signs your crush DOESN'T actually like you
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Do one about signs that your crush does like you
Hey can you do a vid (same topic as this one) but without texting (so like in-person convos)
@@kalinaxbiss7210 lmao
you've saved me. this is life changing.
My crush and me dont even talk i think she likes me LOL
We don't talk to our crush, we just stare at them till we lost our feelings
me too
Damnnnnnnn thats like...... I have done it with all of my crushes..... Cause I know I ain't got no chance..... And most of the times... They don't even know I have a crush on them..... 💀
Fr happed. To me
that's painfully true, i can never have the courage to tell him that i like him, also u have the same name as my crush LOL, coincidence much ?
@@kaiser2265 no way we have the same name🤣😂
“Signs the person your talking to doesn’t actually like you” hey just because I have a crush on someone doesn’t mean we talk
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so relatable
SAME THO
Yeah lol
EXACTLY ppl think we talk to our crushes and we text them, but with me i never even have balls to carry a normal convo with him. We play volleyball together and he hates me for winning 😭 im a bad image in his eyes HELPPP
@@Uxex.aa_24 awww
"When u like someone u are only looking for the good signs"
Me who imagines the worst case scenario 😂
Haha this is so funny 😆
😂
Sadly true
So true
pov: ur crush is shy
more like mine is socially anxious
Agreed
Yep
Yea ❤ still we are in early phase
Introverted like mine
My crush doesn't even realize I exist but still just looking at her gives me some kind of good feeling idk why.
Ohh god thanks finally someone like me. Hey man
My crush doesn't even exist 😶
I'm in a awkward position I was friends with my crush In primary and talked to her often I didn't know what to say or even do so I never asked then 8+ years still like her not talking and can't even start a conversation because it is to awkward people knew I liked her in my primary school as well 😅
oh heck yeah same here
@@Nicholas-I well then start talking again. Make a move . Don't be a scaredy cat like me
I nominate you “the first person to make me sad today” congratssssss
OH NO ILY
@@NikiPatton I love u ...cause ur my crush😂 ...
@@punjabigabru9629 akward moment for Niki lol
@@ice-tray6204 😂😂😂Fans
@@punjabigabru9629 ayo thats- yeah-
I litterly spend hours writing a paragraph about something to make sure it doesn't sound weird or cringe just for him to reply with... "k" 😭💀
😂
How are people that shy 💀
I just told my crush that I like when she hugs me bc I feel his boobs lol
he literally brought flowers and candy to my house in the middle of the night to ask me out and i’m still watching this 😭😭
Omg! What happened next?
@@unicorniodonut1295and she woke up-
@@PriyaTiwari-le3giand went back to sleep probably
When we don’t even talk to eachother-😭
That’s how mine got ruined. It was my fault, all of it 😢🥲
@@turtledude4493 You'll get em next time
Same and still thinking to talk but getting shy and nervous.
SAME!!!
I give up on my crush and then I have a dream about him and like him again!!
another easy sign : they are ✨ FicTiOnAl ✨
i feel u 😭
a comment i can relate too !!
Bro don’t remind me 😭
Yesh 🥲
Mine one is a real person. I also had a crush on a fictional character before :,)
I told my crush that I liked him and he didn’t respond until a day later when I told him this exactly “Uou know what at least I’m brave enough to tell you I liked you and you don’t even have the balls to say anything to me” then he said that he’s sorry and that he just doesn’t have feelings for me like that’s and that he was sorry again any how long story short I’m currently heartbroken 💔 So yeah I put myself out there and get rejected so yes now rejection is the scariest thing to me and this is why I’m always shy
Omg I love the response you gave him, let him know he's not getting away with his cowardness👏
Wow you're truly brave, and then telling him off afterwards 💀 Girl you're better off. Keep slaying, working on yourself, and someone much much better will come for you. Trust me queen
“Because when you like someone, you’re only looking for the good signs”
I do the opposite 😭
my “crush” just asked out my best friend
oop-
pain
Don’t worry bud, happens to everyone, even tho it’s a pain in the back
She asked out my roommate, so everyday is a daily reminder of the bus I missed
my crush is my best friend-
“Thank me later”
Well yes, I appreciate the realism, but I don’t think we’ll be thankful for realizing our hearts just got smashed
True
Lmao. My crush keeps ghosting me for another girl.
Facts.
well mine didnt cuz my crush is moving near me and she does every opposite thing in this video
True
Your crush has two purpose, either be w u or leave you crushed.., that’s the reality .
Guess im crushed
I’m crushed then… 💔
I already know my crush doesn’t like me back. Yeah, he knows I exist but he doesn’t bother talking to me.
All I do is that I just stare at him until I get over him.
Same dude🙂🤧
I also felt that way but more than likely they are just shy
@@13ased_American How are people that shy 💀
I just told my crush that I like when she hugs me bc I feel his boobs lol
But...he doesn’t talk to me 😭 we’re the in the intense holding eye contact situation
Sameeee i can relate u buddy
Brrr everytime we do is just like the eye contact thing'_'
Same
same
Same
my crush fits all the signs of liking me. but he’s the class clown and really easy to be friends with. so I wouldn’t be surprised if he doesn’t like me LMAOOO 😭
Gurl I FEEL YOUUU
my cousin is also a class clown 😂
maybe its him 😏
LOL JKKJKJKJKJ
This has nothing to do with your comment but I had a classmate and he was a class clown (I have no idea if he's still a class clown cause we're going to different highschools) but he (A 9th grader) was caught texting my cousin (I think she's in 6th or 7th grade I forgot). My aunt read their conversations and she was calling him daddy, she asked if he was a v!rg!n and they were talking so dirty to eachother. He was texting her saying he would love to do this to her and this to her and she was enjoying it. My aunt said that she doesn't know where she learnt it, the only reason my aunt searched her phone in the first place is because my other aunt (A 6th grader) told my grandma about what she was doing (Cause my cousin told her everything) and my grandma told my aunt
Their ages:
My cousin: 12
My ex classmate: 13/14
Where i'm from people are usually 12-13 in 9th grade (they could be 14 aswell) and they would graduate highschool around 15, 16 or 17. Anyways they're kinda the same age, my cousin was supposed to graduate with me actually
@@Mari14162 oh i kind of feel bad for your cousin now :O
@@ashvidwivedi9675 I already wrote a long ass paragraph explaining the situation but I refreshed and it disappeared and i'm not gonna write that again. Anyways they're the same age but she stayed back a grade or two and she was the one who started the conversation and started everything actually so don't feel bad for her you should feel bad for him. I'm not gonna say why you should feel bad for him but trust me, that's all i'm gonna say thank you for your time
He responds to my messages asap, he asks me questions about myself, and makes plans with me. HUSBAND MATERIAL-
Bro my crush does the opposite of the things in the video but I’m not sure if he has a girlfriend or not help
But ur so lucky frfr
It’s really nice to see that your crush is doing the exact opposite of everything she said ❤
When you’re the one who’s in love but you’re also the one who forgets to respond
Me 😂
I've become really close friends with my crush and I'm starting to think maybe it's better we just stay friends
Idk I think you should go for it because if you like them taking the chance is always more worth It than settling
Same bruh, I met my crush and talked to her after 2 years and I dunno I mf acting like a bodybuilder.
@@swayanshunanda1540 🤣
I’m mean this is what I did and I don’t regret it one biy.
Stay as friends if you arent sure.
POV: when u don’t even talk to your crush 😢
The fact me and him like each other bc we told each other we like each other 💞
Me: Who just looks at their crush from afar and never had any convo
I was going to say something like this cuz while she is right for many...not all are the same. Some people avoid THE SHIIIIT outta the person they want. For many reasonsm. insecure. Want them but are working on themselves or just don't feel they're good enough whether in general or until done working on their demons. Or SHYYYY
I pushed away the only man I've ever been in love with. I LITERALLY moved states after we met because I knew he was going to be absolutely significant. & I was going THROUGH IT. I was a mess on the inside but it didn't show outwardly. I didn't wanna bring him down into the darkness I was trying to claw my way out of.
So...guess we're unique...you & me lol
I understand that when you find someone attractive it's hard to talk but honestly it's best if you try to get to know them, otherwise you only waste time and energy on this person if you don't find anything worth liking them
Yup
So this one dude has a crush on me, ig u can say I'm popular butt I'm a big nerd that don't like people don't liek to talk, so idk how tf people made me popular like I don't think I'm that pretty or friendly looking or talk to anyone, but I do have my crazy side in secret, so this one qween bee of our school is crazy about this dude, yes he is handsome I must admit but I just wanna focus on studies alone, he took the seat infront of me , a girl use to sit there, and would often try to impress me like be nice and stuff bt also he would be shy , he would take every single opportunity that comes by to talk to me like what food u like to eat, etc, and try to make jokes to make me laugh or ask about a problem In maths and stuff, idk I find him annoying but also I'm not sure if he really truely likes me, like there this girl that's obsessed with him, she's like pretty pretty popular is a dancer is a youtuber, but he doesn't give a hek about her so he might also not be a playboy either idk I'm just confused
Nah bruv don’t let this get to your head bros. This literally depends on the type of person your crush is. They don’t ask about you because they might be shy. Trust me they are just as nervous as you are. Some people don’t like talking about themselves or don’t know if their crush enjoys talking about themselves.
This comment makes me feel so much better
yeah like theres been situations also where someone doesnt really hit me up much to talk despite showing a decent amount of interest everytime we DO talk, and it started making sense when she talked about having issues with anxiety and having irrational thoughts about people feeling bothered by her talking to them or asking for help. it happens, but yes you should definitely just keep your eyes open, dont make hasty conclusions, and dont put your hopes through the roof everytime something happens that gives an opportunity for you guys to maybe get closer. most things are situation
I know you wrote this a literal month ago but hope you might read this.
I am a guy i have a crush on this girl shes super cool and all but she thinks of me as her bro and i said no you cant make someone your bro if they dont want you as their like sister you know so can you give me tip on that man.I forgot to say one thing that in this video this girl saId if they do not talk to you or dont show much interest they dont like you and stuff my crush is super cool in school she is awesome beatiful but she is a bit scared of talking to boys idk why but i am the first one she talked to so i guess she is still pretty awkward about it.srry for the big paragraph.😅
So, there’s a few different ways to get out of the bro zone (coming from like a female) so if you want to take the bolder route, you can give her subtle hints that you like her more than a friend. But if she isn’t generally good at picking up hints you can make it a little less subtle, like talking to her more often, sitting/standing by her, maybe take part in some of her hobbies or listen to her kind of music or favorite bands and talk about that. She might get a hint that you listened to/participated in some things that she does, so you’re interested in her. If you want to like go REALLY bold you can just come out and say you like her, but her reaction is unpredictable. This may be confusing based on how these options are complete opposites, but there is an in-between. So, sometimes (not all the time like for me as an example) I bro-zone the guys I like because I think they’d easily tell that I like them, or that I don’t want it to be as obvious, so that’s how she may be feeling. Just make your intentions clear, don’t try too hard and of course don’t be a jerk. If you’re scared if rejection, just remember dating is practically a trial and error concept. You just need to take whatever leap you feel like doing. (Also coming from someone who told their crush how they felt about them, and their crush liked them back)
Hope you see my reply, and if she is awkward around guys but not you that means something (anyways I ship u too now so this better work out 😎)
he littlerally asks me about my whole lifestory and im not complaining 😍
Right after I watched this video I went to school, I was coming back inside to continue work when my crush walked up to me and said "Hi I know you like (someone) but I like you.. Bye" and walked away. I didnt want to just say nothing so I wrote a note that said "I like you too :)" when he got it he lifted it above his head, ran around the class screaming from happiness 😭
Wow
My crush confessed to me and we still aren't dating because we both think we're not ready for that yet,
we both suck at starting conversations and our conversations last for 10minutes at most, we are in an endless loop of "hey", like you said.
she also doesn't respond fast most of the time, it takes hours for her to respond.
so yeah, it really just depends on your crush.
Lol just propose her again 😂
How are yal doing
@@tinkaluvsjesusyou1120 we pretty much dont talk anymore
@@sbily-bliss6257 you fumbled it
@@sbily-bliss6257 that’s actually sad you got your crush and you fumbled that so hard
My ex didn’t take hours to respond, he took DAYS, I literally lost the mental capacity to be with him anymore
@@bleach6746 Nah frl like df is wrong with people
@s h no?? why in the world would it take a week to respond to a fucking message
??? make it make sense
@ItzChris same here,,, but i still think she just play hard to get, heheh....... Im just fucking blind with this love,
man..... loving is suck when u dont know what to do with that blue and hard feeling.
Same, it turns out he didn't like me at all
This was a really hard pill to swallow 😂😢😢😢 I actually kinda cried
Not initiating conversations might also be a sign they don't like you. If you always text first, it's a pretty reliable sign they don't like you.
The guy hasn't asked me to be friends with him on Facebook no personal questions she didn't ask me back when I asked him how old he was he's in the hologram he knows I have kids we don't have each other's numbers I just see him at work
that's not necessary, may be they might be hesitate/shy or don't want to bother...
they always text first but don’t start a conversation..?
@@amyp9010 while we were still sinners Christ died for us
@@xninja2369True though
Signs a guy doesn’t like you:
He doesn’t bother. It’s that simple. He doesn’t bother looking at you or talking to you. It’s not hatred. We just don’t want to bother with someone we don’t like.
that or we think too low of ourselves to think we actually got a real chance
"fuck no I don't wanna embarrass myself"
@@idek6585 if a guy likes you he’s not gonna just ignore your existence.
He’s at least gonna look at you a lot
@black33112 for me I the past I've never really looked at my crushes, for what I said I don't wanna embarrass myself.
High school has been... different let's say
@@idek6585 you don’t look at your crush? What do you do then? Use your telekinetic senses to feel her presence? Do you use echolocation to here the sound waves bouncy off her?
I don’t mean eye contact per say. But literally just looking at her. I find it hard to believe you don’t look at the girl you like. It doesn’t have to be staring her for like 30 minutes straight too. It could be 5 seconds, but it is a consistent pattern.
But hey, I’m me and you’re you. I also don’t want to embarrass myself but I always at least look at the girls I like.
Haha.... I was scrolling thru the comments and I saw yours. I just wanted to ask, the guy I crush on does look at me, my friends tell me that he looks at me from head to toe sometimes, and sometimes stares at me. But we don't talk. We do have eachothers numbers but tbh he doesn't talk much, by that I mean just one text replies; maybe it's one week or even more; or even a month or so. I check his number multiple times a day to see if he has texted me. Still no reply. He says he's busy and he will try to talk. So does that mean he likes me? I mean I've been trying so hard I don't mind if he's even just my friend. Does he at least like me as a friend? And ig this comment is awkward 💀🙏🏻
A tear falling down on the right side of my face as I listen how much fantasy I have stuck in my head
I live how I just learned this for myself and it made me realize that there’s still hope for this relationship ❤
If a guy likes you, he'll look at your multiple times and smile at least once, he'll try to start a conversation with you and try to keep it going. If you shy away, he'll think you're not interested. Your welcome
But i have a crush on a guy and earlier he used to talk a lot with me when we were just friends but then i dont know why he secretly looks at me. And doesn't want to show that he's been behaving wierd, since i looked at him several times during class, i don't know whether he like me or hates me, the signs are wierd
@lalisa-🖤💓 does he try and get close to you at any point? Or start a conversation?
okay now i believe this is why he stopped talking to me bcs whenever he used to try talking to me, i used to get nervous and didnt reply properly..
my friends asked him if he will date me he always said maybe because he was unclear as i behaved this way
i regret doing it now
Omg my crush does that
@suemy Milla hey might like you but he may not be sure you like him, I've just been in a similar situation with a woman I like and I asked and luckily she likes me as well
“Do they just ghost you hours on end?”
Yes as well as everyone else they have contact with on messages-
then thats just how they are as a person, doesnt have to do with you, means the reason is something else that is personal
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you dont talk to your crush
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I dont even talk to my crush 💀
How are people that shy 💀
I just told my crush that I like when she hugs me bc I feel his boobs lol
“They don’t answer you for hours…”
He doesn’t text me for months 💀
then texts when I post a cute picture
@@opopmopo5576 ❤️🔨
Sameeeee answers me afterrr days😂😂and comes of with excuses like sorry I wasn't here
Same 💀
@@opopmopo5576 That’s only you
This happened to me, I wouldn't say I had feelings for him but I adored him so much. I wanted to be his closest friend and be in his life all the time. But there was something wrong that I didn't see it. I always showed my interest in him; ask him about his days, feelings, interests and tried to help him out when he is in trouble etc.
All he was did to me say "Hey" and "How are you?" and nothing more. He didn't showed any interest in me at all. He was just being kind to me. I took it very wrong like I felt like somehow I was special to him. Well, obviously I was wrong. I bet he didn't even consider me as a friend. I was calling myself nobody to him but I wasn't a nobody to him either. I was just a regular classroom mate to him. And that was the case. I really tried to change his mind about me, I was so close that he was opening up to me which is he never did to anybody else before. Although he was friendly to me for all of my hard study being friends with him, he never asked about me. This kind of realize made me question myself. What the fck I was doing?
I was so obsessed to became his friend that I forgot *me*
I didn't get back my affection and hard work from him. So I just stopped and focus on myself.
I didn't get to be his friend but whatever.
I don't need to, I have me and myself. That's all matters every damn day :))
THANK YOU FOR READİNG FROM DOWN HERE
have a good life buddy
well he answers less than 5 minutes after, we don’t talk about me but not him either, and he does talk about hanging out more
update: he confessed yall omg
:0
So happy for u😊😊
Heres a good sign, they talk about their crush to you (when i found out about her crush my emotions literally got crushed)
“They ask you how you are and you just have to say your fine when your really not fine”
Same my 2 other besties like him and hes in our friendgroup
😂😂😂 the audio & meme
Another easy sign: They are actors who are ten years ✨older than me✨
more like 20 XD
@s b I- Don't you?- I give up...
@s b It's a joke bc of the nonsensical thing you said! Do *you* have a brain impairment?!
Johnny Depp. hes 44 years older than me!!
More like 50 John stamos when he’s young 😍
Me who can't even talk to my crush. I just start going mental when i speak to him.😂😂😂😢
That’s me thank you for the signs and merry Christmas ❤
exactly, there's a different vibe between someone who actually likes you, and someone who doesn't. it's clear as a crystal, but oh boy, love do make us blind sometimes. 🤷🏽♀️
@@diianqaa I think being straight forward is better! or else it might end up being one sided love :(
Oh yeah I definitely agree about the vibe thing
@@LPPB right? some crushes can be nice to everyone, but there can always be a different vibe from someone who likes you, and someone who doesn't.
@@sinwlrr Yesss exactly, like you can just feel it
@@sinwlrr at my school, I'm one of the more well known people, so I've seen people get crushes on me before, and I can usually tell very quickly whether someone likes me or not. It's kind of like a gut instinct: if I have a feeling they like me, they probably do, if I have a feeling they don't, they probably don't, etc...
The current guy I like is a bit of a tough case, I have the gut feeling that he isn't interested, but by comparing what he's done to a guy who I detected as interested, this guy has actually shown more interest than the interested guy. I also have some issues with self confidence as well so I really don't know.
my crush technically doesn't do many of these but I'm sure he doesn't like me back...
the only reason he's interested in talking to me is cuz he's crushing on my bsf and needs me for info
and stupid lil me is helping him cuz I'm too nice to say no
same wtf??
Please he is literally using you and you can't just crush on someone who is just using you for someone else 😭 He probably doesn't even notice he is being so rude indirectly. SORRY IF I PHRASED ANYTHING RUDELY.
Girly, just say no if you don't want ur bsf and him to be together.
My bsf is stealing my crush ;-;
@@Jiyasogret SAME 😭
Now i know that even my best friend also don't even like me because he doesn't answer me for hours and then just answer"ok" "good".
My crush only likes me for my looks, he didn’t even ask my name! He just started flirting, this hurts my heart
"signs your crush DOESN'T actually like you"
me realizing my bias doesn't even know who i am: so he doesn't NOT like me
armyyy💜
lemme guess your bias....................
v? maybe?
Yesssssss
@@vedikasinghania6077 i wonder how you figured that out lol
@@winterbear5317 cuz of winter bear 😏
“They don’t answer for HOURS”
Well I rarely ever talk to them sooooo…
I messaged my crush and he even saw it but never replied. It's been a month now and I still hope he will message "sorry I was not able to reply" 😢
@@shivanshilaxmi4850 bruuu you r wasting you r time
I message mine on discord but she is busy sometimes and I know that.
Same
I guess, there's an exception for me because I answer his texts for HOURS. But, I love him, that's the fact.
Tbis video just gave me a reality check
Don’t ask a fish how to fish. Ask a fisherman.
When both you and your crush are too awkward to even stare at each other, conversations are just next level things. The occasional laughing at something, together and nervous glances are more than enough, at that point, lmao-
[Edit : That guy isn't my crush anymore. 💀 I'm currently better without him, lol. Realized that he just wasn't my type.]
true true
😭
We don't talk, but we stare at each other. I'm too nervous to talk to him but he always starts the conversation
We also laugh together 😂
But my friend stares at my crush, but my crush doesn't even dare to look at her.
Her: *talks about talking to them*
Me: *doesn’t have his number and never initiates conversations with him* hehe
Same. Almost.
Jelly mid
Same here
@@YSMAL You literally have a loud house pfp
@@ugliestever and you upload gacha
I needed this exactly a year ago 😭
Jokes on you, I don't even talk to my crush. We just stare at each other from across the room.
my crush doesnt even talk to me 😔✊🏾
edit: yea so we talk to eachother now lol
edit 2: nvm no we dont 😭
TALK TO THEM!!
@@NikiPatton I CANT SHE PROBABLY DOESN'T LIKE ME 😭😭
@@luvvvvvr You should girl, that would bring more interest you don’t have to confess yet
@@REMIRA542 im gonna try this week lol
@@luvvvvvr nice
Painful and rude awakening, but I needed it. I have like 8 crushes and not a single one shows any interest in me. The price I would pay to be pretty or cool
hey, I know how you feel. it's ok, just keep on living, meet new people, and don't be afraid to take some risks. you'll find them one day.
Dont revolve your entire life around them, you should have "its fine if they dont like me" motive and just keep doing you. Eventually you'll get through it, start building yourself dude
Youre cuteee tho find your worth girly 💕
Broooo help I think he might like me idk tho 😭
8 crushes?! You belong on the streets
There’s me without my crushes number lol😂😂😂
Bold of you to assume I speak to my crush
The fact I got this video in my recommendation is a sign itself
this deserves an OSCAR award
It's always me that texts my crush, asks about him and speaks about his interests. It has been two and a half years and I know he never really liked me in that way. I'm trying to get over him and this is helping for sure!
oh for me it’s the opposite
Same but I cant seem to get over him. He litetally told me he doesn't like me cus ig I was bieng too obv but I just love him so much.
@@erwinadolf4010 ? let’s not say that
Kinda same. Except it’s been…uh around 2 years maybe? I know that she doesn’t like me anyway.
Good luck and well done w ur process! :)
I'm glad that you mentioned that just becuz someone takes BREAKS from answering doesnt mean they dont wanna talk to you cuz that's something I sometimes feel rly insecure about 🙃❤
ig he’s a keeper 😭
POV: you don’t text him or talk to him because you know you ain’t good enough for that- 💀
Omg same 😭they said I could text them anytime but I’m scared that I won’t be entertaining or a good conversationalist or I’ll say the wrong thing 💀
YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH… YOU ALWAYS WILL BE AND U NEVER FORGET IT QUEEN💕💯🥰
@Chelle and then he'll lose interest.. Nah I'd rather not accompany that
what happens if they're a grade over you and you don't have their number but you both have tried to talk to each other but people keep suddenly appearing and ruining the moment so you can't even ask them for their DAMN NUMBER 😭
Well I just found out my crush likes be back 🥰
Aww 🥺
Lucky…
Same but I hope it was true
Nice!
She doesn’t remember her snap apparently.......
They did this all but ended up liking me back 😅
I’ve Been played 😭😭💀
i like her so much she fully asked me ‘how you feeling today?’ And i almost cried bro😂
i wanttt
My crush is now my friend. I expressed my feelings for her and she was super respectful but clear that she doesn't have any feelings for me. Though she insisted on being friends. Now we are good friends but i can't turn off the feelings i have for her. Now i am trying to condition my mind to love her without expecting anything from her. I am finding it tough but i like the thought that i am a part of her life even though only as a friend.
It's good that you are friends, you never know if things between you could blossom. Or it could stay the same. However, if more pain is coming out from that friendship than actual happiness, it might be best to distance yourself. I was in the same situation and well… it took me a while to heal and really start loving myself
If she offered you the friendzone it’s likely bc she does not feel you have the masculine traits to lead a relationship and if you are willing to just settle for friendship even when deep inside it’s not what you want you prove her right to friendzone you. But if you respectfully tell her verbatim “I understand how you feel but I am have no interest in being your friend” it will shock her but she will now at minimum respect your honesty and genuine vibe. She may even change her mind in a week or 2 bc now you proved her wrong. Plus you should never waste time on women who do not reciprocate their effort/ feelings for you, those women you walk away from or show them the door.
I think it is helpful for those who have crush on their friends but not for us😂
pov: your crush is only aloud to use his landline to call
It’s not a hard pill to swallow if you expect them not to like you back ✊
"if they ask you out"
My crush/bff: *bro come watch this traumatizing Scooby Doo and demon Slayer animation with me*
Bro that's the best date idk what you're getting at
@@dontmindthepic5160 no,it's the worst
he answers me right away and drops everything to be there for me
when you listen. It took him so long to answer you, it was like I didn't even talk to him.
"If they do not answer for hours at a time"
Me texting my crush at midnight: *This is fine*
Edit: Omg how did I get so many likes-
I’ve been on delivered for 10 months 🥲
@@jennabrooks6524 Dang😬
@@deliquette gotta love high school
@@jennabrooks6524 Still on delivered?
@@deliquette yep. It’s been about a year now. I decided to be bold and added him on snap, but that’s as far as I’ve gotten lol
I gave my crush a note saying I like him, I then ran and went back home. I’m now upset about myself cause I gave him the note and I know he don’t like me. Welp he’s gonna tell everyone or gonna tell me why I made it 😭 I’ll update when I go back to school !
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Update: he gave me his Snapchat 😌 he didn’t walk up to me and told me why I wrote it, he probably forgot 😗
We want more updates
P.S. its not "told me why I wrote it" it's "asked my why I wrote it" -.-
He does all but the hanging out bc we live so far away. He's so sweet
When I like someone though I like talking about myself because I want them to know me😭
I'm aromantic and I just wanna say, I respond to people fairly quickly, ask them about themselves a lot (whatever makes good conversation), and once we get close enough I will orchestrate hangouts. Sometimes even if people do these things it can just mean that they wanna be friends
Lmao
I've pretty much accepted that my crush doesn't feel the same way a long time ago. I'm not exactly happy about it, but I'm happy she's happy. This video just made me feel proud that I've already picked up on this.
But unrelated to me, thanks for making this video. I think it's very important for people like younger me to see to start progress towards moving on.
Me being delulu just because he asked how my day was 😭
This video just defines my relationship with my crush but that little percentage of them liking me back keeps me going lol I don’t loose hope
Yeah just go on ! But make sure u aren't getting hurted
@@Shmeenamusthafa-xi9uw Haha no I’m honestly fine with it. If it was hurting me I would do something about it lol
Omg this was such a hard pill to swallow when I was younger… now I’m married and I don’t have to question this anymore. To anyone in this situation, move on. It’ll hurt and you’ll be heartbroken but you’ll find someone else who actually values you. :)
Thank you for your words of reassurance!
using this to rant about my crush on a random account (no my name is not abe, i am a teen girl). so i want to be with her so bad and shes so pretty and i already miss her even though we’re only on day 2 of spring break. her smile makes me so happy and the way she looks at me makes me suffocate. i cant stop thinking about when she hugged me and squeezed the fabric of my shirt in her hand to pulll me closer and the time she stopped, looked at my lips, and then continued talking. her mannerisms are adorable and i love how she tries to get her friends that are dating to sit by each other. i wish i could spend every day with her and just hug her forever.
I hope this goes well
hey i hoped it have gone well?!!
Me and my crush have gotten closer and he cant really hang out or reply to texts that much because hes got over protective parents but their chill at the same time. Its why he only replies to people hes close with or trusts since he cant talk as much. Now that i think of it he is kind of isolated
Honey I already know, but I can’t stop loving him anyway
frrr:(
“If they don’t answer for a long time”
Me: “I don’t talk to her.”
Oof- then start talking
looks to her/his eyes
As a busy introvert I feel bad now because I’ve had plenty of crushes yet still done this to them 😅
I was really stupid when I purposefully made him believe I hated him with my manipulation skills.
When you're both introverts and stuck in a painful/akward loop....☠
Me: *take's about 15 minutes to say hi without being weird*
Him....hi?...
Me: overthinks *HARD*
Its the same for me and it's so painful to wait cause what if they are thinking I am weird or creepy lol
Same things happens to me-
Ah u all are army ig
@@sanhirios20 heyy u are a army right?
omg same
I really love how whenever i watch these videos, they suggest i have my crush's phone number...💀💀💀(wish i did)
I'm not sobbing, you are sobbing
He, he, he y’all are still at the first stage, I’m almost at the last😽
*When it’s not just ur crush but all ur “friends”:*
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yep 🥲
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