But come to think of it; I don't understand why anyone in the USA will go destroy another country and you all say thank you for your service. This is something we just don't get. america goes around making wars and endangering kids and women of all races. And all we say is thank you for the killings?
@@anodaone6525 , The Soldiers don't make the wars the Politicians do. Soldiers swear an oath to the US Constitution and that they will obey the orders of their Leaders and of the Commander-in-Chief (The President). I fought in 3 Wars in the US Army and let me tell you, we are not fighting for America, We are not fighting for the Flag, we are fighting for the man and woman next to us while the bullets are flying to make sure we all make it back home to our families. So take your Anti-American rhetoric somewhere else!
looking at her non action, like a zombie, there does seem to be a problem and that husband, how could he accuse her .... unreal... what no one is talking about is how unhappy the child looks...
I feel like she might be Taurus or something, her quiet strength and those big black eyes reminds me of Janet Jackson. That man must be Capricorn or Scorpio, either one, no doubt... actually, LOTS OF DOUBTS on his part, I bet Capricorn, those conspiracy theories in his mind. Y'all got it, this man better not keep on pushing her like this, coz we know she can pummel him into the ground easily when she snaps.
47 years old? 👀 Sir, you have worried yourself half to death. You could pass for a 78 year old usher at the 1st Ebenezer Baptist Church on the original Calvary Road.
I been overseas stationed and they all cheat. Never met a man or woman unless highly into church who didnt cheat. And im not talking about regular church attendees cause they cheat as well. I seen people in at&t booth call theirs wife or husband while their sand other was right next to them.
I don't think he was accusing her while she was there. He didn't like the close friendship with the guy who planted doubt. It was after she came back and said I'm pregnant after a month and continuing that friendship that really upset him. If she cheated, she'll take it to her grave.
I'm ex military that has been sent to both Kuwait AND Iraq. Infedility runs rampant over there. We used to have this acronym "TDY", which mean Temporarily Divorced for a Year".
As a former soldier I was incensed by the defendants witness!! His testimony makes me wonder if he is of the caliber that he described, he may be one of the very ones who was and is still infidel. I am also concerned as to why he's in uniform, he is FORMER a Vet, we don't wear our uniforms, we are now Civilians!!! As for my Comrade, after the humiliation on national television I'd be headed to JAG seeking council for a Divorce Attorney!!!😡
Did I hear correctly? She said that because of bombs going off around her she had to stay in a bunker? I can just IMAGINE how traumatic. She looks numb just standing there. He should be ashamed...
April Stone I definitely understand what she meant. Because when bombs go off sometimes you don’t know where to go except you out in the open. It is very Trumatic. It was a nightmare being out there. But I thank God that I came back safely.
You have a lot of wisdom exactly right I love your comment because her life is in danger and he worried about her sleeping with somebody else Satan had that man I messed up and just like the lady said before before I read this comment he's looking old is sad so you look old when will your head out for no reason you should have been praying and asking God to protect your wife
As a Veteran I can say we have a connection that most civilians never have. It’s like having a family that checks up and cares about you. I served 14 years and I miss the Soldiers I worked with.
@@kidnplay2148 I believe that. This comment is suggesting that they miss the special connection yet if the connection was so strong why are those Veterans not in contact!? We don’t lose contact with people who we have a “connection” with.
He's twice his wife's age and have the nerve to give her a hard time and accuse her of foolishness while she's risking her life while serving smh🤦🏽♀️.
It happens. I know someone worked on a military base and was cheating with multiple married women. He was having 3 somes and everything. No condoms because they were on bc. He said they had a "no kids" agreement meaning if they did get pregnant they'd abort...
That old coot, my ex 22 yrs my senior! Kept saying no 1 wanted me! Lol, got remarried n had another kid after 11 yrs! They don’t appreciate anything til the ‘well’ runs Ty ! That man is mean, controlling, manipulative and 2 old for that young girl! My mom shoulda been telling me, I shouldn’t marry someone that much older , smh
Majority of men are insecure, his is a lot more intense due to the age gap. He chose that young woman, now he has to deal with what comes with her being half his age.
This young lady is honest, honorable, disciplined and loves her husband. No one understood her, she stayed true to her husband while abroad, defended him while speaking to her friend on the phone. Yet he, the judge and everyone else mistook it for flirting. She is a Gem, kept herself for her paranoid husband, fourt for her country, but she was not appreciated. Your husband should feel ashamed of himself. Thank you for honorably serving our country.
Seems like there roles are reversed in this case.. she’s in Masculine role and he’s in the Feminine role..May be because traditionally the Man goes off to war and the wife stays at home with the kids..
It's sad that he thinks she's gonna cheat just because she's much younger than him. Needless to say they only knew each other a month before they got married.
Mrs.Brown-Murray, thank you for your service, you're not just an honorable soldier and well discipline, you are cute as a button...I salute you ma'am!!!
i dont think so. i think woman have completely forgotten how to love there man. you always expect us to treat you a certain way. she needs to get off the phone with her "friend" and give that attention to her husband. maybe if she did non of this would of happened smh
@@itzjmonay she found comfort in another man. and instead of talking to her man about her problems she talked to another man. you dont have to have physical contact to cheat. you can cheat in your heart. she was obviously catching feeling for this other man so she was cheating. it could of been prevented if she was focused on being faithful which isnt hard! i thank her for her service but that doesnt excuse her cheating.
@GodLoveFreedom i put the blame where the blame is. his insecurities and her giving him doubt was to blame. men and woman have forgotten how to be in a marriage. there is a structure to the household. and if that structure breaks or if someone isnt doing their part then the house will crumble. a mans insecurities are born from cheaters. a woman has to be physically, mentally and emotionally with her man and no other men. thats what it means to be faithful. i cant take a man that makes excuses for a womans actions and continues to only see her as a victim. i treated woman equal that means they are wrong when they are wrong and i give no excuses because they are female
I’ve been in the Army and deployed, and even without being married at the time, I didn’t cheat on my boyfriend, nor was I tempted to do so. I hate the lies being thrown around on this episode. I knew people who cheated during deployments, but it was not the norm. Everyone isn’t thinking about hooking up when their lives could be in danger at any time.
Not sure what’s going with them but I did not like when he said that. He has insecurities about his age and blaming her for cheating. He is not for her mentally.
Not gonna lie... Everyone in my house, including the puppies know not to wake mommy... Even growing up my parents didn't wake me. But I see how he came off.
She's over there maintaining an indefinite military presence inside a sovereign nation to illegally secure a natural resource on foreign soil for domestic use. Get your facts straight.
@@LadyAngela678 maybe it was a conscious decision...she wanted to marry someone who she wouldnt have to worry about given the nature of her job and length of time she would most likely not be present where he is...some girls cant really bother with young guys cuz the be cheating..or most likely to cheat
@@tanciabradshaw I agree. Maybe she had that stoic look on her face because, she was trained to be that way and at such a young age - that's an admiral quality to have especially while defending your country! As far someone referencing that she's slow., I don't think she would be where she is today if she actually had an intellectual disability. IJS🤷🏽♀️
That is very true about people in the service...I know plenty of people who say it is!! Thank you for your service and being such an honest respectful woman!!
I was done when I heard that. I said to myself 'what did she marry that old man for,' forgetting that he's not that old. but something definitely is not right, and I do hope she gets therapy..him too.
They marry to increase their checks. Both military men and women will marry someone after k owing them a couple months and has nothing to do with love. For young folks with low rank it almost doubles their salary.
The real issue here is the husband's insecurity. He is extremely insecure because he is a 47 year old man married to a 24 year old woman. He is so afraid that she will find a younger man and get rid of him that he is stressing this woman out. It is only a matter of time before he start accusing her again. He needs to really work through his insecurities if their marriage is to work out.
So many questions here... why is this 47 man still wear/receiving Jordan's, why is he at home while she's at work, why did she pick up this handful? Something is weird about their relationship.
Lawd !!! U spoke my mind 🙄and he still affords to Be disrespectful to her on national tv even when he looks so blind, feeble and helpless 🤦♂️. Some of my sis/friends literally need to do better. Poor faithful lady 😡
He probably was working a great job when she met him. He probably took good care of her. Unlike you .....she didn't feel the need to leave him when he was down.
Husband, grow up!! At your age you should be mature enough to handle this!! If not, get out and let her find someone mature and self assured. She does not need the added stress of dealing with you and your behavior when she is in a war!
I feel so sorry for her. She seems so sweet and genuine. He is insecure and their age difference haunts him. She is an honorable woman dealing with death a d his insecurities while in battle.
It was so hard watching this episode...but I was patient... LAWD JESUS...he is a very insecure man...she looks so emotionless but she in the army so I understand...love has no age but I hope he don't push her to her limits...PTSD is real
I am so upset with this case! This woman in constant battle fighting for her country, and instead of Praying for his wife, he is trying to wear her spirits down! I truly believe he needs self help, like Mental Health!🙏🏻🤗
I agree with you Tina some people can never be ready for a military wife or husband this old man is so insecure and it has nothing to do with his wife.
She might’ve endured some childhood trauma that made her choose an older, less physically intimidating type of man. Beautiful child! May they be happy together always.
That's the end of that marriage. He showed his wife disrespect on national television by making those comments about her lack of affection in the bedroom.
Did you see her face when he said that? It was a slight change but boy she was dying inside. Why would he even say that? Especially looking as feeble as he looks.
He doesn't deserve her. He's way too paranoid and just admitted the most disrespectful thing he could about their love life and how boring he thought it was. SMH.
@@JasmineCrump you could be right because he is crouched over as he speaks; but my beef with him was that he didn't even apologize to her for his insecurities because after all she went through in Iraq for them; she may even have a touch of post traumatic stress disorder and these kinds of anxieties can affect the emotional health of an individual, especially a woman. I personally would have been so embarrassed having put her through all of that BS for nothing; I would have apologized to her right there and then and ask for her forgiveness.
Clarence Edwards I agree with you 100%👌🏾 I just heard him mention something about his knees when she was coming towards him. I definitely feel she deserved more of an apology than she received. Hopefully, he did better off camera.
@@JasmineCrump Indeed, we need to be mutually respectful to each other and when we fall short, when we foul up, we should be man or woman enough to admit to our mistakes and be remorseful. I believe I am old enough to be your father and I can personally attest to insecurity in men; there are exceptions of course, but generally men don't like other men too close to their women, but as you get older, you learn to deal with it in a more matured way. My best respects to you.
Shona Lovely Thank you! I’ve pretty much said the same thing! I don’t know why some military members think that cheating while in the military or deployed/TDY is some type of taboo or special club. People who cheat, will cheat no matter if they took that oath or not.
Many people do not understand is that when we arrive home, we are not the same person the way we left. There are unrealistic expectations of us when we return. It takes a very long time to adjust back to civilian life yet as a soldier. They don’t understand the mental struggles we have when we come home. Maybe if people take out the time to understand what happens when we return, the transition wouldn’t be so hard.
My husband was in the military too and yes they are not the same person returning home but have more maturity about your husband and wife they putting their life on the line for the people of this country appreciate them just as they appreciate all lives in this country.
Just curious, other than protecting the country, why people join the army especially women? Is it the pension and pay or the job security just always wanted to know
Another thing...look up PTSD. The trauma of being in combat changes you. Your personality, your emotions, the very depth of your soul, etc. Do not judge unless you have walked in her boots!
That woman is sooo patient. She didn’t give one bad look or flippant reaction even though inside she knew there was no reason to be there. That’s what unwavering honor looks like.
@@muhammad_pulliam - my comment is like 2 years old. No one said that being stoic means someone didn’t cheat…but in this case, she didn’t and my comment still stands exactly as I said it. Sounds like you were hurt by someone and are looking for people to argue with since your comment has no context here. Cheer up.
@@DeakE2003 "she knew there was no reason to be there." It's paternity court.... Cheating is the ENTIRE reason people go there. My point is, just because she wasn't acting like a buffoon, doesn't mean she wasn't getting slayed by a younger soldier while deployed. There is a such thing as birth control and condoms... Both of which she has access to, as a soldier. Have a grand day.
@@muhammad_pulliam - like I said…cheer up. Either you’re watching a different video than the rest of us or have some major paranoia and discontent in your brain because you sound absolutely ridiculous and full of your own life’s anger.
That’s what we are trained to do. There is a huge reason why they call it serving and you raise your right hand to affirm this is something you want to do because it changes you and it leaves you many times emotionless. Depending on how supportive or unsupportive your family and people around you are as well as your upbringing.
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I high key thought she was there to see if he was HER father. Whoa.
Coop Can Cook I am weak with this comment!!!!!! I promise I thought this was her daddy
Me to 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes!!! She looks like him 😱
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Me too
I love that woman...she's beautiful and kept her composure well...now that's a soldier....thank you for your service..
She appears to me to be a little robotic and slightly off
De Re She is probably still shell shocked 😳. Trying to get back into her life before going to Iraq can be difficult, I hope she is getting therapy.
i honestly misread her body language. Her body language looked like she was hiding something..
Thank you for that comment
That's called flat affect and is probably because of the trauma she's been through as well as the stress at home.
I don’t even need the results. I see it. Thank you for your service, Sister!!
Me too! 😂😂😂
But come to think of it; I don't understand why anyone in the USA will go destroy another country and you all say thank you for your service. This is something we just don't get. america goes around making wars and endangering kids and women of all races. And all we say is thank you for the killings?
Yes,she looks like him, just better looking like her mom.
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@@anodaone6525 , The Soldiers don't make the wars the Politicians do. Soldiers swear an oath to the US Constitution and that they will obey the orders of their Leaders and of the Commander-in-Chief (The President). I fought in 3 Wars in the US Army and let me tell you, we are not fighting for America, We are not fighting for the Flag, we are fighting for the man and woman next to us while the bullets are flying to make sure we all make it back home to our families. So take your Anti-American rhetoric somewhere else!
This young woman has been through a lot. She just holding it in. I pray she gets help before she snaps on him.
When she does snap...Oh boy!!
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So true her facial expression is one way
looking at her non action, like a zombie, there does seem to be a problem and that husband, how could he accuse her .... unreal... what no one is talking about is how unhappy the child looks...
I feel like she might be Taurus or something, her quiet strength and those big black eyes reminds me of Janet Jackson. That man must be Capricorn or Scorpio, either one, no doubt... actually, LOTS OF DOUBTS on his part, I bet Capricorn, those conspiracy theories in his mind. Y'all got it, this man better not keep on pushing her like this, coz we know she can pummel him into the ground easily when she snaps.
47 years old? 👀 Sir, you have worried yourself half to death. You could pass for a 78 year old usher at the 1st Ebenezer Baptist Church on the original Calvary Road.
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Ma'am this comment has WEAKENED meeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!
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I feel so bad for her. Just imagine being over there fighting for your country, your family, risking your very life only to be accused of CHEATING. 😞
But if u have been loyal then u have nothing to worry about . Set emotions aside and deal with facts. Its hard to do for women .
I been overseas stationed and they all cheat. Never met a man or woman unless highly into church who didnt cheat. And im not talking about regular church attendees cause they cheat as well. I seen people in at&t booth call theirs wife or husband while their sand other was right next to them.
I don't think he was accusing her while she was there. He didn't like the close friendship with the guy who planted doubt. It was after she came back and said I'm pregnant after a month and continuing that friendship that really upset him. If she cheated, she'll take it to her grave.
Just cause the baby his don't mean she wasn't cheating smh
I'm ex military that has been sent to both Kuwait AND Iraq. Infedility runs rampant over there. We used to have this acronym "TDY", which mean Temporarily Divorced for a Year".
Goodness he looks like he's her father not husband
For real I thought that it was a father and daughter case
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Yeah, He looks like the Uncle that everyone tells the little girls in the family to stay away from. IJS!
He is 22 years older than her 🤢
She stood straight the whooooole time ..didnt even shake her head ..a real soldier right there😂😂
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She stood straight in attention the whole time a true soldier she is thank you for your service
Of course she stands straight. Her back is blown out😂😂😂
That woman could be secret service. Wow! The expressionlessness composure is something.
she is blk they use to that stuff
@@donwal2016 What black has to do with being emotionless?
@@donwal2016 your comment makes no sense at all. What does being black have to do with the initial comment?!
Yes right I would be scared for that if I was him.
yeah i cant stomach those type of people. I be thinking something wrong with people like that
He done worried himself half to death!! ☠️ Look at him, he look 103 not 47.
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I've never seen in my entire life someone poised like this woman
Her look, her body language, and her demeanor.
Mucho respect for her
She has integrity. The lady honors her vows even though he is much older than her
She is in the military
Right . She's very certain that he's her child father , despite his Bobobo !
Let him talk . No need to discuss ..
Honestly such a lovely lady
As a former soldier I was incensed by the defendants witness!! His testimony makes me wonder if he is of the caliber that he described, he may be one of the very ones who was and is still infidel. I am also concerned as to why he's in uniform, he is FORMER a Vet, we don't wear our uniforms, we are now Civilians!!! As for my Comrade, after the humiliation on national television I'd be headed to JAG seeking council for a Divorce Attorney!!!😡
I can’t imagine this woman being “flirty” 😂
He's aging terribly for 47
lol but true.
Just terrible
its because he lost alot of weight he was probably big.
Maybe he was a drug addict at one point in his life..
That’s that Benjamin button disease
Did he say, "I didn't scold her for that..."? Dude, you scold a child, not your wife.
I was so looking for someone else to notice. He preyed upon her, he's old enough to be her father
Hes ridiculous
In this case same thing...
No a female need to be scolded to is called submit to your husband
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Did I hear correctly? She said that because of bombs going off around her she had to stay in a bunker? I can just IMAGINE how traumatic. She looks numb just standing there. He should be ashamed...
April Stone I definitely understand what she meant. Because when bombs go off sometimes you don’t know where to go except you out in the open. It is very Trumatic. It was a nightmare being out there. But I thank God that I came back safely.
You have a lot of wisdom exactly right I love your comment because her life is in danger and he worried about her sleeping with somebody else Satan had that man I messed up and just like the lady said before before I read this comment he's looking old is sad so you look old when will your head out for no reason you should have been praying and asking God to protect your wife
Yes he should be April!!
@@LadyPosche Well I'd like to say THANK YOU for preserving our lives over here!! And I'm so glad that you made it back safely!
Your country she be ashamed. Women have no business in combat. Of course she traumatized; beyond repair most likely.
As a Veteran I can say we have a connection that most civilians never have. It’s like having a family that checks up and cares about you. I served 14 years and I miss the Soldiers I worked with.
Thank you for your service to our country💕💕💕
If you have this wonderful connection that most civilians never have, where are these soldiers that you to miss them?
Sorry as an active duty service member today I can assure you it’s no longer like that
@@kidnplay2148 I believe that. This comment is suggesting that they miss the special connection yet if the connection was so strong why are those Veterans not in contact!? We don’t lose contact with people who we have a “connection” with.
@@Truelyblue333i think he means that they have a bond where they will literally sacrifice their life for one another and they are not blood related
He's twice his wife's age and have the nerve to give her a hard time and accuse her of foolishness while she's risking her life while serving smh🤦🏽♀️.
Supa Woman 😂😂
This is common for such relationship
Have you served in the military?
You'll be shocked
Okay! I am SICK of him!
It happens. I know someone worked on a military base and was cheating with multiple married women. He was having 3 somes and everything. No condoms because they were on bc. He said they had a "no kids" agreement meaning if they did get pregnant they'd abort...
She look so serious and unhappy. No emotions
Renee Coppin fighting for the country can have that effect
She's been through so much. She doesn't need his own insecurities
When you go to war for no reason that is how you look like💩💩💩
She is remaining calm, but I think she’s very hurt and angry inside. Men and women can be friends only.
That military life.
She is such a dignified person with integrity and loyality
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Yep. How rare is that!
I salute you.U deserved great respect.God bless all dignified soldiers in d entire wold.
He may be projecting his guilt on her. Watch out madame.
That old coot, my ex 22 yrs my senior! Kept saying no 1 wanted me! Lol, got remarried n had another kid after 11 yrs! They don’t appreciate anything til the ‘well’ runs Ty ! That man is mean, controlling, manipulative and 2 old for that young girl! My mom shoulda been telling me, I shouldn’t marry someone that much older , smh
This man talkin bout he lost 20 lbs cause he was so worried she was cheating. 😥 Yet she was the one at war in Iraq! *sigh*
He was trying to make everything about himself.
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SC TravelRN I live UK but love what you have said😂
He could "Burlyyyy see,so you know he couldn't sleep.😭😭
He would drive me crazy. I can't take an insecure man
Majority of men are insecure, his is a lot more intense due to the age gap. He chose that young woman, now he has to deal with what comes with her being half his age.
He is old and he knows he can't put it down the way he used to.
He's insecure because of the age difference. He will never feel secure.
@@PeggyRabbit32 I'm positive he has a feeling of inadequacy. All the counseling in the world can't put him at peace.
@@me-pm6mx Well said
She was solid as a rock! Being an ex-Marine myself, I salute you young lady!
God bless you sir.
Thank you for your service.🇺🇸
He's literally 7 years older than me, and people think im still in my twenties. This is a reminder for me to continue to take care of myself.
Exactly, I’m 42 and still get mistaken for being younger. People sometimes think my 23 year old is my sibling. This man looks rough.
Sooo I thought the wife was the child in question 🤦🏾♀️
You are so hilarious Fran
I thought the same when i saw the thumbnail
Me too!
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This young lady is honest, honorable, disciplined and loves her husband. No one understood her, she stayed true to her husband while abroad, defended him while speaking to her friend on the phone. Yet he, the judge and everyone else mistook it for flirting. She is a Gem, kept herself for her paranoid husband, fourt for her country, but she was not appreciated. Your husband should feel ashamed of himself. Thank you for honorably serving our country.
Am I'm the only one thinks he looks like Norbit and sounds like him to
She was flirting.
Its called condoms.
Seems like there roles are reversed in this case.. she’s in Masculine role and he’s in the Feminine role..May be because traditionally the Man goes off to war and the wife stays at home with the kids..
Agreed
47? WTH has he been doing all his life?
I thought he was on his 60's
I thought that was her grandfather
Worrying
It's sad that he thinks she's gonna cheat just because she's much younger than him. Needless to say they only knew each other a month before they got married.
That's his life! How many young men have kids and don't behave like fathers
She married somebody’s granddaddy. 😂 His senile behind knew she wasn’t messing around. Then when it was time to hug her, he said “My knee!” Come on 😩😭
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It’s not the fact that he’s 47 he looks sickly!!
@@yokareese1972 looks like he has cancer
This comment alone has took me out for the night😂😂😂😂
Mrs.Brown-Murray, thank you for your service, you're not just an honorable soldier and well discipline, you are cute as a button...I salute you ma'am!!!
And her baby looks just like her. Thank goodness!
I salute her....she's really cute as a button...
They look like 3 generations father, daughter , and granddaughter...
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Same thing I was thinking.😀
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Serving the country and trying to explain/prove yourself to an old insecure man?? She deserves better!
Well said
i dont think so. i think woman have completely forgotten how to love there man. you always expect us to treat you a certain way. she needs to get off the phone with her "friend" and give that attention to her husband. maybe if she did non of this would of happened smh
Lord Timothy stop it! She took the time to Skype him while in Iraq. Nothing would’ve prevented this.
@@itzjmonay she found comfort in another man. and instead of talking to her man about her problems she talked to another man. you dont have to have physical contact to cheat. you can cheat in your heart. she was obviously catching feeling for this other man so she was cheating. it could of been prevented if she was focused on being faithful which isnt hard! i thank her for her service but that doesnt excuse her cheating.
@GodLoveFreedom i put the blame where the blame is. his insecurities and her giving him doubt was to blame. men and woman have forgotten how to be in a marriage. there is a structure to the household. and if that structure breaks or if someone isnt doing their part then the house will crumble. a mans insecurities are born from cheaters. a woman has to be physically, mentally and emotionally with her man and no other men. thats what it means to be faithful. i cant take a man that makes excuses for a womans actions and continues to only see her as a victim. i treated woman equal that means they are wrong when they are wrong and i give no excuses because they are female
I hope to see more women like her in this courtroom...Very honorable. A very few talks. Very composed, very admirable
I just love the wife. Honourable calm and collected
Class.
Absolutely. That "47" year old man found a diamond. I consider him lucky asf
This woman is too honorable and strong for any of us. Thank you for your service.
He’s nonsense
This is the first show I watched where there was no yelling at each other 😳
🤣🤣🤣 Riiiiiight and I didn't notice that.
That’s simply cos she is in the military,trainee to respond when spoken to
home girl already dead emotionally man, she probably traumatized after all shes been through.
Refreshing.....two intelligent people....although husband is very, insecure
Melissa Ponton cause he’s old and imagines her with younger men when she’s away.
The service woman is absolutely precise,amazing , calm and collected . Thanks for your great service!
man her face has no emotion, i can only imagine wat shes been through
That's exactly what I thought: those eyes have seen too much ...
Beautiful lady!
I said she is off look at her she has problems
You’re off. Judging people you don’t know… literally going through multiple comments saying this.
Women we pass through a lot .imagine
This man has no compassion for what his wife has been through.
Because I age difference s matter. People need to be aware of that.
Exactly NO COMPASSION just wrong
He's just thinking of himself.
Wow, she did not waver not even once....so genuine. It is hard to find people in this world like that. Thank you for serving our country.
I’ve been in the Army and deployed, and even without being married at the time, I didn’t cheat on my boyfriend, nor was I tempted to do so. I hate the lies being thrown around on this episode. I knew people who cheated during deployments, but it was not the norm. Everyone isn’t thinking about hooking up when their lives could be in danger at any time.
HE LOOK 78! RUN GIRL! He's too old! He couldn't even get out the chair to hug her 😂🤣
Exactly he's old enough to be her daddy
Oh my God we both thought he looks 78
Truth
She needs to break up with Grandpa Jones because he’s insecure and a little disrespectful.
And probably very controlling
Why is she wasting her youth old this dude?
Mia...Grandpa Murray🤣
@@reneeglickstein7571 when a man is that much older than his wife thwy normally are very controlling and insecure.
He like one old Bedford truck giving trouble all the time lol😂
“Scold” “she knows not to mess with me when I’m sleepy” lol this dude is trying to be her daddy not her husband.
Not sure what’s going with them but I did not like when he said that. He has insecurities about his age and blaming her for cheating. He is not for her mentally.
Not gonna lie... Everyone in my house, including the puppies know not to wake mommy... Even growing up my parents didn't wake me. But I see how he came off.
Love is colorblind
@@orexjobkombea188 0
He basically in age is her father
I love this episode. The wife was do calm and had her husband have his say. She is a true military, calm, cool and focused
Her poker face is amazing lol
Yes I was trying to read her face before the results, but quickly gave up. I was trying to read her eyes she gave nothing!
@@catinar3148 cant imagine them doing it...& doing it & doing it well.
That's called grace under pressure :)
WSOP
@@catinar3148 Her breathing sped up a lil bit. Either she was nervous or just wanted the judge to hurry up, idk. Just an observation.
I thought that guy was her granddad he's had hard life
Me too
I'm glad I'm not the only one lol
Lol y’all crazy. He does not.
Yep 😭😭😭😭😭💀
Worry and stress aged seriously aged him.
They hugged at the end like they were at church during the meet and greet part of the service....dang..
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This woman’s training is showing completely. She is completely calm and emotionless. I know she doesn’t easily panic in a firefight.
The man looks like her daddy.
TRUE👍👍
I fully said the exact same thing...
Grand papi
Toyy Toyy more like grandpa. 🙄 his insecurities is his issues
He's older enough to be her daddy.
She's over there risking her life for our country and he's worried about being alone in the US.
She's over there maintaining an indefinite military presence inside a sovereign nation to illegally secure a natural resource on foreign soil for domestic use. Get your facts straight.
She held the same facial expression the whole time. 😐
Yes she was in no way moved by anything. She just defended her point.
You can tell she’s been through extensive training
She’s slow. Look at who she married!! 😂
@@LadyAngela678 maybe it was a conscious decision...she wanted to marry someone who she wouldnt have to worry about given the nature of her job and length of time she would most likely not be present where he is...some girls cant really bother with young guys cuz the be cheating..or most likely to cheat
@@tanciabradshaw I agree. Maybe she had that stoic look on her face because, she was trained to be that way and at such a young age - that's an admiral quality to have especially while defending your country! As far someone referencing that she's slow., I don't think she would be where she is today if she actually had an intellectual disability. IJS🤷🏽♀️
also ,
*_thankyou for your service Mrs. Brown-Murray._* 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 🙏🏽
He’s disgusting talking about being scared alone in a whole other state. Meanwhile, she’s in bunkers over seas fighting for your freedom. BOY BYE
I believe he was saying he was scared for her safety not his own.
Exactly!
A punk
His insecurities were very unattractive 🤮
Yes but at the same time both are scary one is scarier than the other still u can't say his feelings aren't valid
She hugged him like a granddaughter hugs her papa 🤦🏾♀️🤣😂
😂😂
Right. What's that about?
😂😂😂😂
@@MzReka it's called Contract marriage
Right. I thought I was the only one to see that!
They hugged Iike neighbors instead of husband and wife. Geez!
YOU AIN'T LYING,SOME TIMES I BELIEVE SOME OF THESE SHOWS ARE STAGED
With the pat on the back. I swear I thought the same thing. Bless it!
@@veronicaowens7140 nah they be real most of them have Facebook with all their business on there
Public display of affection (PDA) is frowned on while in uniform.
Yeah, that hug was colder than a Polar Bears feet against your back.
That is very true about people in the service...I know plenty of people who say it is!! Thank you for your service and being such an honest respectful woman!!
Wait, he said “I can’t get up, my knees”, sir I know you are not only 47. Those numbers gotta be flipped. You look 74. This is such an odd couple.
I was done when I heard that. I said to myself 'what did she marry that old man for,' forgetting that he's not that old. but something definitely is not right, and I do hope she gets therapy..him too.
They marry to increase their checks. Both military men and women will marry someone after k owing them a couple months and has nothing to do with love. For young folks with low rank it almost doubles their salary.
The real issue here is the husband's insecurity. He is extremely insecure because he is a 47 year old man married to a 24 year old woman. He is so afraid that she will find a younger man and get rid of him that he is stressing this woman out. It is only a matter of time before he start accusing her again. He needs to really work through his insecurities if their marriage is to work out.
He's not 47 believe me
Touching 60
No. He is 47 yrs older that's his the reason for his insecurity.
He was soooo wrong to marry someone so many years younger than himself. He should've left the people's daughter alone
She needs to leave him. He's way too insecure. He's gonna continue to accuse her of cheating. He doesn't sound too bright either.
I presume Day Day is bright. He gotta six pack tho
The man in the photos and the man standing before the judge look completely different 🤯
I must say she’s probably trained.. she said little and gave no emotion in face. Thank u for ur service
Agreed
It's kinda creepy actually.
He looks at least 65, he should really stop stressing himself out and get a career to build his confidence up instead of being so worried
Forget father, this man in court looking like her Grandpa!
EXACTLY!!!🤦🏽♀️🤢
Yeah he looks a HARD 47, my uncle is 67 and looks younger than this man
Did anyone else feel like we were low key being punkd 😳 She is beautiful. Thank you for your service💪🏾
She's a good girl. She's all military, delivers her truth without flinching and he's lucky to have her.
He to old
When he die of insecurities, a sweet loving and honest man will be there to take his place
Beyond lucky (to say the least)!
So many questions here... why is this 47 man still wear/receiving Jordan's, why is he at home while she's at work, why did she pick up this handful? Something is weird about their relationship.
lol bro just because your spouse is deployed doesn't mean he doesn't work smh. She was gone for a year smh.
Lawd !!! U spoke my mind 🙄and he still affords to
Be disrespectful to her on national tv even when he looks so blind, feeble and helpless 🤦♂️. Some of my sis/friends literally need to do better. Poor faithful lady 😡
He probably was working a great job when she met him. He probably took good care of her. Unlike you .....she didn't feel the need to leave him when he was down.
😂😂😂...Some still wear them over 47...
@@luvbig41 you're absolutely correct, unlike me.
She's a baby..... He looks like a mortician! Thank you for your service and too all veteran's including myself Hooah!💜
Kee Woods It’s funny you say that because him and my man are the same age and he happens to be a mortician except he actually looks good for his age.
@@beevegan6889 girrrrrrlllll lol he does! I'm happy your man is fine!💜 cause this man isn't AT ALL!
Kee Woods Girl,I refuse to be with an unattractive and broke older man. What’s the point?Lol
@@beevegan6889 None LOL
Lol at mortician
Husband, grow up!! At your age you should be mature enough to handle this!! If not, get out and let her find someone mature and self assured. She does not need the added stress of dealing with you and your behavior when she is in a war!
He look like one of those old dudes that be like “whats goin on youngsta”
😂😂😂😂
Yes that type uggghh!! 😷🤒🤕
😂😂😂😂
What's hatnen tederoni?
He was depressed, lost weight and stuff: he couldn't believe he had long hit the jackpot with this young Queen!
Im gonna need her to leave him ... She fighting a war and gotta come home to change his diapers and take care of her child... He tooo dam old for her.
nichele thorpe exactly!
😂😂😂
He 47
Uh lady go look up the history of Loretta Lynn before you say anything else.
Pookie ain’t gonna take care of the kids so she has to get an older guy that respects family. Get a clue.
They must be from a hella small town where the pickings are slim.
Thank you cuz he look like he work at the 1 gas station within 100 miles of civilization 😕
@@JesuisLecheyn 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Y'all really get on my nerves 🤣
Agreed.
@@JesuisLecheyn 🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣
I feel so sorry for her. She seems so sweet and genuine. He is insecure and their age difference haunts him. She is an honorable woman dealing with death a d his insecurities while in battle.
It was so hard watching this episode...but I was patient... LAWD JESUS...he is a very insecure man...she looks so emotionless but she in the army so I understand...love has no age but I hope he don't push her to her limits...PTSD is real
Right she looks emotionless
I thought the same thing!😯
Same!
She did something. But she was careful
She's definitely cheating on him.
I like her military face...no unnecessary emotional outbursts. I wish all people could act like that guilty or innocent.
Trained soldier to keep secrets and to psychological deal with the worse.
In a word... Creepy.
That man should be happy to be with her! She was so respectful and never interrupted anyone the whole case.
Thank you ma'am for your service. It takes a lot to be faithful. I applaud you for everything that you have done and continue todo.
I am so upset with this case! This woman in constant battle fighting for her country, and instead of Praying for his wife, he is trying to wear her spirits down! I truly believe he needs self help, like Mental Health!🙏🏻🤗
I agree with you Tina some people can never be ready for a military wife or husband this old man is so insecure and it has nothing to do with his wife.
I think this man is emotionally abusive. I get the feeling he doesn't treat her very well.
But you heard the lady said despite the doubts, he is a good father and a husband.
Something??? Odd huh?
Something ain't right
i think exactly the same
@@christianclarence9901 ......yea cause abused ppl never lie about how they’re being treated at home 😐
Her: I'm flirty on the phone.
Her in court: 😑
Lol
My thoughts exactly
I love that that was funny gave me a giggle
Different situation 😂 my aunt says the break you down and build you make up guess this a side effect 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is he in disguise? He looks totally different in person than he does in his pictures
She might’ve endured some childhood trauma that made her choose an older, less physically intimidating type of man. Beautiful child! May they be happy together always.
He could have been her first relationship too. Albeit emotional or physical
HER EYELASHES WERE TO DIE FOR.. 🙌
Facts
That's the end of that marriage. He showed his wife disrespect on national television by making those comments about her lack of affection in the bedroom.
FELICIA R. Exactly! I can't believe he said that on tv smh
FELICIA R. Talkn about nun special, u can't even stand up n court how u gone handle sum 😻...✋ Chile plz
serenity dennis THAT PART!!
@@Sleepyloser790 Ikr...old pervert! I bet he can't get a woman his age!
Did you see her face when he said that? It was a slight change but boy she was dying inside. Why would he even say that? Especially looking as feeble as he looks.
He doesn't deserve her. He's way too paranoid and just admitted the most disrespectful thing he could about their love life and how boring he thought it was. SMH.
he didn't even apologize or go over to her after the results were announced; she went over to him; he has a lovely wife and don't know it.
Clarence Edwards I think he has bad knees
@@JasmineCrump you could be right because he is crouched over as he speaks; but my beef with him was that he didn't even apologize to her for his insecurities because after all she went through in Iraq for them; she may even have a touch of post traumatic stress disorder and these kinds of anxieties can affect the emotional health of an individual, especially a woman. I personally would have been so embarrassed having put her through all of that BS for nothing; I would have apologized to her right there and then and ask for her forgiveness.
Clarence Edwards I agree with you 100%👌🏾 I just heard him mention something about his knees when she was coming towards him. I definitely feel she deserved more of an apology than she received. Hopefully, he did better off camera.
@@JasmineCrump Indeed, we need to be mutually respectful to each other and when we fall short, when we foul up, we should be man or woman enough to admit to our mistakes and be remorseful. I believe I am old enough to be your father and I can personally attest to insecurity in men; there are exceptions of course, but generally men don't like other men too close to their women, but as you get older, you learn to deal with it in a more matured way. My best respects to you.
Thank You Mrs. Natalie Brown-Murray for "Serving Our Country"!
First the girl looks like him. Second, people who cheat, cheat. I served and there were people that did and people that didn't.
Shona Lovely Thank you! I’ve pretty much said the same thing! I don’t know why some military members think that cheating while in the military or deployed/TDY is some type of taboo or special club. People who cheat, will cheat no matter if they took that oath or not.
You are right Shona, looking at that little girl, she look just like him. I think he is going blind
He doesn't sound like he works. Old and broke! You doing it all wrong sis.
lol haha
Right
Fantastic View he’s 47 😅😭
10 lol he a restaurant manager
He looks like he's on disability, so maybe he doesn't have to work🤷♀️
Many people do not understand is that when we arrive home, we are not the same person the way we left. There are unrealistic expectations of us when we return. It takes a very long time to adjust back to civilian life yet as a soldier. They don’t understand the mental struggles we have when we come home. Maybe if people take out the time to understand what happens when we return, the transition wouldn’t be so hard.
I was saying the same thing. We will never be the same people.
LadyPosche Da Star thank you for your service 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 love all military people. Will be joining after I graduate college
My husband was in the military too and yes they are not the same person returning home but have more maturity about your husband and wife they putting their life on the line for the people of this country appreciate them just as they appreciate all lives in this country.
@@Angjoe1530 your correct thank you so much for your services.
Just curious, other than protecting the country, why people join the army especially women? Is it the pension and pay or the job security just always wanted to know
Another thing...look up PTSD. The trauma of being in combat changes you. Your personality, your emotions, the very depth of your soul, etc. Do not judge unless you have walked in her boots!
47😐 he is not 47. 🙄More like 67 😑🤷🏾♀️
Tay Young The man can’t even stand up and SHE is only 24.
Kimmy D I was just about to ask is he sitting
Fosho he's....62
Not a day older than 74🤔
That’s a hard 47 ! He must be a drinker or ill
Thank you SO much for your services my beautiful melanin QUEEN!!!💖💖💖💖
She's really beautiful
Now THAT is it: Melanin Queen! She's so pretty, calm, composed, graceful, ..., AND everything else! 💖💖💖
@@attakumaaanaas3kakra952 and that she is 💖
@@LimKaamen and in that order!💖💖💖
Black queens don't fight as pawns for white conspirators who despise them.
That woman is sooo patient. She didn’t give one bad look or flippant reaction even though inside she knew there was no reason to be there. That’s what unwavering honor looks like.
It's the discipline she learned while training I believe.
Her being stoic doesn't mean she was faithful.
@@muhammad_pulliam - my comment is like 2 years old. No one said that being stoic means someone didn’t cheat…but in this case, she didn’t and my comment still stands exactly as I said it. Sounds like you were hurt by someone and are looking for people to argue with since your comment has no context here. Cheer up.
@@DeakE2003 "she knew there was no reason to be there." It's paternity court.... Cheating is the ENTIRE reason people go there. My point is, just because she wasn't acting like a buffoon, doesn't mean she wasn't getting slayed by a younger soldier while deployed. There is a such thing as birth control and condoms... Both of which she has access to, as a soldier. Have a grand day.
@@muhammad_pulliam - like I said…cheer up. Either you’re watching a different video than the rest of us or have some major paranoia and discontent in your brain because you sound absolutely ridiculous and full of your own life’s anger.
Thank you for your service and keeping our country safe ..
Yo!!!! Who did church deacon on layaway representing as her husband! 47???? He look more like 67 with a bad Jheri Curl! WTH is going on here!!???
I think he needs thicker glasses cause that little girl IS the “splitting” image of him🤷♀️
"splitting"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Specsavers 🤓🤓🤓
She really is. Spitting image
@@katemiller7874 exactly
Girl you don't want this man, do yourself a favor, you are going to look as old as he does very soon, with all that stress and jealously
Amen
Yep
judging a man from a fair jealousy yea right
True
Thank you very much for your service Mrs. Brown-Murray!
Omg that huggggg was like " careful not to rough you gonna hurt pops back" 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
She’s beautiful and calm, husband look older than my dead grandfather. Keep being dignified sister, you’re classy.
😂 sorry but that was funny.
Karen Wilson 🤭😂
🤣🤣🤣
Karen Wilson lol
She showed no emotion the entire time. She's suffering.
Flat affect
Think she rather be overseas than there woth him
That’s what we are trained to do. There is a huge reason why they call it serving and you raise your right hand to affirm this is something you want to do because it changes you and it leaves you many times emotionless. Depending on how supportive or unsupportive your family and people around you are as well as your upbringing.
@@rachelthomas5210 it’s all how the military trains us to be and many people came back from there different not just her.
Or Botox
He can't get under her skin...she's used to dodging REAL bombs. 🤷 He's just insecure because she's half his age. smh