7 Things that Destroy your Feminine Energy !
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Hello darlings, today we talk about 7 things that destroy your feminine energy. Our feminine energy is precious and sometimes certain things of situations can destroy it. Of course we all have masculine and feminine energy in us, but as woman our feminine energy is when we feel truly fabulous.
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I just went out with a guy, I’m 20 and he is 22. We went on a lunch date. I could see he is wealthy, but the important thing is - it’s not his money. He doesn’t work nor study. I was like okay, do you have any ambitions, what would you like to do in life? Nothing. He does nothing all day long. And wants to do nothing. Just spends, I assume, dad’s/mom’s money. He only goes to the gym. Also, when the waiter brought food/drink he didn’t say thank you. And he was wearing a tracksuit. After the date he wrote maybe 2 more messages and that’s it. Like HE ghosted ME. Ofc I wouldn’t ghost, I would say sry, not interested, bye. In a classy way ofc💅🏻 Anyway, just wanted to share that😅 Praying to God to send me a real man🙏🏻
Thank you millions for sharing your story. I definetly needed to hear that. Money isn't or means anything just by itself. The person, the MAN beyond the money is what/who is going to make you happy in a longterm relationship
@@adavilaparreno5322 Believe me, with a guy like this one the only thing you would spend money on would be a good therapist🤣 Money means nothing if he doesn’t have manners, ambition etc. That’s not a MAN, period. 😇🫶🏻
@@anotherblondie Yes! He'll probably end up being depressed and turning to drugs/alcohol.....everyone needs goals to work towards or something in your life!
Hmm. I'd say he doesn't really have money and he was checking to see if you do. I'm a grandma and I've seen it all :) If nothing else he certainly does not have class. Be very careful what type of people you get accustomed to being around.
Same happened to me . Never lower your standards . Intelligence and having an ambition is a must for a man
The Princess and the Frog is a fantastic example of how a woman who was socially conditioned into her masculine energy find a healthy balance of both that and feminine energy. Tiana learned to dance, to love, and to receive from others. Sure, she was leveling up in the beginning but it was to fulfill another man’s dream, not her own. Once she prioritized herself, she not only brought those visions into reality, she got everything she wanted and THEN some!
This was relaxing. I destroyed by feminine energy by overthinking about the future with a man, giving an insecure reply to a text and later dwelling about it. I recovered from it and I feel so much more better and in tune with my feminine energy listening to you. Thank You.
Me too. How could you stop insecure texts to a man?
Should we stop texting him at all or we act like nothing serious?
@@dugonhan2152 I found out that pretending I'm not serious doesn't work on me, inner me remains desperate and subconsciously acts upon it.
Here's what you can do, tell yourself some affirmations repeatedly.
I am not serious about him.
If he doesn't align with the type of man I want, I don't want him.
He isn't the one choosing me, I will be choosing him. Hence, I'll see if I like him.
If not, I'll move on to another man.
I have a life.
I come first, then my family, friends, career, morals and then him. He's not important to me yet.
It's okay to hurt people (not cruelly) if you have to be true to yourself.
Don't sacrifice things for him until he sacrifices the same amount.
Value your time.
Shut down 24/7 thoughts about him.
When do you text him? He texts you twice, you text him once. He doesn't text you? You overthink and dwell on it? Turn the tables. You don't have any power over him but you have power over yourself.
Lemme give you an example.
Say he texts you everyday and you guys talk at night. One fine day he doesn't texts you. You'd get insecure and wait desperately for his call, but this time don't pick his call up, don't seenzone him. Ignore him completely. If he doesn't call, call, see the next day and ignore if he does. If he still doesn't, you call him. Ask him if he's okay and that you thought he's eaten by zombies or something (insert joke using cool tone). See what he does next. If he still doesn't put effort, it's time to move on.
It’s so cute that you gave her such a detailed, kind, and useful answer. I am wishing you ladies the best
Flower gardening and flower knowledge has helped me a lot! Gardening might be"dirty" and hard work BUT, you are interacting with nature 🍀🌷 and NURTURING a living being.
This!!
Gardening is the best therapy. It is so calming
Ptsd has really destroyed my feminine energy. I’ve attracted too many bad people in my life. I wish to attract a truly loving soulmate and more loving friends too
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Yoga 🧘🏻♀️ relaxes me a lot. I do it 5 days a week. On the weekends, one way I relax is to go shopping and have a nice brunch. Gotta love those mimosas 🥂 😂. Thank you for a wonderful video again.
I need more friends that enjoy these things too ❤
Same.
Yeah Yoga is amazin
@@Alexislov33__ mee too!
Loved the video! Wish it was longer💖💖
Another thing that can destroy your feminine energy is it not being in touch with your cycle or not knowing what phase you’re in. I’m 32 and barely now I’m realizing the ups and downs are caused by hormones. Planning your best activities during ovulation and fertile phases are game changers! It’s extremely important as women to be in touch and intuitive with our reproductive system and cycle. It affects our mood, energy, desires and everything! I highly recommend that woman research and discover their own body and cycle. There are apps that help you track your cycle and it’s very eye opening and helpful!
I've been tracking my period for years but I avoid some things when I will be on my period. No house guests just got added to the list.
Which apps do you recommend?
@@anastaciathomas1215 yes!! Good idea Haha 😆
Period time is like “me-time”. I’ve learned to view it from a spiritual perspective as well and it makes everything so much more meaningful and deep. (Divine Feminine energy)
Thank you. I am 30 and I started to be aware of it.
So true! One week before, I’m an insecure mess! It never fails. I never paid attention previously although others close to me would point it out. Now, like clockwork, if I’m second-guessing, overthinking, thinking I’m ugly, or just super insecure, chances are it’s one week before. Great comment!
Olivia Pope is the perfect mix between masculine and feminine energy, also Elle Woods in Legally Blonde...and the one and only Amal Clooney
Yes!!!
Amal Clooney? LOL
*Top Three Audiobooks*
1) _How to win friends and influence people._
2) _The 48 laws of power._
3) _The way of the superior man._
You could do a video on how to deal with heartbreaks and mean men. The world needs more gentlemen
Can you blame our generation? Every girl wants bad boys nowadays....
@@dotdot6008 It depends how much you value yourself - how you want to be treated
I have a lot of "masculine" interests but watching your videos helps me be more in touch with my raw feminine energy since I tend to be up in my head a lot lol. Thank you for your elegant & eloquent advice!
I really feel going in nature and relaxing in the sun brings out my feminine💕✨🌷☀️
I also think being very loud destroys feminine energy!
I love white pants! I love white in general, it enhances my brown skin and I wear it a lot in the summer. And you're right, doing a job that you hate will definitely destroy your feminine energy.
Nothing kills femininity more than a stressed husband that's building a company and brand and expects you to help him with it 😣😣😣
You said a mouthful there! I am with someone who is mad that he is the provider and always complains to me that he wants someone who can take care of him for a change.
I guess he is trying to use his feminine energy on me, needless to say, it can be very annoying not to mention draining.
There can only be one queen.😃
@healer subs Thank you. I agree wholeheartedly! He walks around acting like he is the Queen of Sheba!😬😂
Usually when a man says this he is trying to express something other than you providing money etc. Maybe he feels neglected or needs more of something from you than he is getting right now….. That’s been the case with my husband but idk you or your situation but maybe that could be it. If so do something he loves that you do that takes a burden off his shoulders. For example: if you usually tell him to wash his dishes or pick up his clothes don’t complain if you usually do and just do it for him for awhile. If you don’t complain maybe amp up something he loves like massage or sexy time.
Also I’ve had this problem before my best suggestion is ask what exactly he needs help with and let him know you will try to help where and when you can. If it’s too stressful let him know xyz is a lot for me right now because of xyz it could be the stress is taking away from you being a good wife or mother. Maybe he will understand better but always let him know you will try where you are able too.
@Pink Rouge DO NOT DO IT
My bf says if we live Together I need to pay into housing costs. He bought another car yet complains he has no money. We never travel either. Yes lots of negative energy. It is draining!
Respectfully, that man will rob you of your youth and energy. Please consider finding a masculine man that cherishes you and is happy to provide!
Single parenting is a feminine killer. I have to provide and protect. My child is also handicapped. So I have to hustle and care. This isn’t a choice unfortunately. What your talking about is a privilege
You look amazing, I love your top. Im in my 50’s and I don’t like to show my arms, this style of top will allow me to cover my arms but also look sexy. I’m learning so much from someone who is more than half my age, you are an inspiration.
Me having temper of Donald Duck...
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Just watching this video has undone some of the damage these things have done in the past few weeks
I lack feminine hobbies . Sometimes I just feel too busy or in free time I just want to binge tv😪
Love this video! Been working on my feminine energy the past few weeks. Had no idea I was often in masculine energy previously, being a mom to two boys. Always had my guard up in relationships, overthinking, worrying, etc. I don’t want to be like that anymore. I am now becoming much lighter, peaceful, calm, and videos like yours are helping me so much! Thank you!❤️
That top looks stunning on you!
thank you 🌹
I started wearing long braids and dresses as a statement of embracing my feminine energy. I Love this vídeo. Thank you darling💚💛💜
I love cooking and baking 😊❤️
I have to add a reminder to my phone " be feminine" 😊
I do PIYO as my exercise, it does help with stress. I also soak in Epsom bath salts, do a wordsearch. We women need to take care of ourselves and stop feeling guilty for taking time for ourselves
First, third, fourth and the seventh advice really is true.
Especially regarding the subjects you mention in other videos. (Competing and overexposure.)
Once again you made another great video Lisa.
Happy Good Friday.
You inspire me, watching your videos really puts me in a better mood and I want to take some mannerisms from you since I find them extremely soft.
These are some excellent tips to look out for. It is very important to be aware of them what we can do to push them away and not fall into their "traps." In my personal opinion, I think that stress can be the one cause that allows for the other situations to happen and that's not good for us both physically and mentally. Life can be unpredictable, but it is also important that we look after ourselves too.
Looking forward to more videos!
I loved the red blouse with white pant 😍 Thank you for another wonderful video 💕
Good afternoon Lisa, I so enjoy your video content. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Would you please consider creating a video on ways that women can express their charm to make men feel more masculine? Thank you!
I love that you always remind us to relax, is amazing 💖
Brilliant video lisaa🌷,watching your videos brings me alot of joyy with your elegance and femininity that always inspires me💌also would love to see your breakdown to Brigitte bardot femininty 💞
A great video I clicked fast. Thanksx
New follower and loving your vibe ✨❤️🌸. Lovely and delightful. Merci🤗🌹
I think it is very feminine to craft things like e.g. greeting cards etc. Even if you just cut out some simple shapes and put some personal handwriting on there can be very classy because you invested time and thought. People close to you will appreciate it
Could I ask for a video about hobbies/pastimes? These are so important and define us. Thank you.
Such an awesome video , Lisa ❤
I like gaming. Although it’s not a stereotypical “feminine” thing, I do like gaming because it releases stress and worries and gives me dopamine because I need it. That is my “unfeminine” hobby I do as a feminine lady. Everyone should try it. Not gonna lie…
I don’t think gaming should only go into the category of masculine hobbies you can still be femeninne with it by your behavior let’s say playing with other people, there are feminine girls who play video games nowadays as long as it makes you happy that’s still some type of knowledge!!
Gaming is for the girliess 💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻
It being a masculine thing is so outdated
Great video!! Thank you very helpful
Thank you queen!
IT WAS SO HELPFUL🤩🤩
Love your content you should make a podcast as well😍
Love your outfit!
Thank you for your support
Thanks Lisa 🌸🤍😊🛍✨
Thank you for this video!🤍 i have a suggestion can you make a video talking about first date advices and how to behave, i really need that and maybe a lot of your subscribers are in need of that thank you so much 🌸🌸💕
I try to take one thing and work on it for a little while….for about a few weeks; I’ve been working on doing things slower…slower movements…I’m the kind of girl that; even when I’m walking; I just walk so fast….now; even typing this; I try to type it slower….more fluid movements….ahhh…ouhhh…yeah…lol
Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
I love this video❤️
Thank you Ms. Hart! You're videos have helped me rediscover my femininity and I absolutely LOVE it!❤
Hi Lisa ☺️ love your videos! Wondering if you could do one on ‘A place in the sun’ starring Liz Taylor? She is the ultimate bohemian/ princess archetype in this movie!
love you lisa
First thank you for your extraordinary content always well explained. I have a question on you I see your pink coat I did actually search a long long time for exactly same coat please where can I get it?
My husband and I moved out to his family’s farm and now he works there.
Femininity is all but frowned upon on the farm. Spending time or money on yourself or relaxing or having hobbies is seen as selfish and wasteful. Dressing in a particularly feminine way is questioned unless you are going into town. Everyone is expected to push themselves hard and strive or else be labelled as lazy.
It’s very difficult for me to swim against the tide out here 😢
Be lazy, they call you lazy because, they are jealous they can’t be because, they have too work. Taking care of your feminity is a lot of work.
What is your husband's attitude towards your feminity though? If he appreciates the effort, the rest doesn't matter because you don't share a house with them. It's probably also a lot of jealousy, because people in situations like that are so focused on work and labour that they cannot focus on being feminine
We have one life to enjoy and be happy in ...
@@akay3787 you know, you’re probably dead right. Thanks for the perspective.
My husband likes my femininity.
I love the satin off the shoulder blouse you are wearing at the beginning of the video please let me know where I can get that 😀
It’s not always good to only express our negative emotions on our loved ones I suggest counselling for that. I have a friend that is constantly bombarding me with all her troubles with men.,with all her troubles with work. I can’t take it anymore. We need to stay HOPEFUL IN LIFE. If you lose hope you will wither internally.
That rusty peach color looks great on you 😍 ☺️ ❤️
My Dear,
Could you please make a video about how to deal with your family, especially parents, if they still see you as a teenager or as anything for that matter, but not as an elegant and grown up woman?
It‘s a very important and highly problematic topic for me. I am a 30 years old female, and I was (and honestly still am) a tomboy, mostly wearing T-shirts and jeans while radiating more masculine energy and I am perfectly happy with that. At the same time, I have quite feminine mannerisms.
Sometimes I like to dress really feminine and classy without a special event. But I am always scared to meet my parents like this, everytime it happens I get to hear „where is our daughter?“ or „why are you suddenly being weird?“. If I am completly honest, it hurts me very much. And I‘m sure it doesn‘t help that no woman of my whole family is the „classy feminine lady“ type. Do you have any advice for me?😊 Thank you for reading💕
Some years ago, I used to watch a channel that spread awareness about DID... What I learned from it, each and every human has more than one personality and should be free to express it. You must release the need of being validated or avoiding being judged and, instead, just express yourself however you want. I understand where you are at because sometimes I just love dressing weeb-y and sometimes I dress up classy and I have my sweet personality moments but I really know when to release the badass in me... Most important is to accept yourself ☺️💞 must blessings, hope this helped!
where did you get your brown top from? I love your fashion, it's so elegant and feminine!
First time in forever I'm clicking so fast
Yes me too
I absolutely love that pink coat at 5:50, I NEED it in my life. where is it from, please??
🍀🌾LISA IS A QUEEN🌻🌹
Love the pink coat, very feminine ❤Would love to know where it would be available to buy one, if you don't mind. Thank you!
My job is destroying my feminine everything.
Hi Lisa, can you pls recommend/do a sort of discussion on a list of movies that embrace femininity? Thank you.
you should watch 90's movies
My family its one of the things that destroy my feminine energy 😞 Its really stressfull!
Sorry to hear hun. Please be sure to try and seek help. This can be detrimental to your mental health and physical health to be going through a lot of stress. Try speaking with a therapist or a counselor, whatever you do don’t settle and get used to the situation. 🙏🏼 Sending you much love. 💖✨
@@life.as.victoria Thank you for the kind words!🥰
@@arliesimplicio7241 you’re welcome! I know what it’s like to go through stressful family situations. We don’t realize until later when the damage is already done. Don’t wait too long to take action. You are capable and strong. 💖✨
Do you have a video on how to relax?
Because that is something I have always struggled with.
I'm always in my head. Always focused on what needs to be done.
I know of many activities that could be relaxing, but I can't quite relax enough to enjoy them.
I tried meditation, and I get bored and edgy at the same time.
If I lie down to sunbath, I need to have an audibook, or I get bored.
If I try to relax anywhere in public, I start feeling paranoid and/or on edge.
It's really irritating, and it would be nice with some tips from someone as calm and relaxing as you.
I'm wondering about instances where you need or want something done and the person who's supposed to do it doesn't so you end up stepping in to get it done.
Is that okay or is there a better way to resolve the issue?
It’s hard to let go but I’ve learned that if someone says they’re going to do it, but they haven’t, you should still wait (trust) for them to do it. Or you could ask them nicely, “Will you ABC, please?” Don’t mention anything about you asking before and make sure you use a pleasant tone (even if it’s your 30th time asking). If they say they’re going to do it, trust that they will in THEIR timing, not yours. If you ask again (for the 30th time) and then they ask you to do it, THEN you can nicely take care of it.
Cute feminine outfit!
Hi Lisa these are really helpful videos yet personally I need a good balance between my masculine and feminine sides or either I might lose my health I already lost my ability to walk because of going to extreme of being feminine how can I fix that?
I've suffered 25 years school ambient
I love you so much...thank you 😘❤
I believe trousers can be worn in an elegant, Feminine way. Those look great on you. ( Even if it's jeans - which I myself don't wear except for certain things) . Grace Kelly looked soooo Feminine, even in trousers, because of the way she styled herself.
There are times when it's better to wear trousers, ( or jeans) and " dressing for the occasion/ environment is also some to be considered.
I have noticed so many women , who are younger , that have that Masculine Energy vibe , it's something that has become more prevalent in the last decade. We need that " Masculine Energy," within us, we all have Feminine and Masculine Energy... but it needs to be balanced.
Also.... " Happiness " is an Inside Job ".... it doesnt mean we always pretend we are " happy "....just that we will experience other emotions, ... deal with that in a logical, classy and calm way.... and look for the Silver Lining. Nice video, Miss Lisa.
I love your clothes💞 you are such a beautiful feminine lady! 😘
I LOVE U
Love you too 🥰
Anya chalotra and Kerri Washington are very feminine♡ Those two exude feminity💙😍
I’m dating someone for few months and we’re already talking about engagement and marriage. Meanwhile, my man has officially been divorced for one year but still have pictures of his wife and his ex girlfriend he dated between the wife and me on his profiles on Facebook and Instagram. Is this something I should ask him to remove or am I being too out of line and controlling?
Red flag
feminine is who I am
Thanks for sharing💝💝
I'm also into acting oh my gosh but I wanna avoid envy from The Hollywood stars
early omg
Bonjour Lisa j'adore votre chaîne ! Voulez vous bien faire une vidéo sur votre manucure et pose de vernis favoris? Vernis classique ou semi ou gel etc. Pédicure too, why not?
You look lovely n trousers. Still very much feminine. Where do you buy your tops?
Can you please recommend high-paying feminine jobs??
Ladies: I am 6 feet tall, I work out at the gym, have a middle 6 figure income, three nice cars, and a nice house. I made my money in tech, and I want to make one of you my very special one-and-only. There's a couple of things which are tying me up currently, like managing my late-mother's estate and selling off most of her property. I'm going to keep the beach villa in Italy though. The woman I am seeking - for marriage - will want to start a family with me. I'm 35, and my dream lady should be about my age (a couple of years older is ok). Your looks are only one small part of what I think is important, I really like intelligent and funny. I'll be ready in two years - tops. Wait for me; I am out here looking for you.
Good luck for finding your dream lady
Goodluck
She has * not she have
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I think it is very feminine to craft things like e.g. greeting cards etc. Even if you just cut out some simple shapes and put some personal handwriting on there can be very classy because you invested time and thought. People close to you will appreciate it