"instead of admiring other person so much, why don't you become a person that you admire yourself". not only is it true, but really an ah-ha moment to push myself to do more for myself and strive for self improvement. Thank you :)
she lost feelings but didn’t tell me so for half of our relationship she let me give my everything to her when the feelings weren’t at all reciprocated. I know it would never have worked out and that the relationship was hurting me but I just don’t want to accept that it’s over
@@AlexisLilian my ex girlfriend break up with last week to be with another girl i dont hate her but i dont want be friends with her she want be friends how get over her ??.
i suffered an extreme heartbreak last summer. i cried and vented and sobbed. and then tried to forget her, because thinking about her was too painful. she's showed up in my dreams constantly. i finally admitted to myself recently.... that i'm really not over her. i've been going through it again trying to FEEL and CRY and VENT. again. learn from my mistake and be honest with yourself on your heart. it's hard cause i'm not ready to move on yet. some part of me still feels like she's the one and i'm losing her. but another part recognizes that she chose to leave me... it's really her loss... and i deserve to be with someone who knows what they got and would never let me go
This was really helpful to me right now. Just had my first lesbian heartbreak and it shattered me. I came out in my mid 30s so it was a weird feeling having these intense breakup feelings I've never had before. Getting better every day but I still struggle and this was a good for me, thank you.
I know this was a year ago but this is me right now. First lesbian relationship at 25. Been through tons of breakups and/or heartbreaks... but this one hurts so much worse... even though the relationship only lasted a few months. I am glad I’m not crazy.
@@maryismarjan Yes. I run into her from time to time at the store and it doesn’t make me feel anything other than mild annoyance. I just moved in with my partner and am happier than I have ever been. 🫶🏼
@@maryismarjan Yes. I run into her at the store from time to time and don’t feel anything other than mild annoyance. I was single for 2 full years before meeting my current partner. We just moved in together and I have never been happier. It’s cliche, but I learned and grew a ton. I’m so grateful we didn’t work out. 🫶🏼
Alright here it is by popular request - how to get over someone and move on to better things! Sending hugs and love to everyone, let us know if you want those playlists ;)
this has been so helpful! thank you for sharing, Alexis and Lilian 💖 also yes I definitely need the playlists especially the feel good happy vibes one! 😄
Yes please we want the playlists, of course. By the way the soundtrack to the video was great, too! You channel is amazing and that was another great, thoughtful video, and it's very clever to have done it after the last one.
Hi girls, this is the video that i needed today, thank you very much:) you both are amazing, and yesss, i would love to get those playlists please! I love techno and sad music too🤍 kisses from Colombia
Wow. You managed to make me cry just by flashing that Sinead O'Connor LP. Three decades on and "Nothing compares" still stabs me in the feels. My contribution to the playlist would include: "She's gone" (Steel Heart), "On Every Street" (Dire Straits), "Foolish Games" (Jewel), "She (Elvis Costello) and "Stop" (Sam Brown). And many more I'll remember after I send this. 😪😫😐😀
The hardest thing is when the beginning was so beautiful and you can’t reconcile it with their contrasting behaviour later on. Then you wonder was that them or were they wearing a mask until it eventually slips. Authenticity is so key from the very beginning. Thanks for your video!
Just being honest, as an "old" person here lol... Keep the love letters. Don't crucify me. I wish I kept things. I grew up before email and I'm telling you...if you have an actual love letter... throw it in a keep safe box and forget about it, for now 😉❤️
I completely agree, Dawn. :) It's nice to have those little things one day when you feel better, emotinaly stable and everything seems like from another life... But it warms your soul in a way.
exactly. Hide the letters and souvenirs in a box. And then when it's no longer painful and you've moved on, you'll be happy to have these to remember all the good memories (unless the relationship was toxic obv)
Lilian: "One of my favorite heartbreak song is I know it's over by The Smiths..." *Me paused the video and go to Spotify* Came back and paused one more time for Alexis's heartbreak song
Im heartbroken since half a year now and according to this video I'd say I am still lurking around in the acceptance phase. I just cant get my mind off of this one person and at least for now the idea of unsubscribing her on social media or deleting every message and memory seems impossible to me. I'd love to get to listen to your playlists. Since I experienced not only time but especially music heals most of the wounds.
Don't worry about it too much, I'd say. Time really does heal everything! With time, you will see that you don't think about her as much and the thought of blocking her etc. doesn't seem as impossible and hurtful. Try to actually catch yourself when you are thinking about her and find something else to think about even if it hurts and is difficult as hell. If you keep cutting yourself off from thinking about this one person then you won't do it as much anymore. Good luck and don't forget that you deserve someone who loves you and treasures you as much as you love and treasure them and even if it might not seem true sometimes, there are people out there that are just a perfect match for you!
@@iremsezen812 Thanks for your kind and true words. I can see you've got experience in being lovesick. So I hope you successfully reached step three and are moving on eventually. 🍀
I've felt the same way since my breakup. I just asked her to block me on sm and I've been trying to fill time working lots, meditating, exercising, doing good deeds, visiting friends and it is getting better. Fuck, half a year of this would be torture. I really think it is easier to stop pining if you're not seeing or knowing about their every move or assuming they're doing great when you feel like shit :( My best friend was the one who coerced me to just block delete and as much as I didnt want to it helped. Hope your heart gets better soon ❤
This is the best video regarding this topic I've ever watched. You talked about this in such a kind, understanding, empathetic, sensitive and supporting way, it was like listening to two of my best friends, even I don't know you personally of course. I am currently at the first stage. I have gone through all of these steps before and I was kind of already aware of all the steps you talked about here, but the one thing I was always missing out on and that I skipped was "killing the hope" (which was really funny when you said it like this, Lillian :D). I am a very optimistic person despite my depression and I am always holding on to the tiniest bit of hope, no matter what it's about. I'm really having trouble with letting the hope go, even though I accept that the person has left me. It's strange and it's hard, but I'm gonna watch this video whenever I feel like I need a reminder of this over the coming weeks (or months or however long it is going to take me to get over this). Thank you so much!
Thank you, it makes us happy to hear that you found it helpful. Wishing you all the best through these difficult times, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel ❤️ sending hugs
I really needed this video. You're talking about things I knew but that I had to be reminded of. Thanks a lot, I felt more at peace at the end of the video. And of couuuurse we want the playlists!!
my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago and it's hard to distract yourself when you're on lockdown and can't really go out that much and meet friends... even virtually it has its limits when you just don't want to sit in front of a screen all day long or just really need a hug. :( so far creative outlets worked best for me: doodling, painting, writing, hell even knitting. :) podcasts can also be a great distraction (again: netflix is great but staring at a screen for days is just not it for me and I crave offline time). so I'd be happy about those playlists :-) listening to music helps me a lot as well and I enjoy it the most when painting. thank you two for this video.
jeeznametaken same.. we broke up a day before the lockdown started. It has been a month now... I didn't had a chance to greet her on her birthday..since she blocked all my social media accounts, and maybe my phone number. It's so painfuL. I had to decided to block her back tho I still love and want her back. Now I set my goals to treat myself better, including less usage of my phone and focus on improvement for myself. Sorry just wanna share.
I hear you! I empathize with you. My ex and I also broke up before the lockdown. It was the most difficult feeling in the world for me. Sleeping well was hard for a month and the first few weeks got me nightmares. A heartbreak that cut me to the core. I hope you get over it soon. Virtual hugs!
I crave offline time so much too. I stopped texting someone who would text me everyday. They are the nicest person and I loved talking to them but I had to assert boundaries and stop texting them because I desperately want physical presence and to live life outside of my phone. It sucks because I value them and don't want to abandon them but I also need to make space for my needs. :(
I still have hope. I need to work through these emotions. She helped me get over my ex as a friend and we fell in love. I really believed we were going to be together 😢
I lost my dad, she tried to console me when we fell in love. She is now getting married to her ex-bf. I'm here heartbroken. Why do the other person in a relationship always moves on fast?
@@priyankajoshi5931 your heart will heal. Focus on your and what brings you joy, makes you feel happy. Spend time with friends. Let things be how they are. You may look back and realise it was for the best for you in a month or so. I wish you all the best x
Hey friends, better late than never, here are the playlists we made: Heartbreak Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/20HbmyyAF00t8ni9p2J3xQ?si=Qkyx3jRNSeuTHLcd5TFC4g "Moving On" Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/2oHNUXPpfd94Oi7GdKg9UQ?si=ZcPjh3c_SyeR8MCn_xA-pQ
Dear Alexis and Lilian, you both are absolutely amazing and adorable! I Iove your videos - they are inspirational, fun and just wonderful in so many ways. Just watching how you interact with each other, how affectionate, natural and genuine you are...all of it is a very nurturing thing for my heart and soul. I hope I will soon find someone, who I will be able to share my life with in a similar way. This video was very helpful, much appreciated. Thank you for sharing all the things you've decided to share, thank you for your time and efforts invested into making and editing of the videos, and - above all - thank you for being, who you are and for having the loving, close and supportive relationship you have. I'm originally from the Czech Republic, but have been living in Ireland for 10 years now. Sending all my love to you and wishing you all the best!
If you dont mind if I vent here bc my fam Is against LGBTQ+ So this girl (my bff..) had a crush on me ever since the day we met, In grade four she told me.. and I got scared and said “Sorry.. i’m not gay..” Now I like her and every time she sends me troll “I like you videos” it feels like a third degree burn when it says “I like your cut g” or “Jk haha” It gets my hopes up :(
MY HEARTBREAKING PLAYLIST: 1. Dead leaves - BTS 2. Hold me tight - BTS 3. Loser - Big Bang MY CHEERFUL PLAYLIST: 1. Feel special - TWICE 2. Cheer up- TWICE 3. LET GO - BTS 4. Fancy - TWICE You know, the only way to move on is to move on. So we 're gonna get through this everyone.
relationship ended about 3 months ago and damn its so so hard to get over her, everything i think about is her everywhere i look i see her moving on is so hard (lost on you- LP) my break up song
She broke up with me. We used to see your videos together and now we won't ever again. It's all my fault, she was going through a terrible phase in her life: her mother has been diagnosed with cancer and she needed my presence by her side. But I was (still am) suffering from depression and wasn't able to give her what she deserved. At the end of our relationship, I think she fell in love with someone else. I was so angry that I told her terrible things, and now I regret everything. I'm devasteted and I miss her so much. I hope she found/will find someone who can love her the way she deserves it. I don't know when I'll be able to recover, I have so many issues to work on, but someday, I really, really, really hope she'll forgive me and we'll be able to put bad memories aside and be, at least, friends.
That’s really tough, I‘m so sorry to hear that. You’re not alone in this, remember, and you will get through this and come out as a stronger person. But take time to grieve the relationship and be kind to yourself 🌸 Sending hugs and love - L
I loved this video. I am struggling to let go of the hope of the girl (a friend) i really like, who is now seeing another girl, and i told myself that i accepted it, turns out not so much.
We kept dating for a month I loved her so much she is the one who said her feelings she used to be my BESTFRIEND obviously but then she broke up with me at the Nye telling me she needs a break and then she told me she can't handle a relationship and she is the one who said her feelings first she told me that she loves me and then she left me here loving her alone . (My heart is shattered into pieces bc I lost a BESTFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND)Our relationship as BESTFRIEND was so good so sad it ended it feels like I lost everything I hope I can make it out bc I thought my life gonna get better but then she broke me .
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
This is the video i hav been looking for. I had already done: the getting rid of the mementos and stuff and am following the remaining steps... So i was requesting for the songs playlist pliz. Thanx.
I am also heart broken now. Been writing this girl on HER for months now. We initially connected really well. Phoned 1 time over 3h. Met up 2 times. We kissed. Now she acts super flake and her response frequency goes down to more than 2 days. Her excuse is always, she is busy, she needs to take care of XY. I really feel hurt and disrespected that she is not being honest. I tried to ignore the signs for weeks. But now the reality hit me. I really thought, I finally found someone again, after my EX cheated on me. But no...
I had a crush on my best friend. I told her with a letter and she actually never ansswered and just kept acting like before but now she's with a boy. And I can't forget about her or avoid her because we're in the same room in boarding school (yes, it's a really weird situation...). And I'm lesbian (in a homophobic school so I'm not out) and she's bisexual and I still have hope everytime she does something too friendly like a hug or something. I can't get over her and I think I will be stuck in this situation until the end of school year. Have anyone an idea of what I can do ? I know I have to speak to her about it but I'm too afraid of losing our frienship or being hurt. (Sorry if there are mistakes, I'm french)
Elle est toujours en couple ? Dans ce cas faut que tu lui dises que ce n'est pas respecteux ni pour toi, ni pour son copain si elle est trop ambiguë dans son comportement. Et même si ça fait mal faut que tu acceptes que ce n'est pas normal qu'elle n'ait pas répondue. Tu pourrais la prendre à part un jour et juste lui parler de la lettre, en face à face. Explique lui que ça t'as blessé, et dis lui que tu as peur de la perdre mais que tu as besoin de réponse pour passer à autre chose et garder une amitié saine avec elle L'honnêteté ne fait pas de mal, si elle réagit mal alors ce n'est probablement pas une bonne personne pour toi, et dans le cas où ça se passe bien cette histoire vous rapprochera obligatoirement ;) Bon courage ♥️
i am really upset becuase i am not allowed social media and i have a boyfriend and i have not spoke to him in ages and i think he has broke up with me whout me knowing
Thank you so much for this video and yeah keeping your hopes up for someone who’s not into you is not healthy because it can only make the situation worse. I would really love a heartbreak playlist because that kind of stuff helps me let out those hurt feelings.
About one month ago, my ex broke up with me. I accepted that,very calmly. Because I always remember the bad side of him, and I understand he isn’t the one,so I get over him quickly.two days?😄haha yesterday he messaged me,said “miss you kind of “🤮🤮🤮I didn’t reply to him. He just feel lonely!!!🤮🤮🤮
Does anyone has any recommendations of songs to listen to during lesbian heartbreak? i kinda feel like all the lesbian songs are happy? and i just wanna be a sad bitter bitch for a moment. But if theres any good straight songs about that ill still love to hear them (sorry if my grammar is wrong? im not a native speaker and also my head is a mess rn)
The second advice about venting out to friends doesn't rlly work everytime. Esp me personally in my country (Philippines), my environment is so toxic including my friends and they're homophobic as well. So i don't have anybody (i do have a few) but i usually keep a journal with me so i guess it's enough..
Hi, get help from Dr Steve who can make your ex come back to you begging for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
I want to say thank you to you guys, it definitely helps me a lot to overcome my past relationship. after watching this video, I make plans to do new things to improve myself. as you said, I would love myself the first for now. thank you!
Does moving on mean to completely cut off the person from your life? is there such thing as getting rid of the feelings but still being able to stay friends? We're like sisters before I started to develop these feelings. 🥺
Hi, get help From Dr Steve, he can help you attract someone or anyone you love and want in your life, he helped me Attract my specific person and we are enjoying our relationship now. I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Even a year after this was posted it’s still helping people like me get over a relationship :) I got broken up with two weeks ago and recently got into a relationship which, thanks to this video, I now realise is a rebound relationship that I need to get out of because it’s unhealthy for both of us. Thanks for all the advice, it’s definitely gonna help :)
My girlfriend break up with me .she is my first love and my life turn up side down .I stop functional but she never know that I keep helping her when ever she is in need through her best friend. I will love her for a thousand years but I can't be with her never again.
Hi, get help From Dr Steve, he can help you attract someone or anyone you love and want in your life, he helped me Attract my specific person and we are enjoying our relationship now. I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Grateful for this...going through a break up with long relationship of 12 years, I lost my beloved cat & then partner...will check out The Smiths break up song -great band- peace & blessings-
Awe, I love The Smiths. They were popular when I was coming out in the late 80's so they bring back a LOT of memories of that amazing time of my life. Sigh... "I Know It's Over" and "Well I Wonder" are such good songs!
My recent crush is my neighbor and she reached out to me on OkCupid and just walked across our parking lot with a bowl of blueberries and invited me out on 'dates' 😵💫 so confusing! Then when she took my hand I thought she was catching feelings so I gave her a back rub tben she said that she wasn't interested. So I didn't believe her and held onto hope. I yelled at her "you're an idiot! We're neighbors how am I supposed to move on when our cars are parked beside each other and we can see each other through our kitchen windows!" all she did was sigh in agreement. We're still neighbors ughhhhh
When I first dated this person it was great except they didn’t pay attention to me very much and it made me feel unimportant I’ve tried to forget them but it’s been so hard cause I’m in the same course with them and it’s hard to get away and now we are friends but my friends all know how I feel they try to help me but it just doesn’t work I’m miss them all the time and I’m always trying to be with them so when they move on it hurts so bad
Yeah.. It takes time and sometimes the problem is that there is no one else that sticks around and on top of that I dont meet a lot of girls(which adds to the despair and loneliness); So in the end theres the past(to which I keep going and hurting) and then there is that little hope that one day I would bump into somebody new and it wont be a full blown disaster But right now Im learning to cope with my own self ♡
Hi, get help From Dr Steve, he can help you attract someone or anyone you love and want in your life, he helped me Attract my specific person and we are enjoying our relationship now. I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I just went through a breakup today and she told me that it was nothing I did but told me to leave her alone, what does that mean and when you still love her
I was a bi teen in the 1980s. I just CAN'T go through another heartbreak with the Smiths. I am actually in a state of uncertainty with my current crush. But if it doesn't work out with her, listening to the Smiths will give me high school flashbacks, which will just pile on top of whatever else I am going through. I just can't...
I had to replay a few parts just because you guys were making me laugh so much. I have a crush rn so I’m going to refer to your other video ‘how to tell if someone is into you’ ;)
Omg I just got broken up with again. This time she said she was my soulmate and she loved me then ended the relationship with our first disagreement. We work together and I'm so down. I'll watch you video so thankyou for your support. She was a friend also which is hard because I still love her but feel like i dislike her and how she's treated me. Its so confusing. How many times do I have to do this.... Xxx
Remember, as I learned from two very wise Ontario based TH-camrs called Paige and Holly, you are greater than your highs and lows. Your best and worst days shape you into the person you are meant to become.
My situation: I like a girl in my class who I am really close friends with. We are both girls and are bi. She has had a massive crush on a different girl for a very long time. She asked them out and got rejected but still really likes them. A lot. I really want to tell her that I like her but I don’t want to break our friendship. Any suggestions?
"The Queen is dead" is a faultless album. The next song after "I know its over" is about the worst things a person can do when Trying to get over someone in " never had no one ever"
You are the best. I'd love to listen to these playlists !! Could you talk about emotional dependency in a futur video ? I will love to hear what you think about it and how to deal with it. Thank you so much ! Love you guys
I feel like the only reason im not over my now toxic ex is because; she is currently holding on to a very important sweater I got with distance relatives. She's threaten to to burn it multiple time and just wont give it back. I've talking about it with my mother but it's been put off. I feel I can't let go of that sweater and I can only get over her once I get it back. Then again once I get it back I just want to burn it myself. I hate her so much. The turn in the lovey dovey relationship to the pure hatred and tears it still so real after months. No one in my circle understands. Thank you for reading my story lol.
Man I had my first heartbreak in my first relationship and I can’t move on.. I am devastated I attempted suicide twice I have absolutely no one to talk to cuz my family disowned me cuz I am a lesbian and don’t have any friends and I can’t even afford therapy so I’m fucked lol
Eric Carmen, Celine Dión and Adele are my favourite heart-break artists 😅 Also the Swedish version of Someone else’s story, from Chess, is a good one. In this version, the character is empowering herself after she has decided to leave her lover, by saying: “If someone shall be called weak, it is him and not me.” I said this to me yesterday and it helped me a lot today ❤ I reminded myself of my good qualities that I think she missed when she just blocked me. I lost nothing, but she lost her protective, warm bird mother 😊
I was “happy” with her and all but from the beginning i knew she was confused and so new to the whole thing. And trying to figure herself out. But at the same time it felt like she was experimenting with me. And then she started liking me but it was all over the place so confusing. She would reply always some hours after, i mean i get itu can be busy but i also know her so i knew she was making excuses. Our “dates” always used to have other people around and shit. And she just didnt want to go to a gay place and at least have privacy. On the other hand she said itd be the first person she would want smth with, cuz she been watching me over a year, and i just didnt notice her, but then did three months later and i kept thinking of her, and trying to find her lol. Then one day, in our date, she went to the bathroom, and came very late after smiling big. I was like what happened and stuff she didnt say anything, then started telling me like i am some best friend, and told me about how she flirted with this guy, and also gave her her snap?!?? And for what?? For money, so he would pay our drinks, then the guy kept asking ger to come over at our table, and she said pleasee to me. I eventually said yes just to see how this plays out. And broke up with her that same night. But now i see her at college and im realizing her getting jealous and stuff and happy when we hugged. And said she wantd to meet me cuz she missed me then she was like trying to make it look like friends. I justtt ughhh i dont get it
I was crushing on my best friend, and she is queer, but she was leading me on. I finally got a clear answer that they don’t like me romantically or sexually. Tho we are best friends. And I’m trying to get over them, but I still want to be best friends and they do too. I don’t want to delete everything or focus on their bad qualities cause we’re still best friends. What do I do? I’m trying to find someone new to know someone else exists as perfectly as I thought they were for me. But any other tips, that won’t harm our friendship?
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"instead of admiring other person so much, why don't you become a person that you admire yourself".
not only is it true, but really an ah-ha moment to push myself to do more for myself and strive for self improvement. Thank you :)
Exactly such an apt line.....I love this simple yet powerful like..she said...
Its hard for me because she just does 1 word replies and she doesnt like want to go on the bus together when we both go home after schools
she lost feelings but didn’t tell me so for half of our relationship she let me give my everything to her when the feelings weren’t at all reciprocated. I know it would never have worked out and that the relationship was hurting me but I just don’t want to accept that it’s over
Same thing happened to me.. I feel so alone. How are you feeling now? 💗
Oof. This is definitely me now. Not quite half but still much too long.
Same here too. Feeling crushed and completely empty inside...
Same here my girlfriend lied to me about her feelings. Our last month was so horrible and my heart is brocken
Same here. We were dating and then said she lost feelings:) She was my best friend as well and now we act like strangers
LOL the girls looking out for us ... "we taught you how to know they aren't into you, now we will tell you the very important next step"
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@@AlexisLilian my ex girlfriend break up with last week to be with another girl i dont hate her but i dont want be friends with her she want be friends how get over her ??.
i suffered an extreme heartbreak last summer. i cried and vented and sobbed. and then tried to forget her, because thinking about her was too painful. she's showed up in my dreams constantly. i finally admitted to myself recently.... that i'm really not over her. i've been going through it again trying to FEEL and CRY and VENT. again. learn from my mistake and be honest with yourself on your heart. it's hard cause i'm not ready to move on yet. some part of me still feels like she's the one and i'm losing her. but another part recognizes that she chose to leave me... it's really her loss... and i deserve to be with someone who knows what they got and would never let me go
i feel this... i don't want to let go yet. :(
Can we know each other?? You're so cute
@@chubbyking5250 aw thanks
@@RaeLarz Aww thanks so cute.. What's your Instagram handle
@@chubbyking5250 @raelarz ! follow mee
This was really helpful to me right now. Just had my first lesbian heartbreak and it shattered me. I came out in my mid 30s so it was a weird feeling having these intense breakup feelings I've never had before. Getting better every day but I still struggle and this was a good for me, thank you.
I know this was a year ago but this is me right now. First lesbian relationship at 25. Been through tons of breakups and/or heartbreaks... but this one hurts so much worse... even though the relationship only lasted a few months. I am glad I’m not crazy.
Big Hug to you! I feel you.
@@cassroommusicyou moved on now?? Its been 4 years and i really need hope that it's gonna be fine cause I'm going through it now
@@maryismarjan Yes. I run into her from time to time at the store and it doesn’t make me feel anything other than mild annoyance. I just moved in with my partner and am happier than I have ever been. 🫶🏼
@@maryismarjan Yes. I run into her at the store from time to time and don’t feel anything other than mild annoyance. I was single for 2 full years before meeting my current partner. We just moved in together and I have never been happier. It’s cliche, but I learned and grew a ton. I’m so grateful we didn’t work out. 🫶🏼
YES TO THE PLAYLIST PLS
Alright here it is by popular request - how to get over someone and move on to better things! Sending hugs and love to everyone, let us know if you want those playlists ;)
this has been so helpful! thank you for sharing, Alexis and Lilian 💖 also yes I definitely need the playlists especially the feel good happy vibes one! 😄
playlist please..
Yes please we want the playlists, of course. By the way the soundtrack to the video was great, too! You channel is amazing and that was another great, thoughtful video, and it's very clever to have done it after the last one.
Hi girls, this is the video that i needed today, thank you very much:) you both are amazing, and yesss, i would love to get those playlists please! I love techno and sad music too🤍 kisses from Colombia
Wow. You managed to make me cry just by flashing that Sinead O'Connor LP. Three decades on and "Nothing compares" still stabs me in the feels. My contribution to the playlist would include: "She's gone" (Steel Heart), "On Every Street" (Dire Straits), "Foolish Games" (Jewel), "She (Elvis Costello) and "Stop" (Sam Brown). And many more I'll remember after I send this. 😪😫😐😀
The hardest thing is when the beginning was so beautiful and you can’t reconcile it with their contrasting behaviour later on. Then you wonder was that them or were they wearing a mask until it eventually slips. Authenticity is so key from the very beginning. Thanks for your video!
Just being honest, as an "old" person here lol... Keep the love letters. Don't crucify me. I wish I kept things. I grew up before email and I'm telling you...if you have an actual love letter... throw it in a keep safe box and forget about it, for now 😉❤️
I've done that with photos of me and my ex :)
I completely agree, Dawn. :) It's nice to have those little things one day when you feel better, emotinaly stable and everything seems like from another life... But it warms your soul in a way.
exactly. Hide the letters and souvenirs in a box. And then when it's no longer painful and you've moved on, you'll be happy to have these to remember all the good memories (unless the relationship was toxic obv)
Lilian: "One of my favorite heartbreak song is I know it's over by The Smiths..."
*Me paused the video and go to Spotify*
Came back and paused one more time for Alexis's heartbreak song
The same :)
Im heartbroken since half a year now and according to this video I'd say I am still lurking around in the acceptance phase. I just cant get my mind off of this one person and at least for now the idea of unsubscribing her on social media or deleting every message and memory seems impossible to me.
I'd love to get to listen to your playlists. Since I experienced not only time but especially music heals most of the wounds.
Don't worry about it too much, I'd say. Time really does heal everything! With time, you will see that you don't think about her as much and the thought of blocking her etc. doesn't seem as impossible and hurtful. Try to actually catch yourself when you are thinking about her and find something else to think about even if it hurts and is difficult as hell. If you keep cutting yourself off from thinking about this one person then you won't do it as much anymore. Good luck and don't forget that you deserve someone who loves you and treasures you as much as you love and treasure them and even if it might not seem true sometimes, there are people out there that are just a perfect match for you!
@@iremsezen812 Thanks for your kind and true words. I can see you've got experience in being lovesick. So I hope you successfully reached step three and are moving on eventually. 🍀
I've felt the same way since my breakup. I just asked her to block me on sm and I've been trying to fill time working lots, meditating, exercising, doing good deeds, visiting friends and it is getting better. Fuck, half a year of this would be torture. I really think it is easier to stop pining if you're not seeing or knowing about their every move or assuming they're doing great when you feel like shit :( My best friend was the one who coerced me to just block delete and as much as I didnt want to it helped. Hope your heart gets better soon ❤
3 years later, wondering how are you now? and how long did it take you to move on and any tips?
This is the best video regarding this topic I've ever watched. You talked about this in such a kind, understanding, empathetic, sensitive and supporting way, it was like listening to two of my best friends, even I don't know you personally of course.
I am currently at the first stage. I have gone through all of these steps before and I was kind of already aware of all the steps you talked about here, but the one thing I was always missing out on and that I skipped was "killing the hope" (which was really funny when you said it like this, Lillian :D). I am a very optimistic person despite my depression and I am always holding on to the tiniest bit of hope, no matter what it's about. I'm really having trouble with letting the hope go, even though I accept that the person has left me. It's strange and it's hard, but I'm gonna watch this video whenever I feel like I need a reminder of this over the coming weeks (or months or however long it is going to take me to get over this).
Thank you so much!
Thank you, it makes us happy to hear that you found it helpful. Wishing you all the best through these difficult times, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel ❤️ sending hugs
@@AlexisLilian Thank you so much! ...for this and just for all your inspiring educational entertaining videos! Sending hugs to you, too! ❤
I‘m so heartbroken right now. Can’t even watch this video:D
BUT I left a thumbs up;)
Love you two so much
How did it go? Over her yet?
It’s been 7 months and I’m still in the crying and sad music phase
I really needed this video. You're talking about things I knew but that I had to be reminded of. Thanks a lot, I felt more at peace at the end of the video. And of couuuurse we want the playlists!!
my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago and it's hard to distract yourself when you're on lockdown and can't really go out that much and meet friends... even virtually it has its limits when you just don't want to sit in front of a screen all day long or just really need a hug. :(
so far creative outlets worked best for me: doodling, painting, writing, hell even knitting. :)
podcasts can also be a great distraction (again: netflix is great but staring at a screen for days is just not it for me and I crave offline time).
so I'd be happy about those playlists :-) listening to music helps me a lot as well and I enjoy it the most when painting.
thank you two for this video.
jeeznametaken same.. we broke up a day before the lockdown started. It has been a month now... I didn't had a chance to greet her on her birthday..since she blocked all my social media accounts, and maybe my phone number. It's so painfuL. I had to decided to block her back tho I still love and want her back. Now I set my goals to treat myself better, including less usage of my phone and focus on improvement for myself. Sorry just wanna share.
@@lithogenous2385 that sucks!! also the blocking thing seems a bit intense.
sending you a virtual hug if you like. :)
jeeznametaken I need it thanks
I hear you! I empathize with you. My ex and I also broke up before the lockdown. It was the most difficult feeling in the world for me. Sleeping well was hard for a month and the first few weeks got me nightmares. A heartbreak that cut me to the core. I hope you get over it soon. Virtual hugs!
I crave offline time so much too. I stopped texting someone who would text me everyday. They are the nicest person and I loved talking to them but I had to assert boundaries and stop texting them because I desperately want physical presence and to live life outside of my phone. It sucks because I value them and don't want to abandon them but I also need to make space for my needs. :(
I still have hope. I need to work through these emotions. She helped me get over my ex as a friend and we fell in love. I really believed we were going to be together 😢
I lost my dad, she tried to console me when we fell in love. She is now getting married to her ex-bf. I'm here heartbroken. Why do the other person in a relationship always moves on fast?
@@priyankajoshi5931 your heart will heal. Focus on your and what brings you joy, makes you feel happy. Spend time with friends. Let things be how they are. You may look back and realise it was for the best for you in a month or so. I wish you all the best x
Hey friends, better late than never, here are the playlists we made:
Heartbreak Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/20HbmyyAF00t8ni9p2J3xQ?si=Qkyx3jRNSeuTHLcd5TFC4g
"Moving On" Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/2oHNUXPpfd94Oi7GdKg9UQ?si=ZcPjh3c_SyeR8MCn_xA-pQ
Dear Alexis and Lilian, you both are absolutely amazing and adorable! I Iove your videos - they are inspirational, fun and just wonderful in so many ways. Just watching how you interact with each other, how affectionate, natural and genuine you are...all of it is a very nurturing thing for my heart and soul. I hope I will soon find someone, who I will be able to share my life with in a similar way. This video was very helpful, much appreciated.
Thank you for sharing all the things you've decided to share, thank you for your time and efforts invested into making and editing of the videos, and - above all - thank you for being, who you are and for having the loving, close and supportive relationship you have.
I'm originally from the Czech Republic, but have been living in Ireland for 10 years now.
Sending all my love to you and wishing you all the best!
If you dont mind if I vent here bc my fam Is against LGBTQ+
So this girl (my bff..) had a crush on me ever since the day we met,
In grade four she told me.. and I got scared and said “Sorry.. i’m not gay..”
Now I like her and every time she sends me troll “I like you videos” it feels like a third degree burn when it says “I like your cut g” or “Jk haha”
It gets my hopes up :(
MY HEARTBREAKING PLAYLIST:
1. Dead leaves - BTS
2. Hold me tight - BTS
3. Loser - Big Bang
MY CHEERFUL PLAYLIST:
1. Feel special - TWICE
2. Cheer up- TWICE
3. LET GO - BTS
4. Fancy - TWICE
You know, the only way to move on is to move on. So we 're gonna get through this everyone.
THANK YOU
Not k-pop songs 😭🤚🏼
Yay Kpop playlist hits 🎯
relationship ended about 3 months ago and damn its so so hard to get over her, everything i think about is her everywhere i look i see her moving on is so hard (lost on you- LP) my break up song
She broke up with me. We used to see your videos together and now we won't ever again. It's all my fault, she was going through a terrible phase in her life: her mother has been diagnosed with cancer and she needed my presence by her side. But I was (still am) suffering from depression and wasn't able to give her what she deserved. At the end of our relationship, I think she fell in love with someone else. I was so angry that I told her terrible things, and now I regret everything. I'm devasteted and I miss her so much. I hope she found/will find someone who can love her the way she deserves it. I don't know when I'll be able to recover, I have so many issues to work on, but someday, I really, really, really hope she'll forgive me and we'll be able to put bad memories aside and be, at least, friends.
That’s really tough, I‘m so sorry to hear that. You’re not alone in this, remember, and you will get through this and come out as a stronger person. But take time to grieve the relationship and be kind to yourself 🌸 Sending hugs and love - L
You’re both so prettyyy
I’d really like a playlist like this, even with Lindsay Lohan^^
That clip before you talk about moving on made me laugh out loud 😂
I loved this video. I am struggling to let go of the hope of the girl (a friend) i really like, who is now seeing another girl, and i told myself that i accepted it, turns out not so much.
We kept dating for a month I loved her so much she is the one who said her feelings she used to be my BESTFRIEND obviously but then she broke up with me at the Nye telling me she needs a break and then she told me she can't handle a relationship and she is the one who said her feelings first she told me that she loves me and then she left me here loving her alone .
(My heart is shattered into pieces bc I lost a BESTFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND)Our relationship as BESTFRIEND was so good so sad it ended it feels like I lost everything I hope I can make it out bc I thought my life gonna get better but then she broke me .
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This is the video i hav been looking for. I had already done: the getting rid of the mementos and stuff and am following the remaining steps... So i was requesting for the songs playlist pliz.
Thanx.
I am also heart broken now. Been writing this girl on HER for months now. We initially connected really well. Phoned 1 time over 3h. Met up 2 times. We kissed. Now she acts super flake and her response frequency goes down to more than 2 days. Her excuse is always, she is busy, she needs to take care of XY. I really feel hurt and disrespected that she is not being honest. I tried to ignore the signs for weeks. But now the reality hit me. I really thought, I finally found someone again, after my EX cheated on me. But no...
Thaank u girls, I really need to get over this girl. All u said is been really helpful
yea...thats exactly what I'm doing!! its working actually, thank you guys so much, its really helped a lot
I had a crush on my best friend. I told her with a letter and she actually never ansswered and just kept acting like before but now she's with a boy. And I can't forget about her or avoid her because we're in the same room in boarding school (yes, it's a really weird situation...). And I'm lesbian (in a homophobic school so I'm not out) and she's bisexual and I still have hope everytime she does something too friendly like a hug or something. I can't get over her and I think I will be stuck in this situation until the end of school year. Have anyone an idea of what I can do ? I know I have to speak to her about it but I'm too afraid of losing our frienship or being hurt. (Sorry if there are mistakes, I'm french)
Elle est toujours en couple ? Dans ce cas faut que tu lui dises que ce n'est pas respecteux ni pour toi, ni pour son copain si elle est trop ambiguë dans son comportement. Et même si ça fait mal faut que tu acceptes que ce n'est pas normal qu'elle n'ait pas répondue. Tu pourrais la prendre à part un jour et juste lui parler de la lettre, en face à face. Explique lui que ça t'as blessé, et dis lui que tu as peur de la perdre mais que tu as besoin de réponse pour passer à autre chose et garder une amitié saine avec elle
L'honnêteté ne fait pas de mal, si elle réagit mal alors ce n'est probablement pas une bonne personne pour toi, et dans le cas où ça se passe bien cette histoire vous rapprochera obligatoirement ;)
Bon courage ♥️
i am really upset becuase i am not allowed social media and i have a boyfriend and i have not spoke to him in ages and i think he has broke up with me whout me knowing
Yes, please, let us know your playlist!
Thank you so much for this video and yeah keeping your hopes up for someone who’s not into you is not healthy because it can only make the situation worse. I would really love a heartbreak playlist because that kind of stuff helps me let out those hurt feelings.
About one month ago, my ex broke up with me. I accepted that,very calmly. Because I always remember the bad side of him, and I understand he isn’t the one,so I get over him quickly.two days?😄haha yesterday he messaged me,said “miss you kind of “🤮🤮🤮I didn’t reply to him. He just feel lonely!!!🤮🤮🤮
yes!! 💪🏻 stay strong! ♥️♥️
Alexis and Lilian thank you～ love you two❤️❤️
Session 32 summer walker
We do talk anymore Selena Gomez
this vid actually helped, my gf dumped me over texted and this Vid was amazing.... Ty
Ah i just broke up with my girlfriend and your video comes up..! Thanks for all your bright mood :) it’s somehow contagious.
thank you so much for this video! I really needed it :-( I just got out of a relationship and I’ve been feeling horrible! PLEASE POST THE PLAYLIST!
Moving On - Kodaline
Already Gone - Sleep At Last
We love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😘😘😘😘😘🌈🌈👭🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🇮🇷
Does anyone has any recommendations of songs to listen to during lesbian heartbreak? i kinda feel like all the lesbian songs are happy? and i just wanna be a sad bitter bitch for a moment. But if theres any good straight songs about that ill still love to hear them (sorry if my grammar is wrong? im not a native speaker and also my head is a mess rn)
Who else is watching this after a break up?
Oh, girls, thanx for all your videos, really funny and helpful) you're awesome!:) Lots of love from Russia;)
The second advice about venting out to friends doesn't rlly work everytime. Esp me personally in my country (Philippines), my environment is so toxic including my friends and they're homophobic as well. So i don't have anybody (i do have a few) but i usually keep a journal with me so i guess it's enough..
I watched the video while looking at our pictures and listening to our songs... I just cant get over her
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I want to say thank you to you guys, it definitely helps me a lot to overcome my past relationship. after watching this video, I make plans to do new things to improve myself. as you said, I would love myself the first for now. thank you!
Does moving on mean to completely cut off the person from your life? is there such thing as getting rid of the feelings but still being able to stay friends? We're like sisters before I started to develop these feelings. 🥺
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Who else wants to see Lilian play the drums on the next vid?
me trying to get over a person I never dated 🤡🤡
Even a year after this was posted it’s still helping people like me get over a relationship :) I got broken up with two weeks ago and recently got into a relationship which, thanks to this video, I now realise is a rebound relationship that I need to get out of because it’s unhealthy for both of us. Thanks for all the advice, it’s definitely gonna help :)
I'm one of those who still can't get over my x although it has been over a year
This video was so supportive. Love you both
But what if I'm friends with the person and I don't wanna loose her? :(
I need a rebound
My girlfriend break up with me .she is my first love and my life turn up side down .I stop functional but she never know that I keep helping her when ever she is in need through her best friend. I will love her for a thousand years but I can't be with her never again.
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Grateful for this...going through a break up with long relationship of 12 years, I lost my beloved cat & then partner...will check out The Smiths break up song -great band- peace & blessings-
Awe, I love The Smiths. They were popular when I was coming out in the late 80's so they bring back a LOT of memories of that amazing time of my life. Sigh... "I Know It's Over" and "Well I Wonder" are such good songs!
My recent crush is my neighbor and she reached out to me on OkCupid and just walked across our parking lot with a bowl of blueberries and invited me out on 'dates' 😵💫 so confusing! Then when she took my hand I thought she was catching feelings so I gave her a back rub tben she said that she wasn't interested. So I didn't believe her and held onto hope. I yelled at her "you're an idiot! We're neighbors how am I supposed to move on when our cars are parked beside each other and we can see each other through our kitchen windows!" all she did was sigh in agreement. We're still neighbors ughhhhh
how about is my crush working same place with me.... did i need to quit job...so that i dont have to see her...
dila zu I have to work with my ex girlfriend and it’s hard.. I hope that everything has resolved itself because it has been a bit..
@Anna Daley tq my dear it been solve... now im at new place... sorry for late reply
Best break up song… “Somebody Else” - The 1975
Thank you for this video! It's helpful to know.
When I first dated this person it was great except they didn’t pay attention to me very much and it made me feel unimportant I’ve tried to forget them but it’s been so hard cause I’m in the same course with them and it’s hard to get away and now we are friends but my friends all know how I feel they try to help me but it just doesn’t work I’m miss them all the time and I’m always trying to be with them so when they move on it hurts so bad
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Aww haha you’re so sweet thank you!
@@Foxsxxy i just read the comments in that case..
@@AlexisLilian this is nothing compared to the inspiration you provide ❤
@@deniseabad7966 I'm sorry but I wanna jump straight to the content
My bad
Yeah.. It takes time and sometimes the problem is that there is no one else that sticks around and on top of that I dont meet a lot of girls(which adds to the despair and loneliness); So in the end theres the past(to which I keep going and hurting) and then there is that little hope that one day I would bump into somebody new and it wont be a full blown disaster
But right now Im learning to cope with my own self ♡
This video is what I've been needing for a year now. Thank you!
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How do you know when to unblock and let them be in the world. Cause at one point we’ll need to be civil and exist and wish well for each other?
How do you know when to unblock and let them be in the world. Cause at one point we’ll need to be civil and exist and wish well for each other?
The playlist is a great idea. Can't wait for it.
My go to song that has gotten me through every bad part of my life is Everybody Hurts by REM.
I just went through a breakup today and she told me that it was nothing I did but told me to leave her alone, what does that mean and when you still love her
Thanks guys 😊 love you two so much ❤️
I was a bi teen in the 1980s. I just CAN'T go through another heartbreak with the Smiths. I am actually in a state of uncertainty with my current crush. But if it doesn't work out with her, listening to the Smiths will give me high school flashbacks, which will just pile on top of whatever else I am going through. I just can't...
This shows how kind these two are ..this is the video many need... thank you so much guys...
Some of the lines are so apt...
I needed this! Thank you!
I love what you’re saying. So true, whatever our lives are like. Center on yourself, definitely ! Thank you. Big hugs, Anouche
Great video I appreciate it, helped me out
I had to replay a few parts just because you guys were making me laugh so much. I have a crush rn so I’m going to refer to your other video ‘how to tell if someone is into you’ ;)
Omg I just got broken up with again. This time she said she was my soulmate and she loved me then ended the relationship with our first disagreement. We work together and I'm so down. I'll watch you video so thankyou for your support. She was a friend also which is hard because I still love her but feel like i dislike her and how she's treated me. Its so confusing. How many times do I have to do this.... Xxx
Give up
I grieved for months, I'm in a better place now
I'm never dating
Remember, as I learned from two very wise Ontario based TH-camrs called Paige and Holly, you are greater than your highs and lows. Your best and worst days shape you into the person you are meant to become.
My situation:
I like a girl in my class who I am really close friends with. We are both girls and are bi. She has had a massive crush on a different girl for a very long time. She asked them out and got rejected but still really likes them. A lot. I really want to tell her that I like her but I don’t want to break our friendship. Any suggestions?
um no obviously not I don’t know you, also don’t need no help she’s ma girlfriend now. ur probs some creepo and I’m not gonna fall for that
How long should this process be or is supposed to take?
depends on the person
Is this playlist on Spotify or your page to put on repeat?
"The Queen is dead" is a faultless album. The next song after "I know its over" is about the worst things a person can do when Trying to get over someone in " never had no one ever"
You are the best. I'd love to listen to these playlists !! Could you talk about emotional dependency in a futur video ? I will love to hear what you think about it and how to deal with it. Thank you so much ! Love you guys
I feel like the only reason im not over my now toxic ex is because; she is currently holding on to a very important sweater I got with distance relatives. She's threaten to to burn it multiple time and just wont give it back. I've talking about it with my mother but it's been put off. I feel I can't let go of that sweater and I can only get over her once I get it back. Then again once I get it back I just want to burn it myself. I hate her so much. The turn in the lovey dovey relationship to the pure hatred and tears it still so real after months. No one in my circle understands. Thank you for reading my story lol.
he left me (gay) for a girl worst feeling ever
Thank you soo much. I needed this you guys always do things that I need. I hope i can move on. Love you
it did help thanks alllloooooottttt
She never told me she blocked me that’s all
Man I had my first heartbreak in my first relationship and I can’t move on.. I am devastated I attempted suicide twice I have absolutely no one to talk to cuz my family disowned me cuz I am a lesbian and don’t have any friends and I can’t even afford therapy so I’m fucked lol
Eric Carmen, Celine Dión and Adele are my favourite heart-break artists 😅
Also the Swedish version of Someone else’s story, from Chess, is a good one. In this version, the character is empowering herself after she has decided to leave her lover, by saying: “If someone shall be called weak, it is him and not me.” I said this to me yesterday and it helped me a lot today ❤ I reminded myself of my good qualities that I think she missed when she just blocked me. I lost nothing, but she lost her protective, warm bird mother 😊
I love both from Georgia 🇬🇪 💛💛
oh man thanks guys :)
Hello, Thank you for the video
I was “happy” with her and all but from the beginning i knew she was confused and so new to the whole thing. And trying to figure herself out. But at the same time it felt like she was experimenting with me. And then she started liking me but it was all over the place so confusing. She would reply always some hours after, i mean i get itu can be busy but i also know her so i knew she was making excuses. Our “dates” always used to have other people around and shit. And she just didnt want to go to a gay place and at least have privacy. On the other hand she said itd be the first person she would want smth with, cuz she been watching me over a year, and i just didnt notice her, but then did three months later and i kept thinking of her, and trying to find her lol. Then one day, in our date, she went to the bathroom, and came very late after smiling big. I was like what happened and stuff she didnt say anything, then started telling me like i am some best friend, and told me about how she flirted with this guy, and also gave her her snap?!?? And for what?? For money, so he would pay our drinks, then the guy kept asking ger to come over at our table, and she said pleasee to me. I eventually said yes just to see how this plays out. And broke up with her that same night. But now i see her at college and im realizing her getting jealous and stuff and happy when we hugged. And said she wantd to meet me cuz she missed me then she was like trying to make it look like friends. I justtt ughhh i dont get it
I was crushing on my best friend, and she is queer, but she was leading me on. I finally got a clear answer that they don’t like me romantically or sexually. Tho we are best friends. And I’m trying to get over them, but I still want to be best friends and they do too. I don’t want to delete everything or focus on their bad qualities cause we’re still best friends. What do I do? I’m trying to find someone new to know someone else exists as perfectly as I thought they were for me. But any other tips, that won’t harm our friendship?
Im Broken up with my ex girlfriend 2 years now and I still love her 2 years over and I just can’t fall back inlove 😩
i've never in my life even been on a date but i would love to listen to your playlists