STOP Making Life Hard for Yourself ! Transform Your Pain into Power

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  • Sometimes we make life harder than it is. We create our own stress, our own misery, you have the power to transform your pain into power, to take your power back
    Life gets to be easy, a lot of things get to be easy.
    Take your power back !
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  • @mae1062
    @mae1062 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    1. 01:18 Change your perspective. (you change your perspective you change your life, if you think things are hard to do/attain they will be hard. change your language as well)
    2. 04:21 Don't take life too seriously (discipline is good, but don't make life too rigid and enjoy the things around. be in your feminine energy)
    3. 06:27 Re-frame your thoughts (instead of jumping to negative conclusions, think of rejection as God's protection)
    4. 08:30 You are limitless (think of yourself as being limitless. Believe that there's nothing you can't do and can't get)
    5. 10:25 Decide to get over it (you can decide to be bitter and resentful over something or get over it. This is how you turn your pain into power. when you're forgiving you are also more open to receive. be grateful for the lessons learnt)
    5. 11:49 Have a positive inner circle (get in company with people who inspire you in a positive way. it doesn't have to be a lot of people either)
    6. 14:14 Take risks (do new things and get out of your comfort zone that will reward you with the best things in life)
    Believe your life is working in your favour🌼

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    So true on people choosing to be victims. I cut off people who are choosing to be victims and mentally unstable. I choose be alone cause people don’t realize the power they have. Praying for mentally stable friends. Had cut off friendship. People need be responsible for they life and find professionals to help them. I’m not a professional. Thank you for this. ❤

    • @plantgirl2861
      @plantgirl2861 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol you sound like the type of "friend" who is there until someone needs you. May God show you when you go through something terrible, what it's like to be truly alone without even Him.

    • @MsWill813
      @MsWill813 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Blaming people of their illnesses is not high value behavior. It is understandable that you can not help them though, and it's ok.

    • @ilariamasullo3353
      @ilariamasullo3353 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@plantgirl2861indeed! typical fair weather friend 😂

    • @christine-my3gd
      @christine-my3gd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agréé with you. Some ppl go through a rough patch but some chose to stay in terrible situations and dont want to do anything about it. It's not worth the energy

    • @yanielenska4031
      @yanielenska4031 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dont give attention to these immature comments here, what you said is perfectly valid and in no way invalidates that people can go through difficult times in their lives. Its not your fault nor your responsibility - you offer help, as much as you are comfortable to give, and see what that person does with it, see if they appreciate it(yes NOTHING is free nor should be taken for granted, especially a close person showing care). If not, you move on wishing them well and most importantly - wishing YOuRSELF well, keep being real.
      Only empathetic and mature people can actually realise that they should put themselves first and not take manipulation from "victim" "friends" lightly - they are the true egotistic ones that have put their misery as the centre of their life experience and are trying to guilt you when they see you having boundaries abd self-awareness.
      Be healthy and happy 🍀

  • @thequietkate
    @thequietkate 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “If you think life is hard, it is going to be hard” is SO TRUE!!

  • @naomi6107
    @naomi6107 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You either win or you learn! ❤

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    3:41 my mentor always tells me if you think its gonna be hard its gonna be hard but if you think its gonna be easy it will be. It’s all in your mindset.

  • @madhusweetprof
    @madhusweetprof 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Your voice is v soothing on ears.. absolutely feminine..don't take life seriously..hummm..wat to do wen one is a working woman managing kid, pet, n this dominating husband ...ufff.. but yes u r v right. I don't create drama.. I look at the bright side. I indulge in financial power.. I get my strength watching ur vdeos❤❤❤

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You got this babe ❤️

  • @zakkiyyahjudge
    @zakkiyyahjudge 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Thank you for creating this video. A lot of us women need to hear it

  • @TheAndreaservice
    @TheAndreaservice 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you for this! Have been feeling very up and down with emotions every week/month constantly blaming other people. I have been feeling like maybe the problem is me constantly wanting to victimize myself and I have just been continuing to let pain make me a bitter person. I have been wanting to turn my life around and this video is a good start to change my mentality. Thank you

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes the victim mindset really needs to stop especially bcuz unlike back in the day…. Most things are done on your own suffering

  • @evelynzimmermann2813
    @evelynzimmermann2813 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Black fits you very well

  • @Tihiiiii
    @Tihiiiii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Changing our perspective and the way we think about our own self is certainly the key and ive learned this the hard way😅 my grandparents always made me feel worthless and depressed. It didnt matter what ive accomplished they would make sure to shatter my confidence. Then, i started seeing a therapist as a young adult and she made me realise how much i actually accomplished and how much i should be proud of myself. This change in my perspective about my own life (and about life in general tbh) made me feel satisfied, confident and happy
    Anyways, sorry for the ranting. Great video as always ❤❤✨️

  • @mrssomeone2143
    @mrssomeone2143 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have my power with me all the time

  • @luxtravel4970
    @luxtravel4970 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I needed this! I needed to hear it, to be told it❤ no resentment, let things go, be lighter... not such a miserable victim❤ but hearing it in this delivery was soft and gentle while knowing the message and what I need to do. I love this. Please make more like this... I really feel like this one video has changed my entire life

  • @priyamalhotra5794
    @priyamalhotra5794 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just needed this at the right time
    Thank you Lisa🙏✨
    You are such an amazing woman❤❤

  • @christine-my3gd
    @christine-my3gd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish more people had your mindset ❤

  • @JiJihane-pv5jp
    @JiJihane-pv5jp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A 22 years old young woman here who was raised by a single mother ( she got divorced ), Im following my mother s exact steps on being independent and being the woman but also the man of the house unfortunately.
    We together do things that a man should ve taken the role of doing it for us, either inside or outside, honestly I dont like it this way but things should be done..the problem in all this is that just like you said I'm more in the doing mode than in the receiving mode, my whole life I was not very familiar with receiving things or letting others take care of things for me..hopefully this doesnt get in the way of my feminine part in a relationship 😏

    • @marihoney3057
      @marihoney3057 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I've lived the same situation, your feminine side will thrive once you meet the right person for you, don't worry! 😊

    • @JiJihane-pv5jp
      @JiJihane-pv5jp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@marihoney3057 thank you, hopefully. I feel that Im already physically feminine, the way I talk, my clothes etc..but I need to work on my behavioral side, including receiving, avoiding control and worrying so much about outcomes, working on my attachement style which is sometimes avoidant and sometimes anxious and also avoiding non important arguments and conflicts. Anyway, hope you re having a good day 🌸

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Lisa your Profile Picture looks so so so pretty and your contents are just wonderful you are my inspiration and I wish you have a beautiful week ahead💫😀💓

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you very much wish you a beautiful week as well❤️🥰

  • @drsana3867
    @drsana3867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Super like 🎉 … sometimes you need someone to remind like this 😌

  • @sairahhaqq769
    @sairahhaqq769 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly. You create your life in this world. Choose to turn your pain into power.👑👑👑👑

  • @Heydontgetpanic
    @Heydontgetpanic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES NOW I DECIDE TO OVER ON PAST THOUGHTS.

  • @nicolemuchiri
    @nicolemuchiri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you Lisa Glamour, we truly appreciate you ♥️🥰

  • @ohsostylish60
    @ohsostylish60 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is one of your best videos ever Lisa! So full of pearls of wisdom! Thank you ❤️

  • @libs5382
    @libs5382 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Beautiful outfit ❤ Thank you Lisa x

  • @enigma8077
    @enigma8077 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lisa is like our big sister 🥰💕

  • @Andreita483
    @Andreita483 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you I really needed this video. Sending love from Peru

  • @viktoriaschweizer8724
    @viktoriaschweizer8724 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Lisa
    As a girl i appreciat your work ! 😊
    Your Videos are so helpful!
    Your voice is so beautiful 🤗
    also you Look fabulouse, love your dress ! 👗

  • @Lccat
    @Lccat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I agree with what you say 100%💕🌻✨

  • @elsieayuk3240
    @elsieayuk3240 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this Lisa ❤

  • @divinity_embodied
    @divinity_embodied 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love everything about this, thank you for the reminder 🙏

  • @blissfulbeauty3148
    @blissfulbeauty3148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video!! 🎉❤

  • @jayareaaaa
    @jayareaaaa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your outfit is so cute as per usual!

  • @JasiFlores
    @JasiFlores 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are goals babe!

  • @azeoo5666
    @azeoo5666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m excited for this video ❤

  • @leslietherae4807
    @leslietherae4807 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is solid advice!

  • @Sioux3759
    @Sioux3759 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you, babe! although I'm rushing with my assignments and struggling for not being productive enough, this video is a game changer for me! (even i only can listen it as podcast with your beautiful voice and great personality)

  • @NorasNarrative
    @NorasNarrative 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @fazeelafazal8615
    @fazeelafazal8615 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this video, thanks Lisa for the inspiring and positive message❤🌹

  • @FB-bo3sj
    @FB-bo3sj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Shes like q living disney princess

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank-you for all your beautiful inspiration!!!!! xoxox Yes Queen!!

  • @elaroluv8631
    @elaroluv8631 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you Lisa you are so kind and beautiful 🙏🏻

  • @alexandratemple3189
    @alexandratemple3189 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a beautifully liberating reminder & release Lisa ❤️ so timely, thank you xx

  • @niushasolooki1290
    @niushasolooki1290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    congrats on your engagement beautiful Lisa💕💕

  • @vikiversum3748
    @vikiversum3748 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @BeachLife-zu8zd
    @BeachLife-zu8zd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🎉❤ 😊

  • @EbbieBailey
    @EbbieBailey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is everything 🙌🏾

  • @trisyiafirds
    @trisyiafirds 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such an incredible video thank you 🩷🌸🎀

  • @Princess1m5
    @Princess1m5 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    wonderful content, you are my ideal instructor

  • @user-ks6gv8yg3f
    @user-ks6gv8yg3f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Perfect thanksgiving gift, Wisdom ❤

  • @guzaltalipova3846
    @guzaltalipova3846 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I needed to hear that, Lisa...❤ I totally agree! We must learn how to be happy and think positively! I wish I had positive people around, some women community like your channel

  • @ivanapejkovic7787
    @ivanapejkovic7787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Lisa for such support and advice. Sometimes I think you are my guardian angel watching over me. I needed this in a situation that arose a few days ago. I was very depressed, discouraged and insecure, but now...
    Thank you for existing, you are beautiful in every way! ❤

  • @serigalachanteck
    @serigalachanteck 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you love U ❣️

  • @pallinagialla97
    @pallinagialla97 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're awesome! Thank you so much! Btw, what do you do to have such long beautiful hair??

  • @PlayfulPress
    @PlayfulPress 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great insightful video

  • @namjoonsgf41
    @namjoonsgf41 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to keep confident when you make a mistake like i do. I show off my crush that I like him, after he chose to pull off after he get tired after chasing me, so he go to another women, well he doing that to a lot of women. So now i am so embarass because he knows i like him, and that give some power to him.
    Now she with other women that my friend even praise her beauty in front of me. Now I dont into that guy anymore but my problem is social anxiety because of my friend. I try to find another circle but my uni is so small. Idk what to do but to try keep calm from all of these humiliation. It happen also because all my friend have bf, and my crush also our friend, now my girlfriend wants to be friend with his gf. It is so humiliating my friend know i like him before.

  • @tsutinb576
    @tsutinb576 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look really good in a black dress 🖤

  • @barbaramortka2546
    @barbaramortka2546 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That is true

  • @The3lueJay
    @The3lueJay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Where did you get your outfit from?? Love the top especially!

  • @wiwiholic
    @wiwiholic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look STUNNING

  • @Prernaxx
    @Prernaxx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Any tips on changing your mind when your in a low place

  • @Jasmineflorence
    @Jasmineflorence 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You remind me a little of Gloria from modern family

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That is the best compliment she is amazing 🥰

  • @beluasmr
    @beluasmr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent

  • @Croiz3744
    @Croiz3744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What is this lipgloss ? 😍 Looks amazing

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you 🥰 It is the Dior Addict Lipgloss in the color 26

  • @umrumr9453
    @umrumr9453 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LG = Life’s Good

  • @lilyrose4092
    @lilyrose4092 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lisa ce serait génial si tu pouvais faire des vidéos sur tes routines beautés : soins, maquillage, cheveux... Tu es magnifique ! x

  • @charlotterogers466
    @charlotterogers466 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE Lisa and this video (and needed to hear this message!). But, I did have one small issue with it, when she said that the world today is very peaceful and there’s very little danger. I mean that may be true for us watching, and we are very blessed to have peace and safety in our lives. But there are many of our sisters in war-torn places like Gaza, Ukraine, Afghanistan, Sudan etc. who are living in in great fear and insecurity everyday. So I think we should be mindful of them too and not just say as a blanket statement that the world is very peaceful and calm these days when in fact there are active wars happening in some parts of the world.

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree darling! I was talking about the western countries, but yes let’s not forget other places where people are unsafe, in war, sickness or other bad conditions. Obviously in that case it is very difficult or nearly impossible to have a peaceful life.
      And in that case let’s feel grateful for the safety that we have 🙏

    • @charlotterogers466
      @charlotterogers466 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lisaglamour I agree and thanks for your reply and clarification! 🙏❤️

  • @Raspberrycooki1
    @Raspberrycooki1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look so so stunning in black 🤩💯

  • @katechristiansen1774
    @katechristiansen1774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lisa could you make a video with tips on how to turn men down in a ladylike way? I am afraid to be noticed because then I get men im not interested in talking to me or asking me out and I dont know how to handle it well.

  • @alissiamiller7291
    @alissiamiller7291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You make me feel like a lady ❤

  • @Jasmineflorence
    @Jasmineflorence 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you !! You have really helped me 🩷

  • @Latarniczka
    @Latarniczka 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great thoughts and wonderful outfit! What is it? You look gorgeous always!

  • @sunflowersseeds_
    @sunflowersseeds_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KIRAN143K
    @KIRAN143K 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Superb😗💋😗👄😗😗😗😗😗😗😗😗

  • @isabellafiorito316
    @isabellafiorito316 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏👏👏

  • @desireemartin6197
    @desireemartin6197 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can tell you are very spiritual and believe in God and Jesus. You are not able to heal and let go of shame without giving it all to God and talking it out with supportive close people. God changes our lives and helps us become free. Praise the Lord for the blessings we can and cannot see 💗

  • @lalyrhine
    @lalyrhine 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love u❤

  • @Heydontgetpanic
    @Heydontgetpanic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YOU ARE LOVE LISA:]

  • @yeahweburnstuff
    @yeahweburnstuff 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OMG! Lisa are you now married???
    🥰🥰🥰

  • @loribledsoe2795
    @loribledsoe2795 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😘

  • @aholmes0024
    @aholmes0024 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😀

  • @CharliesAngel3036
    @CharliesAngel3036 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @Lisaglamour please help! Boundaries are a really new and scary thing for me so I would love if you could help me. I matched with a guy and we set a date to meet after my holiday. I then didn’t hear from him for the entire time I was away. I messaged him on my return and the date was today which he mentioned. However he didn’t arrange a time or location until about 2hrs beforehand. I politely told him I needed more advanced warning and he hasn’t taken it that well and now I feel bad. Am I wrong?

  • @The_NonDescript
    @The_NonDescript 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so... thinking that dating is easy... does it come with the mentality or just looking the part have to come first, because I'm certain I'm going to have a harder time dating than Lisa lol 😅

  • @FB-bo3sj
    @FB-bo3sj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Where are you from originally? Love ur accent

  • @natashafransiya
    @natashafransiya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you my dear for your advices 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @faeriesnowqueen
    @faeriesnowqueen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @collettemireille-castiglione
    @collettemireille-castiglione 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent