Who's Kids Are These: Kamari Young v Allen Young

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  • @The.Wellerman
    @The.Wellerman ปีที่แล้ว +390

    I'm glad Star called this age gap out that he was trying to gloss over. It's extremely predatory.

    • @leeleegrace9015
      @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Foreal!

    • @thefreequency
      @thefreequency ปีที่แล้ว +38

      He said "we met when I was 14" ‼️‼️‼️ How is a 14 y.o. meeting a 5 y.o. Under what circumstances???!!

    • @SweetestNya
      @SweetestNya ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Right! He says they met when he was 17… soooo she was 9! At church of all places. 😢 Hide yo kids!

    • @zenobiachapman1636
      @zenobiachapman1636 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They got together when she was 17 not when he was 17. So he was 25

    • @thegills21able
      @thegills21able ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I seen one show when the woman was 14 years older then the man judge star didn’t have that energy for the woman Smdh

  • @okaygworl
    @okaygworl ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The part that scared me the most was, "HE WONT LET ME LEAVE". This is deeper than her "just walking" away--keyword: LET.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      No kids either.

    • @sunshinebutterfly4654
      @sunshinebutterfly4654 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Unfortunately may need a restraining order....creepy

    • @MrsMeeker0328
      @MrsMeeker0328 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@sunshinebutterfly4654 and sadly that doesn't even work most times 😢

    • @youngodyssey16
      @youngodyssey16 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So how do women find a way to get out

    • @MrsMeeker0328
      @MrsMeeker0328 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@youngodyssey16 its incredibly difficult. Most cases it takes utilizing area resources like domestic violence shelters and such. Even if its temporary, the relocation will sometimes help the abuser lose track of where the person lives. Its sick that it takes that much. I say a good ol sturdy 9mm works best to ensure they adhere to the restraining order 😅

  • @robbbietheim2096
    @robbbietheim2096 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    He started out stalking, and being super creepy, from the absolute beginning of the relationship, the age difference alone speaks predator, he certainly has issues 😡💯

    • @coconwa
      @coconwa ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls lady , take ur judgmental predator seat & sit in one corner. Most women that dated & groomed young male are hailed with “go girl” , “ catch them young” but male are labeled child molester / predator.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So he was 14 as he said, then she was 6 years old.

    • @LaTasha2224
      @LaTasha2224 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@tedra6455 I had to go to bed on this one! This dude said he was 14. She was in kindergarten!

    • @gwenturner8123
      @gwenturner8123 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I did the math on that one too and I said aw hell no, what was you doing with a six year old Sir?

    • @brittanybrown484
      @brittanybrown484 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💔💔💔💔

  • @jasmineelise424
    @jasmineelise424 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    this man thinks if he says “at the time” enough, it will begin to make sense 😂

    • @queencaraMEL40
      @queencaraMEL40 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      IKR...He was getting on my nerves 😂😂

    • @JoBunny87
      @JoBunny87 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He thinks that makes the lie sound better.

    • @OSMRDucksLIB
      @OSMRDucksLIB ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was ready to throw my phone if he said it one more time. 🤬

    • @jacquelinewilliams6572
      @jacquelinewilliams6572 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      At the time means he’s lying

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      For heaven's sake !
      I was wondering what time he was talking about. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @rasun316
    @rasun316 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    ...he killed her social media accounts to keep other women from telling on him

    • @yah7130
      @yah7130 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Randall But also to have control and isolate her from the world. coercive control and borderline domestic abuse springs to mind.

    • @Dee-xi4un
      @Dee-xi4un ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly AND straight control. He knew she has low self esteem and groomed her because she's so young

    • @taarons227
      @taarons227 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is so true. My ex did the same thing to me.

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly people were telling on him talking about fake messages nah Nigga they were about yo ass!

    • @mariahillenbrand8396
      @mariahillenbrand8396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He says that "I felt that we were still getting to know each other." AKA you stop seeing other guys, but I'm a go out and play with whomever I want to! And please stop trying to dance around it - YOU WERE ENGAGED!! THE OTHER GIRL IS SENDING OUT WEDDING INVITATIONS AND YOU'RE SAYING YOU'RE NOT ENGAGED!!! SERIOUSLY?? Well, it seems someone out there thinks you're committed to each other - WHILE YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS YOUNG THING!! And she was dumb to take him back. HE'S ENGAGED TO ANOTHER WOMAN GIRL!! RUN!! HE KEEPS LYING TO YOU AND TO THE JUDGE. You need to LEAVE THIS FOOL!!! Pack up his stuff, put it outside, and call the locksmith!! And if he keeps coming around, call the police!!! What are you doing with him???

  • @konige-tochteru.9295
    @konige-tochteru.9295 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    How she stayed after finding about his little village is beyond me. Girl run!!

    • @justbusiness01
      @justbusiness01 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not little village 😂😂 I can’t 😂

    • @brittanybrown484
      @brittanybrown484 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Run.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm thinking she has self esteem issues, SOMETHING! is going on!?🤨🤨🤨

    • @toyaward9818
      @toyaward9818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ikr😮

  • @flygirlvenus1990
    @flygirlvenus1990 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Judge Toler would have ripped all into him! Lol! And gave her the most uplifting and empowering talk this girl ever heard.

    • @smithsacademyoflearning4086
      @smithsacademyoflearning4086 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Judge Starr did ❤thank God

    • @Sansann84
      @Sansann84 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yupppp that is why I miss Judge Lynn sooo much

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @ShanteriaLawrence
      @ShanteriaLawrence ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Judge Toler would have gotten on him as he needed more than what Judge Starr just gave. Judge Starr never go the full mile that some of these people really need. When Judge Starr talks, she talks to the couple ONLY, when judge Toler talks, she is talking to everyone listening including the couple. Lol She almost makes you feel like it's you, and you learn a lot from her. I miss her too @alexandra Rene

    • @biancablonc4609
      @biancablonc4609 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He is disgusting 🤮 These dust balls all around the same at this point

  • @valjohns5823
    @valjohns5823 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Poor thing. I just wanted to hug her. “You are far to young to have this level of sadness…”

  • @charmainewalker8627
    @charmainewalker8627 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Ladies please don’t be afraid to be alone. Yes you are enough. When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them. Don’t be afraid to walk away from toxic relationships and stop listening to society that you have to be with someone. If someone cannot put you first please leave

    • @leeleegrace9015
      @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree. Amen!

    • @toyaward9818
      @toyaward9818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I enjoyed being single. You have to love yourself first. Stop telling everything to everyone and tell God what you desire. Sometimes you have to close your mouth.

  • @alexisjones65
    @alexisjones65 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    One thing judge Starr gone do is call out the predators 😂😂😂 love her

    • @leeleegrace9015
      @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As she should! Hell we all should cuz they out here! Lol #protectourchildren

    • @StaceyB4520
      @StaceyB4520 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She don’t play that ish as she SHOULDN’T

    • @dotsan8543
      @dotsan8543 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She need intervention Where is her mother and father sister and brother Pastor ! Mystery where does these people come from. Is the marriage Valid age children
      engaged !?

  • @janetvansky3621
    @janetvansky3621 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    He doesn't love her, he loves the CONTROL he has over her.

  • @blank-stare6373
    @blank-stare6373 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    she ain't leaving. she ain't had enough yet. so incredibly sad for her. she don't know no better.

    • @traceysbodytreats257
      @traceysbodytreats257 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Her self-esteem is too low...🥺

    • @Pinkypromise8812
      @Pinkypromise8812 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hope that Star Jones keeps in touch with her, and keep talking to her untill she has the strength to leave...she needs that

    • @iamdenabruton
      @iamdenabruton ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That lady is scared. She's broken. Men need to hold men accountable and let women do the same. The words she's saying says it all. Sounds like she's been threatened by him.

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      if she don't leave then she shouldn't be bitching and moaning about what he does, Like Richard Sherman once said to Pierre Garcon..."YOU WANTED THIS NOISE!!!"....Sorry, I can't dig up any sympathy for this lady....seems to be a glutton for punishment🤣

    • @ThetaAlphaGamma
      @ThetaAlphaGamma 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the kind of " if I can't have her....no one will " abusive relationship she needs to wake up from the nightmare situation. 😢

  • @zehrifasc4164
    @zehrifasc4164 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “ He won’t let me leave” that’s a statement from someone screaming out for help

    • @leeleegrace9015
      @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes!!!! When she said that my ear perked all the way up!

    • @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri
      @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@leeleegrace9015I like your hair 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @peacheslove3499
    @peacheslove3499 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Her parents failed her. That's all I can say. He's ughhhhh. Sickening
    She is really beautiful, deserves waaaayyyyy better and she needs to realize that.

  • @yvettewilliams5967
    @yvettewilliams5967 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Girl, please walk and be out of this mess. Divorce his behind!

    • @gospel4303
      @gospel4303 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ….RUNNNN! 🏃‍♀️

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You mean run, cuz he is something else

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices ปีที่แล้ว +89

    This is a hot mess. She can’t trust this man past the front door. Once trust is gone on that level, it’s over. Plus the controlling behavior is extremely toxic.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว

      She need to walk. She to young to be dealing with his bull with 5 kids too.

  • @ashleym.2981
    @ashleym.2981 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    He says “We met when I was 14”, like it was memorable. She was 6! He was definitely watching and waiting smh.

  • @leah8112
    @leah8112 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Judge wasn’t letting him sweep ‘when we was young’ under the carpet 😂

  • @mybusiness186
    @mybusiness186 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Finally, a judge that is calling out these men about starting to date a woman when she was underage.

    • @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri
      @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri ปีที่แล้ว

      It's disgusting 🤮🤢no matter how you put it but sadly it depends on the state that allow this pedophile nonsense in the state of North Carolina where I'm from the legal age is 18

  • @2400md
    @2400md ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Her self esteem is so low she truly believes he’s the one for her. Like the Judge said she needs to find herself and live her life… extremely sad scenario for a 22 yr old - she is in way over her head

    • @mariahillenbrand8396
      @mariahillenbrand8396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's exactly why he chose her. Because she was (and still is) very naive and he took advantage of that!! He likes them young because he can lie to them, manipulate them, and run their lives!! She needs to WALK AWAY!!

  • @sinailemor467
    @sinailemor467 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    He was 26 and she was 17 when they were friends with benefits??? And nobody called the cops???!!!

    • @mariajon6423
      @mariajon6423 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sadly not everyone has people who care about them enough to call the cops

    • @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri
      @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don't know about the state of Kentucky in the state of North Carolina where I'm from born and raised the dating age limit is over eighteen he better be lucky he was not born Here he would have by law have to registered as a sex offender and served prison time

    • @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri
      @MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@mariajon6423 spot on sistah he should have been locked up in prison and register as a sex offender praying on and screwing an underage teenager 🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢

    • @dapimp84
      @dapimp84 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      In the state of NY 17 is legal sadly

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is legal in most states honestly. You need to talk to your state representative about changing it but age of consent is rarely 18

  • @cheyannemariah.8578
    @cheyannemariah.8578 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This man has groomed and was preying on her the very second he got. It’s disgusting he’s a nasty human being

  • @JazzyJeffRealTalk
    @JazzyJeffRealTalk ปีที่แล้ว +18

    His lying tell is when repeatedly says the phrase, “At that time” before he about to explain his lie.

  • @ciamon1
    @ciamon1 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This needed to be a 2 part episode. I think there was so much more to be said.

  • @babiiluv7931
    @babiiluv7931 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I cried for her 🥺 dude KNEW from the beginning how he was doing to get her! He knew it! He preyed on her with intent of lying the whole relationship for his sick benefit. He is the devil for sure and he just sitting there like he NEVER DID ISH WRONG. EVER.

  • @dalemurray9169
    @dalemurray9169 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The loss of that child is a blessing in disguise.

    • @detroitlegacy
      @detroitlegacy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i agree!!

    • @gailsmith836
      @gailsmith836 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What a terrible thing to say

    • @PoliticalWonderland
      @PoliticalWonderland ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gailsmith836 10000% many don’t understand the grief of miscarriage and loss so deep

    • @PoliticalWonderland
      @PoliticalWonderland ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People have told me the same thing about my miscarriage. It’s disgusting, u need to be ashamed of urself. Ur not helpinf

    • @rashanagriffith4805
      @rashanagriffith4805 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Is very sad but I would say things happen for a reason and it would allow her to get out easier but this situation is definitely not a "blessing" May her heart heal and she leave this loser

  • @lor258
    @lor258 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Pause…..he said he’s liked her since he was 14???? He’s currently 31 and she’s 22. That’s a 9 year difference…if he started liking her when he was 14, that means she was 5……….wtf? 🤮

    • @lomaxlomax6152
      @lomaxlomax6152 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly, like did he think that would sound better. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lor258
      @lor258 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think he did 🤣. He was trying so hard to prove she wasn’t that much younger than him.

    • @emeraldeleven8197
      @emeraldeleven8197 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought the same thing.

    • @stopit41
      @stopit41 ปีที่แล้ว

      Disgusting

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He’s a predator

  • @beilyforchue5920
    @beilyforchue5920 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This relationship is weird. He is a liar and a controller, unfortunately she is inexperienced and has a low self esteem. Hiding kids, engagements and age gaps are all red flags of a manipulative liar. Please don’t settle for this toxic relationship. Queen you deserve better!!! ❤

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      a real queen would have left long ago....this lady is no queen

  • @wilapblkhistory8310
    @wilapblkhistory8310 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    OMG, annnd she’s only around the Age of 22!😢 ❤ my heart goes out to her and I will pray for her because she’s at a point in her life where she needs help! Especially with her losing a child! Then to have this older guy who has manipulated her for years, where are her parents? Or it may be that he manipulated her into pulling her away from her family. She’s so youngAnd to have this level of manipulation and tragedy is really devastating for her peace of mind, her broken heart, and her insecurities! May God bless and keep her!

  • @drapertraci7
    @drapertraci7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This poor baby... she needs an Iyanla hug... He is a HOT MESS!

  • @keziaguy6056
    @keziaguy6056 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This made me so sad for her. I was in her position for 9 years... he was physically abusive and cheated and, many other things... Didn't value myself and I have been free for some years now. I pray she frees herself and finds who she is ❤❤ and love who she is ❤❤❤
    I hope she could see this and wake up .. sigh

    • @cadillacdeville5828
      @cadillacdeville5828 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate to her and you soo much

    • @keziaguy6056
      @keziaguy6056 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cadillacdeville5828 too many times we don't value ourselves, and end up with trash men . Always good to grow and learn 🙌🙌

    • @keziaguy6056
      @keziaguy6056 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cadillacdeville5828 sending love to you also ❤❤❤

    • @stellarvgurl
      @stellarvgurl ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤

  • @PoliticalWonderland
    @PoliticalWonderland ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Great lessons here. I hope this episode opened a kids eyes to their gr00 Ming “relationship.” 😢

  • @Soulfullnsight
    @Soulfullnsight ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Even the bailiff was fuming! ... baby died in the car accident; bailiff gives mommy a tissue, but walked right past Mr. "At the time!"

  • @Kara-kx1lb
    @Kara-kx1lb ปีที่แล้ว +32

    A friend of mine, when she got married, her soon to be hubby. He ended up having 10 kids, most of them were around our ages at the time.... she still married him.
    It was crazy!!!

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow. He’ll continue to lie to her and she will stay in it, because, ‘ I have a HUSBAND’. Poor self esteem issues. Sad, very sad!

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Please ladies; a SNAKE will always be a SNAKE; a leopard Nver changes it’s spots!!!

    • @Fan-qu8qy
      @Fan-qu8qy ปีที่แล้ว

      What? OMG

  • @Nelley_Nell_507
    @Nelley_Nell_507 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    God told her in so many ways that this man is not it! 😢

  • @ct3731
    @ct3731 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Judge Toler would have given him ALL the business and told her to leave and get counseling .

  • @X.Sheislia
    @X.Sheislia ปีที่แล้ว +29

    When you were 14??? She was like 5/6 wth 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @valpooh7532
      @valpooh7532 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what I said. Predator

    • @lblayde
      @lblayde 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes and he probably was touching on her than, they both trying to say 5 yrs but it's probably more like 7 or 8 yrs, when she was 14-15 yrs old

  • @creativeminds1343
    @creativeminds1343 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He's the type of guy that does not tell anything but feeds on all your information.
    Creepy as fudge!

  • @jeanettematthews7677
    @jeanettematthews7677 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He's a user and he seems like he is a down low type as well.. I pray for her strength!

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep clearly suspicious

    • @82laina
      @82laina ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@specialk8927 Very suspicious 👀

    • @ThetaAlphaGamma
      @ThetaAlphaGamma 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Down low for certain....I'm glad someone else sees that. 😢

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That guy was an insult to judge’s Jones intelligence and MsYoung’s. MsYoung lowers herself to his level and it’s unfair and demeaning for her.

  • @ruthlynaaron6725
    @ruthlynaaron6725 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man reminds me of a politician. He answers every question with "at the time". He's manipulative and mentally abusive. I hope she finds a way to get out of this marriage.

  • @San-ui9cr
    @San-ui9cr ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just want to hug her. I really hope she gains the strength to leave him. He is not going to change as he has no reason to. She accepts him where he is. Life can and will go on without him, let him go.

  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It sounds really messed up, but GOD KNEW!!!! You did NOT need a baby by him...RUN BABYGIRL!!! IT ONLY GETS WORSE!!!!❤

    • @Mindurbusiness1234
      @Mindurbusiness1234 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I completely agree. It's sad, but I felt like that tie was cut because he would've tried to use the baby to manipulate her even more...smh...

    • @valeskaolsen35
      @valeskaolsen35 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please do not ever say that to a grieving mom. I know your mean well but it feels awful to hear

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@valeskaolsen35 I understand where you're coming from, but sometimes, the truth is awful to hear. Whether she listens or not will determine how sad this story really is.

    • @bupedoes2447
      @bupedoes2447 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with you I had a misscarraige in my last relationship and i look back and i Thank God because it was actually one of the biggest blessings i ever had. But it somtimes takes time to realise

    • @asiablackgrl6482
      @asiablackgrl6482 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The best blessing is no ties to that fool! She needs to run.

  • @Inr_Peace
    @Inr_Peace ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Where is her mother?? 😢 it would be over my d..d body for my daughter to get involved in a mess like this.

  • @mringram
    @mringram ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She needs to get away from him and start loving herself

  • @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153
    @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had to take a massive sigh when this young woman said she was not sure if she wanted to leave this manipulative man - I hope she finds the confidence to start the next chapter of her life so she can smile and feel whole again.

  • @sheilap9854
    @sheilap9854 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is Narcissism At It's Worse 😮 She's Beat down yet She Stills Wants him, She's giving him all the Narcissistic Supply he Wants!!

    • @brendawesley6004
      @brendawesley6004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She don't want him she want Help 2 leave him he's abusing her she can't leave like that I pick up on what she was asking the judge 2 help her he's Beating her and she can't say nothing

  • @queen4u281
    @queen4u281 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel sorry for her. I was in a similar situation but as a teen. It was emotionally and psychologically unhealthy as he was also older than me. He manipulated and controlled me. It took me several years to get away from him. I’m glad I did, thank you Jesus!

  • @ciamon1
    @ciamon1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beloved..God created an angel just for you. In your child’s honor, Please use that strength to RUN!

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lawrd Jesus - This Generation Is DOOM!!! 😮 A Older Guy Grooming A Young Girl to Control and Belittle...

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654
    @sunshinebutterfly4654 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She is still young and have plenty of time to find herself and then find someone who is deserving of her love ❤️ I pray that she has courage enough to leave him and find happiness. 🙏😊

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 ปีที่แล้ว

      The longer she takes, the harder it will be, and the more there will be to disentangle. Maybe even more offspring(s).

  • @JayDee-ut5yg
    @JayDee-ut5yg ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love Judge Star!!!! She is a straight shooter and call out all these lying nothing men on their mess. She doesn't let them get away with nothing!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @randomlycc
    @randomlycc ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So sad to hear about her baby

  • @briteinwilson8148
    @briteinwilson8148 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Found someone he could hide behind from the church so he didnt have to represent who he really is. Bottoms up!

    • @carlpotter007
      @carlpotter007 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just savage…🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @RacieRain
      @RacieRain ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

  • @clevestercrittenden2089
    @clevestercrittenden2089 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Where is her family?

  • @phornianewton996
    @phornianewton996 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I pray no one gets hurt or murdered.. God bless them both

  • @ArtisticDreams2U
    @ArtisticDreams2U ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She’s so beautiful and sweet. My heart goes out to her. I really want to hug her. Love send❤

  • @neverdavenever
    @neverdavenever 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "When I was down, he was there."
    Judge: "No, he wasn't."
    😂😂😂😂

  • @yah7130
    @yah7130 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If predator was a person 🤔

  • @miloperrault2614
    @miloperrault2614 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He's a lying, no good creep and she needs to RUN, like she's a track star.

  • @leeleegrace9015
    @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This woman's self esteem has been completely stripped from her and it shows! And until she gets the strength to take it back she will continue in this raggedy ass marriage. My heart goes out to her for the loss of her child. Nobody can do anything for her except pray that she picks up some self-esteem and healing at this point smh #sosad

  • @daisyflower2447
    @daisyflower2447 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been together 5 years so she was 17 and he is 26 and where is her parent

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You can tell she's numb.

  • @cynthiaward4512
    @cynthiaward4512 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hopefully She Can Find Some Healing In Her Heart..

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    LEAVE...and get a no contact order if you can

  • @Vloggingwithrosalyn
    @Vloggingwithrosalyn ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He preyed on her !

  • @BudgetMadam
    @BudgetMadam ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She’s 22 & he’s 30- they’ve been together 5 years 🤔

  • @anna-maria7367
    @anna-maria7367 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It must be so hard for her to leave when he is the only link she has to her baby that died… The pain of grief can surpass all reasoning and logic.

  • @Djdreamstudios
    @Djdreamstudios ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The fact that she accepted this is more disturbing 😳💯

  • @Emulahbaybay
    @Emulahbaybay ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wish Judge Star would’ve offered her therapy. I think her decision would’ve been different if she felt like she had something to stand on

  • @winniewera2510
    @winniewera2510 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Girl 🏃‍♀️ the other way!…

  • @monicagilliam2645
    @monicagilliam2645 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow!!! Too many children and ex-fiance. I can't do this one.

  • @Kara-kx1lb
    @Kara-kx1lb ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She'll go back to him!!!

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep, she will

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      she aint leaving lol

    • @taarons227
      @taarons227 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did the same thing. It took me years to finally leave. Now I look back and wish I had left sooner. I am at peace, and I am enjoying my life as a single woman.

  • @brianah5246
    @brianah5246 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I hope this young lady understands that happiness and peace doesn’t have anything to do with time spent and love. The behavior this man has displayed is toxic and scary. Get out of there and build your life. ❤

  • @qbanbarbiie
    @qbanbarbiie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where is her parents? Grandparents? An aunt? Church elder? This is very sad. She's really stuck with someone who isn't good for her. She's absolutely going to waste so much of her life on him. I'm scared for her

  • @babycakescapriata2138
    @babycakescapriata2138 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I so started crying😭plz God keep her strong

  • @candacebutler7011
    @candacebutler7011 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I’m so sorry her baby died. My heart breaks for her.

    • @specialk8927
      @specialk8927 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Could of been a blessing in disguise I don’t think God wants her tied in the at relationship

    • @Kayjames44
      @Kayjames44 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@specialk8927YES!!! I said the same🙏🏾

  • @karmengreene9611
    @karmengreene9611 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So you have 5 children and you STILL getting involved with people on a sexual basis?! AND two timing at the same time?!

  • @randomlycc
    @randomlycc ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She ain't ready to leaveee, so sad...

  • @sug8415
    @sug8415 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Damn that car accident part messed me up

  • @tonyautonga
    @tonyautonga 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When the judge asked him, did he have another woman out there that he wasn't Engage too I Thought of Robert saying boomba.!😂

  • @kimaleycreese28
    @kimaleycreese28 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl your elders failed you. She needs to walk away. He will take all her best Yeats and then he will leave her. Somebody needs to go pack her bags and get her away from that man.

  • @delilahspivey1093
    @delilahspivey1093 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    While watching her story being told, I wanted to ask who had the car keys at the Christmas dinner when you found out about the extra children?

  • @keyeviondavis9647
    @keyeviondavis9647 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Gorgeous as always Judge Star 😍😍

  • @truthbetold1074
    @truthbetold1074 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    anytime a woman cries over a REAL trama and loss and the man does NOTHING....he aint it..and he don't gaf-so get strength from that..

  • @kellabillingsley5141
    @kellabillingsley5141 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Star would not let him skate pass that age difference!

  • @sheliagantt148
    @sheliagantt148 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Beautiful Black Queen, 1st I want to give my condolences to you for the lost of your baby. Secondly you are to young to be with this guy. Not age wise I mean you have alot of life ahead of you. Do you Queen, work on you and a career. Travel and see the world. Don't let this dude take your self esteem. Leave him and be happy. Real mean and women trust one another. I wish a man would go through my phone and or social media. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 for you! 💙💕🥰🦋

  • @theresaford2963
    @theresaford2963 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl run and do not look back 🏃😢😮

  • @randomlycc
    @randomlycc ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thus caes can't be reallllll.... I'm dying with laughter....how she found out his age and number of kids is crazyyyyy

  • @goldiepatton8279
    @goldiepatton8279 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    He gives homosexual vibes. God I pray not …. Not judging

    • @Kara-kx1lb
      @Kara-kx1lb ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think you are right!!!

    • @jessicascreenwritingservices
      @jessicascreenwritingservices ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @Mzlouluv
      @Mzlouluv ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She's ignoring the signs( in my khia voice)

    • @NaomyP
      @NaomyP ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I saw that too😅

    • @meanlene4823
      @meanlene4823 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He's using her as a front hoping she's to young to realize he's on the DL.🤨

  • @evelyncampbell5045
    @evelyncampbell5045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So What Was The Point Of Coming On The Show If She Wasn’t Going Anywhere, She Looks So Sad And Defeated He’s Draining Her

  • @nikkyk2016
    @nikkyk2016 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel like I am watching a movie .This can not be real. Gets an invite to a wedding from her current boyfriend fiancé and then the kids are screaming daddy 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦

  • @ritachip5759
    @ritachip5759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She needs to run! Run fast! HE is going to take her through hell and she won't see it coming if she stays.

  • @tamekadingle9987
    @tamekadingle9987 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just run baby girl, he’s a liar!

  • @agadonk
    @agadonk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He didn't even go console her when she was crying about the baby. He is a narcissist. She needs to leave him. Imagine spending the next 40 years with him if he doesn't kill her first. She needs to live life. Find herself outside this relationship. She came into adulthood while in this relationship so she doesn't know any better. He is literal garbage.

  • @empresspalpatine8792
    @empresspalpatine8792 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Take a shot each time he says, "At the time"

  • @jeanmayers3001
    @jeanmayers3001 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl I will tell you what I would do move on. You don't have kids for him you will find someone much much better that would treat you like a queen

  • @loracro4284
    @loracro4284 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly why parents need to protect their kids. He’s a predator, he’s a narcissist, and so much more. There’s absolutely nothing good about him & this is exactly why he preyed on someone this young.

  • @neicetaylor3363
    @neicetaylor3363 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am absolutely heart broken for this beautiful young lady. He is a sick predator that preys on women and obviously young girls. I hope she can get away from him soon.

  • @This_is_Turpui
    @This_is_Turpui ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a beautiful young lady ❤ I wish her well