This guy can express himself very well, i can tell he is a great teacher. And yes the online dating apps 🤦🏻♂️ its like having a part time job. Those apps...
Great video Corey. Open and honest is what our community needs. Glad to see you back. I know it’s hard finding time to make these videos. And yes you should never settle. Confidence, drive, self esteem and your smile will get you farther than you ever thought possible in the dating world. Keep working hard bro!
You're handsome, with a positive attitude and outlook on life, and have a wonderful & influential career ... you will make a great soul mate/husband! Thank you for being transparent. I just came across your video. My cousin was in a diving accident 4 years ago (July 2014), a quadriplegic (incomplete C5 & C6). His attitude is like yours, never give up and press on and enjoy life. I look forward to watching more videos. You're awesome!
Please make more videos.🤗💕 I suffer with severe widespread pain. I live with this invisible disability and it has been extremely difficult, but I have a hand full of people as my support system. Im not only tired of pain, but I'm tired of the stigma. It feels like no one understands. Anyway, enough of my complaints...I love your videos and your positive vibe! Sending you love from Cali💕
You can be picky. It’s unavoidable that’s you’re in a chair. You should never settle either way. You’ll find someone. You seem like you’re a great person.
Keep your high standards. The right person for you will show herself tho you. I too am in a chair and I found a real love. Our standards were so high we had very few matches, but you only need one.
Have a lot of thoughts on this video all positive I really think you’re doing a good job of communicating how you feel I can only imagine how hard it is to get out there until the confidence and feel like because you’re in a wheelchair that it would be harder and that people treat you differently or think they can’t date you because of limitations for some reason you’re right it’s all about communication and I don’t think you should ever lower your standards for anybody I think you should keep them exactly where you want them to be because if you are your standards you’re not gonna get the person that’s for you you know and I understand you on the dating site it’s actually how I met my husband so don’t give up it worked out we’re now about to have a child were four years in our relationship you just never know stay strong and don’t let the negative people get to you always be positive and do what you feel is right!
Don’t do that to yourself! I will pick for personality, honesty, sensitivity to my and other’s needs, love! 6 pack doesn’t equal good person. I can’t stand arrogance, dishonesty, meanness, etc. I love from the heart. You are handsome, so QUIT worrying about the chair!! You are awesome! I don’t look at person’s chair, etc. I look at their eyes and heart when I interact with a person! ❤️❤️🤗
Hello I don't know how I ran across your video But I'm glad that I did!!!! I try not to take thing's for granted!!! I struggle with having no cartilage in my knees every step I make is bone rubbing against bone!!!! And swelling in both of my legs!!!! From lymphdema I didn't take care of my body i have good days and bad days, but I'm still here!!!! GOD STILL HAS A PLAN FOR ME!!!! Wishing you the best!!!!!
Thanks for posting! I say be as open to new people and experiences as you would want others to be towards you. They wouldn't be settling by getting to know you, so, neither would (or should) you. I'm sure you'll find someone who can appreciate everything that you are and is capable of seeing past your chair... I wish you happy hunting! 😁
I am very proud of you! This video was very relatable even for me. Dating is very difficult and I love the honesty you have on here is amazing! I feel it I have high standards too. But we live and learn and love will fall into your life out of no where. Keep up the videos! I love watching them
You are awesome!The positive motivation that you are drives people in your situation or somewhat going through what you are going through gives them hope.Take care.
Been there, done that. I feel ya but know, it is possible to meet someone online. If you don't mind me dropping suggestions: be patient, be open, be vulnerable. IT IS OK to be picky. A life partner is a big deal! We are complex. It takes time to meet someone you like. Keep at it. When you burn out, take a break. Maybe, join Meetups or clubs!
You are an inspiration to us abled and differently abled. Relationships are hard for all. Dating app portrays the awesome glorious part of an individual and then you meet the person and normality sets in. We are a little different to who we portray.
It does not matter that you have a physical disability. You are a great catch and someone will be very lucky to have somekne so special like yourself. I am sure you bring a lot to the table and god will bless you someday. Don't rush. Your beautiful gf is waiting for you. 👑💞
I really don't understand why online dating is so difficult and doesn't yield better results. Presumably people are there because they would like to meet someone. Yet they are seemingly insincere and shallow so no connections are made. I have Spinocerebellar Ataxia. My cerebellum is atrophying. Its a progressive neurological disorder. The cerebellum controls balance and coordination. The symptoms of SCA are similar to those of a drunk person- slurred speech, swaying, stumbling, poor balance in general. I'm 42. Began showing symptoms at 35. I had just bought a house, working, cleaning the house, running errands. Just like everybody else. Now I can't go hiking like I did before, and I have a difficult time walking. I can understand how a potential partner wouldn't want to get involved for self-preservation, but life happens and developed or acquired disabilities do not discriminate. It can happen to anyone, so you might want to think about how you treat people.
Australian Capital Territory myself. But severe Traumatic Brain Injury, from a car accident, 38 years ago and 34 years, as a senior social worker. Like yourself, a colored man, capable, positive attitude. Did not have "high" standards. Being married for the last 28 years now. Never been happier in my life. Don't need don't have such high standards in any real person. Private living in a private life, is much more realistic.
Just remember, the wheelchair should not nor should you allow it to define you. You are not “that guy in the wheelchair, you know”, you’re “oh that guy, he’s a teacher, and he’s known for making videos on TH-cam. And not that this matters, he happens to be in a wheelchair.” First and foremost, you’re human just like the rest of us. Secondly, it should not matter you being in a chair or not. If someone is going to love you, they should love the person, not what surrounds the person. Now, granite, it takes a lil extra to be with someone who needs a little help from time to time, but you seem very independent, and perhaps its cause you’re younger and as you’ve stated a bit fit prior to your situation, but through your videos its clear you strive for independence. Keep moving forward and before you know it…the right person will come into your life, I only hope when that happens you will see it and not let it go. And work at it just as the other person will have to do. Good luck to you and your future. I know it will happen, cause it did for my father. Also, check out ‘Roll with Cole & Charisma” he too is a quad and the two of them found love.
@@coreyaustin14 Nah, thank you for being so brave and honest. I really learned so much and you answered questions I had as well as some I did not even know I had. lol
Corey I think you are more of a man than ALOT of men out there...N heck yeah.. don't settle for anyone...becuz at the end of it all .it's ur happiness that matters.....keep us updated...💜Vickie
I don't how this video popped up on my feed, but I have to say that your very inspirational. You have been through a lot, you're a strong person, humble, became a teacher..that's pretty big!! What subject do you teach? What grade?
Check out Cole and Charisma 'a website on YT. Roll with Cole and Charisma. They speak candidly about their relationship and its challenges and rewards.
Yea dating life having MS I think most people think I'm drunk. Lol but the fact of the matter I dont drink. In my early 20's. A lot of my friends met on Tinder lol they are married. No dating apps for me
Going to hell and back and all the things you’ve learned and had to learn along the way means you are far more mature than many men and women your age. There are women/men out there who need to match your maturity. Be picky!! Keep to your standards…you know yourself better because of what you’ve been through and all you’ve achieved..there are people out there who can match your standards…
I love how everybody says dont lower your standards. I swear these 2/10 women really think they all deserve a 10/10 man. Theyll be lonely forever. Invest in cat food
Absolutely! It took me a while to realize but we all have value and can offer so much beyond what is physical. Granted, I do feel bad not being able to help with moving and other physical things lol.
Marry a Christian that actually loves Jesus Christ that is a virgin so she knows only God and you (and not another man in a sexual way). Love should start in courtship, not in bed.
What the f@ck? First off who the hell are you to come on here telling him to marry a virgin? What if he isn't a virgin? Also What if he isn't christian? Do not tell others who they should marry it isn't your business. ugh. Were you a virgin when you married your virgin wife? Was your wife a virgin? how did you know? did you forcibly check? What if the girl was r@ped? would you tell him not to marry her cause technically she isn't a virgin anymore. See this is why you should keep your mouth shut, cause you know nothing.
Why not try meeting a girl where you, ... go... all the time, I'm sure, ... you go somewhere, to buy, something you like,... something.... you like... a coffee, place, ... a market... a library... idk.. your young.. good luck
Baby let me tell you when I was younger I’m 47 yrs old now but when I was a younger that’s almost all I went with I didn’t know why but I did 🤷♀️but I learned that just cus you’re in that chair don’t mean nothing trust me 😀😀😀😀cus just know I know 💋💋💋
You’re fine as hell and have a great personality. Dating sucks! I hope you find the love of your life.
Everyone has a right to have standards/to be picky. The fact that you're in a chair, doesn't mean you have to settle, in my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
This guy can express himself very well, i can tell he is a great teacher. And yes the online dating apps 🤦🏻♂️ its like having a part time job. Those apps...
Don't reduce your standards, any person worth being with you should meet and surpass these standards. Just be open with the potential partner.
I’m so happy you are making videos again. I don’t even know how I stumbled across your videos but I find you so charming and interesting! Xoxo
Aww I truly hope you find that special someone!
Welcome back!!
Great video Corey. Open and honest is what our community needs. Glad to see you back. I know it’s hard finding time to make these videos. And yes you should never settle. Confidence, drive, self esteem and your smile will get you farther than you ever thought possible in the dating world. Keep working hard bro!
Appreciate the love brah!
You're handsome, with a positive attitude and outlook on life, and have a wonderful & influential career ... you will make a great soul mate/husband! Thank you for being transparent. I just came across your video. My cousin was in a diving accident 4 years ago (July 2014), a quadriplegic (incomplete C5 & C6). His attitude is like yours, never give up and press on and enjoy life. I look forward to watching more videos. You're awesome!
Hoping the best for you man. I think its cool that your teaching though! 👍👍
Please make more videos.🤗💕
I suffer with severe widespread pain. I live with this invisible disability and it has been extremely difficult, but I have a hand full of people as my support system. Im not only tired of pain, but I'm tired of the stigma. It feels like no one understands. Anyway, enough of my complaints...I love your videos and your positive vibe! Sending you love from Cali💕
Glad you're back💜💜💜💜
Thank you for letting everyone know to set standards and not to settle. You are not too picky . You're awesome
You will find love when you least expect it. There is someone out there, just be patient. Don’t lower your standards what so ever!💙
Anything is possible I pray God will heal you. You will find the right person for you don't rush it! Just have faith it goes a long way.
Elizabeth M. I am sure that he will get to regain his use of his arms and legs so that he can walk and feed himself
You can be picky. It’s unavoidable that’s you’re in a chair. You should never settle either way. You’ll find someone. You seem like you’re a great person.
Welcome back😘
Welcome back
Keep your high standards. The right person for you will show herself tho you. I too am in a chair and I found a real love. Our standards were so high we had very few matches, but you only need one.
Have a lot of thoughts on this video all positive I really think you’re doing a good job of communicating how you feel I can only imagine how hard it is to get out there until the confidence and feel like because you’re in a wheelchair that it would be harder and that people treat you differently or think they can’t date you because of limitations for some reason you’re right it’s all about communication and I don’t think you should ever lower your standards for anybody I think you should keep them exactly where you want them to be because if you are your standards you’re not gonna get the person that’s for you you know and I understand you on the dating site it’s actually how I met my husband so don’t give up it worked out we’re now about to have a child were four years in our relationship you just never know stay strong and don’t let the negative people get to you always be positive and do what you feel is right!
Don’t do that to yourself! I will pick for personality, honesty, sensitivity to my and other’s needs, love! 6 pack doesn’t equal good person. I can’t stand arrogance, dishonesty, meanness, etc. I love from the heart. You are handsome, so QUIT worrying about the chair!! You are awesome! I don’t look at person’s chair, etc. I look at their eyes and heart when I interact with a person! ❤️❤️🤗
Hello
I don't know how
I ran across your video
But I'm glad that I did!!!!
I try not to take thing's for granted!!! I struggle with having no cartilage in my knees every step I make is bone rubbing against bone!!!! And swelling in both of my legs!!!! From lymphdema I didn't take care of my body i have good days and bad days, but I'm still here!!!! GOD STILL HAS A PLAN FOR ME!!!! Wishing you the best!!!!!
Thanks for posting! I say be as open to new people and experiences as you would want others to be towards you. They wouldn't be settling by getting to know you, so, neither would (or should) you. I'm sure you'll find someone who can appreciate everything that you are and is capable of seeing past your chair... I wish you happy hunting! 😁
Welcome back bro! ❤️👍
I am very proud of you! This video was very relatable even for me. Dating is very difficult and I love the honesty you have on here is amazing! I feel it I have high standards too. But we live and learn and love will fall into your life out of no where. Keep up the videos! I love watching them
You are awesome!The positive motivation that you are drives people in your situation or somewhat going through what you are going through gives them hope.Take care.
Honest, funny, positive attitude and a cutie♥️you are awesome!
Been there, done that. I feel ya but know, it is possible to meet someone online. If you don't mind me dropping suggestions: be patient, be open, be vulnerable. IT IS OK to be picky. A life partner is a big deal! We are complex. It takes time to meet someone you like. Keep at it. When you burn out, take a break. Maybe, join Meetups or clubs!
You have a good sense of humor! Dont lose it my man!
Don't know how I found your videos bro, I feel yeah I'm in the same position def been tough, but you get through!
You won't be single for long....i like you....your videos are inspirational....
You are an inspiration to us abled and differently abled. Relationships are hard for all. Dating app portrays the awesome glorious part of an individual and then you meet the person and normality sets in. We are a little different to who we portray.
good job Cory....helpful info is always good, continue that route....:)
It does not matter that you have a physical disability. You are a great catch and someone will be very lucky to have somekne so special like yourself. I am sure you bring a lot to the table and god will bless you someday. Don't rush. Your beautiful gf is waiting for you. 👑💞
hes really cute and his personality is amazing
I really don't understand why online dating is so difficult and doesn't yield better results. Presumably people are there because they would like to meet someone. Yet they are seemingly insincere and shallow so no connections are made.
I have Spinocerebellar Ataxia. My cerebellum is atrophying. Its a progressive neurological disorder. The cerebellum controls balance and coordination. The symptoms of SCA are similar to those of a drunk person- slurred speech, swaying, stumbling, poor balance in general.
I'm 42. Began showing symptoms at 35. I had just bought a house, working, cleaning the house, running errands. Just like everybody else. Now I can't go hiking like I did before, and I have a difficult time walking.
I can understand how a potential partner wouldn't want to get involved for self-preservation, but life happens and developed or acquired disabilities do not discriminate. It can happen to anyone, so you might want to think about how you treat people.
You are definitely right dating is hard even for those of us not in a chair! But we’re still young and have plenty of time. No rush. No settling 😏❤️
Corey, you are a delight. Thank you for sharing.
there some one one out there for everyone . your human you have feeling .
Australian Capital Territory myself. But severe Traumatic Brain Injury, from a car accident, 38 years ago and 34 years, as a senior social worker. Like yourself, a colored man, capable, positive attitude. Did not have "high" standards.
Being married for the last 28 years now. Never been happier in my life.
Don't need don't have such high standards in any real person. Private living in a private life, is much more realistic.
Just remember, the wheelchair should not nor should you allow it to define you. You are not “that guy in the wheelchair, you know”, you’re “oh that guy, he’s a teacher, and he’s known for making videos on TH-cam. And not that this matters, he happens to be in a wheelchair.” First and foremost, you’re human just like the rest of us. Secondly, it should not matter you being in a chair or not. If someone is going to love you, they should love the person, not what surrounds the person. Now, granite, it takes a lil extra to be with someone who needs a little help from time to time, but you seem very independent, and perhaps its cause you’re younger and as you’ve stated a bit fit prior to your situation, but through your videos its clear you strive for independence. Keep moving forward and before you know it…the right person will come into your life, I only hope when that happens you will see it and not let it go. And work at it just as the other person will have to do. Good luck to you and your future. I know it will happen, cause it did for my father. Also, check out ‘Roll with Cole & Charisma” he too is a quad and the two of them found love.
These are great. I learned so much from you. You're great.
Thanks for watching!!
@@coreyaustin14 Nah, thank you for being so brave and honest. I really learned so much and you answered questions I had as well as some I did not even know I had. lol
Corey I think you are more of a man than ALOT of men out there...N heck yeah.. don't settle for anyone...becuz at the end of it all .it's ur happiness that matters.....keep us updated...💜Vickie
I don't how this video popped up on my feed, but I have to say that your very inspirational. You have been through a lot, you're a strong person, humble, became a teacher..that's pretty big!! What subject do you teach? What grade?
I've dated a guy in a chair. It truly was never a factor for me. People were annoying when we out though. Lol. Chair, no chair, dating sucks.
You’re cute af
Wow never had teachers like you when I was dating you are gorgeous x
Hey Corey, if I were younger I would like to date you. You are a good looking young man and I hope you find someone who can appreciate who you are.
New subscriber! Good Luck Love!💖
No!! Don't ever settle 😊🙌🏽🙌🏽 you should have high standards!!
Where have you gone? Haven’t seen a video in a couple years.
I moved to Hawai'i and COVID. Project #3 coming. Mahalo for watching!
love your videos
You are one SUPER positive roll model..... :)
where are you?
Your awesome 😉
Check out Cole and Charisma 'a website on YT. Roll with Cole and Charisma. They speak candidly about their relationship and its challenges and rewards.
Yea dating life having MS I think most people think I'm drunk. Lol but the fact of the matter I dont drink. In my early 20's. A lot of my friends met on Tinder lol they are married. No dating apps for me
hugs hugs
I’m here in 2023 and am wondering if you found your lady or not yet?
about time is been a year with no videos
Well your handsome and have an awesome spirit keep it up
You are so handsome , I would like to get to know you
Going to hell and back and all the things you’ve learned and had to learn along the way means you are far more mature than many men and women your age. There are women/men out there who need to match your maturity. Be picky!! Keep to your standards…you know yourself better because of what you’ve been through and all you’ve achieved..there are people out there who can match your standards…
Is there a website for wheelchair people that wanna date?!!
👍👍👍👍
I’m in a wheelchair I get what you mean mate
😭😭
I love how everybody says dont lower your standards. I swear these 2/10 women really think they all deserve a 10/10 man. Theyll be lonely forever. Invest in cat food
I think you're so charming 🤗
Did you meet anyone yet? I hope so
could people like us in wheelchair"s could we date people or get marry ot date normal people that's my question
Absolutely! It took me a while to realize but we all have value and can offer so much beyond what is physical. Granted, I do feel bad not being able to help with moving and other physical things lol.
Yes, Please check out "roll with Cole and Charisma" here on TH-cam. They are an interabled couple, Cole is a quadriplegic while Charisma is an OT.
you are my type of very good looking mashallah
Are you able to have intercourse? Maybe sensitife topic but worth knowing for educational reasons.
his instagram?
If people treat you any differently then there the ones with an issue. If you were Gay and I was single I would date you
May i know your ethnicity?
🇵🇭🇯🇵
Hello kabayan, thank you for sharing your life story
Marry a Christian that actually loves Jesus Christ that is a virgin so she knows only God and you (and not another man in a sexual way). Love should start in courtship, not in bed.
What the f@ck? First off who the hell are you to come on here telling him to marry a virgin? What if he isn't a virgin? Also What if he isn't christian? Do not tell others who they should marry it isn't your business. ugh. Were you a virgin when you married your virgin wife? Was your wife a virgin? how did you know? did you forcibly check? What if the girl was r@ped? would you tell him not to marry her cause technically she isn't a virgin anymore. See this is why you should keep your mouth shut, cause you know nothing.
you are so cute
Why not try meeting a girl where you, ... go... all the time, I'm sure, ... you go somewhere, to buy, something you like,... something.... you like... a coffee, place, ... a market... a library... idk.. your young.. good luck
Baby let me tell you when I was younger I’m 47 yrs old now but when I was a younger that’s almost all I went with I didn’t know why but I did 🤷♀️but I learned that just cus you’re in that chair don’t mean nothing trust me 😀😀😀😀cus just know I know 💋💋💋
You so cute hey
Wish you were gay! You're adorable
Why wouldn’t you date a guy?
Because he wants a girl!