Can I breastfeed and formula feed?

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  • @carlairving
    @carlairving 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    For over 3 months, I was EPumping, before baby finally started to latch.
    Hearing you acknowledging that pumping is breastfeeding brought tears to my eyes ❤ thank you

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      🥰 Pumping moms get extra gold stars ⭐️ . It is so much extra work to pump. You are DEFINITELY still a breastfeeding mom. Be so proud of yourself! ❤️

    • @jesssc402
      @jesssc402 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Currently my journey.. 😭 I pump religiously and it sometimes drive me crazy… like i dread it sometimes. I hope that my baby will soon learn to latch..

  • @Jeanjackettty
    @Jeanjackettty 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Thank you for getting straight to the point - I'm sleep deprived, mildly anxious and needed this advice. Its as though you knew why we were all coming to watch this video.Thank you for the validation and advice.

    • @funmianitaimalele3153
      @funmianitaimalele3153 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      M sleep deprived so milk is low

    • @marigold7386
      @marigold7386 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here​@@funmianitaimalele3153sleep deprived for 20 days and low milk supply after c-section😢

    • @BandyD-nv9qu
      @BandyD-nv9qu 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No mother should ever feel bad for not breastfeeding. For various reasons, mothers cannot breastfeed. They should never feel like failures.

  • @lucybarrington4634
    @lucybarrington4634 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    You are an incredibly reassuring and comforting person to listen to. Your clients are lucky to have you.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awww Thanks! ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @AliceinJapanaland
    @AliceinJapanaland 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Just wanted to come back to thank you for all your advice. Encouraging me to try to ditch the nipple sheild turned out to be the best thing for me. I was using it as a crutch because i was too afraid to fail without it. But after a few weeks of consistent practice, we didn't need them at all anymore and my milk supply finally caught up to my baby's needs. She's almost 4 months old and 100% breastfed. I was so anxious that it wouldnt be possible after my c-section and her NICU stay but here we are - and some of that success is certainly attributable to you. Thank you so much!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AliceinJapanaland AWESOME! I’m so happy for you! You are an encouragement to other moms ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BY-yw4ts
    @BY-yw4ts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Thank you for this video, I gave birth to my first baby 3 and a half weeks ago and wish I would have seen this video earlier but better late than never. In the first days, he seemed super starving and the nurses and family members once I got home kept encouraging me to give him formula to supplement his feedings. The problem was, no one told me to pump each time and instead they encouraged me to get some sleep. 🥺 I finally started pumping during each bottle feed a few days ago, and I always try to give him a full breastfeeding before giving him a bottle. I think my milk supply is finally increasing and now we’re down to one bottle a day 🙏 (at night before bedtime when he seems insatiable and I’ve already breastfed him twice. I’m hoping I can eventually stop that bottle too, and praying I can increase my milk supply even more even though the first few weeks of life are behind us!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BY-yw4ts You’re doing great mommy!
      This video will probably help you to keep that increase going and wean off of formula if you’d like ❤️
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

    • @BY-yw4ts
      @BY-yw4ts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for the reply! The video was so helpful. ❤🙏

  • @jwokes13
    @jwokes13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was a much needed emotional support video. We are a week in to latch issues, small mouth and my own nipple problems so trying to at the dance of formula, breast, pumping has been tough. This was super helpful

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jwokes13 It’s totally fine to do what you and baby need. You can keep working at it but enjoy your baby too❤️
      Some babies start with a really small chin and even a recessed chin. These can add challenges for the first weeks.
      If you haven’t already, find a local lactation counselor to help. If she’s not helpful, find a different one.
      You’re doing great mommy! ❤️🥰

  • @thihoang2379
    @thihoang2379 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for such an informative, objective and professional video! I feel so much more confident with my choice of combi feeding for my 1st child and what to be aware of along the way ❤

  • @estherkingsley
    @estherkingsley 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Not sure why exactly this video popped up on my feed but it was really helpful. Registered Nurse here ✋I went back to work 4months postpartum, I was really overwhelmed and stressed out about pumping and making sure there’s milk for my baby when I’m at work. I had a stash of frozen breastmilk in the freezer and my supply was so great before I went back to work. As soon as I resumed work. my supply decreased and I lost so much weight. Then I decided to introduce formula cos I was almost loosing it.😢

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Well thanks for watching! Maybe a struggling mom is going to cross your path soon and you can reassure her❤️
      4 months was a wonderful amount of breastmilk for baby. You did (and are doing) great!
      My moms who are teachers, bar tenders and nurses, have the hardest time getting pumping breaks and that can greatly affect
      Supply. 👩‍⚕️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

    • @gloriaramla8280
      @gloriaramla8280 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@abdulali8738barakallahu fikoum

  • @calezboatwright4283
    @calezboatwright4283 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    you just named all the reasons why i'm considering mixing formula with my breastmilk. my son is 7 months. there are days where i feel like my milk supply is low and not great because he comes off the breast too quickly. he'll do 6min each breast at the most. i went back to work after 8 weeks and i am an RN working on a progressive floor where the patients need close attention and its hard to leave the floor every 3hrs to pump. also the nearest lactation room is one floor down, which isnt logic to keep going to. so i use our breakroom for 20min to pump and eat then back to my patients. and lastly im generally an anxious person. trying not to stress, stresses me out!
    i really want to breastfeed for as long as i can but i feel like im fighting tooth and nail to keep up with a good supply.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Any amount of breastmilk that baby has received will give baby benefits that stick with them for the rest of their lives. Your doing an amazing job! If you stopped tomorrow, you’ve still done a wonderful thing for your baby.
      Have you considered a hands free pump? Many of my nurse moms like the freedom. Be sure to add some breast massage when you put them on and take them off.
      You will see a big drop in pumping out put at around this age because your milk drops to just what baby needs. It’s usually around 1 ounce and hours in the afternoon. If baby is taking in more than that, have you “Pace fed” baby? This really helps to see baby exactly what they need. ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @pinkdoobie
    @pinkdoobie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Thank God, a normal lactation consultants. I combo-fed for the simple reason that, even if I could exclusively breastfeed, I didn’t want to, and it’s freaking impossible to find an LC who doesn’t react to that like I fed my kids rat poison, let alone one who actually understands anything about combo-feeding.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I hear this all the time that their LC doesn’t want to work with moms who formula feed. It’s so sad. How can they expect a mom to be successful if they won’t support her where she’s at.
      I do ask moms if they want to get to exclusively breast-feeding, when they’re combo feeding. I love it when a mom knows that’s not what she wants to do. You go mommy! You are paving the way for other moms. ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @valeriaswanne
    @valeriaswanne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I give bub a bottle of formula at night bc he snacks endlessly the rest of the time, never seeming to get full before taking a little nap and unlatching. He'll chug a few oz of formula and dream on for hours 👍 we got so many samples of formula, too.
    The rest of the time it's feed on demand and I try to pump right after feeding. I'm producing plenty, easily 40oz a day, but he's a HUNGRY BOY

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When a mom produces a large amount of milk, she usually has a condition called Forceful letdown/over supply. When you have this condition, you will have it with every baby. Some babies do just fine with it but for others, it can cause problems with really high or low weight gain and tummy issues. When the condition is not under control, baby ends up getting less fat in their milk. To make up for this, baby will take in a much larger amount of milk. It greatly increases the risk of clogged duct and mastitis for Mom too.
      I’ll attach my three part video series on this condition if you’d like to check it out. The first video will just help you to determine if you have the condition. It can be managed, but it always needs to be watched. When you have this condition, breastfeeding should be approached in a very different way. Partially formula feeding can often help baby. ❤️
      Forceful Letdown and Oversupply
      th-cam.com/play/PLbqc4bXQcbyUzyNxG-w7tBtKLWA3NpzLe.html

    • @valeriaswanne
      @valeriaswanne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @marycahillclc Oooh, thank you! I was wondering why he wasn't gaining weight as well as we'd like!

  • @SpacePellets
    @SpacePellets 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have 2 kids now, one is a newborn only 2 weeks old.
    Both my kids latched day one, but to breast feed exclusively I wouldn't be able to go out, I have successfully done pumping, direct to breast and formula feeds for my first and I'm doing the same with my second, no issues.
    I prefer to give more breast milk than formula, formula for me is only used as a top up, or if I'm on the go.
    I found pumping is pretty quick in under 20 mins with a Hakka on one breast and a hand pump (Phillips) on the other, I still directly feed with my breast to keep up supply.
    I also try and eat alot of oatmeal chocolate chip cookies with a Mothers Milk Tea that has Fennel & Fenugreek to increase supply.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s awesome! ❤️
      Most moms can combination feed with great success. I wish that all moms could be this successful. I know you’ve worked hard to keep things going strong. Thanks for sharing . This encourages other mommies ❤️
      Moms with at least a little bit of a forceful letdown/over supply don’t see a drop in supply. I’m not sure if you have that but you might. If so, combination feeding can help the situation from causing tummy issues for baby and clogged ducts for mom.
      If moms reading this, start to see a drop in supply (usually 4 to 6 weeks), reach out to a LC for help right away. We do have a normal drop in supply at that point but it’s good to get help if you’re ever struggling. 🥰

  • @destinysutherland1610
    @destinysutherland1610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for saying that being too stressed out is a good enough reason to add formula. My baby doesn’t sleep very well still and she’s 5 months now, so we’re gonna try adding some formula so she doesn’t need to feed as often at night

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@destinysutherland1610 it’s important to enjoy baby with as little stress as possible 🥰😴
      Babies aren’t expected to “sleep through the night” until 6 months old. And 6 hours is considered sleeping through the night.
      Remember that you will need to pump when baby gets formula (or previously pumped milk), to maintain supply. This way, you can add back in more breastfeeding later once baby sleeps longer stretches, but that’s totally up to you.❤️

  • @firefightingdrumstick
    @firefightingdrumstick 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I want to combination feed eventually just because I want to. I also feel like it would make it easier to transition to solely bottle feeding breast milk and formula when baby’s bigger.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s great! It’s good to know what’s best for you😃 just keep in mind that (unless you have a forceful letdown/over supply) you’ll need to massage your breasts and pump, as often as baby eats to keep supply up. ❤️

  • @Bacsingan
    @Bacsingan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks for the videos. It’s so useful and informative. I watch your video multipal times. I noticed you said: in the first 3 weeks afer baby born this is the time for new moms are establishing their milk supply…. “And if you are not able to get this established in this time. It’ll be so much harder to try to increase…milk supply 😢” Eventhough I dont know why but in my situation I must say you are so so right. I am dealing with low milk supply. And I didnot able to increase my milk supply .
    My baby is 8 weeks now and I
    I just got 40-60ml 2 sides each pumping section (3 hours each) and 100ml-150ml after sleep a whole night (6 hours)
    Could you please tell me how to increase my milk supply . Thank you so much

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you also feeding from the breast? Were you able to start breastfeeding in the first days? How was your supply at that beginning point?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

    • @shaistakhan6261
      @shaistakhan6261 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey i started to breastfeed since 3rd day of my c section, .. and also give formula milk, my baby is now 1 month old, he get hungry after an hour of BF.. so i add 1oz of formula milk after BF, because he can not wait for 2 hours.. i fear that he may not satisfy with my BF,.. at sleep time i only give formula milk 2 oz

  • @rebella8898
    @rebella8898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My baby is 2 weeks old. He spent 5 days in the NICU and he was fed both. He also isn’t latching because he has a tongue tie and a lip tie. We have an appointment next week to evaluate it. In the NICU, he was fed both. It is easier for us because I sometimes cannot keep up with his feedings. Also, because he can’t latch , we use formula when we are out and about for doctors appointments or if we visit grandparents.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rebella8898 Formula is a great alternative to breastmilk. I hope that things are better after the ties are evaluated. 🥰
      If you haven’t already, find a lactation calculator to meet with right away. She can help you with latching, before and after the tie revision (if needed). ❤️

  • @boba3242
    @boba3242 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for the information and reassuring words ❤

  • @eunicebanda8304
    @eunicebanda8304 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for this - I got so much from your advice ❤

  • @GloriaMabaso-ud1yu
    @GloriaMabaso-ud1yu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks so so much can I continue to give him both cuz I was giving him both now his 6week

  • @bigbaebae
    @bigbaebae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My baby is about to turn 2 months this 13th! I’m super excited and I’ve been happiest watching him grow. Unfortunately I feel my milk supply has decreased and I don’t know if it’s because of stress or lack of sleep, I’ve exclusively breastfed him and he’s gained the proper weight. But this past week I feel he’s always hungry or fussing while I feed him. I am worried I’m not producing enough milk and contemplating about formula. His next dr appointment is until the end of the month. If anyone can give me some suggestions, I would really appreciate it. And thank you for this video ❤

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      If he’s having 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours, you know he’s getting enough.
      At around 6 to 8 weeks, baby goes in to a big growth spurt. During this time, baby doesn’t want or need more to eat but they will be fussy and want to nurse more often. It’s often worse in the afternoon and evening. Baby is overly tired or over stimulated in the evening.
      When baby is growing so quickly, it’s uncomfortable for baby. Baby can also have teething pain, even though you won’t see teeth for many weeks. Eating and being at the breast are comforting. Breastmilk has natural painkillers in it and when baby nurses more often, they take in a little more fat. That fat also comforts baby.
      Also at this time, moms usually feel like they don’t have as much milk because their body has regulated supply. Your breasts may feel flat and empty and don’t get engorged very often but you make milk while baby is nursing. ❤️

    • @bigbaebae
      @bigbaebae 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you 🙏 💗

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

    • @ej3620
      @ej3620 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What does it mean 6 or more wet diapers?

  • @PSL_Lover2024
    @PSL_Lover2024 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello, i just found your channel. I started formula feeding because I noticed my daughter is not fully satisfied on just breast milk. I can be feeding her for 30-45 minutes and she's still hungry. I feed her formula to satisfy her and get her full. I know some women can pump bags and bags but I'm only making 2 oz of milk on a good day. I think my supply went down because although I'm still on maternity leave, i try to do things around the house and my husband will formula feed her when I'm busy with other things (chores, work, ect). I've been trying to pump at least once a day but that also takes time and someone needs to watch the baby while i do it, so is not often. I hope I'm giving her enough breast milk for her to be healthy despite my low supply.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi mommy! Every bit of breastmilk is beneficial.❤️ even if it’s a small amount it’s great!
      Newborn babies often nurse for a long time. Some babies nurse almost non stop.
      Formula fed babies will eat faster because it comes out of the bottle quickly. They seem to stay full longer but this is because formula digests slower. Breastmilk digests quickly and the nutrients are more completely absorbed.
      2 ounces in a pumping session can be normal amount. Those moms who pump a huge amount, have an oversupply. An over supply can cause lots of problems for baby and mom but they don’t mention that part.
      If you would like to maintain your supply, you’ll need to pump at least as often as she eats. 🥰
      How old is your daughter now?

    • @sapna2k
      @sapna2k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here ..and my daughter is 1 week

    • @PSL_Lover2024
      @PSL_Lover2024 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you! I met with a lactation consultant and she didn't really tell me if what I'm doing is normal or not. Especially when I wrote this I was pretty worried at the time if I'm doing everything correctly since I'm a Ftm . She's almost 3 months now!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PSL_Lover2024 are you feeling comfortable with how things are going now? Is your goal to increase supply to breast-feed more or do you like combination feeding? Either way is fine. I just wanted to know your goals. ❤️

    • @PSL_Lover2024
      @PSL_Lover2024 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc combination feeding is fine. I think in the beginning I really didn't realize how long the baby is on the breast for. I would like to increase my supply, I was told I needed to pump more and drink water and eat oats. Is there anything else I should add?

  • @angelkingston2312
    @angelkingston2312 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I regret doing both with my 1st as my baby went off the breast but now im 6 weeks pregnant im going to do better and no formula im hoping it goes well😊

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can do it mommy! Put baby to the breast as often, and as long as possible. Trust your body and trust your baby. If baby always has plenty of wet diapers every day, then you know they’re getting enough.
      Be sure to find a lactation counselor in your area so that you can contact them right away if you have any problems ❤️

  • @MelissaHurley1994
    @MelissaHurley1994 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    :/ mother in law is feeding him formula while I sleep and rest from a c section. I try and get him on the breast often when I’m awake. He’s better at latching on my left than my right. I’m trying to figure out when to pump but im recovering and sometimes I’ll nurse him and then add a little 1 oz formula to fill him up.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MelissaHurley1994 If you’re up for it, you could ask you MIL to bring him into your bed and nurse him while you’re side lying. Then she can take him and burp and change him. If he wakes up and fusses from burning and changing, she can bring him back and nurse from the other side.
      Breastfeeding helps your body to heal faster but it very understandable that you are extremely tired and sore. You just grew a baby then had your body cut open 🥲
      You’ll need to pump as often as baby gets formula.
      It’s common for baby to not like one side. Just keep trying. He might always fuss about that side. There’s many reasons why a baby might not like one side. It could be the shape of your nipple, how fast or slow the milk comes out, the taste (it can be different from side to side) or that he’s not comfortable laying on one side. Try to change the position while nursing on that side. If you’ve been nursing him in a Crossbody/cradle position, you might try a football hold.
      Baby doesn’t like one breast, the other side will make more milk to provide what they needs. You can always know that babies getting enough you see seven or more diapers every 24 hours from the time that baby is seven days old and older.
      Letting baby be on your best as long as possible. If you’re afraid that you’ll fall asleep with him, ask someone to stay in the room with you. 😴
      How old is baby now?

  • @SophiaHaygiallah
    @SophiaHaygiallah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beter not the best of the best are two options i received i will present it in my book.

  • @teenasuresh9369
    @teenasuresh9369 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for the video.My baby is 2.5 months old and till now I am not able to exclusively breastfeed my baby.Though the supply has increased a bit over the period but still it is not enough for the baby.I had PCOS issues in the past but not anymore and plus my left breast is on heavier side and milk supply is more.Till now not able to figure out what went wrong :(

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi mommy!
      Are you feeding baby from the breast at times?
      How many mls/ounces are you getting out of a pumping session and about how many mls/ounces every 24 hours?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @kennethtsholeka1381
    @kennethtsholeka1381 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so informative. My baby is 4 weeks old and my wife started combo feeding as she’s been extremely exhausted this past week and a half as baby was a bit sick and has cramps, so sleep is far and in between. We’ve been giving formula more this past week because her milk supply went down because she’s not eating and sleeping enough as it’s been hectic, she’s so afraid that it will dry up and has now tried to feed baby breast milk exclusively the past 2days. Please advise how she can up her milk supply, she’s eating more and I’m forcing her to sleep because she needs to take care of herself.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not eating enough or not getting rest can possibly decrease supply but usually that’s not a problem. Our breastmilk is made from our white blood cells. Our body is so amazing. It keeps making it as long as baby is at the breast removing it as often as they need or if we are pumping breastmilk, at least as often as baby eat, with added breast massage before pumping.
      When extreme exhaustion hits, it can be so difficult to keep going, and our mental health can be affected also. 😥 She is so very blessed to have you there to help and encourage her.
      There’s nothing wrong with adding formula But if she would like to get back to exclusively breastfeeding, it’s important that shepump whenever baby eats. Pumping is a lot of work so many moms choose to continue breastfeeding but let some of the other things go. Having someone else change baby’s diaper, burp baby, clean the house, cook dinner and so on. Only she can decide what’s best for her and for your family.
      I would suggest choosing a time to formula feed every day and stick to that time. Our body makes more milk by what gets taken out but also by what time of day it gets taken out. So it’s very helpful to keep supply up if you are removing milk from the breast every day at around the same time and the same amount.
      At around this time postpartum, Moms will start to feel like their milk supply is dropping when it really hasn’t. This is because our breast start to feel flat and empty like before we were even pregnant. This is very normal. Milk is made while we are nursing or pumping, it’s not stored in our breast. In the first weeks when we feel engorged, that is mostly inflammation/swelling.
      Babies also go through a time of growth spurts, and cluster feeding. This can start happening now and sometimes happens every two or three weeks. When baby is going through this fussy time, it can make moms believe that their supply is low when it really is not. You can know that baby getting enough, if baby always has six or more wet diapers every 24 hours. During a growth spurt, baby doesn’t need or want more to eat, but they do want to be at the breast more often and they may come off the breast and seem hungry because they are upset and not feeling well. It hurts to grow so quickly and breastmilk has natural painkillers in it and mommies arms are comforting too.
      When mom is feeling well and has help around, she should let baby be at the breast for as long as possible. Even if baby seems to not be eating it’s great for supply to let baby use mom like a human pacifier. For some mom‘s, this can be relaxing, but for others, it can be overwhelming to have baby on the breast so long. Again, only mom can decide if that’s working OK for her.
      If baby is having a regular formula bottle at times during the day, Mom can stay on that schedule or she can decide to work back towards exclusively breastfeeding in the future. Either way is just fine.
      If she decides that she wants to get back to fully Breastfeeding, I have a video that will walk you through how to do that and at the same time slowly wean off of formula.
      I hope that helps dad! Again, it’s so wonderful that you are taking an active role in this. I know that having a new baby and an exhausted wife is also very stressful for you. It will get better ❤️‍🩹 let me know if you have any more questions or concerns. Here’s that video if you need it later.
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

  • @advabenyaacov6825
    @advabenyaacov6825 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very useful! Thanks!!

  • @fathimasabiha6606
    @fathimasabiha6606 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I had a C-section 8 days ago, and I have a baby girl. She has a good latch while breastfeeding, but I’m producing very little breast milk from both breasts, just drops, and she cries because she’s still hungry. We give her formula at night, but I don’t like doing that due to my low breast milk supply. During the day, I breastfeed, but I don’t use a breast pump. Can you suggest a solution for increasing my breast milk without using a pump?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@fathimasabiha6606 Hi mommy! Is this your first baby? If not, how was breastfeeding with your last baby?
      How many wet diapers has baby had in the last 24 hours?
      What color is baby’s poop now?
      Do you see and hear baby swallowing while nursing?
      Are your breasts feeling larger (slightly engorged)?
      Mature breastmilk is usually in between day 5 to 7. First time moms can be longer (day 7 to 10). If there was a traumatic birth (like a C section), breastmilk can be a few days slower coming in.
      You will have Colostrum for baby. Colostrum is available after 20 weeks of pregnancy. Colostrum is “usually” all that a newborn needs until mature milk is in.
      You are correct that giving formula will reduce supply but occasionally it’s necessary. To keep supply up, you need to be expressing milk at around the same time that baby gets something in a bottle. You can pump or hand express but it’s important to express if bottle feeding. Say to yourself “if anything goes into baby, something should come out of me”
      When you do give a bottle, it is best for supply to feed like this:
      Offer one breast for baby to nurse on as long as possible. When baby seems done or is falling asleep, burp baby to wake her up a little, then latch her on the second side. Sometimes baby won’t want the second side, sometimes she’ll nurse for just a few seconds or sometimes she may keep nursing For a few minutes. Either way is fine. If baby doesn’t seem satisfied after nursing on both sides, you can offer a small amount of formula then latch baby on both breasts again. If baby still seems hungry you can get more formula.
      Having baby on the breast as often and as long as possible is best for supply.

  • @MegKayBeee
    @MegKayBeee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello Mary, I hope you’re well! My daughter is 7 weeks old and we started feeding her formula from day one since she had jaundice and had to be in the blue light therapy. My milk came in after 5 days postpartum. I pumped, breastfed, and supplemented her since then but mostly we rely on formula. With personal problem and anxiety, I wasn’t able to be consistent with pumping during the first 5 weeks postpartum (I pumped everyday but probably 4-5 times a day). Since last week I started to pump at least 8 times around the clock (I know it’s a bit too late) and I can now get about 2.5 oz in the morning and about an ounce each session. Will it still be possible for my supply to increase, and if you could please share with me some tips? I know formula is just fine but I can’t get over this mom’s guilt.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please don’t let yourself feel guilty. You are doing an amazing job! ❤️
      Do you feed at all from the breast or are you exclusively pumping?
      Do you know about how many ounces you’re able to pump every 24 hours?

    • @MegKayBeee
      @MegKayBeee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclcthank you for your kind words 🥹. I currently pump most of the time for a week now (since week 6 postpartum). I would say I could pump around 15-20 ml each session.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@MegKayBeee You can increase your supply but it’s a lot of work and can be stressful at times. If baby were latching at the breast, it would be a little easier because feeding at the breast is the best way to increase your supply. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with beingan exclusive pumper. I’ll link a video here that will give you tips on increasing your supply while pumping.
      Even though you are not giving baby exclusively breastmilk, the milk that you do give, benefits baby greatly. Those benefits build baby’s body and stays with them for the rest of their lives.
      I want to totally support you, if you want to maintain where you are or work to increase supply. ❤️
      Pumping Moms With Low Milk Supply
      th-cam.com/video/_of4OTnOubc/w-d-xo.html

    • @MegKayBeee
      @MegKayBeee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you so much, Mary! Thank you again for making these videos that are very informative and supportive. Now I have hope again ☺️. Wishing you a lovely weekend!

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @alannadankiw7410
    @alannadankiw7410 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Baby wasn't gaining weight so midwife recommended formula. We tried everything for 1st 11 days but she lost 2 ozs so we knew it was time. I had breast lift last year and may have supply issues but baby is also very sleepy.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alannadankiw7410 it’s considered normal for breastfed babies to loose up to 19% of their birth weight but we have to keep a close eye on baby when it gets near that point. It can take up to 3 weeks for baby to regain their birthweight.
      Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. You tried and it wasn’t your fault at all.
      How old is baby now? Were you able to partially breastfeed?

  • @GenXGal
    @GenXGal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Baby is 6 months and I’ve been only breastfeeding. I want to try mixing BM and formula at night to see if he can sleep through the night. Hope it works!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sleeping through the night doesn’t usually happen until after 6 months old. Sleeping 6 straight hours is considered sleeping through the night.
      You can offer the breast more often in the evening (every hour) for a few hours before you go to bed. This frequent feeding gives baby slightly more fat. That extra fat can help baby sleep a little longer.
      Be sure to mix the formula with the correct amount of water before combining with breastmilk. Most babies do just fine when taking formula but you might start slow for babies tummy to adjust.
      Remember that if you want to keep your supply up, be sure to pump at around the same time that baby receives a bottle. This is if baby is getting previously pumped milk or formula ❤️

  • @SylvanaGovindramen
    @SylvanaGovindramen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello, my baby wouldn’t poop with breastfeeding without a suppository every other day. We have introduced prune juice and 2 formula per day and it seems to work well for me but he would poop every other day. My concern is that I would like him to switch completely to formula to see if this helps him as it seems that my breastfeeding him fully is not helping him. But I still want to keep my supply to maybe breastfeed him in the morning and at night before sleeping just for the comfort. My baby just turned 3 month and he is a healthy baby- putting on weight was required. I will appreciate your advice.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SylvanaGovindramen An exclusively breastfed baby, after 1 month old, slows way down. Some babies start to go days and even up to 2 weeks without pooping. This can be very normal (formula fed babies should be pooping every day). As long as baby isn’t showing signs of pain or extended abdomen it’s usually ok. (Always talk to your doctor if you’re concerned though)
      Exclusively breastfed babies take in less in mls/ounces than a formula fed baby. This is because breastmilk is completely utilized. Baby needs more formula to get the nutrients they need. If an exclusively breastfed baby doesn’t poop often, they are still needing those nutrients. Forcing baby to poop can actually be taking these nutrients away.
      It’s extremely rare for an exclusively breastfed baby to be constipated. If baby is constipated, their poop will be hard and dry. It would look like little pellets.
      Was your baby’s poop firm and pellet looking?

  • @jackieadamson4466
    @jackieadamson4466 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This made me feel a lot better about my choice to combination feed if I'm even able. ❤

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are you doubting that you’ll be able? Has baby been born yet?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

    • @afrilvideofootage4726
      @afrilvideofootage4726 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was wondering if my baby boy just 3 months now, my wife cannot give him enough breastfeeding, can we give baby combination of formula and breastfeeding 🙏, is it safe for baby🙏

  • @veegie07
    @veegie07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks so much for this video. I am 2.5 weeks post partum and I’m struggling. Shallow latch caused cracked nipples the first couple weeks and I started giving her formula and now my baby is refusing the breast. I’m still producing milk but I’m afraid my supply is starting to dry up. Also, I’m having issues pumping and unable to collect any breastmilk. Any tips?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@veegie07 oh no mommy 🥲.I’m so sorry that things are not going smoothly.
      Is the lactation counselor in your area that you can see? Call right away for an appointment because it may take a few days to be seen.
      In the meantime.. keeping supply up will be important.
      Tell me more about not being able to pump or collect milk. Do you have a working pump? Have you tried hand expressions?
      Next would be to try latching baby at every feeding but stop and go to the bottle soon as baby starts to fuss. We want baby to get comfortable with the breast.
      Hold baby skin to skin as much as possible.
      Here’s a video below for you on latching baby. Let me know if you have questions but please see a local LC right away 🥰
      Struggling with Baby's Latch? Find out What You Need to Know!
      th-cam.com/video/iUAVOuIYozg/w-d-xo.html

  • @baelau8917
    @baelau8917 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello! My bb is 6, almost 7 months exclusively breastfeeding and bottle feeding with my breastmilk. Milk use to have pretty good fat content but I noticed my milk have become very watery and not much fat on the top anymore. I’m thinking of mixing formula and breastmilk maybe when she is 9 or 10 months, can you make a video for how to do that for older babies not newborns? Thank you so much

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@baelau8917 That would be a good video idea. I should also do one on fat content.
      Even though your milk looks thin or watery, your milk still has all of the fat that baby needs. You really can’t tell the fat content by looking at the milk. Even if your milk was lower in fat, it still has more fat than cows, milk, and its nutrients are better absorbed than formula. (the formula is a good alternative to breastmilk when a mom can’t or doesn’t wish to breast-feed).
      The only moms that need to be concerned about fat content in their milk are moms that have a forceful letdown/over supply. Do you believe that could be you?
      Is your baby growing well and staying on the same growth curve?
      And formula at any age, should be mixed with the proper amount of water if it’s in a powdered, concentrated form. So if you want to mix it with breastmilk, be sure to add the water to the formula first. Though breastmilk will be the most nutritious for baby, even if your milk was lower in fat.

  • @katielittle4491
    @katielittle4491 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My supply started disappearing during a heat wave. My baby was 8 months and we ran out of the small stash I had in the freezer… I didn’t have it in me to take all the supplements and do all of the power pumps to reanimate my supply… so I just focused on maintaining what I have and I started adding 2 oz of ready to feed formula to each bottle. I still pump 4 times a day for 30 mins a session (usually about 10 mins longer than flow) and once or twice a week I throw in a power pump. I have less than a month left to my goal of 1 year! I think I’m going to pump a little longer once she’s transitioned and keep some emergency milk in the freezer incase she gets sick in the future. But I’m sooo over this and counting down the days until I’m done!!! Only to cry once it’s all over and claim that I miss it 😂😂

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@katielittle4491 You are doing an AMAZING job mommy! If baby is getting a small amount of breastmilk, that still counts as a breastfed baby /breastfeeding mom❤️
      I just want to mention that supplements rarely helpful for milk supply. Some moms will say different but research has shown that it’s a placebo effect. So no need for moms to spend money on special supplements, foods or drinks.
      What makes more milk is having baby at the breast for as long and as often as possible. Sometimes, feeding from the breast, just doesn’t work for some moms and babies. When moms are doing a lot of pumping or exclusively pumping, they need to keep in mind the three keys. Those are.
      1 moving milk out of you.
      2 moving milk often.
      3 stimulation. The stimulation part is most often missed when moms are pumping.
      This means to consistently remove milk, at least as often as baby eats, and at around the same time every day.
      The stimulation part can be done by adding lots and lots and lots of breast massage before and during pumping. When baby is latched at the breast, the motion of their mouth on the breast, stimulates milk production more than a pump. Baby’s saliva is actually absorbed into your body, telling your body to make more milk.
      Breastfeeding looks different for every mom and baby. Yours is PERFECT! Thank you for commenting and being an inspiration to other moms ❤️

  • @sharisaid1402
    @sharisaid1402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this! Would you have any advice for twin mums of very premature babies (30-32 weeks) that will have them in the nicu for probably a month or longer? They told me to just pump as soon as I give birth every 2-3 hours to establish the milk supply and then I will deliver it to the hospital every day. But later on I would love to get my husband and the family involved in feeding when needed. I want to mainly breastfeed but when I am exhausted or need to go out and have others feed the girls I’d like to be able to pump and for them to bottle feed my breast milk. I heard that if you introduce the bottle too early they want breastfeed properly. I don’t know exactly what they will do at the nicu but I hope it won’t interfere with this.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Starting a bottle before breastfeeding is established can sometimes cause babies to refuse to feed at the breast but sometimes it’s not an option and babies need to bottle feed instead.
      Holding babies on your bare skin with a blanket over them is helpful for regulating their temperature, heart rate and blood sugar. It also helps to increase milk supply. Your girls may be a few weeks old before you can hold them on your skin but you can often get close and touch them. That helps them to hear your voice and feel you near.
      If you are able to get breastmilk to your babies that would be wonderful ❤️
      I would ask right now, to speak to the lactation counselor at the hospital where you’ll deliver. Find out what their protocols are. Some will try to get baby to the breast as soon as possible. Talking to them ahead of time will help them to know what your hopes are for breastfeeding.
      Yes, start pumping as soon as possible. In the first 2 or 3 hours then continue pumping every 2 to 3 hours.
      Congrats times 2 mommy! ❤️❤️

    • @sharisaid1402
      @sharisaid1402 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much ❤❤

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @nnekaanumba
    @nnekaanumba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really hope you see this comment & respond to it. I currently feed my baby both only because she eats too much, way more than my milk supply can handle. She eats 120ml & sometimes more in a feed, she's never full when she sucks from breast, i have to top it up with formula. I just start breast pumping so I can have enough stash to get her off the formula. I've been stressing about it because my supply is still growing. My baby is almost 4wks. I'm open to tips pls

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nnekaanumba Here a video link that will help to increase supply and wean off of formula.
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nnekaanumba That’s a lot for baby to eat at once but some babies do take in more but eat less often. If baby were exclusively bottle fed, baby is probably eating just 5 or 6 times every 24 hours.
      How much milk are you getting at each pumping session?
      Are you feeding from the breast each time then giving extra breastmilk or formula?
      At around 4 to 6 weeks baby goes through a big growth spurt. There will be several more to come. During a growth spurt baby does not need or want more to eat but they want to be at the breast or bottle nonstop. You can tell that it’s a cluster feed/growth spurt if baby is content after feedings in the morning, but not content in the afternoon and evening. Baby may nurse for a few minutes then come off the breast crying. This is because baby is uncomfortable. It hurts to grow so quickly.
      This video link will help to pace feed the bottle. This helps baby to not over or under eat.
      During a growth spurt, it can seem like babies not getting enough, but if you are always seen six or more wet diapers, every 24 hours, you know they’re getting enough
      Paced Feeding
      th-cam.com/video/NIDWewaslOQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @nnekaanumba
      @nnekaanumba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc Thanks alot for this... I got plenty value ma

    • @nnekaanumba
      @nnekaanumba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc yes, your analysis is right. Although I haven't been putting baby to breast so often because I felt it wouldn't fill her anyways, so I've been too focused on expressing the milk and I haven't been very successful until today, I pumped my first 125ml today... before it was always under 60ml after power pumping for 1hr. I'll be sure to practice these. Thank you so much. You are Heaven sent ❤️

  • @spa11199
    @spa11199 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'd like to exclusively breastfeed, though my baby girl is 4 weeks preemie (born in 35 weeks + 5 days). To boost weight gain, we are supplementing with prescribed pre-milk. Any tips? And how/when to transition back to breastfeed only?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! ❤️. When your doctor says it’s ok, start this process in the video that I’ll link here. It’s a way to slowly increase supply and slowly wean off of formula.
      Keep in mind that baby is getting enough if she always has 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours. Babies get fussy (especially in the evening) and that makes mom question supply.
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

  • @deannahornsby280
    @deannahornsby280 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Breastfeeding has been a amazing experience. My 9m old has gained weight pretty slowly:( Her pediatrician has asked me to give her formula. Ive been making a two ounce bottle of formula giving her atleast a ounce but still putting her on the Breast. She is in the 3rd percentile😢 I would not be considering both if this wasn't what im currently struggling with.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@deannahornsby280 formula can be a good option sometimes.
      If I can ask a few questions to maybe get an idea about what’s happening with her weight.
      Has she always been in a lower percentile? What was her percentile at around three months and six months?
      Do you happen to have a forceful letdown/oversupply?
      Is she eating solids? If so, when did she start and about how much is she eating in solids (just tastes, a fair amount or lots?)?
      Has she always had six or more wet diapers every 24 hours? Or has her diaper count lowered?

  • @Krystal9008
    @Krystal9008 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the video. I think I have mammary hypoplasia. My baby is 6 months old, and I have been exclusively breastfeeding. However, his weight is at the limit, so I think I will make a combination and give him formula at least once a day. When I pump, I only get about half an ounce.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Mommy! If you’ve been exclusively breastfeeding for 6 months, then you wouldn’t have Mammary Hypoplasia. What signs are you seeing that make you believe that there’s a problem?
      Is baby not gaining weight?
      How many wet diapers is baby having every 24 hours?
      Have you been pumping regularly?
      If you have only been feeding from the breast and not pumping, you probably have a perfect amount of breastmilk. If you randomly pump after or between feedings, it’s normal to see just drops of milk at 6 months postpartum.

  • @tanikybailey8087
    @tanikybailey8087 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What if I’ll be on the road for the entire day and I want to walk with some breast milk, can pump milk to the same dayuse throughout the day?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tanikybailey8087 Sorry, I’m not sure if I understand your question.
      Are you asking if you can pump and feed that milk to baby that same day?

  • @VioletMwololo-l8h
    @VioletMwololo-l8h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My baby is turning 3 months and to resume work. So have decided to give Nan milk once per day then continue with breastfeeding.is it safe?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@VioletMwololo-l8h as far as I know, that brand is safe. Talk to your doctor if you’re concerned ❤️

  • @ushahushhush.x5393
    @ushahushhush.x5393 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My baby is 7 weeks I would like to start combination feeding.
    How do I start the formula off do I start with small amounts to begin with and follow with some breast milk until she releases and lets me know she is full.
    I am slightly worried that she may have an upset stomach using formula as is not natural if this happens do I change the formula or continue until she enjoys the taste.
    Many thanks

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ushahushhush.x5393 Some moms do that or just replace a feeding. If you replace a feeding, you’ll need to pump a little bit so that you don’t get engorged.
      Try to keep the formula feeding at around the same time every day. Your supply will drop and it’s good to tell your body when you won’t be needing breastmilk anymore.
      Most babies do just fine on formula. I would give it mid day at first. Babies can have fussy evenings for another reason and it can make you think it’s the formula’s fault.
      If baby starts to have problems, you can switch brands but baby may need a week or so to adjust to digesting it.
      Even if you just give partial breastmilk, baby is getting tons of benefits ❤️

  • @AnnielPhilany
    @AnnielPhilany 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi,thank you for the video.My baby is two months old, what quantity to give? and which type of milk is the best?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For formula feeding, I don’t know what brand would be the best. Check with your doctor to see if they have recommendations.
      When a baby is exclusively breast-fed, they take an average of 24 ounces every 24 hours, but when is formula fed they do need more because it’s not absorbed quite as well as breastmilk.
      If baby is gaining weight well, it’s usually best to let baby tell you how much they need. You can do this by watching baby for hunger cues. Some mothers prefer to put baby baby on a feeding schedule but I personally feel that feeding on demand is best.
      No matter what you feed your baby, you can always know that baby is getting the right amount, if baby is having six or more wet diapers every 24 hours ❤️

  • @deziraewhite7531
    @deziraewhite7531 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Currently breast feeding my first child and it’s very hard and stressful I only get about 1oz each breast whenever I pump but about 2oz whenever I pump on one and she’s nursing on the other. I’m scared to take the formula route but I want to do both cause its taking a big toll on me mentally

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m sorry about the stress mommy😢. Please know that you are doing a great job no matter how you feed baby. Mom life is a lot to handle. It will get better ❤️‍🩹. Be sure to ask for help when you can.
      How old is baby?
      When you pump 1oz each side, is that in place of a feeding? Or is it after/between feeding from the breast?

    • @yvasarts
      @yvasarts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was the same too , keep pumping every 2 - 3 hours and for about 20-30 min and 10 min more to let your body know your baby needs more milk , definitely stay hydrateddd 100% a must & eatt dont skip your meals! This has been helping soo much!! I promise youll see a major difference ina week. & i also recommend get a electric handsfree pump🙏✨ Wish you the best!

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @AshleyGraham-m9f
    @AshleyGraham-m9f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow, I am having to do combination feeding/supplementing, but I am wanting to strictly breastfeed but my supply has never been established. My baby had a lip tie and a tongue tie so was unable to latch well. He wasn’t gaining weight properly so we had to use formula from the get go because of jaundice and my milk not coming in yet. I have pumped and pumped tried medication and it has increased but not enough for the feedings. It’s almost like my breast done feel up fast enough if that makes sense. I can breast feed for the first two sessions in the morning but after that he only gets about 2 oz max. He is 3 months old and I am starting to get really discouraged I have tried everything but I am not sure how to increase my supply I have been trying for 3 months now. It is better than it was for sure though.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi mommy! Just be sure that I understand. You feed from the breast in the morning but you are having to breastfeed and supplement in the afternoon?
      Are you doing weighted feeds to let you know that he’s only getting 2 ounces?
      How many ounces of formula are you feeding per 24 hours?
      How often are you feeding from the breast? Do you pump often? How many ounces are you getting at a session and do you know how many ounces you pump per 24 hours? ❤️

    • @AshleyGraham-m9f
      @AshleyGraham-m9f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, that is correct I am able to breast feed in the morning but I am not able to produce enough milk later in the afternoon.
      Yes, I am doing weighted feeds every time he is breast feeding. The first two feedings in the morning he gets about 4 oz each session. I have a scale so I am doing weighted feeds at home. I had to order a scale because he wasn’t gaining weight, so it was peace of mind.
      I breast feed and when he pulls off and is frustrated I weigh him and then I give him pumped breast milk or formula in a bottle, after the the bottle I then pump for 15-20 mins.
      I am giving him about 8-12oz of formula per 24 hours.
      He feeds about 6 times and I am giving him 4 oz every feeding.
      In the morning after he feeds 4 oz I am able to pump 1.5 oz after, the second feed he will get 4 oz and I am only able to pump .5 oz after ward. This is about the max I pump after he breastfeeds the rest of the evening. Some of the feedings he will get 2oz and some he will only get an ounce. He is still having trouble with his latch and we are still doing exercises but gets enough in the morning but not later in the afternoon. I tried to completely cut off formula and bottles for a few days. Ut he would just nurse and nurse and cry and cry and then he lost weight again so I went back to bottles.
      I think since he can get enough in the morning I feel like it’s my milk supply that is the problem now.
      I have never pumped an entire 24 hours without him latching.

    • @AshleyGraham-m9f
      @AshleyGraham-m9f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did send a message on your website:) you actually are the only person I could find that covers these issues, so I went online to seek you out for some help as well.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@AshleyGraham-m9f from 1 month to 6 month old, and exclusively breastfed baby who feeds exclusively from the breast, takes in an average of 24 ounces every 24 hours. This sounds crazy but it’s true. Breastfed babies just utilize breastmilk differently and more completely as they age. Formula fed babies need more formula as they age and have much more waste/poop. If baby is fed breastmilk from a bottle and not fed using a Paced Feeding method, they will take in more than they need or want. This can give terrible gas issues and sometimes even slow weight gain. It wan also be extremely difficult for moms to keep up with pumping enough to be wasted.
      Your supply is probably a little low because of the formula but you can do those evenings feedings like this; feed from both breasts, give 1/2 of your normal formula, then feed from both breasts again, then finish with the rest of the bottle. Your supply will increase in 3 to 5 days. Baby will start to not want that second part of the formula.
      Our breastmilk supply is much lower in the evenings but higher in fat. The extra fat helps with sleep and better brain development. Because our supply is lower, we need to nurse much more often during this time. Sometimes every hour. Babies are naturally fussier in the evening. It hurts to grow so quickly, they are over stimulated or overly tired. When they are given a huge amount of food. They tend to just fall asleep/pass out. ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @BintuBailah
    @BintuBailah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi! Thanks for the video. Please how many spoon of formula should I put per ounce? My baby is going to turn 3 weeks on Monday and I’m not lactating enough.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Formula needs to be mix, exactly how to directions say. It can be different for each brand.
      Is baby latching well at the breast? What things are showing a low supply?
      If you pump, how much milk do you get out?

    • @BintuBailah
      @BintuBailah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc very little. I went back to the container and I’ve read the instructions. Thank you so much. I’m also giving my baby to suck very often as stated on your other video so I’m seeing some improvement. Thank you.

  • @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394
    @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bonjour . A un mois bb est passé de 2,9 kg à 3,5kg . Elle est nourri uniquement avec le lait maternel. J'aimerais commencer à lui donner aussi le lait artificiel pour bébé. Je reprends le travail dans deux mois. Comment passer à l'allaitement mixte ?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394 I am so sorry but I don’t speak French. Is there someone who could help to translate for me?
      Is there a local lactation counselor that you can meet with?
      ❤️

    • @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394
      @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marycahillclc Hello. At one month, baby went from 2.9 kg to 3.5 kg. She is fed only with breast milk. I would like to start giving her baby formula as well. I am going back to work in two months. How do I switch to mixed feeding?
      I translated thanks to Google 💃

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394 I would start by giving baby 1 formula bottle a day. Mid day (the hours that you’ll be away in a couple of months). If you feel engorged when baby receives formula, you’ll need to pump enough to be comfortable. This will help you to not get clogged ducts.
      As your supply decreases, you can shorten that pumping time.
      If baby doesn’t like the taste of formula, you can mix it with pumped breastmilk.
      After a few days to a week of having one bottle, you can start adding 2 bottles if you’re not feeling engorged.
      If you’re wanting to continue breastfeeding in the hours that your home, don’t give formula during those hours. ❤️

    • @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394
      @kockmarieemmanuelleessoh2394 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marycahillclc that is ok. Oh i am happy that it is possible. Thanks for your advices. GoD bless you.

  • @zaynsmusics8334
    @zaynsmusics8334 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My baby is 2.5 months old now, she doesn’t drink from one side of my breast.. I use to hand express and take it away.. my milk doesn’t come out from the breast she doesn’t suck using a breast pump so I hand express by placing a heat pad. I give formula 2 times a day..is it enough for my baby??? If not how should I schedule my breast feeding and formula feeding pattern?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zaynsmusics8334 You can know for sure that baby is getting enough, if you always see 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours.
      It’s ok to just feed off of one breast. That one breast can totally make up for the other side. Just like a mom can breastfeed twins from 2 breasts, you can usually completely feed from one.
      It’s best for supply if baby is on the breast as long and as often as possible. If you can (at each feeding) offer the breast at each feeding, then give a small amount of formula then return to the breast. If baby still seems hungry, give more formula.
      Let baby use you like a human pacifier when you can.
      If you decide to give full formula feedings, you should be consistent at feeding times. So if you give formula every day at around 11am and 5pm, stay at around those times. If you’d like to keep your supply up fully, you’ll need to add lots of breast massage and expressing to keep supply up. Hand expressing is excellent to keep supply up.
      How much milk are you getting each time that you express?

  • @elektra90
    @elektra90 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Hello, I have a 16 days old baby, in the beginning I tried to exclusively breastfeed her but she was always hungry and falling asleep during breastfeeding, once I put her to bed she was waking up and again tried to feed her, after a couple of days we start give her some formula so she can sleep. At the moment I am breastfeeding from one site about 15-20 minutes then put her on the other site again for about 15-20 min and trying to keep her awake then I give her about 60-90ml formula or extracted breastmilk for her to be full. I would like to breastfeed more and minimise formula but seems very difficult.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Do you feel like she is latched well and swallowing often while latched?
      Was she having lots of wet diapers before starting formula?
      Newborns need woken up more during a feeding. You may need to strip her down to just a diaper during a feeding. Maybe even tickle her feet with a wet washcloth.
      Breastfed babies eat much more often than formula fed babies. In the first few weeks, it can be almost nonstop. It’s normal for the evenings to definitely be nonstop. Breastmilk comes out slowly and digests quickly.
      Here’s a couple of videos that I think may help ❤️
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html
      How to Keep Baby Awake while Nursing
      th-cam.com/video/UV7FmgiBLmo/w-d-xo.html

    • @elektra90
      @elektra90 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for your reply! She is latched well and there are days swallowing often with small breaks in between or she is just falling asleep after few swallowings. I haven’t counted the wet diapers when I was breastfeeding her exclusively :/ . I watched your videos there are very helpful! Shall I breastfeed her for specific amount of time eg. 20’ ?

    • @afraali6326
      @afraali6326 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hey dearest, I'm am currently in the exact same situation u are describing 😭 feels assuring someone else is there that can understand 😭

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

    • @arthavoc5259
      @arthavoc5259 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im currently going through the same with my 15 day old...he feeds constantly till my breast go flat...

  • @jennifergonzalez4594
    @jennifergonzalez4594 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Does this apply to pumping and breastfeeding too?
    Do I need to pump aproximately at the same time everyday?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jennifergonzalez4594 yes, pump as often as baby eats. Remember this phrase “if something goes into baby, something should come out of you”
      It’s important to add lots of breast massage before and during pumping. ❤️

  • @piep.llorente2498
    @piep.llorente2498 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi.. im soon going to start cereals with my baby, is it good during diner time or also morning bottle with cereals is also good?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@piep.llorente2498
      How old is baby?
      it’s not ever a good idea to add cereal to a bottle. (Was that what you were saying?). Most doctors (and the American Academy of Pediatrics) don’t recommend solids until baby is showing all of the signs that they are ready. Cereal is considered solid food and should just be offered as small tastes before 1 year.
      Before 1 year, breastmilk or formula should be baby’s main source of nutrition. They can’t fully digest solids before then. This can lead to lower nutrients for baby.
      It used to be common to start cereals early but now we know that it’s not great. Many moms skip cereals and just start with fruits and vegetables but you should discuss it with your doctor.
      Sorry, I didn’t really answer your question very well
      ❤️

    • @piep.llorente2498
      @piep.llorente2498 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc my baby is almost 6 months and yes, he is showing all the signs. I was afraid to start earlier than 6 months, until I asked the pedia and told me i should have started sooner. It confuses me! my baby is gaining weight but slow maybe because he doesn't drink enough due to reflux. He is 6.6kilos and 5.5 months. So i'm now starting food with him (vegies and fruits) it's been 3 days. The cereals is one of my concern because most moms here in my country do mix it with the bottle.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@piep.llorente2498 it sounds like you’re doing great!
      Some doctors in the US push for solids earlier but most wait a bit longer now.
      Adding cereal is ok and won’t harm him but I personally think that there are more nutritious things to give. I would maybe just give a small amount of cereal and try to give more fruits and vegetables. Fats are very important for brain development at this age. Breastmilk and formula provide healthy fats. ❤️

  • @manafitv7229
    @manafitv7229 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Thanks for that last saying about no matter what I give to the baby (breastmilk/formula/donor), the baby will still love me..❤ I got so down recently due to my milk supply not yet established even though my baby is 2.5 months already now and I have tried a lot (medication, supplementarion, giving milk through SNS, breast massage..), but still not enough..feeling like a failure bcs I want to exclusively breast fed her. But I guess I shouldnt dwell too much on that bcs my baby need to eat and if formula in a bottle is what will help her gain proper weight (she never gained enough since she was born), then be it. Thanks again for this video and some others that I have watched 🤍

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true! You’re a great mom and you want baby to have the best. You are the best mom! ❤️
      Would you like to go over your challenges? It sounds like you’ve try everything. Can I ask; was your supply low right from the beginning?

    • @manafitv7229
      @manafitv7229 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marycahillclc thanks for the kind reply! yes, my supply is low from the beginning.. when i did felt fullness in my breast, then I pump, it never exceed 50ml, and even that just happened once. usually its more around 20-30ml. now my baby refuse the current formula and prefer DBF to me, but due to my lack of supply, I’m super worried about her weight..

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@manafitv7229 Baby’s weight should be monitored and baby should always have 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours.
      A few more questions;
      Do you have low glandular tissue (A cup bra or less)?.
      PCOS?
      Thyroid issues ?
      Is one breast noticeably smaller than the other?
      Taking allergy medication?
      Taking estrogen?

    • @manafitv7229
      @manafitv7229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marycahillclc baby’s weight is gaining but not enough since the first month. she only gained 1.5 kilos up until now she’s 2.5 mo. Yes, I do have less than A breast cup size before, but I was told that supposedly not an issue..? No to PCOS, different breast size, allergies, and estrogen. Don’t know about my thyroid though, I never got it checked bcs I don’t feel any enlargements of it or any weight problem before pregnancy..

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@manafitv7229 It is “usually” true that breast size doesn’t matter but occasionally, a mom with very little or no glandular tissue, can not produce. Mom may have to use SNS to breastfeed at all.
      I just try to find the possible reason why a mom has some difficulty but again, baby loves you just the same and you can still, very much “bond” with baby, while bottle feeding ❤️

  • @akhilaraj3946
    @akhilaraj3946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi mary...thanks for this baby is 3 weeks old...and her birth weight was 2.75.kg.so my Dr suggested to combine formula milk with breastmilk. She is having diarrhea from the transitional time from meconium. Thats also one reason of adding formula milk...so you have a suggestion for this diarrhea. This means she passes stool when she coughs and appropriately 12 diapers Im chanhing everyday. Please reply

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry to question you but are you sure it’s diarrhea? Breastfed babies should have very soft stool that look like diarrhea. Formula fed babies will have slightly firmer poops.
      Are you feeding from the breast? How much formula is she getting now?
      How is it mixed and fed to her? (If you use powdered formula, do you mix it with the appropriate amount of water or right into breast milk?)
      How many wet diapers is she having every day?
      What color is her poop?

    • @akhilaraj3946
      @akhilaraj3946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @marycahillclc how can I explain the consistency... but will the newborn poops this many times..right now, i m giving ready to give formula.(not powdered).and that even just once a day (max 30-40 mls/day)..I prefer to give breastmilk than formula, i believe I have sufficient supply of breastmilk for my baby...I m getting a min of 10 wet diapers per day ..the poop looks like Mustard yellow colour

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@akhilaraj3946 Do you possibly have a forceful letdown/over supply?
      Does her poop look goopy or gelatinous?

    • @akhilaraj3946
      @akhilaraj3946 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc I am feeding her every 2-3 hrs becz of low birth weight

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@akhilaraj3946 are most of the feedings, directly from the breast?

  • @eugeniaejiofor6396
    @eugeniaejiofor6396 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for this video, I got a lot from it. We are a week old, and my nipples are soooo sore, breastfeeding is rly painful for me. Am introducing formular although my intentions were to breastfeed exclusively. I want to get my nipples fixed up, then recommence breastfeeding.

    • @Sharada_Pradeep
      @Sharada_Pradeep 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Initial fifteen to twenty days are painful but once you are used to it...pain doesn't come back. Also don't avoid BF since it's paining. Please help baby to latch and bf exclusively till it's possible. Then formula feed + breast feed will suffice.
      I didn't know bf is a painful journey than the actually delivery. But once those sore breasts are gone.... I enjoyed feeding her. I had low supply initially so I did both.

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @angelicapineiro1804
    @angelicapineiro1804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My breastmilk supply dramatically decreased in a few days. I pump, but only 1-3oz's come out and I feel disatified. Im thinking of conbining the breastmilk and the formula

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you breast or are you exclusively pumping?
      How old is baby?
      How many wet diapers does baby have every 24 hours?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @vineeta86
    @vineeta86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this AMAZING video. Just what i needed :)
    I have a question.
    My baby is 2 months old and is on a combination of direct breastfeeding (3-5 times) , pumped milk (1-2 times) and formula (2-3 times) per day. I would like to get her off formula.
    She has been on this combination of feeding since birth. I pump 3 times a day. I'm reluctant to breastfeed more than 5 times/ day as it's extremely painful for me. Weight gain, diapers changed etc are all good.
    Can you suggest a schedule/ system to help me increase my milk supply and gradually get her off formula?
    Thank you so much ❤

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! This video will walk you through the steps to increase supply and wean off of formula.
      Let me ask you some questions too.
      How much milk are you pumping at a session?
      Are you offering formula at random times or is it at specific times? And is that because baby seems extra hungry?
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @rachelsleppy
    @rachelsleppy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi! Soon to be first time mom. I won’t be able to feed directly from breast, but want to pump and bottle feed. She’ll be sleeping in a bedside bassinet. How long can bottles sit out room temperature so I can feed throughout the night without having to get up and go to the fridge and warm? Or do you recommend formula for night time? Should I just keep a mini fridge and warmer next to the bed😅lol I have no idea what to do.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rachelsleppy congratulations mommy! ❤️
      Freshly pumped breastmilk can sit out unrefrigerated for up to 4 hours. Once the bottles has been in baby’s mouth, it needs to be used or discarded after 1 hour. If your milk has been refrigerated and then warmed, it also needs to be used with in 1 hour.
      You can warm a bottle for baby, but it’s actually not necessary. Most babies don’t mind cold milk.
      You can use formula at any time of day that you would like but it’s best for your supply if you pump on a regular schedule. By this, I mean, that you should be pumping at the same time every day. So if you are wanting to exclusively pump, you would need to pump as often if baby eats. If baby were to take some breastmilk that you pumped a day earlier you still need to pump whenever baby eats if you want to, fully feed breastmilk. If you would like to do some formula feeding, it’s important to keep your pumping schedule the same every day. So if it will be best for you to pump daily at 7am, 10am 12pm and 3pm, keep close to that schedule. You need to tell your body, how much milk you need and when.
      It’s ok if baby gets formula at those pumping times, the schedule is just to keep supply up. I hope that made sense.
      Moms who don’t want to or can’t feed directly from the breast (or are formula feeding too) are still considered “breastfeeding moms”. Be proud of yourself!You’re going to do great! ❤️

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This video may help to just understand pumping. ❤️
      Pumping Moms With Low Milk Supply
      th-cam.com/video/_of4OTnOubc/w-d-xo.html

  • @foreseengust
    @foreseengust 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Baby was underweight, so doctors insisted on formula. As a first time mom, I didn’t know the importance of establishing supply. I started pumping regularly (8 times a day, 3 pumps at night, 20 minutes each, plus power pumping occasionally) at 2 months. The most i ever made was 7 ounces. I take care of baby alone at night and most of the day, so have never gotten much sleep and often miss meals. Baby developed nipple confusion early on, so I'm exclusively pumping and giving him formula. It's very hard to be consistent with pumping times because the baby is 4 months and doesn't have a set nap schedule yet. I've been pumping consistently for 2 months, the supply isn't increasing. You think massaging and trying harder to be consistent about timing is enough? Or do I have to increase the number of pumps in a day? I don't understand how supply can be so low with consistent pumping for 2 months, other lactation consultants say milk supply should increase with what I'm doing.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It sounds like you’ve been working very hard at this. Let me ask you some questions.
      The most you’ve ever made was 7 ounces? Is that in a day or at 1 pumping session?
      How many ounces are you getting every 24 hours?
      How many ounces of breastmilk is baby taking per 24 hours and how many ounces of formula per 24 hours?

    • @HeyShimolee
      @HeyShimolee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc Hi I’m 3 weeks postpartum today. I’ve been pumping more often but definitely not as much as you’ve mentioned in the video. Currently I’m getting about 2 OZ every 2-3 hours. I’m pumping half of what the baby eats in 24 hours. Is it too late to build my supply more now that it’s been 3 weeks?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HeyShimolee Are you an exclusive pumper or do you feed from the breast at times?
      About how many ounces are you pumping every 24 hours?
      If you had a supply in the beginning, you can definitely get back there. 2 ounces every 2 to 3 hours is low but not a huge amount.

    • @HeyShimolee
      @HeyShimolee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you for getting back to me. I’m an exclusive pumper and we also give the baby formula since my supply isn’t enough to fill him up. My supply wasn’t the best from the beginning. I used to get about 1oz with every session in the past and now I’ve built it up to 2.
      In the last 24 hours, I’ve pumped 13oz and the baby has had 24oz of total feed. So I’m quite behind.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HeyShimolee You’re right, that’s about half but you’re doing awesome to have increased supply to 2 ounces a pumping now👍❤️
      You should be able to increase it more. Do you know why your supply was low to start? Were you late in starting to pump after birth?
      Why do you believe your supply had a slow start?
      Did you feel like your supply “came in” noticeably? Did you ever have some engorgement?
      Being an exclusive pumper is a lot of work. I say that exclusive pumpers should get extra gold ⭐️ stars ⭐️ because you work extra hard.
      If your supply doesn’t get to a full amount, you are still providing a lot of breastmilk. Every drop that baby gets, benefits baby for the rest of their lives.
      To increase supply; pump at least every 2 to 3 hours. Take a 4 hour break at night if possible. The goal is to get to 24 hours every 24 hours. At watch pumping session, apply some heat for about 10 minutes and then spend 10 minutes massaging your whole breast to add stimulation that the pump can’t really add. Remember that baby loves you no matter how you nourish them. Don’t let it stress you out but if this is your goal and you’re determined to get there, you can.
      Are you most comfortable being a pumping mom and have you wanted to feed from the breast if possible? I only ask because it can be a bit easier if baby latches but whatever is best for you is best for your family ❤️

  • @imalangg
    @imalangg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I started getting mastisis very frequently and tried antibiotics but it would return in another breast so combination feeding worked better as I wasn’t completely drained and the housework can get done as well. Just to add info: mastisis is very painful and the baby doesn’t get a full feed from that breast until it gets better.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imalangg OUTCH! So sorry mommy 😢
      Do you have a forceful letdown/over supply? Having frequent clogged ducts/ mastitis is often an indicator. For moms with the condition, going to partial formula Feeding is a good way to get the condition under control.

  • @khushboomirani3853
    @khushboomirani3853 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My baby is 2 to 3 weeks premature c section
    Initially his weight was 2.8 kg.After 5 to 6 days his weight reduced to 2.6kg later We were giving him formula feed after after a week his weight increased to 3.2kg now doctor advised me to completely switch to breastfeed milk. After giving a week of complete breastfeed milk my baby's weight is reduced back to 2.8kg but he still wets 6 to 8 diapers. Pls suggest what to do?
    Exclusively breastfeed or mixed feed
    Also guide me when to give breast milk and formula milk

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@khushboomirani3853 When you were giving some formula, were you pumping at every feed?if you were feeding formula after each feeding without pumping, then suddenly dropped to exclusively breastfeeding, your supply would need time to increase. But if your supply was low, baby wouldn’t be having 6 or more wet diapers every day. So I’m just not sure why his weight has dropped.
      If you don’t have a baby scale, you might ask your doctor if you can stop in 1 or 2 times a week for the nurse to weigh baby. This will help to monitor baby’s weight. Once things look good for a couple of weeks, that’s not usually necessary to do so often.
      Are you doing any extra pumping right now? If so, how much milk are you getting at each pumping? (The amount that you pump doesn’t tell us how your supply is. I’m just looking for possible problems)

    • @khushboomirani3853
      @khushboomirani3853 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@marycahillclc mam i am not pumping any milk. I always feed him with my milk directly and formula twice a day. But his weight is dropping

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@khushboomirani3853 you had said that after a week of complete breastmilk, baby’s weight dropped. Have you since added formula back?
      If so, it would be best to breastfeed at every feeding, then give formula at the end of a couple of feedings a day. To not have baby latched at every feeding will drop supply.
      This video will help to explain the process.
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

  • @ALEENAJOY-v9o
    @ALEENAJOY-v9o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello, my baby is 10 weeks. He is pump and breastfeeding. On the next month i am back to duty. So I haven't so much breastmilk milk to storage. Is that ok to formula feed in day time and breastmilk at night?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If that’s what would work best for you, that’s totally great. 😃
      Just know that your breastfeeding on your days off (during the hours that you normally work) will usually start to go down after a while. You may need to pump a little extra on your days off but having baby on the breast as long as possible is the best for supply.
      If you’d like, or are able to pump at work, you would need to pump as often and at around the same time as baby eats. I don’t recommend that moms use a freezer stash while at work (if they’re want to exclusively breastfeed) because that would lower supply but if pumping at work isn’t a good option for you, then formula is a great alternative. Please don’t ever feel guilty when you’re giving formula. Even partially feeding breastmilk gives baby those amazing benefits that last forever ❤️

    • @ALEENAJOY-v9o
      @ALEENAJOY-v9o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much❤ for your reply.
      Subscribed ❤

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @moname8237
    @moname8237 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you very much!!! This was really helpful and encouraging.
    I nurse my baby sometimes because I don’t have enough milk and during breastfeeding my baby doesn’t look full so I end up giving formula. How would I know that I’m not giving him excess formula milk every hour and half?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you wanting to get to fully breastfeeding or do you prefer doing breast and formula?
      This video will tell you how to increase that supply while weaning down on formula
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html
      This next view will help you to “pace feed” baby. So that baby isn’t over or under fed. ❤️
      Paced Feeding
      th-cam.com/video/NIDWewaslOQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @sejalsoni-l9f
    @sejalsoni-l9f ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello! Your videos are very informative. My son is almost a month and sleeps as soon as i breastfeed him. He takes just 2-3 mins and falls asleep. I tried everything but he doesnt wake up. He is super sleepy. I stopped giving formula. But after seeing this for 2-3 days i had to start it again. I feel super depressed not able to breastfeed him properly. What should i do?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi mommy! Thanks! 🥰
      Was he having 6 or more wet diapers every day when you started back on formula? How often are you feeding from the breast now? How much formula is he getting each day now?

    • @sejalsoni-l9f
      @sejalsoni-l9f ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes around 7-8 wet diapers when i stopped formula.i start waking him at 1.5 hrs and he wakes around 2.5 or 3rd hr sometimes even more than that. I try to breastfeed him every 1.5 -2 hrs if he is awake. He is getting around 40-50 ml of formula

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @FUNTIME-mw3yy
    @FUNTIME-mw3yy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my baby one month old. Baby not taiking enough amount she use 30 ml or 60 ml after 5 hours. Colic issues. Taking medication. What i wi do

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FUNTIME-mw3yy So sorry mommy.
      Baby should be taking in about 710 mls every 24 hours now.
      Baby should be having 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours. If baby isn’t having lots of wet diapers today. Baby should be seen at the hospital right away.
      Is baby having lots of wet diapers?

  • @kayleps2210
    @kayleps2210 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My baby is a week old and the breast feeding has been quite erratic. Is it ok to breast feed first at every feed and top off with a little formula?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes you can but formula feeding will reduce supply. Sometimes formula is necessary (we definitely want baby to have enough) or best for mom but if you’d like to increase supply, baby should be at the breast as long and as often as possible.
      To keep supply up, you’ll need to be pumping when baby gets formula. If something goes into baby, something should come out of you.
      Tell me more about what has been erratic about breastfeeding?
      How many wet diapers is baby having a day now?
      Is baby pooping often? What color is baby’s poop now?

  • @umavenu2991
    @umavenu2991 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My baby 3 months completed and I am planning to go office ... Till 3 month only breast feed was given... So hereafter shall I give formula along with breast feed... My office work is 9am to 5pm.. I can come and feed at 1 pm and again at 5pm

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some moms give formula and breastfeed or pump breastmilk so that baby only receives breastmilk. Whatever you prefer and what works best for you.
      If you pump at work, baby will get that milk the next day.
      To keep your supply up, you’ll need to pump as often as baby eats.
      If baby hasn’t had a bottle yet, start giving a bottle once a day for baby to get used to it. ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @chelsiestipke4112
    @chelsiestipke4112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Baby is 4 months old. I had planned to breastfeed him until 6 months. He has a tongue tie so there was a learning curve. I didn’t establish a consistent supply in the 1st 3 weeks. I was also inconsistent with when I gave him a bottle. My supply is low and he wakes up 8 times per night. The sleep deprivation over the last 17 weeks is a problem. By the time I increase my supply I’d be trying to wean him away. So how do I switch him to fully formula fed without getting mastitis when I never had a consistent feeding schedule?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So sorry mommy 🥲😴
      Can I ask some questions about your breastfeeding? I may have some ideas for what’s been happening. It may be helpful if you have anymore babies.
      Did you do any pumping? If so, how much milk did you get at a pumping session in place of a feeding?
      Have you had clogged ducts or mastitis?
      If your supply is low, it should be a little easier.
      At this point, you shouldn’t be getting very engorged, unless you’ve gone way longer between feedings.
      It’s important to stay comfortable. Pump just a small amount to stay comfortable and not get a clogged duct, leading to mastitis. Pump just 2 or 3 minutes. Then wait about 5 minutes. During that 5 minutes, your breasts should soften and feel totally good. If they don’t, pump again for a few minutes.
      Apply lots of cold compresses. Apply after pumping and in between. Cold gel packs or just a cold wet washcloth in a baggie. Applying cold cabbage leaves in place of the cold compresses would be even better.
      Taking ibuprofen helps with the inflammation and pain.
      Taking Sudafed helps to reduce supply if you are totally done giving baby your milk.
      Eating and drinking peppermint can help to reduce supply for some moms.
      DO NOT wear a tight bra to reduce supply. You may see this shared on the Internet, but it’s very bad advice and will cause a clogged duct.
      Here’s a video on weaning that will go over some of those things in more detail. I’ll try to keep an eye out for your answer the other questions. I know Breastfeeding’s been a struggle, but you have truly done an amazing job! Four months of breastmilk, even if it was partial, gives baby benefits that will last him his whole life. ❤️
      Weaning My Breastfed Baby
      th-cam.com/video/AbaFEBkUDjI/w-d-xo.html

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @zandileshinta7448
    @zandileshinta7448 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am first time mom, i chose to breast exclusively. I produce more than enough milk for my baby, i have more that 80 packs of 180ml expressed milk i stopped pumping because i pumped a lot already. Im not using any supplements i happened to have a lot of milk, my baby is growing and gainingweight very well. My problem now my she doesn't want bottles she cry until she vomits i tried different types of bottle no luck. She is 2moths and i started to introduce bottle after 2 weeks i guess it was too late.
    I just want to know can i use breast milk when she starts solids or i need formula?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zandileshinta7448
      It’s not that you were too late to start a bottle, it doesn’t matter when you start a bottle, it’s just that some babies don’t want it. I usually encourage mom to wait two or three weeks before starting a bottle to be sure that breast-feeding as well as established , I find it when a bottle is started to early, baby is more up to want the bottle. Though most babies do just fine going back-and-forth between breast and bottle. I’ll attach a link below about getting your baby to take a bottle. This can be the challenge For some babies.
      Yes, you can definitely use breastmilk for your toddlers. Formula is a good alternative to breastmilk breastmilk has more benefits. Breastmilk is absorbed more completely than formula and it has slightly more fat in it. The higher amount of fat is better for brain development. It is best when possible because it has immunological properties that will help to keep baby from getting some illnesses like a cold or flu. (There’s no guarantees that a baby who is breast-fed won’t get a cold or flu, but research shows that it will happen less often).
      How to Get My Baby to Take a Bottle?
      th-cam.com/video/7VTEoGmsCE0/w-d-xo.html

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Here is my three-part playlist about forceful letdown /over supply. If you have this condition, you will have it every baby. Some babies will have a lot of problems with it and others barely notice it but it’s good to understand it.
      Forceful Letdown and Oversupply
      th-cam.com/play/PLbqc4bXQcbyUzyNxG-w7tBtKLWA3NpzLe.html

  • @nomqhelenyathi9095
    @nomqhelenyathi9095 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I had an emergency csection and my milk supply was low for the first 2 weeks and I had to resort to adding formula to feed baby.My baby is now 5 weeks is it possible to work on increasing my supply now or have I missed the window 😢 7:42

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nomqhelenyathi9095 Usually it is possible but it’s a lot of work.
      Will baby latch at the breast?

  • @joisissyumeh-enike8725
    @joisissyumeh-enike8725 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was EBF for three months,
    Went back to work three weeks ago, and the first and second week was amazing, but the 3rd week was a struggle
    Oh my, and still a struggle, had to get formula today, made the decision to do both, as my baby suddenly started crying a lot, when I pump, it’s so low
    After giving her the formula, she slept so well, unlike few days ago😢😢😢

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joisissyumeh-enike8725 That’s definitely fine to do both breastmilk and formula. 🥰
      If you would like to get back to exclusively feeding breastmilk, tell me more about what’s happening and maybe I can help.
      Things that I would need to know: Are you able to pump at least as often as baby eats and at around that same time? Has baby been receiving previously pumped milk (freezer stash)?

    • @joisissyumeh-enike8725
      @joisissyumeh-enike8725 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc yea baby has been receiving freezer stashed milk, and before resumption, I could pump 3-4times a day but now I pump just once in the morning and sometimes in the evening too when I am able to, and yes I would really love to get backed EBF till she is six months🥰,
      If I could get one or two tips and observe the process, as long as it does not put baby and I under stress, I am good.
      Thank you so much🙏🏼

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joisissyumeh-enike8725 Using freezer stash will greatly decrease milk supply, unless you can pump at least as often as baby eats. It’s important to remember, if something goes into baby, something should come out of you. A freezer stash should be for emergency use only. An emergency is if you are away from baby longer than expected while you’re away from her. Or if you had to be on medication that’s not compatible for breastfeeding.
      This video that I’m linking here will help you to wean off freezer milk or formula. Baby will be able to tell you when she’s getting enough. ❤️
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

  • @terriwalcott
    @terriwalcott 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I want to start combo feeding by adding formula so that my baby can have 1 formula bottle a day as you g to nursery is imminent. He normally takes a bottle of expressed BM before bed. I’ve tried slowly by adding 30ml & mixing it with my BM, which he’s ok with but as soon as I up it up it to 60ml out of 180 he drinks a little then refuses it. I’m at a loss with what to do 😢 do you have any further suggestions? Thank you xx

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old is he?
      When babies won’t take breastmilk with high Lipase in it, moms sometimes add a drop of vanilla. You could try that. Or experiment with warm milk/formula versus cold.
      He might like a different brand of formula but they all taste about the same.
      Let me know if you find a good trick. ❤️

    • @terriwalcott
      @terriwalcott 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc he’s 8 months old. He takes breast milk absolutely fine. It’s just trying to move onto formula. We’ve switched to another brand and he’s still refusing it. Will try different temperatures! Thank you.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@terriwalcott I wish I could help more. Good luck! ❤️

  • @sofiac3158
    @sofiac3158 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the information, I have a 10 wk old! Unfortunately, I had a tough recovery from c section so I had to start him on formula. I have been slowly getting my supply up (I pump 1.5 oz in 10 mins).I used to give my baby 3oz of formula but now I do 2oz every 3-4hrs. I latch him first and give him the formula. So far he seems ok, what would you advise, my goal is to exclusively breastfeed my baby. I’m eager to get your reply! Thank you so much!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It sounds like you’ve been working really hard at this. You’re doing great mommy!
      I’ll link a video here for you to check out. It will walk you through, increasing your supply while weaning off of formula.
      This process will allow baby to tell you when he is needing formula. Keep in mind that babies are fussy in the evening. It can look like low supply, but not really be. Also, as you start to breast-feed more, you may be concerned that baby is not getting enough but remember that baby is getting the right amount as long as you see at least six or more wet diapers every 24 hours❤️
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

    • @sofiac3158
      @sofiac3158 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc
      Thank you so much!❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @nanayaa7958
    @nanayaa7958 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My milk supply is quite low, with low colostrum especially in the mornings till about 12noon and inconsistent.
    Im resuming work soon.
    Which formula is best for baby.( she has reflux)?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi mommy! That’s not very common to have lower supply in the morning. That’s when our body makes the most milk. I would suggest meeting with a local lactation counselor if possible. 🥰
      I’m not sure what the best formula would be. It does take baby 1 to 2 weeks for baby to adjust to a different formula. When baby is struggling with reflux, you might have to talk to your doctor about what one they think you should try.

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @redcarpetfly
    @redcarpetfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is it okay to formula feed your child for a while until you establish a pumping schedule? I find it hard to pump because my baby's eating habits tend to change frequently, especially as she goes through various grow spurts. So, I thought it might help if I formula feed her a few days so that I can try to establish a pumping routine and supply. Your thoughts?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, I wouldn’t recommend that at all. Baby at the breast is the absolute best and easiest way to increase supply. A pump can’t do what baby does. -Baby can usually transfer more milk out of the breast than a pump. This sounds your body to make more milk.
      -Baby’s mouth moves differently than a pump. It tells your body to make more milk.
      - having baby against your skin, eases oxytocin in your body, telling your body to have a letdown and to make more milk.
      -Baby’s saliva on your breast is actually absorbed into your skin, telling your body to make more breastmilk.
      Can you tell me why you’re needing to do a pumping schedule?

    • @redcarpetfly
      @redcarpetfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @marycahillclc Thanks for responding! Much appreciated! Im trying to create a pupmping schedule because I'm going back to work and need to create a milk stash so that my baby will have breast milk available to her while I'm at work.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@redcarpetfly a small emergency freezer stash is great but a stash should usually only be for emergency use only. It’s a good idea to have this stash in case you had to be away from baby because of an emergency or you had to be on medication that wasn’t compatible withBreastfeeding.
      Moms that make a freezer stash and use it on a regular basis while they’re away at work, end up losing supply.
      To be able to keep your supply up, you must be pumping at around the same times as baby is eating. When you pump at work, baby then gets the milk the very next day that you work. This gives baby the freshest milk possible and keeps your supply up where it needs to be.
      Sometimes moms aren’t able to pump at work or it’s a choice to not pump at work. If this is the case, then it would be a good idea to build as much of a stash as you can but I would still feed from the breast as much as possible. Just know that after a while, your milk supply will drop and you will not be able to produce as much during your days off. You can still nurse morning and night if you stay consistent with that nursing and do a little extra pumping after some feedings.
      This video will explain how to build a stash if needed.
      How to build a freezer stash
      th-cam.com/video/WPNG6uFq5yI/w-d-xo.html
      This video will explain why you shouldn’t build a freezer stash.
      Why you should NOT build a freezer stash
      th-cam.com/video/aAiaVlQP4Ok/w-d-xo.html

    • @redcarpetfly
      @redcarpetfly 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc Thank you! This was really helpful 😊

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@redcarpetfly I’m so glad that it helped. ❤️

  • @anushikasingh80
    @anushikasingh80 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello ! Mam I too am offering both formula and breastfeeding ,my baby was born 2.975kg and he is 3.8 now on 2nd month I m concerned about his weight and health,and feeling guilty as well while offering formula milk and how to choose best formula milk for him

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re doing a great job mommy! Please don’t feel guilty 🥰
      Do you know what babies lowest weight was? There’s usually a drop on day two or three.
      How many wet diapers is baby having every 24 hours?

  • @Sweetyy227
    @Sweetyy227 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for video!I have a bigger Breast size in left side when compared to right side.Not producing enough milk.Please advise

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว

      How old is baby?
      Did your breast grow or change during pregnancy?
      Do you have some milk?
      Will baby latch?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @beeee4249
    @beeee4249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm combining because baby won't latch correctly. I want to go back to breast milk fully but baby is upset and he won't stop crying if I don't give him formula. He will cry for hours unless I give him formula

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beeee4249 How old is baby? Has this always been a problem from birth?
      Are you pumping?
      If so, will he take pumped breastmilk?

  • @zarikepunzulis4238
    @zarikepunzulis4238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ill be gone from my newborn for a day, I can make him a stash but its unpredictable as I don't know if my supply will be enough or if baby will be a little fussy. He is due this week, and I have 2 weeks until that day comes where Ill be away all day :( So I am super concerned!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is this your 1st baby?
      I would focus on getting breastfeeding established in the first week, then start pumping after feedings. Exclusively breastfed babies from 1 months to 6 months old, take is an average of 24 ounces every 24 hours. A new born will take in less.
      In your situation, i would introduce a bottle at around 1 week. (Normally, I would recommend introducing a bottle at around 1 month).
      A big concern is that you keep pumping on that day. Especially since you’ve been doing extra pumping. Skipping pumpings, can cause clogged ducts and loss of supply. It’s ok if you won’t be able to store it during that day (but hopefully you can). Even just pumping and throwing it away, keeps clogged ducts away and supply up.
      I know that you might not want too but in your situation, this might be stressful. It’s ok if baby needs a bottle or two of formula that day. You should be able to pump enough (20 to 24 ounces) but it’s ok if not. ❤️

    • @zarikepunzulis4238
      @zarikepunzulis4238 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc yes its my first baby, thank you so much for this thorough response you're such a great help and support here on YT we really appreciate you. I'll maybe have formula ready as a little backup and yes I got the momcozy I think the s9 model to pump on that day, its the wearable one. I will be doing my medical exam for an immigration visa and they dont allow me to take my baby with unfortunately, but they said I can pump. Ill definitely pump and dump maybe save up a little but for the most part I think I wont have time to pump, pour, write down times and store etc. Its going to definitely be a challenge but this momma is determined to make this work. Thank you again for the advice ❤️

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zarikepunzulis4238 I LOVE your positive attitude! You go mommy!
      Wearable pumps can have their own challenges. They can be hard to line up with your nipples but you will get some practice time in before hand.
      I don’t usually recommend wearables pumps for most moms for long term use. Short term use is usually great.
      If you struggle at all with it, take along an inexpensive manual pump as an emergency backup.❤️
      *Hands free pumps usually work well for moms with a forceful letdown/over supply.

  • @moniquebojorquez8555
    @moniquebojorquez8555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi my baby is 5 months old and I exclusively pump since he doesn’t latch on but I’m thinking of maybe starting formula or mixing it with my milk since he doesn’t seem to get full do you think this is a good idea ? He does have tummy issues would this make it worse ?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let me ask a few questions first to try to find the problem of latch and tummy issues. Did he not latch well because you have a forceful letdown/over supply?
      How many ounces of milk are you pumping a day? How many ounces is he taking in each day?
      If you want to give formula for some feedings, or adding prepared formula to breastmilk that’s usually fine but be sure that the formula is mixed with the proper amount of water before combining it.
      I’m not sure what this will do to his tummy because I don’t know why he’s having issues. Always check with your doctor if you’re not sure why there’s a tummy issue. ❤️

    • @moniquebojorquez8555
      @moniquebojorquez8555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc yes I do have an over supply but they mentioned he has some stiffness on his neck and that’s why he had trouble latching on and also doing other things so he’s in pt right now and for his tummy he had projectile vomit so he was in nicu and he had a lot of colic in the beginning and now he’s having constipation problems

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@moniquebojorquez8555 PT is great! That should help with the stiffness. 🥰
      Have you been able to get your condition under control? That’s often a major cause of tummy issues and latch problems. I have videos on Forceful letdown/over supply if you’d like to check them out. ❤️

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @Claudiaf93
    @Claudiaf93 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, thank you very much for the video. How can I decrease formula feeding? How can I know what quantity to give?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi mommy! How old is baby? Are you feeding from the breast? How much/often is baby getting formula?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @ashleynewman1173
    @ashleynewman1173 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello and thank you for wanting to help us all youre videos are so helpful! I’m 10 weeks postpartum and on the 4th round of antibiotics for bilateral recurrent mastitis. Any tips? I would certainly appreciate it. I’m very sad to have to give my baby formula and praise God it’s only 24 hours

    • @ashleynewman1173
      @ashleynewman1173 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They gave me Tylenol with codeine after the fact they told me it would be safe for my breastmilk

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Formula is great alternative to breastmilk. You’re doing great to be breastfeeding to 10 weeks and through Mastitis. It can become serious at times. Moms are sometimes hospitalized.
      Is it because of the antibiotics that you’re not able to give your milk for 24 hours? Or is it the Tylenol and Codeine?
      I have rarely seen bilateral Mastitis. So I have some questions
      Have you had lots of clogged ducts throughout the last 10 weeks?
      Do you have a Forceful Letdown/Over supply? I’m guessing that you probably do. If so, have you taken steps to control it.
      Do you do extra pumping for storage or only pump when necessary (engorgement or clogged ducts)?
      Do you take Sunflower Lecithin?
      What are your thoughts as to why this is happening?

    • @ashleynewman1173
      @ashleynewman1173 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello Mary, thank you very much for taking time to reply.
      I believe I have an issue with engorgement and a forceful let down.
      Unfortunately, I was one of the moms who had to be hospitalized. I had tons of clogs, they did a culture on my milk and were able to finally provide the correct antibiotic on the 10th attempt. It was in fact, bilateral mastitis primarily more severe on the left side as I was told milk, can collect on the side you sleep on if you did not empty out properly that being the reason why mastitis was worse on the left side. Currently, I am primarily pumping, however, I also breast-feed though my baby has a mild upper lip tie. The main factor was my primary pump, I was using a portable hands free which was not emptying me out due to the lack of suction. Thankfully, now I have a hospital grade from the hospital Medela. (they allow you to rent) I was recommended to take a probiotic lacto prime as well as sunflower lecithin.
      I’m just navigating first time motherhood . Thank you again for the great advice and care you have put into your videos! They have been a tremendous help🩵

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ashleynewman1173 I’m so glad that you’re on the right track now with the correct antibiotics.
      When you have the condition forceful, let down/over supply, you’ll have it with every baby but every baby will handle it differently. This is just a good thing to keep in mind for the future.❤️
      I have a three part video series on forceful let down/over supply, I’ll link it here for you. The first video just helps you to determine if you have the condition, which you know that you do but it may help you to see what some of the other signs are . The second video will help you to get it under control.
      When you have this condition, it takes constant monitoring. It can be sent into overdrive so easily. It can sometimes be more stressful than having a low supply.
      Look at these videos and let me know if you have any questions. You’re doing a great job, mommy! 🥰
      Forceful Letdown and Oversupply
      th-cam.com/play/PLbqc4bXQcbyUzyNxG-w7tBtKLWA3NpzLe.html

    • @ashleynewman1173
      @ashleynewman1173 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you very much! That’s great to know God willing we are able to have another child! I’ve watched mostly all your videos now and truly appreciate your time and recommendations 🩵 bless you for helping all the mothers 🩵🩵

  • @indivee
    @indivee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the video! My baby is 4 weeks old and I’ve been nursing her. Lately, her latch has been so painful! She latches fine, but then she decides to only suck on the nipple and when I relatch her, she does the same thing! She also “bites” down on my nipples. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Does your milk come out forcefully? Sometimes moms have a condition of Forceful letdown/over supply. This usually starts being a problem after about 1 week.
      You can change positions. Maybe an upright or laid back position.
      Be sure that the latch is deep enough. If baby is tight in to your body with head tilted back, they have a wide open mouth and not be able to bite down very easily. I’ll attach a video here for you. ❤️
      How Do I Nurse My Baby Without Pain?
      th-cam.com/video/X9MmYwf1Vu0/w-d-xo.html

    • @indivee
      @indivee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @sushmitharaju8182
    @sushmitharaju8182 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was unaware that first three weeks is very crucial my baby had jaundice so she used to sleep longer and not had latching issues for more than two weeks .. now my baby is 7 weeks and I see my milk supply decreasing .. what can I do to increase my milk supply

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What signs are you seeing that show your supply is low?

  • @barbieyayabx
    @barbieyayabx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Need help feel like I’m not making much on my left i get maybe 4 oz of Milk the whole day and on my right maybe 2 oz so I’m making maybe 7 oz all together a day. She feeds every 2 hrs but doctor said since she’s 2 months she should be eating every 3hrs I’m strictly breastfeeding can you recommend anything to help with milk supply

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just to be sure that I understand… you are exclusively breastfeeding her. You also do some extra pumping. Your doctor thinks she is eating too often for a 2 month old. All correct?
      Are you doing the extra pumping to store or do you feed that to her too?
      What do you feel like your supply is low?
      We all have one side that produces more than the other. For some moms it’s not much of a difference but for others it’s a little more. The good news is that the good side makes up for the slacker. If you weren’t pumping, you wouldn’t even know that there was a difference.
      Is baby having at least six wet diapers, every 24 hours?
      I’m not sure why your doctor believes that baby shouldn’t be eating as often as she is. So many doctors do not understand breast-feeding. Unless I’m missing something, in my opinion, your doctor doesn’t understand breastfeeding.
      Every baby is so different. Some are better at transferring milk than others. At two months old there are some babies who nurse every hour and a half to two hours and then there are other babies that only eating every five or six hours.

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @AshBrem
    @AshBrem 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I appreciate this video a lot. I’m going back to work and I haven’t been producing breast milk as much as I used to. So I’m deciding to formula feed while I work and breast feed while at home while pumping as work. Hopefully I can go back to just breast milk or at least produce enough to feed that to her. Thanks

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AshBrem That’s awesome! You do what’s best for you and baby. 🥰
      Here are a couple of videos that might be helpful. It’s important to know that babies who are exclusively breastfed from the breast take in an average of 24 ounces every 24 hours. This is for babies from one month to six months old. I know it seems crazy, but they don’t increase in their intake of breastmilk. Formula fed babies need more ounces as they age because their body doesn’t completely absorb it. When baby is fed breastmilk in a bottle, they often taken in much more than they would from the breast. “Pace feeding” helps a breastfed baby to take in exactly what they need and helps mom to be able to pump enough.
      In the first few weeks, most moms can pump a larger amount. Maybe 4 to 6 ounces combined if they’re pumping in place of the feeding. After about 4 to 6 weeks, moms will have their milk regulated down to just what baby needs. This amount is usually 2 to 3 ounces in place of a feeding. At this point if you’re pumping after a feeding, it may only be drops. ❤️
      Paced Feeding
      th-cam.com/video/NIDWewaslOQ/w-d-xo.html
      Pumping Breastmilk at Work
      th-cam.com/video/m1xSP3jknQM/w-d-xo.html
      How Many Ounces of Breastmilk Does My Baby Need?
      th-cam.com/video/L2eaaNq2R50/w-d-xo.html
      Pumping Moms With Low Milk Supply
      th-cam.com/video/_of4OTnOubc/w-d-xo.html

  • @MuslimaVokhidova
    @MuslimaVokhidova หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Helle
    I have a question. My baby is two and half month how can I increase my milksupply. I feed her every 2-1 hour. Often cries at night

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MuslimaVokhidova If baby is having 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours, gaining weight well (and staying around the same percentile) and is satisfied after nursing in the first part of the day, you know they’re getting enough.
      Some babies eat every hour and others every 3 hours. I know it’s frustrating when they are fussy but in the evening, babies tend to cluster feed. During a cluster feed, baby might nurse non stop in the evening. Babies can be extra fussy in the evenings because they are overstimulated, overly tired or having growing pains. Sometimes it can be hard to calm them down. This can go on for a few days or a week, then it usually gets better again, though it can start back up again anytime. 🥲
      The best way to increase your milk supply/or to keep it where it should be, is by putting baby to the breast as often and as long as possible. ❤️

  • @anshewilkins
    @anshewilkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello. Im 6 weeks PP. I have been exclusively breastfeeding but its taking a toll on me because my daughter doesnt seem to get full. She stays latched for several mins and acts like full but then starts crying wanting more milk and i nurse her on the other breast, stays on several mins.. after nursing both breast she still wants more. She is a healthy weight , but does spit up (not a lot ), but not sure if i should start combo feeding and adding formula to help keep her full longer because this also shortens her naps because she is hungry all the time

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is actually very common and normal. Some breastfed babies will go a little longer between but most will feed almost nonstop in the first few weeks. A formula fed baby goes longer between feedings because formula doesn’t digest as quickly or completely. There’s nothing wrong with formula, but it’s important to understand that it’s different.
      Most breastfed babies nurse less often in the first part of the day. Some of these babies will only eat every 2 to 3 (or even 4) hours in the first 10 to 12 hours of the day. So, it would be normal if your baby did longer stretches from 2 AM to about 2 PM. And then after that, baby may want to nurse almost nonstop.
      Baby eating nonstop in the afternoon and evening is called cluster feeding. This happens for a couple of reasons. During this time of day, baby is usually overstimulated or overly tired or hurting and uncomfortable because it hurts to grow so quickly. Another part of this is that we have less milk during that time of day so baby takes a small amount more often. At that time of when our supply is slightly lower it has higher fat content, which is very important for baby for their overall health and brain development.
      Sometimes it helps moms just to know that this is very normal for breastfed babies, but it’s OK if this is just not something that’s good for your mental health. If baby is taking formula at any feeding during the day and you wish to keep your supply up, you need to be pumping every time baby gets that formula.
      For some moms, it can help just to know that this is normal but for others it’s still just too much of a strain. If you keep your supply up, you may decide to go back to fully feeding from the breast or you may continue to combination feed. Either way is ok
      Feeding from both breasts at every nursing session is best at this point. That means to feed from one breast for as long as possible, then switch to the second side. Some babies will continue on that second side for several more minutes and others may just stay for a couple of seconds and be done . The moms who should not be feeding from both breast our mom’s that have a forceful letdown/over supply. Do you believe that you mayhave forceful letdown / over supply? If so, that will change things and I’ll give you some different direction.

    • @anshewilkins
      @anshewilkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @marycahillclc yes I think I have a forceful letdown and oversupply because when she nurses sometimes she gags which I'm afraid of. So I been giving her breast milk in a bottle as well to help with that. I'm just confused on what is the best direction for me and baby, but I'm comfortable with adding formula

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anshewilkins i’m so glad that you’re comfortable with adding formula. Adding formula can help to get your oversupply under control.
      It’s very important to understand your condition before problems arise. When you have this condition, you will have it with every baby, but every baby will handle it differently.
      Here is my three part playlist on forceful letdown/over supply.
      The rules and guidelines for breastfeeding will always be very different for you. It’s good to check out the information before you have a problem and if there’s an issue, you can go back and rewatch. Let me know if you have any questions. ❤️
      Forceful Letdown and Oversupply
      th-cam.com/play/PLbqc4bXQcbyUzyNxG-w7tBtKLWA3NpzLe.html

    • @anshewilkins
      @anshewilkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @marycahillclc thank you so much Mary! This was so helpful!! I've been debating back n forth on combo feeding because I couldn't find anyone to get advice from although I have been doing my research. I don't have any lactation consultants in my area unfortunately :( so it's been hard. I just want to make sure my baby is full and able to sleep without her sleep disrupted due to hunger and she gets really really fussy when she's hungry.

    • @anshewilkins
      @anshewilkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I just watched the FL/OS video and I meet all criteria for it! Wow! I knew I had both but the video just confirmed it further. Because of my fl/os my daughter gags, chokes and cries (not every nursing session) but it's common. I need to start exclusively pumping going forward which I have been pumping and have over 20 bags of frozen milk already stored

  • @denizcanguven3803
    @denizcanguven3803 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a previous breast surgery (fat transfer to breast) 9 years ago. I have nipple sensation. After my baby was born via c/s, I just could breastfeed for one week or so due to low supply. We always supplemented formula via bottle. Then my baby started not to extract any milk then developed bottle preferance. After 1 month and with medication, I regularly handexpressed milk, through at most I got 500 ml milk. Could I have breastfed without sns if I had been more persistant or can I breastfeed my future babies?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@denizcanguven3803 was that 500mls every 24 hours?
      Sometimes, breast surgery can affect supply but if you were able to produce some at all, you would probably be able to produce more. I would meet with a lactation counselor while you’re pregnant with the next baby.
      Even a small amount of breastmilk, for even a short amount of time, will give baby benefits for the rest of their lives. ❤️

    • @denizcanguven3803
      @denizcanguven3803 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc Thank you very much for your answer 😊 yes, in 24 hours I express 500 ml.
      A lactation consultant told me if I breastfed, I would produce more milk and would not need to give my baby formula, since sucking is more powerful than expressing milk. But I am not sure about it.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@denizcanguven3803 500 ml is 2/3 of what baby needs a day. That’s not too far off.
      You probably would produce more. It’s not technically the “sucking” that would make more but the baby’s mouth on your breast, stimulates your milk supply. The way baby’s mouth moves on the breast is different than a pump. That movement along with baby’s saliva on your breast. Your body actually absorbs some of the baby’s saliva.
      This video will explain how to increase supply while reducing formula. It’s great that you’re getting prepared for your next baby. Please remember that you didn’t fall. You did great! ❤️
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

    • @denizcanguven3803
      @denizcanguven3803 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc Thank you very much for your kind reply and your time❤
      I wish I could manage to breastfeed with SNS, but I couldn't. I hope I can breastfeed exclusively next time, so I won't have to go through the grief of breastfeeding failure again.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@denizcanguven3803 You did an excellent job! ❤️

  • @sabiji1984
    @sabiji1984 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the wonderful video. I have a question. My baby is on formula. I tried weening her off the formula but she wouldn't take the breast. I pumped and I was not getting anything and thought that I lost my supply. It has been couple of weeks since I breast feed or pumped. For few days now, my baby has been nuzzling towards my breast and I have been feeling like my breast has milk. I checked today during the shower and noticed that when I squeeze my breath milk is coming out. So what do I do now. I thought my supply was gone. I'm so confused.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi mommy! How old is baby now?
      If you can get baby to start latching at the breast, you can increase your supply. You can add pumping but baby on the breast is best.
      When you were pumping, were you not even seeing drops? We’re you getting any milk out in the beginning?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      1 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      2 Praise be to God, Lord of the Worlds.
      3 The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
      4 Master of the Day of Judgment.
      5 It is You we worship, and upon You we call for help.
      6 Guide us to the straight path.
      7 The path of those You have blessed, not of those against whom there is anger, nor of those who
      are misguided.
      In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful.
      1 Alif, Lam, Meem.
      2 This is the Book in which there is no doubt, a guide for the righteous.
      3 Those who believe in the unseen, and perform the prayers, and give from what We have provided for them.
      4 And those who believe in what was revealed to you, and in what was revealed before you, and are certain of the Hereafter.
      5 These are upon guidance from their Lord. These are the successful.
      255 God! There is no god except He, the Living, the Everlasting. Neither slumber overtakes Him, nor sleep. To Him belongs everything in the heavens and everything on earth. Who is he that can intercede with Him except with His permission? He knows what is before them, and what is behind them; and they cannot grasp any of His knowledge, except as He wills. His Throne extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation does not burden Him. He is the Most High, the Great.
      11 Originator of the heavens and the earth. He made for you mates from among yourselves, and pairs of animals, by means of which He multiplies you. There is nothing like Him. He is the Hearing, the Seeing.
      3 He sent down to you the Book with the Truth, confirming what came before it; and He sent down the Torah and the Gospel.
      4 Aforetime, as guidance for mankind; and He sent down the Criterion. Those who have rejected God’s signs will have a severe punishment. God is Mighty, Able to take revenge.
      5 Nothing is hidden from God, on earth or in the heaven.
      6 It is He who forms you in the wombs as He wills. There is no god except He, the Almighty, the Wise.
      233 Mothers may nurse their infants for two whole years, for those who desire to complete the nursing-period. It is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in a proper manner. No soul shall be burdened beyond its capacity. No mother shall be harmed on account of her child, and no father shall be harmed on account of his child. The same duty rests upon the heir. If the couple desire weaning, by mutual consent and consultation, they commit no error by doing so. You commit no error by hiring nursing-mothers, as long as you pay them fairly. And be wary of God, and know that God is Seeing of what you do.
      22 Do not marry women whom your fathers married, except what is already past. That is improper, indecent, and a bad custom.
      23 Forbidden for you are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal aunts, your maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your stepdaughters in your guardianship-born of wives you have gone into-but if you have not gone into them, there is no blame on you. And the wives of your genetic sons, and marrying two sisters simultaneously. Except what is past. God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
      31 Say, “If you love God, then follow me, and God will love you, and will forgive you your sins.” God is Forgiving and Merciful.
      32 Say, “Obey God and the Messenger.” But if they turn away-God does not love the faithless.
      33 God chose Adam, and Noah, and the family of Abraham, and the family of Imran, over all mankind.
      34 Offspring one of the other. God is Hearer and Knower.
      35 The wife of Imran said, “My Lord, I have vowed to You what is in my womb, dedicated, so accept from me; You are the Hearer and Knower.”
      36 And when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female,” and God was well aware of what she has delivered, “and the male is not like the female, and I have named her Mary, and have commended her and her descendants to Your protection, from Satan the outcast.”
      37 Her Lord accepted her with a gracious reception, and brought her a beautiful upbringing, and entrusted her to the care of Zechariah. Whenever Zechariah entered upon her in the sanctuary, he found her with provision. He said, “O Mary, where did you get this from?” She said, “It is from God; God provides to whom He wills without reckoning.”
      38 Thereupon Zechariah prayed to his Lord; he said, “My Lord, bestow on me good offspring from Your presence; You are the Hearer of Prayers.”
      39 Then the angels called out to him, as he stood praying in the sanctuary: “God gives you good news of John; confirming a Word from God, and honorable, and moral, and a prophet; one of the upright.”
      40 He said, “My Lord, how will I have a son, when old age has overtaken me, and my wife is barren?” He said, “Even so, God does whatever He wills.”
      41 He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you shall not speak to the people for three days, except by gestures. And remember your Lord much, and praise in the evening and the morning.”
      42 The angels said, “O Mary, God has chosen you, and has purified you. He has chosen you over all the women of the world.
      43 “O Mary, be devoted to your Lord, and bow down, and kneel with those who kneel.”
      44 These are accounts from the Unseen, which We reveal to you. You were not with them when they cast their lots as to which of them would take charge of Mary; nor were you with them as they quarreled.
      45 The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest.
      46 He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.”
      47 She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.”
      48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel.
      49 A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.”
      50 “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.”
      51 “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.”
      52 When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.”
      53 “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.”
      54 They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners.
      55 God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing.
      56 As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers.
      57 And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.”
      58 This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder.
      59 The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was.
      60 The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt.
      61 And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.”
      62 This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise.
      63 But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt.
      64 Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.”
      65 O People of the Book! Why do you argue about Abraham, when the Torah and the Gospel were not revealed until after him? Will you not reason?
      66 Here you are-you argue about things you know, but why do you argue about things you do not know? God knows, and you do not know.
      67 Abraham was neither a Jew nor a Christian, but he was a Monotheist, a Muslim. And he was not of the Polytheists.
      68 The people most deserving of Abraham are those who followed him, and this prophet, and those who believe. God is the Guardian of the believers.
      85 Whoever seeks other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
      Read The Quran

  • @tikuma.berenice8240
    @tikuma.berenice8240 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What can i do...i wanted to go exclusive on breastmilk for 6 months but she is need feeding well because the milk doesnt flow effevtively

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tikuma.berenice8240 What signs are you seeing that show you that your milk is flowing to slowly?
      Is baby getting formula now?
      Does baby seem satisfied with feeding in the morning but not in the afternoon and evening?

  • @Sahithivisvanathan
    @Sahithivisvanathan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, I am 6weeks pp. baby couldn't latch on to the breast so I am exclusively pumping 7 times a day. I do one power pump session. I am making 600-700 ml per day. Is there a way to increase my supply? She takes 2-4 oz every feed. I am just making enough for her. But I am afraid as she gets bigger the milk won't be sufficient for her.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Babies from 1 months to 6 months take in an average of 24 ounces every 24 hours. It stays the same if baby is breastfeeding (exclusively pumping is still breastfeeding. In fact it’s more work so you get extra gold starts! ⭐️ ❤️). Formula fed babies take in more as they age because it doesn’t completely digest so they need more ounces to get the same nutrients.
      It sounds like your supply is just about perfect but this video will help you to keep it that way.
      It’s very important to do lots of breast massage before pumping. And it’s important to stay consistent with times that you pump. It doesn’t have to be exact but close. Keep power pumping time constant too. If you power pump in the morning, do that every day. ❤️
      Pumping Moms With Low Milk Supply
      th-cam.com/video/_of4OTnOubc/w-d-xo.html

  • @dr.pravithacp5841
    @dr.pravithacp5841 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Baby was exclusively breastfed during first month of her life.. She was having dirty diapers only once in 10 days and appeared fussy quite often...Gain in weight during first month was just 100 g..So, Pediatrician suggested there is low milk supply and advised to start using formula...
    Now she is showing weightgain. But here Im worried about my supply thinking if it will stop complete ly..😢 & trying strenuously to retain my breast milk supply by nursing and also by manual pumping...
    .Is it possible for me to wean her off from formula and to switch to exclusive breastfeeding..plz hlp😊

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dr.pravithacp5841 Yes. Here’s a video to explain how to increase supply while weaning off of formula. Following this video, will help you to know exactly how much formula you can reduce by. Baby will tell you ❤️
      It’s important to figure out why your supply was low. You can give me more details here of what happened that first month or see a local LC to figure things out.
      I’ll watch for a reply but I’ll be out of town this week so I’ll be slow to answer
      Increasing Your Milk Supply and Weaning off of Formula
      th-cam.com/video/S3DSN2Dwf5M/w-d-xo.html

  • @iqragaal1253
    @iqragaal1253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hallo I just wanted to ask what about staying home mom that is with the baby all the time am new mom my baby is one month I was breastfeeding since day one but I feel like my milk supply is not enough for him and i was not planning to give him baby formula but now am having second thoughts I need some advice should I keep only breastfeeding or should I add baby formula

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@iqragaal1253 Moms start to feel like their supply isn’t enough but it almost always is enough. If baby is always having 6 or more wet diapers every day, then you definitely know they are getting enough.
      After a few weeks, our breasts start to feel flat and empty. This can make us think our milk is gone but this is exactly how they are supposed to be. Milk isn’t stored in our breast, it’s made while nursing or pumping. Also, baby may have times of being upset because they are overly tired or uncomfortable because it hurts to grow so quickly. That may seem like baby is still hungry but they probably aren’t. It’s good to let baby stay at the breast as long as they want but if they refuse to, just know that it’s probably not a hunger problem. This fussy time is usually in the afternoon and evening but in the morning they seem satisfied.
      Does that sound like that’s what’s causing you to question your supply? Or is there something else that’s causing concern? ❤️

    • @iqragaal1253
      @iqragaal1253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclcI needed this comment thank you I just had that feeling that my breast is flat I thought to my self that my milk is not enough for my baby that’s all and people tried to advise me to give formula milk but I don’t plan to do that at the moment but am grateful for the reply thank u 😊

  • @nighatmalik2348
    @nighatmalik2348 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have oversupply of milk and my baby latches for only four to five minutes with a gap of 2. -3 hours. She is four month old

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If baby is having 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours, then you know she’s getting enough.
      Is she having problems with your over supply?
      If you haven’t seen my videos on Forceful letdown/ oversupply, I’ll link them here.❤️
      Forceful Letdown / Oversupply
      th-cam.com/play/PLbqc4bXQcbyUzyNxG-w7tBtKLWA3NpzLe.html

    • @nighatmalik2348
      @nighatmalik2348 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc ya she gets disappointed and angry for being uncomfortable

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nighatmalik2348 Check out that link. It will be really helpful. It’s important to keep it in check. It’s something that you’ll always need to keep an eye on because it can get out of hand quickly.
      Also, keep in mind that you will have it with all of your babies. 🥰

  • @asikimondal1945
    @asikimondal1945 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My baby was 3 year old now ....i am the worst mom in the world😢 when he was birth my brestmilk was not coming i am trying 3days late for this reason my brest milk was not coming for the next 6 month when the baby want exclusively brestfeed for this reason my baby growing up with formulamilk....now im in depression for my child health.. many pepole saying that formula milk was very bad thing....Everyone says that babies who don't get mother's milk they suffer a lot of physical damage and may get many diseases. Is it true? My english language was not so ok please mam try to understand my feelings and reply me for your valuable response.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asikimondal1945 You’re not a bad mom at all and formula is a great alternative to breastmilk.
      Breast milk slightly increases the chances of less illness but baby can be just as healthy with formula. No need to worry about. You did great! ❤️

    • @asikimondal1945
      @asikimondal1945 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you mam for your reply......mam now i am trying to a healthy food chart for my baby my baby take rice ,vegetables, ots, nuts, fruits, fish ,meat ,cow milk ..... now is that help my babys good health.. is that help the missing of mother milk " not feeding brestmilk in his age of 6 months "

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asikimondal1945 Yes, a healthy diet is always best ❤️

    • @asikimondal1945
      @asikimondal1945 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc ❤️

  • @asifullah4567
    @asifullah4567 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi, we have baby boy, today is 1 month olda, birth weight was 2.7kg now 3.4kg on breastfeed. But th problem is we feel like he is always hungry instead mother have a good milk supply. Shall we start Formula along with breastfeeding? If yes please recommend me which formula we can start. Waiting for your reply please

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@asifullah4567 Is baby having 6 or more wet diapers every day?
      If baby is having 6 or more wet diapers every 24 hours and is gaining weight well, then you know that baby is getting enough.
      Breastfed babies eat more often than formula fed babies. A newborn should be nursing 8 to 12 times a day. If baby is a slow eater, they might nurse every hour. The afternoon and evening times, baby may want to nurse almost non stop. Baby will start to nurse less often but will have times that they nurse almost nonstop again for a few days.
      If you’re concerned that baby isn’t getting enough, you should try to see a lactation counselor or your doctor as soon as possible.
      Formula is sometimes necessary if baby isn’t having lots of wet diapers or isn’t gaining weight. If baby needs formula or you would just like to give it, keep in mind that your supply will drop unless you pump at around the same time that baby receives formula.
      I’m not sure what brand would be best. Check with your doctor for some recommendations. ❤️

    • @asifullah4567
      @asifullah4567 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marycahillclc yes Mam, diaper is more than 10, but he is crying always, we feed him for 30-40 minutes he will stop. Sometimes he will cry again after 10min sometimes 20,30 minutes and will sleep for 2 hours again will start repeating. However after every breastfeed he will pass small amount of stool we r changing diapers now a days every hour or 2 hourly and the meantimes he developed rashes and sever redness between buttocks i donot know the causes. Maybe he is not tolerating mother feed ?

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@asifullah4567 Does baby seem satisfied in the morning? Babies will sometimes be fussy in the afternoon and evening because they are over tired, over stimulated or not feeling well. It can be uncomfortable to grow so quickly. If you have concerns about baby, please talk to your doctor.
      Rubbing a little bit on breastmilk on a diaper rash can help. Let baby’s bottom air out for a few minutes to help with healing. Even if baby doesn’t have a rash, it helps to keep rashes away by always letting baby’s bottom dry for a few seconds before putting a diaper on.
      A rash can also be caused by thrush. If that were the issue, you would probably feel a little pain in your nipples. The rash when it’s Thrush, will usually be around their legs where the diaper is touching.
      Do you know if you have a forceful letdown and over supply?
      Is baby having green or foamy poops? Is baby choking a lot while nursing?

    • @asifullah4567
      @asifullah4567 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marycahillclc as for newborn we r visiting every week a doctor for follow up as per doctor its normal and for the rash he advised some cream along with instructions of to avoid wipe use direct water for pop cleaning, the pop is yellowish light color, in the morning he is usually in mood but as u mentioned Noon and in the evening he is crying always. For now most probably he is crying bcz of the rashes, during feeding not al times but some of times he will start cough. Foget to mention he has nasal congestion for which we r using saline drops evey 2 hourly or as per need. For colic we r burping properly and he has to many gases!!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The cream should help with the rash. I like Butt Paste or Desitin.
      Water wipes can help to keep the chemicals in wipes to affect baby’s skin.
      Holding baby is a more upright position can be helpful when baby has a stuffy nose.

  • @moonsugar_xo
    @moonsugar_xo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i’m 5 days postpartum, i have been pumping to feed baby, but the every 3 hour pumping schedule is a lot, i’m very fatigued and emotional! i was interested in finding a way to use my milk, but not have to pump so often, could i maybe just pump every 4 hours if i do combo feedings with bottles of half breastmilk/half formula? trying to figure out how yo use my own milk without having to be on as strict of a schedule

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You definitely can go longer stretches but your supply will go down.
      In these first few weeks, you are establishing your supply. It will be more work later to try to increase supply.
      To maintain supply, you must pump at least 8 (to 12) times every 24 hours. You can do a longer stretch in the night.
      It’s totally up to you if you’d like to partially breastfeed, fully breastfed or fully formula feed. There is nothing wrong with any of those choices. Only you can decide what’s best for you, your baby and your mental health.
      If you want to continue pumping, maybe you could ask a friend or partner to help out more.
      Is it a personal preference to not feed from the breast or was baby not latching well?
      The “easiest” way is to feed from the breast and not pump in these first few weeks. I say “easiest” but it’s still a lot of time and work. You’ll still need some support from others because most breastfeeding newborns, nurse almost nonstop but you wouldn’t be attached to a pump, have to worry about storing the milk and washing bottles.
      As far as feeding breastmilk and formula, I prefer to have moms feed breastmilk first without mixing then offer formula after breastmilk is gone. Doing this, gives baby the freshest breastmilk, with the most nutrients and immunological properties. By giving the formula separate, if baby doesn’t finish the bottle you aren’t wasting breastmilk. You’re only wasting formula.
      Even if you decided to go exclusively feeding formula or a combination of feeding for the time being, baby is getting benefits of your breastmilk that will stay with their body for their whole lives.
      I want to support you no matter what your choice is. You are doing a great job mommy!❤️

    • @moonsugar_xo
      @moonsugar_xo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thank you so so much!! i was EBF but when we came home from the hospital, i got super swollen and engorged, to where my anatomy was too flat for him to latch onto!😭
      Because of this i started pumping because i wanted to make sure he was getting fed and also with his improper latching at that time o started to have cracking and bleeding.
      I was ready to give up but today he actually latched appropriately for a full session! hopefully this can continue and my swelling continues to go down!

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@moonsugar_xo That’s awesome! Reach out to me or your local lactation counselor if Pain continues. Also, apply cold compresses after nursing or pumping. When you are engorged may feel good, but it will actually increase the engorgement /inflammation.
      If he does have a problem with latching because you are engorged, you can apply heat for just a couple of minutes before latching. This short amount of heat will soften the breast and make it easier for him to get a deep latch .
      Engorgement should start to be much less in the next few days. ❤️

    • @moonsugar_xo
      @moonsugar_xo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marycahillclc thanks again so much!! and just to confirm, what increases the engorgement/inflammation? there may have been a typo! thank you for all of the tips❤️

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@moonsugar_xo Oh sorry. Regularly applying heat will increase engorgement. It will feel like it decreases engorgement at the the time but in a few hours, it will be worse. Also, over pumping in the first few weeks will increase engorgement. If baby is latching well, only pump a small amount if you are feeling overly engorged.
      You can pump a small amount if you are needing to give baby extra milk. Just keep the pumping to a minimum right now.
      Applying cold or cool compress after nursing or pumping, will help to decrease the engorgement.

  • @mohammednadaf9997
    @mohammednadaf9997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello , i am breastfeeding and formula feeding twice a day , because I plan on returning back to work. I have noticed a decrease in my supply after adding the formula. Should I be concerned or can i just continue what I am doing.

    • @marycahillclc
      @marycahillclc  ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s totally fine if you’re wanting to formula feed when you’re working and won’t be pumping at work.
      It would be good for your supply to do some breastfeeding during the day when you’re home on your days off but you will need to use some formula during those hours.
      If you are wanting to pump at work to have for baby the next work day, you should either avoid formula or pump at the same time that baby gets formula.
      Tell me; How old is baby? How many ounces of formula is baby getting a day? And what signs are you seeing that show you that supply is low?

    • @abdulali8738
      @abdulali8738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

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