How to VALIDATE YOURSELF : Stop Seeking External Validation & Be Ready to Walk Away

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  • Today we talk about How to Validate Yourself ! And how to stop seeking male validation, or friends validation and be ready to walk away from situations that do not serve you. Your self worth should be so high that the validation of others does not matter anymore. How to increase your self worth and self love ? How to decide that you are worthy and stop trying to prove your value to men and others ?
    The answers are in this video :)
    Enjoy :)
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  • @haram4l
    @haram4l ปีที่แล้ว +322

    As a man I can say your videos are important towards growth for a lot of younger woman and it's nice to see a female teach others to embrace their femininity!

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Happy to see a gentleman that appreciate my content 🙏☺️

    • @neshmalifestyletv2737
      @neshmalifestyletv2737 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      * Women not female.

    • @auhbreykumming4429
      @auhbreykumming4429 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@neshmalifestyletv2737 why are you micromanaging someone's positive comment? You're the exact type of woman men don't want to be around.

    • @honeymoonavenue97
      @honeymoonavenue97 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@irinaivanovic9792If men did this in a way that didn’t encourage violence it would be so helpful.

  • @blancheb3533
    @blancheb3533 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I grew up with a narcissistic mom. She just kept criticizing me and made me feel like I had to prove and work on something to be worthy, but it was never enough. It took me a long time to work on my feminine energy and self-esteem. Before my self-love journey I attracted unavailable men where I needed to prove many things for them to love me, ignoring red flags, and them never giving me the commitment I want. Now everytime my parents say something bad to me, undue criticism, shaming me, I no longer internalize it and repel with my positive thoughts and validating my own worth. Thank you Lisa for channels like this

    • @Jenniferrr818
      @Jenniferrr818 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh gawdd same. i always love to be glamoruous and my mom always crticized me so badly that i stopped being myself but i slowly learned that shes narcisstcst . i need to avoid her

  • @ametrineambrosia4929
    @ametrineambrosia4929 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Having autism, don't wanna change it. I think I'm awesome. I WANT a king. But even without, I'm still a goddess 👑

  • @vanessavasquez1099
    @vanessavasquez1099 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Self validation is the key to unbothered mindset, it's like removing a burden off your shoulders.

  • @xzuajkgka3479
    @xzuajkgka3479 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "they value the things they worked hard for. and when they work hard for a woman, they value it"

  • @DeshaunDamon
    @DeshaunDamon ปีที่แล้ว +19

    At age 53, a lot of younger women lose me during communication. Your videos are relaxing and relatable - so I actually learn. Thanks for being who you are. You are important and needed.

  • @Sarahhenderson11
    @Sarahhenderson11 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lisa lots of femininity channels out there, but yours is the most invaluable. Truly, your energy is absolutely beautiful.

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much 🙏❤️

  • @frankyavery
    @frankyavery ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There is a meme you would love. I went something like "It's okay if you don't like me. Not every can have good taste."

  • @withlovechristine3378
    @withlovechristine3378 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish I had access to this type of wisdom when I was younger. I was raised by a single mom, she loved us and raised us as best as she could, but she herself lacked confidence and didn't have a high self worth. I allowed myself to be used by men who saw my desperate need to be loved and was constantly seeking validation/approval from other. I'm almost 50 and just starting to figure this out. Thank you for your content, it will be invaluable to young women.

  • @hristina436
    @hristina436 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I would like to see a dressing feminine video another one with beautiful dresses and everything! 👗👒💅🥿

  • @itsaghosttown
    @itsaghosttown ปีที่แล้ว +12

    3:27 she said it so sweetly

  • @Vixenventures
    @Vixenventures ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I grew up in a really abusive family and as an adult was constantly second guessing myself in every way, unknowingly seeking validation from others to make sure I was handling things the right way or best way. After doing the work and starting to relearn how healthy people behave, I don't seek validation anymore. Being confident shows up as very steadfast and not easily shaken. I love your videos so much, Lisa. You're such an amazing person.

    • @annemuller4499
      @annemuller4499 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here, hugs from Germany dear sister and all the best! 🥰

    • @Vixenventures
      @Vixenventures ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@annemuller4499 Thank you! 💜

    • @jeanniepetrov9934
      @jeanniepetrov9934 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had he same Story and issue . Its beautiful to grow out of this and being confident and happy . Much love ❤

  • @ShaniTheBurningTree
    @ShaniTheBurningTree ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yes! Validation is self authorized. We respect ourselves through discipline and it should be reciprocated. Ever the gracious, ready to turn the cheek and walk away from disgrace.

  • @Scranton0
    @Scranton0 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She is a confident woman encouraging
    Other women to have a positive attitude
    She has one and it is really great to have
    Wearing the finest dresses that she has
    In this video walking along in much beauty
    Wearing only her dress and nothing more

  • @EternalWanderer-it4uf
    @EternalWanderer-it4uf ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every time I see you, you look better than the last. A true level up princess. BY THE WAY!!!! Keep the thumbnail formula it’s so unique and glamorous

  • @carmencarmenatti
    @carmencarmenatti ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I've never had a problem with being who I am.Don't need no one validation but my own.I always listen to my silence💕

  • @gulmillart375
    @gulmillart375 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ohhhh myyyy myyyy what can i say .hattss offf to ur confidence and strenght.

  • @p1111f
    @p1111f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for your wonderful energy and teachings!! ❤

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your support ❤❤

    • @p1111f
      @p1111f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lisaglamour❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LOADING...o.o.o
    @LOADING...o.o.o ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is very true. I didn’t love myself and didn’t value myself. I accepted bare minimum and trying to chase the guy. At the end he didn’t even want me back after I broke up with him once I reached my limit.

  • @hegyesialexa7617
    @hegyesialexa7617 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear Lisa,
    Love your accent, and I learned Italian, I am in love with italian people :) :)

  • @vikm1341
    @vikm1341 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you for this video! I love the way you dress. alot of people would laugh at me for wearing pink or liking barbie type style but it makes me happy.

  • @jessicadah-mk8up
    @jessicadah-mk8up ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have a similar style to you Lisa and seeing you makes me happy bc so many girls my age ( I’m 23 ) don’t really care too much about glamour

  • @andreatorluemke4982
    @andreatorluemke4982 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That cut of dress is so beautiful on you! I love it!!❤❤❤

  • @pratitijoshi4231
    @pratitijoshi4231 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMG LISA YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL.

  • @diyab1056
    @diyab1056 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's so nice that you empower women!

  • @taboquinha4i20
    @taboquinha4i20 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your dresses are perfect ❤ one more beautiful than the other

  • @inarijm
    @inarijm ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This came right on time for me 🙏🏽❤️

    • @dehsimao6409
      @dehsimao6409 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same

    • @newfavs
      @newfavs ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When the student is ready, the teacher appears. 😊

  • @mojyoqueen350
    @mojyoqueen350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    High five! Shakira was my childhood role model too. Actually little me learned how to belly dance and I still do it when I'm cooking or cleaning.

  • @katarzyna2901
    @katarzyna2901 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look beautiful ✨Greetings from Poland

  • @cherierosenielsen
    @cherierosenielsen ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is my favorite video you've made, ever!. I really needed to hear what you have to say. It came just at the right time!
    You are completely right! Thank you, Lisa

  • @adrianamelendez5335
    @adrianamelendez5335 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The timing on this is perfect! A person I really cared for recently walked away without much of an explanation or reason. Thank you for the reminder that their reasons why don’t matter.

  • @harmainaltaf3753
    @harmainaltaf3753 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sis can you make a video for teenager girls , that how to develop our personality😅

  • @elizabethandiosa4579
    @elizabethandiosa4579 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my gosh. This is such a good reminder for a woman of any age. I am making my well being and safety and health in every way top priority. Clothes are important and so is grooming. I finally feel I am pursuing my dreams and art and painting and design. My grandma and dad used to tell me to pursue my dreams and clothes do make the person. It's not good for anyone to have jealous sneaky belittlers around, especially if they are relatives. It is so important to dump those that don't hold your similar values, or lift you up but put you down and cause harm. It's so much better to pursue your own dreams instead of doing time with Dana anrd Danny downers. Blessings. I am signing up.

  • @cyndiapasillas1137
    @cyndiapasillas1137 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video is soooo Amazing ❤ Kisses Lisa 😘

  • @shuntizamoore4805
    @shuntizamoore4805 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you I really needed to hear that

  • @jane8.8
    @jane8.8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love it when you say 'so what, and? I dont care' it makes me laugh and feel better about myself. Great video because this is the area I struggle with ❤

  • @therosaceous404
    @therosaceous404 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love these long explanation videos, this was a real treat, Madame, merci! 😘💓💓

  • @kellyolson602
    @kellyolson602 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are my inspiration ❤

  • @hristina436
    @hristina436 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg your dress is stunning haha! Nice Lisa sister you look so beautiful! 🥳💛👗💅👒👠

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🥰🥰

  • @dafnneperez9577
    @dafnneperez9577 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love All your videos and I’m so grateful I found your channel. This one is one of my favorites!! It resonates with me specially about men validation. I learned that when a man don’t put a lot of effort I need to let him go and move on. The right one will come along and Universe timing is always perfect. I will like to see a video about Divine timing in relationship and in life.

  • @daniellecharming
    @daniellecharming ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is my favorite video of yours to date, Lisa! I have recently been talking to myself like a second person- my own best friend!

  • @klezzaa8957
    @klezzaa8957 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really needed to hear this. I have no sister and not a good feminine relationship with my mother. Im trying to be more feminine again and be in surrender. This was really good advice. Thank you. You also delivered it with kindness and empathy and it just made it better.❤️

  • @Knowledgeispower276
    @Knowledgeispower276 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you and I’m so grateful for everything you pour into this channel! ❤

  • @nolongerhumannnn
    @nolongerhumannnn ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lisa is amazing and gorgeous as always. Thank you so much for the inspiring video 💕

  • @kurthalover
    @kurthalover ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will be honest, I felt your positive energy throughout this whole video and it gave me that positive boost.
    I used to think so much of other people's opinions but there comes a time, and experience, where it is just not worth it anymore. As you said, the only opinion that matters is yourself. Also validating yourself is also a from of self-care both physically and mentally. At the end of the day, the only person that's with you will always be you and it is important to see yourself as a best friend. As you said, and I loved that you mentioned it, about how you treat your family and friends with kindness, you should also treat yourself that way too.
    Looking forward to your next video!

  • @stefilane
    @stefilane ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @victoriavaughan8362
    @victoriavaughan8362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the dress😍

  • @Agape122
    @Agape122 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow this woman is more gorgeous day by day! Very valuable video it helped a lot. I would love if she would make a video of how to combine colors I think she is so good on choosing the best colors for her, red golden... so beautiful.
    Sorry if the comment seems superficial 🙏 I also think her message is wise and psychologicaly empowering and healing

  • @veronicacarrillocaceres5938
    @veronicacarrillocaceres5938 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite video by far this 2023 💖Thanks for doing this video, it comes along in the right time 😊

  • @hiruhiru5998
    @hiruhiru5998 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you explain how to show vulnerability in a relationship?

  • @margaretgallo914
    @margaretgallo914 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the dress ❤, I hope you are doing well. ❤️ love you Lisa. Thank you for what you do.

  • @rachelmcclain5367
    @rachelmcclain5367 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Lisa! Once again, I love your content! ❤

  • @YK.Naturo
    @YK.Naturo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bravo ma chère ! Thank you for this reminder 🙏🏿✨

  • @israelisongsabram4796
    @israelisongsabram4796 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely adore you and your videos. Thank you so much for the wisdom you impart on others. You are amazing and we are blessed to have you

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh thank you 🥰🙏

  • @glowuphandbook
    @glowuphandbook ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this video! Super helpful topic.

  • @spoonfullofdream
    @spoonfullofdream ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tu es resplendissante ❤️

  • @bernices6311
    @bernices6311 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So much value in this video Lisa! Thank you for what you provide to our community ❤

  • @cleoknight8536
    @cleoknight8536 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was really helpful Lisa. Much love to you xxx

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love it.

  • @rinamaya8858
    @rinamaya8858 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you! Perfect timing 🥰❤️

  • @zdravaistoria
    @zdravaistoria ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your videos, thank you!

  • @annemuller4499
    @annemuller4499 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate the modern feedback culture as people are so brazen and give unrequested feedback, using it to push you down hard (your pants are too tight, naked shoulders are vulgar, you show too much leg). All my live I had just one or two feedbacks which were helpful and millions of feedbacks just targeting to push me down! Even with a toxic partner this can happen to you, he is feeling bad and is jelous of your good mood or thinks he is not as attractive as you.

  • @sasukiopah7145
    @sasukiopah7145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @fluffy8718
    @fluffy8718 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u lovely Lisa 💜

  • @marilynmcgaha3957
    @marilynmcgaha3957 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WOW! Lisa I needed to hear this so badly! Thank you ❤️

  • @jocelin5957
    @jocelin5957 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Lisa😘😘

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lisa you're too too too too inspiring for me 💕💫😭 and you're looking too pretty

    • @Lisaglamour
      @Lisaglamour  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you very much darling 🙏🥰

  • @laurengeorges3705
    @laurengeorges3705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merci pour cette vidéo !

  • @Wandertheworldwithme
    @Wandertheworldwithme 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for these lovely reminders ❤💃🏼

  • @terraiznajem105
    @terraiznajem105 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @danielajocelyn
    @danielajocelyn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this video! We have a similar taste in artists :) I think it’s important to nurture those things you have interest in or that you identify with, so it solidifies your confidence even further because of your familiarity with the subject. Plus I think starting with learning about one or two subjects thoroughly gives you the skill to learn another more easily.

  • @Tessybriggs
    @Tessybriggs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the best video i have seen so far ❤❤

  • @HaninSindi
    @HaninSindi 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you looove ur Video and this beautiful message u made me realize even so much more and Ur style is also beautiful love whn people show and just are their induviduality ❤

  • @breh9243
    @breh9243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video idea

  • @florinmcf7340
    @florinmcf7340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello I’m a man and find this helpful

  • @AminaOud-vc7ph
    @AminaOud-vc7ph 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Giiiirl you are gorgeous 😍

  • @annemuller4499
    @annemuller4499 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can somebody your age can be so wise? I agree with all you say, but I have to warn you guys as well: nowadays there is too much jealousy arround, don't listen too much to feedback, even men will try to push you down, because they think they are not your level, even more stay careful with other women. *I never had a friend who hadn't a grain of jelousy in her*

  • @beluasmr
    @beluasmr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excelente

  • @user-yx3zf7ff7b
    @user-yx3zf7ff7b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you’re god in orange 🧡

  • @JogoBelIa
    @JogoBelIa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I know you care a lot what people think when you are a teenager" - crying in my 30s

  • @pallinagialla97
    @pallinagialla97 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi! What's the name of the actress at 9:58? Such a good video!!! Thank you, Lisa!!!

  • @sskksshjigg9767
    @sskksshjigg9767 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you do a roomtour❤

  • @claudiokabanata3325
    @claudiokabanata3325 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @sunflowersseeds_
    @sunflowersseeds_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @kevinrobles3203
    @kevinrobles3203 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Lisa can you visit liverpool fc YNWA we you Jurgen klopp

  • @daniellecharming
    @daniellecharming ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have a Facebook group?

  • @claracinde7913
    @claracinde7913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really need to hear this. Thank u for your reminding, I've learned a lot about femininity from you

  • @northerngypsysoul
    @northerngypsysoul ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is definitely your colour, you look stunning! 🩷🩷 I love old movies too they're so much more romantic 🥰