressuring his fiance to sign a prenup. Come to it from a loving tone and see if the reactions are different. Also would be interesting to see the woman asking the man to sign a prenup.
I think they did a great job with this one, honestly. I think they started out with a fairly neutral character for the man. Yes, they escalated it, but I don’t think they started him off as a huge red flag from the get go. It might be interesting to see reactions if you swapped the roles but I doubt there would be as much interaction in that scenario.
im an asian guy.....nobody cares to get involved or married to me, fine! I will become mega $$$$$$$ so when I get there, dont go fishing for my heart cuz I wont bother or care!
Exactly. I only have my horse and my cat, but blood would be spilt if some man decides to be spiteful and take them from me during divorce. So a prenup would protect my animals and whatever shit he has 😂
Yes, but not sprung up on someone a week before the wedding with no warning, no discussion, no negotiation, no opportunity to even read it and have their own lawyers look over it, etc. A prenup is a legally binding contract, both parties need to be involved in its creation.
@@Kat-mu8wq men have something more important money, luckily a prenup stops women from taking half of it when theyve never earned a cent themselves in their life
I wouldn't take offence to a prenup. I think it's just security if the worst things happen, like insurance on your house or assests. You never want anything bad to happen, you don't expect it to but it's best to covered just incase.
I agree. It's a conversation that a couple should have while they are still in love rather than at the point at which they are having the greatest stress. But the idea of the guy springing it last minute as an ultimatum is problematic, to say the least.
If you have to have a prenup to get married, then you shouldn't get married. That means there is no trust between the two people. I never have and never will sign a prenup.
@andrewvelonis5940 I agree there. It's something you discuss before getting engaged or just after. Not a week before like these actors did in the scenario
This late in the game leaves no room for discussion or negotiation without risking delaying the wedding. It gives him the power. Nothing wrong with a prenup, everything wrong with approach.
@@pinda0020I’d probably call off the wedding if someone sprung that on me the week before it’s supposed to happen so I can have more time to think about it
How about NOT bringing this up at a bar, the week of the wedding, rudely in front of everyone? In this scenario, it's not the prenup that's the problem.
There are so many things wrong in this situation. 1. You don't just ambush anyone the week of the wedding. That's just wrong. 2. You don't just AMBUSH someone and literally force them to sign a prenup the week of the wedding. That's just wrong. 3. The last scene is too forceful.... everyone will side with the woman. 4. Should also do it both ways. A woman asking the man to sign a prenup.
100 percent agree with you . I’m struggling with this new season because a lot of the scenes are forced to side with one party and not evening the playing field in order to allow people to have a real opinion
As romantic as getting married sounds, most marriages end in divorce and if you are not prepared to talk about a prenuptial agreement then you’re likely not ready to get married. Getting a prenuptial agreement saves you a lot of headache for what will more than likely end up being an issue down the road. Of all the weddings I’ve been to in the near 38 years I’ve been alive I can count four or five couples that are still together and even then they’re not from western cultures. I always offer men I get involved with a prenuptial agreement so that they know I am not after any of their assets.
@@mattsnyderARTISTa prenup can cost up to $2,500-10k to file. A good measure of if you need one is if you can pay outright for the wedding and paperwork for a prenup or not
WWYD has pretty much covered everything, and done it brilliantly, but this one is stretching its point as no-one would talk about a pre-nup in a public place. Lawyers would be involved, and it would be private. Kinda silly.
I totally agree! this is not realistic, nobody would discuss such a private matter at a bar, and most strangers would not get involved since is none of their business
Wealthy women in Australia automatically do prenuptial agreements and it’s no big deal but when a man does it the women object I think that tells you how it is sadly
@matt08sydney the issue here isn't that it's a man. It's that it's a week before the wedding and they've never even discussed it before. Also, the rush to sign without a chance to read and have their own counsel look over it, because it has to be notarized "later this afternoon" is a huge red flag. No one, man or woman, should sign any contract without thoroughly reviewing it. Prenuptial agreements concern both parties and should involve discussion/negotiation with both parties, and both should have their own legal counsel that is concerned for their best interests.
Can't believe not one person said, 'don't sign without consulting a lawyer. Tell him you need some time and sign only after fully understanding the context of the pre-nup conditions'.
Feeling the need to ask to sign a prenup just showed no trust at all before and after marriage!! Na!! No marriage for me, if I was ever ask to sign such hog wash, Bye Bye my Love I would say!¡!
Prenups are actually valid since it makes it fair for BOTH sides in case of a breakup. They portrayed the man however as a bit problematic how he acted and even left the scene instead of properly talking about it.
If done properly yes, a prenuptial agreement is fair. This wasn't done properly. Even before he walked out. To be fair both sides need to have their input in its creation, that involves both parties being present for negotiations, and each with their own legal counsel. The bride to be in this senerio didn't even know the prenuptial existed till being told to sign it, so her input was clearly not considered. Then he was pushing to sign it to be notarized that same day, which means unless she is someone with a lawyer on retainer (very unlikely for most of the population) she won't have time for her own legal representative to look it over and make sure it's OK. Then, you have him trying to get her to sign, before she even had a chance to read it. If it's so fair for both, why push for a signature without then having read it? No one should sign anything they haven't read. This conversation should have happened in private at the beginning of the engagement, followed by negotiations in a legal setting with their prospective attorneys present to create the prenup together. Not, here's a fully written contract you need to sign, today right now, in a public diner, one week before the wedding, with zero discussion or even warning.
@@darleneholt2736 Thats a long text for agreeing with me. I legit said the way he acted here and left the scene was problematic. You shouldnt just gice your partner a contract yes, discussing it together, creating it together with 2 different lawyers present (1 for each side) should be key.
last part when he starts to get verbally "frustrated" and tells her "the wedding's off"........Why call mom? shows how his REAL feelings and heart is, if he was understanding and kind, he would not get all cranky and verbal...........You marry cuz you fall in love, not marry cuz society will make you feel too OLD..... For me, after a divorced friend told me of his experience with a gold digging ex, he told me "ok....be stupid, fall in love with the wrong gal and then regret it later.
Why when asked to sign a prenup do they act like they have 1 week to live? It is a perfectly smart and normal thing to do. It does not mean you do not have faith the marriage will last. It just protects each sides assets in case the marriage ends. Almost 50% divorce rate in the USA. Common sense.
The person who doesn't want the prenup is the person who plans to divorce you. A woman who has no plans to divorce you treats a prenup just the way you treat your car insurance. You have no plan of getting into a car crash but you take out insurance because it is the logical thing to do.
@@birdie.21. Not true whilst I personally think prenups make sense, I think it's also understandable people would see it as "you don't trust me and think I'm a gold digger" or "you don't think our marriage will last". If anything I think it probably points to the other person being a little too immature for marriage.
@@princessofhell4639 That's the pretext some women use, "you're being so unromantic, you don't trust me..." when they know perfectly well that the person mentioning the prenup is just being cautious just like you would with health insurance.
@@princessofhell4639 Wanting a prenup has nothing to do with maturity and everything to do with protecting what is rightfully yours. In reality anyone who has a problem with it wants to be able to get the others money if the marriage ends. Or else it would not matter at all.
The issue isn't the prenup. It's springing a prenup, one party had no say in negotiating the terms of, last minuet, with zero warning and no time to read nor have their own lawyers read over it before signing.
If a man in US doesn't plan prenup, he's signing a contract which incentivizes the other party for breaking the contract. Until the current laws change, don't go for marriage without a solid prenup and in a state that recognizes such a prenup agreement. The person you marry is NOT the person you divorce.
This is true to a point. I think a prenup is fine if you discuss it WAYYYYY before hand. But i also dont think a prenup is necessary no matter how much money you have. If you expect your wife to give up career opportunities and be stay at home, then consider why she does not want a Pre-nup. Marriage is not treated as sacred anymore. And people dont trust their partners. Of course anyone can be betrayed but these things are not a catch all. Its case by case for me.
@ljeans531 agreed. It's necessary no matter your sex. It should be a collaborative effort with BOTH of your legal representations present if possible. Otherwise, the state will prescribe a contract to you.
No way, I wouldn’t sign a prenup or have anyone sign a prenup. Like the woman said, I’ll marry for love and have no reservations. Love is breaking your own will for your spouse and be completely one! ❤
@@Neto00000-n Yes. I can imagine that would be horrible, so we wait & pray for the right person. Marriage is a covenant. We should remain faithful to that covenant and not have double standards. This is my belief.
@@-_Blitz_- I don’t agree with that. We must work hard in our marriage and not have thoughts about ever giving up. We need to take choosing our spouse very seriously not causally. Prenup is showing a lack of trust in your future spouse and trust is a vital necessity for our marriages. I don’t judge anyone but this is what I believe 😊
Never allow a single women or single mom with child to move into the home you own. Do not get 'engaged' to a women that told you she would not sign a prenup before the marraige.
Judging by the state of things, as a man with asset NOT asking for a prenup is setting yourself up for troubles. That being said the premise is skewed. First of all you can't just ambush someone with a prenup the WEEK after the wedding, you do so BEFORE the proposal. Then you cannot be THIS pushy, it is obvious that people will side with the girl if you basically assault her with the question.
@@Mxox1 I'm not going to take someone calling me boring as constructive criticism. I like what I like, just because you don't, doesn't mean you have to be insulting
@@Corrie-Lee the reason you didn’t like the last two my love is because 1. it didn’t tailor to you (considering ive checked your comments on it) and 2. you’re indeed boring, but yh u like what u like :)
If someone asked me to sign a prenup, I wouldn’t take it as a bad thing because I know I’d be going into that marriage loving them for them, and I’d know my intentions wasn’t based on anything but a lifelong relationship. Im sure some situations are complicated, but for me, I can survive off of very little. I’d never be just about money.
This was one of those rare scenarios on WWYD Where I’m like I probably would not get involved because I just think it’s stupid (important issue yes) but and it’s something that they should discuss behind enclosed doors. 🤷🏾♂️
I had a friend who married a gold digger. He didn’t make a lot of money and she wasn’t that attractive. But he was desperate for love. She had a ton of credit card debit when they started dating and some sob story to go with it. After marriage he helped pay it off. Then she started maxing out their credit cards again and said she wanted a divorce. To keep things cheap and easy they split everything, including her debit. We later found out she did this to first husband as well. So end of the day a pre nup isn’t so bad. However I had a bad feeling about her before the wedding. When my husband and I got married I had a house with a lot of equity. I did have a talk with him about the house. After a few talks I felt he was genuine enough to let me have the equity in the house should we split. It’s been almost 11 years and we’re still happily married.
If I would be marrying a very wealthy man, I would expect a prenup, especially if he is from "old money ", but....I would also consult a lawyer to check it over.
The titles are so misleading and then WWYD change the question for every new people. Most people would agree that a prenup being pushed 1 week before the weeding is wrong and those same people would agree with a prenup they decided on beforehand? So peoples reactions don't matter when you change the whole narrative.
Canadian here. Met and married my husband is less that 1 year. We did not move in together before marriage. Now married 41 + years with all financial matters and assets jointly held. Absolutelty no prenup! Absoltely no infidelity. I would NEVER sign a prenup. If you have no trust or 100% commitment before wedding then cancel wedding. Lack of transparency and secrets kill a marriage. We share email accounts, Facebook accounts and cell phones. We do not GPS track. Our parents have never had a vote in our marriage. We have never lived with either parent. We married at 25 in a church.
It's a legal document that sets forth the distribution of assets and liabilities in the case of divorce or annulment. Imo, it is a good thing to have. Just as a good pilot would breif the crew for what would happen the case of cabin fire, that doesn't mean that the pilot expects the plane to burst into flames during takeoff. Same kind of deal here I think.
My English ain't that good, but it's basically a prenuptial agreement. It's when the to-be married husband and wife agree on the terms and conditions of the marriage and what or how the wealth will be distributed in the case of a divorce. That way, for instance, if the husband is the rich person in this relationship, he won't have to lose half of his wealth or most of his wealth paying the wife in alimony or child support. Mind you alimony is part of the Shariah law, but in Europe they tend to misuse it to discourage marriage
@@abduleve8688 This is set in the US. And Europe has dozens of countries with wildly different laws, so your statement is shoddy. Countries also don't tend to "discourage marriage". If anything, western countries encourage as much as possible anything than can bring birthrates up because we're below replacement level. It's also funny you would talk about Sharia law when it's applied differently in numerous countries as well. In Saudi Arabia for instance, divorce right are unilateral for men without motivation, while women have to legally prove harm to break the contract and still risk losing their own assets (the dowry) if the harm wasn't "severe enough".
@@k.v.7681 I find it also funny that your understanding of Shariah law is comparing it to man made laws that can be bent in accordance to the state or country. Shariah law is not applied differently it is applied according to what the Quran says. Nowhere in the Quran nor Hadith does it say that what you claim to be a factor that determines divorce. If there is however I am waiting for you to state the scripture that says that. Also please don't embarrass yourself by mentioning Saudi Arabia when talking about Islam. Saudi Arabi was founded, and is protected by the Secular British and American empire in order to serve as a harbor and ally for the Western invasion of Muslim nations. It has zero relevance to Islam.
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I get the value of prenups, but so many people simplify the situation and focus on scandalous goldiggers when those cases hardly come up at court. Lawmakers actually worry way more about the fact that so many spouses, mostly female, put in a lot of effort for their kids and sacrifice their careers for them, only to be left with nothing financially. And that isn't fair, because you need someone to manage to home so that provider can earn anything in the first place. You can't say: she chose to be a housewife. It is a job that should be valued, but isn't. I'm a lawyer and I witnessed many cases where the women had to "maintain" their abusive husbands because they were not earning much at all. But these abusive men didn't even do housework or help out with the kids! In that case, a prenup would have been very useful. There's a reason why the law works the way it does, though some sick people, both male and female, take advantage of it.
They framed it in kind of a weird way with the guy being so pushy. In reality it's likely more a case of "Would you consider signing a prenup?" and the woman getting upset & emotionally "blackmailing" the guy to get rid of the prenup by saying stuff like "You don't believe in us" or "You expect our marriage to fail" which would have made for a far better WWYD but then again, since in today's climate "man bad, woman good" they'd never do this.
If this was the lady who came from a wealthy family, and the man didn’t have wealth, but is financially stable, and she wanted him to sign a prenup a week before the wedding, would he sign or would he get mad her and think she’s not trustworthy of him
@@The1baddman In this scenario most men would sign it, seems men take more pride on not relying on a woman's money, but usually the same can't be said the other way around, but makes sense since traditionally men are suppose to offer provision/protection and whatnot but were in different times, so I get it.
"If I'm the one with the money, I would sign a prenup. If HE'S the one with the money, no prenup baby - take care of me." I really hope that that was a joke??? Like that would ever happen in a million years anyway, girlie forgot her grey hairs 💀
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Dean Winchester too me i see the joining of assets and the associated trust as the entire point of a marriage... A prenup is like saying "i dont want too marry you, i just want a pretend marriage" but thats just the way i see it Also probably makes them feel like they might be being cheated on
@@megamushroom a prenup doesn’t mean you don’t share assets during the marriage it just means that in the event of a divorce one person gets to keep some agreed upon things like a house they bought before the marriage, during the marriage that house will still be co owned
@@Dean_W1nchester. oh ok im sorry about the misunderstanding since the video didnt explain it very well... In that case i think most people just dont like the idea that the marriage may not be permanent since thats what marriage is supposed too be... There isnt anything necessarily wrong with it but i can see why it would make somebody feel very insecure or even suspicious that there partner has ulterior motives for making a prenup
“I can’t be a part of that.” Dude I’d do the same thing. Staying out of this one!
i cringe so much when they try to force people to take part in their conversation
honestly this i also one of those scenarios where it's not like we know the full backstory of either person to step in. like there's right and wrong, but this is just, well, an opinionated scene.
Everyone in this scenario: Ight, Imma head out.
@@nameless41414 so true omg
I'd not take part but I'd listen for juicy details or something. xD
Though tbh, I don't know anything about legal actions and don't wanna be married - much less in a relationship past friends - so I'd just be waiting for ~drama~.
IT WAS WORTH THE 3 YEAR WAIT
IKR 😮
U ain't even finish the video
Are these new episodes?
@@memerthegamer3157 "NOOOOO"- Luke Davidson
@@memerthegamer3157yeah they are they held the show off because of covid
There is nothing wrong with a prenup done the correct way. Springing it on someone in public a few days before the wedding is not the right way.
Yes, indeed. The fact that it is so close before the wedding, would lead to judge declaring it invalid anyways.
when do you spring it? the first date?
@@paulcolburn3855 While you are planning the wedding, when you ask her to marry you. That's not the first date. You would communicate about it before you even think about marrying someone.
Prenups should both mandatory and legally assumed in the event a formal one is not drafted. There is no right or wrong time to bring one up. Protect yourself at all times.
@@jackvoss1527 It's an _even better_ way, actually.
Prenups can be very useful, but that's definitely a 'we're thinking about getting engaged' conversation, not a 'we're literally about to walk down the aisle' conversation.
Exactly! There would absolutely NOT be a wedding or anything further if he had approached me that way, especially at the last minute and in a public place.
Theyre definitely useful, they bring americans the amount of protection, that in Europe is available without a prenup. With a prenup i almost all European countries, only know about the union, it is definitve without any ifs or court
A lot of people don't even consider things like this because they get swept up in the romantic nature of being engaged and living their fairy tale. The reality of the wedding isn't always apparent until just before. A prenup is only a red flag if someone refuses to sign it IMO. Some people are also the "weaker" or less assertive person in the relationship and it takes a lot of time and courage to confront their partner with something uncomfortable.
And you don't put pressure on your partner. Your partner should have the time to discuss this with his/her own lawyer!
Agreed.
I think WWYD has done this scenario wrong. Next time show a loving fiance (man) and not a rude red flag man pressuring his fiance to sign a prenup. Come to it from a loving tone and see if the reactions are different. Also would be interesting to see the woman asking the man to sign a prenup.
WWYD handled this scenario perfectly
@@SNOWQueen87-v1g no, not really.
I think they did a great job with this one, honestly. I think they started out with a fairly neutral character for the man. Yes, they escalated it, but I don’t think they started him off as a huge red flag from the get go. It might be interesting to see reactions if you swapped the roles but I doubt there would be as much interaction in that scenario.
I agree. They set up the victim narrative perfectly. Everyone's in on who the good/bad guys are. I wish they could be more nuanced in their set ups.
I’d also like to see the roles reversed
Thank God this channel is making a comeback!!
Thank God for any opportunity to view new footage of John Quiñones. 🤩
Literally been asking myself when they would for years.
This is definitely one of the dumber ones. Why would any stranger get involved in this?
I totally agree!
Ngl, if this happens I’d be the one uncomfortably laughing instead of helping. 😅That’s a discussion behind closed doors, not in public.
That's what I was thinking lll
All the new ones are boring get some new ideas and locations.
And the actors were not good
What would I do? Change seats and mind my own business.
Hi! That's probably what everyone would do in my country.
@nicolas_-_-_ yeah people here in the US are nosey
Me too lol
I’d move closer a take a sip of my drink 🤣
im an asian guy.....nobody cares to get involved or married to me, fine! I will become mega $$$$$$$ so when I get there, dont go fishing for my heart cuz I wont bother or care!
Props to the female actress.. she really got into that role and sold it!
True
Wrong bad acting. Victimizing the women as always
true but the guy was pushing it wayyy too far
Yeah she really looked like a gold digger
@@shortangel333 "looked like a gold digger" Why are you here people like you are the reason this channel exists
I cannot believe that having a pre-nup is still being debated in 2024.
Pre-nup is a must. Always.
Exactly. I only have my horse and my cat, but blood would be spilt if some man decides to be spiteful and take them from me during divorce. So a prenup would protect my animals and whatever shit he has 😂
Yes, but not sprung up on someone a week before the wedding with no warning, no discussion, no negotiation, no opportunity to even read it and have their own lawyers look over it, etc. A prenup is a legally binding contract, both parties need to be involved in its creation.
may I ask why
@@Kat-mu8wq men have something more important money, luckily a prenup stops women from taking half of it when theyve never earned a cent themselves in their life
100% I agree to the last sentence...
" i was joking " LMAO MAN PANICKED 😭😭😭😭
If I heard these actors.... I would mind my own business.
Yeah, this one is a personal thing
I wouldn't take offence to a prenup. I think it's just security if the worst things happen, like insurance on your house or assests. You never want anything bad to happen, you don't expect it to but it's best to covered just incase.
I agree. It's a conversation that a couple should have while they are still in love rather than at the point at which they are having the greatest stress. But the idea of the guy springing it last minute as an ultimatum is problematic, to say the least.
but those things aren't dependent on your own actions. i feel like at that point you're just getting married due to social pressures.
Me too. Responsible partners do this
If you have to have a prenup to get married, then you shouldn't get married. That means there is no trust between the two people. I never have and never will sign a prenup.
@andrewvelonis5940 I agree there. It's something you discuss before getting engaged or just after. Not a week before like these actors did in the scenario
The only problem here is that it was never discussed until the week of the wedding. Pre-nups should always be discussed early on.
This late in the game leaves no room for discussion or negotiation without risking delaying the wedding. It gives him the power. Nothing wrong with a prenup, everything wrong with approach.
why? would you end a relationship over that?
The first date. Lol
@@denisebreeden825 😆
@@pinda0020I’d probably call off the wedding if someone sprung that on me the week before it’s supposed to happen so I can have more time to think about it
How about NOT bringing this up at a bar, the week of the wedding, rudely in front of everyone? In this scenario, it's not the prenup that's the problem.
There are so many things wrong in this situation.
1. You don't just ambush anyone the week of the wedding. That's just wrong.
2. You don't just AMBUSH someone and literally force them to sign a prenup the week of the wedding. That's just wrong.
3. The last scene is too forceful.... everyone will side with the woman.
4. Should also do it both ways. A woman asking the man to sign a prenup.
100 percent agree with you . I’m struggling with this new season because a lot of the scenes are forced to side with one party and not evening the playing field in order to allow people to have a real opinion
I agree
@@MrRaymos23 yas
Completely agree every situation was against men in almost all these new video. Like the onlyfan teacher was crazy😂
People relax, these season has just started. They always do it for both sides.
0:41 "if im the one with the money, i want a prenup. If HES the one with the money, no prenup baby, take care of me"...
what a joke...
Your average 2024 woman
talk about double standard, not surprised
She laughed she's clearly joking
Hypocrisy at its finest!!!
@@jorgemacias4006no need to be misogynistic
I love how she shouted ‘pre nup?’ loud enough for everyone in the restaurant to hear 😂 these are not the best actors. where’s traci?
As romantic as getting married sounds, most marriages end in divorce and if you are not prepared to talk about a prenuptial agreement then you’re likely not ready to get married. Getting a prenuptial agreement saves you a lot of headache for what will more than likely end up being an issue down the road. Of all the weddings I’ve been to in the near 38 years I’ve been alive I can count four or five couples that are still together and even then they’re not from western cultures. I always offer men I get involved with a prenuptial agreement so that they know I am not after any of their assets.
I assume that the couples that stayed together must be from Asian cultures.
@@adampower9757 no African ones.
And if they have no assets ?
@@mattsnyderARTISTyou can always gain assets during the marriage which then becomes legally both parties
@@mattsnyderARTISTa prenup can cost up to $2,500-10k to file. A good measure of if you need one is if you can pay outright for the wedding and paperwork for a prenup or not
WWYD has pretty much covered everything, and done it brilliantly, but this one is stretching its point as no-one would talk about a pre-nup in a public place. Lawyers would be involved, and it would be private. Kinda silly.
I totally agree! this is not realistic, nobody would discuss such a private matter at a bar, and most strangers would not get involved since is none of their business
None of ma biz
I need to see this with her asking him for a prenup
Wealthy women in Australia automatically do prenuptial agreements and it’s no big deal but when a man does it the women object I think that tells you how it is sadly
@@matt08sydney yup, a woman in this very video said that.
Everyone would make him for sure 😂
@@matt08sydneyI agree and I think even as a woman myself, I find many women so selfish! It is no wonder many men don’t want to get married these days.
@matt08sydney the issue here isn't that it's a man. It's that it's a week before the wedding and they've never even discussed it before. Also, the rush to sign without a chance to read and have their own counsel look over it, because it has to be notarized "later this afternoon" is a huge red flag. No one, man or woman, should sign any contract without thoroughly reviewing it. Prenuptial agreements concern both parties and should involve discussion/negotiation with both parties, and both should have their own legal counsel that is concerned for their best interests.
The actress playing the bride to be was so convincing i got crazy emotional😢
Yeah I was so concerned for that guys money. I really did believe that she was a gold digger.
Can't believe not one person said, 'don't sign without consulting a lawyer. Tell him you need some time and sign only after fully understanding the context of the pre-nup conditions'.
IS IT REALLY BACK?!!! I lost hope seeing Sir John Quinones doing another What Would You Do. So Glad!
Yup, there’s a brand new season!
Feeling the need to ask to sign a prenup just showed no trust at all before and after marriage!! Na!! No marriage for me, if I was ever ask to sign such hog wash, Bye Bye my Love I would say!¡!
Props to the person taking the time to put the subtitles in every corner of the video following the actors and people talking :D
Can’t believe WWYD is back TH-cam was boring without the show welcome back!
Prenups are always good. It's like insurance. It's better to have it even if you might not use it.💯
Prenups are actually valid since it makes it fair for BOTH sides in case of a breakup. They portrayed the man however as a bit problematic how he acted and even left the scene instead of properly talking about it.
If done properly yes, a prenuptial agreement is fair. This wasn't done properly. Even before he walked out. To be fair both sides need to have their input in its creation, that involves both parties being present for negotiations, and each with their own legal counsel. The bride to be in this senerio didn't even know the prenuptial existed till being told to sign it, so her input was clearly not considered. Then he was pushing to sign it to be notarized that same day, which means unless she is someone with a lawyer on retainer (very unlikely for most of the population) she won't have time for her own legal representative to look it over and make sure it's OK. Then, you have him trying to get her to sign, before she even had a chance to read it. If it's so fair for both, why push for a signature without then having read it? No one should sign anything they haven't read. This conversation should have happened in private at the beginning of the engagement, followed by negotiations in a legal setting with their prospective attorneys present to create the prenup together. Not, here's a fully written contract you need to sign, today right now, in a public diner, one week before the wedding, with zero discussion or even warning.
@@darleneholt2736 Thats a long text for agreeing with me. I legit said the way he acted here and left the scene was problematic. You shouldnt just gice your partner a contract yes, discussing it together, creating it together with 2 different lawyers present (1 for each side) should be key.
They should make it fair for both sides. But not all prenups do. That is the myth.
Love how everyone told her to call her mom lol.
last part when he starts to get verbally "frustrated" and tells her "the wedding's off"........Why call mom? shows how his REAL feelings and heart is, if he was understanding and kind, he would not get all cranky and verbal...........You marry cuz you fall in love, not marry cuz society will make you feel too OLD..... For me, after a divorced friend told me of his experience with a gold digging ex, he told me "ok....be stupid, fall in love with the wrong gal and then regret it later.
So glad y’all are back!!!
This channel will blow up this year what a comeback.
If there was a woman asking her man to sign a prenup, would you comfort the man when he starts crying?
no
that's gay
@@nameless41414Why? Men are people too! It is sad when people can sympathize with women but not men.
@@nameless41414😂ffs South Park lolz
@@nameless41414 LOL
I can't take her acting 😂
She’s so over the top 😅😅😅😅
lol yeah not sure if anyone would have so many tears over a prenup 😆, acting like it’s a divorce paper :p lol
Lady says that she's not in it for any financial reasons and states that she wouldn't sign a prenup is oxymoronic.
Why when asked to sign a prenup do they act like they have 1 week to live? It is a perfectly smart and normal thing to do. It does not mean you do not have faith the marriage will last. It just protects each sides assets in case the marriage ends. Almost 50% divorce rate in the USA. Common sense.
The person who doesn't want the prenup is the person who plans to divorce you. A woman who has no plans to divorce you treats a prenup just the way you treat your car insurance. You have no plan of getting into a car crash but you take out insurance because it is the logical thing to do.
@@birdie.21. Not true whilst I personally think prenups make sense, I think it's also understandable people would see it as "you don't trust me and think I'm a gold digger" or "you don't think our marriage will last". If anything I think it probably points to the other person being a little too immature for marriage.
@@princessofhell4639 That's the pretext some women use, "you're being so unromantic, you don't trust me..." when they know perfectly well that the person mentioning the prenup is just being cautious just like you would with health insurance.
@@princessofhell4639 Wanting a prenup has nothing to do with maturity and everything to do with protecting what is rightfully yours. In reality anyone who has a problem with it wants to be able to get the others money if the marriage ends. Or else it would not matter at all.
I mean if you men should stop complaining that women aren’t wanting to be housewives
They are right, these always are GREAT actors!
The acting is bad. Please bring back our queen "Tracy"
She’s to recognized at this point
Tracy would play the mom role....
What would you do if this tv show "what would you do" stopped what would you do-ing?😂😂😂😂
I’d mind my own business
How dare you throw your two sense into it!
I wouldn't as I prefer to be an equalizer where women stick with the woman no matter the situation.
The actress is phenomenal!
Wouldn't this be something you discuss in private and not in the middle of a restaurant?
Have the girl ask the guy to sign the prenuptial and see how fast the other girls change their mind
A prenup? Oh, no! The horror...
The issue isn't the prenup. It's springing a prenup, one party had no say in negotiating the terms of, last minuet, with zero warning and no time to read nor have their own lawyers read over it before signing.
If she won't sign it, money is obviously on her mind. It's not just about love.
You should do the opposite, when the girl ask for the prenup and let's see the reaction, that will be interesting to watch 😊
I guarantee you they gonna be up on his ass about it 🤣
@@ChrisCap732fr😂😂
What would you do if somebody was being made fun of because they peed in their pants
I would laugh at em
What would YOU do?
😂😂😂
@@ikhouvanpannekoeken3272 I would get them new pair of pants 👖
@@compashinpei 👍👍
If a man in US doesn't plan prenup, he's signing a contract which incentivizes the other party for breaking the contract.
Until the current laws change, don't go for marriage without a solid prenup and in a state that recognizes such a prenup agreement.
The person you marry is NOT the person you divorce.
Based
Amen Adam
This is true to a point. I think a prenup is fine if you discuss it WAYYYYY before hand.
But i also dont think a prenup is necessary no matter how much money you have.
If you expect your wife to give up career opportunities and be stay at home, then consider why she does not want a Pre-nup.
Marriage is not treated as sacred anymore. And people dont trust their partners. Of course anyone can be betrayed but these things are not a catch all. Its case by case for me.
@ljeans531 agreed. It's necessary no matter your sex. It should be a collaborative effort with BOTH of your legal representations present if possible. Otherwise, the state will prescribe a contract to you.
man or woman. Nowdays women are career focused and have more money than the man
A prenup is a form of indentured servitude.
I’m like double-check, triple-check is this the new season of WWYD? I’m so glad the show is back, seriously.
Usually these are moving but this one just had me laughing my ass off
I love how everyone goes to "Call your parents."
Specifically "call your MOM". Notice nobody suggested calling Dad.
Why?
What's the big deal?
What would the parents say, "Just find another man that you can cheat or leave and you can still take his stuff" ?
There is no need for strangers to be involved in such a private moment
No way, I wouldn’t sign a prenup or have anyone sign a prenup.
Like the woman said, I’ll marry for love and have no reservations.
Love is breaking your own will for your spouse and be completely one! ❤
Do you know what it’s means to lose half of your Assets + house all you worked for all you went to school for will be gone 😂
@@Neto00000-n Yes. I can imagine that would be horrible, so we wait & pray for the right person.
Marriage is a covenant. We should remain faithful to that covenant and not have double standards.
This is my belief.
@@Godsmasterpiece1993It’s just like insurance… it shouldn’t be a problem if you aren’t interested in his money
@@-_Blitz_- I don’t agree with that.
We must work hard in our marriage and not have thoughts about ever giving up. We need to take choosing our spouse very seriously not causally.
Prenup is showing a lack of trust in your future spouse and trust is a vital necessity for our marriages.
I don’t judge anyone but this is what I believe 😊
@@Godsmasterpiece1993 Yes I strongly agree with that, but things happen with other people you cannot control
shes such a good actress
HEYYY! You are come back, John Quiñones. I enjoy A LOT your social experiments videos. Saludos de Venezuela.
Never allow a single women or single mom with child to move into the home you own. Do not get 'engaged' to a women that told you she would not sign a prenup before the marraige.
Judging by the state of things, as a man with asset NOT asking for a prenup is setting yourself up for troubles.
That being said the premise is skewed. First of all you can't just ambush someone with a prenup the WEEK after the wedding, you do so BEFORE the proposal. Then you cannot be THIS pushy, it is obvious that people will side with the girl if you basically assault her with the question.
It's finally nice to see a good episode this season. The last two I didn't really think were that great. Hopefully it continues with good ones 🤞❤
the others were far more interesting, you’re just a boring person, hopefully they don’t continue like this.
@@Mxox1 ya, I'm the one who's boring. What an argument 🥱
@@Corrie-Lee def not an argument, take it as constructive criticism to improve your taste or remain boring up to u, might be ur preference love 🥰
@@Mxox1 I'm not going to take someone calling me boring as constructive criticism. I like what I like, just because you don't, doesn't mean you have to be insulting
@@Corrie-Lee the reason you didn’t like the last two my love is because 1. it didn’t tailor to you (considering ive checked your comments on it) and 2. you’re indeed boring, but yh u like what u like :)
If someone asked me to sign a prenup, I wouldn’t take it as a bad thing because I know I’d be going into that marriage loving them for them, and I’d know my intentions wasn’t based on anything but a lifelong relationship. Im sure some situations are complicated, but for me, I can survive off of very little. I’d never be just about money.
Yes, but you should protect yourself too. My brother is now suffering as his wife does not love him and is only after his money.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj You know murder is a lot less costly than a divorce.
Im really happy to watch u ppl again
Continue with much love ❤
This was one of those rare scenarios on WWYD Where I’m like I probably would not get involved because I just think it’s stupid (important issue yes) but and it’s something that they should discuss behind enclosed doors. 🤷🏾♂️
On this one, I’d mind my own business. This is a tough one for a man to step into.
Can't wait for more of these! I missed these. Quiñones never aged!
The fact he brings this up one week before the wedding instantly makes him look bad
Yeah plus that “just sign it” and walk out ain’t great
He should have brought a lawyer in that bar.
Yes even as adults we all default to “Call your mom!”
Damn in 2024 prenups are the best thing that a person can do !!!
I had a friend who married a gold digger. He didn’t make a lot of money and she wasn’t that attractive. But he was desperate for love. She had a ton of credit card debit when they started dating and some sob story to go with it. After marriage he helped pay it off. Then she started maxing out their credit cards again and said she wanted a divorce. To keep things cheap and easy they split everything, including her debit. We later found out she did this to first husband as well.
So end of the day a pre nup isn’t so bad. However I had a bad feeling about her before the wedding.
When my husband and I got married I had a house with a lot of equity. I did have a talk with him about the house. After a few talks I felt he was genuine enough to let me have the equity in the house should we split. It’s been almost 11 years and we’re still happily married.
WWYD deserves to be a 2hr show the entire year.
Unreliable!
Since when people talk loudly in public areas?!
If I had a dollar for every time I overheard someone’s personal business at a bar, I’d be rich enough to need a prenup.
who are you referring to as unreliable?
And showing strangers their personal documents…
Sting operation.
It was definitely worth the 3 years wait I hope there is more to come please 🙏
A week before marriage lol the courts will void the prenup 😂
Why?
@@Daniel-wn5yeshe will just say it's was under distress that she sign the prenuptial agreement that's all.
90% of women are evil bro
@@Daniel-wn5ye because the signing conditions would be deemed coercive.
"A prenup is none of my business." Enough said.
If I would be marrying a very wealthy man, I would expect a prenup, especially if he is from "old money ", but....I would also consult a lawyer to check it over.
My guy was tryna get out of dodge 3:53 🤣🎯💯
While watching this video, I literally saw the likes and views go up. I love to watch this show ❤
I dont see anything wrong with it, as long as you both agree that whoever needs help will receive it.
Finally my favourite show is back! 🎉😍❤
That last lady saying if she was the one with money she would ask but that her man would have to care for her??? Really😭😭
She was speaking for a lot of them, that think like that, but refuse to put it into words.
The titles are so misleading and then WWYD change the question for every new people. Most people would agree that a prenup being pushed 1 week before the weeding is wrong and those same people would agree with a prenup they decided on beforehand? So peoples reactions don't matter when you change the whole narrative.
Every man should have a prenup.
Dna test and Prenup all should be mandatory. 😂😢
Canadian here. Met and married my husband is less that 1 year. We did not move in together before marriage. Now married 41 + years with all financial matters and assets jointly held. Absolutelty no prenup! Absoltely no infidelity. I would NEVER sign a prenup. If you have no trust or 100% commitment before wedding then cancel wedding. Lack of transparency and secrets kill a marriage. We share email accounts, Facebook accounts and cell phones. We do not GPS track. Our parents have never had a vote in our marriage. We have never lived with either parent. We married at 25 in a church.
So happy for yall❤
U come from my parents generation. The last of the sincere generations
People can change, I dont trust anyone nowadays except my parents. This is like saying dont wear a seat belt because you trust your driving
What exactly is a prenup??? I feel dumb asking but I’ve looked it up and still don’t get it at all
It's a legal document that sets forth the distribution of assets and liabilities in the case of divorce or annulment. Imo, it is a good thing to have. Just as a good pilot would breif the crew for what would happen the case of cabin fire, that doesn't mean that the pilot expects the plane to burst into flames during takeoff. Same kind of deal here I think.
My English ain't that good, but it's basically a prenuptial agreement. It's when the to-be married husband and wife agree on the terms and conditions of the marriage and what or how the wealth will be distributed in the case of a divorce. That way, for instance, if the husband is the rich person in this relationship, he won't have to lose half of his wealth or most of his wealth paying the wife in alimony or child support. Mind you alimony is part of the Shariah law, but in Europe they tend to misuse it to discourage marriage
@@abduleve8688 ohh Tysm for the explanation 😭❤️❤️
@@abduleve8688 This is set in the US. And Europe has dozens of countries with wildly different laws, so your statement is shoddy. Countries also don't tend to "discourage marriage". If anything, western countries encourage as much as possible anything than can bring birthrates up because we're below replacement level.
It's also funny you would talk about Sharia law when it's applied differently in numerous countries as well. In Saudi Arabia for instance, divorce right are unilateral for men without motivation, while women have to legally prove harm to break the contract and still risk losing their own assets (the dowry) if the harm wasn't "severe enough".
@@k.v.7681 I find it also funny that your understanding of Shariah law is comparing it to man made laws that can be bent in accordance to the state or country. Shariah law is not applied differently it is applied according to what the Quran says. Nowhere in the Quran nor Hadith does it say that what you claim to be a factor that determines divorce. If there is however I am waiting for you to state the scripture that says that. Also please don't embarrass yourself by mentioning Saudi Arabia when talking about Islam. Saudi Arabi was founded, and is protected by the Secular British and American empire in order to serve as a harbor and ally for the Western invasion of Muslim nations. It has zero relevance to Islam.
Please keep John 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 He is iconic, and his energy is so wonderful and gentle. Your comedian Kamal and blond lady just feel like you’re trying to pander to a younger crowd. Your show is legendary, have faith in your product and if John needs to step down, find someone like him, old and wise and fatherly.
NEVER MARRY WITHOUT A PRENUP
Yessssss!!!!! This episode is not very good.
why?
If you aren’t rich you don’t need a prenup.
Umm you don’t need it unless you rich rich
Yes ladies! Make sure he has to pay out when he cheats !😂
The faces of people are so astounding 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I get the value of prenups, but so many people simplify the situation and focus on scandalous goldiggers when those cases hardly come up at court. Lawmakers actually worry way more about the fact that so many spouses, mostly female, put in a lot of effort for their kids and sacrifice their careers for them, only to be left with nothing financially. And that isn't fair, because you need someone to manage to home so that provider can earn anything in the first place. You can't say: she chose to be a housewife. It is a job that should be valued, but isn't.
I'm a lawyer and I witnessed many cases where the women had to "maintain" their abusive husbands because they were not earning much at all. But these abusive men didn't even do housework or help out with the kids! In that case, a prenup would have been very useful.
There's a reason why the law works the way it does, though some sick people, both male and female, take advantage of it.
bud asked chat gpt to write a comment
You do realize those women chose being a housewife knowing the risks? Thats completely on them same with the men that lost money from gold diggers
@@sjejsj7615no. These women do deserve half of their husbands money
@@rose-yeah why? Get a job and stop depending on someone
@@sjejsj7615I agree and even housewives can work part time. My cousin is mostly a housewife but works at home part time too.
There's nothing with a prenup.💯
They framed it in kind of a weird way with the guy being so pushy. In reality it's likely more a case of "Would you consider signing a prenup?" and the woman getting upset & emotionally "blackmailing" the guy to get rid of the prenup by saying stuff like "You don't believe in us" or "You expect our marriage to fail" which would have made for a far better WWYD but then again, since in today's climate "man bad, woman good" they'd never do this.
Sir or Ma'am, I could not agree with You more.
If this was the lady who came from a wealthy family, and the man didn’t have wealth, but is financially stable, and she wanted him to sign a prenup a week before the wedding, would he sign or would he get mad her and think she’s not trustworthy of him
@@The1baddman In this scenario most men would sign it, seems men take more pride on not relying on a woman's money, but usually the same can't be said the other way around, but makes sense since traditionally men are suppose to offer provision/protection and whatnot but were in different times, so I get it.
Bro she’s such a good actor wtf
after witnessing that id tell the guy "bro make SURE she signs that" 😂
Same!
Especially seeing the crying scene that quite a lot of them can do.
Everyone is making excuses about the scenario. Truth be told, a prenup is essential and anyone who has an issue signing it is the red flag.
Why tf would anybody say no to a prenup unless you are in it for the money ?
Exactly
A hustle is a hustle.
I was thinking the same thing!
Thats not the point the point is its the week of the wedding and in public which is embarrassing for anyone
@@seo_sea_soulWhy would the timing matter? It’s a signature. Why is a prenup such a big deal in 2024 😂
Thank good John is back💙
I have missed this show so much😩😀🎉
Its the emotions of the girl they just want to be on her side because shes crying lol 😂😂
"If I'm the one with the money, I would sign a prenup. If HE'S the one with the money, no prenup baby - take care of me."
I really hope that that was a joke??? Like that would ever happen in a million years anyway, girlie forgot her grey hairs 💀
Pure hypocrisy from that lady. 😑😑😑😑
Yes, she was messed up and sounds like a gold digger.
Hi! She's Allee Sutton Hethcoat, right? I recognized her voice. I love "Remember the goal" and "The perfect race". Thank you for this video! What a big surprise 😃
I don’t get the problem with prenups i don’t get why someone who’s no longer part of the family should get half of what you bought
Dean Winchester too me i see the joining of assets and the associated trust as the entire point of a marriage... A prenup is like saying "i dont want too marry you, i just want a pretend marriage" but thats just the way i see it
Also probably makes them feel like they might be being cheated on
@@megamushroom a prenup doesn’t mean you don’t share assets during the marriage it just means that in the event of a divorce one person gets to keep some agreed upon things like a house they bought before the marriage, during the marriage that house will still be co owned
@@Dean_W1nchester. oh ok im sorry about the misunderstanding since the video didnt explain it very well...
In that case i think most people just dont like the idea that the marriage may not be permanent since thats what marriage is supposed too be... There isnt anything necessarily wrong with it but i can see why it would make somebody feel very insecure or even suspicious that there partner has ulterior motives for making a prenup