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I am baffled how men can't tell a woman is faking it...the whole body/muscles contracts and you can literally feel it. How men believe a fake orgasm just shows he is clueless about a woman's anatomy. As a female I have never ever faked an orgasm...i would never give a man the benefit and illusion that he knows what he is doing to make him feel good.He needs to know to put more effort and listen to us!
Sex education is needed in most of us men and some women don’t make it easier by faking it either. Imagine as a man, all the females you have being with have being faking it and you meet one who is truthful. You would be so shocked and you will question everything.
@@gilbertomaradona9862 exactly! I just find it bizarre how some men don't know! It's either they are inexperienced OR they know it's faked but don't care enough as they are finished😂
@marianneeva1105 Most men don't care, I have 2 guy friends and we were conversating about this topic. I said to them most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation and not just penetration and they looked at me like I was speaking a foreign language....I said to them I feel sorry for your girls😂😂
“Just started watching Paul’s podcasts, and his episodes with Maura Higgins and this one are some of the best content I’ve ever seen. I truly feel like Dr. Gurney has changed my life. Thank you, Paul, and thank you, Dr. Gurney!”
How amazing was this! Completed eye opening but also confirming for what I thought deep down but have ignored! Karen your amazing!! Thanks Paul your pulling in the best guests and also confirming how amazing you are at your job ❤
Paul 😊 you really know how to pick the right people for us to learn from. This podcast is my weekly open university session❤ I gain sooo much insight from your interviewees, she knows her stuff I was nodding all the way through. Solid subscriber from Ep 1. Amazing job🎉
One thing that she is not mentioning or teaching is how women should be experiencing vaginal orgasms and cervix orgasms, the most powerful orgasms that exist. She is talking from a very low standard point of view not encouraging women to discover their magic within. Nobody taught us to do this. The orgasm from the putside part of the clitoris is the less pleasurable type of orgasm a woman can have! The mystical and powerful, transformational orgasms in women happen inside of the vagina in the cervix. Mystical experiences that will trigger a bunch of superpowers in women such as high intuition, confidence, etc. We need to stop telling men and women that the tip of the clitoris is the pleasure point because it is just a nerve ending point of everything that goes on inside the vagina and in the entrace of the womb itself. Please let's educate ourselves properly and start raising standards.
I found this episode so informative. It made be feel heart and understood which tells me that I’m not as much of an anomaly as I previously thought! Continue the great work. Thanks 19:52
Interesting content and this content lost me when she says penis size doesn't matter. It's not true, sure people can get pleasure from other ways and the size still impacts so much of how sex is experienced on multiple levels. Invalidation of people's experiences creates a lack of credibility , space to have an honest dialogue about this and a disservice to actually acknowledging the impact of it. Penis size does affect how pleasurable penetrative and oral sex is, whether or causes pain or pleasure, because it can do both. And honestly, if a man is in the smaller or larger size it's workable and the reality is that penetrative sex is not as much fun, and doesn't feel as good often as there's more effort and focus on achieving pleasure or avoiding pain. It then causes you also to have a harder time being fully engaged in the moment.. the truth is both length and girth affect things as well as the size and anatomy of the vagina can, if it's heterosexual sex and if there's a mismatch.. I'm sure that in a same sex situation people would have a similar experience
Your response is interesting as well. In a way I might agree with you that specific language in the context did leave alot out…namely what you mentioned. But i think she was actually just dealing with the common idea that bigger isn’t better for example and also because ‘penetration’ doesn’t equate to “sex” which would actually translate that having “sex” may not even include penetration.
Sex is absolutely a skill on so many levels. An interesting listen but I have to disagree with sex not being a skill and punishment size doesn't matter. Both incorrect in mine and I'm sure many others experience.
Some people are naturally good, that's a fact. Saying it's not a skill is wild. Not everyone has Rhythm ...for example. And I can tell you now, after having multiple conversations with my partner over what I needed/how to ect he still just never got it.
I agree some ppl are naturally good! and she doesn’t realize it’s bc of the things she mentioned like they ask questions then listen, they observe reactions, they enjoy convos around sex bc it helps them get to know the person sexually they naturally enjoy sex and pleasing the person. All these make someone very good in bed.
To me, being a woman, it was such a relief when I heard the very first time, that women get aroused / their climax in such a different way than men. No penis should be involved. I simply ‘refer’ to the classic penetration. It was such a relief to hear that lots of women enjoy oral sex, the use of fingers. Unfortunately, being in my late fifities now, most men my age tend to believe we should get our orgasm through the use of the penis. SOOOOOOO sad and it has frustrated me and even put me off sex. I am scared to get involved with a man. I’d LOVE to explore sex in many intimate ways but it makes me feel insecure to express this to a man my age. ALL women should STOP faking !!! And tell the truth ! Big thanks for this podcast from the bottom of my heart. Love from Belgium ❤️🌟❤️
Doctot i feel so ashamed asking but i need an answer .. im doing syntribation and i feel so ashamed the amout of pressure im doing im feeling pain a lot sometimes bc of the pressure i use and now im scared ill have a hernia bc of the pressure im using .. im still a virgin and staying till i get married i had a hernia before in the two sides when i was 6 now im 15 please help im so scared
THIS LADY HAS REALLY EXPRESSED IT IN A DOWNGRADE BUT IL LISTEN 👂 TO THE REST OF THE INTERVIEW IM INTERESTED TO SEE WHAT THE LADY IS SAYING AND I LOVE PAUL ❤HE IS A COOL GUY
Great conversation, very informative. She tends to attempt to shut Paul down with her condescending tone at times. made me feel uncomfortable for Paul at times but he handled it well.
So being critical of porn is pto panic? Well, to say that porn isn't real is kind of twisting things. As long as you don't just talk about paintings in a cave, or in animated films, those who are doing the sex scenes on screen are real people. And to a great degree it is the women who are the most exploited. There are of course other power systems intertwined in porn. If someone have sex to get money, you can be quite sure that she most likely doesn’t want to have sex. What kind of person thinks it's okay to do sex to someone who wouldnt have have sex unless she was payed? Someone who have learned to be superior to her. Most of us understand that trafficking is bad. But every trafficking situation starts with someone paying. Porn and prostitution is for the most part exploitation of real people. Women (and children and men) who sell sex in porn and prostitution have a high degree of traumatisation. It's common to start to take drugs in order to put up with it. To have sex without really wanting it increases stress hormones like vasopressine instead of wellbeing hormones like oxytocin. Of course that is dangerous!
She’s saying porn isn’t real bc the pleasure part is not real. Yeah real ppl are having sex in porn but they are INDEED acting aka faking. It’s like watching the tv show “Friends” and thinking every emotion they show is real bc they are real ppl 🙃 No they are acting it’s fake.
Using sex toys is numbing a lot of women from real life sex and intimacy. The more rampant and amazing the toy, the less need for the real thing. I've heard women talk about the ROSE like its the bedst thing since sliced bread, but connecting with your partner to the point he desires eating and making love to you every morning, noon and night. And masters it, thx to your guidance and direction, and his experience and intuition, to the point you climax or cun or at the least, thorughly enjoy every session. Sexual compatibility is important in monogamous relationships. I loved that she bought that point up early on.
This woman is spreading quite a few mistruths in this interview. Size really does matter, not necessarily length but girth, prob 90 percent of women would say the same. Also, a clitoral orgasm is the most basic of orgasms a woman can achieve, a cervical orgasm is way more powerful. To state that porn is not addictive simply isn't true, I have met numerous men whose sex lives have been ruined by lifelong porn addictions. Also, for a sex therapist to state that there are more than 2 genders is speaking against biological reality. Dissapointing that so many mis-truths are being spread to the masses, but i guess this is the purpose of mass media 😓
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Just subscribed! I really enjoy how you explain things across all your pieces of work. Thank you!
I am baffled how men can't tell a woman is faking it...the whole body/muscles contracts and you can literally feel it. How men believe a fake orgasm just shows he is clueless about a woman's anatomy. As a female I have never ever faked an orgasm...i would never give a man the benefit and illusion that he knows what he is doing to make him feel good.He needs to know to put more effort and listen to us!
Sex education is needed in most of us men and some women don’t make it easier by faking it either. Imagine as a man, all the females you have being with have being faking it and you meet one who is truthful. You would be so shocked and you will question everything.
YESSSS! I totally agree
I'm a man and I actually find it quite easy to tell, the men who can't either don't care or don't have enough experience
@@gilbertomaradona9862 exactly! I just find it bizarre how some men don't know! It's either they are inexperienced OR they know it's faked but don't care enough as they are finished😂
@marianneeva1105 Most men don't care, I have 2 guy friends and we were conversating about this topic. I said to them most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation and not just penetration and they looked at me like I was speaking a foreign language....I said to them I feel sorry for your girls😂😂
I really love this conversation! Busting myths and replacing them. It’s such a positive, open discussion. Thank you 🙏🏾 😊
She's excellent. So impressive how she knows her stuff and rhymes off data and facts. Love her! Great conversation 👌
“Just started watching Paul’s podcasts, and his episodes with Maura Higgins and this one are some of the best content I’ve ever seen. I truly feel like Dr. Gurney has changed my life. Thank you, Paul, and thank you, Dr. Gurney!”
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How amazing was this! Completed eye opening but also confirming for what I thought deep down but have ignored! Karen your amazing!! Thanks Paul your pulling in the best guests and also confirming how amazing you are at your job ❤
Paul 😊 you really know how to pick the right people for us to learn from.
This podcast is my weekly open university session❤
I gain sooo much insight from your interviewees, she knows her stuff I was nodding all the way through.
Solid subscriber from Ep 1.
Amazing job🎉
You guys are amazing.
I’ve never watched a podcast with so much values.
Thanks for being so emotionally intelligent 💙
One thing that she is not mentioning or teaching is how women should be experiencing vaginal orgasms and cervix orgasms, the most powerful orgasms that exist. She is talking from a very low standard point of view not encouraging women to discover their magic within. Nobody taught us to do this. The orgasm from the putside part of the clitoris is the less pleasurable type of orgasm a woman can have! The mystical and powerful, transformational orgasms in women happen inside of the vagina in the cervix. Mystical experiences that will trigger a bunch of superpowers in women such as high intuition, confidence, etc. We need to stop telling men and women that the tip of the clitoris is the pleasure point because it is just a nerve ending point of everything that goes on inside the vagina and in the entrace of the womb itself. Please let's educate ourselves properly and start raising standards.
Well educate us @soultalk6201 I would listen!
The G spot and A spot..
Men should learn how to provide a proper stimulus at those areas...
Came here to say exactly the same thing. Thanks for being so eloquent with your explanation.
Thank you Dr Gurney for your generous sharing ! The best conversation on sex and I have learned so much !
I found this episode so informative. It made be feel heart and understood which tells me that I’m not as much of an anomaly as I previously thought! Continue the great work. Thanks 19:52
Thank you both for this super insightful conversation 🙏👍🙌
Interesting content and this content lost me when she says penis size doesn't matter. It's not true, sure people can get pleasure from other ways and the size still impacts so much of how sex is experienced on multiple levels. Invalidation of people's experiences creates a lack of credibility , space to have an honest dialogue about this and a disservice to actually acknowledging the impact of it. Penis size does affect how pleasurable penetrative and oral sex is, whether or causes pain or pleasure, because it can do both. And honestly, if a man is in the smaller or larger size it's workable and the reality is that penetrative sex is not as much fun, and doesn't feel as good often as there's more effort and focus on achieving pleasure or avoiding pain. It then causes you also to have a harder time being fully engaged in the moment.. the truth is both length and girth affect things as well as the size and anatomy of the vagina can, if it's heterosexual sex and if there's a mismatch.. I'm sure that in a same sex situation people would have a similar experience
Your response is interesting as well. In a way I might agree with you that specific language in the context did leave alot out…namely what you mentioned. But i think she was actually just dealing with the common idea that bigger isn’t better for example and also because ‘penetration’ doesn’t equate to “sex” which would actually translate that having “sex” may not even include penetration.
I like your energy Paul. Looking forward to this one.
Another amazing episode!! Happy to be part of the subscribed %! My new YT home 😁😁
Thank you so much 🫶🏾
Your questions are so realistic. I love how clear and raw these videos are.
Sex is absolutely a skill on so many levels. An interesting listen but I have to disagree with sex not being a skill and punishment size doesn't matter. Both incorrect in mine and I'm sure many others experience.
Brilliant content!
Thank you so much for this amazing content
Some people are naturally good, that's a fact. Saying it's not a skill is wild. Not everyone has Rhythm ...for example. And I can tell you now, after having multiple conversations with my partner over what I needed/how to ect he still just never got it.
I agree some ppl are naturally good! and she doesn’t realize it’s bc of the things she mentioned like they ask questions then listen, they observe reactions, they enjoy convos around sex bc it helps them get to know the person sexually they naturally enjoy sex and pleasing the person. All these make someone very good in bed.
Absolutely fascinating ❤
Peter Gabriel 🤣
Get outta here, Peter Gabriel! 😂
To me, being a woman, it was such a relief when I heard the very first time, that women get aroused / their climax in such a different way than men. No penis should be involved. I simply ‘refer’ to the classic penetration. It was such a relief to hear that lots of women enjoy oral sex, the use of fingers. Unfortunately, being in my late fifities now, most men my age tend to believe we should get our orgasm through the use of the penis. SOOOOOOO sad and it has frustrated me and even put me off sex. I am scared to get involved with a man. I’d LOVE to explore sex in many intimate ways but it makes me feel insecure to express this to a man my age. ALL women should STOP faking !!! And tell the truth ! Big thanks for this podcast from the bottom of my heart. Love from Belgium ❤️🌟❤️
Interesting conversation
Doctot i feel so ashamed asking but i need an answer .. im doing syntribation and i feel so ashamed the amout of pressure im doing im feeling pain a lot sometimes bc of the pressure i use and now im scared ill have a hernia bc of the pressure im using .. im still a virgin and staying till i get married i had a hernia before in the two sides when i was 6 now im 15 please help im so scared
This will not do you any harm!!! Relax and enjoy. X
True i agree
THIS LADY HAS REALLY EXPRESSED IT IN A DOWNGRADE BUT IL LISTEN 👂 TO THE REST OF THE INTERVIEW IM INTERESTED TO SEE WHAT THE LADY IS SAYING AND I LOVE PAUL ❤HE IS A COOL GUY
Am so sorry am i the only one that thinks paul is pure sexy❤
Great conversation, very informative.
She tends to attempt to shut Paul down with her condescending tone at times. made me feel uncomfortable for Paul at times but he handled it well.
So being critical of porn is pto panic? Well, to say that porn isn't real is kind of twisting things. As long as you don't just talk about paintings in a cave, or in animated films, those who are doing the sex scenes on screen are real people. And to a great degree it is the women who are the most exploited. There are of course other power systems intertwined in porn. If someone have sex to get money, you can be quite sure that she most likely doesn’t want to have sex. What kind of person thinks it's okay to do sex to someone who wouldnt have have sex unless she was payed? Someone who have learned to be superior to her. Most of us understand that trafficking is bad. But every trafficking situation starts with someone paying. Porn and prostitution is for the most part exploitation of real people. Women (and children and men) who sell sex in porn and prostitution have a high degree of traumatisation. It's common to start to take drugs in order to put up with it. To have sex without really wanting it increases stress hormones like vasopressine instead of wellbeing hormones like oxytocin. Of course that is dangerous!
She’s saying porn isn’t real bc the pleasure part is not real. Yeah real ppl are having sex in porn but they are INDEED acting aka faking. It’s like watching the tv show “Friends” and thinking every emotion they show is real bc they are real ppl 🙃 No they are acting it’s fake.
So many people are not in the same lane; never lie. Leave.
Using sex toys is numbing a lot of women from real life sex and intimacy. The more rampant and amazing the toy, the less need for the real thing.
I've heard women talk about the ROSE like its the bedst thing since sliced bread, but connecting with your partner to the point he desires eating and making love to you every morning, noon and night. And masters it, thx to your guidance and direction, and his experience and intuition, to the point you climax or cun or at the least, thorughly enjoy every session.
Sexual compatibility is important in monogamous relationships. I loved that she bought that point up early on.
Sorry to disagree.. Size very much matters, though it's girth rather than length.
This woman is spreading quite a few mistruths in this interview. Size really does matter, not necessarily length but girth, prob 90 percent of women would say the same. Also, a clitoral orgasm is the most basic of orgasms a woman can achieve, a cervical orgasm is way more powerful.
To state that porn is not addictive simply isn't true, I have met numerous men whose sex lives have been ruined by lifelong porn addictions.
Also, for a sex therapist to state that there are more than 2 genders is speaking against biological reality.
Dissapointing that so many mis-truths are being spread to the masses, but i guess this is the purpose of mass media 😓
Nope!
She lost me at "cis" men and "cis" women. And "all different genders". If a sex expert thinks there's more than two sexes...🙄