I was told from Australian, American and European exes that " 50/50 is normal. If woman wants her partner to pay all, that's like prostitute!!! Paying for women is very very old and sad." I learned their languages and even moved to their countries, I was working, cooking, cleaning etc... My mom and older sister are very masculine and being delicate and liking feminine things were laughed at and shamed in my life. So, I grew up trying to change myself. Being strong like them and hide my sensitivities. In my heart, I always knew something was wrong and at one point, I couldn't keep faking myself. Thank you so much for speaking up for all the feminine women in the world. It feels so refreshing and empowering to be authentic self even though right now I'm single.
Don't be afraid to be yourself. Be free to be yourself. Don't for the sake of people abandon yourself to pursue others. It will be the most regrettable things if you do. Also the real you is so beautiful than the "fake you" that you've created for others. Believe in yourself. God created you to be beautiful
Those who think so - let them pay 50-50 for the lipstick, for the dress, for the underware, for the time getting ready for dinner with them, for hair do....
I have never felt the need to criticize a man in front of anyone or in a public setting. I do communicate anything that is bothering me when we are alone . Also, physical appearance is CRUCIAL!! And smiling and being polite and playful is fun. ❤
Cam toate stim de cand ne nastem ca e crucial sa arati "b0m ba" daca vrei sa fii tratata cu un minim de decența ca fata/femeie in Romania. Intrebarea e cum reusesti sa ii convingi sa iti cumpere ceva ce vrei, in conditiile in care ei considera ca *li se cuvine* frumusetea noastra iar multora li se pare exagerat sa plateasca *5 lei* pentru o cafea la prima intalnire. Sau ai avut norocul sa fii aleasa de cineva din afara? Te rog, e foarte important si esti aparent singura din comunitate care poate intelege situatia din Romania.
I find never criticising them or correcting them hard because I love banter and to be playful and to surprise or even shock people and then see them laugh. But maybe this makes them see me as more of a friend only
Tony Robbins said something to the effect of: “Some people would rather be right than be in love.” and “You don’t want to make your friends feel wrong all the time.” Nonetheless, if there is an absolutely necessary correction, it’s best to communicate it in private and with tact, not in front of other people, to help preserve their dignity.💡
I feel like if you’re being playful about it they take it as banter and not as disrespectful. Now if your delivery is cold, unwelcoming and a bit too aggressive then they may very well take it as disrespectful
Tone of voice is VERY important in refraining from being lumped in with the boys. Remaining feminine in voice tone has always kept a me outside the friend zone 😉 Good luck!❤
I am probably not a high value man, but I am a late student doctor so I have some opinion. NGL I only examine looks and more importantly character, typing and vibe in person. They can be the hottest girl in the world, but if they have a bad vibe, I am kicking her to the curb. I feel like if you have good character/good person, the vibe follows appropriately. But you can definitely train looks.
Why are you saying you are not a high value man? You can be whatever and whoever you wish to be. If you want to be a high value man (which is not directly correlated to your occupation, though impressive) then be that and you can feel great about openly telling anyone that you ARE a high value man.
Dear Lisa, I always see your content and I learnt a lot! Please kindly make a video on how to handle disrespectful, bad and envyous people? Thanks a lot ❤ you are such an inspiration
Hey lisa thankuu so much for your energy i m from India and i cant explain or express the gratitude towards u universe send u in my life as my angel guider u totally changed me i love you so much ❤️
If you find things that you disagree on, I think it's always fun to "jokingly criticize", like in a playful way, especially if it's something trivial😂 Also I really love your dress!❤
I am trying. But I am now a mom who homeschools, works on the weekends, and still takes care of the home. I have an amazing man by my side who does so much for me but I don't have any time for myself and I have to stay up super late for self care. I still do it but I am burned out.
Might be a good idea to schedule a monthly self-care day. Weekly or Bi-weekly if possible, where you can get out of the house and get some much needed alone time, or get your husband or good friend/ family member to take your children out so you can rest at home. It's never good for us to go go go constantly without proper rest and care. It's not easy to do but typically nothing worth having is. One day every couple weeks? That's not a lot to ask and you're worth it.
Really appreciate your videos. I was in a moment in my relationship where i was frustrated and trying to control an outcome.this reminded me to just focus on myself ❤😊
Lisa you look absolutely stunning, I love this dress in you it gives a retro and chic vibe and you exude classiness every time without fail 🌸 x I have a question, I am asking for a friend who has just been divorced after being married for 1 year but has known her partner for about 5-6 years (reasons being control, manipulation etc.) she will be dating again and is trying speed dating for the first time and was asking for advice on whether she should mention the recent divorce and I was a little stuck on how to answer.. I think in your video you have answered not to go too heavy with this kind of information as it can be overwhelming for men, but when is a good time to bring this up in a brief and if possible elegant way? 🙏 thank you as always for sharing your knowledge and empowering us ladies 😍🌸🤗 xx
If they ask, she could say "I am recently divorced" and leave it at that. She doesn't need to explain anything unless asked to. She may wish to answer a few more questions about it, but she will then have to move the conversation on to something else
Hi sis 💕 I am Marzia from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 I am a 16 years old teenager girl . Recently I started my femininity journey and your videos are helping me a lot in it ❤️😘 You upgraded my confidence , seduction, style , allure and personality to a whole new level 💫 I REALLY love you so so so much Lisa and I am forever grateful to you 🥰💖 EDIT - Can you make a video on how to make your crush like you back by using feminine energy? 🙏🏻
Pretty girl, don’t focus on boys now. You’re too young. Work on yourself! If you’re trying to get him, you’re already putting him in a higher position than you. And then he’s not gonna be able to value you. Cause he’ll be looking down on you. It’s not easy when you’re 16. You must be craving his attention so bad. But try to avoid creating fantasies about him. I’m saying this because you asked. Stop looking for validation. Create your own value from within. Read books. Like the 4 agreements. The power of now. Rich dad, poor dad. Hope it helps. Rarely a boy is worth your time and energy when you’re a teenager. If you continue working on yourself you can find yourself a great guy once you’re around 23.
It's so hard for me to be an unbothered queen - I get bothered by everything it seems. It would be a journey and I will have to learn how to possess confidence like that.
Great video, Lisa. In terms of grooming and looks, what do you think about hair graying? Would you say it's "low-value" to just let the gray strands show or would you dye your hair on a regular basis?
i am forever grateful i found your channel 💕 this is exactly what i needed at this point in my life to further my growth and knowledge on my overall life and femininity! i love listening to you while i workout and have been applying so many of your amazing tips to my life! i smile a little bit bigger and am everyday growing my confidence, self love and happiness! thank you 💕😚
Please do a clueless review pleaaase!! Also thank you for your efforts Lisa we really appreciate it, we had a lot in common to begin with but you helped me discover some important details i seemed to have forgotten about, thank you and god bless you ❤
A little while back I told an old friend of mine that I wanted to work on myself and on becoming and channeling my inner Maddie instead of continuing with allowing myself to keep being a wounded feminine energy like Cassie that I had more been in the past. The truth is that I’m still working on it but videos such as these have taught me so much and have showed me how to be my ideal self and know I have healed so much and I have such a long and wonderful journey to look forward to. I feel so blessed thank you for your very interesting and informative videos Miss Lisa and God Bless you❤️💐✝️
I talked to a high value man and it seems he wanted to talk alot and got smitten that I could actually listen to him lol😂but iw anted to talk too lol. How can we achieve that while maintaining the feminine essence
Talk to your friends. Men don’t care unless they are using the info you give to help them manipulate you. It’s best to maintain a level of mystery and let him know about you little by little over time with investment. Being chatty is masculine so try to tap more into your feminine energy so you will be humble and be a better listener instead.
Fantastic content! Provide a few examples of the behaviour you are promoting so it becomes something people can try as actions and the results they get will.prompt them to join your masterclass.
There is lots of information out there on this. High end hotel bars, high end gyms, go for a walk in a nice neighborhood, upscale grocery stores... Although your comment is quite masculine...
@yeahyecca I'm not even remotely interested in remarks from the "femininity police", be them men or other women, when they don't know the first thing about my situation or the general male mentality in my Eastern European country (and they think anything other than "Hihi, of course, baby!" iS mAsCuLiNe). If I would've found such men or someone would've told me already, I wouldn't have asked about where to find them. As for these ultra-luxurious places, well d'uuh! I was hoping there is at least one where you don't have to spend a fortune just to enter, let alone more than once. I'm also a regular at the gym (the best one in my country) and only get stared at by much older and obvious weird0s, but never get approached with good intentions. And if you're going to reply with the expected "wiTh tHaT aTtiTuDe yadayadayada", don't bother. I won't even read the reply and I'm sure you would've had the same aTtiTuDe if you would've done *everything* you were advised to, but *nothing* worked.
Best way to meet those men is probably through your social circle. 'High value' men are probably quite busy so they focus on a few key relationships, and are less likely to just approach any woman they meet, i.e. strangers. They are looking for much more than looks so he would need to know more than just your looks, i.e. he has to be able to learn about you, either from observation or through mutual acquaintances. This means that just showing up at a gym, hotel, etc and waiting to be approached may not be enough. I really think meeting through your social circle will be the best option, so an activity you both enjoy (e.g. meeting at a tennis club, dance class, etc) or being introduced through mutual acquaintances. High value men are probably looking for a wife, or nothing at all, so they would need a good idea of who you are and if you are what they are looking for before they even approach you. Those are my thoughts anyway. I am a man, and I am not a millionaire or anything but my social circle involves a lot of high value people and this is what I have observed. They are very selective about who and what they spend their time with.
You don't have to pay a fortune. Use your head. And you can thank Communism for the way men are in East Europe. Horrendous... serfs 🤣 I see them in West Europe they are like robots. Non stop working with no life. Or sending the money home. Expecting the woman to do everything. Gross.
Why is everything put mostly and only on physical appearance? I think high value women should be smart and broad minded too, so it can make them nice people to have a conversation with.
That's what everyone judge whether they want to engage with you...First. These are shallow people who only see the exterior. This is why they are getting the results. The same ones are getting choose over and over...it's a nasty way of life.
Because men are visual creatures and put a lot of value on physical appearance. Only a low-value man would leave a woman who doesn’t look perfect all the time, but landing a high-value man in general, requires looking good. That said - physical appearance was like 1 out of a BUNCH of other things, mostly mindset based.
I’ve been looking a long time but where are the high value men? In my experience, Men don’t know how to treat a woman right and in my experience when I have been in emotional distress, most men will look the other way (very few men have cared enough to check on me to see if I’m okay). I will say that I’m getting more attention from men now in my 30’s than I did when I was younger
I don't know your situation but I am a man and in my experience high value men are busy. You may not see them at social events, because they don't really have time to just hang out with people, as they are always making progress and working on something. They may spend more time by themselves, or resting at home even, although they do make time for important people. But high value usually focus on quality, so a few quality relationships (i.e. family and friendships) instead of a lot of shallow relationships, i.e. they are not going to go to a bar to meet strangers . The best way to meet them is probably through a social circle, or events where they can network and make progress on their goals (e.g. business/career), or activities/hobbies that they enjoy (e.g. gym, dance, martial arts, photography club, etc). If you do not have high value men in your social circle then maybe you need to upgrade your social circle. It may indicate that you are not the right sort of woman for a high value man, because people usually associate with people who have a similar mindset, values, etc. You will need to cultivate a few quality relationships with other people who are focused on family, career, community, etc (i.e. adding value). If your social circle emphasises entertainment and enjoying life over adding value to themselves and others then you are not in the right social circle to meet high value men.
@@BelleFleur10 I'm glad I could help! Being an introvert is not as much of a problem as.many people think. A few quality relationships are usually more valuable than knowing many people at a surface level (thought that has advantages too). If you go to events and only make one new friend each time, you will have more than enough friends to deal with. The key as an introvert will be to know people who know other people, i.e. you meet people through mutual acquaintances and friends, and being introduced to them, rather than you having to meet all the new people yourself. This results in a more targeted and appropriate way of meeting people, because usually the people you are introduced to or told about will have something in common, unlike the many random people you might meet as an 'extrovert'. Think of it like marketing by referral or word of mouth, rather than using billboards, advertisements, etc. Less contacts but a better match. It would still pay to learn something from extroverts, but your strength as an introvert is to connect deeply with a few people, so capitalise on that when possible. And remember that you don't need 10 new contacts at a time - you can build your social circle one person at a time (and it's really the only way, to be honest). Find someone you connect with, build that relationship (by spending time outside the context you met them in) until it is solid, then open yourself up to meeting more people. You will find that you only add one at a time, but because you have a solid foundation, you will keep them and those relationships will be very rewarding. And over time you can build up to 10 or so, which is actually a lot of friends. And you will also have acquaintances and connections through your friends. Over time you will probably 'upgrade' your friends, i.e. you will spend more and more time with the people that fit best with you (hopefully you are also growing as a person, so you will fit with better quality people), so your social circle will change over time. But being an introvert isn't too much of a problem, just don't let your shyness limit you. The best cure for self-consciousness is actually 'other consciousness' i.e If you feel yourself getting self-conscious, start thinking about other people instead of what other people might be thinking of you. Get curious and caring about others. Shyness and self-consciousness is really being self-centred, but it's because of fear, anxiety, insecurity, nervousness, etc. But ultimately the problem is a focus on yourself instead of the environment. Get present with people and that will disappear Hope that helps
@@AjedrElx Well, to answer your question I look for a man who has goals, he has to have a sense of humor, always willing to help, kind, humble, empathetic, and someone I can count on.
Can you make a video about: how to find real new friends? I cutted of my friends because they aren’t good for me anymore, they don’t want to improve their lives and so on… I need advice to deal with it, I am 25yrs and it is not so easy as an teen oder child …
Must develop an 'unbothered queen' playlist for everyday life.
Omg I just did this like a fun sexy playlist it's life changing.
Wich songs do You recommend?
@@MaUX1000there's a playlist in Spotify "hot main character energy" with Blair Waldorf prf. I like that one
Always be yourself!!!! If not your soul will die . Do not change who you are to make anyone comfortable.
Beautifully said
I was told from Australian, American and European exes that " 50/50 is normal. If woman wants her partner to pay all, that's like prostitute!!! Paying for women is very very old and sad."
I learned their languages and even moved to their countries, I was working, cooking, cleaning etc...
My mom and older sister are very masculine and being delicate and liking feminine things were laughed at and shamed in my life. So, I grew up trying to change myself. Being strong like them and hide my sensitivities.
In my heart, I always knew something was wrong and at one point, I couldn't keep faking myself.
Thank you so much for speaking up for all the feminine women in the world.
It feels so refreshing and empowering to be authentic self even though right now I'm single.
I like your opinion. What do you value positively in a man?
Don't be afraid to be yourself. Be free to be yourself. Don't for the sake of people abandon yourself to pursue others. It will be the most regrettable things if you do.
Also the real you is so beautiful than the "fake you" that you've created for others. Believe in yourself. God created you to be beautiful
Same! (I'm from France)
It s because sex is free especially in europe and these men are broke choose more decent ones and make it a movement " i dont do 50/50"
Those who think so - let them pay 50-50 for the lipstick, for the dress, for the underware, for the time getting ready for dinner with them, for hair do....
In one word we can say "self love "
I have never felt the need to criticize a man in front of anyone or in a public setting. I do communicate anything that is bothering me when we are alone .
Also, physical appearance is CRUCIAL!! And smiling and being polite and playful is fun. ❤
Cam toate stim de cand ne nastem ca e crucial sa arati "b0m ba" daca vrei sa fii tratata cu un minim de decența ca fata/femeie in Romania. Intrebarea e cum reusesti sa ii convingi sa iti cumpere ceva ce vrei, in conditiile in care ei considera ca *li se cuvine* frumusetea noastra iar multora li se pare exagerat sa plateasca *5 lei* pentru o cafea la prima intalnire. Sau ai avut norocul sa fii aleasa de cineva din afara? Te rog, e foarte important si esti aparent singura din comunitate care poate intelege situatia din Romania.
What do you value positively in a man?
I find never criticising them or correcting them hard because I love banter and to be playful and to surprise or even shock people and then see them laugh. But maybe this makes them see me as more of a friend only
Tony Robbins said something to the effect of: “Some people would rather be right than be in love.” and “You don’t want to make your friends feel wrong all the time.”
Nonetheless, if there is an absolutely necessary correction, it’s best to communicate it in private and with tact, not in front of other people, to help preserve their dignity.💡
I feel like if you’re being playful about it they take it as banter and not as disrespectful. Now if your delivery is cold, unwelcoming and a bit too aggressive then they may very well take it as disrespectful
yep they're going to see you as one of the guys they're going to fart in front of you
Tone of voice is VERY important in refraining from being lumped in with the boys. Remaining feminine in voice tone has always kept a me outside the friend zone 😉 Good luck!❤
What do you value positively in a man?
I love that you are showing more of your true self in front of the camera, you look so comfortable now
I let stuff get to me and I feel I spend more time being bothered than being unbothered.
Ohh I always feel like such a princess watching your videos, thank you for straightening our crowns. Sending love and gratitude 💗✨
What do you value positively in a man?
Must Be HIGH VALUE Always! ♡♡♡
I am probably not a high value man, but I am a late student doctor so I have some opinion. NGL I only examine looks and more importantly character, typing and vibe in person. They can be the hottest girl in the world, but if they have a bad vibe, I am kicking her to the curb. I feel like if you have good character/good person, the vibe follows appropriately. But you can definitely train looks.
Why are you saying you are not a high value man? You can be whatever and whoever you wish to be. If you want to be a high value man (which is not directly correlated to your occupation, though impressive) then be that and you can feel great about openly telling anyone that you ARE a high value man.
@@merlindodson7562 Yeah I mean even if I was, I would not open as saying “I am a high value man”
Appreciate your perspective. Thanks for sharing 🙂
Dear Lisa, I always see your content and I learnt a lot! Please kindly make a video on how to handle disrespectful, bad and envyous people? Thanks a lot ❤ you are such an inspiration
Lisa I've been waiting for this video and you never disappoint me with your videos you are my truly truly inspiration😭💗💫
4:55 Ma'am you are absolutely stunning. You look quite attractive in that dress
Hey lisa thankuu so much for your energy i m from India and i cant explain or express the gratitude towards u universe send u in my life as my angel guider u totally changed me i love you so much ❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you find things that you disagree on, I think it's always fun to "jokingly criticize", like in a playful way, especially if it's something trivial😂 Also I really love your dress!❤
What do you value positively in a man?
@@AjedrElx I like when we're at the same intellectual level
@@theclassyconsultant. Sapiosexual?
I am trying. But I am now a mom who homeschools, works on the weekends, and still takes care of the home. I have an amazing man by my side who does so much for me but I don't have any time for myself and I have to stay up super late for self care. I still do it but I am burned out.
Might be a good idea to schedule a monthly self-care day. Weekly or Bi-weekly if possible, where you can get out of the house and get some much needed alone time, or get your husband or good friend/ family member to take your children out so you can rest at home. It's never good for us to go go go constantly without proper rest and care. It's not easy to do but typically nothing worth having is. One day every couple weeks? That's not a lot to ask and you're worth it.
@@lhughes6656 thank you!🙏
girl pleasssse how do you get your hair so shiny ??? you look absolutely beautiful as usual xo
What dress is this - sorry but I love it so much and is literally what I've been searching for for hours!!!
Same! I need this dress! ❤
You are so pretty, cute dress❤ It reminds me of Brigitte Bardot dresses in 50s. Would you like to make a video about her someday?
French?
Fantastic information, Lisa - well done - thank you very much
love your videos and I love the polka dot dress 😍 Please tell us where you bought the dress
Really appreciate your videos. I was in a moment in my relationship where i was frustrated and trying to control an outcome.this reminded me to just focus on myself ❤😊
Yes!!!!! I need to do some work!!!! Thank-you!!!! Soooo true!!!! xoox
Lisa you look absolutely stunning, I love this dress in you it gives a retro and chic vibe and you exude classiness every time without fail 🌸 x I have a question, I am asking for a friend who has just been divorced after being married for 1 year but has known her partner for about 5-6 years (reasons being control, manipulation etc.) she will be dating again and is trying speed dating for the first time and was asking for advice on whether she should mention the recent divorce and I was a little stuck on how to answer.. I think in your video you have answered not to go too heavy with this kind of information as it can be overwhelming for men, but when is a good time to bring this up in a brief and if possible elegant way? 🙏 thank you as always for sharing your knowledge and empowering us ladies 😍🌸🤗 xx
If they ask, she could say "I am recently divorced" and leave it at that. She doesn't need to explain anything unless asked to. She may wish to answer a few more questions about it, but she will then have to move the conversation on to something else
Hi sis 💕 I am Marzia from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 I am a 16 years old teenager girl . Recently I started my femininity journey and your videos are helping me a lot in it ❤️😘 You upgraded my confidence , seduction, style , allure and personality to a whole new level 💫 I REALLY love you so so so much Lisa and I am forever grateful to you 🥰💖
EDIT - Can you make a video on how to make your crush like you back by using feminine energy? 🙏🏻
Me too!!
All the George Clooney’s are taken lol 😂
Pretty girl, don’t focus on boys now. You’re too young. Work on yourself!
If you’re trying to get him, you’re already putting him in a higher position than you. And then he’s not gonna be able to value you. Cause he’ll be looking down on you. It’s not easy when you’re 16. You must be craving his attention so bad. But try to avoid creating fantasies about him. I’m saying this because you asked. Stop looking for validation. Create your own value from within. Read books. Like the 4 agreements. The power of now. Rich dad, poor dad. Hope it helps. Rarely a boy is worth your time and energy when you’re a teenager. If you continue working on yourself you can find yourself a great guy once you’re around 23.
@@MelinaviolinoThank you so much for your advice 🥺❤️
The fluctuations in life are what allow us to truly grasp the essence of living.
Where do you get most of your dresses, you look amazing by the way as always! 🌹❤️🔥
It's so hard for me to be an unbothered queen - I get bothered by everything it seems. It would be a journey and I will have to learn how to possess confidence like that.
Where is your dress from?
Great video, Lisa. In terms of grooming and looks, what do you think about hair graying? Would you say it's "low-value" to just let the gray strands show or would you dye your hair on a regular basis?
Love the dress! Where did you get it?
i am forever grateful i found your channel 💕 this is exactly what i needed at this point in my life to further my growth and knowledge on my overall life and femininity! i love listening to you while i workout and have been applying so many of your amazing tips to my life! i smile a little bit bigger and am everyday growing my confidence, self love and happiness! thank you 💕😚
Easy for a flawless supermodel looking woman to say don't compare yourself.
Thank you ❤
Very useful tips and reminders ❤
Dress link please!❤️
Thank you Lisa ❤☀️🌻
Please do a clueless review pleaaase!! Also thank you for your efforts Lisa we really appreciate it, we had a lot in common to begin with but you helped me discover some important details i seemed to have forgotten about, thank you and god bless you ❤
A little while back I told an old friend of mine that I wanted to work on myself and on becoming and channeling my inner Maddie instead of continuing with allowing myself to keep being a wounded feminine energy like Cassie that I had more been in the past.
The truth is that I’m still working on it but videos such as these have taught me so much and have showed me how to be my ideal self and know I have healed so much and I have such a long and wonderful journey to look forward to. I feel so blessed thank you for your very interesting and informative videos Miss Lisa and God Bless you❤️💐✝️
That's all is definetely true
Thank You
Loved this!
What do you value positively in a man?
@@AjedrElx correct leadership
@@quantiadhana331 i like It. You are right!
I talked to a high value man and it seems he wanted to talk alot and got smitten that I could actually listen to him lol😂but iw anted to talk too lol. How can we achieve that while maintaining the feminine essence
no one ever says anything about this I literally listen to some man for 42 minutes once!
Talk to your friends. Men don’t care unless they are using the info you give to help them manipulate you. It’s best to maintain a level of mystery and let him know about you little by little over time with investment. Being chatty is masculine so try to tap more into your feminine energy so you will be humble and be a better listener instead.
THIS IS TERRIBLE ADVICE. You're setting yourself up to never be heard or respected @@Diamond888Rose
Fantastic content! Provide a few examples of the behaviour you are promoting so it becomes something people can try as actions and the results they get will.prompt them to join your masterclass.
Very good instruction!
Loved it! 🥰
Unbothered princess, unbothered child of an all powerful God. High level high value
This works only with a healthy man though
Yes this is what I said 😘
@@Lisaglamour I guess I wasn’t paying enough attention 😅
Still waiting for an answer on where to find the men who are actuslly worthy of demands.
There is lots of information out there on this. High end hotel bars, high end gyms, go for a walk in a nice neighborhood, upscale grocery stores... Although your comment is quite masculine...
@yeahyecca I'm not even remotely interested in remarks from the "femininity police", be them men or other women, when they don't know the first thing about my situation or the general male mentality in my Eastern European country (and they think anything other than "Hihi, of course, baby!" iS mAsCuLiNe). If I would've found such men or someone would've told me already, I wouldn't have asked about where to find them. As for these ultra-luxurious places, well d'uuh! I was hoping there is at least one where you don't have to spend a fortune just to enter, let alone more than once. I'm also a regular at the gym (the best one in my country) and only get stared at by much older and obvious weird0s, but never get approached with good intentions.
And if you're going to reply with the expected "wiTh tHaT aTtiTuDe yadayadayada", don't bother. I won't even read the reply and I'm sure you would've had the same aTtiTuDe if you would've done *everything* you were advised to, but *nothing* worked.
Best way to meet those men is probably through your social circle. 'High value' men are probably quite busy so they focus on a few key relationships, and are less likely to just approach any woman they meet, i.e. strangers. They are looking for much more than looks so he would need to know more than just your looks, i.e. he has to be able to learn about you, either from observation or through mutual acquaintances. This means that just showing up at a gym, hotel, etc and waiting to be approached may not be enough.
I really think meeting through your social circle will be the best option, so an activity you both enjoy (e.g. meeting at a tennis club, dance class, etc) or being introduced through mutual acquaintances.
High value men are probably looking for a wife, or nothing at all, so they would need a good idea of who you are and if you are what they are looking for before they even approach you.
Those are my thoughts anyway. I am a man, and I am not a millionaire or anything but my social circle involves a lot of high value people and this is what I have observed. They are very selective about who and what they spend their time with.
@@yeahyeccaWhat do you value positively in a man?
You don't have to pay a fortune. Use your head. And you can thank Communism for the way men are in East Europe. Horrendous... serfs 🤣 I see them in West Europe they are like robots. Non stop working with no life. Or sending the money home. Expecting the woman to do everything. Gross.
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Why is everything put mostly and only on physical appearance? I think high value women should be smart and broad minded too, so it can make them nice people to have a conversation with.
I did NOT only talk about physical appearance, here. I did talk about being many things in this video, which also include being educated and smart.
That's what everyone judge whether they want to engage with you...First. These are shallow people who only see the exterior. This is why they are getting the results. The same ones are getting choose over and over...it's a nasty way of life.
Because men are visual creatures and put a lot of value on physical appearance.
Only a low-value man would leave a woman who doesn’t look perfect all the time, but landing a high-value man in general, requires looking good.
That said - physical appearance was like 1 out of a BUNCH of other things, mostly mindset based.
Well men are definitely visual creatures. So looking good & being fit is definitely a bonus.
Lisa! This dress is beautiful! Where is it from 😍
I’ve been looking a long time but where are the high value men? In my experience, Men don’t know how to treat a woman right and in my experience when I have been in emotional distress, most men will look the other way (very few men have cared enough to check on me to see if I’m okay). I will say that I’m getting more attention from men now in my 30’s than I did when I was younger
I don't know your situation but I am a man and in my experience high value men are busy. You may not see them at social events, because they don't really have time to just hang out with people, as they are always making progress and working on something. They may spend more time by themselves, or resting at home even, although they do make time for important people.
But high value usually focus on quality, so a few quality relationships (i.e. family and friendships) instead of a lot of shallow relationships, i.e. they are not going to go to a bar to meet strangers .
The best way to meet them is probably through a social circle, or events where they can network and make progress on their goals (e.g. business/career), or activities/hobbies that they enjoy (e.g. gym, dance, martial arts, photography club, etc).
If you do not have high value men in your social circle then maybe you need to upgrade your social circle. It may indicate that you are not the right sort of woman for a high value man, because people usually associate with people who have a similar mindset, values, etc. You will need to cultivate a few quality relationships with other people who are focused on family, career, community, etc (i.e. adding value). If your social circle emphasises entertainment and enjoying life over adding value to themselves and others then you are not in the right social circle to meet high value men.
@@BelleFleur10 I'm glad I could help!
Being an introvert is not as much of a problem as.many people think. A few quality relationships are usually more valuable than knowing many people at a surface level (thought that has advantages too). If you go to events and only make one new friend each time, you will have more than enough friends to deal with.
The key as an introvert will be to know people who know other people, i.e. you meet people through mutual acquaintances and friends, and being introduced to them, rather than you having to meet all the new people yourself.
This results in a more targeted and appropriate way of meeting people, because usually the people you are introduced to or told about will have something in common, unlike the many random people you might meet as an 'extrovert'.
Think of it like marketing by referral or word of mouth, rather than using billboards, advertisements, etc. Less contacts but a better match.
It would still pay to learn something from extroverts, but your strength as an introvert is to connect deeply with a few people, so capitalise on that when possible. And remember that you don't need 10 new contacts at a time - you can build your social circle one person at a time (and it's really the only way, to be honest). Find someone you connect with, build that relationship (by spending time outside the context you met them in) until it is solid, then open yourself up to meeting more people.
You will find that you only add one at a time, but because you have a solid foundation, you will keep them and those relationships will be very rewarding. And over time you can build up to 10 or so, which is actually a lot of friends. And you will also have acquaintances and connections through your friends.
Over time you will probably 'upgrade' your friends, i.e. you will spend more and more time with the people that fit best with you (hopefully you are also growing as a person, so you will fit with better quality people), so your social circle will change over time.
But being an introvert isn't too much of a problem, just don't let your shyness limit you. The best cure for self-consciousness is actually 'other consciousness' i.e
If you feel yourself getting self-conscious, start thinking about other people instead of what other people might be thinking of you. Get curious and caring about others.
Shyness and self-consciousness is really being self-centred, but it's because of fear, anxiety, insecurity, nervousness, etc. But ultimately the problem is a focus on yourself instead of the environment. Get present with people and that will disappear
Hope that helps
What do you value positively in a man?
@@AjedrElx Well, to answer your question I look for a man who has goals, he has to have a sense of humor, always willing to help, kind, humble, empathetic, and someone I can count on.
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Can you make a video about: how to find real new friends? I cutted of my friends because they aren’t good for me anymore, they don’t want to improve their lives and so on… I need advice to deal with it, I am 25yrs and it is not so easy as an teen oder child …
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A lot of information on how to be the perfect woman in a world of imperfect men 😂...
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