My Experience Dating with Cerebral Palsy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2020
- My name is Nick Germain. I am a Voice Actor and a Radio DJ with a physical disability called Cerebral Palsy (or CP).
I wanted to make a video on my personal experience and feelings about dating with a disability, and hoping bring up some points that people who don't have one will take to heart!
Channels to follow on this topic:
Hannah Witton: / @hannahwitton
The Dating Coach on Wheels: / @datingcoachonwheels
Cayla with a C: / @caylawithac
My Socials (If you want to talk)
Twitter: @NickGermainVA / nickgermainva
Instagram: @nerdynickster / nerdynickster
Facebook: Nick Germain-Voice Actor / nick-germain-voice-act...
Don't be discouraged. I have CP that affects my balance as well and I found a wonderful partner. On the road to finding him I met a date at a coffee shop, tripped and fell which is pretty standard for me, and he basically ran away. Some people are just like that.
Thank you so much, Meghan! I am truly grateful for your kind words, & support, & I truly appreciate you! I am so sorry that you went through that, and it truly does help to know that someone went through something similar to what I went through, & came out okay! (Sometimes it can feel like I need to change something about myself in order to find someone because a lot of girls have walked out of my life without an explanation). Thank you for sharing your experience with me, as it truly is a comfort! I wish you and your partner all the best, and many more happy years with one another!
I love the fact that you're speaking out and shining a light on this! You DESERVE the love I know that you give to others. You're a sweet, caring, incredible guy and after watching that, I just want to give you a hug and shout with you on the rooftops. Stay strong, I promise you'll find someone who is worth your big heart
Chad Skiz Thank you so much, my friend!
That means the world to me, and it is extremely encouraging to hear!
I truly appreciate your friendship, and I truly appreciate your support!
I will keep looking, and see who life brings me.
And please know that I am always there for you anytime you need anything at all, my friend!
Love you, buddy! ❤️
I totally relate to most of what your saying and dating someone who doesn't have a disability they don't always understand that CP don't effect who you are as person. I also have cerebral palsy.
Thank you so much for commenting, and sharing your own experience with me!
I truly appreciate it, as the goal of this video was to connect with others who have CP, and, (hopefully), give them a story to relate to.
It seems to me that people often think that people who have disabilities have trouble with sex (and other intimacy), or they’re worried about what others will think.
When in reality,
We’re just people, and we can do anything that anyone else can do.
Honestly,
If people want to miss out because of silly fears and assumptions-
They’re not worth it anyway!
Overcoming adversity makes you stronger. It takes courage to speak directly from the heart.
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch my video, & offer me your kind words & support, Alexuci!❤️
It is hard to be vulnerable, but my hope is that by opening up about my experiences-
I can reach people who are feeling like I have, & encourage them to keep going!
I’m grateful for you, & your kindness, & I wish you all the best in love, & in life! 🙏🏻
Hi nick I'm in my 40's was born with CP and have never been approached by anyone ( disabled or not ) which makes me feel extremely insecure about myself so i started watching your videos on TH-cam and I'm starting to slowly feel better about myself thanks a lot
Thank you so much, RanitaGadling! ❤️
It means more than I can say that you watched the video, and that it helped you.
All I wanted out of this video was to share my story in hopes that it would reach people, and help others similar to me.
I’m grateful to you for watching the video, & I truly appreciate you!🙏🏻
I often feel insecure about people not approaching me as well, and sometimes it makes me feel like I’m not good enough.
(And I’m still working through that feeling.)
I hope that you go forward knowing that you are enough, and you are a catch, and someone will come along who loves you, and values you for who you are.
Thank you for sharing your experience and unique perspective on a autopsies difficult and nuanced subject. Best wishes to you and your future in the realm of dating as it happens.
Recently have developed interest in learning more about people with CP and just came across your channel. I love your openness and thanks for sharing
Thank you so much, Nasecha!❤️
I am grateful to you for taking the time to watch, & offer me such kind words! 🙏🏻
I’d be happy to answer any questions that you have if you Email me at NicholasJonBassist@gmail.com.
Don't be frustrated about what happened. Some people woren't teached how to accept people as they are. You aren't special coz you have a disability but coz you are beeing men, comming here and telling your history. This happens with they who have disabilities and with who haven't. She didn't diserve you, but she didn't know that.
You are smart, easy going and handsome. I'm sure that some nice girl will look for this adjectives and not for the detail of the disability. Thanks for sharing this expirience with us
My apologies for not getting back to your comment very quickly, Rosilene!😮
(I’ve been crazy busy!😩)
I try cannot thank you enough for taking the time to watch the video, and for all of your kind words! ❤️
The goal of this video was solely to have it reach people (with and without a disability), and I truly appreciate you for watching and listening!
I want to believe (and choose to believe) that there is someone out there for everyone.
I am going to do my best to stay true to myself, and my goals, and hope that I find my person along the way!
I wish you all the best in life, and in love! 🙂😇
My name is Latoria, I was born with cerebral palsy.. thank you 😊 for doing this video, this the way I feel about having a disability.... I think it would be awesome 👏 to be your friend & chat about cerebral palsy... thanks having a great day..
Hi Nick my name is Abbie and I have CP as well I think it’s great what you are doing to raise awareness for CP
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video, and for your kind words, and support, Abbie! ❤️
I am grateful to you, and I will be sure to check out your channel as well! 🙏🏻
I have some more video ideas about dating with CP/ to raise awareness about CP as soon as I get a chance to flesh them out!
I think it’s important to keep a dialogue going about Cerebral Palsy (& even more so after watching Special on Netflix) because there’s a lot of people who still don’t know anything about people with disabilities beyond assumptions and stereotypes!
I wish you all the best in love and in life, & I hope that you continue to raise awareness about cerebral palsy as well!
Hey Nick great video. I came to your page researching about Cerebral Palsy. My son who is senior in high school typical athletic football player has had a new girlfriend for the last 3 months. He has been more secretive about this girl and and has spent a lot of time at the girls house. The parents have been super nice with my son inviting him on several fun family activities and he has had a great time. I had offered to take them to the movies and it was the first time I had seen the girl other then sitting in the car. I wasn’t even paying attention as she walked out of the house and got in the car. I drove them because my son has not got his drivers license. My son was very attentive and helped her get in the car and it was slower then normal. I was actually not trying to pay attention and I was trying to give him privacy and I didn’t want to make them feel nervous or shy. As every good father I asked her questions to try to get to know her and show that I was interested in her school and life. I asked her if she played sports or what activities she liked to do and just normal conversation. We started talking about her moms Jeep which was tricked out and very cool, she asked if I saw the license plate that said CP. I didn’t noticed and she continued in normal conversation that it stood for cerebral palsy but she made a joke that her family teased her mom that it stood for concrete princess. At this point I had not made any connection that she had this and just assumed her mom worked in that field or donated time for this disability. As i dropped them at the front of the theater I again tried to give them privacy like I wasn’t trying to watch them. I noticed it took more time then usual and I was actually proud because my son was being so attentive such a gentleman. I picked them up after the movie and she made a small joke about not getting hit by the traffic by walking slow but I didn’t put it together. Again they both got into the back of my truck slower then normal. From my perspective I didn’t know anything was different and I was just trying to give them privacy and not watch them not to make them nervous. The girl was very sweet and extremely polite and I am very happy he is having such a good girl. As I dropped her off at the house my son once again was very gentlemanly and assisted her to the house. At this point I noticed she was waking slow and limping. Even at this time I didn’t think anything. As my son came back to the car and got in I asked him how she hurt her leg. My son at this point told me that she had cerebral palsy. I asked him why he had not said anything to me before and he said he was nervous about how I would feel. I was a little shocked that he would be worried what I thought especially since I have always told him the most important thing about dating is the girls heart and character. I actually told him I was proud that he handled the this dating situation so mature. Honestly I knew extremely little about cerebral palsy and searched to learn about it tonight. I would like to thank you for being brave and sharing your story and helping others understand this situation. There was no opportunity for me to know about this disability for 2 reasons one I have not met anyone with this and two I wasn’t looking for the person to be different. Which I think is good thing. I think there is no reason for you or my sons girl to feel awkward to communicate about this. Since I was unaware of the disability my questions may have seemed weird to the girl because I just didn’t notice and maybe she thought the same when she hinted a few things about CP and I didn’t connect the dots and didn’t acknowledge the hints. At the end of the day it just is about good communication. Thanks again for your story.
Thank you so much for YOUR story, High Flying FL390! You've obviously raised your son well, and both of you have beautiful hearts! Thank you for teaching him to be a gentleman, and to just treat her like he would treat any other person! That is a wonderful quality, and a rare and beautiful quality too! I agree completely that it is all about good communication, and making sure that the person with the disability speaks up about what they need to feel comfortable and treated normally, and also making sure to listen when the person who has a disability is communicating how they feel! Thank you so much for watching the video, and sharing you and your son's experiences! I wish you and your family all the best!
I just found out about your channel and this is the first video i see and wow... you have such a beautiful soul!! A guy as thoughtful, intelligent and sweet like you deserves all the love in the world. Thank you sooo much for sharing this experience!
Sofia,
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today! 🥺❤️
Thank you so much for taking the time to touch my heart with your kind words! 😭
I appreciate you more than words can ever say, & I am grateful to you! 🙏🏻
I often have trouble seeing my own worth (especially recently), & I’ve felt like I’m not worth loving.
So thank you so much for being a bright light in a time of a lot of dark thoughts!
@@NickGermainVA1995 I'm so glad I could help!Keep your head up, these hard times will pass!!
I can relate to this. I don't date much at all. My first date was in the late 90's. she was an old friend of mine who I hadn't seen sense the early 90's. So, I never mentioned having CP because I thought she would've remembered. We went to see Idol Hands in the theater, she asked me if she could bring a friend which I thought was odd but, then I remembered that she had epilepsy. So, I thought that might have been the reason way. Anyway, this person wouldn't sit next to me and had her friend sit between us which was incredibly awkward. When the movie was done, I asked her if I could give her a hug. she said yes so, I did. I never heard from her after that. I stopped trying to date at all because I got Tired of hearing " you should date someone else with Cerebral Palsy" I have a few female friends that I will go out to concerts with and stuff like that but, they always give me the "this isn't a date speech before we go anywhere.
Hey c-rad!
Thank you so much for watching the video, and taking the time to share your own experiences with cerebral palsy! ❤️
I’m grateful for you, and I appreciate you! 🙏🏻
I’m sorry that your friend that you had a crush on didn’t
understand that you wanted to be alone with her/ go on a date with her.
I’ve definitely been there before with multiple female friends, and it’s really hard.
But don’t give up!
Every date gets you closer to the right person, and you don’t have to date someone who has cerebral palsy!
All that matters is that they understand you and your needs.
Don't give up. I have Pudendal Neuralgia & spend most of my day laying down & I have plans of starting dating again, after Easter...that is if a recent health set back doesn't get in my way. I was at the ER the other week, and found out I can no longer taking Advil anymore due to GI Bleeding. I take Advil with my nerve pain medication to bring my pain down to tolerable levels. Now I have to take Tylenol instead, and it's not really cutting the mustard. Hopefully the pain mgmt clinic can do something for me, otherwise I may not be able to have sex. The Pudendal Nerves are in the pelvis.
I relate to how you feel because you see others with there person and you wondering where is your person. People just need to open up there mind and trying to get know people who have a disability. Thank for your encouragement. It's been about along time since I dated but I hope to meet my person soon.
Thank you so much, Zulekha!❤️
I’m extremely grateful for you, and grateful to you for watching! 🙏🏻
I agree! 💯
The person inside matters so much more than anything on the outside!
I’ve met a lot of women who didn’t care about my disability (whether it worked out or not), and have given me a chance based on me.
The best thing to do is just be honest about it, and communicate.
Eventually,
The right person will come into your life, and the wait will be worth it!
@@NickGermainVA1995 your welcome I also live C.P it been an interesting ride to say the least. I recently published by autobiography which is called MyFaith Walk From Blessing To Blessing by Zulekha I Jones .I talk about my life and changes I've faced. You can get on Amazon, Barnes And Nobles and Books A Million. I hope you can check it out. I hope you are doing well.😊
Very inspirational video, thank you for sharing your story!
Honestly, Greta didn't deserve you.
Best of luck on your relationships!❤️
Thank you so much, Maizen!❤️
I’m always humbled, surprised, & grateful for folks like yourself who take the time to watch this video!🙏🏻
I never thought that it would reach people at all, let alone inspire anyone, & I thank you for taking the time to watch it, & offering your kind words!
I wish you all the best in love, as well as in life! 😊❤️🙏🏻
Don’t give up and don’t worry about your disability the person who walked away did you a favor, the right one will stick by your side and love you for who you are! You’re a very sweet handsome guy.
Thank you so much for this, Gilbert!❤️
I’ve been going through a bit of a rough time with anxiety, & depression, & I’ve felt like crying a lot today, & I can’t express how much your comment means to me!
A lot of the time,
I can barely look at myself in the mirror, & like myself lately, & I thank you so much for your kind words (I’m beyond grateful to you)! 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to watch this video, & make me feel like I’m not completely awful!🥺
I wish you all the best in love, & in life! 😊
@@NickGermainVA1995 Nick I agree with Gilbert you are a good looking young man. I’m sorry you were having a rough time of it when this reply came out. Hopefully things are better for you now. I just came across your Chanel a few minutes ago. I. Hoping that your still making videos. Have a great week.
@@paulabarton9493 Thank you so much for not only watching the video, but for the kind words, & for taking the time to check up on me, & ask how I am doing!❤️
I’m grateful to you beyond words, & I truly appreciate you more than I can say! 🙏🏻
My depression ebbs & flows/varies from day to day.
Today,
I’m doing okay overall. Just trying to stay positive!
As far as my next video like this,
I have some ideas, & I’m going to try to flesh out my best video idea soon!
Until then,
I wish you all the best in love, & in life!
hi Nick I have cerebral palsy also, this is a very eloquent video, your gentle manner is a great thing i totally relate to your experiences. Part of dating is being vulnerable emotionally and this is hard to face, when at face value people sometimes don't relate to us as human beings like them, who can anticipate their reactions to us, and or disability.
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video, and offering kind words, Sonia!❤️
I’m grateful to you, and I appreciate you!!🙏🏻
Opening up *is* very hard.
I’m struggling through opening up right now, & I’m slowly learning how to be vulnerable with my loved ones about my struggles with my disability.
But I am opening up, and I think that the important thing is that we try our best!
I hope that you are able to do the same, and I wish you all the best in love and in life!
@@NickGermainVA1995 in the last few years i have tried to carefully open up to more people so that i can optimize my chances of the fullest life possible and that is also in a sense what you have done with this sincere video . it makes your personal experience more universal, which in turn will help many people.
What a handsome and wholesome dude!
Started dating a dude with a more prominent CP. Need info on this subject. All good here though just entering a new experience as his bf.
I try not to bring the CP often but if I do I try to think of my wording.
Great video
Thank you so much not only for watching, but for offering such genuinely kind words, Guillermo! ❤️
I truly appreciate you, & I’m grateful to you! 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for sharing your relationship’s story too!
You seem like you’re a loving and considerate partner, and they’re lucky to have you!
(I know that I always appreciate whenever someone is considerate of my CP, & how they word things, because certain wording can trigger my depression)
I wish you both the best, and if you need any advice-
Feel free to comment here, or email me at NicholasJonBassist@gmail.com!
I am always happy to offer whatever insight I can!
Hey Nick! This video almost had me in tears. It's heart breaking to see you so upset. I work in the UK as a carer, and my first client is a lady with CP, so I've just started doing research about CP and the dating world. How is dating going for you now? You really seem like such a catch! I love that you mentioned cooking, flowers and looking after your girl when she's sick. Honestly you sound so much better than most guys! Have you tried dating apps and mentioning that you have CP? Have you asked ex girlfriends why the relationship didn't work from their perspective? I hope you keep trying different things and don't give up. Like someone else commented, I'm sure the romance gods will bless you!
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video, & offer your advice, thoughts, & kind words, Tamryn! ❤️
I truly appreciate you, & I am grateful for you! 🙏🏻
My primary source of meeting people is dating apps, & I’m on three at the moment.
I don’t put my cerebral palsy on my profile because even though it’s a part of my life, it doesn’t define me in any way, & I don’t want a woman to focus on it anymore than I would my friends or family (it’s better if they get to know me for me).
I get matches, but they usually ghost me even when they tell me that they’re cool with my CP.
My last date said that she was fine with it, & she stood me up.
So I’m not too optimistic about dating at the moment, but I’ll always give it my best shot, & put myself out there!
Regardless,
I’m thankful for you, & your encouragement, & I wish you all the best in love, & in life! ❤️
Based on your openness and gentleness in this video (and also congrats on your face, you got a good one), I'm confident that the romance gods will place you where you need to be. Thanks for sharing!
You’re too kind, AJ!
Thank you so much for your kind words! ❤️
You are a beautiful person as well (inside and out), & I truly appreciate you taking the time to watch this video!
It’s truly humbling that people like yourself are still continuing to watch it, & respond, & I am truly grateful to you! 🙏🏻
I wish you all the best in love, as well as in life! 😊
You will find someone. Keep being you bro I’m serious
Hi Nick oi long stories I need to tell but I will try keep it short.. I have minimal cerabral palsy it's more mental for me then physical.. I have some independence in I can drive.. But got my license late aged 20 biggest achievement really getting that.. Was scary that first year made a few mistakes and accidents.. But not to major.. I leaned to read late in life aged 11..so my self esteem was effected by this had to leave home to get the help I beeded was really tough.. But I got the help but being away from your family for months was so tough.. But life chiices have also effected my confidence big time at the times I thought wow go for it finding out during the experience bad choices😭.. Ai I'm 49 had one arranged girlfriend I met through friends that unfortunately didn't last long as she was visiting when I met her the atrraction wasn't really there but I tried.. But it became a long distance relationship I was going to her home town of Johannesburg but it all ended before I even went.. That was in 2004.. Then in 2010 a lady started chatting to me on Facebook I knew through living in the same small town.. We then started going out as friends then I started getting feelings for her.. But sadly only wanted friendship.. Then one night she disrespected me something terrible and had to cut ties.. Thst went on for about 2 wasted years of trying 😢.. Then in 2016 I met another lady through a friend who said Sam this lady will display your art in her shop.. She was single as it turned out but 14 years my senior a foreigner from Belgium but we connected she's a lkibra like I am.. We also started going out on weekends also asked her out. But sadly also wanted just friendship so frustrating.. Should of walked away I've recently learned that is what I should of done.. But I stayed her friend because we both don't have many friends.. I'm not earning much and after my folks retired I'm even earning less and covid happened and so it's been very tough.. Anyway, she was a good friend paid for most of our get togethers.. I started texting her daily to wish her a good day and wasn't a good idea as I was sinking my self into something that would crush me.. End September she broke some news to me about an old boyfriend from her youth that had found her on fb.. Anyway man I thought I'd be ok with her meeting the guy to see if it would work.. He flew out from Belgium mid October was here for her birthday and next on Facebook I saw she changed her profile pictures on fb and WhatsApp.. I told her I'd give her space and now it's at a very sad stage where I need to cut ties.. T feels like a death oi it's very hard to accept someone I was so close to is gone.. She said she'd contact me again and has a few times been difficult to reply but I did as I'm not a ass.. But she was actually just rubbing in that she's going on a safari with her much more confident man.. She said she loves me to bits but isn't in love with me😭.. Ai it's hurting but I found dslr photography 4 years ago while I knew her.. And she's been supportive of my dreams and it has given me confidence.. I love sunsets and capturing them on a cloudy evening is so soulful.. Anyways I am building a photography page now on Facebook and I recently found a way to grow it.. So it's grown quite a bit the last few months.. And I have one or two paid portrait shoots lined for the coming days.. But I have her on my mind contently still as it is very fresh still and will take ages to get over as I'm not meeting new ladies 😢.. And have struggled all these years online tinder here is tough as not many matches pop up and so tough as well.. Anyways, if you want to reach out privately please do.. Take care you seam a great guy as well..
Hey Samuel,
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with me!❤️
I’m truly grateful to you for not only taking the time to watch the video, but for your bravery and vulnerability in sharing your story/stories.
I’ve had a rough time with dating as well (from age 13 to now).
A lot of girls who just viewed me as a friend (WAY too many to count), a girl who left after 20 minutes, my last date ended up being a lesbian-
Dating is ROUGH, man.😅
It SUCKS.
I’m just NOW (at 27) seeing a nice girl who is mature, intelligent, etc.
I met her on Hinge (through some divine miracle), but dating apps are TERRIBLE 99.9% of the time because no one cares about who you are inside.
(It’s all vanity and looks)
But you can (and will) meet somebody wonderful.
The best advice I can give is to give yourself grace, focus on yourself, and what you love, and distance yourself from women who treat you in a way that you don’t deserve/don’t want to be treated.
When you are out there dating,
Be aware of what vibes a girl sends (does she seem to reciprocate your feelings and actions?), and be open to getting to know new people.
You’ll find the right person when you least expect it, and it will be like an Angel has entered your life.
I’m not a dating coach, but if you want to reach out via email (just to vent/chat),
My email is nicholasjonbassist@gmail.com.
I really appreciate your videos because we have the same disability...
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch & comment, & offer your appreciation, Arrjaie! ❤️
I am grateful for you, & your support, & I’m glad that my video could be of help to you! 🙏🏻
(It was hard to make it, & be vulnerable, but if it helps people, then it’s worth it)
I wish you all the best in love, & in life! 😊
I have cerebral palsy as well
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I have cerebal palsy to it can be hard i agree
Yes it can
I. Like your. Video
I am suffering from arthritis since my childhood. I once proposed a girl but right away rejected me. She didn't told me why but I know that it was my arthritis and 5'1" height. Since then I never tried proposing a girl no matter how much I was attracted to her. Cuz I don't wanna be rejected again for my disability. I think I am far better off being a disabled person with self respect rather than being humiliated by women.
I am so sorry to hear that, Brig! Was it someone you were dating? I hope that you don't give up because there are good women out there! The right person for you won't leave you for your disability, and they will love you for you! I haven't found my person yet either, but we both will in time! Thank you so much for watching the video! I am grateful to you, and I will be praying for all the best for you in love and in life!
I have been looking for someone like you who can give me advice on being intimate with my boyfriend who has CP. Would like to chat
I truly appreciate you watching this video, Pamela!
I don’t have a ton of experience with dating and intimacy, but I would love to offer you any advice that I can.
You can message me on Twitter @NickGermainVA.
@@NickGermainVA1995 I don't have twitter but you can hit me on my email .
Pam.koehn@yahoo.com
OMG Nick.. thats one awesome video.. im right there..I know ur feels. I'm in my 50s with CP.. I recently started my utube videos too. Please check mine out..it does not get easier.. well it has not for me.. I hope ur ok with me mentioning u tomorrow in my newest video. I m here with u.. thanks again Scot
Thank you so much for watching, & for your solidarity and kind words, Scot!❤️
I truly appreciate you, & I’m grateful for your support!🙏🏻
I enjoy your videos as well (Being a Kid with Cerebral Palsy, Siblings of us who have Cerebral Palsy, & Living with Cerebral Palsy over 50 being my most recent watches!)
I wish you all the best!
I've have Cerebral Palsy and my experience is as bad as it can possibly be cos we live in a world where is all about appearances.
I’m so sorry to hear that you have had bad experiences with dating as well, John!
You’re right!
Some people are shallow & not worth our time anyway because they only care about looks.
(In many cases, we actually end up dodging a bullet because we can find someone who is even better for us)
I can with certainty though to not give up!
I’ve started putting my disability into my dating profile now, & I’ve connected with girls who don’t care that I have one at all.
You’d be amazed at what can happen if you take another chance!
In any case,
I’m grateful for you, & grateful to you for taking the time to watch the video, & I wish you all the best in love, and in life! 🙏🏻❤️
@@NickGermainVA1995 Surely, I always thought be as gentleman as you can be, walk the walk... but no appearances get in the way again... any advice?
I'd rather be with someone who can walk the walk and care than some who is fit but doesn't care at all.
@@johnhills3085 Are you talking about wanting to date someone who also has cerebral palsy, or someone who means what they say/is honest in general?
Honesty is absolutely always important any relationship.
If you’re talking about dating someone who also has CP,
A lot of people without disabilities will be wonderful partners as well even if they can’t relate to it themselves.
(& just because they have CP, it doesn’t mean that they’re going to be a good fit)
All that should really matter is if they’re empathetic, and have a kind heart.
Whoever your partner will be,
I hope that they’re absolutely wonderful, & I have faith that they will be!
Honesty is the best policy what they do is ahead of the word they say. Easy to talk to... actually looks are not s big thing Like you said you have a good rapport with the other person you hang out have fun and then ohh I don't like you... They won't say is your CP but they change out of the blue... Get the elephant in the room out of the way on your second third date I'd say.
I hope you found a beautiful girlfriend that loves you. I found a sweet and loving boyfriend that have a disabilty like me. God bless you always. My boyfriend name is Nick
Thank you so much, Niki! ❤️
I truly appreciate you, & your support, & I am grateful to you! 🙏🏻
Sometimes I feel like there isn’t someone out there for me that will be my best friend in life, and that I’ll fall head over heels in love with.
I’ve had a lot of girls (even female friends) walk out of my life without explanation, and that has made it hard to trust in life, and God’s plan at times.
But I won’t give up, and I hope that I am fortunate to find a wonderful love like yours that lasts a lifetime like you have!
God Bless you as well, and I wish you all the best in love and in life!
@@NickGermainVA1995 thanks. For your. Video
@@cynthiavoss3610 Thank you so much, Cynthia!
I am truly grateful to you for watching and enjoying my video!
I hope that it helped you in some way, and I wish you the best in love, and in life!
Are u still single
@@cynthiavoss3610 Yes!
I am on dating apps (& go on dates sometimes), but I am still single currently.
It seems the Americans are very biased against people with disabilities. Europeans and South Africans seem to be much much less concerned or put off. Just my observations.
Regards from South Africa