Marry Me & You’ll Be My Only Fan: “DeeDee” Russell v Antwain Henderson
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 พ.ย. 2024
- "DeeDee” says if Antwain doesn’t put his mother in her place, she's leaving with the children. Antwain says “DeeDee’s” lack of respect for his mom has him rethinking their future.
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First mistake is staying with a man with no ring for 12 years.. smh. The moment a man cheats on me the first time I run! What is wrong with these desperate girls.
Exactly
Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want to be with you. Period
Amen!
Lynn Toler; these words stick with me all the time.
My dad told me this ONCE and that stuck with me. Watching Judge Lynn Toler and her words was like hearing my dad talk to me time and time again through her talking to all those women she haf to say that too.
This is what low self-esteem and marriage obsession looks like. Take notes ladies. Please stop!
Amen!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thanks for your comment with facts.
Cynthia G be talking about it 💥
Yes, PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When she said “I need to at least have a ring to show for it” SHOW FOR WHAT? You being silly a bunch of years? 🤔
OMG, SHE WORTHY OF HAVING YOUR CHILDREN, BUT NOT WORTHY OF BEING YOUR WIFE, MAKE IT MAKE SENSE, DUDE 😡😡
It's almost like anyone can just be a baby mama
He doesn't deserve her and he knows it.
@meeksluvspink9047 deserving is what you make yourself...she didn't make herself deserving...she made 4 kids with him with no real commitment...being a mother doesn't make you deserving of marriage....motherhood is basic biology...a 13 yr old can do it....being a wife has its own separate merit system...she isn't wife material..neither is he husband material..we need to stop thinking being mothers automatically makes women worthy of being wives
That's what most men do. They want to spread their "legacy" and choose baby mommas they know can control and be a mother to their kids. Doesn't mean the man wants them. he knew she would be easy.
Rite. In this case it was her blessing I disguise tho.
This girl said if I have to deal with the betrayal, the mama etc etc then I should have a ring. Chile you should be running away not trying to get a ring 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Probably can't go anywhere, because she ain't got no money, talking about, she be hustling, woman you have 4 children, YOU NEED A JOB
exactly!! like run forrest .. run girl
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Whole time, The Ring a horror movie, in their relationship anayway.
Run!!
The saddest part is, she's not leaving him 😔
FEMALES CAN BE SIMPS TO THIS ONE IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE SHE IS A GLUTTON FOR PUNISHMENT
Yeah, he put his hand around her waist while they walked out. He'll keep her around as a fallback as he keeps shopping for other women.
@@ollieanntan4478that was really really nasty I really do feel bad for her but she had to put up with the mother and the auntie and everybody but why she want to marry a man that slept with the auntie that was really trifling
I think because she has kids by him no other man will want her
she crazy like him
This should be a Divorce Court special with Judge Star, Judge Lynn Toler and Judge Faith. Three opinions, one verdict. One hundred percent REAL!!!
No it needs to be Judge Mablean, Lynn Toler, and Star Jones. Judge Faith don't know nothing about marriage. DC ratings wen't down because of her a Juan.
Yes that would be great. Judge Faith would give her generation perspective.. Judge Toler would give the wisdom and Judge Star would make us laugh.
I'm with you. I had stopped watching when she was Judge. I know this may sound mean but I wasn't too crazy about her
I need judge toler to call him tacky and low brow
Right! Judge Faith for the law, Judge Starr for the drama, Judge Lynn for the heart - and all three for the clap back Lol!
This whole relationship is so raggedy. 🙄🙄🙄
Falling all apart
Raggedy is the word! I'm tired 😫
It really is! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Girl this is first class mess my brain felt like scrambled eggs and I know im not uneducated
he slept with your aunt and you want to marry him....what in the holy hell is going on here
SAD REALLY SAD
Right!!
@@charleslee1644that's dirty for sleeping with her auntie and everybody that's gross 🤢🤢 man I don't like him or his mom they both are belongs in the streets him and his mom and her auntie and the woman frr I'm glad that she not going to marry him that's real sad
This woman does not know what love feels like or looks like. She will settle for any pot hound ( lowest class of dogs)
This is so repulsive to me. People really still think being a wife is a prize. He demands her to meet his, “requirements,” while showing what piss poor husband material looks like. And she still kept replicating his dna and thirsting for marital slavery. I feel sick. This is sick!
FACTS! Where are her standards and requirements??? She is yearning for validation like he some kind of prize.
You see all this and find that she is the only one at fault? Are you kidding me? They met when she was in middle school.
People really need to learn what MARRIAGE is “biblically “
If they know what it consists of biblically people wouldn’t rush to do if🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
This man is not ready to marry NOBODY!!!🤦🏾♀️
And his dumb Mama sitting up there supporting his BS
Not every one "think" marriage is a prize or being a wife..only these women who don't value themselves with no spirituality..no real morals or value..Marriage is great when you partner with the right one but even then you both must be committed to make it last. .and when I say commitment I mean to love, respect &.grow together ..
Once I heard that they have been together for 12 years a lot of children and no marriage.... I was already DONE! This is a hot mess!
I’m glad the Judge told her the truth
I hope it sank in‼️
She's been 'DOING WIFE' without 'BEING A WIFE'.
He told her the truth and she refuses to hear it 🤦🏾♀️
BUT IT WENT IN ONE EAR COME OUT THE OTHER
Being a wife is not performance based!!! What does he bring to the table? He cheats, has a baby outside the relationship, and expects her as a wife to be performance based. He doesn't deserve her!!! Young women, please don't move in with these men, play house, and have their children until you have your ring and married. That's your leverage as a woman. Don't let these men have the cow and milk free!!! Value yourself!!! You are worth it!!!
@Sandra Rice ✔️
Thank you
Even marriage can't guarantee you forever after and peace. Some men marry just because. Is rather be happy not married then be married unhappy. Marriage can't bring you the happiness or peace you deserve. But honestly lots of woman need to be honest with themselves if you want to get married make it clear to him and do not accept any less
Yes it is, you wouldn't just lay with any man. You would marry a man that does this and that, which basically equals performance/standards.
See deserves better. The AUDACITY!
Let me make sure that I have this right: he had a “break baby “ and was “seduced” by her aunt and he has the nerve to have requirements of her. Sis, he does NOT love you! He does NOT want you! Please don’t let him tell you again. A ring is NOT going to solve your problems, make him respect you or make you feel more secure in your relationship.
Exactly!!!!
He doesn't need to go get a WIFE .... he needs to go get his LIFE together!!!
12 years and 4 kids and NOW you want a ring?! 🤨.
Somebody, please make it make sense.
All she is intrested in is a RING...
She need a NuvaRing
I’m sure she’s always wanted a ring. He just never & will never give it to her. She was a fool for giving him 4 kids & 12yrs.
@@MrCeejaythadeejay 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ariamarshall5161Big facts
Well! After years of watching DC, we finally have a physical definition of low self esteem/respect. I was ready to pull my hair out the last time she said "that's what wives do". As for him, judge Star summed him up perfectly...FOUL!🙄
She is clearly misguided. It was very heart breaking and distasteful that she really believes that a wife should endure abuse sad so sad
Lol he’s listening to his mom, he’s ridiculous the mom is too smh
Judge star should have correct her when she said that
This young lady was not taught important things that she needed, like self-respect, self-worth, and protect your fertility. Too many women believe they are entitled to marriage because they had babies. That's not how it works. Exactly why we have to know who we are getting pregnant by. That sorry excuse he had about why he wouldn't marry her was so sorry, he had to laugh at it himself. Especially after disrespecting her with her AUNT and an ex! That was even worse. I just can't! This is sad! #respectyourself
And she gave him her virginity. She pursued him. She can't go backwards but she can definitely become better. It's sad
@@jacklynferro4336very sad 😢
I am so sorry that this girl's self-esteem and self-worth are so low that she thinks this guy is the best she can do.
I feel bad for her but... At some point she needs to claim her stupidity. She helped make that bed she's laying in. 4 kids in... She should've wised up a little before then. At some point you have no one to blame but yourself.
After 4 children...she's not living up to your standards...
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She has his FOUR children and she needs more under her belt to be his wife??!! He brags about having a job for 3 years, and 4 kids with a woman he hasn't married...🤦🏽♀️🤣
Yea..its almost like anyone can be a baby mama because that's a low requirement
@Beast Lee it shouldn't even be a thing! That's we have so many lost children..they grow up to be inmates..broken homes everywhere
She still delusional at the end. SMH
Right. Bet she'll still be waiting on that ring this time next year, with baby number 5 in her arms. It's just sad😮💨
Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you...Judge Toler
She should be ashamed and so should he. 12 years with no resolution, no goals, no guidelines for how your going to have a proper family or give a proper family to your children. 😮
Wow................low self esteem is real! She wants to marry this guy after all of eww. Just sad!
What she said was she wanted to get because of all that. Even worse…
This isn't standing by your man. This is standing by everybody's man !!
Ewwww she sharing that dirty peen and welcoming it back with open cat & jaws... tf🤦🏿♀️
Loll I don't think I could've put it any better myself
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Neither him nor his Mother has an once of respect for her, and this is primarily do to the fact, she has no respect for herself, why do women began having babies, with men, who don't value them like this, and it's the children who suffer, more than anyone, in these type situations, how dare her disrespect them babies that way no matter, how she feels about their mom, she was dead wrong for that, maybe what she really needs, is her own man, so she can stay out of their business 😡😡
Her mannerisms are that of an older drunk lady about to get upset at a cookout 😭 She’s very beautiful, her look and voice put me in the mind of Teyanna Taylor. However, she needs an attitude adjustment and to care more about herself as a woman and mother instead of trying to force a relationship.
You hit it right on the nose about her demeanor and attitude. As well as her resemblances to Teyana Tailor.
Never let a man tell you more than once he don't want you
She's scared of being a single woman with children. She rather settle. It's unfortunate that she made herself comfortable by justifying his actions by blaming other people. She should practice self love and embrace that time and energy into herself. I hope she has more love for her children than for their father. We are in living amongst people in this world with different levels of trauma. The way she is trying to correct her world view is toxic
It’s disturbing how these black mama never want to keep their son accountable.
This! Most of the moms be jealous of the gf/wife so they try to sabotage their relationships
Yea I personally think that the mother of the guy was cloaking him which wasn't a good thing cuz if he did wrong she was supposed to hold him accountable for his actions rather than pet him and try to throw everything on his girlfriend which wasn't right both him and his mom have some growing up to do!
She ain't going nowhere definitely need an update soon smh lol
At some point as women we have to have higher esteem and standards for ourselves. Protect your fertility and stop playing wife
What happens when you think being ride and die means getting a piece of glitter for years of abuse and disrespect.
I really feel for this girl. She's the only man she's known all her life so she find it difficult and scary to leave her. She can't imagine what her world would be without him. My advise for the girl is to leave the kids with him and move on with her life.
This is a bs excuse
This guy has no respect for this young lady.
She gotta do better before he puts a ring on her business.
He needs a frigging slap.
He is rude, what kind of a gettho man did the mother raise?
This poor girl I feel for her but she has to go & be her own woman & don't be afraid to move on.
Let's start a goFundme and buy this girl a RING!!!!!
Honestly, if she wanted to be a wife, she should have waited on having all of those babies. This man has no respect for her at all. She can stop trying to show him her worth and focus on believing in her worth. The woman in his life right now is his mother, and she needs to make nice with his mom. If she really wants that "ring" because that is it will be- " a ring." Hopefully, she can move on and just be a mother to her children and co-parent with him. So sad. 12 years! Judge Star nailed it on this one!
At some point women need to learn to put themselves and their children first. Why would you want a ring from him? He has no respect for you! Lord help her.
DeeDee please let asshole go , you are very strong and outspoken, collect your child support and go on. GOD love's you and take care of yourself and your children.
Lawdy dawdy and everybody always makes me laugh 🤣😂💀
Hold up, did she say that’s what wives Do, wow she’s trying to normalize cheating, this is utterly ridiculous!!!!
Awww hurt my heart when she said WE CAN TRYYY😢 AWW poor baby she love him but he dont love her 💔
How immature is the mother to be crank calling ppl how old are we
The mother is a HUGE issue!
She need a man 😁
Not, "I took him back. That's what wives do!" Who told her that? Who showed her that? The lack of self-esteem, and role models, really has her messed up. Shame!
Her family have failed her. Was there really nobody around to speak life into this girl? The advice judge star gave, is probably the first time anyone has told her that
See dudes like that are so terrible. She’s been cooking, cleaning, and raising 4 babies for you, but he’s still talking about she needs to meet his requirements??? What else does he want? He’s just gaslighting her. He doesn’t want to marry her, but is too much of a coward to admit it. He wants her to be his sex maid and nothing more. And she needs to value herself. She needs to be counseled by wise women in her family. It seems like she doesn’t have any. So sad.
What she said at the end gave me chills. She was with him for soo long and the attachment b real and she just wanted the title even tho she deserves more
She sound stupid
He minimize his actions and maximize hers.. but yet and still, she's fighting for a ring when he's told you in more ways than one that he just not that into you... and sleeping with your aunt.... come on Sis.
Why, why, why, WHY!! Someone, please help me understand why a lot of women think getting a ring and being married solidifies your relationship? Or makes you complete? A ring does not fundamentally change who a person is before or after marriage. Why aren't they chasing having a compatible partner with the same values and goals in life, instead of literally being with someone who cause you nothing but heartache, but they think it's worth it in the end if they can get a ring and say "I'm his wife" I just don't get that logic.
This is a comedy! He's real funny, a REAL comedian 😮
Some women will put up with anything just to say they got a ring.
SHE TALKS WHEN SHE SHOULD LISTEN
Ms. Eye Rolling, Neck Rolling Russell is WAY too immature! 4 Children and she acts like one! She needs therapy for whatever is hurting her and not allowing her to grow up! She wants love but as JS said, he is not the one that's going to give it to her. She needs to pick herself up and stop being a doormat! Spend sometime healing and loving herself and her children and she will eventually get the love she deserves. Mr. Man, is pretty low (extra baby, and her AUNT) - he can go build a family with one of them! It's in him to be a good man but it's going to someone else to bring it out of him! He feels that she is beneath him!
She never had a childhood... That's why she comes across as immature
@@henryyogen563 ahhh, I think it's more than that...
He’s a grown man who runs to his mother to handle his relationship disputes…NO ONE will bring the man out of him…he needs to grow up himself and stop procreating
@@HerbalQueen Thanks
One of the best episodes I’ve seen in a while 👏🏾
The minute you let him go is the minute your life will increase!! Your skin will glow & get brighter. Be kind to YOURSELF ❤
What was this lady taught by her family? She doesn't value herself, self esteem is extremely low, continuing to say she's a wife because she puts up with his shenanigans, yet, there's no ring, and he said out loud he doesn't want to marry her?? What will it take for her to open her eyes and brain? He's a nasty, inept man that knows he can treat her any type of way, and she will stay. Another woman that's not going anywhere. Just living in a toxic hell hole.
It’s a sad situation people put themselves in this situation man gave her 4 kids and she let him
They both have low self esteem and should’ve just been high school lovers
This is a prime example of a relationship past it’s expiration date
They both need to grow up and that unfortunately means growing apart
Sister, don't let a man keep making you his least priority, Step On And Step Proud, You Are A Beautiful Strong Women..Peace and Blessing ❤❤❤❤
12 years and no ring. That dude dont wanna marry you.
I left an old dude year seven I wasn't playing... Nope
No, no. They should stay together so that no one else has to deal with them.
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Even though that man and his mother are a complete mess, for a 28 year old mother of 4 she's very immature. She needs to grow up and find her own way.
SHE IS STUCK ON STUPID
He proud of that job ain’t it?!
28 and been waiting on a ring for 12 years. WOW SMH
Run gurl,he don't want you 😢
A few things:
1. She thinks mistreatment is a badge of honor and deserves a ring. I can’t stand people who put up with BS think they are good people or suitable partners especially considering they only choose toxic relationships to reinforce the self hate they have.
2. She chased HIM. Women should never chase men. It is in a man’s nature to take as much as he can- could be sex, ego stroking, financial support, your energy- it could be anything… even if he doesn’t like you. Men take whats convenient. This man went as far as putting 4 babies in her. In this case, he used and took her reproductive system to benefit himself- which is spread his seed. She was nothing but an incubator to him. Most men see women as tools and that is a fact. It’s in their nature. That’s why women should not chase them.
3. About his mom. I am so sick of women- especially black women- coddling their boys. It’s destroying them. That mother is competing with his sons baby momma. She helped him cheat. It’s emotional incest. I bet she’s a single momma.
4. The plaintiff is talking about “respect is earned, not given” yet she’s been chasing and respecting a man who mistreats her for TWELVE YEARS.
5. Black women are just ridiculous. Yeah he’s trash. But Black women have standards lower than h3ll. This is on black women.
6. She’s not going anywhere.
And let the church say amen 😉
6!!!!!
this is on his autonomous self. he knows what he’s doing. all because the women around him are enabling and have low self esteem is no discount of the fact that he is an adult with his own mind. he is the problem.
as a demographic black women standards are awful i agree but the issue isn’t solved by blaming us for the actions of a man that’s doing what he wants to do.
@@dreamgrlarchive I'm a black woman myself. I am not blaming black women for the actions of a man, I'm blaming black women for being so desperate and putting up with this mess. It's time for black women to stop putting themselves through this and raise the standards no matter how much our counter parts cry about. There's nothing we can about degenerate black men but we can do something about OURSELVES.
Did anyone notice when they walked out he put his hand around her waist ????? He’s manipulating that women !!!! I wouldn’t want him to touch me after telling me in so many words he don’t want me as a wife…
This hurt my soul and I cried for her because baby girl lost herself a long time ago and the sad part is that she feels like she hasn't hit rock bottom yet, after all of that he put her through.
She has a real smart mouth,she don't let nobody finish, neither one respects each another
I have one question: WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO MARRY THIS DUDE??? HE'S NASTY!!!!
I find it interesting that she's gotta meet his requirements, but he has none for himself. We have to get out of the mentality of "keeping our family together" with men who don't want that.
Having a baby with someone else, during our relationship, is a deal breaker! He is really with the other BM.
This is wild. How many different times does she need to be told he don’t want her. She needs to wake the hell up !
Why does she want to be married to this man ?? He doesn’t want her.
And she keeps saying that’s what wife do .
Him and this damn job for 3 years with his 5 kids 🙄 congratulations sir 👏🏽 you are employed
He is a momma boy...let him go be with her lol
Thinking that getting a ring as some kind of reward for having to deal with heartbreak and pain is such a broken mindset. Like oh I’ve suffered beyond belief so I deserve to be legally and spiritually bound to the person who caused it for life. WHAT?!!
She ain't going nowhere............sadly.
ANOTHER CLASSIC CASE OF: WHY BUY THE COW, WHEN THE MILK IS FREE??? STOP MAKING SOMEBODY A PRIORITY - WHEN YOU'RE JUST A OPTION TO THEM!!!
She's a good person and she's beautiful. I hope she gets some therapy and can be with someone who deserves her 🥰🥰
How dumb is this? 12 years, 4 kids, and no commitment. He still doesn’t know if she’s the one. Now here she is begging him to marry her. Stop creating families before the commitment. All out of order.
Why is this man so proud of working 3 years as if that's an accomplishment? That's what you're supposed to do. He is raggedy, and she needs to send him back to his mama!
His mama is worried about his girlfriend not coming in and saying hello but her son is out there sleeping around, no morals, no respect, insensitive and immature. Girl , run from this narcissistic family. You deserve better than being disrespected like that.
self-esteem is in the toilet, sad thing is they got together so young and she doesn't know how much better she could do. she's so beautiful I hope she works on her self-esteem, for herself and her children.
Someone buy this girl a ring from the bubble gum machine 🤦🏽♀️
All this girl want is a ring. Smh!
Sad
I don't feel one bit sorry for her SMH
YOU CAN TELL BY THE WAY SHE WALKED OUT OF COURT SHE WAS NOT LEAVING HIM AND HE WILL KEEP WALKING ON HER
Judge Star you know darn well the Bible says to let go of the mothers apron strings. That mother needs to mind her business!
Judge Star is funny but she be missing so many gems to correct. Ppl watch these shows for literal advice. When she said "This what wives do"...Judge Toler would have gathered her so quick and corrected her..
what has relationships come to... does no one the definition of loyalty and honesty anymore
So, she’s mad that she ONLY a baby mama, but she’s allowing him to make her just a baby mama🙄 all three of them are wrong…all three of them are childish as hell. So, why does she want to marry him? He sleeps with EVERYONE! someone needs to talk to the girl and ask her why she is holding on to him? Smh as the best judge would say, “you keep giving him more of what he already doesn’t appreciate” smh what a clown!
This man is sounding a foghorn about how bad he is. If after sleeping with her aunt, she still wants to marry him, she needs to look at herself & get help.
If this is a real case, he's a graduate of the Premiere Clown Academy, and she needs MUCH psychoanalysis. They should have provided it to her.
I cringed everytime she said that a wife is supposed to accept cheating and side babies. That's why she's not a wife. No one ever taught her what a wife is supposed to be or a husband or a marriage for that matter
I have adult children. I respect their relationships; I don't interfere, and I stay in my lane. Their spouses love me for that!
Where is her mom she wasn’t taught to have self worth I see
He’s one of those dudes who think they’re the smartest person in the room, but is far from it.
This Young Woman Needs To Focus On Her Educating Herself, Maturing, And Self-Esteem THATS IT THATS ALL
So what does she expect to happen when she “gets her ring”
Nothing more than she has now. So sad.
That girl should have been gone like yesterday!!!!
I'm not worth love, respect, kindness, protection, honor - that is what she secretly feels every time she screams about being a wife. Who destroyed your love for self. Who put in you that you ain't worthy of an ounce of respect and why the hell do you let anyone dishonor your soul? That dude is as the young folks say, for the streets.
Marry into that family for what?..sis was knee deep in this foolishness 3 kids ago and if her and moms ain't somewhere near the same page after all these years it ain't never gonna be right.. ya stuck