I'm 25 years old, and I'm a truck driver. Here's the observation I made being isolated from society: most people you see in a public area you'll never see again, no one cares about you. Go to an airport or a Walmart. And just sit and observe. Look at the "diversity" of clothing and types of phones and apparel people wear. It's not a lot. Especially in the college/high-school age, you look at a group of young girls or men and they all have similar tastes or interests that makes them friends. It's sort of saddening when you realize it. Then you see kids and moms and dad's and the chaos of the airport or mall you're in and just think, no one around you will ever see you again, so what's the point of trying so hard to buy the newest phone or clothes when everyone else is trying to do the same as you. No one cares, unless you actively interrupt their day to seek human connections and even that today is limited because of technology. Just keep it simple and quiet and you'll realize life really isn't that hard. Repetition is boring yes, but chaotic random events always happening is tiring as well. You ain't going to bring anything with you when you're dead, so blessings to everyone who read all of this.
Well written comment , just gave it a thumbs up . I’m seventy five , still do a bit of work and apart from family have little in the way of social interaction . Have to say it suits me . Takes off a lot of pressure not having to keep yourself in the loop of what’s going on ,or meeting up with people and having to find things to brag about .🇬🇧
Hear! Hear! I’m 58 turning 59 female. Kids are grown-ups now. I find joy being in the backyard feeding birds and enjoying my trees and flowers. I live the moment. Life is fleeting. Enjoy your moments now. ❤❤❤ And please be kind.
@@CARACAS1 Don’t know if it’s me or the other poster you’re asking. I did a video about my life and why I now own very little. th-cam.com/video/cG7TFFPiRsU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=vU5UBZxFMmu0OEJA My outgoings aren’t typical for a pensioner, because 70% of my income goes on rent alone. I have a state pension and a very small private pension, less than £200 per month. I don’t qualify for any benefits, so I’m paying exactly what anyone working would pay, but on approx £13k a year. It’s tight, very tight, but it can be done. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone younger who wants an active lifestyle.
@@primalengland thanks for your prompt reply and encouraging words. Are you saying that your total combined income from both pensións is €13000? And your expenses include rent, medical insurance, and food? Wao I need to learn abour being a better consumer; I do too want to become a minimalist. Definitely, being happy doesn't require having all we want but what we need.
I'm British, left the UK to live/teach in Burma about 22 years ago. When i the UK I had 2 big cars, 2 big houses, bank loans, credit card debts, and every kind of consumer item that you can think of! Now in my 60's, I have lived with the minimal of consumer items for years. Only my laptop and internet for entertainment and teaching online. I have zero debts. I rent a simple house hear to a beautiful beach in Thailand. I have an old Mazda car that has what I need in a car (1 engine and 4 wheels). I am totally at peace with my cheap and slow life :)
I have an old Mazda Lightbulb I bought from Woolies in Leeds 22 years ago and it's still going strong : ) As a kid...daddy wouldn't buy me a Bow Wow...greedy sod...so now got my own doggo (Jeffery)
I manged to quit smoking 11 years ago. I used alcohol and drugs for 30 years, for the past 2 years I was an alcoholic. I am sober now. Next will be consumerism! Thanks 👍
use something else to bring yourself joy; something you used to enjoy. An Instrument, a Paint Brush, a Pen, a Spanner, whatever's your thing. Congrats on being sober, a clear demonstration that change is always possible :)
62 year old here. Retired from the NHS a year ago. Best thing I've ever done. My partner is on long-term sick. I love a simple life. I want to spend as much time with those I love including my cats and the hedgehogs who frequent my garden. We make do and mend, I make my own clothes, we grow veg which get processed into sauces. A simple life allows you to see the beauty of the world.
I choose to spend hardly any money so as a 57 year old I can work less. Having freedom and time to do my interests is better than spending money. I create my own path, create my own entertainment and create my own interests. Peace & love!
64 retired and far from being well off. But my money goes to adding to my silver buying or stocking up on long term food items or items I will use over the course of time. My hobby is and has been lifting weights and for the past 6 years at home on my patio in Florida. No wasting money on gym memberships or gas and wear and tear. My life would be considered boring to many but after a career in construction,I like doing nothing after my morning workouts. And I don't waste money.
@@Oldschoolrules123This is the way. Just simply live, its a blessing to be alive no need to stress ourself out with self improvement crap or always striving for something "better"
@@Oldschoolrules123 I agree, i set up a home gym 30 years ago. About the cost of one years gym membership. Dumbbells' will last forever. I love weight training. Gotta watch your joints and tendons tho. Then a free walk in the forest if you have one nearby! Simple living..high thinking!
We are sold the lie that success is measured by the accumulation of material things. Have little, want for little and have gratitude for what you do have. Gratitude is the key to happiness.
I found peace by being alone in nature. Humans are such a let down. Nature, exercise and a cuppa will do me until my end comes. Peace and happiness ❤to all.
People are a lovely source of hugs and laughs as well as being half-crazy horrible creatures. Each of us has a ridiculously broad and deep nature. We have to discover who we are through the process of living, that's a very tricky thing, self-awareness is weird. No one but another person can really understand what you're going through. We need each other. More time alone in nature would do us good though, and it'd help society through quiet reflection. Nature has a way of revealing answers through symbols, kinda like magic. Really makes me wonder about the gaia idea, that the planet is a super sentience. Maybe the entire universe is a sentient being, don't know, feels like it sometimes, but a benevolent trickster, presents winding paths.
I just started running at 53. I get out and my eyes see, my ears hear the birds and the wind in the trees, I taste the air, feel the rain on my face…….people smile, I smile. Never been happier. I need to sell my belongings, I’m away in 3 years……retiring, travelling cheaply and running where I visit to interact with people. Life is for living, not buying then dying.
I trail run nearly everyday. People always comment on how relaxed and unstressed I am. It’s because not only am I doing such a healthy activity but I’m out in nature listening to the birds and noticing all the beautiful wildflowers that come and go through the seasons
@@majinsaiyan8255 I used to run marathons years ago, and always mention how much a high I got as the endorphins kicked in after about 5 minutes. That and running through forest tracks and over rolling hills was the best feeling ever.
That is so true, I’m 75 y.o. and have been a collector all my life, I loved my hobbies, music and my movie collection, but in 2007 my home was burgled while I was at work, and so much was stolen the best of everything I had, including the cream of my 1960s and 70s record collection. The worst part was that I knew who broke into my house, an aquaintance who I thought was a friend that I had met 9 months before, I will never trust anyone again, that caused me so much unhappiness and stress, and many sleepless nights, after giving the police my statement they agreed that it most probably was him but without solid evidence could do nothing. The police got two good fingerprints from the window frame but no match in the database, so my friend the thief got away with his crime and all my treasured possessions that he stole, I will always hate that mongrel. 😠
Me too! Funny thing that there’s a whole world full of people just like us. We’re just on a rock revolving surrounded by a billion stars. Peace and good health to you.
Hey there you fit in with you so don't worry about fitting in with humans I've found many different types people out there.your a child of the universe the sun the stars the world is happy your here
If you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious. If you live in the present, you're at peace." Fuck, man. Spot on.
Finally discovered this key to a peaceful life in my fifties…I can’t be angry with myself though, 20 year old me shopping at the mall wouldn’t have understood. Better late than never!😄
I've struggled with neurological issues all my life, now in my 50's. I adopt more and more of these practices, as I now know what makes me well, not "happy" but calm, content, neither up or down. Being a radical thinker since my teens, early adopter of greener living, I was aware of all of this, I just didn't realise how much it impacted my mental wellbeing. I've acquired a lot of audio gear and associated tools over the years, vinyl etc. I'm living in a much smaller space now, slowly getting rid of most of this excess material baggage. It gives me more time space and limited resources to put into what I actually need, to live and still engage in audio experimental practice.
@@stuartchapman5171 i am in the process of downsizing and decluttering my life as a just turned fifty female with 3 grown up daughters so i can live my latter years relative stress free wish me luck lol px
Just found your channel it is an oasis of sanity I'm 57 soon and find all I need is my music a good book to read a bike to ride in the fields and lanes where I live and I've never been happier.
I'm 60. I started working when I was 12 on a dairy farm before and after school, on the weekends, and during the summers. I've always been a hard worker and often had more than one job. I've worked at the same place for 17 years. I'm part of the executive team. I've given so much of myself to my job over the years. I've worked long days, weekends, missed family events. I am very frugal and have saved most of my life so financially I'm prepared for retirement. I have fantasized about buying land in a remote area and building a cabin to retire to and live off grid. I want a more simple life. Watching videos like yours helps me understand that what I've yearned for isn't so radical or far fetched. I just need to do it. It's not easy to give up the security of my job and make such a big change to my lifestyle but the reality is that at my age I may only have another 20 healthy years left. Maybe a little more if I'm lucky but time is marching on. I think I'm going to start planning my exit strategy to start the next chapter of my life. Thanks for the video. I just subscribed. USA / Pennsylvania here.
The planning laws in England make it near impossible to just buy land and build a cabin to live off grid in. That would be my dream also but the uk government obviously doesn't want citizens living in that manner and consuming less and paying less taxes. You should go for it! And be grateful you live somewhere that allows people that level of freedom.
I worked in nursing/residential homes for quite some years. What I noticed was what elderly people brought with them - their most important possessions were family photos, trinkets from occasions past, medals and letters and liitle personal ornaments and treasured letters from those they love. While they lived their lives working saving and payng mortgages and bills and transport their precious memories were those of family occasions and loved ones. This made me think we should work more at more time with those we love ❤
I retired early at 59 when I lost my job and decided to take my pensions, I'm yet to draw my national state pension which comes in 3 years but one thing I realised was that I no longer have to answer to anyone. When I was working I needed the money to pay the mortgage and bills etc so had to listen to the shite that was being preached to me by my bosses, thankfully this is no longer and I don't miss those days. As you rightly said consumerism is what todays life is all about, they want every penny off you irrespective of the morals behind it. Thank you Nigel you earned my sub.
Thanks so much for the sub. I really felt the pressure lift when I retired. Everything I do, and whenever I do it is my decision and mine alone. It’s a great feeling.
I play a game everyday where I try to resist buying anything. It works, and it makes me mindful of that urge and slowly the urge goes away. I’ve also given up alcohol, gone vegan, and I feel like I have so little in common with people I see day to day. But it all feels right.
In my younger days, I was a minimalist and frugal. I only bought things I needed and spent my free time hiking and mountain biking. I was happy. Now that I'm much older and unable to be as physical as before, I've been going thrifting buying things I don't need. I realise today that I'm simply trying to fill a void when I'm feeling restless. Now, I will remind myself everyday that I have all the material neccessities, and to fill my time by enjoying the outdoors again. I hope I can find contentment again by living simply.
I sometimes visit my local churchground (a very old site, been a Christian worship site for 1500 years) to pray when the church is closed. Its free and I love it.Thanks for making this video.
I’m 71 years old and have been living a slower, simpler life for 20 years and describe it by saying that this period of less has given me the most happiness and peace of my life. The thing which is difficult is watching others spend to the point of discomfort and then further complicating their life by needing to expand income to cover their fanciful purchases. My rule is to consider whether a pricey purchase is a ‘tool’ or ‘toy’. Tools create benefits, toys create burdens.
I have been struggling. I am on the outside of society on many things but spending, the rush I get from it is an issue and difficult to break. Spending is something I struggle with… shopping, finding bargains, getting something new is aligned to natural processes of seeking, gathering, finding and the natural chemical release that says well done survival needs met… except these days it’s misdirected to consumerism. Thank you for framing it as an addictive issue to overcome day by day, until such time as one is clear of that way of living. That is a good way of viewing it, each day trying to be clean. I know if I could finally break the cycle I would have a happier and simpler life. I am so outside, I am nearly there…
The trouble is, society tells us to spend, that spending is virtuous. You are battling on several fronts if you try to be a bit more frugal. I now tend to question if I need to shop whenever the urge takes me, even for food shopping. I usually have enough in as it is. I also distract myself with one or other pastimes until the urge goes, because I think that the urge to spend is transient, it comes and goes with increasing and decreasing of chemicals in our brain. For me, it will just go naturally, given enough time. I also get a buzz if I’ve got to the end of the day without spending, especially if there were times in the day when I’d considered splashing out.
I finally came the same conclusions as you. Entering my 70's with very few "wants". Clearing out the house of "stuff". I don't need it. Seeking out the best places to walk my elder dog and enjoying his happiness.
The sense of triumph in managing not to spend or waste money is a real buzz. I'm retired and almost housebound (I can't go out without assistance) and I find it immensely satisfying tracking down bargains online both for myself and others. It requires a lot of patience to search and wait for the best deal. I have no problem clicking away from temptation.....that's the buzz!
@@caterthun4853 My mother was born in 1917 . She was the daughter of Polish immigrants off the boat through Ellis Island . She grew up in poverty among 5 siblings . She joined The United States Women’s Army Air Corps when WWII broke out . She shared how her standards of living went UP enlisting in the US Army ! New clothes , hot showers , 3 delicious meals a day ! I was born in 1960 . Now I got debt free in 2010 , and after that my 33 year marriage ended surprisingly to me . I was basically homeless and broke . In the last 13 years I got to rebuild my life and God replaced everything . Then two years ago I had a series of spinal fusions ; I can’t work . At 64 I go for walks , try to work out and ride a bicycle . I enjoy learning how to cook , and go “ window shopping “ like my Mom taught me in the 1960’s … Peace ☮️
An adaption from Thoreau (in modern parlance)" we work hard in jobs we hate, to buy things we don't want, to impress people we don't like" these are very wise words from this gentleman. Great video Sir!!
We live in the matrix or we live in a hippy commune. We need a job, a car , house, lots of stuff to get through in a comfortable way. Keeping up with the JONESES is crap. YOU DO YOU ! Keeping it simple, watching your health and treating all living creatures with respect….we’re essentially here to learn stuff for the soul and provide some light for humanity.🎉
By the time you are this man's age, you don't need much. My elderly neighbor hasn't been to a movie a fine restaurant a casino or a theme park in 14 years. He is wealthy enough to engage in these activities but he has found that he doesn't need these activities. Sometimes lesser is more.
I have always been a saver. Not a spender. Life has a way of messing that up from time to time. Such as uncontrollable events, medical, divorce, death, and job loss. I have been debt free for a couple of years, and it is great. I can count on one hand the number of times I've bought from Amazon, and I still have way too much stuff. I believe people do not understand how to be content. Shop too much, eat too much, and even say too much. Less is more. My favorite saying " I've got plenty of nothing, and that's plenty for me!
Always lived a very simple life. As the saying goes..."you can't take it with you when you die"....Sadly as I age I noticed people of wealth that I know, look down on you if you don't have the mansion and the new car. And I noticed I am much happier then they are. So cheer's to those of us who are happy with just waking up in the morning to a brand new day!
I’m in the US and this was a great video. I have been researching minimalism for a while now. Cutting back and not spending is hard. It’s a real addiction and we have been programmed to spend. Then we have to work more to earn more to give it right back to the large corporations. It’s time to end the cycle.
Too many folks spend money they haven’t earned to buy things they don’t want so as to impress people they don’t like, who ultimately don't care about the things.
I know a couple who are minimalist, and never have i known such happy people, the things they have you can count on one hand, they have seven framed photo's, even the kitchen is just two forks, two knives, two mugs, kettle, and the bedroom is just a bed and side table (nothing on it)!! they have no clutter, nothing! Just two arm chairs, they never go out socialising, and sit quietly in the afternoon listening to a audio story on the wireless, they always say "Jesus will give you what you need, not what you want". They moved into a sheltered housing scheme 3 years ago, and they had just five boxes to move! i can honestly say i envy them, they lead such a simplistic life in this 'i must have'/'rush about' society, The things they do have they look after and appreciate the things they have.
I discovered minimalism at the age of 38, and spent 6 months going through everything I owned; clothes, books, CDs, dvds, nick-nacks, sold or donated so much, and probably got rid of about 75% of my possessions, it felt like an immediate weight off my shoulders, it felt amazing, and I’m now very, very intentional with anything I buy. My only indulgence is records, but I don’t want a lot of these either, just a small, curated collection. I have a progressive health condition, so having fewer things to clean, organise, and move is perfect for me, I’ll never go back to wanting and buying so much, even if I could afford to do that, it’s such a relief, mentally, to not be caught up in the hyper consumerist life style that is so predominant in today’s society, less is definitely more, it’s also very peaceful.
we have been conditioned to be locusts ,eating up everything on this planet and when its all gone each other and as we get older we have no choice but to slow down as we fall to bits.
A ridiculously evil game that’s almost ruined my life. I’m a devout Catholic. You might not share my beliefs but I without doubt believe God has put your video in my path. God bless you for your wisdom! Thanks for making it.
I didn't know the way I live my life was a thing... I'm 63 I'm disabled and wheelchair bound I was told I'd be dead by 50 but with meds and a pacemaker here I still am living my slow life and WHAT stress levels I don't feel the need to buy stuff so people who don't really care about me are impressed by my "On trend" purchases.... For everyone out there Slow living is less stress less worry more doing what you want at the "Speed" you want... Respect to you all... Peace
Through my life I remember all of this 'One upmanship' when living on a modern estate and everyone wants to be the best, everyone is getting stressed because old Joe Bloggs has got the bigest and newest car or latest plastic windows, why do we do that to ourselves it's so much better to be content with what you have and make the most of it, I like being older it's so satisfying to have loads of time to feel free. Enjoy your life.
I did a video about the benefits of living a less materialistic lifestyle if everything goes bottom up. I know quite a few people whose lives are pretty precarious because they are keeping up with their friends and neighbours.
Completely with you, mate! Retired but now a handyman, and volunteer counsellor (don’t charge for that). 68, have only what I need. Very fit & healthy, no meds. Cannot watch adverts… brainwashing. If I need, I research. Never buy ‘recommended’ or advertised, I end up with only what I need and the quality I want. You’re spot on. Shane most people don’t know about this.
100% - I’m amazed at the size of houses in some countries, so utterly pointless, tying up all of your money in property, forcing you to work more hours for more years, all of the extra cleaning and maintenance - awful! It’s crazy how many people have guest rooms too when they might have people to stay once or twice a year 🤣
I and my wife are seriously thinking about living in a campervan. We sit in the same chairs, sleep in the same bet, shower in the same shower, cook in the same kitchen and have been cutting down our belongings to the bar minimum. There was so much unused clutter. The rest of the house is just unused space that we pass through to get to our seat, small kitchen, bathroom and bed. The more I think about it the more I find that unused space pointless.
Thanks for your "fabulous" insight once again. I learned a life lesson over twenty years ago, that the thrill of buying new, or even slightly used things, served a very legitimate purpose. Sadly, it was filling a large void of being in a sad marriage. As I looked back, I had no idea at the time, that was what I was doing. Through the years, downsizing and simplifying, again and again, I have come to a happy medium. I can live slow, simple and small, but I do love my things around me, my sweet cat, my plants and photographs, and some necessary creature comforts. This is how I found my peace, that I had lost for a while. Be well.
Your life sounds just about right, Dori. We can never live a perfect life, because the outside world will always insist on poking its nose in. But good enough is good enough. ❤
One of the most honest and wise monologues I've listened to on TH-cam. It is such a liberated feeling when you stop being influenced to buy 'things' . Shopping gives people a dopamine hit, so it does take some self discipline and self talk to reduce and stop, just like any other addiction.
I’m recently retired, early 60s.. completely debt free.. own my home in the country, my car, no credit cards.., just me and my cat. ~ I don’t buy much anymore. Well stocked in everything. I walk daily, play piano, read books.. and have a few close friends. ~ I’ve earned what I have. I’m grateful, happy, and content. My next chapter will be volunteering.. but not sure just where or how yet.
As an artist I always tell people who say I have no talent for art that this will always be true for you because nothing in life is easy. You need to commit to yourself to live a happy and fulfilling life.
Absolutely! Life is about individuality, not appeasement. I uploaded a video a couple of weeks ago about how society tries to put us into boxes. You are you, and have an obligation to commit to yourself. I don’t think you can ever reach true peace until you do.
The trouble with telling folks that nothing is easy is that they won't even try to start because they are fearful of failure. I would say that everyone is an artist, there is no right or wrong way to draw. Find a way to make marks that please *you* - copy/doodle/scribble - then just go for it. If you want realistic images take up photography (another form of art 👍), if you want to draw pick up a pen (pencils work too 😉). Namaste 🙏.
@@Pooky-Cat I used to have a photography website where I sold prints. I was also an average charcoal dabbler. Both my children are art teachers, as was my father and sister in law. I kind of think I got a bit of a leg-up, coming g from such an eclectically creative bunch of hippies. Probably made it easier for me to take up this lifestyle. I also had a dad who indulged my love of nature. That’s why I ended up at 17 living in a cottage in the middle of a wood, rather than going to teacher training college, like the rest of my tribe.
@@primalengland yes you were fortunate (and that was lucky for us viewers too). Encouraging people, of all ages, to express themselves through art should be a priority but sadly too many feel that if their creations are not 'picture perfect' then it's not worth pursuing. My other half calls my artsy endeavours "pis£ing about" which I find mildly discouraging, but I rise above it and carry on regardless. It pleases me and that's what counts.
Nigel, I think this is my favorite post of yours, so far! It IS a MAJOR "KEY ANSWER" to living our BEST life, in today's times!!!!!!! CHEERS MATE AND CARRY ON!!!!!!!🐺🙏✝️💙💯😇
Thank You so much for putting your thoughts out there. Here in the states, my wife and I can't convince people the delight in being more conscious of what we truly need.
You struck a chord for me today. I wish I had heard this wisdom 30 years ago. Actually, I wish I had *listened* when my elders were telling me basically the same thing 30 years ago, lol. I'm listening now! Thank you for sharing! Subscribed and liked! And appreciative!
I don’t think it’s very common for any individual to own more than one car. But everyone of driving age in a house does need their own car unfortunately. That’s why you see multiple cars in a drive way. Mom, dad, two kids, that’s four cars. Each person needs their own car for their own lives. Jobs, activities, school. It’s very unusual for anyone to be able to live without a car.
@@Runner466 That would be very unusual in the UK, and Europe in general. There is usually a max of two cars per household, and most have just one. One thing is the higher driving age of 17, and the much higher costs of fuel and driving costs in general. Driving is very expensive in Europe. No one, or very few people have cars at school or University. I think a major factor is that we in Europe have a walking and cycling culture. We’re jammed together in high density towns and cities and everything you need is usually within walking distance. Thing is, even though we have less cars per household, it feels like more because they are all packed into a smaller area. We also have good public transportation systems, but, to be honest, I don’t know many people who use it much. I’d like more space, but I’m lucky that I live in the North where we have areas like The Lake District and The Yorkshire Dales only an hour away.
@@primalengland oh right. I didn’t think about this video being more directed to Europe than the US. I have a friend from Italy and she lives in Detroit now. It drives her crazy how she can’t just walk to the store. The public transportation system in the US is crap. You have to drive everywhere. I had a job once. 3 miles from home. I wanted to take my bike. And I tried it a few times. But it quickly became apparent that riding my bike on those roads was a death wish. People drive like maniacs. No shoulders. Curvy roads. No sidewalks. You can’t walk or bike anywhere hardly.
@@Runner466 it’s not directed just at Europe. Just at anyone who’ll listen to my ramblings. I’d love to visit the US, but my travelling days are over. I’ve worked all over the world, but always wanted to go to visit friends who moved over to Chigago and Maine many years ago. They love their lives over there.
You have to be strong to embrace a simple life. I am at my happiest doing simple things at weekends, cooking a good meal, rather than spend £80 or more in a restaurant, not walking around a shopping mall, not chasing consumerism and so on but it is other people who can be the barrier. "Stop being boring" I get time and time again.
I’m still subscribed. I’m always watching. I don’t always comment, and I quit liking any videos on TH-cam because they keep a list if all the videos you’ve ever left a like on. I don’t like that. I love your videos and I’m happy to be here with you.
Agree. I have found having a goal for your money (paying of debt, special item/experiences to save up for) shifts the focus away from "unnecessary" spending to responsible savings with less pain in forming the new habit. After some success with the goal it can give a similar thrill as spending. When a goal or two have been met the perspective on money has changed for the positive. In the beginning it may be wise to keep this activity to yourself or share with an extremely select group till you have success to show that will help combat the critics. Thanks for the video.
I have a thing on my bank account, where a small amount, rounded up to the next pound, is transferred from my current to my savings account every time I use my card. I get a huge buzz when I get a message saying ‘You have saved £1.70 this month.’ 😊 It’s the small things.
The trill of saving at all levels is so great. It seems the world doesn't value small things anymore. The small things add up to medium things which end up as larger things. From the first step on a journey, finances, changing habits, starting hobbies. So much starts with just a small "unimportant" step.
A kindred soul across the pond. I downsized my life considerably a couple of years a0go, retired to a place that officially calls itself a city but is actually a rural village of 2,500. No traffic, no shopping malls, just a few small shops and eateries, 3 gas stations, a single library. Everything I need but no excess. I adore this quiet life, should have done it sooner ❤
There are two truths of life: 1) We never truly 'own' anything, we are merely temporary custodians until that inevitable event of death. 2) As an 'ordinary' person, everything you said, did, and achieved in life is essentially erased upon your death as you will be forgotten with a generation. Even high profile figures from history are eventually forgotten when we are no longer taught about their contributions. Life is short, death is long. Live an unapologetic existence.
Consumerism is fuelled by the ridiculous amount of adverts everywhere including TV. Every time I turn the TV on, the first thing I see is an advert. I have stopped watching TV, less brainwashing. I adopted the Slow life over 10 years ago when I was nearly made bankrupt. I am now debt free and lead a slow life, its so much less stressful.
Thank you for the video. I am totally lost in my life at the moment- lots of different kind of turbulences. And I am here- looking at you in the nature and feel at peace. Thank you
Thank you. Well done. Spot on. I will become a UK pensioner in 5 weeks time. I have lived in Mexico for 30 years. I have had pretty much no money coming in since just before the pandemic. So, living frugally, spending little or nothing, has become my norm. fortunately my wife has an income coming in, but still, we are not exactly wealthy. But we have simple and happy lives. So I completely support and applaud you, because I KNOW what you are talking about . . . all the very best . . .
I don't even have an Amazon account, I don't like anything about the company and I don't want to give them my money. I have to say my biggest expenditure is my dogs and I don't begrudge them a single, solitary penny.
Good talk - Our issue is when to cry “Uncle!” and replace an item - the fun part is, when we finally get to that point, it’s amazing the advancements that have been made in things! We are rather frugal, and it’s great! Retired w/ no debt - house/cars/etc. paid off (long ago…) and with financial and personal peace. Come on in, the water’s fine!
I've got your accent but live in Australia. Got rid of my car 25 years ago and now use a bike. Simplified all areas of life and I'm now debt-free and happy. Now I never look back - well, except just now, but you know what I mean. Lovely video mate, I've just subscribed, all the best from Oz.
Me too , Boltonian now in Canada. I long for the simple, innocent days of my youth. I gain peace from the forests and walking my dog. They will never know what they missed.
Nigel I’m absolutely with you on this and from the comments here I can see that most agree with you and have already embraced the concept , be it all mostly those of us who are in later life. We’ve all done it at some point in our lives , that constant want for something new, something better , the latest thing . I feel that many of us put off being happy because of the constant pressure of consumerism, the mantra is that you will achieve happiness if you can just get that new car or that new dress or the latest kitchen gadget etc it can become all consuming without realising it. I am at that stage of my life where I am desperately trying to get rid of “ Stuff “ and it can be hard letting go sometimes, my eyes were opened in 2018 when my dear mum died , she was the worlds worst hoarder even broken toasters and kettles were kept “ Just in case “ two weeks of sheer hell for my sister , myself and our husbands trying to sell it, donate it , move it or dump it , I will never forget it . Sorry this has turned into rather a longer comment than I meant to write, you are an amazing therapist Nigel. ❤
I love reading your comments, Linda. An end to the pressure of this mad consumerism would simply take us back to the world that I knew growing up. And that was a great time. Our parents had less spending power, but there seemed to be more emphasis on friends, family and community.
Im 53 and cleared my mortgage at 50 after spending my entire 40s trying to pay it off....no holidays..nothing,,10 years gone, but im glad i did it. I sold the house and relocated to the countryside. I work 18 hours a week now...I dont have a lot of money but i have enough.
Sadly that’s true, been there done that, but what is the alternative, if you want to progress in life you have to play the game, if you have nothing there is little chance of even finding a partner in life, that’s the reality unfortunately! 😏
Hi! You are quite right! Overconsumption is a real problem for our planet, even more wasting food is the other. I got the same simle goal for my retirement that you have now. Do not collect items, collect real friends and experience! The only thing is worth spendig is travelling to see the world! Cheers!
Got it in one Nigel! I think that this covers everything in your previous videos! I'm extremely happy and don't need more material things. I'm happy with the work I do, happy with all my kids, grands and great-grands. Life is wonderful - if only the troublemakers would leave us alone!!
Thank you, Ruth. I’ve got a lot of positive comments on this, and a couple of negative ones. Seems there are a lot of people out there looking to get off the treadmill.
Wise words. I struggle with the desire to buy "stuff" I don't really need, but usually managed to resist. Over recent years I've learned to get pleasure from simple things, like drinking coffee while watching fish swimming in the pond. Peace🙂
Good video Nigel , as you know I live on a boat, I have now downsized to a tiny 23 foot home which I adore , I only need to work three days a week now and I can spend my days painting my canal art and my boat I have very little freinds through choice and enjoy making my own entertainment, my only vice is visiting cafes for scones and jam, I have a strong interest in canal boat decoration and signwriting which I hope eventually will replace my decorating houses work as my back is failing me now
Brilliant and so true. I work in a charity shop and do occasionally treat myself to a second hand book or outfit but I try to never buy anything new. There are so many TH-cam channels dedicated to promoting consumerism. Even parents getting their children to try skincare products...so sad.😢 Children should be outside building their imagination and engaging with the world
I'm a 57yr old Staff Nurse. I seem to have hoarded a ton of crap and clutter. I've began to think about minimalist living, so to speak, and have tried to think 'where do I begin?'... And the bit about 'going on Amazon'... I thought 'bloody hell! That's me!...'. Although, to be honest, my wife has been telling me this for years. I thought it was just me thinking like this... Dragged down by consumerism. Getting sucked in and dragged along by it. I started to take up keeping a journal and get into writing more. With a fountain pen. This simple step has reduced my phone screen time massively. Mobile phones are a curse. We don't own these devices. They own us... Anyway, you have motivated me by helping me believe that I'm doing the right thing here. Take care mate. Time spent with your dog is never time wasted! Subscribed and I'll follow your posts and videos. Simple advice and easy to watch... No shouting 'you NEED to do this!' like some videos... Peace and love . 👍
Honestly? One drawer at a time, one shelf at a time, one cupboard at a time 😊 even sorting one thing every day will stop the overwhelm but leave you feeling lighter and less encumbered.
I could not agree more! I've simplified my life and I have more peace. Used to be I rarely noticed the greening in the spring, the leaves and grass changing in the fall...so many things. Now that I live closer to nature I notice the little nuanced changes. I'm grateful for everything in my life. Nobody has it all...and since we can't make cookies from cat shit, I say make the best of what you do have. God bless!
Just bought a little 2 berth caravan - both nearly 60 and new to this but this will hopefully be our downtime in the slow lane. Did the minimalistic journey 3 years ago, not easy but my goodness well worth it. The purchases made are now with complete mindfulness and intent - if we can make do with what we have then why buy something else. From the UK 🇬🇧 if only the weather were as lovely more often as it appears in your video! Not sure why this video was recommended but a definite new sub here 👍
Things i enjoy most in life don't cost a lot of money. Exercise, reading, cooking, listening to music, watching a movie, art. Create a little bubble that is cheap to live in and enjoy being in that bubble. Take care everyone ❤
Sometimes spending less is not a choice it is a necessity. Love your videos always! I'm always watching out for Molly behind you! Bless her! ... and you! Peace and love! 😘
@primalengland I'm on a pension also here in Ontario Canada 🇨🇦. I am fortunate to have some investments that I have for future emergency needs . I have traveled a lot over my lifetime, raised my children into beautiful adults. I budget and live on needs only and simply put, live a slower life, volunteering, enjoying time with my friends, painting walking and enjoying nature! Not walking as much as you, Nigel! 😉👍✌️💕
I am almost there with the slow life...continually giving away my stuff and reevaluating.... if I have not worn it.... or put my hands on it.... or even need it.... every 6 months.....AND it is freeing. I cannot believe more people do not do this. In my community there are so many storage places that are already up or being put up for people to pay to store their "stuff"......in my mind it makes no sense!!
Nice ponderings. Used to housesit for some old hippies. Remote.No washing machine - plunger & bucket & clothesline = clean clothes. No breakdowns. Goes in closet. Skads of time, compost, stargaze. Careful of the bears. Lake to plate fishing. I love the people who shared their space - I honour them
Spend LESS, invest MORE. I don't live a consumer lifestyle, but I have no debt, an emergency fund, a paid for home, a good job, and a pension scheme. And on top of that, I am investing. Carry on like this, and I know that I will live well in retirement. I occasionally have a flutter on the Lottery, but I know that I would act VERY differently from the mainstream if I won! LOL.
I spent my younger years buying junk I did not need and I am spending my older years trying to get rid of all the junk. life is good when you don't have a house full of junk you don't need it is a big monkey off your back for sure. the more you know the less you need thank you for sharing wishing you the bast.
It’s always good to hear an elder’s prospective on life. You are so right on target that I’m sorry to say I have fallen into the trap and trying to dig out now. 64 years old and looking at a bleak future unless I get on top of this now. Thank you Sir for sharing your wisdom.
It’s never too late. I’m not much older than you, but in the last 5 years since I was forced to retire at 65 with cancer, I have started really appreciating the life I have taken for granted for decades. I thought that was just how life was, but now I’m understanding, from people’s comments, what a difference it makes when you unload all the surplus and just appreciate what’s around you.
It doesn't have to be a consumer driven life - in fact I enjoy being frugal, being creative, recycling etc. which for me, means less stress. I have become less social because its hard keeping up with it all, and meeting expectations ; no offense intended but I'm on a different path, and loving it. ( I sometimes get a bit of a laugh out of advertising, that tries to tell me that if I don't buy this product , I'm a loser 😂😂 )
I think one of the tricks is replacing things you want to stop doing with other activities, so that you don’t end up with empty space. Keeping occupied, I suppose. Give up shopping, replace with sky-diving. That sort of thing. 😊
Well said. Tell us more! Some take the high road, others take the low road, and both lead to the same end. The choice is yours. Take it, and don't delay! God bless 🙏
I have had so much push back to this video by people accusing me of extolling the virtues of austerity, whilst owning a camera. I’m not extolling the virtues of austerity, more just suggesting that it might be an idea to question your spending on things you don’t need when that habit may end up in debt. But like I always say. ‘You do you.’ 😊👍
I'm 25 years old, and I'm a truck driver. Here's the observation I made being isolated from society: most people you see in a public area you'll never see again, no one cares about you. Go to an airport or a Walmart. And just sit and observe. Look at the "diversity" of clothing and types of phones and apparel people wear. It's not a lot. Especially in the college/high-school age, you look at a group of young girls or men and they all have similar tastes or interests that makes them friends. It's sort of saddening when you realize it. Then you see kids and moms and dad's and the chaos of the airport or mall you're in and just think, no one around you will ever see you again, so what's the point of trying so hard to buy the newest phone or clothes when everyone else is trying to do the same as you. No one cares, unless you actively interrupt their day to seek human connections and even that today is limited because of technology. Just keep it simple and quiet and you'll realize life really isn't that hard. Repetition is boring yes, but chaotic random events always happening is tiring as well. You ain't going to bring anything with you when you're dead, so blessings to everyone who read all of this.
Well written comment , just gave it a thumbs up . I’m seventy five , still do a bit of work and apart from family have little in the way of social interaction . Have to say it suits me . Takes off a lot of pressure not having to keep yourself in the loop of what’s going on ,or meeting up with people and having to find things to brag about .🇬🇧
I totally agree. So refreshing to hear such wisdom from someone so young. God bless you, young man. 😁🙏❤️
@@barkershillIndeed! ❤
@@Leviticus112 A bleak, but accurate observation. You framed the whole issue perfectly. Thanks. 👍
Hear! Hear! I’m 58 turning 59 female. Kids are grown-ups now. I find joy being in the backyard feeding birds and enjoying my trees and flowers. I live the moment.
Life is fleeting. Enjoy your moments now. ❤❤❤
And please be kind.
At 86 years old the big surprise of my life has been how little money you need to have a happy retirement.
Absolutely spot on. I pay my bills, buy my food, treat myself to a good book every now and then. Oh! And the odd bottle of wine….. That’s me done.
thats nice to know. As long as i can preserve my health and keep my mental acuity, I'll be happy,
How much do you spend a month. Do you just have your pension income?
@@CARACAS1 Don’t know if it’s me or the other poster you’re asking. I did a video about my life and why I now own very little.
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My outgoings aren’t typical for a pensioner, because 70% of my income goes on rent alone. I have a state pension and a very small private pension, less than £200 per month. I don’t qualify for any benefits, so I’m paying exactly what anyone working would pay, but on approx £13k a year. It’s tight, very tight, but it can be done. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone younger who wants an active lifestyle.
@@primalengland thanks for your prompt reply and encouraging words. Are you saying that your total combined income from both pensións is €13000? And your expenses include rent, medical insurance, and food? Wao I need to learn abour being a better consumer; I do too want to become a minimalist. Definitely, being happy doesn't require having all we want but what we need.
I'm British, left the UK to live/teach in Burma about 22 years ago. When i the UK I had 2 big cars, 2 big houses, bank loans, credit card debts, and every kind of consumer item that you can think of! Now in my 60's, I have lived with the minimal of consumer items for years. Only my laptop and internet for entertainment and teaching online. I have zero debts. I rent a simple house hear to a beautiful beach in Thailand. I have an old Mazda car that has what I need in a car (1 engine and 4 wheels). I am totally at peace with my cheap and slow life :)
I love my Mazda. It’s 20 years old and I own it.
@@simonfrancisluttrell5818 Proof of the pudding, if needed. 👍
This shows you are smarter than most
I have an old Mazda Lightbulb I bought from Woolies in Leeds 22 years ago and it's still going strong : )
As a kid...daddy wouldn't buy me a Bow Wow...greedy sod...so now got my own doggo (Jeffery)
With Jesus I'm complete 😊
I manged to quit smoking 11 years ago. I used alcohol and drugs for 30 years, for the past 2 years I was an alcoholic.
I am sober now.
Next will be consumerism!
Thanks 👍
😎
use something else to bring yourself joy; something you used to enjoy. An Instrument, a Paint Brush, a Pen, a Spanner, whatever's your thing. Congrats on being sober, a clear demonstration that change is always possible :)
Nice one mate. 👍
Bless you on your health journey 🙏
Good luck to you, a day at a time, you can do it. Love yourself first and the world will find you. ❤
62 year old here. Retired from the NHS a year ago. Best thing I've ever done. My partner is on long-term sick. I love a simple life. I want to spend as much time with those I love including my cats and the hedgehogs who frequent my garden. We make do and mend, I make my own clothes, we grow veg which get processed into sauces. A simple life allows you to see the beauty of the world.
Did you find the NHS sucked? Speaking as a fellow employee
@animal79thecat I had a fabulous career until I'd had enough. The NHS is incredible and amazing people work there.
Says who? An owner of a house with a garden? You’re a millionaire literally
I choose to spend hardly any money so as a 57 year old I can work less. Having freedom and time to do my interests is better than spending money. I create my own path, create my own entertainment and create my own interests. Peace & love!
Working less, and then retirement is great, as long as you keep yourself occupied. I love it.
64 retired and far from being well off. But my money goes to adding to my silver buying or stocking up on long term food items or items I will use over the course of time. My hobby is and has been lifting weights and for the past 6 years at home on my patio in Florida. No wasting money on gym memberships or gas and wear and tear. My life would be considered boring to many but after a career in construction,I like doing nothing after my morning workouts. And I don't waste money.
@@Oldschoolrules123This is the way. Just simply live, its a blessing to be alive no need to stress ourself out with self improvement crap or always striving for something "better"
@@Oldschoolrules123 I agree, i set up a home gym 30 years ago. About the cost of one years gym membership. Dumbbells' will last forever. I love weight training. Gotta watch your joints and tendons tho. Then a free walk in the forest if you have one nearby! Simple living..high thinking!
@@rickyl9540 Due to injuring both biceps and rotator cuffs, I dropped the weight some and do higher reps. And to also save my joints. And it works.
We are sold the lie that success is measured by the accumulation of material things.
Have little, want for little and have gratitude for what you do have. Gratitude is the key to happiness.
True words.
I found peace by being alone in nature. Humans are such a let down. Nature, exercise and a cuppa will do me until my end comes. Peace and happiness ❤to all.
And peace and happiness to you, too. 😊
Its amazing we want the same but are blindsided by the media etc 😊
Same for me. Don't need anything more.
People are a lovely source of hugs and laughs as well as being half-crazy horrible creatures. Each of us has a ridiculously broad and deep nature. We have to discover who we are through the process of living, that's a very tricky thing, self-awareness is weird. No one but another person can really understand what you're going through. We need each other. More time alone in nature would do us good though, and it'd help society through quiet reflection. Nature has a way of revealing answers through symbols, kinda like magic. Really makes me wonder about the gaia idea, that the planet is a super sentience. Maybe the entire universe is a sentient being, don't know, feels like it sometimes, but a benevolent trickster, presents winding paths.
@@HoboGardenerBen may the Lotd reveal himself to u.❤️
I just started running at 53. I get out and my eyes see, my ears hear the birds and the wind in the trees, I taste the air, feel the rain on my face…….people smile, I smile. Never been happier.
I need to sell my belongings, I’m away in 3 years……retiring, travelling cheaply and running where I visit to interact with people.
Life is for living, not buying then dying.
You sound like you’re going to have a great future. Go for it. 👍
I trail run nearly everyday. People always comment on how relaxed and unstressed I am. It’s because not only am I doing such a healthy activity but I’m out in nature listening to the birds and noticing all the beautiful wildflowers that come and go through the seasons
@@majinsaiyan8255 I used to run marathons years ago, and always mention how much a high I got as the endorphins kicked in after about 5 minutes. That and running through forest tracks and over rolling hills was the best feeling ever.
@@majinsaiyan8255... Nice in the countryside, but not so much in suburbia! 😏
In the words of Seasick Steve
' I started out with nothing and I've still got most of it left ' ❤❤❤
Steve's now a multimillionaire!!
“The less you buy,the more you live”.
Yes. 😊
LOVE this!
That's a good one
That is so true, I’m 75 y.o. and have been a collector all my life, I loved my hobbies, music and my movie collection, but in 2007 my home was burgled while I was at work, and so much was stolen the best of everything I had, including the cream of my 1960s and 70s record collection.
The worst part was that I knew who broke into my house, an aquaintance who I thought was a friend that I had met 9 months before, I will never trust anyone again, that caused me so much unhappiness and stress, and many sleepless nights, after giving the police my statement they agreed that it most probably was him but without solid evidence could do nothing.
The police got two good fingerprints from the window frame but no match in the database, so my friend the thief got away with his crime and all my treasured possessions that he stole, I will always hate that mongrel. 😠
If that is not an anti-capitalism message - what is?
“The secret to happiness isn’t having what you want but learning to want what you have”
I have never fitted in anywhere. I am 66 years old now, I now feel comfortable not fitting in. It's quite liberating.
Me too! Funny thing that there’s a whole world full of people just like us. We’re just on a rock revolving surrounded by a billion stars. Peace and good health to you.
Course it is, because you are comfortable with yourself, and that’s what matters.
I agree
Hey there you fit in with you so don't worry about fitting in with humans I've found many different types people out there.your a child of the universe the sun the stars the world is happy your here
Good for you ..live long and happy..
If you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious. If you live in the present, you're at peace." Fuck, man. Spot on.
But tho art blessed compared with me,
The present only toucheth thee, …..
From “To A Mouse” by Robert Burns
Thats an excellent quote.
The internet also broadly seems to be in that catalegory of "the past"
Lao Tzu
I'm a minimalist for the reasons you mentioned, but also it is a quiet protest against consumerism.
Keep the protest going. You are doing good work.
Agreed, hyper consumerism disgusts me.
Love of nature is a healer
Finally discovered this key to a peaceful life in my fifties…I can’t be angry with myself though, 20 year old me shopping at the mall wouldn’t have understood. Better late than never!😄
Never too late. I think that the older you are, the more you appreciate the benefits.
I've struggled with neurological issues all my life, now in my 50's.
I adopt more and more of these practices, as I now know what makes me well, not "happy" but calm, content, neither up or down.
Being a radical thinker since my teens, early adopter of greener living, I was aware of all of this, I just didn't realise how much it impacted my mental wellbeing.
I've acquired a lot of audio gear and associated tools over the years, vinyl etc. I'm living in a much smaller space now, slowly getting rid of most of this excess material baggage. It gives me more time space and limited resources to put into what I actually need, to live and still engage in audio experimental practice.
@@stuartchapman5171 You seem to have got it sorted. Find what works for you, and then follow your intuitions. Good for you.
@@stuartchapman5171 i am in the process of downsizing and decluttering my life as a just turned fifty female with 3 grown up daughters so i can live my latter years relative stress free wish me luck lol px
I've only discovered this because I've already bought everything I want. 😂😂
Just found your channel it is an oasis of sanity I'm 57 soon and find all I need is my music a good book to read a bike to ride in the fields and lanes where I live and I've never been happier.
Music feeds the soul, reading feeds the mind and cycling feeds the body. That’s about all bases covered.
I'm 60. I started working when I was 12 on a dairy farm before and after school, on the weekends, and during the summers. I've always been a hard worker and often had more than one job. I've worked at the same place for 17 years. I'm part of the executive team. I've given so much of myself to my job over the years. I've worked long days, weekends, missed family events. I am very frugal and have saved most of my life so financially I'm prepared for retirement. I have fantasized about buying land in a remote area and building a cabin to retire to and live off grid. I want a more simple life. Watching videos like yours helps me understand that what I've yearned for isn't so radical or far fetched. I just need to do it. It's not easy to give up the security of my job and make such a big change to my lifestyle but the reality is that at my age I may only have another 20 healthy years left. Maybe a little more if I'm lucky but time is marching on. I think I'm going to start planning my exit strategy to start the next chapter of my life. Thanks for the video. I just subscribed. USA / Pennsylvania here.
I thought that too I’m a very healthy 70 but spinal stenosis is aging me fast
The planning laws in England make it near impossible to just buy land and build a cabin to live off grid in. That would be my dream also but the uk government obviously doesn't want citizens living in that manner and consuming less and paying less taxes. You should go for it! And be grateful you live somewhere that allows people that level of freedom.
I worked in nursing/residential homes for quite some years. What I noticed was what elderly people brought with them - their most important possessions were family photos, trinkets from occasions past, medals and letters and liitle personal ornaments and treasured letters from those they love. While they lived their lives working saving and payng mortgages and bills and transport their precious memories were those of family occasions and loved ones. This made me think we should work more at more time with those we love ❤
That is true. We should spend more time with those we love. Not many of us do, and I think many of us live to regret it.
It's right you don't need a lot in life to be happy
I retired early at 59 when I lost my job and decided to take my pensions, I'm yet to draw my national state pension which comes in 3 years but one thing I realised was that I no longer have to answer to anyone. When I was working I needed the money to pay the mortgage and bills etc so had to listen to the shite that was being preached to me by my bosses, thankfully this is no longer and I don't miss those days. As you rightly said consumerism is what todays life is all about, they want every penny off you irrespective of the morals behind it. Thank you Nigel you earned my sub.
Thanks so much for the sub.
I really felt the pressure lift when I retired. Everything I do, and whenever I do it is my decision and mine alone. It’s a great feeling.
Yup! I totally agree with you. We’re too young to be old to get our state pension, yet too old to listen to workplace politics anymore.
I play a game everyday where I try to resist buying anything. It works, and it makes me mindful of that urge and slowly the urge goes away. I’ve also given up alcohol, gone vegan, and I feel like I have so little in common with people I see day to day. But it all feels right.
If it feels right, it is right. Like I always say, we only get one crack at this life.
In my younger days, I was a minimalist and frugal. I only bought things I needed and spent my free time hiking and mountain biking. I was happy. Now that I'm much older and unable to be as physical as before, I've been going thrifting buying things I don't need. I realise today that I'm simply trying to fill a void when I'm feeling restless. Now, I will remind myself everyday that I have all the material neccessities, and to fill my time by enjoying the outdoors again. I hope I can find contentment again by living simply.
I’m sure you will. Good luck.
@@primalenglandTry experimenting with gardening. It gives one a sense of joy and accomplishment. I hope you fill that void💪
I sometimes visit my local churchground (a very old site, been a Christian worship site for 1500 years) to pray when the church is closed. Its free and I love it.Thanks for making this video.
God bless you. I've always believed that prayers are a personal thing. I pray every day and have felt them heard in the solace of my own company
If it’s that old it was probably a Pagan site many Christian churches were built on them..
@0scartheCat it probably was, I knew that anyway. It's near a holy well, and those places tended to be pagan sites
I’m 71 years old and have been living a slower, simpler life for 20 years and describe it by saying that this period of less has given me the most happiness and peace of my life. The thing which is difficult is watching others spend to the point of discomfort and then further complicating their life by needing to expand income to cover their fanciful purchases. My rule is to consider whether a pricey purchase is a ‘tool’ or ‘toy’. Tools create benefits, toys create burdens.
That’s a great way of looking at it.
I have been struggling.
I am on the outside of society on many things but spending, the rush I get from it is an issue and difficult to break.
Spending is something I struggle with… shopping, finding bargains, getting something new is aligned to natural processes of seeking, gathering, finding and the natural chemical release that says well done survival needs met… except these days it’s misdirected to consumerism.
Thank you for framing it as an addictive issue to overcome day by day, until such time as one is clear of that way of living. That is a good way of viewing it, each day trying to be clean.
I know if I could finally break the cycle I would have a happier and simpler life.
I am so outside, I am nearly there…
The trouble is, society tells us to spend, that spending is virtuous. You are battling on several fronts if you try to be a bit more frugal. I now tend to question if I need to shop whenever the urge takes me, even for food shopping. I usually have enough in as it is. I also distract myself with one or other pastimes until the urge goes, because I think that the urge to spend is transient, it comes and goes with increasing and decreasing of chemicals in our brain. For me, it will just go naturally, given enough time.
I also get a buzz if I’ve got to the end of the day without spending, especially if there were times in the day when I’d considered splashing out.
I finally came the same conclusions as you. Entering my 70's with very few "wants". Clearing out the house of "stuff". I don't need it. Seeking out the best places to walk my elder dog and enjoying his happiness.
We seem to be thinking along the same lines. 😊
I treat it has a game not to spend money and that starts to get addictive and when you treat yourself you enjoy it more
Makes absolute sense, Mike.
The sense of triumph in managing not to spend or waste money is a real buzz. I'm retired and almost housebound (I can't go out without assistance) and I find it immensely satisfying tracking down bargains online both for myself and others. It requires a lot of patience to search and wait for the best deal. I have no problem clicking away from temptation.....that's the buzz!
I enjoy walking around shops looking at all the stuff I don't need
Happyness is within. I despise mindless consumerism, im happy i seen it as a young man. The best things in life are free 110%
@@caterthun4853
My mother was born in 1917 . She was the daughter of Polish immigrants off the boat through Ellis Island . She grew up in poverty among 5 siblings . She joined The United States Women’s Army Air Corps when WWII broke out . She shared how her standards of living went UP enlisting in the US Army ! New clothes , hot showers , 3 delicious meals a day ! I was born in 1960 . Now I got debt free in 2010 , and after that my 33 year marriage ended surprisingly to me . I was basically homeless and broke . In the last 13 years I got to rebuild my life and God replaced everything . Then two years ago I had a series of spinal fusions ; I can’t work . At 64 I go for walks , try to work out and ride a bicycle . I enjoy learning how to cook , and go
“ window shopping “ like my Mom taught me in the 1960’s …
Peace ☮️
An adaption from Thoreau (in modern parlance)" we work hard in jobs we hate, to buy things we don't want, to impress people we don't like" these are very wise words from this gentleman. Great video Sir!!
Thank you so much, Simon.
We live in the matrix or we live in a hippy commune. We need a job, a car , house, lots of stuff to get through in a comfortable way. Keeping up with the JONESES is crap. YOU DO YOU ! Keeping it simple, watching your health and treating all living creatures with respect….we’re essentially here to learn stuff for the soul and provide some light for humanity.🎉
By the time you are this man's age, you don't need much. My elderly neighbor hasn't been to a movie a fine restaurant a casino or a theme park in 14 years. He is wealthy enough to engage in these activities but he has found that he doesn't need these activities. Sometimes lesser is more.
I have always been a saver. Not a spender. Life has a way of messing that up from time to time. Such as uncontrollable events, medical, divorce, death, and job loss. I have been debt free for a couple of years, and it is great. I can count on one hand the number of times I've bought from Amazon, and I still have way too much stuff. I believe people do not understand how to be content. Shop too much, eat too much, and even say too much. Less is more. My favorite saying " I've got plenty of nothing, and that's plenty for me!
My motto is enough is plenty!
‘Say too much.’ That is so true. I don’t feel compelled to have conversations. I’m happy with my own thoughts.
@primalengland I am my own, best counsel.
@@ashleyanderson2859 Then you only have yourself to blame. 😊
@primalengland fewer voices in my head, too!!
Always lived a very simple life. As the saying goes..."you can't take it with you when you die"....Sadly as I age I noticed people of wealth that I know, look down on you if you don't have the mansion and the new car. And I noticed I am much happier then they are. So cheer's to those of us who are happy with just waking up in the morning to a brand new day!
I see that as well. People boasting about their net worth. I say nothing. I just walk away with a smile on my face.
I herd a saying the other day “you never see a removal van following a hearse “ 😮
Brilliant!..❤❤
@@elizabethwebster3461no pockets in shrouds
Health is wealth . I totally agree with you
I’m in the US and this was a great video. I have been researching minimalism for a while now. Cutting back and not spending is hard. It’s a real addiction and we have been programmed to spend. Then we have to work more to earn more to give it right back to the large corporations. It’s time to end the cycle.
I don’t think it’s difficult, but does take a heck of a lot of willpower. It’s worth it in the end, though.
I realized this about 14 years ago after watching the documentary "The Corporation." That was all the motivation that I needed to become a minimalist.
Too many folks spend money they haven’t earned to buy things they don’t want so as to impress people they don’t like, who ultimately don't care about the things.
Your great! Thank you for this, Iam definately joining you
@@msafiri707 Thank you so much. 😊
I know a couple who are minimalist, and never have i known such happy people, the things they have you can count on one hand, they have seven framed photo's, even the kitchen is just two forks, two knives, two mugs, kettle, and the bedroom is just a bed and side table (nothing on it)!! they have no clutter, nothing! Just two arm chairs, they never go out socialising, and sit quietly in the afternoon listening to a audio story on the wireless, they always say "Jesus will give you what you need, not what you want". They moved into a sheltered housing scheme 3 years ago, and they had just five boxes to move! i can honestly say i envy them, they lead such a simplistic life in this 'i must have'/'rush about' society,
The things they do have they look after and appreciate the things they have.
It doesn’t suit everyone. In fact, I don’t think it suits that many people, but like you, I aspire to live like that.
Aloneness is beautiful.
I agree. 😊
I discovered minimalism at the age of 38, and spent 6 months going through everything I owned; clothes, books, CDs, dvds, nick-nacks, sold or donated so much, and probably got rid of about 75% of my possessions, it felt like an immediate weight off my shoulders, it felt amazing, and I’m now very, very intentional with anything I buy. My only indulgence is records, but I don’t want a lot of these either, just a small, curated collection. I have a progressive health condition, so having fewer things to clean, organise, and move is perfect for me, I’ll never go back to wanting and buying so much, even if I could afford to do that, it’s such a relief, mentally, to not be caught up in the hyper consumerist life style that is so predominant in today’s society, less is definitely more, it’s also very peaceful.
Your life absolutely mirrors my own. Right down to the progressive health condition. We both ‘get it.’ ❤️
we have been conditioned to be locusts ,eating up everything on this planet and when its all gone each other and as we get older we have no choice but to slow down as we fall to bits.
I started falling to bits at about 50, and I move slowly, but that’s ok, I’ve got nowhere in particular to go.
We are bombarded with advertising! Everybody wants our money! We must remember to protect ourselves and feed our souls. Awesome video! 👍😎🇨🇦 💰 💳 💷 💶
Very true, Marian. The pressure is relentless, and no one is bothered if we are driven into debt and stress. We must look after ourselves.
A ridiculously evil game that’s almost ruined my life. I’m a devout Catholic. You might not share my beliefs but I without doubt believe God has put your video in my path. God bless you for your wisdom! Thanks for making it.
I was thinking the same.
Your God is Google. 😅
I didn't know the way I live my life was a thing... I'm 63 I'm disabled and wheelchair bound I was told I'd be dead by 50 but with meds and a pacemaker here I still am living my slow life and WHAT stress levels I don't feel the need to buy stuff so people who don't really care about me are impressed by my "On trend" purchases.... For everyone out there Slow living is less stress less worry more doing what you want at the "Speed" you want... Respect to you all... Peace
I never knew I was living a slow life until I found out someone had put a name to it. I just thought it was what I did.
Through my life I remember all of this 'One upmanship' when living on a modern estate and everyone wants to be the best, everyone is getting stressed because old Joe Bloggs has got the bigest and newest car or latest plastic windows, why do we do that to ourselves it's so much better to be content with what you have and make the most of it, I like being older it's so satisfying to have loads of time to feel free. Enjoy your life.
I did a video about the benefits of living a less materialistic lifestyle if everything goes bottom up. I know quite a few people whose lives are pretty precarious because they are keeping up with their friends and neighbours.
Completely with you, mate!
Retired but now a handyman, and volunteer counsellor (don’t charge for that). 68, have only what I need. Very fit & healthy, no meds. Cannot watch adverts… brainwashing. If I need, I research. Never buy ‘recommended’ or advertised, I end up with only what I need and the quality I want.
You’re spot on. Shane most people don’t know about this.
And that’s one of the secrets of having money, spending on what you need rather than what you want.
Find the smallest place you can live in makes life simpler
100% - I’m amazed at the size of houses in some countries, so utterly pointless, tying up all of your money in property, forcing you to work more hours for more years, all of the extra cleaning and maintenance - awful! It’s crazy how many people have guest rooms too when they might have people to stay once or twice a year 🤣
Totally agree
I and my wife are seriously thinking about living in a campervan. We sit in the same chairs, sleep in the same bet, shower in the same shower, cook in the same kitchen and have been cutting down our belongings to the bar minimum. There was so much unused clutter. The rest of the house is just unused space that we pass through to get to our seat, small kitchen, bathroom and bed. The more I think about it the more I find that unused space pointless.
I took on allotment plot last year and it’s paid for itself tenfold. I have a simple shed and a poly tunnel on it’s my happy place.
My wife was against my minimalism idea until I proved a point. Now she's leading it😊
Thanks for your "fabulous" insight once again. I learned a life lesson over twenty years ago, that the thrill of buying new, or even slightly used things, served a very legitimate purpose. Sadly, it was filling a large void of being in a sad marriage. As I looked back, I had no idea at the time, that was what I was doing. Through the years, downsizing and simplifying, again and again, I have come to a happy medium. I can live slow, simple and small, but I do love my things around me, my sweet cat, my plants and photographs, and some necessary creature comforts. This is how I found my peace, that I had lost for a while. Be well.
Your life sounds just about right, Dori. We can never live a perfect life, because the outside world will always insist on poking its nose in. But good enough is good enough. ❤
@@primalengland 💚
One of the most honest and wise monologues I've listened to on TH-cam. It is such a liberated feeling when you stop being influenced to buy 'things' . Shopping gives people a dopamine hit, so it does take some self discipline and self talk to reduce and stop, just like any other addiction.
That is true, and when the dopamine hit wears off, you have to spend to get another high.
I’m recently retired, early 60s.. completely debt free.. own my home in the country, my car, no credit cards.., just me and my cat.
~ I don’t buy much anymore. Well stocked in everything. I walk daily, play piano, read books.. and have a few close friends.
~ I’ve earned what I have. I’m grateful, happy, and content.
My next chapter will be volunteering.. but not sure just where or how yet.
‘’Stick it where the sun don’t shine’’ ……. Perfect!!
I thought so. 😊
...and Thank You for creating this community Nigel!
Thank you. ❤️
As an artist I always tell people who say I have no talent for art that this will always be true for you because nothing in life is easy. You need to commit to yourself to live a happy and fulfilling life.
Absolutely! Life is about individuality, not appeasement. I uploaded a video a couple of weeks ago about how society tries to put us into boxes. You are you, and have an obligation to commit to yourself. I don’t think you can ever reach true peace until you do.
The trouble with telling folks that nothing is easy is that they won't even try to start because they are fearful of failure. I would say that everyone is an artist, there is no right or wrong way to draw. Find a way to make marks that please *you* - copy/doodle/scribble - then just go for it. If you want realistic images take up photography (another form of art 👍), if you want to draw pick up a pen (pencils work too 😉). Namaste 🙏.
@@Pooky-Cat I used to have a photography website where I sold prints. I was also an average charcoal dabbler. Both my children are art teachers, as was my father and sister in law. I kind of think I got a bit of a leg-up, coming g from such an eclectically creative bunch of hippies. Probably made it easier for me to take up this lifestyle. I also had a dad who indulged my love of nature. That’s why I ended up at 17 living in a cottage in the middle of a wood, rather than going to teacher training college, like the rest of my tribe.
@@primalengland yes you were fortunate (and that was lucky for us viewers too). Encouraging people, of all ages, to express themselves through art should be a priority but sadly too many feel that if their creations are not 'picture perfect' then it's not worth pursuing. My other half calls my artsy endeavours "pis£ing about" which I find mildly discouraging, but I rise above it and carry on regardless. It pleases me and that's what counts.
@@Pooky-Cat Hi, there's an awful to to be said for 'pissing about'. Not everything we do has to be productive or of value to anyone else. 👍🏼
Nigel, I think this is my favorite post of yours, so far! It IS a MAJOR "KEY ANSWER" to living our BEST life, in today's times!!!!!!! CHEERS MATE AND CARRY ON!!!!!!!🐺🙏✝️💙💯😇
Thanks Jeff. I really appreciate that.
Thank You so much for putting your thoughts out there. Here in the states, my wife and I can't convince people the delight in being more conscious of what we truly need.
It really is a shame that more people just don’t ’get it’ 😊
You struck a chord for me today. I wish I had heard this wisdom 30 years ago. Actually, I wish I had *listened* when my elders were telling me basically the same thing 30 years ago, lol. I'm listening now! Thank you for sharing! Subscribed and liked! And appreciative!
Thank you so much for the great comment, and thank you for subscribing.
Never owned a house and no more than one car in the driveway.
Lived a slow life all my life.
It’s all about the contentment. If you’re content, then you’re successful.
I don’t think it’s very common for any individual to own more than one car. But everyone of driving age in a house does need their own car unfortunately. That’s why you see multiple cars in a drive way. Mom, dad, two kids, that’s four cars. Each person needs their own car for their own lives. Jobs, activities, school. It’s very unusual for anyone to be able to live without a car.
@@Runner466 That would be very unusual in the UK, and Europe in general. There is usually a max of two cars per household, and most have just one. One thing is the higher driving age of 17, and the much higher costs of fuel and driving costs in general. Driving is very expensive in Europe. No one, or very few people have cars at school or University.
I think a major factor is that we in Europe have a walking and cycling culture. We’re jammed together in high density towns and cities and everything you need is usually within walking distance. Thing is, even though we have less cars per household, it feels like more because they are all packed into a smaller area. We also have good public transportation systems, but, to be honest, I don’t know many people who use it much. I’d like more space, but I’m lucky that I live in the North where we have areas like The Lake District and The Yorkshire Dales only an hour away.
@@primalengland oh right. I didn’t think about this video being more directed to Europe than the US. I have a friend from Italy and she lives in Detroit now. It drives her crazy how she can’t just walk to the store. The public transportation system in the US is crap. You have to drive everywhere. I had a job once. 3 miles from home. I wanted to take my bike. And I tried it a few times. But it quickly became apparent that riding my bike on those roads was a death wish. People drive like maniacs. No shoulders. Curvy roads. No sidewalks. You can’t walk or bike anywhere hardly.
@@Runner466 it’s not directed just at Europe. Just at anyone who’ll listen to my ramblings. I’d love to visit the US, but my travelling days are over. I’ve worked all over the world, but always wanted to go to visit friends who moved over to Chigago and Maine many years ago. They love their lives over there.
You have to be strong to embrace a simple life. I am at my happiest doing simple things at weekends, cooking a good meal, rather than spend £80 or more in a restaurant, not walking around a shopping mall, not chasing consumerism and so on but it is other people who can be the barrier. "Stop being boring" I get time and time again.
I’m still subscribed. I’m always watching. I don’t always comment, and I quit liking any videos on TH-cam because they keep a list if all the videos you’ve ever left a like on. I don’t like that. I love your videos and I’m happy to be here with you.
Agree. I have found having a goal for your money (paying of debt, special item/experiences to save up for) shifts the focus away from "unnecessary" spending to responsible savings with less pain in forming the new habit. After some success with the goal it can give a similar thrill as spending. When a goal or two have been met the perspective on money has changed for the positive. In the beginning it may be wise to keep this activity to yourself or share with an extremely select group till you have success to show that will help combat the critics. Thanks for the video.
I have a thing on my bank account, where a small amount, rounded up to the next pound, is transferred from my current to my savings account every time I use my card. I get a huge buzz when I get a message saying ‘You have saved £1.70 this month.’ 😊 It’s the small things.
The trill of saving at all levels is so great. It seems the world doesn't value small things anymore. The small things add up to medium things which end up as larger things. From the first step on a journey, finances, changing habits, starting hobbies. So much starts with just a small "unimportant" step.
Hello from Great Lakes, Illinois USA. I am a 63 yr old woman. I appreciate your TRUTH!
Oh! One of those noisy kids, eh? 😊
A kindred soul across the pond. I downsized my life considerably a couple of years a0go, retired to a place that officially calls itself a city but is actually a rural village of 2,500. No traffic, no shopping malls, just a few small shops and eateries, 3 gas stations, a single library. Everything I need but no excess. I adore this quiet life, should have done it sooner ❤
Don’t beat yourself up for not doing it sooner. Just enjoy every minute of it going forward. 😊
There are two truths of life:
1) We never truly 'own' anything, we are merely temporary custodians until that inevitable event of death.
2) As an 'ordinary' person, everything you said, did, and achieved in life is essentially erased upon your death as you will be forgotten with a generation. Even high profile figures from history are eventually forgotten when we are no longer taught about their contributions.
Life is short, death is long. Live an unapologetic existence.
You’re absolutely right. I’m getting rid of almost everything. It’s just clutter and stuff which we don’t need at all.
Absolutely, and it’s so cathartic. 😊
Consumerism is fuelled by the ridiculous amount of adverts everywhere including TV. Every time I turn the TV on, the first thing I see is an advert. I have stopped watching TV, less brainwashing. I adopted the Slow life over 10 years ago when I was nearly made bankrupt. I am now debt free and lead a slow life, its so much less stressful.
Been through the same journey. Nearly bankrupt (insolvent). Clawed my way back and now debt free. It’s a good place to end up.
Thank you for the video. I am totally lost in my life at the moment- lots of different kind of turbulences. And I am here- looking at you in the nature and feel at peace. Thank you
I hope you get through your troubles. I did. I’m sure you will. 😊
Thank you. Well done. Spot on. I will become a UK pensioner in 5 weeks time. I have lived in Mexico for 30 years. I have had pretty much no money coming in since just before the pandemic. So, living frugally, spending little or nothing, has become my norm. fortunately my wife has an income coming in, but still, we are not exactly wealthy. But we have simple and happy lives. So I completely support and applaud you, because I KNOW what you are talking about . . . all the very best . . .
I don't even have an Amazon account, I don't like anything about the company and I don't want to give them my money.
I have to say my biggest expenditure is my dogs and I don't begrudge them a single, solitary penny.
Agreed, the only benefit to buying from Amazon is that you might be contributing to sending Bezos on a one way trip out of here.
Amazon is good for folks w disabilities such as me. They deliver to the home at no charge for some.
Agreed, as long as my wife, dog and two cat’s are happy then that gives me contentment, anything else for me is just a bonus.
Good talk - Our issue is when to cry “Uncle!” and replace an item - the fun part is, when we finally get to that point, it’s amazing the advancements that have been made in things! We are rather frugal, and it’s great! Retired w/ no debt - house/cars/etc. paid off (long ago…) and with financial and personal peace. Come on in, the water’s fine!
I think most people eventually ‘get it.’ But usually when they have spent most of their lives with their noses to the grindstone.
The concept of "wealth" should be a celebration of how little we have not a celebration of how much we have.
I’m stealing that ….. if that’s ok.
I've got your accent but live in Australia. Got rid of my car 25 years ago and now use a bike. Simplified all areas of life and I'm now debt-free and happy. Now I never look back - well, except just now, but you know what I mean. Lovely video mate, I've just subscribed, all the best from Oz.
Cheers, fellow northerner. You sound like you have got it just about right.
Me too , Boltonian now in Canada. I long for the simple, innocent days of my youth. I gain peace from the forests and walking my dog. They will never know what they missed.
Excellent message. One of the fundamentals of all mainstream religions. Don't overdo on worldly and materialist things. Thanks.
Man, you Brits do the best videos on this topic. Idk if it's the nature or what, but you sure sold me!
I think it's because the are a walking culture. As an American I must drive everywhere. Even a safe place to walk!
Thank ypu so much for your inspirational videos. Much appreciated.
Thank you so much for that great comment.
Nigel I’m absolutely with you on this and from the comments here I can see that most agree with you and have already embraced the concept , be it all mostly those of us who are in later life.
We’ve all done it at some point in our lives , that constant want for something new, something better , the latest thing .
I feel that many of us put off being happy because of the constant pressure of consumerism, the mantra is that you will achieve happiness if you can just get that new car or that new dress or the latest kitchen gadget etc it can become all consuming without realising it.
I am at that stage of my life where I am desperately trying to get rid of “ Stuff “ and it can be hard letting go sometimes, my eyes were opened in 2018 when my dear mum died , she was the worlds worst hoarder even broken toasters and kettles were kept “ Just in case “ two weeks of sheer hell for my sister , myself and our husbands trying to sell it, donate it , move it or dump it , I will never forget it . Sorry this has turned into rather a longer comment than I meant to write, you are an amazing therapist Nigel. ❤
I love reading your comments, Linda. An end to the pressure of this mad consumerism would simply take us back to the world that I knew growing up. And that was a great time. Our parents had less spending power, but there seemed to be more emphasis on friends, family and community.
At 55 I’m trying to break the cycle of working. It’s modern day slavery. Rates, taxes, mortgage, fuel. It’s just bullshit.
Yes it is. It’s what we’re taught is right and honourable and the only option.
Too right mate.
Im 53 and cleared my mortgage at 50 after spending my entire 40s trying to pay it off....no holidays..nothing,,10 years gone, but im glad i did it. I sold the house and relocated to the countryside. I work 18 hours a week now...I dont have a lot of money but i have enough.
@Maxindifference.
You’re so right.
Sadly that’s true, been there done that, but what is the alternative, if you want to progress in life you have to play the game, if you have nothing there is little chance of even finding a partner in life, that’s the reality unfortunately! 😏
Hi! You are quite right! Overconsumption is a real problem for our planet, even more wasting food is the other. I got the same simle goal for my retirement that you have now. Do not collect items, collect real friends and experience! The only thing is worth spendig is travelling to see the world! Cheers!
I'm 73, and I'm also hoping to be able to say, at the end of my days, Thank you for my life, my work here is done, I did good.
If you can say that, Arthur, then you have led a life that many would aspire to.
🙏yes, thank you!
Got it in one Nigel! I think that this covers everything in your previous videos! I'm extremely happy and don't need more material things. I'm happy with the work I do, happy with all my kids, grands and great-grands. Life is wonderful - if only the troublemakers would leave us alone!!
Thank you, Ruth. I’ve got a lot of positive comments on this, and a couple of negative ones. Seems there are a lot of people out there looking to get off the treadmill.
Wise words. I struggle with the desire to buy "stuff" I don't really need, but usually managed to resist. Over recent years I've learned to get pleasure from simple things, like drinking coffee while watching fish swimming in the pond. Peace🙂
Good video Nigel , as you know I live on a boat, I have now downsized to a tiny 23 foot home which I adore , I only need to work three days a week now and I can spend my days painting my canal art and my boat I have very little freinds through choice and enjoy making my own entertainment, my only vice is visiting cafes for scones and jam, I have a strong interest in canal boat decoration and signwriting which I hope eventually will replace my decorating houses work as my back is failing me now
Hey, Steve! Hope you’re ok. Didn’t know you’d downsized. I always thought you should concentrate on your art. You are very gifted.
All the best, mate.
Brilliant and so true. I work in a charity shop and do occasionally treat myself to a second hand book or outfit but I try to never buy anything new. There are so many TH-cam channels dedicated to promoting consumerism. Even parents getting their children to try skincare products...so sad.😢 Children should be outside building their imagination and engaging with the world
I'm a 57yr old Staff Nurse. I seem to have hoarded a ton of crap and clutter. I've began to think about minimalist living, so to speak, and have tried to think 'where do I begin?'... And the bit about 'going on Amazon'... I thought 'bloody hell! That's me!...'. Although, to be honest, my wife has been telling me this for years.
I thought it was just me thinking like this... Dragged down by consumerism. Getting sucked in and dragged along by it. I started to take up keeping a journal and get into writing more. With a fountain pen. This simple step has reduced my phone screen time massively. Mobile phones are a curse. We don't own these devices. They own us...
Anyway, you have motivated me by helping me believe that I'm doing the right thing here.
Take care mate.
Time spent with your dog is never time wasted!
Subscribed and I'll follow your posts and videos. Simple advice and easy to watch...
No shouting 'you NEED to do this!' like some videos...
Peace and love . 👍
Honestly? One drawer at a time, one shelf at a time, one cupboard at a time 😊 even sorting one thing every day will stop the overwhelm but leave you feeling lighter and less encumbered.
We are made to feel guilty and inadequate when we do not have a lot of stuff. This is a great video. Thank you from Canada.
Thank you so much.
I could not agree more! I've simplified my life and I have more peace. Used to be I rarely noticed the greening in the spring, the leaves and grass changing in the fall...so many things. Now that I live closer to nature I notice the little nuanced changes. I'm grateful for everything in my life. Nobody has it all...and since we can't make cookies from cat shit, I say make the best of what you do have.
God bless!
😁 I love the ‘cookie’ comment.
@@primalengland I hoped you'd have a nice chuckle at that. I love a catchy turn of phrase.
@@rough-hewnhomestead5737 I may use it, if you haven’t copyrighted it. 😊
@@primalengland LOL....have at it! I heard it from someone else, somewhere along the line.
Just bought a little 2 berth caravan - both nearly 60 and new to this but this will hopefully be our downtime in the slow lane.
Did the minimalistic journey 3 years ago, not easy but my goodness well worth it. The purchases made are now with complete mindfulness and intent - if we can make do with what we have then why buy something else.
From the UK 🇬🇧 if only the weather were as lovely more often as it appears in your video! Not sure why this video was recommended but a definite new sub here 👍
Thank you for being so honest, open and real. 😊 Your videos always inspire me and warm my heart!
Thank you so much, Shelley. ❤️
Things i enjoy most in life don't cost a lot of money. Exercise, reading, cooking, listening to music, watching a movie, art. Create a little bubble that is cheap to live in and enjoy being in that bubble. Take care everyone ❤
Wise words to live by.
TH-cam won’t like people encouraging us to live a simpler life ❤ thank you ❤
Ha! That is so true. Expect me to suddenly disappear. 😊
Feckem.
@@Jason-ke2nj Is that near Stuffem?
@@primalengland ye..just past... dilligaf
@@primalengland Oh hopefully not, please don't disappear!!
Peace and Love, wholeheartedly!🌸
Sending love back to you.
And right back at you. ❤️
Sometimes spending less is not a choice it is a necessity.
Love your videos always! I'm always watching out for Molly behind you! Bless her! ... and you! Peace and love! 😘
I live on a state pension, so I know what you mean. Life can still be good, though, can’t it Joy. 😊❤️
@primalengland I'm on a pension also here in Ontario Canada 🇨🇦.
I am fortunate to have some investments that I have for future emergency needs . I have traveled a lot over my lifetime, raised my children into beautiful adults. I budget and live on needs only and simply put, live a slower life, volunteering, enjoying time with my friends, painting walking and enjoying nature! Not walking as much as you, Nigel! 😉👍✌️💕
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Wisdom beautifully put. Thankyou from New Zealand.
Thank you, Alan.
I cancelled things like prime and cut my spending down massively. Simplifying life is a great way to live your life. 🙌
I had prime up to a couple of years ago, then they hiked the price without warning. That was me done.
@@primalengland yes we now sort out between us (3 of us) who pays what to save each of us paying the subscription
I love this guy! Peace and love!
Thank you, Kathy. ❤️
I am almost there with the slow life...continually giving away my stuff and reevaluating.... if I have not worn it.... or put my hands on it.... or even need it.... every 6 months.....AND it is freeing. I cannot believe more people do not do this. In my community there are so many storage places that are already up or being put up for people to pay to store their "stuff"......in my mind it makes no sense!!
No sense at all. We all seem so reluctant to get rid of things we don’t want or need. Perhaps we are just programmed by society.
Yes, being low income I don't want to get rid of useful things.
In poor health. Low money. Every $ is valuable to me.
Nice ponderings. Used to housesit for some old hippies. Remote.No washing machine - plunger & bucket & clothesline = clean clothes. No breakdowns. Goes in closet. Skads of time, compost, stargaze. Careful of the bears. Lake to plate fishing.
I love the people who shared their space - I honour them
Spend LESS, invest MORE. I don't live a consumer lifestyle, but I have no debt, an emergency fund, a paid for home, a good job, and a pension scheme. And on top of that, I am investing. Carry on like this, and I know that I will live well in retirement. I occasionally have a flutter on the Lottery, but I know that I would act VERY differently from the mainstream if I won! LOL.
Carry on, and recognise the right time to retire. Retirement can be great if you approach it with the right mindset.
I’m really glad I stumbled across this video this morning. Thanks!
Thank you.
I spent my younger years buying junk I did not need and I am spending my older years trying to get rid of all the junk. life is good when you don't have a house full of junk you don't need it is a big monkey off your back for sure. the more you know the less you need thank you for sharing wishing you the bast.
Thank you for a great comment.
It’s always good to hear an elder’s prospective on life. You are so right on target that I’m sorry to say I have fallen into the trap and trying to dig out now. 64 years old and looking at a bleak future unless I get on top of this now. Thank you Sir for sharing your wisdom.
It’s never too late. I’m not much older than you, but in the last 5 years since I was forced to retire at 65 with cancer, I have started really appreciating the life I have taken for granted for decades. I thought that was just how life was, but now I’m understanding, from people’s comments, what a difference it makes when you unload all the surplus and just appreciate what’s around you.
It doesn't have to be a consumer driven life - in fact I enjoy being frugal, being creative, recycling etc. which for me, means less stress. I have become less social because its hard keeping up with it all, and meeting expectations ; no offense intended but I'm on a different path, and loving it. ( I sometimes get a bit of a laugh out of advertising, that tries to tell me that if I don't buy this product , I'm a loser 😂😂 )
I think one of the tricks is replacing things you want to stop doing with other activities, so that you don’t end up with empty space. Keeping occupied, I suppose. Give up shopping, replace with sky-diving. That sort of thing. 😊
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Some take the high road, others take the low road, and both lead to the same end. The choice is yours. Take it, and don't delay! God bless 🙏
I have had so much push back to this video by people accusing me of extolling the virtues of austerity, whilst owning a camera. I’m not extolling the virtues of austerity, more just suggesting that it might be an idea to question your spending on things you don’t need when that habit may end up in debt. But like I always say. ‘You do you.’ 😊👍