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  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3707

    "Mr Johnson doesn't care about me, why not", baby girl, care about yourself. Do not look for your value in a man.

  • @iamfeyisayo4967
    @iamfeyisayo4967 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6725

    Mother is 36, son 20 with 5 potential children... Lord send help and break this disgusting cycle

    • @jackieyoung8651
      @jackieyoung8651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +471

      RELJ, we aren't going to claim that about women. Our young men need to strap it up too. The road run both ways!! Mothers need to educate their children--- Male and female.

    • @mirrbaby9854
      @mirrbaby9854 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      jackie young . PERIOD , sis !

    • @julianafred
      @julianafred 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Amen from Germany

    • @maddcattnwonderland836
      @maddcattnwonderland836 6 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      Where’s HIS father telling him to wrap it up and stop sleeping around?? Hmmm telling him there’s nothing MANLY about having 5 👶🏾👧🏿🧒🏽👦🏽👱🏿‍♀️potential children all over his town?!?!

    • @clanmacbeth7057
      @clanmacbeth7057 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I was a young mum and now have 2 Mokopuna (Grandys) It was hard I got divorced but I stoped breeding after the Divorce lol..

  • @becaye7380
    @becaye7380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4228

    The judge gave them the speech their mothers should have given

  • @poetrycraft777
    @poetrycraft777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1354

    My spirit moved when she told him that he does not have to be a baby factory and he has a future.

    • @videoconcierge
      @videoconcierge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How "charming". Did your spirit "move" when you understood this 20 year-old, abysmally ignorant, undereducated, unemployed, no home training, uninvolved financially w his children, and will have zero possibility of adequately supporting the 5 babies he's created, in the future? Please refer back to this reply in the future: This young man will NEVER amount to anything that REMOTELY resembles a "responsible adult". His children will be fed and housed by the government. This young man and his mother are simply another example that proves the existense of individuals that believe "everyone ELSE" should pay for this kid to "pollenate" the state. Sickening.

    • @sr2971
      @sr2971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@videoconcierge
      ok boomer

    • @MissJB1
      @MissJB1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly!

    • @aslanlovett4059
      @aslanlovett4059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Historically ignorant statement by the judge

    • @Kscomelli
      @Kscomelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@videoconcierge Yes, unfortunately this happens. I wonder how a lot of these young people would have turned out if there ancestors would have been left in Africa. We will never know will we and that too is what is sad.

  • @blessedwoman9274
    @blessedwoman9274 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1303

    Jugde: "We are no longer on the plantation"...But some are living and behaving as if they are. I want to shout that statement from the rooftops.

    • @jessicatobias9371
      @jessicatobias9371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes !!

    • @kingkingking8583
      @kingkingking8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Understand where the judge coming from

    • @chelseashamim9148
      @chelseashamim9148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Blessed Woman 👏

    • @selmaa.r.4072
      @selmaa.r.4072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Blessed Woman I wasn’t ready when she went there 🙌

    • @pamhall6635
      @pamhall6635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Slavery behavior was never rooted out...

  • @pepieverage6788
    @pepieverage6788 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1645

    This Judge is the BOMB.. she is so real.

    • @lifewithneila
      @lifewithneila 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yh true

    • @themplar
      @themplar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      its a cool character. but it aint real.

    • @ddnquestion1
      @ddnquestion1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah she put it down today almost thought she was running for President!!!!!

    • @reginaldjones2056
      @reginaldjones2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Correct sister Pepe

    • @wkhristafer
      @wkhristafer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No she's not. She is a contradiction in just about every episode

  • @petrinastewart
    @petrinastewart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +849

    Judge went off today, I'm here for it! They needed to hear that

  • @Rafi88
    @Rafi88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Imagine being a grandmother 5 times over at 36, the ghetto. SMH. My mom is nearly 60 and begging us for grandchildren.

    • @justdatguy29
      @justdatguy29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He needs to make sure all those children are his. There are DNA tests you can buy.

    • @Nganya96
      @Nganya96 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahahahhaahahaj

    • @chantayb86
      @chantayb86 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My mom is 70 with no grandchildren

    • @donnaevans5131
      @donnaevans5131 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @preciousjenkins10
    @preciousjenkins10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2614

    When she said you two can't even string two sentences together hahahahaha! I straight DIED!

    • @katkelly5572
      @katkelly5572 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Its just a truly sad situation😢

    • @berthamakanza8667
      @berthamakanza8667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Precious Pringle I was also thinking the same thing broken 🤔

    • @ursulatroxler7428
      @ursulatroxler7428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She told the truth.

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sad actually

    • @blacktinkerbell2324
      @blacktinkerbell2324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Man I swear I skipped through it because of that. Embarrassing

  • @neelahlouison707
    @neelahlouison707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3257

    She was so mad she didn't even tell Jerome thanks for the envelope.

    • @SSWBJC1
      @SSWBJC1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +293

      And snatched it too..... LOL!

    • @neelahlouison707
      @neelahlouison707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@SSWBJC1 yes!! Lollol

    • @dshel3200
      @dshel3200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Yeah they ran her HOT 🔥 🔥 🔥!!

    • @silentstorm2932
      @silentstorm2932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😂😂😂

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 6 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      She was holding it in until she couldn't take it anymore!!! That boy got FIVE babies by most likely 5 girls, and was working on number 6 before he got sent to prison. My God, what's wrong???!!!!

  • @raquelrod987
    @raquelrod987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5614

    Everyone attacking this young lady about being with 2 men at the same time. But we all just going to ignore he's 20 with 5 kids. What's wrong with this picture? 🤔

    • @sandybrar2778
      @sandybrar2778 6 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      I’m 36 and still thinking should I have baby or not and he is only 20 and have five kids. I just wonder why they know that condoms does exist. Let alone leave the pregnancy on side what about STDs.

    • @pearlkgakole
      @pearlkgakole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      Raquel Rod ...& he’s been “away”...we all know what that means...pfffff!

    • @jpat989
      @jpat989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@sandybrar2778 You better hurry up. The window is closing.

    • @ricardoparrott4570
      @ricardoparrott4570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I feel like he do got too many potential kids but if he still step up n said he the father then it ain't nothing wrong long as u handling business but the girl she put herself in the situation bout who could b the daddy

    • @caroljohnson9230
      @caroljohnson9230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      THANK YOU, HE NOT ONLY HAS
      5 CHILDREN AT THE AGE OF 20.
      IT LOOKS LIKE HIS NO. 1 GIFT IS WHISPERING SWEET LITTLE
      I LOVE YOU 🐂💩💩💩💩 LIES IN THE EARS OF ALL THESE YOUNG WOMENS...I DON'T RECALL HIM SAYING THAT HE HAS BEEN WORKING DAY AND NIGHT IN AN EFFORT TO SUPPORT ALL OF HIS CHILDREN, THATS WHAT REAL DADDYS DO. MAYBE HIS FUTURE GOAL IS TO BE A ROLLING STONE JUST LIKE; PAPA WAS A ROLLING STONE WHERE EVER HE LEAVES HIS HAT IS HIS HOME. IF HE DOESN'T STOP, HE MAY END UP IN JAIL DUE TO ALL THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT HE IS GOING TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR...

  • @ashlynfreeman5625
    @ashlynfreeman5625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    when she was talking about how he doesn’t care about her and he was her first love, and his mom is standing next to him while he laughs at her. he needed to be smacked in front of everyone.

    • @craigjones1669
      @craigjones1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She smacked him when he got smart with girl's mother

    • @warriorqueen8285
      @warriorqueen8285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This comment right here is he winner though🏆🏆🏆💯

    • @urbannaturalistt
      @urbannaturalistt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why should his mom care?

    • @taramay8174
      @taramay8174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed. He is horrible

    • @skillz9549
      @skillz9549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was smiling because he didn’t hear the whole story yet. He was ready to tell his side.

  • @forrestja
    @forrestja 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2794

    God I hate those mothers up there defending their sons like this. He's out here 20 years old with five kids and mom acting like he's an angel. She's his problem.

    • @ChocolateSunshine1
      @ChocolateSunshine1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      don't forget JAIL...smh

    • @neesieb6772
      @neesieb6772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      She wasn't acting like he was an angel...what episode were you watching?

    • @forrestja
      @forrestja 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Strongest Current in the Hebrew Seas the same episode you watched!

    • @kendrajohnson7499
      @kendrajohnson7499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Right don't forget he was in jail too

    • @kendrajohnson7499
      @kendrajohnson7499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@neesieb6772 yes she was she said she doesn't believe the other kids are his either. He can't even make a complete sentence and she was defending him

  • @sharrigarvin3348
    @sharrigarvin3348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1951

    That little boy has the most BEAUTIFUL SKIN. Dark Chocolate

  • @kennethrobinson3193
    @kennethrobinson3193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    "Imma drop a dime, matter of fact a dollar now pick this up" BARS!!!!!!!!!

  • @rochellelofton3934
    @rochellelofton3934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    There's some grown folks that need to be given this advice, as well. And the nerve of the mama to claim that the other 4 children are not his, when they don't know for sure. Smh

    • @sharislatz9600
      @sharislatz9600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mama acting like she was the bed so she knows for sure!! Go sit ur a** in that corner and be quiet!!

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He needs to buy four DNA kits and find out if they're his.

  • @brittsheree85
    @brittsheree85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    I love how she encourages young people to quit sleeping around and go make something of yourself.

  • @ntokozonkiwane4171
    @ntokozonkiwane4171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +926

    Am still baffled at why the Producer failed to acknowledge Lauren Lake at the Emmy awards. She keeps it real and that captivates the audience. Well done Judge!

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      It was the definition of a "snub". He even thanked the make up artist 😳😳😳

    • @ninagezellie4206
      @ninagezellie4206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      He's another CLOWN-MAN that's why.😒

    • @VampQueen18
      @VampQueen18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      WE ARE ALL STILL MAD!

    • @cindymcdonald3620
      @cindymcdonald3620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too

    • @deenice688
      @deenice688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm still mad months later. Sucka ish

  • @mayedancing
    @mayedancing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1924

    Pause he definitely thought conceived meant to see the baby born. bless him lord

  • @taylorduvernay9789
    @taylorduvernay9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    "I don't know whether I should put you on punishment or hug you" - I love thi judge

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt the same way😢😢😢

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I work with girls like her, it's sad😪😪

    • @taylorduvernay9789
      @taylorduvernay9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@e_shawilliams599 that can't be an easy job. I am sure that needs patience and wisdom. Strength to you🤗

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@taylorduvernay9789 Yes a lot of it. You can tell them better and they are stuck on that guy just like her. Its like they have a hold on them. It's like a soul tie they can't shake. If the parents don't teach them better then they won't break that soul tie. They will spend the rest of their life mistreating that child and others because he doesn't want her and with someone else.

  • @DesireSapphire
    @DesireSapphire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2060

    the mother should had been there for her daughter in that hospital room, regardless of the situation: period.

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      dallas tx children learn through positive and negative reinforcement. It’s cold, but it’s best for her daughter in the long run to live in the consequences of her teenaged pregnancy.

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Actually, went and looked her up and she’s not had any other children! Also saw a picture of a graduation package, so she’s furthered her education! She meant it when she said “lesson learnt”.

    • @erfroot3829
      @erfroot3829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Stop crying 😁

    • @beautifulllb9493
      @beautifulllb9493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Krystal Cameron Praise God! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️praying she succeeds and becomes the best she can be in this world

    • @laurieyounger2432
      @laurieyounger2432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you

  • @millsmami
    @millsmami 5 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Whew child.. I can't wait to show my teenage son this episode.. this is surely a wake up call for this generation.

    • @idamaebennett9965
      @idamaebennett9965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes that of you our young people need to know the important of making babies while their children themselve.

    • @ddnquestion1
      @ddnquestion1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And please stress the point of staying in school this young man sounds like he may have about a 3rd grade education I will never forget the entire time I was growing up my mother stressed that more than anything even to the point of threatening to come to my school for entire day and sit through every one of my classes if need be what happen to that type of tough love it should still exist and would solve so many of these problems we see in today's society!!!!!!

    • @shailaadia974
      @shailaadia974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly it really is. I started watching these clips when I was about 19 during the beginning of the pendulum and I saw that this and whatever is going down on divorce court isn’t what I want to and to try to listen to their advice. I am 20 now btw and me and my boyfriend seem to be doing well and I use their advice especially when it comes to communication

    • @millsmami
      @millsmami 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ddnquestion1 I'm late but yes. My son is a junior in high school and he's on honor roll. He plays sports and he has a job. He wants to go to trade school after he graduates, which I applaud. College isn't for everyone but knowledge is universal. We are an educated family and that will continue. We've been building his credit also. He will not be a statistic. 💪🏾💯

    • @millsmami
      @millsmami 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shailaadia974 That's good to hear.! These shows are entertaining but they're really eye openers.. we can talk and talk until our lips are blue but I've noticed that teenagers need to see, witness and experience things before they totally understand. One mishap can change your entire life.

  • @ChosenVessel82
    @ChosenVessel82 6 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    The judge dropped all that knowledge. So much wisdom

    • @zerenitee
      @zerenitee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This was my best episode because of the knowledge she put out there

    • @Veeluvstocook
      @Veeluvstocook 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      She always does

    • @ndungumonic
      @ndungumonic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was the best way to put it. This episode was just Perfect, they needed that dose.

    • @evilcrime5724
      @evilcrime5724 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love her

  • @mariej6962
    @mariej6962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This show need to keep going. It was so educational unlike the other shows.

  • @TheeMademoiselle
    @TheeMademoiselle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +949

    🤣🤣🤣 “The fact that you’re in the runninnnnng” 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gorgeoueseyes8468
      @gorgeoueseyes8468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @neicielove
      @neicielove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Right! And he thinks having 5 kids is something to smile about 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @princeashtongreen5086
      @princeashtongreen5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@neicielove Well, if he takes care of them, that's a totally diffrent story.

    • @melvawages7143
      @melvawages7143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@princeashtongreen5086 I doubt he does. Buying diapers and wipes is only a tiny fraction of what they need, but yet they want to brag about that. Yep, the girls' parents are the ones supporting those babies. It is NOT their responsibility. Anything they do for their grandbabies is a kindness in their hearts.

    • @reeshemahcoleman3954
      @reeshemahcoleman3954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @moluckett
    @moluckett 6 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    Judge Lake is preaching on this episode!!! *grabs MLK church fan* YOU BETTA TELL’EM GIRL!!!!

    • @sweetcarahmel
      @sweetcarahmel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂😂😂 not the MLK fan!! 😂😂😂

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      FitNaturalQueen MO Is that fan sponsored by the local funeral home? If it ain’t, it ain’t real! :-)

    • @andrewnehemiah3467
      @andrewnehemiah3467 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FitNaturalQueen MO
      PREACH!!

    • @mimi126112
      @mimi126112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go off Judge Lake!!!

    • @jacquettediggs4633
      @jacquettediggs4633 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @MsSong2U
    @MsSong2U 6 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    “BUT the fact that he is in the running!...”
    Speak on it Judge Lake.

  • @GigiDrummond
    @GigiDrummond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    For her mom NOT to be with her daughter when she gave birth explains what caused the girl's low self esteem. She was trying desperately (as many young women do) to feel special, loved, and cared about. Really sad commentary😭

    • @mythiac696
      @mythiac696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Her mom said she did not go because she didn't support her actions. Clearly she is there now, and she has a father around. A parent can do everything text book right and these situations can happen. Everything is not a parent's fault.

    • @kimriley69
      @kimriley69 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      If I'm preaching to my daughter every day that its best to wait to be doing adult actions when she's an adult or she gonna be dealing with adult situations and problems at a young age. If she dont listen then I might do the same cuz if I go into a delivery room with her imma say to her every cm she go up and every cramp she feels, YOU CAN'T HEAR, YOU WILL SURELY FEEL. if that makes me a bad mother then so be it. Call me what you want. I know that I've preached to both my 17 year old son and 15 year old daughter, day in and day out. They have seen me struggle with and without their father and that's something they should not want for themselves.

    • @praxym9293
      @praxym9293 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So feeling special is to pass yourself around?

    • @kimkelly5512
      @kimkelly5512 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was 22 when I had my son, and my mother was in the delivery room. No one was going to keep her out.

    • @lashayparker5602
      @lashayparker5602 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Right or wrong my daughter knows I'm going to always be there. They are not perfect and as parents we're not perfect,but you can bet your last dollar when it comes to my children I will be there for them until I take my last breath.

  • @Geraahhhh
    @Geraahhhh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1466

    It's very interesting how so many women are attacking this young girl and turning a blind eye to the 20 year old man with 5 kids. Shameful how woman tear each other down so often. I hope she'll learn to be a good mother to her son and teach him and guide him on the right path.

    • @trappnest4490
      @trappnest4490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Almost every comments I saw was about the guy and his 5 children, so I don't know what you're talking about

    • @megalopolis2015
      @megalopolis2015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Both of these kids have big problems, which hopefully can be remedied with therapy and co-parenting.

    • @australopithecus6015
      @australopithecus6015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's always the same thing. They vilify the woman and empower these good for nothing men. It's really sad to witness this kind of thing in this day and age. All that freedom many women black or white have fought to bring us and we ignorantly spit in their faces. Ella Baker, Joséphine Baker, Maya Angelou, Beverly Bond, Shirley Chisholm, Emily Pankhurst to name a few.

    • @evitatruth8755
      @evitatruth8755 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because thats what most black people do......

    • @empogirl
      @empogirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Mary White I don’t completely agreed,children do a lot behind parents back too

  • @MrLaStoney
    @MrLaStoney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    Daaaayyyyuuummmm! Judge said: "Matter of fact, I'mma drop a dollar. Now pick this up!" Lmboooooooo!

    • @sistahpsych319
      @sistahpsych319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sister Lauren preached!!!!!

  • @janikiawoods8486
    @janikiawoods8486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    5 kids and you can't even buy alcohol 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @trinnasultrabeautybraids9157
      @trinnasultrabeautybraids9157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      His Momma better get the other ones checked.. Cause Omg.. He gonna keep going Regardless but at least for min he may strap up or learn few lessons.. I pray they ain't his for the sake of him and the children.. My cousin got 8 with 6 baby mothers and Lawd 🤦🏾.. he just learning to be real dad close to 40 with the two new ones.

    • @lucydiaz9379
      @lucydiaz9379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He didn't need alcohol he needs Rubbers Rubbers and more Rubbers 😄😃😁😆😉😀😃😄😉😆😁😂😅😂

    • @patriciamckee5177
      @patriciamckee5177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He don't need alcohol. He needs condoms!!!

    • @kfoster3616
      @kfoster3616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@PS1652 I bet he'll never pay child support for any of them....

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kfoster3616 But I will not be surprise when tax time comes he'll
      be there wanting to collect, OR the minute they turn 18 he'll say
      he was searching for them etc. I really wish these young woman
      will wisen up!

  • @aishaanwar7833
    @aishaanwar7833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Every child deserved a mother just like judge lake. She is a great mum. 😄

  • @juleenforbes
    @juleenforbes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +891

    They got a pretty good tongue lashing from the judge it should’ve came from the parents maybe that would’ve kept them out of this mess.

    • @amymenjivar3489
      @amymenjivar3489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Generational. Boy's mother is 36, and he's 20. 20 with possibly 5 kids...smdh

    • @Ummkelechi
      @Ummkelechi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@amymenjivar3489 Yes...it's terrible! That's crazy SMH

    • @chaoticyank5772
      @chaoticyank5772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They needed it. It is so sad to see such beautiful kids who are smart and can do anything, spend their time making babies they cannot afford instead of making something out of themselves. Hopefully they both took it to heart.

    • @ne9835
      @ne9835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup

    • @statingtheobvious7646
      @statingtheobvious7646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Clearly the parents didn't know how to delivery the message of tough love so it was appropriately relayed by the judge. This is why alot of kids are so lost today bc they don't listen to adults. If their parents don't say, they don't hear it and it still takes a village.

  • @Chrissy-yi5em
    @Chrissy-yi5em 5 ปีที่แล้ว +790

    Judge Lake has out done herself with this episode! By far the realist episode I’ve seen thus far. She’s definitely a boss in her courtroom. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👩🏾‍⚖️ 💪🏾

    • @caroleafletcher9028
      @caroleafletcher9028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Chrissy 101 ok they needed to hear the truth she couldn't hold her compusure 💯💯💯💯

    • @carolphillips8382
      @carolphillips8382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are so right she totally dropped the truth on this episode. What she said about what occurred during slavery time was right on point. If you do not believe her please run to your nearest library and check out a few books.

    • @martinaobeten6257
      @martinaobeten6257 ปีที่แล้ว

      You said it all ❤

  • @3311genesis
    @3311genesis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    One of the best speeches by the judge. These kids needed to hear what she told them.

    • @sweet3800
      @sweet3800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I felt everything she said in my spirit.i think this so much these moms got their heads outta their butts.

  • @littelttiiggeerr6059
    @littelttiiggeerr6059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I look up to this woman so much, I’m happy she tells people to stop messing around and make something of themselves. It may not be what some want to hear but it sure is something they need to hear

  • @MsTshaa
    @MsTshaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    That young man should be ashamed of himself nothing cool about having 5 babies with different woman , he’s there smiling about it.

    • @Nina-lo8wg
      @Nina-lo8wg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      And he's 20.. can you believe it???SMH

    • @alexzander1839
      @alexzander1839 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      MsTna, MsTna, according to Jnel Comedy, "Jerome is dah boss." Never mind the trail of broken lives behind him. I wish that there was a biological mechanism that provents men with that mindset to be automatically sterile.

    • @TheSouthernbellebeau
      @TheSouthernbellebeau 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      And the mother who says "they not his" Thats why he continues to do it! Mama don't even know how to act, take responsibility that you didn't teach your son proper precautions, nor tech him to man up and realize he had a part in it too!

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Not just smiling, he started out laughing and that is what (I think) got Judge Lake started. She didn't say anything at first, but she let him have it at the end.

    • @janeth3008
      @janeth3008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@TheSouthernbellebeau Exactly, they're probably ALL his. He's not trying to prevent them, so why is momma being so defensive? He knows what he did with those girls, momma needs to let him OWN his responsibility.

  • @locdinrelaxation844
    @locdinrelaxation844 6 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    When she was reading that note, the secondhand embarrassment was real smh...Judge Lake preached today tho👏

  • @statingtheobvious7646
    @statingtheobvious7646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    This Judge is great! She would make a wonderful Motivational speaker for teens and young adults.

    • @YasminAbdull
      @YasminAbdull 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I believe she does motivational speaking.

    • @girlblissy
      @girlblissy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @contrinaharrison3040
      @contrinaharrison3040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Her motivation is "Living A Limitless Life". She's smart, classy, beautiful and self assured.

    • @shawnnemo1962
      @shawnnemo1962 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely

  • @bobcalvin3687
    @bobcalvin3687 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This speech was epic. Please bring this show back.

  • @macymurray12
    @macymurray12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Not “Jerome give me that” 😂😂 my judge upset 👩‍⚖️

  • @danajohnson9266
    @danajohnson9266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Lauren Lake literally drops knowledge to these children. I love her.

  • @priceymiss9280
    @priceymiss9280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    He said so himself! He was there at the conception! 😂

  • @mrscashmorrisey1702
    @mrscashmorrisey1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That speech by the Judge was EVERYTHING!! It should be played in all high schools!!

    • @russellh6677
      @russellh6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It should be played at the house first.

  • @luckysmiles
    @luckysmiles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    He was "away" ...jail ...and he got 5 kids at 20!? His mother seems to condone his behavior too. He's not gonna be there. She needs to start accepting the fact that she will continue to be a single mom.

    • @freebandzjin
      @freebandzjin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why are you assuming he was in jail? He could've been out of town handling business, on vacation, working, etc. The possibilities are endless, but people always have to jump to negative conclusions. I bet if he wasn't black, you wouldn't have said that.

    • @qarinero6407
      @qarinero6407 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They are part of the permanent black underclass.

    • @reesebarnes2793
      @reesebarnes2793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mom looks like she's saying I'm only here so I don't get fined!!! She done Checked out long time ago!!!

    • @kayford1601
      @kayford1601 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No she doesn't have to accept that because it's not a fact, that's your opinion. She's still young and have time to learn! People are always trying to condemn somebody. Are you a prophet? You can see into the future? You have no idea what this child's future holds just as well you don't know what your fate or the fate of your children hold. You may be up today but that can all change in the blink of an eye!

    • @luckysmiles
      @luckysmiles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kay, she will be a single mom of that boy. No negative condemnation....that's just the facts.

  • @imaslowlerner
    @imaslowlerner 6 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    "Can't put two sentences together " So sad 2018.

    • @leetakamiya2162
      @leetakamiya2162 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      imaslowlerner Would be sad even for 1018.

    • @sonyawright2302
      @sonyawright2302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's same thing I was thinking! Ridiculous!

    • @NitaNita1964
      @NitaNita1964 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂 She was throwing shade @that letter he wrote

    • @odmeli4183
      @odmeli4183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s the part that shocked me the most

  • @NiamhCreates
    @NiamhCreates 6 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    Judge dropped not just a dime, not just a dollar, but a freaking $100 bill.

    • @MzDatB2
      @MzDatB2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Niamh-Creates baby she went there.. they needed that.. plus whomever read this...

    • @NiamhCreates
      @NiamhCreates 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep, I totally agree.

    • @sonyawright2302
      @sonyawright2302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, Lord! Amen!

    • @SunshineandFlowers456
      @SunshineandFlowers456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes ma'am! I was in the amen corner!!!!

    • @greyson2480
      @greyson2480 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      THAT made me subscribe!!

  • @TychoKingdom
    @TychoKingdom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Everytime that Mom in yellow says anything it pisses me off. Got the nerve to have an attitude in court but refused to support her daughter during the birth of her grandchild because she was having a hissy fit when the consequences of her own bad parenting showed up.

    • @superwookie2321
      @superwookie2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly then admitted she stopped letting him coming around because she didn’t want him to get attached if it wasn’t

    • @lovelyaikea1
      @lovelyaikea1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I swear she got on my nerves so bad…

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just wrote a comment about this, that ladies whole essence seems not right to me for doing that.

    • @KiaTellyce
      @KiaTellyce 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Correct!!!! She seems very cynical

  • @PinkPatmos
    @PinkPatmos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    When he said I was there to see the baby “ conceived” I had to come straight to the comments!

    • @jaycage07
      @jaycage07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Prophetess Jennetta Gilliam-Campbell well technically he was lol 😂

    • @samentawells5542
      @samentawells5542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @angelaw4186
      @angelaw4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here I died 🤣

    • @vh1117
      @vh1117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      "cuh-cee'd"

    • @dynieshag3498
      @dynieshag3498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Y'all ain't right 🤣🤣🤣 y'all ain't right !!!! Why his momma didn't correct him 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀. These people vocabulary is awful!!

  • @CheritaExplainsItAll
    @CheritaExplainsItAll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    Being away...we know what that means!

    • @crashstitches79
      @crashstitches79 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Vacation at Club Med? Tour of duty in Afghanistan? Away at university?

    • @alondralopez9769
      @alondralopez9769 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Smash Marxism locked up I’m guessing lol

    • @noweluv
      @noweluv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @patr9117
      @patr9117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes if you are a true family member of paternity court we know.😏

    • @janellmeads1399
      @janellmeads1399 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smash Marxism
      oh you funny

  • @gitimgirl
    @gitimgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Judge said “you all cant even string together two complete sentences” 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

    • @Melody-go1le
      @Melody-go1le 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am sorry, but I didn't get it.
      Pls explain.
      Thank you.

    • @shalimarjackson1222
      @shalimarjackson1222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That part

    • @agnesngoh1810
      @agnesngoh1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naaaaa fr and that should hurt because some younger kids sound even more better and smart.

  • @kyratrimble8146
    @kyratrimble8146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    When she talked about the slavery times I started tearing up! It’s so true!

  • @kimb3871
    @kimb3871 6 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    I had my daughter after I got my bachelors and went to get my masters when she was 1 year old. I’m now in the peak of my career and we are both doing very well. Her dad ended up bailing out and turning into a completely different person since then. She’s 5 now and he hasn’t seen her in nearly a year. We have been broken up for the last 3 years. But, I have a fiancé now who takes good care of her and has risen to the occasion of being her father and my soon to be husband. Life is not perfect and sometimes things don’t go according to plan. I never expected I’d be a single mother and marrying someone else who is not the father of my child. But honestly, even with that, my life is really really great. I travel the world with my daughter and take her to see so much. I also travel with friends and my fiancé and I are headed to Rome next Summer.
    The support from my family is amazing too. No, I wasn’t married when my daughter was born, but I was stable and had a good head on my shoulders. Seeing these cases with some of these people makes me sad. They’re so young and have not lived life before popping out multiple kids left and right with just anybody. It’s sad.

    • @kerlinsaintfart3101
      @kerlinsaintfart3101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You give me power thx

    • @LeaJackson90
      @LeaJackson90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That's why we have to get to know a good man and get married first ijs

    • @marcellafair3712
      @marcellafair3712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I commend you on that so many young mothers dont try to push themselves to achieve when they start having children at young ages but its so nice to hear this may God continue to bless you and your child with happiness

    • @annabanna1873
      @annabanna1873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Who asked for your life story??....

    • @eunicejaggernauth8002
      @eunicejaggernauth8002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations to you.

  • @mbradley5543
    @mbradley5543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Care about yourself more than any man, young Queen.

    • @milla8826
      @milla8826 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup better make sure that man knows your worth before you let him have ALL of you

    • @queenivylopez8932
      @queenivylopez8932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They can't do what was never tough to them

    • @mznayduzallinthelifeofnanc8935
      @mznayduzallinthelifeofnanc8935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's sad that baby had to seek love & attention from those boys instead of getting it at home.

  • @sibria
    @sibria 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    The judge was preaching in this one!! She’s amazing!

  • @williamflynn9739
    @williamflynn9739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lauren Lake is simply the best judge I've ever watched on TH-cam

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength 6 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    They got JLL all frustrated and upset. Got her talking to Jerome any old kinda way. Jerome gimme the envelope! LOL Jerome has thick skin, and I love her passion. ❤

    • @Wendy-rq2lb
      @Wendy-rq2lb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Judge was vexed. They deserved that telling off. Poor Jerome just caught the aftermath. 😂

    • @candy5760
      @candy5760 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's his job if a man can't handle that he's 2018 soft

    • @angie675
      @angie675 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I watched it 3 times. I had chills! I loved that dollar she dropped. ❤️❤️

    • @0411ACE01
      @0411ACE01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hilarious!

    • @daleadardaine6631
      @daleadardaine6631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thing i say... Poor Jerome getting buff for them ish

  • @daniellecaruso7057
    @daniellecaruso7057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    I was supposed to start cleaning an hour ago but I’m like I’ll start after one more 😂😂😂😂

    • @jacquibailey7460
      @jacquibailey7460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Did you start cleaning yet .... 😂😂😄

    • @HopeGrant423
      @HopeGrant423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm moving and I need to start packing....

    • @lizadickson1499
      @lizadickson1499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Girl I have to a chapter to study too. We’ll be okay

    • @Cocotruly
      @Cocotruly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Currently me avoiding the dishes 😂

    • @eveja9783
      @eveja9783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol...... that's me........let me go to work 😆😆🤣🤣🤣

  • @emlynerichemond8233
    @emlynerichemond8233 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1537

    Paternity court need to be part of high schools and college curriculum to graduated😎😎

    • @tammyj4369
      @tammyj4369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Preach!

    • @Reza.El-Fatih
      @Reza.El-Fatih 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      so right!

    • @stephanied4863
      @stephanied4863 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I agree. Bc some parents dont talk to their kids abt things like this.

    • @silentstorm2932
      @silentstorm2932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes!!!!!!! ✊✊

    • @silentstorm2932
      @silentstorm2932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Your comment needs to be pinned and high lighted!!!! 🙏

  • @Ridesharereflections
    @Ridesharereflections 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I CANNOT believe the mother did not go to the hospital when she had the baby. That’s disgusting

    • @thejourney4445
      @thejourney4445 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was almost 30 when I had my one and only child and my mother did not show up either. My mother had never been in my life but I did have expectations of her changing that, needless to say I was disappointed. These types of mothers really do exist

    • @donnaevans5131
      @donnaevans5131 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@thejourney4445I am so sorry. I stayed in the hospital room with my daughter (I didn’t trust her husband) until she was discharged. Even though she had her baby, she was and is, still my baby and I made sure she was alright.

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@donnaevans5131us kids never stop being our mama’s babies 😊 . Ever lol

  • @nadiabenjamin-linton9774
    @nadiabenjamin-linton9774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2326

    Am I the only one who heard him say he was there to see the baby conceived🤔

    • @SunflowerOfTheEast
      @SunflowerOfTheEast 6 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Heehee! I heard it too. It was like he was admitting to being the father without realizing it. He meant he was at the birth.

    • @sweetcarahmel
      @sweetcarahmel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yep!😂💀💀💀

    • @Lovely_1One
      @Lovely_1One 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😩😩😩😩😩

    • @queenushiriyah5924
      @queenushiriyah5924 6 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      You not!! 😂 Both of them need to stay in school and learn the definition of a word before coming on TV and embarrassing themselves in front of millions of people! I had to double-take like...whattt...did he just misuse that word and nobody bothered to correct him?!! SMH

    • @moomoo0670
      @moomoo0670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Girl yes 😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @jgw5491
    @jgw5491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I rather respect Miss Short for being honest enough to call the paternity "a possibility" rather than ranting and raving about how this guy HAS to be the father. Women do that kind of thing all the time on these shows. This refreshing.

    • @jamilashort2791
      @jamilashort2791 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @jamilashort2791
      @jamilashort2791 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No im not in college im in the 12th grade this is my last year

    • @jabrayjay6679
      @jabrayjay6679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree! honest and straightforward- - I wish her the best.

    • @arlenesimmons4422
      @arlenesimmons4422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, I'm so glad she didn't do that! "I'm ten thousand percent, I ain't been with no one else, he the daddy, look at his feet! They got the same ones!!(had to say that 😁) seriously, glad she was honest.

  • @turquoiseheart6320
    @turquoiseheart6320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Jabari is such a beautiful name, it has two meanings: my strong one, and my healing one♡ Both at the same time

    • @mariakrissy3657
      @mariakrissy3657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree that's beautiful

    • @jeanp1323
      @jeanp1323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In what language ?

    • @saucyyslim6978
      @saucyyslim6978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jeanp1323 Swahili I believe. Don’t quote me though lol

  • @brownin329
    @brownin329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Young ladies: this is what misogynists do. They laugh at your feelings. Keep your legs closed until you are sure about a man's intentions.

    • @layjojoe4682
      @layjojoe4682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @CHloE748
      @CHloE748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Keep your legs closed until you have a union with a man by god and the government! I’m 25 next month, never once had a pregnancy scare or had to be worried I would catch an STD because no man is getting between my legs until we both say “I do”! They say abstinence does work, yet it has worked for me and millions of others! This show makes me feel even better about my decision.

    • @agnesngoh1810
      @agnesngoh1810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But sadly enough we can't be too sure .... he prob laughing because in his head he's saying Girl i was just passing time with you now you taking it serious. These men. I hate being gender biased but it just hurt to see how vulnerable and naive this girl was and is

    • @kfoster3616
      @kfoster3616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CHloE748 You are so right......

    • @simpkins18
      @simpkins18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree and that boy is also very immature. Hopefully, the judge's speech will help him to change his outlook on life.

  • @yellowphoenix9702
    @yellowphoenix9702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    “When I was away” smfh just say when you were locked up 😒 and with five babies

    • @sammymcc4249
      @sammymcc4249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Was searching the comments to see if anyone else picked that up.... Bout away like he was somewhere working r vacation 😂😂😂

    • @carsade
      @carsade 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Mary White really!! is that wat that means (im from the UK)

    • @IamDottieDandridge
      @IamDottieDandridge 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Now that I think about it that's exactly right! I was wondering why he was writing letters instead of texting.

    • @lexc4965
      @lexc4965 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sammymcc4249 me too lol. Like we know you're serving time.

    • @tamikaamira1807
      @tamikaamira1807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😳😂Right!

  • @bcampbell999
    @bcampbell999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Having a child is a precious event. Not a joke or a game .

  • @sheronsandratashaya1075
    @sheronsandratashaya1075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A judge with a calling, am speechless, God Bless you madam Judge

  • @ConnieDunnangels2789
    @ConnieDunnangels2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a blessing to these people. You are speaking truth and protecting youth. Thank you!

  • @swafaasaid8300
    @swafaasaid8300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Judge Lake, you should be an inspirational speaker. ... 😊

  • @BS-dq1kz
    @BS-dq1kz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This episode breaks my heart. I was them at one point. I got pregnant at 18 and I now have a 17 1/2 year old son whom is my world! However, it took me until he was 8 to straighten my own life up and be a good mom to him. His biological father never did straighten up. I have been married for over 10 years now and I have 2 daughters also. They had structure and stability and a daddy at home. The difference in personalities in my girls and my son is daylight and dark.
    It has been a struggle and I have faith my son will be fine but I pray a whole lot for him. My girls excel in everything they do. He struggles in everything. He’s SO intelligent but he has a wild streak in him and it all has come from me and his dad not being the parents he needed at a very young age! It does make a difference in the types of people kids become when they don’t have a solid foundation! I have guilt over my son but I also know I have encouraged and done my best the last several years. So there’s nothing more I can do now.
    I just wish these young teens could see how things turned out for my son solely because I was always bickering with him and his family and I wasn’t focused on my baby! My mom got involved in my relationship with his dad. His mom got involved in our relationship. Everyone was pushing us away from one another and instead, they should’ve let us figure things out instead of making things worse. I know they were trying to help but it didn’t. So the girl in the video needs to tell her momma to back up some and stop pushing this young dad away and give him a chance now to show what he can be. If the dad chooses not to step up then that’s on him and they just need to do the best they can to love this baby without him!
    I know what I’m talking about! I lived it! I see the product of a broken home and bickering family members in my son today. And I regret my choices back then when my son was a baby and toddler more than any other time in my life! This family needs to stop fighting and get it together!
    My girls have had peaceful lives and it shows! All kids deserve to have peace in their homes.

    • @annawhyte5890
      @annawhyte5890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope he's okay

    • @Soulflowersun
      @Soulflowersun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for him, I can’t imagine how you feel. Sending peace and love your way

    • @heidibonjour
      @heidibonjour 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like you were doing your best and really changed later! How is he doing now? All the best!

  • @silkwillniner3873
    @silkwillniner3873 6 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    THIS IS EMBARRASSING, THEY SIMPLY CAN'T FORMULATE A SENTENCE. PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL.

    • @heartshooz3912
      @heartshooz3912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. I'm wondering where these people come from. I don't understand how the parents AND the young kids can't formulate a proper sentence. Did you catch when he said he was there when the baby was conceived when he meant gave birth...😢 sad.

    • @keyarraperry1039
      @keyarraperry1039 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Silk Will Niner I was thinking the same thing.... this is how they think we ALL speak. Wow

    • @silkwillniner3873
      @silkwillniner3873 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@keyarraperry1039 it's jus unbelievable.

  • @sheliagmosby8951
    @sheliagmosby8951 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    RESPECT for The Judge keeping it 💯 in this episode 👏🏼 👏🏼 Mad Respect ✊🏼 💕 👑 💪🏼

  • @Eepolitic1970
    @Eepolitic1970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    What kind of social worker is her mother? IF SHE IS THIS COLD WITH HER DAUGHTER HOW IS SHE WITH CLIENTS?

  • @kynamkh
    @kynamkh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    The baby is so beautiful just love him and please take care of him.

  • @N.dial2007
    @N.dial2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Teenagers/young adults this is NOT the life you want. Protect yourselves.

    • @veronica35ism
      @veronica35ism 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nadia Louis where is home training with these teenager women I waited too have my kids these kids need too get their education go too college

    • @sceneiorcitzien
      @sceneiorcitzien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ll keep this in mind heading into my 2nd year of high school

  • @tamiasebopetja
    @tamiasebopetja 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Chilee ,when he said I was there when the baby was conceived😭 .Education is important 🗣

  • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
    @Tiaxxxxxooooo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +855

    If you makes you feel better Judge Lake I am 20 years old and a junior in college , I am a biology pre med major with a minor in public health and soon to be chemistry. Deans list , honors society , and 3 eBoard club positions. No babies , no boyfriend , none of that focused on being someone first. Amen 🙏🏽

    • @beurny299
      @beurny299 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      U going places ......Maybe she loved the one eyed worm so she let them bore her all over. ..

    • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
      @Tiaxxxxxooooo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you! and Lol right !

    • @brittaniejones6807
      @brittaniejones6807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Keep Going, Doll!!! Proud of you!!!

    • @michellejohnson6248
      @michellejohnson6248 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen baby girl. I am VERY proud of you.

    • @wubayengda8515
      @wubayengda8515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bravooo

  • @lakyshawilliams08
    @lakyshawilliams08 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Jerome ,gimme the envelope! they pushing Judge Lake buttons on here she fed up!

    • @TheNaturalRunway
      @TheNaturalRunway 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lakysha Williams SNAPPED on poor Jerome

  • @jhamp7191
    @jhamp7191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    "Jerome gimme the envelope..." Sheeeeesh 😭😭😭... She was over this whole situation

    • @msgee50
      @msgee50 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s unusual, unlike Judge. I’ll be too through with this mess too

  • @donnathomas9111
    @donnathomas9111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so beautiful Judge, I pray young people could receive this type of counseling before they get in front of you.

  • @queennotarytx758
    @queennotarytx758 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I’m so happy that the Judge admonished them the way she did...they all needed it!!

  • @DHmczsgnjx-23
    @DHmczsgnjx-23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    "I wAs dEa to see Da BaBy CoNceIveD" lol lord just stop talking ..

    • @TheJmitch86
      @TheJmitch86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm glad I wasn't the only one who caught that 🤣

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😳😳😳😂😂😂

    • @vernaereed1810
      @vernaereed1810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sad...

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As the judge said, those two cannot string two words together to generate a sentence. Sad.

    • @lisadonavan6133
      @lisadonavan6133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I believe it was more like “con-ceed”. I agree. Stop talking.

  • @HeyMsVal
    @HeyMsVal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    "Can't string two good sentences together." LOL!!!

  • @dorcasschekina9241
    @dorcasschekina9241 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love when she said he has a calling in his life. We all have a calling in this life we need to focus on

  • @knockitoffsam
    @knockitoffsam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    When she read the letter 😳 that’s how he talks too 😭

  • @shannalynch4794
    @shannalynch4794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Lawd Judge Lake was dropping sooooo much wisdom today. I pray they really listen and process this moment!

  • @mauricegaskin5694
    @mauricegaskin5694 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thanks, Tawana. I had always believe that the greatest gift any man could have is a child, and i was blessed with 3, and when me and their mother split i became a single parent as a man and they have lived with me from 1999 until present, and they have enjoyed trips overseas, good food and clothes, and a good education . I live for them always

  • @notaslaveoffear5114
    @notaslaveoffear5114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Just so I know I'm tracking....
    "Being away" means IN JAIL, right?
    he out here trying to be fancy.

  • @pablop5145
    @pablop5145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love me some Judge Lauren Lake. She was perfectly cut out for this. WORDS!!!!!!

  • @brotherfugue
    @brotherfugue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    In my first REAL relationship as a young man, I heard the following: "so I can have a part of you forever." I realized then that I didn't feel the same way and I was in trouble. Thank God we never made the mistake of having children.

    • @dotsanders5811
      @dotsanders5811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Go too any school and watch the young lady's . Be honest , You will SEE it is not the Young Men !!!!

    • @blacktinabelcher2265
      @blacktinabelcher2265 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dotsanders5811 😂

    • @chattingwithjojo
      @chattingwithjojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@blacktinabelcher2265 I laughed as well

    • @abdulqoyumoreoluwabello6891
      @abdulqoyumoreoluwabello6891 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men...I'm touched

    • @Account-rz5nq
      @Account-rz5nq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Black men are beautiful & know how to trick a woman into wanting a baby with him… It’s sick

  • @beegee4791
    @beegee4791 6 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    The baby looks like him. I didn’t even need to wait for the results 🙄

    • @Limitlesskkz2022
      @Limitlesskkz2022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @Limitlesskkz2022
      @Limitlesskkz2022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you Binta

    • @keithezell8217
      @keithezell8217 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😀😀☝☝

    • @keithezell8217
      @keithezell8217 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean like nose, smile and all just don't let the little fella have their vocabulary...geesh😕😟

    • @jonwigfall
      @jonwigfall 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Them ears gave it away

  • @lashaundadiaz7453
    @lashaundadiaz7453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Judge Lake is everything!!! I love her honest advice for our young people! ❤❤❤

  • @TexasPinklady
    @TexasPinklady 6 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Judge Lake spit some knowledge on those kids, and moms!!! I mean she said perfectly- "...can't even string a sentence together." I will not call them ignorant because they are young; however, if they don't make some serious changes, that's exactly what they're going to be...

    • @TexasPinklady
      @TexasPinklady 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @GonnaMakeItAfterAll Absolutely! You can listen to their mother's and understand where they got it from- generational curses.

    • @melsymelmel8263
      @melsymelmel8263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The education system has failed them as well!

    • @lisagoodman2976
      @lisagoodman2976 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true let's hear if he's father ❤❤

  • @misslashaexo
    @misslashaexo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +757

    That's why I ain't having no baby until I get my bachelor's and be financially stable.

    • @ancienthippyrebel7202
      @ancienthippyrebel7202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      And married?

    • @kellyannr4171
      @kellyannr4171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Cici La'Shae excellent plan!!! I pray God tarries with you and sees that plan to fruition.

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You go girl 🙌

    • @TLibra
      @TLibra 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Amen sister & married I need all 3

    • @jadendarae969
      @jadendarae969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ancient Hippy Rebel You don’t have to be married to have a child.

  • @daaimahgreene558
    @daaimahgreene558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Her mama rocking that yellow top!!!

  • @Urfunny07
    @Urfunny07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got chills from what Judge Lake said to them! The mother's should have told their children this as well and maybe they would not be in this situation in the first place!

  • @MsSong2U
    @MsSong2U 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This is a clear example of the “cycle “ in action.

  • @michellefields2108
    @michellefields2108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    It's a lot of emotional healing and maturing needed and I'm referring to.the mothers. They can't teach what they themselves don't know🤦🏾

    • @jasmineavery4870
      @jasmineavery4870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessss!!! That girl’s mother was on my nerve! Her daughter slept with two boys days apart & she had the nerve to say “it shouldn’t have taken this.” THIS, was definitely necessary! We know who the mom is... it’s the dad that’s in question. Then she was complaining about the 2 packages of diapers. Girl please!🙄 THEY (him & his mom) had NO legal/financial responsibility to that child UNTIL it was PROVEN that he is the biological parent. The boy’s mom was cool & collected. That lady in the yellow made me want to come through the phone on her.

    • @hillaryp6113
      @hillaryp6113 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @lynestarrodgers1745
      @lynestarrodgers1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      T

  • @lisagarrison7910
    @lisagarrison7910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Your honor, you would make a great president 🇺🇸

    • @basedmek
      @basedmek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Honest Citizen every president is biased. Our whole political institutions are biased lol that's how you become president. Can't be impartial to everything. Pick a side and make it make sense for everyone

    • @beautyincorporate868
      @beautyincorporate868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @pinkpeonies3236
      @pinkpeonies3236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd happily vote for the judge!

    • @ly3998
      @ly3998 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree she is always attacking the young women and let the knuckle dude slide. I’ve noticed that a few times

    • @mrscashmorrisey1702
      @mrscashmorrisey1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ly3998 Because women are the ones that CONTROL their bodies or should anyway. These boys will be boys well into their 40s and unless these girls get schooled early, this cycle will NOT change. It may seem biased but women hold the key.

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge you preached an excellent sermon to those teens. I hope they took your advice. 👩‍👦