I got a hysterectomy at 38 years old

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  • @sweetnika83
    @sweetnika83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a woman who too is 38 years old and getting a hysterectomy, thank you for sharing this.

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hoping it goes well ! Sometimes when I think back on pain I had to deal with I wish I did it sooner to be honest but this is a right of passage we can’t take lightly

    • @peachesl8706
      @peachesl8706 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second this, thank you for sharing this. Found in my searches. THANK YOU🙏🏾

    • @alicegreen284
      @alicegreen284 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u still there lol

    • @alicegreen284
      @alicegreen284 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u still there lol

  • @ireneochoa6972
    @ireneochoa6972 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Found your video - I'm 60 considering hysterectomy due to a prolapsed uterus. Your voice is so comforting - I don't know why but I feel better just hearing your story.

  • @dottiepets2421
    @dottiepets2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Glad it went well, I hope you have a speedy and smooth recovery.

  • @SamSkiBaby
    @SamSkiBaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You handled that surgery like a G! So happy to see your 1st week seemed pretty smooth for you! I'm hoping mine goes that well. I am in the process now of finding a surgeon I'm comfortable with. 1st one (who is a woman) has no compassion for what I'm feeling. She just wanted to put me on birth control pills... which raised my liver enzymes thru the roof and made me very ill. I scheduled a hysterectomy with her for Sept 1st but canceled. Ion trust her lol. I really liked the 2nd one, but he only does vaginal or abdominal. He never did the training for laparoscopic and I really want that one if I can. So he referred me to one that he says is the best at those. I see him on Sept. 14th. It seems like male Gyns are more compassionate about what us women going thru this more than the women Gyns are smh. Anywho, I'd love to watch an update with how you have been doing since this video. Take care ❤

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just hit my year and I will update soon I had some slight complications about 6 months in. But yes I think for my case a male doctor was best he’s been very compassionate and thoughtful giving me time to ask questions and everything even to go as far as to ask “are you sure?” Yes if someone doesn’t sit right with your spirit trust your gut , I healed really well and I’m glad I got the hysterectomy!

    • @SamSkiBaby
      @SamSkiBaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your reply. I am very nervous about all of this. I will be looking out for your update! 🙂

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SamSkiBaby I’ll be looking for your update as well . You have my support if you ever wanna talk or vent , my socials are in my bio!

  • @mygmailacct9692
    @mygmailacct9692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First person who also bled all year from Depo...like BLOODDD... All my girlfriends had no periods.. period! So sorry this happened to you too. I clicked on your video because I'm also turning 38 next month and also need a hysterectomy. It good to see I'm not alone.. so damn young. But we suffered enough... maybe they will bless me (us?) with an extra "stitch" or two? Lol but in all reality.. I truly hope you're well and this helped you. 💗

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl no extra stitch or lipo it nuffin lol 😂 I’m going for my follow up it’s nearly a year now . I’ve been resting in not having bleeding or cramps it’s amazing. My weight has went down but it’s creeping back up due to being lazy , keeping you in my prayers! Folks are big surprised when you tell them your last period was a year ago! Lol

    • @mygmailacct9692
      @mygmailacct9692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@therealdynasmith 🤣.. robbed!! I'll let you know if my "lets make a deal" approach with my doctor results in few extra "tweaks" results in anything other than the textbook hysterectomy.. I got the faith. Lol... I don't get on here much to check my notifications , so I missed you response. BUT , I'm glad see your laughter intact .. 😃 I hope you continue to heal, remain healthy and get to ride out the rest of your many, many days happy, healthy , stress free and without a speed bump in site. 🙏 Magz

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mygmailacct9692 thank you! Lmao I’m getting lipo soon I was absolutely told they couldn’t do nothing for my muffin lol !!! I’ll be uploading new videos soon!

  • @HisQueen009
    @HisQueen009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing your journey❤

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His Queen09 thank you I will add a update soon, don’t forget to subscribe 🥰

  • @MsLittlemommy
    @MsLittlemommy ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to have a bag like yours love it..

  • @ItsAnitaP
    @ItsAnitaP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, thank you for this information. Would love an update. 💜

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Anita ! You want one in a comment or an actual update video? Cuz I can make one !

  • @lynngoldsby3789
    @lynngoldsby3789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m in hospital right now after my surgery Tuesday April 6 th the doctor took everything my uterus Fallopian tubes cervix and ovaries I pray to God that I don’t go into early menopause

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They also took my cervix too , I’m keeping you in my prayers and wish you fast healing

    • @lynngoldsby3789
      @lynngoldsby3789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealdynasmith thank you I believe that I was in much worse pain before then after my surgery ! Been here since Tuesday I walked around took a shower and everything and today is just Thursday after having a hysterectomy which they took everything I almost feel like a new woman

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lynngoldsby3789 yes you will feel better , the swelling will go down and bloating , the physical pain will fade . Things will change and get better

    • @lynngoldsby3789
      @lynngoldsby3789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealdynasmith thank you for the encouraging words now I have to get my iron levels up

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lynngoldsby3789 you are very welcome

  • @littlemissgeorgia974
    @littlemissgeorgia974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just had my total abdominal hysterectomy Monday (March 22, 2021). I am only 39, I had a huge fibroid that prolapse into my vagina in December. I am in so much pain right now🥴😪

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m wishing you a speedy recovery, my cousin had hers last night and they sent her pain meds to the wrong pharmacy, her first night no pain management, this is what happens to black women smh .

    • @littlemissgeorgia974
      @littlemissgeorgia974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@therealdynasmith right, my surgeon put morphine in my chart to take at the hospital, but my nurse (white) claimed I only had 800mg motrin. She didn't know that my black nurse had already told me. So when I told her I needed something stronger she claimed that was all I had, till I told her I knew I morphine 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@littlemissgeorgia974 these people are monsters I swear ! Why do they think like this

    • @littlemissgeorgia974
      @littlemissgeorgia974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@therealdynasmith your guess is as good a mine🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @DANNYTHEFROG123
      @DANNYTHEFROG123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@littlemissgeorgia974 Good job for standing up for yourself. I'm waiting on my insurance to approve mine. My Dr is doing a total abdominal on me. I have adenomyosis ( at least they hope that's what it is. )

  • @vickirja83
    @vickirja83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤😍🙏🏾

  • @sharr630
    @sharr630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey! I just found this. I had a subtotal hysterectomy last year, at the age of 38, due to Stage 4 endometriosis and adnomyosis. Let me know if you want to chat! :D

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely do you have an IG ? @Therealdynasmith send me a message

    • @lynngoldsby3789
      @lynngoldsby3789 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did they take everything ?

  • @mariamajor5417
    @mariamajor5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry about that..that's so young

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I still feel like I have my whole life ahead of me and I have no regrets

  • @DANNYTHEFROG123
    @DANNYTHEFROG123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hopefully I will be ending my monthly subscription too. I am the queen of heating pads.

    • @therealdynasmith
      @therealdynasmith  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope for healing and that everything works out In the end

  • @salvolondon
    @salvolondon ปีที่แล้ว

    I winder why these damned fibroids are so common . It’s unfair that you women have to deal with so much pain . I wish these things didn’t exist . Must be such a hard decision to have a hysterectomy so young .